WEBVTT - Do Better ft. Nile Evans (pt 2) 0:00:02.440 --> 0:00:04.640 Welcome to the women. While in our podcast, you gotta 0:00:04.720 --> 0:00:09.520 be girl. Body, it's your girl, y'all, go pretty what's up? 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:15.280 Yo's back girl, Justina be with Pretty D and D somebody. 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:23.360 You body get your show, ladies, and tonight we're gonna 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:34.160 have the women a while and casts all the cars. Y'all, 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:36.640 we are back. It is the second part of this 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:40.840 bomb ass interview with our producer. Now Evans, y'all. Okay, 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:44.040 So y'all know we only do audio, so I had 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:45.960 to turn off my air condition and I am hot 0:00:46.159 --> 0:00:51.200 as hell, but I am here with my girl, Justina Valentine, Justina, 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:53.479 I'm so hot. We gotta get into this interview so 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:56.279 I can turn my airback. Well, girl, it's getting hot 0:00:56.320 --> 0:00:58.560 in here. It's get getting the steam here because we 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:03.600 got now and you got to high ropot system out. 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:06.520 But we're gonna get into this now. We are back 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:08.760 to you. We are so excited to talk more. And 0:01:08.800 --> 0:01:12.039 what now Evans, y'all, yes, I mean just hearing all 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:16.000 these stories from now, hearing about how he started. Um, 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:19.720 it's a really cool thing because you know now seeing 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:22.600 us from little seeds and you know he raised us 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:25.640 into what we are today. So it's cool to hear 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:28.400 how he got started, how he met Nick, and just 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:32.080 how he balances his whole life between being a producer, 0:01:32.319 --> 0:01:36.119 a family man and and all that and just spotting talent, 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:39.600 because I feel like Nile has seen every single person 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:45.000 that's been on the whole the beginning. Yeah, being able 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:48.120 to spot talent, you know, it's it's that's his one 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:50.360 of his greatest talents. I think it's being able to 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:54.480 spot talent who hasn't and who doesn't exactly. So now 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:56.640 that now's back in the building, be I think we 0:01:57.120 --> 0:01:59.680 we just got to really ask him everything we want 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:01.320 to get too, because I know last week we didn't 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:04.360 quite have enough time. But this week we gotta put him, 0:02:04.400 --> 0:02:05.920 we gotta put him in the hot seat. Leta ask 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:08.200 him some tough questions. So let's get down and dirty. 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:12.079 So now on a personal tip, um, just being a 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:15.799 father and a husband influence how your work and you know, 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:20.200 professional relationships. Just being able to balance both worlds because 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:23.040 you're a great father, great husband and a great coach. 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:25.600 So like, how do you balance it all? I think 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:29.400 I think, you know, we we only do whiling out people. 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:31.600 You know, people think that we're spending the whole year 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:34.560 door whiling out like we're keeping all the time. Because 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:36.440 we have so many episodes. They don't know we do 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:42.359 ten in a day. They don't know. I'm just kidding, 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:45.519 so they don't understand. Like I'm on this show for 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:49.679 maybe a month, you know, so I have time to 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.040 to to spend all my family and I have time 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:54.679 to spend with my girls, my son, my wife and 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:58.400 you know your family is so beautiful by the way, Yes, 0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:05.799 have not at your girls. Yeah, yeah on Instagram. Your wife. Yeah. 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:08.040 And your wife is the best man so sweet, she's 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:10.880 so sweet, She's fun. I love her. I lover her. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:13.200 I got her from Costco a few years ago. And 0:03:14.960 --> 0:03:21.560 best purchase I've ever made. You have to doing what 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:23.320 you do, Like your wife is so down for you 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:24.880 and what you do. And you can just tell you 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:27.280 gotta have a rider with you. And you know, being 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:31.120 a being a dad has really being a dad honestly, 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:35.160 being a dad before being a husband, um was probably 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:40.080 better for me because what I learned from what I 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:42.200 learned how to life is like I had to learn 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:45.480 how to raise this the son, and I had to 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:48.520 learn who I needed to be for him, and some 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:50.760 of those things are the same things that you have 0:03:50.880 --> 0:03:53.960 to be for your your wife, and you have to 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:58.440 be a father not for her, but not just to her. 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:00.440 But you know, in a sense you have to. Like 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:03.720 when a father gives a gives his daughter away, he's 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:06.640 giving him away to another father. And if you don't 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:09.000 know how to be a father, it's it's hard to 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:11.920 you know, to be a man. And I had to 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:15.600 learn how to be a man for myself. I think 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.600 it was better. It was a better situation for me 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:21.920 to understand, like, Okay, I have to lead the same 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:25.400 way I lead with my son as I do with 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:30.280 you with my wife, and so, uh, you know, I 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:32.760 think that it was it was a little non traditional, 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:36.480 but I think that you know, that's that was what 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:40.120 it took. And you know, balancing balancing your career and 0:04:40.520 --> 0:04:42.600 and being a dad is tough. You know, you might 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.520 miss a few games sometimes and there are things that 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:47.800 you know, but you try to make up for it 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:49.840 by going, hey, look we're gonna be able to go 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:54.960 on this vacation. Yeah, yeah, I do take some nice vacase. 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:56.880 I see all the little picks and oh yeah, we 0:04:57.240 --> 0:05:01.200 get out there and it now Instagram and he gonna 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:03.640 have a cigar in his hand and he's gonna grow 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:07.920 show as on his story like this for me, them them, 0:05:08.080 --> 0:05:11.160 them little subliminals, I'll be like, damn, he making me 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:14.760 think today. That's what I'm trying to do. I'm trying 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:17.280 to get everybody to think. And when I learned something, 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:19.800 I want everyone else to learn it too. So I'm 0:05:19.800 --> 0:05:23.160 always trying to push and motivate people to be better 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:26.400 because I want somebody to push and motivate me to 0:05:26.480 --> 0:05:29.120 be better. When I read stuff and I see things, 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:31.599 I go, man, this is this is what I need 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:33.560 to be doing. I need to I need I need 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:35.720 to hear this. You're never going to stop learning. I'm 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:38.599 every season I probably read a new book about coaching 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:42.680 or something motivational so that I can bring for the 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:45.960 next season, because I can't expect you guys to get 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:50.800 better if I'm not getting better. If you're so you know, 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:54.680 I gotta do the work too. And I really I 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:57.719 take it seriously because it's it's this is a baby 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:02.200 and a brand that Nick Burr and I helped deliver, 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:06.240 and you know, we're really you know, it's a precious thing. 