1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: My spoiled stepsister through a tantrum because I'm the maid 2 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: of honor. 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't be the maid of honor. 4 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:11,319 Speaker 1: My female twenty six older sister Female twenty eight has 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: made me made of honor for her wedding, and half 6 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:18,439 Speaker 1: sister female twenty one is throwing a fit. By the way, 7 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: this comes from swearing bridesmaid on the Okay storytime separate it. 8 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 1: So for background, my sister Laura and I were raised 9 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 1: by my mom without a dad. For the first five 10 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: ish years of my life. It was just three of 11 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: us until my mom met my stepdad. They got married 12 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 1: and had our little sister, Carrie not long after. My 13 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: stepdad is an awesome guy. Before he came along, Laura, 14 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 1: mom and I lived in a tiny apartment with nothing 15 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: much but second hand items and each other all but 16 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: we were happy because we had a roof over her 17 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: head and food on the table. Aw My stepdad has 18 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: an excellent job. So once they married and had Carrie, 19 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: we moved into a nice, big house a mansion compared 20 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: to our apartment, and started getting nice gifts at Christmas 21 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: time and birthdays. This is what Carrie grew up with 22 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: and whereas we grew up with a lot of it too. 23 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: I don't think it affected us as bad because we 24 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 1: remember what it's like to be frugal and to not 25 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: have much. 26 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 2: This reminds me of producing versus me producing. I was like, 27 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 2: what are you saying about all the buttons? We didn't 28 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 2: have a lot of buttons and we had to do things. 29 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: Had to do a scrawl manual. I remember those days. 30 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:28,639 Speaker 2: Oh man, we had a scroll. 31 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, the scroll. 32 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:33,919 Speaker 3: I appreciate you, Riley. 33 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: My mom to this day is still very frugal and 34 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 1: we love to go thrifting or make our own items 35 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: like we used to. Anyways, So Laura and I are 36 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: very separate from Carrie in that regard. Carrie has always 37 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 1: been spoiled, but not in a throw a tantrum and 38 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: asked Daddy for a new coway. But she'll ask for 39 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: a five hundred dollars birthday cake and get it by 40 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 1: name brand things only, and if she can't have something 41 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: for whatever reason, she'll pout for three days and be moody. 42 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: That does give off the vibes of want to new ka. 43 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: Yeah that is that is daddy, I want a new Ka. 44 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: So surprise, surprise, she still lives with mom and dad 45 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: and doesn't have a job on her own, and they 46 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: seem to be fine with it. But whatever, Okay, the 47 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: only thing I'll give her, I mean, she should have 48 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: a job. But she's twenty one. That's not like an 49 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: abnormal age to live with your parents. That's kind of 50 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: the around the normal age to be living with your parents. 51 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 2: That is true. I think when you hit thirty, sorry 52 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 2: thirty year olds, if you're still living with your parents, 53 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 2: unless you're taking care, Unless you're taking care of your parents, 54 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: that's different. 55 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 1: Anyways, Laura's boyfriend of six years proposed last year, and 56 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: we were all thrilled. He's a great guy and we 57 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: all love him. Back when she first got engaged, she 58 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 1: gave me her friend Charlotte and Carrie a box of 59 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: beautiful earrings that said will you be my bride'smaid? And 60 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: mine said made of honor. 61 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 2: Oh. 62 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: We were all giddy and started coming up with ideas 63 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: and discussing colors and case and all that fun stuff. 64 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: But they decided to wait a year to save and 65 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: to figure out what they wanted. Okay, well, four months ago, 66 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: Laura announced she was pregnant, and as a family, we 67 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: were all excited. All except Carrie. It remained quiet and 68 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: didn't say much about it. Laura then explained that her 69 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 1: and Alan decided they wanted to have the wedding in 70 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 1: two months with about thirty to forty people so they 71 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: can really celebrate before the baby. Stepdad offered them ten 72 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,399 Speaker 1: k so they could have their dream wedding, but due 73 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: to the circumstances, they asked if they could use most 74 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: of that money on a house they were looking at instead, 75 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: and he agreed, which is a great investment. Oh wow, 76 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: that's I mean, that's the way to do it. That 77 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: is the way to do it. I'd rather spend money 78 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 1: on a house than I'd. 79 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 2: Rather spend money on a honeymoon, because I don't think 80 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 2: I'll ever afford to buy a house one day this market. 81 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 3: That's true. 82 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: Well, actually, I want to live in a compact with 83 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: all my friends and family. 84 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 2: So, oh, I forgot we wrote that up. Yeah, yeah, 85 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 2: we could three D print the house and stuff. Have 86 00:03:58,120 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 2: you seen those three D printing houses? Things? 87 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: Of Yeah, we'll do that. So it's fine if we 88 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: could totally afford our gosh, So Charlotte, Laura, mom and 89 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: I have been frantically planning things and It's been a 90 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: lot of fun, except for the fact that Carrie hasn't 91 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: said much about it from the start, and whenever we 92 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: start wedding plan she either goes on her phone or 93 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: will not pay much attention. Finally, Laura had a talk 94 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: and asked her for more input and to participate more, 95 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: and Carrie agreed. When we were on our way to 96 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:30,359 Speaker 1: the dollar Store to pick up some wedding decorations, Carrie 97 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: scoffed and said, dollars store decorations. That's so tacky. 98 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 3: You're tacky, But I got you do things with your 99 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 3: eyes like you Yeah, like your eyes speak a lot 100 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 3: of words. 101 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: Thank you, that's true. 102 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 3: The fluttering what you just did there, I don't think 103 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 3: you even noticed. Yeah, it's crazy what you do with 104 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 3: your eyes. 105 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: Yes, they're just very big. But we ignored her and 106 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: did our thing. When we asked if she would help 107 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 1: us make handmade in the she complained again and said 108 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: it'll look like a bunch of preschoolers made it, and 109 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:08,239 Speaker 1: just stomped away. Finally, just recently, we were all dress 110 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:11,039 Speaker 1: shopping and Laura told us we can pick whatever dress 111 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: we want as long as it's blue, because she wants 112 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: it to be simple, and we would be paying for 113 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: it ourselves, and we can all be they can all 114 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 1: be her something blue. 115 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 2: I see you guess who's about to wear white? 116 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 1: Carrie. So Mom, Charlotte and I went into H and 117 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: M and found beautiful blue summer Maxi dresses, different styles. 118 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: Mom had lace, mine is a floral cotton, and Laura 119 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: thought they were perfect except Carrie, of course, and she 120 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: wanted to buy the two K bridesmaid designer gown she 121 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: found online. My mom told her that was ridiculous. Laura's 122 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 1: gown didn't even cost that much, so Carrie, of course 123 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: pouted and whined, so my mom gave in and we 124 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 1: all went to this fancy bridle shop. Oh my mom, 125 00:05:55,640 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 1: why are you letting her do this emotional manipulation and 126 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: you let her get away with it? 127 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 2: I dude, I just feel bad for whoever Carrie ends 128 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 2: up with. Yeah, because she's been taught her whole life 129 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 2: that she can get whatever she wants if possed. So 130 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 2: she better be getting some men with rich A rich person, Yeah, 131 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 2: I see an older man with multimillions of. 132 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,359 Speaker 1: Dollars, ninety year old man with a lot of cash. 133 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 3: Yeah, we know all about that. 134 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 2: We do. 135 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 1: Carrie right away found a pink blush gown that's not 136 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: blue that she had to wear, but it was one K. 137 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: Mom said a firm note. Plus, it's not even blue 138 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: like the other bridesmaids. 139 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 2: Ye. 140 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: My sister then said, blue is the stupidest color for 141 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: a bridesmaid dress because we don't even live near the ocean. 142 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 2: What what, there's so many other things that are blue. 143 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 1: You live under the sky, that's the. 144 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 2: Blue one legs, legs, blue ponds. 145 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 1: You probably drank some water today. 146 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 2: Ooh, that's clear. All I can think of that is blue. 147 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 3: You're looking Barry blue today too, Raley, that's true a 148 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 3: little bit. DAEs blueberries. 