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<v Speaker 1>Every once in a while we do a special segment

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<v Speaker 1>on this show called the Second Date Update Update. It's

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the Morning's where we contact a

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<v Speaker 1>couple who we spoke to in the past to find

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<v Speaker 1>out what's going on with them now. Are they still together?

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<v Speaker 1>Are they not together? The third or fourth party join

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<v Speaker 1>in the fun. You never know what could happen. And

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<v Speaker 1>the people we have on the phone today had one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most memorable calls of the year. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>not because they had a very romantic story. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of the opposite, and we were very

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<v Speaker 1>surprised when they said that they had an update for us.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll play the audio of the original Second Date

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<v Speaker 1>Update for you and then we'll talk to the couple

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<v Speaker 1>immediately following that. It's your Second Date Update Update. Right now,

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewels Second Date Update. A listener named Amanda

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone for a second Day Update today

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<v Speaker 1>and she's smart, okay, because she did what people normally

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<v Speaker 1>don't do. She did her research, like, not just on

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<v Speaker 1>the date, the person she was going with, but the

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<v Speaker 1>actual place. You showed up the day before, interviewed everybody

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant, waited around check it out to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that it was the proper location to have a

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<v Speaker 1>date Psycho. Isn't that right, Amanda? No, that's not exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what I did. Oh my god, thank god. I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to spend what you did and make it better,

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<v Speaker 1>but I guess not. Yeah, thank you for trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make it better. But no, that's not exactly what I did. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I did go to the restaurant the day before, but

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<v Speaker 1>that was on accident. Oh okay, you didn't go to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that you had the best lighting at the

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<v Speaker 1>table so that you looked fantastic no matter what happened

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<v Speaker 1>on your date. Right, No, but that's a great idea. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally screwed up. I should have at the restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was waiting for a really long time, and

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<v Speaker 1>I kept calling him and texting him until finally got

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<v Speaker 1>a response, and he wrote me back saying that we

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<v Speaker 1>actually had planned a date the following night shot up,

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<v Speaker 1>So he screwed up your schedule and showed up to

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant a day early. That's true. I should have

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<v Speaker 1>kept clambing it on him. I've been like, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pretty sure it was tonight. I can't imagine the emotions

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<v Speaker 1>you were going through though. Yeah, after thirty minutes, I

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty upset. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, you're like hating this

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<v Speaker 1>guy so much and then you realize it's your own fault.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you say anything rude to him when you texted him?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? When I didn't hear from him, I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just wrote like, dude, are you showing up or not?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm going to leave. Yeah, okay, that's not too bad.

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<v Speaker 1>And so did you make it the next night? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>We did? Okay, good. Everybody showed up the next night. Awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was a little weird when I showed up

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<v Speaker 1>the second night in the row because all of the

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<v Speaker 1>servers and the hostess remembered me. Yeah, it was awkward

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<v Speaker 1>because the night before I kept checking in with everyone

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<v Speaker 1>wondering if they had seen this guy was there, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I have his picture, like a police officer that shows

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<v Speaker 1>up trying to track somebody down, Like have you seen

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<v Speaker 1>this man before in here ever? Exactly? So wait, how

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<v Speaker 1>did you deal with that though. I mean, were you

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<v Speaker 1>able to laugh or was it just weird? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was a little awkward, but I had to laugh

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<v Speaker 1>it off. I had no other choice, Okay. And was

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<v Speaker 1>he cool with it? Yeah, he made fun of me, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>as he should. As he should, right, So how was

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<v Speaker 1>the actual date? The actual date I thought went well.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a lot of things in common, listen to

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<v Speaker 1>the same music, a lot of our hobbies are the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Conversation was good. But I haven't heard from him since.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you were leaving the date, what was your

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<v Speaker 1>thought like that you were for sure going to see

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<v Speaker 1>him again? I don't know, you know, I to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>just dating is terrible and people both and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what happened to them. But yeah, I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>went really well and we had a lot of chemistry.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if he feels the same way

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<v Speaker 1>because he's not saw me back, or you've had plans

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<v Speaker 1>with him for a while now, but you're not very

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<v Speaker 1>good with your schedule, so you screwed up. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>been waiting on your call. Yeah maybe that's Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys kiss or anything? No, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss him to see if we had a deeper connection,

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<v Speaker 1>but we just kind of hugged and said it was

