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Speaker 3: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm richer wineger Or

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Speaker 3: today feels different. Well, I've used two public restrooms so

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Speaker 3: Yesterday was the big thing. I took the dog to

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Speaker 3: in my own way. This is when people talk about

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Speaker 3: getting in your own way. This is what they're talking about,

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Speaker 3: breeding puppies to sell to people who drive land Rovers.

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Speaker 3: your own way. That's actually a good example of me

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about Patreon. This show is still on Patreon,

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Speaker 3: despite everybody trying to tear me down. Come join us.

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Speaker 3: You can listen to more of this podcast, but it's

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's just we're barely scraping the surface. I'd

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Speaker 2: I said no gifts, thank you, Bridger. It's great to

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Speaker 3: I feel like I kind of just I started something

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Speaker 2: Now I am thrilled because now as soon as I

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Speaker 2: And I'm so excited. I love when people i'm a

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Speaker 3: So you should have a Patreon just for I.

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Speaker 3: Well, what you're doing on TikTok should be I would

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Speaker 2: Thanks Bridger. The way I think of it as one

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Speaker 3: What? Why not?

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Speaker 2: I don't remember that. I just remember hearing that story

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Speaker 3: It'd be a fun I've never well, let's see, no,

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Speaker 3: Have you been on a tour like this before. No.

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Speaker 3: It will be disappointing.

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Speaker 3: Driver, right. I just feel like Wyoming doesn't feel like

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Speaker 3: And you've never been to the Have you been to

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Speaker 3: So this makes me feel like a genius.

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Speaker 3: Okay, did you see Old Faithful?

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Speaker 3: It's like sulfur. Okay, there's a lot of because I

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Speaker 3: it's literally it. And then eating some bad pizza. Why

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Speaker 2: And why couldn't they come up with a good pizza Montana?

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Speaker 3: I do think that this is true. I think every state, well,

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Speaker 2: There's a pizza place in my dad's little, tiny hometown

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Speaker 3: Right, a forced excuse to talk to each other.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And like I mean, because I did, just to

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Speaker 3: Oh that's really sweet.

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Speaker 2: Their casts and their crew were just really lovely.

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Speaker 3: That's wonderful. Can you say what show was yet?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I should have asked.

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Speaker 3: You didn't care about it at all, or those people.

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Speaker 3: You're campaigning against it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just to keep it, keep it real.

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Speaker 3: I've been trying to avoid the subject as long as possible.

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Speaker 2: Yeah it is. I did really go all out for

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Speaker 3: Well, should we open it here on the podcast?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Can I give a Can I give a pre I

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Speaker 2: I just want to say no, pressure. But I did

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: But I will also say I might be the only

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Speaker 2: No, it's it's just And I will tell you also

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Speaker 2: portrait of a frog in a wood.

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00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:53,200
Speaker 3: It's a really beautiful kind of bob Bob with bangs,

444
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 3: kind of a jet black. I'm trying to think of, uh,

445
00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 3: who has hair a hairstyle like this.

446
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 2: Oh it's not a Lord Farquah.

447
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a Jason. If this wasn't a man, it

448
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 3: probably would be right.

449
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 2: I mean, I've been assuming that is a man.

450
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 3: I kind of just jumped immediately to you know, hip

451
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 3: young woman twenties. She's in like owns a record store

452
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 3: or something.

453
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 2: It's funny. I've been thinking of like eleven year old

454
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 2: boy school portrait. That's how I've been thinking of it,

455
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 2: and that is the parents hanging it on their refrigerator.

456
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 3: This is a great test for therapists. They should this

457
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 3: should be a new h What do you see with

458
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 3: the frog and a wig? Because I absolutely saw this

459
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 3: hip young woman, but I could also see that being

460
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 3: a little boy who and he's embarrassed of this picture.

461
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 2: Now he's kind of like I'm in fifth grade. I

462
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 2: honestly thought this would be a more exciting time of life.

463
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: I thought I was going to be hitting my stride,

464
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 2: But here I am in a wig?

465
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 3: Where did you?

466
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 2: I found it on TikTok and I'm gonna buy it.

467
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 2: That's why I know I can buy another one.

468
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 3: Do you do a lot of TikTok shopping? I have.

469
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 2: I'm trying to cool my jets because I don't want

470
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 2: to be accumulating junk. So some things I've gotten off

471
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 2: there I have loved, and some things have been truly garbage.

472
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 3: What's been some of the garbage you've gotten.

473
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 2: I got some irrasable gel pens that don't work at all.

474
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 3: A raceable ink. We've got to just stop talking about

475
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 3: that as a concept.

476
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not good. I remember in sixth grade it

477
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 2: was a big thing. Paper Mate I think had erasable

478
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,239
Speaker 2: ink pens, and they were they just tore up your

479
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 2: paper when you were.

480
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 3: Rais paper tearing and smudges.

481
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, it didn't really, they were terrible. These tricked me.

482
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 2: I've gotten some eyeshadow palette that is basically like a

483
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 2: water color palette. It's the brightest primary colors, and I

484
00:25:56,280 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 2: tried all of them. I was like, this is ridiculous.

485
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 3: Clown makeup.

486
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 2: It's clown makeup, or it's very young women with a

487
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:09,120
Speaker 2: certain kind of eyelid makeup where they can really do

488
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 2: different if you're young and doing different layers of mixes

489
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 2: of colors or whatever. Frog in a wig, it's frog

490
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:17,959
Speaker 2: and a wig makeup.

491
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 3: That's a good filter. Frog and a wig.

492
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,679
Speaker 2: Let's get that. God, I would love to have that filter.

493
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 3: Yeah. Those TikTok things almost always get I've never fallen

494
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,640
Speaker 3: for one, but they always make every product seem like, well,

495
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 3: this is the exact solution. For a thing you were

496
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 3: not thinking about before. Yeah, and then they demonstrate it

497
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 3: and it works. But yeah, clearly they're just using another

498
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 3: product or the magic of Hollywood.

499
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and there what I've gotten other stuff like there

500
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 2: was a little tripod lighting stick that had two lights

501
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 2: on either side of it, ring lights on either side

502
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 2: of it, and like one of them immediately broke off

503
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 2: and more.