149 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 2: Dude, I am the coade is not here, so I 150 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 2: have to look like a blueberry for him. 151 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 1: Anyways, we all left and she had her little pout, 152 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: and Mom lectured her and told her, this is a 153 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: frugal wedding. It's in our backyard barbecue with only thirty 154 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: to forty people, and so she doesn't need a two 155 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: K designer dress of any kind. 156 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 2: This is her wedding that she's in. 157 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: She's like a bridesmaid for this wedding, and therefore it's 158 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: all about me. 159 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 2: This wedding means so much to me because I'm in it. 160 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 1: Fast forward to a few days later and Carrie says 161 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: she found a dress to wear that she already had 162 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: in her closet. Plus it was blue, so we thought 163 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: it was terrific. But when we went over to Mom 164 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: and Dad's, Carrie shrutted out in her old prom dress 165 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: from high school, which is basically a puffy ball gown 166 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: but dazzled with jewels, and as anyone does after high school, 167 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 1: she grew out of it, so her boobs were spilling 168 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: out and it was overall not very flattering. 169 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 2: Oh boy. 170 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: On top of all that, she was wearing a tiara 171 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: full of sparkling jewels that she claims she bought just 172 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: for the wedding, So now she's the princess of the wedding. 173 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 2: Ooh oh no. 174 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 1: Mom and Laura were silent, and finally I felt I 175 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: had had enough, so I snapped and told her that 176 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: she couldn't possibly be serious. Wearing a dress fancier than 177 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 1: the bride is one thing, having your booby's spill out 178 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: is another, but also wearing a crown on top of that, 179 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 1: who does she think she is? 180 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 2: This is her wedding, the lord of the wedding. No, 181 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 2: this is the wedding that she's in. She's her wedding wedding. 182 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 2: Therefore it is hers exactly. Thank you, you're now getting it. 183 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: I get it. Carrie crossed, I'm in this room. So therefore, okay, 184 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: storytime is mine. 185 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 2: Whoa. 186 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: Carrie crossed her arms and said, I'm the maid of honor. 187 00:08:55,640 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: Of course I'm going to wear a crown. Oh been 188 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: a little miscommunication. 189 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,839 Speaker 2: So she just assumed she just co opted it seemed. 190 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 2: Or was she gonna, like the day of steal the position. Yeah, 191 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 2: like in the office. 192 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: Switch a room. She was gonna tie o pee up 193 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: and put her in the closet and become the maid 194 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: of honor. 195 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 2: I'm the maid of honor. Or if you just like 196 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 2: if Keon just sits in my seat and says, I'm 197 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 2: the producer, I am. 198 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 3: I'm the producer, and I. 199 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 2: Can't sit in the seat and produce, then I am 200 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 2: no longer the producer. 201 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 3: I am the riley. 202 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 2: Now, yeah, that's how that's how it works. It works. 203 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: This is when we all get silent until Laura speaks 204 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: up and said, made of honor. I made Amy, made 205 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: of honor. You and Charlotte are the bridesmaids lay down 206 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: the law. Well, this trigger carry and she began screeching, 207 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: what do you mean I'm not made of honor? You 208 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 1: told me I was when when you gave us those presents. 209 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: I got earrings because I'm made of honor. 210 00:09:58,120 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 2: Huh. 211 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: Now, I don't know if were this past year Carrie 212 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: really truly thought she was made of honor and got 213 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 1: the title bridesmaid mixed up, or if she was in 214 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 1: denial or just simply didn't pay any attention to detail, 215 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: because I've been made of honor this entire time, and 216 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: she hasn't said anything about it until then. But this 217 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:19,080 Speaker 1: caused her to have the worst meltdown I think I've 218 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: ever witnessed in my life. She's about to go Chernobyl 219 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: on this. I truly thought people only acted like this 220 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 1: in movies or storybooks. Whenever a editor would post about 221 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: a bridezilla or wedding meltdown, I always thought this must 222 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: be exaggerated. But this has been the worst meltdown ever 223 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: in our family. Carrie began screaming, crying, She ripped off 224 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: her crown and stomped around until Dad came down to 225 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: see what the fuss was about. Through her blubbering, she 226 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 1: told Laura her wedding was all wrong. She said she 227 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 1: should be using that tenk for a nice wedding instead 228 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 1: of that ugly brick house her and Alan wanted, because 229 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 1: that's what the money was meant for. She also said 230 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 1: it was the stupidest idea ever that my sister would 231 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: want to get married while pregnant, because you look like 232 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: a fat swan on your wedding dress. 233 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:12,599 Speaker 3: Oh no, pull. 234 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 2: Kick out or na, arrest, Oh arrest or not arrestor? 235 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 2: All right, arrest or. 236 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 3: Na. 237 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: Honeybee says, I think Carrie needs a dose of reality facts, 238 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: the old dose. She needs a double door. 239 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 2: The sad thing though she needed that dose years ago. 240 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 1: Years ago. Yeah, late, She's missed all of her appointments, 241 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: all of her shots of reality. Again. She rambled on 242 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 1: to something about how blue is a dumb color because 243 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: we don't live near an ocean. What a strange, strange point. 244 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: I think. At this point, she's just pulling stuff out 245 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 1: of her butt. Dad tried to calm her down, and 246 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 1: she finally screams that if she can't be made of 247 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 1: ho her, then no one can and she won't go 248 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 1: to the wedding because if she doesn't go to the wedding, 249 00:11:57,400 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: it doesn't exist. Ooh, logic for you. She's like, no 250 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 1: one could be the maid of honor if I'm not 251 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 1: at the wedding, because the wedding cannot go on without me. 252 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 2: So there's no wedding. 253 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 1: At this point, Laura is a mess and is crying 254 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,559 Speaker 1: her heart out, and I'm ready to smack that little 255 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: witch so hard that the crown stays off her head permanently. 256 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: But before I can say anything, Laura says, fine, you 257 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: can be made of honor. You win, Laura. 258 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 2: No, you can't give in, Laura. No, you have to be. 259 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 1: Around who cares if she doesn't come. 260 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 2: Wait, what's a sturdy wall? 261 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: A sturdy wall? 262 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 2: You have to eat the wall of China here, the. 263 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 1: Great Wall of China. Don't let anybody in. 264 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 2: You can't. Why no, Because if you do this, she'll 265 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 2: just get anything she'll ever want in life. 266 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 1: It's true. If you do this, what's the place that 267 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 1: got over rend a lot? I don't know. 268 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 3: I don't say it. 269 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 2: Ooh ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ooh. Kingdom of Heaven, the 270 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 2: Wall of Jerusalem came down in the twelve hundreds. 271 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, but they were playing all those trumpets. 272 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:12,199 Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, that's a different one. No, twelve hundreds, 273 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 2: twelve hundred ad Oh, and I just watched the Kingdom 274 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 2: of Heaven movie. Okay, I don't know what che Anyways, guys, 275 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:21,959 Speaker 2: you guys put in the comments, what wall falls down? 276 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 3: We all followed around. 277 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: I can only think of Poland, but there was no 278 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: wall there. 279 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 3: It was just kind of a Berlin wall. 280 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 2: Anyways, Berlin wall. There we go, walls falling down, Humpty 281 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:38,199 Speaker 2: dumpty on a wall. But that was a cannon. 282 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 1: Okayway, And just like that, Carrie stopped crying and she 283 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: gave a small smile before going up to her room. 284 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: She's playing you all and you're falling into her trap. 285 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: Mom and Dad start arguing. Dad says there's nothing you 286 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 1: can do to control a twenty year old behavior. That's 287 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 1: false And Laura, I've gone into the next room to 288 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 1: call Alan about potentially canceling the wedding. Girl what I'm 289 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: I'm so angry that I end up storming into Carrie's 290 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: room to see that she's on her laptop ordering that 291 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: stupid pink two k dress. I was so dumbfounded at 292 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: her that I couldn't even face her. I left and 293 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: didn't say a word. Downstairs, Laura is crying to her 294 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: fiance and the parents are yelling all the while Carrie 295 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 1: is happily in her room buying stupid crap because she 296 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: got her way. I don't think I've ever been this angry. 297 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: I wish Laura had more of a backbone. I would 298 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 1: have told Carrie did not bother coming if she was 299 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 1: going to act like that. I don't even know what 300 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: to do now. I'm also hurt that Laura gave the 301 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: title to her just like that, because she screamed for it. 302 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: I don't know what to say or do to anyone. 303 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: What should I do? And quick at it. We live 304 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 1: on a farm, so we have approximately six acres of 305 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: open space where we're holding the wedding. 