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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? We're back in slip service. I'm

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Speaker 1: Angela Yee, I'm Stephanie new Santiago. I'm G. G. MacGuire

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Speaker 1: and we have a very special guest with us today.

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Speaker 1: We have our good friend Dustin. What's up, everybody? I'm

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Speaker 1: very special you are. That's a new one that I'm

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Speaker 1: sure everybody tells you that. I'm like, how it feels

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Speaker 1: so and this lip service, so I'm supposed to talk

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Speaker 1: about when things feel good? Right, Yeah, we're all in

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Speaker 1: the friend zone here. Hey, hey, you get it all right.

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Speaker 1: So we always start up with the tip of the day. Now,

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Speaker 1: today's tip. How do you get rid of somebody after

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Speaker 1: you sleep with them and you decide you don't like

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Speaker 1: them anymore and they keep on harassing you. What's a

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Speaker 1: nice way to be like, leave me alone without saying

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Speaker 1: leave me alone? I just don't say nothing. First of all,

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Speaker 1: you turned the rear receipts on so that they know

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Speaker 1: you got the message, and you just stopped responding. Wow,

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Speaker 1: that's pretty harsh. Good Yeah, and I don't think that works.

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Speaker 1: It works for me, But that's not nice. You don't

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Speaker 1: feel bad. What if somebody you're going to run into again.

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Speaker 1: Then even better because then they know and then you

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Speaker 1: see him again, you use the power that close mouth smile.

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Speaker 1: That's what you do, so the next time you see him,

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Speaker 1: you don't show your teeth. You just know what's up.

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Speaker 1: But what if you wear an asshole that you just

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Speaker 1: it was you? It was yeah, like they didn't do

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Speaker 1: anything wrong, like they're nice, You just aren't into them

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Speaker 1: like that. It was just the lapse in judgment. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the worst time because you don't want to be

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Speaker 1: an asshole right now. You don't want to be Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I don't want to be miserable either, So fun

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Speaker 1: that I'm still doing it shit. All right, Well, gez,

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Speaker 1: what's your advice. You know, I'm a very forward and

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Speaker 1: honest person, so I would probably like just tell the

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Speaker 1: person like I just can't do you anymore. Sorry, Wow,

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Speaker 1: I just can't do you anymore. Yeah, I would just

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Speaker 1: be like it's something you know. I would either put

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Speaker 1: a specific issue if it was that serious out there,

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Speaker 1: or I would just say, you know, we're not mentioned

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Speaker 1: and I don't want to waste my time or your

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Speaker 1: so let's just or like you look different with your

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Speaker 1: shirt up. Because sometimes they take their shirt off. Then

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Speaker 1: you anticipated you're like, damn, you're like slim out of shape.

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Speaker 1: You definitely don't want to look like you gotta hate

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Speaker 1: that slim out of shape body type, you know, you

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Speaker 1: know that body type with their clothes and they look scrumgeous.

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Speaker 1: But then they take and they have like the soft

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Speaker 1: chest like man boobs. Uh, let's have you don't hold

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Speaker 1: your telling you this? So what would you? But you're

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Speaker 1: also kind of nice? No, I would do one of

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Speaker 1: two things. I would just stop responding, or I would um.

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Speaker 1: I would tell them because after a while, that's the

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Speaker 1: thing you always end up having to tell them, because

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Speaker 1: after a while they don't. I feel like ignoring them

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Speaker 1: doesn't make them stop. It makes them feel like the

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Speaker 1: window is still open. You know what if they did

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Speaker 1: after a while, I'll get frustrated and then finally, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell them like listen, I can't, like, please stop

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Speaker 1: talking me. They didn't do nothing foul. You just weren't

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Speaker 1: really never that into the explanation, right, If it's my

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Speaker 1: decision to cut it off, you can, okay. Then in

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Speaker 1: that case, I'll just tell I don't know, I guess

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Speaker 1: I would just lie. I'm an it whatever, I'll just

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Speaker 1: lie like I don't know. I'm like, baby, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying something I don't know. I would just

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Speaker 1: come up with some reason that like they couldn't argue with.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to ruin our friendship and stage left,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to ruin our friendship. It's always a

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Speaker 1: great excuse because then they're an asshole if they don't care. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to ruin our friendship, but you don't

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Speaker 1: give a funk about our friendship. But fuck you, And

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Speaker 1: now we don't turn the tables. All right. Now, let's

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Speaker 1: toy that she's ever had, and she highly recommended and

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Speaker 1: she's been raving about it. So I did reach out

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys, tell me about it, you said. Michelle

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Speaker 1: It just does something that other toys. It vibrates, but

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Speaker 1: it also sucks like this like it's like a circle

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Speaker 1: when you put it over top of your clip and

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Speaker 1: it just like why it's vibrating malfunctional and then well

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Speaker 1: it doesn't like encase it and not, yeah it doesn't

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Speaker 1: you know, but um it has settings, so it starts

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Speaker 1: off at like one, but you can take it all

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Speaker 1: the way up to eight. But for real, four or

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Speaker 1: five is just like good enough for I had to

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Speaker 1: try it out. See what happened. Yo, Listen. It was

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Speaker 1: just one day last week when he was going to

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Speaker 1: go visit one of his friends and he was like,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, nope, stay home and got to

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Speaker 1: know that thing. Well, hey, didn't make you come? You

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Speaker 1: know it does, but you know it's that vibrator come.

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Speaker 1: It's that like where it gets to the point where

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Speaker 1: you're gonna orgasm, but it's so intense that you kind

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Speaker 1: of like you can't get there. Yeah yeah, yeah up

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Speaker 1: having like some property. Yeah, I don't know, it's weird,

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Speaker 1: but mentally, do you hold back when you're going to

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Speaker 1: orgasm because it's too intense? That's called edging, right, So

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Speaker 1: you you you bring yourself almost to the point of

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Speaker 1: like busting the nut and then you stop. If you

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Speaker 1: can said like, then you stop, but like if you can't,

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Speaker 1: then you just gotta let it go. That's the that sucks.

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Speaker 1: It's called edging, but it's amazing when you finally do

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Speaker 1: go ahead and bust, it's the best. So edging is

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Speaker 1: like when you get to the edge and then you

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Speaker 1: then you pull back, and then you go to the

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Speaker 1: edge again, and then you pull and then when finally

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Speaker 1: you can't pull back no more, it's just like you've edged. Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't really like to master, but I like to

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Speaker 1: have sex. So if I have my choice, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I'm not using jack Orgill. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I'm actually having sex, so I don't

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Speaker 1: really jack off. So okay, but you don't edge during

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Speaker 1: sex during sucks, I don't think. I think that's just

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Speaker 1: fucking right. But you don't, like, don't move, don't move no,

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Speaker 1: because I know that I'm in control, like I'm the

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Speaker 1: you know top, well, yeah, you know, like if you However, though,

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Speaker 1: because I don't believe it, I don't think there's like

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Speaker 1: a difference between the two. I think you fucking like

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Speaker 1: everybody get a piece of everybody whatever. So that's just

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Speaker 1: I think you should just do what everybody. It sounds

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Speaker 1: like an origin now, no, no, no, I'm just saying

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Speaker 1: people act in gay sex. People act like the top

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Speaker 1: who you know, it's getting the good end of the deal.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's what that means. I always

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Speaker 1: felt like the top literally means that you're like, well,

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Speaker 1: it does, but there's a stigma. You get what I'm saying, so,

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Speaker 1: but I don't believe. Yeah, and so I don't believe

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Speaker 1: in that because I think the other person like, we

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Speaker 1: fucking you know what I'm saying. So obviously you're doing

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Speaker 1: what you want to do to you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: We're all in this together. This is good for the

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Speaker 1: both of them. I look at it like the top

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Speaker 1: is that of her at the bottoms the receiver. That's

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Speaker 1: that's that's the literal definition. But it's more to it

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Speaker 1: than that, you know, because I think for women what

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Speaker 1: we like giving and receiving, but receiving is what makes

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Speaker 1: you come. Yeah, but I'm also a pleaser. So I

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Speaker 1: get sad satisfaction from knowing that can come from giving

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Speaker 1: satisfied from pleasing somebody else with a little bit of help. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: like with a little, you know, a little are you

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Speaker 1: able to come every just in your mind, like just

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Speaker 1: using your mind and not actually doing anything to yourself?

