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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels second date up today. Some guys like older women.

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Speaker 1: I know for myself personally, I've always been looking for

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Speaker 1: an eighty to eighty five year old lady with a

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Speaker 1: really poor health as well. Yeah, that would help too,

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Speaker 1: But unfortunately she's not out there for me, at least

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Speaker 1: I haven't found her yet. And there are a lot

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Speaker 1: of women that don't like younger guys. They feel awkward

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Speaker 1: about dating a younger guy. And that is the problem

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Speaker 1: that I think Tommy is having. Tommy is on the

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Speaker 1: phone for a second date update today, and he went

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Speaker 1: on a date with a girl who's a little older

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Speaker 1: than him. Tommy, how you doing? I've been better to

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Speaker 1: be honest, sound sighted. So what's the girl's name that

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Speaker 1: you want us to call today? Well, I guess I

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Speaker 1: shouldn't call her a girl. She's older than you. What's

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Speaker 1: this woman's name? Her name is Carrie? Carrie, And before

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Speaker 1: we get into your date, how much older is she

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Speaker 1: and you? Six? Years, So I don't think it's that

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Speaker 1: big of a difference, honestly. And how old are How

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Speaker 1: old are you? Because I mean six years I think

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Speaker 1: twenty six actually, so she's thirty two right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's that huge. So tell us a

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Speaker 1: little bit about how you met her. We met online, okay,

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Speaker 1: volunteering at retirement home. Was that I thought two year

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Speaker 1: olds watch she actually knows how to use the internet

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Speaker 1: at her age. What attracted you to her? She's cute

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Speaker 1: and she has red hair, and I really liked that

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Speaker 1: so we exchanged a few emails. Everything was really cool.

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Speaker 1: Finally I was like, hey, do you want to meet up?

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Speaker 1: And and we had talked about bowling and she seemed

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Speaker 1: you guys started this conversation? Yeah, it's on my profile Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: so she knew what she was getting into. You know,

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Speaker 1: she's insane right because she's her redhead and red hair.

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Speaker 1: She's an old, insane lady. You want to call this woman,

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Speaker 1: tom Yeah, yeah, I'm sure. All right, tell us a

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Speaker 1: little bit more about bowling. We had a great time,

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Speaker 1: We had a drink, we played two games. I mean,

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Speaker 1: everything seemed to be to be going really well. And

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Speaker 1: then I said at the end, you know, hey, do

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Speaker 1: And she's like, no, I can't do it. I'm a

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Speaker 1: little tired and I have an early morning tomorrow. But

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Speaker 1: the thing about old women, they get tired at any point.

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Speaker 1: Tommy didn't. Did you guys have a moment where your

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Speaker 1: was all just pretty light and easy, like everything was

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Speaker 1: sense that there was any strangeness. There was no age gap.

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Speaker 1: In my opinion, we felt like peers. So she said

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Speaker 1: go home. And then after the date she text me

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Speaker 1: And I just texted her back and I said, no,

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Speaker 1: it's not an issue for me. I would really like

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Speaker 1: to see you again. And nothing, no response at all, none, no,

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Speaker 1: maybe she just can't figure out how to work the phone.

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Speaker 1: She's like, it's a rotary phone. So you know, the

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Speaker 1: exact reason why she doesn't want to see you. She

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Speaker 1: feels like she's too old for you. But you want

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Speaker 1: to do a second date update, Yeah, you know, I

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Speaker 1: like we had a good time. Age ain't none but

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Speaker 1: a number, and then we could probably play who is

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Speaker 1: that Aliyah? Yeah, we could probably play that song for

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Speaker 1: you even But you want to tell her not to

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Speaker 1: I think it's ridiculous. We have a connection and that

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Speaker 1: Are you not prepared? Tommy? Though? If it's for reasons

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Speaker 1: woman doesn't bother you at all. No, And I don't

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Speaker 1: than I am. So all right, we'll play a song,

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Speaker 1: second day update. Okay, yeah, please, all right? Brooking jubil

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Speaker 1: in the morning date. Hey, Tommy, Yeah, I'm gonna make

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Speaker 1: your call for the second day update in just a second.

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Speaker 1: But while i'm doing it, I want you to think

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Speaker 1: her age. Right, what do you have that these old

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Speaker 1: guys don't have? You got more stamina? Probably, student loan debt,

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Speaker 1: maybe worst credit, probably probably credits worse, you know, but

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Speaker 1: find a way to turn those into a positive when

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Speaker 1: you get her on the phone. If you're just doing

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Speaker 1: she doesn't want to see him again. Tommy's goal here

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Speaker 1: age is irrelevant to me. I really do think it's

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Speaker 1: irrelevant like that to me sounds like just a poor excuse.

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Speaker 1: And you do really like her. It's not just a

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Speaker 1: something you know, you want what you can't have type

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Speaker 1: Then show her despise this lady people who only want

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Speaker 1: to talk to them to figure out what's wrong with them,

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Speaker 1: All right, Tommy, here we go. I'm gonna doll the

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Speaker 1: This is j Bowl from brook and Jebil in the

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Speaker 1: morning the rains. Yeah, I'm calling you because you recently

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Speaker 1: and he's been trying to get a hold of you

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Speaker 1: but he can't, so he asked us to call you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: he goes by the name Tommy, and you and him

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Speaker 1: enjoyed a little bowling action. Yeah, what is this? Well,

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Speaker 1: Tommy told us a little bit about your date, and

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Speaker 1: he also said that you texted him the other day

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Speaker 1: reason why. I mean, he was really nice, he was great.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I enjoyed meeting him. I just did

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Speaker 1: to me, that would make me think that there's something else,

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Speaker 1: Like you just don't want to see him. If you

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Speaker 1: for right now? Oh? God, the radio now telling us

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Speaker 1: that old. Tommy sounds like a young, virile man to me.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's great, like I said, I mean totally

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Speaker 1: that's a reflection of me, not him. Right, So you're

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Speaker 1: he a lot shorter than he said? Oh? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean his dating profile said he was like five to eleven,

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Speaker 1: I mean it's not extremely tall, but he was very

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Speaker 1: But don't you think, I mean, like I get it,

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Speaker 1: Like there's a timeline you want to meet, the timeline

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Speaker 1: you want to have the babies. Do you care about

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Speaker 1: like you're looking for a sperm donor. I've thought about it,

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Speaker 1: but it does seem like it's more fun to do

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Speaker 1: it the old fashioned way. All right, So when I

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Speaker 1: go back and talk to Tommy and tell him what

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Speaker 1: part about him being short and having horrible genetics and

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Speaker 1: you just wanted to tell him because he's too young. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't want him to be hurt. All right? Well,

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Speaker 1: Are you serious right now? Is it really the reason

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Speaker 1: for me? I'm really sorry that you heard this this way.

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Speaker 1: I never meant for this. I'm five nine, so I

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Speaker 1: don't know where this five six is coming. If you're

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Speaker 1: looking for some tall guy, you're totally disregarding every single

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Speaker 1: other feature that I have. Like I was a high

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Speaker 1: There's no one in my family who does not have

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Speaker 1: Is a comment, Tommy, Are you saying, Tommy? Tommy? One second?

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Speaker 1: Are you saying that you're willing to get Carrie pregnant? Now, No,

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Speaker 1: temperament isn't one of your good genewhere and a weird Carrie,

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Speaker 1: much for your time. Carrie, Oh, thank you. Appreciate you

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Speaker 1: second date update, I never thought we'd be doing one

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