Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? We're back in slip service. I'm
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, I'm Stephanie new Santiago. I'm G. G. MacGuire
Speaker 1: and we have a very special guest with us today.
Speaker 1: We have our good friend Dustin. What's up, everybody? I'm
Speaker 1: very special you are. That's a new one that I'm
Speaker 1: sure everybody tells you that. I'm like, how it feels
Speaker 1: so and this lip service, so I'm supposed to talk
Speaker 1: about when things feel good? Right, Yeah, we're all in
Speaker 1: the friend zone here. Hey, hey, you get it all right.
Speaker 1: So we always start up with the tip of the day. Now,
Speaker 1: today's tip. How do you get rid of somebody after
Speaker 1: you sleep with them and you decide you don't like
Speaker 1: them anymore and they keep on harassing you. What's a
Speaker 1: nice way to be like, leave me alone without saying
Speaker 1: leave me alone? I just don't say nothing. First of all,
Speaker 1: you turned the rear receipts on so that they know
Speaker 1: you got the message, and you just stopped responding. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's pretty harsh. Good Yeah, and I don't think that works.
Speaker 1: It works for me, But that's not nice. You don't
Speaker 1: feel bad. What if somebody you're going to run into again.
Speaker 1: Then even better because then they know and then you
Speaker 1: see him again, you use the power that close mouth smile.
Speaker 1: That's what you do, so the next time you see him,
Speaker 1: you don't show your teeth. You just know what's up.
Speaker 1: But what if you wear an asshole that you just
Speaker 1: it was you? It was yeah, like they didn't do
Speaker 1: anything wrong, like they're nice, You just aren't into them
Speaker 1: like that. It was just the lapse in judgment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the worst time because you don't want to be
Speaker 1: an asshole right now. You don't want to be Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to be miserable either, So fun
Speaker 1: that I'm still doing it shit. All right, Well, gez,
Speaker 1: what's your advice. You know, I'm a very forward and
Speaker 1: honest person, so I would probably like just tell the
Speaker 1: person like I just can't do you anymore. Sorry, Wow,
Speaker 1: I just can't do you anymore. Yeah, I would just
Speaker 1: be like it's something you know. I would either put
Speaker 1: a specific issue if it was that serious out there,
Speaker 1: or I would just say, you know, we're not mentioned
Speaker 1: and I don't want to waste my time or your
Speaker 1: so let's just or like you look different with your
Speaker 1: shirt up. Because sometimes they take their shirt off. Then
Speaker 1: you anticipated you're like, damn, you're like slim out of shape.
Speaker 1: You definitely don't want to look like you gotta hate
Speaker 1: that slim out of shape body type, you know, you
Speaker 1: know that body type with their clothes and they look scrumgeous.
Speaker 1: But then they take and they have like the soft
Speaker 1: chest like man boobs. Uh, let's have you don't hold
Speaker 1: your telling you this? So what would you? But you're
Speaker 1: also kind of nice? No, I would do one of
Speaker 1: two things. I would just stop responding, or I would um.
Speaker 1: I would tell them because after a while, that's the
Speaker 1: thing you always end up having to tell them, because
Speaker 1: after a while they don't. I feel like ignoring them
Speaker 1: doesn't make them stop. It makes them feel like the
Speaker 1: window is still open. You know what if they did
Speaker 1: after a while, I'll get frustrated and then finally, you know,
Speaker 1: I'll tell them like listen, I can't, like, please stop
Speaker 1: talking me. They didn't do nothing foul. You just weren't
Speaker 1: really never that into the explanation, right, If it's my
Speaker 1: decision to cut it off, you can, okay. Then in
Speaker 1: that case, I'll just tell I don't know, I guess
Speaker 1: I would just lie. I'm an it whatever, I'll just
Speaker 1: lie like I don't know. I'm like, baby, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying something I don't know. I would just
Speaker 1: come up with some reason that like they couldn't argue with.
Speaker 1: I don't want to ruin our friendship and stage left,
Speaker 1: I don't want to ruin our friendship. It's always a
Speaker 1: great excuse because then they're an asshole if they don't care. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't want to ruin our friendship, but you don't
Speaker 1: give a funk about our friendship. But fuck you, And
Speaker 1: now we don't turn the tables. All right. Now, let's
Speaker 1: talk about the Womanizer. That's the toy that G got
Speaker 1: gifted last week my new best friend. Now I want
Speaker 1: to know how it is because so our girl, Michell Hope,
Speaker 1: was a sexpert. She told us this is the best
Speaker 1: toy that she's ever had, and she highly recommended and
Speaker 1: she's been raving about it. So I did reach out
Speaker 1: to the people from Womanizer and we got g g one.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys, tell me about it, you said. Michelle
Speaker 1: was absolutely right that it is the best toy ever.
Speaker 1: It just does something that other toys. It vibrates, but
Speaker 1: it also sucks like this like it's like a circle
Speaker 1: when you put it over top of your clip and
Speaker 1: it just like why it's vibrating malfunctional and then well
Speaker 1: it doesn't like encase it and not, yeah it doesn't
Speaker 1: you know, but um it has settings, so it starts
Speaker 1: off at like one, but you can take it all
Speaker 1: the way up to eight. But for real, four or
Speaker 1: five is just like good enough for I had to
Speaker 1: try it out. See what happened. Yo, Listen. It was
Speaker 1: just one day last week when he was going to
Speaker 1: go visit one of his friends and he was like,
Speaker 1: you want to go with me over to hang out?
Speaker 1: And I was like, nope, stay home and got to
Speaker 1: know that thing. Well, hey, didn't make you come? You
Speaker 1: know it does, but you know it's that vibrator come.
Speaker 1: It's that like where it gets to the point where
Speaker 1: you're gonna orgasm, but it's so intense that you kind
Speaker 1: of like you can't get there. Yeah yeah, yeah up
Speaker 1: having like some property. Yeah, I don't know, it's weird,
Speaker 1: but mentally, do you hold back when you're going to
Speaker 1: orgasm because it's too intense? That's called edging, right, So
Speaker 1: you you you bring yourself almost to the point of
Speaker 1: like busting the nut and then you stop. If you
Speaker 1: can said like, then you stop, but like if you can't,
Speaker 1: then you just gotta let it go. That's the that sucks.
Speaker 1: It's called edging, but it's amazing when you finally do
Speaker 1: go ahead and bust, it's the best. So edging is
Speaker 1: like when you get to the edge and then you
Speaker 1: then you pull back, and then you go to the
Speaker 1: edge again, and then you pull and then when finally
Speaker 1: you can't pull back no more, it's just like you've edged. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't really like to master, but I like to
Speaker 1: have sex. So if I have my choice, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I'm not using jack Orgill. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I'm actually having sex, so I don't
Speaker 1: really jack off. So okay, but you don't edge during
Speaker 1: sex during sucks, I don't think. I think that's just
Speaker 1: fucking right. But you don't, like, don't move, don't move no,
Speaker 1: because I know that I'm in control, like I'm the
Speaker 1: you know top, well, yeah, you know, like if you However, though,
Speaker 1: because I don't believe it, I don't think there's like
Speaker 1: a difference between the two. I think you fucking like
Speaker 1: everybody get a piece of everybody whatever. So that's just
Speaker 1: I think you should just do what everybody. It sounds
Speaker 1: like an origin now, no, no, no, I'm just saying
Speaker 1: people act in gay sex. People act like the top
Speaker 1: is like the more you know, dominant person who I
Speaker 1: guess is getting the most pleasure out of the ordealer
Speaker 1: who you know, it's getting the good end of the deal.
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's what that means. I always
Speaker 1: felt like the top literally means that you're like, well,
Speaker 1: it does, but there's a stigma. You get what I'm saying, so,
Speaker 1: but I don't believe. Yeah, and so I don't believe
Speaker 1: in that because I think the other person like, we
Speaker 1: fucking you know what I'm saying. So obviously you're doing
Speaker 1: what you want to do to you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: We're all in this together. This is good for the
Speaker 1: both of them. I look at it like the top
Speaker 1: is that of her at the bottoms the receiver. That's
Speaker 1: that's that's the literal definition. But it's more to it
Speaker 1: than that, you know, because I think for women what
Speaker 1: we like giving and receiving, but receiving is what makes
Speaker 1: you come. Yeah, but I'm also a pleaser. So I
Speaker 1: get sad satisfaction from knowing that can come from giving
Speaker 1: satisfied from pleasing somebody else with a little bit of help. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: like with a little, you know, a little are you
Speaker 1: able to come every just in your mind, like just
Speaker 1: using your mind and not actually doing anything to yourself?
Speaker 1: They say that can happen, but that has never happened
Speaker 1: to me. The only way I can make that happen
Speaker 1: if I squeeze my legs really really tight. That's still
Speaker 1: good when you know, like when I'm in that point mentally,
Speaker 1: if I just like squeeze tight enough and like and
Speaker 1: I'm happy for you, I can't. I feel like men
Speaker 1: can do that easier. What dreams? Yeah, I mean we
Speaker 1: I got a penis, yo, Like that's what we do. Like,
Speaker 1: but you can't you do without touching your pepeah, Like
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You get turned out. I'm
Speaker 1: a I'm a guy. I'm a black guy at that,
Speaker 1: you know, like you give me turned on? Enough is
Speaker 1: I don't see nothing but the finish line baby and
Speaker 1: stuff I've had y'all. So then that's just you're using
Speaker 1: your mind and coming. No no, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: but I don't think I've ever came in my dreams.
