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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. What's that? I'm Ashley. We're back. It

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Speaker 1: was good? Yeah, Actually, what you do on your vacation?

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Speaker 1: What did I do? Um? I don't know, Ben, I

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Speaker 1: can't remember last week. I have to go look at

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Speaker 1: my I think vacations are important to UM. I haven't

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Speaker 1: actually taken a real one in a while, and I

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Speaker 1: really really need it. I'm gonna go home next week

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Speaker 1: to Virginia and New Jersey. I'm gonna split up the

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Speaker 1: week and spend time with my year old grandma, and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go see Dear of Enhancing on Broadway, which

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Speaker 1: I'm super excited about. And then I'm gonna go home

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Speaker 1: to Virginia and just sit on the couch and do

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Speaker 1: nothing for at least three straight days. And I'm very

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Speaker 1: very excited about that. That's the vacation that I need. Um.

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Speaker 1: But this past week it wasn't. Did I do last week?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Ben? You had your birthday? Yeah? When

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Speaker 1: you I want to know. Actually, when you go home

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Speaker 1: for vacation and you're sitting on your I don't know

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Speaker 1: if that's a vacation that's like chill out time. It's

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Speaker 1: like technically vacation because I'm not working. Do you get

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Speaker 1: do you get catered to? Like? Did your mom and

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Speaker 1: dad make sure that like okay, I wondered if like

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Speaker 1: they make sure that all your needs are met that

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Speaker 1: like you can just relax, interact because they just love

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Speaker 1: that you're back to be in their house again. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm like, Mom, can you get me coffee? And

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Speaker 1: it's like, Mom, can you make me a grilled cheese?

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Speaker 1: And then she does stuff well when I really when

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Speaker 1: bring me food in the family room, I do say Mom,

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Speaker 1: do you are you? You're like so formal and nice

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Speaker 1: and you're like, excuse me, mother, can I please have Oh?

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Speaker 1: I just make it? Actually no, you know what? Um?

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Speaker 1: For my birthday, my mom made my I'm in Indiana

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Speaker 1: right now, um and uh so I'm getting head back

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Speaker 1: out from Denver tomorrow. And but for my birthday, my

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Speaker 1: mom made my favorite visitor in the world and I

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Speaker 1: just had a bowl of it right before we got talking.

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Speaker 1: It's strawberry ruebarb. Um. I either like a strawberry rue barb, Like, um,

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Speaker 1: what's the word I'm looking for? Chris strawberry rue barb Chris,

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Speaker 1: you know what that is. It sounds like a jellyish dessert.

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Speaker 1: I'm not into any dessert that's not chocolate. That's really Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's the only thing I consider dessert. I love strawberry

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Speaker 1: and rubar in anything. I like starberry and ruebarb ice cream.

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Speaker 1: I like strawberry and rutebar Chris By like starberry rubarb cake.

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Speaker 1: I just absolutely love the pace of starber and rubaria.

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Speaker 1: Because of my Indiana roots and so um, I didn't

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Speaker 1: know that was an Indiana thing or a Midwest thing.

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Speaker 1: It is. It is a Midwest thing, which has been

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Speaker 1: awesome because of my birthday week and and you know,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to a second here. I lost my grandpa. No,

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Speaker 1: was a big week. There's a lot going on this

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Speaker 1: I love you too, Ash, and let's do it though

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Speaker 1: you're so wonderful. Well, Ben, let's change a topic onto

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Speaker 1: something a little bit lighter. Um, do you think that

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Speaker 1: is not one person against Becca, totally, Ben, no offense

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Speaker 1: to you. You bachelors have wonderful personalities. But it's interesting

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Speaker 1: to really carry the show. Versus you bachelors, you still

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Speaker 1: I mean I will, Oh, I definitely agree to you.

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Speaker 1: I think for Nick, you know, he was he was.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for finishing that for me. Another thing to talk

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Speaker 1: a Fox, Yeah, like literal Fox. Yeah. Well, well, are

425
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 1: you watching Unreal? No? And everyone asked me that all

426
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 1: the time whenever they find out I was on The Bachelor,

427
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: like did you watch Unreal? Is it just like it?

428
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't know anything about it except

429
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 1: that apparently there was like in the show the producers

430
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 1: like swap out people's medication and we do all this craziness.

431
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, that sounds yeah, And I don't think that's

432
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 1: what my experience was like, no, it's so insane and

433
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: it's so funny. Is that apparently Unreal only gets like

434
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:07,679
Speaker 1: three hundred thousand viewers a week or per episode, And

435
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 1: it's just interesting because it seems like everyone asked us

436
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 1: about it, but like there's only apparently people watch it,

437
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 1: like maybe when it's on TV, because I think it's

438
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 1: like on Netflix or like Hulu, it's on lifetimes. But

439
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,360
Speaker 1: then when they rear you know, and it's been nominated

440
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 1: for an Emmy, Constance Summer was nominated for Well, she's

441
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: a fantastic actress, especially in that role, Like, wow, is

442
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:32,200
Speaker 1: she convincing and scary as hell? Ben? Have you seen it? Yeah?

443
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 1: I didn't know. It's still going. How have they done

444
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 1: multiple seasons? So this one is actually the Bachelorette. So

445
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 1: this season they get like an Elon Musk type girl

446
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 1: who's this big sort of millionaire and they're finding her

447
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 1: a guy. And it's actually really everything. Here's what I

448
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: might take on it is and you guys, Ben, you

449
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: can you can comment. It's there's a seed of the

450
00:24:55,359 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 1: Bachelor in it and then imagine going explode, you know

451
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: what I mean. So it's like there's some little elements

452
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 1: that I'm sure based on reality on your y'all show,

453
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: and then they just take it to the drama level,

454
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 1: because wasn't it like a former producer from The Bachelor, Like,

455
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: I mean just the original concept, you know what I mean,

456
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: But just the fact that they have all these weird

457
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: storylines about somebody jumping off of a roof. You know,

458
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 1: it's just do you remember though that in Paradise that

459
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 1: one year where yeah, so I was sleeping with like

460
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: the audio guys, but the audio out the window that

461
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 1: was like the best thing ever. I know, they need

462
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 1: to have more behind the scene. I mean, you know,

463
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 1: let's like get the cast members to start mankling with

464
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 1: the you know who's I think is the hottest handler,

465
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 1: Hot Ryan. I call it hot Ryan, Ladies. Ladies, there's

466
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: a few of us here that are totally clueless on

467
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 1: your girl party over there, and you might want to

468
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,120
Speaker 1: not forget your friends. Be sorry, Ben, you know hot Ryan? Ben?

469
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 1: You know who? I think it's hot Ryan? Right? I

470
00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 1: think I know exactly shout out to Ryan Martinez. He is.

471
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: Why can't He's like a little Joe Jonas wanna be.

472
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: And I've always know exactly who you're talking about in paradise.

473
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 1: Sometimes if like there's not anyone there for me, I'm like, Ryan,

474
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 1: can you just infiltrate your way into the cast, because yeah,

475
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 1: my sister and I would flirt with him shamelessly. For

476
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 1: those playing at home, what these girls are talking about

477
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: is essentially sort of flirting with a producer pretty much, which, yeah,

478
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:35,640
Speaker 1: like a production assistant, production assistant. But have you ever

479
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 1: developed feelings for a producer? No? No, no, but I

480
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,679
Speaker 1: can see how that could happen. I mean, they're basically

481
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 1: like your therapists. The entire experience. It's like you have

482
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 1: so much more time with them than you do the

483
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: actual person that you're dating. So on my season, a

484
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: couple of my girlfriends um have developed some crushy feelings

485
00:26:57,280 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: on the lawn. Yeah, as such like a a unique, wonderful, captivating,

486
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:09,679
Speaker 1: charming personality that were like, oh my gosh, I'm feeling

487
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: more for him than I am. The bachelor. Then, have

488
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 1: you ever well, did you on the Bachelorette when you

489
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 1: were on Caitlin season, you didn't have a crush on

490
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: like you know, Nas, Jessica, Namious, all of them? Yeah,

491
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: all the above. I can see how happens. Yeah, that

492
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 1: makes sense. I mean, who doesn't love somebody that will

493
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: fit with you for three hours just talk about yourself.

494
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: I mean, anybody's going to feel something right right, and

495
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,360
Speaker 1: anyone who can just like make you cry basically on demand,

496
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: you know, within a few weeks. It's like they can

497
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: say they can be like so, but are you open

498
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: to being loved? And I'm like yeah, yeah, and then innocently,

499
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: like you know, pick you up without let and tell

500
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 1: you how beautiful you are and how deserving you are

501
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: of love and deserving you are. Finding somebody that's special

502
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 1: to you without actually being creepy because they've already lived

503
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 1: in that world with It's a special bond. It's a

504
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: special bond. Your heart is wide open and it's just

505
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 1: being crushed season after season by all right, Well, Ben,

506
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 1: I don't love if you remember, but you did promise

507
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: us to cook some blue apron and you still haven't

508
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: done that. So do you have a date there that

509
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: we should fly to Denver, that you're going to fly here?

510
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: You amy, and you don't invite me out anymore? Oh God,

511
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: you have been on a different flip plane in a

512
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: different states or different part of the world for the

513
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: past six weeks, we beg you to come Ben. Yeah, No,

514
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: nobody wants me on l A And so I'll just

515
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: do it for myself in Denver. And that's fine because

516
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: I enjoy Blue Apron by myself because it's just that

517
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 1: good it. Let me tell you all about Blue Apron.

518
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Speaker 1: Blue Apron is a leading meal kit delivery service in

519
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Speaker 1: the US. And while many people know what we do,

520
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: many don't know about the types of meals you eat

521
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Speaker 1: when you cook with Blue Apron. What I would cook

522
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: for Amy and Ashley if they ever want to be

523
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: friends with me again, I would quick. I would kick

524
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:24,520
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525
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526
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535
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537
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Speaker 1: Let me tell you about Blue Aprons quality. Blue Apron

538
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Speaker 1: sends you only non GMO ingredients and met with no

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544
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Speaker 1: Blue Apron better way to cook? M I love the

545
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 1: way you say that. I do think that now that

546
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: it's lighter later, it is kind of more fun to

547
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: home cook and like hang out. So Ben, come on,

548
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: the time is now spring house sprung. We are ready

549
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: for our home cooked meal. Amy. You know what I think.

