1 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 2: Oh Boy, it is officially Valentine's Week. 3 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 3: Valentine's Week. You know what. 4 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 2: It's so funny because I am such a believer in love, 5 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 2: Like my journey has gone ebbs and flows when it 6 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 2: comes to love, obviously, but yet at the core, I'm 7 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 2: still a romantic and I'm still a. 8 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 3: Believer in love. 9 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 2: I love love. I've always loved love. Funny probably unknown 10 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: fact is I used to hate hearts. I used to 11 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: hate hearts. I'm not even sure. I remember that one 12 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 2: time Dean got me a present. It was jewelry, and 13 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 2: I called my best friend Moran because he was always 14 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 2: like what do he get you? 15 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 3: What do he get you? 16 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, he got me something that 17 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 2: is beautiful, but it is so not me. It's something 18 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 2: I technically hate. And he's like, no, he got you 19 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 2: a heart necklace. I'm like bingo. I'm like, and he's like, 20 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 2: you hate hearts, and I'm like, I know, but I 21 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 2: feel bad. I feel like and he's like, everybody knows 22 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 2: you hate hearts. I'm like, well, I guess he didn't 23 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 2: know that one. And it was so lovely, but the 24 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 2: funny part is this was in the heyday of me 25 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 2: being like, love is great, love is beautiful. I love 26 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, but yet I hated hearts. And now I 27 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: am very kind of anti Valentine's Day and I love hearts. 28 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 3: Just didn't line up. 29 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 2: But yeah, so for me Valentine's Day, and I know 30 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 2: it means something to everyone differently, and that's fine. I'm 31 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: just telling you my experience is growing up my mom 32 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 2: and dad they were married over twenty five years when 33 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 2: my dad passed way longer, over thirty years, I think, 34 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 2: but they never ironically, they had this amazing romance. They 35 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 2: never celebrated holidays alone ever like my brother Randy and I, 36 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: you know, every year on their anniversary, we all went 37 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 2: out to dinner. It wasn't like my mom and dad 38 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 2: went out to dinner. And Valentine's Day. I grew up 39 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 2: never seeing it from a child's perspective as a romantic 40 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 2: holiday because it was very family skewed and something I 41 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 2: really loved tradition, and something that was part of my 42 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 2: tradition growing up is that every Valentine's Day, my dad 43 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 2: would get all of us a box of candy from 44 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 2: seas candy, and my brother and I would get like 45 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 2: smaller ones. My mom would get a big one, and 46 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 2: that was like his big thing. 47 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:11,399 Speaker 3: He always got us red roses, which. 48 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 2: I ironically, if you know, you know, I'm not a 49 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 2: big fan of roses. I love flowers, but not roses, 50 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 2: and I specifically don't like red roses. I don't know why, 51 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 2: but he would always get us red roses, but it 52 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 2: very much was ingrained in me from a child that Valentine's. 53 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,519 Speaker 3: Day was all about the kids. It was like a 54 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 3: kid's holiday, which to. 55 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 2: This day because I always go back to like family 56 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 2: traditions and I integrated. We have new traditions with my 57 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 2: kids and I, but I always bring a piece of 58 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 2: my childhood traditions into their lives, which I think is 59 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: kind of cool. To this day, I still get my 60 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: kids every Valentine's Day a box, a heart shaped box 61 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 2: from Seas Candy, because it makes me think of my 62 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: dad and what he would get up and it's just tradition. 63 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 3: Well, last year it was Valentine's Day and I was like, 64 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 3: oh my gosh. 65 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 2: Seize candy. Oh my gosh, I blew it. I didn't 66 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 2: get to seize candy, so I'm like, okay, racing. It 67 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 2: was like almost kids pickup time, and once I picked 68 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 2: them up in school, I don't get a moment to myself. 69 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 3: So I got to get the presence. 70 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: So I was literally like, oh my god, I got 71 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 2: to get to seize candy. And I remember I was 72 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 2: in the parking lot to seize candy and I was 73 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 2: trying to find it's the one I was going to. 74 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 3: It's in a strip mall. There's other places around. 75 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 2: I think at home Goods. I always remember where everything 76 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:45,479 Speaker 2: shopping wise is in a good poke bowl restaurant that 77 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 2: I digress anyway, And I was trying to find parking 78 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 2: spot and seize candy Valentine's Day. Hello, It's like there's 79 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 2: you know, men galore being like, oh shit, I didn't 80 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: get her candy. I got to get in there. So 81 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 2: there's like a lot out the door and I'm like, 82 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 2: oh my god, I have thirty mens to get to 83 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 2: pick up. 84 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 3: What am I going to do? 85 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 2: And I went, I don't know if you're this person, 86 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 2: but I'm this person when it comes to parking. I 87 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 2: always believe whoever gets the spot first gets the spot. 88 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 2: And I also don't believe in confrontation. So if someone 89 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 2: else gets to that spot and it should have been mine, 90 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 2: I'm never going to start a fight. 91 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 3: I'm always going to be like, Okay, womp, womp, you win. 92 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 2: But I remember specifically, and I don't like to sexualize 93 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 2: things because I think as. 94 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 3: Women, we win. 95 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 2: But I was trying to park and two men snatched 96 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 2: two parking spots for me. I just remember by the 97 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 2: second one, I was like. 98 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 3: What is going on? It's a female holiday. I don't 99 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 3: even believe in that. I was like, it's Valentine's Day, 100 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 3: give me the spot. I was here first. 101 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 2: You wouldn't have even been here if it wasn't for women. Anyway, 102 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 2: got in, I got my candy, got out, and I 103 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 2: was like, oh my. 104 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 3: God, I got to get there. I got to get 105 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 3: to pick up. 106 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 2: And I'm driving and as I'm driving and I have 107 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 2: to make a turn and then get on the freeway. 108 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 3: Have you been driving? 109 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 2: And there's like little there's like stands. People are selling 110 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 2: things on the corner. And this man was selling all 111 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 2: of the marketable Valentines. 112 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 3: I like to say, because it's just it was too much. 113 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 2: You know, there are the flowers, there are the teddy bears, 114 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 2: and oh my god, when the carnations are spray to color, 115 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 2: it really throws me over the edge. Lots of those 116 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: you know, milar balloons. It was just like Valentine's Day, 117 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 2: Like Hallmark A Step Beyond had thrown up on this 118 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 2: corner and this guy was selling it and outrageous prices 119 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 2: because you know what they're thinking. Everyone's coming to this intersection. 