Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels second date up today. Some guys like older women.
Speaker 1: I know for myself personally, I've always been looking for
Speaker 1: an eighty to eighty five year old lady with a
Speaker 1: lot of money in the bank account who doesn't mind
Speaker 1: having somebody just hang out at her house and clean
Speaker 1: it all day long and maybe go play golf when
Speaker 1: she's away, you know, things like that. Hopefully she's a
Speaker 1: really poor health as well. Yeah, that would help too,
Speaker 1: But unfortunately she's not out there for me, at least
Speaker 1: I haven't found her yet. And there are a lot
Speaker 1: of women that don't like younger guys. They feel awkward
Speaker 1: about dating a younger guy. And that is the problem
Speaker 1: that I think Tommy is having. Tommy is on the
Speaker 1: phone for a second date update today, and he went
Speaker 1: on a date with a girl who's a little older
Speaker 1: than him. Tommy, how you doing? I've been better to
Speaker 1: be honest, sound sighted. So what's the girl's name that
Speaker 1: you want us to call today? Well, I guess I
Speaker 1: shouldn't call her a girl. She's older than you. What's
Speaker 1: this woman's name? Her name is Carrie? Carrie, And before
Speaker 1: we get into your date, how much older is she
Speaker 1: and you? Six? Years, So I don't think it's that
Speaker 1: big of a difference, honestly. And how old are How
Speaker 1: old are you? Because I mean six years I think
Speaker 1: is different at twenty compared to twenty six. Yeah I'm
Speaker 1: twenty six actually, so she's thirty two right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think that's that huge. So tell us a
Speaker 1: little bit about how you met her. We met online, okay,
Speaker 1: volunteering at retirement home. Was that I thought two year
Speaker 1: olds watch she actually knows how to use the internet
Speaker 1: at her age. What attracted you to her? She's cute
Speaker 1: and she has red hair, and I really liked that
Speaker 1: a lot. She was really funny, she's very outgoing, and
Speaker 1: so we exchanged a few emails. Everything was really cool.
Speaker 1: Finally I was like, hey, do you want to meet up?
Speaker 1: And and we had talked about bowling and she seemed
Speaker 1: excited about that, so I said, yeah, you want to
Speaker 1: go bowling? So, and did she know your age when
Speaker 1: you guys started this conversation? Yeah, it's on my profile Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so she knew what she was getting into. You know,
Speaker 1: she's insane right because she's her redhead and red hair.
Speaker 1: She's an old, insane lady. You want to call this woman,
Speaker 1: tom Yeah, yeah, I'm sure. All right, tell us a
Speaker 1: little bit more about bowling. We had a great time,
Speaker 1: We had a drink, we played two games. I mean,
Speaker 1: everything seemed to be to be going really well. And
Speaker 1: then I said at the end, you know, hey, do
Speaker 1: you want to do you want to grab another drink?
Speaker 1: And she's like, no, I can't do it. I'm a
Speaker 1: little tired and I have an early morning tomorrow. But
Speaker 1: the thing about old women, they get tired at any point.
Speaker 1: Tommy didn't. Did you guys have a moment where your
Speaker 1: age came up or there was a difference in it
Speaker 1: was all just pretty light and easy, like everything was
Speaker 1: really good, you know, I didn't. I didn't get a
Speaker 1: sense that there was any strangeness. There was no age gap.
Speaker 1: In my opinion, we felt like peers. So she said
Speaker 1: she had to go home. She said she had to
Speaker 1: go home. And then after the date she text me
Speaker 1: and she said, I had a really good time, but
Speaker 1: I think I might be too old for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I just texted her back and I said, no,
Speaker 1: it's not an issue for me. I would really like
Speaker 1: to see you again. And nothing, no response at all, none, no,
Speaker 1: maybe she just can't figure out how to work the phone.
