WEBVTT - Episode 65: (Ft Dustin From Friendzone Podcast) 0:00:01.560 --> 0:00:03.640 What's up? What's up? We're back in slip service. I'm 0:00:03.680 --> 0:00:07.000 Angela Yee, I'm Stephanie new Santiago. I'm G. G. MacGuire 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:09.280 and we have a very special guest with us today. 0:00:09.440 --> 0:00:11.960 We have our good friend Dustin. What's up, everybody? I'm 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:15.600 very special you are. That's a new one that I'm 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:18.040 sure everybody tells you that. I'm like, how it feels 0:00:18.079 --> 0:00:20.320 so and this lip service, so I'm supposed to talk 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:22.680 about when things feel good? Right, Yeah, we're all in 0:00:22.720 --> 0:00:27.120 the friend zone here. Hey, hey, you get it all right. 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:29.120 So we always start up with the tip of the day. Now, 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:31.720 today's tip. How do you get rid of somebody after 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:33.240 you sleep with them and you decide you don't like 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:36.600 them anymore and they keep on harassing you. What's a 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:40.440 nice way to be like, leave me alone without saying 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:43.400 leave me alone? I just don't say nothing. First of all, 0:00:43.440 --> 0:00:45.680 you turned the rear receipts on so that they know 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:48.800 you got the message, and you just stopped responding. Wow, 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:52.400 that's pretty harsh. Good Yeah, and I don't think that works. 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:54.920 It works for me, But that's not nice. You don't 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:57.080 feel bad. What if somebody you're going to run into again. 0:00:57.280 --> 0:01:00.080 Then even better because then they know and then you 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:04.040 see him again, you use the power that close mouth smile. 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:06.160 That's what you do, so the next time you see him, 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:09.480 you don't show your teeth. You just know what's up. 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:12.600 But what if you wear an asshole that you just 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:15.080 it was you? It was yeah, like they didn't do 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:18.720 anything wrong, like they're nice, You just aren't into them 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:20.640 like that. It was just the lapse in judgment. Yeah, 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:22.240 that's the worst time because you don't want to be 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:24.240 an asshole right now. You don't want to be Yeah, 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:26.040 but I don't want to be miserable either, So fun 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:32.560 that I'm still doing it shit. All right, Well, gez, 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:37.080 what's your advice. You know, I'm a very forward and 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:40.440 honest person, so I would probably like just tell the 0:01:40.560 --> 0:01:44.960 person like I just can't do you anymore. Sorry, Wow, 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:47.280 I just can't do you anymore. Yeah, I would just 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:50.280 be like it's something you know. I would either put 0:01:50.320 --> 0:01:52.840 a specific issue if it was that serious out there, 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:54.840 or I would just say, you know, we're not mentioned 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:56.520 and I don't want to waste my time or your 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:59.080 so let's just or like you look different with your 0:01:59.080 --> 0:02:02.040 shirt up. Because sometimes they take their shirt off. Then 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:05.760 you anticipated you're like, damn, you're like slim out of shape. 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:10.840 You definitely don't want to look like you gotta hate 0:02:10.840 --> 0:02:13.440 that slim out of shape body type, you know, you 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:18.160 know that body type with their clothes and they look scrumgeous. 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:20.840 But then they take and they have like the soft 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:28.799 chest like man boobs. Uh, let's have you don't hold 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:30.240 your telling you this? So what would you? But you're 0:02:30.240 --> 0:02:32.959 also kind of nice? No, I would do one of 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:37.480 two things. I would just stop responding, or I would um. 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.080 I would tell them because after a while, that's the 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:43.600 thing you always end up having to tell them, because 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:46.600 after a while they don't. I feel like ignoring them 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:49.000 doesn't make them stop. It makes them feel like the 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:54.560 window is still open. You know what if they did 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:58.720 after a while, I'll get frustrated and then finally, you know, 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:01.120 I'll tell them like listen, I can't, like, please stop 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:03.760 talking me. They didn't do nothing foul. You just weren't 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:07.560 really never that into the explanation, right, If it's my 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:10.600 decision to cut it off, you can, okay. Then in 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:12.399 that case, I'll just tell I don't know, I guess 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:14.400 I would just lie. I'm an it whatever, I'll just 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:18.360 lie like I don't know. I'm like, baby, you know 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:20.040 what I'm saying something I don't know. I would just 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:22.919 come up with some reason that like they couldn't argue with. 