120 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 2: You got to turn to get on the freeway. There's 121 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: a gas station here at this corner. So I'm going 122 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 2: to sell all of this here because people are going 123 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 2: to hole over and they're gonna buy it because they're 124 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 2: gonna be like, oh my god, I waited the last minute. 125 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 2: I didn't get my present. And he's smart. That guy's smart. 126 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 3: He was right. 127 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 2: So right as I was about to turn, and I'm 128 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 2: looking at all of this and I'm just thinking, ugh. 129 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: At this time last year, you know, I was just 130 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 2: getting out of an eighteen year marriage and I was 131 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 2: seeing someone. But it was like, you know, I was 132 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 2: kind of anti Valentine's Day, and I was just like, 133 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 2: oh God, look at all these suckers. Valentine's Day. Valentine's 134 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 2: Day sucks. And right as I'm like saying this out 135 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 2: loud to myself in the car. This man was like 136 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day amazing. I got to pull over and get 137 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 2: my girl something and he cuts in front of me. 138 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 2: And as he cuts in front of me to buy 139 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 2: this stuff that was being sold on the corner, I 140 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 2: was like, Valentine's Day sucks. Oh my gosh, there's a 141 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 2: car in front of me. So I swerve to get 142 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 2: out of this lane. And while I swerve, a guy 143 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 2: is merging and we bump. I say we bump because 144 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 2: I guess technically it was my fault. 145 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 3: But I was just trying to do the right thing. 146 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 2: I was trying to save this man that was selling 147 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 2: all of this vomitous Valentine's Day on the corner to 148 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:21,239 Speaker 2: support his family. I was trying to save him from 149 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 2: getting like run over by this guy that was like, 150 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: oh my god, I didn't get my wife something. She's 151 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 2: gonna be so mad. I got to pull over, so 152 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 2: I think I was doing the right thing, and he 153 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 2: was merging, so technically was my fault. So we pull 154 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 2: over and he's like, you know, pull over. So we 155 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 2: park and I get out of the car and I said, 156 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. You know what, I guess this is my fault. 157 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 3: I gotta tell you. I'm like, fucking hate Valentine's Day. 158 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 2: And he goes, what and I go, yeah, I hate 159 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day and he goes me too, and I was like, oh. 160 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 3: My god, Yeah, it just sucks. 161 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: It's just like marketing, like it's just you know, spend 162 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 2: all your money on this holiday that means nothing. If 163 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 2: you love someone, show them love. 164 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 3: Every day of the year. Why is it one particular day. 165 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 2: And I'm like ranting about how much I hated and 166 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 2: all this shit that was being sold on the sidewalk, 167 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 2: and he was like, I like, you, you know what, 168 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 2: let's assess our cars. Mine was in worse shape his was. 169 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 2: He looked at and he said it's fine. Let's just 170 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 2: let's go from one Valentine's Day hater to another. Let's 171 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 2: have a good Valentine's Day. And I said, you know what, 172 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 2: thank you, this might be the best Valentine's Day ever. 173 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 2: And I left, Yeah, that was that. 174 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:40,959 Speaker 3: Okay. 175 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 2: Well, I mean technically Tory two point zero, as my 176 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:48,720 Speaker 2: friend Brian Green has labeled me, which I'm happy to 177 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 2: have that label because I'm. 178 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 3: Stepping this shit up. 179 00:09:52,520 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 2: This is technically my first Valentine's Day, completely single, and yeah, 180 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 2: I still feel the pressure to have to buy my 181 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 2: kids stuff, you know, And I am grateful though, I 182 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 2: got to say, I'm very grateful that my kids are 183 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 2: getting in this one sense, we hate when our babies 184 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 2: are growing up and things are kind of done with. 185 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,839 Speaker 2: And I have five kids, and four of them were 186 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:24,599 Speaker 2: too old to do the Valentine's gifts in class that 187 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:27,599 Speaker 2: you know that used to go from When I was 188 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 2: a kid, it was like you got these little cards 189 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 2: that said too and from and you put the kid's 190 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 2: name on it and you put your name on it and. 191 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 3: You all exchanged. 192 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 2: It was like that was it. You bought the pack 193 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 2: from the store. It was reasonable. And then it just 194 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 2: got so crazy. And when when I was younger, when 195 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:52,079 Speaker 2: I had more energy with my first four, you know, 196 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 2: I'm like DIY queens. So not only did I have 197 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 2: like cards for them to pass out in class, but 198 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 2: I had to make every single one of them. Like 199 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:06,719 Speaker 2: I was like, oh no, no, no, I'm known for crafting. 200 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 2: We are going to craft and come up with really 201 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 2: cool things. And we would we would come up like 202 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 2: I have great photos. We would be up all night 203 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 2: the night before handmaking, which AKA meant, you know, they 204 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 2: would help out with the first few and then they'd 205 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 2: be like, I'm tired, I don't want to do this anymore. 206 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 2: And I'd be like, okay, just put your name on 207 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 2: it so it looks like it's from you, and then 208 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 2: I would DIY all of them. 209 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 3: But that gets a lot, you guys. 210 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 2: You know there's twenty five to thirty five kids in 211 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 2: each class and four kids. 212 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 3: I mean, I was. 213 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 2: Pulling an all nighter and not for any fun reasons, 214 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 2: and it was a lot going on. So now it's 215 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 2: just Bo who is seven in first grade, and now 216 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:53,839 Speaker 2: it's just his butt. He's kind of like he doesn't 217 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 2: want a DIY, and I give him this choice. I'm like, okay, 218 00:11:56,960 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 2: we can make something and come up with stuff, and 219 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 2: he's like, Mom, can we just order it on Amazon? 220 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 2: And I have to bite my tongue and remember, okay, 221 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 2: you know what, it's okay to not do it all, 222 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 2: it's okay to order it on Amazon. 223 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 3: God bless Amazon. 224 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 2: So now instead of being like no, no, no, let's 225 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 2: make and I'm like, okay, sure, great, So I'm head 226 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 2: of the game. Valentine's is this Friday, and this is 227 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 2: the first year that I'm set. I have all of 228 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 2: you really wanted these little tiny game like key chains 229 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 2: that was like a gaming system, not expensive and for 230 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 2: us to do a card and I was like, okay, 231 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 2: can I be a little creative here, like you know, 232 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 2: game on and like you know, yeah, and he's allowing 233 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 2: me to do that, so I can put a few 234 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 2: of my puns into them. But I have them ordered. 