306 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 3: It's a lot of space that average okay, oh. 307 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 1: Just yeah, I'm like for farm, makes sense, but like 308 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: to hold the wedding, that's a lot of space to 309 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: do it. 310 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 2: I mean, you're not going to use the whole space. 311 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 1: They're going to use that whole space. 312 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 2: No, they probably have a bar, they're probably well, okay, 313 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 2: they must have horses that are gonna fallick around. Yeah, 314 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 2: they're not gonna. 315 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 3: Use Is this your dream wedding now, Safia, I'm frolicking. 316 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: The cooks who are preparing the hot dogs and hamburgers 317 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 1: will be wearing masks. The guests are all required to 318 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 1: wear masks, and we have hand sanitizer bottles at every table. Sorry, 319 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 1: I'd forgotten to conclude that personally, I wouldn't want to 320 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 1: risk it too much, but I'll be wearing a mask 321 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: and hand sanitizing constantly so I don't don't have to 322 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 1: miss my sister's wedding and pray that everything turns up fine. 323 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 1: We also have a little tap at the side of 324 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 1: our house we use as a sink all the time. 325 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: That's available to guests. I forget that a lot of 326 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: people right now probably aren't taking any precautions at all, 327 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 1: so I wanted to mention we are, if at least 328 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: a little. 329 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 2: Oh, they're talking about the virus this, Yeah, this is 330 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 2: prime say the word Okay, you can't why because then 331 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 2: YouTube will flag it? 332 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 1: Really? 333 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah, why because we might be saying conspiracy theories 334 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 2: about it. Dude, I'm Internet sucks things you can't say, 335 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 2: but can you scroll up on the comments and there 336 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 2: is an updates we got really good Stella Hirshman twenty 337 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 2: four says Laura must think that since Carrie is the favorite, 338 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 2: not inviting her would cause more drama. So that's me. 339 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: But like she's causing so much already, so it's what's 340 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: the loss? Yeah, not inviting her? 341 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 2: I don't know, dude, It's there has to come a 342 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 2: time where someone puts their. 343 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 1: Foot Someone's got to put their foot down, yeah. 344 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 3: Or she'll just keep getting her way and she has 345 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 3: for twenty disgusters. Yeah, it's disgusting. 346 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 2: I'm just I don't know why Laura feels obliged or 347 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 2: is that the right word? Yeah, to do this? 348 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. I just think it's silly because not only are 349 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: the parents letting Laura get away with things, but so 350 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 1: is Sorry letting Carrie get away with things. But so 351 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: is Laura. And it seems like Amy, just op I believe, 352 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 1: is the only person who is actually like seeing Carrie 353 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: for who she is. 354 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 2: I agree, and Dread four says send the Sister to 355 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 2: the sun so she can learn what the earth really 356 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 2: revolves around. The comments tell us where we should send 357 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 2: this that. 358 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:11,719 Speaker 1: Was a freaking good one was a bar That was 359 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 1: that that TikTok audio from Dance Moms. Ooh that's really bratty. 360 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:19,479 Speaker 1: That's that's that's what just went, Jarrett. 361 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 2: I love that we know where Sophia has been all breaking. 362 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 3: Yes, also, one hundred percent of you agreed that we 363 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:29,959 Speaker 3: should arrest, arrest and Joe arrest. 364 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,679 Speaker 1: Let's get into this update. Just wanted to post an 365 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 1: update on what happened this afternoon. When I made that post, 366 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:39,680 Speaker 1: it was already three days past the carry meltdown, so 367 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:42,439 Speaker 1: I gave it a lot of time and thought and 368 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:46,440 Speaker 1: soaked in everyone's piece of advice on here. Alan, Laura's fiance, 369 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 1: had actually called me early this morning and asked if 370 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 1: I'd be able to go over to see Laura because 371 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: he's fed up with Carrie's BS and we need to 372 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:58,200 Speaker 1: act fast, all right, I like, I was relieved to 373 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:00,880 Speaker 1: hear I wasn't the only one fed up besides those 374 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 1: on Reddit. So I went over straight away. Laura was 375 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 1: on the couch in her pj's hair, unwashed, and it 376 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,679 Speaker 1: looked like she had been crying the last few days. 377 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 1: The image absolutely broke me, and immediately she apologized to 378 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: me and said she didn't know what to do now. 379 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 1: Alan said he had thought the three of us should 380 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 1: all sit down with her and have an intervention, but 381 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 1: Laura shut that down right away and said she doesn't 382 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:26,439 Speaker 1: think she can handle any more yelling. I agree that 383 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: being yelled at is the last thing Laura needs, and 384 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: it should just be me and Alan. But Laura was 385 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: nervous about that too. She didn't want Carrie to feel 386 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 1: like she was being bombarded. She should feel like she 387 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:37,640 Speaker 1: was being bombarded. 388 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 2: Here we go, here we go. Do we want her 389 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 2: not to fill bombarded? Yeah, have Stepdaddy by her nice 390 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 2: little tree and put the tree in the middle of 391 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 2: the room. Yeah. And then everyone actually bombards her. That 392 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 2: scared me. I thought that was a fly. The little 393 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 2: hat on Sophia's mike ran away. That's what we got 394 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,640 Speaker 2: to do here. We have to bombard her. Bombard her, 395 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 2: but give her She seems like retail therapy a lot, 396 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 2: so I don't know. If you want to help her out. 397 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, give her a little like Amazon gift, car I 398 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 1: don't know, and then bombard Yeah. So finally, after a 399 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 1: few back and forths, Laura decided that she wanted me 400 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 1: alone to talk to Carrie without mom and dad and 401 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 1: her and s so together made a list of things 402 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,360 Speaker 1: that I need to address with her so that way 403 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: things don't steer off topic, such is how it's unacceptable 404 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 1: to yell at a pregnant woman, no matter the circumstances, 405 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 1: how disrespectful she was to criticize anything with the wedding 406 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 1: and the name calling, and of course the most important 407 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 1: part about her crying in order to be a maid 408 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 1: of honor. The thing I worry about is that Carrie's 409 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: gonna be like, well, you're not the wedding. It's not 410 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: your wedding. Why are you talking to me about that. 411 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 2: There's there's no one of authority. Yeah, talking to Carrie. Yeah. 412 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 2: If a sibling came up to me and said these things, 413 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,640 Speaker 2: I'd be like, okay, whatever. Yeah, if my dad came 414 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 2: up to me, my mom came up to me, I 415 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 2: think having a mom or dad would. 416 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,879 Speaker 1: Be That's the thing. I think one of the parents 417 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: or one of the wedding people should be involved. I 418 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 1: understand why Laura doesn't want to be yelled at, but 419 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 1: I think Alan should maybe and me involved. 420 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 2: Maybe not the dad because he's a step dad and 421 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 2: like it's her carry that is Carrie's dad. 422 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:14,719 Speaker 3: Really, so I thought it's a half sister. Yeaheah. 423 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: She Carrie is the half sister her dad. 424 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 2: Laura and Op grew up together and then they had 425 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 2: Carrie letters. 426 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 3: I think I would have, well, it's daddy's princess, but 427 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 3: Daddy makes you know, needs to set reality. 428 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,919 Speaker 1: Daddy needs to such reality to bring the parents in. 429 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 2: You have to. 430 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 1: I also decided to bring up with Laura about the 431 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 1: fact that Charlotte and I, the other bridesmaid, were planning 432 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 1: to have a fun bachelorette sunder party in a few 433 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:43,199 Speaker 1: days to help Laura celebrate. Laura's face lit up and 434 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 1: she seemed excited. I told her it was supposed to 435 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 1: be a surprise and Carrie was supposed to come, but 436 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 1: given the circumstances and the fact that it's at my flat, 437 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 1: I don't want her there anymore, and I wanted to 438 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 1: see if Laura was fine with that. She said she was, 439 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:57,920 Speaker 1: and that she'd much rather have her other friend over 440 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 1: instead in place of her. That was completely fine, and 441 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: after some more talking, I made my way to Mom 442 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 1: and Dads to see Carrie. As soon as I walked 443 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: in my Mom asked me what I was doing there. 444 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 1: I told her I needed to speak to Carrie. Mom 445 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 1: looked around and, in a hushed voice, told me it's 446 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 1: best I leave because the last three days after things 447 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 1: were resolved, Carrie has been perfectly happy, and no one 448 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 1: in this family needs any more drama. You can't keep 449 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 1: tiptoeing around your twenty one year old daughter. You have 450 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 1: to stand up to her. 451 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 2: Oh Carridge, Oh yeah. 452 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,160 Speaker 1: I told Mom I was sorry, but things in fact 453 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: were not resolved. They were far from resolved. That's when 454 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 1: Carrie walked into the kitchen and asked what I was 455 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 1: doing that. Mom tried to brush it off, said nothing. 