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:08.880 It's a thing that you're you know, it's it's a child, 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:11.360 you know what I mean, and you don't want people 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:13.520 to damage it. You want you want the best for it, 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:15.880 and you don't want you know, you definitely want nobody 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:18.880 to suck it up. So if anybody's gonna sucking up, 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:21.040 it's gonna be Nick, you know what I mean. It's like, 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:23.440 you know, if you want to suck it up, that's fine, 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:26.280 you know what I mean, it's your kid, bro. You know, 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:29.600 we all just have to deal with it. But I'm 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:31.440 not gonna I'm not not on my watch. I'm not 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:33.200 gonna let nobody else suck it up for it. So 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:36.000 you know that's that's part of what I try to manage. 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:37.800 And you know, we just try to build this brand 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:40.640 to be you know, my my roommate made the logo, 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:45.760 you know what I mean, like that dial and now 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:47.880 he's like he is he still getting paid for that 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:54.920 when he doesn't get paid, he like did like you know, 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:57.160 from that, he did a lot of work, like he 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:03.160 did some like NAS album cover stuff. Yeah, you don't 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:07.440 live far from me. He's yeah good, He's definitely good, 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:10.560 you know. So you know it's like when you watch 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:13.080 something grow up it's it's it's a dope thing. And 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:15.360 then when you know, for me to watch you guys 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:18.640 grow up, it's even doper because it's like I'm watching 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:24.000 my kids. Just I remember, yeah, I remember geting you both. 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:25.880 You know what I mean. It's like it's like my 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:29.040 adopted you know what I mean. It's like, and now 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:31.720 I see you guys all growing up and get money 0:07:31.800 --> 0:07:34.240 and doing your thing, and it's just, you know, I 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:37.440 just go, it's just you don't understand it. It almost 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:38.960 bring me to tears when I see some of you 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:42.520 guys online or on a TV show, because I go, 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:46.680 I go, I remember seeing you when you didn't have 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:53.200 that confidence. Remember you were just starting, and now now 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:56.080 you're getting money, and I just go, I love to 0:07:56.160 --> 0:07:58.800 see it because it's just it's watching your kids grow up, 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:06.840 you know, you remembering than discussing, you know. Yeah, And 0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:09.000 that brings me to my next question, who's your favorite? 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:11.840 Who's my favorite? Oh? Yeah, they want your top five? 0:08:13.120 --> 0:08:18.040 Remember stop five? But you know, of all time, so 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:22.760 I ain't gotta be in there time all time. Yeah, 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:26.920 I do all you could do all time. And then currently, okay, 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:29.520 I'm gonna do of all time and then currently and 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:34.360 this is this is bad um because I shouldn't choose 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:37.240 like this. Okay, so all time are you in the 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:39.319 hot seat? Now I'm in the hot seat. I'm in 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:42.200 the hot seat. Open your favorite black girl with fingers 0:08:48.400 --> 0:08:52.520 with the ship of all time. I'm gonna probably go 0:08:54.000 --> 0:09:02.880 I'm gonna go Cat Williams, I'm gonna go Mikey day 0:09:04.400 --> 0:09:12.280 Taren kill him. I'm gonna go untraditional Gene Hang. If 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:17.760 you ever saw the first, very first pilot episode Gene 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:22.560 Hong was the he had a moment against spanking where 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:25.160 he says, yeah, I'm Asian, like it's a disease, but 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:27.199 I got ten times you scoring the s A T 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:30.520 S and he murdered the wild style. We went out 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:32.840 on that and I felt like that sold the show. 