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Speaker 2: Allegra is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Harold.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're going to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date. But first, Allegra, how

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Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from him?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Man, it has been about twelve days already.

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Speaker 2: How many times have you tried to reach out to

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Speaker 2: him in the twelve days?

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Speaker 4: A few?

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Speaker 3: Like, I'm not going crazy, but I've spent a few

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Speaker 3: texts on a few different days and I haven't heard

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Speaker 3: a response since our first date ended.

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Speaker 1: Actually, okay, well let's go back to that. Want to

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Speaker 1: tell us about your date and how it ended?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it was like a typical date. You know.

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Speaker 3: We decided to meet up for drinks and we were

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Speaker 3: having such a good time that we actually ended up

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Speaker 3: getting dinner, had some good Italian food, then we had

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Speaker 4: So it was a good date.

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Speaker 3: Like it was definite hours.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that would make me feel like it was a

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Speaker 2: good date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, okay, definitely liked me, like he was really

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Speaker 4: So how do you know that?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, first of all, you don't stay several

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Speaker 3: hours if you're not feeling someone, you know, and his

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Speaker 3: body language was into me. The conversation was glowing, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, he sent me a really nice text when

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Speaker 3: he got home at the end of the day. He

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Speaker 3: just hasn't been responded to since then, and that's why

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Speaker 3: I'm like, sumpthing's up, Like it's just not adding up.

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Speaker 2: So he texted you when he got home. What did

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Speaker 3: He said that he had a great time and to

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Speaker 3: have a good night, like very typical.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: Was there any talk about a second date while you

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Speaker 1: were on that date, like oh, that'd be fun for

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Speaker 1: us to try next time, or any kind of subtle

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Speaker 3: We said comments like that multiple times, like oh my gosh,

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Speaker 3: you haven't seen that movie. I'll totally go with you again,

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Speaker 3: Like oh my gosh, that happened, let's do that together.

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Speaker 3: So we didn't specify like a second date, but we

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Speaker 2: And there's nothing that you can think of on the

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Speaker 2: date that happened that could have been awkward.

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Speaker 3: I mean, nothing was awkward. We are very different. He

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Speaker 3: you know, he's kind of like a buttoned up dude

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Speaker 3: don't get me wrong, I have my stuff together, but

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Speaker 3: you know, I'm care free. I like to have fun.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know, I don't really think that was

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Speaker 3: an issue. I feel like he was really into me,

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Speaker 3: and I made it clear that I am very into him,

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Speaker 2: What do you mean. I made it clear.

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Speaker 3: Like I basically attracted to him, but I let him know,

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Speaker 3: like he's my ideal type of guy. Like it's really

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Speaker 3: hard to find a guy that you're attracted to physically

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Speaker 3: a life for himself. He shared that he kind of

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Speaker 3: grew up in a bad situation and now he's made

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Speaker 3: a life for himself and that's why checks all my boxes.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm looking for.

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you think maybe it was like too much

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't know. I mean that's why I.

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Speaker 4: Need your help.

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Speaker 3: Like to me, we balance each other perfectly, but you know,

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Speaker 3: maybe he's feeling a different way and after he stopped

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Speaker 3: about things. He decided I'm not a good fit, but

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Speaker 3: I really think that I am, so I need your help.

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Speaker 1: Did you tell him that he checks all your boxes?

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Speaker 3: I didn't say that specifically, but I mean I did

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Speaker 3: let him know, like, man, this is impressive, like I'm

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Speaker 3: me goodbye, and it wasn't something that I was encouraging, Like,

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Speaker 3: I mean, I wanted to kiss him, but I wasn't

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Speaker 4: That on him.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he pulled me in and did not let

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Speaker 3: me go when we were hugging, and the kiss was excellent.

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Speaker 3: So again the chemistry fully there.

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Speaker 1: Was it an open mouth kiss or a closed mouth kiss?

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Speaker 1: That's important to know, like it.

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Speaker 3: Ten minute open mouth kiss?

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Speaker 2: Oh oh okay, so that was like makeout girl.

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Speaker 1: I would have already showed up at his house after

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Speaker 1: all of this twelve day I'll let your tongue in

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Speaker 1: my mouth.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then play a song, come back, and then call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and get you another day if you still want one.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, thank you, so much.

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Speaker 2: All right, pleas, don't come back and get your first

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Speaker 2: day follow up next right in the middle of your

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Speaker 2: first day follow up if you're just joining us. Alegra

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Speaker 2: is on the phone, and it's been twelve days since

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Speaker 2: she heard from Harold, the guys she went on a

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Speaker 2: date with, And now we're about to call him and

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Speaker 2: see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Allegra,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so, like you said, this guy, Harold and I

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Speaker 3: hit it off. We had a great first date. It

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Speaker 3: ended with an amazing kiss, and I really think there's

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Speaker 3: potential for this to be something. However, Harold isn't responding

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Speaker 3: to text messages anymore.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, you're ready for us to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting you?

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Speaker 4: One hundred percent yes, all right.

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Speaker 2: Here we go, Harold. Hey, Harold, how are you. My

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Speaker 2: name's Jebel. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called

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Speaker 2: the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 1: How are you hi, Harold?

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Speaker 2: The whole show's here too. My name's hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 4: I'm fine.

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Speaker 2: How are you I'm pretty good. So did you hear

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Speaker 2: where we're calling from?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is so formal. Yeah, are you at work?

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Speaker 4: Yes I am, but I have a moment I may

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Speaker 2: We're calling from. So it's a radio show called The

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Speaker 2: Jewel Show, and we do a segment on our show

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Speaker 2: that if somebody gets ghosted from a date that they

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Speaker 2: went on, that person can always email them to get

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Speaker 2: them on the phone and ask why they're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 2: And so we got an email about you from someone

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Speaker 4: And who is this?