Speaker 1: And when I did, it's because I was touching myself
Speaker 1: okay while I was sleeping. So I'm like a sleepwalker
Speaker 1: masturbator sleep the beata leapers. Now you guys saw this
Speaker 1: new Instagram zooming feature that they have. Yes, you can
Speaker 1: zoom on on pictures. You can zoom it on videos.
Speaker 1: I haven't used it yet. I was just using it
Speaker 1: while we was makeup. How was your zooming in? I
Speaker 1: just was like, oh, look you can zoom, but you
Speaker 1: know it's so stupid about it. You still can't zoom
Speaker 1: in or magnify the profile picture. So just that it's
Speaker 1: just the post. Yeah, like y'all had one job. Man,
Speaker 1: it's gonna come. It's gonna come where you could click
Speaker 1: on in private page. Just can't forget it. If I
Speaker 1: can't start right, if I can't make you a clear dog,
Speaker 1: you're gonna be pending like a motherfucker. How many times
Speaker 1: have you been on and tena a private page? When
Speaker 1: you look at the little pure like and now you
Speaker 1: have to be really careful because sometimes you know, we
Speaker 1: like do a little niptuck on our pictures, right, if
Speaker 1: you zoom in, can you really see that? Yeah, photoshop
Speaker 1: type like face tune and all that bullshit. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: can see that. I destored it. You have to be
Speaker 1: a professional photoshopper to like pull it off. I use
Speaker 1: face soon, but I use facetoon to like, um, brighten
Speaker 1: up the eyes. Yeah, even that a lot. And sometimes
Speaker 1: I do it to white in my teeth because the
Speaker 1: lighting something, because my teeth farn't really like fake looking white.
Speaker 1: They're like an supposed to be right, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So sometimes I feel like certain light won't get it
Speaker 1: as white as I want it. So sometimes see, I
Speaker 1: never even thought that. And you know what, the I
Speaker 1: will post pictures that I'm like, well, it's from a distance,
Speaker 1: so it don't look so bad. I can't because yeah, yeah. Now,
Speaker 1: there's been a lot of things going on, obviously in
Speaker 1: the gossip and in the news right now, like Chris Brown,
Speaker 1: for example, this woman Bailey Current, who's accusing him she's
Speaker 1: a liar. Da da da da. My mom is up
Speaker 1: here earlier talking about it because my mom doesn't believe her,
Speaker 1: but she's concerned that now, like it's hard for women
Speaker 1: to come forward when something really does happen when you
Speaker 1: have somebody who it's like the boy who quote cried wolf.
Speaker 1: And when I tell her get out of here, we're
Speaker 1: about to do lip service. We don't want to talk
Speaker 1: about anything serious, right. I don't believe her. She needs
Speaker 1: more people right now? Why don't we believe her. Let's
Speaker 1: talk about the reasons why. My number one reason is
Speaker 1: because you went and did an interview with tmz re
Speaker 1: immediately and you didn't even go home and crazy your daddy.
Speaker 1: You straight, you're not tarmatized if you're one right before
Speaker 1: he even got arrested, and you're telling your side of
Speaker 1: the story right. For me, it's just like it's too obvy,
Speaker 1: Like girl, you trying to set somebody up who's too easy.
Speaker 1: You thought he was too easy to set up. But
Speaker 1: it's like you thought it was gonna be easy if
Speaker 1: you can't do that, like in my head, he went
Speaker 1: off on her like yeah her, Oh I'm I'm a
Speaker 1: white woman. I'm gonna bring him down really easily, Like no,
Speaker 1: it's here. Yes. First of all, if you if you've
Speaker 1: been following Chris Brown, he's not taking chances anymore. He's
Speaker 1: not making stupid as mistakes. He's a good fucking father.
Speaker 1: He's he's paid for his mistakes, like leave him the
Speaker 1: funk alone. And furthermore, we believe somebody named Bailey like
Speaker 1: it ain't even b A I L E Y. It's
Speaker 1: like l E you lying, Like come on, and then
Speaker 1: you haven't seen all the things that they've they've dug
Speaker 1: up out of her past. He's a liar exaggerating. She
Speaker 1: lost her crown for that Miss California pageant and racist
Speaker 1: language and she won't give it back. In there, they
Speaker 1: said she had nude photos and it was for racist language.
Speaker 1: The bitch probably did at all, but I just read
Speaker 1: was that it was for racist language. She is disgusting
Speaker 1: to me and I can't wait for the full expose.
Speaker 1: TMZ is well aware that she's lying. There stories that
Speaker 1: lead to that, like come on, don't even like Chris right,
Speaker 1: but because it's just it's like, oh, the the white
Speaker 1: girl came to Chris Brown's house and got a gun
Speaker 1: pulled off on her and what kind of and so
Speaker 1: what what did you do? Right? What did you do
Speaker 1: trying to steal home? Do you really think Chris Brown
Speaker 1: is gonna put a gun and he doesn't have to
Speaker 1: put a gun at right, I'm sure you didn't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's just a story. But what David really made me
Speaker 1: think of it is the other day I did have
Speaker 1: like a little cook out at my house that turned
Speaker 1: a little crazy. But you do have to be careful
Speaker 1: about who comes to your house. Yeah, that is something
Speaker 1: that it made me think of, Like, have you ever
Speaker 1: had somebody at your house and was like, why did
Speaker 1: this person come to my house? I remember when I
Speaker 1: was um in high school and I live with my parents. Uh,
Speaker 1: there's a bunch of my friends came over and this
Speaker 1: guy stole something from my parents house and I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: it's not even It was like something stupid to like
Speaker 1: a CD. And I was like who does that? But
Speaker 1: my other boy was like, oh, yeah, you know he
Speaker 1: stole a CD whatever whatever I was, he just has
Speaker 1: a havard. Why would you come to my parents house
Speaker 1: and steal something? And so it did make me a
Speaker 1: little bit. There was like a hundred people at my house.
Speaker 1: There was so many people. It was supposed to be
Speaker 1: thirty people. It turned into like a big deal. And
Speaker 1: I don't have like it. Yeah it was, it really was,
Speaker 1: but I don't have like no huge mansion or anything.
Speaker 1: I live in Brooklyn, you know what I'm saying. Stone,
Speaker 1: And it was it was we're outside inside anything missing
Speaker 1: nothing I know of, no, just lots of liquor. And
Speaker 1: people were definitely going to the bridge and helping themselves
Speaker 1: to everything. Who ate the carrots after crisper in the fridge?
Speaker 1: That's just ridiculous. Who opens the crisper in the fridge?
Speaker 1: But anyway, all that was missing. But I didn't really
Speaker 1: want people like going upstairs everything. You know, I put
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff over here. Somebody went upstairs. A
Speaker 1: few people was like trapesing upstairs and you have a
Speaker 1: bathroom when you first floor and it's you know, it's
Speaker 1: right there, like yeah, you got a bathroom on your friend.
Speaker 1: So it's like nobody needs to go upstairs to anything.
Speaker 1: But when this Chris Brown thing happened, I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I have to be careful, Like who
Speaker 1: you letting your snow? That's exactly, and that's that's what
Speaker 1: it all balls balls. They got to watch the company
Speaker 1: you keep, absolutely and you got to watch the company.
Speaker 1: Your company keeps right there. You got you can come over,
Speaker 1: but you know, don't bring anybody just come your soul,
Speaker 1: which is so rude, like who just brings someone to
Speaker 1: someone else's home? Exactly? But you know, like you guys said, oh,
Speaker 1: how's that ever happened? You bring people to your house?
Speaker 1: I don't even have friends. I don't bring anybody to
Speaker 1: my house friends. What about I got exactly trying you
Speaker 1: can downs in my house, you can come. That's how
Speaker 1: you feel aboutletting people in your house. Um, I feel
Speaker 1: that it's a it's a it's something that you have
Speaker 1: to be strategic about, be smart, like everybody can't come
Speaker 1: in your damn house. First of all, this New York
Speaker 1: City people were having roaches and ship. I'm from Michigan.
Speaker 1: You know you we don't. You don't sit. I don't
Speaker 1: even nobody house me. They got roaches? Hell, yeah, you
Speaker 1: know how roaches here like a like a thing everybody
Speaker 1: deals with. And Michigan and somebody has roaches like they're
Speaker 1: nasty about that. We'll be on the train bad bugs
Speaker 1: and ship. Frand is my co host. I'll be thinking
Speaker 1: about energy now and ship. You say everybody came, get's
Speaker 1: a list. There's a list. I put it like that.
Speaker 1: But I love entertaining and I love having people in
Speaker 1: my home. You know what I'm saying. My mama taught
Speaker 1: us how to cook, so I like doing that. I
Speaker 1: like having a good time. Yeah, y'all can come by
Speaker 1: so like yeah, like you know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: love that. So I like having people over, but just
Speaker 1: the right. Have you ever had a bad experience with
Speaker 1: some of that? Oh yeah, everybody got the expiration day? Now,
Speaker 1: like you know, somebody could come over and you know, like, okay,
Speaker 1: this is the last time you'll ask everybody coming over here,
Speaker 1: and you know, you just you know, steer the conversation
Speaker 1: in the day or night in that direction towards the
Speaker 1: front door. Right, because people was at my house beefing
Speaker 1: like I had a Hennessy privileged bar set up in
Speaker 1: the backyard like free Hennessy vs. Op. Okay, footprints came,
Speaker 1: they catered seeing everything, y'all, I gotta bring nothing. I
Speaker 1: had desserts from my friends bakery, the bakery on Bergen.
Speaker 1: Everything taking care of it sounds beautiful. And then it
Speaker 1: was supposed to be over at six at seven o'clock
Speaker 1: when the privilege ran out, people was really beefing like
Speaker 1: oh you got hello, right everything, But y'are not appreciative.
