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Speaker 1: This is How Men Think with brooks Like and Gavin

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Speaker 1: degrab And I heard radio podcast feeling It. I love

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Speaker 1: when we get that intro. Hey, Gav, I feel it feeling. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of How Men Think. My name

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Speaker 1: is brooks Like, and we have two co hosts here

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Speaker 1: with us. We have my usual wing man, Mr Gavin

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Speaker 1: de Great to see you, good mornings. You also have Buddy,

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Speaker 1: your dog with you. He's sitting here with us. I do.

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Speaker 1: He's smelling the coffee cake. He's smelling your coffee cake.

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Speaker 1: And we have new co host her second actually her

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Speaker 1: second time on the show, first time that I've been

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Speaker 1: on the show with her. Welcome back, Miss Taitia Adams.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for commentation. I'm so happy to be here. So

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Speaker 1: we are here, that's right. We are here at a

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Speaker 1: T and T Pebble Beach program in California. We're checking

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Speaker 1: out this weekend. We're watching some golf and we're recording

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Speaker 1: some podcasts. And Gavin, you're such a fantastic golfer that

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Speaker 1: we're gonna watch you live for the swing, your handicap

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Speaker 1: um all of my limbs. Do you golf, buddy? No,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't golfing once upon time, I wouldn't say golfing,

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Speaker 1: and uh, let's say it was my first time and

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Speaker 1: the guy I said, hey, would you mind giving me

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Speaker 1: a quick lesson because it was more like a meet

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Speaker 1: and greet on a golf course. He said sure, and

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Speaker 1: we sit there for about three minutes. He said, just

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Speaker 1: swing this way and do this, and I said, no problem.

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Speaker 1: And I crushed the ball and he was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: and then I crushed the ball again. And I crushed

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Speaker 1: the ball again. But the problem was I kept hitting

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Speaker 1: the ball at a ninety degree angle to my right

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Speaker 1: and he said, maybe you should just face the clubhouse

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Speaker 1: and then you gave it up. Yeah. I was like,

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Speaker 1: all right, that's it for me. I think I'm out

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Speaker 1: of here. Um I have in the past, I've tried.

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Speaker 1: I've taken a couple of lessons. I do have some clubs. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're pink. They're really cute. I own a couple of

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Speaker 1: golf skirts. It's a whole reason why I got into

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Speaker 1: the sport, to quite honest with you, that it's quite cute.

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Speaker 1: I love golf skirt. That's higher the golf retire um.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. I'm actually we didn't know right before this

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Speaker 1: podcast began that you were even going to be here, Gav.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know either. Literally, we're supposed to record, We're

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Speaker 1: supposed to record this, and two minutes before we start recording,

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Speaker 1: Amy's like, Brooks, you and Tasi are gonna have to

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Speaker 1: do this yourselves, because Gavin, you're supposed to be here yesterday.

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Speaker 1: You know, showed by the way that showed up. That

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Speaker 1: showed up according to my calculations, whould be in my schedule.

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Speaker 1: What had happened was I was supposed to be here

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Speaker 1: whatever time yesterday in order to do the podcast today.

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Speaker 1: And then the night before I was told, oh, we'll

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Speaker 1: do We'll start doing the show tomorrow, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh wait a second, I have stuff to pack, all

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Speaker 1: my stuff and drive up and stuff like that. So

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Speaker 1: three your guys fault, you know. Can I tell you

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Speaker 1: my story with how I got here? Yes, this is good,

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Speaker 1: I told Tashi yesterday because she was here yesterday. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was so listen to this, listen to this. So

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Speaker 1: I go to fly out yesterday morning from l A.

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Speaker 1: So I dropped my dog off, go to fly out,

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Speaker 1: lady says, um, yeah, we don't fly to Monterey from here.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, my ticket says you do and

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Speaker 1: you're United and I'm flying with you. And she says, no,

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Speaker 1: we don't. And so I look at my ticket and

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Speaker 1: it's not Burbank Airport, it's l A X Airport. So

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Speaker 1: I went to the completely wrong airport to fly out,

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Speaker 1: first time I've ever done that. And I phone Amy.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Amy, I'm gonna miss my flight. UM need

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Speaker 1: to reschedule me. So she reschedules me, and then you'll

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Speaker 1: reschedules me a flight. I go to l A X.

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Speaker 1: You guys are calling you guys were amazing about it.

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Speaker 1: They just rescheduled me for a couple hours later. I

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Speaker 1: go to l A X and I'm like, okay, getting

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Speaker 1: have b okay that the ticket I'm booked is basic economy.

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Speaker 1: You can't get a less like you can't get on

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Speaker 1: an airplane for less than basic economy. I get on,

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Speaker 1: was a day. It was a day for me. I

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Speaker 1: That's terrible. Did you feel like you smelled like one

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Speaker 1: of those pink urinald cakes when you landed? No, I

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Speaker 1: did not know. I got in and took a shower. Though.

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Speaker 1: What happens? Then I text Brooks and I said, well,

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Speaker 1: because you're late, comes straight to the golf course, go

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Speaker 1: right to the lodge at Pebble Beach. In like text,

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Speaker 1: and there was the second line. It was like perfect,

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Speaker 1: you couldn't have it. You're like, bring Logs to Pebble Beach.

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Speaker 1: He calls me and he's like I'm here, and I'm like, great, okay,

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Speaker 1: So I'm thinking, okay, well we're at the little market.

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Speaker 1: So I said, ask anyone you see where the market

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Speaker 1: and guess like you're getting to know me. But Gab

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Speaker 1: knows me. He knows that, like I'm a prompt I'm on,

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Speaker 1: I don't and I was absolutely Danielle's shaking her head

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Speaker 1: and I think I text you this Amy. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: this is how Gavin feels every single day of the fights.

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Speaker 1: But guess what the difference between you and me is.

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Speaker 1: While I'm lost, I'm kind of just enjoying the view.

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Speaker 1: I did too, and just relaxed. And you know, I

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Speaker 1: and you could imagine what that was like. I was like, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Suminal I was like, I'm right there, man, just look

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Speaker 1: And he was like, you such an idiot. Mistakes happen.

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Speaker 1: But so today's episode, and this is why we have

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Speaker 1: Tasha on here is we want to talk about men's grooming,

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Speaker 1: the importance of men's grooming. We want to as men,

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Speaker 1: we want to learn. We have a guest that's going

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Speaker 1: grooming and self care. Are so excited for that. And

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Speaker 1: then we want your perspective tation because really men, men

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Speaker 1: and so we want a woman's take on men's grooming.

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Speaker 1: Men's self care doesn't matter? Does it not matter? How

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Speaker 1: much does it matter? And how much can you push

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Speaker 1: it on a guy if he's not doing it? And

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Speaker 1: then also what parts of the body, what parts of

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Speaker 1: the body need to be groomed? Can I just start

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Speaker 1: right with this question for you guys? How do you feel?

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Speaker 1: And I don't know how to say this properly that

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Speaker 1: and then I got you this because really it's like, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not super crazy about some of the stuff you wear.

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Speaker 1: But if you wear this, I'm gonna be into it.

