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Speaker 1: Baby, Sam Miracles and a man with seven to nine

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Speaker 1: My baby, don't let you.

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Speaker 2: Couldn't white chops showing the apple. Let's listen to it. Hi,

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Speaker 2: it's Mila.

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Speaker 3: We're back and I'm deliciously enjoying a crunchy apple with

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Speaker 3: almond butter.

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Speaker 2: Ah.

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Speaker 3: This is air cut, and we are parental advisory good

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Speaker 3: Mom's bad Choices. Actually, the honest sureth is we've been

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Speaker 3: thinking if we should like just cut the parental advisory

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Speaker 3: part and just stick with good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 2: But we're not sure. What do you guys think?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let us know it's parental advisory, Good Mom's Bad

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Speaker 3: Choices just too long or is it just right?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I feel like obviously good good Mom's bad choices rolls

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Speaker 4: off the tongue.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's very classy.

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Speaker 4: I feel like parental advisory is a warning for what

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Speaker 4: you're gonna get, but also I think bad.

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Speaker 2: Choices is a warning for what you're gonna get. True,

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Speaker 2: So it's a double on Tandra. Yeah, so that's the

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Speaker 2: right word. Yes, my god, are so educated. I went

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Speaker 2: to college for one year or two. Me too, Me too, girl,

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Speaker 2: me too.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, we are pre recording this episode because Mila is

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Speaker 4: going to Aruba for her birthday.

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Speaker 3: Hey girl, I will be thirty when I come back,

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Speaker 3: and I am going away to do as many bad

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Speaker 3: things as a Ruba will allow.

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Speaker 4: And I'm leaving to Florida to go do some work,

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Speaker 4: So that's not just exciting. I'll be looking at Mila's

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Speaker 4: photos wishing I was with her.

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Speaker 2: And you can also look at my photos.

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Speaker 3: I have pre planned all of the Instagram poses that

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna take on the beach.

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Speaker 2: Do you have your outfits ready? Kind of we're getting it.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna coming together like instagrammable outfits for the most part,

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Speaker 2: but I'm gonna wing it. But mostly my poses and

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Speaker 3: Like are scandidly scanni scandidly clothed, naked aka naked.

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Speaker 2: So you've been like practicing in the mirror. I've been

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Speaker 2: practicing the mirror.

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Speaker 3: But I have like saw all the other Instagram bitches

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Speaker 3: on like their beach photos, and I have a particular

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Speaker 3: folder put aside for Aruba. So when I get there,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna meet and Danielle, You're gonna pull up our

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Speaker 3: photos that we want to replicate the poses.

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Speaker 2: Of at these photos that do these poses that you've

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Speaker 2: seen done in Aruba. No, I'm not just on beach.

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Speaker 2: Some in Arubas just on beach.

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Speaker 4: So you gotta do like a behind you gotta do

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Speaker 4: like the pong booty shot facing like you are facing

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Speaker 4: the ocean and the camera's facing your ass and you're like.

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Speaker 3: Drinking a coconut. I like the coconut to the side. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like you're bending and you look at the camera. Am

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Speaker 3: I standing around my knees on your.

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Speaker 2: Knees so it's like the push out of the booty Okay,

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Speaker 2: oh okay, I got it. I got it.

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Speaker 4: Or just like observe, like observing the beautiful view, like

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Speaker 4: you're taking it all in and you didn't even know

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Speaker 4: a camera was taking that backshot.

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Speaker 3: Right, that's definitely on the list. Yeah, I'm honestly not

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Speaker 3: even sure if I made this trip, like for the

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Speaker 4: Well, you're you're gonna have fun either way, like by

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Speaker 4: accident or just because there.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you this really bad comment my friend made.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like my dad told me, like we maybe shit.

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Speaker 3: I don't like there's not that much nightlife I mean,

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Speaker 3: which I think is bullshit. I'm gonna find the fucking

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Speaker 3: night life.

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Speaker 2: But she goes, well, you know those girls, the one

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Speaker 2: who got killed in Aruba a few.

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Speaker 3: Years ago, that was like a long time, no, no,

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Speaker 3: she goes, there were like a young group of girls.

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Speaker 3: I said, Danielle, that is the absolute worst thing you

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Speaker 3: maybe they cut out the nightlife because that happened.

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Speaker 2: That was also like ten fifteen years ago. I remember

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Speaker 2: being a kid. Yeah, but never find her body. They

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Speaker 3: There was a local guy who who happened to be

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Speaker 3: and that mother jumper got off but then traveled to

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Speaker 3: Brazil and killed somebody else. But it was wait in

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Speaker 3: a casino, a casino, but it was actually it was

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Speaker 3: actually on camera this time, right, So basically they were

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Speaker 3: trying to blame like yeah, it was like they were eluding.

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Speaker 3: They couldn't find a body, so they couldn't link him.

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Speaker 3: But then he traveled to Brazil and did the same

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Speaker 4: Remember a casino and they had him like going in

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Speaker 4: and out of the room in the hotel or something.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, I'm going to Ruba where they kill bitches.

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Speaker 2: They kill bitches everywhere.

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Speaker 3: True, hopefully we don't get like kidnapped and killed.

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Speaker 2: But I think you'll be fine.

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Speaker 3: They'll return me immediately, like this bitch is mouthing taken

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Speaker 3: her back, she's dancing everywhere. Again, can't even kidnap the

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Speaker 3: bitch successfully? Oh yeah, So make sure you check out

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Speaker 3: my Instagram post at Nila with an a each underscore

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Speaker 3: mapo because I'll have all of the thirsty, thirsty, thirsty

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Speaker 2: I know, I'm okay. I't wait. You and Danny because

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Speaker 2: y'all both are hot bitches yee and look really good

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Speaker 2: in bikini yee. Are you gonna see your Florida bou? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you already told them.

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Speaker 4: You're having I did, I am, but I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm kind of off men right now. All that really

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Speaker 4: irritating me, Like everyone's like disappointing me.

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Speaker 3: There's always females on Tinder, Like if you listen to

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Speaker 3: our last episode, the Whole Expectation episode.

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Speaker 4: I just think I need a break so that I

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Speaker 4: can just not have any expectations.

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Speaker 2: I don't have to deal with anyone, so therefore there

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Speaker 2: are no expectations. Well I told you. I told you that.

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Speaker 3: In the beginning of your like singlesm you like have

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Speaker 3: I will do a noil.

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Speaker 2: Down and you're like, yeah annoyed, Yeah you're I mean

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Speaker 3: Get the fuck out of you. So it I I

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Speaker 3: you know, it goes in waves. Don't think the momentum

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Speaker 2: It's not all always dandy.

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Speaker 4: I mean I feel alone most of the time because

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Speaker 4: even the people that I speak to, the person that

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Speaker 4: not like we're like on the phone like ever, like

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Speaker 4: when you first start dating, like in high school, I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm here for you. If you need to talk. There's

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Speaker 2: always me. I know, No, it's for sure, and I

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Speaker 2: actually prefer talking to women, yeah, because they have a

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I think I need a break. I'm just

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm irritable. I'm probably being too sensitive

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Speaker 2: But this guy, I mean, I could go have fun.

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Speaker 2: I know what this is.

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Speaker 4: This is very purely sexual, has nothing to do with

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Speaker 2: He we only text like once a month. You know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, surface, Yeah, he is fine though he is KOs

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Speaker 3: and he's a doctor. It's always nice to have sex

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Speaker 3: to worry about his dumb sperm getting on you getting contagious.

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Speaker 2: I made that up, but it sounded good. You know

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Speaker 2: that some dumb people have had very intelligent.

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Speaker 3: Children, who Yeah, I mean it happens, but usually dumb

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Speaker 2: Well, I think it kind of works.

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Speaker 4: Like you know how some like unattractive parents make really

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Speaker 4: like the dumb parent make an educated child because they

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Speaker 4: realize they grow up and they're like, damn, my parents

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Speaker 2: I need to work harder. That's true. That also happens.

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Speaker 3: I think that I was speaking of shallow relationships.

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Speaker 2: My little young boo.

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Speaker 3: We talk every day on the phone on FaceTime, and

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Speaker 3: it's getting a little more serious.

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Speaker 2: Well, you guys have been talking.

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Speaker 4: For a while, like a year, so it's about time,

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Speaker 4: if I mean, it's not like you have to.

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Speaker 3: Not not any I don't know where it's getting I

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Speaker 3: just made that. I'm just saying we're getting We talk

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Speaker 2: So you guys FaceTime.

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Speaker 4: Every time I see you, you're like, hey, you just

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Speaker 4: let you guys are I don't even know you're on FaceTime.

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Speaker 2: You guys are like silent. That is not true. I

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Speaker 3: Like, get the funk off the phone. It's annoying the

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Speaker 3: ship out of me. You're not even talking about anything.

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Speaker 3: You're breathing. So no, I was gonna say something about

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Speaker 2: That's getting more serious.

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Speaker 4: An my serious starting to feel more and warmly because

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Speaker 4: you're right, like I'm deeper into my singleness. I certainly

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Speaker 4: having these thoughts should like what if I just never

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Speaker 4: find my match? What if he's just really not out there?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I thought about that too. If I'm not

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Speaker 3: what if I'm not meant to be in a marriage

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Speaker 3: or like be like long term, not.

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Speaker 4: Even a marriage, Like what if I just never find

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Speaker 4: anyone that's gonna like I'm I human, you know what

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Speaker 2: Like I'm even worried about marriage.

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Speaker 4: Just someone that I'm compatible with that I really have

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Speaker 4: fucking fun with.

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Speaker 2: It just makes me happy. I think it when you

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Speaker 2: stop being.

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Speaker 4: That makes me happy. I have to be happy with myself.

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Speaker 4: But you know, like just you know, adds to my life.

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Speaker 4: I think it's impossible. We're too cool for that not

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Speaker 2: Where are you? Where are I think? Yeah, it doesn't exist.

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Speaker 2: We're way way too cood. I mean, don't come yet,

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Speaker 2: but like where are you? It's coming. I don't want

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Speaker 2: it to come yet, but I just I just don't

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Speaker 2: know that it is. And it is, like Prince Charming

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Speaker 2: does exist. But I think what they' all taken? Haven't

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Speaker 2: they all been swooped up? I know, no, they're coming

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Speaker 2: and maybe like they're getting divorced. Look at someone took them,

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Speaker 2: for granted, that could happen. Look at them. What's the

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Speaker 2: princess's name, Markle, Megan Markle, Megan Markle.

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Speaker 3: She's she's thirty, No, she's forty, she's thirty six, whatever,

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Speaker 3: and she's wants divorced. And sometimes it takes, you know,

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Speaker 2: I think I'm too much for people. For a man,

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Speaker 4: But I've been feeling more and more like I'm too much,

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Speaker 2: Women, you find it. Keep looking thing you should tell

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go in there, and all my ship's going

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Speaker 2: We're going live. I never did this before. It's pretty cool. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: We're technologically uh, technologically technologically challenged.

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Speaker 4: And yes, Prince Charming, I guess he'll come when he's

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Speaker 3: You know what.