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Speaker 1: They say that can happen, but that has never happened

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Speaker 1: to me. The only way I can make that happen

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Speaker 1: if I squeeze my legs really really tight. That's still

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Speaker 1: good when you know, like when I'm in that point mentally,

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Speaker 1: if I just like squeeze tight enough and like and

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Speaker 1: I'm happy for you, I can't. I feel like men

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Speaker 1: can do that easier. What dreams? Yeah, I mean we

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Speaker 1: I got a penis, yo, Like that's what we do. Like,

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Speaker 1: but you can't you do without touching your pepeah, Like

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You get turned out. I'm

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Speaker 1: a I'm a guy. I'm a black guy at that,

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Speaker 1: you know, like you give me turned on? Enough is

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Speaker 1: I don't see nothing but the finish line baby and

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Speaker 1: stuff I've had y'all. So then that's just you're using

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Speaker 1: your mind and coming. No no, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: And when I did, it's because I was touching myself

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Speaker 1: new Instagram zooming feature that they have. Yes, you can

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Speaker 1: zoom on on pictures. You can zoom it on videos.

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Speaker 1: I haven't used it yet. I was just using it

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Speaker 1: while we was makeup. How was your zooming in? I

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Speaker 1: just was like, oh, look you can zoom, but you

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Speaker 1: know it's so stupid about it. You still can't zoom

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Speaker 1: in or magnify the profile picture. So just that it's

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Speaker 1: just the post. Yeah, like y'all had one job. Man,

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Speaker 1: on in private page. Just can't forget it. If I

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Speaker 1: can't start right, if I can't make you a clear dog,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna be pending like a motherfucker. How many times

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Speaker 1: have you been on and tena a private page? When

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Speaker 1: you look at the little pure like and now you

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Speaker 1: have to be really careful because sometimes you know, we

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Speaker 1: like do a little niptuck on our pictures, right, if

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Speaker 1: you zoom in, can you really see that? Yeah, photoshop

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Speaker 1: type like face tune and all that bullshit. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: can see that. I destored it. You have to be

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Speaker 1: a professional photoshopper to like pull it off. I use

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Speaker 1: face soon, but I use facetoon to like, um, brighten

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Speaker 1: up the eyes. Yeah, even that a lot. And sometimes

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Speaker 1: I do it to white in my teeth because the

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Speaker 1: lighting something, because my teeth farn't really like fake looking white.

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Speaker 1: They're like an supposed to be right, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: So sometimes I feel like certain light won't get it

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Speaker 1: never even thought that. And you know what, the I

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Speaker 1: there's been a lot of things going on, obviously in

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Speaker 1: the gossip and in the news right now, like Chris Brown,

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Speaker 1: for example, this woman Bailey Current, who's accusing him she's

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Speaker 1: a liar. Da da da da. My mom is up

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Speaker 1: here earlier talking about it because my mom doesn't believe her,

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Speaker 1: but she's concerned that now, like it's hard for women

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Speaker 1: to come forward when something really does happen when you

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Speaker 1: have somebody who it's like the boy who quote cried wolf.

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Speaker 1: And when I tell her get out of here, we're

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Speaker 1: if we're hungry, and I'll go, but I would need that. Actually,

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Speaker 1: you have so many opportunities to showcase that in dating, right,

421
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 1: you can like like blow somebody's mind in the environment

422
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:30,720
Speaker 1: there in like do things that they've never done before.

423
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,200
Speaker 1: Just show up and be present. I don't believe in

424
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:36,360
Speaker 1: the lazy ship. So that's all I got to say.

425
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 1: If you niggas is being lazy, then that's why you ain't.

426
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,200
Speaker 1: That's why things ain't working out for you. Sometimes people

427
00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 1: get lazy in the relationship though, like everything is, everything

428
00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:47,919
Speaker 1: is good at first, but then they don't do the

429
00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,240
Speaker 1: ship they used to do and they do get a

430
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 1: little lazy. That's because people aren't in relationships for the

431
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 1: right reasons. People are relationships. Yeah, absolutely, people are comfortable

432
00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 1: because I know. I think that's too. I get a

433
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,479
Speaker 1: little lazy sometimes too. I think that bo just are

434
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 1: intrigued by the idea of companionship, and so they look,

435
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 1: I don't even know what the hell it means to

436
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 1: be looking for a relationship, Like to me, you and you,

437
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 1: you encounter somebody and like there's there's specific things about

438
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: them that make you want to be with only them.

439
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 1: That's a relationship all that, Like, oh, I'm at a

440
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 1: place in my life where all that bullshit. That's divorced.

441
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 1: And I really think that guys end up settling down

442
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,160
Speaker 1: when it's the right time, not necessarily the right person,

443
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 1: your pregnancy. It could be, or it could be just

444
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: like all their friends got married and they got older

445
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 1: and they're bored and lonely, and sometimes I feel like

446
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,399
Speaker 1: guys could have met the right person, but they just

447
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:47,400
Speaker 1: wasn't ready to settle down. And then but now now

448
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 1: they don't met somebody and it's been a month, but

449
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,480
Speaker 1: I'm ready to settle down. That's the one. And I

450
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 1: see it happen all the time. That's sad, and they

451
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 1: get divorced all the time. That's why they call it settling.

452
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,439
Speaker 1: That's why you should. You should, really, honestly, if you

453
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 1: if you get married and feel like I'm really about

454
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,119
Speaker 1: to be with this motherfucker for the rest of my life.

455
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: If you don't feel like that you're making a mistake

456
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 1: or no. Prenup um depends on how things going for you,

457
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,639
Speaker 1: Like I get depend on what's popping, Like money is money.

458
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 1: Now we gotta be serious. So you know, if I

459
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 1: have things that I need to protect, I will absolutely

460
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 1: ask for a prenup. However, I would make sure that

461
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 1: whoever I was married and felt so comfortable that that

462
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,400
Speaker 1: would simply be a piece of paper. Now, what would

463
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 1: be in your prenup? Just basically, what would you want

464
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: it to be? Like I take what I came with,

465
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 1: and you take what you came with. You to be, No,

466
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 1: because I want to I want to continue generating income

467
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 1: like independently and so No, because that's my money. But

468
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 1: I would also take care of them. I would be

469
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 1: you know, like your man. I would man. I would

470
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 1: look out the same way like when you break up

471
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 1: with somebody on good terms and you get an opportunity

472
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 1: to look out for them, like a year later or whatever,

473
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 1: if they need some tires or something, you know, you

474
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 1: you you hook them up. I would make sure that

475
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 1: they were straight afterwards. It would be a prenup where

476
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Oh no, that's different, so you

477
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 1: don't know you write that in. But people are so

478
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 1: scared of prenumptial agreements. But you know you could work

479
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 1: it out to where you're not left with nothing. That's

480
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:20,199
Speaker 1: whatever you wear. Some people feel like a prenup is

481
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 1: you saying when this doesn't work out? No, but you

482
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 1: have You know time changes things, and you know things

483
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: that just change, so you never know what's gonna happen.

484
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 1: I love, you got to secure your future. You can

485
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,439
Speaker 1: fall out of love of somebody if they change. Resentment

486
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: should anything that happens that causes you to resent somebody

487
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,919
Speaker 1: will make you fall out of love with the im period.

488
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 1: That could be a multitude of things. It could be

489
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 1: somebody not being financially irresponsible that makes you look at

490
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 1: them differently. He could be somebody cheating on you, you

491
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It could be somebody being verbally abusive.

492
00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: That's real, you know what I'm saying. Because to me, now, ship,

493
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: if we go together, you know what I'm saying, certain ship,

494
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: you shouldn't to be thinking, even in your anger. So

495
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: as certain ship, you can't say to me, you know,

496
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,479
Speaker 1: and I'm working on that because you know me. You know,

497
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 1: I don't mind saying shut the funk up. You know

498
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: what I'm saying when I know I'm right as I

499
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: would never disrespect somebody like like your mother. You know,

500
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, you don't do that, so we can forget.

501
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: Just know your your your contribution to the ship. Be responsible.