456 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: Amy was just coming to get something. But she's on 457 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: her way out now. 458 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 2: Ooh ay. 459 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: But I told her no, Actually that's a lie. I'm 460 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:52,880 Speaker 1: here to talk to you about what happened the other 461 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:57,680 Speaker 1: day alone, about Kia. 462 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 2: Business. Hm, they're not fire it up right now. 463 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 1: Carrie didn't seem pleased, and Mom's face was as red 464 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 1: as a tomato. But Carrie and I proceeded to go 465 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 1: into her bedroom to talk. I firstly told her how 466 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: completely unacceptable it was for her to raise her voice 467 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 1: and scream at a pregnant woman because of how harmful 468 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: it was for the baby. Immediately, Carrie scoffed and said, no, 469 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 1: it isn't. Don't make up lies to make me feel guilty. 470 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 1: I told her what lies? She said, the baby's not 471 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,239 Speaker 1: gonna be affected just because I raised my voice. It 472 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 1: doesn't even know what's going on. You're just making stuff up. 473 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:35,119 Speaker 1: What the this girl? I swear? I decided it's no 474 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 1: use arguing with stupid, so I told her pregnant or not, 475 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:41,199 Speaker 1: this was Laura's wedding, not hers, and all of the 476 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,400 Speaker 1: name calling she did and harsh criticism of the decorations 477 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 1: was completely childish and unacceptable. I then brought up the 478 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 1: fact how her throwing that tantrum to get her way 479 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: was the most childish thing I've ever seen in my life, 480 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 1: and that if things were reversed and I made Laura 481 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 1: takeaway Carrie's made of honor job, she Carrie would have 482 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 1: lost her mind. So how was it in any ways 483 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 1: all right for her to do it to me? Boom 484 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 1: eat that put that in your plate? Need it? 485 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? 486 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 1: In response to that, she told me, I'm acting popathetic 487 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,120 Speaker 1: and then I wreak of jealousy. She then said, there's 488 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 1: no real problem here. You're just jealous. Laura decided she 489 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: wanted me after all, Girl, you bullied her into it. 490 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 3: This schirl sucks. 491 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 1: You bullied her into it. 492 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 2: The worst part about this is that she's so narcissistic 493 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 2: and so stupid that there is zero reasoning that will 494 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 2: ever happen. 495 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: That's the thing. Yeah, you can't talk to her because 496 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 1: she's stupid. She's an idiot. Yeah, it's she's a spoiled idiot. 497 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 2: Do you do we just like say everything and just 498 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 2: be like, Okay, she knows now, but she's not gonna change. 499 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: Then you cut her off or you go living in contact. 500 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, at this point, there's there's gonna be drama, nonetheless, 501 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 3: if she does come, if she doesn't come, there's gonna drama. Nonetheless. 502 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:01,159 Speaker 3: I would not have her go, Honestly, I don't care 503 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 3: about the drama. And she's like, let's have a fun 504 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 3: time without the brat. 505 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:04,919 Speaker 1: We ow. 506 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:09,240 Speaker 2: But that's gonna affect the stepdad and the mom. 507 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 3: And they should be out too if they if they've 508 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 3: reason with her, you gotta be like, this is not 509 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:13,480 Speaker 3: your wedding. 510 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 1: I told her this was false. She wanted me otherwise, 511 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 1: she wouldn't have asked, but agreed to make Carrie made 512 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,920 Speaker 1: of honor to stop the fighting. Carrie then very smugly 513 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 1: said there was nothing I could do about it now, 514 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 1: so I better get over it. That's when I told 515 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 1: her she was no longer welcome to the sleepover we 516 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 1: had planned, and that Laura also did not want her 517 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 1: to come. Ooh, but now she's gonna go bother Laura. 518 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 1: Until Carrie decided to apologize to both me, Laura, and 519 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 1: our parents for her outrageous behavior, she was no longer 520 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,359 Speaker 1: welcome in my and my fiance's home. Suddenly, Mom burst 521 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 1: through the door I'm assuming she was listening in and 522 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: went completely ape. She told me I had no right 523 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,919 Speaker 1: to ban Carrie from the sleepover and from my house, 524 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: and that the only reason I was doing it was 525 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 1: to get back at her. She told me I was 526 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 1: stirring up unnecessary drama and that at least Carrie didn't 527 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 1: mean to hurt my feelings on the other day, whereas 528 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: right now I'm doing it on purpose. This is where 529 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,160 Speaker 1: Carrie begins to cry and moan about how I'm bullying 530 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 1: her and I'm not being fair and this is hermo 531 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 1: this is herm. She's not getting her way, so now 532 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:20,239 Speaker 1: she's gonna pitch a fit. 533 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's to stomp your feet get your way kind 534 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 3: of thing. And it's just it's rinse, repeat, recycled. 535 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 2: It's where is this mom getting this from? I mean, okay, 536 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 2: the apples is far far from the tree, I think, 537 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 2: but this doesn't make sense in my head because the 538 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,719 Speaker 2: mom grew up as a single mother for so many years. 539 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:39,639 Speaker 2: But you think money corrupted her, she also got a 540 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 2: little spoiled and that's why she maybe, you know, sometimes 541 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 2: it goes into like this. You have this new kid, 542 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,399 Speaker 2: and you want to provide for the new kid, and 543 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 2: you want everything to be perfect for them. Avery says, 544 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:54,160 Speaker 2: Mom is willfooling enabling the victim mentality? 545 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 1: Wow, very true. 546 00:25:58,440 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 3: Dad already did that too. 547 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 1: They're both doing it. 548 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 549 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 1: My mom then goes over to Carrie and starts rubbing 550 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 1: her back and says, I know, honey, she's being very 551 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 1: rude to you right now. You didn't start anything. Gag. 552 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:14,239 Speaker 1: This mom sucks. That's when I noticed stepdad standing at 553 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,439 Speaker 1: the door, and I said to him, do you not 554 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 1: see all this? Did she at least tell you she 555 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 1: bought that pink two K. 556 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 2: Dress, please divorce. 557 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 1: Dad looked awkwardly between my mom, sister, and me before saying, 558 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 1: I think everyone is stressed out and no one means 559 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: what they say. Sister's fight and I know by the 560 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: end of the wedding you'll all be the best of 561 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 1: friends again, but they were never the best of friends, 562 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 1: and you need to wake up. At this point, I 563 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,199 Speaker 1: really really had enough. I told everyone I was leaving, 564 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 1: and Mom got up and said that discussion wasn't over. 565 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 1: I told her, actually, it was over, and unless Carrie 566 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,160 Speaker 1: apologizes to me and Laura, I will not be speaking 567 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: to her. On my way out, I heard Carrie say 568 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 1: there was nothing she needed to apologize for, but I 569 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 1: kept walking to say that I was hurt and angry 570 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 1: is an understand, and with how my head was pounding, 571 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 1: I just wanted some advil and juice, so I went 572 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 1: to the nearest drug store. Now this part might have 573 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,719 Speaker 1: been where I crossed over the line. I'm honestly not 574 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 1: so sure. But in my last post I didn't mention 575 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,520 Speaker 1: because I didn't find it relevant that Carrie is a 576 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,639 Speaker 1: boyfriend she's been going out with for approximately six months. 577 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 3: Someone likes dating that whatever she's about. I'm sorry that 578 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 3: dude probably gets stepped on and likes it. But like. 579 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 2: That just registered whatever they are about to do did 580 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 2: not cross on. This guy should know. Yeah, how she acts. 581 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. 582 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,240 Speaker 1: His name is Noah. He's twenty seven. He's a hardcore 583 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 1: Christian and overall a really cool guy. I met him 584 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: at the city's university about two years ago and we 585 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 1: had a lot of the same courses together and became pals. 586 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 1: Key and Carrie have quite a bit in common. They 587 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 1: both love animals. He fosters animals all the time, and 588 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 1: Carrie at that point was debating on studying to be 589 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 1: a vet. So at the beginning of January, Noah moved 590 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 1: back to our part of the city where he got 591 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,479 Speaker 1: a job as a pharmacist, and that's what he and 592 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 1: Carrie started going out, which we were all cool with 593 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 1: because he's really a great parent. 594 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 2: Dude. 595 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 1: He's so much better that I feel like she's gonna 596 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,119 Speaker 1: have She's gonna like Carrie cheated on him or something. 597 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 1: Oh that's what I feel. I think. 598 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,400 Speaker 2: No, I don't know if she'd do that. I think 599 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 2: she'd just be like, hey, she's being a brat right now. Yeah, 600 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 2: I think. 601 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 1: That's what she's because of his Christian values. He's very 602 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 1: excited to get married and have kids a people what 603 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 1: he said multiple times, he hopes to be engaged by 604 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 1: the end of the year. Carrie is also his first relationship, 605 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 1: which might be another reason why he's so anxious for 606 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 1: the commitment. Give it, give it a second, dude. 607 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 2: But that's sort of the Christian male arc. 608 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 1: First relationship. 