Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Oh Boy, it is officially Valentine's Week.
Speaker 3: Valentine's Week. You know what.
Speaker 2: It's so funny because I am such a believer in love,
Speaker 2: Like my journey has gone ebbs and flows when it
Speaker 2: comes to love, obviously, but yet at the core, I'm
Speaker 2: still a romantic and I'm still a.
Speaker 3: Believer in love.
Speaker 2: I love love. I've always loved love. Funny probably unknown
Speaker 2: fact is I used to hate hearts. I used to
Speaker 2: hate hearts. I'm not even sure. I remember that one
Speaker 2: time Dean got me a present. It was jewelry, and
Speaker 2: I called my best friend Moran because he was always
Speaker 2: like what do he get you?
Speaker 3: What do he get you?
Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, he got me something that
Speaker 2: is beautiful, but it is so not me. It's something
Speaker 2: I technically hate. And he's like, no, he got you
Speaker 2: a heart necklace. I'm like bingo. I'm like, and he's like,
Speaker 2: you hate hearts, and I'm like, I know, but I
Speaker 2: feel bad. I feel like and he's like, everybody knows
Speaker 2: you hate hearts. I'm like, well, I guess he didn't
Speaker 2: know that one. And it was so lovely, but the
Speaker 2: funny part is this was in the heyday of me
Speaker 2: being like, love is great, love is beautiful. I love
Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, but yet I hated hearts. And now I
Speaker 2: am very kind of anti Valentine's Day and I love hearts.
Speaker 3: Just didn't line up.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so for me Valentine's Day, and I know
Speaker 2: it means something to everyone differently, and that's fine. I'm
Speaker 2: just telling you my experience is growing up my mom
Speaker 2: and dad they were married over twenty five years when
Speaker 2: my dad passed way longer, over thirty years, I think,
Speaker 2: but they never ironically, they had this amazing romance. They
Speaker 2: never celebrated holidays alone ever like my brother Randy and I,
Speaker 2: you know, every year on their anniversary, we all went
Speaker 2: out to dinner. It wasn't like my mom and dad
Speaker 2: went out to dinner. And Valentine's Day. I grew up
Speaker 2: never seeing it from a child's perspective as a romantic
Speaker 2: holiday because it was very family skewed and something I
Speaker 2: really loved tradition, and something that was part of my
Speaker 2: tradition growing up is that every Valentine's Day, my dad
Speaker 2: would get all of us a box of candy from
Speaker 2: seas candy, and my brother and I would get like
Speaker 2: smaller ones. My mom would get a big one, and
Speaker 2: that was like his big thing.
Speaker 3: He always got us red roses, which.
Speaker 2: I ironically, if you know, you know, I'm not a
Speaker 2: big fan of roses. I love flowers, but not roses,
Speaker 2: and I specifically don't like red roses. I don't know why,
Speaker 2: but he would always get us red roses, but it
Speaker 2: very much was ingrained in me from a child that Valentine's.
Speaker 3: Day was all about the kids. It was like a
Speaker 3: kid's holiday, which to.
Speaker 2: This day because I always go back to like family
Speaker 2: traditions and I integrated. We have new traditions with my
Speaker 2: kids and I, but I always bring a piece of
Speaker 2: my childhood traditions into their lives, which I think is
Speaker 2: kind of cool. To this day, I still get my
Speaker 2: kids every Valentine's Day a box, a heart shaped box
Speaker 2: from Seas Candy, because it makes me think of my
Speaker 2: dad and what he would get up and it's just tradition.
Speaker 3: Well, last year it was Valentine's Day and I was like,
Speaker 3: oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: Seize candy. Oh my gosh, I blew it. I didn't
Speaker 2: get to seize candy, so I'm like, okay, racing. It
Speaker 2: was like almost kids pickup time, and once I picked
Speaker 2: them up in school, I don't get a moment to myself.
Speaker 3: So I got to get the presence.
Speaker 2: So I was literally like, oh my god, I got
Speaker 2: to get to seize candy. And I remember I was
Speaker 2: in the parking lot to seize candy and I was
Speaker 2: trying to find it's the one I was going to.
Speaker 3: It's in a strip mall. There's other places around.
Speaker 2: I think at home Goods. I always remember where everything
Speaker 2: shopping wise is in a good poke bowl restaurant that
Speaker 2: I digress anyway, And I was trying to find parking
Speaker 2: spot and seize candy Valentine's Day. Hello, It's like there's
Speaker 2: you know, men galore being like, oh shit, I didn't
Speaker 2: get her candy. I got to get in there. So
Speaker 2: there's like a lot out the door and I'm like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I have thirty mens to get to
Speaker 2: pick up.
Speaker 3: What am I going to do?
Speaker 2: And I went, I don't know if you're this person,
Speaker 2: but I'm this person when it comes to parking. I
Speaker 2: always believe whoever gets the spot first gets the spot.
Speaker 2: And I also don't believe in confrontation. So if someone
Speaker 2: else gets to that spot and it should have been mine,
Speaker 2: I'm never going to start a fight.
Speaker 3: I'm always going to be like, Okay, womp, womp, you win.
Speaker 2: But I remember specifically, and I don't like to sexualize
Speaker 2: things because I think as.
Speaker 3: Women, we win.
Speaker 2: But I was trying to park and two men snatched
Speaker 2: two parking spots for me. I just remember by the
Speaker 2: second one, I was like.
Speaker 3: What is going on? It's a female holiday. I don't
Speaker 3: even believe in that. I was like, it's Valentine's Day,
Speaker 3: give me the spot. I was here first.
Speaker 2: You wouldn't have even been here if it wasn't for women. Anyway,
Speaker 2: got in, I got my candy, got out, and I
Speaker 2: was like, oh my.
Speaker 3: God, I got to get there. I got to get
Speaker 3: to pick up.
Speaker 2: And I'm driving and as I'm driving and I have
Speaker 2: to make a turn and then get on the freeway.
Speaker 3: Have you been driving?
Speaker 2: And there's like little there's like stands. People are selling
Speaker 2: things on the corner. And this man was selling all
Speaker 2: of the marketable Valentines.
Speaker 3: I like to say, because it's just it was too much.