504
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 3: Than just half of your face is making Yeah.

505
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 2: And then the other one doesn't work. Now that's been

506
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 2: a while, but I'm trying to think of Boughton some

507
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 2: real I mean, Boughton I bought.

508
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 3: I think, by the way, we should just bring botton

509
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,360
Speaker 3: into the language that's at it.

510
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, Boughton to me is in the same delightful category

511
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:22,880
Speaker 2: as hooton and hollering.

512
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:28,199
Speaker 3: That is kind of the same dictionary. Yeah, yeah, Boughton,

513
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 3: we all know it makes sense.

514
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and if people are saying casted, then I can

515
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 2: say botan absolutely so.

516
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 3: But what have you boughten that's worked?

517
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 2: Oh and I also bought a keyboard that doesn't.

518
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 3: Work, musical keyboard.

519
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:48,400
Speaker 2: Or a noah, a typing really pretty pink clickety clocking buttons,

520
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 2: and I can't get it to work. Oh, no, Yeah,

521
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 2: I can't hook it up at all. What have I

522
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 2: got this work? Because well, I mean the the frog

523
00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 2: and a wig. I have gotten other very cute refrigerator magnets.

524
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 2: I've gotten some. I get a lot of press on.

525
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 2: All the press on nails I get, which I'm not

526
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,360
Speaker 2: wearing right now, but I get them all from TikTok.

527
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 3: That makes sense. Yeah, that feels like a category that

528
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 3: you could trust on TikTok.

529
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, although I will say they call many of them short,

530
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 2: and they are not short. You have to get extra

531
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 2: short which are still too long.

532
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 3: So they come and they're just super long nails.

533
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 2: They're just not as crazy long, but they're still longer

534
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 2: than You have to accept that part of your hand

535
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,159
Speaker 2: function will be decreased when you're wearing press on nails.

536
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 3: This is how we find out you couldn't use the keyboard.

537
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 3: The keyboard it's not working because your nails are too long.

538
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:41,239
Speaker 2: I should have tried them.

539
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 3: Well.

540
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 2: I got this tote bag, and I love.

541
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 3: Tobag bags from TikTok.

542
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 2: That toe bag. I also got other tote bags from TikTok,

543
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 2: one of which I didn't really like and gave away

544
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 2: to someone who did like it.

545
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, TikTok. The one thing that always stops me

546
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 3: is I think, oh, of that seems affordable whatever, and

547
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 3: then I shipping is over two dollars. I think, well

548
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 3: it's too expensive.

549
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

550
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 3: Seeing something that's not free shipping at this point, unfortunately,

551
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 3: really freezes me in my tracks.

552
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I totally get it. Wait. I also bought some

553
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 2: face stuff that wanted some medacube stuck.

554
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 3: Oh, this seems dangerous.

555
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 2: That when it arrived, I took one look at the

556
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 2: bottles and I said, you.

557
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 3: Can't put something on your face from TikTok.

558
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 2: No, I'm not doing that.

559
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 3: Absolutely, it will be a huge mistake.

560
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'll be third degree burns. Not that metacube is

561
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 2: burning people, but just these particular products. I said, that

562
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 2: looks like a solvent that's used to take off super glue.

563
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 2: I'm not putting it on my face.

564
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 3: There are certain things that are worth paying for and

565
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 3: getting the advice of professionals rather than influencers. Yes, like

566
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 3: your skin things you ingest are probably another category. Yeah,

567
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 3: what was the first thing you bought on TikTok? Do

568
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 3: you remember?

569
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 2: I think? I mean I have. I bought a tiny

570
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 2: air horn. I bought a tiny, a miniature trombone that

571
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 2: makes the sound that Chris Fairbanks always meant mates, which

572
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 2: is like, that's not it, but you know what I mean.

573
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 2: I bought a little plastic raccoon and a plastic garbage

574
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 2: can that I thought was cute, but my cats wouldn't

575
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 2: let me keep it on the dusk. They kept knocking

576
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 2: it off. I've got a lot of cheap plastic organizer

577
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 2: bins and shelves and things for your desk and bedroom

578
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 2: and bathroom. Got a lot of cheap plastic stuff off TikTok.

579
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 3: But for bathroom storage, I feel like that's going to

580
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 3: be cheap stuff no matter where you get it.

581
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 2: Yeah. But the one thing I got that unfortunately, am

582
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 2: gonna throw out as soon as I have time to

583
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 2: take on a project. It is going to be a

584
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 2: project because I have to take the things that are

585
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 2: in it out.

586
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 3: Oh no.

587
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 2: But it's like I thought it was neat because it

588
00:30:56,520 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 2: has like a plastic kind of bubble looking lid and

589
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 2: then drawers. But it's it's not good.

590
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 3: And is it something? Is the bubble lid? Does it

591
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 3: keep it from stacking other things on top of it?

592
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 2: It's I think it's supposed to keep it from to

593
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 2: keep things from being knocked over or getting dust on

594
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 2: them or something, but I I always leave it open.

595
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 2: Right now, I have like a bunch of hair products

596
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 2: that have dust on the lids. And also I looked

597
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 2: it up the other day. Your air condition central AC

598
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 2: is not supposed to be laying out a thin layer

599
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 2: of dust daily and mine is. So something's happening.

600
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 3: You haven't been in your new place that long, have you?

601
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 2: No?

602
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 1: Not?

603
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 2: I mean like eight months?

604
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 3: So what has got? What has happened in those eight months?

605
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 2: I'm assuming that the air conditioning filter was not brand

606
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 2: new when I moved in, and then I don't ever

607
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 2: pay attention to that stuff as I should, And now

608
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 2: I am paying attention.

609
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 3: Who can take care of this for you? That seems

610
00:31:58,320 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 3: very bad?

611
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 2: Well, I think I will buy a ladder from home Depot,

612
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 2: an indoor tall ladder because it's on the ceiling, it's

613
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:11,239
Speaker 2: not one of those that's on the high wall, and

614
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 2: then replace the filter. And if that doesn't help, then say, hey, landlord,

615
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 2: something's got.

616
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 3: Why don't you just ask your landlord to do it?

617
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 1: Now?