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:36.959 You were like that's what got us the season or 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:39.480 that was it. And I don't even think Jean did 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:44.400 another season after that because I'm trying to is yeah, 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:53.319 you probably you'd have to go into the um um 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:58.920 naima Funk probably one of the most brilliant um improv 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:02.360 actors that I've ever witnessed, and that was somebody that 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:04.880 Nick was like, she's got it, and I was like, Nah, 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:09.079 she don't have it so magical on this show. You 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:11.360 know in the first few seasons that we had her 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:13.839 that you know, I will always say, she's definitely in 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:17.760 my in my top. How can we watch these seasons 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:19.760 because some people you're naming, I don't even know. I 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:23.840 would just learned my history. This is my history now, 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:27.600 you know. I don't think I'm going to find something 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:29.520 for you, but I need to put him on. I'm like, 0:10:29.640 --> 0:10:31.600 you need to put on a drop box for all 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:34.920 of I'm gonna put I'm gonna put the pilot you 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:39.319 You probably never seen the original pilot now where Kevin 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:44.760 Hart was a cast member. Wow, people have never seen 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:49.240 that original pilot where Kevin is a cast member. He's 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:51.840 just a little kid. Yeah, I've seen. Yeah, I've seen 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:55.360 the episode where he stands up and he wrote everybody. 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:58.079 But that wasn't pilot. I think that was just an episode. 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:04.120 I was like, are he was already big? Yeah? Yeah, 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:08.400 but he did. He did the original pilot as a 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:12.760 cast member, just a regular cast loon. Loon was the 0:11:12.840 --> 0:11:18.400 special guest artist. Yeah yeah, so then maybe he was 0:11:18.600 --> 0:11:22.440 the rapper. Then a few months later, so playing had 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:25.120 come out and then his star had listen and when 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:30.480 the original the other pilot for MTV, he was the 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:34.240 special guest. That's where Gene Hang did his saying wild 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:40.160 So um yeah, so that's that's that's from the people 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:44.199 of old um uh. And I'm probably missing somebody that 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:47.080 I should should say anyway, but you know those are 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:48.400 those are the ones that I'm gonna go with for 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:51.599 right now. Um of the new group. You want me 0:11:51.600 --> 0:12:03.160 to want okay, you want my roots? Yeah, you I'm 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:05.360 not gonna go in any order. I'm not gonna go 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:12.199 in any order. Um, no order. Um, I'm gonna go. Uh, 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:30.000 Charlie Clips, Emmanuel Hudson, Um, Justina Valentine's let's go in there. Uh, 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:33.079 there's one more. I know where you're forgetting d C 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:37.520 I did, No, you didn't do DCY no so DC. Yeah, 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:43.840 that's gonna be let's go. Yeah, just fy I now 0:12:44.000 --> 0:12:45.520 just put me in there because I'm on the podcast. 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:48.719 I promise you I'm not. You know why. I'll tell 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:51.040 you exactly why you're one of my favorites because I 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:56.280 saw the most improved I saw. I saw where you 0:12:56.480 --> 0:13:00.200 came from, and you improved so much and then took 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:04.400 it to another stratosphere. And to me, that is the success. 