1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 2: It's almost Famus podcast. 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 3: We're here today with headlines, but I think the most 5 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 3: interesting exciting story of the week is a girls trip 6 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 3: that happened. Yeah, Nashville, Tennessee. Wonderful place, beautiful place, and 7 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 3: luckily we're bringing in a really special guest today to 8 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 3: talk about the weekend. 9 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 2: Who was there herself? Ashley? What's up? Hi? 10 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 4: Yes, we had the best weekend ever. 11 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 5: We stayed at Caitlin's house. So it is Caitlin Carly, 12 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 5: who's also a Nashville native. 13 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 4: Becka. I don't know if I need Do I need 14 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:43,639 Speaker 4: last names here? 15 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 5: Do you think the Almost Famous podcast they know everybody 16 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 5: by first. 17 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 2: Name, Jade and Me and Whitney. 18 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 5: And it was so great. It was like the it 19 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 5: was the perfect girl's weekend. You know, girls out there 20 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 5: know a lot of the times you'll get your girls 21 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 5: together and there'll be someone who's like bringing down the 22 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 5: bunch or someone that you're talking about like when they 23 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 5: leave the room, or like the event about when you 24 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 5: leave the trip. 25 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 4: This was one hundred percent positive. 26 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 5: I was only calling like my sister to like tell 27 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 5: funny stories and be like you wouldn't believe what the 28 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 5: story that's. 29 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:23,119 Speaker 4: So and so told. 30 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:27,199 Speaker 5: And it was the greatest, most like heart filling girls 31 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 5: trip together. Collectively, we haven't seen each other like that 32 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 5: in eleven years since we filmed the show. I have 33 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 5: obviously seen I see Caitlin probably at least once a 34 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 5: year in person, and then I beca at least once 35 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 5: a year in person, and Jade's same, Carly I see 36 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 5: like every year or two, and then Whitney I actually 37 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 5: don't think i've seen since, like maybe in person since filming. 38 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 5: We've done podcasts with her together. But it was so 39 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 5: fulfilling heart and soul. It was great, and Caitlyn was 40 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 5: the hostess with the absolute mosess like she has a 41 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 5: guest room for all of us. We all had our 42 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:12,959 Speaker 5: own room, and then she had a private bartender come 43 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 5: the night of that we got there. 44 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 4: We had. 45 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 5: What I loved about this was that it wasn't like 46 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 5: a high glam thing like the and it wasn't overly done. 47 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 4: It was just perfect. 48 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 5: She had a bartender com for just the six of 49 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 5: us as we dressed up like witches, just for the 50 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 5: six of us, and then. 51 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 2: We had she had catering. She had sushi chefs come over. 52 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 5: It was as if we were like staying at a resort, 53 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 5: but it was Caitlyn's house and she had little goodie 54 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 5: baskets in each of the rooms. 55 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 4: She was such a fantastic host. 56 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 5: She booked a private Pilateus class for us on Saturday morning, 57 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 5: and then we went and got like Caesars and fries 58 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 5: and had like the nicest girl's bride that is. 59 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 2: The gliest, by the way, hold up, time out. 60 00:02:58,680 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 4: The gurliest thing ever. 61 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 3: Just the idea that that was a thought is one 62 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 3: hilarious too. 63 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 2: It's like my favorite meal, but mine's a cops out. 64 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: It is the best. 65 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 4: Okay, it's the best meal. 66 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 2: That made me laugh. Yeah. 67 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 5: Then it was Carl's fortieth birthday, so we decorated cowboy hats. 68 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 5: This place called Wrestler and then we decorated that sounds 69 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 5: like a gurly project. I thought it was gonna be 70 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 5: a Gurly project. It's actually like pretty straight up cowboy. 71 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 5: And then we went to a rooftop for drinks, and 72 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 5: then we went to dinner and then we went home. 73 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 5: And let me tell you a lot of times making 74 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 5: Instagram content and seems like fun. When you're watching and 75 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 5: you're scrolling on Instagram, it's usually a lot of work 76 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 5: and there's not a lot of fun to it. We 77 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 5: did these Instagram these trends. It actually the whole weekend 78 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 5: started because of a trend Caitlin. This isn't a girl 79 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 5: chat group that we normally have going on, but she 80 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 5: had texted a group of us. 81 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 2: Saying we should do this trend. 82 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 5: And she just meant we should all send in like 83 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 5: our own clip of us, just you know, from Chris's season, 84 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 5: and then a clip of us from now and she's like, 85 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 5: and I'll compile them. 86 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 4: And I was like, well, what if we do it 87 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 4: in person? 