550
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: The next time you and I will be together is

551
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: when of tournament at the Masters. Can I brag about

552
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: you that way? You can explain it but you don't

553
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: have to brag about yourself. There is a huge golf tournament, huge,

554
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 1: like I think of the biggest athletes, the biggest celebrities

555
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 1: in Lake Tahoe and called the Edgewood. It's at Edgewood,

556
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 1: But what is the professional name of it? The tournament

557
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: is the American Century. Um uh, let me just let

558
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:31,719
Speaker 1: me just look it up. No, it's fine, I'll buy

559
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 1: you sometime. It airs on NBC. It's in Tahoe. They

560
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: play on the water and our friend Ben Higgins is

561
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 1: playing it invited to play. I think that's okay. So

562
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: it's the American Century Celebrity Golf Championship Tournament. And uh

563
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 1: it has literally been I texted Amy right away when

564
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 1: they act because this is a buck. I mean, I'm

565
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: not kidding. When it was funny, it was almost a joke.

566
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: When the Backslor originally happened, somebody asked me and I

567
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: could go back, and I find this interview that said,

568
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: what's one thing that you want like to happen out

569
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 1: of this outside of love? One thing? I remember saying,

570
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: I want to play in some awesome golf tournaments, and

571
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: Tahoe was number one of my life. It is literally

572
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: like you have Steph Curry and Justin timber Lake and um,

573
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 1: Michael Jordan's and like everybody. And then this year I

574
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: got a text It's like, were you playing this year?

575
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: And I was like, you're three years late, but not

576
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 1: too late. Let's do it. Yeah. They thought they were

577
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: texting Ben Affleck Okay, Ben, you know how you got

578
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: your dad Master's tickets? And like your dad was crying

579
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: because you're so happy. Well, my dad got word of this,

580
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: and my dad is like, actually, why can't you give

581
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: me Master's tickets? And now I have been on the

582
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 1: hunt for Master's tickets for the past, you know, two weeks,

583
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: and every day it's like any update on the Masters,

584
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: And I'm like, Dad, I w don't think I have

585
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: Julia Roberts. I don't know how Ben did this. But

586
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 1: then like, I get the tickets for dear Evan Hanson

587
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: because my best friend, my best friend works at the PR,

588
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: at the PR company that reps them. And then he's like,

589
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: so you get Hot Broadway tickets, but you can't give

590
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: you Masters tickets. I'm like, Dad, apparently the Master's tickets

591
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: are harder than even the Super Bowl tickets. They're hard

592
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: they're really really difficult. Actually, I'll send the audio in.

593
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: I don't know if we'll be able to play it

594
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: or not on the podcast. We'll send the audio end

595
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: of my dad. UM and I on the phone together

596
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: when I told him he had Master's tickets client and

597
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 1: he's like, that's my bucket list item, the number one

598
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 1: bucket list item. My buddy, good friend and just one

599
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: of the best men I know. He's a great dad

600
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 1: and a great husband, Jack Johnson, He's a former Masters winner,

601
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 1: and I play in his golf tournament called the Zack

602
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: Johnson Foundation or Zack Johnson Classic every year. Um, listen

603
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: to the story real quick, because he is and and

604
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: a lot of people out there knows Jack Johnson is

605
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: and if you don't look them up. A year ago,

606
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 1: my dad went to the Jack Johnson Classic with me,

607
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 1: pulled Zack. You know, his dream was to be uh

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00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: in Augusta for the Masters one year, and Zach remembered that, Um,

609
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: even though he has a thousand things going on, texting

610
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 1: me about two months ago and said, hey, I got

611
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 1: your dad tickets to the Masters this year, just without

612
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: me even asking. What a great guy I mean, honestly,

613
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,439
Speaker 1: and in the audios is my dad falling thing. Thank

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00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: you to Zack and thank you to me, And I'm pumped.

615
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: That's actually uh that's next week. We had to Augusta

616
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 1: for the Master's and I could not be more excited.

617
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 1: My dad went out and bought new tennis sues, he

618
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: bought new pants, a uster a new hat, he bought

619
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: new everything. He's gonna be looking to fly and pressed

620
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:39,839
Speaker 1: and ready um to show up all of those professional golfers.

621
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: So ador uh that's really cool. It is, you know,

622
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 1: and and I mean I think in a week like this,

623
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: like I was talking about the beginning of the podcast,

624
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 1: I think this is just like a really cool thing

625
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,720
Speaker 1: to do that is going to be an awesome memory.

626
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: How often in life do you get to actually do

627
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: something that you said the Buffalost item like, especially something

628
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: like the Masters where it's not easy to get to,

629
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 1: it's not easy to get take too, it's expensive. Um,

630
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 1: Zack Johnson and and just being the guy he is,

631
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: went out of his way to make sure that, like

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00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 1: my dad and I have a memory that last this repord.

633
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 1: So I'm pretty pumped about it. So so great. Um,

634
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: My dad and I went to the Super Bowl I

635
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 1: don't know if we talked about this, but yeah, this

636
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: is one of those things. It's just like definitely definitely

637
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: worth it if you can finangle it some way or

638
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: another one of these years with your dad, Becca, I

639
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: want to hear. I want to hear from you real quick.

640
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 1: What is one memory? Just one memory? Doesn't have to

641
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 1: be a family, It could be a friends, it could

642
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 1: be by yourself. What is mud memory and life that? Like?

643
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,839
Speaker 1: What is your bucket list item that you've accomplished that really,

644
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 1: like to this day stands out to you. Damn. That's

645
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,840
Speaker 1: like a big question. One thing that I've done, like

646
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 1: one bucket last item that I have already completed, or

647
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: maybe an accomplishment in your life, like what if there

648
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 1: was a dream as as little Becca as little cue

649
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: Peca said, Hey, I want to do this in my life, okay,

650
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: and I want to accomplish it. I want to I

651
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: want to do what is that? Okay? It sounds so ridiculous,

652
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 1: but it. I said for literally years that I was

653
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 1: going to be on the Bachelor. Not I'm not joking,

654
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 1: like I've said for years. I was like, yeah, I'm

655
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: going to be on the Bachelor. Like I said, it

656
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 1: for a really long time, like my sister. My sister

657
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: is actually sitting here and she's like nodding her head

658
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 1: yet because I said it for so long. Do you

659
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 1: do you remember first watching I watched Ali Fodowski season

660
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 1: and I was like, I was probably like I don't know,

661
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 1: I was how old? How much seven years older than you? Yeah,

662
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 1: so I was like, yeah, I was fifteen, I guess

663
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: when I watched that, and I was like, this show

664
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: is great. I'm gonna go on this. So you yeah,

665
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 1: I've heard it once or twice before, so it's been

666
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,320
Speaker 1: discussed a bit. When you got that first call back

667
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 1: where you're like, see it's happening. Literally, I know, literally

668
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 1: went to the casting call and like at the casting call,

669
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 1: she's like, well, we normally wait and call people back,

670
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:55,760
Speaker 1: but here's the packet for to get in that packet

671
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: and I was like, I thread it out of there.

672
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: They're like, hide is under your Sure? Yeah, she was like,

673
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: here's a little toebag. Put it in there. I was like,

674
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: And then I immediately FaceTime my brother and sister and

675
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: I was like, guys, I was like, I'm just saying

676
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: right now, I'm going to the next stage and I

677
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna be on the show. And my

678
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,839
Speaker 1: little brother was cracking up and he's like, you are,

679
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: like you are going to be on it. And I

680
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 1: called my mom and she's like, back, please don't, please

681
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 1: don't go to the next round because I know you're

682
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 1: going to get cast. She's like, please don't. My dad

683
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: was just like I kept saying, you know. After I

684
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 1: got that packet, I was like, it's doing it. We're

685
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: doing it. We're doing It's gonna be a real thing.

686
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,359
Speaker 1: And then he was like no, it's not. No, it's

687
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: not and then he was like stop thinking like that.

688
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:41,839
Speaker 1: In the next round, I was like, see what's happening. Well,

689
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: another thing that like is a little less I mean,

690
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: but really that's something I wanted to do for a

691
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 1: long time, and so it was awesome. It was such

692
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: a great experience. Um but also like I don't know

693
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: if I talked about this on the show, but I

694
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: used to rock climb competitively and my goal I was little,

695
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: and then I my goal was to get an invite

696
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: to Nashville. When I got one of those when I

697
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: was fourteen, so that was really exciting. That's really exciting.

698
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: Ben I actually had a bucket list item happened recently.

699
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:10,879
Speaker 1: I didn't talk about it on the podcast. I don't

700
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 1: think I talked about it yet. Um okay, So it's

701
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:21,720
Speaker 1: the coolest moment, the coolest moment of my life. So

702
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 1: is this about? I did talk about it on me.

703
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: I don't get it. Scream like two sorry, just on

704
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:37,879
Speaker 1: that Jimmy fallon you. Okay, well, Ben, so check this out.

705
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:42,879
Speaker 1: My sister's boyfriend was deejaying um a party and then

706
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: my sister shows up with him, and then she immediately

707
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: texted me. She goes, oh my god, Ashley Lance Bass

708
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 1: is the one throwing this party. It's totally nineties themed.

709
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 1: They're only playing boy bands on the screens. He's supposed

710
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 1: to play boy band music. And she's like, you have

711
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 1: to get here soon. So I roll in. It was

712
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 1: like my birthday, did her? So I roll in deep

713
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: with bachelor people. It was me, It was Nick Cupcake,

714
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: Christina Shulman and then as and my sister and uh,

715
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 1: I'm going and planning my my fan girl attack on Lance. Okay,

716
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 1: where is he? I'm not gonna, you know, I just

717
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: want to wait till he's not talking to anyone and

718
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:23,320
Speaker 1: be like really classy. All of a sudden, Lance taps

719
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: me on the shoulder and goes, oh, hello there, and

720
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: I go, oh my god, I got Did my sister

721
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 1: tell you early on? You know, because he had instructed

722
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:36,439
Speaker 1: the DJ boyfriend to play a certain type of music.

723
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 1: I was like, did my sister tell you early on

724
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: that I was coming? And he's like, oh, I didn't

725
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:41,919
Speaker 1: even know that was your sister. I'm just a huge

726
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 1: fan of yours that I'm sorry. I could scream, I

727
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: could scream really loud, but I won't do it. And um,

728
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh. He's like, I'm so excited

729
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: for like everything that's happening in your life, Like it

730
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 1: was so great to watch the Winter Games and like

731
00:39:55,800 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 1: everything finally happened for you. And I was like, okay, well,

732
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: um well we're not together anymore, but like that's so

733
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 1: sweet that you followed my personal life. I can't believe

734
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: that you followed my personal life. And anyway, we had

735
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: a lot to talk about, apparently, and Nick was Nick

736
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: came over. He was like, oh, I didn't know you

737
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 1: guys were friends. I was like, we are not friends.

