Speaker 1: Second date, up date. How do we feel about people
Speaker 1: bringing gifts for the first date? Is there an inside
Speaker 1: joke or are you talking about just a f.
Speaker 2: I have friends who love it.
Speaker 1: I actually went out with the dentist ones who tried
Speaker 1: to gift me a BMW on the first date. I
Speaker 1: told you, but I said, you.
Speaker 2: Wait about cars.
Speaker 1: It was only a three series though, and the leather
Speaker 1: seats weren't even in the right color. So Mamma didn
Speaker 1: raise no fool, I know my worst okay, and I
Speaker 1: dismissed them.
Speaker 2: Are you driving a Kia like I am right now?
Speaker 1: That's just one of the cars that I'm driving. To
Speaker 1: choose which car on which day? Same but from the
Speaker 1: email we received, I heard gifts were exchanged on this
Speaker 1: first date, which is a little bit unique. And so
Speaker 1: let's talk to the guy, Enrique. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Hey, what's happening, guys? Thanks for having me thinking about.
Speaker 2: Rique going I wasn't actually, I was just thinking about
Speaker 2: this guy.
Speaker 1: And Henrique, this is your first time on the show.
Speaker 1: It's kind of like our first date. Do we get
Speaker 1: a gift? Maybe?
Speaker 3: Sure?
Speaker 1: I love you do?
Speaker 2: Is that like that's your thing? Is you're the gift guy,
Speaker 2: you love language, okay, but.
Speaker 1: If it's anything less than a three series, then we're
Speaker 1: not interested.
Speaker 2: I'm talking.
Speaker 1: I just bought a new car.
Speaker 2: So did you warn the person you were going out
Speaker 2: with the gifts were going to be on the table? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean you know, we met online, so
Speaker 3: that's okay, okay.
Speaker 1: And what's her name?
Speaker 4: Josie?
Speaker 2: I like how you.
Speaker 1: Say it all right, you're talking to Josie online.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: A language just came up, and we found out that
Speaker 5: causing gifts are number one love language.
Speaker 2: The gift givers.
Speaker 5: Okay, So we just had to bring each other gift
Speaker 5: on our first date.
Speaker 3: Nothing too crazy.
Speaker 1: Both of you were going to bring gifts, so this
Speaker 1: was not a surprise.
Speaker 2: Okay. Did you set a price limit?
Speaker 3: No, we just said something very simple, okay, Okay. Sometimes
Speaker 3: to be reminded later.
Speaker 2: On, you know, yeah, I think it makes it better.
Speaker 1: It's good. Ye take us to the date. How did
Speaker 1: it go, what happened?
Speaker 2: What'd you bring?
Speaker 3: But tell you something before that, we lived kind of
Speaker 3: far away. It's like I drove like two hours to
Speaker 3: get to her.
Speaker 2: So she brought you gas money.
Speaker 3: Not so much.
Speaker 5: But anyway, we met at this Mexican restaurant for dinner
Speaker 5: and sat down, and so she gives me her gifts.
Speaker 3: First she got okay, so since we had some conversations.
Speaker 3: I'm a big Spider.
Speaker 1: Man fan, she got you some spiders. That's cool, dude, right.
Speaker 3: No, no, but she gave me some little Spider Man
Speaker 3: action figure.
Speaker 2: Awesome, she's paying attention, she's remembering.
Speaker 1: Put it on a sholf you'll always know, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we give her a check mark for her gift? What
Speaker 1: did you get her?
Speaker 3: So it might sound a little crazy, okay, but let
Speaker 3: me flink. What it's called a long distance love lamp?
Speaker 1: A long long distance love? What is that?
Speaker 2: That's a little bit what is a little overwhelmed? Already
Speaker 2: explain tell Jeffrey what it is. I know what they are.
Speaker 3: Something I can work far away.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 5: If I touched mine, hers will glow, you see, like, oh,
Speaker 5: you know, okay.
Speaker 1: And it's a way of touching each other and turning
Speaker 1: each other on.
Speaker 2: I'm faking, not exactly. It doesn't have to be like couples.
Speaker 4: They get it.
Speaker 2: It's like family. Feel doesn't say love lamp on the
Speaker 2: box when you hand it to it, because that I
Speaker 2: think is gonna be key no.
Speaker 1: No, no, no.
Speaker 3: If I had the lamp out of the box, you
Speaker 3: know I had like, you know.