88 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 5: And then I was like, I'm available this Like I 89 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,679 Speaker 5: picked a weekend that I knew would be very free, 90 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 5: and then Carly was like, that's my fortieth birthday weekend 91 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 5: and she was like, and I just broke up with 92 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 5: my fiance and I could really use this. And that's 93 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 5: how the plans got out of the group chat. 94 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 4: As they say, I. 95 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 3: Mean, it's absolutely spectacular. I think this is so fun. 96 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 3: I love personally. One of my favorite things to see 97 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 3: on social media and to see with my friends is 98 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 3: like people coming together around a table again, right, celebrating, sharing, 99 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 3: just reminiscing. This seemed like the perfect weekend for that. Now, 100 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 3: were you able to enjoy yourselves without social media or 101 00:04:58,240 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 3: was this overly social media load? 102 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 5: No? 103 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 1: I I. 104 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 4: Didn't finish my thought there. 105 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 5: But the reason I say that like, sometimes it looks fun, 106 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 5: but it's usually not. 107 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 4: It's usually actually work. 108 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 5: We had the greatest time making these instagrams and TikTok, 109 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 5: some of which haven't been out yet. It was like 110 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 5: a creative outlet for us, and it felt as if 111 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 5: we were in nineteen ninety eight being like ten to 112 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 5: twelve year olds making Spice Girls music videos. 113 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 4: Like that's what it felt like. 114 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 5: We were watching back footage twenty four hours after filming. 115 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,159 Speaker 4: Something, and we were actually like on the floor. 116 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 5: I was holding my foot to like my crotch to 117 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:45,359 Speaker 5: make sure I didn't actually pee my pants because we 118 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 5: were laughing so hard. It hurts watching this stuff back. 119 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 5: So it was great. It was absolutely like the most fun. 120 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 5: And then I would never do a dance TikTok. But 121 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 5: then I got like the mirror Ball Trophy winner teaching 122 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 5: you how to do a TikTok dance, and she's just 123 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 5: like having the time. 124 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 4: It was just the best. It was so much fun. 125 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 5: And no, I wasn't like we were doing social media 126 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 5: the entire time. It was an asset to the weekend 127 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 5: and it was only a few hours. 128 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 3: Okay, some rapid fire questions for you. Okay, did you 129 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 3: call chrys Souls? 130 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 4: No, that would be weird because Whitney was there. 131 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 2: You know, if is that weird? I don't know. 132 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 5: Yes, that was not like, you know, would Laurene call 133 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 5: you in a group situation. 134 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 3: I think if all the other girls were like, can 135 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,679 Speaker 3: we let's do it, that'd be funny. I think she'd 136 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 3: be like whatever, I don't care, Like he's not gonna. 137 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. 138 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 3: Maybe no, I don't think i'd be Okay, was there 139 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 3: any competition like that was brought up from eleven years 140 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 3: ago back at this house, like did you stare one 141 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 3: of these girls down? Like, hey, you made it farther 142 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 3: than me, but look at me now. 143 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 4: I don't think so. 144 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 5: No, but I do say and I'm echoing the sentiments 145 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 5: of a lot of people in the comment section of 146 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 5: our last Instagram reil that went up where it was 147 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 5: like eleven years ago versus now and like pretty much 148 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 5: everyone glowed up. 149 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 3: I was going to say, I saw the picture pretty 150 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 3: flirty and thriving. Yeah, I think you all. I mean, 151 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 3: I think you were beautiful back then. I think it 152 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 3: was a great season, a great cast. I saw them, yeah, 153 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 3: like the side by sides, and I was like, all 154 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 3: these women look like so like better, which is crazy. Yeah, 155 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 3: I don't know why, but it's like going against. 156 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 4: Good skin treatments. I don't know. 157 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, was it every? The final question for you? Was 158 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 3: it everything you wanted to be and more? I mean, 159 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 3: I know we had talked about this for a couple 160 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 3: of weeks leading up to it. This was an exciting day. 161 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 3: I was excited for you guys. I was pumped that 162 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 3: you're doing this. 163 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 4: I know, like you kind of like Wishy were there. 164 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 5: We should have like a third guy the third day, 165 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 5: for some of our favorite guys to show up. 166 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would just come and hung out. Plus I've 167 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 2: been to Kaylin' Soun's so cool sick. 168 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 169 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, was it everything you wanted to be? 170 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 5: It is beyond everything we wanted it to be. We're 171 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 5: going to We're trying to make plans to do it 172 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 5: now once a year, like we're actually trying to like 173 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 5: form up a week for next year. 174 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 175 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 3: Now, this is like a guy's golf trip, right, Like 176 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 3: guys have this thing, or at least my buddies where 177 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 3: it's easy because you have to book golf trips in advance. 178 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 3: You have to commit to them, and we you know, 179 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 3: traditionally have done that year every year or year because 180 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 3: we have to hold this date out because the course 181 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 3: needs to know we're coming. I've heard this often times 182 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 3: with women. This has actually been a conversation that came 183 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 3: up with mom. Con It's come up in my own household. 184 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 3: It's just seems to be a thing for whatever reason. 