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Speaker 2: I also noticed. This is my other thing, was I

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Like you, maybe you need to.

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Speaker 3: Write it down in your journal so you can focus

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Speaker 2: Are required? Intelligence? Yes, I like to be I want

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Speaker 2: Fun is very important. I can't I'm a lot of

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Speaker 4: That's how I fell in love with my last partner,

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Speaker 4: I like lips that if I'm gonna be shallow, like

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Speaker 2: Hello? Oh? Or a sin tongue? Have you ever messed

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Speaker 3: A thin tongue like a the pack is a thin,

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Speaker 4: I need to do average with an average because you

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Speaker 4: And then I took After I got off of it

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Speaker 2: Oh that's really sad. That's fucked up. Like what do

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Speaker 3: I think some guys though, okay, I have had butter

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Speaker 3: eat pussy, right, that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: Great great. You have to have to be great on

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Speaker 3: I think like a like a well rounded worldly guy

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go to a restaurant like, yeah, I need

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Speaker 3: I cannot fuck like I need you to be versatile

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Speaker 3: I want these guys from like Carolina, not to say

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Speaker 2: And I was like stupid and stupid never again, you known.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's cute if they just don't know, but like,

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Speaker 4: I mean, I gotta have some room to show you shit,

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Speaker 4: but I don't want to show you everything.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you gotta. And also you gotta show me

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Speaker 3: very irresponsible. I need help. I don't I have no

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Speaker 2: I was not a close.

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Speaker 4: I also want someone who wants to grow, because some.

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Speaker 2: People think they don't need to be, they don't need.

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Speaker 4: Any more growth, or they're just I don't know, it's

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Speaker 3: It's just just getting away for a second, to want

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Speaker 4: I haven't done that yet. I don't know what that's like,

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Speaker 2: I trust with my child, I feel safe.

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Speaker 4: With leaving them alone with you, and that you're going

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Speaker 4: to take They're gonna you're gonna love them like it's.

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Speaker 3: That is like number one, and if she has any

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Speaker 2: What else is important?

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Speaker 3: I want someone who likes to dance, because I like

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Speaker 2: Someone you need someone that can hold their own yeah,

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Speaker 4: Yeah. There's not a lot of requirements, like you gotta

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Speaker 4: I can't do the not the family situation anymore.

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Speaker 2: My family has to like you. I'm not I've done both.

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Speaker 4: And I although, like I understand, like you love who

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Speaker 4: But sure not just avoid the situation or just blame

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Speaker 3: And I go that goes with friends and family. If

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Speaker 3: and they're not leaving.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like that that's that's a sign that you

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Speaker 2: If you want to be mother, you gotta get with

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Speaker 2: Now here's the story from A to C. You want

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Speaker 3: You know, some bitches don't even know who like Spice

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Speaker 2: What people don't know who Lauren Hill. Lauren Hill is,

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Speaker 2: the spi scrolls are, guddam it.

442
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:03,439
Speaker 4: And our parents were playing music before our time, so

443
00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:04,280
Speaker 4: we know that shit too.

444
00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, you know, like.

445
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:07,159
Speaker 3: I know, you gotta know, you gotta know who all

446
00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:10,960
Speaker 3: those people are, or else you get cut and.

447
00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:12,399
Speaker 4: Then trying to think of there's I know there's another

448
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:13,800
Speaker 4: big one.

449
00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,960
Speaker 3: I always this is gonna sound bad, but hygiene hid Yeah,

450
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,639
Speaker 3: that's not even that's that's not even like a question.

451
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,320
Speaker 4: Like if you're a guy, you're listening to this and

452
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:23,879
Speaker 4: you look at your hands right now, and you've got

453
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:25,200
Speaker 4: long fingernails.

454
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,679
Speaker 2: Or dirt underneath your long fingernails.

455
00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:29,800
Speaker 4: Now, literally, I see no way that finger is coming

456
00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 4: near me or in me.

457
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:34,320
Speaker 3: Or my vagina. No, that's an infection. Ready, it happens,

458
00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:37,640
Speaker 3: I not do long. Literally, look at them right now,

459
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:41,080
Speaker 3: if they're long like this and they're dirty. No, just

460
00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:43,280
Speaker 3: long or dirty both A and B combo.

461
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,760
Speaker 2: No, I don't like that. That's not Are you a pimp?

462
00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:48,560
Speaker 2: What's going on? God, I don't get me started on

463
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:50,679
Speaker 2: that he's a pimp.

464
00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:54,159
Speaker 4: No, but I know there's a guy with the pimp

465
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,480
Speaker 4: finger and I try to cut it when he was sleeping.

466
00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,160
Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna call you out, like what the fuck

467
00:20:59,200 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 2: is that finger for?

468
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 3: No. Also, I don't think I'm not saying because I

469
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,439
Speaker 3: don't know my future, but I don't think that I

470
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 3: could date someone really religious. Actually I really I have

471
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,399
Speaker 3: a relationship with the guy that I really love and

472
00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,199
Speaker 3: I've loved him for years, like the only guy that

473
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 3: actually makes me nervous.

474
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:29,400
Speaker 2: And is so fine and like you time out who no, no, oh,

475
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:30,040
Speaker 2: but he's.

476
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 3: Like super Muslim, and I'm like, so I'm not gonna

477
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:36,399
Speaker 3: be able to celebrate my birthday and most importantly Halloween.

478
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 2: I was like, oh no, but he's really like yeah, yeah,

479
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 2: he's just coming home from presence.

480
00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 3: I'm hoping and like, you know, lightens up because I

481
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,320
Speaker 3: was like, I'm willing to have a second wife like

482
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 3: me and my like my fake cousin.

483
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:54,520
Speaker 2: We agreed. Are you on here? My sister wife, cousin's

484
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 2: best friend, and.

485
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 3: We agreed, and but like that we're both like, but

486
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,680
Speaker 3: we're not going to be religious. So I don't know

487
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 3: if I could eat someone who's like it doesn't accept

488
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 3: me as I am.

489
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 2: Because I'm like a spiritual being.

490
00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 3: So I don't know if I could like commit to

491
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 3: going to the whatever they call that Muslim h the

492
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 3: mosque or the church or the temple.

493
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:14,720
Speaker 2: I'm spiritual. I can go to temple.

494
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 3: There's like a you know, like an all spiritual temple,

495
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 3: but you got to be accepting into like.

496
00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 4: My I'm open to learning about other people's religions as

497
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:27,159
Speaker 4: long as I don't want you to or my child.

498
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:32,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's that's that's fair. I think that's fair.

499
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,919
Speaker 2: I'm making it. I made a cocktail. It's why are

500
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 2: you drinking? Oh? Because my phone my cocktail is holding

501
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 2: the phone up. But which one is that? You want

502
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 2: to go live?

503
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 3: Or you want me to drink your drink? You know

504
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:43,919
Speaker 3: you didn't even want this drink. She's like, oh, no,

505
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 3: I don't want a cocktail.

506
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 2: And it's like, why'd you make it? Because I was

507
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 2: gonna drink it anyway, and she already had another one.

508
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 3: It's orange blossom peach with orange juice. And this shit

509
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 3: is delicious.

510
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 2: It's by Kettle one and what is it good? You

511
00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 2: keep drinking it? Anyway?

512
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,360
Speaker 4: Those are my requirements. I'm sure there's more I'm missing. Oh,

513
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 4: you have to be tall if we're gonna do the

514
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 4: shallow part.

515
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,399
Speaker 2: Tall. Well, I'm like five months, so you absolutely have

516
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 2: to be tall.

517
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,439
Speaker 4: Taller than me so I'm five to six, so you

518
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 4: have to be at least five eleven.

519
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 2: Oh damn it. Yeah, got some some almond butter on

520
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 2: the boob, very sexy.

521
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 4: Gotta be tall, gotta be gotta have semi straight teeth, assertive,

522
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 4: clean teeth, can take control because I'm I will if.

523
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 3: I can like take advantage of you and bossy around.

524
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 3: I will, and I don't.

525
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 2: I will cheat on you.

526
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 5: And I want you to be able to like bitch,

527
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 5: sit the fuck down on the Yeah. I need a

528
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 5: man who take control but also let me be in control.

529
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 5: I need I need both. I don't like a man

530
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 5: that's always like, this is the man's job. I'm like,

531
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,400
Speaker 5: what year you're not getting too?

532
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,119
Speaker 4: No, it has to be balance, has to be balanced,

533
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:56,159
Speaker 4: and who supports me?

534
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 2: Who is gonna listen to my podcast?

535
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 4: Like, actually genuinely so reports what I'm doing because I'm

536
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,719
Speaker 4: gonna because I genuinely always support the partners that I'm with.

537
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 4: I want to know what you're doing. I want to

538
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,360
Speaker 4: ask you what you're doing. That's another one. I need

539
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,240
Speaker 4: my partner to ask me how I'm fucking doing.

540
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 2: Feeling, how are you feeling? How feeling? How is your heart?

541
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 2: How is your soul?

542
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 4: Are you you know you were you didn't feel so

543
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 4: good a few days ago? How are you feeling about

544
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:19,160
Speaker 4: that situation?

545
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 2: Now? Did you resolve it?

546
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 3: Oh?

547
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 2: That's great?

548
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 4: How did you resolve it? Like take my chest in

549
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 4: my life and my heart. It's just like I do that.

550
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 2: You would think a nigga would like it. It's easy

551
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 2: least also hustle.

552
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 3: You got to have some hustle, Like I don't want

553
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 3: to be hustling, and you're like lazy and like I

554
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 3: was a relationship and the nigga was always blaming me.

555
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,400
Speaker 2: Like, well you didn't help me do this. I'm like, like

556
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 2: I ain't just secretary, Like I can help you do

557
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 2: some things. I'm a good writer. There's certain things I

558
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 2: can put together.

559
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 3: But if I don't see you making an effort, please

560
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 3: don't come to me and with the list of shit

561
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 3: that needs to be done, because you need I want

562
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 3: to be like motivated by your your motivation and your hustle,

563
00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 3: and I want to be like, damn, this thing is

564
00:24:59,080 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 3: getting money.

565
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 2: I want to get money too, Like I want to

566
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 2: get money together.

567
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 3: I want to save money. Let's go travel the world

568
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 3: next year. Like that is like to me, inspires me

569
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 3: and keeps me motivated and driven. But being a relationship

570
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 3: with a lazy motherfucker. Yeah, no, no, anyway, So anyone

571
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 3: meet that list or what I'm about to make a

572
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,479
Speaker 3: fucking what's it called one of those boards a visual board, Oh,

573
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 3: vision board.

574
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 2: We should do that. I'm gonna put Michael B.

575
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 4: Jordan on there all that I'm a little over him,

576
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:31,679
Speaker 4: so we not have to switch over to chad We

577
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 4: should have never been all the Chadwick's outfit at MTV

578
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 4: Movie Awards whatever.

579
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 2: He could do no wrong.

580
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 3: But you know what, I feel like, it's crazy. I

581
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 3: feel like he's crazy because it's too good of an actor.