Speaker 1: It was just crazy. Well I don't know. I was
Speaker 1: the last one to leave, but it wasn't because I
Speaker 1: was trying to drink. It was because I lived very
Speaker 1: far away and I wanted to watch power. So I
Speaker 1: didn't like that, And then I was fine with that.
Speaker 1: We was good because we was drinking the liquor inside
Speaker 1: the house. No problem. All right. Now, let me ask
Speaker 1: you this, if somebody has a bad reputation, does that
Speaker 1: attract you to them more? Or does that make you
Speaker 1: really stay away from somebody? Because I found from just
Speaker 1: my friends and my own experiences, when they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: don't mess with him, he's this, he's that, sometimes it
Speaker 1: makes it more like attractive to I don't know about attractive,
Speaker 1: but you're definitely intrigued. Like you want to learn for yourself,
Speaker 1: you want to see for yourself like girls, or you
Speaker 1: want to have your own experience to be able at
Speaker 1: least me, I want to judge from myself, like I'll
Speaker 1: take your opinion and your thoughts into consideration, but I
Speaker 1: still want to have my own experience because I know
Speaker 1: plenty of people who are like banded by association, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't mess with such and such, So don't mess
Speaker 1: with such and such. But then I would meet such
Speaker 1: and such and I'm like, oh, but if people warn you,
Speaker 1: like well he's a dog, he'd be dog and girls out.
Speaker 1: He did this, he did that. Sometimes it makes you
Speaker 1: feel like I want to challenge this and change this
Speaker 1: and he ain't gonna do that to me. What was
Speaker 1: they doing wrong? Maybe they just you know, it's always
Speaker 1: the story. Maybe they still use a regular the vibrators. Meanwhile,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Rosky crystals and ship. It's
Speaker 1: a difference, you know what I'm saying, different views, So
Speaker 1: I don't I don't believe in none of that ship
Speaker 1: and if anything, I'll use that to my advantage. I'm
Speaker 1: a guy. Charisma is what it's all about. That's how
Speaker 1: you win, right, That's how you sell yourself, especially when
Speaker 1: it comes to dating. So call me every bad boy
Speaker 1: you want. All it's gonna make you do. You have
Speaker 1: a bad reputation destined? Thank you, Thank you. I'm glad
Speaker 1: it's reading well. But yeah, you gotta use that. Doesn't
Speaker 1: nobody want to be bored? Stuff? If I came in
Speaker 1: here and was like, oh my god, you're so cute,
Speaker 1: like you want to go like have coffee at Starbucks,
Speaker 1: you'd be looking at me like you're looking at me
Speaker 1: like like, y'all, you look so good today, baby, Like
Speaker 1: what's up? What's gonna take a ride? Let's go, let's
Speaker 1: just go run the city. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: We can take that. I'm you know, but but you
Speaker 1: would think about ship. Guys do the most inappropriate things
Speaker 1: to you. And if you're like yeah, no, I feel like,
Speaker 1: um no. But it's different with me, Like I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm different. I'm like weird, like I'm a weirdo' I'm
Speaker 1: just like over everything. Like it's for a guy like me,
Speaker 1: I hate all this that it's more like, uh, for me,
Speaker 1: it's more like maybe you should have to just take
Speaker 1: my number and hit me up and we'll talk like
Speaker 1: that and then later plan something, you know, for a
Speaker 1: guy to come up to me and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: let's do this tonight, I'm gonna be first response. No,
Speaker 1: but what if you ain't got nothing to do when
Speaker 1: you're hungry, because I don't have anything to do. If
Speaker 1: if you're like, hey, girls, if you invite me and
Speaker 1: my friends and then my friends are like, oh, come on, stuff,
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, But to a guy that I don't know,
Speaker 1: I'm just like I like them. If I like them,
Speaker 1: I'll give him my number. If you and your girl
Speaker 1: else right and ask for your number. But I still
Speaker 1: like flirted with you. You know, I was nice to
Speaker 1: your girls with brother, Like Angel said, if my friends
Speaker 1: if we're hungry, and I'll go, but I would need that. Actually,
Speaker 1: now what if you only pay for you? And I
Speaker 1: would never do that just saying that people out there
Speaker 1: doing that. People are weirdos. People are weirdos, and they
Speaker 1: will just that's rude. If you're not going to pay
Speaker 1: for everybody and don't pay for nobody, right, or just
Speaker 1: don't invite nobody. How about that slide and invite somebody
Speaker 1: out and then you have to pay for But what
Speaker 1: if you don't got to like that, then you don't
Speaker 1: be there like that, don't be there? What if you
Speaker 1: so now you go out with your girl, let's say, right,
Speaker 1: you are definitely made it and then she's like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have my friends come meet us for drinks.
Speaker 1: You got paid for their drinks. It's now I'm just playing.
Speaker 1: Was not one of them. Nigga is like Okay, well
Speaker 1: in two weeks we're going down to the second. We
Speaker 1: just paid our rent and all our bills. No, I
Speaker 1: don't know. At the end of the day, you just
Speaker 1: got to be thorough. Right. When you're a guy like
Speaker 1: you have a responsibility to be like thorough you have
Speaker 1: to mean what you say. You have to do what
Speaker 1: you say. Your word has to mean something, and so
Speaker 1: you have so many opportunities to showcase that in dating, right,
Speaker 1: you can like like blow somebody's mind in the environment
Speaker 1: there in like do things that they've never done before.
Speaker 1: Just show up and be present. I don't believe in
Speaker 1: the lazy ship. So that's all I got to say.
Speaker 1: If you niggas is being lazy, then that's why you ain't.
Speaker 1: That's why things ain't working out for you. Sometimes people
Speaker 1: get lazy in the relationship though, like everything is, everything
Speaker 1: is good at first, but then they don't do the
Speaker 1: ship they used to do and they do get a
Speaker 1: little lazy. That's because people aren't in relationships for the
Speaker 1: right reasons. People are relationships. Yeah, absolutely, people are comfortable
Speaker 1: because I know. I think that's too. I get a
Speaker 1: little lazy sometimes too. I think that bo just are
Speaker 1: intrigued by the idea of companionship, and so they look,
Speaker 1: I don't even know what the hell it means to
Speaker 1: be looking for a relationship, Like to me, you and you,
Speaker 1: you encounter somebody and like there's there's specific things about
Speaker 1: them that make you want to be with only them.
Speaker 1: That's a relationship all that, Like, oh, I'm at a
Speaker 1: place in my life where all that bullshit. That's divorced.
Speaker 1: And I really think that guys end up settling down
Speaker 1: when it's the right time, not necessarily the right person,
Speaker 1: your pregnancy. It could be, or it could be just
Speaker 1: like all their friends got married and they got older
Speaker 1: and they're bored and lonely, and sometimes I feel like
Speaker 1: guys could have met the right person, but they just
Speaker 1: wasn't ready to settle down. And then but now now
Speaker 1: they don't met somebody and it's been a month, but
Speaker 1: I'm ready to settle down. That's the one. And I
Speaker 1: see it happen all the time. That's sad, and they
Speaker 1: get divorced all the time. That's why they call it settling.
Speaker 1: That's why you should. You should, really, honestly, if you
Speaker 1: if you get married and feel like I'm really about
Speaker 1: to be with this motherfucker for the rest of my life.
Speaker 1: If you don't feel like that you're making a mistake
Speaker 1: or no. Prenup um depends on how things going for you,
Speaker 1: Like I get depend on what's popping, Like money is money.
Speaker 1: Now we gotta be serious. So you know, if I
Speaker 1: have things that I need to protect, I will absolutely
Speaker 1: ask for a prenup. However, I would make sure that
Speaker 1: whoever I was married and felt so comfortable that that
Speaker 1: would simply be a piece of paper. Now, what would
Speaker 1: be in your prenup? Just basically, what would you want
Speaker 1: it to be? Like I take what I came with,
Speaker 1: and you take what you came with. You to be, No,
Speaker 1: because I want to I want to continue generating income
Speaker 1: like independently and so No, because that's my money. But
Speaker 1: I would also take care of them. I would be
Speaker 1: you know, like your man. I would man. I would
Speaker 1: look out the same way like when you break up
Speaker 1: with somebody on good terms and you get an opportunity
Speaker 1: to look out for them, like a year later or whatever,
Speaker 1: if they need some tires or something, you know, you
Speaker 1: you you hook them up. I would make sure that
Speaker 1: they were straight afterwards. It would be a prenup where
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Oh no, that's different, so you
Speaker 1: don't know you write that in. But people are so
Speaker 1: scared of prenumptial agreements. But you know you could work
Speaker 1: it out to where you're not left with nothing. That's
Speaker 1: whatever you wear. Some people feel like a prenup is
Speaker 1: you saying when this doesn't work out? No, but you
Speaker 1: have You know time changes things, and you know things
Speaker 1: that just change, so you never know what's gonna happen.
Speaker 1: I love, you got to secure your future. You can
Speaker 1: fall out of love of somebody if they change. Resentment
Speaker 1: should anything that happens that causes you to resent somebody
Speaker 1: will make you fall out of love with the im period.
Speaker 1: That could be a multitude of things. It could be
Speaker 1: somebody not being financially irresponsible that makes you look at
Speaker 1: them differently. He could be somebody cheating on you, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It could be somebody being verbally abusive.