738
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 1: We just had that natural, amazing chemistry and then I

739
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: showed Lance a picture of my room when I was younger. Anyway,

740
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: that's it. So when people from now on say, what's

741
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: your greatest accomplishment in life? My teen idol who I

742
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: had like three hundred faces of him on my walls,

743
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 1: Like because I had actually calm down for one second. Okay,

744
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: remember you're doing a podcast here. When you say you

745
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,720
Speaker 1: showed him a picture of your room as a child,

746
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: what exactly does that mean? The posters and all the

747
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 1: posters of him on the wall, three pictures of him

748
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 1: in your wall? Like, literally is a Lance that bedroom? Well? No,

749
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 1: I mean Justin was my guy obviously, but my second favorite.

750
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: And I had three fifty posters. Used to count. I

751
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 1: used to count because like pups, you make a path there.

752
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 1: And then I moved to the ceiling, but I only

753
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: did the big posters that you buy at the store

754
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: on the ceiling. But it was but I don't I

755
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 1: would put my child in therapy if they wanted that

756
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: many post It wasn't Gary, aren't you guys. I was

757
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: a twelve year old and I had really high ceilings

758
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: and my mom would like spot me on the ladder.

759
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: But it was like a work of art sometimes like

760
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:35,720
Speaker 1: every year, well not every year, every couple of months

761
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,800
Speaker 1: I would redo it with new updated posters. So I

762
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 1: would take a whole ball down and then I like

763
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 1: puzzle piece it together. I had no posters. But here's

764
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 1: my question. So you've got this big crush on Lance No, no,

765
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 1: not a crush, okay, just love. Let me let me

766
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: ask this questions obsessions? When you find out he's gay?

767
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: Oh what happened? Like? What does it do to your body? Well?

768
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:02,279
Speaker 1: I mean that was I mean he came out when

769
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: he was when I was like twenty, You were over

770
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: it and I wasn't. I love him like as a person.

771
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: But Justin was the one that I imagined myself Mary

772
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: because our friend Brittany was Superla Claken was my other one,

773
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:20,839
Speaker 1: Clay Agin. I was obsessed with him in love and love.

774
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: But um yeah, he also didn't come out until later

775
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: and she cried, Ben, who was your crush when you

776
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: were like a teenager? Not now? But when you who

777
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:35,439
Speaker 1: you have posters of? I mean this is easy. I'm

778
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: not very like, Oh, Tiffany Theason? Should I have her

779
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: on this show? How would you feel? Like? Is this

780
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: like an am I too young for this. She's um

781
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 1: Tiffany Theason. She's from Stay by the Bell. I didn't

782
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 1: watch it by the Bell. I have to see I

783
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: didn't watch it by the Bell. No, no, I wasn't

784
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 1: allowed to watch a lot of it. Wasn't really allowed

785
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:58,280
Speaker 1: to watch. Ben, how do you think you'll do interviewing

786
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 1: Tiffany Theason? Because I'm going to make that happy then,

787
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 1: because I want to see the awkwardness. I don't know.

788
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 1: If he's already giggling and not being able to complete

789
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 1: a sentence, I would be so excited. I'm not like,

790
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you can barely he's a sentence together.

791
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 1: I have a new show. I heard that, Ben brent

792
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: Nielsen a k one of your bachelorettes. She looks just

793
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: like her. I know, I know there's a lot to that.

794
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: I thought about it before. It's a big deal. Well,

795
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: and it's not. It's not just her look, because obviously

796
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: she's a beautiful person, but Tiffany amber Sis and like

797
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: Kelly Cat, was just a good, down home girl who

798
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 1: wanted and a good partner. He would joke the diner

799
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: with a smile on her face, ready for a good

800
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: time with my friends. Is this real? Life Christians is

801
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:57,759
Speaker 1: so great, Becca as being from a whole different generation.

802
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: Who is your like little crush growing up up? Like,

803
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 1: you know what, I've never I'm not gonna lie, I've

804
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 1: never been a fan girl like I always like my neighbors,

805
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: you know, and I love That's what I love. I

806
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 1: tell I'm like, you know what, actually is great because

807
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: you're just an unapologetic fan girl and I admire that.

808
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 1: You know, my neighbors were like the biggest fan They

809
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: always had crushes with the posters and everything on the walls,

810
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: and like I admired it. I just never really was

811
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: like into anyone like that. I just wish we had

812
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: a video of Ben's squirreliness right now, like literally the

813
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: best he that was just like the smile on his face. Bean,

814
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, you think about it, you grow up.

815
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,840
Speaker 1: And I had a few of my favorite Britney spears

816
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: Tippany and Bertson, Um, Jennifer Andison, I had um there on.

817
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,280
Speaker 1: I still have the folders somewhere here at this house

818
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:55,879
Speaker 1: of them. It was my art folder and I cut

819
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: out their pictures out of a magazine had I was, Yeah,

820
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 1: that was weird. I'm gonna stop I'm gonna stop there.

821
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: I'm interested because we talked generational gap now Becca actually

822
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:11,799
Speaker 1: and I who was really who's a hot commodity back

823
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: in your day? Well, I'm trying to think back because

824
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 1: this is a completely different generation, like like eighties, because

825
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 1: I'm eighties, like I was like a young kid jr.

826
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 1: Sex my birthday, Kirk Cameron is is my favorite growing

827
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: pains over everything. A lot of people liked Axel Rose.

828
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 1: Do you know who that is? Dens and Rosy Axel Rose.

829
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 1: You know a girl in high school was really obsessed

830
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:48,399
Speaker 1: with George Michael and I same thing. Another clicking where

831
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 1: you these teens fall in love with the boys that

832
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: will never like that. That's that's what it is. It's

833
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: same there and it's not scary and they're not going

834
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 1: to do anything to you. But I think I'm from

835
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: an era where there wasn't a lot of this. We

836
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 1: missed it. We were not you know, we were too

837
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: old for new kids on the block and we were

838
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: you were too old for new kids. Yeah, we didn't

839
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 1: have There was none of this boy band stuff. I mean,

840
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:14,839
Speaker 1: we were not that was not what we were JFKR. Well,

841
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: of course, but nobody had like a teen idle crush. Yeah,

842
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 1: nobody had like posters of JFKJ, I have it and

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Speaker 1: Ben Tiffany Theson's publicists already respond, Oh my god, that

889
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 1: was quick. That is very very fast. They're calling Tiffany.

890
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: So it's all on you because I only said, hey,

891
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: would she call Ben Higgins? Oh? She married? Hold up, yeah,

892
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: she's married. She is She's married, So we so at

893
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:18,879
Speaker 1: least we have an understanding of exactly my intention here.

894
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,279
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do anything weird. She's just going

895
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: to talk. I was gonna say that, you know this,

896
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 1: this could get ugly. You and I are in the

897
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: same page here. I don't want her to get an email.

898
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: The one email, the one time I can actually connect

899
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: with Timber Tiffany and er seen and she responds with

900
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 1: you gross. Not into something like that like that would

901
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: crust me forever. For next week is just that Ben

902
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 1: becomes Ashley and Ashley becomes Ben. Oh my gosh, yes,

903
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna have to calm you down. It's just

904
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 1: weird to think that. I mean, I'm not kidding. I

905
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: still remember the moment where I used to sit at

906
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: home and I used to think I didn't know God

907
00:49:55,800 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 1: created women or people. This pretty like God. So and

908
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:07,479
Speaker 1: now I'm gonna be able to talk to her, Ben Love,

909
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:10,759
Speaker 1: that's gonna be so blushy. I just blushed. I know

910
00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: it's you know, but you know those moments where you

911
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 1: see somebody it still happen today and you're like, or

912
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,240
Speaker 1: those moments in life just and you're like, I didn't

913
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 1: know moments like this could exist. I mean, that kind

914
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 1: of stuff is how I felt about Tiffany as a

915
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: young chup. She has she she set my standard very

916
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: high in light wow. Wow, Well you guys, if you

917
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 1: look like Tiffany amberthes In and your age appropriate, please

918
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: call Ben Higgins gmail, Ben and Ashley at heart media

919
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 1: dot com with a picture. Wait, why don't I What

920
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: if there's just a dating show like the Bachelor, but

921
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: it's just girls who are Lookalike's good idea. Actually, I

922
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 1: also think she dropped the amber like she did at

923
00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: eighteen years she did Tiffany thes In. Yeah, I'm gonna

924
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 1: look at Yeah, are you gonna come and studio for

925
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 1: that one? I don't know. No's far away from that

926
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,120
Speaker 1: studio as possible, because I'll get real weird on the

927
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:13,800
Speaker 1: problem with Amy is when we bring up these people

928
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 1: and we're just like, yeah, like I've been really unto

929
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: her before. Amy will feel like, yeah, we'll get her

930
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:22,280
Speaker 1: on next week, and then it happens and now stuck

931
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 1: like this. Now I gotta prepare myself. I gotta shave

932
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 1: next week. I gotta cum my hair. How old is

933
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 1: she now? By the way, he's probably she's about my age. Yeah,

934
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: she's like my age. You know you should do Ben

935
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 1: Beach body. We're in the same week. I don't think so. Yeah,

936
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 1: Oh I'm wort. I'm exactly her age. I am exactly

937
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: her age, and I've known her probably twenty years. Yep. Yeah,

938
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 1: Ben does is of me and my levent Amelia. Hey,

939
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: he's like, I don't know who I was with him?

940
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:06,879
Speaker 1: Did I say I got to I got to sit

941
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,839
Speaker 1: by another night? Uh? No, you didn't tell me this

942
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 1: casually basketball game? Yeah, he was at he's day a

943
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 1: basketball game when I was there. He's as good looking

944
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 1: in real life as he's on TV. I'll tell you

945
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:24,919
Speaker 1: that my friend, Uh yes, Sarah Partnet is my best

946
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: friend's wife. He's the coach of one of the coach

947
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: that U c l A. And we were at the

948
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 1: game and she just had a recent a new baby,

949
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 1: and we were sitting there together and he sat on

950
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 1: the front row and he walked up the aisle of

951
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,399
Speaker 1: the stairs and she got nervous, and she is I mean,

952
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:41,320
Speaker 1: and that's to see Sarah excited about somebody is pretty

953
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 1: funny too, because I mean, she's happily married as a kid,

954
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:45,919
Speaker 1: and so she got real nervous, really anxious. She tried

955
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 1: to she tried to use her her baby to get

956
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: a picture with him. Um. But yeah, he's he's a

957
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,399
Speaker 1: good looking fellow. It's not just his looks. It's really

958
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: not even his looks. It's all about the warmth that

959
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 1: he exudes. Yeah, guys are both like weirdos. Know these

960
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: people chill out. Oh my gosh. Just the way he

961
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: talks to my nas put it perfectly. He's the perfect

962
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,760
Speaker 1: combination of somebody who you want to be your boyfriend.