582
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 2: Little style, a little style. Just I'll work on it.

583
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: I'll take that that out. It wasn't that. She's such

584
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 2: a genius. Okay, you know who I want? So if

585
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 2: anybody knows him.

586
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 3: Joanna, I really like Gingers and jo Jenna is such

587
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 3: a classic man.

588
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 2: That's a possible.

589
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 4: You know.

590
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 3: He has like a harem of women, That's what I

591
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,679
Speaker 3: keep hearing. But like we're the harem? How many are

592
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 3: we talking? And can I be number one?

593
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 2: You haven't met me yet? So I'm the bottom bitch?

594
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 2: You mean the top bitch? No, in pimptology it's called

595
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 2: the bottom bitch is the top pitch. You don't know.

596
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 3: You don't watch pimped snoop doggs like pimp one on

597
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:18,639
Speaker 3: one or whatever.

598
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 2: The bottom bitch is the top bitch. It's reverse, got it? Okay?

599
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 2: So you learn? You guys know that you learn something

600
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 2: you every day, So you should just date you because

601
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 2: you're teaching me aroun now mm hm you know A

602
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 2: three times people ask me like, do you and Erica

603
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 2: mess around? Really?

604
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 3: Because I think because we're both girls, and I mean

605
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 3: because we're both pretty and we like girls. They ask

606
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 3: me about all my friends and they think like girls

607
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 3: because guys have penises and that's.

608
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 2: How they think. I'm like, you'll never know.

609
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 3: And for your information, all girls that like girls don't

610
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 3: all funk all the time. Sometimes they do and then

611
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 3: they go the mom the next day, and sometimes they don't,

612
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 3: but you'll never know.

613
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 2: So should we go in to our today's topic? Yeah,

614
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 2: I'm making a mess over here. Should we end the live?

615
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 2: So since we're going into the topic, yeah, well hold on,

616
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 2: let me just make sure this still recording. Okay, So

617
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 2: this was our first live. I'm glad you guys joined us.

618
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 2: Thanks a bunch. Oh this is gonna like confusing me.

619
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:28,120
Speaker 3: No, well we'll cut this and then okay, and so

620
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 3: you got to tune in next week.

621
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 2: Do we get any decent questions?

622
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 4: Oh?

623
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 2: My god, y'all funny? Oh thinks we were just talking.

624
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 2: No one's asking us any question. Oh we have six

625
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 2: people looking. You don't know. They don't know, Dusty shot.

626
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 2: Hell no they don't. Damn shame.

627
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, anyway, we love you guys, and tune into our.

628
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 2: Next episode on Wednesday at six pm. Bye, how do you?

629
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 2: How do you end it? Oh? Okay, great? Twenty five

630
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 2: years Okay, I'm gonna work on this. Okay, let's start,

631
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,959
Speaker 2: good start, good start. Damn I heard to save it.

632
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:01,879
Speaker 2: We don't even save it.

633
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 4: It's saved, Okay, I think anyway, So when is a topic?

634
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 2: Are we going to do the Danielle topic?

635
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

636
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 3: Okay, So today we're talking about interracial dating because apparently

637
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 3: my friends have informed me that they think that I'm

638
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 3: fifty percent racist and also Eric as a productive of

639
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 3: biracial I mean, she's biracial, so she's a product of

640
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 3: an interracial relationship. And we want to explore that topic.

641
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 3: And I want all of our non black followers to

642
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:34,400
Speaker 3: know that.

643
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 2: I am not fifty percent racist and she is. Now.

644
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 3: I want you guys to understand my my my perspective,

645
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 3: and even I want to admit that sometimes I say

646
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 3: things that are not that educated and aren't well thought

647
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 3: through because probably I am a bitter bitch because of

648
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 3: things that have happened and my experience as a black

649
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 3: woman in LA and in America period. So my comments

650
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 3: can come off harsh and aggressive, but it's not from

651
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 3: like a hateful place.

652
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 2: So it's because Erica told me that she thinks I'm

653
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 2: a racist. I did not say you're racist.

654
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 3: She especially thinks I'm biased towards non black women dating

655
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 3: black eyes and black women dating non black men. Yeah,

656
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 3: Like I'm okay with the black women dating non black men,

657
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 3: but when it comes to the men dating the women

658
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 3: that I have an attitude which is not true.

659
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 2: Love is love.

660
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 4: I think black women want to possess black men. I

661
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 4: think that black men have because they were taken from us.

662
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 3: I think black men have so poorly protected and appreciated

663
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 3: Black women.

664
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 2: That true, it's it's a thing. And because it's a thing, I.

665
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 3: Have to talk about it because I've been told like

666
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 3: one million times I don't date black women by black

667
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 3: men who are have black mothers. And I've even been

668
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 3: told like you're pretty for black girl, or like I

669
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 3: don't date black women, but you I would date, okay,

670
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 3: Like all ignorant statements and probably somewhere deep down buried,

671
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 3: they've infuriated me ununderstandably.

672
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,479
Speaker 4: And it's and I've heard that from dark skinned men too,

673
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 4: because I'm a light skinned black woman, and dark skinned

674
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 4: men feel safe saying that to.

675
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 2: Me, or black men period. They they they they.

676
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 4: Feel safe saying I say dark skin, because there's black

677
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 4: men that are fully black, but they're not maybe fully

678
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 4: they're not dark skinned.

679
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 3: But I'm saying I've heard from dark skinned men. I

680
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 3: don't date black women period, oh period at all, not

681
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 3: even light skinned women. Yeah, I mean or or or

682
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 3: like this is my other pet peeve. I prefer like

683
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 3: an exotic chick, like a mixed chick. Okay, let let's

684
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 3: just be clear. Webster defines exotics, usually describing a fruit

685
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 3: or a flower, and where none of us are really

686
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 3: like unless you're like Native American, we're all exotic cause

687
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 3: we all came from somewhere else. So it's a poor description,

688
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 3: and I think it's a poor excuse, and I think

689
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 3: the problem that really really irritates me. The root of

690
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 3: the problem is that a lot of pet men that

691
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,479
Speaker 3: say that is because they they suffer from self hate,

692
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 3: and black people in general suffer from self hate because

693
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 3: there's this thing called slavery.

694
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: And it happened and there's been a.

695
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 3: Really negative racist rhetoric ever since, and as a result,

696
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,479
Speaker 3: we do have some insecurities and some issues amongst our

697
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 3: own selves and appreciation for ourselves. And that is what

698
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 3: I despise. I don't despise people who have preferences. I

699
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 3: mean I don't have preferences. I like people, So I

700
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 3: think it's annoying when a black man says I don't

701
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 3: date black women when your mom is black, your honor

702
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 3: is black, your sister's black, and how disrespectful and self

703
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 3: hating that sounds really irritates me.

704
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 4: I totally agree, and I've definitely experienced black men feeling

705
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 4: comfortable telling me they don't like they don't date black women.

706
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 2: But then it's like, hey, I am black. But then,

707
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 2: at least in my experience, it was not true.

708
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 3: He was lying, Oh girl, this is personal and that's fine,

709
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 3: and that's fine, but just don't say that.

710
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, You don't have to say that. Okay,

711
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 2: let me ask. That doesn't make it did feel more selectial?

712
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 2: Didn't make me feel special?

713
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 4: And no, it didn't, And it made me kind of

714
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 4: look feel annoyed because I've always.

715
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 2: Kind Did you ever say that's kind of igorant? I

716
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 2: don't say that.

717
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 4: I said, I said why, I don't understand, and he

718
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 4: was like, I just my dream girl was always you know,

719
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 4: a light skinned girl would currently here.

720
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 2: Okay, so I was always your dream girl? You just

721
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 2: drum did? I really didn't feel I know that a

722
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 2: lot of women would feel.

723
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 4: Some sort of yes, baby, tell tell tell a little

724
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 4: to kiss it.

725
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 2: Let me see and you know what, let me close that. Please,

726
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 2: let me also say this.

727
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 3: I get in my dude like not gonna do, but

728
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 3: like my youngins ask because he's Haitian and Haitians Islanders

729
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 3: are really colorist. So it's not just like black eyes

730
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 3: talking shit about not getting black women. I also really

731
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 3: hate amongst anyone, even my girlfriends left friend.

732
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, that light skin, the light skin, that

733
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 2: dark skin. Oh she's dark skinned. I fucking hate it.

734
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 2: It's all skin. First of all, we're all black, okay,

735
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 2: So I think.

736
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 3: It's really rare we have to we find it necessary

737
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 3: to classify the shade we're in because at the end

738
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 3: of the day, if we go get a job, or

739
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 3: if there's someone who approaches us in a cop car

740
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 3: and there happen to be racist, we all going down.

741
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 2: So I don't like the hierarchy of light skinned dark skin.

742
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 2: And maybe because I'm brown skin, maybe because I've experienced.

743
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 3: It or whatever, but I as black people, I think

744
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 3: we just lack a lot of unity and that mix

745
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 3: that makes.

746
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 2: Separate separate, you know, like it makes us separate, and

747
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 2: I hate it.

748
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 3: I think it's ignorant, and it makes me think that

749
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,959
Speaker 3: you lack intelligence and you lack self love, and it

750
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 3: really irritates the fuck out of me. So it's not

751
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 3: just like black white, it's even a monkst within the

752
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 3: it's more like within the community thing.

753
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 4: I mean, colorism is a huge issue within the black community.

754
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 4: It's a huge issue in.

755
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 3: A lot of different Filipino communities, Asian community, Chinese, yeah,

756
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 3: or like, you know, I don't not like black women,

757
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 3: but I just want my baby to be mixed with

758
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 3: good hair.

759
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 2: And what the fuck is good hair?

760
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 3: The kind that comes out of your scalpe as good

761
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 3: as long as it's coming out with the scout's oiled

762
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 3: and it's you know, it's more stroyed. But yeah, I mean,

763
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 3: I'm just super pro black and I think that we

764
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:09,919
Speaker 3: lack that.

765
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 2: And okay, oh here's my other thing. You could date

766
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 2: hard you want to date. However, black people have.

767
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 3: A different experience in the world, not just in America,

768
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 3: So you have to be aligned and understanding of that

769
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 3: to be able to relate to me and to a

770
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 3: black man in reality. And I've seen a lot of

771
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 3: my friends date white women who are ignorant, don't take

772
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 3: the time to understand, don't care to understand.

773
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 2: Say nigga the white women. Yes, I know it's.

774
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 3: One chick in particular, Nigga, niga, nigga, nigga and not

775
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 3: in a I say nigga a lot, and I'm working

776
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 3: on it, even though I know you guys can't tell.

777
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 2: But sometimes I say Nigga's like, it's not a black thing.

778
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 3: It's like, Niggas could be men, Niggas could be ignorant people.

779
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 3: Niggas can be a lot of Can my niggas my

780
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 3: niggas right? You could have to understand nigga.

781
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 2: Have you guys seen that thing with the teacher, he's

782
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 2: like my nigga.

783
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 3: Okay, anyway, emphasis on the aaah okay. But I.

