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Speaker 1: Every once in a while we do a special segment
Speaker 1: on this show called the Second Date Update Update. It's
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning's where we contact a
Speaker 1: couple who we spoke to in the past to find
Speaker 1: out what's going on with them now. Are they still together?
Speaker 1: Are they not together? The third or fourth party join
Speaker 1: in the fun. You never know what could happen. And
Speaker 1: the people we have on the phone today had one
Speaker 1: of the most memorable calls of the year. And it's
Speaker 1: not because they had a very romantic story. In fact,
Speaker 1: it was kind of the opposite, and we were very
Speaker 1: surprised when they said that they had an update for us.
Speaker 1: So we'll play the audio of the original Second Date
Speaker 1: Update for you and then we'll talk to the couple
Speaker 1: immediately following that. It's your Second Date Update Update. Right now,
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels Second Date Update. A listener named Amanda
Speaker 1: is on the phone for a second Day Update today
Speaker 1: and she's smart, okay, because she did what people normally
Speaker 1: don't do. She did her research, like, not just on
Speaker 1: the date, the person she was going with, but the
Speaker 1: actual place. You showed up the day before, interviewed everybody
Speaker 1: at the restaurant, waited around check it out to make
Speaker 1: sure that it was the proper location to have a
Speaker 1: date Psycho. Isn't that right, Amanda? No, that's not exactly
Speaker 1: what I did. Oh my god, thank god. I was
Speaker 1: trying to spend what you did and make it better,
Speaker 1: but I guess not. Yeah, thank you for trying to
Speaker 1: make it better. But no, that's not exactly what I did. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I did go to the restaurant the day before, but
Speaker 1: that was on accident. Oh okay, you didn't go to
Speaker 1: make sure that you had the best lighting at the
Speaker 1: table so that you looked fantastic no matter what happened
Speaker 1: on your date. Right, No, but that's a great idea. No,
Speaker 1: I totally screwed up. I should have at the restaurant,
Speaker 1: and I was waiting for a really long time, and
Speaker 1: I kept calling him and texting him until finally got
Speaker 1: a response, and he wrote me back saying that we
Speaker 1: actually had planned a date the following night shot up,
Speaker 1: So he screwed up your schedule and showed up to
Speaker 1: the restaurant a day early. That's true. I should have
Speaker 1: kept clambing it on him. I've been like, no, I'm
Speaker 1: pretty sure it was tonight. I can't imagine the emotions
Speaker 1: you were going through though. Yeah, after thirty minutes, I
Speaker 1: was pretty upset. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, you're like hating this
Speaker 1: guy so much and then you realize it's your own fault.
Speaker 1: Did you say anything rude to him when you texted him?
Speaker 1: You know? When I didn't hear from him, I kind
Speaker 1: of just wrote like, dude, are you showing up or not?
Speaker 1: Because I'm going to leave. Yeah, okay, that's not too bad.
Speaker 1: And so did you make it the next night? Yeah?
Speaker 1: We did? Okay, good. Everybody showed up the next night. Awesome.
Speaker 1: And it was a little weird when I showed up
Speaker 1: the second night in the row because all of the
Speaker 1: servers and the hostess remembered me. Yeah, it was awkward
Speaker 1: because the night before I kept checking in with everyone
Speaker 1: wondering if they had seen this guy was there, Like
Speaker 1: I have his picture, like a police officer that shows
Speaker 1: up trying to track somebody down, Like have you seen
Speaker 1: this man before in here ever? Exactly? So wait, how
Speaker 1: did you deal with that though. I mean, were you
Speaker 1: able to laugh or was it just weird? I mean
Speaker 1: it was a little awkward, but I had to laugh
Speaker 1: it off. I had no other choice, Okay. And was
Speaker 1: he cool with it? Yeah, he made fun of me, okay,
Speaker 1: as he should. As he should, right, So how was
Speaker 1: the actual date? The actual date I thought went well.
Speaker 1: We had a lot of things in common, listen to
Speaker 1: the same music, a lot of our hobbies are the same.
Speaker 1: Conversation was good. But I haven't heard from him since.
