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Speaker 1: Do you guys ever in your relationships, you guys ever

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Speaker 1: have arguments like like this one right here, Like conversations

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Speaker 1: and I know the answer, Paulina, but otherwise, uh, conversations

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Speaker 1: like this from TikTok let me push the button.

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Speaker 2: Uh, like this one here?

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Speaker 3: If I died, would you remarry? Would I remarry? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I want my mother for our child. I wouldn't want

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Speaker 3: to have him grow up without a mom, of course,

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Speaker 3: I mean i'd try to remarry. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, then if you're going to remarry, are you

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Speaker 4: going to stay in our house?

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Speaker 3: That probably would be the easiest thing to do, if

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Speaker 3: it's a nice house. I couldn't afford another one, so yeah,

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Speaker 3: I probably just stay in the house.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, these are like this is like

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Speaker 1: a dead end, like there's no there's no right answer

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Speaker 1: for this. I mean, I guess the only right answer

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Speaker 1: is no, I would just if you died, I would

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Speaker 1: just I too would die or something, because like it's

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Speaker 1: just one questioning to another question that it's just a

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Speaker 1: deeper and deeper hole for this guy.

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Speaker 3: She can draw my car if maybe probably so, I

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Speaker 3: don't see why not. It's in it's in our name.

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Speaker 3: I would still have the car. It's paid for. I

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Speaker 3: don't want to buy another car.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, does makes sense?

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Speaker 3: Probably let her drive the car.

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Speaker 2: What about my stuff?

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Speaker 3: Like is she gonna wear my clothes? Is she gonna

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Speaker 3: wear your clothes? Yeah? No, I would never let her

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Speaker 3: wear your clothes. Thank you. That's where you draw the line.

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Speaker 3: That's where I draw the line.

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Speaker 1: There you go, So, so okay, after if something were

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Speaker 1: to happen to one of you, would you remarry? And

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Speaker 1: then would you live in the house? And then and

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Speaker 1: then it just goes from there. But what is the

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Speaker 1: point of this conversation, Like, because I think it's going

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Speaker 1: to do you don't You don't do this.

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Speaker 2: In hobby, Absolutely not. I don't belave with mortality, Like

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Speaker 2: you go through his phone, but you don't ask him.

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Speaker 1: Still you don't, you know, but you've also admitted, Paulina

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Speaker 1: that you get into silly arguments with him.

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Speaker 3: That you pick.

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Speaker 2: Well, then what do you mean absolutely not? This is

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Speaker 2: absolutely something you would do. He's not the line.

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Speaker 5: No, I think it's I got a kid, so like

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Speaker 5: I think of her, I'm like, well, I would want

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Speaker 5: him to remarry and a good person, a good woman

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Speaker 5: because I'm no longer going to be here physically. I'll

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Speaker 5: be here in other ways, but not physically yet. You

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Speaker 5: and I want I want someone to raise my daughter

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Speaker 5: or be, you know, a part of our family. And

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Speaker 5: in that way, it has to be a good woman,

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Speaker 5: a good person, Like that's that's crazy, Like to argue

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Speaker 5: about that, like you wear my clothes and drive my car,

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Speaker 5: Like what about your kids?

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 2: Like, I'm not worried about that, But I think.

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Speaker 1: This is pretty common that people have this thing, would

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Speaker 1: what would you do if I died?

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Speaker 2: Would you date again? Would you get married again?

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Speaker 1: And then people get mad about the answers, and it's

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Speaker 1: like these these are not real arguments, of course.

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Speaker 4: And if someone is wearing my clothes like that is

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Speaker 4: farther than anything for me. But I play games like

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Speaker 4: would you still think I'm pretty if I grew a

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Speaker 4: second nose right here?

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Speaker 2: Yes? What if I shave my head?

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Speaker 4: Those kinds of games more so than anything.

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Speaker 1: But do you want a real answer, like if you do?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So if he asked you if you shave your head,

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Speaker 1: would you still find me attractive? I mean, honestly, my

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Speaker 1: honest answer, and not about you, but for most people.

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Speaker 1: If you electively shave your head for no other reason,

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Speaker 1: but you made that choice, I would probably say I

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Speaker 1: wish you hadn't done that. So, like, obviously, if something happened,

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Speaker 1: if you get sick or whatever, that's that's very different.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, like if you just if you just

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Speaker 1: one day said I'm gonna shave my head, no, I

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Speaker 1: would say, no, don't do that. That doesn't make me

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Speaker 1: a bad guy, though, But I can see this being

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Speaker 1: an argument. Oh you wouldn't think I'm pretty anymore? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean absolutely maybe, But do you what do you want?

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Speaker 2: Do you want the right? Do you want a truthful answer,

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Speaker 2: or do you want the answer that you want to hear?

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Speaker 2: I want a truthful answer, So then you.

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Speaker 1: Don't so he can answer truthfully and you won't take

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Speaker 1: it out on him. Yeah, then what's the point of

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Speaker 1: asking a question?

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Speaker 2: Because I like to play fun little games.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you get you bored when you live with

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Speaker 4: someone for twenty four hours a day.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure that I believe that you wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: penalized for answering.

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Speaker 2: Well he answered correctly, so which is yeah, of course

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Speaker 2: I would. I would. I would be fine if you

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Speaker 2: saved your but I.

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Speaker 4: Know he doesn't take my hair short. I know he

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Speaker 4: likes my hair longer so than I do. No, he

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Speaker 4: didn't lie to me about the head shaving thing. He

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Speaker 4: told the truth. But he doesn't.

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Speaker 3: He likes me.

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Speaker 4: He prefers my hair longer than sure, he likes it

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Speaker 4: either way.

