WEBVTT - Double-Date Chat with Dean & Caelynn 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:03.880 Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bacheler Happy Hour. 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:07.040 I'm Joe, and we are live at the Bachelor Mansion 0:00:07.120 --> 0:00:09.719 for the iHeart event and we are here with Dean Kaylan. 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:11.320 Hello. 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:15.080 Hey, everybody, welcome to a Bachelor Happy Hour with Dean 0:00:15.120 --> 0:00:18.599 and Kaylen. We're here at the Bachelor match. You just 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:19.200 did a. 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:20.800 Much better job than I did the match. 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:25.520 Okay, So for our listeners, I'm a little nervous. I'm 0:00:25.600 --> 0:00:27.480 off my game because it's the first time I've been 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:30.000 back here since I got eliminated at night one. 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:31.320 And it was just terrible experience. 0:00:31.600 --> 0:00:35.000 Yeah, driving up in the van with Joe, it was 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:36.720 so funny to look back and see him because he 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:39.919 was sweating. I've never seen a man so wet from 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:43.080 sweat before. Yeah, he was like last time I was 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:44.320 here to go so well for me. 0:00:44.479 --> 0:00:47.000 So Dean's lying. We were not on the same season. 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:54.200 I wasn't there for the season. But it was rough. 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:54.840 It was rough. 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:57.560 Well, neither fun Bag, neither Joe or I have ever 0:00:57.600 --> 0:00:59.960 spent a night at the Bachelor Mansion because I was 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:03.400 COVID season. So we filmed at Nemacollin and Joe went 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:04.000 home night one. 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:06.280 So you didn't spend the night here either. 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:09.360 Interesting and you two made it what you guys were 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:12.200 both we were both dumped after they met our families. 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:13.319 What does that say? 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:17.040 Not good situations you guys. 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:20.960 I got to say, though, as far as the place 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:22.800 you can get dumped, it might be the best because 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.039 you can placate the blame and be like, it's not 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:30.520 my fault, it's I left after hometown. But you like, 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:31.720 you left on your own accord. 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:34.000 Yeah, I did leave on my own accord, but same 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:34.840 same timeline. 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:35.800 Yeah, there you go. 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:36.800 That's a better way to leave. 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:38.679 And you did kind of spend a night because you 0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:40.480 probably didn't get dumped until like six am. 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:41.960 It was like eight. It was like eight am. 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:45.280 Yeah, And I remember I was standing outside and I 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:47.520 was interviewing, and I think they wanted me to cry, 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:49.200 and I was like, guys, I'm not going to cry. 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:51.880 There's no way I'm going to cry. And then I 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:53.720 left and I was so depressed. 0:01:53.760 --> 0:01:54.840 And then he cried, and then it. 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:57.400 Was Saint Patrick's day in Chicago, so I went out. 0:01:58.000 --> 0:01:59.280 That's a good thing to come home to. 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.120 Is like something fun. I feel like after going home, 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:02.520 is your. 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:04.680 Buddy's like rib you a bunch, because you probably would 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:05.800 be like i'll be going, I'll be back in a 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:07.680 month or two, and you're back the next day. 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:11.160 I remember when I called my friend Eddie and his 0:02:11.520 --> 0:02:15.000 wife answered. She's like, oh my god, Joe, I got 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:17.359 said home fucking night one. 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:20.399 But it's so crazy because knowing you, like you're you're 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:23.840 so handsome, and you're so charismatic and outgoing, and you're 0:02:24.360 --> 0:02:28.840 you're like, we got to talk to Becca, if we 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:32.679 could call her, but it has been something that you like, 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:33.720 something must have happened. 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:35.280 Well, we were just in the living room and he's like, 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:37.120 I stood right here and I said, no words, and. 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:40.400 That's that was the problem. 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:42.639 Well, I when I stepped out of Limmo, I just 0:02:43.040 --> 0:02:46.040 I couldn't speak. And I walked up to her and 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:47.959 I couldn't speak, but I was but words were coming 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:50.600 out of my mouth, but nothing made sense. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:51.880 It was all over the place. 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:55.120 And then I was just like, hey, I'm super nervous. 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:57.280 And then I just walked inside. But if she's like, 0:02:57.360 --> 0:02:58.360 this guy's so weird. 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:00.440 If you came up to me and didn't say a word, like, yeah, 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:08.399 he's making it to my top five, no question, But yeah, Okay, enough, 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:10.600 enough about me, Let's stop talking about me. 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:12.400 Oh that's the first time Jesse ever said that. 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:15.920 That's not true, even though we did fan question yesterday 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:18.400 and I feel like I was really killing it. 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:19.639 You were doing a great job. 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:20.440 All right, guys. 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:23.799 How was How was the wedding? How was wedding planning? 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:24.560 Who handled it? 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:25.200 Oh? 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:29.079 Me? Yeah, well yeah, yeah you did. You did a 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:30.799 lot of the work. We had great wedding planners. 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:32.919 Great wedding planners. I came up with a lot of ideas. 