502
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: I think it's funny when my boyfriend curses me out

503
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 1: because I don't take it seriously. If he's like, shut

504
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 1: the funk up, which, of course, if I think he

505
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: might have cursed in me a couple of times. I

506
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 1: don't think he cursed you out. I know he doesn't,

507
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: but I think it's funny, like it makes me laugh.

508
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: But that's how it should be because I don't I know,

509
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 1: it's not serious. Like if he's like, man, I shut

510
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 1: the funk up, I'm like, what I think an argument

511
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 1: should be, like something like like just completely like, oh

512
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: my god, this is so out of the ordinary to me.

513
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 1: It's supposed to be good times when things feel good.

514
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 1: To me, that's the natural order of ship. Are you

515
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 1: supposed to be happy all the time? So to me,

516
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 1: getting into an argument and ship that we got to

517
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 1: work something my wife, Why then are we arguing Like

518
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: I'm looking at Stephanie and Gig like y'all don't have

519
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 1: some arguments in the past, But you see how you

520
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: knew it wasn't. Yeah, I haven't had our argument. I've

521
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: had an argument in a year. Stephanie to argue every

522
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 1: fucking day like this is not good. But y'all got

523
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 1: past that. Yeah again, even though we took our time off,

524
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: I think that was good for our relationship and we

525
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: haven't had nearly as much drama in the year that

526
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 1: we've been back together. Then in all of their arguments

527
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 1: for that, everybody feel because he's rude and mean and

528
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 1: he's party over, but you too, because when y'are getting

529
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: an argument and where is just all there? Ship is

530
00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: party over, party done for everyone that ship that you'll

531
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: be like, y'all not, are you now? I used to

532
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: say that, can y'all not? Can say later I'll be

533
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 1: like we all got text. You know what's the craziest

534
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 1: thing though, for real, all of those arguments I can't

535
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: tell you about happy ship was arguing about it. They

536
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't vargue about inviting I don't even know what most

537
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,160
Speaker 1: of those arguments, I would be like, funk are they

538
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 1: even arguing about? I don't know you didn't say me

539
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: a seat, So I'm not saying then that one was serious.

540
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: And I remember that. However, that's not do that sounds

541
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 1: serious now that I said, Oh, it wasn't that he

542
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: didn't save me. See, it was his reaction to me,

543
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 1: like where am I supposed to sit? Like you invite

544
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 1: me somewhere and then you don't make sure that I

545
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: have somewhere to sit, So why me exactly? You knew

546
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 1: I was on my way, make preparations for me to

547
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: be comfortable when I get here. When I get there,

548
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 1: you're like, what you want me to do? Nigga? You

549
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: invite to me? Like why I invite me to him?

550
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 1: But sometimes I'm gonna take Sometimes people can get mad

551
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 1: long to show up because I've done that too. Okay,

552
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 1: you're gonna okay, and I don't. I don't set the

553
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: ship up til you get there because I know I'm

554
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:08,640
Speaker 1: gonna set it up and then it's gonna be too more.

555
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 1: We were going from one place to the other, you

556
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 1: didn't say, yeah, you don't take long. I remember that.

557
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 1: I remember that now recently right, Black China didn't interview.

558
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: I think it was with with L. Was it with L?

559
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: And she said that Tyger was kind of cheap while

560
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 1: they were she did say that, Yeah, she said he

561
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: was kind of cheap. How do you leave that? How

562
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 1: do you feel about what he don't be paying for? Ship?

563
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: Clearly because everything gets rebold, But how do you feel

564
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: about dating somebody who's kind of cheap? I'm not kind

565
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: of cheap, so we're not gonna do that, but I

566
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: mean frugal, like you know, not like you can save

567
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: money and you can you know, what's what do you

568
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: need a channel bag for? No? No, no, that's not good.

569
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: No bags are expensive. But if you want us to

570
00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,959
Speaker 1: know about getting yourself, you don't want to affoord it.

571
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: Then if you wanted yourself, if you want to show

572
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 1: back if he's giving your if he's giving you a gift,

573
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: I mean back gift because he's cheap, right, Michael? Never mind?

574
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: Oh Michael is really getting Okay, we're comparing perfect yes

575
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: with the logo all over ay and this is I

576
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 1: would still love to work. But that's that's because he

577
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: thinks that that's your level. You know what I mean?

578
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: I would rather not give me a gift, can't get

579
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: me something. I'm Michael, I'm okay, all right, not even

580
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 1: that's that's not if you're buying somebody a gift, it's

581
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: supposed to represent how you feel. A right, that's your

582
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 1: level they are able to do. If a man can

583
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: spoil you and treat you to like the finest, most

584
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 1: luxurious ship in the world, he will. He can't, he won't,

585
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: but he'll do the best. You can do, sing the

586
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: brand wearing guy. But then send you to Steve Man

587
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: for your shoes. Now, I have an ex boyfriend just

588
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: like that. I always talked about him. That was one

589
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 1: of our main things. He had the nicest clothes, okay,

590
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: everything for himself, nice car, owned his place in Brooklyn.

591
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: But when it came town of he would buy me

592
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: the worst present, like first of all. One year, it

593
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: was my birthday, right, he didn't give me a birthday

594
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: present until a month after my birthday, and he was

595
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 1: acting like it was something special that he ordered. He

596
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: got me an iPod. I'm like, how was this a

597
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 1: special gift that you ordered? You got an iPad for

598
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: my birthday? One year? It was the iPod. It was

599
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 1: just music. Nothing else, not even that. But you know what, Okay,

600
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 1: His sister later on told me that he grew up

601
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: Jehovah witness, so holidays would never Really I did too,

602
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: That's no excuse. I just got through telling you how

603
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: how it's done. So that's bullshit. He was the if

604
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: anything that should make you more opulent and make you

605
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 1: splurge more because now you can finally do it. You

606
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 1: know what I mean? You know what it made me

607
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: do because when we did break up because he cheated

608
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: on me, right, and when I found out, you know,

609
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 1: sometimes I got tea telling you you can work through

610
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: it and stay. But I was like, man, he cheated

611
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: his gifts a whack. I could, yeah, if it was

612
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 1: at least he treated me really well. But he would

613
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 1: do like he's the type of dude that he's just cheap.

614
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: Like he would come out and meet me and my

615
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 1: friends at the bar and not pay for my friends drinks, see,

616
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: and like he would do things like that, and like

617
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: I would go with my friends and their man would

618
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,959
Speaker 1: buy all our drinks and then he comes and here

619
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: comes his cheap ast. You know, but he was really

620
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: just a cheap person in general. Did you ever speak

621
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: up like where you vocal about I told him a

622
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: million times, how did you say it? I was like, um,

623
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 1: when he gave me my present, I was like, I'm

624
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I'm a little disappointed because I put

625
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 1: a lot of thought into everything I do for you,

626
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 1: because I'm a very generous person me too. That's that's

627
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: one thing, Like I give gifts to, you know, the

628
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: guys that I'm with. I took him snowboarding for the

629
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: first time. I got him a snowboard and snowboarding clothes.

630
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: And that's expensive right there though, But the point it

631
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: was a lot like it was and it was something

632
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: that he would never get and I wouldn't paid for it,

633
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 1: but I just didn't have to. But that after that

634
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: he goes snowboarding on. Like I did a lot of

635
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: things for him, and I felt like I planned the

636
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: whole trip, like I had a place for us to

637
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: say everything. And I just feel like, okay, now, at

638
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: least be thoughtful. And I'm not even saying you've got

639
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: to spend a whole lot of money on it. I'm

640
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 1: just saying be thoughtful. You know. Yeah, me too. Like

641
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: it's not even about like like you said, if if

642
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 1: he's a man's gonna do what he can. I know,

643
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: a guy, if he's gonna be with me, whether he's

644
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: really broke or really rich, if he's gonna buy me

645
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: a handbag, it's gonna be of one of the high

646
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: end designers because they know that's the kind of things

647
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: that I like. That's the you know, that's yeah, that's

648
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 1: what I'm not gonna use. But if I'm dating someone

649
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: who can afford to get me a bag, you know,

650
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: he can get me something else. Some flowers in a car.

651
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 1: I'm going to really appreciate that, you know what I mean,

652
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:15,719
Speaker 1: rather than a wallet for Macy's. Like you don't have

653
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: to take it some expensive dinner, but if you know

654
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: what I like to eat, and you wouldn't make that

655
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: ful use your hands. Yeah, I like when they use

656
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 1: their hands, right, and you don't have to use your hands. Yeah.