Speaker 2: You know, there are the flowers, there are the teddy bears,
Speaker 2: and oh my god, when the carnations are spray to color,
Speaker 2: it really throws me over the edge. Lots of those
Speaker 2: you know, milar balloons. It was just like Valentine's Day,
Speaker 2: Like Hallmark A Step Beyond had thrown up on this
Speaker 2: corner and this guy was selling it and outrageous prices
Speaker 2: because you know what they're thinking. Everyone's coming to this intersection.
Speaker 2: You got to turn to get on the freeway. There's
Speaker 2: a gas station here at this corner. So I'm going
Speaker 2: to sell all of this here because people are going
Speaker 2: to hole over and they're gonna buy it because they're
Speaker 2: gonna be like, oh my god, I waited the last minute.
Speaker 2: I didn't get my present. And he's smart. That guy's smart.
Speaker 3: He was right.
Speaker 2: So right as I was about to turn, and I'm
Speaker 2: looking at all of this and I'm just thinking, ugh.
Speaker 2: At this time last year, you know, I was just
Speaker 2: getting out of an eighteen year marriage and I was
Speaker 2: seeing someone. But it was like, you know, I was
Speaker 2: kind of anti Valentine's Day, and I was just like,
Speaker 2: oh God, look at all these suckers. Valentine's Day. Valentine's
Speaker 2: Day sucks. And right as I'm like saying this out
Speaker 2: loud to myself in the car. This man was like
Speaker 2: Valentine's Day amazing. I got to pull over and get
Speaker 2: my girl something and he cuts in front of me.
Speaker 2: And as he cuts in front of me to buy
Speaker 2: this stuff that was being sold on the corner, I
Speaker 2: was like, Valentine's Day sucks. Oh my gosh, there's a
Speaker 2: car in front of me. So I swerve to get
Speaker 2: out of this lane. And while I swerve, a guy
Speaker 2: is merging and we bump. I say we bump because
Speaker 2: I guess technically it was my fault.
Speaker 3: But I was just trying to do the right thing.
Speaker 2: I was trying to save this man that was selling
Speaker 2: all of this vomitous Valentine's Day on the corner to
Speaker 2: support his family. I was trying to save him from
Speaker 2: getting like run over by this guy that was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I didn't get my wife something. She's
Speaker 2: gonna be so mad. I got to pull over, so
Speaker 2: I think I was doing the right thing, and he
Speaker 2: was merging, so technically was my fault. So we pull
Speaker 2: over and he's like, you know, pull over. So we
Speaker 2: park and I get out of the car and I said,
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. You know what, I guess this is my fault.
Speaker 3: I gotta tell you. I'm like, fucking hate Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2: And he goes, what and I go, yeah, I hate
Speaker 2: Valentine's Day and he goes me too, and I was like, oh.
Speaker 3: My god, Yeah, it just sucks.
Speaker 2: It's just like marketing, like it's just you know, spend
Speaker 2: all your money on this holiday that means nothing. If
Speaker 2: you love someone, show them love.
Speaker 3: Every day of the year. Why is it one particular day.
Speaker 2: And I'm like ranting about how much I hated and
Speaker 2: all this shit that was being sold on the sidewalk,
Speaker 2: and he was like, I like, you, you know what,
Speaker 2: let's assess our cars. Mine was in worse shape his was.
Speaker 2: He looked at and he said it's fine. Let's just
Speaker 2: let's go from one Valentine's Day hater to another. Let's
Speaker 2: have a good Valentine's Day. And I said, you know what,
Speaker 2: thank you, this might be the best Valentine's Day ever.
Speaker 2: And I left, Yeah, that was that.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean technically Tory two point zero, as my
Speaker 2: friend Brian Green has labeled me, which I'm happy to
Speaker 2: have that label because I'm.
Speaker 3: Stepping this shit up.
Speaker 2: This is technically my first Valentine's Day, completely single, and yeah,
Speaker 2: I still feel the pressure to have to buy my
Speaker 2: kids stuff, you know, And I am grateful though, I
Speaker 2: got to say, I'm very grateful that my kids are
Speaker 2: getting in this one sense, we hate when our babies
Speaker 2: are growing up and things are kind of done with.
Speaker 2: And I have five kids, and four of them were
Speaker 2: too old to do the Valentine's gifts in class that
Speaker 2: you know that used to go from When I was
Speaker 2: a kid, it was like you got these little cards
Speaker 2: that said too and from and you put the kid's
Speaker 2: name on it and you put your name on it and.
Speaker 3: You all exchanged.
Speaker 2: It was like that was it. You bought the pack
Speaker 2: from the store. It was reasonable. And then it just
Speaker 2: got so crazy. And when when I was younger, when
Speaker 2: I had more energy with my first four, you know,
Speaker 2: I'm like DIY queens. So not only did I have
Speaker 2: like cards for them to pass out in class, but
Speaker 2: I had to make every single one of them. Like
Speaker 2: I was like, oh no, no, no, I'm known for crafting.
Speaker 2: We are going to craft and come up with really
Speaker 2: cool things. And we would we would come up like
Speaker 2: I have great photos. We would be up all night
Speaker 2: the night before handmaking, which AKA meant, you know, they
Speaker 2: would help out with the first few and then they'd
Speaker 2: be like, I'm tired, I don't want to do this anymore.
Speaker 2: And I'd be like, okay, just put your name on
Speaker 2: it so it looks like it's from you, and then
Speaker 2: I would DIY all of them.
Speaker 3: But that gets a lot, you guys.
Speaker 2: You know there's twenty five to thirty five kids in
Speaker 2: each class and four kids.
Speaker 3: I mean, I was.
Speaker 2: Pulling an all nighter and not for any fun reasons,
Speaker 2: and it was a lot going on. So now it's
Speaker 2: just Bo who is seven in first grade, and now
Speaker 2: it's just his butt. He's kind of like he doesn't
Speaker 2: want a DIY, and I give him this choice. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: we can make something and come up with stuff, and
Speaker 2: he's like, Mom, can we just order it on Amazon?
Speaker 2: And I have to bite my tongue and remember, okay,
Speaker 2: you know what, it's okay to not do it all,
Speaker 2: it's okay to order it on Amazon.