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:26.000 I don't want to ruin our friendship and stage left, 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:28.320 I don't want to ruin our friendship. It's always a 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:31.920 great excuse because then they're an asshole if they don't care. Yeah, 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:34.760 I don't want to ruin our friendship, but you don't 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:38.880 give a funk about our friendship. But fuck you, And 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:42.880 now we don't turn the tables. All right. Now, let's 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:46.400 talk about the Womanizer. That's the toy that G got 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:49.600 gifted last week my new best friend. Now I want 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:52.040 to know how it is because so our girl, Michell Hope, 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:54.320 was a sexpert. She told us this is the best 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:57.640 toy that she's ever had, and she highly recommended and 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:00.320 she's been raving about it. So I did reach out 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:03.160 to the people from Womanizer and we got g g one. 0:04:03.360 --> 0:04:07.200 Thank you guys, tell me about it, you said. Michelle 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:10.040 was absolutely right that it is the best toy ever. 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:13.560 It just does something that other toys. It vibrates, but 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:16.480 it also sucks like this like it's like a circle 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:18.120 when you put it over top of your clip and 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:23.800 it just like why it's vibrating malfunctional and then well 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:26.599 it doesn't like encase it and not, yeah it doesn't 0:04:27.040 --> 0:04:29.719 you know, but um it has settings, so it starts 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:31.320 off at like one, but you can take it all 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:33.680 the way up to eight. But for real, four or 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:39.160 five is just like good enough for I had to 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.880 try it out. See what happened. Yo, Listen. It was 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:43.560 just one day last week when he was going to 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:45.479 go visit one of his friends and he was like, 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:47.120 you want to go with me over to hang out? 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:50.599 And I was like, nope, stay home and got to 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:55.000 know that thing. Well, hey, didn't make you come? You 0:04:55.080 --> 0:04:57.800 know it does, but you know it's that vibrator come. 0:04:58.360 --> 0:05:01.880 It's that like where it gets to the point where 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:04.880 you're gonna orgasm, but it's so intense that you kind 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:08.800 of like you can't get there. Yeah yeah, yeah up 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:11.599 having like some property. Yeah, I don't know, it's weird, 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:15.280 but mentally, do you hold back when you're going to 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:18.640 orgasm because it's too intense? That's called edging, right, So 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:20.920 you you you bring yourself almost to the point of 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:23.719 like busting the nut and then you stop. If you 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:29.080 can said like, then you stop, but like if you can't, 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:32.480 then you just gotta let it go. That's the that sucks. 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:34.839 It's called edging, but it's amazing when you finally do 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:38.320 go ahead and bust, it's the best. So edging is 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:40.039 like when you get to the edge and then you 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:41.240 then you pull back, and then you go to the 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:43.679 edge again, and then you pull and then when finally 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:49.120 you can't pull back no more, it's just like you've edged. Well, 0:05:49.120 --> 0:05:50.919 I don't really like to master, but I like to 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:53.120 have sex. So if I have my choice, you know 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:55.800 what I'm saying, I'm not using jack Orgill. You know 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:58.560 what I'm saying, I'm actually having sex, so I don't 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:01.200 really jack off. So okay, but you don't edge during 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:04.039 sex during sucks, I don't think. I think that's just 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:08.919 fucking right. But you don't, like, don't move, don't move no, 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:11.279 because I know that I'm in control, like I'm the 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:17.200 you know top, well, yeah, you know, like if you However, though, 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:19.320 because I don't believe it, I don't think there's like 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:21.599 a difference between the two. I think you fucking like 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:24.640 everybody get a piece of everybody whatever. So that's just 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:26.640 I think you should just do what everybody. It sounds 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:29.800 like an origin now, no, no, no, I'm just saying 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:32.640 people act in gay sex. People act like the top 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:36.000 is like the more you know, dominant person who I 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:38.640 guess is getting the most pleasure out of the ordealer 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:40.960 who you know, it's getting the good end of the deal. 0:06:41.240 --> 0:06:43.000 I don't know if that's what that means. I always 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:45.560 felt like the top literally means that you're like, well, 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:48.159 it does, but there's a stigma. You get what I'm saying, so, 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:50.800 but I don't believe. Yeah, and so I don't believe 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:52.360 in that because I think the other person like, we 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:54.640 fucking you know what I'm saying. So obviously you're doing 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:56.520 what you want to do to you know what I'm saying. 