618
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 2: I don't like having to plan the appointments with people

619
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 2: that come to my house. There's a lot of issues

620
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 2: that need taking care of it the house that I

621
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 2: simply refuse to handle because I don't want to have

622
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 2: to figure out when can you come? When can I

623
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 2: be here? Even though I am home most of the time.

624
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 3: It's inconvenient.

625
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's also like I mean, I hope my

626
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 2: landlord doesn't listen to this. But there was a there

627
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 2: was a light in a closet in the guest bedroom

628
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 2: where you pull a string and it goes on and off,

629
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 2: and of course the string came out. So then I

630
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 2: thought I could replace it if I got on a

631
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 2: little ladder and could reach unscrewed the light fixture and

632
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 2: pulled it out and then could put that in right. Unfortunately,

633
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 2: none of that wasn't true at all, and then I

634
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: and then I didn't want to deal with the problem

635
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 2: I caused, so I simply used duct tape to cover

636
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 2: up that hole and so spiders wouldn't come in from

637
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 2: the crawl space.

638
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 3: So now there's just no light bulb, there's nothing.

639
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 2: No, and there's nothing no. Well that's not true. There

640
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 2: is stuff in the closet now, but it's just workout equipment.

641
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,239
Speaker 2: Some of which I do use, but that doesn't need

642
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 2: to be lit up. I don't need a light for that.

643
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 2: I was using the light before because I was I

644
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 2: had the cat litter box in there.

645
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 3: Oh sure.

646
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 2: But then, and I hate to bad mouth him, but

647
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:56,719
Speaker 2: my cat Berry started missing, peeing a little bit on

648
00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 2: the wall, and then I was like, no, this has

649
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 2: got to go in the spare bathroom, in the shower

650
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:04,479
Speaker 2: that I don't use.

651
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 3: That's smart.

652
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 2: And then clean out, you know, soapy hot water on

653
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 2: the walls and the floor of that closet. And then

654
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 2: I waited a while before I put the exercise equipment

655
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 2: in it.

656
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 3: It's poor closet.

657
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 2: He's been through it, you know.

658
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 3: As far as cat litter, I haven't had a cat

659
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:27,240
Speaker 3: in a while. But have you tried experimented with different

660
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:28,880
Speaker 3: cat litter boxes?

661
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like I keep trying to get ones

662
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,919
Speaker 2: big enough with tall enough sides that my cats will

663
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 2: never miss, uh huh, And unfortunately they are determined.

664
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 3: It's entirely on purpose.

665
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:49,800
Speaker 2: Then, well, I think Barry is just this sweet little

666
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,479
Speaker 2: nerd who doesn't pay attention to what he's doing.

667
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 3: Oh sure, he's got other things going on.

668
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 2: He's got a lot on his mind, but he but

669
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 2: since I've put it in the shower, most of the

670
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 2: time he doesn't miss. But when he does, I can

671
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 2: just spray the like take the letter box out and

672
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:13,439
Speaker 2: vacuum up the dry scattered litter from the stour floor

673
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 2: and then spray it with soap dish soapdn Not that

674
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 2: I'm promoting that, but I.

675
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 3: Made a lot of money from John over the.

676
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 2: Years, and then hot water and it's you know, clean.

677
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,839
Speaker 3: I think that's probably the best solution for if you've

678
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 3: got an extra shower bathtub for your cat litter, because

679
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 3: it's just to me an eternal problem. Yeah, those robot ones,

680
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 3: I think that those probably don't actually work.

681
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 2: And I'm afraid that my cats are so contrary that

682
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 2: they would figure out a way to either get hurt

683
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 2: or killed by the robot.

684
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 3: It's very cat final destination.

685
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean, I have heard that things can

686
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 2: go horribly wrong, really and they mostly don't. But I can't.

687
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,760
Speaker 2: I don't even have a bed frame because I'm afraid

688
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 2: of the cats being under the bed and the bed

689
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:06,399
Speaker 2: falling on them.

690
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 3: Right, I think that's a safe I mean, I can

691
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 3: imagine that actually happening. And if on the off chance

692
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 3: it does, it's happened.

693
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, So better better to sleep with your box spring

694
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 2: and mattress on the floor like a college student that

695
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 2: no one wants to be.

696
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:26,359
Speaker 3: I think that's very cheap.

697
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 2: I mean, they do have bed frames now that are

698
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 2: closed off get under it, So why not get one

699
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 2: of those?

700
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:36,280
Speaker 3: One of those?

701
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, with it once we get our gorilla money making machine.

702
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 3: Don't act like the down money isn't just rolling in

703
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 3: I could.

704
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 2: Get I guess I could get it with my don money.

705
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, you could get endless mattresses on the floor.

706
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:50,839
Speaker 2: Yeah.

707
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 3: No, I think now I'm starting to wonder about those

708
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 3: robot things. What they could possibly do to a cat.

709
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 3: I guess I don't want to know.

710
00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,839
Speaker 2: Well, I think that their tail can get trapped in

711
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,399
Speaker 2: the rake that comes out or something. I don't know.

712
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 2: I just it's as much as I love my niece

713
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 2: and nephew, and when they were little, I felt like, God,

714
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 2: I should have had kids. I love taking care of

715
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 2: babies and kids. I do think it's for the best

716
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 2: that I didn't, because the way that I worry and

717
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 2: I'm overprotective is just four legged family members. And also

718
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 2: I can tell as an aunt my niece. At one point,

719
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 2: my niece enophew are like, why are you so worried

720
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 2: about us getting kidnapped? Why are you always warning us of?

721
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:38,479
Speaker 3: Are you going to get.

722
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 2: Why is it the worst case scenarios that you're always

723
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 2: making sure we're careful of, to the point that at

724
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 2: one point I was like.

725
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 3: I gotta cool it. Do they live in the area.

726
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, they lived down Well, my niece is away at

727
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 2: college now in Riverside, but they live. My brother and

728
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 2: nephew still live down in the South Bay.

729
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:03,320
Speaker 3: Oh that's lovely.

730
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

731
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 3: So would you have like a day out with your

732
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 3: niece and nephew aunt day.

733
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 2: Like when they were little? Yeah, all the time. Oh yeah,

734
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 2: it was so fun. They were so fun to just have.