Speaker 3: God bless Amazon.
Speaker 2: So now instead of being like no, no, no, let's
Speaker 2: make and I'm like, okay, sure, great, So I'm head
Speaker 2: of the game. Valentine's is this Friday, and this is
Speaker 2: the first year that I'm set. I have all of
Speaker 2: you really wanted these little tiny game like key chains
Speaker 2: that was like a gaming system, not expensive and for
Speaker 2: us to do a card and I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: can I be a little creative here, like you know,
Speaker 2: game on and like you know, yeah, and he's allowing
Speaker 2: me to do that, so I can put a few
Speaker 2: of my puns into them. But I have them ordered.
Speaker 2: They arrived yesterday. God bless Amazon Prime. When it comes
Speaker 2: between when they market, like would you it's free? Would
Speaker 2: you like it between four and eight am? Or would
Speaker 2: you like between eight and twelve, You're like, I really
Speaker 2: hit my doorstep, Like I really don't care, even though
Speaker 2: there's something creepy to me about someone like sneaking up
Speaker 2: and dropping off stuff at your doorstep at four am.
Speaker 2: But anyway, so it's all here, I'm doing it. I
Speaker 2: just have to get the Seese candy and then I'm
Speaker 2: good to go. But I was never like into the whole,
Speaker 2: like let's go to dinner. I am just conditioned to
Speaker 2: think this. I feel like every partner I've had has
Speaker 2: always been like Valentine's Day is cool, but you know,
Speaker 2: it's kind of it's the preset menu, the jack of
Speaker 2: the prices. At restaurants, you know, you have to get reservations,
Speaker 2: wait in advance, you have to sit and look at
Speaker 2: people that look like they don't want to be there,
Speaker 2: but they're like, it's Valentine's Day. I have to pretend
Speaker 2: to like the person that I'm with. I'm not talking
Speaker 2: about myself, guys, I'm talking about my view of other
Speaker 2: people in the restaurant. So Dean and I specifically kind
Speaker 2: of really never did that. We would always yeah, and
Speaker 2: once we started having kids, which oh yeah, when we
Speaker 2: first got together, we started having kids right away, so
Speaker 2: we always had kids together. We kind of made it
Speaker 2: about them, and we would like, hang in, Oh those pizzas,
Speaker 2: what about the pizzas they make for Valentine's Day? The
Speaker 2: heart shape pizza that never really exactly looks like a
Speaker 2: proper heart, which kind of sends me over the edge.
Speaker 2: And then back then when the kids were younger, I
Speaker 2: was like, oh god, and I don't like the shape
Speaker 2: of a heart.
Speaker 3: I do like pizza though. I love a good pizza. Yeah,
Speaker 3: So we'd get.
Speaker 2: That for the kids and we'd have like a night
Speaker 2: in we get like matching like Valentine's pajamas.
Speaker 3: But yeah.
Speaker 2: And then the person I was with last year was like,
Speaker 2: I don't like Valentine's Day and I'm like, yeah, I
Speaker 2: mean either, and we agreed that we hate Valentine's Day,
Speaker 2: which is perfect. So we actually I think it was
Speaker 2: a Wednesday. I love when I say I think, But
Speaker 2: you guys know, like I have a memory, like especially
Speaker 2: dates and times, like I remember Valentine's Day fell on
Speaker 2: a Wednesday last year, so I remember he texted me
Speaker 2: in the morning and bright and early, so it was
Speaker 2: very nice and he was like, happy Wednesday, just another day,
Speaker 2: and I laughed and I was like, yeah, it's Wednesday,
Speaker 2: Happy home day, you know. And then we did celebrate,
Speaker 2: but we did. We celebrated on the day after Valentine's Day,
Speaker 2: and we called it Our on Valentine's Day, which I
Speaker 2: liked because there was like no pressure. And then I think,
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of my worst Valentine's Day. I
Speaker 2: guess it was back when I like, okay, I remember
Speaker 2: my worst one, and it wasn't even.
Speaker 3: That bad, you guys, but it was the gift that
Speaker 3: threw me over the edge. I'm going back. I want
Speaker 3: to say.
Speaker 2: I was like twenty six. I lived with my roommate Kevin.
Speaker 2: I was still on nine O two and oh it
Speaker 2: was the final season I think her final two seasons
Speaker 2: of nine two and oh to Maya's twenty five.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I was dating Vincent Young, who played Noah who went
Speaker 2: out with Donna on Nino two and oh, and we
Speaker 2: were seeing each other.
Speaker 3: Oh what did the kids say? We were talking to
Speaker 3: each other.
Speaker 2: We were dating for a while, but it wasn't until
Speaker 2: towards the end that it was like a committed relationship. AKA,
Speaker 2: this is how it goes when you're young and girls
Speaker 2: and boys. He decided he wanted to commit to me.
Speaker 2: I would have been like in sooner if it had happened.
Speaker 2: So whatever this Valentine's Day was, we weren't committed to
Speaker 2: each other, but I was all into him, like he
Speaker 2: was my boyfriend, and he was like, we're seeing each
Speaker 2: other kind of thing.
Speaker 3: Or I don't know.
Speaker 2: She sleeps over at my house Monday through Thursday and
Speaker 2: Friday and Saturday go with my friends something like that.
Speaker 2: I can't be sure.
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Speaker 2: Anyway, I remember it was Valentine's Day. We hadn't communicated.
Speaker 2: It was a Saturday, and Fridays and Saturdays he always
Speaker 2: went out with his friends, and then Sunday we would.
Speaker 2: Sunday through Thursday we would be kind of in this
Speaker 2: committed relationship. Oh my god, I was so rare. He's
Speaker 2: a great guy. But what was I thinking back then? Uh,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh. Anyway, and it was Saturday, so he
Speaker 2: had gone out with his friends Friday night and I
Speaker 2: hadn't heard from him, and I was super stressing because
Speaker 2: we hadn't set plans. It was Valentine's Day, Saturday always
Speaker 2: went out with his friends. But it's not like I
Speaker 2: was his quote unquote girlfriend, so I couldn't demand anything,
Speaker 2: which you know me, I don't demand anything at all.