784
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 2: Like, you know, like my nigga, canot can I brought

785
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 2: white teacher? Can I brought a pencil my nigga. I

786
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 2: wasn't mad at him. I was like he was using

787
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 2: it correctly. It wasn't out of contact. Please you guys

788
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:25,320
Speaker 2: look up that fucking YouTube. It's hilarious.

789
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 3: This teacher got fired for referring to to he probably

790
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 3: had a majority black class. He referred to the student

791
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 3: as my nigga and they tried to like put him

792
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 3: on blast. He was like, why, I mean, all the

793
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 3: students use it. I'm an English teacher. I put an

794
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 3: emphasis on the aaa h you know, you know, like hey.

795
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 2: Can I can I can I borrow a pencil my nigga?

796
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,720
Speaker 2: Like my nigga? Can I borrow up pencils my nigga?

797
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 2: So it was kind of funny.

798
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 3: It was very accurate in his scripture description. But this

799
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 3: girl that I know is a hunt and she has

800
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 3: two sons with two separate black men and a she

801
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 3: keeps you from to them as mixed voice. Okay, this

802
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 3: is my other fucking pet, Peeve, don't be mad if

803
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 3: this is you. I hate when people like hashtag like

804
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 3: mixed babies black white baby, Puerto Rican wan their Puerto Rican, Jamaican, Irish,

805
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:16,800
Speaker 3: German baby, like it's a fucking baby.

806
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 6: The babies are pretty all the baby like good hair baby,

807
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 6: Like no, it's just a baby, Like there's no I understand,

808
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 6: Like I don't understand because I'm not like as obviously,

809
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 6: first of all, we're all mixed as Americans, and like

810
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:33,319
Speaker 6: I don't understand, like maybe I can't relate to it,

811
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 6: but I guess I understand now more with my friends

812
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 6: saying like they didn't feel like they fit in with

813
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 6: this crew or that crew because there was like a

814
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:41,280
Speaker 6: pool of difference.

815
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 2: So I understand wanting to have pride in whatever you are.

816
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 3: I think I get irritated because as a black person,

817
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 3: like until like ancestry dot com, I hate when I

818
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 3: had that project in school and they're like, tell us

819
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 3: something about your culture and how you're brought up having

820
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 3: I don't fucking know, bitch, because it's called slavery. Okay,

821
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 3: we ain't got no music, the religion was stolen, the

822
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 3: food is now whatever. The slave food was soul food.

823
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 3: And every year the same project. I had to do

824
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 3: black eyed peas and grains for New Year's Eve.

825
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 2: Okay, good luck, but black eyed peas were good luck.

826
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 2: Greens meant money. But that's not a cultural thing because

827
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 2: we don't have that. So I just it started. It

828
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 2: irritated me.

829
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 3: But back to like the women who are unaware and

830
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 3: then have black kids.

831
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 2: They can't comb the kids hair. They're teaching them that they're.

832
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 3: Mixed kids, and then they're going to go up to

833
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 3: school and someone's going to say something racist to them

834
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 3: because it's ever not going to be ready. They're not

835
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 3: going to be ready because they weren't prepared because they

836
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 3: didn't even know they were black. They thought they were mixed,

837
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 3: which is a problem. And I think if you want

838
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 3: to date outside of your race, if I dated a

839
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 3: Jewish guy, I would make it my priority to understand

840
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 3: the Jewish community, the religion or whatever. Go to Israel,

841
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 3: Like if I dated the Russian guys, same thing, whatever

842
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 3: it is. Like when if you choose to have kids

843
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 3: with someone, it's your responsibility to understand that culture to

844
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 3: prepare your kid appropriately. And it's a special case when

845
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,240
Speaker 3: it comes to black people because we've lacked that history

846
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 3: in a lot of ways, and there's a lot of

847
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 3: blatant racism that happens to brown and black people. So

848
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 3: just be smart, don't date anybody ignorant, period.

849
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 2: No, I totally agree.

850
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 4: I think I mean me as a product of a

851
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 4: Mexican Irish, Mexican Irish some other shit.

852
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 2: Mother and a black father.

853
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 4: For me, my experience was I was always trying to

854
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 4: show prove my blackness because of colorism, and a lot

855
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:37,879
Speaker 4: of times, you know, dark skinned women, men boys not women.

856
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 4: There are children would be like you're not black, you're

857
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 4: not black, and I felt like a black person and

858
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 4: I had those I had. I had Anyways, I had

859
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 4: experiences as a black person, maybe not as many as

860
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 4: maybe you had, because I'm not gonna deny the fact

861
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 4: that lights women do not have the same experience as

862
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:59,800
Speaker 4: dark skinned women one hundred percent. You've definitely probably experienced

863
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 4: more racism or blatant racism than I have.

864
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 2: But I will say that it is.

865
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 4: I think it's really important because I do identify as

866
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 4: a black woman, but I also identify as a Latina,

867
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 4: and I don't want to have to choose.

868
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you shouldn't have, you know, but.

869
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 4: People in both communities make you feel like you have to,

870
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 4: you know. And it's like, No, I speak fluent Spanish,

871
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:35,280
Speaker 4: I fucking celebrate My grandma is Mexican. We celebrate Mexican holidays,

872
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 4: we do those type of things. We are proud of

873
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 4: our Mexican culture. And then on black side, you know,

874
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 4: we were as black as we're African American, you know

875
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 4: what I mean. We don't celebrate African holidays, but you know,

876
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 4: because we don't know any because we don't know any No,

877
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 4: that's not an African, that's an American African American holiday because

878
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 4: we don't know because we it was stolen. But I

879
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 4: will say that if you are a white woman or

880
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 4: whatever other other than black, or even if you're a

881
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 4: white woman dating a Latino man, I do think it's

882
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 4: your responsibility to educate yourself and educate your child, because

883
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 4: especially your child is going to encounter something and they're

884
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 4: not going to be prepared and they're gonna be crushed

885
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 4: and they're not going to understand why this is happening

886
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:22,959
Speaker 4: because mommy or daddy did not prepare.

887
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 2: Me for this, and then that is the problem. One

888
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 2: hundred percent.

889
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 4: I think it's easy to if they want to ignore it,

890
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 4: they want to pass through that, they want to athlete.

891
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 3: It's like everybody's gonna be mixed in twenty twenty three,

892
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 3: and my baby's so cute.

893
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 2: Because this mixed.

894
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 4: And I've even heard people like I've heard people say like,

895
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 4: I don't want to name my child a black name

896
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 4: because when they when like when they get that resume,

897
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 4: like when they go in for a job.

898
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 2: I mean, it's true.

899
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 3: My aunt named her kids Jillian and Ashley, and I

900
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 3: was like, you couldn't get any more original than that.

901
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 3: But also my name is Jimila, and everyone's like, oh,

902
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 3: that's so ghetto. I'm like, actually, it's fucking super Middle Eastern.

903
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 3: Jimmila is Arabic as fuck.

904
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 2: But I mean it is sad.

905
00:40:57,960 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 4: We live in a world now where like if you

906
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 4: saw if someone saw Jamila on a work resume and

907
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 4: then they saw Alison, they're gonna take Alison.

908
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 3: I mean might take Alison like a Muslim because it's

909
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 3: a Muslim name. But as they see my face, they're like, oh,

910
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 3: it's got out, you know it is. There's all these

911
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 3: stupid things that that's why for a long time I

912
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:18,240
Speaker 3: put Jamie and I never put Jamie on fucking resume

913
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 3: in America.

914
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 2: Who the fuck is James?

915
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 4: If I saw Jamila, I'm thinking Jamila. Look, I'm just

916
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 4: calling you what you call yourself Jamila? This bitch has

917
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 4: been calling herself Jamilla. And I'm like, do you know why?

918
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 4: And I was like, is your name I've been calling

919
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 4: you Jamila? Am I saying your name wrong? You're like, no,

920
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:37,240
Speaker 4: it's Jamila. Why do you call yourself Jamilla? It's potato patata.

921
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 2: Because I went to all white schools, all the schools

922
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:39,879
Speaker 2: I went to, I was one.

923
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:43,840
Speaker 3: Of three black people, and apparently Jamila is way harder

924
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 3: than Jamila.

925
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 2: So I was just like whatever, fuck it.

926
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 3: But also someone had to tell me, like, no, make

927
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 3: people pronounce your name like you correct them. But I'm

928
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 3: so used to it, and I'm like whatever, because these

929
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 3: people call me Milla, Mila, jam whatever.

930
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 4: Put in America if you're not, which most Americans are

931
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 4: very when it comes to race, and we're just now

932
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 4: starting to like have an open conversation and dialogue about it.

933
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 4: I wouldn't think you were Middle Eastern. I think, oh,

934
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 4: it's black girl.

935
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 3: Oh like a looking at a paper, Well that's yeah,

936
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 3: I'm saying. If you're familiar, like familiar with a, it's

937
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 3: also an it's alat of shit.

938
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 2: But yeah, you probably think I was fat.

939
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 3: Also, like people, I just hate stereotype, just period, even

940
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 3: though a lot of them can derive from the truth.

941
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 3: People like even my family's from Phillious when I grew

942
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 3: up there. We'll go home. Like you talk so white,

943
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, you talk green? What the fuck does that mean?

944
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 3: I talk proper English?

945
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 2: Bitch. That's also annoying, or like, I don't know, people

946
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 2: are just stupid.

947
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 4: I think the conversation about you being fifty percent racist,

948
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 4: and you know, you know, I have to say, like

949
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 4: when I see a black man, an attractive black man

950
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 4: that maybe I want or I want to know what

951
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 4: that's like. And I see him with a white woman,

952
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 4: that that that trigger of like what society has taught

953
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 4: black woman is that?

954
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 2: Ah, that ain't right. That's our man, that's ours you're

955
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 2: trying to take. No, I'm like, you can have them. No,

956
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 2: I don't think that.

957
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 4: I think in my head I judge forred percent, even

958
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 4: though I know that's not right.

959
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like sometimes I'm like, oh, when I say, when

960
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 3: I see a black guy, this is terrible.

961
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 2: Who dates? Okay?

962
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 3: If I have a friend who like primarily I always

963
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 3: see him with a non black women, in my mind,

964
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 3: like you just you don't fuck with.

965
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 2: Your own kind.

966
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 3: And I think that like you have self healthy issues,

967
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 3: and that's not always the case. And I've been in

968
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 3: conversations with black men and they have to like step

969
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 3: to me and tell me, like, I'm totally aware. I

970
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 3: totally like sisters, and it's just this is the person

971
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 3: I'm in love with and I respect that. And sometimes

972
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 3: I'm wrong, and probably because I've been told so often

973
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 3: by black men, I prefer this over you that I've

974
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 3: been low key traumatized, especially in LA. This is an

975
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 3: LA thing, like we're just coming in, We're just getting in,

976
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 3: like we're not in. You know, when I go to

977
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,280
Speaker 3: the club with my non black friends, the black guys

978
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 3: will tap push me aside to get to my white friend.