185 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 3: I think a very interesting thing right now is women 186 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 3: are were having a hard time as they get out 187 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 3: of college and into their thirties and forties finding a 188 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 3: hobby they you know, like a hobby they call it 189 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 3: so like something to do with friends, something to do 190 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 3: to helps them gather. Guys have golf, right. I think 191 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 3: that's my thing, and so I'm a big proponent of 192 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 3: like these pick a weekend, have it every year, like 193 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 3: you don't block it's blocked off. 194 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 2: You have to get together. 195 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, it's definitely a little anxiety and being like, Okay, so. 196 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 4: This is the day. 197 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 5: So like, if I to get any opportunities this week, 198 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 5: I guess I know, guys, I know to it. 199 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 2: I mean it is. 200 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it is life. 201 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 5: I was going to say that actually during the trip, 202 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 5: I was like, I feel bad for guys, Like I 203 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 5: feel bad that Jared doesn't have a group like this 204 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 5: where I do feel like girl talk is so much 205 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 5: more intimate and soul filling than guy talk. It's like, 206 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 5: I know that you guys need that outlet, but I 207 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 5: don't know that you ever have it the way that 208 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 5: and you get it through golf trips and such, but 209 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 5: you don't like you talk about sports and stuff like that. 210 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 5: And like we talked about everything that we're feeling. 211 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 2: That's hilarious. Well healthy, Yeah, it's good. 212 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 4: It's so good. 213 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 2: There was a witch night. I heart is very interested 214 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 2: in what this witch it was. 215 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 5: Oh, it was like, just like we just said it, 216 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 5: wouldn't it be funny if we like all dressed up 217 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 5: as a witch, you know, being Halloween, and we just 218 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 5: all picked one that resonated with us. 219 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 2: So there was six of you total, six of you 220 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 2: total at this house. 221 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 3: Well, Ashley, I think this is such a fun thing. 222 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 3: I was so happy to watch it. I think Chris Soles, 223 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 3: it's interesting for me. I don't know Carly very well. 224 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:30,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess you and Carly never had any run ins. 225 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:31,319 Speaker 4: And also just. 226 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 5: Shout out to Caitlin's assistant who was there helping with 227 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 5: everything and being our videographer. 228 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,079 Speaker 4: She was absolutely fantastic. 229 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 2: Sure she loved it. 230 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 3: What better role is it to be than one on 231 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 3: the other side of the camera just enjoying the people 232 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 3: making pools of themselves on the other side. Yeah, but 233 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 3: all those women are so cool, like they are, They're 234 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 3: so great. I think that's something that we need to 235 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 3: say because oftentimes we come on here and we talk 236 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 3: about the villain, we talk about the thing that's dramatic, 237 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 3: we talk about the people that have maybe caused the 238 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 3: headline which you're going to just the second, and those 239 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 3: headlines typically aren't great. The women that were in that 240 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 3: house with you, and there was many others on your 241 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 3: season and I also think were great, But that was like, 242 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 3: this is a solid group of women that I always 243 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 3: enjoy being around, and I know my wife really loves 244 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 3: being around. They're some of the best. Yeah, in eleven 245 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 3: years twenty two seasons. How you know of the show 246 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 3: like still some of the best that people relate to 247 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 3: love and they deserve it because you guys are are awesome. 248 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 5: Oh well, thank you, Ben, You are shining star in 249 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 5: that in that group. 250 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 3: You don't have to come back to me with anything. 251 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 3: I was happy to see it, Ashley. I'm sure you're tired. 252 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm good. No, actually not tired, to be honest. 253 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 5: Slept better than I've slept in years. 254 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was thinking, I uh yeah, that's actually probably funny. 255 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 2: You didn't have video in eruptions. 256 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 5: It was a child free house. I had the luxury 257 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 5: of waiting. I woke up at eight and then I 258 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 5: was like, you know what, I'm just gonna like sit 259 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,719 Speaker 5: in bed, scroll on the phone, day dream a little bit. 260 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 4: And then you know what I did. I fell back 261 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 4: to sleep till ten thirty. 262 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 5: And that is something that has not happened in a 263 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 5: very long time. 264 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:13,079 Speaker 2: This is so good. 265 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 3: Oh, this is so you're right, because you just yeah, 266 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 3: your boys love to get you up. 267 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 2: They just love life. They want to get you up, 268 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 2: get you going. Yeah. 269 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 5: I mean they wake up late, which is nice, but 270 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 5: like I don't get like once I'm out of bed. Yeah, 271 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,559 Speaker 5: out of bed, Like once you hear them on the monitor, 272 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 5: your bedtime is over. 273 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:34,079 Speaker 3: I was thinking about the season of Caitlyn season that 274 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 3: I was on and the guys that would get together 275 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 3: from that. Jared would obviously be like my number one call, 276 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 3: you know, the Tamers of the world, and so I 277 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 3: just don't have close relationships to a lot of those guys. 278 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:51,599 Speaker 2: Jared, Jared is the one. I mean, Nick was on 279 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 2: that season. 