Speaker 2: I didn't want to say anything, and I just remember I.
Speaker 3: Was super depressed all day because I was.
Speaker 2: Wondering, like, this friend's going to acknowledge that, you know,
Speaker 2: it's Valentine's Day and that we like each other and
Speaker 2: we kind of were together. Am I going to get
Speaker 2: a gift from him? I don't know what to do?
Speaker 2: And Kevin was just like, oh my gosh, I think
Speaker 2: I was just bummed all day long. And then late
Speaker 2: in the afternoon I hadn't heard from him. A delivery
Speaker 2: arrived and it was for me, and Kevin's like, see,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I can't believe you worried all day
Speaker 2: and maybe you guys aren't having plans, but he sent
Speaker 2: you something, and I was like, oh god, I hope
Speaker 2: it's not red roses. I really don't like red roses
Speaker 2: or anything heart shaped. But I wanted it to be
Speaker 2: something like super like foofy, girly, romantic, sappy. Even I
Speaker 2: would have taken sappy because I just wanted some inkling
Speaker 2: at that point that like he was way into me,
Speaker 2: like I wanted that. And we lived in a building
Speaker 2: where there's dorman and.
Speaker 3: So they were like, oh, we have a delivery. We're
Speaker 3: just gonna bring it up.
Speaker 2: So Kevin went out and we had elevators that went
Speaker 2: right into our apartment and went out to We called
Speaker 2: it the vestibule and so fancy, and Kevin said, okay.
Speaker 3: The dorman brought it up.
Speaker 2: The elevator left in the vestibule, and Kevin said, okay,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go get it. And I was laying in
Speaker 2: bed because I was super bummed and we'd been like
Speaker 2: binging like rom coms all day.
Speaker 3: That made me more bummed. And he came back and he.
Speaker 2: Was like, I was like, what is it? Just give
Speaker 2: me what is it before you walk through my bedroom doors.
Speaker 2: And he's like, you're not gonna be happy. And I
Speaker 2: was like, oh God.
Speaker 3: Lay it on me. I mean not on me, like
Speaker 3: lay it next to me. Put it next to me.
Speaker 2: And when he walked through the door, it wasn't red roses,
Speaker 2: it wasn't flowers. It was a plant, you guys. It
Speaker 2: was a friggin plant. And I'm like, and I'm not
Speaker 2: talking like you know now there's like really cool plants
Speaker 2: and like succulents, like if a boy sent me a
Speaker 2: succulent Now I would be like chic, But it wasn't that.
Speaker 2: It was like back then, And it wasn't even like
Speaker 2: a fiddlely fig.
Speaker 3: It wasn't. It was like a fern or something. I
Speaker 3: don't know.
Speaker 2: It wasn't a fern. I'm being dramatic. It wasn't a
Speaker 2: sexy plant, let me put it that way. And it
Speaker 2: was from him. I don't remember what the card said,
Speaker 2: but it didn't matter at that point. So my thing is,
Speaker 2: what does that mean? A guy said sends you something,
Speaker 2: so he's acknowledging you guys are something. You have some
Speaker 2: sort of like between you guys that's romantic. But he
Speaker 2: doesn't send you flowers. He sends you a plant. Is
Speaker 2: he saying.
Speaker 3: We're just friends?
Speaker 2: Is he saying we're friends with benefits but not even
Speaker 2: like the benefit of like something that's flowering, which is
Speaker 2: the whole point of benefits.
Speaker 3: I don't know. Do you guys have an opinion?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 1: I am curious what did the cards say, because that's
Speaker 1: very telling.
Speaker 6: If he was just like happy Valentine's.
Speaker 1: Day, or he was like, may our relationship grow like
Speaker 1: this plant, I mean.
Speaker 3: It would be I just throw my mouth.
Speaker 6: That would be very telling. What the intention was.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: It was like a weed or something, which is like
Speaker 2: our relationship which was dead a year later.
Speaker 6: Okay, back it up, back it up, back it up.
Speaker 6: You get a plant.
Speaker 1: You have no recollection of what the card says.
Speaker 4: I do.
Speaker 2: I kind of it said something very generic. It was
Speaker 2: handwritten by him, and I think it was like happy
Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, love.
Speaker 1: V Okay, Yeah, but he didn't ask you out to
Speaker 1: do anything that weekend.
Speaker 3: Oh, it was Saturday night.
Speaker 2: He went out with his friends Friday and Saturday night
Speaker 2: Sunday night. I would always go over to his house
Speaker 2: or afternoon watch football with him.
Speaker 3: Which really I hate it, but I would just like cook.
Speaker 3: That was fun.
Speaker 2: I would either make dinner for Sunday night, or we
Speaker 2: would order in, or we'd go see a movie at
Speaker 2: the Lumli does not even exist. But he was like
Speaker 2: cool in arts scene and we were into art films.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 6: Okay, so wait, did you go to his house that Sunday?
Speaker 3: Uh huh?
Speaker 1: And was Valentine's Day referenced or were you like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, thank you for the beautiful plant.
Speaker 6: Like what happened.
Speaker 2: In true tory form. I have the best memory out there.
Speaker 1: Yep.
Speaker 2: I conveniently have forgotten that part because it was probably
Speaker 2: I probably didn't acknowledge it. I probably said thank you
Speaker 2: so much for the plant. I love it. It was beautiful.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Maybe it was one of those plants where it does
Speaker 2: flower at some point.
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I really don't think so.
Speaker 6: Well, you remember feeling crappy, so it probably.
Speaker 2: I remember feeling really shitty and to that point. I
Speaker 2: would never don't ever get a girl that you like
Speaker 2: a plant, because it just it sends really mixed messages
Speaker 2: that you're not that like, you're not indoor enough to
Speaker 2: send flowers, so you're gonna send her something because you
Speaker 2: want to. Still, I don't know, yeah, it really look
Speaker 2: at it. It stayed with me all these years. I
Speaker 2: don't think he and I ever talked about it, and
Speaker 2: we stayed friends, like I don't even think.
Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe we could call him, maybe we should.
Speaker 2: I'm going to text him and be like, he won't remember.