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<v Speaker 1>really nice to meet each other and thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>a nice evening. Okay, and no plans to go out again,

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<v Speaker 1>like you guys and say we should totally go out again. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't make any plans. I was kind of hoping

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<v Speaker 1>that he would be the one to call me and

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<v Speaker 1>plan another date. But I don't know. Maybe he thought

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to screw that one up too and

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<v Speaker 1>then show up choice screw it. Okay, Well we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, and then call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second dight up date. Okay, Okay, all right, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do it next Okay, like after the song, like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't go anywhere, I don't show up somewhere else. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning. Second Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>Amanda you there, Yes, I'm here. Hey. You know at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the first part of the second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>you made the comment that dating sucks totally. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I'm thinking. When we call this guy and find

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<v Speaker 1>out if you'll go on another date with you or not,

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<v Speaker 1>if he says yes, just skip everything, get married right away.

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<v Speaker 1>That way, you don't have to worry about dating anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Great idea. And then if he says no, just the

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<v Speaker 1>next guy you go on a date with, just me,

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<v Speaker 1>to me at the courthouse, get married. Just stop with

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<v Speaker 1>the dating, you know. Okay, Great, it's like arranging your

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<v Speaker 1>own wedding. Yeah, great idea. I'll keep that in mind. Okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just joining us For today's second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>Amanda is on the phone. She wants to call a

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<v Speaker 1>dude named Jacob. They went out to eat dinner together.

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<v Speaker 1>The problem at the beginning of the whole thing was

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<v Speaker 1>that Amanda showed up on the wrong day to the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant and then blamed him for standing her up, But

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<v Speaker 1>they worked it out. They ended up going there the

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<v Speaker 1>next day to eat dinner. She says they had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time, but now he's not getting back to her,

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<v Speaker 1>and she doesn't know why. I'm just worried that this

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<v Speaker 1>is going to go poorly and you're just gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>up on dating altogether, Like, could this be the last

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<v Speaker 1>straw for you? You know, you don't know, I've had

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<v Speaker 1>such bad luck in the past that I might at

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<v Speaker 1>all know the truth marriage marriage marriage. If you give

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<v Speaker 1>up on dating. Just get married, Amanda. That's the way

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<v Speaker 1>it works. His marriage is so much easier. Yeah, right right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm gonna doubt his phone number right now.

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<v Speaker 1>See if we can get him on the phone. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go, Hello him, I speak to Jacob. This is Jacob.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Jacob, how are you? My name is Jebil from

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show called Brook and Jewbil in the morning. Uh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Can I help you with something or no? Just calling

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<v Speaker 1>for no reason, just to talk? All right. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>little confused here. Do you you need a donation or

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<v Speaker 1>something or we need maybe at some point. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling you because we got an email from one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners and it was about you, about about me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how's up? Well, her name is Amanda, and you guys

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<v Speaker 1>went out to dinner the other day, Yes we did, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he did, and she showed up to the restaurant on

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong day and then started to blame you for it.

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<v Speaker 1>You remember that, Yes, they do remember that? Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Amanda told us a little bit about your date when

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<v Speaker 1>you guys actually did go out, and now she's wondering

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<v Speaker 1>why you won't call her back. Really yep, So she

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<v Speaker 1>contacted you and told you all about our date. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounded like a lovely date from what she described. WHOA.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm being one hundred percent on us, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a huge surprise to me because she did not seem

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<v Speaker 1>very interested in me. Really, she told us the opposite.

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<v Speaker 1>She said that she was really interested in you, but

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<v Speaker 1>she thought that you weren't feeling it. Really, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>why would she try to contact you for another date

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<v Speaker 1>if she wasn't interested. Well, this whole thing is news

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<v Speaker 1>to me. I did not know that, and that was

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<v Speaker 1>not the impression I got. Okay, that's to be sure. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't gotten like a text message or a voicemail

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<v Speaker 1>or something from her. I think I got a text

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<v Speaker 1>message from her, but based on kind of how things went,

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<v Speaker 1>it sort of seems more like a courtesy. You know, hey, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>that was great, like, but not not like she was

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<v Speaker 1>really serious about wanting to see me again. Especially Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what you know, well, this could be one of the

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<v Speaker 1>easiest second day up. Thats we are done? Then, Yeah, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>we should just hook you up right now then. Obviously