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Speaker 1: Sounds a huge thing. I would love it if I

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Speaker 1: It's been I'm trying to remember the last thing that

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Speaker 1: I actually I bought this Lulu Lemon T shirt. About that? So, um,

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Speaker 1: He likes to push the boundaries. Yeah, I would love

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Speaker 1: wife does most of it. Should get me stuff like

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Speaker 1: Christmas or whatever. Um, she'll just buy me clothes. Do

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Speaker 1: Or yes? She has way better taste than I do,

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Speaker 1: So I would love would would you like to dress

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Speaker 1: said style is very important? You think style on a

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Speaker 1: the shopping for guys clothes. Let's we're gonna put you

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Speaker 1: on the spot ta show better style right now, Gavin

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Speaker 1: or Men I knew it. It's a scarf he's got

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Speaker 1: break that down? So Gavin's over here wearing like a

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Speaker 1: I don't know again, confidence just own it. Gavin owns

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Speaker 1: that scarf. It's just working for Thank you for that.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome. Okay. So you you like a little more

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Speaker 1: It's just like, would you happy to be seen with

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Speaker 1: It's has to do with the things that they you know,

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Speaker 1: Like I love his outfit? Yeah, like yeah, I used

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Speaker 1: any weird streaks, but it's going to be accessible. You

423
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Speaker 1: can put it on for men, thank you. And for

424
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Speaker 1: men you know you can. Just it's an easy three

425
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Speaker 1: point kit because these are things you need. That was

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Speaker 1: that was my next point exactly. I think part of

427
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Speaker 1: the reason I don't have a lot of like beauty

428
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Speaker 1: products or whatever is just I think it's overwhelming for me.

429
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Speaker 1: And this is very easy. Use the cleanser, the face

430
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: and scalp cleanser in the shower, very easy. Then when

431
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 1: you get out, put a little age defense moisturized around

432
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Speaker 1: my face and then put the daily invisible SPF and

433
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Speaker 1: you're good to go. And I'm good to go. That's

434
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Speaker 1: actually very easy. I don't think, Yeah, I applaud you

435
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Speaker 1: for that because I've I've really resisted this entire space

436
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 1: just because I'm like overwhelmed. I don't want to have

437
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Speaker 1: a bunch of stuff I need to carry all the

438
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Speaker 1: time or get reliant on something. But for sure my

439
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,879
Speaker 1: mud could use a little what what are you going

440
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: to come out with a bubble bath product that makes

441
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:38,199
Speaker 1: men look rugged in the bubble bath? Yeah? Man, I

442
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 1: want to look tough in the bubble album cover. You

443
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Speaker 1: know what I mean that we're adding that to the line.

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Speaker 1: As long as you agree to be our first model. Done, done,

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Speaker 1: done and done. Can I want to get your take

446
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 1: on this tasta. Is a is an ungroomed kind of

447
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 1: wild looking man attractive? Or is it? Are you like

448
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 1: really drawn to like a well groomed, put together man.

449
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 1: You know, it's it's really about the confidence and that's

450
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,680
Speaker 1: the key thing. We I did a focus group with

451
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: a bunch of women and I asked them about some

452
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 1: of these things, about like if a man was balding

453
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 1: or beat full head of hair, how important to do you?

454
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 1: Was that? And majority of the time when I talked

455
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 1: to women, it was about is he kind? Is he funny?

456
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Speaker 1: Is he going to support me? Is he going to

457
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Speaker 1: be financially stable? Is he gonna help me in life?

458
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Speaker 1: Are we gonna grow together, We're gonna travel? Hair or

459
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Speaker 1: a lack of hair was the bottom of the list.

460
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Speaker 1: And so it's all about can you if you are

461
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Speaker 1: ungroomed as people would say, um, and you walk in

462
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Speaker 1: the room confident, it doesn't matter. But what does matter

463
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Speaker 1: is if you're taking care of yourself, and when you're

464
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Speaker 1: taking care of yourself, you become more confident. And too

465
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Speaker 1: long society and beauty products didn't say the men, it's

466
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 1: okay to take care of yourself, it's okay to love yourself.

467
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Speaker 1: I think I think I agree with you, But I

468
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Speaker 1: think we left out two other ones that women like

469
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Speaker 1: to say, does he already have kids? And what kind

470
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Speaker 1: of car does you drive? Yeah? No, those are on

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Speaker 1: the list as well. Those are actually on the list

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Speaker 1: as well. I didn't hear the car one. I didn't

473
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Speaker 1: hear that one. What do you think groomed or on

474
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 1: groom what do you find like appealing attractive in a man?

475
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: I think he's right with the whole confidence thing. If

476
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Speaker 1: you're just scruffy and just because if you don't care

477
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 1: and you really just don't have anything in your life

478
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 1: put together, like it's kind of it's really unattractive actually,

479
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Speaker 1: But if you kind of I don't know, if it's

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Speaker 1: like your vibe and you do have scruffy hair and

481
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 1: maybe some tattoos, just have like I don't know, I

482
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 1: think it's at yeah, you feel the confidence. I'm there,

483
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: but I also love a clean cut guy. So I

484
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 1: will say this when when I see like somebody that's

485
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Speaker 1: like well groomed and put together, like there's a talking

486
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Speaker 1: about a man there or or a woman there's like

487
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 1: a whoa this person? There's a presence there, like there's

488
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 1: an initial presence. They're like, well they're they're showing up

489
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Speaker 1: in a way that's with intent and and almost respect.

490
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Speaker 1: You almost look at them like they're they're put together

491
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,640
Speaker 1: person there there you respect them? Well what what what

492
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 1: what you're attracted to is their self esteem? Because when

493
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: we all want somebody who loves themselves because in in

494
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 1: in our subconscious mind, when someone loves themselves, it means

495
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Speaker 1: that they could potentially love us. And that's the thing

496
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 1: at the core of all being human beings is that

497
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,160
Speaker 1: we want And so we want to make sure that

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Speaker 1: people understand that it's not about like certain products of

499
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 1: certain things. But I want to encourage people to use

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Speaker 1: mantle Men dot com, mant men dot com and use

501
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 1: a products. It's about how can we get you to

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Speaker 1: a place to love yourself because that's what's going to

503
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: bring in all the things you want in life. I

504
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: agree with that. That's amazing. Um, what about the guy

505
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 1: asking for a friend slash myself that's trying to grow

506
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Speaker 1: his beard longer but is in this really awkward phase

507
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Speaker 1: where it's really curly, it sticks out, but he doesn't

508
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Speaker 1: know magic and he wants to know what to tell

509
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Speaker 1: his friends. Do you have any to mantle have any

510
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 1: like beard oils or beard products. Yeah, we're gonna be

511
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: coming out with some of those next. That's next on

512
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Speaker 1: the line. Right now, I tell you, if your beard

513
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 1: is ungroomed, I always suggest going to like magazines and

514
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,119
Speaker 1: finding a level or a lamp that's good for you.

515
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: And it's secondly, if you have a partner doing the

516
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 1: kiss test, the kiss test is really important because right

517
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: the kiss tests would tell you if it's too hard,

518
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: if it's too prickly, and if it's not gonna work.

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00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:34,199
Speaker 1: Kiss test party, you gotta do that. Tasha, do you

520
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 1: like a guy with facial hair or no facial hair?

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00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 1: I think I tend to guy with Excuse me, I

522
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 1: tend to like guys with facial hair. Mhm. But also

523
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: there's like that awkward phase where it's like a lot

524
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 1: of stubble and like if you are kissing them and

525
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 1: you like, okay, like Kevin Kevin's and then you get

526
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,239
Speaker 1: like you get like a rough patch because like they

527
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: like stubbily. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, that that's

528
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 1: why I said the kiss test. I'm telling you the

529
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 1: kiss test works every time if you need you knowing

530
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: if you're in the right level with your beard or not.

