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Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And

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Speaker 1: Subject trapped under his bed. This is crazy. Dear Steve

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Speaker 1: and Shirley, I really needs him advice. I met this

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Speaker 1: man that is ten years older than I am, and

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Speaker 1: I really like him a lot. He's still married, but

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Speaker 1: he and his wife are living as roommates and he

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Speaker 1: does not sleep with her anymore. I have gone to

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Speaker 1: his house many nights and would leave before his wife

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Speaker 1: and kids wake up. When he takes me out. We

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Speaker 1: only go to the casino because I'm his lucky charm

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Speaker 1: and he always wins big when I'm with him. I

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Speaker 1: would love to have a nice dinner with him in town,

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Speaker 1: but he's not that type of man. The way he

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Speaker 1: in the world. He is a passionate love maker, and

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Speaker 1: he takes his time with attention to every little detail.

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Speaker 1: He's got me wrapped around his little finger, and he

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Speaker 1: knows it. I need to know that he feels the

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Speaker 1: same way about me. I was at his house one night,

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Speaker 1: about two months ago, and his wife got up in

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Speaker 1: the middle of the night and started calling his name.

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Speaker 1: He told me to get under the bed, and I did.

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Speaker 1: She walked in and told him she was having trouble

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Speaker 1: sleeping and wanted to lay with him for a few minutes.

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Speaker 1: He told her no, because he had an early morning

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Speaker 1: and he needed his rest. She got in the bed anyway,

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Speaker 1: and she got on top of him and started kissing him.

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Speaker 1: She could see already in the mood, and that was

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Speaker 1: for me, not her. I got him in the mood

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Speaker 1: and she finished the job for me. Soon after they finished,

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Speaker 1: she fell asleep, so he woke her up and told

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Speaker 1: could never resist her. I got from under the bed

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Speaker 1: and he kept on apologizing. I was a nervous wreck.

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Speaker 1: I had to hear my man being taken advantage of.

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Speaker 1: And I hated that he could live with me, but

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Speaker 1: he said he is staying there for his kids. Is

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Speaker 1: he really staying for her? Well to this, I just say,

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Speaker 1: come on, you cannot be this slow. You cannot. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you heard it with your own ears. No matter who

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Speaker 1: So yes, he's staying for her, just like he told you,

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Speaker 1: and the kids because they're married and that's his family.

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Speaker 1: That's why he's still there. He's just cheating on them

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Speaker 1: with you. You're the side piece. He's not your man.

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Speaker 1: He has a wife who gets in his bed while

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Speaker 1: you have to hide under the bed. Okay, how does

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Speaker 1: this sound. You're worried about the wrong things. You're worried

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Speaker 1: about him taking you to the casino because you're his

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Speaker 1: lucky charm. You want him to take you to dinner instead,

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Speaker 1: But she said he's not that type of man. What

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Speaker 1: you should be worried about is your luck running out

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Speaker 1: and his wife finding you in her house. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm one of those many many times you said you've

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Speaker 1: been there. Take my advice. Stop being this man's little plaything,

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Speaker 1: because that's all you are you gotta break it off

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Speaker 1: with him because he's not gonna ever leave his wife

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Speaker 1: and you'll be forever under the bed when she comes

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Speaker 1: in the bedroom. Steve, this is this is ridiculous. This

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Speaker 1: is just flat out ridiculous. This is really really close

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Speaker 1: to one of the dumbest damn lettuce I've had. This

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Speaker 1: lady said, I really need some advice. I met this

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Speaker 1: man that's ten years older than I am, and I

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Speaker 1: really like him a life. Okay, no problem, he's still married. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go, but he and his wife are living

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Speaker 1: his roommate and he does not sleep with her anymore.

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Speaker 1: Who told you that? He told you that. He told

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Speaker 1: you they still live together, but they're not sleeping together anymore. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right. I have gone to his house many nights

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Speaker 1: What wait a minute, You've got to be something's really

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Speaker 1: really you're demented, something's really really wrong with you. First

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Speaker 1: of all, he told you he's still married, but then

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Speaker 1: ass the lynchest man sneak you in the house like

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Speaker 1: y'all kids do you, and then you get up and

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Speaker 1: then when he takes me out, we only go to

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Speaker 1: the casino because I'm his lucky charm and he always

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Speaker 1: wins big when I'm with him. Now, you go to

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Speaker 1: be saying he was just with you. Because he at

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Speaker 1: the casino, you can sit in the chain next to him.

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Speaker 1: Y'all could be at the table, side by side, and

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Speaker 1: he can say, y'all was never together. That's why you

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Speaker 1: don't go nowhere but the damn casino. Then you said,

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Speaker 1: I would love to have a nice dinner with him

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Speaker 1: not fit to have no dinners with him in time.