Speaker 1: So when you were leaving the date, what was your
Speaker 1: thought like that you were for sure going to see
Speaker 1: him again? I don't know, you know, I to be honest,
Speaker 1: just dating is terrible and people both and you don't
Speaker 1: know what happened to them. But yeah, I thought it
Speaker 1: went really well and we had a lot of chemistry.
Speaker 1: But I don't know if he feels the same way
Speaker 1: because he's not saw me back, or you've had plans
Speaker 1: with him for a while now, but you're not very
Speaker 1: good with your schedule, so you screwed up. Yeah, he's
Speaker 1: been waiting on your call. Yeah maybe that's Oh my god,
Speaker 1: did you guys kiss or anything? No, I wanted to
Speaker 1: kiss him to see if we had a deeper connection,
Speaker 1: but we just kind of hugged and said it was
Speaker 1: really nice to meet each other and thank you for
Speaker 1: a nice evening. Okay, and no plans to go out again,
Speaker 1: like you guys and say we should totally go out again. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't make any plans. I was kind of hoping
Speaker 1: that he would be the one to call me and
Speaker 1: plan another date. But I don't know. Maybe he thought
Speaker 1: I was going to screw that one up too and
Speaker 1: then show up choice screw it. Okay, Well we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, and then call him and get
Speaker 1: your second dight up date. Okay, Okay, all right, we're
Speaker 1: gonna do it next Okay, like after the song, like,
Speaker 1: don't go anywhere, I don't show up somewhere else. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning. Second Hey,
Speaker 1: Amanda you there, Yes, I'm here. Hey. You know at
Speaker 1: the end of the first part of the second date update,
Speaker 1: you made the comment that dating sucks totally. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: why I'm thinking. When we call this guy and find
Speaker 1: out if you'll go on another date with you or not,
Speaker 1: if he says yes, just skip everything, get married right away.
Speaker 1: That way, you don't have to worry about dating anymore.
Speaker 1: Great idea. And then if he says no, just the
Speaker 1: next guy you go on a date with, just me,
Speaker 1: to me at the courthouse, get married. Just stop with
Speaker 1: the dating, you know. Okay, Great, it's like arranging your
Speaker 1: own wedding. Yeah, great idea. I'll keep that in mind. Okay, cool.
Speaker 1: If you're just joining us For today's second day update,
Speaker 1: Amanda is on the phone. She wants to call a
Speaker 1: dude named Jacob. They went out to eat dinner together.
Speaker 1: The problem at the beginning of the whole thing was
Speaker 1: that Amanda showed up on the wrong day to the
Speaker 1: restaurant and then blamed him for standing her up, But
Speaker 1: they worked it out. They ended up going there the
Speaker 1: next day to eat dinner. She says they had a
Speaker 1: great time, but now he's not getting back to her,
Speaker 1: and she doesn't know why. I'm just worried that this
Speaker 1: is going to go poorly and you're just gonna give
Speaker 1: up on dating altogether, Like, could this be the last
Speaker 1: straw for you? You know, you don't know, I've had
Speaker 1: such bad luck in the past that I might at
Speaker 1: all know the truth marriage marriage marriage. If you give
Speaker 1: up on dating. Just get married, Amanda. That's the way
Speaker 1: it works. His marriage is so much easier. Yeah, right right,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna doubt his phone number right now.
Speaker 1: See if we can get him on the phone. Here
Speaker 1: we go, Hello him, I speak to Jacob. This is Jacob.
Speaker 1: Hey Jacob, how are you? My name is Jebil from
Speaker 1: a radio show called Brook and Jewbil in the morning. Uh, okay,
Speaker 1: Can I help you with something or no? Just calling
Speaker 1: for no reason, just to talk? All right. I'm a
Speaker 1: little confused here. Do you you need a donation or
Speaker 1: something or we need maybe at some point. No, I'm
Speaker 1: calling you because we got an email from one of
Speaker 1: our listeners and it was about you, about about me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: how's up? Well, her name is Amanda, and you guys
Speaker 1: went out to dinner the other day, Yes we did, Yes,
Speaker 1: he did, and she showed up to the restaurant on
Speaker 1: the wrong day and then started to blame you for it.
Speaker 1: You remember that, Yes, they do remember that? Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: Amanda told us a little bit about your date when
Speaker 1: you guys actually did go out, and now she's wondering
Speaker 1: why you won't call her back. Really yep, So she
Speaker 1: contacted you and told you all about our date. Yes,
Speaker 1: it sounded like a lovely date from what she described. WHOA.