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Speaker 1: What my stubble says, I'm off the market. Oyeah, That's

532
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: what it says, is that right look for sexual For

533
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: quite a long time, I look forward to that beard

534
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: stuff and I'm going to try this out for the

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Speaker 1: first time in my life. Carmel, I'm going to have

536
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: like a beauty is that what it's called a beauty routine? Yeah,

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00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: I don't self care. I don't call I call it

538
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 1: a self care routine because like the word for me personally,

539
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: and you know, I'm not gonna lie. I try to

540
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 1: be better, but I still have these you know, what

541
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 1: people call the toxic male behaviors or whatever that I

542
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: subscribed to, and like it makes me uncomfortable to say

543
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 1: beauty stuff. Sometimes I'm just gonna be honest with you,

544
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: and you know, and so I like to be like,

545
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: you know, my self care products, you know, like I

546
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: feel good products is what I call them, you know

547
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 1: what I mean, because I don't really call myself beautiful ever,

548
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: and so using beauty products is not something I'm accustomed to.

549
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 1: But I do like to take care of my my

550
00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: self esteem and so good. So this is your self

551
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: care every team. Yeah, and I think like even for

552
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: men that that term for whatever reason, beauty products. It

553
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 1: seems weird for me. But like self care or feel

554
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: good products, Yeah, that seems normal. Yeah, that's this. This

555
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: seems more normal. And you know, I'm not trying to

556
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 1: say that the health you know, we're we should be

557
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: able to say beauty, but I just don't subscribe to it. Yeah, yeah,

558
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with it. How dare you the way

559
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: you speak, sir? I mean, how would you you know what?

560
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,959
Speaker 1: Gavin though, I must say, gave you with your scarf

561
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: today and your jacket like that is beautiful. No, I'm

562
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 1: mad admiring, like when you're locked in. Amy was just like,

563
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: oh god, he looks great, layered. Lay I know, Karma.

564
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 1: I have one more question for you. Yeah. Um, so

565
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: as Brooks talked about the fact that he doesn't really

566
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: have much of a skincare routine or self care routine,

567
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: being that we are traveling, Um, what is the one

568
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: item that you always travel with or that you can

569
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: suggest for a guy, like if he's just running out

570
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: the door and he needs to grab at least one

571
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: thing for your into line, Like, what is the one

572
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: thing you have to have? Um, SPF definitely, because the

573
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: SPF is also a moisturizer, so it doesn't have as

574
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: much as the age defense in it as the moisturizer.

575
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: But the thing is that most people don't realize that

576
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: SPF is such a necessary tool and making sure your

577
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 1: skin looks good because the out once you go outside,

578
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 1: it damages your skin so much. And that's why you

579
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: see people who are thirty that look way older forty,

580
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: and people who take care of themselves with like an SPF,

581
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: their skin always looks younger, always looks softer. And so

582
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: I would say grab that, um, as you're traveling, because

583
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: that's the thing. And as you can see, I made

584
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: all of our products the three ounces that it lasts

585
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: for a while, but also you can travel with it,

586
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 1: you can carry it on right. Yeah, really you got

587
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 1: to make sure that anything. Um. Yeah, dude, this is

588
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: awesome for the I'm gonna go at this question, Um,

589
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: will I do you think that I will like see

590
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: results from this or will I just feel results like

591
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: in in seven if I go like seven to ten

592
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: days of straight using it, will I will like my

593
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 1: skin look better? Will like? What do you? What am I?

594
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: Because I just don't want to feel like nothing's happening

595
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 1: and then be like, well, I'm wasting my time if

596
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: I don't see something like I just want to be prepared.

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00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: So I will tell you that your skin is gonna

598
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: start feeling softer. You know, I don't know how much

599
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: sun damage you have or how often moisturized. So I

600
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,239
Speaker 1: don't want to say seven or ten days, because if

601
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: you've never more scribbed before, it's gonna take a little

602
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 1: bit more for your skin. The absorbiting start taking it.

603
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: But as you saw when you put the sp up

604
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: on your hands, what happens that your skin is automatically

605
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: gonna feel softer if you put if you feel the

606
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 1: space that you put that SPF on before, it already

607
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: is gonna start feeling silkier and nicer. What's the point

608
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: of it. So as you feel like your skin is

609
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 1: feeling softer, that means your skin is healing. That means

610
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: like the parts that were dry, they were cracked, they're

611
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 1: starting to rebuild sell they're starting to get better, and

612
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 1: that's how you're gonna your skin is getting healthier. I'm

613
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 1: excited to try this. You know why. Another reason why

614
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 1: I never tried like feel good products or something is

615
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: I didn't want to become dependent on them. Yeah. Yeah,

616
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: but these are you want to become dependent on because

617
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: the things these are necessary thing that you should It's

618
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: like the same way you become dependent on your toothbrush

619
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: because you want nice teeth, you want nice skin, So

620
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: you know, easy breezy. Yeah, you've You've actually reframed this

621
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Speaker 1: whole like self care for me. Do you have any

622
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: moisture I'm yeah, I feel you. Do you have any

623
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: moisturizer that will make my teeth look straight? Yea, he

624
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: needs a lot of health care. Now, yeah, model for

625
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 1: the bubble baths, so you can't do the self deprepending.

626
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: I want to be before before photo. I need you

627
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: coming in here with that self confidence that I know

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00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: you have. Whats alright? Don I think Mantel comes out

629
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: with a men's rugged bubble brugged bubble back and do

630
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: a photo shoot and that's your album cover. That's it.

631
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 1: You know what you need to do gonna be a

632
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 1: bubble bath that looks like a plaid Lumberjack shirt. Yes,

633
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 1: the bubbles come up looking like a plaid pattern. I'm

634
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: gonna make this just happen, Karama. We appreciate you coming on. Brother.

635
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 1: Where can people find the Mantle products? And where can

636
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 1: I get some more once I run out of these ones?

637
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: So you can go to Mantel men dot com dot com,

638
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 1: m A N T L Men M E N dot

639
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Speaker 1: com And for you when you need some more, you

640
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 1: just hit me brother, what about me? Yeah, both of

641
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: you come on, Matt. And also the funny part is

642
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 1: like my sisters have stolen all these products even that

643
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: we've been marking into. Man, I was just Titia has

644
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: already stolen my SPF on all the products. Yeah, so

645
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: this is so you know, if you need something, I

646
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: got you as well. Okay, perfect, Karama. We appreciate your brother.

647
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, and I gonna have to check out the show.

648
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 1: I definitely need some more tips. So thank you. You

649
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: are my guru for for self care. My friend appreciated

650
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:19,720
Speaker 1: my day. Well, Karama literally just changed my entire outlook

651
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,919
Speaker 1: on like self care. I'm actually gonna start self care.

652
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm like honestly shocked that you do not use any

653
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: products like not even after like a game or anything

654
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 1: like you never like cleanse your face like nothing. I

655
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: never know. I honestly this was my belief. If I sweat,

656
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:34,959
Speaker 1: it's going to clean my pores and clean my skin

657
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 1: and then as a shower, and I'm fine. I agree

658
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: with that philosophy very basically, I've never I've never used

659
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: like um like moisturizer, aged aged defense moisturizer, or like

660
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: um baby oil, or like I've never put stuff on

661
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: my skin to make my skin look or feel or

662
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 1: anything a different way. And your wife's never like had

663
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:02,240
Speaker 1: like a little spot day at home with you. No, Okay,

664
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 1: is it just me that makes a significant I'm sure.