Speaker 1: That's real, you know what I'm saying. Because to me, now, ship,
Speaker 1: if we go together, you know what I'm saying, certain ship,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't to be thinking, even in your anger. So
Speaker 1: as certain ship, you can't say to me, you know,
Speaker 1: and I'm working on that because you know me. You know,
Speaker 1: I don't mind saying shut the funk up. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying when I know I'm right as I
Speaker 1: would never disrespect somebody like like your mother. You know,
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, you don't do that, so we can forget.
Speaker 1: Just know your your your contribution to the ship. Be responsible.
Speaker 1: I think it's funny when my boyfriend curses me out
Speaker 1: because I don't take it seriously. If he's like, shut
Speaker 1: the funk up, which, of course, if I think he
Speaker 1: might have cursed in me a couple of times. I
Speaker 1: don't think he cursed you out. I know he doesn't,
Speaker 1: but I think it's funny, like it makes me laugh.
Speaker 1: But that's how it should be because I don't I know,
Speaker 1: it's not serious. Like if he's like, man, I shut
Speaker 1: the funk up, I'm like, what I think an argument
Speaker 1: should be, like something like like just completely like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, this is so out of the ordinary to me.
Speaker 1: It's supposed to be good times when things feel good.
Speaker 1: To me, that's the natural order of ship. Are you
Speaker 1: supposed to be happy all the time? So to me,
Speaker 1: getting into an argument and ship that we got to
Speaker 1: work something my wife, Why then are we arguing Like
Speaker 1: I'm looking at Stephanie and Gig like y'all don't have
Speaker 1: some arguments in the past, But you see how you
Speaker 1: knew it wasn't. Yeah, I haven't had our argument. I've
Speaker 1: had an argument in a year. Stephanie to argue every
Speaker 1: fucking day like this is not good. But y'all got
Speaker 1: past that. Yeah again, even though we took our time off,
Speaker 1: I think that was good for our relationship and we
Speaker 1: haven't had nearly as much drama in the year that
Speaker 1: we've been back together. Then in all of their arguments
Speaker 1: for that, everybody feel because he's rude and mean and
Speaker 1: he's party over, but you too, because when y'are getting
Speaker 1: an argument and where is just all there? Ship is
Speaker 1: party over, party done for everyone that ship that you'll
Speaker 1: be like, y'all not, are you now? I used to
Speaker 1: say that, can y'all not? Can say later I'll be
Speaker 1: like we all got text. You know what's the craziest
Speaker 1: thing though, for real, all of those arguments I can't
Speaker 1: tell you about happy ship was arguing about it. They
Speaker 1: wouldn't vargue about inviting I don't even know what most
Speaker 1: of those arguments, I would be like, funk are they
Speaker 1: even arguing about? I don't know you didn't say me
Speaker 1: a seat, So I'm not saying then that one was serious.
Speaker 1: And I remember that. However, that's not do that sounds
Speaker 1: serious now that I said, Oh, it wasn't that he
Speaker 1: didn't save me. See, it was his reaction to me,
Speaker 1: like where am I supposed to sit? Like you invite
Speaker 1: me somewhere and then you don't make sure that I
Speaker 1: have somewhere to sit, So why me exactly? You knew
Speaker 1: I was on my way, make preparations for me to
Speaker 1: be comfortable when I get here. When I get there,
Speaker 1: you're like, what you want me to do? Nigga? You
Speaker 1: invite to me? Like why I invite me to him?
Speaker 1: But sometimes I'm gonna take Sometimes people can get mad
Speaker 1: long to show up because I've done that too. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're gonna okay, and I don't. I don't set the
Speaker 1: ship up til you get there because I know I'm
Speaker 1: gonna set it up and then it's gonna be too more.
Speaker 1: We were going from one place to the other, you
Speaker 1: didn't say, yeah, you don't take long. I remember that.
Speaker 1: I remember that now recently right, Black China didn't interview.
Speaker 1: I think it was with with L. Was it with L?
Speaker 1: And she said that Tyger was kind of cheap while
Speaker 1: they were she did say that, Yeah, she said he
Speaker 1: was kind of cheap. How do you leave that? How
Speaker 1: do you feel about what he don't be paying for? Ship?
Speaker 1: Clearly because everything gets rebold, But how do you feel
Speaker 1: about dating somebody who's kind of cheap? I'm not kind
Speaker 1: of cheap, so we're not gonna do that, but I
Speaker 1: mean frugal, like you know, not like you can save
Speaker 1: money and you can you know, what's what do you
Speaker 1: need a channel bag for? No? No, no, that's not good.
Speaker 1: No bags are expensive. But if you want us to
Speaker 1: know about getting yourself, you don't want to affoord it.
Speaker 1: Then if you wanted yourself, if you want to show
Speaker 1: back if he's giving your if he's giving you a gift,
Speaker 1: I mean back gift because he's cheap, right, Michael? Never mind?
Speaker 1: Oh Michael is really getting Okay, we're comparing perfect yes
Speaker 1: with the logo all over ay and this is I
Speaker 1: would still love to work. But that's that's because he
Speaker 1: thinks that that's your level. You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: I would rather not give me a gift, can't get
Speaker 1: me something. I'm Michael, I'm okay, all right, not even
Speaker 1: that's that's not if you're buying somebody a gift, it's
Speaker 1: supposed to represent how you feel. A right, that's your
Speaker 1: level they are able to do. If a man can
Speaker 1: spoil you and treat you to like the finest, most
Speaker 1: luxurious ship in the world, he will. He can't, he won't,
Speaker 1: but he'll do the best. You can do, sing the
Speaker 1: brand wearing guy. But then send you to Steve Man
Speaker 1: for your shoes. Now, I have an ex boyfriend just
Speaker 1: like that. I always talked about him. That was one
Speaker 1: of our main things. He had the nicest clothes, okay,
Speaker 1: everything for himself, nice car, owned his place in Brooklyn.
Speaker 1: But when it came town of he would buy me
Speaker 1: the worst present, like first of all. One year, it
Speaker 1: was my birthday, right, he didn't give me a birthday
Speaker 1: present until a month after my birthday, and he was
Speaker 1: acting like it was something special that he ordered. He
Speaker 1: got me an iPod. I'm like, how was this a
Speaker 1: special gift that you ordered? You got an iPad for
Speaker 1: my birthday? One year? It was the iPod. It was
Speaker 1: just music. Nothing else, not even that. But you know what, Okay,
Speaker 1: His sister later on told me that he grew up
Speaker 1: Jehovah witness, so holidays would never Really I did too,
Speaker 1: That's no excuse. I just got through telling you how
Speaker 1: how it's done. So that's bullshit. He was the if
Speaker 1: anything that should make you more opulent and make you
Speaker 1: splurge more because now you can finally do it. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? You know what it made me
Speaker 1: do because when we did break up because he cheated
Speaker 1: on me, right, and when I found out, you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes I got tea telling you you can work through
Speaker 1: it and stay. But I was like, man, he cheated
Speaker 1: his gifts a whack. I could, yeah, if it was
Speaker 1: at least he treated me really well. But he would
Speaker 1: do like he's the type of dude that he's just cheap.
Speaker 1: Like he would come out and meet me and my
Speaker 1: friends at the bar and not pay for my friends drinks, see,
Speaker 1: and like he would do things like that, and like
Speaker 1: I would go with my friends and their man would
Speaker 1: buy all our drinks and then he comes and here
Speaker 1: comes his cheap ast. You know, but he was really
Speaker 1: just a cheap person in general. Did you ever speak
Speaker 1: up like where you vocal about I told him a
Speaker 1: million times, how did you say it? I was like, um,
Speaker 1: when he gave me my present, I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I'm a little disappointed because I put
Speaker 1: a lot of thought into everything I do for you,
Speaker 1: because I'm a very generous person me too. That's that's
Speaker 1: one thing, Like I give gifts to, you know, the
Speaker 1: guys that I'm with. I took him snowboarding for the
Speaker 1: first time. I got him a snowboard and snowboarding clothes.
Speaker 1: And that's expensive right there though, But the point it
Speaker 1: was a lot like it was and it was something
Speaker 1: that he would never get and I wouldn't paid for it,
Speaker 1: but I just didn't have to. But that after that
Speaker 1: he goes snowboarding on. Like I did a lot of
Speaker 1: things for him, and I felt like I planned the
Speaker 1: whole trip, like I had a place for us to
Speaker 1: say everything. And I just feel like, okay, now, at
Speaker 1: least be thoughtful. And I'm not even saying you've got
Speaker 1: to spend a whole lot of money on it. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying be thoughtful. You know. Yeah, me too. Like
Speaker 1: it's not even about like like you said, if if
Speaker 1: he's a man's gonna do what he can. I know,
Speaker 1: a guy, if he's gonna be with me, whether he's
Speaker 1: really broke or really rich, if he's gonna buy me
Speaker 1: a handbag, it's gonna be of one of the high
Speaker 1: end designers because they know that's the kind of things
Speaker 1: that I like. That's the you know, that's yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what I'm not gonna use. But if I'm dating someone
Speaker 1: who can afford to get me a bag, you know,
Speaker 1: he can get me something else. Some flowers in a car.