609 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 2: I got to marry this person. It's gonna be great, right, 610 00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 2: have kids. They're all gonna be named after the names 611 00:28:58,480 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 2: in the Bible. 612 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 3: And then John Luke, Matthew. 613 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 2: Matthew, Mark Luke, John, and we're all gonna be happy. 614 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 2: It's gonna be great. 615 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 3: I love that, Like this is this is a perfect relationship. 616 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 3: So again, like I said, he's getting walked on probably 617 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,200 Speaker 3: and he's like, this is what a relationship is. 618 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, that's And then she if they do get married, 619 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 2: she's gonna be a traad wife with all She's gonna 620 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 2: have millions of Stanley and. 621 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 1: Then he buys her everything. 622 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 2: Yep, she's gonna go to Chick fil A every day 623 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 2: except for on Sunday. And it's good. Christian's gonna be great. 624 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:32,880 Speaker 3: And he's like, this is this is perfect. 625 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,479 Speaker 2: I'm so happy she's gonna start a business making like 626 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 2: I don't know, like underwater basket weaving or something. It's 627 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 2: gonna it sounds a specifically, Yeah, I don't know, so 628 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:44,480 Speaker 2: who do you know? 629 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 1: Anyways, I got some ad villain juice and was surprised 630 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:50,959 Speaker 1: to see Noah because I didn't know he worked at 631 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 1: this particular pharmacy. So he waved me over and saw 632 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 1: the advil and asked if I was sick. I told 633 00:29:56,520 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 1: him no, just a headache from the wedding stress. He said, oh, 634 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,360 Speaker 1: Carrie never mentioned anybody's wedding stress. She said things were 635 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 1: going terrific. Yes, are you about to get you a 636 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 1: come up? 637 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,120 Speaker 2: And where's the tea? I want to spill some. 638 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get some tea after this good? 639 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 2: You need it? I do. 640 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 1: I had a single year, singular one. 641 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 2: Oh no. 642 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 1: This surprised me, but mostly pissed me off. So I 643 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 1: asked him if that means she never told him about 644 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 1: the situation a few days before. He had no clue, 645 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:28,960 Speaker 1: so I made it brief and I told him the 646 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 1: highlights of her name calling, screaming, and choosing her own 647 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 1: dress against my sister's wishes, and how now she's the 648 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 1: new maid of honor. This surprised Noah, and he said 649 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 1: stuff like, are you sure I know Carrie? She's always 650 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 1: hated yelling. She didn't actually make that big of a scene, 651 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 1: did she? What I told him, Yes, it was all 652 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 1: very unfortunately true. Then I told him that if she 653 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: talks to him, to please recommend her to some sort 654 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: of therapist. He knows quite a few, and I told 655 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,320 Speaker 1: him perhaps she might even need medicine for pipe polar 656 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 1: disorder for all I know. I told him I am 657 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 1: now out of her life unless she apologized, and if 658 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,200 Speaker 1: I were him, I would think very carefully before making 659 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 1: a commitment to her anytime soon. He stood there and 660 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 1: didn't respond. So I left, And when I went home, 661 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 1: Alan and my fiance were playing video games and they 662 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 1: asked what happened. So I told them everything. Alan and fiance. 663 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 1: I think I was in the right for everything, including 664 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 1: warning Noah. 665 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 2: Okay, Pole, Pole, should we war? 666 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 1: Noah? 667 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:33,479 Speaker 2: Nah? Yeah, warn in warn na. I I don't know 668 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 2: about like recommending therapy or yeah. 669 00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 1: I needed to go that just because it's like not 670 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 1: I like, he's her boyfriend. 671 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 2: I do the nice way Carrie is yelling at me 672 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,239 Speaker 2: she feels his way about the wedding. Yeah, I'm just 673 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 2: like really stressed out. I would just mention that. 674 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, not even like really put it on her, just 675 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: so he doesn't get defensive or anything, just be like, yeah, 676 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,240 Speaker 1: she like kind of got really upset and was screaming 677 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 1: at us a long and you know, like I'm a 678 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 1: little bit worried about her. It just would really be 679 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:03,960 Speaker 1: overly nice. 680 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 3: I would still warn him. I would have been like, 681 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 3: what do you see in her? 682 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 1: What do you know? 683 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 3: Why do you like my sister so much? 684 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? Say Toda says, are you Sally Toads? I'm so sorry? 685 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,360 Speaker 2: Are you warning him? Or are you telling him the 686 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 2: truth of what happened. 687 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 1: Later on that evening, however, I got countless texts from 688 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 1: Carrie and my mother, who were furious that I mention 689 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 1: anything to Noah just to start crap on purpose. I 690 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,280 Speaker 1: did not respond to any of the messages, and instead 691 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: I blocked both of their numbers for the time being. 692 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 1: As for Noah, Carrie has him wrapped around her little 693 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 1: finger completely, so I honestly don't see him doing anything 694 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 1: drastic he sees, how she is when she's poudy, and 695 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 1: how she is when she's spoiled. But I think all 696 00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:55,240 Speaker 1: of that goes over his head completely. But still I 697 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 1: felt I needed to say something. I wish I could 698 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 1: say I feel better and like a new woman, but 699 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: I don't. I feel hurt and betrayed. It feels like 700 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 1: my throat and my chest are clogged, and I honestly 701 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 1: don't know if it'll ever clear. At the end of 702 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,960 Speaker 1: the day, Laura called me and said she really wants 703 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:13,840 Speaker 1: me as her maid of honor, but in order to 704 00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 1: keep the peace, she's choosing Carrie. 705 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 2: For now. 706 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 1: I will swallow my pride and my pain and support 707 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 1: my favorite sister in anything she decides. And I'm going 708 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 1: to love my new niece and nephew to bits. Thank 709 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: you everyone for listening, and if you have any more 710 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 1: advice or words of wisdom, I'm all years. And there 711 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 1: is another update. 712 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 2: My go sho. We had a good comment be Hope 713 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 2: Art says she's hiding herself from him and won't be 714 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 2: able to keep up the facade after the wedding, warn 715 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 2: him and walk away. Op did the right thing. 716 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 1: She's definitely gonna show this like true true self in 717 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 1: a couple months or a year or something. 718 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, hashtag save Noah. That is true. 719 00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,400 Speaker 1: No, it's also really frustrating. I mean it must be 720 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 1: incredibly frustrating as opee to once again have Laura just 721 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 1: concede be like, you know what, Oh it's fine, this 722 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 1: is what she wants. I don't want to cross drama, honey, 723 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,839 Speaker 1: be eighty five. Thank you for the two pounds anyone else, 724 00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 1: Thanks Stephen King hearing Carrie, Yeah, she's gonna have a 725 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 1: bunch of pigs blood dropped on her at the wedding. 726 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 1: Joe's Fema delber Quez. Thank you for the twenty seven sec. 727 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 1: Keon so beautiful. Please give us a big smile. 728 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,560 Speaker 3: It's so sweet. It's like, ah, it's so good to 729 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:29,839 Speaker 3: be back. 730 00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,640 Speaker 2: We haven't pimped out Keon in a minute, in a hot. 731 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:34,439 Speaker 1: Minute, a whole week. 732 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 3: What do you mean? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I 733 00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,800 Speaker 3: got a little stubble here, Sorry guys. 734 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 1: Whitney, thank you for the twenty five bucks. Love catching alive. 735 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 1: Wish me luck might have COVID slash flu ough. I 736 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 1: flew to NYC in two days. Pray for a negative. 737 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 2: We'll be praying. 738 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,120 Speaker 1: Everyone's getting sick man. I got sick on Christmas Eve. 739 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:53,879 Speaker 1: She wasn't COVID, but I was. 740 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 2: Like, no virus, virus. 741 00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 1: Sorry, no, it wasn't the virus, but. 742 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:03,400 Speaker 2: She was telling me about it. She's like umbdrated. 743 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, I'm so tired. When my friends 744 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: called me and he was like, hey, like, how are 745 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:12,799 Speaker 1: you know? Was I tuk aw? I was sad? 746 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:14,880 Speaker 2: But you could read your new recipe book. 747 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 1: No, I was like I couldn't do anything. I was 748 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 1: literally like I didn't even watch movies that day. Like 749 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:22,720 Speaker 1: it was that it was that bad that I couldn't 750 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,760 Speaker 1: even enjoy being sick. And you're like, you know, eating 751 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:27,839 Speaker 1: soup and watching movies. I couldn't even do that. 752 00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 2: How many times did you get this year? 753 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 1: You're so freaking much? Because I was. I I lost 754 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 1: my voice for two weeks in January, Yeah, the first 755 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,200 Speaker 1: of the year. The first of the year. I completely 756 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 1: lost my voice for two weeks. 