665
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:09,840
Speaker 1: I'm sure she would. Like she's got like in our vanity,

666
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: she's got her vanity, and I have my vanity and

667
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,359
Speaker 1: her products are filling up my vanity. But I have

668
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 1: one drawer that has my toothpaste and like tweezers in

669
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: it and like Q tips and stuff. Other than that,

670
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,800
Speaker 1: it's like all her drawers in my side as well. Wow,

671
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: like your skin has never felt like dry or anything.

672
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: I'm confused. I think this is what this is what

673
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: I this is like. This is honestly been my mindset on,

674
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 1: like skincare, Like a thousand years ago, when people were alive,

675
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:41,359
Speaker 1: they didn't have skincare, so their skin just figured it out.

676
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 1: They just skin was like, Okay, I just need to

677
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 1: figure out how to be healthy. So that's all I wanted.

678
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I get it, but like you need to

679
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: try this because I can't stop rubbing my hand. It's

680
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: actually really really soft. This might change my life. I'm

681
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: actually like excited to try. I wonder if I should

682
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 1: put some moisturize around my dog's nose because it's the

683
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 1: only part that isn't covered with hair, and maybe it

684
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: would keep his nose from wrinkling as he gages age defension. Nose.

685
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: That's it. What do you think? He's really cute? Isn't adorable?

686
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:18,399
Speaker 1: He's handsome. He is extremely single. Todd's single, My dog

687
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 1: is single. What about grooming dog? What about grooming your dog?

688
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: Do you groom your dog? Um, let's talk about that.

689
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 1: I should groom him more. But I haven't brushed him

690
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 1: in like almost two weeks, and he's really hairy. Like

691
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: to apologize this hotel and all of you and you're

692
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: washing machines because you're gonna have a lot of stuff

693
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: all over you. He doesn't smell bad. Um. I try,

694
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: And I actually probably would spend more time grooming my

695
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: dog than grooming myself. I could brush coda. I would

696
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: say like five out of seven days of the week.

697
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 1: Is that true? You know? They say that's a really

698
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 1: great bonding uh um thing to do with your with

699
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 1: your dog. Really it seems like the adverse. He actually

700
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: hates it. Yeah, they say it's like a really good

701
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 1: good thing to do in your but you know you're

702
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 1: stronger than I am, so you're probably like really hurting

703
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 1: your dog. And then I brush his teeth too, but

704
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 1: he hates the breast get yeah, just because you know

705
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 1: they have these little dog ones they have like a

706
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 1: they have a dog toothbrush, and then they also have

707
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 1: a thing that just slides over your finger. Then you

708
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 1: put the dog toothpaste on your finger and you get

709
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: inside and just rub it around. And I just hate

710
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 1: seeing like older dogs with bad teeth, and I just

711
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: never want to. I just never want my boy to

712
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: have bad teeth like that. So I need to. I

713
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 1: need to take care of myself as well as I

714
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: take care of my dog. Okay, I have a very

715
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 1: important question for the entire table, something we have not

716
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: yet fully discussed, and I want. I want yes or no?

717
00:37:55,080 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 1: Tasia Adams, is bald sexy? Is bald sexy? Do you

718
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: find a bald man sexy? Um? That's got to be

719
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: a not. That's a no if you aren't already saying yes, yes,

720
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: that's right. No, So okay, can a man? So maybe

721
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 1: you don't find it sexy, but cann a bald man

722
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,359
Speaker 1: be sexy. T Yes, Like Karamo is a bald man

723
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 1: and he's very sexy. Yeah, he's a handsome man. Yeah, okay, okay,

724
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 1: Now he was bald and he was out of shape

725
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 1: and he didn't have a beauty line. Would he be

726
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: sexy if he was not successful? Oh my god, you're

727
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: putting me on the spot because you're looking for a

728
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: lot of criteria. That's actually a good point because he's

729
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: a very put together, like attract of human beings. He's

730
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 1: he's an entire package. Yes, who happens to be bald.

731
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:53,919
Speaker 1: That's right. He's also famous, which I think ups your

732
00:38:54,520 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 1: hot quotient. It does what everybody knows that I just

733
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 1: love you, that's true. It's like you see Ed Harris

734
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: in a movie. You're like, yeah, but if he was

735
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 1: just a regular civilian, I don't know, walking on the street.

736
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: So okay, Amy, do you find bald man? So I'm

737
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:18,320
Speaker 1: gonna give you totally answer on this. I used to think,

738
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 1: like I preferred like a real good head of hair,

739
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: like Rick. He's not here, but Rick has an excellent

740
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: head of hair. But then he turned out to be

741
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: a total jerk. But he was super hot. This pretty

742
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: much bald guy that I knew and there is he sucked,

743
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 1: but he was super sexy. I mean, I'm not going

744
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 1: to name names. I'm no Rick has hair, but I

745
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: used to think I thought it was so sexy, like

746
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: so beyond sexy. Was it maybe because you've never been

747
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,879
Speaker 1: with a bald guy? Maybe, Like I, I was like,

748
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 1: he's so hot. He is so was was he? Did

749
00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: he own it? Yes? I think that's because he had

750
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: beady Yeah. I was talking about this last night. She's like,

751
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: let's go, let's go. We have that b d E

752
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: and because we're gonna do Dean's podcast, help I suck

753
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 1: at dating. And I was like I just heard that

754
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: term like a week ago, and she goes, yeah, best

755
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 1: day ever. I'm like, oh, I heard it differently, and

756
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: I was like, no, I know what that means, because

757
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 1: if somebody has b d E, then they can pull

758
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: off anything. So like, I don't even think he had

759
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: great fashion, and yet I loved it because he just

760
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: had b d Like everything about this guy was just

761
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 1: like you're so hot? Can you can you explain for

762
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: our listeners who do not know this term what b

763
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: d E is? You have to say all the words

764
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: of it. You have to say all the words. It

765
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: means big d energy, you have to say you have

766
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: to say it. Oh, I cannot say that word on

767
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: the radio. It means big dick energy. Yeah. And it's

768
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 1: like like it doesn't mean you have a b D

769
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 1: but it just means you carry yourself on it. You

770
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 1: have swag. As Bieber would say, and Gavin said it

771
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: about Karamo, he has smooth. Did you say he has

772
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,360
Speaker 1: smooth or he is smooth? I don't know. I probably

773
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,919
Speaker 1: said something like smooth. It's like smooth swag just confidence.

774
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: Like how about e D E rectile dysfunction feeling that

775
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 1: e D E ladies? Huh, let's spread that around all right?