235 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 2: They arrived yesterday. God bless Amazon Prime. When it comes 236 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 2: between when they market, like would you it's free? Would 237 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 2: you like it between four and eight am? Or would 238 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 2: you like between eight and twelve, You're like, I really 239 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 2: hit my doorstep, Like I really don't care, even though 240 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 2: there's something creepy to me about someone like sneaking up 241 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 2: and dropping off stuff at your doorstep at four am. 242 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 2: But anyway, so it's all here, I'm doing it. I 243 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 2: just have to get the Seese candy and then I'm 244 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 2: good to go. But I was never like into the whole, 245 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 2: like let's go to dinner. I am just conditioned to 246 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 2: think this. I feel like every partner I've had has 247 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 2: always been like Valentine's Day is cool, but you know, 248 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 2: it's kind of it's the preset menu, the jack of 249 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 2: the prices. At restaurants, you know, you have to get reservations, 250 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 2: wait in advance, you have to sit and look at 251 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 2: people that look like they don't want to be there, 252 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 2: but they're like, it's Valentine's Day. I have to pretend 253 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 2: to like the person that I'm with. I'm not talking 254 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 2: about myself, guys, I'm talking about my view of other 255 00:13:55,840 --> 00:14:00,199 Speaker 2: people in the restaurant. So Dean and I specifically kind 256 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 2: of really never did that. We would always yeah, and 257 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 2: once we started having kids, which oh yeah, when we 258 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 2: first got together, we started having kids right away, so 259 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 2: we always had kids together. We kind of made it 260 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 2: about them, and we would like, hang in, Oh those pizzas, 261 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 2: what about the pizzas they make for Valentine's Day? The 262 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 2: heart shape pizza that never really exactly looks like a 263 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 2: proper heart, which kind of sends me over the edge. 264 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 2: And then back then when the kids were younger, I 265 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 2: was like, oh god, and I don't like the shape 266 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 2: of a heart. 267 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 3: I do like pizza though. I love a good pizza. Yeah, 268 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 3: So we'd get. 269 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 2: That for the kids and we'd have like a night 270 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 2: in we get like matching like Valentine's pajamas. 271 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 3: But yeah. 272 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 2: And then the person I was with last year was like, 273 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 2: I don't like Valentine's Day and I'm like, yeah, I 274 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 2: mean either, and we agreed that we hate Valentine's Day, 275 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 2: which is perfect. So we actually I think it was 276 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 2: a Wednesday. I love when I say I think, But 277 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 2: you guys know, like I have a memory, like especially 278 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 2: dates and times, like I remember Valentine's Day fell on 279 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 2: a Wednesday last year, so I remember he texted me 280 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 2: in the morning and bright and early, so it was 281 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 2: very nice and he was like, happy Wednesday, just another day, 282 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 2: and I laughed and I was like, yeah, it's Wednesday, 283 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 2: Happy home day, you know. And then we did celebrate, 284 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 2: but we did. We celebrated on the day after Valentine's Day, 285 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 2: and we called it Our on Valentine's Day, which I 286 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 2: liked because there was like no pressure. And then I think, 287 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of my worst Valentine's Day. I 288 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 2: guess it was back when I like, okay, I remember 289 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 2: my worst one, and it wasn't even. 290 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 3: That bad, you guys, but it was the gift that 291 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 3: threw me over the edge. I'm going back. I want 292 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 3: to say. 293 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 2: I was like twenty six. I lived with my roommate Kevin. 294 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 2: I was still on nine O two and oh it 295 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 2: was the final season I think her final two seasons 296 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 2: of nine two and oh to Maya's twenty five. 297 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 3: I don't know. 298 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 2: I was dating Vincent Young, who played Noah who went 299 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 2: out with Donna on Nino two and oh, and we 300 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 2: were seeing each other. 301 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 3: Oh what did the kids say? We were talking to 302 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 3: each other. 303 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 2: We were dating for a while, but it wasn't until 304 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 2: towards the end that it was like a committed relationship. AKA, 305 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 2: this is how it goes when you're young and girls 306 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 2: and boys. He decided he wanted to commit to me. 307 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 2: I would have been like in sooner if it had happened. 308 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 2: So whatever this Valentine's Day was, we weren't committed to 309 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 2: each other, but I was all into him, like he 310 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 2: was my boyfriend, and he was like, we're seeing each 311 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 2: other kind of thing. 312 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 3: Or I don't know. 313 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 2: She sleeps over at my house Monday through Thursday and 314 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 2: Friday and Saturday go with my friends something like that. 315 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 2: I can't be sure. 316 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:13,160 Speaker 4: Hey, everyone, Amy roboch here along with TJ. 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And we're 324 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 5: going to do this now each and every day. 325 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 4: Listen to Morning Run on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 326 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 4: or wherever you listen to podcasts. 327 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 2: Anyway, I remember it was Valentine's Day. We hadn't communicated. 328 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 2: It was a Saturday, and Fridays and Saturdays he always 329 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:54,639 Speaker 2: went out with his friends, and then Sunday we would. 330 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 2: Sunday through Thursday we would be kind of in this 331 00:17:57,080 --> 00:18:00,400 Speaker 2: committed relationship. Oh my god, I was so rare. He's 332 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 2: a great guy. But what was I thinking back then? Uh, 333 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 2: oh my gosh. Anyway, and it was Saturday, so he 334 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:10,199 Speaker 2: had gone out with his friends Friday night and I 335 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 2: hadn't heard from him, and I was super stressing because 336 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 2: we hadn't set plans. It was Valentine's Day, Saturday always 337 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:17,359 Speaker 2: went out with his friends. But it's not like I 338 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 2: was his quote unquote girlfriend, so I couldn't demand anything, 339 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 2: which you know me, I don't demand anything at all. 340 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 2: I didn't want to say anything, and I just remember I. 341 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:29,160 Speaker 3: Was super depressed all day because I was. 342 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 2: Wondering, like, this friend's going to acknowledge that, you know, 343 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 2: it's Valentine's Day and that we like each other and 344 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 2: we kind of were together. Am I going to get 345 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 2: a gift from him? I don't know what to do? 346 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 2: And Kevin was just like, oh my gosh, I think 347 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 2: I was just bummed all day long. And then late 348 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,400 Speaker 2: in the afternoon I hadn't heard from him. A delivery 349 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 2: arrived and it was for me, and Kevin's like, see, 350 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 2: oh my god, I can't believe you worried all day 351 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 2: and maybe you guys aren't having plans, but he sent 352 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 2: you something, and I was like, oh god, I hope 353 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:06,360 Speaker 2: it's not red roses. I really don't like red roses 354 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:10,919 Speaker 2: or anything heart shaped. But I wanted it to be 355 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 2: something like super like foofy, girly, romantic, sappy. Even I 356 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 2: would have taken sappy because I just wanted some inkling 357 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:21,399 Speaker 2: at that point that like he was way into me, 358 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 2: like I wanted that. And we lived in a building 359 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 2: where there's dorman and. 360 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 3: So they were like, oh, we have a delivery. We're 361 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 3: just gonna bring it up. 362 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 2: So Kevin went out and we had elevators that went 363 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 2: right into our apartment and went out to We called 364 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 2: it the vestibule and so fancy, and Kevin said, okay. 365 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 3: The dorman brought it up. 366 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 2: The elevator left in the vestibule, and Kevin said, okay, 367 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:47,919 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go get it. And I was laying in 368 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,199 Speaker 2: bed because I was super bummed and we'd been like 369 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 2: binging like rom coms all day. 370 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:57,360 Speaker 3: That made me more bummed. And he came back and he. 371 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 2: Was like, I was like, what is it? Just give 372 00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 2: me what is it before you walk through my bedroom doors. 