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Speaker 2: But I know that. And I told you he wouldn't

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Speaker 2: find you pretty if he shaved your head. No, he

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Speaker 2: said he would. He still finds me pretty. He doesn't

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Speaker 2: like you with short hair, but he'd be okay if

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Speaker 2: you shaved your head.

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Speaker 4: He's doing things I'm pretty with short hair. He has

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Speaker 4: a preference, which I know, and I'm mature enough to

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Speaker 4: be okay with. I want my hair short, so that's

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Speaker 4: what short see.

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Speaker 2: This is the kind of stuff I don't I just

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Don't ask me these questions. I don't

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Speaker 2: ask me questions. Is it logical?

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Speaker 1: I know it's like, I'm sorry, but I don't like

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Speaker 1: your short hair, but shave it. Come on, he's going

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Speaker 1: to answer it. He's going to tell you that you're wonderful,

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Speaker 1: as you probably should. He's going to tell you're wonderful

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Speaker 1: no matter what you do. But I don't think that's

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Speaker 1: the truth.

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Speaker 4: I do believe he would think I'm pretty either way,

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Speaker 4: I do believe that in my heart of hearts. Do

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Speaker 4: I think it's his preference for me to shave my head? No,

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Speaker 4: but it was a funny little game while we were

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Speaker 4: washing dishes, and then we moved on, and I said,

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Speaker 4: what if I grew a nose on my cheek?

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Speaker 2: I don't like these games. I don't like these games.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't like these games because I don't care.

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Speaker 1: I'm either lying in it or I'm telling you I don't,

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Speaker 1: I say.

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Speaker 2: Ask.

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Speaker 1: My point though, is I don't think he's wind up

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Speaker 1: being fun because I'm the person yet, right, because I

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Speaker 1: think sometimes if you I mean, okay, So like she's

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Speaker 1: I know this is a bit for TikTok, but she's

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Speaker 1: kind of annoyed, like, oh, really, you'd remarri but I

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Speaker 1: mean you're.

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Speaker 2: Dead, You're gone, Like, I don't know. I don't want

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Speaker 2: to play this game.

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Speaker 3: This.

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Speaker 2: No, he's way too honest for this. I would be crying.

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Speaker 2: But that's what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Like, you want your man to be honest, you want

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Speaker 1: your party to be honest, but then you're asking questions

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Speaker 1: that you don't really want the answer to I'm famous

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Speaker 1: for this.

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Speaker 2: I asked questions. Of course I can, but I'm admitting.

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Speaker 1: I'm admitting that I asked questions I don't want the

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Speaker 1: about it. I'm being fully honest about the whole thing,

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Speaker 2: So it's dumb.

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Speaker 1: So it's dumb because then I could do it because

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be angry if you lied to me. But

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Speaker 1: then i'd be angry if if I found out you

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Speaker 1: lied to me. So so the point is it's a

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Speaker 1: stupid game. Yes, I don't think anybody should be playing it. No, Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: well I wasn't talking about you specifically.

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Speaker 2: Said nobody should be playing it. Okay. Someone said you

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Speaker 2: skip the best part of the end. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I got enough of a clip, does Mike, But I can.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who would do this in your relationship,

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Speaker 1: either one of you. No, we don't. I'm the complete

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Speaker 1: opposite of you.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to ask questions, I don't want answers to,

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Speaker 6: and I don't want to give him the least little.

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Speaker 2: Bit of out to get me out of his house.

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Speaker 2: So you don't ask anything about.

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Speaker 6: How would one question would get you out of his

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Speaker 6: house if if he died?

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Speaker 2: What would happen if he died? I'm out on the

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Speaker 2: street period. Wow. So yeah, I mean that's a shame.

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Speaker 6: Exactly why I don't ask the questions I don't want

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Speaker 6: an answer to because I don't want to know my fate.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't want to torture myself. It's hard,

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Speaker 2: it's hard to say. I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to make this like gender specific, but

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Speaker 1: I don't. I feel like in male female relationships, in

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Speaker 1: many not all, men get trapped in this question and

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Speaker 1: answer game where we know what you want to hear,

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Speaker 1: but it's not necessarily the truth, and you know that,

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Speaker 1: but you still ask the question anyway, you know, But

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Speaker 1: it's like these hypothetical arguments and then it becomes a

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Speaker 2: Isn't a real thing. Yeah, oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: So it's easier if I just say, if I just

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Speaker 1: lie to you, but then I'm lying. And I think

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Speaker 1: I think when people ask if I grew a third

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Speaker 1: nose on the side of my face, would you think

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Speaker 1: that was hot?

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Speaker 2: I think most people know that if you.

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Speaker 1: Somehow grew a third nose or a second nose, if

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Speaker 1: you had three noses.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how many people would think that was hot.

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Speaker 1: Really, but you were expecting him to tell you you're

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Speaker 1: hot no matter what you do, because that's the entry

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Speaker 1: you want to hear. But that is not, in fact,

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Speaker 1: the truthful answer. Right, So I don't like this game.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't play this game added to the Constitution. No,

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Speaker 1: but don't play dumb hypothetical games unless you're willing to

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Speaker 1: be lied to. I mean, you see, there you go.

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Speaker 1: Since someone says, no wonder Fred is single? Right, I'm

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Speaker 1: single because I would tell the truth to a dumb game.

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Speaker 5: You can't grow three noses, right, So you're right.

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Speaker 1: I am single because I won't lie in a stupid game. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's right, you're right, that's exactly right. Yeah, I would

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Speaker 1: think it was weird if you have three nosed Guess

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Speaker 1: I would. I would, And that's the truth. And I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: You can dump me then it's fine. Headline, it's the

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