963
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,840
Speaker 1: But he's also kind of like your dad. It sounds

964
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: to run. I get that, I really get that. That

965
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:23,360
Speaker 1: makes total makes her candle. You're on the line with

966
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 1: the messiest almost in his podcast of all time. We're

967
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:30,839
Speaker 1: really just like gushing about random stuff today. Um, what

968
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 1: do you want to gush about? Fan girl? Hello? Hello,

969
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 1: how are you guys? We're great? Tell us what you

970
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 1: love now? Tell us who your teen celebrity crush was.

971
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, oh my team celebrity crush had just

972
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 1: been Jeremy Sumter and Peter Pants. Wait. Yeah, I literally

973
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:58,879
Speaker 1: made sure it looks every night before this in case

974
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 1: he came into my window. Who would Peter Pan? You

975
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 1: are so you guys are all weird? Wait Peter Pan

976
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: like in the Hook version. Wait, he is cute. I

977
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 1: just oh, I know exactly what you're talking about. Yes, no,

978
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: he is so beautiful. He's so okay, I never saw

979
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: Hook look never get out. Oh you have to know.

980
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 1: He's just got that very boyish just like he's very

981
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 1: almost like almost like a feminine space. Pretty fine. He

982
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 1: was definitely my crust. Okay, that's a good one. I

983
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: didn't get it. Now I just stop a picture and

984
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: I say Okay, got it, got it? What you hear it?

985
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 1: We already talked about it. I don't Yeah, I didn't really.

986
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:45,960
Speaker 1: I don't think I really had any although you know what,

987
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: I found girls so hard over I bringing him up

988
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:50,319
Speaker 1: all the time. That's creepy and people always think I'm

989
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: like trying to get him to slide into my d ms.

990
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 1: But I had a huge crush on Peter on Rachel season,

991
00:54:54,239 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 1: like I would watch we watch the game, Amy, did

992
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: you hear that next week? Okay, fine, we'll ask him

993
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,359
Speaker 1: about you back up? No, don't. It makes it seem

994
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: like I'm trying to hit on him and I'm not.

995
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:15,799
Speaker 1: I've moved on. Okay, who are you? You moved on to? Well,

996
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: I don't know anyway. You know what, We're gonna go

997
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 1: back to Bachelor talk for just a second. Um when

998
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 1: the show ends and you go as far as you did,

999
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 1: you have been there for seven weeks? How odd was

1000
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: it to readjust back to real life? Did you have

1001
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 1: what I called the post Bachelor depression? It's not a

1002
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:46,359
Speaker 1: real depression, but it's like, oh, excuse yeah, yeah that

1003
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: I want to sit inside and talk about the Bachelor

1004
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 1: and nothing but the Bachelor. With my mom for just

1005
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: for a whole week, right, No, because there's so much

1006
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 1: that goes on and you're catching everybody else but everyone

1007
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: else up, but you're also trying to figure out what

1008
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 1: you were feeling when you're going through it, and it's

1009
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: such a dramatic change in life style and everything overnight.

1010
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:11,240
Speaker 1: There's so much the process. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. My family

1011
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 1: members and friends with like literally asked me very politely.

1012
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: They'd be like, hey, can we stop talking about the Bachelor?

1013
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, this was my Yeah, this

1014
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,840
Speaker 1: was my life for like several weeks and something that

1015
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 1: you know, excited about, isn't it funny? Every day I

1016
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: was like apologizing. It's like I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I really,

1017
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 1: I just I can't get out of it yet. I

1018
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 1: have a You know that brings up an interesting point, Ben,

1019
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 1: I'd love to hear your thoughts and you know, all

1020
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: the ladies. Is it like the day after Christmas when

1021
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 1: it ends? You know how you have that let down? Ben,

1022
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 1: Like when you after the presence of an open did

1023
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 1: you get the blues a little bit? Definitely scaring um? Well,

1024
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 1: I didn't hear the last part, but the first part

1025
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:58,799
Speaker 1: you get the blues. I mean, it's it's such a

1026
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: weird thing. It's kind of that same thing I was

1027
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 1: talking about not to go back. But it's like the

1028
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 1: finality of anything is a bitter sweet right when when

1029
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 1: when anything end, even if it's bad, you still in

1030
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:12,919
Speaker 1: a sense like hold onto it or you you don't

1031
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,560
Speaker 1: miss it. Maybe maybe you're happiest gone, but you're used

1032
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: to that being a constant in your life. And so

1033
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 1: when that ends, there's kind of this question of well,

1034
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 1: what's next? And I I confirmed that question. I don't

1035
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 1: know about the women here, and I would love to

1036
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 1: hear their thoughts. I confronted that question head on in

1037
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: a pretty hard way. As soon as this was all done.

1038
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 1: I have I remember the moment. I remember the time

1039
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 1: that I said, well, now what's next? Do I go

1040
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 1: back to my desktop? Do I go back to life?

1041
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: Like I'm now? You know, for me, I was engaged

1042
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: do and that Lauren? I had to have those conversations

1043
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 1: what exactly this looks like? Now? Do we pursue, you know,

1044
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 1: a co hosting career, do we stay in l A,

1045
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 1: do we get new jobs? Do we post on social

1046
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 1: media for a while? To like let that kind of

1047
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 1: thing happen. UM, and now I mean that's that's really

1048
00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 1: where where my recent career starts. Was me saying, I

1049
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: don't know what's next, but I know it can't be

1050
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 1: anything that's solely focused on me because that's just gonna

1051
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 1: make me feel so weird down the road. But yeah,

1052
00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 1: I definitely know. To answer your question, I got the

1053
00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:16,520
Speaker 1: blue I wish I wouldn't have, but I don't know

1054
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 1: how you not how you don't. Yeah, it's true. So

1055
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 1: I guess like that begs a question to you girls,

1056
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: what is next? I don't know. I have no idea.

1057
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: I think we're just kind of enjoying like being able

1058
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 1: to travel and um experience new things through the experience. UM.

1059
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 1: And also a lot of the girls got extremely close afterwards,

1060
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,760
Speaker 1: so um, being able to go through that together has

1061
00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 1: really helpful. Yeah, back at you are still part time

1062
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: nanny NG, Yeah, I am. It's been really hard to

1063
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 1: juggle that. UM my family. People always ask because travel

1064
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 1: and stuff there, like how do you do that? Well,

1065
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 1: it's nice because my nanny mom works from home, so

1066
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 1: like if I do really need days off, I can

1067
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 1: get them. Um. And then they're like in I think

1068
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:01,760
Speaker 1: I'm Taiwan for two weeks right now, So I've got

1069
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks off to like travel and get

1070
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 1: all my you know, bachelor stuff together. Yeah, Kendall, Or

1071
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 1: did you go back to work? Yeah? Actually I was.

1072
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: I just got done production design and so I'm still

1073
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: doing that. It's kind of funny because I've worked behind me.

1074
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: I do work behind the camera, so it's funny thing

1075
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 1: behind the camera again after being in front of the

1076
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 1: camera for so well, what kind of stuff designs? Have

1077
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: you done? Anything we would know? Um? I mean I've

1078
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 1: done We'll do something at Disney promo for a show,

1079
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 1: so basically just just getting a bunch of props, shopping

1080
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:35,800
Speaker 1: for props and pretty little steps together. Um, I'm freelanced,

1081
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: so literally, I have done so many random things. Both

1082
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 1: of you. Has it been weird over the past month

1083
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 1: or so to get recognized in public? I want to know,

1084
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 1: like your weirdest fan girl? We have one together that um, well,

1085
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: you know, we both live in l A. And I

1086
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: think that it's like people here don't really like even

1087
00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 1: if they recognize you, it's kind of more of a

1088
00:59:58,080 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: double take and then they'll just like leave you alone.

1089
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 1: Like I don't get approached that off in itay, um,

1090
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 1: except except when we go out to bars and people

1091
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 1: get drunk. I think they get they like lose their inhibitions,

1092
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 1: and then they'll come up and they'll want to chat

1093
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 1: for like twenty minutes, which is kind of funny. Did

1094
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 1: you get any weird questions? Uh no, they're all the same.

1095
01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 1: They're like, yeah, tells us, tells us. But I think

1096
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 1: New York was a lot more. A lot of came

1097
01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 1: up in New York than l A. Yeah, we were

1098
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 1: surprised by that. We were both in New York a

1099
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, and yeah, we could like it

1100
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:34,479
Speaker 1: was like literally every block there was someone who would

1101
01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:37,000
Speaker 1: stop us, which was kind of wild. I wasn't expecting

1102
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: that goes hard but yeah, but what was really cool

1103
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 1: is we were walking and you know, it's always funny

1104
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: to see what kind of fans you have, Like you

1105
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 1: there's the typical like you know, late teens, early twenties, um,

1106
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 1: like white girls who will be like, oh my god.

1107
01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 1: But then it's funny like we were walking in New

1108
01:00:56,280 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: York and this like sixty something year old like man

1109
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 1: stopped us. He goes Becca Kendall and he was like

1110
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 1: so excited and we start talking and it turns out

1111
01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 1: he's the screenwriter of Precious God and he was, yeah,

1112
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 1: like I see standard view. That is amazing. Yeah, that's

1113
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 1: definitely an amazing moment. That was really cool. And he

1114
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 1: was like, can I get your girls emails? I was like,

1115
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, totally cool. That is so cool. Do

1116
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 1: you feel like after these seasons and because there's one

1117
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 1: thing I've noticed, the women are all really good friends

1118
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 1: and they kind of like joined together and they traveled

1119
01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 1: together and they get along great and not the guy don't.

1120
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: I mean I love the guys from the Bachelorette that

1121
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 1: that was with. I mean, you know, Jared, the Jared's

1122
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 1: of the World and the Boost and Chris Member, Like

1123
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 1: I love those guys, but we never hung out. I

1124
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 1: mean I haven't seen booths Sin and he was my

1125
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 1: best friend on the show, Like, I haven't seen him

1126
01:01:53,840 --> 01:02:00,120
Speaker 1: since the finale of Caitlin season. We talk. But you

1127
01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: think that's common? I mean, why is it that the

1128
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 1: guys don't really group together but the women seem to

1129
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,880
Speaker 1: really you know, continue to stay close and they travel

1130
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 1: together and they do all these things. Um, I'm not sure.

1131
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 1: I just feel like having that support is really helpful

1132
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: because I don know what to do with my mind,

1133
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 1: and sometimes afterwards I don't know how to process everything

1134
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 1: or understand going on. I mean having Rebecca and ah,

1135
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 1: we're close and then girls make plans and guys, it's

1136
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 1: what it is, you know what, you know what Else though,

1137
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 1: I think it's I think a lot of times it

1138
01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 1: can be really hard to make female friends because there's

1139
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 1: always this weird thing of like, oh, I love your shoes,

1140
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 1: like oh yeah, where did you get your top? And

1141
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 1: it's like you don't know sometimes how to dive into

1142
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 1: like emotional relationships with other women. And I think being

1143
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 1: on the Bachelor, like we were also emotionally open with

1144
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:56,560
Speaker 1: each other and so it's not it's like sometimes they

1145
01:02:56,560 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 1: can I don't know if you're a woman, and it's

1146
01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 1: it's it's almost like hanging out with women the first time.