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Speaker 1: But he's not that type of man. The way he

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Speaker 1: in the world. Hey, come on over to mouse. Everybody

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Speaker 1: sleep I'm doing. But then before they wake up, I'll

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Speaker 1: lead you to get out. And then hey, I want

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Speaker 1: you to come down to the casino, women, because you

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Speaker 1: might lucky charm and that we indeed, but we can't

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Speaker 1: ever be seen nowhere having no damn dinner together. And Dan,

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Speaker 1: right after that, you said, the way he talks to

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Speaker 1: You stright Hold on, Steve, hold on, hold on, all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour Strawberry Letters subject for

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Speaker 1: today trapped under under his Bed. We'll get back into

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Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to, all right, Come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's very intelligent Strawberry letter. It's called the

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Speaker 1: subject trapped under his Bed. Wow, this lady mentors married

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Speaker 1: man that to told hood that he don't have a

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Speaker 1: relationship with his wife. He just lived as roommates in

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Speaker 1: the house and he don't sleep with her anymore. And

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Speaker 1: so she didn't decide that she goes over this man's

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Speaker 1: house many nights and would leave before his wife and

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Speaker 1: kids wake up. I ain't never seen, I ain't never

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Speaker 1: going to do before. Then when he takes me out,

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Speaker 1: we only go to the casino because I'm as lucky

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Speaker 1: charming he always wins being when I'm with you. Then

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Speaker 1: she said, I'd love to have a nice dinner with him.

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Speaker 1: That's not gonna have him go dinner and look like

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Speaker 1: y'all together. You can go to the casino and it

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Speaker 1: don't look like y'all together, she said. But he's not

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Speaker 1: that type of man, meaning you know what she means

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Speaker 1: by that. She would never be seen with me out

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Speaker 1: having dinner and people know he's married because he ain't

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Speaker 1: that type of man. Oh, but he is the type

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Speaker 1: I'm just reading how good of a person this dude

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Speaker 1: really is. But here's that type of man. The way

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Speaker 1: he talks about me feels a luckiest woman and female anywhere.

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Speaker 1: He's a passionate love maker. He takes his time with

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Speaker 1: attention to every little detail. But let's cause everybody to sleep.

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Speaker 1: And then, yeah, that's just cause everybody to sleep when

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Speaker 1: they wake up, that old tension to detail, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: quite the damn when not a fact, it'll be laid

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Speaker 1: on in the letter you've been to find out about that.

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Speaker 1: He got me wrapped around his finger and he knows it.

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Speaker 1: I know that he feels the same way about me,

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Speaker 1: and uh, and I need to know. I need to

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Speaker 1: was at his house one night, about two months ago,

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Speaker 1: get under the bed, and I did. What you know,

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Speaker 1: can try to have me behind them drapes, But what

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Speaker 1: I'm not fitned to do is get up under this

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Speaker 1: That ain't what I'm fitned to do. So anyway, he

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Speaker 1: She walked in and told him she was having trouble

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Speaker 1: He told her no, because he got an early morning

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Speaker 1: You know why, because that's her house and as her husband,

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Speaker 1: she got into bed anyway, and she got on top

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Speaker 1: was already in the mood. And that was for me,

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Speaker 1: not her worry, La, it's her husband, she is his wife.

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Speaker 1: You in her house and now you under her baby child,

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Speaker 1: Why did you write us? So? I got him in

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Speaker 1: and that was from me, not her. I get him.

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Speaker 1: I got him in the mood and she finished the

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Speaker 1: She laughed and told him he could never resist her.

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Speaker 1: You know why, because she's proving it before. That ain't

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Speaker 1: that ain't the first time that didn't happen. Man, Okay,

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Speaker 1: She laughed and told him he could never resist her.

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Speaker 1: I got from under the bed. This is so stick.

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Speaker 1: I got from under the bed. And he kept on apologizing.

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Speaker 1: He doing He keep on doing a lot of stuff.

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Speaker 1: He kept on doing that, and he kept on apologize.

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Speaker 1: I was a nervous wreck. You better what I had

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Speaker 1: to hear my man being taken advantage of man. Hold up,

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Speaker 1: Listen to me, lady, I don't know how. If you

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Speaker 1: understand how sexually work, you you can't take advantage of man.

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Speaker 1: A man has to be in a certain, shall we

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Speaker 1: say frame of mind? I'm on now in order to right?

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Speaker 1: But he see it don't just happen. He had to

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Speaker 1: get ready for that, and you got him ready, Yes

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Speaker 1: you did, and then she finished the job. What you

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Speaker 1: We really really don't talk to the people. We really

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Speaker 1: don't see. Lady. I don't know if you understand the

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Speaker 1: know that you ain't the most important woman in the world. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I thought that she might know that he got you

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Speaker 1: But he said he staying there for the kids. Is

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Speaker 1: he really staying for her? Listen to me. If he

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Speaker 1: showed you who he was staying for the kids, didn't

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Speaker 1: they couldn't get no sleep, she did. He ain't staying

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Speaker 1: I'm out of fun. They don't get up a card

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