373 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 2: And he's like, you're not gonna be happy. And I 374 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 2: was like, oh God. 375 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:10,159 Speaker 3: Lay it on me. I mean not on me, like 376 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 3: lay it next to me. Put it next to me. 377 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:16,400 Speaker 2: And when he walked through the door, it wasn't red roses, 378 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:21,719 Speaker 2: it wasn't flowers. It was a plant, you guys. It 379 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 2: was a friggin plant. And I'm like, and I'm not 380 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 2: talking like you know now there's like really cool plants 381 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 2: and like succulents, like if a boy sent me a 382 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 2: succulent Now I would be like chic, But it wasn't that. 383 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 2: It was like back then, And it wasn't even like 384 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 2: a fiddlely fig. 385 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 3: It wasn't. It was like a fern or something. I 386 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 3: don't know. 387 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 2: It wasn't a fern. I'm being dramatic. It wasn't a 388 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 2: sexy plant, let me put it that way. And it 389 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 2: was from him. I don't remember what the card said, 390 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 2: but it didn't matter at that point. So my thing is, 391 00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 2: what does that mean? A guy said sends you something, 392 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 2: so he's acknowledging you guys are something. You have some 393 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 2: sort of like between you guys that's romantic. But he 394 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 2: doesn't send you flowers. He sends you a plant. Is 395 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 2: he saying. 396 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 3: We're just friends? 397 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 2: Is he saying we're friends with benefits but not even 398 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 2: like the benefit of like something that's flowering, which is 399 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 2: the whole point of benefits. 400 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 3: I don't know. Do you guys have an opinion? 401 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 5: Well? 402 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 1: I am curious what did the cards say, because that's 403 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 1: very telling. 404 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,199 Speaker 6: If he was just like happy Valentine's. 405 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 1: Day, or he was like, may our relationship grow like 406 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,159 Speaker 1: this plant, I mean. 407 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 3: It would be I just throw my mouth. 408 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:45,359 Speaker 6: That would be very telling. What the intention was. 409 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 3: I don't know. 410 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,639 Speaker 2: It was like a weed or something, which is like 411 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 2: our relationship which was dead a year later. 412 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 6: Okay, back it up, back it up, back it up. 413 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:56,160 Speaker 6: You get a plant. 414 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 1: You have no recollection of what the card says. 415 00:21:58,680 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 4: I do. 416 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 2: I kind of it said something very generic. It was 417 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 2: handwritten by him, and I think it was like happy 418 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, love. 419 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: V Okay, Yeah, but he didn't ask you out to 420 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:15,920 Speaker 1: do anything that weekend. 421 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 3: Oh, it was Saturday night. 422 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 2: He went out with his friends Friday and Saturday night 423 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 2: Sunday night. I would always go over to his house 424 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 2: or afternoon watch football with him. 425 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,200 Speaker 3: Which really I hate it, but I would just like cook. 426 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 3: That was fun. 427 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 2: I would either make dinner for Sunday night, or we 428 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 2: would order in, or we'd go see a movie at 429 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 2: the Lumli does not even exist. But he was like 430 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 2: cool in arts scene and we were into art films. 431 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:40,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. 432 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:44,400 Speaker 6: Okay, so wait, did you go to his house that Sunday? 433 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 3: Uh huh? 434 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 1: And was Valentine's Day referenced or were you like, oh 435 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: my god, thank you for the beautiful plant. 436 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,440 Speaker 6: Like what happened. 437 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 2: In true tory form. I have the best memory out there. 438 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:00,440 Speaker 1: Yep. 439 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 2: I conveniently have forgotten that part because it was probably 440 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 2: I probably didn't acknowledge it. I probably said thank you 441 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 2: so much for the plant. I love it. It was beautiful. 442 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:14,199 Speaker 3: I don't know. 443 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 2: Maybe it was one of those plants where it does 444 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 2: flower at some point. 445 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 3: I don't think so. I really don't think so. 446 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 6: Well, you remember feeling crappy, so it probably. 447 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:28,919 Speaker 2: I remember feeling really shitty and to that point. I 448 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 2: would never don't ever get a girl that you like 449 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 2: a plant, because it just it sends really mixed messages 450 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 2: that you're not that like, you're not indoor enough to 451 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 2: send flowers, so you're gonna send her something because you 452 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 2: want to. Still, I don't know, yeah, it really look 453 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:51,639 Speaker 2: at it. It stayed with me all these years. I 454 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 2: don't think he and I ever talked about it, and 455 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,400 Speaker 2: we stayed friends, like I don't even think. 456 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,640 Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe we could call him, maybe we should. 457 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 2: I'm going to text him and be like, he won't remember. 458 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,640 Speaker 2: I'll be like, if you remember Valentine's say, you send 459 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 2: me a plant? What did that mean? 460 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 6: Yep? I would I'd love you to do that, that 461 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,120 Speaker 6: would be awesome, I will. 462 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:14,399 Speaker 2: Okay, So a year later, by then I think we 463 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:19,359 Speaker 2: were definitely like more committed. Let's say, because if I 464 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 2: can reference pictures in my brain, we would go to 465 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 2: events where there would be like a press. 466 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 3: Line and stuff and he would hold my hands, so 467 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 3: pictures were taken. 468 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:33,919 Speaker 2: So it was like, Okay, we're confirming we're together. I 469 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 2: feel like we went to a movie premiere. 470 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 1: By the way, Can I just interject and say, I 471 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: think that is so funny that that is how celebrities 472 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 1: confirm their dating. 473 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 6: You know, like you're wondering, Oh, I wonder if he's 474 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:48,919 Speaker 6: serious or not. 475 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: But then if he's willing to be photographed on the 476 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 1: press line with you, you're like, okay, this is your score. 