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Speaker 1: They talk better than you tell me about. These are

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Speaker 1: the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like running in

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Speaker 1: our diaries, except we say them a loud. We call

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Speaker 1: them blogs. Kikiyeh you ready, dear blog.

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Speaker 2: So over the weekend I went to many events. I'm

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Speaker 2: actually over stimulated at this point. But one of the

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Speaker 2: most important events that I went to over the weekend

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Speaker 2: was my friend's wedding reception. So shout out to Eric

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Speaker 2: and Ishmael. They got married and they had a beautiful reception.

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Speaker 1: It was so fabulous, Like.

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Speaker 2: It was my first time going to like a city reception.

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Speaker 2: I'm usually at like a banquet hall. No, honey, they

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Speaker 2: had like this underground vibe and all these flowers and

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Speaker 2: it was just so it was so beautiful, and I

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Speaker 2: enjoyed myself while I was there, open bar, have to

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Speaker 2: do me mad, good food and you know, we were

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Speaker 2: there vibing. And then it was time to go. And

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Speaker 2: I've learned this from you, Fred. When it's time to

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Speaker 2: leave an event, just get out of them. Okay, Now

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Speaker 2: they were still around, they were taking photos. It was

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Speaker 2: other people that that I knew, But literally I plotted

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Speaker 2: on the door. I looked, I saw it was a

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Speaker 2: clear pathway. I grabbed my plus one and I was like,

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Speaker 2: let's go. So we got out of there, but my

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Speaker 2: plus one was shook. He was like, you're leaving. You

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Speaker 2: didn't tell them by you didn't You didn't say And

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Speaker 2: I'm like, well, you know, let's just sneak on out

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Speaker 2: of here because it's easier in my opinion. But I

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Speaker 2: was like, is it rude to leave a wedding reception

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Speaker 2: and not at least say bye to the groom and

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Speaker 2: groom or do you just, like you say, interrupt everybody

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Speaker 2: and make an announcement that I'm leaving.

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Speaker 1: If you got a clear path, you know, and they're

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Speaker 1: not talking to other people, and like you you can say, hey,

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Speaker 1: you know, we're getting on out of here without like

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Speaker 1: disrupting anything, then so be it. But it usually doesn't

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Speaker 1: work that way. Normally, you know, the groom and the

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Speaker 1: groom in this case are busy, you know, socializing, having

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Speaker 1: a good time. They're not necessarily worried about who's coming

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Speaker 1: and going right, and so I feel like to go

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Speaker 1: over and be excuse me, excuse me, excuse me. I'm

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Speaker 1: getting on out of here. It's just sort of up

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Speaker 1: to flow. That's how I feel like you're not expected

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Speaker 1: to be there forever?

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Speaker 2: Right, And who cares if you're leaving?

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Speaker 1: Like, don't I don't care if you leave, Like, if

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Speaker 1: you want to go, then I don't want you to, right,

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. If you are ready to go,

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Speaker 1: then you are no longer contributing to this vibe and

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Speaker 1: you can go, and that's fine, thank you. I don't

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Speaker 1: expect you to be here for a long time. I'm

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Speaker 1: glad that you came at all. A long time, A

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Speaker 1: good job at the point. You know, I had other

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Speaker 1: friends there.

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Speaker 2: I met his grandmother, who I loved, and it's like,

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Speaker 2: if I go say by to him, then I gotta

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Speaker 2: say by the grandma, Then I gotta go say by

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Speaker 2: the other friends that I have there. Let's just start

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Speaker 2: sneaking out peacefully and leave people alone.

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Speaker 1: A little party.

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Speaker 2: How long were you there, It doesn't matter how long

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Speaker 2: were you there, It wasn't a long time.

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Speaker 3: I would be so upsetting if you left a wedding

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Speaker 3: and you didn't say for the at least, I mean,

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Speaker 3: I'm paying for I'm paying for this party.

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Speaker 1: That's on you.

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Speaker 3: And kind of like how Fred left my wedding before.

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Speaker 1: Anything happened, talk about it, talk about let it go.

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Speaker 1: I did. I hate Toner. I was there for the speeches.

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Speaker 1: The owing I didn't stay it for is the dancing

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Speaker 1: in the donut wall? Well, did you forget about the

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Speaker 1: white castle? You missed white castle, so.

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Speaker 2: You let Rufio order them slider slider that you want.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I hate the food. And that's the

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Speaker 1: most important part. Like if you if you counted on

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Speaker 1: me for a spot at the table that I was.

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Speaker 1: I attended for the spot at the table. I did

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Speaker 1: the thing. I did everything I was supposed to do. Now,

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Speaker 1: the food's not important.

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Speaker 3: The most important part to me in a wedding, it's

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Speaker 3: actually partying with the wedding, the Brian groomer, whoever's getting married.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, so I could dancing, Yeah, yeah, but you

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Speaker 1: know I don't dance. Well that's I mean. I did

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Speaker 1: with Janet over the you know last week, I was

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Speaker 1: involved with that choreography. But you know, unless it's like

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Speaker 1: a dancer. No, but first of all, I'm not responsible

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Speaker 1: for how much you spent on your wedding. I'm only

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Speaker 1: responsible for if you spent money on me, which I

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Speaker 1: mean the plate of food. But I need to come

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Speaker 1: eat the plate of food like I needed, because that's rude.