Speaker 1: If I'm being one hundred percent on us, this is
Speaker 1: a huge surprise to me because she did not seem
Speaker 1: very interested in me. Really, she told us the opposite.
Speaker 1: She said that she was really interested in you, but
Speaker 1: she thought that you weren't feeling it. Really, I mean,
Speaker 1: why would she try to contact you for another date
Speaker 1: if she wasn't interested. Well, this whole thing is news
Speaker 1: to me. I did not know that, and that was
Speaker 1: not the impression I got. Okay, that's to be sure. Wait,
Speaker 1: you haven't gotten like a text message or a voicemail
Speaker 1: or something from her. I think I got a text
Speaker 1: message from her, but based on kind of how things went,
Speaker 1: it sort of seems more like a courtesy. You know, hey, thanks,
Speaker 1: that was great, like, but not not like she was
Speaker 1: really serious about wanting to see me again. Especially Okay,
Speaker 1: what you know, well, this could be one of the
Speaker 1: easiest second day up. Thats we are done? Then, Yeah, guys,
Speaker 1: we should just hook you up right now then. Obviously
Speaker 1: because you guys both like each other and didn't know it. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm not sure that I actually really want to go
Speaker 1: out again. What was she doing that made you think
Speaker 1: she wasn't interested? Well, the first sign I got was
Speaker 1: when the waiter came to the table to take our
Speaker 1: drink orders. He walked away and she said, Wow, that
Speaker 1: guy's jawline looks just like my exes. And I kind
Speaker 1: of was like, did she just say that? And then
Speaker 1: she just launched into it. In the day, she was
Speaker 1: just talking about her ex and not going on and
Speaker 1: on in this way that made me feel like, I mean,
Speaker 1: it was actually kind of sweet. It just seemed like
Speaker 1: she was still kind of hung up on him, and
Speaker 1: you know, like she seemed like a good person, but
Speaker 1: just honestly not over him. Yeah, when you're making comments
Speaker 1: about the waiter's jawline being similar to your ex, it
Speaker 1: sounds to me like that's all she's thinking about. Yeah. Well,
Speaker 1: not only that, she she kind of said like, you know,
Speaker 1: we were working a lot. He was going to night school,
Speaker 1: and then he had to move for a job and
Speaker 1: it wasn't anything bad to happen, but he moved, and
Speaker 1: so you know, I think they still have a cat together.
Speaker 1: He has the cattail about her. I learned it all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's almost like, you're on a date with that dude, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I might as well been. You might as well just
Speaker 1: pulled right up. Were you asking her questions about it?
Speaker 1: Or was she just I didn't ask her anything about
Speaker 1: the AX, that's for sure. I wouldn't like that wouldn't
Speaker 1: have been my style. Like and like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I guess I kind of left the date thinking this
Speaker 1: girl's really kno that into me, and she's got some
Speaker 1: history that she's not cleared up with. So I went home,
Speaker 1: and I guess when I was home, I was thinking
Speaker 1: about it some more, and so I checked out this
Speaker 1: guy her exum on Facebook, just because I was curious
Speaker 1: and well, yeah, you've heard so much about him pulling
Speaker 1: up a celebrity's Facebook page, you facebook X. I know,
Speaker 1: I know, even when I was doing it, I was like,
Speaker 1: this is a little, this is this is beyond. But
Speaker 1: I'm I was curious, you know. I feel like I
Speaker 1: should have just friended the guy and enough about him.
Speaker 1: And he seemed like a nice guy, but you know,
Speaker 1: a good looking guy, but nothing really specialized thought. It
Speaker 1: wasn't like I mean, you certainly didn't do it for me,
Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, good enough looking guy. But but
Speaker 1: you're just not really what you need. All right, We've
Speaker 1: got from talking about your day to analyzing the looks
Speaker 1: of her ex on Facebook. Yeah, you know, it was
Speaker 1: just green man and this kind of happened, and I
Speaker 1: was ready to move on. Yeah, well we're not really
Speaker 1: ready to move on yet. Neither as Amanda, because she's
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. But what Yeah, she's on the phone. Yes,
Speaker 1: she's on the phone and she wants to talk to you. Hi, hey, Amanda. Wow, okay,
Speaker 1: uh he looked up my my ex. Huh uh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess I did. I was I did guilty. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I've actually resisted, really been trying to avoid it.