477 00:24:55,280 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 3: I'm his oh man. And people I wonder like, how 478 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 3: could she have no self worth? She's a celebrity, Like, hello, 479 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:09,399 Speaker 3: yeah he was. He was very nice. 480 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: Well we'll see how nice as you finished the story, 481 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: I'll be the judge of nice. 482 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:15,439 Speaker 6: Go ahead. 483 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 2: So I believe the following Valentine's Day, we again had 484 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 2: been photographed out like I wasn't. 485 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:30,400 Speaker 3: A secret anymore. 486 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 6: Oh my god. 487 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 3: But I think even. 488 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 2: To this day, he'll say, you know, it was a 489 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,120 Speaker 2: it was a dicey situation that I was always mindful 490 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 2: of because. 491 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 3: It was a big opportunity. 492 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,879 Speaker 2: I'm on nine O two one zero and later like 493 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 2: I'm dating the boss's daughter. But there's no reference to it. 494 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,399 Speaker 2: And he's like, I was worried, like I was. You know, 495 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:57,120 Speaker 2: he was worried for job security, and so we kind 496 00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 2: of but communicate security. 497 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: He should have sent you like a garden of flowers. 498 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 2: I think he was worried that if my dad found 499 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 2: out that he was dating me, that he wouldn't want 500 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,360 Speaker 2: him on the show. But my dad was the opposite. 501 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 2: He loved me dating leading men. He loved me dating actors. 502 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 2: Like he didn't know anything besides actors, so like that 503 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,720 Speaker 2: was his world. He wanted to like keep it contained, 504 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 2: like Okay, I know my dad was so old fashioned 505 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,160 Speaker 2: yet so like I don't know, not with it at 506 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 2: the times, like it's the worst to be like dating 507 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 2: an actor, like, oh, I don't wish that any girl 508 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 2: like and but he thought like, oh, she's safe if 509 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 2: she's dating an actor. 510 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 3: You know, I didn't know. 511 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 1: And especially one on his cast where he could be 512 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 1: like you know, have you guys on his radar? 513 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 2: Right, But I think, like to Vince's defense, like we 514 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 2: didn't have the best communication in our relationship and we 515 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 2: never talked about that, and he didn't know how my 516 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 2: dad felt, you know, like we'd done things with my 517 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,679 Speaker 2: family and stuff. But I don't know. I think he 518 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,680 Speaker 2: was just worried whatever. I'm defending him for no reason, 519 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 2: like he didn't do anything wrong. But anyway, a year later, 520 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 2: we were committed. We were well, we didn't talk about 521 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 2: being committed, but he held my hand in public. So whooo, 522 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 2: so it's confirmed the bitches, he's off the market. No, yeah, 523 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 2: And anyway, it was fashion Week and I have to 524 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 2: check this. 525 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, this line's up. 526 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 2: It's New York Fashion Week right right now, kind of 527 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 2: leading into Valentine's Day. And I was in New York 528 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 2: going to fashion Week with my mom, and my mom 529 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 2: had said, would you want to go to Fashion Week? 530 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, that would be so cool, 531 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,880 Speaker 2: Like I'd done Fashion Week before, but with. 532 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,640 Speaker 3: My mom that's kind of iconic, like. 533 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:56,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go, let's do it together. And Maron was 534 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,199 Speaker 2: in New York at the time and some other friends 535 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,919 Speaker 2: and he just had We had the best time. But 536 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 2: I remember that it was Saturday night and it was 537 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,400 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, I think I or it was, or maybe 538 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 2: it wasn't quite Valentine's Day, but it was. The Playboy 539 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 2: Mansion was having like their Valentine's Day party, and we 540 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 2: had gone to ones before at the Playboy Mansion, like 541 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 2: it was the thing to do at the time, and 542 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 2: every actor and actress you always win. It was fun 543 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,159 Speaker 2: and he was going though, but he wasn't going. I 544 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 2: wasn't going to be with him with all our friends, 545 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 2: like I was in New York and I was super worried. 546 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 2: And yet I've always been the girl that pretended not 547 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 2: to be jealous but would just like cringe inside but 548 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 2: wouldn't communicate it because I didn't want to be like 549 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 2: that girl that was like nagging. 550 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 3: I'm still like that, so I. 551 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 6: Think a lot of women are like exactly, yeah. 552 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 3: So yeah. 553 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:57,959 Speaker 2: So I just remember saying like, Okay, have fun, but 554 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 2: we do me a favor. I don't care how late 555 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,719 Speaker 2: it is, will you just call me when you get home, like, 556 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 2: and he was like yeah, So that was like our thing, 557 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 2: And I was proud of myself that I didn't stand 558 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 2: up for myself and say, you know, I felt nervous 559 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 2: about him being there with women all over him, because 560 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 2: even when I was there with him, you know, women 561 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 2: would be all over him. So I'm like, oh god. 562 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 2: And anyway, long story short, he didn't call. He never called, 563 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 2: and I was like, I don't know. I was like, okay, 564 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 2: that's it, and yeah, that was it. 565 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:38,760 Speaker 6: You broke up with him? 566 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 3: Well, I didn't tell him because we didn't communicate, So I. 567 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 6: Just so you just ignored him on set or. 568 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 3: No. Two had ended by then, okay, by the year later, so. 569 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,120 Speaker 6: You just never called him back. 570 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:57,959 Speaker 3: We talked after that. 571 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 2: We saw each other a couple times where he wanted 572 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 2: to try to work things out. And you know what, 573 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 2: here's the thing about me is I will stay and 574 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 2: I will stay until and all my friends are like, 575 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 2: with the wrong guy, what are you doing? Don't stay, 576 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 2: don't stay. But when I am done, when I am truly, 577 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 2: truly done, and it has to be on my time, 578 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 2: and it's usually to the point where it's like everyone's like, 579 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,560 Speaker 2: why wasn't she done three years ago? 580 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 3: For five or six or ten. 581 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 2: I when I'm done, I'm done, and I don't go 582 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 2: back so at that point, I really we'd kind of 583 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 2: been going through this back and forth and I was 584 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 2: just like, I don't want to feel worried and jealous 585 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:44,240 Speaker 2: and I want more of a commitment and I don't know. Yeah, 586 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 2: I was done and that was it for you, thank you, 587 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 2: and then I went home from New York. 588 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 3: Oh, I was that's it. 589 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 2: I was supposed to stay like the rest of the 590 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 2: week in New York doing Fashion Week, like more of 591 00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 2: Fashion Week, but I got the call that Scary Movie Too. 592 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 2: And I'd been auditioning like over and over, been like 593 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 2: two months. We hadn't heard anything. So I was like, oh, 594 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 2: I didn't get the role. And I got a call 595 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,680 Speaker 2: from my agent saying, we just got a call Scary 596 00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 2: Movie Too. You got the part of Alex and they 597 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 2: want you to start rehearsal and then start filming and 598 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 2: you have to be home tomorrow. And I was like, 599 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 2: oh my god. And my mom was super cool. She 600 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 2: had already paid for this whole trip and like we 601 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 2: had all these things lined up to go see and 602 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,480 Speaker 2: I was like, Mom, I got the job. I have 603 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 2: to go home. Terrified of flying so I couldn't just 604 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 2: fly home and she would stay and she offered to 605 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 2: go with me back home, and yeah, and then I 606 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 2: started scaring movie too, which was great. So I was 607 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 2: so lost in that that I didn't have time to 608 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 2: worry about like, h should I get back together with Vince? 