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Speaker 1: The family, I babysit for shared private videos of me

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Speaker 2: I'm quitting today. Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 3: You know? Sam? I do not think they're the a hole?

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Speaker 3: Because you know these private videos. You know what if

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Speaker 3: it's a private tutoring lesson that they that they make

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Speaker 3: good money on, you know yeah, and they're actually giving

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Speaker 3: that money to Op, it's like, oh, like we wanted

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Speaker 3: to share the lessons.

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Speaker 2: You were teaching our children. Wow. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Also maybe it's just like if you're in our house,

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Speaker 1: prepared to be big brothered Do you know what big

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Speaker 1: brother is?

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Speaker 2: The show? Yeah, prepared to be a big brother? Prepare

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Speaker 2: to be recorded at all times?

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Speaker 3: Oh right, right right, okay, yes, now I'm following.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm following you. Have you never heard of Big Brother?

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Speaker 3: I I the dots were just not connecting my weak

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Speaker 3: feeble brain today.

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Speaker 2: John John needs more coffee.

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Speaker 1: I've worked for a really nice, normal family for a

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Speaker 1: few months at least, I thought, so all these adjectives

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Speaker 1: are about to go down the toilet. Oh NK is

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Speaker 1: ten months old and very sweet. She's super active, though,

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Speaker 1: and she often fights me on nappy changing.

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Speaker 2: I have a gentle approach and.

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Speaker 1: If she rolls, slash crawls away, I just encourage her

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Speaker 1: then try again. So as you can imagine, it can

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Speaker 1: take a while. I can't imagine. NF has cameras in

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Speaker 1: both kids' rooms, which I don't mind and was informed of,

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Speaker 1: and I was told they were just for safety, mostly

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Speaker 1: and noise not traveling. So like the cameras are just

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Speaker 1: to make sure the babies are safe.

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Speaker 2: Hey makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Well, a family friend who knows NF contacted me last

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Speaker 1: night showing me mb had shared a video of me

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Speaker 1: from the nanny cam of me changing nk's nappy on

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Speaker 3: So, not only are you going to share these private

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Speaker 3: videos of me, you're also gonna insult my dipe of

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Speaker 3: change and skills.

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Speaker 1: I think I think it's because the nanny is just

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Speaker 1: trying to empathetically change these diapers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, don't want to force a diaper change.

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Speaker 3: Come on, great technique.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's comments basically making fun of me. One person

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Speaker 1: even said to find a new nanny. She replied, saying

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Speaker 2: I cried for an hour. Oh, I'm a.

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Speaker 1: Very private and highly anxious person, and I feel so

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Speaker 1: hurt and betrayed by mb. I were at part time,

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Speaker 1: but I'm dreading going in. I kind of just want

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Speaker 1: humiliated and I don't know how to deal with this

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Speaker 1: going forward. So these are some things that OPI has done.

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Speaker 1: I've drafted out a response, but I'm going to sleep

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Speaker 1: on it and send it tomorrow. I have no intention

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Speaker 1: of returning to their house. I've started to update my

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Speaker 1: contract to make my boundaries clear, and I'm heartbroken because

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Speaker 1: I love those kids, but I have to put myself first.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for helping me see that. I guess I

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Speaker 1: will update once I've sent the message and there is

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Speaker 2: But what do you think?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, look at the end of the day, like,

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Speaker 3: it as a big deal as a content creator though, right,

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Speaker 3: like making a living doing this, But like when you

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Speaker 3: like I, maybe it's maybe fine, but because I always

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Speaker 1: So update, I've sent the message. Basically, I told her

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Speaker 1: to share footage of me online without my consent, that

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Speaker 1: I feel disrespected and I no longer will be a

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Speaker 1: nanny for their family. Thanks for everyone giving me the courage.

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Speaker 1: And there is another update, so I let her know

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Speaker 1: She took a few hours to respond, and her response

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Speaker 1: was unhinged. She told me I had no right snooping

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Speaker 1: so it was fine. She asked me to please come

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Speaker 3: How is she offering to remove the cameras before taking

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And also snooping on social media? Social media is public?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? Snooping?

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Speaker 3: Also just a hilarious hypocrisy of like, let me post

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Speaker 3: this video of you having you know, no idea that

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Speaker 3: you're you know, we're recording and posting you like, but

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Speaker 1: Yeah, kind of ridiculous. I asked her to remove the video,

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Speaker 1: Facebook anymore. I haven't heard from her since Wednesday. Thank

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Speaker 1: you again for everyone encouraging me. I'm such a non

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's the best possible outcome that could

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Speaker 1: This Yeah, I mean it's definitely weird too. I mean,

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Speaker 2: But because think about this too, going both ways.

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Speaker 1: Definitely asking, especially if you think you're in a private space,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do have a quick story, not of me,

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Speaker 3: but there's this channel called I Know Ariel.

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Speaker 3: He's like the loyalty test guy, like the og loyalty

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Speaker 3: like exposing a dove chete and everything, she stole her

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean in terms of recording people that don't

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Speaker 2: But he was pissed. That was in public.

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Speaker 3: Wild yeah, wild, crazy interaction. Yeah, it was nuts. It

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Speaker 3: was nuts coming soon. So the man that attacks Sam

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Speaker 3: YouTube video, Yeah, just kidding, but wow. Yeah, I wonder

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Speaker 3: Yeah, people are recording, maybe even like by accident, you know,

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Speaker 2: We are not. So let's share this video with all

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Speaker 2: your friends. Please do, and let's get into the next one.