657
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: So alright, So everybody's saying, can you date somebody who's

658
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: kind of because there are people who are very frugal,

659
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 1: and that's just how like I take an my ex

660
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 1: he's never like been in a reel for real relationship,

661
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: so he's never done like his ex girlfriend was, like,

662
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: you know, she wasn't right. She was very Oudoh yeah,

663
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: she didn't hold him to task right, So I felt

664
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: like I had to like teach him a lot of

665
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 1: things and you know whatever. But I just felt like

666
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: that was part of it, Like he ever really knew

667
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 1: how to treat a woman. You have to take that

668
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: into consideration, but you also have to take yourself into consideration,

669
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 1: Like I'm not I don't know dog Like I know

670
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: what I'm you know how I'm gonna do ship, and

671
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: I know how ship is supposed to be done. So

672
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: I'm damn sure not about to sit back and tolerate

673
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 1: like lesson than what I deserve. You're not about to

674
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 1: be cheap. When we go somewhere and it's time to

675
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: spend some money, you're gonna spend it. You know what

676
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,720
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Part of the activity not nothing ridiculous and ostentationous,

677
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: but just like you know whatever, we we don't have

678
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: to go to Rear Robin all the time, you know

679
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying this, So I had to go to

680
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: the polo club on a special occasion, you know what

681
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, yeah, but that's why there's like different

682
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: levels to being cheap, Like there's you know, a guy

683
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 1: who's buying you, who's a millionaire, and he's buying you,

684
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:48,439
Speaker 1: you know, see him out in alsohol's cheap. Yeah, you're

685
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: being cheap. And then when you a guy you know

686
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 1: who can't afford it, that's totally different. You don't hold

687
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 1: against somebody. That's totally different. That's what I'm saying. Now,

688
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 1: Could I date a millionaire who is you know, spending

689
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: thirty dollars on the table and the club, but won't

690
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 1: take me out to a dinner that course two thousand dollars?

691
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:12,240
Speaker 1: No right, no ship, what dinner costs two thousands? There's

692
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: dinners that course two thousand dollars. I guess I don't

693
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: need seafood. And no, you're going to the restaurants and

694
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: you're not never seeing it's totally different. If well, I

695
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 1: guess I have when you have, you've been to my

696
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: astros and um in l A that you can have

697
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 1: a two thousand dollars dinner. I don't need chicken. But

698
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 1: still you've been at those dinners. You've been at dinners.

699
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 1: Point is people money on what they want? What they

700
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: wanted everybody. Some people spurs on dining. Some people spurs

701
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: on cars, like some people just splurres on savings li

702
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 1: real talk, like some people are hoarders when it comes

703
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: to money because they grew up poor and they're definitely

704
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,800
Speaker 1: afraid to be destitute like that. You're in a relationship,

705
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: is it okay to except give some somebody else? No, nobody,

706
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: nothing that you would not right there, That's what I

707
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: say all the time. No, he no, Now are you

708
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 1: still gonna do it? Of course? Because it's so it's

709
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: some people. Yeah, it's some people who, let's keep it

710
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: all the way fucking real. It's some people who will

711
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 1: always and forever hold a special place and your heart, y'all,

712
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 1: just have that report. You're gonna sneak and talk to

713
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: them on their birthday. You know what I'm saying. It's

714
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 1: just what the funk it is is that everybody does it.

715
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: We ain't gonna talk about it. It can be kitchen

716
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 1: table talk. We're clearly not in the kitchen so cool,

717
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: but like, everybody does it. So that's just a part

718
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 1: of the thing. That man was like, I gotta you know,

719
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: it's my my exest birthday. I'm gonna call them and

720
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: say happy No, then what then we're not finished. That's

721
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: too much me and you. Then if that's what you

722
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: want to do, that's so disrespectful to say happy, yes,

723
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 1: sneak and do it. I shouldn't know about it, you

724
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, that's that's totally disrespect Okay,

725
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: So some things we don't want to know. I'm glad

726
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: you brought that up because we were talking about this

727
00:36:56,120 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: about things that we don't tell. If you're dating, right,

728
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 1: are you dating somebody now? Are you in a relationship? No,

729
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 1: I'm not in a relationship. Are you smiling? And because

730
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: because I like my teeth. I have braces and thank

731
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: God for my parents for thinking ahead for me. So

732
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 1: I like my teeth. That's the only reason I'm smiling, right, Okay,

733
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 1: rubbing your leg because I don't know, I think? All right.

734
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: So let's say you're dating somebody, right, but you get

735
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: like a d M from a celebrity. Would you tell

736
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 1: them or is that something you just don't bring up? No,

737
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 1: I wouldn't tell them. But that's not something that would

738
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 1: like that's that happens? Would if it was me? Like

739
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: to me, you know, I don't need to know everything.

740
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 1: Some things you can handle on your own. That's why

741
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: this is a partnership, because you do your part and

742
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: I do mine, So certain things you just need to

743
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: take care of. I don't need to know that. Don't

744
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 1: tell me any potentially damaging information that's unnecessary for me

745
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 1: to know. But if he didn't respond, then why the

746
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:55,240
Speaker 1: funk do I need to know? No, and you shouldn't

747
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 1: even be I wouldn't even if you do tell me,

748
00:37:57,800 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna cut your ass out now because you shouldn't

749
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: even be excited about no ship like that. You should

750
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 1: be over the whole excitement about celebrity ship. What the

751
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: funk are you doing? So you get because somebody? Man?

752
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: But what if this is that I don't even know

753
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,879
Speaker 1: this person? Yeah, like it's just a text, or even

754
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 1: if you do know the person, like it's just a

755
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 1: it's just random Like oh look, because Stephanie, I'm sure

756
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 1: you get all coming. That's different. But like I don't know.

757
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 1: I'm sure you don't need to I can't. I would

758
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: love to see what um actually there's I delete all

759
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,439
Speaker 1: my d M because I'm sure the crazy people DM

760
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 1: you would you tell a guy you're dating like if

761
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,879
Speaker 1: some crazy person? Um, I have one? I was In

762
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: my last relationship, I got a random DM. It was

763
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 1: just like, oh, this person just DM me like whatever,

764
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,240
Speaker 1: and I you know, I wasn't even like it wasn't

765
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: even it was like a normal you know, like he

766
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: was sitting next to me when I noticed, So it

767
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: was just like normal just came out really you know,

768
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: say right yeah. But the like the next argument, it

769
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 1: was like, go call that's why, that's why you can't

770
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,880
Speaker 1: tell just keep just don't if we like go together.

771
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,359
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you ship, but I will say that

772
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,760
Speaker 1: like I have had I've had I've had situations where

773
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 1: we don't we're not in a relationship, but we date.

774
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 1: We love each other, we care about each other, we

775
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 1: spend time. You're so transparent. You tell them everything, they

776
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,760
Speaker 1: tell you everything. You'll talk about other people you're dating.

777
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: It's great. But I think it's because you know that

778
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: like you know, like there's no obligation. I guess it's

779
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: just a mutual respect. But for some reason, it's totally

780
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: different when you're actually in a relationship. I've never didd

781
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 1: somebody like that I wasn't in a relationship and told

782
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: them about other people, like do try it. It's so liberating.

783
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's none of your motherfucking business.

784
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 1: I feel like it's rude. I don't know, no, not

785
00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: in a way. We're like, you know what do you like?

786
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,280
Speaker 1: Are you like that? Cool? Well? Yeah, such, you know whatever,

787
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: It's just it's cool. But I guess I have a

788
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 1: friend who did that, and she's married to the guy

789
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 1: that she did that with. Now, they were just like

790
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: kind of dating and she was talking to other guys

791
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: and she was always very honest about like, oh I

792
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 1: was in you know whatever, whatever, and I ran into

793
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 1: this person and we slept together. It was crazy. She

794
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: would tell him all and I thought it was the

795
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 1: weirdest thing. I had an X that used to one

796
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 1: to know and they ended up getting married. He was weird.

797
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 1: They did end up getting married, as they ended up

798
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: getting married because they have a really trust you know what.