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<v Speaker 1>because you guys both like each other and didn't know it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure that I actually really want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out again. What was she doing that made you think

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't interested? Well, the first sign I got was

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<v Speaker 1>when the waiter came to the table to take our

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<v Speaker 1>drink orders. He walked away and she said, Wow, that

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<v Speaker 1>guy's jawline looks just like my exes. And I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of was like, did she just say that? And then

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<v Speaker 1>she just launched into it. In the day, she was

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<v Speaker 1>just talking about her ex and not going on and

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<v Speaker 1>on in this way that made me feel like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was actually kind of sweet. It just seemed like

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<v Speaker 1>she was still kind of hung up on him, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like she seemed like a good person, but

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<v Speaker 1>just honestly not over him. Yeah, when you're making comments

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<v Speaker 1>about the waiter's jawline being similar to your ex, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds to me like that's all she's thinking about. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>not only that, she she kind of said like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we were working a lot. He was going to night school,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he had to move for a job and

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't anything bad to happen, but he moved, and

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, I think they still have a cat together.

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<v Speaker 1>He has the cattail about her. I learned it all. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's almost like, you're on a date with that dude, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I might as well been. You might as well just

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<v Speaker 1>pulled right up. Were you asking her questions about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Or was she just I didn't ask her anything about

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<v Speaker 1>the AX, that's for sure. I wouldn't like that wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have been my style. Like and like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I kind of left the date thinking this

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<v Speaker 1>girl's really kno that into me, and she's got some

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<v Speaker 1>history that she's not cleared up with. So I went home,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess when I was home, I was thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about it some more, and so I checked out this

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<v Speaker 1>guy her exum on Facebook, just because I was curious

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<v Speaker 1>and well, yeah, you've heard so much about him pulling

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<v Speaker 1>up a celebrity's Facebook page, you facebook X. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, even when I was doing it, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a little, this is this is beyond. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I was curious, you know. I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>should have just friended the guy and enough about him.

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<v Speaker 1>And he seemed like a nice guy, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a good looking guy, but nothing really specialized thought. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like I mean, you certainly didn't do it for me,

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I mean, good enough looking guy. But but

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<v Speaker 1>you're just not really what you need. All right, We've

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<v Speaker 1>got from talking about your day to analyzing the looks

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<v Speaker 1>of her ex on Facebook. Yeah, you know, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just green man and this kind of happened, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was ready to move on. Yeah, well we're not really

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<v Speaker 1>ready to move on yet. Neither as Amanda, because she's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. But what Yeah, she's on the phone. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she's on the phone and she wants to talk to you. Hi, hey, Amanda. Wow, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>uh he looked up my my ex. Huh uh. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I did. I was I did guilty. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've actually resisted, really been trying to avoid it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, is he like he had a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of him fishing? Is that still? Is that still

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<v Speaker 1>what he's doing? What are you doing? I just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really remember what the picture was. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>do you kind of do you hear yourself right now?

0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I can kind of anyone else. Yeah, you have the conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>so um, what do you mean you honestly don't hear

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<v Speaker 1>like hear what you're doing. Yeah, No, I'm just like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interesting because I just want to know what he's

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<v Speaker 1>up to, Like, does he have a status update? You know, like,

0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:29.040
<v Speaker 1>what is he up to? Amanda? You are you're clearly

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<v Speaker 1>not over this guy? No, I am. I'm totally over him.

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<v Speaker 1>I just look, I've been with him for a really

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<v Speaker 1>long time, and I'm just curious to what he's doing.

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<v Speaker 1>His profile picture had another girl in it, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it was that. What did she have

0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:49.840
<v Speaker 1>brown hair with like blond highlights in the front. Amanda,

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter, it's your ex, it doesn't matter. It

0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:55.040
<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter. I want to know because I want to

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<v Speaker 1>know if it's his sister or if it's the girl

0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:01.640
<v Speaker 1>he was dating before me. Oh my, Amanda. Yeah, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I should not have brought that up. I

0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:07.120
<v Speaker 1>don't think you should have, Amanda. You do not need

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<v Speaker 1>to be dating right now. Yeah. Look, you're not in

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<v Speaker 1>charge of my life. I thought dating would be a

0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:13.800
<v Speaker 1>really good thing for me, So okay, you know, I