609 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 3: What should I do? Which I do? I was just like. 610 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 2: Oof, kind of the best revenge in a way big 611 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 2: feature film. 612 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't need you. I'm starting a movie. 613 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, thinking about it, I'm still mad about it. I'm 614 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 2: still mad about the plant, that's all. I'm not even 615 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 2: mad that he went to the Playboy Mansion party. I'm 616 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 2: pissed about the fucking plants. 617 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 3: Like, so I was question about the plant, Yeah. 618 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:18,480 Speaker 6: Did you keep it? Did you thrown into garbage? 619 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 1: Might still have and you don't even realize that is 620 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 1: the plant he gave you a million years ago and 621 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 1: it's still alive somewhere. 622 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. I call myself Tori of all trades. 623 00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 2: I can really do anything that is uh making. 624 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:38,720 Speaker 3: Stuff, except I. 625 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 2: Do not have a green thumb. I'm a plant killer. 626 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 2: I cannot keep a plant alive to save my life. 627 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 2: Like it's it's I'm notorious like for killing plants, and 628 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 2: I've been given plants that people say impossible to I 629 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 2: killed a fucking cactus once. They were like, impossible to kill. 630 00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 2: That cactus was dead a week later, like it's it's 631 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 2: where plants go to die my house, Like it's OK. 632 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:08,400 Speaker 2: No one give me a plant ever, it will not survive. 633 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:12,120 Speaker 6: Hey, keep five kids alive, that's all. 634 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 3: That's good enough. That's right. 635 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 2: I can keep children alive. I can keep animals alive. 636 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 2: I cannot keep a plant alive. But I think I 637 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 2: wouldn't have thrown away because to me, I would have 638 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:28,479 Speaker 2: put emotional like feelings on the plant and attachment and 639 00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 2: be like, oh no, it's a living thing. 640 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 3: I can't throw it away. 641 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 6: It feelings will be hurt if I throw it away. 642 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, exactly. 643 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,080 Speaker 2: I did have one plant that did stay alive for 644 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:46,200 Speaker 2: many years, and that was the only one. And I 645 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 2: moved that plant in little pieces, like it would have 646 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 2: one like piece left and I would like find but 647 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 2: it had roots and like half of it was gone, 648 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 2: and I'd move it to each apartment. That plant's name 649 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 2: was Oscar. I don't think Oscar survived beyond like our 650 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 2: seventeenth move, but he was he was there for a 651 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,640 Speaker 2: long time, right. 652 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:11,840 Speaker 6: So what happened to this plant? 653 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,880 Speaker 3: I don't know. I can't even remember the type of plants. 654 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:16,120 Speaker 3: I don't remember. 655 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 1: You blocked it out, I've blocked it. 656 00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,960 Speaker 2: It's like down there, deep with like repressed childhood memories. 657 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:23,400 Speaker 3: I don't know. 658 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:27,400 Speaker 6: Maybe that's why you killed plants because of that. 659 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:34,840 Speaker 2: Whoa, Right, this goes deeper. Maybe this is linked to 660 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 2: why I don't drink water. 661 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 6: That's a stretch. But okay, I'll go there with you, 662 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:44,440 Speaker 6: aren't we. 663 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 3: God, you know I love a good pun. 664 00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:49,839 Speaker 7: I'm so. 665 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:53,359 Speaker 3: Girl crushing on you right now, Lauren. 666 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 2: Okay, yes, But to keep a plant alive, you have 667 00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,479 Speaker 2: to feed it for you have to give it water. 668 00:34:59,680 --> 00:34:59,879 Speaker 3: Right. 669 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 2: I don't get myself water. It's like a form of 670 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 2: self sabotage. So maybe, yeah, when you went there, you said, 671 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,320 Speaker 2: maybe that's a form of why I don't keep plants 672 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,080 Speaker 2: alive because I feel like I can't. 673 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:11,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. 674 00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're going too far here, all right. Yeah, it's 675 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 2: not that deep. Yeough, It's just a plant, just another 676 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 2: fucking holiday, right. I think if I really had to 677 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 2: think about it, I probably wouldn't have thrown it away. 678 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 3: I felt like I had to keep it. I probably 679 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 3: put it in Kevin's room. 680 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,040 Speaker 6: Uh, that makes sense. 681 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 2: Where at the time, Yeah, you know my roommate Kevin 682 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:36,720 Speaker 2: huge dentists. 683 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 3: Now great guy sober got his shit together. 684 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 2: But during that time, inadvertently, that plant probably saw so 685 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 2: much porn and hookers and cocaine that it probably died. 686 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,399 Speaker 2: But it wasn't in my hands. Wasn't it my hands? 687 00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 2: Or the plant had a really good time bird's eye view, We. 688 00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 7: Don't no, It's that time of year. Valentine's Day is 689 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 7: coming up soon. Listen to I Do Part two if 690 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 7: you want to find love by February fourteenth, Our talented 691 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 7: and Why celebrity experts know a lot about love because 692 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 7: they've screwed it up a couple of times, but now 693 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 7: they're learning from each other and getting it right. You 694 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,360 Speaker 7: can too. I do Part two as the lesson in 695 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,799 Speaker 7: love you need. If you're alone on Valentine's and you 696 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:21,239 Speaker 7: haven't been listening, that's on you. 697 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,399 Speaker 8: Listen to I Do Part two on America's number one 698 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:27,880 Speaker 8: podcast network, iHeart Open, the Free I Heeart app and 699 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:33,880 Speaker 8: search I Do Part two and start listening. 700 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 1: All right, so we've heard about one of your worst 701 00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day stories. 702 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:40,799 Speaker 6: How about sharing a. 703 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 1: Positive Valentine's Valentine's Day story? What is a happy memory 704 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 1: of Valentine's Day? 705 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:52,680 Speaker 2: Oh okay, I got this one. This is a good one. 706 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 2: So on Valentine's Day twenty and eleven, I found out 707 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 2: I was pregnant. I was pregnant with my third baby, 708 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 2: which is Hattie and Dean and I were filming our 709 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:10,480 Speaker 2: reality show, Tory and Dean Home Sweet Hollywood. Liam and 710 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 2: Stella were like three and four. We never planned any 711 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 2: of our babies. We always felt like they came to 712 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,600 Speaker 2: us when when they wanted to, which is why ended 713 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 2: up with five. 714 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:23,920 Speaker 3: But it was all meant to be anyway. 