WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Elderly Women be Just as Crazy

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels second date up today. Some guys like older women.

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<v Speaker 1>I know for myself personally, I've always been looking for

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<v Speaker 1>an eighty to eighty five year old lady with a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of money in the bank account who doesn't mind

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<v Speaker 1>having somebody just hang out at her house and clean

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<v Speaker 1>it all day long and maybe go play golf when

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<v Speaker 1>she's away, you know, things like that. Hopefully she's a

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<v Speaker 1>really poor health as well. Yeah, that would help too,

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<v Speaker 1>But unfortunately she's not out there for me, at least

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't found her yet. And there are a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of women that don't like younger guys. They feel awkward

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<v Speaker 1>about dating a younger guy. And that is the problem

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<v Speaker 1>that I think Tommy is having. Tommy is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second date update today, and he went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with a girl who's a little older

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<v Speaker 1>than him. Tommy, how you doing? I've been better to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, sound sighted. So what's the girl's name that

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<v Speaker 1>you want us to call today? Well, I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't call her a girl. She's older than you. What's

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<v Speaker 1>this woman's name? Her name is Carrie? Carrie, And before

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<v Speaker 1>we get into your date, how much older is she

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<v Speaker 1>and you? Six? Years, So I don't think it's that

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<v Speaker 1>big of a difference, honestly. And how old are How

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<v Speaker 1>old are you? Because I mean six years I think

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<v Speaker 1>is different at twenty compared to twenty six. Yeah I'm

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<v Speaker 1>twenty six actually, so she's thirty two right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's that huge. So tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about how you met her. We met online, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>volunteering at retirement home. Was that I thought two year

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<v Speaker 1>olds watch she actually knows how to use the internet

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<v Speaker 1>at her age. What attracted you to her? She's cute

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<v Speaker 1>and she has red hair, and I really liked that

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. She was really funny, she's very outgoing, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we exchanged a few emails. Everything was really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Finally I was like, hey, do you want to meet up?

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<v Speaker 1>And and we had talked about bowling and she seemed

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<v Speaker 1>excited about that, so I said, yeah, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go bowling? So, and did she know your age when

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<v Speaker 1>you guys started this conversation? Yeah, it's on my profile Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so she knew what she was getting into. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's insane right because she's her redhead and red hair.

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<v Speaker 1>She's an old, insane lady. You want to call this woman,

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<v Speaker 1>tom Yeah, yeah, I'm sure. All right, tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more about bowling. We had a great time,

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<v Speaker 1>We had a drink, we played two games. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>everything seemed to be to be going really well. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I said at the end, you know, hey, do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do you want to grab another drink?

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, no, I can't do it. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>little tired and I have an early morning tomorrow. But

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<v Speaker 1>the thing about old women, they get tired at any point.

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<v Speaker 1>Tommy didn't. Did you guys have a moment where your

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<v Speaker 1>age came up or there was a difference in it

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<v Speaker 1>was all just pretty light and easy, like everything was

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<v Speaker 1>really good, you know, I didn't. I didn't get a

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<v Speaker 1>sense that there was any strangeness. There was no age gap.

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<v Speaker 1>In my opinion, we felt like peers. So she said

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<v Speaker 1>she had to go home. She said she had to

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<v Speaker 1>go home. And then after the date she text me

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, I had a really good time, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think I might be too old for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I just texted her back and I said, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not an issue for me. I would really like

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<v Speaker 1>to see you again. And nothing, no response at all, none, no,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she just can't figure out how to work the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, it's a rotary phone. So you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>exact reason why she doesn't want to see you. She

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<v Speaker 1>feels like she's too old for you. But you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second date update, Yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>really want to go out with her again, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to convince her that my age doesn't really matter,

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<v Speaker 1>like we had a good time. Age ain't none but

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<v Speaker 1>a number, and then we could probably play who is

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<v Speaker 1>that Aliyah? Yeah, we could probably play that song for

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<v Speaker 1>you even But you want to tell her not to

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<v Speaker 1>worry about the age and go out with you again.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's ridiculous. We have a connection and that

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be the reason that we don't see each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you not prepared? Tommy? Though? If it's for reasons

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<v Speaker 1>like she wants to have kids, or she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>get married or that kind of stuff, I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's the right girl, then yeah, you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to say I'm ready to get married to her,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, those are definitely things that I see

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<v Speaker 1>in my future. And so if that's what she's worried about,

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<v Speaker 1>if she's the right person, then Yeah, six years is

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<v Speaker 1>not going to prevent that from opening. Dating an older

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<v Speaker 1>woman doesn't bother you at all. No, And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even see her as an older woman, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>she maybe has a complex about being six years older

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<v Speaker 1>than I am. So all right, we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, get her on the phone, and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second day update. Okay, yeah, please, all right? Brooking jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning date. Hey, Tommy, Yeah, I'm gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>your call for the second day update in just a second.