Speaker 1: And I don't know, is he like he had a
Speaker 1: picture of him fishing? Is that still? Is that still
Speaker 1: what he's doing? What are you doing? I just yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't really remember what the picture was. But I mean,
Speaker 1: do you kind of do you hear yourself right now?
Speaker 1: I can kind of anyone else. Yeah, you have the conversation,
Speaker 1: so um, what do you mean you honestly don't hear
Speaker 1: like hear what you're doing. Yeah, No, I'm just like
Speaker 1: I'm interesting because I just want to know what he's
Speaker 1: up to, Like, does he have a status update? You know, like,
Speaker 1: what is he up to? Amanda? You are you're clearly
Speaker 1: not over this guy? No, I am. I'm totally over him.
Speaker 1: I just look, I've been with him for a really
Speaker 1: long time, and I'm just curious to what he's doing.
Speaker 1: His profile picture had another girl in it, but I
Speaker 1: don't know if it was that. What did she have
Speaker 1: brown hair with like blond highlights in the front. Amanda,
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter, it's your ex, it doesn't matter. It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. I want to know because I want to
Speaker 1: know if it's his sister or if it's the girl
Speaker 1: he was dating before me. Oh my, Amanda. Yeah, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I should not have brought that up. I
Speaker 1: don't think you should have, Amanda. You do not need
Speaker 1: to be dating right now. Yeah. Look, you're not in
Speaker 1: charge of my life. I thought dating would be a
Speaker 1: really good thing for me, So okay, you know, I
Speaker 1: dated this guy and now i'm not and I'm trying
Speaker 1: to find someone new. Okay, Yeah, but you're still focusing
Speaker 1: quite a bit on the old dude, Amanda. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what we're trying to say, it's not fair to you
Speaker 1: to the new dude. It's not really fair to anybody
Speaker 1: until you heal whatever's going on there. If you were
Speaker 1: dating someone for over a year and then you found
Speaker 1: out that some other girl was in his profile picture
Speaker 1: on Facebook, and you would be really upset too and
Speaker 1: probably want to know who it is. Okay, I agree
Speaker 1: with you completely, Amanda. I'm on your side. Probably not
Speaker 1: when you have your date on the phone too. I
Speaker 1: don't know, like maybe if you were talking to your
Speaker 1: best girlfriend. I'm just curious and I want to know. So, Jacob,
Speaker 1: could you please tell me more about what you saw
Speaker 1: on his Facebook profile? Yeah? You know, I'm gonna that's
Speaker 1: a hard no, Amanda. And you know what, I have
Speaker 1: a better idea, Jacob. How about this. Would you like
Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Amanda? We will
Speaker 1: pay for it and then you guys can talk all
Speaker 1: about it, you know what. As fun as that sounds,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna decline. No, Come on very much. Did you
Speaker 1: guys could gossip about the whole thing the whole time? No, Jacob,
Speaker 1: you know what you owe me for this? Okay. I
Speaker 1: know that everyone is laughing about this right now. But
Speaker 1: you are the one who looked, and I think that
Speaker 1: you owe it to me to tell me what you found.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Wow. Okay, so why don't you just
Speaker 1: do yourself a favor and look at his Facebook profile?