715 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 2: We were opening our store inventory, which was like gifts 716 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:35,919 Speaker 2: and antiques and really great store that would probably still 717 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:37,920 Speaker 2: be there now, but I feel like at the time 718 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,160 Speaker 2: wasn't doing so well. Brick and Morris stores were kind 719 00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,960 Speaker 2: of on the outside anyway. I was also in the 720 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:50,160 Speaker 2: midst of doing photos and content for my party planning 721 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:57,920 Speaker 2: slash cookbook, which was called Celebratory, and I just the 722 00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:02,480 Speaker 2: list keeps going and yeah, So I was doing all 723 00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:07,080 Speaker 2: these things super super busy and never stopped. But like 724 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 2: all of a sudden, I was really really nauseous and 725 00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:13,720 Speaker 2: really sick. We were in I remember being in Joshua 726 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:17,360 Speaker 2: Tree and we were doing one of the photo shoots 727 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:21,719 Speaker 2: for Celebratory and all my friends came out there. The 728 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,719 Speaker 2: show came out to film the behind the scenes of it, 729 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,560 Speaker 2: and I was just we were antiquing because we were 730 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,800 Speaker 2: pulling stuff. They have such great antiquing and Joshua Tree. 731 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:34,680 Speaker 2: I think I had to rent like a U haul 732 00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 2: to get us back home because I found all this 733 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,799 Speaker 2: stuff that then I was going to put into inventory, 734 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,719 Speaker 2: because I always would tell myself that, like, oh my gosh, 735 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 2: I shouldn't be shopping. 736 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 3: I'd be like, and then I was like, but it's 737 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 3: for my store. 738 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,680 Speaker 2: So it put like two pieces in the store and 739 00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:55,719 Speaker 2: like twenty pieces in my home anyway, the store, but 740 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,359 Speaker 2: I was, so We're in Joshua Tree and I was 741 00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 2: super nauseous, and I remember I had to drive myself 742 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:06,200 Speaker 2: out to Joshua Tree and the team had gone ahead, 743 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 2: and like everybody was getting there separate. I was working 744 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 2: on something else, so I had to leave later to 745 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,320 Speaker 2: get there, and it's like a three three and a 746 00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:19,120 Speaker 2: half hour drive, and I remember calling them because on 747 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,400 Speaker 2: the way to the photoshoot and it was just me 748 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:25,239 Speaker 2: and my chicken Coco. And yep, me and my chicken Coco. 749 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 2: I was the first person to have like a pocket chicken. 750 00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:30,880 Speaker 2: I think of like you know, Paris Hilton has her 751 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,440 Speaker 2: cute little dog. I would bring my Cocoa everywhere. And 752 00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,400 Speaker 2: you remember her. She was white and fluffy and loved 753 00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:40,960 Speaker 2: to go everywhere. So Coco was with me in the car. 754 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 3: I remember you, I. 755 00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,160 Speaker 6: Just have to interduct. Didn't you used to dress her? 756 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:45,080 Speaker 3: I did? 757 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,239 Speaker 6: Yeah, she had a fab wardrobes. 758 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:50,479 Speaker 2: I remember, Oh my gosh, because I used to dress 759 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 2: my pug me me LaRue. 760 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:52,839 Speaker 3: Because she liked it. 761 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 2: People used to be like, that's so crazy way you 762 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 2: dress your dog. I was like, she likes it, Like 763 00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 2: she screams and runs to her little boudoir. 764 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:03,359 Speaker 3: We to pull her clothes out. She did. She loved it. 765 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:11,359 Speaker 2: But I remember putting Coco on Instagram and people saying, wait, no, 766 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 2: this is it. 767 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:12,920 Speaker 3: It was on Twitter. 768 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:16,280 Speaker 2: On Twitter, uh, someone reached out to me and said, 769 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:20,520 Speaker 2: Coco is so adorable. I make chicken sweaters. And I 770 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,440 Speaker 2: was just like, okay, hey, I don't believe her in anything. 771 00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,240 Speaker 2: But I was like, is this a joke? Like chicken sweaters, 772 00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,759 Speaker 2: and she was in Australia and she said, may I 773 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,200 Speaker 2: send Coco a few pieces? And I thought it was 774 00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,239 Speaker 2: so funny. I was grateful, but I thought it was 775 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 2: so funny. I was like Coco, I was like, you 776 00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:40,719 Speaker 2: have fans now, like you're sending you swag. She did. 777 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,960 Speaker 2: She send Coco sweaters, multiple ones, really really adorable sweaters, 778 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:48,759 Speaker 2: and Coco she wasn't mad. I always thought Coco was 779 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:52,279 Speaker 2: like Mimi LaRue, like reincarnated, because she liked to go 780 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:56,040 Speaker 2: everywhere with me. She didn't like to go outside like 781 00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 2: Mimi was like that. She was just like like to 782 00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,800 Speaker 2: snuggle and stay with me. Didn't to go and walks 783 00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 2: and stuff. And she liked to wear clothes, which mem did. 784 00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,880 Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, anyway, yeah, so she always was 785 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:11,279 Speaker 2: in a chicken sweater. Anyway. Oh so Cocoa and I 786 00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 2: were driving in the car and I was like starving, 787 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,000 Speaker 2: which should have been my first clothes pregnant, but I 788 00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:17,920 Speaker 2: was like, oh my gosh. 789 00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,400 Speaker 3: So I had to pull over at Taco. 790 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 2: Bell and go to the drive through, and if anyone 791 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 2: wants to know, I love Taco Bell to this day. Pregnant, 792 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,759 Speaker 2: not pregnant and I like a number one, so it's 793 00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,560 Speaker 2: a burrito Supreme. I'm that girl with a taco Supreme 794 00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,759 Speaker 2: and a drink. That's my order and I'm sticking to it. 795 00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god. I was so sad for years when 796 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,120 Speaker 2: they took away the Mexican pizza. But now it's back, 797 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:43,360 Speaker 2: you guys, So everything's good in my world. Anyway, I 798 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,400 Speaker 2: got it and I ate it and we're driving and 799 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:47,399 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I don't feel good. 800 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:48,719 Speaker 2: And now it's not because. 801 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:49,240 Speaker 3: I ate it fast. 802 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,799 Speaker 2: I don't really ate it fast, but I was like 803 00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:53,719 Speaker 2: I had to pull over and I was like vomiting 804 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,680 Speaker 2: on the side of the road, and I called my 805 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,239 Speaker 2: production team on Tori and Dean. I was like, oh 806 00:41:58,280 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 2: my gosh, you guys, I don't know if I'm going 807 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 2: to make it out there and the book people and everything. 808 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,160 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm throwing up everywhere, and they were like, 809 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 2: are you okay? Do you need to go home? And 810 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:07,480 Speaker 2: I was like no, I just I just need it 811 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,000 Speaker 2: a few minutes and then I'm going to you know, 812 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:13,680 Speaker 2: press on. Work is first, so so I waited and 813 00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,200 Speaker 2: I felt a little better. No Taco bell left behind, 814 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,600 Speaker 2: So then after I felt better, I did eat the 815 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:22,120 Speaker 2: Taco Supreme that I hadn't because I'd only eaten the 816 00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:24,400 Speaker 2: brit Of Supreme, and then Coco and I pressed on. 817 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,359 Speaker 2: But the whole weekend we're filming photos and everything doing 818 00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 2: and I was just like, I am so sick. I 819 00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:29,840 Speaker 2: don't know what's wrong with me. 820 00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:30,239 Speaker 3: I can't go. 821 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:34,239 Speaker 2: I remember one of my producers on Tori and Dean 822 00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 2: and she's like, do you think you're pregnant? 