1147
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 1: It's like a first date, and it's like there's kind

1148
01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:04,680
Speaker 1: of like a lot of pressure, a lot of pressure,

1149
01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 1: a lot of nerves, a lot of nerves. Um, I

1150
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 1: get more nervous sometimes like hanging out with other women,

1151
01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 1: like who I want to be my friend? And I

1152
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 1: do only first date? Yeah, and you guys, you've already

1153
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: dated the same guy, so like, if you've got to

1154
01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:19,040
Speaker 1: pass that, I think you can probably be friends forever.

1155
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 1: But I think it's a great common I think it's

1156
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 1: a very easy common ground to have been on the show.

1157
01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:25,320
Speaker 1: So now we just have that way of connecting and

1158
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 1: then going from there. Now we have all, you know,

1159
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 1: so many other things in common now we share, but

1160
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:33,200
Speaker 1: many like dimensions of each other through the show. You know,

1161
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 1: we've seen each other when we are sobbing, or when

1162
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:37,640
Speaker 1: we're really happy for a date, or it's being happy

1163
01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 1: for each other as well. I think that was just

1164
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 1: really awesome having a group where when someone else on

1165
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 1: a date, sure we saw a little weird, but we

1166
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 1: were still excited for them and had that support. But

1167
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: let's happing out of the show. It's hard not to

1168
01:03:48,880 --> 01:03:51,919
Speaker 1: have that. What's happened with core Crystal? Is she back

1169
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 1: in the mix? Are still on that? Yeah? I'm friendly,

1170
01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm good terms with her. I I face time ter

1171
01:03:57,280 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 1: shortly after the show because we were pretty we had

1172
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 1: some close moments on the show that weren't that you

1173
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 1: didn't see um. But yeah, I mean I if I'm

1174
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: in San Diego, I would hit her up and go

1175
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: get lunch or something. I think she's really close with

1176
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: anybody though, yeah, purposely does live in San Diego. But

1177
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 1: I mean she reached out to me after the show,

1178
01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 1: and you know, I did a point to apologize and

1179
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 1: to you know, have a good connection, and I really

1180
01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 1: appreciated that from her. I mean, I don't talk to

1181
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:24,800
Speaker 1: her too often, but the tops we do have are

1182
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:28,240
Speaker 1: you know, really good. And I think I think despite yes,

1183
01:04:28,280 --> 01:04:31,120
Speaker 1: it was a crazy time, but um, you know, it's

1184
01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:33,800
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1185
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Speaker 1: to jump into listener emails? I love to We're gonna

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Speaker 1: keep Canda on the line now we can let Kendall go,

1214
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: but I wanted to let everyone know that Kendall is

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01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 1: going to guest hosts tomorrow. Help I suck at dating

1216
01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 1: with Jared so fun. That is going to be incredible.

1217
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 1: I cannot wait. I mean, honestly, that's going to be really,

1218
01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 1: really good. I can't wait to hear Jared's perspective. Kendall,

1219
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:33,720
Speaker 1: this guy, that four guy through this, please because he

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Speaker 1: really does I can. Hey, Kendall, thank you so much

1221
01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 1: for as famous podcast. Of course, guys, thanks having me,

1222
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,959
Speaker 1: Bye bye. I know we didn't talk to her about

1223
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 1: Paradise um, but I think it's just assumed Kendall be

1224
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:52,320
Speaker 1: in Paradise. Becky, you'll be emparadised. We're all going to Paris.

1225
01:06:52,440 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 1: I'm not going. I'm not guy less. Oh I wish

1226
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:57,600
Speaker 1: you were going. Would be so funny. Wait, wait, so

1227
01:06:57,600 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 1: who do we think? Real quick? Before moving to these emails?

1228
01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 1: At you would know that the two of you, know,

1229
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 1: I would who is going to be in paradise? So

1230
01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 1: I mean I can either confirm nor deny. Actually nothing

1231
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 1: is confirmed? Is confirmed? Yeah? Okay? So yeah me, I

1232
01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 1: would say, I mean Kendall, uh and your boyfriend. I

1233
01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 1: think seen might have something going on. I can't confirm

1234
01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:26,440
Speaker 1: more denying that. I think that's too not with me.

1235
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: There's still many months with them speaking of Oh I'm sure.

1236
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:34,440
Speaker 1: I'm sure Crystal will be invited and I'm sure she

1237
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:37,959
Speaker 1: will accept as well. Um oh yeah, T is probably

1238
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 1: going to have a paradise engagement. I'm sure. Why do

1239
01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:43,040
Speaker 1: you say it's because it's funny. I mean, just like

1240
01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 1: what past guys, Um, I know, not something from Beck

1241
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 1: to season. I just have a lots from back of season,

1242
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 1: but like, who are we missing? I know that we

1243
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 1: were talking it would be funny if Peter came, because yeah,

1244
01:07:54,880 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 1: we're all into Peter, right, I think it'd be funny

1245
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 1: if that would definitely stirred up some drama because I

1246
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 1: think our whole cast to women were women who were

1247
01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:03,640
Speaker 1: expecting Peter, so that might be some drama. Although I

1248
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:05,280
Speaker 1: bet there's going to be some great new hunks on

1249
01:08:05,320 --> 01:08:07,360
Speaker 1: Becca season, so he might be old news by the

1250
01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:09,720
Speaker 1: time in the first season years. I mean all I

1251
01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:13,040
Speaker 1: can say guys and I can't give names, but I

1252
01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 1: have done a date, one on one date for Becca

1253
01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 1: for Cosmo, and then I did Access Hollywood and I

1254
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: interviewed five guys. I covered a one on one day

1255
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:25,639
Speaker 1: and so I've seen six guys and that good. Okay,

1256
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm calling it right now? Because when

1257
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:30,280
Speaker 1: there was the live after the Final Rose things, she

1258
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 1: had some of the guys come on, I swear, and

1259
01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 1: you might actually maybe he was on the one on

1260
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:37,040
Speaker 1: one day, but I swear that guy Blake with the horse.

1261
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 1: I'm calling it right now, the top three. I'm saying

1262
01:08:41,760 --> 01:08:47,240
Speaker 1: top three. Okay, fantasy suites, that's all I'm gonna say. Okay,

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01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 1: which one do you want to start with? Ben? Let's

1264
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:55,120
Speaker 1: go for an amazing question to as we're looking here,

1265
01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:57,639
Speaker 1: I want to know isating anybody in the Bachelor world?

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01:08:57,960 --> 01:09:00,800
Speaker 1: I don't think so. No. I thought that could be

1267
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 1: a juicy topics for next week. I bet Caroline will

1268
01:09:04,520 --> 01:09:07,240
Speaker 1: be there in Paradise too, But basically everyone who's like

1269
01:09:07,240 --> 01:09:08,880
Speaker 1: in a little like a girl squad or whatever he

1270
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 1: came up on the stage. I'm sure most of those

1271
01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:15,559
Speaker 1: women will be there. Um who else from her season? Crystal?

1272
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:18,639
Speaker 1: Hopefully some of the women that didn't get as much

1273
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 1: screen time would be kind of fun. There's always one

1274
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:25,799
Speaker 1: or two. Yeah, Okay, let's start that with this one. Becca,

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01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:29,040
Speaker 1: you can answer it is ari a jerk Face is

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01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:32,400
Speaker 1: the title to hold your comment, Becca, Hold your comment

1277
01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 1: until the email is read. It says from Gabriel, Hey, guys,

1278
01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:44,759
Speaker 1: do you mind addressing Britt Robertson's comment on Ari about

1279
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:49,479
Speaker 1: Ari on your podcast? Link below to the comment she said. Okay,

1280
01:09:49,560 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 1: here's what she said. That Robertson is um cute little actor.

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01:09:54,680 --> 01:09:57,639
Speaker 1: No no, no, I thought it was um No. She's

1282
01:09:57,680 --> 01:10:00,680
Speaker 1: an actress. She was on a Steed w show and

1283
01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 1: now she's on that We the People, that new show

1284
01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:08,839
Speaker 1: on ABC. Thank you. She's a good little good actress.

1285
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:14,639
Speaker 1: I shouldn't say a good little actress. Yeah, well she's yeah, Okay. Anyway,

1286
01:10:15,360 --> 01:10:18,639
Speaker 1: said I met Ari before all of the stuff went down.

1287
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 1: I was very excited to meet him and was hoping

1288
01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 1: he'd tell me who he chooses. But he was just

1289
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:26,920
Speaker 1: kind of a Dirk face. I'm not gonna lie. He

1290
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 1: acted like taking a picture with me was the most

1291
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:33,760
Speaker 1: painful thing he's ever done. And I was like, broa,

1292
01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:37,800
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is great. Bro, this is what

1293
01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: you signed up for. You're here for us to take

1294
01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 1: photos and make fun of you. I love this girl. Okay, hey, Becca,

1295
01:10:49,640 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 1: what do you think? Is he a b Okay? Just

1296
01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:56,680
Speaker 1: not for Is this something that seems like all right?

1297
01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:59,320
Speaker 1: Because from everything I hear, he's always been super kind

1298
01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:02,000
Speaker 1: to the media. Yeah, he seems Actually, I will say

1299
01:11:02,040 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 1: that I think he's a nice I've said this before,

1300
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: I said I think he's a nice guy. I don't

1301
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:09,719
Speaker 1: think nice always is the equivalent of a good guy. However,

1302
01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:11,519
Speaker 1: that does seem a little out of character. I don't.

1303
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:14,920
Speaker 1: I don't. Actually, I wouldn't imagine he would be a

1304
01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:17,639
Speaker 1: jerk to people who are like fans of him or whatever,

1305
01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:19,679
Speaker 1: I want to meet him. I'm actually kind of surprised

1306
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:22,040
Speaker 1: by that. Maybe he was evan an off day or something.

1307
01:11:22,240 --> 01:11:24,920
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say he's a I think. I don't. I

1308
01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:28,760
Speaker 1: don't think he's a jerk, because that's just somebody who's

1309
01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 1: like impolite and just kind of like a general asshole.

1310
01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:36,280
Speaker 1: I wouldn't actually say that about him, honestly. I mean,

1311
01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:39,479
Speaker 1: I would just think, too, you signed up to be

1312
01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:41,599
Speaker 1: the Bachelor? Are you signed up to be the Bachelor?