Speaker 1: I'm going to really appreciate that, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: rather than a wallet for Macy's. Like you don't have
Speaker 1: to take it some expensive dinner, but if you know
Speaker 1: what I like to eat, and you wouldn't make that
Speaker 1: ful use your hands. Yeah, I like when they use
Speaker 1: their hands, right, and you don't have to use your hands. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So alright, So everybody's saying, can you date somebody who's
Speaker 1: kind of because there are people who are very frugal,
Speaker 1: and that's just how like I take an my ex
Speaker 1: he's never like been in a reel for real relationship,
Speaker 1: so he's never done like his ex girlfriend was, like,
Speaker 1: you know, she wasn't right. She was very Oudoh yeah,
Speaker 1: she didn't hold him to task right, So I felt
Speaker 1: like I had to like teach him a lot of
Speaker 1: things and you know whatever. But I just felt like
Speaker 1: that was part of it, Like he ever really knew
Speaker 1: how to treat a woman. You have to take that
Speaker 1: into consideration, but you also have to take yourself into consideration,
Speaker 1: Like I'm not I don't know dog Like I know
Speaker 1: what I'm you know how I'm gonna do ship, and
Speaker 1: I know how ship is supposed to be done. So
Speaker 1: I'm damn sure not about to sit back and tolerate
Speaker 1: like lesson than what I deserve. You're not about to
Speaker 1: be cheap. When we go somewhere and it's time to
Speaker 1: spend some money, you're gonna spend it. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Part of the activity not nothing ridiculous and ostentationous,
Speaker 1: but just like you know whatever, we we don't have
Speaker 1: to go to Rear Robin all the time, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying this, So I had to go to
Speaker 1: the polo club on a special occasion, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, yeah, but that's why there's like different
Speaker 1: levels to being cheap, Like there's you know, a guy
Speaker 1: who's buying you, who's a millionaire, and he's buying you,
Speaker 1: you know, see him out in alsohol's cheap. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: being cheap. And then when you a guy you know
Speaker 1: who can't afford it, that's totally different. You don't hold
Speaker 1: against somebody. That's totally different. That's what I'm saying. Now,
Speaker 1: Could I date a millionaire who is you know, spending
Speaker 1: thirty dollars on the table and the club, but won't
Speaker 1: take me out to a dinner that course two thousand dollars?
Speaker 1: No right, no ship, what dinner costs two thousands? There's
Speaker 1: dinners that course two thousand dollars. I guess I don't
Speaker 1: need seafood. And no, you're going to the restaurants and
Speaker 1: you're not never seeing it's totally different. If well, I
Speaker 1: guess I have when you have, you've been to my
Speaker 1: astros and um in l A that you can have
Speaker 1: a two thousand dollars dinner. I don't need chicken. But
Speaker 1: still you've been at those dinners. You've been at dinners.
Speaker 1: Point is people money on what they want? What they
Speaker 1: wanted everybody. Some people spurs on dining. Some people spurs
Speaker 1: on cars, like some people just splurres on savings li
Speaker 1: real talk, like some people are hoarders when it comes
Speaker 1: to money because they grew up poor and they're definitely
Speaker 1: afraid to be destitute like that. You're in a relationship,
Speaker 1: is it okay to except give some somebody else? No, nobody,
Speaker 1: nothing that you would not right there, That's what I
Speaker 1: say all the time. No, he no, Now are you
Speaker 1: still gonna do it? Of course? Because it's so it's
Speaker 1: some people. Yeah, it's some people who, let's keep it
Speaker 1: all the way fucking real. It's some people who will
Speaker 1: always and forever hold a special place and your heart, y'all,
Speaker 1: just have that report. You're gonna sneak and talk to
Speaker 1: them on their birthday. You know what I'm saying. It's
Speaker 1: just what the funk it is is that everybody does it.
Speaker 1: We ain't gonna talk about it. It can be kitchen
Speaker 1: table talk. We're clearly not in the kitchen so cool,
Speaker 1: but like, everybody does it. So that's just a part
Speaker 1: of the thing. That man was like, I gotta you know,
Speaker 1: it's my my exest birthday. I'm gonna call them and
Speaker 1: say happy No, then what then we're not finished. That's
Speaker 1: too much me and you. Then if that's what you
Speaker 1: want to do, that's so disrespectful to say happy, yes,
Speaker 1: sneak and do it. I shouldn't know about it, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, that's that's totally disrespect Okay,
Speaker 1: So some things we don't want to know. I'm glad
Speaker 1: you brought that up because we were talking about this
Speaker 1: about things that we don't tell. If you're dating, right,
Speaker 1: are you dating somebody now? Are you in a relationship? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not in a relationship. Are you smiling? And because
Speaker 1: because I like my teeth. I have braces and thank
Speaker 1: God for my parents for thinking ahead for me. So
Speaker 1: I like my teeth. That's the only reason I'm smiling, right, Okay,
Speaker 1: rubbing your leg because I don't know, I think? All right.
Speaker 1: So let's say you're dating somebody, right, but you get
Speaker 1: like a d M from a celebrity. Would you tell
Speaker 1: them or is that something you just don't bring up? No,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't tell them. But that's not something that would
Speaker 1: like that's that happens? Would if it was me? Like
Speaker 1: to me, you know, I don't need to know everything.
Speaker 1: Some things you can handle on your own. That's why
Speaker 1: this is a partnership, because you do your part and
Speaker 1: I do mine, So certain things you just need to
Speaker 1: take care of. I don't need to know that. Don't
Speaker 1: tell me any potentially damaging information that's unnecessary for me
Speaker 1: to know. But if he didn't respond, then why the
Speaker 1: funk do I need to know? No, and you shouldn't
Speaker 1: even be I wouldn't even if you do tell me,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna cut your ass out now because you shouldn't
Speaker 1: even be excited about no ship like that. You should
Speaker 1: be over the whole excitement about celebrity ship. What the
Speaker 1: funk are you doing? So you get because somebody? Man?
Speaker 1: But what if this is that I don't even know
Speaker 1: this person? Yeah, like it's just a text, or even
Speaker 1: if you do know the person, like it's just a
Speaker 1: it's just random Like oh look, because Stephanie, I'm sure
Speaker 1: you get all coming. That's different. But like I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm sure you don't need to I can't. I would
Speaker 1: love to see what um actually there's I delete all
Speaker 1: my d M because I'm sure the crazy people DM
Speaker 1: you would you tell a guy you're dating like if
Speaker 1: some crazy person? Um, I have one? I was In
Speaker 1: my last relationship, I got a random DM. It was
Speaker 1: just like, oh, this person just DM me like whatever,
Speaker 1: and I you know, I wasn't even like it wasn't
Speaker 1: even it was like a normal you know, like he
Speaker 1: was sitting next to me when I noticed, So it
Speaker 1: was just like normal just came out really you know,
Speaker 1: say right yeah. But the like the next argument, it
Speaker 1: was like, go call that's why, that's why you can't
Speaker 1: tell just keep just don't if we like go together.
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you ship, but I will say that
Speaker 1: like I have had I've had I've had situations where
Speaker 1: we don't we're not in a relationship, but we date.
Speaker 1: We love each other, we care about each other, we
Speaker 1: spend time. You're so transparent. You tell them everything, they
Speaker 1: tell you everything. You'll talk about other people you're dating.
Speaker 1: It's great. But I think it's because you know that
Speaker 1: like you know, like there's no obligation. I guess it's
Speaker 1: just a mutual respect. But for some reason, it's totally
Speaker 1: different when you're actually in a relationship. I've never didd
Speaker 1: somebody like that I wasn't in a relationship and told
Speaker 1: them about other people, like do try it. It's so liberating.
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's none of your motherfucking business.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's rude. I don't know, no, not
Speaker 1: in a way. We're like, you know what do you like?
Speaker 1: Are you like that? Cool? Well? Yeah, such, you know whatever,
Speaker 1: It's just it's cool. But I guess I have a
Speaker 1: friend who did that, and she's married to the guy
Speaker 1: that she did that with. Now, they were just like
Speaker 1: kind of dating and she was talking to other guys
Speaker 1: and she was always very honest about like, oh I
Speaker 1: was in you know whatever, whatever, and I ran into
Speaker 1: this person and we slept together. It was crazy. She
Speaker 1: would tell him all and I thought it was the
Speaker 1: weirdest thing. I had an X that used to one
Speaker 1: to know and they ended up getting married. He was weird.
Speaker 1: They did end up getting married, as they ended up
Speaker 1: getting married because they have a really trust you know what.
Speaker 1: One day he said to her. One day, he said
Speaker 1: to her, I'm so tired of hearing about you and
Speaker 1: these other guys and it's making me mad, and I
Speaker 1: want you to be my girlfriend. But that because it
Speaker 1: could feel like that could go either way too, because
Speaker 1: it could make them be like you know what, she
Speaker 1: she got she's so busy. I can't even deal with that.
Speaker 1: She's doing her I'm gonna do me. I think you
Speaker 1: go on the other way, on the girl's behalf, because
Speaker 1: it can make her either like, oh my god, that
Speaker 1: was so sweet. Of course I'm hoping to this, or
Speaker 1: if she really is a girl who's who's more in
Speaker 1: checked by the freedom, you know what I'm saying of
Speaker 1: that type of lifestyle, it'll turn her completely off, like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, going somewhere with all that clingy ship,
Speaker 1: I don't want all that. We were just chilling having fun.
Speaker 1: That's where I think to go. Either way, possibility is
Speaker 1: on the girl's behalf more so than here. But most
Speaker 1: females that are dating multiple guys are either waiting to
Speaker 1: figure out which one they want to be with or
Speaker 1: waiting for one of them to want to be with them.
Speaker 1: You don't think it's some women that just like are
Speaker 1: okay with dating multiple men. Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I think for some people that's just how they want
Speaker 1: to live, Like that's just it. I mean, I wouldn't um,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have said that this is how I wanted
Speaker 1: to live a year ago, you know, but right now.
Speaker 1: But this present, but right now, but today, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm happy. I really don't. I feel like this is
Speaker 1: a easier way of life. You have you have a
Speaker 1: favorite boyfriend, though I do have a favor I have.