735
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 2: They mooned me one time in line at uh with

736
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 2: Gardenings one of those giant gardening stores. Not not a

737
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 2: Lows but what was.

738
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 3: That old one Orchard Supply Hardware.

739
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's one of those, which is down

740
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 2: in Torrents. And it was Super Bowl Sunday and they

741
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 2: were they were probably like four and five, and we

742
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 2: went there to get something and as I'm paying a

743
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 2: look and they're both mooning me. They went through a

744
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 2: phase where they mooned people.

745
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 3: All the time, incredible as a team, synchronized and no one.

746
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,720
Speaker 2: Was thank god, no one. No one was around, although

747
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 2: I mean who cares. But ultimately it probably seemed like

748
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:58,959
Speaker 2: I wasn't taking great care of them that they were

749
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:00,760
Speaker 2: like people.

750
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 3: Do you still have a good relationship with them? Yeah,

751
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 3: they must think you're very cool.

752
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 2: I don't think they think I'm cool, but I think

753
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 2: that they enjoyed having an aunt who is like I

754
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 2: am always on their side. I am never the critical,

755
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 2: yelling aunt or like just I adore them, and so

756
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 2: I think that they feel very safe and and like

757
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 2: they know they're my favorite people.

758
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 3: Oh I love that. So I can't imagine getting to

759
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 3: the place of being the yelling ant.

760
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 2: But that's the sad thing is I mean, I had

761
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 2: one mean aunt. Unfortunately we saw a lot of her

762
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 2: when I was a kid for a while, and like, yeah,

763
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 2: some I've heard from people that they have some aunts

764
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 2: that have been like really, maybe just didn't like kids

765
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 2: and were like scoldie or critical or whatever.

766
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 3: His mistakes are so low as an aunt or uncle

767
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 3: where it's like they're not really your responsibility. So you

768
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 3: can just have a good time with these children. You

769
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 3: don't have to discipline them in any unless they're attacking you. Right.

770
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 2: But I just think there are some people who don't

771
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 2: like kids. I always suspect it's if you had a

772
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 2: traumatic childhood and you shut off your emotions to protect yourself,

773
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 2: then kids can really trigger your anger or interesting because

774
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 2: it reminds you of being helpless, right, you know, I

775
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 2: want to give people the benefit of the doubt that

776
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:33,879
Speaker 2: they're not just monsters.

777
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 3: I think at this point in history, we've proven that

778
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 3: there is a good part of the population that may

779
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 3: just be monsters.

780
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 2: I mean. The one positive, hopefully thing that I think

781
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 2: is coming out of the monsters that are all out

782
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 2: in the open now is that there are some very

783
00:40:56,640 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 2: uh well, how can I say this in a politically

784
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: correct way. There are some religious communities and I won't

785
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 2: say denominations, but there are some in the United States

786
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 2: that are specific to the United States that their practices

787
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 2: in their communities, especially the way they treat kids, they

788
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 2: keep it a secret as much as they can. And

789
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 2: now it's all coming out because they said we're gonna

790
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 2: take over like we're Christian nationalists. Sorry, I did say

791
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 2: who they are. We're going to take over everything. We

792
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:34,439
Speaker 2: want dominion over everything. Yes, and so it's like, well,

793
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 2: then guess what now the spotlight is on all these

794
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 2: things that you've been doing that you don't want people

795
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 2: to look at.

796
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 3: Right, how just straight up terrible you are in so

797
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 3: many ways. Yeah, so not the religion that you've think claim.

798
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:48,280
Speaker 3: I mean, the whole thing is so bizarre.

799
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so I hope that it ends up rescuing

800
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 2: kids from from lives that are just full of deliberate

801
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 2: cruel in the name of saving their souls. It's heartbreaking,

802
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 2: you know.

803
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 3: It's a very gracious way of talking about Christian nationalists.

804
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,959
Speaker 2: I mean, and I guess it's I should don't worry

805
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,800
Speaker 2: about saying that, because I know there are lots of

806
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 2: Christians that are not in that camp.

807
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 3: No, of course, a lot of lovely Christians who do

808
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 3: what their religion is teaching them.

809
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

810
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 3: But then there's this particularly nasty new thing.

811
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, and at least one of the architects of it,

812
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 2: James Dobson. Thanks thanks be to God, he's no longer

813
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 2: with us, but let's get his name out there and

814
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 2: enough smear it as much as you can.

815
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 3: I just watched this documentary called Marjo. Have you ever

816
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 3: heard of this? It's about this former child preacher. Oh,

817
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 3: it's amazing. He was like a preacher in the late

818
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 3: forties early fifties as a child, Like incredible, he'd be

819
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 3: like wow, travel around. And then later, I mean, he

820
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 3: was obviously being exploited by his parents and they made

821
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 3: millions of dollars off of him, and he kind of

822
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 3: later came out of all of that being like, no,

823
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 3: this isn't me. But then the documentary is following him

824
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 3: while he's going on tour as a preacher, knowing full

825
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 3: well what he doesn't believe what he's preaching, and I

826
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 3: think part of it, like I think part of it

827
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 3: for him is he's like, I'm going to show people

828
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 3: that this is all bullshit once this documentary comes out.

829
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:28,359
Speaker 3: And also I'm going to make some money that wasn't

830
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 3: given to me by my parents who used me as

831
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 3: a child employee. But it's so wonderful. It's really fine.

832
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 2: And it's called Margo Marjo.

833
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 3: He was named after Mary and Joseph Marjo.

834
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 2: And what platform can I watch it on?

835
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 3: I feel like this was on one of those weird

836
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 3: free ones you know to be or something like that.

837
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll look it up. I'm embarrassed to just realize

838
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 2: I don't watch any of the free stuff. I also

839
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 2: don't watch many of the ones I pay for for.

840
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:01,839
Speaker 3: Oh my God, of course not.

841
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 2: But I don't watch the free stuff because I just

842
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:09,320
Speaker 2: have this dumb bias of like it must not be good,

843
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 2: but they are good.

844
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 3: I think that what they are the good stuff is

845
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 3: just kind of forgotten stuff from the past where you know,

846
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 3: there's really no money to be made off of it.