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:58.120 We're all in this together. This is good for the 0:06:58.160 --> 0:06:59.560 both of them. I look at it like the top 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:01.880 is that of her at the bottoms the receiver. That's 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:05.400 that's that's the literal definition. But it's more to it 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:08.479 than that, you know, because I think for women what 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:11.080 we like giving and receiving, but receiving is what makes 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:13.800 you come. Yeah, but I'm also a pleaser. So I 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:18.760 get sad satisfaction from knowing that can come from giving 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:23.400 satisfied from pleasing somebody else with a little bit of help. Yeah, okay, 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:25.720 like with a little, you know, a little are you 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:28.200 able to come every just in your mind, like just 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:30.760 using your mind and not actually doing anything to yourself? 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:33.240 They say that can happen, but that has never happened 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:34.960 to me. The only way I can make that happen 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:37.960 if I squeeze my legs really really tight. That's still 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:41.840 good when you know, like when I'm in that point mentally, 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:44.800 if I just like squeeze tight enough and like and 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:48.280 I'm happy for you, I can't. I feel like men 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:50.240 can do that easier. What dreams? Yeah, I mean we 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:52.840 I got a penis, yo, Like that's what we do. Like, 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.000 but you can't you do without touching your pepeah, Like 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:56.560 you know what I'm saying. You get turned out. I'm 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:58.360 a I'm a guy. I'm a black guy at that, 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:00.760 you know, like you give me turned on? Enough is 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:04.640 I don't see nothing but the finish line baby and 0:08:04.640 --> 0:08:08.760 stuff I've had y'all. So then that's just you're using 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:11.080 your mind and coming. No no, no, no, no, no, no, 0:08:11.120 --> 0:08:14.360 but I don't think I've ever came in my dreams. 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:17.560 And when I did, it's because I was touching myself 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:22.240 okay while I was sleeping. So I'm like a sleepwalker 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:30.200 masturbator sleep the beata leapers. Now you guys saw this 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:34.200 new Instagram zooming feature that they have. Yes, you can 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:36.960 zoom on on pictures. You can zoom it on videos. 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:39.640 I haven't used it yet. I was just using it 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:42.360 while we was makeup. How was your zooming in? I 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:44.200 just was like, oh, look you can zoom, but you 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:46.480 know it's so stupid about it. You still can't zoom 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:50.040 in or magnify the profile picture. So just that it's 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:53.520 just the post. Yeah, like y'all had one job. Man, 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:56.640 it's gonna come. It's gonna come where you could click 0:08:56.679 --> 0:08:58.880 on in private page. Just can't forget it. If I 0:08:58.880 --> 0:09:01.520 can't start right, if I can't make you a clear dog, 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:03.959 you're gonna be pending like a motherfucker. How many times 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:06.839 have you been on and tena a private page? When 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:09.760 you look at the little pure like and now you 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:12.920 have to be really careful because sometimes you know, we 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:17.320 like do a little niptuck on our pictures, right, if 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:20.240 you zoom in, can you really see that? Yeah, photoshop 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:23.000 type like face tune and all that bullshit. Yeah, you 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.560 can see that. I destored it. You have to be 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:28.520 a professional photoshopper to like pull it off. I use 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:31.160 face soon, but I use facetoon to like, um, brighten 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:38.480 up the eyes. Yeah, even that a lot. And sometimes 0:09:38.520 --> 0:09:40.240 I do it to white in my teeth because the 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:43.840 lighting something, because my teeth farn't really like fake looking white. 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:47.400 They're like an supposed to be right, That's what I'm saying. 