Speaker 1: I do have a favorite boy you know. I was
Speaker 1: gonna say I have two favorite boyfriends, but I do
Speaker 1: have one. He tasks more of my favorite than the other,
Speaker 1: for sure. But if he was like, cut all this
Speaker 1: other ship out, if he was like, I mean, I'll
Speaker 1: be lying. If I said that, I would be like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm in really enjoying my life. Not because I really
Speaker 1: like him, you know, but but I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I like the way we are. I really like the
Speaker 1: way we are, like said, he's dating No, absolutely not no,
Speaker 1: Like it's none of my business, even though um I
Speaker 1: want him. I want everybody that I date to feel
Speaker 1: comfortable with me enough to tell me, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: what's going on. If they feel like they need to
Speaker 1: tell me about it. I don't want them to feel like, oh,
Speaker 1: I can't tell her x y Z because she will
Speaker 1: get upset, you know what I mean. I don't ever
Speaker 1: want anybody to feel like that. But if I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: like definitely do seem like you'd get upset that she
Speaker 1: don't want to hear that ship. Yeah, like I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm not really interested in anybody else. I honestly, I'm
Speaker 1: not interested in another female ever in life. Like I'm
Speaker 1: only the only woman I'm really interested about dealing with.
Speaker 1: The God that I'm sucking is me. You know, everybody
Speaker 1: else is just. But if he's sucking with a girl
Speaker 1: in your face, I don't let me find out. Just
Speaker 1: so every everything is fine, Just don't let me find out.
Speaker 1: I just don't want to know. I don't know how
Speaker 1: i'll react so that you know, but I like the
Speaker 1: way we are. Like, like I was saying earlier, I
Speaker 1: haven't had an argument in a year, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Um, I have had like tips, you know,
Speaker 1: where I will give each other attitude. You know, in
Speaker 1: certain situations, I'll give a guy attitude or vice versa.
Speaker 1: But you know, that's it, and I think it's it's
Speaker 1: really great. It's a really free life not having to
Speaker 1: be stressed out over a guy. I was just about
Speaker 1: to say, my ship is I just want to be
Speaker 1: stressed free, that's it, so I can be nice to everybody.
Speaker 1: And it gets me a little to stress on real
Speaker 1: things that are really important to deserve yours your energy
Speaker 1: on that level, like come on, dog like so no,
Speaker 1: because it's just draining when you have when you have
Speaker 1: a stressful relationship, not all relationships. I'm talking about my
Speaker 1: post experience. I had a stressful relationship. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean. Have you spoken to him? No? Okay, I
Speaker 1: do not ask me to That thing is in jail.
Speaker 1: The last time he tried. I think he got the picture. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I mean not even that. It's just, you know, it's
Speaker 1: just no good for us. We don't we don't go together,
Speaker 1: like we don't match. We just really we matched too much,
Speaker 1: been different times. What about if he comes home and
Speaker 1: tries to hit you up, because that time it's coming right. No,
Speaker 1: I mean he's not gonna be a would to reach
Speaker 1: me by the time he comes home, but he's getting
Speaker 1: with me. He gets out, I don't know when he
Speaker 1: gets off another year, he but whatever, it doesn't matter
Speaker 1: exactly because here no, but please, oh God bless him.
Speaker 1: You know this isn't even about him, Like, God, bless him.
Speaker 1: I don't you know. I'm not mad at him. Hopefully
Speaker 1: he's I'm a at me. You know, whatever, life goes on,
Speaker 1: but life, you know, it's just different. Apparently life has
Speaker 1: gone on, and it's been a long time. It's been
Speaker 1: a long time since I've spoken to him or even
Speaker 1: think about him, you know, Like I'm just saying, if
Speaker 1: you compare my life today to my life a year
Speaker 1: ago when I was in this stressful relationship, because you
Speaker 1: always have your own ship going on anyway outside of
Speaker 1: your relationship. So it's your stressful relationship plus your ship,
Speaker 1: your own stress that you have to deal with. And
Speaker 1: I'm a mother, you know, deal my friends. You know,
Speaker 1: it's it's just a somebody that you can't go and
Speaker 1: do work, like you he doesn't want you to work,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like he didn't want her
Speaker 1: to leave the house, go do nothing, go do what
Speaker 1: she had to do. I felt like, no, I mean
Speaker 1: he would let me. That would be a problem. Everything
Speaker 1: was a problem, And that's whack. If I'm going to
Speaker 1: get my money, and yeah, everything would be a problem.
Speaker 1: I would try to bring him a problem. If I
Speaker 1: didn't bring him a problem, if I went somewhere too
Speaker 1: far a problem, like you know, it's just and God
Speaker 1: bless him. Like he he has a woman or you'll
Speaker 1: find one who will deal with that and not be
Speaker 1: stressed off. And you know I say this all the time,
Speaker 1: there's somebody for everybody, but it ain't. It ain't us,
Speaker 1: like we're just not meant to be together. And I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie even my friends. You guys are my friends.
Speaker 1: You guys see a difference. Yes, absolutely, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I'm a lot happier. I look better, I
Speaker 1: feel better, I'm doing better. You know I'm working. I'm working.
Speaker 1: Everything is under control, right, everything's under control. Yeah, Well
Speaker 1: a year ago today, if we go back in the
Speaker 1: live service episodes, I was probably like, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not really feel it's so good about that, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? So, but what about your dessin
Speaker 1: Have you ever dated somebody that made you feel like
Speaker 1: you couldn't be your full who you were? I don't
Speaker 1: believe in date. I believe dating in like the literal sense,
Speaker 1: like we go somewhere together and spend some time together.
Speaker 1: Anything else is a relationship, and right now, Angela, I'm
Speaker 1: not open to that. So, but there's never been a
Speaker 1: time when you felt like I can't even have somebody
Speaker 1: that I really care a whole lot about. Like we
Speaker 1: love each other. It's really the love of my life.
Speaker 1: It's eclips like anything I've ever been involved in. But
Speaker 1: we're not together and we're not gonna be together. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying because we both have things to do, and
Speaker 1: so you wouldn't want me if I was the type
Speaker 1: of nega that would just say, okay, forget it, then
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna roll with you and follow you. You
Speaker 1: like me because I'm not like that and versa, And
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you, and I could wishould continue
Speaker 1: blessings and we remain close and we see each other
Speaker 1: every time we get to and it just kind of
Speaker 1: is what it is. So does that mean if you
Speaker 1: get in a relationship with somebody else, you're still going
Speaker 1: to see this other person that? I can't answer that?
Speaker 1: What's the amendment? Thank you? Do you ever get do
Speaker 1: you ever get really crazy? I d M S and
Speaker 1: you're like, damn, I can't believe this person just hit
Speaker 1: me up? Yeah, all the time because like things happened
Speaker 1: between people and like for me, you know what I'm
Speaker 1: saying right now, let me say this right now, right
Speaker 1: somebody sent me a text right back in May. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I have this friend. They live in l A.
Speaker 1: I live here. We've been friends for years, like probably
Speaker 1: like eight years. We have been flirtatious in the past.
Speaker 1: We've never had sex. We've never like had a full
Speaker 1: on makeout session, like nothing like that casual flirtation where
Speaker 1: we've been able to maintain like a platonic friendship. So
Speaker 1: they get in a relationship. Cool. We meet them and
Speaker 1: their partner. We actually hang out together here in New
Speaker 1: York City when they were in town. You know, their
Speaker 1: mother was there. It was like great, we had a
Speaker 1: good time. That same weekend, the partner leaves. Me and
Speaker 1: the person are together. Their staying um in a part
Speaker 1: of the city that was easily accessible to me by train,
Speaker 1: and so we took a car back to their spot
Speaker 1: together because I'm a chivalrous nigger that was raised right,
Speaker 1: and I want to make sure you're stupid as gets
Speaker 1: home safe. So that's what I did. We get there,
Speaker 1: and I guess we hugged. I was drunk, and I
Speaker 1: was drunk, you know what I'm saying it. So I
Speaker 1: guess when we hugged, I may have said something like,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, oh, you know what it is,
Speaker 1: you know something like that. Whatever, right, But mind you,
Speaker 1: they had just been in town for fashion week and
Speaker 1: they had just tried to completely sleep with me. I
Speaker 1: had thwarted off everything. I'm like, no, are you crazy? Whatever?
Speaker 1: And literally the next week they were in a relationship,
Speaker 1: which was fine with me because I didn't want that anyway.
Speaker 1: I didn't even want to I'm not even into you
Speaker 1: like that. So long story, Sure do you know this person?
Speaker 1: So they come back to New York every time they're
Speaker 1: in time, we hang out now, right, So they come
Speaker 1: back to New York and I see that there in town.
Speaker 1: So I hit I'm up like hey, you know, what's up.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see you. No response. I FaceTime. We
Speaker 1: always FaceTime. I FaceTime immediately it is FaceTime unavailable. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, what the fun? You know, part of
Speaker 1: the game is this? But whatever? Because me, if we're
Speaker 1: friends are I would never assume like the worst of
Speaker 1: the attention. I'm like, okay, well you know, it's whatever.
Speaker 1: So I hit them up like, hey, what's up? I
Speaker 1: want to see you. They sent me a text message
Speaker 1: that looked like a scripture. You know what I'm saying
Speaker 1: it was so long, and it basically was saying that, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, you might not realize it, but the last
Speaker 1: time we were together, you know what I'm saying. You
Speaker 1: know you're flirtatious, and you know you made a pass
Speaker 1: at me, and um, you know, so unfortunately, and you
Speaker 1: know that I'm in a relationship and I don't want
Speaker 1: somebody to respect me. I want I want somebody to
Speaker 1: respect me and not do that or whatever. So unfortunately,
Speaker 1: our friendship has come to an end. And I wish
Speaker 1: you all the best. I know you have blessings whatever.