776
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 1: Do you think this? Do you think that um men

777
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 1: can be sexy as a bald man or do you

778
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 1: think that if, like if you lose your hair, do

779
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,439
Speaker 1: you think that you could still be sexy. I think

780
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 1: that anybody can pull off anything, but just going by

781
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: the numbers out like I pointed out before, I pointed

782
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 1: out before, like who were the two biggest movie stars

783
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,839
Speaker 1: in the last probably thirty years as leading men. They

784
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 1: were Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt. You know, both of

785
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 1: them have perfect heads of Hair, Leonardo Gafrie, Tom Well,

786
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 1: I'm just saying far as like heart throw bobs and

787
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 1: stuff like that. I'm just going with with what what

788
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:06,800
Speaker 1: the numbers tend to say. You know, I have a

789
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: few celebrities I'm gonna pull up you guys tell me

790
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: if they have swag and sex appeal or not. Ll

791
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 1: col J Yes, swag, Yes, swag then Diesel Oh, he

792
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 1: is actually kind of hot, but it's not someone I

793
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: would ever go after. It's a rugged thing. I think

794
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 1: what you're pointing out more is there's more of a

795
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: rugged thing and more of it's made up. Um, it's

796
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: it's a it's it's a different thing because it more

797
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:41,839
Speaker 1: relies on uh being masculine less than necessarily the Rock.

798
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 1: That's what I mean, like bad boy, bad boy vibes.

799
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: That's just my my analysis of it. The Rock is

800
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: very attractive too, but again I would never typically ever

801
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 1: go in date. But the Rock is someone who I

802
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 1: think actually looks better with the shaved head than he

803
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 1: did with hair. I agree. I agree. You know who

804
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: else you got, Tori Oh? That's it on my list.

805
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: Bruce Willis Danielle just said, Bruce will Danielle do you

806
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: find Bruce Willis to be sexy? This is producer Danielle,

807
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 1: who has probably the best head of hair of anybody. Buddy,

808
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 1: Bruce Willis not so much, but the Rock definitely right. Sure,

809
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 1: so you have to have muscles. But if you're I

810
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:25,799
Speaker 1: do agree with Gavin. I think if like the man

811
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 1: is super not athletic, but like masculine, then he could

812
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: totally pull off bald head. Okay, so there's you guys.

813
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,720
Speaker 1: Have listed The Rock, You've listed Vin Diesel, You've listed

814
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: L L Cool j as bald men who you find attractive,

815
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 1: and those are all two hundred plus solid dudes, like

816
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: strong asked dudes. And then you listed Bruce Willis, who's

817
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 1: maybe like a buck fifty. I don't know what he'd weigh.

818
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 1: And you're like, no, not sexy, sexy, amy sexy? Yeah,

819
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: because they're so young. I'm old, So Bruce is hot.

820
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: They don't know Bruce is like their grandpa. Have you

821
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 1: ever met Bruce in real life? And was he in

822
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: real life sexy? Did you get loose to Bruce? I think, yeah,

823
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 1: he does. That's my little input. It's so interesting. I mean,

824
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: what about you do you find bald guys? Attractive. I

825
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: think a bald guy absolutely can be attractive. Name one

826
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: like like any any like any basketball player, most basketball players,

827
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, how okay? There there that? Yeah, extremely

828
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 1: attractive dudes. Michael Jordan is very attractive, very attractive. What's up?

829
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: Can I flip the script a little bit? So? How

830
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 1: about you know? How do guys view women with short hair?

831
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 1: Or like a boy? How do we how do we

832
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:54,400
Speaker 1: view bald women? How do you view Gavin? Have you

833
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: ever dated a woman with short hair? Yeah? Did you

834
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: like it? Sho on? Did you like her hair as

835
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 1: fine as hell? You know? So? Did you like her hair? Listen?

836
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 1: When they're hot, they're hot, you know what I mean.

837
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:13,720
Speaker 1: When they're not, they're not. You know that song sold school.

838
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: But but you know, that's all there is to it.

839
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: You know, they're they're they're when they're hot, they're hot,

840
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,479
Speaker 1: you know. And I don't don't I see. I don't

841
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: see the make over. I see what's the genetic makeup?

842
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 1: So you know, a lot of people talk about how

843
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: they put their makeup on and stuff like that, and

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00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 1: their hair do and all that kind of stuff. I

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00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 1: see gene pool more than I see the makeover. You

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00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I see the cheek bones and

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00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: the lips, and the neck and the neckline, and and

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00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 1: that their natural with their body. It's fundamentally is um.

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00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 1: That's what I see. Um. Whereas a lot more people

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00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 1: see see if they're put together and stuff like that,

851
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:58,839
Speaker 1: I look at that in a different way because say, okay,

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00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 1: they're on their way to the laundry, matter not. You

853
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,760
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Yes, I just see something totally

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Speaker 1: totally different. And to be totally totally honest with you,

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00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 1: if I see someone who's put together, over the top

856
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,360
Speaker 1: put together, you know what I see, I see a

857
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: lot of work. I see. I see something that's just

858
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 1: too much a little too much work for me to

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Speaker 1: be around. And it's something that's I just slicking at

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00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:27,959
Speaker 1: a car or a yacht that cannot be maintained. And um,

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00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 1: so so I look at I look at very different

862
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 1: things I think than some people look at. You know,

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00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 1: I want I'd rather them be wearing a you know,

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00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: a pair of sweatpants and like not doing their hair,

865
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: and if they look good like that, that's hot to me,

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00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, make up, no, nothing, not

867
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 1: trying at all, and the presence man and like that

868
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: thing whatever that is, and when when you make eye

869
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: contact that's hot and and uh it's it's the inexplicable stuff.

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00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: It's not all just how they're put together. The hair

871
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 1: do doesn't really mean mean much. Have you ever had

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00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 1: short hairtation? I did cut it short at one point,

873
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 1: shorter than higher than your shoulders. It was like shoulder link. Okay, okay,

874
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 1: it was my Actually, yeah, the person I was dating

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00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 1: at the time wanted me to have short hair and

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00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,319
Speaker 1: my I had always wanted to try it out, and

877
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 1: so I just did it one day and it didn't

878
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: feel as good. I actually loved it. But it's a

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00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 1: lot of work short hairst I actually have curly hair.

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00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 1: So it's like if you have curly hair and then

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00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 1: you have a short haircut, like I'm so sorry, but

882
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 1: you're about to look like like it's it's a lot

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00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:49,840
Speaker 1: of ways you need to blow your hair, you know

884
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 1: what I mean. So there's just very you're dying laughing

885
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 1: at me. There's complementary hairstyles. I see what you're saying.

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00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 1: You here's a question for all you ladies. What is

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00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: the female equivalent of B d E? What is the

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00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 1: gav Is there is there a term? Is there? Like,

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00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 1: is there a term of b D E for a woman?

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00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 1: I don't think so because I just heard b d

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00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:31,439
Speaker 1: E last week. Literally, I guess if you had, like shimmy, yeah,

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00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 1: I can self b c E big chest energy or

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00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: b B big breast energy. You guys are so awkward

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00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 1: right now. I don't think a part though. Isn't it

895
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 1: like D bitch energy? I like that, you know what

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00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,320
Speaker 1: I mean? But then people think, like, but that comes

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00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 1: from a body part like the B D E. For

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00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:56,799
Speaker 1: the most part, you guys are saying, well, a guy

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Speaker 1: cannot have a big D and still have that energy.

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00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 1: Most of the time, that energy comes from having that

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00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 1: body part, like that's why he's walking around with that

902
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 1: because he knows. Yeah, ok So then I don't think

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00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 1: we have an equivalent. Okay, when we'll think on this

904
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 1: on the break and we'll get back to it, try

905
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: and come up with the term. Okay, we're taking a break. Okay,

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00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 1: now we're going to talk about men's fashion, and we

907
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: need a specialist. I need a specialist for this. So

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Speaker 1: we have on the line with us Mr Brad Garretsky. Brad,

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00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 1: what's up buddy. Hey, how's it going. Thanks for saying

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00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 1: my last name right. Yeah, my man, Man, it's been

911
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:46,759
Speaker 1: too long since I've seen you. The first time you

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00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: and I met was on Beca Antanya's show, the I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Uh, Scrubbing Scrubbing in. That was the

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00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:55,919
Speaker 1: first time you and I met. We had a fantastic time.