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:50.040 So sometimes I feel like certain light won't get it 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:52.120 as white as I want it. So sometimes see, I 0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:55.760 never even thought that. And you know what, the I 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:57.920 will post pictures that I'm like, well, it's from a distance, 0:09:57.920 --> 0:10:07.439 so it don't look so bad. I can't because yeah, yeah. Now, 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:09.480 there's been a lot of things going on, obviously in 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:12.520 the gossip and in the news right now, like Chris Brown, 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:16.440 for example, this woman Bailey Current, who's accusing him she's 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:19.360 a liar. Da da da da. My mom is up 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:22.040 here earlier talking about it because my mom doesn't believe her, 0:10:22.320 --> 0:10:25.199 but she's concerned that now, like it's hard for women 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:27.240 to come forward when something really does happen when you 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:30.200 have somebody who it's like the boy who quote cried wolf. 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:31.440 And when I tell her get out of here, we're 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:32.959 about to do lip service. We don't want to talk 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:36.960 about anything serious, right. I don't believe her. She needs 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:39.360 more people right now? Why don't we believe her. Let's 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:41.560 talk about the reasons why. My number one reason is 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:43.640 because you went and did an interview with tmz re 0:10:43.640 --> 0:10:46.800 immediately and you didn't even go home and crazy your daddy. 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:51.360 You straight, you're not tarmatized if you're one right before 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:54.520 he even got arrested, and you're telling your side of 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:58.880 the story right. For me, it's just like it's too obvy, 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:02.280 Like girl, you trying to set somebody up who's too easy. 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:04.880 You thought he was too easy to set up. But 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:07.959 it's like you thought it was gonna be easy if 0:11:08.240 --> 0:11:10.680 you can't do that, like in my head, he went 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:15.520 off on her like yeah her, Oh I'm I'm a 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:19.080 white woman. I'm gonna bring him down really easily, Like no, 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:22.760 it's here. Yes. First of all, if you if you've 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:26.320 been following Chris Brown, he's not taking chances anymore. He's 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:29.400 not making stupid as mistakes. He's a good fucking father. 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:32.560 He's he's paid for his mistakes, like leave him the 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:37.080 funk alone. And furthermore, we believe somebody named Bailey like 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:39.400 it ain't even b A I L E Y. It's 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:46.120 like l E you lying, Like come on, and then 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:48.440 you haven't seen all the things that they've they've dug 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:53.600 up out of her past. He's a liar exaggerating. She 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:57.840 lost her crown for that Miss California pageant and racist 0:11:57.920 --> 0:12:03.640 language and she won't give it back. In there, they 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:06.880 said she had nude photos and it was for racist language. 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:09.480 The bitch probably did at all, but I just read 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:13.160 was that it was for racist language. She is disgusting 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:16.079 to me and I can't wait for the full expose. 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:19.839 TMZ is well aware that she's lying. There stories that 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:23.679 lead to that, like come on, don't even like Chris right, 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:27.920 but because it's just it's like, oh, the the white 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:30.440 girl came to Chris Brown's house and got a gun 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:32.120 pulled off on her and what kind of and so 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:35.000 what what did you do? Right? What did you do 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:37.920 trying to steal home? Do you really think Chris Brown 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:39.440 is gonna put a gun and he doesn't have to 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:42.199 put a gun at right, I'm sure you didn't. Yeah, 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:46.720 she's just a story. But what David really made me 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:48.160 think of it is the other day I did have 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:49.880 like a little cook out at my house that turned 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:52.480 a little crazy. But you do have to be careful 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:55.240 about who comes to your house. Yeah, that is something 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:56.839 that it made me think of, Like, have you ever 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:59.920 had somebody at your house and was like, why did 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.720 this person come to my house? I remember when I 0:13:02.800 --> 0:13:06.120 was um in high school and I live with my parents. Uh, 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:07.880 there's a bunch of my friends came over and this 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:12.800 guy stole something from my parents house and I was like, yo, 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:15.200 it's not even It was like something stupid to like 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:18.320 a CD. And I was like who does that? But 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:19.760 my other boy was like, oh, yeah, you know he 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:22.559 stole a CD whatever whatever I was, he just has 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:24.960 a havard. Why would you come to my parents house 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:27.840 and steal something? And so it did make me a 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:29.560 little bit. There was like a hundred people at my house. 