1 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels second d update. Are you absolutely terrible 2 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: at dating? Then go ahead and email us Brook and 3 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: Jewel at Move nine two five dot com. We'll do 4 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: a second date update for you again. If you go 5 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: out with someone and they don't call you back, we'll 6 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: call and ask him why. We've got Alexa on the 7 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: phone right now. Alexa, how are you? I'm okay? How 8 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: are you pretty good? Do you emailed us about a 9 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,479 Speaker 1: dude named Jeremy? Tell us about him? Uh? Yeah, Jeremy, 10 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:34,840 Speaker 1: Well we met a couple months ago. We were both 11 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:39,239 Speaker 1: on our habitat for Humanity project Huge, yeah, and I 12 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: noticed him right away, super dud and like, you know, 13 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: I figure people that are doing that kind of like 14 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: boring boring, they're exciting people, right anyway, So you met 15 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: him there and then what happened him and like got 16 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: tonto a little bit, Like he seemed like nice and 17 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: kind of got the five videos interested. So I actually 18 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: at him out. Okay. He was talking one day about football, 19 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: and I don't know anything about football, and he's like 20 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 1: obsessed about that, all right, So I kind of was like, 21 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,680 Speaker 1: let's go watch a game sometime, like I'll like learn 22 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: about it, you know, and first of all, it's called 23 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: a it's called a football match, and they played on 24 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 1: a football court, So that's what you should have said. Okay, 25 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: so did you guys go watch football? We totally watched football. 26 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 1: We went to this like sports bar kind of place 27 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: and watched games and like you know, tod beers and 28 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: it was really nice. Okay, how did the date end? Well, 29 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 1: it just kind of petered out, honestly, like it was 30 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: it was okay, It wasn't that. It was just I 31 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: felt like his vibes came like as we went through him, 32 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: it kind of started to seem like depressed. Did his 33 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: team lose? Ah? Yeah, because did he seem upset after 34 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: he lost? Like he didn't want to be there or 35 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: like what happened? Yeah kind of. But I also just 36 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 1: felt like even before that, his attention and he had 37 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: kind of gone away. All right. I don't know what happened, 38 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: but like I really liked him and I'm really attracted 39 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: to him, and I felt that way from him both 40 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: whom we were working on the project for habits Hot together, 41 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: and also like at the bar that date was going 42 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: really well. Have you tried to call him? I sent 43 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: him a text after the date, being like, Hey, that 44 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: was so much fun, we should do it again. How 45 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 1: long ago was that? That was like three weeks ago? Okay? 46 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: All right, Well we'll try to call him after this, 47 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,799 Speaker 1: see if he answers the phone and ask him why 48 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: he hasn't called you back. Okay, Yeah, are you nervous 49 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: a little? I mean I just really really liked him, 50 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,119 Speaker 1: and I felt even kind of like lame asking for help. 51 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 1: But I don't want to see him desperate, and I 52 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: just want to know what happened. Okay, all right, we'll 53 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 1: call him right over this hang on brooking jubil in 54 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: the morning. Okay, Alexa is on the phone with us 55 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 1: right now. She went on a date with a dude 56 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: named Jeremy to watch ball because he's a big football fan. 57 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: She didn't know anything about it. And you're ready to 58 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: call him and ask him why I didn't get back 59 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: to you, right, Alexa? Yes, all right? Did you try 60 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: to talk football with him like a little bit? I know, 61 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: I said, I don't really know a lot about it, 62 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: any of My dad is a huge football fan, right, okay? 63 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 1: And she didn't fake it, I mean he knew that 64 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: she was a football virgin. Yeah, And that's okay. The 65 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: annoying part is when a girl doesn't know and then 66 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 1: tries to talk sports with you, and you're like, okay, 67 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,119 Speaker 1: you don't know what you're talking about. Would you please 68 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: stop trying to be a guy's girl. So you did 69 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 1: the right thing, I'm just wondering. All right, we'll call 70 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: him right now and see if we get him on 71 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: the phone. Okay, okay, and you can go ahead and 72 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: jump in anytime you want to talk to him. Okay, Hey, 73 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: can I speak to Jeremy please? Yeah? What's up? Man? 74 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel 75 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Serious, Yeah, 76 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: what's up? How you doing good? What's up? Oh? He's 77 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: excited calling you because I wanted to ask you a 78 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 1: question about a mutual friend. We have a girl named Alexa. Okay, um, 79 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: you know i'm talking about you went out on a 80 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 1: date with her, watch football, kind of hung out for 81 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 1: the while. Yeah, well you haven't called her back since 82 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 1: your date, and we were calling you to ask why, um, 83 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: why do you guys need to know question? She wants 84 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 1: to know because she's wondering if she did something wrong. 