280 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 3: I do talk to Nick, but Jared is the one 281 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 3: dude that I and I like a lot of them, 282 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 3: like I love them at the Golden Wedding having dinner 283 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 3: with Tanner. I mean, he's it's not not seeing these 284 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 3: guys aren't great. 285 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 2: We just don't talk Cupcake. I don't talk to Cupcake. 286 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 4: I love Cupcake so much. 287 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 2: He's a great dude. 288 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 4: He's actually a friend of mine. 289 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 5: That's very similar to those girls, where it's like I 290 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 5: could go a couple of years without seeing him and 291 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 5: it's like not weird at all when we see him, 292 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 5: and we. 293 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 4: Could just like blah blah bla blah blah blah blah blah. 294 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 2: Chris Strandberg to be proper. Yeah, I'm just laughing at 295 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 2: the fact that his name's Cupcake. Like, how a poor guy. 296 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 2: He's like thirty eight years old and he's still known 297 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 2: as Cupcake. 298 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 4: I know, like I can't believe that's stuck so. 299 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 3: Hard they did. But yeah, I mean there's great guys 300 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 3: on the season. I just don't necessarily have their friendship 301 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 3: with all of them close enough to be like, hey, 302 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 3: let's all get together again, all. 303 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 2: Right, should we dive in the headlines. 304 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 4: Let's do it. 305 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 2: Big headline coming out of. 306 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 3: Last week actually was The Bachelor's Melissa Ryecroft says she's 307 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 3: struggling after a rest. 308 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:12,679 Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, yeah, not laughing at this, but yeah. 309 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 3: No, but like what a headline like this is the 310 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 3: best head that they could come up with, is she's 311 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 3: struggling after their arrest. 312 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 2: Yes, like that makes sense. 313 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 5: Our podcast producer Hither and I were on the podcast 314 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 5: together doing these headlines last week, and I was like, oh, man, 315 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 5: were we like No, I I guess we weren't like 316 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 5: too hard on Melissa and we're talking about the mugshot 317 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 5: and how rough she looked at it. 318 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 2: She did she did drink and drive, so you know, 319 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 2: it's a long night. 320 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 5: So what happened was people were talking about on Instagram. 321 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 5: She posted an inspirational message or she posted something on 322 00:14:55,800 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 5: Instagram and then people were commenting under eth it. Some 323 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 5: shared it inspirational quote, some are like I made the 324 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 5: mistake as well. Somebody said, no excuse, but it happened. 325 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 5: Don't forget that you are beautiful, loved, blessed, and Melissa. 326 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 4: Ro underneath it and she said, thank you. 327 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 5: Life really sucks right now and I am struggling, but 328 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 5: I'm trying to march forward. But thank you for the 329 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 5: sweet words in what seems to be a world of negativity. 330 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 5: And that's our update from her. Obviously, she's like not 331 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 5: going to post be like well, I don't know. Everybody 332 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 5: does their own thing, but. 333 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: She's not going to post to be like Chris. 334 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 4: Was my mug shot when I drink and drive. 335 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's not gonna be like this is life is great. 336 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 3: Everything's clicking how I've always dreamed. It's be clicking like 337 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 3: this is a tough season. There's a lot to learn, 338 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 3: a lot to grow, a lot of like different feelings 339 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 3: that you know, I think in life, mistakes happen, and 340 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 3: like people said, it's a mistake that happens. But shame 341 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 3: and guilt do not do a human well. But I think, 342 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 3: you know, changing course, adjusting, making it a part of 343 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 3: your story, teaching others about, you know, how these things 344 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 3: can happen and how quickly it can happen. I think 345 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 3: that's where we hope she goes. But yeah, this is 346 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 3: a tough season of life for her. And the mug 347 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 3: shot was not great, but goodness great sious. It's not 348 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 3: like it was a glamour shoot. Like she's standing against 349 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 3: a brick wall in a jail. It's not gonna look awesome. 350 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 351 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 3: Actually, a few weeks ago we talked about this new 352 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 3: thing happening on social media and I'm actually very concerned 353 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 3: about it. 354 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 2: I think. 355 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 3: The path forward will only get worse with AI with 356 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 3: the ability to create and make things look so lifelike. 357 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 3: And it's scary for anybody, the public eye or not. 358 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 3: It's scary. And we talked about this well. Trista Sutter 359 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 3: was also a victim of this fake news that's going around. 360 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 2: Remember we talked. 361 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 3: About a few right, Yeah, well, she also is a 362 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 3: victim of the fake news. This fake news claims she 363 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 3: was going to be a grandmother. She has two kids 364 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 3: with Ryan, both young, both still in high school. 