0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:15.920
<v Speaker 1>dated this guy and now i'm not and I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to find someone new. Okay, Yeah, but you're still focusing

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<v Speaker 1>quite a bit on the old dude, Amanda. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what we're trying to say, it's not fair to you

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<v Speaker 1>to the new dude. It's not really fair to anybody

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<v Speaker 1>until you heal whatever's going on there. If you were

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<v Speaker 1>dating someone for over a year and then you found

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<v Speaker 1>out that some other girl was in his profile picture

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook, and you would be really upset too and

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<v Speaker 1>probably want to know who it is. Okay, I agree

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<v Speaker 1>with you completely, Amanda. I'm on your side. Probably not

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<v Speaker 1>when you have your date on the phone too. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, like maybe if you were talking to your

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<v Speaker 1>best girlfriend. I'm just curious and I want to know. So, Jacob,

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<v Speaker 1>could you please tell me more about what you saw

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<v Speaker 1>on his Facebook profile? Yeah? You know, I'm gonna that's

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<v Speaker 1>a hard no, Amanda. And you know what, I have

0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:06.080
<v Speaker 1>a better idea, Jacob. How about this. Would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with Amanda? We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it and then you guys can talk all

0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:12.920
<v Speaker 1>about it, you know what. As fun as that sounds,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna decline. No, Come on very much. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys could gossip about the whole thing the whole time? No, Jacob,

0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:23.000
<v Speaker 1>you know what you owe me for this? Okay. I

0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:25.000
<v Speaker 1>know that everyone is laughing about this right now. But

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<v Speaker 1>you are the one who looked, and I think that

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<v Speaker 1>you owe it to me to tell me what you found.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. Wow. Okay, so why don't you just

0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:37.680
<v Speaker 1>do yourself a favor and look at his Facebook profile?

0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:43.520
<v Speaker 1>Or are you are you blocked or something or sound? Yeah? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>why aren't you on there? Amanda? I don't want to

0:14:46.720 --> 0:14:51.520
<v Speaker 1>talk about that. I'm just curious about Okay, well, Amanda,

0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:53.760
<v Speaker 1>how about this? How about how about this? How about

0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:56.480
<v Speaker 1>you just set up like a dummy account and then

0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:59.600
<v Speaker 1>try to follow him? That's the that's what most same

0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:03.640
<v Speaker 1>people do. Yeah. I don't appreciate your lame advice. Thank you,

0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:06.320
<v Speaker 1>but no, thank you, Jacob. When we hang up on

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<v Speaker 1>this radio station, I am going to contact you and

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<v Speaker 1>I am going to expect that you give me some

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<v Speaker 1>answers about what you found. Oh my god. Oh you

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<v Speaker 1>need some good girlfriends right now, Amanda, and stop telling

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<v Speaker 1>me what to do. Oh my god. Yeah, Amanda, it's

0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:25.200
<v Speaker 1>your life. Live it the way you see fit. And

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you'll be reaching out to Jacob because there's

0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:30.320
<v Speaker 1>nothing we can do about that. Yeah yet, Yeah, I

0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:32.280
<v Speaker 1>will be reaching out to him, and he'd better answer

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. I'm scared. That really makes me eager. I

0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:41.040
<v Speaker 1>love a good threat. All right, well, Amanda, looks like

0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:42.800
<v Speaker 1>no second date for you. Hopefully you can get the

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<v Speaker 1>information that you want though, And I guess we didn't

0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:48.880
<v Speaker 1>find out that dating really does suck after all. That's

0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:52.800
<v Speaker 1>a problem broken jewel in the morning. All that was

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update from a few months ago, and

0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.240
<v Speaker 1>apparently we actually have an update on the second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>a second day update update. I'm gonna try to say

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<v Speaker 1>up at least seven more times before I get into it,

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<v Speaker 1>but Amanda and Jacob are actually on the phone with

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<v Speaker 1>an update on their situation. I guess, Amanda, did you

0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:09.280
<v Speaker 1>ever get over your ex? Are you still stuck on him?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's all you guys have been talking about. I

0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:15.920
<v Speaker 1>am totally over my ax. I know that I founded crazy,

0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:20.520
<v Speaker 1>but sorry, we've both felt what you felt. We get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Yeah, so you've moved on, Yes, took some

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<v Speaker 1>time off from really dating anyone, and then reconnected with Jacob. Okay,

