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Speaker 1: Every once in a while we do a special segment

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Speaker 1: on this show called the Second Date Update Update. It's

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning's where we contact a

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Speaker 1: couple who we spoke to in the past to find

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Speaker 1: out what's going on with them now. Are they still together?

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Speaker 1: Are they not together? The third or fourth party join

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Speaker 1: in the fun. You never know what could happen. And

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Speaker 1: the people we have on the phone today had one

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Speaker 1: of the most memorable calls of the year. And it's

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Speaker 1: not because they had a very romantic story. In fact,

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Speaker 1: it was kind of the opposite, and we were very

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Speaker 1: surprised when they said that they had an update for us.

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Speaker 1: So we'll play the audio of the original Second Date

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Speaker 1: Update for you and then we'll talk to the couple

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Speaker 1: immediately following that. It's your Second Date Update Update. Right now,

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels Second Date Update. A listener named Amanda

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Speaker 1: and she's smart, okay, because she did what people normally

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Speaker 1: don't do. She did her research, like, not just on

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Speaker 1: the date, the person she was going with, but the

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Speaker 1: actual place. You showed up the day before, interviewed everybody

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Speaker 1: sure that it was the proper location to have a

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Speaker 1: date Psycho. Isn't that right, Amanda? No, that's not exactly

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Speaker 1: what I did. Oh my god, thank god. I was

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Speaker 1: I did go to the restaurant the day before, but

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Speaker 1: that was on accident. Oh okay, you didn't go to

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Speaker 1: on your date. Right, No, but that's a great idea. No,

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Speaker 1: I totally screwed up. I should have at the restaurant,

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Speaker 1: So he screwed up your schedule and showed up to

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Speaker 1: the restaurant a day early. That's true. I should have

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Speaker 1: kept clambing it on him. I've been like, no, I'm

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Speaker 1: pretty sure it was tonight. I can't imagine the emotions

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Speaker 1: Did you say anything rude to him when you texted him?

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Speaker 1: You know? When I didn't hear from him, I kind

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Speaker 1: of just wrote like, dude, are you showing up or not?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm going to leave. Yeah, okay, that's not too bad.

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Speaker 1: And so did you make it the next night? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We did? Okay, good. Everybody showed up the next night. Awesome.

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Speaker 1: And it was a little weird when I showed up

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Speaker 1: this man before in here ever? Exactly? So wait, how

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Speaker 1: the end of the first part of the second date update,

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Speaker 1: you made the comment that dating sucks totally. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: why I'm thinking. When we call this guy and find

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Speaker 1: out if you'll go on another date with you or not,

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Speaker 1: That way, you don't have to worry about dating anymore.

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Speaker 1: Great idea. And then if he says no, just the

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Speaker 1: next guy you go on a date with, just me,

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Speaker 1: If you're just joining us For today's second day update,

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Speaker 1: Amanda is on the phone. She wants to call a

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Speaker 1: dude named Jacob. They went out to eat dinner together.

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Speaker 1: The problem at the beginning of the whole thing was

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Speaker 1: all know the truth marriage marriage marriage. If you give

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Speaker 1: Hey Jacob, how are you? My name is Jebil from

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Speaker 1: a radio show called Brook and Jewbil in the morning. Uh, okay,

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Speaker 1: Can I help you with something or no? Just calling

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Speaker 1: for no reason, just to talk? All right. I'm a

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Speaker 1: something or we need maybe at some point. No, I'm

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Speaker 1: calling you because we got an email from one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners and it was about you, about about me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: how's up? Well, her name is Amanda, and you guys

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Speaker 1: went out to dinner the other day, Yes we did, Yes,

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Speaker 1: You remember that, Yes, they do remember that? Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: Amanda told us a little bit about your date when

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Speaker 1: it sounded like a lovely date from what she described. WHOA.

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Speaker 1: He has the cattail about her. I learned it all. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's almost like, you're on a date with that dude, Yeah,

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