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00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: Nick was there. Nick Vile was there. He was on

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Speaker 1: the mant remember the mantel, the Man of course, and

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00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: you were so fun man, and you were talking about style.

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Speaker 1: He was put together like Brad when he shows up.

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00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,320
Speaker 1: Brad shows up and I walked in and like shorts

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00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,160
Speaker 1: and sandals and a T shirt. And I looked at

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00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: Brad and I'm like, I'm in the wrong room. So

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00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: you yeah, Brad. So you we're gonna get your take.

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00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 1: You are. You got your starting the industry by interning

924
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: in the New York offices of Vogue and w magazines.

925
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: You were the co host of Fashion Police on e UM.

926
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 1: You have all kinds of celebrity clients. Uh. And now

927
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: you don't know this, but now you're my new fashion guy.

928
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:41,319
Speaker 1: So that was all right. That was like the in

929
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Speaker 1: the contract and the small print of agreeing to come

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00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 1: on the show that you had to be my personal

931
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 1: guy anytime. You just let me know every every school

932
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Speaker 1: year you need to lay out his clothes. So, Brad,

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Speaker 1: here's a true story. A couple of minutes ago, I

934
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 1: just asked Tasha, Tasha Adams, who's here with us? I

935
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Speaker 1: asked Tasha, I said, who has better style? Gavin or me?

936
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Speaker 1: And right away she looked at Gavin like sweet little

937
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 1: smile and she says Gavin, and it broke my heart.

938
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 1: She blew me kisses. I don't remember that part, but yeah,

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00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: whatever I saw it, Brad, can you can you give us?

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00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: Can you give me? Man? I'm sitting here in a

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00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: pair of black jeans and a white T shirt. Can

942
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:28,920
Speaker 1: you give me like some tips on or any man listening?

943
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 1: What is like most important? What's the low hanging fruit

944
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: for a man to look to put together to be

945
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 1: presented well fashion wise? Um? In today's modern world, Well,

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Speaker 1: I think number one is most men don't wear their

947
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:47,439
Speaker 1: actual style, their actual size. Um. I think a lot

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00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: of guys wear things that hang too far away from

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00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: their body. And especially speaking when guys get dressed up

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00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 1: and wear suits, Um, you know the shoulders of your

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00:51:57,120 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 1: suit jackets should line up with your actual shoulders, and

952
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 1: then I think it's important to to you know, we

953
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 1: have a lot of variety now, so you can get

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00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 1: a slim cut, you can get you know, kind of

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00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,839
Speaker 1: like a regular fit suit. And I think, um, you know,

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00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 1: taking the time, especially for those um events or or

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00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: life occurrences where we are getting a little bit more

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00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 1: dressed up, to take the time to get things tailored

959
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 1: as well. I mean, you don't have to spend hundreds

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00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,760
Speaker 1: of dollars on it, but I always know on my jackets,

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00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 1: I need the small of my lower back taken in

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00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 1: so I get that like pulled in, so I get

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00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 1: like that nice shape. Because there's really nothing I mean,

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00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 1: aside from a guy in a T shirt and jeans

965
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 1: looking good. There's on the opposite end of that spectrum.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing better than a guy in a well tailored suit.

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00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: So tailoring is number one for me. Um, I think

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00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 1: also number two, like ath leisure is our friend. You know,

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00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: it's a it's a trend I think for men and

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00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 1: for women that has kind of allowed the people who

971
00:52:57,640 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 1: are usually uh, you know, maybe like to be in

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00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: their sweats a little bit more to actually look fashionable,

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00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 1: So how do you do that? Like? Um, So, the

974
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 1: ways that you can do it is by incorporating, you know,

975
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 1: pops of color, whether you're adding in like a little

976
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,359
Speaker 1: bit of neon, maybe it's in your sneaker, or are

977
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,239
Speaker 1: you incorporating a little bit of print, or are you

978
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: doing a full like gray sneaker, gray sweatshirt, great track

979
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 1: pay kind of deal. So I think that there are

980
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 1: are different ways that we can look still because comfort,

981
00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 1: comfort is key, right, Everybody wants to feel comfortable, So

982
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 1: I think the key is to look comfortable but still

983
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:39,399
Speaker 1: kind of polished and like you put an effort at

984
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 1: the same time. All valid points. And I agree with

985
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: you on the suit thing. Um and also for anybody

986
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 1: if you can't afford to because a custom suit is

987
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: very expensive. You can't afford a custom suit. What he

988
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: was saying with the tailored stuff is amazing. And once

989
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 1: you've worn anything that's custom or is tailored, you never

990
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,720
Speaker 1: go back to wearing something that's boxy or not fitted

991
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,840
Speaker 1: for you. Right, Yeah, So I did I do that

992
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:04,600
Speaker 1: a lot with pants, Like I have to buy bigger

993
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 1: pants because my legs and acid are big, but my

994
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: waist is small and it comes from playing. We're aware

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00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: Brooks are, so I have to get every time I

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00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 1: see Brooks, I say, every time brook starcture the drum, Like, man,

997
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 1: your astles huge in those pants and underrunk. It's those

998
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: thick hockey legs, baby, it is. But I have to

999
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:28,760
Speaker 1: get the But then like my waist is too big,

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00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 1: and so I always get the waist taken in on

1001
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: the pants. Um. But for men, maybe men there don't

1002
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: even know that that you can buy something that fits

1003
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 1: you right in this one area and you can have

1004
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 1: somebody for fifteen or twenty bucks just clean up this

1005
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:42,759
Speaker 1: other area that makes the pants or the shirt of

1006
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 1: the jacket, as you said, looks so much better. Um. Yeah,

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00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 1: what's another what's a tip for? Like what if I

1008
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 1: don't even know my style? Like what's my style? Where

1009
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:53,319
Speaker 1: do I look? Where do I find? How do I

1010
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 1: even find a style for myself if I don't even

1011
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 1: know what I want to dress like? Well, I think

1012
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 1: this is like one of the great things is about

1013
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: social media, you know, before Instagram and Pinterest and all,

1014
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 1: you know, just being able to surf the web. We

1015
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 1: relied or I relied on fashion magazines like g Q

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00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 1: and whatever. To tell me what was happening in fashion,

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00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 1: and now we have it really at our fingertips. So

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00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: every time we're scrolling through Instagram, and I do this myself,

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00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: like if I see an outfit or even a sponsored

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00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:28,279
Speaker 1: post or a designer posting something or you know, a

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00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 1: friend of mine, whatever, I'll just save it, you know,

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00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: to my Instagram save photos and then go back through

1023
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:37,359
Speaker 1: and be like, oh yeah, I like that. You know

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00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: Shurepa hoodie. I'm going to order one of those on

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00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 1: Amazon or you know, I like right. I think it's

1026
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 1: like we can create these mood boards now without like

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00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: it's not it's part of our daily routine. We don't

1028
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:53,359
Speaker 1: have to set out to know to you know, uh,

1029
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:55,400
Speaker 1: sit down and do like a mood board for what

1030
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 1: Spring is going to be. Like I don't even do that.

