WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Surprise Sabotage 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.480 Well, it is a special day today. Hey, welcome to it. 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:05.520 Yes, it's Awkward Tuesday phone call on your Second Date podcast. 0:00:05.559 --> 0:00:09.720 But more importantly, we have another live YouTube video up. 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:14.160 Yeah we do yah and they like seeing our faces. 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:15.880 I thought this would be the demise of our show. 0:00:16.079 --> 0:00:18.479 I mean, well, you know, maybe maybe it'll go up 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:19.440 right now before it goes. 0:00:22.040 --> 0:00:24.560 So, if you've ever wondered what one of these looks like, 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:26.400 you can head over to our YouTube if you're not 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:29.240 there already, it's at Brook and Jeffrey, and today is 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.440 a live Awkward Tuesday phone call up, so enjoy it. 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:34.879 Comment let us know. I mean, honestly, the more. 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:37.360 Views and comments we get, the more we'll be able 0:00:37.400 --> 0:00:40.360 to do more of these, because we do have to 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:43.360 convince management to let us have an extra person to 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:44.000 help us on these. 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:46.280 Thy go support them. 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:48.080 Yeah, yeah, it's true, it's true. 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:49.960 Okay, now, before we get to your brand new Awkward 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:52.199 Tuesday podcast today, what do you see in the comments? 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:55.720 Alexis Yes, Ellie said, listening to this gets me through 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:57.000 Tanning and Sweden. 0:00:56.960 --> 0:00:59.160 Free u V not very high. 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:00.760 Don't have Tanner different there? 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:01.920 I don't know. 0:01:03.360 --> 0:01:05.720 In Sweden. Doesn't sound like a task at all. 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:12.360 I have so many questions. All right, hey, well start tanning. 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:13.240 Good ta a girl? 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:14.200 Yeah you do you? 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:18.080 Okay, good luck your bad you. Tuesday starts right now. 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:22.679 If you ever receive a bad gift, you can either 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:28.680 pretend that you really like it, yeah, or well no, 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:30.840 you pretty much have to pretend that you like it. 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:35.040 You really have no other way. The thing is, that 0:01:35.720 --> 0:01:38.800 doesn't really work for one of our listeners, because he 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:41.880 just found out what his girlfriend has secretly been planning 0:01:41.959 --> 0:01:45.360 to give him for his upcoming birthday, and the mere 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:49.160 idea of it is sending him into a literal panic. 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:53.440 Oh so much so he's determined he has to stop 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:56.360 her from ever giving it to him. And you're gonna 0:01:56.400 --> 0:02:00.280 hear what that is and why he absolutely cannot let 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:03.040 it happen in your brand new awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:07.080 Next, It's awkward, It's Tuesday. 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:09.120 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:13.240 You've heard people say the phrase information is power. 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:15.520 Yes, Well that's not. 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:19.839 The case for our listener, Franklin. Apparently, for him, information 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:25.280 is fear because he learned something recently that got him 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:29.560 so terrified, so scared, he emailed us asking if we 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:31.440 could help him make an awkward Tuesday phone. 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:34.240 Maybe ignorance is bliss is the better quote we should 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:34.639 use here. 0:02:34.800 --> 0:02:41.720 Oh it's too late for that. Franklin now knows too much. Franklin, 0:02:42.600 --> 0:02:43.720 Welcome to the show Man. 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:44.880 Hi. 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:49.560 Oh my god, just even that high sounded frightened. I 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:52.119 thought Jeffrey was exaggerating like he normally does. 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:54.440 But you, I felt like I was exaggerating. But you 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:56.120 sound like you're hiding underneath a blanket. 0:02:56.160 --> 0:02:59.920 Right now, get a little nervous talking. I'm on the radio. 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:00.720 Nobody's listening. 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:03.320 Oh yeah, don't worry. It's only like five people that 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:04.160 listen to this show. 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:06.400 Yeah, and one of them is my mom, and she 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:09.240 thinks anything anyone does on our show is amazing. 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:12.400 Okay, Okay, there you go. 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:14.000 You're doing great. 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:16.720 Yeah, that's what my mom would say. Oh he's so adorable. 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:19.240 Yeah, you're in a safe space right now, Franklin, So 0:03:19.240 --> 0:03:21.680 feel free to say whatever you need to. We need 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:24.519 to know. What is this information that you found out 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:26.360 that has you so terrified? 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:29.639 Oh okay, well it's like like you've heard I found 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:30.920 out something I wasn't supposed to know. 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:33.120 Okay, well, you could just you could take your time 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:35.320 in telling us you sound like you're rushing. 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:38.240 Yeah, first, like set the scene. Why are you not 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:39.480 supposed to know this information? 