Speaker 2: Good, okay, so it's just the lamp that she gets,
Speaker 2: so you're just handing her a lamp. What was her
Speaker 2: reaction at first?
Speaker 3: She was like a little confused, you.
Speaker 2: Know, she didn't know what it was.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, he gave me a lamp.
Speaker 1: It's not a typical first day gilt gift.
Speaker 3: I like lamp, okay, right, right, right, So then I
Speaker 3: had to explain to her the same thing I just
Speaker 3: told you guys right now too. Okay. You know she
Speaker 3: was like, oh wow, that's so sweet. And she's like,
Speaker 3: nobody never gave me a lamp before.
Speaker 1: Oh she liked it. Alexis if a guy gave you
Speaker 1: a love lamp on your first meet up, I need
Speaker 1: to see. I didn't get to finish asking the question
Speaker 1: or to shadow.
Speaker 2: I don't really not a pan.
Speaker 4: It's just what if you have another guy over when
Speaker 4: it's going off, Like that's my fear.
Speaker 2: Like she's like, you can't even think about that. You
Speaker 2: have to be exclusive, Like I don't want a guy over.
Speaker 2: And this lamp was flashing in the corner and he's like.
Speaker 5: You had a lot of long conversations, like I'm getting
Speaker 5: so open, you know, it's like I'm not seeing nobody else.
Speaker 3: I really really dig this girl. I mean she was
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, she's so hot, you know.
Speaker 1: And you're putting all your cards on the table with this.
Speaker 3: Well yeah, man, And you know, I give her a lamp.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're putting all those your lamps on the table.
Speaker 1: Whatever you're doing the rest of.
Speaker 3: The date, all right, So the day was awesome. Okay,
Speaker 3: we talked for hours and you know, we kept having
Speaker 3: some drinks, and I went to her.
Speaker 2: House, her house, and into the lamp.
Speaker 3: You know, I make sure the lamp was on oak.
Speaker 2: Have you used the lamp since your last date?
Speaker 3: Yeah, every single day, especially night time.
Speaker 2: Okay, have you gotten the light back or is it
Speaker 2: just you lighting her up?
Speaker 3: Well, this is the thing. At first, mine was glowing
Speaker 3: all the time.
Speaker 5: Now it's not really lighting up that much anymore.
Speaker 2: The lights have gone out on love Jess.
Speaker 3: Yeah. But then I text her and she doesn't really
Speaker 3: respond or.
Speaker 1: Going to ask about the texting because the lamps aside,
Speaker 1: you're not texting. That's a big.
Speaker 2: Less and loveless.
Speaker 1: It's tough doing a long distance relationship thing. Your date
Speaker 1: does sound pretty lit to me. But we're gonna come
Speaker 1: back and we'll call it Josie for you and try
Speaker 1: and get you a second date update. Get that light
Speaker 1: glowing again right after this.
Speaker 3: All right, all right, thanks you guys.
Speaker 1: All right, man, hold on second date update. Brooks said
Speaker 1: something pretty profound in the first part of the second
Speaker 1: date call. Kind of hit it right on the nose
Speaker 1: when she said, and now their love light has gone dark,
Speaker 1: sinking deep into the abyss of eternal loneliness. Here is
Speaker 1: like a lost ship in the middle of the Atlantic
Speaker 1: Ocean that's lost all power, and as the crew is
Speaker 1: jumping overboard into the icy waters, the boat takes on
Speaker 1: more water and all hope and have is lost forever
Speaker 1: and always. I'm just paraphrasing what she said. It was
Speaker 1: something along those lines.
Speaker 2: I'm actually hopeful that this love story doesn't end as
Speaker 2: tragically as the one you're talking about.
Speaker 1: But oh yeah, your love story that you painted in
Speaker 1: the first part, I'm just trying to paraphrase. Because Enrique
Speaker 1: and his date Josie agreed to exchange gifts when they
Speaker 1: had their first meet up and she got him a
Speaker 1: Spider Man toy because he's into Spider Man. He got
Speaker 1: her a long distance love lamp, which is where if
Speaker 1: you touch yours, their lamp lights up on their end
Speaker 1: to show that you're thinking of them.
Speaker 2: And apparently they were using it back and forth for
Speaker 2: a little while.
Speaker 1: At least in the first few days, it was going
Speaker 1: off like a strobe light at a Tiesto concert. Lately,
Speaker 1: not only is the lamp dimming, so are in Rique's
Speaker 1: hopes for a second date. Enrique, any thoughts that you'd
Speaker 1: like to share over some sad depressing music. Now's your chance.