85 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: It's a segment we do on the show called Second 86 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 1: Date Update, where if you go out on a date 87 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 1: with someone and then they kind of blow you off, 88 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: they email us to get a hold of that person. Okay, 89 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: And the way she described it, you guys had a 90 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 1: lot of fun on your date. Yeah, I mean she's 91 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 1: a really nice person and we went out and there 92 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: was just it didn't click, you know, any particular thing 93 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: that she did that turns you off. I mean this, 94 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: if I'm being honest, it's okay, so it's it's stupid, 95 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: but uh, she didn't know too much stuff football, and 96 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 1: I just didn't feel the click, you know, just to 97 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: turn off to you that you didn't know much of football. 98 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 1: I mean it was kind of cool that she didn't 99 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 1: know too much about football. Uh, you know that she 100 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 1: wanted to go to this bar and and and learn 101 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 1: a little bit. But she was a Bears fan. What 102 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: she is? A Bears fan? Are you not a Bears fan? Like? No, 103 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: come on, Hawks man? Yeah? But uh, I mean not 104 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: just like an annoying Bears like you know, when somebody 105 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: doesn't know what they're talking about and then but they 106 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: still root for it anyway. Okay, are you serious? Are 107 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: you serious, Jeremy, that's Alexa Alexa. I'm listening. Alexa's on 108 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: the phone with us right now, Jeremy, are you kidding 109 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: me because of a team? Because I grat in Chicago? 110 00:05:55,480 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 1: Are you kidding? That's insane? Um? Okay, Like it doesn't 111 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: like the Bears, Like the Bears are like the great 112 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: team out Alexa Alexa. Right, you said yourself that you 113 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: don't know anything or care really about football, so how 114 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: can you even be a fan? I grew up there. 115 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: My god was a big Bears fan, so like, I 116 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: love the Bears. Like that's where up that's from. You 117 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: can't hold that against me? Are you kidding? And I 118 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: think that's rational. I mean that's her hometown, Dude, it's 119 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: like hometown about Like why do you even care about 120 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: the team? Why do you worry about what she's caring about? 121 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: Why does he even care that she likes the Bears? Jeremy, Yeah, 122 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: really over a team. Look, there's just you know when 123 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: you go up on the dates and you know that 124 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: there's not one thing you know you can never have 125 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:49,119 Speaker 1: a meaningful relationship with after you Like again, there's nothing 126 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 1: wrong with Alexa accept the Bears thing. And I mean Look, 127 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: that's what I do with my buddies. We go we 128 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: want love the Seahawks, because you love the Seahawks so 129 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: much they won the Super Bowl. Oh I thought, Alexa, Alexa, 130 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: I thought you didn't know anything about football, Like now 131 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 1: you're bringing up Super Bowl on the super Bowl. I 132 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: know that, Alexa. Were you playing like you didn't know 133 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: anything about football? Because from your reaction about the team 134 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: and everything else, it sounds like you actually know some 135 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: things about football, not that Mars, I mean some. I 136 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: wasn't like faking it to be like all girly, so 137 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 1: he'd liked me like I want to learn more, Like 138 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I knew the Bears like I knew the 139 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: Bears from when a kid. I need the Bears like 140 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: that my dad love. I think it's still crazy that 141 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: we like connected and we potentially could have had a 142 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: really nice time. And because of me being from Chicago, 143 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: that's like the big deal. Killer, come on, because football 144 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: is important to me. I know it sounds stupid, but 145 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: that's what I like. You know, That's that's what I do. 146 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: And it's something like I share with my friends. I'd 147 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 1: like to share with with the woman I don't don't 148 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: you think it'd be nice to have something of your own, 149 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: Like I hate basketball. My husband loves it. He can 150 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: have that. I don't care about it. It's like an 151 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: emotional thing. I'm growing up anyway, whatever this is movie 152 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: because they think a kind of a jerk, Jeremy, let 153 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 1: me ask you this, Like, Okay, I'm a huge Lakers 154 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: fan because I grew up in LA and I love 155 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: the team. If I met a girl who was a 156 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: Celtics fan, who is our number one rival, I would 157 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: actually be okay with that because then we could talk trash, 158 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I would enjoy that. 159 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: So you can't see that side of it where it 160 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: might be kind of fun. I get what you're saying, Like, 161 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: you know, you can have your own things, but Sunday 162 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: is a day like that's yes, all right, Yeah, So 163 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: you want somebody that roots for your team, that's fine, 164 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with that. I mean, that's that's your reason. 165 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,080 Speaker 1: To most people, Sunday is a sacred church day, but 166 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: to Jeremy, it's all about football. Football, So church or football. Yeah, 167 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: as we do in all the second date updates, we'll 168 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 1: offer you to another date if you'd like to go out. 169 00:08:52,440 --> 00:09:00,200 Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. Oh you know, I would consider it, 170 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 1: but only if he would wear Bear's jersey. Oh wow, 171 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 1: sacrilegious Jeremy. I mean, come on, man, it's a broken 172 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 1: Juwil in the morning.