799
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 1: One day he said to her. One day, he said

800
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: to her, I'm so tired of hearing about you and

801
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,359
Speaker 1: these other guys and it's making me mad, and I

802
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 1: want you to be my girlfriend. But that because it

803
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 1: could feel like that could go either way too, because

804
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 1: it could make them be like you know what, she

805
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,800
Speaker 1: she got she's so busy. I can't even deal with that.

806
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 1: She's doing her I'm gonna do me. I think you

807
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,280
Speaker 1: go on the other way, on the girl's behalf, because

808
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,799
Speaker 1: it can make her either like, oh my god, that

809
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: was so sweet. Of course I'm hoping to this, or

810
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: if she really is a girl who's who's more in

811
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: checked by the freedom, you know what I'm saying of

812
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 1: that type of lifestyle, it'll turn her completely off, like,

813
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,839
Speaker 1: oh my god, going somewhere with all that clingy ship,

814
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: I don't want all that. We were just chilling having fun.

815
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 1: That's where I think to go. Either way, possibility is

816
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,760
Speaker 1: on the girl's behalf more so than here. But most

817
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 1: females that are dating multiple guys are either waiting to

818
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: figure out which one they want to be with or

819
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 1: waiting for one of them to want to be with them.

820
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: You don't think it's some women that just like are

821
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:36,720
Speaker 1: okay with dating multiple men. Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying.

822
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: I think for some people that's just how they want

823
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 1: to live, Like that's just it. I mean, I wouldn't um,

824
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have said that this is how I wanted

825
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 1: to live a year ago, you know, but right now.

826
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 1: But this present, but right now, but today, you know,

827
00:41:56,640 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 1: I'm happy. I really don't. I feel like this is

828
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: a easier way of life. You have you have a

829
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: favorite boyfriend, though I do have a favor I have.

830
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 1: I do have a favorite boy you know. I was

831
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 1: gonna say I have two favorite boyfriends, but I do

832
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,359
Speaker 1: have one. He tasks more of my favorite than the other,

833
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 1: for sure. But if he was like, cut all this

834
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: other ship out, if he was like, I mean, I'll

835
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,919
Speaker 1: be lying. If I said that, I would be like, no,

836
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:28,800
Speaker 1: I'm in really enjoying my life. Not because I really

837
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:32,879
Speaker 1: like him, you know, but but I'm not gonna lie.

838
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 1: I like the way we are. I really like the

839
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 1: way we are, like said, he's dating No, absolutely not no,

840
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 1: Like it's none of my business, even though um I

841
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 1: want him. I want everybody that I date to feel

842
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: comfortable with me enough to tell me, you know, you know,

843
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 1: what's going on. If they feel like they need to

844
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,919
Speaker 1: tell me about it. I don't want them to feel like, oh,

845
00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 1: I can't tell her x y Z because she will

846
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: get upset, you know what I mean. I don't ever

847
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 1: want anybody to feel like that. But if I'm just saying,

848
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 1: like definitely do seem like you'd get upset that she

849
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: don't want to hear that ship. Yeah, like I don't.

850
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm not really interested in anybody else. I honestly, I'm

851
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:18,480
Speaker 1: not interested in another female ever in life. Like I'm

852
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:22,399
Speaker 1: only the only woman I'm really interested about dealing with.

853
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: The God that I'm sucking is me. You know, everybody

854
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: else is just. But if he's sucking with a girl

855
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: in your face, I don't let me find out. Just

856
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,879
Speaker 1: so every everything is fine, Just don't let me find out.

857
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: I just don't want to know. I don't know how

858
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: i'll react so that you know, but I like the

859
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: way we are. Like, like I was saying earlier, I

860
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 1: haven't had an argument in a year, you know what

861
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 1: I mean? Um, I have had like tips, you know,

862
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: where I will give each other attitude. You know, in

863
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 1: certain situations, I'll give a guy attitude or vice versa.

864
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 1: But you know, that's it, and I think it's it's

865
00:43:57,120 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 1: really great. It's a really free life not having to

866
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: be stressed out over a guy. I was just about

867
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 1: to say, my ship is I just want to be

868
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: stressed free, that's it, so I can be nice to everybody.

869
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 1: And it gets me a little to stress on real

870
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 1: things that are really important to deserve yours your energy

871
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: on that level, like come on, dog like so no,

872
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: because it's just draining when you have when you have

873
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 1: a stressful relationship, not all relationships. I'm talking about my

874
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: post experience. I had a stressful relationship. You know what

875
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: I mean. Have you spoken to him? No? Okay, I

876
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: do not ask me to That thing is in jail.

877
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: The last time he tried. I think he got the picture. Yeah, no,

878
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: I mean not even that. It's just, you know, it's

879
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:48,800
Speaker 1: just no good for us. We don't we don't go together,

880
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: like we don't match. We just really we matched too much,

881
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 1: been different times. What about if he comes home and

882
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: tries to hit you up, because that time it's coming right. No,

883
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 1: I mean he's not gonna be a would to reach

884
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: me by the time he comes home, but he's getting

885
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 1: with me. He gets out, I don't know when he

886
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 1: gets off another year, he but whatever, it doesn't matter

887
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 1: exactly because here no, but please, oh God bless him.

888
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: You know this isn't even about him, Like, God, bless him.

889
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: I don't you know. I'm not mad at him. Hopefully

890
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 1: he's I'm a at me. You know, whatever, life goes on,

891
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 1: but life, you know, it's just different. Apparently life has

892
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: gone on, and it's been a long time. It's been

893
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: a long time since I've spoken to him or even

894
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 1: think about him, you know, Like I'm just saying, if

895
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: you compare my life today to my life a year

896
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: ago when I was in this stressful relationship, because you

897
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: always have your own ship going on anyway outside of

898
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 1: your relationship. So it's your stressful relationship plus your ship,

899
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: your own stress that you have to deal with. And

900
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:58,799
Speaker 1: I'm a mother, you know, deal my friends. You know,

901
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 1: it's it's just a somebody that you can't go and

902
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: do work, like you he doesn't want you to work,

903
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like he didn't want her

904
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: to leave the house, go do nothing, go do what

905
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: she had to do. I felt like, no, I mean

906
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 1: he would let me. That would be a problem. Everything

907
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 1: was a problem, And that's whack. If I'm going to

908
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 1: get my money, and yeah, everything would be a problem.

909
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 1: I would try to bring him a problem. If I

910
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,399
Speaker 1: didn't bring him a problem, if I went somewhere too

911
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: far a problem, like you know, it's just and God

912
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: bless him. Like he he has a woman or you'll

913
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 1: find one who will deal with that and not be

914
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: stressed off. And you know I say this all the time,

915
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: there's somebody for everybody, but it ain't. It ain't us,

916
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: like we're just not meant to be together. And I'm

917
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: not gonna lie even my friends. You guys are my friends.

918
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: You guys see a difference. Yes, absolutely, you know what

919
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 1: I mean. I'm a lot happier. I look better, I

920
00:46:54,680 --> 00:47:00,360
Speaker 1: feel better, I'm doing better. You know I'm working. I'm working.

921
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: Everything is under control, right, everything's under control. Yeah, Well

922
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: a year ago today, if we go back in the

923
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 1: live service episodes, I was probably like, oh, you know,

924
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: I'm not really feel it's so good about that, you

925
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 1: know what I mean? So, but what about your dessin

926
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: Have you ever dated somebody that made you feel like

927
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: you couldn't be your full who you were? I don't

928
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 1: believe in date. I believe dating in like the literal sense,

929
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: like we go somewhere together and spend some time together.

930
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 1: Anything else is a relationship, and right now, Angela, I'm

931
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: not open to that. So, but there's never been a

932
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 1: time when you felt like I can't even have somebody

933
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 1: that I really care a whole lot about. Like we

934
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 1: love each other. It's really the love of my life.

935
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 1: It's eclips like anything I've ever been involved in. But

936
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: we're not together and we're not gonna be together. What

937
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying because we both have things to do, and

938
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 1: so you wouldn't want me if I was the type

939
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 1: of nega that would just say, okay, forget it, then

940
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna roll with you and follow you. You

941
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 1: like me because I'm not like that and versa, And

942
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you, and I could wishould continue

943
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 1: blessings and we remain close and we see each other

944
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 1: every time we get to and it just kind of

945
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 1: is what it is. So does that mean if you

946
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 1: get in a relationship with somebody else, you're still going

947
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: to see this other person that? I can't answer that?