Speaker 2: I'll be like, if you remember Valentine's say, you send
Speaker 2: me a plant? What did that mean?
Speaker 6: Yep? I would I'd love you to do that, that
Speaker 6: would be awesome, I will.
Speaker 2: Okay, So a year later, by then I think we
Speaker 2: were definitely like more committed. Let's say, because if I
Speaker 2: can reference pictures in my brain, we would go to
Speaker 2: events where there would be like a press.
Speaker 3: Line and stuff and he would hold my hands, so
Speaker 3: pictures were taken.
Speaker 2: So it was like, Okay, we're confirming we're together. I
Speaker 2: feel like we went to a movie premiere.
Speaker 1: By the way, Can I just interject and say, I
Speaker 1: think that is so funny that that is how celebrities
Speaker 1: confirm their dating.
Speaker 6: You know, like you're wondering, Oh, I wonder if he's
Speaker 6: serious or not.
Speaker 1: But then if he's willing to be photographed on the
Speaker 1: press line with you, you're like, okay, this is your score.
Speaker 3: I'm his oh man. And people I wonder like, how
Speaker 3: could she have no self worth? She's a celebrity, Like, hello,
Speaker 3: yeah he was. He was very nice.
Speaker 1: Well we'll see how nice as you finished the story,
Speaker 1: I'll be the judge of nice.
Speaker 6: Go ahead.
Speaker 2: So I believe the following Valentine's Day, we again had
Speaker 2: been photographed out like I wasn't.
Speaker 3: A secret anymore.
Speaker 6: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: But I think even.
Speaker 2: To this day, he'll say, you know, it was a
Speaker 2: it was a dicey situation that I was always mindful
Speaker 2: of because.
Speaker 3: It was a big opportunity.
Speaker 2: I'm on nine O two one zero and later like
Speaker 2: I'm dating the boss's daughter. But there's no reference to it.
Speaker 2: And he's like, I was worried, like I was. You know,
Speaker 2: he was worried for job security, and so we kind
Speaker 2: of but communicate security.
Speaker 1: He should have sent you like a garden of flowers.
Speaker 2: I think he was worried that if my dad found
Speaker 2: out that he was dating me, that he wouldn't want
Speaker 2: him on the show. But my dad was the opposite.
Speaker 2: He loved me dating leading men. He loved me dating actors.
Speaker 2: Like he didn't know anything besides actors, so like that
Speaker 2: was his world. He wanted to like keep it contained,
Speaker 2: like Okay, I know my dad was so old fashioned
Speaker 2: yet so like I don't know, not with it at
Speaker 2: the times, like it's the worst to be like dating
Speaker 2: an actor, like, oh, I don't wish that any girl
Speaker 2: like and but he thought like, oh, she's safe if
Speaker 2: she's dating an actor.
Speaker 3: You know, I didn't know.
Speaker 1: And especially one on his cast where he could be
Speaker 1: like you know, have you guys on his radar?
Speaker 2: Right, But I think, like to Vince's defense, like we
Speaker 2: didn't have the best communication in our relationship and we
Speaker 2: never talked about that, and he didn't know how my
Speaker 2: dad felt, you know, like we'd done things with my
Speaker 2: family and stuff. But I don't know. I think he
Speaker 2: was just worried whatever. I'm defending him for no reason,
Speaker 2: like he didn't do anything wrong. But anyway, a year later,
Speaker 2: we were committed. We were well, we didn't talk about
Speaker 2: being committed, but he held my hand in public. So whooo,
Speaker 2: so it's confirmed the bitches, he's off the market. No, yeah,
Speaker 2: And anyway, it was fashion Week and I have to
Speaker 2: check this.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this line's up.
Speaker 2: It's New York Fashion Week right right now, kind of
Speaker 2: leading into Valentine's Day. And I was in New York
Speaker 2: going to fashion Week with my mom, and my mom
Speaker 2: had said, would you want to go to Fashion Week?
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, that would be so cool,
Speaker 2: Like I'd done Fashion Week before, but with.
Speaker 3: My mom that's kind of iconic, like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go, let's do it together. And Maron was
Speaker 2: in New York at the time and some other friends
Speaker 2: and he just had We had the best time. But
Speaker 2: I remember that it was Saturday night and it was
Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, I think I or it was, or maybe
Speaker 2: it wasn't quite Valentine's Day, but it was. The Playboy
Speaker 2: Mansion was having like their Valentine's Day party, and we
Speaker 2: had gone to ones before at the Playboy Mansion, like
Speaker 2: it was the thing to do at the time, and
Speaker 2: every actor and actress you always win. It was fun
Speaker 2: and he was going though, but he wasn't going. I
Speaker 2: wasn't going to be with him with all our friends,
Speaker 2: like I was in New York and I was super worried.
Speaker 2: And yet I've always been the girl that pretended not
Speaker 2: to be jealous but would just like cringe inside but
Speaker 2: wouldn't communicate it because I didn't want to be like
Speaker 2: that girl that was like nagging.
Speaker 3: I'm still like that, so I.
Speaker 6: Think a lot of women are like exactly, yeah.
Speaker 3: So yeah.
Speaker 2: So I just remember saying like, Okay, have fun, but
Speaker 2: we do me a favor. I don't care how late
Speaker 2: it is, will you just call me when you get home, like,
Speaker 2: and he was like yeah, So that was like our thing,
Speaker 2: And I was proud of myself that I didn't stand
Speaker 2: up for myself and say, you know, I felt nervous
Speaker 2: about him being there with women all over him, because
Speaker 2: even when I was there with him, you know, women
Speaker 2: would be all over him. So I'm like, oh god.
Speaker 2: And anyway, long story short, he didn't call. He never called,
Speaker 2: and I was like, I don't know. I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: that's it, and yeah, that was it.
Speaker 6: You broke up with him?
Speaker 3: Well, I didn't tell him because we didn't communicate, So I.
Speaker 6: Just so you just ignored him on set or.
Speaker 3: No. Two had ended by then, okay, by the year later, so.
Speaker 6: You just never called him back.
Speaker 3: We talked after that.