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:42.320 Well, I was hanging out with a buddy of mine 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:44.800 and I said he, so, what are you doing this weekend? 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:47.400 And he goes, oh, I'll be it your thing. That's 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:48.800 basically going to take the whole day, you know what 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:51.880 the set up and everything. And I was like, like, 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:53.280 he's sort of like on my face, and then I 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:54.760 saw his face, so he was like one of saying 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:56.840 that he definitely wasn't supposed to say what he just. 0:03:56.800 --> 0:04:03.080 Said, saying is your birthday coming up? 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:03.480 Yeah? 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:05.240 My birthday is Saturday. 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:12.440 Yeah, there's always one person that ruins it. 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:16.120 Yeah, he came out with a little bit of information. 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:16.880 What did he say? 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:19.159 I mean, he didn't give it up right away, but 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:21.440 I knew, you know, Lou was hiding something, So you 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:23.839 got to tell me what it is. And he tells 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:26.760 me that my girlfriend is together a surprise party for me. 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:31.279 Oh that's so cute. Is that not something you would like? 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:33.520 Because some people, I guess you know everybody in this 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:34.919 room would love a surprise party. 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:37.080 I think maybe not Jeff, But. 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:39.760 You want to open the studio door. No one's here. 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:42.840 Yeah, the dream? What about you? 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:45.000 What about you? 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:45.560 What? Like? 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:47.760 What's your take on it? Are you excited to hear 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:48.279 this or not? 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:53.839 No? No, I am not a party person. I'm not 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:55.159 a big gathering person. 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:57.360 You are nervous just talking to us. 0:04:57.600 --> 0:05:00.120 Yeah, here's the thing. My friend made me swear that 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.680 I wouldn't give him up. Oh yeah, you slipped up. 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:04.920 It's not it's it was an honest mistake. So I 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:07.440 can't just I don't want to throw him under the bus. 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:08.159 Yeah that's good. 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:10.239 I gotta I gotta do something here because I don't 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:11.160 want a party. 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:14.640 You don't, no, not at all, want at all. 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:18.120 It's kind of my fault because I had mentioned a 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:20.120 couple of months ago that I'd never really had a 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:22.599 big birthday party or anything. But I don't think she 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:24.680 understood that. That's because I didn't want one. 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:27.200 You accidentally manifested this. 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:30.560 I don't like celebrating, but I'm like, no, we have to, 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:32.320 like you suck it up and celebrate. 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:35.560 So you know, you don't like the attention being on yourself, 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:38.120 or you don't like the big crowds, or like, what 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:40.600 is it about it that scares you? The most. 0:05:40.839 --> 0:05:45.320 I don't like either, but both of them together are frightening. Okay, 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:49.360 And it's kind of it's also kind of personal, like. 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:52.080 There's a third reason that this can't happen, is what 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:52.599 you're saying. 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:54.800 Yeah, that's exactly it. 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:57.200 Okay, Well, what is it? 0:05:57.200 --> 0:05:58.080 It's kind of personal? 0:05:58.120 --> 0:05:58.440 What is it? 0:05:58.520 --> 0:05:59.240 Yeah, just tell us. 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:03.160 That's not something that i'd be sar. 0:06:03.480 --> 0:06:04.400 Okay if. 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:08.719 React, Yeah, you can wear us a secrets. 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:10.720 Okay, you know, it's fine if you don't tell us. 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:13.560 But can I ask does your girlfriend know this personal thing? 0:06:13.680 --> 0:06:15.400 Or is this also a secret from her? 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:17.640 It's also a secret to her? 0:06:17.880 --> 0:06:18.240 Okay? 0:06:18.760 --> 0:06:21.480 Okay, So I mean if she knew that, maybe she 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:23.320 would have never planned this to begin. 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:25.080 Whatever it is that you're dealing with. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:26.679 I'm pretty sure that would be the case. 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:27.320 Okay. 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:30.279 And I just want some advice on how to get 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:35.159 out of this without letting her know that, I know, how. 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:37.760 You get out of a surprise party that you're not 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:38.960 supposed to know about. 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:42.400 Are you sure you can't have a medical emergency right now? 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:43.000 Yeah? 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:43.880 That would be a good time. 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:48.240 You need some more sketchy, get some food poisoning, find 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:49.720 all the one start. 0:06:49.520 --> 0:06:53.120 YEA we have gift cards to restaurants that are very 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:55.000 very lowly waiting we could send you. 