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:08.480 That's the goal for me years to go. I want 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:13.120 to see you on another show or starting bell. Yeah, 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:15.920 you took it to another level where you were like, oh, 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:19.400 I'm just gonna be this ultra entrepreneur and it's just 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:21.840 something that I didn't even see, you know what I mean. 0:13:21.960 --> 0:13:29.280 And Justina, it's just you're just such a magical talent. No, no, 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.599 every season, I'm like, we gotta bring in somebody to 0:13:33.679 --> 0:13:39.400 try to handle. Uh, you know, Justina, I had to 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:43.120 get up. I just gave up. There's no one's going 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:45.520 to do that. Like in a minute. You're just You're 0:13:45.559 --> 0:13:47.960 just we're just gonna sit you on the throne as 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:50.480 the just the wild style poet and no one's just 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:59.439 alone there now. But thank you. We appreciate honestly, you know, 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:01.920 I we say it, but I just want to like 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:04.360 say it while you're on here. Is that you know, 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:08.240 you and Nick like really changed my life and I'll 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:10.920 never forget that if it wasn't for y'all, Like you know, 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:13.559 you gave me the platform and b I'm sure you 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:17.880 could attest the same thing, the platform to like live 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:21.640 my dreams show the world my talent, like get me money. 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:25.040 I really can never words can never express my gratitude 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:28.320 or even thank you enough, Like when people say this 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:31.080 person changed my life, I really mean it when I 0:14:31.160 --> 0:14:33.480 say it about you and Nick, like you'll change my 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:38.000 life and I just love you forever, like you place yourselves. 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:47.640 All right, y'all, we gotta take a quick break. We'll 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:50.240 be right back with some more women while in our 0:14:50.360 --> 0:15:00.840 podcast without very special guests and levits. Yeah, we are 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:03.920 back from break. I'm so excited to get into more 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:06.960 with now Evans, our producer back with the Women a 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:09.840 while now podcasts. So we want to know from you, 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:13.120 what are some of the traps or missteps that you 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:17.640 see young talent, new talent full into when they're starting 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:23.080 their careers. I think that people are like especially with 0:15:23.520 --> 0:15:27.680 especially nowadays with the with with the internet, people are 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:32.000 afraid to fail. People are so afraid to not have 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:34.160 it would be the most perfect thing that they don't 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:37.720 move forward in their career. And you gotta go out 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:40.520 on stage and fail to you know, like when you 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:43.000 started walking, you had to fall a bunch of times, 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:46.080 and people don't want to fall anymore, and you know, 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:52.160 because they're afraid someone might be recording and probably you know, 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:56.600 but I feel like people just need to they need 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:59.000 to understand that you've got to go through some ship 0:15:59.160 --> 0:16:01.760 to get to where you to be, and people don't 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:03.320 want to go through that. They're just like, let me 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:06.440 take the easiest route, and I go, if you just 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:08.960 dragged the drug through the mud for a little bit, 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:12.000 you'll understand what that world is like and how to 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:15.000 either function in the mud or get out of the mud. 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:18.400 And I think that, you know, I just I just 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:20.720 want people to know, like it's not gonna be easy. 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:23.120 And most of the time, it's like a lot of 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:25.760 these resources are right at your fingertips, but they're like, 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:27.720 I don't know how to get an agent. How do 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:30.200 you not know how to get an agent? When there's Google? 