0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:31.880
<v Speaker 1>so you guys actually talked again after I was wondering

0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:33.960
<v Speaker 1>why you were both on the phone. Yeah, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>well I reached out not too long ago, and then

0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:42.040
<v Speaker 1>we had like a little late night hangout. Oh so, Jacob,

0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:44.160
<v Speaker 1>you didn't think when you saw her number calling like,

0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:49.479
<v Speaker 1>oh this crazy chick again. Well I was a little astant,

0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:51.520
<v Speaker 1>but at the same time, she's always had a place

0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:53.240
<v Speaker 1>in my heart, so you know, she called me kind

0:16:53.280 --> 0:17:03.280
<v Speaker 1>of late, and I wanted to make sure everything was okay. Yeah, right, Jacob, Yeah,

0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:05.639
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know things are good and we're together

0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:12.600
<v Speaker 1>now soup graduations. Yeah. Wait wait, how long have you

0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:15.880
<v Speaker 1>guys been dating? Wait? Wait wait, we had fun. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't think that we were going to put

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<v Speaker 1>like a label on it. Oh it was I thought

0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:24.320
<v Speaker 1>that we were just supposed to come on here and

0:17:24.359 --> 0:17:26.720
<v Speaker 1>tell them that we hung out again, and that was

0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:28.879
<v Speaker 1>the point of all of this. Well, no, I mean

0:17:28.920 --> 0:17:30.840
<v Speaker 1>I think it's more than that. I remember we talked

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<v Speaker 1>a lot and then agree that we are going to

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<v Speaker 1>make this official official. That that's Manda, that's a little

0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:41.080
<v Speaker 1>it's a little fast. I think I don't remember any

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<v Speaker 1>conversation about it, committing to a relationship. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, guys,

0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:50.280
<v Speaker 1>this is embarrassing. Um, Jacob, we talked about this and

0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:52.480
<v Speaker 1>then we said that we were going to be exclusively

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<v Speaker 1>with each other and not other people. No, we did

0:17:56.359 --> 0:17:59.399
<v Speaker 1>not say that this was this was fun, we should

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<v Speaker 1>do this again in wait, so wait, are you guys

0:18:02.720 --> 0:18:05.320
<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out if you're together right now? Yeah?

0:18:05.320 --> 0:18:07.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean we are. We definitely talked about it and like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is frustrating because we came on here to do

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<v Speaker 1>an update about a relationship. So I don't really understand

0:18:13.440 --> 0:18:15.600
<v Speaker 1>what's going on right now aman that you literally just

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<v Speaker 1>called me yesterday to say that the radio people wanted

0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:20.840
<v Speaker 1>to talk to us and that was it. I had

0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:24.680
<v Speaker 1>no idea that you were going to try to announce

0:18:24.720 --> 0:18:27.840
<v Speaker 1>the relationship in front of these people, Like Okay, well,

0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:30.480
<v Speaker 1>this is really frustrating, and I'm tracked that you're acting

0:18:30.520 --> 0:18:32.600
<v Speaker 1>like this because when you're at my place you're acting

0:18:32.720 --> 0:18:36.560
<v Speaker 1>very different. We definitely did not have this conversation like this.

0:18:36.680 --> 0:18:41.159
<v Speaker 1>I don't know where you're making these leaps, and we

0:18:41.240 --> 0:18:43.760
<v Speaker 1>said it's really fun. We should do this more often.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't really understand, Jacob, wait, what you're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do right now. Honestly, man, maybe we should just

0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:52.159
<v Speaker 1>not be talking about this in front of everybody on

0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:55.159
<v Speaker 1>the radio. Who this is. I think we need to

0:18:55.200 --> 0:18:58.120
<v Speaker 1>like sort this out Yeah. Yeah, plus we're getting short

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<v Speaker 1>on time. Uh well, it sounds like everything's great for

0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:02.399
<v Speaker 1>you guys. Thanks for calling on with the update. I

0:19:02.400 --> 0:19:04.600
<v Speaker 1>look forward to the update on this one. You go. Yeah,

0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:07.040
<v Speaker 1>we'll do a second date. Update, update, update, update, update

0:19:07.080 --> 0:19:09.160
<v Speaker 1>on this one. You guys make us believe in love

0:19:09.200 --> 0:19:12.679
<v Speaker 1>all over again. Oh man, broken jubil in the morning,