757 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:45,880 Speaker 2: Sometime in March. Sometime in March for sure, May. Whenever 758 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 2: we got back from Paris was that sick? Thank so 759 00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,760 Speaker 2: I must have been sick for whenever Sam got back from. 760 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:52,280 Speaker 3: New York sick. 761 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, she at least. 762 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 2: Seven to eighty seven, eight times times. I've got sick 763 00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:58,600 Speaker 2: this whole year. 764 00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 1: Frustrating. It's so fra. My My thing is that Riley 765 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 1: drinks so much of an energy drink. Oh yeah, dude, 766 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,239 Speaker 1: that has vitamin C in it that I think that 767 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,440 Speaker 1: you've killed anything inside of you. 768 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:13,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like super vitamin C. 769 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, all the I get Like with all the. 770 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 1: Other stuff, you're getting so much other side effects. But 771 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 1: you will never get sick again. 772 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,880 Speaker 2: I will never get sick again, missus Silver Tear. Thanks 773 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 2: for being a member for eight months. Love being able 774 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 2: to catch alive. Work has slowed down and I can 775 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 2: be around more again. Yay. Happy to see you all alive. 776 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:40,880 Speaker 2: Happy New Year. And yes, Stella, it is really nice 777 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 2: because I ate so much dirt and ladybugs growing up 778 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 2: that I will never be sick again. 779 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:47,399 Speaker 3: Why did you eat lady? 780 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 2: But I don't know. We were talking about all the 781 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,880 Speaker 2: things about eight when I was five, and that was 782 00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:51,359 Speaker 2: one of them. 783 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,960 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but there is an update, so let's get 784 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:54,160 Speaker 1: into it. 785 00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:54,399 Speaker 2: Yeah. 786 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 3: Look at that poll though, someone said, don't tell the boyfriend, 787 00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 3: who said not to tell the boyfriend. 788 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 1: They just want to be messy. 789 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,240 Speaker 3: You just like chaos. You just like to see people fall. 790 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:08,360 Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, So if you haven't seen the previous posts, 791 00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,800 Speaker 1: I'll link them below. First post was here on the group. 792 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,520 Speaker 1: Second was on my profile because it got removed from here. 793 00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,880 Speaker 1: So here is what I'm thinking is the final update 794 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 1: on what happens with my sisters. So it was about 795 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,839 Speaker 1: two weeks. I think it's all been a weird blur 796 00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: since I had that talk with Carrie, and I had 797 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 1: since then blocked my mom, dad, and Carrie on everything, 798 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 1: just hoping things may settle all on their own. Well 799 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:37,239 Speaker 1: it didn't exactly settle, But here's what happened. About two 800 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 1: weeks after everything. My fiance and I were just chilling 801 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,680 Speaker 1: late one evening watching TV. It was about two am 802 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 1: when my fiance gets a phone call from Carrie. Oh 803 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 1: my god, she's threatening him. She's like, hello, it's not Carrie, 804 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:55,960 Speaker 1: but I'm threatening you. Watch your back. He had never 805 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,480 Speaker 1: blocked her number or mom, so at first we just 806 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 1: left it, not wanting to deal with whatever Carrie was 807 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 1: wanting to talk about at two am. But then right 808 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 1: after we ignored the first call, she called the second 809 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 1: time and left a voice message telling my fiance to 810 00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:15,400 Speaker 1: pick up the phone asap because there's an emergency right away. 811 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: He called back, and all we can understand from Carrie 812 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,960 Speaker 1: was something was going on with Mom and she didn't 813 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,359 Speaker 1: know what to do. We hurried over there and were 814 00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:26,839 Speaker 1: greeted by Carrie, who told us Mom was acting hysterical 815 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 1: and she didn't know what to do. When I asked 816 00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:30,759 Speaker 1: where Stepdad was, she said that they had gotten into 817 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 1: a huge row a few days prior, and he was 818 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:38,360 Speaker 1: now row pronouncing row, a huge row a few days prior, 819 00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:41,360 Speaker 1: and he was now staying at a hotel somewhere. She 820 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,720 Speaker 1: led us over to Mom's room, and on the way 821 00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 1: there I could see the family photos that were hung 822 00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,480 Speaker 1: up in the hallway were either lying on the floor or. 823 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 2: Smack, oh my gosh. 824 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:54,160 Speaker 1: It seems that the tantrums do run in the family. 825 00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:59,320 Speaker 1: When we entered the bedroom, however, Mom was calming watching 826 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 1: a TV show. She looked over to me and said 827 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:07,399 Speaker 1: something along the lines of well, my only daughter. Her 828 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,799 Speaker 1: speech was incredibly slurred, so it was hard to hear, 829 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,759 Speaker 1: and Carrie told me not to pay any mind to 830 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 1: what she was saying because the last hour she's been 831 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 1: out of it and saying off things I thought maybe 832 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,840 Speaker 1: Mom was going to start shouting or something, but instead 833 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,720 Speaker 1: she continued to watch TV. Is she having a mental breakdown? 834 00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:24,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think so. 835 00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,080 Speaker 3: Now this is a normal Tuesday night. 836 00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,879 Speaker 1: I asked Carrie if Mom was wasted, and she said 837 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,120 Speaker 1: she wasn't sure, although she knew she had some wine earlier, 838 00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 1: So that's yes. Apparently Mom had been saying weird stuff 839 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,799 Speaker 1: that just made no sense at all, then started screaming 840 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:43,240 Speaker 1: and shouting about broken families being stuck in the picture frames. 841 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:45,399 Speaker 1: So that's why there was that mess in the hall. 842 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,239 Speaker 1: As I was questioning, Carrie and my fiance decided to 843 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:51,240 Speaker 1: call the emergency line to get Mom an ambulance. Honestly, 844 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 1: I would take her to the hospital. Think so yeah, 845 00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:56,360 Speaker 1: based off this reaction, Yeah, because it seems like nobody 846 00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:57,480 Speaker 1: knows what to do. 847 00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 2: Dang. That would have not crossed my mind really, And 848 00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 2: I'm usually the guy that calls on. 849 00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:05,400 Speaker 1: If I started behaving like this, you wouldn't call the hospital. 850 00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:07,360 Speaker 3: I just get ice cream, yeah I was. 851 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:08,520 Speaker 2: I would just get you some soup. 852 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:12,320 Speaker 1: If I start screaming and throwing pictures on the wall 853 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 1: and slurring speech, you should probably call the hospital. 854 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 3: No, she's fine. 855 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:20,600 Speaker 1: But don't don't. Don't get me an ambulance. If you're 856 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 1: making me pay two K for an ambulance, you're a 857 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:23,919 Speaker 1: bad friend. 858 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,359 Speaker 2: I'm probably just gonna ride me to the hospital, like mom, 859 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,200 Speaker 2: If you start doing that, I'm probably just gonna leave. 860 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:32,640 Speaker 2: What sam deal with you? But if i'm if, I'm 861 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 2: the only. 862 00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:34,359 Speaker 1: One, probably the only one here. 863 00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 2: Well, okay, to be honest, if you were acting that 864 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,560 Speaker 2: way and I had to get you a hospital, I 865 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:41,720 Speaker 2: have to like tie your arms up so you wouldn't 866 00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 2: hit me while I'm driving. 867 00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:46,000 Speaker 1: While I'm driving, actually I'm pretty strong now. 868 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, if I if I'm driving and taking you to 869 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,799 Speaker 2: the hospital, Oh yeah, what am I gonna do? I'll 870 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,120 Speaker 2: call the fireman. They can deal with you. They're pretty strong. 871 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:57,560 Speaker 3: That'd be fun for you for me. Yeah, why because 872 00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:58,200 Speaker 3: it's the fireman. 873 00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 2: Because just because it's the fireman, we call the West 874 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,480 Speaker 2: Hollywood Fireman. That's not what you like. 875 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 3: Usually they are Okay, Well, I don't. I mean, I 876 00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:07,000 Speaker 3: don't know, have. 877 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,000 Speaker 2: You ever been to one of those shows with the 878 00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 2: Bowles and the Fireman? I thought like go through that 879 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:13,600 Speaker 2: all the time. 880 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:17,279 Speaker 1: He asked Carrie if Mom was on any medication and 881 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,439 Speaker 1: apparently she was on something for anxiety and depression, which 882 00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:24,200 Speaker 1: I had no idea. I knew mom had anxiety issues, 883 00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:27,640 Speaker 1: but I never knew much else. Once fiance got off 884 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,800 Speaker 1: the phone with an emergency line, Carrie went and grabbed 885 00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,319 Speaker 1: us to the bottles of mom's medications to bring to 886 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,040 Speaker 1: the doctors while fiance tried to get a hold of 887 00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 1: my stepdad. I asked Carrie if she contacted our other sister, 888 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:42,000 Speaker 1: and she said no because she didn't want to cause 889 00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:46,759 Speaker 1: any unnecessary stress for her or for the baby. Oh nash, naw, 890 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:47,640 Speaker 1: she gets. 891 00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:53,160 Speaker 2: We get a slight improvement. Maybe I'm predicting that she's 892 00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:54,600 Speaker 2: gonna become a better. 893 00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:56,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, the mom's gonna kind of have a freak out 894 00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:58,319 Speaker 1: and she's like I have to step up. 895 00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:01,319 Speaker 2: She's like, I can't become this. Yeah for Noah, because 896 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,839 Speaker 2: I don't want to know, so I don't want him 897 00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 2: to know about this. 898 00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:12,600 Speaker 3: It's true, you there without me noticing. Yeah, you're not sly. 899 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 3: It may be a Monday, but you're not sly. That 900 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:15,920 Speaker 3: was disgusting. 