847
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 3: So this was made in like I think nineteen seventy

848
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 3: or something, and I'm just kind of forgotten for such

849
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 3: a long time, and then for whatever reason Tooby has

850
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 3: decided to put it on their platform or whatever free

851
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 3: service this is. So occasionally you go into those things

852
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 3: and you find interesting things that are nowhere else, maybe

853
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 3: because nobody owns the rights to them. Okay, I don't

854
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 3: know what the exact logic is, but it'll be like

855
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 3: things that no one else has really thought of, so

856
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 3: they'll be interesting.

857
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 2: This documentary, the way you described it gave me an idea,

858
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 2: and I'm not saying it's the right idea, but money

859
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 2: making Milt, you said they made millions. Yes, our gorilla, Oh,

860
00:44:58,960 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 2: here we go.

861
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 3: It's such a sign.

862
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 2: Language, and he preaches they can learn sign language. Millions

863
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:10,359
Speaker 2: raking in the.

864
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 3: Dough, seven dead in church as gorilla goes wild. No,

865
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 3: I think that that's a path for us.

866
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 2: We got to do it last time. I think I

867
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 2: did the podcast we were talking about starting a do

868
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 2: we talk about starting a podcast about delivering pizzas something?

869
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 3: Oh? I think about people who were murdered delivering pizza. Right,

870
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 3: that's right, my favorite pizza murder.

871
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 2: Although we could also just do on my favorite pizza podcast.

872
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 3: Oh, that's not a bad idea and occasionally dip into

873
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,799
Speaker 3: people who are murdered delivering pizza. That feels like a

874
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 3: concept that hasn't been done yet.

875
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:47,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it has.

876
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,319
Speaker 3: And neither has my favorite pizza murder. Both of those

877
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 3: things one could spin off the other.

878
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

879
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like that pizza delivery people are as

880
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 3: you as we spoke about, are in constant day.

881
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, except for I guess people nowadays they have to

882
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 2: be using they give their address and they have to

883
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 2: use a credit card.

884
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:13,840
Speaker 3: Oh interesting maybe, but stolen credit card?

885
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I got mugged at knife point delivering pizzas.

886
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 2: I think that's why we talked about it.

887
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:20,359
Speaker 3: Yes, but that was.

888
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 2: In the mid early nineteen nineties, Okay.

889
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 3: And that's I had the memory of watching I think

890
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 3: unsolved mysteries where a pizza delivery man went to a

891
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 3: location and there was no house and then was murdered.

892
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 2: Oh god, I don't.

893
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 3: Know if that mystery has been solved yet. This was

894
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 3: a long time ago. But that couldn't offend the only

895
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:40,760
Speaker 3: one of these things.

896
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 2: No, And that's what kind of makes me think about

897
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 2: people who drive for uber and lyft if they get.

898
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 3: Or people in passengers. I mean, the whole system is

899
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:54,919
Speaker 3: just ready for people to murder each other.

900
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:58,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I mean in some ways we should give

901
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 2: ourselves credit as a species that more of us aren't

902
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 2: murdering each other. Yeah, that's a good You know, a

903
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 2: lot of us simply choose not to murder each other.

904
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 3: It's just those other ones are getting the headlines.

905
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, they get all the attention, and they sometimes they

906
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 2: get a lot of money.

907
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 3: Right. Yeah, I think that we need to talk about

908
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 3: all the people who aren't murdering each other doing horrible

909
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 3: things more often.

910
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, the truth is, nobody wants to hear

911
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 2: it right.

912
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 3: It's really boring. Get it off my feed. I don't

913
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 3: need positivity. I want to see murder.

914
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear the feel good story.

915
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I don't want to learn about a

916
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 3: gorilla teaching people about Christ. No, thank you.

917
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

918
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 3: Have you been in a Weimo yet?

919
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 2: Never? And I'll never trust those sons of bitches. I

920
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 2: feel so lovingly protective of the little robots that deliver

921
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 2: stuff on the street.

922
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:56,479
Speaker 3: I just someone get hit by a train.

923
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 2: Those little guys I have a name, I can't remember

924
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 2: what it is, but I love them. But the seething

925
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 2: rage I feel when I see a way moo.

926
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 3: This is how I felt. And I'm not trying to

927
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 3: be a Weymo evangelist, but there's some logic that's starting

928
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 3: to make sense to me of why am I allowed

929
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 3: to drive? I none of us should probably be allowed

930
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 3: to drive. I A friend was really loves them. She

931
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 3: goes all over the place in these things now, and

932
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 3: so she took a few of us in one and

933
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, this is if everyone was in

934
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:35,399
Speaker 3: one of these, this would make way more sense than

935
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:39,360
Speaker 3: bridge or wineger driving down the freeway because they're just

936
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 3: they're more efficient and they're not selfish.

937
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 2: True, Yeah, you're right about that.

938
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 3: So I think I don't know what I mean. Of course,

939
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 3: like anything with tech, it's like, what horrible thing is

940
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 3: going to be exposed about this? But there is something

941
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 3: where it feels like there is a chance in twenty

942
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 3: years people would be like, Oh, I can't believe we

943
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 3: used to drive cars. We're so safe now in these Yeah,

944
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 3: things that feel kind of like being in a trolley

945
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 3: or something.

946
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that does make sense. I will say my gut

947
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 2: reaction is the same as the boomer people who are like,

948
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 2: we didn't need to talk about our feelings when we

949
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 2: were young. They're distrust of therapy, even though it's been

950
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 2: proven to be highly helpful for people, even though I

951
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 2: can see, yes, everything you're saying sounds good, but I'm like,

952
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 2: I don't trust them.

953
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 3: And I think you have every right not to trust them. Okay,

954
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 3: because again, every piece of tech we've ever used at

955
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 3: this point, at least in the last twenty years, has

956
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 3: just proven to be some sort of data gathering service

957
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 3: or evil plan. Yeah, this is a fun conversation.

958
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 2: I just I mean, there's a part of me that's like,

959
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 2: but there are good things that have come of it.

960
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 2: It's just we have not so far regulated and protected

961
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 2: against the nefarious stuff.

962
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:12,800
Speaker 3: Right, Someone's got to step in and regulate.