Speaker 2: We saw each other a couple times where he wanted
Speaker 2: to try to work things out. And you know what,
Speaker 2: here's the thing about me is I will stay and
Speaker 2: I will stay until and all my friends are like,
Speaker 2: with the wrong guy, what are you doing? Don't stay,
Speaker 2: don't stay. But when I am done, when I am truly,
Speaker 2: truly done, and it has to be on my time,
Speaker 2: and it's usually to the point where it's like everyone's like,
Speaker 2: why wasn't she done three years ago?
Speaker 3: For five or six or ten.
Speaker 2: I when I'm done, I'm done, and I don't go
Speaker 2: back so at that point, I really we'd kind of
Speaker 2: been going through this back and forth and I was
Speaker 2: just like, I don't want to feel worried and jealous
Speaker 2: and I want more of a commitment and I don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I was done and that was it for you, thank you,
Speaker 2: and then I went home from New York.
Speaker 3: Oh, I was that's it.
Speaker 2: I was supposed to stay like the rest of the
Speaker 2: week in New York doing Fashion Week, like more of
Speaker 2: Fashion Week, but I got the call that Scary Movie Too.
Speaker 2: And I'd been auditioning like over and over, been like
Speaker 2: two months. We hadn't heard anything. So I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: I didn't get the role. And I got a call
Speaker 2: from my agent saying, we just got a call Scary
Speaker 2: Movie Too. You got the part of Alex and they
Speaker 2: want you to start rehearsal and then start filming and
Speaker 2: you have to be home tomorrow. And I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god. And my mom was super cool. She
Speaker 2: had already paid for this whole trip and like we
Speaker 2: had all these things lined up to go see and
Speaker 2: I was like, Mom, I got the job. I have
Speaker 2: to go home. Terrified of flying so I couldn't just
Speaker 2: fly home and she would stay and she offered to
Speaker 2: go with me back home, and yeah, and then I
Speaker 2: started scaring movie too, which was great. So I was
Speaker 2: so lost in that that I didn't have time to
Speaker 2: worry about like, h should I get back together with Vince?
Speaker 3: What should I do? Which I do? I was just like.
Speaker 2: Oof, kind of the best revenge in a way big
Speaker 2: feature film.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't need you. I'm starting a movie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thinking about it, I'm still mad about it. I'm
Speaker 2: still mad about the plant, that's all. I'm not even
Speaker 2: mad that he went to the Playboy Mansion party. I'm
Speaker 2: pissed about the fucking plants.
Speaker 3: Like, so I was question about the plant, Yeah.
Speaker 6: Did you keep it? Did you thrown into garbage?
Speaker 1: Might still have and you don't even realize that is
Speaker 1: the plant he gave you a million years ago and
Speaker 1: it's still alive somewhere.
Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. I call myself Tori of all trades.
Speaker 2: I can really do anything that is uh making.
Speaker 3: Stuff, except I.
Speaker 2: Do not have a green thumb. I'm a plant killer.
Speaker 2: I cannot keep a plant alive to save my life.
Speaker 2: Like it's it's I'm notorious like for killing plants, and
Speaker 2: I've been given plants that people say impossible to I
Speaker 2: killed a fucking cactus once. They were like, impossible to kill.
Speaker 2: That cactus was dead a week later, like it's it's
Speaker 2: where plants go to die my house, Like it's OK.
Speaker 2: No one give me a plant ever, it will not survive.
Speaker 6: Hey, keep five kids alive, that's all.
Speaker 3: That's good enough. That's right.
Speaker 2: I can keep children alive. I can keep animals alive.
Speaker 2: I cannot keep a plant alive. But I think I
Speaker 2: wouldn't have thrown away because to me, I would have
Speaker 2: put emotional like feelings on the plant and attachment and
Speaker 2: be like, oh no, it's a living thing.
Speaker 3: I can't throw it away.
Speaker 6: It feelings will be hurt if I throw it away.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2: I did have one plant that did stay alive for
Speaker 2: many years, and that was the only one. And I
Speaker 2: moved that plant in little pieces, like it would have
Speaker 2: one like piece left and I would like find but
Speaker 2: it had roots and like half of it was gone,
Speaker 2: and I'd move it to each apartment. That plant's name
Speaker 2: was Oscar. I don't think Oscar survived beyond like our
Speaker 2: seventeenth move, but he was he was there for a
Speaker 2: long time, right.
Speaker 6: So what happened to this plant?
Speaker 3: I don't know. I can't even remember the type of plants.
Speaker 3: I don't remember.
Speaker 1: You blocked it out, I've blocked it.
Speaker 2: It's like down there, deep with like repressed childhood memories.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 6: Maybe that's why you killed plants because of that.
Speaker 2: Whoa, Right, this goes deeper. Maybe this is linked to
Speaker 2: why I don't drink water.
Speaker 6: That's a stretch. But okay, I'll go there with you,
Speaker 6: aren't we.
Speaker 3: God, you know I love a good pun.
Speaker 7: I'm so.
Speaker 3: Girl crushing on you right now, Lauren.
Speaker 2: Okay, yes, But to keep a plant alive, you have
Speaker 2: to feed it for you have to give it water.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 2: I don't get myself water. It's like a form of
Speaker 2: self sabotage. So maybe, yeah, when you went there, you said,
Speaker 2: maybe that's a form of why I don't keep plants
Speaker 2: alive because I feel like I can't.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're going too far here, all right. Yeah, it's
Speaker 2: not that deep. Yeough, It's just a plant, just another
Speaker 2: fucking holiday, right. I think if I really had to
Speaker 2: think about it, I probably wouldn't have thrown it away.
Speaker 3: I felt like I had to keep it. I probably
Speaker 3: put it in Kevin's room.
Speaker 6: Uh, that makes sense.
Speaker 2: Where at the time, Yeah, you know my roommate Kevin
Speaker 2: huge dentists.
Speaker 3: Now great guy sober got his shit together.
Speaker 2: But during that time, inadvertently, that plant probably saw so
Speaker 2: much porn and hookers and cocaine that it probably died.
Speaker 2: But it wasn't in my hands. Wasn't it my hands?
Speaker 2: Or the plant had a really good time bird's eye view, We.
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Speaker 1: All right, so we've heard about one of your worst
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day stories.