1313
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:44,360
Speaker 1: By the way, I did hear from an insight source

1314
01:11:44,640 --> 01:11:47,800
Speaker 1: that Becca as the Bachelor has been incredible to the media,

1315
01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:54,720
Speaker 1: But sure, you know she's you wake up, you know,

1316
01:11:54,920 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 1: sometimes you have a date till four a m. In

1317
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 1: the morning, This is common, and then you have to

1318
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:01,320
Speaker 1: wake up before anybody else has to depressed at like

1319
01:12:01,400 --> 01:12:04,719
Speaker 1: seven day for the life of the Batchlor and Batchlor.

1320
01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:06,600
Speaker 1: I mean, it happens, and it's terrible. I'm not going

1321
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 1: to say it's not. It is until you've done it.

1322
01:12:08,800 --> 01:12:11,640
Speaker 1: Nobody understands how brutal is. But I hear, and this

1323
01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:15,920
Speaker 1: doesn't always happen. That she has been absolutely incredible and

1324
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:18,200
Speaker 1: has realized that it's not ideal for anybody, and that

1325
01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:21,160
Speaker 1: there's people that you know, are working their jobs to

1326
01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:23,200
Speaker 1: make sure this happens. So she's she's doing a great

1327
01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:26,200
Speaker 1: job with that. My point is, when you agree to

1328
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:29,160
Speaker 1: be the Bestlor Batchlor Bachelor, you are agreeing to a

1329
01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 1: tough schedule with a ton of media and a ton

1330
01:12:31,400 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 1: of people always around you. So I mean, I hope,

1331
01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:37,120
Speaker 1: I hope that she's maybe just kind of saying this,

1332
01:12:37,400 --> 01:12:41,400
Speaker 1: you know, tongue in cheek without necessarily meaning it. But

1333
01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:44,120
Speaker 1: that's the Robertson said, well wants to see what do

1334
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 1: you think we're gonna stop talking about Ari? By the way,

1335
01:12:46,040 --> 01:12:49,000
Speaker 1: that soon, hopefully when Becca season starts airing out over

1336
01:12:50,439 --> 01:12:52,280
Speaker 1: although I wonder, I mean, I honestly wonder if her

1337
01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:55,920
Speaker 1: season is going to be peppered with various like Ari references.

1338
01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, I don't think so. I think every

1339
01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 1: but he's done. Okay, yeah, yes, um I have I

1340
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:12,480
Speaker 1: have an email for you. Okay, I'm excited for it.

1341
01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 1: It's called It's entitled what bugs Ben from Elizabeth. I

1342
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 1: love Ben, I really do. However, he is just always

1343
01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:24,120
Speaker 1: so politically correct and wants to please everyone. He never

1344
01:13:24,120 --> 01:13:27,080
Speaker 1: says anything negative. I understand that he has a public platform,

1345
01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:28,640
Speaker 1: and it makes sense that he would never want to

1346
01:13:28,720 --> 01:13:31,640
Speaker 1: hurt anyone's feelings that might listen to the podcast. And

1347
01:13:31,680 --> 01:13:33,639
Speaker 1: that is what makes him such a sweet person. It's

1348
01:13:33,640 --> 01:13:35,960
Speaker 1: a great quality to have. But as where as it sounds,

1349
01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:38,200
Speaker 1: I just want to hear him complain about something. I

1350
01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 1: feel like it would be refreshing to know what really

1351
01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:43,519
Speaker 1: grinds Ben's gears, what really kisses him off. I want

1352
01:13:43,560 --> 01:13:46,280
Speaker 1: him to rant about something. Complain about a bad day

1353
01:13:46,360 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 1: or traffic or loud chewing, are people who cut in

1354
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:51,360
Speaker 1: line at the grocery store or something. I want to

1355
01:13:51,400 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 1: hear Ben bitch. This is obviously written in a light

1356
01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:58,479
Speaker 1: hard way. Love you guys, EXO. I've been Elizabeth. I

1357
01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:01,360
Speaker 1: love that. That's the great email. Then let's put two

1358
01:14:01,360 --> 01:14:06,240
Speaker 1: minutes on the clock, and let ben just okay, but

1359
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 1: let me let me enter into this. Of course, here

1360
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:15,719
Speaker 1: comes the politician. So I do get Okay, my reaction

1361
01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 1: to things are awful always they always have been. I

1362
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,400
Speaker 1: react terribly. But what I've learned over time is most

1363
01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:23,679
Speaker 1: of the time when my react, like when I react

1364
01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:26,439
Speaker 1: to something, I get trustrated or annoyed or whatever. I

1365
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:28,880
Speaker 1: really I quickly realized that I was in the wrong

1366
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 1: and that it's not the right thing to do. And

1367
01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:33,960
Speaker 1: so when there's a little grace given to me from

1368
01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:37,360
Speaker 1: my friends or family or from Ashley or whatever, then

1369
01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:39,559
Speaker 1: if they're just like, okay, this has just been being

1370
01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 1: a terrible person, that his reactions are awful, then then

1371
01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:46,360
Speaker 1: it usually plays out so they don't get that upset

1372
01:14:46,360 --> 01:14:48,200
Speaker 1: because I realized that most of the time in the wrong.

1373
01:14:49,320 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 1: So that being said, two minutes of the clock. Okay, Ready,

1374
01:14:58,280 --> 01:15:03,599
Speaker 1: I am sick entire of people promoting themselves. I think

1375
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 1: it is absolutely ridiculous. I think confidence is important, I

1376
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:10,160
Speaker 1: think confidence is needed, but I am tired of other

1377
01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 1: people talking about themselves in the way that's self promoting. Okay, So,

1378
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:17,600
Speaker 1: for example, we do something wrong in life, right, you

1379
01:15:17,640 --> 01:15:20,800
Speaker 1: make a mistake, you've you've heard a friendship, you said

1380
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:24,680
Speaker 1: an inappropriate thing in an inappropriate time. Why then do

1381
01:15:24,800 --> 01:15:31,120
Speaker 1: we feel the need to retweet to overcompensate for our

1382
01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 1: mistake by sharing everybody else's you know, praise of us. Okay,

1383
01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:39,320
Speaker 1: So if I'm putting this up, this is just get

1384
01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:41,760
Speaker 1: some my nerves every time. Okay. So for example, in

1385
01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:44,639
Speaker 1: today's world, there's a lot of controversies and and things

1386
01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:48,360
Speaker 1: happening that really are affecting people deeply. Okay, if you've

1387
01:15:48,400 --> 01:15:52,640
Speaker 1: made a mistake, if you've done something stupid, own it,

1388
01:15:53,479 --> 01:15:56,559
Speaker 1: learn from it. Okay, let it sit in. Understand that

1389
01:15:56,560 --> 01:15:59,640
Speaker 1: we were all human. We often make mistakes. But I'm

1390
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:02,000
Speaker 1: sticking tired of people making his mistakes and then just

1391
01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:05,080
Speaker 1: retweeting all these really nice things that other people say

1392
01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 1: about them, like oh I still support you, I still

1393
01:16:07,240 --> 01:16:09,719
Speaker 1: got your back, Oh look at you, You're so pretty

1394
01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:13,680
Speaker 1: and you're so nice. It drives me crazy because what

1395
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:18,000
Speaker 1: it does, is it it? What about when we when

1396
01:16:18,040 --> 01:16:23,680
Speaker 1: we promote the podcast is bad because we didn't make

1397
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:25,559
Speaker 1: a mistake by doing not at all. You can promote

1398
01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:27,400
Speaker 1: the things you're doing. I think you should. I promote

1399
01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 1: generous coffee. I promote the podcast, to promote the blog.

1400
01:16:30,200 --> 01:16:32,280
Speaker 1: I'm saying, when you've made a mistake, when you really

1401
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 1: should be owning up to the fact that you've messed up,

1402
01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:39,120
Speaker 1: you've hurt somebody, like own it, take it in because

1403
01:16:39,120 --> 01:16:41,880
Speaker 1: in this generation that we're in, it's so easy to

1404
01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:44,840
Speaker 1: just move forward. Everybody forgets so quickly. We can find

1405
01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:46,840
Speaker 1: a thousand people that are going to support us and

1406
01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:50,240
Speaker 1: compliment us and lift us up. And that's absolute ridiculous

1407
01:16:50,280 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 1: because for once in our lives, as a generation, asked

1408
01:16:53,520 --> 01:16:58,640
Speaker 1: people we need to take responsibility for something. If it

1409
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:01,520
Speaker 1: is us standing up at the march for our lives,

1410
01:17:01,520 --> 01:17:04,240
Speaker 1: that's amazing. Stand up for something like that, stand up

1411
01:17:04,280 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 1: for something, but stop sitting down for every mistake you've missed. Tweet. Yes, okay,

1412
01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:14,720
Speaker 1: well I've just come up with a new segment. It's

1413
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:22,240
Speaker 1: called I was Inspiring. I can do that. I can

1414
01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:25,479
Speaker 1: I can picture two seconds easily. Yeah, but no, you

1415
01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:27,799
Speaker 1: know I I have realized this and this is something.

1416
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:30,160
Speaker 1: This is actually something I learned in my relationship with Lauren.

1417
01:17:30,400 --> 01:17:32,959
Speaker 1: That is probably the one one of the biggest takeaways

1418
01:17:32,960 --> 01:17:36,559
Speaker 1: for me um is my reaction to things are terrible

1419
01:17:36,880 --> 01:17:40,360
Speaker 1: I am in relationships or in friendships or in my

1420
01:17:40,439 --> 01:17:44,880
Speaker 1: working environment, I get so reactionary in a negative way

1421
01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 1: because I get frustrated and when things aren't going right.

1422
01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:49,880
Speaker 1: I am a terrible follower. I always have been. I

1423
01:17:50,040 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 1: know that about myself. I don't like it about myself,

1424
01:17:52,600 --> 01:17:56,519
Speaker 1: but I am a terrible follower, and and I'm not

1425
01:17:56,600 --> 01:17:59,880
Speaker 1: okay with it. I need to figure it out. You say,

1426
01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:02,840
Speaker 1: or you mean, like, if you're not in the leader position, Well,

1427
01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:05,240
Speaker 1: if things are either not, that's in the leader position.

1428
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:06,960
Speaker 1: But if things aren't going how I think they should

1429
01:18:06,960 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 1: be going. Mostly, yeah, to a leader that has allowing

1430
01:18:12,400 --> 01:18:14,320
Speaker 1: things to progress in the way that I believe they

1431
01:18:14,320 --> 01:18:16,040
Speaker 1: should progress, I can take a back seat to that.