Speaker 1: She's like, it's a rotary phone. So you know, the
Speaker 1: exact reason why she doesn't want to see you. She
Speaker 1: feels like she's too old for you. But you want
Speaker 1: to do a second date update, Yeah, you know, I
Speaker 1: really want to go out with her again, and I
Speaker 1: just want to convince her that my age doesn't really matter,
Speaker 1: like we had a good time. Age ain't none but
Speaker 1: a number, and then we could probably play who is
Speaker 1: that Aliyah? Yeah, we could probably play that song for
Speaker 1: you even But you want to tell her not to
Speaker 1: worry about the age and go out with you again.
Speaker 1: I think it's ridiculous. We have a connection and that
Speaker 1: shouldn't be the reason that we don't see each other.
Speaker 1: Are you not prepared? Tommy? Though? If it's for reasons
Speaker 1: like she wants to have kids, or she wants to
Speaker 1: get married or that kind of stuff, I mean, if
Speaker 1: it's the right girl, then yeah, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: want to say I'm ready to get married to her,
Speaker 1: but you know, those are definitely things that I see
Speaker 1: in my future. And so if that's what she's worried about,
Speaker 1: if she's the right person, then Yeah, six years is
Speaker 1: not going to prevent that from opening. Dating an older
Speaker 1: woman doesn't bother you at all. No, And I don't
Speaker 1: even see her as an older woman, but I think
Speaker 1: she maybe has a complex about being six years older
Speaker 1: than I am. So all right, we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, get her on the phone, and get your
Speaker 1: second day update. Okay, yeah, please, all right? Brooking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning date. Hey, Tommy, Yeah, I'm gonna make
Speaker 1: your call for the second day update in just a second.
Speaker 1: But while i'm doing it, I want you to think
Speaker 1: about something. Okay, Okay. When I get her on the
Speaker 1: phone and while I'm talking to her, I want you
Speaker 1: to be thinking about all of the positives that there
Speaker 1: are to dating a younger dude as opposed to dudes
Speaker 1: her age. Right, what do you have that these old
Speaker 1: guys don't have? You got more stamina? Probably, student loan debt,
Speaker 1: maybe worst credit, probably probably credits worse, you know, but
Speaker 1: find a way to turn those into a positive when
Speaker 1: you get her on the phone. If you're just doing
Speaker 1: it for the second day update, Tommy went out with
Speaker 1: a girl who is older than he is. She actually
Speaker 1: texted him after they went out and said that she
Speaker 1: thinks that he he is too young for her, so
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to see him again. Tommy's goal here
Speaker 1: is to get her on the phone, find out if
Speaker 1: that actually is the problem or if there's more to it,
Speaker 1: and then see if he can still get a date
Speaker 1: with her, because he says that age shouldn't matter. The
Speaker 1: age is irrelevant to me. I really do think it's
Speaker 1: irrelevant like that to me sounds like just a poor excuse.
Speaker 1: And you do really like her. It's not just a
Speaker 1: something you know, you want what you can't have type
Speaker 1: of situation totally. I mean, I wouldn't go through all
Speaker 1: this trouble if it was kind of, you know, just
Speaker 1: sort of a lukewarm date, like we had a really
Speaker 1: good connection. And I hate her. I hate her, that's why.
Speaker 1: Then show her despise this lady people who only want
Speaker 1: to talk to them to figure out what's wrong with them,
Speaker 1: not necessarily because they really wanted to see him again.
Speaker 1: All right, Tommy, here we go. I'm gonna doll the
Speaker 1: phone him right now. Okay, Okay, cool? Hello? Hey is
Speaker 1: Carrie there? Yeah? This is hey Carrie. How are you?
Speaker 1: This is j Bowl from brook and Jebil in the
Speaker 1: morning the rains. Yeah, I'm calling you because you recently
Speaker 1: went out on a date with one of our listeners
Speaker 1: and he's been trying to get a hold of you
Speaker 1: but he can't, so he asked us to call you. Okay,
Speaker 1: he goes by the name Tommy, and you and him
Speaker 1: enjoyed a little bowling action. Yeah, what is this? Well,
Speaker 1: Tommy told us a little bit about your date, and
Speaker 1: he also said that you texted him the other day
Speaker 1: and said that you think that you're too old for him.