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:35.560 But I was talking to someone today and she's like, 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:37.440 your wedding looked beautiful. It was like, honestly, I had 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:39.520 no idea how it was going to look like. We 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:41.320 kind of went into it blind in terms of how 0:03:41.400 --> 0:03:43.960 they were going to decorate it, and they brought my 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:45.800 pitch sport to life. So I'm super happy with that. 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:49.200 We were kind of the same, like we had shown 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:51.680 us like photos like flowers and signs. We're like, yeah, sure, 0:03:51.800 --> 0:03:53.600 like looks great, like whatever. We just kind of had 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.200 like an overall vibe and vision that we wanteds Like 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:58.400 walking in and seeing it for the first time, you're. 0:03:58.240 --> 0:04:02.480 Like, whoa, yeah, it's and even not being as included 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.800 in the planning process. For me seeing it for the 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:07.440 first time, it felt like I was like a guest 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:09.440 at my own wedding. It was awesome. We would do 0:04:09.560 --> 0:04:12.200 something and then we go to the section that we 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:14.400 just left and it was completely different. I'd be like, 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:17.920 holy cow, this is amazing, and it was just so 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.839 cool because I'm like, oh, everyone's here for me and Kaylin. 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:23.200 But like I'm also being surprised every time I go 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:25.520 to the next event for whatever it is, you know, 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:27.840 So it was really fun from that aspect for me. 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:34.599 Any bad surprises, no, no, yes, there's a bad surprise somewhere. 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:37.120 Yeah. I was recapping the serena. There was like not 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:41.280 a bad surprise. Everything was perfect. Everything was seamless. But 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:43.000 you know, if people get drunk and make mistakes, and 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:44.760 there was a mistake that happened tough. 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.480 It was tough because we had like a certain bed limit. 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:49.640 There was like seventy eight beds on the property that 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:51.560 everyone was staying at, and every bed was accounted for. 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:54.040 Is that what we're referring to? And there was one 0:04:54.120 --> 0:04:56.839 night where like one of the beds that was allocated 0:04:56.880 --> 0:04:59.640 to Kaylin's family got took by another guest that was 0:04:59.720 --> 0:05:02.120 like maybe partying too hard or something like that, and 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:04.000 so I just turned into this thing of like that 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:06.640 bed didn't belong to them and it was just one 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:07.280 of those situations. 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:13.120 Okay, do you do you think that you would have 0:05:13.279 --> 0:05:15.120 Would you have been okay without having a wedding? 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:17.479 Yeah, one hundred percent. You guys did the courthouse thing. Yeah, 0:05:17.480 --> 0:05:18.080 I would have loved that. 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:20.320 I would have been okay with not having a wedding. 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:22.839 But I will say, you're looking to be crazy. 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:24.600 No, No, I know what you're gonna say. 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:27.640 I loved our wedding. I actually really enjoyed it. I 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:29.720 think like going away for a week the way we 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:30.640 did was so much fun. 0:05:30.760 --> 0:05:32.520 Right, And I say I say that too, But the 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:34.520 wedding weekend was the best weekend of my life, like, 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:37.920 no questions asked, No, you hands down. Uh. So with that, 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:40.880 with the hindsight of that, I would say like, I'm 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:42.480 glad that we had the wedding and I'm glad that 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:44.159 we were able to do all that and celebrate with everyone. 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:46.640 But if you asked me before the wedding, I'd be like, no, 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:47.920 let's just go to the courthouse right now and just 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:50.000 sign the paperwork and just be husband and wife. Yeah, 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:53.960 but there's something so special about like your everyone's there 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:57.280 for you, guys. Everyone's are celebrating your love. And what 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.280 I love too is like when I go to a 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:01.640 party and I feel socially awkward because I'm like talking 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:02.960 to someone in a corner that I don't really know 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:05.000 that well. It doesn't happen at a wedding because you 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.120 know everyone there so well, and so you don't get 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:09.040 pulled into these random conversations that you don't really want 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:09.480 to be part of. 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:12.320 Yeah, but I like that a lot. Very special. Yeah, 0:06:12.360 --> 0:06:13.560 that was the best moment for you, guys. 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:17.320 That's hard, you know what, Actually I do know the 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:17.840 best moment. 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:22.200 I was very I wasn't stressed in like a oh 0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:23.920 my god, everything has to go perfect way. I was 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:25.920 just really nervous the day of the wedding, like there's 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:28.480 a lot of emotions flowing. You kind of want to 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:30.240 like check everything off the list, like you gotta do 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:31.800 the vows, and you got to do the speech and 0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:34.400 like all of these things. We finished our speech. We 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:37.680 finished our speech with a shot with wells and the 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:40.200 relief I felt in that moment of just like Oh 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:42.880 my gosh, this day has been so perfect and I 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:46.919 can like just enjoy it now and like there's nothing 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.719 on the to do list anymore. We did the first dance, 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:51.520 like all the things have been checked off and we 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:53.560 can just party with our friends. 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:55.640 Was an amazing feeling I got. 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:57.560 I got to say too, sorry before you go, you're 0:06:57.680 --> 0:07:00.520 the thing that you posted about your vows, That's what 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:03.680 it was. Legitimately the funniest thing I've ever heard of 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:07.080 my entire life. So I did he come up with that? 