948
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 1: What's the amendment? Thank you? Do you ever get do

949
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 1: you ever get really crazy? I d M S and

950
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: you're like, damn, I can't believe this person just hit

951
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:30,280
Speaker 1: me up? Yeah, all the time because like things happened

952
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 1: between people and like for me, you know what I'm

953
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 1: saying right now, let me say this right now, right

954
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 1: somebody sent me a text right back in May. Okay.

955
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: So I have this friend. They live in l A.

956
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 1: I live here. We've been friends for years, like probably

957
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: like eight years. We have been flirtatious in the past.

958
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,240
Speaker 1: We've never had sex. We've never like had a full

959
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 1: on makeout session, like nothing like that casual flirtation where

960
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: we've been able to maintain like a platonic friendship. So

961
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 1: they get in a relationship. Cool. We meet them and

962
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 1: their partner. We actually hang out together here in New

963
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,439
Speaker 1: York City when they were in town. You know, their

964
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 1: mother was there. It was like great, we had a

965
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: good time. That same weekend, the partner leaves. Me and

966
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: the person are together. Their staying um in a part

967
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 1: of the city that was easily accessible to me by train,

968
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: and so we took a car back to their spot

969
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 1: together because I'm a chivalrous nigger that was raised right,

970
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:26,359
Speaker 1: and I want to make sure you're stupid as gets

971
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: home safe. So that's what I did. We get there,

972
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: and I guess we hugged. I was drunk, and I

973
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: was drunk, you know what I'm saying it. So I

974
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 1: guess when we hugged, I may have said something like,

975
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, oh, you know what it is,

976
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 1: you know something like that. Whatever, right, But mind you,

977
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 1: they had just been in town for fashion week and

978
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: they had just tried to completely sleep with me. I

979
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:50,800
Speaker 1: had thwarted off everything. I'm like, no, are you crazy? Whatever?

980
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,919
Speaker 1: And literally the next week they were in a relationship,

981
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 1: which was fine with me because I didn't want that anyway.

982
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: I didn't even want to I'm not even into you

983
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: like that. So long story, Sure do you know this person?

984
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: So they come back to New York every time they're

985
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 1: in time, we hang out now, right, So they come

986
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:07,439
Speaker 1: back to New York and I see that there in town.

987
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: So I hit I'm up like hey, you know, what's up.

988
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see you. No response. I FaceTime. We

989
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 1: always FaceTime. I FaceTime immediately it is FaceTime unavailable. So

990
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, what the fun? You know, part of

991
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 1: the game is this? But whatever? Because me, if we're

992
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 1: friends are I would never assume like the worst of

993
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 1: the attention. I'm like, okay, well you know, it's whatever.

994
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 1: So I hit them up like, hey, what's up? I

995
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: want to see you. They sent me a text message

996
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,720
Speaker 1: that looked like a scripture. You know what I'm saying

997
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 1: it was so long, and it basically was saying that, oh,

998
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: you know, you might not realize it, but the last

999
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: time we were together, you know what I'm saying. You

1000
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 1: know you're flirtatious, and you know you made a pass

1001
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: at me, and um, you know, so unfortunately, and you

1002
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 1: know that I'm in a relationship and I don't want

1003
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 1: somebody to respect me. I want I want somebody to

1004
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:55,240
Speaker 1: respect me and not do that or whatever. So unfortunately,

1005
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: our friendship has come to an end. And I wish

1006
00:50:57,640 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 1: you all the best. I know you have blessings whatever.

1007
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 1: So I know this person, I know that they were

1008
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 1: trying to gold me into some type of argument or exchange.

1009
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do that, my nigga, Like, that's not

1010
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: even me. I don't argue. And I feel like maybe

1011
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 1: he told his partner, and in their partner, I could

1012
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 1: tell when we all hung out they really feel some

1013
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: kind of way. But I mean, I mean, you can

1014
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 1: never so like I understood that anyway. And this is

1015
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:23,800
Speaker 1: not a competition because clearly, like you know what so

1016
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: so so, but so you know what, I took their

1017
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: word as their bond and I did not even send

1018
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:32,879
Speaker 1: a response, I never said a word. That was three

1019
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: months ago. The past three weeks. I gotta FaceTime. I

1020
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 1: got a text that's hit, so you know we have

1021
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 1: to speak at some point. I'm not responding. I gotta

1022
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:44,960
Speaker 1: I got I got a text like, oh, I'm in town.

1023
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: I know you over me. We should see each other

1024
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: or whatever. They reached out to our mutual friend who's

1025
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 1: one of my best friends. So that was stupid anyway,

1026
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 1: because you know, we ain't gonna do nothing but laugh.

1027
00:51:54,160 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, that bullshit. You said what you meant

1028
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 1: and you're going to be held accountable to that. Today.

1029
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 1: I have nothing to say to you. I don't want

1030
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 1: to like, I don't want nothing from you. You know

1031
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like you mean what you said, So

1032
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 1: I'm never responding like like that's it, and it's and

1033
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 1: you and do you know this is the icing on

1034
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: the cake. They had the audacity to send me a

1035
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: text yesterday saying, UM, if you don't ever want to

1036
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 1: talk to me again, that's fine, but at least give

1037
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 1: me the opportunity to tell my side of the story

1038
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 1: so I can have some peace with You're like little piece.

1039
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 1: I don't care about your piece. With this, like what

1040
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 1: do I So? My point is people are nuts and

1041
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:38,880
Speaker 1: that's why I've decided to live life on my own terms,

1042
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: and people are relationships need to like be I designed

1043
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 1: I heard that are nuts. People are really nice reaching

1044
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,839
Speaker 1: out to my friend like, well that's I remember one

1045
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 1: time I got a crazy. Um I ran into one

1046
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,240
Speaker 1: of my ex boyfriends from when I was in college.

1047
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 1: I didn't even really care, like I haven't seen them since,

1048
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 1: and I ran into him and I was like, oh, hey,

1049
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 1: how are you doing? And I said hi, and he

1050
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: was acting mad weird. But I guess he was with

1051
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:05,319
Speaker 1: his girlfriend at the time and I didn't know. I

1052
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: just said hi, I didn't say anything, and then um,

1053
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: after that he sent me a message like hey, you

1054
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: know I'm in a relationship. Da da da. I'm like

1055
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 1: all I did was say hello. What. It was the

1056
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 1: craziest thing ever, And I think she must have felt

1057
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:21,360
Speaker 1: away like I was polite to both of them. I

1058
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 1: ran into them, like on literally on the street and

1059
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 1: just say hey, how are you doing? All good to

1060
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: see you, and he acted mad weird and then he

1061
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: sent me a message. And I don't even never speak

1062
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:32,919
Speaker 1: to him, so it was just I was like, that's

1063
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 1: the weirdest thing ever. But then I guess they broke

1064
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:36,879
Speaker 1: up and he tried to hit me like later on,

1065
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: like two years later, and I just ignored it. I

1066
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 1: was like, like that was morny whack one oh one,

1067
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 1: like so whack. But I just that's just that just

1068
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 1: was crazy to me, and it's so laughable, Like what

1069
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 1: are we what do we have to talk about? You

1070
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:54,879
Speaker 1: said that our friendship had to come to an end,

1071
00:53:55,239 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 1: and I was listening and it's over right, Yeah, all right,

1072
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:02,840
Speaker 1: Now here's something was talking about earlier. Do you have

1073
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: friends that feel like they just benefit from you? Like

1074
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 1: all they want to do is get things from you?

1075
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 1: I hope not ship. Every time it's a concert, all

1076
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:15,879
Speaker 1: of a sudden they're hitting you up. You're the popular one.

1077
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: You know, you're the one with the to the nightlife

1078
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 1: and the turn up. So when it's time for the

1079
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 1: turn up, you know it's everybody's in your face. Yeah,

1080
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 1: of course you have them, But I love that because

1081
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: you did me a favor. I don't have to do

1082
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 1: any work to try to figure you out. You showed

1083
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 1: me from the giddy up, and I'm cool with that.

1084
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:39,400
Speaker 1: I see how you cut you'll never be back in

1085
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 1: this v I P section again. But some people say

1086
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: if you can't be used, you're useless. Like don't we

1087
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:45,879
Speaker 1: all use each other for different things. That's a big

1088
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: difference between you and your friend having a good time,

1089
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: reaping benefits of you being successful and using somebody. Big difference.