979
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 3: They'll be like two white guys in the club and

980
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,760
Speaker 3: they will come and find my ass. Okay, white guys

981
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 3: love me. I don't know if it's because like my

982
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 3: body type, but they I could be under a rock

983
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:07,720
Speaker 3: and they will fucking sniff me out.

984
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 4: Because when I was looking at Jamila's tender and her DMS,

985
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:14,919
Speaker 4: it was like ninety eight percent white.

986
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 2: I was like and old, like they all like they

987
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 2: have been like over forty five.

988
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 4: And this is why this conversation started because I was like, wait, bitch,

989
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 4: you are only swiping right white men and you're no,

990
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 4: but then you are getting mad at black men for

991
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 4: dating white women. Now, was like, no, these are just

992
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 4: who swipes me, and they do. But you guys have

993
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 4: swiped them too well. I know that I know they

994
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 4: swipe me. I knew if I wanted to get imagine

995
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 4: I had to swipe on their asses too.

996
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 2: I'm not. I mean, I've dated white guys. I'm white.

997
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 4: But now that you've explained your reasoning behind it, it makes sense.

998
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:50,799
Speaker 4: I don't think that they're just like that because those

999
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 4: are our men, No, you know what I mean.

1000
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 2: I just have come across a lot of stupid black eyes.

1001
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 3: And and unfortunately, and ah, my fault, I admit, like

1002
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 3: it's ignorant of me, but I do.

1003
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 2: I'll make assumptions.

1004
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 3: I make assumptions like you have some issues, like you

1005
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 3: you have a preference, and I okay, And this is

1006
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 3: me being one hundred percent honest, and it's hard for

1007
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 3: me to sometimes like be flawed publicly, but I'm obviously

1008
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,320
Speaker 3: like I have friends, so I'm like, oh, bits, you're scarred,

1009
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 3: you have like a black girl syndrome, You're hurt, and

1010
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 3: you know, and I think probably me too in some ways,

1011
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:28,280
Speaker 3: probably because I grew up in LA in the valley

1012
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 3: where there's not a lot of black people, and I've

1013
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 3: heard it so much. I kind of put a label

1014
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 3: on certain type of black eyes, like you kind of

1015
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,320
Speaker 3: you because I see a lot of black guys.

1016
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 2: The mediocre other women and be like, oh, my god,

1017
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: they're so bad. Oh she's so fine, she's so exotic.

1018
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, she's a six. Okay, let's be clear. It's

1019
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 2: not because you don't have to say, like, she got

1020
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 2: good hair, she's so beautiful. You know what annoys mean that.

1021
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 4: I don't know if one of our followers is this

1022
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 4: girl and she's gonna be mad. Sorry, girl, I'm sure

1023
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 4: you're a good person. Actually I have a friend, I

1024
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 4: have friends like you. But it's like when you have

1025
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 4: a Caucasian girl, or maybe not Caucasian, she's just not black,

1026
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 4: and she appropriates what she can, or she starts to

1027
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 4: change who she is to represent what she thinks a

1028
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 4: black woman would be, like like the big gold.

1029
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,280
Speaker 2: Hoops, Hey I have some in right now above.

1030
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 4: That, or talking a certain way or dressing a certain way,

1031
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,879
Speaker 4: or wanting to have bigger lips when you don't, or

1032
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 4: wanting to have a bigger ass when that's not the

1033
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 4: ass you were given, or or trying to just relate

1034
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 4: to an experience that you it's not related. And then

1035
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 4: the black eyes dating her, and I'm like, well you

1036
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 4: might as well just day a black girl, Like what

1037
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 4: is the purpose she wants to act like a black

1038
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 4: girl what she thinks a black woman acts like, because

1039
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,359
Speaker 4: let's be wrong, there's such a huge spectrum to what

1040
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 4: black women act like.

1041
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:00,320
Speaker 2: I say that in quotation.

1042
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,439
Speaker 3: Because I because that's what That's what bothered me about

1043
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 3: the Rachel Dilizzell thing.

1044
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 2: It's like, you're emulating what you say. I don't know.

1045
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 3: Maybe she had her past lives, was a black woman,

1046
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 3: I don't fucking know, but like you're emulating what you

1047
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 3: think a black woman is like. And it's not like

1048
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:13,880
Speaker 3: she was talking changing how she talked and stuff, but

1049
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 3: like the hair wraps and the weaves and shit, like

1050
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 3: not all black women want to wear hair wraps and

1051
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 3: weaves yea, and the name change whatever. But I have

1052
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 3: a friend who dates black guys. First of all, my

1053
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 3: very best friend. She's my sister of twenty five years.

1054
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:31,760
Speaker 3: I've never seen this bitch dated non black guye Okay,

1055
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 3: so I'm not biased all. But she's also not like

1056
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 3: a complete dumb ass. And she's also let me know,

1057
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 3: she's been around black men who feel comfortable like Erica

1058
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 3: to be like, I don't really fuck with black women

1059
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 3: because they allow their ignorant third this And she's like,

1060
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 3: you sound stupid because she's she's smarter. First over friends

1061
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 3: for twenty years, but she know, like she's smart enough

1062
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 3: to know the difference from like an ignorant black guy

1063
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 3: or someone who just validly is attracted to you and

1064
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 3: wants to be with you.

1065
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 2: But I've come.

1066
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 3: Across so many white women men who have this fucking

1067
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 3: ship on their shoulder because they've dated so many ignorant

1068
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 3: black guys who have pumped their head up to think

1069
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 3: in some way shape home and their superior and that

1070
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 3: you know, like I can come in and take your

1071
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 3: your dude, or I I know that he prefers me

1072
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 3: over you, or But I've also been around like really

1073
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 3: like black men who date white women, and I can

1074
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 3: visually see the woman get insecure because she's never.

1075
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 2: Fair one of those experiences, yeah, like oh she's coming

1076
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 2: over here.

1077
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 3: I mean, there's just so many fucked up boys if

1078
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 3: you go, oh, anyway back to my friend, she gets

1079
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:31,800
Speaker 3: drunk all the time and it's.

1080
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 2: Like, oh yeah, cause that nigga was like this, that nigga.

1081
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 3: These niggas, And I'm like, bitch, you don't have to

1082
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 3: say drop the N word every fucking five minutes to

1083
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:40,240
Speaker 3: prove your blackness or you're down.

1084
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 2: You don't have to wear hoops to the gym.

1085
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 4: You don't crazy to me that you've got that much

1086
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 4: that the ball, your balls are that big to say

1087
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 4: that in a group setting?

1088
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 2: Does she only say that? But that's how, But that's how.

1089
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 2: First of all, that's an LA thing.

1090
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 3: A lot of non black people say nigga and I

1091
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 3: have never heard, and she says it around people, and

1092
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 3: that's how I know. You've dated a lot of men

1093
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,880
Speaker 3: who gave you the green light, And that's how I

1094
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 3: know there's a lot of stupid ass men out here.

1095
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 3: We have a air quotes as fuck friend who I

1096
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 3: was with, I've done since I was fucking eleven. This

1097
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 3: we my friendly show him a picture of a chick.

1098
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 3: He's like, oh, not only date burnt black chicks. Keep

1099
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 3: in mind, this man is my complexion, maybe darker. And

1100
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 3: I was like, wow, you're so ignorant. You sound so silly.

1101
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 3: First first of all, you say shit like that, and

1102
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 3: the immediately I cut you off. In my head, I

1103
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 3: don't fuck with you. You're stupid.

1104
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 2: And that's a problem too.

1105
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 3: Maybe I should have talked to him, maybe shit, But

1106
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 3: he's so stupid. I can't because to me, it's like

1107
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 3: that is a de I hate my fuck himself, I

1108
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 3: hate my mom, I hate like And then what if

1109
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 3: you fuck around like and have a baby, for instance,

1110
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 3: Erica's ivy is a chocolate baby, and you know, then

1111
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 3: you've made all these comments of what kind of woman

1112
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 3: you want, you want, you've manifested, But what are you

1113
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 3: saying to the women that don't like the product of you.

1114
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:59,919
Speaker 2: Or your sperm when you're not this mixed looking shit.

1115
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 2: I just think it's ignorant to label beauty because.

1116
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:05,279
Speaker 4: Oh, you mean, like, oh, yeah, that's true, because yeah,

1117
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 4: he's not what his idea the woman beauty was.

1118
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,800
Speaker 3: But my whole thing in general is that you cannot

1119
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:12,760
Speaker 3: put a label on beauty.

1120
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 2: And that's why I like to say, I don't know

1121
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 2: I'm here. This is gonna sound bad.

1122
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,759
Speaker 3: A lot of guys have dated and have been like tall,

1123
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 3: white skin niggas with beards, because that's what I'm like,

1124
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 3: Oh okay, but.

1125
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 2: Also I like chocolate men, also like white men, buns

1126
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 2: and beards. I like a lot of different men.

1127
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:29,360
Speaker 3: But you'll never hear me say I only date this

1128
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,280
Speaker 3: type of person because I'm aware that beauty and attraction

1129
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 3: comes in all different shapes and sizes, and more so

1130
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 3: than none, it comes with personality.

1131
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 2: It comes with you know, Finanse, It comes with Jennet

1132
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:39,839
Speaker 2: Saint Qua.

1133
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 3: It comes with personality, It comes with education, and if

1134
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 3: you don't recognize that, then you're stupid.

1135
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 2: Agreed, I agree? I agree.

1136
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 3: I think. Oh, I'm gonna ask you a question. Because

1137
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:58,399
Speaker 3: you're a product of an interracial relationship. Have you ever

1138
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 3: seen your dad dated black women? And how has do

1139
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 3: you think that's affected you or not affected you either way.

1140
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 4: I've only seen my dad date one black woman in

1141
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 4: my life, and my parents broke up before I was born,

1142
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:19,399
Speaker 4: so that's thirty years. And my dad said the same

1143
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 4: things he has said.

1144
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 2: I will never forget to say.

1145
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 4: I don't date black women because they're loud, they like

1146
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:26,919
Speaker 4: to tell me what to do.

1147
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 2: They think they can put me in my place. I

1148
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 2: don't like that.

1149
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 4: And with white women, they let me do my thing,

1150
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,879
Speaker 4: you know, they let me do what I want to do.

1151
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 4: And and I've always been like, wow, dad, you're talking

1152
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 4: to your black daughter. But then again, my dad has

1153
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 4: shocked me about a lot of opinions.

1154
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 3: Well that's why I was wondering when he's very honest

1155
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 3: to say the least, but I don't think he also

1156
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:51,719
Speaker 3: acknowledges how that could have if it even affected you.

1157
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 3: But I don't even know if my dad thinks that

1158
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 3: deeply about that. Yeah, not that he's not capable of it.

1159
00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 3: I just don't think that he even it's not even

1160
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 3: on his race. Are Like the woman that he's been

1161
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 3: with now for a long time, probably fifteen years, twelve years,

1162
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 3: is white girl from Indiana, redhead.

1163
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:11,760
Speaker 2: She's super sweet.

1164
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 4: I love her, but yeah, that's that's and the woman

1165
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 4: that he steps out on her with or in the

1166
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 4: past have.

1167
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 2: Or he's exotic.