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:58.560 The problem is we work together, so I might have 0:06:58.600 --> 0:07:01.359 to commit to a a performance for a couple of 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:02.000 days ago. 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:07.279 To ensure she doesn't eat the leftovers route. 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:11.440 Okay, so you want the advice on how to call 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:15.600 your girlfriend and sneakily get out of the surprise party 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:18.720 that she threw for you that she doesn't know you 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:19.760 know about due. 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:22.800 She's got everything planned right now, Like, how elaborate is 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:23.400 this party? 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:23.880 Do you know? 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:26.920 I don't know all the details, but I know it's stake. 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:28.040 She doesn't do anything small. 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:31.800 She rented someplace out already, that's a. 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:36.400 Big how many people wanting to see you? Well, we 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:38.440 got our work cut out for us. We're going to 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:40.720 think of some advice to give you on how to 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:44.520 accidentally cancel your own surprise party when we reach out 0:07:44.560 --> 0:07:46.800 to your girlfriend and get you your awkward Tuesday phone 0:07:46.840 --> 0:07:47.880 call right after this. 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:49.640 You can't do it now? 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:53.360 No, no, what? 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:56.200 Okay? I'm just hoping we could just do it then 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:56.840 get it done. 0:07:57.040 --> 0:07:58.560 We'll get to it, but we need to take a 0:07:58.600 --> 0:08:01.440 break first, Like we need a minute to think of 0:08:01.480 --> 0:08:04.040 what our advice should be, and then we'll come back 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:05.680 and give it to you and let you make your call. 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:08.800 Okay, take a deep breath, keep breathing. 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:09.560 Y'll hold it. 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:10.200 I'm breathing. 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:12.800 Keep doing that all the way till we get back. 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:13.640 We'll do it right after this. 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:14.040 Hold on. 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:19.840 It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:26.360 This weekend. Someone's getting a surprise party for his birthday 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:31.080 thrown in his honor. And just one problem is he 0:08:31.160 --> 0:08:35.120 hates surprises, he hates parties, and he hates honor. And 0:08:35.240 --> 0:08:38.240 that would describe our listener Franklin, who just found out 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:40.080 through a buddy that his girlfriend is going to be 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:43.120 throwing a big gathering with a bunch of people at 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:45.400 a restaurant to celebrate his birthday. 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:47.160 It sounds good to everybody. 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:48.600 It's his worst night marriage. 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:52.200 Yeah, so he wants to figure out how to politely 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:56.120 convince his girlfriend to cancel it, even though he's not 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:58.240 supposed to know about it in the first place. 0:08:58.320 --> 0:08:59.960 That's an extra layer that's kind of tough. 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:04.440 To definitely a challenge. So, Brooke, what's your advice for Franklin? 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:07.400 Okay, so I think you lean into the positives. 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:09.280 Right, you say, oh my god, honey, I am so 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:13.800 excited to just spend my night with just you. Okay, 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:16.520 and I assume like she has made a ruse, right, 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:18.520 like you guys are just going to a dinner or something. 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:20.000 Yeah. 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:22.160 Yeah, So lean into that and be like, this is 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:26.960 just my perfect birthday and crazy. I just read like 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.840 eight percent of people get engaged on their birthdays. 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:30.520 It isn't that weird. 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:31.680 Whoa. 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:34.880 I'm just saying, you want to trick her into thinking 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:36.080 he might propose, or are. 0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:37.400 You forcing her to propose to him? 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:37.640 Now? 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:39.960 I'm just forcing her to cancel and be happy about it. 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:42.280 Oh okay, you know, like, oh. 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:44.079 My god, I have to cancel the party. He said this, 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:45.320 he might propose. 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:47.920 You're well, the only thing that scares me more than 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:49.640 supprise birthday parties is proposing. 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:53.160 Okay, Franklin, just lock that in the back of your 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:55.280 mind in case you want to use it. Jose, what's 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:56.320 your advice, Well. 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:58.080 The trickiest part of this is that you need to 0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:01.280 get her to admit that there is a part before 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:03.640 she finds out that you already know about it. 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:05.960 Oh, You're trying to get her to confess to him. 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:09.000 So then, so the only way that I can think 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:11.160 of doing this is to tell her that you had 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:14.839 a surprise party as a child and it completely scarred you. 