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:36.440 How are you asking me a question saying like, oh, 0:16:36.480 --> 0:16:39.360 I don't know how to start a business? What you 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:47.080 and any time? Thank you? And so I think that 0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:51.320 people are people are lazy because there's too many resources 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:53.600 out here and they just want somebody to do it 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:56.800 for him, and hungry, hungry, And I know, you know, 0:16:57.080 --> 0:17:00.000 my mother always said that, you know, people don't change 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:03.840 into the pain gets great enough. So sometimes you gotta 0:17:03.880 --> 0:17:06.080 let people go through the pain. And that's how I 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:09.439 am as a parent, that's how I am as a coach. Okay, 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:12.280 I say, hey, man, when you like with my son, 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:14.280 I go, you want to be late to school, you 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.680 don't get to drive, you don't get to have your phone. Okay, 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:21.000 when that pain is enough for you, then you'll get Yeah. 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:24.000 You know, I've had to fire people for not being 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:27.399 on time and I know, yo, you don't. And I 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:30.840 do that to say, hey, everyone, look what happened to him. 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:35.840 He's not here anymore. I remember my first season, someone 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:38.920 came late. People walking out with luggage. Yes, so someone 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:41.000 came late to workshop. They're not on the show anymore, 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:44.640 and you made them go around to the entire room. 0:17:44.760 --> 0:17:46.600 We were still doing you, you were still making cuts, 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:49.879 so we were This was season He did it again, 0:17:50.160 --> 0:17:54.280 I'm sure. But season eight in l A, someone came 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:57.359 late and you made them go to each and every 0:17:57.440 --> 0:17:59.480 one of us. There's probably thirty people and give a 0:17:59.600 --> 0:18:07.200 different funny reason why. They absolutely absolutely, because if you 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:10.600 don't go through that, you just then you're gonna feel 0:18:10.640 --> 0:18:13.280 like I could just come in late whenever I want 0:18:13.320 --> 0:18:15.680 to know you can and I go, you can't do 0:18:15.800 --> 0:18:18.199 that here. You could do that at home. You can 0:18:18.240 --> 0:18:21.960 show up to the too much or wherever on your own, 0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:24.880 but not here. This is a job. What I also 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:27.600 had to realize is a lot of these influences have 0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:32.000 never had real jobs. That never has clock in. They're 0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:34.880 they're doing internet stuff, never had to be accountable, never 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:38.240 had to be accountable to anybody but themselves. And they're 0:18:38.320 --> 0:18:40.560 making money, which is great, But I go, this is 0:18:40.600 --> 0:18:43.600 a different structure. Also, we also have to keep in 0:18:43.680 --> 0:18:46.560 mind it's corporate, so there's things we can't say and 0:18:46.760 --> 0:18:50.639 can't do and uh, and it's a big addressment for 0:18:50.760 --> 0:18:54.440 some people. And so I understand that. But you're gonna 0:18:54.720 --> 0:18:57.480 you're gonna you're gonna pay a fine if you want 0:18:57.520 --> 0:18:59.040 to be late. You know what I mean. If I 0:18:59.119 --> 0:19:00.800 can get up and be on time, you could be 0:19:00.840 --> 0:19:09.960 here on time on time? You can literally yes you alright. 0:19:10.040 --> 0:19:13.399 So now before we go, I just I have a 0:19:13.520 --> 0:19:17.320 very open ended question. You go, you go first, Oh, 0:19:17.720 --> 0:19:20.399 open ended. We'll not open ended. It's just very like 0:19:20.600 --> 0:19:23.320 kind of vague. I was just gonna say, yeah, it's 0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:26.600 very broad. Um, you know, you've done so much, you've 0:19:26.680 --> 0:19:31.200 accomplished so much already at you know, a young age, 0:19:31.200 --> 0:19:34.000 because you're still mad young. But we just you're just 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:36.920 like a mobile already in the business, a boss to 0:19:37.040 --> 0:19:41.880 so many people. It's like, what is not only what's next, 0:19:41.960 --> 0:19:44.439 but what do you see as the final destination? Question? 0:19:44.800 --> 0:19:47.040 Oh says jump right in. You know, we do it 0:19:47.080 --> 0:19:49.920 happen now? That was so good, go you're delivering it. 0:19:50.520 --> 0:19:53.440 Like it's just like, what do you have plan next? 0:19:53.560 --> 0:19:58.160 Having done so much already, and where do you see yourself? 