1090
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 1: So if I have friends who are weighed far more

1091
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:59,439
Speaker 1: successful than I am, and they showed me hella love

1092
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 1: and any opportunity, I have to show them the same

1093
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 1: like I do too. So ship, that's what you do.

1094
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 1: And I don't believe in leeches and ship. I'm so

1095
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,719
Speaker 1: sawty Like I never had Harry Legs, and I thought

1096
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:12,400
Speaker 1: I would have been so cute with Harry legs. You

1097
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 1: know how it stops like right at the ankle and

1098
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 1: then the ankle be smooth. I always wanted that, and

1099
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 1: God gave me this. Thank you. I used to keep

1100
00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 1: them covered up. I was embarrassed. I'm you know, I'm

1101
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,399
Speaker 1: a guy. I want to Harry legs now. I don't

1102
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 1: give a fun Now my back is what kind of

1103
00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 1: ship is that? Yeah? I get my back, wax beard,

1104
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: thank you. I just cut it down short. That's no.

1105
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:41,800
Speaker 1: I don't think that's sexy. Like, I mean, I trimmed

1106
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 1: my pupid hair like down, but I don't think my

1107
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: pupil care should look like the Barbara was like, all right, no,

1108
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: that's what. That's not even sexy, like like their hair,

1109
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: trim it down. Now, you don't want to be more's

1110
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:57,879
Speaker 1: got to be here. You can't trim it, but don't

1111
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 1: line it up and cut strips and vs and ship

1112
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 1: and arrows and the dads all ship that that. No,

1113
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 1: that's what the stripper used to do. They used to

1114
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 1: put arrows and lightning that sexy that. It's never sexy

1115
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,360
Speaker 1: to me, but a lot of dass used to do that.

1116
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:21,359
Speaker 1: They would die at different colors. Female strippers totally only

1117
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 1: I haven't seen on guys basins. They use those um

1118
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:26,439
Speaker 1: that they tie. They have to tie the thing around

1119
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 1: so they stay hard the whole time. Yeah, they're tighter

1120
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 1: on their bars and ship. I'm scared I'm gonna suck

1121
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 1: something up. I only get one set. You know what

1122
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying. This is not that can't happen. Yeah, I

1123
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 1: don't want to ask nothing up. That's all. That's literally

1124
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 1: all I got. So you know that's how I feel

1125
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 1: about vaginas. You know, No, I just feel like you

1126
00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 1: only have one like you, you know, like you'r. I

1127
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 1: feel like my pussy could take a beating, but not

1128
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:55,319
Speaker 1: that bad. Like you gotta chill on, you gotta give

1129
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 1: it a break. You gotta let that pussy heal. Like

1130
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:03,399
Speaker 1: what's like he I says, what's his name? Right? Uh? Huh?

1131
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 1: All right? But anyway, you know, I just feel like

1132
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, my heart could take

1133
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:11,440
Speaker 1: a beating. I feel like your brain can take a

1134
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:14,880
Speaker 1: beating a little bit too, but you're pussy. You can't

1135
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 1: really take Yeah, once in a while sometimes, yeah, like

1136
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: like a couple of times a week now every day, okay, right,

1137
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: I mean you know, I just feel like that's something

1138
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 1: when that's you know, how like when before, for any reason,

1139
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: I had so much sex that your dick was sore. No,

1140
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 1: but I've had my dick has been so hard that

1141
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 1: it hurts. Really, Yeah, I feel like when the fun

1142
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,080
Speaker 1: major dick so hard that it hurt. Oh my god,

1143
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 1: the podcast would be three hours long this week. I

1144
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 1: can't even start to tell you. But yes, like that

1145
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:51,600
Speaker 1: that that that happens though, like you know what I'm saying. Hell, yeah,

1146
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 1: you feel like I made dick so hard it hurt. Then,

1147
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:56,920
Speaker 1: Like you have to think like the clothing, right, you

1148
00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: have to think about how it's positioned in the clothing,

1149
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, depending on if you can

1150
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: even be positioned, you know. So this is a certain

1151
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 1: group of people were talking about. So like, you know,

1152
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:07,760
Speaker 1: you have to think about all that. Sometimes you may

1153
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 1: have on like dress or I wear suits to work

1154
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:11,880
Speaker 1: and ship, so like I wear a dress slack, so

1155
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 1: sometimes I have to move them, you know, whatever to

1156
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:16,680
Speaker 1: the left or whatever and ship. So when you get

1157
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: in direction sometimes that's painful, damn right, And I feel

1158
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 1: like I was just thinking about it. Um. You know,

1159
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: I've been in relationships where I want to have sex

1160
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 1: every single day. But I now that I think about it,

1161
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 1: they didn't have like really big dicks, you know what

1162
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 1: I mean. I think the guys that I sleep without,

1163
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 1: especially one of them, has like a really big dick.

1164
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: I can't imagine like taking that every single day. I can't.

1165
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 1: My whole ship will be sucked up if you did

1166
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 1: it every day. Oh my god, But then what if

1167
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 1: we what if I stopped sucking women? Then I have

1168
00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: to go to like somebody normal if you got snap back, yeah,

1169
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:03,400
Speaker 1: right back. Oh my god. I just don't feel like

1170
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 1: you could kill the pussy like that. You gotta give

1171
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 1: it a break. Sometimes. I had a friend who was

1172
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: Native American, and she said it was a spice that

1173
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 1: they put in their bathwater to make their vagina tighter.

1174
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 1: I think it was called talent or something like that.

1175
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: It was some spice. And the half I said, like, like,

1176
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: don't that burns? Who takes that? Sent me? Take a bath?

1177
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 1: I take bath? You take bath. I take that like

1178
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 1: twice a month. I take a bath almost every day.

1179
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 1: Take a bath. I'm busy. I shower. But if I

1180
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:39,919
Speaker 1: couldn't take a bath and chill and smoking ship, yeah

1181
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm going to do that because listen,

1182
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 1: in my house, I have like a little couzy bathtub.

1183
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. One time, just to make sure it

1184
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 1: work when I first moved. Yeah, you gotta get in

1185
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 1: there a little while. That's a party and of itself.

1186
00:59:56,280 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: How many people doesn't hold No, it's not like that.

1187
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: It's like a bathet. Yeah, it's a bath, but it

1188
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: has like so how many people can fit now? I'm

1189
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 1: just so small. People overrated anyway, I already said that. Yeah,

1190
01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:16,440
Speaker 1: boxtop sex is over, but it's never like bathtub I

1191
01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 1: like it's taking about when it's about. And then you

1192
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 1: got to get all right, let's go hold on to

1193
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 1: and ship and who wants to fucking a handicap accessible to?

1194
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 1: And then the other thing is what it's like going

1195
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 1: your vagina girl like messes with the natural lube. Yeah,

1196
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 1: like who comes in the bathtub? I never had an

1197
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 1: orgasm having sex in a pool or a bathtub. Well,

1198
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 1: a man comes to the bothom. Anyway, we gotta do

1199
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 1: it like I have to. I have to, I have to,

1200
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 1: you have to come. I like having sex in the shower.

1201
01:00:57,480 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: It's just a male thing. We have to every morning

1202
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 1: we get up, we take our showers, and we masturbate.

1203
01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:05,479
Speaker 1: Are you serious? I never knew that. But that don't

1204
01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 1: count like towards like that's just a guy thing. Masturbating

1205
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 1: outside of that means that you know your masterbated my boyfriend.

1206
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 1: Master guys say that old guys, they just get a

1207
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: nut in the showers. You wake up with with an erection. Yeah,

1208
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 1: we do have a lot of morning sex. Now I'm

1209
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: gonna start thinking the days that we don't have morning sex.

1210
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 1: He jerked off on the shower, saying in a shower No, no,

1211
01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 1: see I don't. I couldn't have morning said, you know

1212
01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 1: earlier I get up. Yeah, it's still a nighttime when

1213
01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: you wake up for working. You can't get a four

1214
01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: in the morning if it's worth this ship, No, I can't.