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:16.080 What do you think about that, Franklin? 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:20.200 That is really good. Try to sell that easier than 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:22.720 the proposals. I really want to stay away, far away 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:23.559 from Okay, we. 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:28.680 Won't do the proposal. Okay, I'm sorry that I even 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:29.280 brought it up. 0:10:29.520 --> 0:10:32.240 Just emphasize you're excited to spend time with just her. 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.240 I think I can find them. I can probably combine 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:38.480 them both to like, Hey, I want to spend time 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:39.880 with you in here's here's why. 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:42.640 Okay, Okay, no matter what, you need to come. 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:46.880 Yeah, that we hold this off. The more nervous he's getting, 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:49.120 So we just have to dial her number and do this. 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:51.959 You ready, Franklin, I'm as ready as I'm gonna be. 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:54.679 So yeah, all right, just take a deep breath, and 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:56.559 while you do that, I'm going to dial her number. 0:10:57.400 --> 0:10:58.839 He hasn't breathed in five minutes. 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:00.920 You need it. Here we got. 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:15.760 Hello, Hey, hey babe, it's me. How's it going, Franklin? Yeah? 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:18.600 What what number are you calling from? I don't I 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:19.600 don't have the fun sab. 0:11:20.240 --> 0:11:23.440 I'm I'm at the I'm I'm at the office office 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:25.640 of the other office. I'm at the other office. I'm sorry, 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:30.840 I'm just calling listen. 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:31.160 Uh. 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:34.599 I was looking at the weather for Saturday, and I 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:36.360 know the thing it's going to be really, really funny, 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:39.000 but there's like a thirty five percent chance that there's 0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:41.720 going to be like a huge storm, and I'm just thinking, 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:44.840 if everything, we should probably just go away Saturday evening, 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:48.360 you know, just just get you know, get out of 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:52.240 the area before the rain. It'll be it'll be like spontaneous, 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:54.480 but we planned it, Babe. 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:57.600 I need you to calm down. You are freaking out 0:11:58.160 --> 0:12:00.599 and it's already booked. We're gonna have dinner downtown. Like, 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:01.400 don't worry about it. 0:12:03.280 --> 0:12:06.319 Well, okay, I hate to bring it up. But the 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:08.240 thing about that is like I had a birthday downtown 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:10.079 when I was a kid, and it just didn't go well. 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:15.120 I don't like going downtown for my birthday. It's a 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:17.760 whole thing. It was a whole thing. Then I just 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:22.400 I'd rather just use had a birthday downtown anyway. Kid. Yeah, yeah, 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:23.920 it was a whole thing. Like a lot of people 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:26.160 were there and I wasn't really prepared for it. I 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:28.120 was a kid. It just really freaked me out. So 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:30.160 I just between that and the weather, I'd rather just 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:31.360 go anywhere else. 0:12:32.080 --> 0:12:34.280 Do you know something that maybe you shouldn't know? 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:35.839 No? 0:12:36.720 --> 0:12:37.720 No, no, I don't know what anything. 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:41.800 Well, you're being super weird. You call me from this 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:45.160 like unknown number, and now you're like talking about the 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:49.360 weather and going out of town when I says it's 0:12:49.400 --> 0:12:51.640 just going to be sunny, and now there's some like 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:55.440 downtown birthday trauma. I guess when you were like, I'm 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:58.839 so confused. If you know something, you have to tell me. 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:04.320 I don't know. Maybe what you know something I don't. 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:07.520 I don't know what do you know that I should know? 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:09.199 Do you know something? 0:13:09.320 --> 0:13:11.439 Do you ranclon? Okay? Who told you? 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:16.600 I don't want to tell you. Who told me? If 0:13:16.679 --> 0:13:20.079 anybody told me anything. I just I don't want to 0:13:20.160 --> 0:13:23.959 do if we were going to do anything other than this, 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:25.440 I don't want to do the thing that we might 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:27.080 be doing, you know what I mean? I just don't 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:27.480 want to do it. 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:34.280 Okay, it sounds like you know about your birthday, and 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:36.720 all I want you to know is that we can't 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:39.760 cancel it. It's too late at this point, and just 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:41.840 don't worry about it. I've got it all booked. Everything's 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:46.240 going to be fine. You're gonna have a blast. I've 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:49.240 got all your friends are coming, your family, your sister. 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:54.559 No, it's going to be awesome. Okay. But I know 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:59.040 we've been I know we've been six months now. I 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:02.760 love you. It's just we can't we can't do this. 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:08.599 What what is the problem. Uh, you've been to like 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:11.600 big parties before. You don't understand why this is the problem. 