1432
01:18:16,320 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 1: I can't take a back seat to somebody that isn't

1433
01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:20,680
Speaker 1: like even though they could be in the right. So

1434
01:18:20,720 --> 01:18:24,200
Speaker 1: if I'm learning, I'm learning personally that my one of

1435
01:18:24,200 --> 01:18:26,800
Speaker 1: my biggest mistakes is my reaction to things. But Ben,

1436
01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:30,439
Speaker 1: you own your mistakes, so everything that is complained about

1437
01:18:30,680 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 1: you don't do. So that's pretty good. Yeah, but I'm

1438
01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 1: sure there's more things. I mean, I'll send you a

1439
01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:41,080
Speaker 1: nice little list. I can send you a list. WHOA

1440
01:18:41,400 --> 01:18:45,240
Speaker 1: that's A. I think I think that's such a good

1441
01:18:45,320 --> 01:18:46,880
Speaker 1: I think that was such a good point. Though, is

1442
01:18:46,880 --> 01:18:49,839
Speaker 1: like allowing yourself to be held accountable by your peers

1443
01:18:49,880 --> 01:18:52,760
Speaker 1: and by other people and accepting that you might not

1444
01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:55,599
Speaker 1: be right all the time, which is difficult for him

1445
01:18:55,680 --> 01:18:58,320
Speaker 1: to do as well. What are we scared of? You know?

1446
01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:00,320
Speaker 1: I mean, if we're all really good friends here and

1447
01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:02,040
Speaker 1: we all really care about each other, we're gonna allow

1448
01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:04,720
Speaker 1: each other some grace, We're gonna allow each other from

1449
01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:07,680
Speaker 1: some forgiveness. We're not perfect and that's okay, And and

1450
01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:09,760
Speaker 1: I really I'm excited about this. Emai, I need to

1451
01:19:09,800 --> 01:19:12,120
Speaker 1: move on here because Becca and actually name me. I

1452
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:14,320
Speaker 1: think you can all answer this um and then we'll

1453
01:19:14,600 --> 01:19:17,200
Speaker 1: close out of this this beautiful podcast week other today

1454
01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:20,200
Speaker 1: is said he has more feelings than I do. So

1455
01:19:20,240 --> 01:19:22,080
Speaker 1: I made out with one of my friends at a

1456
01:19:22,200 --> 01:19:25,960
Speaker 1: bar six weeks ago. We're both seniors in college and

1457
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,920
Speaker 1: have been friends since sophomore years, so I simply chalked

1458
01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:31,799
Speaker 1: it up. It ye fun random night on the town. However,

1459
01:19:31,880 --> 01:19:35,719
Speaker 1: almost seven weeks later, we're still hooking up. We spend

1460
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:37,960
Speaker 1: most of our free time together and have gone on

1461
01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:40,759
Speaker 1: a handful of dates so I really feel that sparks

1462
01:19:40,880 --> 01:19:42,800
Speaker 1: that sparked with him when I'm with him. Oh, but

1463
01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:46,479
Speaker 1: I really don't feel that sparked with him when I'm

1464
01:19:46,479 --> 01:19:48,680
Speaker 1: with him. I enjoy our time together. But for me,

1465
01:19:48,720 --> 01:19:51,320
Speaker 1: it's more about companionship and having fun with that person

1466
01:19:51,439 --> 01:19:56,000
Speaker 1: I care a lot about. He has apparently developed deeper

1467
01:19:56,080 --> 01:19:59,600
Speaker 1: romantic feelings for me last week with spring break and

1468
01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:02,519
Speaker 1: I to someone one night and thought nothing of it,

1469
01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:07,640
Speaker 1: since exclusivity was never something we discussed. My question that

1470
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:11,120
Speaker 1: is rather simple. This is such a good question. I

1471
01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:14,479
Speaker 1: think it's important. So let's set up the contact here.

1472
01:20:14,760 --> 01:20:16,680
Speaker 1: They've been making out, they've been hooking up. There's been

1473
01:20:16,760 --> 01:20:19,599
Speaker 1: no d T ring, which for all of you out there,

1474
01:20:19,600 --> 01:20:22,799
Speaker 1: that's to find the relationship. There's no there's no no relation.

1475
01:20:24,760 --> 01:20:27,760
Speaker 1: Is it wrong to continue a relationship with someone who

1476
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:30,560
Speaker 1: may have stronger feelings than you do, even if you

1477
01:20:30,640 --> 01:20:34,640
Speaker 1: have made your own position abundantly clear? Most importantly, what

1478
01:20:34,840 --> 01:20:36,880
Speaker 1: in the world should I do? Thanks for your help.

1479
01:20:37,080 --> 01:20:40,120
Speaker 1: I have a lot of opinions on this too. I

1480
01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:42,400
Speaker 1: I would love to hear in Becca and I personally,

1481
01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:44,879
Speaker 1: I am at a loss here. I have zero advice

1482
01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:47,599
Speaker 1: because I find myself in this situation in my life,

1483
01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:50,519
Speaker 1: I found myself in this position multiple times and I

1484
01:20:50,560 --> 01:20:53,519
Speaker 1: don't know what to do. So back up, please lay

1485
01:20:53,560 --> 01:20:55,600
Speaker 1: it out there for well, I think it's just the

1486
01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:58,200
Speaker 1: bottom line is it's all about communications. So you really

1487
01:20:58,240 --> 01:21:00,439
Speaker 1: need to You can't beat around the bush with this

1488
01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:02,240
Speaker 1: kind of thing. If you're hooking up with somebody and

1489
01:21:02,240 --> 01:21:03,599
Speaker 1: you enjoy being around them and you want to keep

1490
01:21:03,600 --> 01:21:05,839
Speaker 1: spending time with them, but you know they have deeper feelings,

1491
01:21:06,040 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 1: you need to make it abundantly clear, even if it

1492
01:21:09,000 --> 01:21:11,400
Speaker 1: sounds brutal. You need to say, like, if it's true,

1493
01:21:11,880 --> 01:21:14,880
Speaker 1: I am not interested in you romantically, I do not

1494
01:21:14,960 --> 01:21:17,519
Speaker 1: see us progressing into a relationship in the future and

1495
01:21:17,520 --> 01:21:19,760
Speaker 1: that is not something that's going to change. If that's

1496
01:21:19,800 --> 01:21:22,880
Speaker 1: too difficult for you to accept, then please let me

1497
01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:25,840
Speaker 1: know and we can you know, back pedal and stop

1498
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:28,040
Speaker 1: hooking up whatever needs to happen for you. But I

1499
01:21:28,080 --> 01:21:31,160
Speaker 1: think and at that point it's that other person's responsibility

1500
01:21:31,240 --> 01:21:34,120
Speaker 1: for them to either. I mean, if they want to

1501
01:21:34,200 --> 01:21:36,840
Speaker 1: keep like wrecking their heart and keep doing it, that's

1502
01:21:36,920 --> 01:21:39,599
Speaker 1: kind of on them because you've been like, you know,

1503
01:21:39,840 --> 01:21:41,599
Speaker 1: I enjoy being around you, I want to keep hooking

1504
01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:43,120
Speaker 1: up with you. But if this is too hard for you,

1505
01:21:43,320 --> 01:21:45,400
Speaker 1: please let me know. It's not going to happen between us.

1506
01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:47,800
Speaker 1: The odds are the person is probably gonna say it's okay,

1507
01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:53,000
Speaker 1: let's just continue doing this, and then that's the man.

1508
01:21:53,600 --> 01:21:55,840
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. I mean no, I mean

1509
01:21:55,880 --> 01:21:58,280
Speaker 1: I completely get what you're saying back, but I think

1510
01:21:58,320 --> 01:22:01,080
Speaker 1: that's just setting it up for harder break up at

1511
01:22:01,080 --> 01:22:04,759
Speaker 1: some point if you don't know at what point? Okay,

1512
01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:07,320
Speaker 1: So this is where I'm at right now. At what

1513
01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:09,880
Speaker 1: point in life and dating? Because I'm trying to enter

1514
01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:12,519
Speaker 1: back into the dating pool. I've dated, I've gone on dates.

1515
01:22:12,640 --> 01:22:15,160
Speaker 1: At what point do you just like stop dating and

1516
01:22:15,200 --> 01:22:18,560
Speaker 1: you start asking yourself like the standard is is this

1517
01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:21,559
Speaker 1: my wife my husband or not? Like at what point

1518
01:22:21,560 --> 01:22:23,519
Speaker 1: does that question have to enter into your thoughts? Well,

1519
01:22:23,560 --> 01:22:26,320
Speaker 1: you know that that's what I went through. I think that.

1520
01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:29,800
Speaker 1: I think that at that's two month point. I started

1521
01:22:29,800 --> 01:22:32,080
Speaker 1: thinking about it pretty early on, to be honest, Like

1522
01:22:32,160 --> 01:22:34,439
Speaker 1: I I think about it like first or second date.

1523
01:22:34,479 --> 01:22:36,600
Speaker 1: I start considering it because like, I don't want to

1524
01:22:36,640 --> 01:22:39,080
Speaker 1: waste my time. That is literally the worst part of

1525
01:22:39,280 --> 01:22:44,280
Speaker 1: your age ever ever, so hard because I'm so much older,

1526
01:22:44,320 --> 01:22:46,040
Speaker 1: and I don't ever have to think about that. I mean,

1527
01:22:46,080 --> 01:22:47,800
Speaker 1: you can just have fun for a while and you

1528
01:22:47,840 --> 01:22:50,920
Speaker 1: don't care, or for thirty years, for fifty years, it

1529
01:22:50,960 --> 01:22:55,120
Speaker 1: doesn't matter because I'm past the like kid point and

1530
01:22:55,160 --> 01:22:57,639
Speaker 1: then it doesn't have to be married. I find the

1531
01:22:57,640 --> 01:23:00,599
Speaker 1: biggest challenge for you guys in your on these early

1532
01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:03,760
Speaker 1: thirties is this I figured out, got figured out, gonna

1533
01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:06,720
Speaker 1: figure out? And that is so detrimental in relationship. I'm like,

1534
01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:09,280
Speaker 1: in a hurry for nothing? Do you guys think that

1535
01:23:09,360 --> 01:23:13,760
Speaker 1: you can be with somebody for do you think that? When?

1536
01:23:13,760 --> 01:23:15,559
Speaker 1: Do you know? When? Do you know if that person

1537
01:23:15,640 --> 01:23:18,320
Speaker 1: is your long term or not? I think, by ben

1538
01:23:18,320 --> 01:23:20,559
Speaker 1: in my ages, I think you can determine it pretty

1539
01:23:20,560 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 1: early on. I'm really instinctual. So for me, it's like

1540
01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:27,200
Speaker 1: I know, and I know right away, and I know

1541
01:23:27,240 --> 01:23:30,320
Speaker 1: if I'm being honest with myself or not. Somebody that

1542
01:23:30,360 --> 01:23:32,360
Speaker 1: you like for a while, are you still thinking at

1543
01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:34,479
Speaker 1: your age you're you're thinking is this gonna be my

1544
01:23:34,560 --> 01:23:36,600
Speaker 1: husband or not? Yes? You do do, Yeah, I do.