365 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 4: I mean ones, I guess starting college now. 366 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 367 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't love I mean I have said I'm 368 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,879 Speaker 3: very concerned about where this goes going forward for anybody. 369 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 3: But I don't love that the fake news that's been 370 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 3: a coin term over the last you know, ten years. 371 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 3: I don't love that there's like actual fake news that's 372 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 3: fake news, like created fake news just to spark a 373 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:44,439 Speaker 3: debate that could really hurt people. 374 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 5: So I was a little confused by this. I saw 375 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:50,959 Speaker 5: when Trista posted her video there was speculation that her 376 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 5: eighteen year old son Max was going to be a dad, 377 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 5: And I don't really know. I don't really understand how 378 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 5: they they manipulated the pictures or the people put headlines 379 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 5: or the pictures to say that the pictures of them 380 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 5: like him and his ex girlfriend, have been used for clickbait. 381 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 5: She said, have you heard the news because I did 382 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 5: last night. My first reaction was laughter. My second reaction 383 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 5: was anger. Biggest reason for that it is all a lie. 384 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 5: The one thing, it's one thing. If it's about me, 385 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:28,439 Speaker 5: I could just ignore it, but it comes with the territory. 386 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 5: It's not I think it's about my children. She said, 387 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 5: I'm very much looking forward to becoming a grandma. Of 388 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 5: course I would support my children, but hoping that's a 389 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 5: little bit further down the road. But the bottom line 390 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 5: is basically one of these like fake news outlets, like 391 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 5: the clickbaity sites, not like an US weekly, not like 392 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 5: a People magazine, but like there's other weird things out there. 393 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 2: Took photos of. 394 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 5: Her son Max and his ex girlfriend and alluded to 395 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 5: the fact that they were having a child. 396 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 4: And that's what it is. That's crazy. 397 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 3: It's just fake. It's it's made up stuff. It's gonna 398 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 3: happen more and more. I don't like it. It's not Trista 399 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 3: is one of many who have been kind of focused 400 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 3: on from this. I think we're going to see a 401 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 3: lot of people pop up. Here's here's what I would 402 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,440 Speaker 3: say to anybody that happens to in the public eye. 403 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 3: Are not because I think this is going to happen 404 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 3: to everyone at some point. Is clear things up with 405 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:26,640 Speaker 3: the people that are close to you. But then don't 406 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 3: bring attention to it because nobody's actually reading this stuff. 407 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 3: I mean, if maybe a bigger like like a People 408 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 3: or something, would pick it up, they would have to 409 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 3: call you first. And if they did share this information, 410 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 3: you're gonna get really rich on them sharing this information 411 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 3: because it's fake. And so I just I think it's 412 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 3: it's worth ignoring because the more clicks, the more money, 413 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,639 Speaker 3: and the money is what's driving the ability for this 414 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 3: to continue to happen, because it's just it's it's it's 415 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 3: like a it's a machine that won't stop. It's a 416 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 3: snowball effect. And the more and more people click, the 417 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 3: bigger these get, the more often they come out, and 418 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,159 Speaker 3: it's going to be the craziest things. And we'll probably 419 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 3: be spending the next many years on the show during 420 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 3: headlines saying that was fake. That isn't real. This was 421 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 3: a headline. If you saw it, it's not a real thing. 422 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 3: And that's just I don't know, it's bogus. I'd much 423 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 3: rather talk about cooler stories like Joe and Serena. Joe 424 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 3: teases Serena that they should probably think about having a 425 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 3: kid soon. But here's the other crazy part about Joe 426 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 3: and Serena. I've been following Joe. I love Joe, He's 427 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 3: loved Joe, great guy. Serena is awesome, both incredible. I 428 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 3: know Joe Better. He was at the Ryder Cup and 429 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,400 Speaker 3: then he goes from the Ryder Cup to like Soul, 430 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 3: South Korea, and then they go from Soul, South Korea. 431 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 3: I see that they're back, and then yesterday posted they're 432 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 3: at the airport on their way to Tokyo, Like, yeah, why. 433 00:20:57,840 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 4: Would you do that? 434 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 2: I have no idea, but what why would you come back? 435 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:03,400 Speaker 2: Here's my judgment towards them. 436 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 3: If you want to have a kid, stop traveling across 437 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 3: the world back and forth all the time. 438 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 5: I think what they're doing right now is doing their 439 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 5: last hurrah before they hurrah. 440 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 2: I mean this is like, this is like shock. I mean, 441 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 2: we've seen people. 442 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 5: This is a well planned hurrah. Though, this is definitely 443 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 5: what they're intentionally doing. 444 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 2: I don't think it's a well planned hurrah. They were 445 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 2: in South Korea and they you know what they're doing. 