Speaker 1: So he emailed us in hopes that we could get
Speaker 1: you on the phone and ask if that's really the
Speaker 1: reason why. I mean, he was really nice, he was great.
Speaker 1: I mean, like I enjoyed meeting him. I just did
Speaker 1: you know that he was six years younger than you
Speaker 1: before you went out with him? Though? Yeah? So why, Like,
Speaker 1: to me, that would make me think that there's something else,
Speaker 1: Like you just don't want to see him. If you
Speaker 1: already knew that he was younger than you, why would
Speaker 1: you even go out on the first date. Well, I
Speaker 1: mean people can surprise you, you know. I mean I
Speaker 1: went into it hoping that he was going to kind
Speaker 1: of fit what I'm looking for. What are you kicking
Speaker 1: for right now? Oh? God, the radio now telling us
Speaker 1: everybody about what I'm looking for. Um, I'm getting older,
Speaker 1: you know, and I'm I just you know, I have
Speaker 1: a plan and i'd like to be pregnant by the
Speaker 1: end of the year. W year, but like by the
Speaker 1: end of a year from now. And Carrie, you're not
Speaker 1: that old. Tommy sounds like a young, virile man to me.
Speaker 1: You don't want to maybe see if Tommy could be
Speaker 1: the guy to do that for you. I've got the goods.
Speaker 1: I mean, he's great, like I said, I mean totally
Speaker 1: like a great guy, you know, and really cure and fine,
Speaker 1: like we had a good time. I don't think he's
Speaker 1: where I want him to be. You're ready to have
Speaker 1: kids right away, and you think Tommy's maybe a little
Speaker 1: too immature for you. Well, I mean okay, like he's
Speaker 1: not as tall as he said he's gonna be, and
Speaker 1: like that's important to me when I'm saying, I mean
Speaker 1: I'm very short. I want my children to not have
Speaker 1: that day straight. You don't like you think that he's
Speaker 1: too short, and you don't like his genetics. Look, I
Speaker 1: told him, I mean I think I feel like I
Speaker 1: did it like nicer. I mean, he's a great guy,
Speaker 1: and he's great for somebody, but for somebody who's paranoid
Speaker 1: about my kids being short little trolls, and that's and
Speaker 1: that's a reflection of me, not him. Right, So you're
Speaker 1: sizing up guys that you go out with based on
Speaker 1: they're height and everything else because you want to have
Speaker 1: a kid that is like a certain way. Look, my
Speaker 1: family is sure and I'm trying to stop this awful
Speaker 1: Did he did he lie in his dating profile? Is
Speaker 1: he a lot shorter than he said? Oh? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean his dating profile said he was like five to eleven,
Speaker 1: So I was like, great, that works for me because
Speaker 1: I mean it's not extremely tall, but he was very
Speaker 1: person like me. That's that's exciting. And he turned out
Speaker 1: to be like five to seven, making like five six.
Speaker 1: But don't you think, I mean, like I get it,
Speaker 1: Like there's a timeline you want to meet, the timeline
Speaker 1: you want to have the babies. Do you care about
Speaker 1: the husband, because from the sounds of it, it it sounds
Speaker 1: like you're looking for a sperm donor. I've thought about it,
Speaker 1: but it does seem like it's more fun to do
Speaker 1: it the old fashioned way. All right, So when I
Speaker 1: go back and talk to Tommy and tell him what
Speaker 1: you said, do you want me to leave out the
Speaker 1: part about him being short and having horrible genetics and
Speaker 1: you just wanted to tell him because he's too young. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't want him to be hurt. All right? Well,
Speaker 1: unfortunately I can't do that because Tommy's on the phone.