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<v Speaker 1>But while i'm doing it, I want you to think

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<v Speaker 1>about something. Okay, Okay. When I get her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and while I'm talking to her, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to be thinking about all of the positives that there

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<v Speaker 1>are to dating a younger dude as opposed to dudes

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<v Speaker 1>her age. Right, what do you have that these old

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<v Speaker 1>guys don't have? You got more stamina? Probably, student loan debt,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe worst credit, probably probably credits worse, you know, but

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<v Speaker 1>find a way to turn those into a positive when

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<v Speaker 1>you get her on the phone. If you're just doing

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<v Speaker 1>it for the second day update, Tommy went out with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl who is older than he is. She actually

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<v Speaker 1>texted him after they went out and said that she

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<v Speaker 1>thinks that he he is too young for her, so

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't want to see him again. Tommy's goal here

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<v Speaker 1>is to get her on the phone, find out if

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<v Speaker 1>that actually is the problem or if there's more to it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then see if he can still get a date

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<v Speaker 1>with her, because he says that age shouldn't matter. The

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<v Speaker 1>age is irrelevant to me. I really do think it's

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<v Speaker 1>irrelevant like that to me sounds like just a poor excuse.

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<v Speaker 1>And you do really like her. It's not just a

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<v Speaker 1>something you know, you want what you can't have type

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<v Speaker 1>of situation totally. I mean, I wouldn't go through all

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<v Speaker 1>this trouble if it was kind of, you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>sort of a lukewarm date, like we had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good connection. And I hate her. I hate her, that's why.

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<v Speaker 1>Then show her despise this lady people who only want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to them to figure out what's wrong with them,

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<v Speaker 1>not necessarily because they really wanted to see him again.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Tommy, here we go. I'm gonna doll the

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<v Speaker 1>phone him right now. Okay, Okay, cool? Hello? Hey is

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<v Speaker 1>Carrie there? Yeah? This is hey Carrie. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is j Bowl from brook and Jebil in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning the rains. Yeah, I'm calling you because you recently

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date with one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>and he's been trying to get a hold of you

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<v Speaker 1>but he can't, so he asked us to call you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he goes by the name Tommy, and you and him

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed a little bowling action. Yeah, what is this? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Tommy told us a little bit about your date, and

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<v Speaker 1>he also said that you texted him the other day

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<v Speaker 1>and said that you think that you're too old for him.

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<v Speaker 1>So he emailed us in hopes that we could get

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<v Speaker 1>you on the phone and ask if that's really the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why. I mean, he was really nice, he was great.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like I enjoyed meeting him. I just did

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<v Speaker 1>you know that he was six years younger than you

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<v Speaker 1>before you went out with him? Though? Yeah? So why, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>to me, that would make me think that there's something else,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you just don't want to see him. If you

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<v Speaker 1>already knew that he was younger than you, why would

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<v Speaker 1>you even go out on the first date. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean people can surprise you, you know. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>went into it hoping that he was going to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of fit what I'm looking for. What are you kicking

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<v Speaker 1>for right now? Oh? God, the radio now telling us

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<v Speaker 1>everybody about what I'm looking for. Um, I'm getting older,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I'm I just you know, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a plan and i'd like to be pregnant by the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the year. W year, but like by the

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<v Speaker 1>end of a year from now. And Carrie, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>that old. Tommy sounds like a young, virile man to me.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want to maybe see if Tommy could be

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<v Speaker 1>the guy to do that for you. I've got the goods.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he's great, like I said, I mean totally

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<v Speaker 1>like a great guy, you know, and really cure and fine,

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<v Speaker 1>like we had a good time. I don't think he's

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<v Speaker 1>where I want him to be. You're ready to have

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<v Speaker 1>kids right away, and you think Tommy's maybe a little

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<v Speaker 1>too immature for you. Well, I mean okay, like he's

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<v Speaker 1>not as tall as he said he's gonna be, and

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<v Speaker 1>like that's important to me when I'm saying, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very short. I want my children to not have

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<v Speaker 1>that day straight. You don't like you think that he's

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<v Speaker 1>too short, and you don't like his genetics. Look, I

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<v Speaker 1>told him, I mean I think I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>did it like nicer. I mean, he's a great guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's great for somebody, but for somebody who's paranoid

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<v Speaker 1>about my kids being short little trolls, and that's and

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<v Speaker 1>that's a reflection of me, not him. Right, So you're

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<v Speaker 1>sizing up guys that you go out with based on

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<v Speaker 1>they're height and everything else because you want to have

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<v Speaker 1>a kid that is like a certain way. Look, my

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<v Speaker 1>family is sure and I'm trying to stop this awful

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<v Speaker 1>Did he did he lie in his dating profile? Is

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<v Speaker 1>he a lot shorter than he said? Oh? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean his dating profile said he was like five to eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, great, that works for me because

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's not extremely tall, but he was very

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<v Speaker 1>person like me. That's that's exciting. And he turned out

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<v Speaker 1>to be like five to seven, making like five six.