1031
00:55:57,239 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: I just kind of like go off what I resonate

1032
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 1: with and then you know, I kind of like we

1033
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 1: can search for any product now, so right off of Instagram.

1034
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: So I think that, you know, social media is a

1035
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: great resource. So if you say, like, you know, say

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Speaker 1: one of the guys who's fashioned you like, is like,

1037
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,279
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna throw Drake out there and you see

1038
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: he was wearing a camo hoodie like two days ago

1039
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 1: at the Nike show, Like you know, search for a

1040
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 1: camo hoodie and like order it and see if you

1041
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 1: like it, see if you wear it and if not.

1042
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 1: You know, most places will let you return things within

1043
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,319
Speaker 1: thirty days and send it back in a box. So

1044
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 1: I think it's made it really. You know, fashion is

1045
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 1: very accessible, and I think we get to see so

1046
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:39,040
Speaker 1: many images now that we should be using those as

1047
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 1: as little like starting points for ourselves. M I like question,

1048
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Speaker 1: if you can't afford a tailor, are there any products

1049
00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 1: you can get that kind of allow you to like

1050
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 1: temporarily hold your pants in a certain place and things

1051
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 1: like that, like so that people can kind of do

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00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 1: their own sort of customize work just to get through

1053
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: like the day or the event or if they don't

1054
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 1: have time to go to the tailor and things like that.

1055
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 1: Are the little products that they can pick up to

1056
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 1: sort of keep their pants looking like their hammed in

1057
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 1: a certain way and stuff like that, safety pins. That's it,

1058
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 1: and that totally when you know, I'm guilty of it too,

1059
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: Like when I'm styling clients, I don't necessarily think about

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00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: you know, I haven't decided what I'm wearing to the

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00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 1: Oscars on Sunday. At completely absolutely talk about the Oscars

1062
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 1: on Sunday, and I'm going to it. But it's um,

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00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: you know, I've like safety pinned my pants and backseats

1064
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 1: of cabs. I've used double sided tape, um, you know.

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00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: But I think I think for like big you know events,

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00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,480
Speaker 1: like if you're going to a wedding or for the

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00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 1: holidays or a big family gathering. I also think not

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00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 1: necessarily waiting until the last minute, Like I like to

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00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:56,920
Speaker 1: buy on sale as well. So I think like there

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00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 1: are certain times of the year and you know, there

1071
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 1: are a lot of great websites that have you know,

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00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:05,800
Speaker 1: incredible products that discounted prices, and I think getting some

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00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: things and I have like um suits and outfits in

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00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: my closet that I just rewear because I know I've

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00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 1: taken the time to have them tailored. And you know,

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00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 1: it's easier as men to to kind of you know,

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00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 1: just rewear your navy suit that you know that fits,

1078
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 1: or your pinstriped gray suit that you know that fits.

1079
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: So I think it's about building kind of a little

1080
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: bit of a very small wardrobe of basic things that

1081
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: will get you a long way and taking one trip

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00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: to the tailor and saying like, hey, I've got these

1083
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:38,440
Speaker 1: four jackets. I need these, you know, trimm like brought

1084
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 1: in a little bit or let out a little bit

1085
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: and then just storing them in your closet and when

1086
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: that thing comes up there, right there and ready for

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00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 1: you to to wear. I was just gonna say this

1088
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 1: episode has been very informative, like I'm learning a lot

1089
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 1: of things, but I'm going to be taking a trip

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00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 1: to the tailor this week. Oh good. Yeah. But also

1091
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 1: I have a question. So you obviously dress a lot

1092
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 1: of people and fashion is your thing, but are three

1093
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: male celebrities that these guys can kind of look forward?

1094
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, like look at their fashion? Who art

1095
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: and like who had like nails it every time? Like

1096
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 1: you know, I think like currently this season, and someone

1097
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 1: who I think also wears things that you know, are aspirational.

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00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 1: I think Brad Pitt when he's out and about, like

1099
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 1: his street style and then also his red carpet style.

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00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 1: He just looks like the tailoring is really good, the

1101
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 1: fabrics look expensive. You know, He's very confident as well,

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00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:43,760
Speaker 1: so he just adds like that extra level of um,

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00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 1: you know, confidence to all of his looks, but he's

1104
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 1: like you know, off his street style it is just

1105
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 1: like really cool. Um. So he's always somebody that I've

1106
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 1: admired for, like, you know, kind of decades now, and

1107
00:59:57,120 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 1: he he's probably number one, I think. Um. Also, like

1108
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 1: on the opposite end of that spectrum of somebody who

1109
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:08,439
Speaker 1: can be a good marker, um for somebody who's doing

1110
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 1: different and something different in fashion is Timothy shallow May.

1111
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: I mean he's really really young, and he's you know,

1112
01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 1: I think that what he does on the red carpet,

1113
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:22,200
Speaker 1: and again also his style is it's very individually him.

1114
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 1: So that really like and he's young too, and I

1115
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 1: think sometimes I think what's really great about the younger

1116
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 1: generation of male movie stars or actors, especially as they're

1117
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 1: not afraid to do new things like that also makes

1118
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 1: me think of like a Chadwick Boseman or like a

1119
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: Michael b. Jordan's, Like these are guys who you know

1120
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 1: are their superheroes. They're like, um, you know these big

1121
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 1: guys who where like Gibonshi could tour like beat a jacket,

1122
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 1: but then in their street style, you know, they're doing

1123
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 1: like the cool thing with the sneakers and the sweats

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01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 1: and the leather jackets. So I I look for like variety,

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01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 1: and then I also look for those public moments where

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01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 1: they're also pushing the boundary and not just putting on

1127
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 1: like a black tuch seed up. You know what it

1128
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: is listening to you talk Brad and just thinking about

1129
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 1: like why do I not invest in fashion? Not much? Um,

1130
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 1: we invest our time and energy and things that we

1131
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 1: where we get self expression, right like like a like

1132
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 1: Gavin does music, so he has his time and energy

1133
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 1: and music and that's where he feels self expressed. I've

1134
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 1: never looked at clothes for myself or fashion as a

1135
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 1: form of self expression and art. So that so clothes

1136
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:37,760
Speaker 1: were just like I need to put on something that's comfortable, warm,

1137
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 1: and I can I can um just suffice in the

1138
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 1: room that Yeah, I'm going to suffice in the room

1139
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 1: that I'm going to be in. Do I need to

1140
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 1: dress up? Do I need to dress down? Whatever? It's

1141
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:48,120
Speaker 1: fine for that room. But I've never looked at taking

1142
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:50,240
Speaker 1: the time just what you were saying, taking time to

1143
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: like look at, Okay, I have this event or something

1144
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 1: coming up, and I want something that's actually gonna resemble

1145
01:01:57,120 --> 01:02:00,919
Speaker 1: and express myself in a visual full with fashion. I've

1146
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 1: never perceived it like that. Brooks's a whole It's a

1147
01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 1: whole new world now. But that's the that's the beauty.

1148
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 1: That's the great thing about you know, it's like being

1149
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,680
Speaker 1: working in fashion and having you know, there's a whole.

1150
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 1: I got into it because I appreciated the art of

1151
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 1: it so much, and then the fantasy that the red

1152
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 1: carpet brings to our everyday lives was also the other

1153
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:30,560
Speaker 1: reason why I got into it, because I wanted to

1154
01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: be a part of making that fantasy for other people.