Speaker 1: So I know this person, I know that they were
Speaker 1: trying to gold me into some type of argument or exchange.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do that, my nigga, Like, that's not
Speaker 1: even me. I don't argue. And I feel like maybe
Speaker 1: he told his partner, and in their partner, I could
Speaker 1: tell when we all hung out they really feel some
Speaker 1: kind of way. But I mean, I mean, you can
Speaker 1: never so like I understood that anyway. And this is
Speaker 1: not a competition because clearly, like you know what so
Speaker 1: so so, but so you know what, I took their
Speaker 1: word as their bond and I did not even send
Speaker 1: a response, I never said a word. That was three
Speaker 1: months ago. The past three weeks. I gotta FaceTime. I
Speaker 1: got a text that's hit, so you know we have
Speaker 1: to speak at some point. I'm not responding. I gotta
Speaker 1: I got I got a text like, oh, I'm in town.
Speaker 1: I know you over me. We should see each other
Speaker 1: or whatever. They reached out to our mutual friend who's
Speaker 1: one of my best friends. So that was stupid anyway,
Speaker 1: because you know, we ain't gonna do nothing but laugh.
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, that bullshit. You said what you meant
Speaker 1: and you're going to be held accountable to that. Today.
Speaker 1: I have nothing to say to you. I don't want
Speaker 1: to like, I don't want nothing from you. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like you mean what you said, So
Speaker 1: I'm never responding like like that's it, and it's and
Speaker 1: you and do you know this is the icing on
Speaker 1: the cake. They had the audacity to send me a
Speaker 1: text yesterday saying, UM, if you don't ever want to
Speaker 1: talk to me again, that's fine, but at least give
Speaker 1: me the opportunity to tell my side of the story
Speaker 1: so I can have some peace with You're like little piece.
Speaker 1: I don't care about your piece. With this, like what
Speaker 1: do I So? My point is people are nuts and
Speaker 1: that's why I've decided to live life on my own terms,
Speaker 1: and people are relationships need to like be I designed
Speaker 1: I heard that are nuts. People are really nice reaching
Speaker 1: out to my friend like, well that's I remember one
Speaker 1: time I got a crazy. Um I ran into one
Speaker 1: of my ex boyfriends from when I was in college.
Speaker 1: I didn't even really care, like I haven't seen them since,
Speaker 1: and I ran into him and I was like, oh, hey,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? And I said hi, and he
Speaker 1: was acting mad weird. But I guess he was with
Speaker 1: his girlfriend at the time and I didn't know. I
Speaker 1: just said hi, I didn't say anything, and then um,
Speaker 1: after that he sent me a message like hey, you
Speaker 1: know I'm in a relationship. Da da da. I'm like
Speaker 1: all I did was say hello. What. It was the
Speaker 1: craziest thing ever, And I think she must have felt
Speaker 1: away like I was polite to both of them. I
Speaker 1: ran into them, like on literally on the street and
Speaker 1: just say hey, how are you doing? All good to
Speaker 1: see you, and he acted mad weird and then he
Speaker 1: sent me a message. And I don't even never speak
Speaker 1: to him, so it was just I was like, that's
Speaker 1: the weirdest thing ever. But then I guess they broke
Speaker 1: up and he tried to hit me like later on,
Speaker 1: like two years later, and I just ignored it. I
Speaker 1: was like, like that was morny whack one oh one,
Speaker 1: like so whack. But I just that's just that just
Speaker 1: was crazy to me, and it's so laughable, Like what
Speaker 1: are we what do we have to talk about? You
Speaker 1: said that our friendship had to come to an end,
Speaker 1: and I was listening and it's over right, Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: Now here's something was talking about earlier. Do you have
Speaker 1: friends that feel like they just benefit from you? Like
Speaker 1: all they want to do is get things from you?
Speaker 1: I hope not ship. Every time it's a concert, all
Speaker 1: of a sudden they're hitting you up. You're the popular one.
Speaker 1: You know, you're the one with the to the nightlife
Speaker 1: and the turn up. So when it's time for the
Speaker 1: turn up, you know it's everybody's in your face. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course you have them, But I love that because
Speaker 1: you did me a favor. I don't have to do
Speaker 1: any work to try to figure you out. You showed
Speaker 1: me from the giddy up, and I'm cool with that.
Speaker 1: I see how you cut you'll never be back in
Speaker 1: this v I P section again. But some people say
Speaker 1: if you can't be used, you're useless. Like don't we
Speaker 1: all use each other for different things. That's a big
Speaker 1: difference between you and your friend having a good time,
Speaker 1: reaping benefits of you being successful and using somebody. Big difference.
Speaker 1: So if I have friends who are weighed far more
Speaker 1: successful than I am, and they showed me hella love
Speaker 1: and any opportunity, I have to show them the same
Speaker 1: like I do too. So ship, that's what you do.
Speaker 1: And I don't believe in leeches and ship. I'm so
Speaker 1: sawty Like I never had Harry Legs, and I thought
Speaker 1: I would have been so cute with Harry legs. You
Speaker 1: know how it stops like right at the ankle and
Speaker 1: then the ankle be smooth. I always wanted that, and
Speaker 1: God gave me this. Thank you. I used to keep
Speaker 1: them covered up. I was embarrassed. I'm you know, I'm
Speaker 1: a guy. I want to Harry legs now. I don't
Speaker 1: give a fun Now my back is what kind of
Speaker 1: ship is that? Yeah? I get my back, wax beard,
Speaker 1: thank you. I just cut it down short. That's no.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's sexy. Like, I mean, I trimmed
Speaker 1: my pupid hair like down, but I don't think my
Speaker 1: pupil care should look like the Barbara was like, all right, no,
Speaker 1: that's what. That's not even sexy, like like their hair,
Speaker 1: trim it down. Now, you don't want to be more's
Speaker 1: got to be here. You can't trim it, but don't
Speaker 1: line it up and cut strips and vs and ship
Speaker 1: and arrows and the dads all ship that that. No,
Speaker 1: that's what the stripper used to do. They used to
Speaker 1: put arrows and lightning that sexy that. It's never sexy
Speaker 1: to me, but a lot of dass used to do that.
Speaker 1: They would die at different colors. Female strippers totally only
Speaker 1: I haven't seen on guys basins. They use those um
Speaker 1: that they tie. They have to tie the thing around
Speaker 1: so they stay hard the whole time. Yeah, they're tighter
Speaker 1: on their bars and ship. I'm scared I'm gonna suck
Speaker 1: something up. I only get one set. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. This is not that can't happen. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't want to ask nothing up. That's all. That's literally
Speaker 1: all I got. So you know that's how I feel
Speaker 1: about vaginas. You know, No, I just feel like you
Speaker 1: only have one like you, you know, like you'r. I
Speaker 1: feel like my pussy could take a beating, but not
Speaker 1: that bad. Like you gotta chill on, you gotta give
Speaker 1: it a break. You gotta let that pussy heal. Like
Speaker 1: what's like he I says, what's his name? Right? Uh? Huh?
Speaker 1: All right? But anyway, you know, I just feel like
Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, my heart could take
Speaker 1: a beating. I feel like your brain can take a
Speaker 1: beating a little bit too, but you're pussy. You can't
Speaker 1: really take Yeah, once in a while sometimes, yeah, like
Speaker 1: like a couple of times a week now every day, okay, right,
Speaker 1: I mean you know, I just feel like that's something
Speaker 1: when that's you know, how like when before, for any reason,
Speaker 1: I had so much sex that your dick was sore. No,
Speaker 1: but I've had my dick has been so hard that
Speaker 1: it hurts. Really, Yeah, I feel like when the fun
Speaker 1: major dick so hard that it hurt. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: the podcast would be three hours long this week. I
Speaker 1: can't even start to tell you. But yes, like that
Speaker 1: that that that happens though, like you know what I'm saying. Hell, yeah,
Speaker 1: you feel like I made dick so hard it hurt. Then,
Speaker 1: Like you have to think like the clothing, right, you
Speaker 1: have to think about how it's positioned in the clothing,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, depending on if you can
Speaker 1: even be positioned, you know. So this is a certain
Speaker 1: group of people were talking about. So like, you know,
Speaker 1: you have to think about all that. Sometimes you may
Speaker 1: have on like dress or I wear suits to work
Speaker 1: and ship, so like I wear a dress slack, so
Speaker 1: sometimes I have to move them, you know, whatever to
Speaker 1: the left or whatever and ship. So when you get
Speaker 1: in direction sometimes that's painful, damn right, And I feel
Speaker 1: like I was just thinking about it. Um. You know,
Speaker 1: I've been in relationships where I want to have sex
Speaker 1: every single day. But I now that I think about it,
Speaker 1: they didn't have like really big dicks, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I think the guys that I sleep without,
Speaker 1: especially one of them, has like a really big dick.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine like taking that every single day. I can't.
Speaker 1: My whole ship will be sucked up if you did
Speaker 1: it every day. Oh my god, But then what if
Speaker 1: we what if I stopped sucking women? Then I have
Speaker 1: to go to like somebody normal if you got snap back, yeah,
Speaker 1: right back. Oh my god. I just don't feel like
Speaker 1: you could kill the pussy like that. You gotta give
Speaker 1: it a break. Sometimes. I had a friend who was
Speaker 1: Native American, and she said it was a spice that
Speaker 1: they put in their bathwater to make their vagina tighter.