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<v Speaker 1>But don't you think, I mean, like I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's a timeline you want to meet, the timeline

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<v Speaker 1>you want to have the babies. Do you care about

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<v Speaker 1>the husband, because from the sounds of it, it it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you're looking for a sperm donor. I've thought about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it does seem like it's more fun to do

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<v Speaker 1>it the old fashioned way. All right, So when I

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<v Speaker 1>go back and talk to Tommy and tell him what

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<v Speaker 1>you said, do you want me to leave out the

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<v Speaker 1>part about him being short and having horrible genetics and

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<v Speaker 1>you just wanted to tell him because he's too young. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want him to be hurt. All right? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>unfortunately I can't do that because Tommy's on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious right now? Is it really the reason

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<v Speaker 1>for me? I'm really sorry that you heard this this way.

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<v Speaker 1>I never meant for this. I'm five nine, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where this five six is coming. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking for some tall guy, you're totally disregarding every single

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<v Speaker 1>other feature that I have. Like I was a high

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<v Speaker 1>school athlete, I was a college athlete, I played tennis.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no one in my family who does not have

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<v Speaker 1>a full head of hair. You're gonna meet a tall

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<v Speaker 1>guys himself, What do you think about that? I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you're looking for something that's like, yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get a tall guy maybe, but he's not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have everything that I have every single person in my family.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a comment, Tommy, Are you saying, Tommy? Tommy? One second?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you saying that you're willing to get Carrie pregnant? Now, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just basically saying that she's petty like this really,

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<v Speaker 1>like two inches is gonna keep her from going out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with me again because she just wants Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just looking for a stud to impregnate you, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's just weird first off, and you're not being up

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<v Speaker 1>front on your profile. Wow, well, I mean if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>petty and selfish, I mean, see, this wasn't the right set. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this wasn't the right set, and now it's gotten really

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<v Speaker 1>dramatic and weird and overblown. Where I tried to make it.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to let you have it you were too

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<v Speaker 1>young and that you had the life I had of you,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm too old. I gave you that. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>go on, I understand, but you gotta be a little

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<v Speaker 1>realistic with your expectations. I'm just trying to be a

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<v Speaker 1>hardcore because I'm just at a different place in my

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<v Speaker 1>life than you. I have a I have a clock

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<v Speaker 1>that I have to worry about it and you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>So you made some say you like me right, like

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're not forty two years old. You're acting like

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<v Speaker 1>you're forty two right now. I am the total package.

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<v Speaker 1>There are plenty of people that would recognize that. But

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<v Speaker 1>you're just looking for something that you're not gonna get,

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<v Speaker 1>And I just I gotta be honest with you. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna find whatever you're looking for. But I guess

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<v Speaker 1>temperament isn't one of your good genewhere and a weird Carrie,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you think you're looking for the wrong the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>thing though. I mean, I just had a baby, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that it's way more important to find a

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<v Speaker 1>partner and someone that will be in this with you

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<v Speaker 1>than two more inches of height. You're gonna love your child.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on Carrie's side right here. It's all about upgrading

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<v Speaker 1>your genetics, you know what I mean. Plus, her kids

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<v Speaker 1>are gonna have red hair too, so they're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>a heart at that time. We have a hard road

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<v Speaker 1>out you guys. M Well, it sounds like I know

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<v Speaker 1>the answer to this. But Carrie, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with Tommy again? I will pay for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. I mean, let's not push this any further. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way that we're going out again. So no, no, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry I had to find out like this. You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have pass your jeans along. You'll probably end up

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<v Speaker 1>with some tall, gorgeous Amazon and you guys will have amazing, tall,

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<v Speaker 1>wonder babies and they'll never have to deal with the

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<v Speaker 1>things I have to worry about. Carrie, thank you very

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<v Speaker 1>much for your time. Carrie, Oh, thank you. Appreciate you

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<v Speaker 1>being honest. Tommy, no second date, man, I'm sorry. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>no worries, but kind of a cool thing for the

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, I never thought we'd be doing one

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<v Speaker 1>with a female version of Hitler, which is interesting.