963
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the and the we got to have a

964
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 2: propaganda network like Fox News that has convinced people regulation

965
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 2: is bad when it's why we have clean water and stuff.

966
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 2: You know, why there's a five day work week and

967
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 2: safety at work, regulations and rules.

968
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 3: And people forget that those things didn't always exist and

969
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 3: then you could die of diphtheria or something because the

970
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 3: water was filthy.

971
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, and they and and Fox has convinced people like

972
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 2: I don't need regular I don't need the government regulating

973
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 2: things for me, just trying to tell me what to do,

974
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 2: Like they're somebody getting thrown out of a bar fight

975
00:50:56,360 --> 00:51:00,959
Speaker 2: now fighting it. Yeah, yeah, but we got I feel

976
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:11,279
Speaker 2: like an investment group of wealthy, reasonable people. I don't know,

977
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 2: but I know they're out there. I just think they

978
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 2: haven't come together to form a conglomerate that can start

979
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 2: buying up and creating new media that could be as

980
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 2: powerful as the ones that are currently being controlled and monopolized.

981
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 3: Again with the horrible headlines. Yeah, Foxes. I mean that's

982
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 3: their entire brand.

983
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 2: But we at this point, we have plenty of material

984
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 2: to have horrible headlines.

985
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 3: About other things.

986
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:43,799
Speaker 2: Stuff and bring light to it and get people motivated

987
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 2: to I mean, I talk about all this stuff, but

988
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,920
Speaker 2: I don't know what works. I didn't even graduate college,

989
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:52,400
Speaker 2: and I was an English major.

990
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 3: I was an English major as well, and barely graduated

991
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 3: from college.

992
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 2: I've still got two classes to go.

993
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 3: Bridger, we're thought leaders, or ultimately two thought leaders. Well,

994
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:06,839
Speaker 3: I think we should play a game.

995
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 2: Okay, I love it.

996
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 3: We're going to play a game called Gift to a Curse.

997
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 3: But I need a number between one and ten from

998
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 3: you four. Okay. I have to do some light calculating

999
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 3: to get our game pieces. So right now, you can recommend, promote,

1000
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 3: do whatever you want.

1001
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 2: Okay, I will just promote. Euphoria Season three is coming

1002
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:32,240
Speaker 2: out on April twelfth. It's on HBO Max. Go ahead

1003
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 2: and watch it if you'd like to. I will be

1004
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:37,720
Speaker 2: I love it. I'm a big fan of the show.

1005
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,879
Speaker 2: I am in it. But that don't let that deter

1006
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:43,279
Speaker 2: you from watching the show.

1007
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 3: Please.

1008
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 2: It's everybody but me is a gifted actor on that show.

1009
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 2: And also all of the ones that I've met. There's

1010
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 2: a bunch of cast I haven't met, but the ones

1011
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:59,840
Speaker 2: that I've met, I just love really sweet, warm people.

1012
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 3: You know, people love you on that show. You're like

1013
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 3: an icon on that show, right, I feel like it's

1014
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 3: like you, people adore you from it.

1015
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 2: I think that there is a faction of gen Z

1016
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 2: Euphoria fans that definitely are the bulk of my followers

1017
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 2: on TikTok. But I I'm not a like large large

1018
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 2: account on TikTok, so I wouldn't say icon.

1019
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:25,400
Speaker 3: I think so.

1020
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I appreciate it. You can say it, Okay,

1021
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 2: thank you for giving me.

1022
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 3: Go off icon. That's a sentence like just I'm not

1023
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 3: capable of actually saying okay, Yeah, everybody go watch Euphoria.

1024
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 3: Follow Martha on TikTok. It's one of It's just a salve.

1025
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 3: I mean, it's just such a lovely thing to find

1026
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 3: on that service.

1027
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 2: Thank you, bridgerd It's Martha Kelly. Tic tac is my

1028
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 2: right just for anyone who wants to follow.

1029
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 3: Do I have anything to recommend? I feel like I

1030
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 3: haven't recommended anything on this I recommended the documentary mar

1031
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 3: Joe Our friends the Rat Boys have a new album

1032
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 3: that is I've listened to one hundred times in the

1033
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:16,360
Speaker 3: last two months. Everybody go find that love it. I

1034
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 3: think that's good. Two things, two pieces of media. Okay,

1035
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 3: this is how we play Gift or a Curse. I'm

1036
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 3: going to name three things. You'll tell me if there

1037
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 3: are a gift or a curse, and why I'll tell

1038
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 3: you if you're right or wrong.

1039
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 2: Okay, all right.

1040
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,800
Speaker 3: The first these are all from our Patreon listeners today.

1041
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 3: This is from Antonia. Gift or a Curse. Weird non

1042
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:37,840
Speaker 3: happy birthday songs at restaurants that the staff are forced

1043
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 3: to sing at you.

1044
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 2: Hmmmm, curse? Why because the I'm mortified when people sing

1045
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 2: happy Birthday to me at a restaurant, and I was

1046
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:59,359
Speaker 2: I waited tables for many years, and I having being

1047
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 2: forced to sing happy birds, just being forced to sing

1048
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 2: for strangers. I don't think anyone's enjoying it, except that

1049
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 2: part of the population that likes embarrassing their friends and

1050
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 2: family by getting them to be sung to. That's my feeling, wrong, wrong, Okay,

1051
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 2: I'm on the side of songwriters.

1052
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 3: I think that this is a fertile place for songwriting

1053
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 3: if we have the happy Birthday song. But I think

1054
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 3: you know whoever's working over at Chile's who's got this

1055
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 3: itch to write a new song. Let them write the

1056
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 3: happy Birthday song and then teach it to the employees

1057
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:39,400
Speaker 3: who will then hate it for the rest of their lives.

1058
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 2: I guess I can see your point. Yeah, I see you.

1059
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:48,239
Speaker 3: Okay, thank you for accepting that, all right? This next

1060
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:53,839
Speaker 3: one is from Marina or Marina or Marina Marina. Those

1061
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 3: are probably the three options. Gift or a curse. People

1062
00:55:56,680 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 3: with the profile picture of their small children who stir

1063
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 3: the online.

1064
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:06,840
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go in an unexpected direction.