446 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 5: They're flying first class because nobody flying coach would ever 447 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 5: do that. 448 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 3: Well, yes, I would imagine that the two of them 449 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 3: are flying first class. They do have another bachelor podcast 450 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 3: that they host. I'm sure they're just cranking in the dough. 451 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 3: They're flying first class, they're drinking champagne, their feet are 452 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,920 Speaker 3: kicked up, It's easy, it's breezy still. 453 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 4: Why, oh my gosh, So this is funny. 454 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 5: So Joe said as he was getting this eighteen step 455 00:21:56,000 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 5: Scout massage treatment in Sewol. He said that I have 456 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 5: realized that I have way too much time in my 457 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,120 Speaker 5: hands and I should probably think about having a kid soon. 458 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,360 Speaker 5: I would say, is this the him teasing that they 459 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 5: are having a kid soon? But I also don't think 460 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 5: that Serena's going to be going in her first trybuster 461 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 5: to South Korea or Tokyo all in one month. And 462 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 5: then the caption was great. I did love the caption. 463 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,639 Speaker 5: I did not respond, but I was like, this is 464 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 5: the kind of moment in which you do realize that 465 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 5: you should have a kid. I'm like, I am that barn. Now, 466 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,399 Speaker 5: that's just like, don't you think that you should have 467 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 5: a kid? I have turned into my mom. It's a 468 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 5: wonderful life. Come over here and join it. And yeah, 469 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 5: when you do find yourself doing like lots of SPA 470 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 5: treatments and just like having the just relaxing all the time, 471 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:52,200 Speaker 5: you should shake. 472 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 4: It up a bit. 473 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 5: Kidding, I'm a little jealous. This is coming from a 474 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 5: little bit of a place of jealousy for sure. And 475 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 5: then my husband to row underneath the comment in the 476 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 5: comments he said, just join the club already. I promise 477 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:07,159 Speaker 5: it's not that stressful, in which he's definitely joking, but 478 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:11,679 Speaker 5: I actually say, in hindsight, having one is really not 479 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 5: that stressful. It doesn't shake up your life. As in 480 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 5: our perspective, having one was a lot different as far 481 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:25,680 Speaker 5: as was like life flexibility and being able to do 482 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 5: things like eighteen step scalp treatments, which I have done 483 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 5: a scalp treatment over the past few months. It was 484 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 5: a nice, luxurious treat that I gave myself as a mom. 485 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 5: I'm just rambling here, but I but I also think 486 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 5: that you know, when you have the one, you can 487 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:46,359 Speaker 5: still do things like that. And then Natalie Nick's wife said, 488 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 5: I've literally been telling you this. 489 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,440 Speaker 4: Ben comments Jes went. 490 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 2: I like how you go of just rambling and then 491 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 2: you keep going. 492 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 4: That's that's a classic man. 493 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,680 Speaker 2: Oh Ash, I love doing this with you. 494 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 4: Do you really? 495 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 5: I think you probably just like get off and be 496 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 5: like wow, that woman doesn't shut up sometimes. 497 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 3: Never said that, never said it, never thought it, never 498 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:11,400 Speaker 3: it would feel it. 499 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:12,239 Speaker 2: I just love it. 500 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,440 Speaker 3: I just I find it humorous sometimes and you're like, 501 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 3: I'm just rambling and then you're like that, let me 502 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 3: keep going. 503 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 2: The uh. 504 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 3: Jess went to a baby shower last night and it 505 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:26,880 Speaker 3: was her first night away from Wanona since Wanana's well 506 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,440 Speaker 3: since she's been pregnant with Wanona. 507 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 4: Whoa well, first night away, that's anxiety and do. 508 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. She was struggling with it and we talked about it. 509 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 3: I was like, here's the deal, one night away, Like 510 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 3: we know you rip the bandit off, but here's the 511 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,239 Speaker 3: other side that we kind of came to the conclusion of. 512 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,800 Speaker 3: One of the roles I think for you now at 513 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 3: a baby shower, because there you remember the feelings for 514 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,120 Speaker 3: your first is to tell people how great it is. 515 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 3: It's not like easy, but it's great. It's so much better, 516 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:58,159 Speaker 3: And to like relieve the stress of oh my gosh, 517 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 3: this is such a daunting idea. Yes it is, and 518 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 3: it should be. You're bringing life into the world and 519 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 3: you're now responsible for keeping this life alive. However, it's 520 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 3: so much more amazing than you can ever imagine. Here's side. 521 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 3: Here's my second point to this. It's funny, Ashley. I 522 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 3: don't know if you feel this way, but you know 523 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 3: Jessica travels with Wenona more than I do. You know, 524 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 3: she kind of brings her anywhere she can. 525 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, I've done it alone too, And Jared hasn't done 526 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:28,880 Speaker 5: it alone. Not that he's fully capable and you would 527 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 5: do a great job, but he's been on a plane 528 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 5: alone with him. 529 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 3: But when you're alone at your house now, it's so 530 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,119 Speaker 3: boring and it's great for like a day, two days, 531 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 3: day three, You're like, I don't know what to do, 532 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 3: Like what did I do with myself when there wasn't 533 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 3: a wife and a kid? 534 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 4: We as that all the time. I guess I watched 535 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 4: a lot of TV. 536 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,359 Speaker 2: I have no idea. It's so boring. 