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Speaker 2: Her name is Alegra.

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Speaker 4: Yes, okay, yes, I understand. All right, do.

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Speaker 2: You would you mind telling us why you're not calling

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Speaker 2: her back? She said, it's been twelve days since you

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Speaker 2: guys hung out, and she really.

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Speaker 5: Off to a moment, to be truthful with you. She

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Speaker 5: was a wonderful girl. I had great time with her.

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Speaker 5: Headed off, I was a tracted to her. I hope

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Speaker 5: she's attracted to me. But in the interim and in

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Speaker 5: all said and done, honestly, she's too hot. She was

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Speaker 5: absolutely too gorgeous of a woman. And I've learned coming up,

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Speaker 5: I please hear me out. I've learned as a man

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Speaker 5: coming up the way I have from poverty to being

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Speaker 5: an environment that the good looking girls are too high maintenance.

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Speaker 5: It's almost like a dream that's that's too good.

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Speaker 4: You cannot you can't.

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Speaker 5: There's no way to sustain that type of relationship with

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Speaker 4: You need what they call back in my days.

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Speaker 5: And I'll go marry the one you don't marry the

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Speaker 5: ones that you like. You, marry the ones that like you.

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Speaker 4: It's safer. It's safer, untimately safer.

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Speaker 2: You. Yeah, I don't know about that, sir.

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Speaker 1: This sounds a little bit old fashion, but not even that,

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I'm looking for someone who.

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Speaker 4: Is and I'll go to be truthful, to be blunt.

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Speaker 4: It's not as high matenance. It's she okay, you know what.

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Speaker 5: I ast you to give you more information, And this

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Speaker 5: is what most men won't tell you. It is an

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Speaker 5: insight into someone's insecurity. I will admit this, but at

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Speaker 5: the same time I can also address it to the

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Speaker 5: point saying, you know what, I can't sustain.

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Speaker 4: That I like her. She's great, She's absolutely great. If

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Speaker 4: this even makes sense, she checked all the boxes on

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Speaker 5: But the glaring reality is that she is absolutely gorgeous,

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Speaker 4: I'll even go as so I say that.

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Speaker 1: So this isn't really about the high maintenance so much.

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Speaker 1: Is that maybe it's a way to protect yourself from

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Speaker 5: That is a great possibility, interest has been a great

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie to here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thanks for being honest. I appreciate it certainly.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for your time if you can hang out once.

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Speaker 2: Ale is actually on the phone. She's been listening and

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Speaker 4: You hell on leg How are you have you been?

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Speaker 3: I've been sad because I've sent you a few messages

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Speaker 5: If you heard everything you it's no, there's no struck

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Speaker 5: against you. It's as I was man have to say.

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Speaker 5: It could be in the area of an insecurity.

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Speaker 4: Upon my point, what.

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Speaker 5: I've seen my other friends go through, I don't want

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Speaker 4: Is for me to fall in over to you, and

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Speaker 4: you would you betray or cheat me? Cheating me because

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Speaker 4: I don't well with pain. I don't. I build up

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Speaker 4: you you threadnant, you thread it. I'm going to get emotions.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: No, you don't know that part of me.

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Speaker 4: But that's that's pretty much how I have a right,

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Speaker 4: and that's that's why I.

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Speaker 2: Do.

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Speaker 4: I would not be able.

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Speaker 5: To to to maintain myself adequately.

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Speaker 4: If someone I liked so much it was so beautiful,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, here's the though, hero Like, I'm hoping that the

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Speaker 3: you'll see on my inside because I'm not that girl.

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Speaker 3: I'm not the type of person who thinks looks are

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Speaker 3: the way, you are so hot, like you have to understand,

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Speaker 3: like woman, it's not if your looks the whole package.

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Speaker 2: You know, Harold, uh, you shouldn't stay closed off to

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Speaker 2: stuff just because you want to know, well, you think

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Speaker 2: and I go would be better.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't make it safer. I mean, it's always scary

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Speaker 4: No, no, I agree, I agree, It's just it's just

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Speaker 4: blue hard. You know, it's blueheard. Have you seen a

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Speaker 4: lot of you've been hurt before, and you've seen a

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Speaker 4: lot of betrayal.

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Speaker 5: From your friends and that what's happened to them.

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Speaker 4: It kind of it kind of shuts you down a

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Speaker 4: little bit. And and you're right, I shouldn't do that way.

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Speaker 4: I shouldn't because she's great. She's great, Allegra, you're great.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well then Harold, would you like to go out

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Speaker 2: with Allegra again on another date? We'll pay for it, Yes.

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Speaker 4: I will say this, Allegra. I don't need their money, but.

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Speaker 2: On the day with you, so we don't have to

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Speaker 2: pay for it, but you'll go on another day.

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Speaker 4: I definitely.

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Speaker 6: I'm a man, you know, I have to keep that

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Speaker 6: image jump to go, alleg It was really nice to

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Speaker 6: hear from you.

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Speaker 2: This has been a ride.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I think that if we.

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Speaker 3: Go on another date, your insecurities are going to go away.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm here for this.

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Speaker 4: Good. I think I need some money to be here

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Speaker 4: for that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, you do, Harold, yeah yeah. Don't take something

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Speaker 2: away from yourself because of things that have happened outside

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Speaker 2: of you, you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 2: But really you don't need to pay for them, you know.

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Speaker 5: Put it.

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Speaker 4: I'll put it in writing. I'll put it in writing

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Speaker 4: as well.

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Speaker 3: Jubile's First Date follow up