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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Alvin CLO and Tera hallk.

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Speaker 1: Alvin writes, my girlfriend and I moved into a house

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Speaker 1: that her mom owns. The house needs repairing and I

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Speaker 1: offer to do the work gradually, but her mom refuses

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Speaker 1: to help us pay for the supplies and a licensed plumber.

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Speaker 1: It's her house, so is that too much to ask?

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Speaker 2: Well, see, Bruh, if you'd have moved in and you're

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Speaker 2: not paying rent, you got to make some type of contribution.

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Speaker 2: You know, you're talking about it as her house, but

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Speaker 2: you're living in it. See you can't you know sometimes

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Speaker 2: Bruh's listen, man, when you get a gift, you got

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Speaker 2: to return to favor. And you you know, you know

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Speaker 2: what has really helped me in my life. I don't

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Speaker 2: expect nothing to be free. Nothing. Yeah, Once you live

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Speaker 2: your life with that expectation that somebody ought to give

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Speaker 2: me something or to benefit from this all to get free,

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Speaker 2: you're gonna world of disappointment. Now, you didn't say that

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Speaker 2: you had to pay rent there, You just say we

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Speaker 2: moved into this house and it needs repair, and I

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Speaker 2: volunteered to repair it. Okay, then make a contribution to

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Speaker 2: your the ability to live there. I'm pretty sure now

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Speaker 2: if you were paying rent, then the owner has an obligation.

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Speaker 3: That's understood.

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Speaker 2: But if you were in there for free, bro, going

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Speaker 2: to get to making a contribution, just like a country.

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Speaker 4: Friend's mama house for the mom to.

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Speaker 2: And I try not to talk too hard to these

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Speaker 2: young cats today because they get offended. They fight against

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Speaker 2: they fight against the laws of manhood because you know,

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Speaker 2: because they tell me all that, man, that's old school,

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Speaker 2: old gee.

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Speaker 3: They don't do that no more. Uncle. That's the problem.

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Speaker 2: That's the problem that I can't keep beating them over

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Speaker 2: the head with it because then you old fashion.

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Speaker 3: Well okay, bro, okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, moving on times of different Steve. Moving

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Speaker 1: on to Jrwanda and Baltimore. Juwanda writes on vacation, my

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Speaker 1: husband urinated in the hot tub while I was in

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Speaker 1: there with him. He said it was like peeing in

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Speaker 1: the pool, But to me, it's a lot nastier. He

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Speaker 1: won't apologize to me, so I haven't had sex with

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Speaker 1: him for three weeks.

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Speaker 4: Am I over.

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Speaker 2: Sh No, you can't do that, man, Come on, it's

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Speaker 2: like peeing in the pool.

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Speaker 3: Bro, you want to be in the pool?

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Speaker 1: What is that common?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Well, let's just say you want to use that as

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Speaker 2: an argument that pool pee got a lot old places

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Speaker 2: to go. Yes, you know it dissipates better. The hot tuble.

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Speaker 2: Everything right here, right here where we are.

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Speaker 3: Is hot.

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Speaker 2: It ain't exactly killing germs is hot. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: he was completely out of line. He was completely out

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Speaker 2: of line. Yeah, so nobody wants you to pee on them?

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Speaker 4: That going on?

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Speaker 3: How you don't see this though?

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Speaker 4: Are different?

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Speaker 3: But see right there?

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Speaker 2: Man, Even to have to explain that to a guy

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Speaker 2: that think that's okay, Now I'm wrong for that.

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Speaker 1: Hey, does does that apply what the young guy said

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Speaker 1: to you in the first one?

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Speaker 4: That's old school?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that old school dog. You can pee old people.

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Speaker 2: Now that over here you can't. I'm going bro, what

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Speaker 2: what out?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: It's just nasty all right? Moving on to thank you Celo.

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Speaker 1: To Chris and Orlando. Chris writes, my neighbor stopped at

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Speaker 1: the corner store to get a lottery ticket, and she

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Speaker 1: called to see if I wanted one. I told her yes,

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Speaker 1: And I told my girlfriend that my neighbor is so thoughtful.

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Speaker 1: The lady is at least twenty five older than I am.

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Speaker 1: But my girlfriend still got mad. She hates me talking

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Speaker 1: to any female besides her.

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Speaker 4: Is this normal?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking.

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Speaker 4: He wanted a jackpie today?

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Speaker 2: What see, Brau, It ain't your girlfriends fault on this one.

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Speaker 3: You got to stop telling everything. Shut your mouth. Why'd

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Speaker 3: you tell it that?

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Speaker 4: She was so thoughtful?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Why share that?

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Speaker 1: Is that a bad thing to share?

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Speaker 3: As you about another one?

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Speaker 1: So bumble?

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Speaker 3: She's so thoughtful? She asks? Well, why is she thinking

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Speaker 3: to you?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: You know that's what I would have said? Why you went?

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Speaker 4: How fosse all that? Twenty five years older? All right?

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Speaker 4: So it's not let me.

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Speaker 3: Tell you something that's twenty five years older. Don't mean nothing.

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Speaker 4: You've got that right. That's today, not yesterday either, all right?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 1: Last one?

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Speaker 4: Last one?

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Speaker 1: Steve Diamond and Chattanooga Diamond writes, my husband can't sleep

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Speaker 1: at night, so he wakes up and turns TV on

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Speaker 1: and that wakes me up. I yelled at him the

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Speaker 1: other night and he told me to go sleep in

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Speaker 1: the other room, So I did. How long should I

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Speaker 1: stay in the other room? And plash?

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Speaker 3: Wow, A lot of going on on the show this morning.

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Speaker 1: You.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but bruh, you can't sleep and you turn on TV.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you go in the other room where the

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Speaker 2: man you don't wake your wife up? Man, that's once

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Speaker 2: again once again. See if I talk.

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Speaker 3: To these guys.

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Speaker 2: Men, Okay, I'm tired of y'all.

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Speaker 3: Men, Just be men.

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Speaker 2: If you wake up in the night and you can't sleep,

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Speaker 2: get up, going the living room, going to den, go

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Speaker 2: in the kitchen wherever you got another TV. You can't wipe,

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Speaker 2: wake your girl up. It's it's inconsiderate. It's just flat

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Speaker 2: out in considerate. You're the one can't sleep. What you're

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Speaker 2: waking her up for?

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Speaker 3: And the dog? Just man up. I'm tired of it.

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Speaker 3: Cold if you want.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm old and hopefully one day you'll get

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Speaker 2: to be old and maybe then you'll have some sense.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah this Wow.

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Speaker 4: He made her getting girl.

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Speaker 1: And then and then for married couples not to sleep

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Speaker 1: together for three weeks, that's.

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Speaker 4: That's dangerous, I think for the marriage.

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Speaker 3: But if you're being in the hot tub, then I

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Speaker 3: understand it.

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Speaker 4: That's not the same. But I'm still it's the same mentality.

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Speaker 2: I'm still on the nasty Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But what do you think about that, Steve, shouldn't marry

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Speaker 1: couple sleep together. It gets dangerous as the longer you stay.

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Speaker 4: For the marriage.

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Speaker 2: So you might miss three weeks. But you know, but

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Speaker 2: if I'm if you're not sleeping me for.

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Speaker 4: Three weeks for punish.

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Speaker 2: But see I came that three weeks going my house

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Speaker 2: without fixing the situation.

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Speaker 3: You can't out not speak, huh, I can tell you

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Speaker 3: that right.

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Speaker 1: Now, All right, come up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news for you.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, CLO.

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Speaker 4: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show