Speaker 1: Or are you are you blocked or something or sound? Yeah? Yes,
Speaker 1: why aren't you on there? Amanda? I don't want to
Speaker 1: talk about that. I'm just curious about Okay, well, Amanda,
Speaker 1: how about this? How about how about this? How about
Speaker 1: you just set up like a dummy account and then
Speaker 1: try to follow him? That's the that's what most same
Speaker 1: people do. Yeah. I don't appreciate your lame advice. Thank you,
Speaker 1: but no, thank you, Jacob. When we hang up on
Speaker 1: this radio station, I am going to contact you and
Speaker 1: I am going to expect that you give me some
Speaker 1: answers about what you found. Oh my god. Oh you
Speaker 1: need some good girlfriends right now, Amanda, and stop telling
Speaker 1: me what to do. Oh my god. Yeah, Amanda, it's
Speaker 1: your life. Live it the way you see fit. And
Speaker 1: I guess you'll be reaching out to Jacob because there's
Speaker 1: nothing we can do about that. Yeah yet, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: will be reaching out to him, and he'd better answer
Speaker 1: the phone. I'm scared. That really makes me eager. I
Speaker 1: love a good threat. All right, well, Amanda, looks like
Speaker 1: no second date for you. Hopefully you can get the
Speaker 1: information that you want though, And I guess we didn't
Speaker 1: find out that dating really does suck after all. That's
Speaker 1: a problem broken jewel in the morning. All that was
Speaker 1: a second date update from a few months ago, and
Speaker 1: apparently we actually have an update on the second date update,
Speaker 1: a second day update update. I'm gonna try to say
Speaker 1: up at least seven more times before I get into it,
Speaker 1: but Amanda and Jacob are actually on the phone with
Speaker 1: an update on their situation. I guess, Amanda, did you
Speaker 1: ever get over your ex? Are you still stuck on him?
Speaker 1: And that's all you guys have been talking about. I
Speaker 1: am totally over my ax. I know that I founded crazy,
Speaker 1: but sorry, we've both felt what you felt. We get it.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, so you've moved on, Yes, took some
Speaker 1: time off from really dating anyone, and then reconnected with Jacob. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you guys actually talked again after I was wondering
Speaker 1: why you were both on the phone. Yeah, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: well I reached out not too long ago, and then
Speaker 1: we had like a little late night hangout. Oh so, Jacob,
Speaker 1: you didn't think when you saw her number calling like,
Speaker 1: oh this crazy chick again. Well I was a little astant,
Speaker 1: but at the same time, she's always had a place
Speaker 1: in my heart, so you know, she called me kind
Speaker 1: of late, and I wanted to make sure everything was okay. Yeah, right, Jacob, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know things are good and we're together
Speaker 1: now soup graduations. Yeah. Wait wait, how long have you
Speaker 1: guys been dating? Wait? Wait wait, we had fun. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I didn't think that we were going to put
Speaker 1: like a label on it. Oh it was I thought
Speaker 1: that we were just supposed to come on here and
Speaker 1: tell them that we hung out again, and that was
Speaker 1: the point of all of this. Well, no, I mean
Speaker 1: I think it's more than that. I remember we talked
Speaker 1: a lot and then agree that we are going to
Speaker 1: make this official official. That that's Manda, that's a little
Speaker 1: it's a little fast. I think I don't remember any
Speaker 1: conversation about it, committing to a relationship. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, guys,
Speaker 1: this is embarrassing. Um, Jacob, we talked about this and
Speaker 1: then we said that we were going to be exclusively
Speaker 1: with each other and not other people. No, we did
Speaker 1: not say that this was this was fun, we should
Speaker 1: do this again in wait, so wait, are you guys
Speaker 1: trying to figure out if you're together right now? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean we are. We definitely talked about it and like,
Speaker 1: this is frustrating because we came on here to do
Speaker 1: an update about a relationship. So I don't really understand
Speaker 1: what's going on right now aman that you literally just
Speaker 1: called me yesterday to say that the radio people wanted
Speaker 1: to talk to us and that was it. I had
Speaker 1: no idea that you were going to try to announce
Speaker 1: the relationship in front of these people, Like Okay, well,
Speaker 1: this is really frustrating, and I'm tracked that you're acting
Speaker 1: like this because when you're at my place you're acting
Speaker 1: very different. We definitely did not have this conversation like this.
Speaker 1: I don't know where you're making these leaps, and we
Speaker 1: said it's really fun. We should do this more often.
Speaker 1: So I don't really understand, Jacob, wait, what you're trying
Speaker 1: to do right now. Honestly, man, maybe we should just
Speaker 1: not be talking about this in front of everybody on
Speaker 1: the radio. Who this is. I think we need to
Speaker 1: like sort this out Yeah. Yeah, plus we're getting short
Speaker 1: on time. Uh well, it sounds like everything's great for
Speaker 1: you guys. Thanks for calling on with the update. I
Speaker 1: look forward to the update on this one. You go. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll do a second date. Update, update, update, update, update
Speaker 1: on this one. You guys make us believe in love
Speaker 1: all over again. Oh man, broken jubil in the morning,