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:31.599 There was so many people. It was supposed to be 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:34.240 thirty people. It turned into like a big deal. And 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:36.960 I don't have like it. Yeah it was, it really was, 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:39.480 but I don't have like no huge mansion or anything. 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:43.560 I live in Brooklyn, you know what I'm saying. Stone, 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:49.240 And it was it was we're outside inside anything missing 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:51.960 nothing I know of, no, just lots of liquor. And 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.160 people were definitely going to the bridge and helping themselves 0:13:54.160 --> 0:13:58.720 to everything. Who ate the carrots after crisper in the fridge? 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.880 That's just ridiculous. Who opens the crisper in the fridge? 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:04.560 But anyway, all that was missing. But I didn't really 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:06.360 want people like going upstairs everything. You know, I put 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:08.600 a lot of stuff over here. Somebody went upstairs. A 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:12.040 few people was like trapesing upstairs and you have a 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:15.120 bathroom when you first floor and it's you know, it's 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:18.600 right there, like yeah, you got a bathroom on your friend. 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:21.720 So it's like nobody needs to go upstairs to anything. 0:14:21.720 --> 0:14:23.640 But when this Chris Brown thing happened, I was like, 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:25.600 you know what, I have to be careful, Like who 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.440 you letting your snow? That's exactly, and that's that's what 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.280 it all balls balls. They got to watch the company 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:33.600 you keep, absolutely and you got to watch the company. 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:38.520 Your company keeps right there. You got you can come over, 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:41.200 but you know, don't bring anybody just come your soul, 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:43.240 which is so rude, like who just brings someone to 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:47.160 someone else's home? Exactly? But you know, like you guys said, oh, 0:14:47.240 --> 0:14:49.160 how's that ever happened? You bring people to your house? 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:51.440 I don't even have friends. I don't bring anybody to 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:56.520 my house friends. What about I got exactly trying you 0:14:56.600 --> 0:14:58.640 can downs in my house, you can come. That's how 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:01.080 you feel aboutletting people in your house. Um, I feel 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:03.440 that it's a it's a it's something that you have 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:06.440 to be strategic about, be smart, like everybody can't come 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:08.120 in your damn house. First of all, this New York 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:11.120 City people were having roaches and ship. I'm from Michigan. 0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:12.920 You know you we don't. You don't sit. I don't 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:16.240 even nobody house me. They got roaches? Hell, yeah, you 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:18.800 know how roaches here like a like a thing everybody 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:21.400 deals with. And Michigan and somebody has roaches like they're 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:27.320 nasty about that. We'll be on the train bad bugs 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:29.680 and ship. Frand is my co host. I'll be thinking 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:33.440 about energy now and ship. You say everybody came, get's 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:35.840 a list. There's a list. I put it like that. 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:38.600 But I love entertaining and I love having people in 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:40.520 my home. You know what I'm saying. My mama taught 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:42.640 us how to cook, so I like doing that. I 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:45.360 like having a good time. Yeah, y'all can come by 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:47.280 so like yeah, like you know what I'm saying. I 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:49.280 love that. So I like having people over, but just 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:51.040 the right. Have you ever had a bad experience with 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:53.680 some of that? Oh yeah, everybody got the expiration day? Now, 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:56.480 like you know, somebody could come over and you know, like, okay, 0:15:56.480 --> 0:15:59.040 this is the last time you'll ask everybody coming over here, 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:01.960 and you know, you just you know, steer the conversation 0:16:02.040 --> 0:16:04.560 in the day or night in that direction towards the 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:06.880 front door. Right, because people was at my house beefing 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:09.760 like I had a Hennessy privileged bar set up in 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:14.760 the backyard like free Hennessy vs. Op. Okay, footprints came, 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:20.960 they catered seeing everything, y'all, I gotta bring nothing. I 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:25.120 had desserts from my friends bakery, the bakery on Bergen. 