Speaker 3: It's a little sad right now where you're playing.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm sorry, but that's just the image that Broke
Speaker 1: paints with her words.
Speaker 3: Me.
Speaker 2: It's always me.
Speaker 1: I'm just bringing them to light. Yeah, okay, but light
Speaker 1: that's happening in your I'm just or I'll here for you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're together, man.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm hole just like those sailors were when they
Speaker 1: left the dog. Then dial Josie for you. Right now
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Josie. Hey Josie.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you know us. We're a radio
Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Hey Josie, Hey, Hi, we.
Speaker 1: Got a lot that we'd like to talk to you about.
Speaker 1: One of our listeners says that he went on a
Speaker 1: date with you not too long ago and had an
Speaker 1: amazing time.
Speaker 4: Okay, am I on the radio right now?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Pretty cool.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: You're the star of the hour, and your co star,
Speaker 1: hopefully is the guy that you were with named Enrique.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I know Enrique.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Well we know a little bit about Enrique
Speaker 1: and your guys' date. He told us some details from it.
Speaker 1: It sounded pretty good on our end.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounded flirty, fun. You guys had maybe a
Speaker 2: lot of Margarita's, which is always a positive.
Speaker 1: That We thought. It was interesting that you guys decided
Speaker 1: to exchange gifts before you even met each other.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was fun.
Speaker 1: Actually, Okay, how'd you feel about the lamp that he
Speaker 1: gave you? I.
Speaker 3: I actually loved the lamp gift.
Speaker 4: I thought it was so stuftfle I thought it was
Speaker 4: a really sweet gesture from him.
Speaker 1: Wow, you didn't.
Speaker 2: Think it was.
Speaker 1: People think it may have been too much too soon.
Speaker 4: Well, we are kind of long distance, so it meant more.
Speaker 2: Wait, you still you still consider yourself currently long distance
Speaker 2: with him?
Speaker 4: No, not currently, but we were long dist him.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, you were still thinking it.
Speaker 1: So but you said that you liked the lamp gift
Speaker 1: and we heard that you guys were using it at
Speaker 1: least for a little while after the date. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: not sure what's changed since then.
Speaker 4: Well, I I think he's a cheater.
Speaker 2: What a cheater? What? Why? Why do you think he's
Speaker 2: a cheater?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 4: I know he's a cheater.
Speaker 1: Well, we share.
Speaker 4: Locations on our phone, so we can see where each
Speaker 4: other are already.
Speaker 2: Oh, you guys are a relationship that's very close.
Speaker 1: With each other.
Speaker 4: Okay, it's strong and like we you like, win to
Speaker 4: call each other and all that stuff. And then a
Speaker 4: few times my lamp will light up and I will
Speaker 4: look at his location, and he was out somewhere else,
Speaker 4: not at his house the lamp.
Speaker 2: Exactly, I would side piece touch a lamp.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if that was true, he would be out with
Speaker 1: the side piece most likely, not leaving her at his
Speaker 1: place to touch and mess around and plusher lamp exactly.
Speaker 4: That's why I think he's either married or have a
Speaker 4: living girlfriend there.
Speaker 1: And you're the side piece in that.
Speaker 2: Case he bought he did himself. I think you're misreading
Speaker 2: something here, because he wouldn't call a radio show and
Speaker 2: ask us to publicly ask you out again. If he
Speaker 2: was cheating, that would be I mean less, he's really dumb,
Speaker 2: that would be real.
Speaker 1: It's really really big to jump to conclusions like that.
Speaker 1: And look, the love lamp that he gave us for
Speaker 1: our studio is lighting up, which I think means that
Speaker 1: he wants to talk to you right now, because he's
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening. What yeah, yeah, so
Speaker 1: we don't really have a lovelap. I've made that, but
Speaker 1: he is on the other line.
Speaker 4: I don't think that's Oh no, I don't want to
Speaker 4: talk to a cheater.
Speaker 1: What well, just give him a chance. Hear him out.
Speaker 1: There might be some misunderstanding.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, Josie, Josie, I'm not cheating on you, Okay,
Speaker 3: I swear on you.
Speaker 4: No, no, dude, I'm not buying it.
Speaker 2: But it's so hard. It's so hard to stay your
Speaker 2: case when someone says you're a cheater, because when you
Speaker 2: say you're not a cheater, it sounds more like yeah, it's.