Speaker 6: How about sharing a.
Speaker 1: Positive Valentine's Valentine's Day story? What is a happy memory
Speaker 1: of Valentine's Day?
Speaker 2: Oh okay, I got this one. This is a good one.
Speaker 2: So on Valentine's Day twenty and eleven, I found out
Speaker 2: I was pregnant. I was pregnant with my third baby,
Speaker 2: which is Hattie and Dean and I were filming our
Speaker 2: reality show, Tory and Dean Home Sweet Hollywood. Liam and
Speaker 2: Stella were like three and four. We never planned any
Speaker 2: of our babies. We always felt like they came to
Speaker 2: us when when they wanted to, which is why ended
Speaker 2: up with five.
Speaker 3: But it was all meant to be anyway.
Speaker 2: We were opening our store inventory, which was like gifts
Speaker 2: and antiques and really great store that would probably still
Speaker 2: be there now, but I feel like at the time
Speaker 2: wasn't doing so well. Brick and Morris stores were kind
Speaker 2: of on the outside anyway. I was also in the
Speaker 2: midst of doing photos and content for my party planning
Speaker 2: slash cookbook, which was called Celebratory, and I just the
Speaker 2: list keeps going and yeah, So I was doing all
Speaker 2: these things super super busy and never stopped. But like
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, I was really really nauseous and
Speaker 2: really sick. We were in I remember being in Joshua
Speaker 2: Tree and we were doing one of the photo shoots
Speaker 2: for Celebratory and all my friends came out there. The
Speaker 2: show came out to film the behind the scenes of it,
Speaker 2: and I was just we were antiquing because we were
Speaker 2: pulling stuff. They have such great antiquing and Joshua Tree.
Speaker 2: I think I had to rent like a U haul
Speaker 2: to get us back home because I found all this
Speaker 2: stuff that then I was going to put into inventory,
Speaker 2: because I always would tell myself that, like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: I shouldn't be shopping.
Speaker 3: I'd be like, and then I was like, but it's
Speaker 3: for my store.
Speaker 2: So it put like two pieces in the store and
Speaker 2: like twenty pieces in my home anyway, the store, but
Speaker 2: I was, so We're in Joshua Tree and I was
Speaker 2: super nauseous, and I remember I had to drive myself
Speaker 2: out to Joshua Tree and the team had gone ahead,
Speaker 2: and like everybody was getting there separate. I was working
Speaker 2: on something else, so I had to leave later to
Speaker 2: get there, and it's like a three three and a
Speaker 2: half hour drive, and I remember calling them because on
Speaker 2: the way to the photoshoot and it was just me
Speaker 2: and my chicken Coco. And yep, me and my chicken Coco.
Speaker 2: I was the first person to have like a pocket chicken.
Speaker 2: I think of like you know, Paris Hilton has her
Speaker 2: cute little dog. I would bring my Cocoa everywhere. And
Speaker 2: you remember her. She was white and fluffy and loved
Speaker 2: to go everywhere. So Coco was with me in the car.
Speaker 3: I remember you, I.
Speaker 6: Just have to interduct. Didn't you used to dress her?
Speaker 3: I did?
Speaker 6: Yeah, she had a fab wardrobes.
Speaker 2: I remember, Oh my gosh, because I used to dress
Speaker 2: my pug me me LaRue.
Speaker 3: Because she liked it.
Speaker 2: People used to be like, that's so crazy way you
Speaker 2: dress your dog. I was like, she likes it, Like
Speaker 2: she screams and runs to her little boudoir.
Speaker 3: We to pull her clothes out. She did. She loved it.
Speaker 2: But I remember putting Coco on Instagram and people saying, wait, no,
Speaker 2: this is it.
Speaker 3: It was on Twitter.
Speaker 2: On Twitter, uh, someone reached out to me and said,
Speaker 2: Coco is so adorable. I make chicken sweaters. And I
Speaker 2: was just like, okay, hey, I don't believe her in anything.
Speaker 2: But I was like, is this a joke? Like chicken sweaters,
Speaker 2: and she was in Australia and she said, may I
Speaker 2: send Coco a few pieces? And I thought it was
Speaker 2: so funny. I was grateful, but I thought it was
Speaker 2: so funny. I was like Coco, I was like, you
Speaker 2: have fans now, like you're sending you swag. She did.
Speaker 2: She send Coco sweaters, multiple ones, really really adorable sweaters,
Speaker 2: and Coco she wasn't mad. I always thought Coco was
Speaker 2: like Mimi LaRue, like reincarnated, because she liked to go
Speaker 2: everywhere with me. She didn't like to go outside like
Speaker 2: Mimi was like that. She was just like like to
Speaker 2: snuggle and stay with me. Didn't to go and walks
Speaker 2: and stuff. And she liked to wear clothes, which mem did.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, anyway, yeah, so she always was
Speaker 2: in a chicken sweater. Anyway. Oh so Cocoa and I
Speaker 2: were driving in the car and I was like starving,
Speaker 2: which should have been my first clothes pregnant, but I
Speaker 2: was like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: So I had to pull over at Taco.
Speaker 2: Bell and go to the drive through, and if anyone
Speaker 2: wants to know, I love Taco Bell to this day. Pregnant,
Speaker 2: not pregnant and I like a number one, so it's
Speaker 2: a burrito Supreme. I'm that girl with a taco Supreme
Speaker 2: and a drink. That's my order and I'm sticking to it.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I was so sad for years when
Speaker 2: they took away the Mexican pizza. But now it's back,
Speaker 2: you guys, So everything's good in my world. Anyway, I
Speaker 2: got it and I ate it and we're driving and
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I don't feel good.
Speaker 2: And now it's not because.
Speaker 3: I ate it fast.
Speaker 2: I don't really ate it fast, but I was like
Speaker 2: I had to pull over and I was like vomiting
Speaker 2: on the side of the road, and I called my
Speaker 2: production team on Tori and Dean. I was like, oh
Speaker 2: my gosh, you guys, I don't know if I'm going
Speaker 2: to make it out there and the book people and everything.