1168
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 3: Mixed, oh less less Middle America America.

1169
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 4: Although I'm sure that he's not really, but I'm sure,

1170
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:31,319
Speaker 4: I'm sure he's done.

1171
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 2: You know, he's my dad. My dad is who he is,

1172
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:35,760
Speaker 2: John is vagiint.

1173
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:43,319
Speaker 4: But yeah, And I think for me growing up, because

1174
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 4: I always had to like prove my blackness, I really

1175
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 4: And also I feel like I was a very mature

1176
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 4: looking teenager even in elementary, like I had ass I

1177
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 4: was this tall. I was always the tallest in my grade,

1178
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:00,479
Speaker 4: Like I was this height when I was like ten.

1179
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 2: Women grow fe like grows, so I.

1180
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 4: Was always the tallest in my grade, I mean in

1181
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 4: high school then everyone you know, surpassed me.

1182
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 2: So, you know, small white boys weren't checking for me.

1183
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 4: You know, my body type wasn't ideal for them, and

1184
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 4: therefore I always.

1185
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 2: Dated cause Kim Kid didn't come out yet.

1186
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 4: Therefore I dated mostly my black men, you know what

1187
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 4: I mean. That was appealing to me, and they were

1188
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 4: I appealed to them. And now I struggle with the

1189
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 4: idea of trying to d date outside my race, cause

1190
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 4: I do want to date outside my race. I'm try

1191
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:40,479
Speaker 4: I I'm interested in dating white men, any any race.

1192
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 3: Really Have you ever slept with the white man? I

1193
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 3: have a non black man brother, yes, what about a Latino?

1194
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 2: Yes? Okay, I had a lat A Dominican boyfriend, and

1195
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 2: Dominican doesn't necessarily Oh guess is that Latino? Yeah? Well,

1196
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:57,319
Speaker 2: like there's like black Dominicans because I don't know, we're

1197
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 2: so fucked up and non politically. They let girl.

1198
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 4: Okay, it's like the Caribbean though I know, I mean

1199
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 4: they're black too, but they're.

1200
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 2: Just like Cubans would identify as Latin. Okay. You know what.

1201
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:11,720
Speaker 2: That's another thing only in America is like black and white.

1202
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 4: However, Dominican Republic and Haiti are the same place, so

1203
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 4: technically they are African, but they identify as Latin. This

1204
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 4: isn't my other Afro Latina after Latina. This is my

1205
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 4: other issue.

1206
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:28,959
Speaker 3: People lack black Okay, this is okay, my problem with America.

1207
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 3: Black people have been so brainwashed okay with their history

1208
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 3: that I will never forget this. This man, this guy

1209
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 3: told me. I was younger, so my history wasn't so

1210
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 3: on point. But he was like, I'm not black, I'm no,

1211
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 3: I'm not from Africa, I'm Jamaican.

1212
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 2: Okay. This is what he told me.

1213
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:51,319
Speaker 3: That makes me something to everyone when slavery happened, first

1214
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 3: of all, black people everywhere. When slavery happened, the boats

1215
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 3: came over and they just dropped the slaves off on

1216
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:01,160
Speaker 3: the islands first, okay, and then they got to America

1217
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 3: and started dropping them off.

1218
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 2: Okay. So the African daspora is the.

1219
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:10,319
Speaker 3: Disperse of the African people from the continent of Africa.

1220
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:14,239
Speaker 3: But that comment ingrained in my head so deeply because

1221
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 3: I think my parents did a pretty good job of

1222
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,919
Speaker 3: educating me on my culture. First of all, my middle

1223
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,600
Speaker 3: name is Asada. I'm blamed after a black panther named

1224
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:22,360
Speaker 3: Asada Shakur.

1225
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 2: So I'm very much I'm trying to get her out

1226
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 2: of Cuba.

1227
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 3: Not only is a suckad Okay, it's been like she was.

1228
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 3: She escaped prison. She's like a bad ass. She's a

1229
00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:35,280
Speaker 3: badass black panthers. She fucking birthed in prison. She escaped,

1230
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 3: she would she has asylum, like you know, she in Cuba.

1231
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 3: She's a bad ass bitch. But she she did a

1232
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 3: lot for the civil rights movement and they still have

1233
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 3: a bounty in her head. I thought Obama was gonna

1234
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 3: take it off, but just fucking another story. She was

1235
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:52,839
Speaker 3: born as Joanne Chesimeier. Whatever is that that anyway, I

1236
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 3: remember that comment so vividly because it was like it

1237
00:55:57,000 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 3: was such a negative thing to be considered African. It

1238
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 3: was such a negative comment to be like, we're all

1239
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 3: from Africa. And it made me realize how that propaganda

1240
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:08,400
Speaker 3: around Africa.

1241
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 2: First of all, all of the fucking.

1242
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:12,800
Speaker 3: Images we've seen from Africa, like the starving, pot bellied

1243
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 3: children with flies on them. But if you go to

1244
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 3: first of I've never been, but like I have lots

1245
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:19,240
Speaker 3: of friends who traveled Africa, go to the motherland.

1246
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 2: And like people are rich.

1247
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 3: It's like rich ass continent, despite the fact that Europeans

1248
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 3: and others have fucking shripped it for its resources and

1249
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 3: try to take over. But the point is is that

1250
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 3: goes back to show how much our culture has been

1251
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 3: stripped of us and how fucking ignorant people are.

1252
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 2: And that's why there's so much.

1253
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 3: Colorism and all this other news and all this other stuff.

1254
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 3: What a life's night that she what she doesn't like it?

1255
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 2: No, well, tell her to get off of it. Then

1256
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 2: tell her a land.

1257
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:54,239
Speaker 3: Oh well, okay, all right, early lessons, who cares?

1258
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 4: I mean, okay, The same thing could be said about

1259
00:56:56,200 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 4: Big Mexican. I mean, growing up Mexican, I was like

1260
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 4: made to by other by by white people and by

1261
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 4: even other Latin people.

1262
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 2: Mexican was like.

1263
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 4: Looked down upon, right like, oh, you guys are like

1264
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 4: the migrant workers.

1265
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 2: You guys clean the toilets.

1266
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 4: You know, It's just like and that's that's because of ignorance.

1267
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 2: Ignorance, And I feel like I'm growing up in America.

1268
00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, America is a shit country. So we get we

1269
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 3: get like you know, certain, we get like a very

1270
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 3: watered down version of the history and the truth.

1271
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 2: It's so funny. I was, I was, you know that

1272
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 2: you told me to follow that guy's chakra bars. I

1273
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 2: can't even follow him. I have no idea. Wait, wait,

1274
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 2: I have a white friend. He's so pro.

1275
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 3: Black and he's so provagant. He's like, if you guys

1276
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 3: don't follow him, where the fuck are you living under?

1277
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 4: Rock?

1278
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:51,959
Speaker 3: My new white friend, she I commented on this page.

1279
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 3: She's like, oh my god, you follow him? I love

1280
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 3: you ten times more now.

1281
00:57:56,040 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 2: I was like, you do okay, I mean, okay whatever.

1282
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 4: I was following him the other day and he was

1283
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 4: doing a live, which, by the way, I didn't realize

1284
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 4: you can do a live and like do a live

1285
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 4: with someone else, Like it was like a split screen

1286
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 4: and he was like, I guess maybe one of his followers,

1287
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 4: one of his followers wanted to ask him questions.

1288
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 2: That's cool and wait they weren't in the same place though, no,

1289
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 2: but it was split screen. Yeah.

1290
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 4: She was talking to him and he was talking, okay,

1291
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 4: figure out step at a time, okay, sorry, and she

1292
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 4: was like she he said something like you're you are

1293
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 4: African and she was like, and this woman was black,

1294
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 4: she was young.

1295
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 2: Man, why would you even agree to do that?

1296
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 4: He was like, you were African because he took it

1297
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 4: as an opportunity to educate her, and maybe he didn't

1298
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 4: even know that he was about to educate her until

1299
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 4: this moment, but he was like, you are black, you're

1300
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:50,560
Speaker 4: African woman, and he was.

1301
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 2: She was like, no, I don't, I'm not African. I

1302
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 2: don't identify as African, and she was. He was like,

1303
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 2: where are you from. He's just like, I'm from London.

1304
00:58:58,000 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 2: He's like, no, you're not.

1305
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 4: And she was like, where are your roots? He's like,

1306
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 4: She's like, I'm Jamaican. You're African Jamaican. At my first

1307
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 4: he was like, he's like the people of Jamaica. The

1308
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 4: blacks are not native to Jamaica.

1309
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 3: This is the ship I'm talking about. People think Jamaicans

1310
00:59:16,240 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 3: are black. No, they're like native. They look native.

1311
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 4: And then go after that, actually because I knew that,

1312
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 4: but I wasn't sure, like I can't remember what they're

1313
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 4: called here.

1314
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,960
Speaker 2: Okay, hey, hey, no screaming, no touching each other.

1315
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 3: Only to give love, hugs and kisses, don't raisee her,

1316
00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 3: don't do it, stay sorry, to say sorry to each

1317
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:43,120
Speaker 3: other don't touch her, don't don't touch her.

1318
00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 2: Sleep. You say sorry, and Luna you say sorry.

1319
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 3: Okay, say sorry, Okay, say sorry, Luna say sorry.

1320
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 2: Luna, I say sorry. Give her hug. Give a hug.

1321
00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:56,080
Speaker 2: Both of you give hugs.

1322
00:59:56,720 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 3: Okay, So your best friends.

1323
01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 2: Don't tell you she was sorry.

1324
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, baby, I know, baby.

1325
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 2: Nine, it's not watch your finger. Oh Okay.

1326
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 3: Also one other thing I wanna say about the the

1327
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:21,600
Speaker 3: islander thing. Okay, See, there's an island. There's a small

1328
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 3: mass of land surrounded by water.

1329
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 2: Okay.

1330
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:29,959
Speaker 3: If you put ten black people on a small island

1331
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 3: surrounded by water, and maybe there's three Europeans, it's gonna

1332
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 3: be easier to preserve your culture and have more more

1333
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 3: connection with your language because there's a larger number of

1334
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 3: people and there's less diluted by.

1335
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 2: The American or European or French culture.

1336
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 3: Now, if you take ten black people and you put

1337
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 3: them in America where there's forty five white people, it's

1338
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 3: gonna be easier for that other culture to infiltrate the

1339
01:00:55,440 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 3: black culture. So yes, Jamaicans, Dominicans, Haitians who overturned the

1340
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:05,640
Speaker 3: government and actually got liberated way before African Americans, they

1341
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 3: have a stronger sense of it. It's a combination of cultures,

1342
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 3: but they have a stronger sense of like not voodoo,

1343
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 3: but yeah, they have a stronger sense of their their culture,

1344
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 3: their culture because it's easier tippers over culture on an

1345
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 3: island than it is a big, massive land that is

1346
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 3: diluting you and not letting you get educated and giving

1347
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 3: you the Bible with this blue eyed white Jesus. So,

1348
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 3: I mean, there's just like all these deep and then

1349
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 3: also think for America. For African American kids, the first

1350
01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 3: thing we hear introduced for we're introduced in history books

1351
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 3: with slavery. We don't learn about our kingdoms in Africa.