1545
01:23:36,640 --> 01:23:38,840
Speaker 1: I think about it a lot, and and I know

1546
01:23:38,960 --> 01:23:41,599
Speaker 1: in my heart, and sometimes I don't listen to my heart.

1547
01:23:41,640 --> 01:23:43,840
Speaker 1: I know in my heart if it's something that could

1548
01:23:43,880 --> 01:23:46,080
Speaker 1: be serious with someone and could actually work out or not.

1549
01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:47,960
Speaker 1: But sometimes I go against it because I'm like, well, whatever,

1550
01:23:48,120 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 1: this person is fun, which isn't really isn't fair. That

1551
01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:53,080
Speaker 1: isn't fair. So I mean my point of view, I

1552
01:23:53,120 --> 01:23:56,360
Speaker 1: think it's just if they're not your person forever, you

1553
01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:59,439
Speaker 1: gotta let him go. I don't think you should be

1554
01:23:59,439 --> 01:24:01,720
Speaker 1: hooking up for them for fun. But but also, like

1555
01:24:01,880 --> 01:24:04,439
Speaker 1: you know, there's something that we said to about just

1556
01:24:04,520 --> 01:24:07,200
Speaker 1: like dating to date, I mean, I mean have fun.

1557
01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:11,720
Speaker 1: I think this is how we sell up all of this.

1558
01:24:11,880 --> 01:24:14,240
Speaker 1: And then I think Beca said at that, what a

1559
01:24:14,439 --> 01:24:16,439
Speaker 1: crazy podcast. This is what we get for having the

1560
01:24:16,479 --> 01:24:19,680
Speaker 1: off season is bounced all around. Um. But when it

1561
01:24:19,720 --> 01:24:21,800
Speaker 1: comes to this and this is how we like to

1562
01:24:21,840 --> 01:24:24,080
Speaker 1: some of these podcasts because there is some real advice

1563
01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:28,040
Speaker 1: here that everybody has given. Communication is key. Start talking

1564
01:24:28,040 --> 01:24:30,639
Speaker 1: this through. If you're struggling in relationships, or you're struggling

1565
01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:34,400
Speaker 1: with a breakup, or if you're struggling in life in general,

1566
01:24:34,840 --> 01:24:37,759
Speaker 1: talk to somebody, Communicate with somebody, find a trusted friend,

1567
01:24:38,040 --> 01:24:40,639
Speaker 1: find a confident on some level. Go to counseling. I've

1568
01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:44,960
Speaker 1: been to counseling. We need counseling. More counselors the better. Um,

1569
01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:49,000
Speaker 1: but talk to somebody like this. It's totally okay. I

1570
01:24:49,040 --> 01:24:50,840
Speaker 1: feel like to go up to your partner and say

1571
01:24:50,880 --> 01:24:55,120
Speaker 1: I am struggling with this. I am frustrated with it either.

1572
01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:57,080
Speaker 1: And if they're not willing to look at you and say, hey,

1573
01:24:57,120 --> 01:24:59,120
Speaker 1: I either want to live with you through this, walk

1574
01:24:59,160 --> 01:25:02,559
Speaker 1: with you through this, love you through this whatever. If

1575
01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:04,800
Speaker 1: they're willing to say no, sorry, like you can't be

1576
01:25:04,800 --> 01:25:07,519
Speaker 1: struggling with anything like that's not a part you need, partner,

1577
01:25:07,560 --> 01:25:09,439
Speaker 1: any of us need anyway. So just talk it through

1578
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:12,680
Speaker 1: with your partners. Communicate. It's important, just like we communicated

1579
01:25:12,720 --> 01:25:15,439
Speaker 1: to day. We talked about a lot of things. It

1580
01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:20,799
Speaker 1: was very good. Thank you guys for coming into this podcast.

1581
01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:24,400
Speaker 1: You're you're hilarious as always. I want to see you.

1582
01:25:24,560 --> 01:25:27,800
Speaker 1: I think you're just gonna explode in this life, uh

1583
01:25:28,200 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 1: post post bachelor and before we go, Before we go,

1584
01:25:33,640 --> 01:25:35,760
Speaker 1: if you're listening to this and getting into your sleep

1585
01:25:35,840 --> 01:25:38,759
Speaker 1: number bed, I mean, if you have a great partner

1586
01:25:38,800 --> 01:25:40,519
Speaker 1: and you with them and you're sleep member bed. What's

1587
01:25:40,520 --> 01:25:43,280
Speaker 1: awesome about sleep number is that you can actually set

1588
01:25:43,320 --> 01:25:46,280
Speaker 1: each side of the bed to a different level of

1589
01:25:46,320 --> 01:25:48,599
Speaker 1: con venus, you know, like, if one likes it hard,

1590
01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:51,400
Speaker 1: that's a sheet, that's what she said, and the other

1591
01:25:51,439 --> 01:25:55,920
Speaker 1: one likes it solved, she didn't say that, then you

1592
01:25:55,960 --> 01:25:58,120
Speaker 1: can set your bed to those types. Ben, you should

1593
01:25:58,160 --> 01:26:03,400
Speaker 1: probably take over. What is your sleep number? I always forget? Oh,

1594
01:26:03,720 --> 01:26:06,960
Speaker 1: actually my sleep number is eighty one. Should just right there.

1595
01:26:07,040 --> 01:26:12,240
Speaker 1: I like it pretty hard. Did you know decluttering your

1596
01:26:12,240 --> 01:26:15,160
Speaker 1: bedroom can also help you feel more relaxed? Do you

1597
01:26:15,200 --> 01:26:18,320
Speaker 1: sleep more restfully? Perhaps it's also time to consider a

1598
01:26:18,360 --> 01:26:22,120
Speaker 1: fresh new mattress. I'm telling you it is unbelievable. The

1599
01:26:22,120 --> 01:26:24,840
Speaker 1: people that I know that sleep on these old, worn

1600
01:26:24,840 --> 01:26:28,320
Speaker 1: out mattresses use their back to it's yellow from oil stains.

1601
01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:36,720
Speaker 1: It's disgusting and the perfect oil sticks. Yeah that's like, yeah,

1602
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:40,719
Speaker 1: that's they keep their mattresses too long. Keep the mattresses,

1603
01:26:41,000 --> 01:26:45,720
Speaker 1: that's true, way too long. And there's amazing mattresses out there.

1604
01:26:45,720 --> 01:26:48,400
Speaker 1: I'm not getting deep. Best things to sleep on ever

1605
01:26:48,479 --> 01:26:51,120
Speaker 1: have been created, and it's called sleep number. I love

1606
01:26:51,200 --> 01:26:53,280
Speaker 1: my sleep number. Bed. My sleep number is eighty one,

1607
01:26:53,280 --> 01:26:56,599
Speaker 1: as I mentioned, and Astley, I say, yours will probably

1608
01:26:56,600 --> 01:26:58,240
Speaker 1: be like a fifty six. You seem like more of you,

1609
01:26:58,360 --> 01:27:01,160
Speaker 1: you like it more soft and out of ten couples

1610
01:27:01,240 --> 01:27:04,160
Speaker 1: for for a different mattress firmness. With a Sleet Number

1611
01:27:04,160 --> 01:27:06,639
Speaker 1: of bed, you can choose your ideal firmness on each

1612
01:27:06,640 --> 01:27:08,639
Speaker 1: side of the bed, so it's just right for both

1613
01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:13,000
Speaker 1: of you. Becka, do you like it harder? Stuft? It's

1614
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:17,240
Speaker 1: so comfortable you can actually feel how contours to your neck, shoulders,

1615
01:27:17,240 --> 01:27:20,960
Speaker 1: back and hit and for more proper spinal alignments. And

1616
01:27:21,000 --> 01:27:23,800
Speaker 1: the new Sleet Number beds are smart. I mean they

1617
01:27:23,840 --> 01:27:27,360
Speaker 1: are smart. They spend your every move and automatically just

1618
01:27:27,560 --> 01:27:31,280
Speaker 1: to keep you sleeping comfortably. That's even an adjustment for snoring.

1619
01:27:31,760 --> 01:27:34,519
Speaker 1: Does your bed do that? I don't think so you

1620
01:27:34,560 --> 01:27:39,360
Speaker 1: need a new bed. Sleet Number Queen matches start at

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1625
01:27:54,200 --> 01:27:59,839
Speaker 1: com to find the store near you today. Actually, and Vincent,

1626
01:28:00,160 --> 01:28:01,559
Speaker 1: what do we tell him? Because I'm about to go

1627
01:28:01,600 --> 01:28:04,559
Speaker 1: buy my second sleep Number bed. I have one and

1628
01:28:04,600 --> 01:28:10,040
Speaker 1: now I need to Yep, you're a pamper your guest.

1629
01:28:10,240 --> 01:28:12,599
Speaker 1: And I found out they make them in full size,

1630
01:28:12,800 --> 01:28:14,360
Speaker 1: so if you don't have if your room isn't big

1631
01:28:14,439 --> 01:28:16,479
Speaker 1: enough for a queen, you can fit the full size.

1632
01:28:16,479 --> 01:28:17,880
Speaker 1: So what do I do when I go to the store.

1633
01:28:17,920 --> 01:28:20,120
Speaker 1: What do I tell him that Benn and Ashley sent

1634
01:28:20,160 --> 01:28:24,320
Speaker 1: you know your pals over at I heeart. Oh my,

1635
01:28:26,040 --> 01:28:28,760
Speaker 1: you as the right I mean, we love Becca. Oh yeah,

1636
01:28:29,560 --> 01:28:36,240
Speaker 1: when do I get my sleep number bed? Heck right now? No,

1637
01:28:36,640 --> 01:28:38,519
Speaker 1: I got my mattress off Amazon. It was cheap. It

1638
01:28:38,600 --> 01:28:43,479
Speaker 1: was before I got Almost Famous. And on that note,

1639
01:28:44,080 --> 01:28:48,960
Speaker 1: I have been Ashley, Becca, You've been, I've been Becca. Yes,

1640
01:28:49,200 --> 01:28:51,800
Speaker 1: I don't know that Hey, and I've been. Been. Thank

1641
01:28:51,840 --> 01:28:54,479
Speaker 1: you so much for joining all of us, Becca, Ashley

1642
01:28:54,479 --> 01:28:59,960
Speaker 1: and myself on the Almost Famous podcast Follow the Bed

1643
01:29:00,000 --> 01:29:03,040
Speaker 1: and Nashley I Almost Famous podcasts on I Heart Radio

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Speaker 1: or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.