537 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 3: So it's like so much different, and so now I'm like, 538 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 3: I don't even remember how I functioned as an adult 539 00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 3: without these types of gifts and responsibility. 540 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 2: I would never go back. 541 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,199 Speaker 5: That's so Ben exactly. And I have so many friends 542 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,400 Speaker 5: that are in there. Okay, when I say so many, 543 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,480 Speaker 5: I have three in my head that I can think 544 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 5: of that are really going back for that really are 545 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 5: just like I'm not sure. 546 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know, Like I love my 547 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 4: life right now? Do I want to mess it up. 548 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,400 Speaker 5: And my first of all, you're not messing you would 549 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 5: not mess it up, And yes you should. I'm always like, 550 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 5: if you're in debate of it, I feel like. 551 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 3: You should hundred percent. So great, so wonderful. I had 552 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 3: Winnie last night, belly laughing, just her and I, you know, 553 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 3: Jess wasn't there, and it was just Wennie wayala night 554 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 3: and she was belly laughing, and I was like, I 555 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 3: put her to bed and I laid back in our 556 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 3: bed and I was like, oh my gosh, Like what 557 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:49,959 Speaker 3: a life, like, what a dream? 558 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:51,159 Speaker 2: This is so cool? 559 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,880 Speaker 3: Hey, Gabby l Nicky gets engaged a long time boyfriend, 560 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 3: Zach now Ashley. If I remember right when Gabby came 561 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,440 Speaker 3: on our show, she kind of hinted or talked about 562 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 3: this relationship fairly open lee, but they hadn't necessarily been 563 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,160 Speaker 3: public yet and there wasn't a lot of information out 564 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 3: there on them. But she thought at the time it 565 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 3: was the real deal. She was very excited about this relationship. 566 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,760 Speaker 3: Well now we see it come full circle with the engagement. 567 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,639 Speaker 5: She definitely made it seem like this would be in 568 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 5: their future. We're very happy for them. 569 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 4: She posted. 570 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 5: The engagement photos are so cute, So the luckiest girl 571 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 5: in the world. 572 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 4: They're very cute. 573 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 5: So good congratulations to that too beautiful, like right there 574 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 5: on the ocean with the waves, it's so gorgeous. 575 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 4: She said that it was perfect. 576 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 5: It was totally unexpected and so full of love. And 577 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,360 Speaker 5: she said that her sister Chloe helped him. His name 578 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 5: is Zach ironically, which is absolutely hilarious because she was 579 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 5: second place on Zach season had organized family photos for 580 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 5: the group and led her to think that, like, the 581 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 5: entire thing was nothing unusual because I did it in 582 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 5: like you know, they're saying, oh, we're doing family photos 583 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 5: by the ocean, and then he did it in a 584 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 5: turn into an engagement shute, So. 585 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 3: Great congratulations to the two of them. Big news that 586 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 3: we've been following the Bachelor alum Katie Thurston is feeling 587 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 3: this word is great, optimistic amid her stage for cancer battle. Ashley, 588 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 3: I know you have an update via social media about 589 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 3: where Katie's at and all this. I think listeners will 590 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 3: want to know we've been falling along rooting for her. 591 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 5: I wish I did, but she actually put on her 592 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 5: booby broadcast yesterday that she'll be getting the results today 593 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:04,160 Speaker 5: Monday afternoon, she said, I've shared experiences and advice and 594 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 5: words of encouraged. The shared experiences of advice and wards 595 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 5: of encouragement have meant so much to me. I'm manifesting 596 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 5: there'll be no evidence of active disease in celebrating with 597 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 5: you all soon. So we are waiting with baited breath 598 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 5: to get those results today. 599 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 4: It's the six month scan. She says, she feels optimistic. 600 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 5: About it, and again in this article she's just talking 601 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 5: about how grateful she's been to have her husband along 602 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 5: her side for this entire thing. She can't face cancer alone. 603 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 5: You really have to rely on your friends and family 604 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 5: and to have somebody who's your partner and who's right 605 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 5: there every step of the way, and all this has 606 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 5: meant so much to me. 607 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 3: It's something that will continue to follow rooting for Katie here. 608 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 3: Jojo Fletcher and Jordan Rogers share bucket list moment with 609 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 3: Becca Tilley ahead of baby's arrival. 610 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 5: So yes, I talked a little bit about about JoJo's 611 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 5: pregnancy with Back this week, and she was like, Jojo 612 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 5: has been so like unaffected by this pregnancy. 