901 00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:17,920 Speaker 1: She then went on to admit that she knew I 902 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:21,320 Speaker 1: was the right. I was right, wow the entire time 903 00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,640 Speaker 1: when I told her that stress could affect a pregnancy, 904 00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:27,040 Speaker 1: but just didn't want to admit it before. I decided 905 00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,279 Speaker 1: now wasn't the time to argue and just kept my 906 00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:33,240 Speaker 1: mouth shut. Eventually, the paramedics came, and just as they did, 907 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:37,920 Speaker 1: Mom started screaming in hysterics again, screaming and yelling stuff 908 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 1: that I don't even quite remember because it was garbled 909 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,600 Speaker 1: and didn't make sense, something about her needing to stay 910 00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 1: to feed the baby. 911 00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:47,200 Speaker 3: A lot of people, a lot of people in the 912 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,160 Speaker 3: comments said she might be having a stress. 913 00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,920 Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking. This is like the slurred speech. 914 00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,800 Speaker 3: And like, this is just this is a little bit wild. 915 00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:58,280 Speaker 1: We all went to the hospital and eventually fiance finally 916 00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,080 Speaker 1: got a hold of stepdad and he arrived much later. 917 00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:04,280 Speaker 1: Where was Stepdad. But the doctor figured with the amount 918 00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 1: of stress and with her and Dad's constant fighting plused 919 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,759 Speaker 1: with the mixture of booze and her medication, turns out 920 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:11,920 Speaker 1: she had drunk quite a bit that night. It was 921 00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 1: like she just sort of snapped and she became somewhat 922 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:18,239 Speaker 1: confused slash disoriented. He also figures Mom, as a talk 923 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:22,520 Speaker 1: hasn't been taking her medication properly. Physically, Mom was perfectly fine, 924 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,600 Speaker 1: but they're keeping her in for a few days just 925 00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,239 Speaker 1: to keep an eye on her due to virus. I 926 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,800 Speaker 1: haven't been able to visit her or see her until 927 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,359 Speaker 1: she gets released, but Dad was able to go in 928 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,440 Speaker 1: and verify a few things, but as far as I know, 929 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,680 Speaker 1: he's not really allowed to stay with her either, and 930 00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:40,920 Speaker 1: was only able to see her that night she was 931 00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:44,759 Speaker 1: admitted as for the actual wedding stuff. While Carrie and 932 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,160 Speaker 1: I were driving back home, she told me that Laura 933 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,759 Speaker 1: had texted her a few days before and told her 934 00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 1: that I was still going to be made of honor. 935 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 1: The decision was final, and she would not be answering 936 00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:58,759 Speaker 1: her or our parents' phone calls or texts about the matter. Finally, 937 00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:03,359 Speaker 1: Laura is standing for ourselves. We love it. Hearing this 938 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,120 Speaker 1: has led to more fighting between Mom, Dad, and Carrie 939 00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 1: and shouting, and that's when things went mostly downhill. Neither 940 00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 1: Carrie or my parents have spoken to Laura in a 941 00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 1: few days since I was completely taken aback, especially since 942 00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:20,440 Speaker 1: Laura never told me this herself. I tried getting more information, 943 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:23,600 Speaker 1: but Carrie was pretty much silent the entire way back home. 944 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,120 Speaker 1: She did have a little speech prepared about how she 945 00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 1: might no longer even consider me her sister again, how 946 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:32,120 Speaker 1: betrayed she was by everything, and I just let her 947 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,200 Speaker 1: talk and didn't have much to say. I was too 948 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 1: tired to fight or do anything, and she had nothing 949 00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 1: else to say about the wedding or Mom's breakdown, and 950 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:44,080 Speaker 1: I haven't spoken to her since m Currently, I am 951 00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,879 Speaker 1: looking for family therapy for the very near future. I'm 952 00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 1: not sure what's available since the virus, but I plan 953 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 1: on getting in touch with mom's doctor to see if 954 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,840 Speaker 1: he has any suggestions. I had told Alan when had happened, 955 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 1: and I'm hoping he will be able to tell Laura 956 00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,040 Speaker 1: without her stressing out too much. I suggested to keep 957 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,360 Speaker 1: it vague and to tell her Mom was completely fine. 958 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 1: This all started because of wedding plans, but I guess 959 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:09,200 Speaker 1: we just had our problems from the start and it 960 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:12,600 Speaker 1: escalated that. I think you had the problems from the start, 961 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,600 Speaker 1: and it was just the wedding that gave them. Yes, 962 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:18,600 Speaker 1: feel free to ask any questions and I'll do my 963 00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:21,040 Speaker 1: best answer. It's all been a bit foggy for me, 964 00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 1: so I may have left out important details, and there 965 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,840 Speaker 1: is I think a final update. 966 00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:31,960 Speaker 2: I am predicting they have the wedding. 967 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:37,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, Carrie comes shows back and she says, I object, No, No, I. 968 00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:39,640 Speaker 2: Think Carrie becomes a good person out. Carrie's a good guy. 969 00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:43,319 Speaker 2: It turns around because the mother has gone completely a wall. 970 00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:46,000 Speaker 2: She's like, I can't be like that. That's where I'm going. 971 00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,359 Speaker 2: And she's had a reality check. Yeah, I think she's 972 00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:50,440 Speaker 2: got that reality People were telling you she was coming. 973 00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 1: I think it's coming. 974 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:52,640 Speaker 3: It was a canond event for her maturing. 975 00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 1: Update three. Hey all, many have you been messaging me 976 00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 1: for an update. I'm so sorry it's been a while. 977 00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 1: I never log into this account, so if you haven't 978 00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 1: seen the previous posts, I'll link them below. First post 979 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:09,800 Speaker 1: was here on the group. Second was on my profile. 980 00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:13,080 Speaker 1: Laura had the wedding. It was before the second lockdown 981 00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 1: and out in our family's farm with about maybe fifty 982 00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:19,880 Speaker 1: people that showed. Carrie wore the dress she chose because 983 00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:23,200 Speaker 1: Laura caved and then wore the tiara thing she picked out, 984 00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:24,759 Speaker 1: so she still was a little brat. 985 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:26,120 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. 986 00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:30,040 Speaker 1: Days before the wedding, Carrie made Facebook posts directed at me, 987 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,640 Speaker 1: just statuses saying stuff like can't believe my own family 988 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,799 Speaker 1: would be so toxic and bully me stuff like that, 989 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:42,319 Speaker 1: so eventually I blocked her. Good. Honestly, nothing too out 990 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,239 Speaker 1: there happened during the wedding. Carrie got wasted and tried 991 00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,680 Speaker 1: to sing and dance and make the attention fall on her, 992 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 1: of course, but nothing overly out there. Gave me the 993 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,680 Speaker 1: cold shoulder big time, and if I would enter the room, 994 00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,480 Speaker 1: she would announce that she can't be around negative energy, 995 00:46:57,280 --> 00:47:01,839 Speaker 1: then leave, dragging her boyfriend with her. Her boyfriend proposed 996 00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 1: her after all of that, Noah, after. 997 00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:11,040 Speaker 2: All do okay, Noah, you're the a hole. We do 998 00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:16,120 Speaker 2: not propose at weddings unless it's I don't, but we 999 00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:17,920 Speaker 2: do not propose that other people's weddings. 1000 00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,239 Speaker 1: We I think that he proposed at the wedding. I 1001 00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 1: think it was just like this, well let's actually read. 1002 00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, read it, but A know what. 1003 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,520 Speaker 1: My assumption was that he just like proposed. Later, her 1004 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 1: boyfriend proposed to her and texted me asking if I 1005 00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 1: would please try to make up things with her and 1006 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,719 Speaker 1: help plan the wedding. I don't think he proposed at 1007 00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:35,000 Speaker 1: the wedding. 1008 00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:36,640 Speaker 2: EDGE didn't. Yeah, okay, I think. 1009 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 1: He just proposed, But I think he's still the a 1010 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:39,320 Speaker 1: hole to himself. 1011 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:40,520 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah. 1012 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,560 Speaker 1: I told him I was sorry, but I still wanted 1013 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,200 Speaker 1: to be his friend. I just can't have her in 1014 00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:48,840 Speaker 1: my life. He told me he was sorry and hopes 1015 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:52,280 Speaker 1: we one day reconcile. Haven't spoken to Carrie in months, 1016 00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:55,080 Speaker 1: but Laura is doing good and they still keep in touch. 1017 00:47:55,480 --> 00:48:00,000 Speaker 1: Mom My do Mom and my stepdad have been signed 1018 00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,880 Speaker 1: and I've just been keeping my distance as well. I 1019 00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,600 Speaker 1: don't have any of them on Facebook anymore, but Laura 1020 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:09,400 Speaker 1: keeps me in the loop. Anyways, Not much just has happened. 1021 00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,480 Speaker 1: Not a very exciting update, but thanks everyone for the sport, 1022 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 1: and we would love if you support us on YouTube, 1023 00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:18,400 Speaker 1: Facebook and TikTok. Just tap her profile every weekda at 1024 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:19,080 Speaker 1: three pmpst. 1025 00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,279 Speaker 2: Just do it, easy money, Just tap it. Check and 1026 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:23,440 Speaker 2: see there's another update. 1027 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 1: Well there's an edit. 1028 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,000 Speaker 2: Well maybe there's another update that happened. 