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:14.679 Okay, Well, first of all, those weren't my party, so 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:16.720 it wasn't you know. No, no big deal. The pressure 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:19.000 and something you didn't know and I didn't know how 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:20.320 to tell you. I'm soil now? Is that I'm not 0:14:20.360 --> 0:14:22.000 thirty one and forty one? Who? 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:23.000 Who? 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:24.760 Oh my gosh? 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:28.760 What wait? Oh are you serious? Oh? 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:32.160 You've been lying about your Why would you lie about 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:33.600 your age? Your girlfriend? 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:33.920 Okay? 0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:34.840 Why is it going on? 0:14:35.840 --> 0:14:36.040 Yeah? 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:41.800 Hello, Hi Sierra? Hey, Uh, sorry to tell you like this, 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:45.280 but shocking. I think we're all recovering too. So you're 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:47.320 you're on a radio show right now. This is called 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:52.000 Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. No, no, wow, he 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:52.720 told us. 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:55.120 That he didn't want to have a surprise party because 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:56.520 oh I don't like crowds. 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:58.520 I hate surprises. It's because you didn't want to get 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:00.600 out it on the big lie you I've been telling. 0:15:01.080 --> 0:15:05.360 Okay, no judgment, Brook, Remember we're on his side for 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:06.280 six months. 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:09.200 Okay, Yeah, I need someone to tell me what's happening 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:09.600 right now. 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:12.000 Franklin, that's probably the best person. 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:16.200 Here's what happened. I got really nervous about the birthday 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:19.960 party because of my age, and I was trying to 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:22.960 get out of it without letting anybody know what the 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:23.800 real problem was. 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:28.120 Oh my god, they know how old you are obviously. 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:28.680 Yeah. 0:15:29.240 --> 0:15:31.560 Oh my friends think I'm dating a thirty one year old. 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:33.520 How about you think you're damn. 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:36.600 Who cares? 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:37.320 What are your friends? 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:37.720 Yeah? 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:39.600 How old are you? Sierra? 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:41.120 Twenty nine? 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:43.760 I mean, age is just a number. I've got the 0:15:43.840 --> 0:15:45.440 heart and body of a thirty one year old. 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:48.200 But why would you say that you're thirty one when 0:15:48.240 --> 0:15:49.160 you're really forty one? 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:51.120 Because we wouldn't have matched otherwise. 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:54.720 Oh wait, were you like lying on a dating app? 0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:57.800 But also the age range and so he'd be out 0:15:57.840 --> 0:15:59.160 of her Rene because she doesn't want to date a 0:15:59.200 --> 0:15:59.920 forty one year old. 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:02.120 I'm sorry, baby, I really did not know how to 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:03.720 tell you. I was going to tell you. I didn't 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:05.840 know how or when, and I'm sorry. 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:06.200 Oh my god. 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:06.920 Well, I don't know. 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:09.000 Six months in on the radio show is probably not 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:09.920 the best idea. 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:13.480 Yeah. I mean, we love each other, that's the thing 0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:14.440 that's really important. 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:16.360 But you've been lying to me. 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:20.920 Yeah, yeah, Okay, it's a lie, and it's a big lie. 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:23.520 I don't it shouldn't be a relationship ending lie. I 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:25.960 don't think, because I think, you know, we we got 0:16:26.040 --> 0:16:26.800 some really good. 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:29.480 I mean, that's something we're gonna have to talk about. 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:31.840 I don't know. This is all like a lot right now. 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:35.560 I don't know what to do about the birthday because 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:38.560 all the decorations say thirty one, and your parents are 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:39.120 going to be like. 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:44.160 Laughing at me. No, no one's gonna let me. I'll 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:47.360 let my family know that it's a joke and it'll 0:16:47.360 --> 0:16:47.720 be fine. 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:49.400 It's a joke, so you're gonna lie to them. 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:53.240 No, no, no, like half the people think it's a 0:16:53.320 --> 0:16:54.800 joke and half will think it's real. 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:58.480 They no, I let them know they're in on the joke. 0:16:58.520 --> 0:16:59.680 It's a joke and they'll be in on it, and 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:00.600 you'll be can we. 0:17:00.640 --> 0:17:02.760 Reverse the balloons so it says thirteen, Then it looks 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:03.360 like even more. 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:04.320 Oh that's funny. 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:06.439 I'm finally immature, and you. 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:08.680 Know what they say, like forty one going on thirteen. 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:11.840 That could be really funny. Now we got an idea, 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:14.880