0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:28.760 Everything taking care of it sounds beautiful. And then it 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:31.520 was supposed to be over at six at seven o'clock 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:33.840 when the privilege ran out, people was really beefing like 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:40.359 oh you got hello, right everything, But y'are not appreciative. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:42.120 It was just crazy. Well I don't know. I was 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:45.080 the last one to leave, but it wasn't because I 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:46.920 was trying to drink. It was because I lived very 0:16:46.920 --> 0:16:49.640 far away and I wanted to watch power. So I 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:53.240 didn't like that, And then I was fine with that. 0:16:53.320 --> 0:16:55.200 We was good because we was drinking the liquor inside 0:16:55.200 --> 0:16:59.480 the house. No problem. All right. Now, let me ask 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:02.080 you this, if somebody has a bad reputation, does that 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:04.919 attract you to them more? Or does that make you 0:17:04.960 --> 0:17:07.960 really stay away from somebody? Because I found from just 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:09.919 my friends and my own experiences, when they're like, oh, 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:13.320 don't mess with him, he's this, he's that, sometimes it 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:16.920 makes it more like attractive to I don't know about attractive, 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:19.960 but you're definitely intrigued. Like you want to learn for yourself, 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:24.560 you want to see for yourself like girls, or you 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:26.159 want to have your own experience to be able at 0:17:26.200 --> 0:17:28.640 least me, I want to judge from myself, like I'll 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:32.399 take your opinion and your thoughts into consideration, but I 0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:34.919 still want to have my own experience because I know 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:37.719 plenty of people who are like banded by association, like, oh, 0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:39.120 I don't mess with such and such, So don't mess 0:17:39.160 --> 0:17:40.440 with such and such. But then I would meet such 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:42.679 and such and I'm like, oh, but if people warn you, 0:17:42.760 --> 0:17:44.960 like well he's a dog, he'd be dog and girls out. 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:47.119 He did this, he did that. Sometimes it makes you 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:50.600 feel like I want to challenge this and change this 0:17:50.640 --> 0:17:53.399 and he ain't gonna do that to me. What was 0:17:54.920 --> 0:17:57.680 they doing wrong? Maybe they just you know, it's always 0:17:57.760 --> 0:18:01.320 the story. Maybe they still use a regular the vibrators. Meanwhile, 0:18:01.680 --> 0:18:07.000 you know what I'm saying, Rosky crystals and ship. It's 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:09.080 a difference, you know what I'm saying, different views, So 0:18:09.160 --> 0:18:10.879 I don't I don't believe in none of that ship 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:13.240 and if anything, I'll use that to my advantage. I'm 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:16.120 a guy. Charisma is what it's all about. That's how 0:18:16.160 --> 0:18:19.040 you win, right, That's how you sell yourself, especially when 0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:21.120 it comes to dating. So call me every bad boy 0:18:21.160 --> 0:18:23.480 you want. All it's gonna make you do. You have 0:18:23.480 --> 0:18:29.240 a bad reputation destined? Thank you, Thank you. I'm glad 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:32.600 it's reading well. But yeah, you gotta use that. Doesn't 0:18:32.600 --> 0:18:36.040 nobody want to be bored? Stuff? If I came in 0:18:36.119 --> 0:18:38.359 here and was like, oh my god, you're so cute, 0:18:38.400 --> 0:18:41.200 like you want to go like have coffee at Starbucks, 0:18:41.240 --> 0:18:42.760 you'd be looking at me like you're looking at me 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:47.960 like like, y'all, you look so good today, baby, Like 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:49.720 what's up? What's gonna take a ride? Let's go, let's 0:18:49.720 --> 0:18:52.480 just go run the city. You know what I'm saying. 0:18:52.520 --> 0:18:58.760 We can take that. I'm you know, but but you 0:18:58.760 --> 0:19:03.359 would think about ship. Guys do the most inappropriate things 0:19:03.359 --> 0:19:09.840 to you. And if you're like yeah, no, I feel like, 0:19:10.160 --> 0:19:13.600 um no. But it's different with me, Like I'm just 0:19:13.880 --> 0:19:17.640 I'm different. I'm like weird, like I'm a weirdo' I'm 0:19:17.680 --> 0:19:24.200 just like over everything. Like it's for a guy like me, 0:19:24.720 --> 0:19:29.159 I hate all this that it's more like, uh, for me, 0:19:29.240 --> 0:19:31.240 it's more like maybe you should have to just take 0:19:31.320 --> 0:19:34.080 my number and hit me up and we'll talk like 0:19:34.160 --> 0:19:37.600 that and then later plan something, you know, for a 0:19:37.640 --> 0:19:39.080 guy to come up to me and be like, oh, 0:19:39.160 --> 0:19:42.240 let's do this tonight, I'm gonna be first response. No, 0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:44.760 but what if you ain't got nothing to do when 0:19:44.760 --> 0:19:47.200 you're hungry, because I don't have anything to do. If 0:19:47.440 --> 0:19:50.000 if you're like, hey, girls, if you invite me and 0:19:50.040 --> 0:19:52.119 my friends and then my friends are like, oh, come on, stuff, 0:19:52.320 --> 0:19:54.359 I'm like, okay, But to a guy that I don't know, 0:19:54.440 --> 0:19:57.720 I'm just like I like them. If I like them, 0:19:57.720 --> 0:20:00.000 I'll give him my number. If you and your girl 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:03.000 else right and ask for your number. But I still 0:20:03.040 --> 0:20:05.720 like flirted with you. You know, I was nice to 0:20:05.760 --> 0:20:08.680 your girls with brother, Like Angel said, if my friends 0:20:08.880 --> 0:20:15.199 if we're hungry, and I'll go, but I would need that. Actually, 0:20:15.200 --> 0:20:17.480 now what if you only pay for you? And I 0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:25.479 would never do that just saying that people out there 0:20:25.640 --> 0:20:29.440