1155
01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:36,000
Speaker 1: And so, you know, I you don't have to go

1156
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 1: necessarily the root of wearing an you know, an all

1157
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 1: monochrome like pink suit like Timothy Shallow may might do.

1158
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 1: But maybe it's taking the idea of wearing a black

1159
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:52,520
Speaker 1: tuxedo and doing like a deep forest green tuxedo jacket

1160
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: with a black pant, or a navy blue tuxedo jacket

1161
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 1: with a black pant, and like, you know, just doing those.

1162
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 1: Maybe it's wearing a patent leather shoe instead of like

1163
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 1: a leather shoe with it, Like I think there are

1164
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 1: ways for everybody to kind of be able to adapt

1165
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 1: and and step into, you know, the world of using

1166
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:14,840
Speaker 1: fashion as self expression without you know, having to show

1167
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,720
Speaker 1: up in you know, a neon suit like I would do.

1168
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 1: Can I ask you one other fashion question? Yeah, why

1169
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 1: does Gucci care so much if you have the box

1170
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 1: for the shoes if they don't fit good and you

1171
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 1: want to send them back? Because I know you know

1172
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:38,520
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. This is such an in This

1173
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:41,120
Speaker 1: is such an in question. Okay, So wait, so I

1174
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: don't have the box that costs you three dollars, but

1175
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 1: I do have the shoes that don't feel good. Oh yeah,

1176
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:51,680
Speaker 1: but where's the box? I'm like, don't you have an

1177
01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:56,240
Speaker 1: extra box? Do you just do a right here? This

1178
01:03:56,320 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 1: is so awesome? Um, well, I for example, I mean

1179
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 1: for example, yeah, I mean most most places, like I

1180
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 1: order most of my stuff online and they have like,

1181
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 1: you know, special tags on them. So if I removed

1182
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:13,640
Speaker 1: the special tag, or even if I step on it

1183
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 1: while I'm trying it on, I have to keep it

1184
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 1: unless I want to fight with somebody on the phone.

1185
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:21,000
Speaker 1: So it's basically like as my grandmother would say when

1186
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 1: we would go to auction houses when I was a

1187
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 1: little kid, she would say, um, you know, uh, don't

1188
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:30,200
Speaker 1: be a bull in a china shop. If you break it,

1189
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:32,920
Speaker 1: you If you break it, you buy it. So basically

1190
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:35,919
Speaker 1: like Gucci is looking at it like you're not You're

1191
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 1: not returning the full experience. So they may have a

1192
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 1: box back there, but you need to hold onto the

1193
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 1: box in order to return something. What if? What if?

1194
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: Like I know, you know exactly, you know exactly what

1195
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:56,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Kevin, let me regreave this one for you.

1196
01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:59,200
Speaker 1: Let's say we're let's say we're back ten years ago

1197
01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:01,880
Speaker 1: and somebody buy is your c D and then they

1198
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:03,440
Speaker 1: listen to it for a second and I don't like

1199
01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 1: this music and I'm just gonna bring it back to you,

1200
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:07,240
Speaker 1: but I left the case at home. But hey, here's

1201
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 1: your c D. I actually think you're I think you're

1202
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 1: actually still allowed to return it. But also who would

1203
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:19,560
Speaker 1: return one of Gavin c D? Yeah, that was the

1204
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 1: wildest hypothetically there by, Dude. I appreciate you coming on

1205
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 1: with us. I want to learn more about you. You

1206
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,840
Speaker 1: have a new podcast where we can hear more about this,

1207
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 1: right you, I sure do. It's called brad behavior and

1208
01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: it's uh super fun we talk a lot of fashion.

1209
01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:42,000
Speaker 1: My husband comes on for a segment and answers questions.

1210
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 1: And I've had some really fun, great guests on, so

1211
01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:48,000
Speaker 1: you'll have to come on sometime. Yeah, hey, wait, wait,

1212
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 1: one more thing? Can we do? Like? Can we do

1213
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: like a style day where we go and we shoot

1214
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 1: a bit the group of us and you and you

1215
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 1: show us like this doesn't work for you? That works

1216
01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:03,200
Speaker 1: for you? Love? I would love the thing more. I'm

1217
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,560
Speaker 1: so into it. It's a deal that would be amazing.

1218
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 1: And can you We're gonna find you Someci Okay, we're

1219
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 1: gonna find you Gucci shoes that you won't want to return.

1220
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 1: I wants it. I need. I need more fashion tips

1221
01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:20,480
Speaker 1: than anybody, Brad. So I'm gonna listen to brad behavior.

1222
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:22,400
Speaker 1: And I'd love to do something with you and Gav

1223
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 1: and where you dress us both and um, because I

1224
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:27,960
Speaker 1: know I desperately need it. So even it's not for

1225
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 1: the show, I need your help just in my personal

1226
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:34,880
Speaker 1: life with with dressing because I basically shop at Lululemon

1227
01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:37,960
Speaker 1: is basically where I buy my anytime Brooks. Do you

1228
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 1: know where to find men? Yes, let's let's definitely do

1229
01:06:40,440 --> 01:06:44,200
Speaker 1: that video. Yeah, Okay, check out Brad's podcast, Brad Behavior

1230
01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: and Brad, I love your brother. I can't wait to

1231
01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 1: see your face soon right by. It's fun. Thanks guys.

1232
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 1: Well that was fun, dude. That was That was like

1233
01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:56,320
Speaker 1: the most educational episode that we've ever done. For myself,

1234
01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:57,919
Speaker 1: I learned how to groom and I'm going to get

1235
01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:02,200
Speaker 1: lessons from Brad on how to style and like to

1236
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 1: be new men. Yeah, Tasha, you'd be rocking. I'm excited

1237
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 1: to see her as this transformation. Yeah, we're gonna have

1238
01:07:07,600 --> 01:07:11,280
Speaker 1: to it before and after. Let's do it before and

1239
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be doing a clothing check speaks. You

1240
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 1: guys look good. Okay, So Tasha is the judge then,

1241
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: so you'll come back Tashia for another show. Absolutely. Like

1242
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:21,000
Speaker 1: I said, I learned a lot too, So this was

1243
01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 1: very beneficial for myself. You were a wonderful, gracious co host. Oh,

1244
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 1: I thank you. We'd love to have you back again.

1245
01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 1: That's awesome. Where can our listeners find You're awesome? What

1246
01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 1: where can our listeners find you? Where do you hang

1247
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 1: out the most? Instagram? You don't want all our listeners

1248
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 1: coming to your house? Exact address? Yeah, go find me

1249
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:46,040
Speaker 1: on Instagram. My handle is t A Y s H

1250
01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 1: I A A Oh love it right on. That's it

1251
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:53,600
Speaker 1: for this episode. We love your feedback on this and

1252
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:55,600
Speaker 1: also we need your help guys. So if anybody out

1253
01:07:55,640 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 1: there listening is a no stuff about grooming or fashion sprit,

1254
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:03,160
Speaker 1: I'm desperate for your help. Gab, You're doing good, but

1255
01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm working on it today. I got lucky. Yeah you did. Yeah,

1256
01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:08,840
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Guys. Listen. That's it for this episode.

1257
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 1: Till next week, take care of one another, love one another,

1258
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 1: and we'll see you back in Yeah,