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm throwing up everywhere, and they were like,
Speaker 2: are you okay? Do you need to go home? And
Speaker 2: I was like no, I just I just need it
Speaker 2: a few minutes and then I'm going to you know,
Speaker 2: press on. Work is first, so so I waited and
Speaker 2: I felt a little better. No Taco bell left behind,
Speaker 2: So then after I felt better, I did eat the
Speaker 2: Taco Supreme that I hadn't because I'd only eaten the
Speaker 2: brit Of Supreme, and then Coco and I pressed on.
Speaker 2: But the whole weekend we're filming photos and everything doing
Speaker 2: and I was just like, I am so sick. I
Speaker 2: don't know what's wrong with me.
Speaker 3: I can't go.
Speaker 2: I remember one of my producers on Tori and Dean
Speaker 2: and she's like, do you think you're pregnant?
Speaker 3: I was like no.
Speaker 2: I was like no, no, no, it's been three years between.
Speaker 2: You know, I had Liam and Stella fifteen months apart. Came,
Speaker 2: you know, they came and they wanted to and then
Speaker 2: it had been a three year gap, and I was like,
Speaker 2: you know, no, maybe it's.
Speaker 3: It's not going to happen.
Speaker 2: No, why wouldn't it Why wouldn't it have happened? So
Speaker 2: I didn't think much of it. Got back from Joshua
Speaker 2: Tree and the next day it was Valentine's Day and
Speaker 2: we opened inventory on Valentine's.
Speaker 3: Day, which he thought was like a cool fun we had.
Speaker 2: The crew was filming it and we'd fight it like
Speaker 2: all celebrity friends. And we opened up the doors and
Speaker 2: all fans and shoppers came in and we had like
Speaker 2: a welcome party and there was champagne and cookies and
Speaker 2: florals and it was.
Speaker 3: Just all like done.
Speaker 2: But I was already so exhausted from this weekend of
Speaker 2: filming all the content for Celebratory in my book and
Speaker 2: then coming back opening a store and filming my TV
Speaker 2: show opening the store. But after we had filmed everything,
Speaker 2: the party was still going on for the store and
Speaker 2: I said to my producer, the same one that asked
Speaker 2: for when I was pregnant, I said, I'm really sick.
Speaker 2: I got and she's like, you're sick again. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I got to go home. I don't know what to do.
Speaker 2: And so Dean was going to stay behind because we
Speaker 2: owned the store together and he was going to welcome everybody.
Speaker 2: And it was like the last thirty minutes of the party.
Speaker 2: So I went home and she drove me home and
Speaker 2: I said, you know what, I don't know. I think
Speaker 2: I might be pregnant. And she was like, oh my god.
Speaker 2: So she got me home, put me in bed, and
Speaker 2: got a pregnancy test. So we got it and then
Speaker 2: it confirmed I was pregnant, and then I didn't believe it.
Speaker 2: So I called Moran and I was like, this can't be.
Speaker 2: This is so bizarre, and he's like, it's you. Of
Speaker 2: course it can be. And I said, okay, I need
Speaker 2: another confirmation. So he brought five more tests over I think,
Speaker 2: and he stood outside the door and I took all
Speaker 2: of them and they were all.
Speaker 3: I was pregnant. I was pregnant. I was pregnant. Okay.
Speaker 2: So then I was like, oh my gosh, it's Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2: This would be the best reveal ever to Dean that
Speaker 2: were pregnant. So I took one of my peace sticks
Speaker 2: that said pregnant and I wrapped it up for a
Speaker 2: Valentine's gift. So when the party was over, it inventory.
Speaker 2: He came home and he was exhausted and he was like,
Speaker 2: do you want to do anything for Valentine's Day? And
Speaker 2: I was like no, And you know, being the toy
Speaker 2: that I am, I told my my producer, and she
Speaker 2: was like, can we film like the reveal of it?
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, he already got to the
Speaker 2: natural way. We found out in secrecy together the two
Speaker 2: of us, Slam and Stella.
Speaker 3: Thirder one where this you know, we can go for it.
Speaker 2: So she said, okay, but we didn't tell the film
Speaker 2: crew and we were just like cameras up when Deane
Speaker 2: gets home, and so they were all surprised as soon
Speaker 2: as we announced it. They were all like behind the
Speaker 2: cameras they were.
Speaker 3: Like what like everyone was like, oh my god.
Speaker 2: But anyway, so I wrapped it up and he comes
Speaker 2: and he gets into bed and I was like, I
Speaker 2: have a Valentine's gift for you, and he was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, thank you so much. He thought it
Speaker 2: was a pen. I'm like, looking back, like would I
Speaker 2: ever give you a pen? And that's like that's like
Speaker 2: as bad as like giving someone like a plant, you know.
Speaker 2: So anyway, he opened it and it was the peace
Speaker 2: staking So I was pregnant and the rest is.
Speaker 3: History because then we got our hattie cat. That's my
Speaker 3: best Valentine's Day effort.
Speaker 6: That is a great val baby love that.
Speaker 3: Okay, So what.
Speaker 2: Am I going to do this Valentine's Day? And Laurene,
Speaker 2: you know this with kids, like it's just it really
Speaker 2: does become their holiday, like they have already asked me.
Speaker 2: This started like weeks ago, like where are we going
Speaker 2: to go to dinner for Valentine's Day.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: On the actual Valentine's Day, Bo has like a school
Speaker 2: performance and they're doing all these songs about love. And
Speaker 2: then he has his class party deliver all his Valentines,
Speaker 2: and I have to get my ces candy.
Speaker 3: For all the kids.
Speaker 2: I have a very very busy day. I will not
Speaker 2: be distracted thinking about boys.
Speaker 3: That's a lie.
Speaker 2: Slightly distracted thinking about boys because I always believe in
Speaker 2: love and that's a good thing. So, yeah, I'm single.
Speaker 2: It's going to be Valentine's Day. I've started the tradition
Speaker 2: that now my kids think gets their holiday, and I'm
Speaker 2: okay with that for now. And because I'm a big
Speaker 2: believer in love, I will always be a believer in love.
Speaker 2: And plants just not in my house because I'll kill them.
Speaker 2: Oh we've ever told you, guys, I like to be
Speaker 2: in plants. We'll save that for another episode.
Speaker 3: Bye.