1065
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say gift because because people love having someone

1066
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 2: to be mad at on the internet, and I'm including

1067
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 2: myself in that. Just the It's a short lived enjoyment

1068
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 2: followed by guilt and shame of being happy that someone's

1069
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 2: being ganged up on. But when you first log on

1070
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 2: and you see that someone has said something terrible to

1071
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:36,319
Speaker 2: stir the pot, and everyone is coming together as a

1072
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 2: community to tell them they're wrong and terrible, there's a

1073
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 2: thrill and a sense of being part of something, right,

1074
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 2: So I say it's a gift.

1075
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 3: Correct, This is a gift. Okay, this in particular a

1076
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 3: person with if their profile picture is not them and

1077
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:53,360
Speaker 3: they're using their own children as their profile picture, it

1078
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 3: really says to me, this person's the worst of the worst. Yeah,

1079
00:56:56,480 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 3: because they're hiding behind their children. Yeah, and we're all

1080
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:04,240
Speaker 3: able to now just gang up and go absolutely wild

1081
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 3: on this person. I think it's an absolute gift. Finally,

1082
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 3: this is from Andrea gift, You're a curse attending a

1083
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:13,400
Speaker 3: baseball game.

1084
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 2: I gotta go with gift. Dodger dogs. I haven't been

1085
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 2: in years, but the way I remember how delicious a

1086
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 2: Dodger dog was. I don't haven't drank in years, but

1087
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 2: the fact that you can drink and get a hot dog, popcorn.

1088
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 2: People come through the stands with these delicious food items.

1089
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 2: You even have to get up, and it's a long

1090
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 2: you know, nine inning things, and there's a seventh inning stretch,

1091
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 2: so there's plenty of time to goof off. And it's

1092
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 2: a low st if it's not the World Series, who

1093
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 2: cares who wins? So if you're bored, you can't leave.

1094
00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 2: There's plenty of time to not feel bad. Because it's

1095
00:57:58,160 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 2: so long, you don't feel bad if you leave early.

1096
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 3: I guess correct, Gift. I mean, I think you kind

1097
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 3: of just explained my entire feeling about that. You know,

1098
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 3: I don't really care to go to any sports event,

1099
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 3: but this one is more. It's almost like going to

1100
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 3: them all. You're just going to hang out whatever's happening

1101
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 3: down there. I'm glad it's not interesting, right, because then

1102
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 3: we can just talk to each other, have our hot dog,

1103
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:22,440
Speaker 3: and again, nothing better than leaving something.

1104
00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 2: Early, right, Yeah, what a thrill.

1105
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 3: Just check out when you're done. Yeah, no stakes at all.

1106
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 3: Goodbye baseball. You've had a lovely evening outside, Yeah, among

1107
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 3: strangers and friends and no bad feelings at all.

1108
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you could, even if you had money to burn,

1109
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:45,000
Speaker 2: you might even go to Dodger Stadium just for a

1110
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:46,959
Speaker 2: place to get a good hot dog. Like you're going

1111
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:48,320
Speaker 2: to an expensive restaurant.

1112
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 3: Consider it a restaurant.

1113
00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, just go for the meal and a couple of

1114
00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 2: beers or cokes whatever, right.

1115
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, just consider it a restaurant. My only concern

1116
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 3: with Dodgers Stadium, this is probably a problem with every stadium,

1117
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 3: is parking. Yeah, I see the people driving into that

1118
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 3: parking lot and I panic. I think I would need

1119
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 3: to be helicoptered in or something.

1120
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't. I haven't been to anything any any

1121
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 2: kind of place like that in years. Like I can't

1122
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 2: remember the last concert I went to. But yeah, stuff

1123
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 2: like that it does create a lot of panic.

1124
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:22,960
Speaker 3: Right, You strike me as a concert goer.

1125
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 2: When I was younger, I was. But the last oh so,

1126
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:29,600
Speaker 2: the last concert I went to was in Dayton, Ohio,

1127
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 2: and it was with It was to see the Scorpions

1128
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 2: and White Snake opened for them.

1129
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1130
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 2: It was in two thousand and three and it was

1131
00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:45,640
Speaker 2: a comedian I was friends with was doing the Dayton

1132
00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 2: Comedy Club and they had press box tickets to this

1133
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 2: or whatever it's called for to sit for the concert.

1134
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 2: And we got to go and like get drunk and high,

1135
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 2: because that was I got sober at the end of

1136
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 2: that year, but get drunken high. One of the radio

1137
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 2: guys said, do you want to meet the Scorpions? You

1138
01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 2: want to go to their tour bus?

1139
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 3: Of course, oh, incredit fault. Did you meet the Scorpions?

1140
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 2: No, security prevented us from even going in that direction.

1141
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,920
Speaker 2: And then he and then the radio guy was like, well,

1142
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 2: they don't know. I'm friends with them, they don't know.

1143
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,760
Speaker 2: We'll just go around this way. Went around, like, walked

1144
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:27,440
Speaker 2: around the venue to where the and that same security

1145
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 2: guard stopped us and said, I thought I told you.

1146
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 2: And me and my friend Andy, who's the comedian I

1147
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 2: went with, we were so high and it was so

1148
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 2: hard not to burst out laughing. But it was embarrassing for.

1149
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 3: The radio guy, of course, but a loser.

1150
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:46,600
Speaker 2: It was funny that he was trying to impress us

1151
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 2: with being I can get you on the tour bus

1152
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 2: and then like.

1153
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 3: Not even close.

1154
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 2: Not only that, but you got scolded in front of us.

1155
01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 3: Oh okay, you got two out of three on the game.

1156
01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 3: That's pretty good, not bad at all. We hope me

1157
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 3: answer listener a question. Sure, all right, people are writing

1158
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 3: into I said no gifts at shemail dot com, begging

1159
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 3: for answers. Let's get into this. This is high bridger.