1215
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 1: That's drunk sex hours exactly that hours. I'm a nighttime

1216
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 1: sex person or a daytime I'm a nighttime before I

1217
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: go to bed seven on pr in a day. But

1218
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 1: like nighttime and mornings, I like it. Anytime you get

1219
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,959
Speaker 1: at a time, do you get up and brush your teeth?

1220
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 1: You have to. I'm like that though, Like if we

1221
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 1: sleep together and I'm not gonna be kissing on you

1222
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 1: with funky ass bread, you just don't kiss it. Well,

1223
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 1: I could have morning sex. I think my breath is

1224
01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 1: not that bad in the morning. Oh no, stuff like

1225
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 1: like I gotta go in there and be sure, like, okay,

1226
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: I don't stuff. You're popping in everything. But I think now,

1227
01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 1: but I gotta admit, like now that I'm thinking about it,

1228
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,880
Speaker 1: the last few times that I have morning sex, I

1229
01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 1: definitely went in the bathroom. I like the worst thing

1230
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: about and you got that thinness morning breath, sticky spit.

1231
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: They don't like pam up and get thick. You don't

1232
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: have to period like when we're kissing. I can stand

1233
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 1: somebody king disgust like I can't remember. I kissed this

1234
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 1: guy one time when I was younger. I had on

1235
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:55,440
Speaker 1: the turnleneck and my hotel nick was all wet and

1236
01:02:55,480 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: he was terrible. Come on, guys, it was awful because

1237
01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 1: I used to like I used to like um sloppy

1238
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 1: kisses like that when I was a teenager, But today

1239
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 1: I hate face and everything is all. I don't like

1240
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,280
Speaker 1: for my to come out of a kiss with my

1241
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna buy my mouth out, and it's super wet,

1242
01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 1: and the whole fucking bed is wet, and I don't

1243
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 1: I don't really like I like it either. I like um,

1244
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:24,160
Speaker 1: you know, because I like a lot of sucking pressure.

1245
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 1: You know that doesn't require a lot of moisture. But

1246
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 1: I feel like dick stuck ain't supposed to be sloppier. Yeah,

1247
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: I feel like sex period is supposed to be slapped.

1248
01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:37,520
Speaker 1: I don't like the whole you definitely there needs to

1249
01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 1: be moisture there for you to for the movement to

1250
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 1: feel good. Does it turn you on? And somebody like

1251
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 1: spits like no, because spit isn't sexy. Keep that ship

1252
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 1: in your mouth. That's too much of your business becoming

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01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:51,720
Speaker 1: mind Why I need to see it? Keep the spitting

1254
01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 1: your mouth. I've been when guys like that. It's just

1255
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 1: it drives me crazy. When a god doesn't like when

1256
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 1: a girl spits on sick, well, I don't know what.

1257
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:06,760
Speaker 1: It ties me crazy. Guys like that, I don't go like,

1258
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 1: thank you, but I create a lot of aliva with

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01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: my mouth. That's cool. There's a big difference between that

1260
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 1: and doing what not. But you gotta be careful like

1261
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: some guys. Some guys like it. Some guys don't, you

1262
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Some guys that say spit on it. Yeah,

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01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: some guys will say spit on it. And some guys

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01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 1: you'll spit and they'll be like, no, don't don't be

1265
01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 1: biting my nipples either. Don't bite me period. I don't like,

1266
01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love bite. You can lick like

1267
01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:39,160
Speaker 1: my nipples, you know what I'm saying? Like that's that

1268
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 1: feels so much better, Like there's no reason for you

1269
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 1: to bite me. Yeah, but not too mocking hid chick,

1270
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,200
Speaker 1: but like, yeah, I don't. I don't like that my

1271
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 1: nipples burned. Yeah, what kind of ship is that? We're

1272
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:52,040
Speaker 1: biting me and ship? And then one time somebody slapped

1273
01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 1: me while we were having sex. I choked this guy before.

1274
01:04:55,360 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 1: How was that? What was your reaction? It was a react.

1275
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 1: I didn't think about it though. It literally just like

1276
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:06,000
Speaker 1: we was a reaction, like like what are you doing?

1277
01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 1: And I like getting slabbed? No, I did that too.

1278
01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:11,800
Speaker 1: I slapped them inside of choking. I don't like to

1279
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 1: be about what about you? Then we just what about you?

1280
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:17,920
Speaker 1: Like choking? I like to hold you down, but I'm

1281
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 1: not gonna choke you. But there's a difference between me holding.

1282
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:23,840
Speaker 1: It's all needs to be finessed. That's all, Like, don't

1283
01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:25,880
Speaker 1: you don't need to slap me, but you can, you know,

1284
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 1: It's what it's things you can do, like all that

1285
01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 1: extra ship, keep that ship in Idaho or wherever. I

1286
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 1: don't want to hear slapping sound. I like to be slapped,

1287
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: like you see the handprint on my face. I hope

1288
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: not always. There's there's a moment for that, you know

1289
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:49,439
Speaker 1: what I mean? Home man, like you can't we can't

1290
01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:57,080
Speaker 1: be having morning sex and you try to slap it, like,

1291
01:05:57,200 --> 01:06:00,800
Speaker 1: come on, slapping at the drink water All right, now,

1292
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 1: focus on your after you just got the ship slapped out?

1293
01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 1: What the hell? But you know, the drunk four thirty

1294
01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 1: in the morning, secks, that might call for a slap,

1295
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, nobody's ever slapping, Thank god, a little

1296
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 1: spank on the bart, right, you know what? Yeah that

1297
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:24,640
Speaker 1: that's fine. I think you're supposed to do. Yeah. If

1298
01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 1: you don't, something is wrong. Yeah, alright, well listen, I

1299
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:30,560
Speaker 1: know this was a really fun conversation. I had a

1300
01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 1: good time, have fun with you all. Thank you so

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01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 1: much for having you guys. Got to invite us some

1302
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 1: friends and you are more open invitation for you ladies

1303
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 1: anytime you want to come. More than welcome. Yeah, thank

1304
01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:44,280
Speaker 1: you so so much. Shout out to to Loudspeakers Network. Right, yeah, together,

1305
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:50,440
Speaker 1: that's what's up. Everything we googled about him wasn't true. See,

1306
01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 1: he was a player, you know what I'm saying. I mean,

1307
01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:57,880
Speaker 1: it's a little bit of you know, it's a little

1308
01:06:57,880 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 1: bit of truth in every damn live But you know,

1309
01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:03,320
Speaker 1: maybe on the weekends. I can't wait. I hope we

1310
01:07:03,320 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 1: meet this guy that you're in love with, that you love,

1311
01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:08,240
Speaker 1: you know exactly who he is right now and we've

1312
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 1: never even talked about them. How about that? So I'm

1313
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:18,200
Speaker 1: gonna leave you out with that. Wow. Okay, make sure

1314
01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 1: y'all listen to the friends on that. It is our

1315
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:22,520
Speaker 1: guy justin And you know a friend is my girl

1316
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 1: to my sister. Yeah, and me and friend, we have

1317
01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 1: a good time. We go out in public. People think

1318
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: that your boyfriend and girl. Yeah, she comes with me

1319
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 1: to stuff, won't come out with us. Sometimes she comes

1320
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:34,480
Speaker 1: to stuff. She won't go out out, but she'll go

1321
01:07:34,520 --> 01:07:36,560
Speaker 1: to like a day party. Let's get her to do something.

1322
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:38,440
Speaker 1: I got and me and you tag team are like,

1323
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:40,919
Speaker 1: it's done. We got that. That sounded wrong, but we'll

1324
01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 1: do well like that. Look, pause, listen and happy. Um.

1325
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Speaker 1: What is this weekend? Labor Day weekend? To every to everybody,

1326
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:54,680
Speaker 1: I'm headed to Miami today, So just so y'all know,

1327
01:07:54,840 --> 01:07:57,480
Speaker 1: and Jesus going to make Philly for me in America

1328
01:07:57,560 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 1: to seek Stephani's going to get her legal it right.

1329
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 1: Hopefully I can get across that border. Yeah, what are

1330
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:07,920
Speaker 1: you doing? So I'll be here in New York. I

1331
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 1: have um a project I'm working on, so I'll be

1332
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:13,680
Speaker 1: here in New York at work. So that's good, right Yeah?

1333
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:19,120
Speaker 1: Get that money yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. Thank you

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01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:19,639
Speaker 1: so much