823 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:36,360 Speaker 3: I was like no. 824 00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,120 Speaker 2: I was like no, no, no, it's been three years between. 825 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,719 Speaker 2: You know, I had Liam and Stella fifteen months apart. Came, 826 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,640 Speaker 2: you know, they came and they wanted to and then 827 00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:46,400 Speaker 2: it had been a three year gap, and I was like, 828 00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:47,600 Speaker 2: you know, no, maybe it's. 829 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:48,360 Speaker 3: It's not going to happen. 830 00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 2: No, why wouldn't it Why wouldn't it have happened? So 831 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 2: I didn't think much of it. Got back from Joshua 832 00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 2: Tree and the next day it was Valentine's Day and 833 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,480 Speaker 2: we opened inventory on Valentine's. 834 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,960 Speaker 3: Day, which he thought was like a cool fun we had. 835 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:08,560 Speaker 2: The crew was filming it and we'd fight it like 836 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 2: all celebrity friends. And we opened up the doors and 837 00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:15,719 Speaker 2: all fans and shoppers came in and we had like 838 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,400 Speaker 2: a welcome party and there was champagne and cookies and 839 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:19,359 Speaker 2: florals and it was. 840 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:20,400 Speaker 3: Just all like done. 841 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,239 Speaker 2: But I was already so exhausted from this weekend of 842 00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,279 Speaker 2: filming all the content for Celebratory in my book and 843 00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:30,239 Speaker 2: then coming back opening a store and filming my TV 844 00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:34,200 Speaker 2: show opening the store. But after we had filmed everything, 845 00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:39,919 Speaker 2: the party was still going on for the store and 846 00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 2: I said to my producer, the same one that asked 847 00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 2: for when I was pregnant, I said, I'm really sick. 848 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,839 Speaker 2: I got and she's like, you're sick again. I was like, yeah, 849 00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:48,239 Speaker 2: I got to go home. I don't know what to do. 850 00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:52,640 Speaker 2: And so Dean was going to stay behind because we 851 00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,160 Speaker 2: owned the store together and he was going to welcome everybody. 852 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 2: And it was like the last thirty minutes of the party. 853 00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:01,640 Speaker 2: So I went home and she drove me home and 854 00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:04,160 Speaker 2: I said, you know what, I don't know. I think 855 00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,000 Speaker 2: I might be pregnant. And she was like, oh my god. 856 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:08,880 Speaker 2: So she got me home, put me in bed, and 857 00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:16,399 Speaker 2: got a pregnancy test. So we got it and then 858 00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:18,920 Speaker 2: it confirmed I was pregnant, and then I didn't believe it. 859 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 2: So I called Moran and I was like, this can't be. 860 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:24,880 Speaker 2: This is so bizarre, and he's like, it's you. Of 861 00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:27,680 Speaker 2: course it can be. And I said, okay, I need 862 00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,799 Speaker 2: another confirmation. So he brought five more tests over I think, 863 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,000 Speaker 2: and he stood outside the door and I took all 864 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:33,879 Speaker 2: of them and they were all. 865 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 3: I was pregnant. I was pregnant. I was pregnant. Okay. 866 00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 2: So then I was like, oh my gosh, it's Valentine's Day. 867 00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,920 Speaker 2: This would be the best reveal ever to Dean that 868 00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,960 Speaker 2: were pregnant. So I took one of my peace sticks 869 00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,480 Speaker 2: that said pregnant and I wrapped it up for a 870 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,279 Speaker 2: Valentine's gift. So when the party was over, it inventory. 871 00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:55,160 Speaker 2: He came home and he was exhausted and he was like, 872 00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 2: do you want to do anything for Valentine's Day? And 873 00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:01,239 Speaker 2: I was like no, And you know, being the toy 874 00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:04,680 Speaker 2: that I am, I told my my producer, and she 875 00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 2: was like, can we film like the reveal of it? 876 00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:11,160 Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, he already got to the 877 00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 2: natural way. We found out in secrecy together the two 878 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:14,799 Speaker 2: of us, Slam and Stella. 879 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 3: Thirder one where this you know, we can go for it. 880 00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:20,960 Speaker 2: So she said, okay, but we didn't tell the film 881 00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,239 Speaker 2: crew and we were just like cameras up when Deane 882 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:28,640 Speaker 2: gets home, and so they were all surprised as soon 883 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,080 Speaker 2: as we announced it. They were all like behind the 884 00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:31,840 Speaker 2: cameras they were. 885 00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:34,040 Speaker 3: Like what like everyone was like, oh my god. 886 00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,399 Speaker 2: But anyway, so I wrapped it up and he comes 887 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,440 Speaker 2: and he gets into bed and I was like, I 888 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,560 Speaker 2: have a Valentine's gift for you, and he was like, 889 00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:43,040 Speaker 2: oh my god, thank you so much. He thought it 890 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,440 Speaker 2: was a pen. I'm like, looking back, like would I 891 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:47,719 Speaker 2: ever give you a pen? And that's like that's like 892 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,640 Speaker 2: as bad as like giving someone like a plant, you know. 893 00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:54,160 Speaker 2: So anyway, he opened it and it was the peace 894 00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,520 Speaker 2: staking So I was pregnant and the rest is. 895 00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:59,040 Speaker 3: History because then we got our hattie cat. That's my 896 00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:00,520 Speaker 3: best Valentine's Day effort. 897 00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:04,759 Speaker 6: That is a great val baby love that. 898 00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:07,000 Speaker 3: Okay, So what. 899 00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:10,320 Speaker 2: Am I going to do this Valentine's Day? And Laurene, 900 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:13,120 Speaker 2: you know this with kids, like it's just it really 901 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:16,880 Speaker 2: does become their holiday, like they have already asked me. 902 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,239 Speaker 2: This started like weeks ago, like where are we going 903 00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 2: to go to dinner for Valentine's Day. 904 00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 905 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:26,160 Speaker 2: On the actual Valentine's Day, Bo has like a school 906 00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:30,880 Speaker 2: performance and they're doing all these songs about love. And 907 00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:35,320 Speaker 2: then he has his class party deliver all his Valentines, 908 00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:37,279 Speaker 2: and I have to get my ces candy. 909 00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:37,640 Speaker 3: For all the kids. 910 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 2: I have a very very busy day. I will not 911 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:44,080 Speaker 2: be distracted thinking about boys. 912 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:46,000 Speaker 3: That's a lie. 913 00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:50,319 Speaker 2: Slightly distracted thinking about boys because I always believe in 914 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:54,720 Speaker 2: love and that's a good thing. So, yeah, I'm single. 915 00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:59,160 Speaker 2: It's going to be Valentine's Day. I've started the tradition 916 00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:01,920 Speaker 2: that now my kids think gets their holiday, and I'm 917 00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:05,719 Speaker 2: okay with that for now. And because I'm a big 918 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:09,080 Speaker 2: believer in love, I will always be a believer in love. 919 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,840 Speaker 2: And plants just not in my house because I'll kill them. 920 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:14,560 Speaker 2: Oh we've ever told you, guys, I like to be 921 00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:16,800 Speaker 2: in plants. We'll save that for another episode. 922 00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:22,120 Speaker 3: Bye.