1160
01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:13,840
Speaker 3: They don't even mention you. I have a gift related

1161
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 3: question for you. I'm having trouble finding suitable gifts for

1162
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 3: my fiance's mom. My fiance insists that she doesn't like

1163
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 3: soap candles or any self care gifts like that. Instead,

1164
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 3: he always suggests something random to get her, like a

1165
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 3: plant stand, but there are only so many plant stands

1166
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 3: one can give. My question is what are the other

1167
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:35,520
Speaker 3: gifts I can get this woman. I'm also wondering if

1168
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:37,960
Speaker 3: the reason why my fiance assumes she doesn't want any

1169
01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 3: self care gifts is because neither he nor his brother

1170
01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 3: have ever asked. They are also an immigrant Indian family,

1171
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 3: if that matters, which I think it does. And I'm

1172
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 3: fully bright white, okay, bringing race into it, I digress.

1173
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 3: But all I know is I want to get her

1174
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 3: something nice for her to pamper herself. What do I

1175
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 3: do here? And that's from CD?

1176
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 2: Is it possible to ask them mother in law.

1177
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 3: Right start forging a relationship with this person? Or do

1178
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 3: we want to keep her at arm's length? Is that

1179
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 3: what this plan for this person is. She's trying to

1180
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 3: kind of fracture the family.

1181
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:17,479
Speaker 2: She's trying to cause division, right, ultimately hoping to get

1182
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:19,160
Speaker 2: her husband to go no contact.

1183
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:23,400
Speaker 3: Hmm.

1184
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, that's tough. If people don't tell you

1185
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 2: what they like, or their close relatives don't, that is tough.

1186
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 2: But I guess I would have to ask her like

1187
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 2: well before the holidays or a birthday, like, hey, what

1188
01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 2: what would you like for your birthday? Or what would

1189
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 2: you like for Christmas?

1190
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 3: I think that this another way to learn about the

1191
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 3: mom is start start taking shots in the dark. She

1192
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 3: doesn't like them.

1193
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:52,800
Speaker 2: You're learning about her, right, That's that's true too.

1194
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 3: And take some big swings.

1195
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. Everybody gets gifts that they're never going to use

1196
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 2: and didn't want and what like you, it's right if

1197
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 2: they don't like it, So what then you know for

1198
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:05,560
Speaker 2: next time?

1199
01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 3: Right, you won't get that item again.

1200
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1201
01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:12,920
Speaker 3: And you've got hopefully the rest of this woman's life

1202
01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:16,000
Speaker 3: to get her bad gifts. Yeah, and once you do

1203
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 3: land on one, you're both going to be so happy, right.

1204
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 3: I mean, this is all again, assuming that there isn't

1205
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:25,960
Speaker 3: some other ulterior motive. She has mentioned that neither the

1206
01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 3: brother nor the fiance care about the mom. I don't

1207
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:33,640
Speaker 3: even know if she cares about the mom. I really

1208
01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 3: don't know what to even tell this person.

1209
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 2: I mean, and I'm trying to figure out should I

1210
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 2: be mad at the husband and the fiance and his

1211
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:43,680
Speaker 2: brother for being terrible sons bad sons? Or is the

1212
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 2: mother a mean mom and that's why they don't.

1213
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 3: Care right, Oh yeah, there are how many people here?

1214
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 3: That four different people? That could be horrible. Yeah, I'm

1215
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 3: assuming it's the person who wrote into the podcast CD

1216
01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 3: don't write well. We answered the question perfectly.

1217
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:06,680
Speaker 2: I think we did. I really thought your answer was

1218
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 2: the right one.

1219
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so. And look at this cute little

1220
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:13,480
Speaker 3: picture I've got. Now, I think this is going to

1221
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:15,919
Speaker 3: go up and here. We've got to find a nice place.

1222
01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:18,720
Speaker 3: This is getting a little crowded. I've said this before,

1223
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 3: but it's starting to feel like Grandma's house that you

1224
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:23,360
Speaker 3: don't want to visit. But right maybe over by that

1225
01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 3: little cruise sign, let's see.

1226
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:26,800
Speaker 2: I love it.

1227
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:28,920
Speaker 3: It's like could go, We'll find a place. It's just

1228
01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 3: so adorable. I wonder if it could even just go

1229
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 3: like here, look at that. I love you to figure

1230
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 3: it out.

1231
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 2: You've got so many great gifts.

1232
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 3: I've gotten a lot of objects. I love them, all

1233
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 3: sorts of things that can be used as decor at

1234
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 3: the very least, they're great.

1235
01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 2: It is a muddle. I mean it is a magnet.

1236
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 2: You could attach it to. If this is muddal you

1237
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:55,560
Speaker 2: could attach.

1238
01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's got to be some sort of metal up there.

1239
01:04:58,280 --> 01:05:02,240
Speaker 3: I don't know we'll find it. Martha. I'm so glad

1240
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 3: you could do the podcast.

1241
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 2: Me too.

1242
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 3: It's a thrilled to see you.

1243
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 2: It was a thrill to see you as well, and

1244
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 2: I can't wait for us to make millions off that grill.

1245
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 3: No, we'll get started today. Okay, I'll start the custody

1246
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 3: battle asap. Listener, the podcast is over. We're just releasing

1247
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 3: you into the wild. Go do your thing. I love

1248
01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:29,800
Speaker 3: when you do your thing. I love you, goodbye, I said,

1249
01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:34,160
Speaker 3: No Gifts is an exactly right production. Our senior producer

1250
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:37,880
Speaker 3: is Ellis Nelson, and our episodes are beautifully mixed by

1251
01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:42,400
Speaker 3: Ben Holliday. The theme song is by miracle worker Amy Mann,

1252
01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:45,160
Speaker 3: and we couldn't do it without our booker, Patrick Coottner.

1253
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 3: You must follow the show on Instagram, and I said,

1254
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 3: No Gifts, that's where you're going to see pictures of

1255
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 3: all these wonderful gifts I'm getting. And don't you want

1256
01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:54,360
Speaker 3: to see the gifts?

1257
01:05:56,800 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 1: Did you?

1258
01:05:57,400 --> 01:05:57,800
Speaker 2: Here?

1259
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 1: Thought? I made myself perfectly clear. But you're I guess

1260
01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 1: to my home. You gotta come to me empty And

1261
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 1: I said, no, guess, You're own presences presents enough I

1262
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:23,560
Speaker 1: already had too much stuff, So how do you dare

1263
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 1: to surbey me?