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Speaker 1: But like otherwise, you you you spent a bunch of

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Speaker 1: you got David get to show up at your wedding

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Speaker 1: and you know, and I didn't stay for the whole thing,

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Speaker 1: like that's that's that's not my thing. Like that that

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Speaker 1: sets on you. And I also think that sometimes you're

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Speaker 1: making a bigger scene. That's how I feel. Yes, look

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Speaker 1: you showed up, they saw you, you celebrated, you brought

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Speaker 1: a gift.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure, well they got a registry that I gotta

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Speaker 2: go on. Like it's one of those you could pick

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Speaker 2: a thing off the thing and I'm gonna do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeahs separately, I never bring I get to a wedding. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well I just meant a gift was given, which it wasn't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yet, but it's coming. See. That's the other thing

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Speaker 1: is I always give a good gift ahead of time.

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Speaker 1: And I always give a good gift if I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: if I'm not going to attend, I always The r

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Speaker 1: s VP is followed by the gift, So at first

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Speaker 1: they see I gave him a good gift. Then I

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Speaker 1: tell I'm not coming, and that way they can't really

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Speaker 1: get too crappy with me, because it's like, because you

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Speaker 1: just got the alert that I put this much money

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Speaker 1: in your little honey fund and then I'm not coming,

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Speaker 1: So like, don't don't at me on this because I

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Speaker 1: already hooked you up, so like we're.

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Speaker 2: That's a good point. So should people expect a gift

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Speaker 2: from people who are not coming to their wedding.

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Speaker 1: It's nice to do. If you were, No, I didn't

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Speaker 3: No, if you are, you're not making it.

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Speaker 1: You don't know that. That's what I was wondering.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, no, that's a nice standard.

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Speaker 1: It's nice to do. I can't. I think the least

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Speaker 1: I can do if I'm not going to go to

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Speaker 1: your wedding is at least send you some acknowledgement to

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Speaker 1: celebrate with you. Because I was on a list of

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to expect it though, or you know,

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Speaker 2: my hope's high, whatever, But like, I think that's really

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Speaker 1: Did I do it. You do. It's going more than

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Speaker 1: you're asked of. Yeah, I don't think.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's necessary to If you say no,

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Speaker 3: I can't make your wedding to send them a gift.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if it's like a best friend, then obviously

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Speaker 1: there's not a gift. But I don't be there if

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Speaker 1: it was the best friend. So yeah, it's really nice

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Speaker 1: to do. I probably give it. Well, in this case,

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Speaker 1: I gave the same gift, but I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: maybe the gift is nicer if I'm going, especially if

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Speaker 1: I'm taking a plus one, because I am taking into

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Speaker 1: consideration that money was spent. No, I don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: agree with the whole thing where it's like, if it's that,

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Speaker 1: I should assume it's one hundred and fifty dollars per person.

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Speaker 1: So my gift should be at this value. I know

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Speaker 1: I'm not. It is not my responsibility to pay for

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Speaker 1: myself to go to your wedding. If you want to

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Speaker 1: have a wedding with little subway sandwiches cut up, or

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Speaker 1: you want to have a wedding with more emotive, more

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Speaker 1: emoto back there making sushi rolls, that's up to you.

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Speaker 1: But I don't need to compensate you for my invitation

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Speaker 1: to your wedding. Spend what you can afford. I'll spend

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Speaker 1: what I can afford. That's the point of the wedding.

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Speaker 1: But I've heard so many times, well you better, you

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Speaker 1: better show up with at least two hundred dollars worth

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Speaker 1: of stuff because or you know, you better have contributed that,

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Speaker 1: because that's how much it costs for you to go.

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Speaker 1: So I didn't tell you how much to spend on

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Speaker 1: your wedding. I didn't say you had to have Ryan

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Speaker 1: Carrera come out there saying, you know, through way down

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Speaker 1: or whatever I said. I didn't say franky ja I

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Speaker 1: didn't say freaky Jaa. I had to be there for

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Speaker 1: twenty thousand dollars or whatever. That's on you. You chose

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Speaker 1: to do that. Yeah, I agree, I agree, But I

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Speaker 1: also think that it's usually cleaner to make sure you're

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Speaker 1: seen off your you know, congratulations or condolences or whatever

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Speaker 1: the event is, and then when it's time to go

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Speaker 1: see yourself out. Because the other problem is if you

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Speaker 1: make a big deal out of your leaving a lot

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Speaker 1: of times, then other people will be like, good time

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Speaker 1: for me, I guess I can go now too, And

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Speaker 1: now you're basically starting a trend of exit. I have

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Speaker 1: an exit. I hate it.

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Speaker 2: However, you guys want to justify it to yourself, right,

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Speaker 2: you have a miss feel about.

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Speaker 1: It, like a nice text after had so much fun,

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Speaker 1: love you, congrats or the next morning even You don't

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Speaker 1: need to make it big. I don't need to make

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Speaker 1: a big deal out of the fact that I am leaving.

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Speaker 1: Oh guys, hey, everybody, I am leaving. Well a middle

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Speaker 1: ground where you can just ima who's coming with you.

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Speaker 3: I'm not getting on. The moral of the story is,

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Speaker 3: if you're listening right now, send an invitation to Fred.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna say no, and he will send you will

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Speaker 1: get this guy, have a wedding queen. That seems to

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Speaker 1: be the general consensus on the text. You add Fred

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Speaker 1: to your wedding.

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Speaker 2: List, maybe shower registered to I'm just saying thanks addressed.

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Speaker 1: You know my name is Rufio. Oh, I will attend

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Speaker 1: your wedding. Send me an invite and he won't, and

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Speaker 1: then he won't send you again.

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Speaker 2: To Bo