Speaker 1: Are you serious right now? Is it really the reason
Speaker 1: for me? I'm really sorry that you heard this this way.
Speaker 1: I never meant for this. I'm five nine, so I
Speaker 1: don't know where this five six is coming. If you're
Speaker 1: looking for some tall guy, you're totally disregarding every single
Speaker 1: other feature that I have. Like I was a high
Speaker 1: school athlete, I was a college athlete, I played tennis.
Speaker 1: There's no one in my family who does not have
Speaker 1: a full head of hair. You're gonna meet a tall
Speaker 1: guys himself, What do you think about that? I just
Speaker 1: feel like you're looking for something that's like, yeah, you're
Speaker 1: gonna get a tall guy maybe, but he's not gonna
Speaker 1: have everything that I have every single person in my family.
Speaker 1: Is a comment, Tommy, Are you saying, Tommy? Tommy? One second?
Speaker 1: Are you saying that you're willing to get Carrie pregnant? Now, No,
Speaker 1: I'm just basically saying that she's petty like this really,
Speaker 1: like two inches is gonna keep her from going out
Speaker 1: on a date with me again because she just wants Basically,
Speaker 1: you're just looking for a stud to impregnate you, and
Speaker 1: that's just weird first off, and you're not being up
Speaker 1: front on your profile. Wow, well, I mean if I'm
Speaker 1: petty and selfish, I mean, see, this wasn't the right set. Okay,
Speaker 1: this wasn't the right set, and now it's gotten really
Speaker 1: dramatic and weird and overblown. Where I tried to make it.
Speaker 1: I tried to let you have it you were too
Speaker 1: young and that you had the life I had of you,
Speaker 1: and then I'm too old. I gave you that. I mean, like,
Speaker 1: go on, I understand, but you gotta be a little
Speaker 1: realistic with your expectations. I'm just trying to be a
Speaker 1: hardcore because I'm just at a different place in my
Speaker 1: life than you. I have a I have a clock
Speaker 1: that I have to worry about it and you don't.
Speaker 1: So you made some say you like me right, like
Speaker 1: you're you're not forty two years old. You're acting like
Speaker 1: you're forty two right now. I am the total package.
Speaker 1: There are plenty of people that would recognize that. But
Speaker 1: you're just looking for something that you're not gonna get,
Speaker 1: And I just I gotta be honest with you. You're
Speaker 1: not gonna find whatever you're looking for. But I guess
Speaker 1: temperament isn't one of your good genewhere and a weird Carrie,
Speaker 1: don't you think you're looking for the wrong the wrong
Speaker 1: thing though. I mean, I just had a baby, and
Speaker 1: I think that it's way more important to find a
Speaker 1: partner and someone that will be in this with you
Speaker 1: than two more inches of height. You're gonna love your child.
Speaker 1: I'm on Carrie's side right here. It's all about upgrading
Speaker 1: your genetics, you know what I mean. Plus, her kids
Speaker 1: are gonna have red hair too, so they're gonna have
Speaker 1: a heart at that time. We have a hard road
Speaker 1: out you guys. M Well, it sounds like I know
Speaker 1: the answer to this. But Carrie, would you like to
Speaker 1: go out with Tommy again? I will pay for a
Speaker 1: second date. I mean, let's not push this any further. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's no way that we're going out again. So no, no, look,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I had to find out like this. You're
Speaker 1: gonna have pass your jeans along. You'll probably end up
Speaker 1: with some tall, gorgeous Amazon and you guys will have amazing, tall,
Speaker 1: wonder babies and they'll never have to deal with the
Speaker 1: things I have to worry about. Carrie, thank you very
Speaker 1: much for your time. Carrie, Oh, thank you. Appreciate you
Speaker 1: being honest. Tommy, no second date, man, I'm sorry. Yeah,
Speaker 1: no worries, but kind of a cool thing for the
Speaker 1: second date update, I never thought we'd be doing one
Speaker 1: with a female version of Hitler, which is interesting.