0:19:58.280 --> 0:20:00.240 Like do you have a final destination? Like once I 0:20:00.280 --> 0:20:02.920 accomplished this, I'm chilling find me on an island with 0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:07.680 my family. Because you love what you do. I don't 0:20:07.680 --> 0:20:09.600 think you're ever going to stop or do you have 0:20:11.080 --> 0:20:13.760 retiring next year? Now? I do love what I do 0:20:13.880 --> 0:20:16.720 and in my mind, I'm just getting started. So I 0:20:16.840 --> 0:20:18.800 just feel like I feel like this show is like 0:20:19.040 --> 0:20:22.639 the springboard for me to do the next thing. This 0:20:23.520 --> 0:20:26.720 produce my show to find Yeah, we're gonna do that, 0:20:26.800 --> 0:20:33.080 We're gonna do that. The panel there it is. But 0:20:33.440 --> 0:20:37.600 but my final destination is you know, I would I 0:20:37.680 --> 0:20:39.920 want to have another show. I would like to have 0:20:40.000 --> 0:20:43.399 a scripted show. Actually I'm gonna manifest I'm gonna have 0:20:43.520 --> 0:20:48.200 a scripted show. So yeah, that that I'm gonna I'm 0:20:48.280 --> 0:20:52.560 writing and producing. Um and yeah, that's that's the goal 0:20:52.680 --> 0:20:54.680 for me. And what I'd like to do is have 0:20:54.960 --> 0:20:58.800 like maybe one or two more shows and then have 0:20:59.000 --> 0:21:00.960 that one show that just I can hit out on 0:21:01.080 --> 0:21:04.880 and be like cool, I just created Jeopardy right now, 0:21:05.920 --> 0:21:09.480 what's my life? And and and ride into the sunset 0:21:09.600 --> 0:21:12.920 and you know, to me like wilding out raised my 0:21:13.119 --> 0:21:16.000 son from birth too. I mean, it's still going to 0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:20.359 go into Now. I have six year old girls, so 0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:25.800 I need another show that's gonna take them them and 0:21:25.920 --> 0:21:27.800 then to where I can get to a point where 0:21:27.800 --> 0:21:30.159 I can just you know, I can do whatever I 0:21:30.280 --> 0:21:33.760 want to financial freedom, that's where you want to get freedom. 0:21:33.880 --> 0:21:35.560 But we want to be in the stripted show now, 0:21:35.760 --> 0:21:38.480 so just you know, write us in. Listen. It's a 0:21:38.560 --> 0:21:41.399 done deal. All right. Well, I mean what I was 0:21:41.520 --> 0:21:44.600 gonna say, come on, very go ahead. Was gonna say 0:21:44.600 --> 0:21:46.680 you could go, but we have some more questions to 0:21:46.760 --> 0:21:51.680 get to. Yeah, let's go. Let's go. Now, how do 0:21:51.760 --> 0:21:53.440 I find a man? Did you eighty and all this 0:21:53.520 --> 0:21:56.920 week's stuff? How do you find a man's let's dig 0:21:57.040 --> 0:22:00.320 deep into that. Let's dig deep into that. How do 0:22:00.400 --> 0:22:04.920 you find a man? One you manifested man? You know 0:22:05.440 --> 0:22:08.200 you have to manifest it. And I always tell people, 0:22:08.680 --> 0:22:11.560 if you don't know what you want you like, Let's 0:22:11.600 --> 0:22:14.119 just put it like this. When you go to a restaurant, 0:22:14.200 --> 0:22:16.880 they give you a what when you sit down, men 0:22:18.200 --> 0:22:22.240 and a menu has a bunch of different items. Right cool? 0:22:22.640 --> 0:22:25.600 But does the waiter say here, you're gonna have this? 0:22:26.119 --> 0:22:28.600 Or what do you do? You order? Right? You order? 0:22:28.960 --> 0:22:33.680 You order what the thing you want? If you don't, 0:22:34.880 --> 0:22:41.639 you order everything. So that's like dating. Let's see, I 0:22:41.720 --> 0:22:44.480 could date, you can, but you can try everything on 0:22:44.560 --> 0:22:46.200 the menu, and I know, next time I go back, 0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:49.239 I don't want that. I didn't like that. But at 0:22:49.280 --> 0:22:51.800 this point you should have dated enough to know what 0:22:51.960 --> 0:22:54.480 you like and what you don't like, and what works 0:22:54.560 --> 0:22:57.240 for you and what's healthy for you. But you're right. 0:22:58.760 --> 0:23:01.040 Until you figure that out, you're gonna be in a limbo. 0:23:02.000 --> 0:23:04.440 And I go until you make an order. The waiter 0:23:04.600 --> 0:23:07.200 can't put your order in so that God can say 0:23:07.280 --> 0:23:12.119 here's your guy. But you're you're just gonna be dating 0:23:12.160 --> 0:23:15.200 around and not really if you don't say I want 0:23:15.520 --> 0:23:19.040 my husband to be this, this, this, this, I want 0:23:19.119 --> 0:23:22.240 his interior to be this, this, this, this. I want 0:23:22.359 --> 0:23:24.960 him to look like this, this, this, this, this, and 0:23:25.040 --> 0:23:28.119 I want him to treat me like this, this, this this. 0:23:29.040 --> 0:23:34.800 Then then you're just walking around with you have no listen. 0:23:35.200 --> 0:23:40.440 If if if, if you put into your into your navigation, 0:23:40.920 --> 0:23:42.760 take me to New York. It's gonna drop you off 0:23:42.800 --> 0:23:45.399 in New York somewhere anywhere. But if you say I 0:23:45.520 --> 0:23:48.560 want to go on fifth and Broadway, I want to 0:23:48.640 --> 0:23:52.040 go here, it's gonna take you there until you order 0:23:52.400 --> 0:23:54.440 the exact same thing. And then what do you do 0:23:54.560 --> 0:23:57.560 to your order? Oh? I like this salmon, but can 0:23:57.640 --> 0:23:59.480 you put this on the side? Can you do this? 0:24:00.160 --> 0:24:03.920 Now you've refined it and made it exactly how you 0:24:04.080 --> 0:24:06.680 want it, But until you do that, you just you're 0:24:06.720 --> 0:24:09.480