Speaker 1: I think it was called talent or something like that.
Speaker 1: It was some spice. And the half I said, like, like,
Speaker 1: don't that burns? Who takes that? Sent me? Take a bath?
Speaker 1: I take bath? You take bath. I take that like
Speaker 1: twice a month. I take a bath almost every day.
Speaker 1: Take a bath. I'm busy. I shower. But if I
Speaker 1: couldn't take a bath and chill and smoking ship, yeah
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm going to do that because listen,
Speaker 1: in my house, I have like a little couzy bathtub.
Speaker 1: I don't know. One time, just to make sure it
Speaker 1: work when I first moved. Yeah, you gotta get in
Speaker 1: there a little while. That's a party and of itself.
Speaker 1: How many people doesn't hold No, it's not like that.
Speaker 1: It's like a bathet. Yeah, it's a bath, but it
Speaker 1: has like so how many people can fit now? I'm
Speaker 1: just so small. People overrated anyway, I already said that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: boxtop sex is over, but it's never like bathtub I
Speaker 1: like it's taking about when it's about. And then you
Speaker 1: got to get all right, let's go hold on to
Speaker 1: and ship and who wants to fucking a handicap accessible to?
Speaker 1: And then the other thing is what it's like going
Speaker 1: your vagina girl like messes with the natural lube. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like who comes in the bathtub? I never had an
Speaker 1: orgasm having sex in a pool or a bathtub. Well,
Speaker 1: a man comes to the bothom. Anyway, we gotta do
Speaker 1: it like I have to. I have to, I have to,
Speaker 1: you have to come. I like having sex in the shower.
Speaker 1: It's just a male thing. We have to every morning
Speaker 1: we get up, we take our showers, and we masturbate.
Speaker 1: Are you serious? I never knew that. But that don't
Speaker 1: count like towards like that's just a guy thing. Masturbating
Speaker 1: outside of that means that you know your masterbated my boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Master guys say that old guys, they just get a
Speaker 1: nut in the showers. You wake up with with an erection. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we do have a lot of morning sex. Now I'm
Speaker 1: gonna start thinking the days that we don't have morning sex.
Speaker 1: He jerked off on the shower, saying in a shower No, no,
Speaker 1: see I don't. I couldn't have morning said, you know
Speaker 1: earlier I get up. Yeah, it's still a nighttime when
Speaker 1: you wake up for working. You can't get a four
Speaker 1: in the morning if it's worth this ship, No, I can't.
Speaker 1: That's drunk sex hours exactly that hours. I'm a nighttime
Speaker 1: sex person or a daytime I'm a nighttime before I
Speaker 1: go to bed seven on pr in a day. But
Speaker 1: like nighttime and mornings, I like it. Anytime you get
Speaker 1: at a time, do you get up and brush your teeth?
Speaker 1: You have to. I'm like that though, Like if we
Speaker 1: sleep together and I'm not gonna be kissing on you
Speaker 1: with funky ass bread, you just don't kiss it. Well,
Speaker 1: I could have morning sex. I think my breath is
Speaker 1: not that bad in the morning. Oh no, stuff like
Speaker 1: like I gotta go in there and be sure, like, okay,
Speaker 1: I don't stuff. You're popping in everything. But I think now,
Speaker 1: but I gotta admit, like now that I'm thinking about it,
Speaker 1: the last few times that I have morning sex, I
Speaker 1: definitely went in the bathroom. I like the worst thing
Speaker 1: about and you got that thinness morning breath, sticky spit.
Speaker 1: They don't like pam up and get thick. You don't
Speaker 1: have to period like when we're kissing. I can stand
Speaker 1: somebody king disgust like I can't remember. I kissed this
Speaker 1: guy one time when I was younger. I had on
Speaker 1: the turnleneck and my hotel nick was all wet and
Speaker 1: he was terrible. Come on, guys, it was awful because
Speaker 1: I used to like I used to like um sloppy
Speaker 1: kisses like that when I was a teenager, But today
Speaker 1: I hate face and everything is all. I don't like
Speaker 1: for my to come out of a kiss with my
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna buy my mouth out, and it's super wet,
Speaker 1: and the whole fucking bed is wet, and I don't
Speaker 1: I don't really like I like it either. I like um,
Speaker 1: you know, because I like a lot of sucking pressure.
Speaker 1: You know that doesn't require a lot of moisture. But
Speaker 1: I feel like dick stuck ain't supposed to be sloppier. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like sex period is supposed to be slapped.
Speaker 1: I don't like the whole you definitely there needs to
Speaker 1: be moisture there for you to for the movement to
Speaker 1: feel good. Does it turn you on? And somebody like
Speaker 1: spits like no, because spit isn't sexy. Keep that ship
Speaker 1: in your mouth. That's too much of your business becoming
Speaker 1: mind Why I need to see it? Keep the spitting
Speaker 1: your mouth. I've been when guys like that. It's just
Speaker 1: it drives me crazy. When a god doesn't like when
Speaker 1: a girl spits on sick, well, I don't know what.
Speaker 1: It ties me crazy. Guys like that, I don't go like,
Speaker 1: thank you, but I create a lot of aliva with
Speaker 1: my mouth. That's cool. There's a big difference between that
Speaker 1: and doing what not. But you gotta be careful like
Speaker 1: some guys. Some guys like it. Some guys don't, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Some guys that say spit on it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: some guys will say spit on it. And some guys
Speaker 1: you'll spit and they'll be like, no, don't don't be
Speaker 1: biting my nipples either. Don't bite me period. I don't like,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love bite. You can lick like
Speaker 1: my nipples, you know what I'm saying? Like that's that
Speaker 1: feels so much better, Like there's no reason for you
Speaker 1: to bite me. Yeah, but not too mocking hid chick,
Speaker 1: but like, yeah, I don't. I don't like that my
Speaker 1: nipples burned. Yeah, what kind of ship is that? We're
Speaker 1: biting me and ship? And then one time somebody slapped
Speaker 1: me while we were having sex. I choked this guy before.
Speaker 1: How was that? What was your reaction? It was a react.
Speaker 1: I didn't think about it though. It literally just like
Speaker 1: we was a reaction, like like what are you doing?
Speaker 1: And I like getting slabbed? No, I did that too.
Speaker 1: I slapped them inside of choking. I don't like to
Speaker 1: be about what about you? Then we just what about you?
Speaker 1: Like choking? I like to hold you down, but I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna choke you. But there's a difference between me holding.
Speaker 1: It's all needs to be finessed. That's all, Like, don't
Speaker 1: you don't need to slap me, but you can, you know,
Speaker 1: It's what it's things you can do, like all that
Speaker 1: extra ship, keep that ship in Idaho or wherever. I
Speaker 1: don't want to hear slapping sound. I like to be slapped,
Speaker 1: like you see the handprint on my face. I hope
Speaker 1: not always. There's there's a moment for that, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Home man, like you can't we can't
Speaker 1: be having morning sex and you try to slap it, like,
Speaker 1: come on, slapping at the drink water All right, now,
Speaker 1: focus on your after you just got the ship slapped out?
Speaker 1: What the hell? But you know, the drunk four thirty
Speaker 1: in the morning, secks, that might call for a slap,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, nobody's ever slapping, Thank god, a little
Speaker 1: spank on the bart, right, you know what? Yeah that
Speaker 1: that's fine. I think you're supposed to do. Yeah. If
Speaker 1: you don't, something is wrong. Yeah, alright, well listen, I
Speaker 1: know this was a really fun conversation. I had a
Speaker 1: good time, have fun with you all. Thank you so
Speaker 1: much for having you guys. Got to invite us some
Speaker 1: friends and you are more open invitation for you ladies
Speaker 1: anytime you want to come. More than welcome. Yeah, thank
Speaker 1: you so so much. Shout out to to Loudspeakers Network. Right, yeah, together,
Speaker 1: that's what's up. Everything we googled about him wasn't true. See,
Speaker 1: he was a player, you know what I'm saying. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's a little bit of you know, it's a little
Speaker 1: bit of truth in every damn live But you know,
Speaker 1: maybe on the weekends. I can't wait. I hope we
Speaker 1: meet this guy that you're in love with, that you love,
Speaker 1: you know exactly who he is right now and we've
Speaker 1: never even talked about them. How about that? So I'm
Speaker 1: gonna leave you out with that. Wow. Okay, make sure
Speaker 1: y'all listen to the friends on that. It is our
Speaker 1: guy justin And you know a friend is my girl
Speaker 1: to my sister. Yeah, and me and friend, we have
Speaker 1: a good time. We go out in public. People think
Speaker 1: that your boyfriend and girl. Yeah, she comes with me
Speaker 1: to stuff, won't come out with us. Sometimes she comes
Speaker 1: to stuff. She won't go out out, but she'll go
Speaker 1: to like a day party. Let's get her to do something.
Speaker 1: I got and me and you tag team are like,
Speaker 1: it's done. We got that. That sounded wrong, but we'll
Speaker 1: do well like that. Look, pause, listen and happy. Um.
Speaker 1: What is this weekend? Labor Day weekend? To every to everybody,
Speaker 1: I'm headed to Miami today, So just so y'all know,
Speaker 1: and Jesus going to make Philly for me in America
Speaker 1: to seek Stephani's going to get her legal it right.
Speaker 1: Hopefully I can get across that border. Yeah, what are
Speaker 1: you doing? So I'll be here in New York. I
Speaker 1: have um a project I'm working on, so I'll be
Speaker 1: here in New York at work. So that's good, right Yeah?
Speaker 1: Get that money yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. Thank you
Speaker 1: so much