1029 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:28,399 Speaker 1: That's true. 1030 00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:31,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, because this has happened nearing the virus time, so yeah, 1031 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:32,640 Speaker 2: so maybe there's more you had some time. 1032 00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:34,040 Speaker 3: Cook, I'll check right now, Cook. 1033 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,839 Speaker 1: But there is an edit on those of you saying 1034 00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,520 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have told Noah. I think Carrie is bipolar. 1035 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,959 Speaker 1: You're probably right. I want to say I never meant 1036 00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:46,440 Speaker 1: it in a malicious way. My good friend is a bipole, 1037 00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:51,000 Speaker 1: is bipolar and recently started taking medication. I began noticing 1038 00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,719 Speaker 1: similar outbursts and trace between the two of them, and 1039 00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 1: it was my friend who suggested Carrie might be I 1040 00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,279 Speaker 1: brought it up to Noah because I wondered, since he's 1041 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,280 Speaker 1: in the medical feet, if he would have any knowledge 1042 00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 1: or be able to convince her to see someone. I 1043 00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,800 Speaker 1: am in no way judging anyone who is bipolar. Also, 1044 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:09,920 Speaker 1: I in no way claim that I'm the victim or 1045 00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,680 Speaker 1: one hundred percent innocent to this. Of course, I've had 1046 00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,640 Speaker 1: my own arguments with Carrie beforehand and during this, so 1047 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,919 Speaker 1: I know she's not the bad guy bad guy here. 1048 00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 1: I usually try to stay out of any outburst her 1049 00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:23,719 Speaker 1: or my mom has had in the past. And that 1050 00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:26,280 Speaker 1: is the end of that story. 1051 00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:27,399 Speaker 2: I think we got more. 1052 00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:28,320 Speaker 3: I'm checking. 1053 00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:35,480 Speaker 1: But man, girl, se. 1054 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:38,000 Speaker 2: Kimberly says, Carrie gets dropped off at the Amish community. 1055 00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,120 Speaker 2: She's got to go back to square one and beat 1056 00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:46,120 Speaker 2: Darwin like a pilgrim to beat that's her punishment. Yeah, 1057 00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,200 Speaker 2: I want to know what happens to the mom, though, 1058 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:49,200 Speaker 2: and you stepdad. 1059 00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,839 Speaker 1: I want to know if, like the the doctors were like, hey, 1060 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:54,879 Speaker 1: she's fine or whatever, like what happened there? 1061 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:58,000 Speaker 2: I dude, I think the stepdad he broke it off. 1062 00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,920 Speaker 1: I think they've been fighting a But I'm a little 1063 00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,759 Speaker 1: bit confused because it seems like I'm seems like they've 1064 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,880 Speaker 1: been fighting a lot about this wedding, which implies that 1065 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,520 Speaker 1: there is a lack of agreement on something here. So 1066 00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,359 Speaker 1: I'm wondering if maybe the mom is on Carrie side 1067 00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:12,480 Speaker 1: and the step dad is not. 1068 00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:15,359 Speaker 2: I think that's a great point. 1069 00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:15,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1070 00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:20,240 Speaker 2: On top of that, who's ponying up all the money? 1071 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 2: You think he's two k coming? Yeah, I think he's 1072 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:25,640 Speaker 2: kind of sick about it. He's like, man, I don't 1073 00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:26,839 Speaker 2: want to keep paying for all. 1074 00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,520 Speaker 1: This, this is ridiculous. 1075 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:33,840 Speaker 2: She's like, no, but it's my it's my come on. 1076 00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:38,359 Speaker 3: There's no real updaten unfortunately, no real update. What op 1077 00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:42,960 Speaker 3: does is like replied to some of the comments. So one, uh, 1078 00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:48,359 Speaker 3: they had a baby and it was a girl, and 1079 00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:53,799 Speaker 3: then OPI herself eloped with her fiance and they're having 1080 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:55,880 Speaker 3: I think a kid too. It makes sense that she 1081 00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,200 Speaker 3: would alope bad, but that's that's that's pretty much what 1082 00:50:58,239 --> 00:50:59,960 Speaker 3: I found. Like that she's replying to the comments like 1083 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,160 Speaker 3: what else happens, like, oh, thanks for the support, that's 1084 00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:02,719 Speaker 3: nothing else. 1085 00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:06,319 Speaker 2: Well that's good, gets her happy, and you're. 1086 00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:12,760 Speaker 3: Still just double checking if there's anything else You're welcome. 1087 00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:14,279 Speaker 2: That's big, but. 1088 00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:17,520 Speaker 3: Let me keep looking. No, it's just op literally just 1089 00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:21,120 Speaker 3: for replying to comments of like yeah, like don't don't 1090 00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,080 Speaker 3: like be too mean, and like thanks for the support, 1091 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:28,680 Speaker 3: and like everyone appreciate y'all standing by and understanding, and like, yes, 1092 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,919 Speaker 3: my family is weird and sucks, but that's about it. 1093 00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,120 Speaker 2: This woman would make me want to pull my hair out. 1094 00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:35,960 Speaker 2: I wouldn't even know what to do with the cinema. 1095 00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:38,440 Speaker 1: I'd be like, how do I even talk to you? 1096 00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 2: Yes? 1097 00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:45,120 Speaker 1: Exhausting? Yeah, man, but that is the end of that story. 1098 00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:48,520 Speaker 1: Stelle Hirshman twenty four says, yeah, bipolar and borderline personality 1099 00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:53,480 Speaker 1: share symptoms, but this definitely leans towards BPD. Kimber, the 1100 00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:55,960 Speaker 1: client says, put her on the organ trail. Yeah, I 1101 00:51:56,120 --> 00:52:01,439 Speaker 1: do I get some distiory. Classic m honeybe eighty five 1102 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,279 Speaker 1: says mom and carry are both manipulative bees. Yeah, they 1103 00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:05,200 Speaker 1: definitely taught. 1104 00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:07,240 Speaker 2: Do you think Carrie got a little bit of aid Upole, 1105 00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:09,480 Speaker 2: It doesn't seem like I was hopeful. 1106 00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:13,880 Speaker 1: I thought she's realized that you can stress out pregnant 1107 00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:17,920 Speaker 1: women and that's it. That is the only thing that she's. 1108 00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,319 Speaker 2: Really She called for her mom to be checked up 1109 00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:20,840 Speaker 2: on too. 1110 00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:21,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1111 00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,520 Speaker 1: I wish she doesn't. She's not heartless. 1112 00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,360 Speaker 3: I wish we had more of like the wedding. 1113 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:27,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, this was like she got drunk at the wedding 1114 00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:28,440 Speaker 1: and that's all we know. 1115 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:30,040 Speaker 3: I just want to know what happened at the wedding. Yeah, 1116 00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:31,520 Speaker 3: like she made it all about me, me, me, but 1117 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:32,320 Speaker 3: like what. 1118 00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:34,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to wedding turn out. 1119 00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:36,359 Speaker 3: It seems so it seemed like the wedding turned out 1120 00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:37,520 Speaker 3: what you're saying. 1121 00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:41,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, And if there's no other updates, the stepdad and 1122 00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:43,120 Speaker 2: mom probably worked it out too. 1123 00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,279 Speaker 1: They got too up. Yeah, they would have mentioned it. 1124 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:45,560 Speaker 3: Dang. 1125 00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:48,200 Speaker 1: I don't know how to feel about stepdad I don't know, 1126 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,480 Speaker 1: Like it was really hard for them to contact him 1127 00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:54,520 Speaker 1: when he was when Op's mom was in the hospital suspicious. 1128 00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:57,239 Speaker 2: He seemed non confrontational. Yeah, and whenever the mom was 1129 00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,880 Speaker 2: going cool cool, he was just left. He's like I 1130 00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,280 Speaker 2: can't deal with this suspicious. But when you got money 1131 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,040 Speaker 2: like that, I guess you can do whatever you want. 1132 00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:06,520 Speaker 2: You can do it. You can go get hotel, do 1133 00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:07,080 Speaker 2: whatever you want. 1134 00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:10,279 Speaker 1: Man Ugly old Bat says, think Carrie will wear her 1135 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:14,319 Speaker 1: old her prom dress for her own wedding, maybe that 1136 00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:17,800 Speaker 1: pink dress. Ooh's dude, she better wear that pink dress 1137 00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,239 Speaker 1: more than once, because two K for her dress is crazy. 1138 00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:24,320 Speaker 2: Like based on the time here, I know that Carrie 1139 00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:27,480 Speaker 2: has definitely got married by now, and I want to 1140 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,640 Speaker 2: know how much money step Dad, because she. 1141 00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:34,759 Speaker 1: Was offering ten k to Laura. I bet, I bet 1142 00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:37,400 Speaker 1: Carrie was like, I want twenty k, fifty. 1143 00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,320 Speaker 2: I'm thinking fifty. 1144 00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,360 Speaker 3: I got a little bit more of details on the wedding. 1145 00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:45,880 Speaker 3: At least it's just again OPI saying like, I'm okay, 1146 00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:49,080 Speaker 3: I'm feeling great. Laura has always been like that, non confrontational. 1147 00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:51,359 Speaker 3: But she did stand her ground like we knew, and 1148 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:54,759 Speaker 3: in the end, op was the maid of honor, even 1149 00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:57,840 Speaker 3: though that allowed Carrie to wear her prom dress and tiara, 1150 00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,920 Speaker 3: so it seems like she did get to wear that 1151 00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:00,759 Speaker 3: at the wedding. 1152 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:02,320 Speaker 1: I gotta wear a little pink dress. 1153 00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:06,359 Speaker 2: No, she wore her blue dress. She was gonna buy 1154 00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:07,200 Speaker 2: a pink dress. 1155 00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,759 Speaker 1: No, she bought the pink two K dress though she 1156 00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:13,120 Speaker 1: wore her prom dress. She just gotta wear a prom dress. 1157 00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:15,520 Speaker 1: And then they were like, no, that doesn't fit you, 1158 00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,520 Speaker 1: and then they were having that whole argument. 1159 00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,000 Speaker 3: She went and bought She wore the pink dress, like her, 1160 00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:21,440 Speaker 3: like her. 1161 00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:22,760 Speaker 2: Oh, she bought the pink dress. 1162 00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:27,200 Speaker 1: But that is the end of that story and the 1163 00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:28,200 Speaker 1: end of this episode. 1164 00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:30,960 Speaker 2: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe We 1165 00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:33,120 Speaker 2: love you, and see her tomorrow.