Speaker 1: Like I'm innocent. What's going on with your lamp? Dude?
Speaker 4: And I don't hear any excuses like, oh, your dog
Speaker 4: is touching the lamp, or it's all by mistake, it's faulty,
Speaker 4: or whatever it is, because I'm not going to buy it.
Speaker 3: It is a dog, oh girl joking? I am the
Speaker 3: one touching the lamp.
Speaker 4: I am the one.
Speaker 3: I take it with me everywhere I go. If I
Speaker 3: go to a cafe, to a.
Speaker 1: Bar, Are you kidding, bro?
Speaker 5: I'm going to guys, I like this girl so much
Speaker 5: that I carry this lamp with me everywhere I go.
Speaker 1: Wait, you go to a wait, hold on, you go
Speaker 1: to Alasky shop and plug the lamp in just to
Speaker 1: touch it? Yeah, the same level somehow? How are you
Speaker 1: feeling right now accusing him such horrible things? Early?
Speaker 3: All with me?
Speaker 2: Just the visual of him walking down the street with.
Speaker 1: A lamp, Imrique, you don't have to take that from her.
Speaker 2: It's really cute, Rikae. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: No, well all right, but wait, wait, you guys know
Speaker 3: how you want to go with your phone. You're trying
Speaker 3: to plug your phone somewhere Right's the thing?
Speaker 1: Same thing at the airport with a big old lamp.
Speaker 1: You asked the bartender, if you can unplug the jukebox
Speaker 1: for just a second so I can touch my girlfriend
Speaker 1: two hours away.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well or something like that.
Speaker 2: Okay, Josie, what do you think I'm not behind this dude.
Speaker 2: No man would ever say something that embarrassing unless it
Speaker 2: was true.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 1: And we're giving him a really hard time, and he's
Speaker 1: doing a great job like defending himself. I'm actually kind
Speaker 1: of believing him on this Listen.
Speaker 3: I swear my grandmother's grave. I take that lap everywhere
Speaker 3: I go. I wanted to show this girl that how
Speaker 3: much I liked her, and I want to take connect
Speaker 3: with her.
Speaker 1: There is a love lamp in his grandmother's grave too,
Speaker 1: so that he can show some love to his dead.
Speaker 1: It's going off, it's going on. I'm just kidding, But.
Speaker 2: Josie, it feels like you two are like meant for
Speaker 2: each other.
Speaker 1: I mean, you would just trust him.
Speaker 4: Oh you guys really think I should believe him?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yes, and we can. If you carry the
Speaker 1: lamp with you everywhere. Do you have it with you
Speaker 1: right now? Could you turn it on?
Speaker 3: B Yeah? I mean I could just go in the
Speaker 3: trunk of my car and get her right now. And
Speaker 3: I could plug it.
Speaker 1: I don't think we have time for that.
Speaker 2: I don't know my Highlander has a plugin for.
Speaker 1: Okay, Brook will drive her Highlander over to where you
Speaker 1: are and you can plug in your lamp.
Speaker 2: Upgrade to a car like that.
Speaker 1: Now the lamp is on. While this was a terrible idea,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I believe him, Josie. I think the
Speaker 1: whole room believes him. That he carries this lamp around
Speaker 1: to prove that he's that into you and he's.
Speaker 2: Not a cheater. He wouldn't call in and do this
Speaker 2: over the radio. Well.
Speaker 1: I do disagree with Brook on that point, but everything
Speaker 1: else that we said, I think it's true. And we'd
Speaker 1: like to sends you two out on another date that
Speaker 1: we would pay for if you're up for a Josie,
Speaker 1: what if he.
Speaker 2: Took you to his house to prove that he doesn't
Speaker 2: live with anybody else.
Speaker 3: Yeah, look, come over to my house and you could
Speaker 3: see the lamp and I'll definitely have the light on again,
Speaker 3: you know, with your lamp and everything. We'll make something
Speaker 3: fun out of this.
Speaker 1: Come on, Josie, Philip been winning you over a little
Speaker 1: bit here, Josie, one more chance, come on now.
Speaker 3: That's actually pretty sweet.
Speaker 6: I have to say.
Speaker 4: He's just you are quite the charmer, Enrique. I have to.
Speaker 1: Wore with that.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Well, oh my god, he's busting out the Spanish now.
Speaker 6: Okay, so is that a yes, Josie, Yes, that's my leg.
Speaker 1: What do you do?
Speaker 2: It's a freaking Chiffrey in the morning.