1352
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:46,920
Speaker 3: We don't learn about Keemen, we don't learn about the

1353
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 3: kings and queens and the riches that dwell there. We

1354
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 3: start our knowledge of ourselves as slaves.

1355
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 2: And that is a huge thing.

1356
01:01:57,480 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 3: How that negates, I mean not negates, or how that

1357
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 3: navigates how we feel about ourselves and what we know

1358
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 3: about our culture from the very jump. I think that's

1359
01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 3: like in first or second grade, when fucking February rolls around,

1360
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 3: it's like slavery, Martin Luther King, You're free the end,

1361
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:17,000
Speaker 3: smile bitch and be grateful you're here. We saved you.

1362
01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 3: You could admit in Africa swatting flies and being hungry,

1363
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:22,480
Speaker 3: and that's just so far from the truth.

1364
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 2: And unfortunately, like I had good parents that like I

1365
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:28,919
Speaker 2: knew better, but like, unfortunately, there's a lot of people

1366
01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 2: that don't know better.

1367
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:32,480
Speaker 3: And so I try to be more sympathetic and I

1368
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:33,800
Speaker 3: try to be like more.

1369
01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 2: Like I want to communicate it with with people more

1370
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 2: so they're more in the know.

1371
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:42,120
Speaker 4: But you know what, I wonder how white people feel

1372
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 4: about their people. They're very violent, no like how like

1373
01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:51,200
Speaker 4: no like, how like a white man would feel about

1374
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 4: a white woman saying I don't date white men, Like.

1375
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 2: Would they have this? Do they have the same reaction

1376
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 2: or they think it's funny. Well, I've heard.

1377
01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 3: From my black from my from my non block friends

1378
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 3: that only dig black guys, that when they do get

1379
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 3: around other guys that are white, they're like disgusted that

1380
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 3: they've dated black men, Like, ill you let a black

1381
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 3: guy be inside you. But I think that's also goes

1382
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 3: with stereotypes because I think the black guys have big

1383
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 3: dicks and they assume they have little ones, which is

1384
01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:16,800
Speaker 3: also false.

1385
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:18,160
Speaker 2: Not all black guys have big dicks.

1386
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:20,440
Speaker 3: I've seen a little dick on a black guy, and

1387
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 3: I've seen a black white guy would have been dick.

1388
01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 3: So you guys are stupid like that doesn't exist. But

1389
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:29,840
Speaker 3: there is this pre you know, like there's just the stereotypes.

1390
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 2: I guess, would you marry a white man? Could you

1391
01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 2: see yourself marry a white man? Yes? Okay, okay, I'm

1392
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 2: fifty to fifty.

1393
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:42,120
Speaker 3: I would like to say I'm open enough and if

1394
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 3: someone actually, I know, if someone came into my life

1395
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 3: and swapped me off my feet and I was attracted

1396
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 3: to him and loved me and he digged me down absolutely,

1397
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 3: but and was.

1398
01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 2: Open to letting you be who you are. Yeah, your opinions, Yes.

1399
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 3: And understood where I came from, and was you know,

1400
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 3: we could have real conversations, and I thought you weren't

1401
01:03:57,040 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 3: coming from an ignorant, like privileged white place.

1402
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 2: Absolutely. But what I was gonna say, Oh my god,

1403
01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 2: I didn't even smell me today. I don't know why

1404
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 2: I can't have add like a motherfucker and he goes

1405
01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 2: the doctor. There was something I was gonna say about

1406
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 2: this topic. Sorry, follow Sniffley, guys, I'm low key sick

1407
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 2: or allergic. I don't know what's happening.

1408
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:22,440
Speaker 3: I would oh, okay, so okay. Another thing growing up

1409
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 3: in the valley. This is what I was gonna say. Okay,

1410
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 3: two of my best friends, one Israeli, one is Russia.

1411
01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 2: She's feebly. Was so offended I said.

1412
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:32,720
Speaker 3: This my Israeli friend. I've nor since I'm five. Bitches

1413
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:34,640
Speaker 3: never dated a white guy. You would think her parents

1414
01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 3: would have got it by now, the entire time he

1415
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 3: grew up until adulthood.

1416
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 2: Bitch is thirty. It's a thing preserves the Jews. It's

1417
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:44,520
Speaker 2: not because they're black. It's because we want you to

1418
01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:48,360
Speaker 2: say Jewish. But she's not. She's not as real. The

1419
01:04:48,520 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 2: bitch has had a Christmas for your whole life. But

1420
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 2: but I'm just saying, like her mother is Dutch, Indonesian.

1421
01:04:55,920 --> 01:04:57,680
Speaker 2: But the mentality, this is what.

1422
01:04:57,800 --> 01:04:59,440
Speaker 3: This is where I used to have a different perspective,

1423
01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 3: even my Russian friend. Till this day, I know how

1424
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 3: to say Tony Bailey, which is black and white and Russian,

1425
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:07,280
Speaker 3: because I saw this bitch get beat over dating black

1426
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 3: guys in junior high, in high school, it was a

1427
01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:12,920
Speaker 3: thing amongst all of my friends because most of my

1428
01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 3: friends weren't black in high school. Their cultures were like,

1429
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:19,440
Speaker 3: it's not racist to say don't date black guys. It

1430
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 3: was just us saying this is our culture. This is

1431
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 3: how you're supposed to date and preserve the culture. And

1432
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 3: I thought it was racist, and it in some ways

1433
01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 3: it probably is. And they would be like, what, Papa,

1434
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:31,920
Speaker 3: what about Miles, my dad? Miles Black? Like it's different,

1435
01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 3: it's different.

1436
01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 2: You know, well it's different because you ain't Miles, right.

1437
01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 3: But now as an adult, I understand. I can understand

1438
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 3: wanting to preserve your culture. I can under like, if

1439
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:46,440
Speaker 3: we all mix, and how can we preserve on culture?

1440
01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 3: It's okay to be like to say, like have pride

1441
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 3: in Well that's the cult.

1442
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:51,840
Speaker 2: Culture is not a is not a color, and it's

1443
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:54,360
Speaker 2: not a race. I know. So you just have to

1444
01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 2: the way you preserve it is by.

1445
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 3: Knowing continue understanding it. I guess, I guess I can

1446
01:05:59,040 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 3: appreciate it.

1447
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:01,920
Speaker 2: I think it's deeper than culture. For them, is it is.

1448
01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:05,120
Speaker 4: It's not culture, it's not racist, it's not about racism.

1449
01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:08,919
Speaker 2: Well it is, but it's more so like just the bloodline. Yeah,

1450
01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:12,240
Speaker 2: it's bloodlines. The blood line. So I think now I can.

1451
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 3: So that's why, Like, Okay, I do hate hashtags like

1452
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 3: mixed baby, but I can't understand hashtags like black girl,

1453
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,960
Speaker 3: magic and black love because it's something that our culture

1454
01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:24,880
Speaker 3: or our as black people, we haven't been we haven't

1455
01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:26,440
Speaker 3: been promoted to preserve.

1456
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:27,720
Speaker 2: It hasn't been a thing.

1457
01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 4: I will say this that the reason why I think

1458
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 4: the mixed thing has been pushed so far is because

1459
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:35,960
Speaker 4: of colorism in the Black community, where mixed people haven't

1460
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 4: been accepted.

1461
01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:39,880
Speaker 2: So they've had to identify it and embrace that, which

1462
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 2: which is fair.

1463
01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 4: It's had to be like, you know what, well, fuck you,

1464
01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 4: I'm mixed, the mixed Like I'm gonna get me my

1465
01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 4: mixed chickpair products.

1466
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:50,400
Speaker 2: What you understand? You know, so I do. If you

1467
01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 2: guys are gonna be in here, you have to be quiet.

1468
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:55,200
Speaker 3: Which I completely now as an adult, I can. I

1469
01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:58,320
Speaker 3: can understand it. And I think before that I was like, oh,

1470
01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 3: you think you're mixed. You think you're more beautiful, or

1471
01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:03,440
Speaker 3: you're better, or this means some type of like this,

1472
01:07:03,440 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 3: this automatically means to you identify with some certain type

1473
01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:08,080
Speaker 3: of beautiful, But that doesn't necessarily.

1474
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:08,520
Speaker 2: Mean you're attractive.

1475
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 3: So I do understand like wanting to say, hey, here

1476
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 3: we are and this is important.

1477
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 2: You know I read pushed please. Yeah.

1478
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:22,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I will say I think I think it's

1479
01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:27,040
Speaker 4: just being able to embrace yourself and if you identify

1480
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 4: as a mixed woman, you know.

1481
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 2: More power. I don't have a problem. But but do

1482
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 2: you hashtag mixed woman?

1483
01:07:33,880 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 1: No?

1484
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:36,280
Speaker 2: Do you hashtag I remixed baby?

1485
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 3: No?

1486
01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:40,280
Speaker 2: I look at our as a black child. I'm just joking.

1487
01:07:41,520 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 4: No, I've never hashtag myself is biracial, hashtag by racial

1488
01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 4: hast I do hashtag Latina, and I do hashtag black romantic. Yeah,

1489
01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:54,720
Speaker 4: you guys, you guys, you guys gotta go in the

1490
01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 4: other rooms.

1491
01:07:55,160 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 2: You're gonna be loud. Okay. The Goldie Dog he's in there.

1492
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:00,560
Speaker 2: And I think that's okay. I think I think why

1493
01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:01,120
Speaker 2: be for the way?

1494
01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 3: It's because living you guys, living in America, there has

1495
01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 3: been such that dialogue is just now becoming okay and

1496
01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 3: popular and and empowered.

1497
01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 4: Bye, guys, get up, because I'm trying to tell you

1498
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:18,799
Speaker 4: to hush baby, because I'm recording.

1499
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 2: You want to go because we're talking.

1500
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:25,559
Speaker 4: Why are you trying to show out though you want

1501
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:28,599
Speaker 4: to you wanna go outside. Do you wanna go out there? Yeah?

1502
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:33,240
Speaker 2: Okay, guys go out there. Okay, we want to close

1503
01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:39,800
Speaker 2: the door. You guys go out there. Okay, yeah. I

1504
01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:41,560
Speaker 2: think you know what it is.

1505
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:43,719
Speaker 3: It's just like saying like, okay, it's just like people

1506
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:46,040
Speaker 3: saying black lives matter, and they're saying and then they're

1507
01:08:46,040 --> 01:08:47,400
Speaker 3: count they're counteractive by.

1508
01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:50,839
Speaker 2: Saying all lives matter. Well, black lives.

1509
01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:54,080
Speaker 3: Matter wouldn't be a thing if if it wasn't constantly

1510
01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:55,919
Speaker 3: a thing, you know what I'm saying.

1511
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:57,760
Speaker 2: Like we could say black lives matter, we.

1512
01:08:57,760 --> 01:08:59,639
Speaker 3: Wouldn't have to have to say black lives matter, because

1513
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 3: it would have been it would have been you know, clear.