613 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 4: She's like one of the rare people that are fully 614 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:08,719 Speaker 4: enjoying it. 615 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 5: She's had like no sickness, no real symptoms bringing her down. 616 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 5: Good for you, Jojo, jealous and honestly very happy for you. 617 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 5: But she said that right now they're trying to check 618 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 5: off bucket list moments. And so the three of them. 619 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 4: Was Jordan with them. You didn't realize that Jordan was 620 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:29,560 Speaker 4: with them, Okay, okay. 621 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 5: So they went to the desert and they went to 622 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 5: Rise Festival and that's where you kind of like lift 623 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 5: up your floating lantern into the sky. That's like it's 624 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 5: a whole bunch of music and other things. Now, but 625 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 5: this was why Jojo and Beca wanted to go. And 626 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 5: you kind of like put your wish into the world, as. 627 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 4: My friends and I say. And she said that. 628 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 5: It was a bucket list moment to be there, and 629 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 5: she had her new liquor company there, her new saltzers, 630 00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 5: and she said that, you know, being with Becca and 631 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 5: experiencing this it's the rainbow baby surrounded by so much light, is. 632 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 4: Something that she'll never forget, you know, this is a forever. 633 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 5: Memory for her. And she said that she's very emotional 634 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 5: and happy that think I'll got to experience it together. 635 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 3: It's really great. And her Seltzers are really good, by 636 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 3: the way. Yeah, they're apparall sprits Seltzers. I don't know 637 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 3: the name, but they're great. We've enjoyed them here after Italy, especially. 638 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 3: They keep our desire going back, all. 639 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:31,480 Speaker 2: Right, Ashley. 640 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 3: Final headline of today is headline of Somebody You're Just With. 641 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 3: Becattilli reveals plans to propose to fiance Haley Kyoko. 642 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 5: Well, you know, we didn't really get any tea on 643 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 5: when Becca's going to do this. 644 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 4: I know what. I didn't really pull and pry about 645 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:51,239 Speaker 4: when she's going to do it. 646 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 5: I just said, you are going to do it, right, 647 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:58,520 Speaker 5: and she said, yes, this is And then and Kaylee 648 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:02,479 Speaker 5: knows this. It's not like it's surprise or anything. And 649 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 5: in this video that was up on Instagram this week, 650 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,720 Speaker 5: she's just like, I honestly love being engaged with you, 651 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 5: which is kind of cute. And I love waking up 652 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 5: and seeing the ring on your finger and your smile. 653 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 5: It's so fun. This is Haley to Becca. And then 654 00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:22,200 Speaker 5: Becca said that she's planning on proposing to Haley as well, 655 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 5: and she said, it's so fun. I'm really excited about 656 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 5: the proposal. She said that she is going to have 657 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:34,360 Speaker 5: to be very sneaky to pull off a surprise because 658 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 5: she feels like she just got it so good from Hailey. 659 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 5: It was such a surprise to her. She needs to 660 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,479 Speaker 5: figure that out. But they keep talking about glowing and 661 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 5: glowing because it was maybe a sponsored video that they 662 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:51,160 Speaker 5: posted about this, but also at the same time, they 663 00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 5: really truly are glowing. 664 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 2: They are. 665 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 5: I was like, you guys are constantly like in why 666 00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 5: do I feel like you are just seven years in 667 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 5: and basically in the honeymoon stage still like they are 668 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 5: so lovey dovey with each other, and she said that 669 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:08,760 Speaker 5: is true. She goes, it doesn't mean that like we 670 00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 5: don't fight, but like we do, we are very romantic. 671 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:11,719 Speaker 4: With each other. 672 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:18,200 Speaker 3: It's it's really special. Yeah, And obviously we love Becca 673 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 3: so much. She is one of, as I said, the 674 00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 3: coolest and greatest people to come from the franchise definitely. 675 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 2: Always has been. 676 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,800 Speaker 3: Well, that's all the headlines we have for you today. 677 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:31,760 Speaker 3: The only other headline I wanted to bring up was 678 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:36,000 Speaker 3: that Jared Hayman is a part of the DC universe, 679 00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,200 Speaker 3: making his appearance in the show Peacemaker. He does a 680 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:46,600 Speaker 3: great job, really good acting, incredible execution on his part. 681 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,000 Speaker 4: Thank you on his behalf. 682 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, Jared a friend of ours. Yeah, Dawson can't 683 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 5: see it. It's very it's a kind of a graphic scene. 684 00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, He's like, like, I don't think it's Yeah, Jared 685 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 3: has never done cocaine in his life, but when James 686 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 3: Gunn says you should snort some fake coke, he. 687 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,840 Speaker 2: Does it, and he does it well. He looks like 688 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 2: you've been there before. Yeah, Jared gets to say that. 689 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:17,440 Speaker 5: He has been part of the DCU and that James 690 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 5: gun directed him. So that is truly one of the 691 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 5: top things on his bucket list. And thank you to 692 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 5: a great friend he was able to set that experience 693 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:26,239 Speaker 5: up for him. 694 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 3: Oh so fun. Well, hey, that is all the headlines 695 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:30,920 Speaker 3: we have for you today. It's great to be with 696 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 3: you again. We got a big week ahead of us 697 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:36,439 Speaker 3: with the Golden Bachelor. Obviously more news coming out on 698 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 3: the Bachelorette. We'll have some great interviews, so stay tuned 699 00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:44,359 Speaker 3: to the almost famous thread for everything good happening in 700 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 3: and around Bachelor Nation. 701 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,440 Speaker 2: So until next time, I've been been, I've been Ashley. 702 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 2: See you guys. 703 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,880 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on 704 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.