1514
01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:06,200
Speaker 3: But there's obviously there's obviously something that's off balance. And

1515
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 3: that's why I think I can understand like Black Girl

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01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:12,599
Speaker 3: Magic and Latina and and and and making making these

1517
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:17,719
Speaker 3: brown and black women feel empowered because it's unfortunately, especially

1518
01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 3: in the black community, it's mostly the black women that

1519
01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 3: get swept under the carpet because you know, obviously black

1520
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 3: guys are in they got you know, that's that's what

1521
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:26,640
Speaker 3: they've been in.

1522
01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:28,599
Speaker 4: I mean, they definitely have their own struggles for sure,

1523
01:09:28,800 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 4: of course, because the dog was smoky, is he Here's.

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01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 2: No, here's god. Okay, little steps, step over it, go

1525
01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 2: around it. Go sit on those chairs out there, Go

1526
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:40,320
Speaker 2: tell me what they look like. Go relax on the

1527
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 2: on the chairs in front of the garage. Okay, my god,

1528
01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:46,640
Speaker 2: my child, So what would you look She's like, oh

1529
01:09:46,680 --> 01:09:50,000
Speaker 2: my god, I don't have shoes on. Your daughter's like

1530
01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:50,960
Speaker 2: mother nature.

1531
01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:55,160
Speaker 3: I strongly encourage you and your kids to walk outside

1532
01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 3: barefoot as much as possible. It's called earthing. Connect with

1533
01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 3: the earth, touch trees. It makes you you better, it

1534
01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 3: makes you more clear, it gets a headaches. There's there's

1535
01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 3: science that goes along with this rhetoric. So look into

1536
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 3: it and walk barefoot. It's not a white people thing.

1537
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:12,720
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, I don't like my feet dirty wash the bitch

1538
01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:14,160
Speaker 2: rock's hurt. Oh my god.

1539
01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:16,200
Speaker 3: But then and then, like black people see white people

1540
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:17,680
Speaker 3: in the supermarket bare friend, They're like, look at those

1541
01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:18,120
Speaker 3: white girls.

1542
01:10:18,240 --> 01:10:20,120
Speaker 2: Not a white people's shit. Yeah, Well, who the fuck

1543
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:21,160
Speaker 2: goes to supermarket?

1544
01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:23,840
Speaker 3: Shoes I've seen I went to I went to Ocean

1545
01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:26,240
Speaker 3: Side and there was somebody in the market with no shoes,

1546
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:27,160
Speaker 3: and I was gonna gag.

1547
01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 2: But whatever, it's all different story. She's just one with

1548
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:32,680
Speaker 2: the more earth, you know, earthing. She's earthing. Yeah, I

1549
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:35,960
Speaker 2: call it earthing or grounding. These google it. It really cures.

1550
01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:39,040
Speaker 2: It cures people of things earthing and grounding.

1551
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:41,120
Speaker 3: There's even this study I think it's on Netflix, and

1552
01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:43,559
Speaker 3: there's like a copper, a piece of copper that connects

1553
01:10:43,600 --> 01:10:46,360
Speaker 3: you the bottom of your feet to the soil at night,

1554
01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:49,280
Speaker 3: and it's slowly made people like get rid of ailments.

1555
01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:52,599
Speaker 2: So it's real. Look into it. Nature is our friend,

1556
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:55,719
Speaker 2: like the Native Americans taught us. I agree, I agree.

1557
01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 4: I just like my shoes when I'm outside, I feel

1558
01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:00,479
Speaker 4: it I could to fit on sand or grass.

1559
01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 3: I'm really happy we had this conversation because I wanted

1560
01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:04,400
Speaker 3: to clear the air with.

1561
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 2: Any of our non black followers.

1562
01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 3: So you don't think that I'm coming from a like

1563
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 3: hateful place, because I'm not.

1564
01:11:12,520 --> 01:11:14,320
Speaker 2: I do love people, and I do like my share

1565
01:11:14,400 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 2: of vanilla. You know what I'm saying. Because there's some

1566
01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:20,680
Speaker 2: sexy oh I'm speaking with. Oh no, he's married. I'm

1567
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 2: gonna just be cool. What Oh wait a celebrity? Yeah wow?

1568
01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:30,000
Speaker 2: Who Zoy Kravitz stepdad? Oh yeah, yeah, he's really sexy.

1569
01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:33,559
Speaker 3: Really sexy. He's not white though, I don't care whatever

1570
01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:39,519
Speaker 3: the Mermaian or whatever. Also Zoya Celtana his husband's finest. Fuck,

1571
01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:42,439
Speaker 3: there's a lot there's I mean, don't get a choice,

1572
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:46,920
Speaker 3: don't Oh you know what else? If anybody knows him, Ricky.

1573
01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 2: Yune he's Asian. Oh yeah, he's hot. I met him

1574
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:54,120
Speaker 2: in Bahamas. What's he doing the hair shooting something? I

1575
01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:54,439
Speaker 2: don't know.

1576
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:56,240
Speaker 3: He lied to me, said he's in the medical industry.

1577
01:11:56,520 --> 01:11:58,320
Speaker 3: I thought he was hitting on me, and he's like,

1578
01:11:58,360 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 3: go get your daughter.

1579
01:11:58,960 --> 01:11:59,360
Speaker 4: I really went.

1580
01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:00,800
Speaker 2: We sat in my see each other at the bar

1581
01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 2: and I was like flirting my ass offers. I'm good

1582
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:04,760
Speaker 2: at them. I'm like, how is your name? You want

1583
01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:07,640
Speaker 2: to sheeto Pepper? He was like briar. He's like. I

1584
01:12:07,680 --> 01:12:08,519
Speaker 2: was like, I was gonna be my daughter.

1585
01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:09,920
Speaker 3: They told me no kids. He's like, go get her,

1586
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:11,519
Speaker 3: go get her. I'm like, no, I's liked, trust me,

1587
01:12:12,280 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 3: they know me here, go get her. I was like,

1588
01:12:14,120 --> 01:12:17,360
Speaker 3: oh my god, about to get a stepdaddy. I ran

1589
01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:19,920
Speaker 3: to this huge resort to get this kid, brushed her

1590
01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 3: hair fast, came back and then his girlfriend was sitting

1591
01:12:22,240 --> 01:12:27,080
Speaker 3: next to him, so he played with the whole time though.

1592
01:12:27,640 --> 01:12:29,720
Speaker 2: He was like, look we can have a little one. Yeah.

1593
01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:32,080
Speaker 3: Well, I mean she was still unengaged. She paid for

1594
01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 3: he paid for our dinner. It was at Nobu at

1595
01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 3: Bahamas nice, and then he left.

1596
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:38,120
Speaker 2: And I've been trying to creep into his dams ever since.

1597
01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:40,000
Speaker 2: But I don't really know what to say. Still he's

1598
01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 2: ready to marry that girl.

1599
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:42,320
Speaker 3: I don't think they're Is he married. I don't think

1600
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:44,439
Speaker 3: he's married. But the whole point is I didn't get

1601
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:46,280
Speaker 3: my chance because it was not fair. I felt he

1602
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:46,840
Speaker 3: was flirting me.

1603
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:51,400
Speaker 2: He's like, you're so cute. I was like, anyway, I

1604
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:53,400
Speaker 2: love Charlie Hannam. Do you know who that is? No,

1605
01:12:53,640 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 2: he's from Sons of Anarchy. He was also in Not

1606
01:12:56,080 --> 01:12:58,479
Speaker 2: of Movies. He is fine. I think that is a

1607
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:02,240
Speaker 2: real why man, they're super white, Yeah, the blonde.

1608
01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:06,040
Speaker 3: Also from the the the guy from This is Us,

1609
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:08,560
Speaker 3: the the actor, the guy who plays the actor and

1610
01:13:08,600 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 3: this is Us.

1611
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:12,720
Speaker 2: I don't know what was namebody's finest Fuck? What this

1612
01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:19,600
Speaker 2: is is a great show. See she's my child? Is

1613
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:27,720
Speaker 2: it hurts your feet? Okay, babe, Okay, we're gonna wrap

1614
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:28,040
Speaker 2: this up.

1615
01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:30,439
Speaker 4: Do you have any we have any advice things. So now,

1616
01:13:30,560 --> 01:13:35,200
Speaker 4: anyone's smitten? Any No, I don't think so, Okay, don't walk?

1617
01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 2: Okay, he did? How the house? Okay? One second, baby,

1618
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:49,880
Speaker 2: we're wrapping this up. Yes, I.

1619
01:13:51,920 --> 01:13:54,640
Speaker 6: I have you have.

1620
01:13:56,320 --> 01:14:01,200
Speaker 2: Real closer? No, no, roll closer outside? Okay. Anyway, you guys,

1621
01:14:01,240 --> 01:14:02,559
Speaker 2: thanks for tuning in tonight.

1622
01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:09,439
Speaker 3: If you have any insight on today's topic, old maybe

1623
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 3: one second, we'd really like to know your insight on

1624
01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 3: your your experience with interracial dating. I know we are

1625
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:17,799
Speaker 3: somewhat biased because I'm.

1626
01:14:17,680 --> 01:14:20,759
Speaker 4: Black and she's half black, but we try to like honestly,

1627
01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:23,320
Speaker 4: I'm not that experienced in a racial dating I've never

1628
01:14:23,400 --> 01:14:24,440
Speaker 4: really dated interracially.

1629
01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:26,000
Speaker 2: I have only every day with black men. I've had

1630
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:27,680
Speaker 2: sex with white men, but I've never dated them.

1631
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 4: So if you have any tips on how a bitch

1632
01:14:29,960 --> 01:14:32,320
Speaker 4: could open up her in a racial dating life, I

1633
01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 4: feel like black men are the ones that are attracted

1634
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 4: to me. Very rarely do I feel white men are

1635
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:37,560
Speaker 4: hitting on me, or maybe I'm just not aware of it.

1636
01:14:38,680 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 4: Let me know, and maybe you need I need to

1637
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:43,559
Speaker 4: take some tips for your Jamila.

1638
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:49,360
Speaker 2: I know all the white men trips me tips. Yeah,

1639
01:14:51,240 --> 01:14:53,720
Speaker 2: but anyway, thanks for tuning in. Guys, do you guys? Hey,

1640
01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 2: you guys want to come say bye? Comes, say bye?

1641
01:14:57,320 --> 01:14:59,000
Speaker 4: You come here?

1642
01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:03,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, say one, say bye.

1643
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 4: On three okay here They would tack one shoes, three shoes, bye.

1644
01:15:12,880 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 2: Bye, catching.

1645
01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:21,400
Speaker 1: Us and spaces when your food comes fars with your faces.

1646
01:15:22,880 --> 01:15:24,719
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna spend my life being a color.

1647
01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:28,600
Speaker 2: You agree with me when I saw your dirt in

1648
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:36,800
Speaker 2: my arms, my baby, don't know if you're black.

1649
01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 1: Baby, don't if you're black.

1650
01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:53,479
Speaker 2: My brother, it don't mad if your black