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:07.960 That's so good? 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:15.280 That for so okay? So I I was once that joke. 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:16.000 I was just worried. 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:18.200 I was like, I just want to I just want 0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:21.320 this joke to land, because if it doesn't land, I'm 0:07:21.360 --> 0:07:24.640 gonna look like there's there's no way around that. It's 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:27.480 gonna be where it's gonna be awkward. When we when 0:07:27.520 --> 0:07:30.600 we decided we were gonna get married, and then we're like, 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:32.520 I'm like, why don't we ask Walls? I think that 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.520 would be really special. We'd love it to be him, 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:38.440 like he's been part of my journey basically the whole time. 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:42.120 And then when he said yes, I think I came 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:43.920 up with that joke. And that's that was a year 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:48.040 before our wedding. I came up with that joke right 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:50.440 after I asked him, and I was sitting in the 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:53.240 living room. I'm like, oh, that would be so funny. 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:56.400 And I wrote it, nailed it, and I gotta say too. 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:57.840 It put a lot of pressure on me because you 0:07:57.880 --> 0:08:00.320 guys got married like a week or two before. Yeah, 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:02.320 and I saw you. I saw you post that, and 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:05.000 I was like, Okay, I gotta do something. I gotta 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:07.280 get a laugh out of the crowd somehow because it 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:08.600 was so good and I loved it. I loved it 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:10.760 so much as just even like watching it on social 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:13.800 media and I, yeah, it was just so funny. 0:08:13.840 --> 0:08:14.520 That's so funny. 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:17.400 Because I had a few people be like, how did 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:19.480 you feel about that joke? Because your reaction you were 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:21.160 kind of like I couldn't really tell about your reaction. 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:23.760 I was like, no, I knew this joke was coming. 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:25.840 I didn't have a reaction because I had heard it 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:29.240 for three hundred and sixty five days, so there was 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:32.160 just no like practic shock value on my end. Like 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:35.080 he asked me if it was, it was like, totally fine. 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:37.840 I wish I didn't ask you but I just felt 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:40.679 like if you would have been upset about that, it 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:42.800 could have ruined like your special moment, and then I 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:43.360 would have felt. 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:47.000 No, I'm glad you asked me. I think it allowed 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:49.079 me to like go into it like not thinking you 0:08:49.160 --> 0:08:51.800 were talking about me. I think I still would have laughed, 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:53.160 but like, it's just hard to know how you're going 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:53.840 to feel in that moment. 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.760 Did you You guys had a tattoo artist at your wedding, Yeah, 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:57.040 you did. 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:00.120 We went back and forth for a while, but the 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:02.480 guy he gave me my very first tattoo is like 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:06.280 right near Aspen and it was it completed our couple's 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:08.120 tattoo that Dean got two years before, and so I'm like, 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:10.319 it's kind of perfect, and he was available. 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:12.400 Matt completed though completed. 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:14.040 He gave me the airplane. 0:09:14.559 --> 0:09:17.319 Oh yeah, yeah, that's right. So yeah, So on like 0:09:17.360 --> 0:09:21.079 our fifth day or something, we were like, let's get 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:23.720 matching tattoos. So stupid, don't recommend it. If you're listening 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:28.680 to this one, don't do it. So we were like, Okay, 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:30.800 I'll get a paraschooter and you can get an airplane 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:33.079 because I like to skydive, and she likes to travel, 0:09:33.160 --> 0:09:34.920 so it kind of worked out and I go and 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:35.840 I go first and get. 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:39.040 Matching matching where it was like each other, but his 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:41.360 parachute guy is supposed to be jumping out of my plane. 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:42.760 But they can be their own things. 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:45.240 And we wanted, you know, she had zero tattoos at 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:46.800 this point, and so I go and get my little 0:09:46.840 --> 0:09:49.360 parachuter guy and she's like, I'm not getting a tattoo. 0:09:49.559 --> 0:09:52.319 Oh my gosh, I'm like, what the are you talking about. 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:55.439 So a week prior, he took me skydiving and I 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:58.079 did the airplane. I went up in the airplane and 0:09:58.120 --> 0:09:58.920 then I just stood there. 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:02.480 You ever have you ever just a year later with friends, 0:10:02.559 --> 0:10:04.520 now with me, I've done, I've skytied. 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:06.040 It's great experience. 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:06.719 I hate it. 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:08.920 I hate every second. I hate. It's a bad experience. 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:10.120 Wait you didn't. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:13.360 I hate it all the way up and then all 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:16.520 when I got down. I got down, I liked. I 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:17.959 was like a twelve year old. I threw a fit 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:21.200 like I was like this is horrible, Like I'm nauseous. 0:10:21.200 --> 0:10:21.719 I hated it. 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:24.559 It was scary. I'll never do this again. 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:32.920 I have not. 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:38.760 My dad would never talk to and my parents were 0:10:38.800 --> 0:10:41.680 pretty relaxed parents. They didn't have like major, major rules 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.000 growing up, but that was one of the like rules 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:46.800 was like nothing with extreme heights, and I don't feel 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:49.200 like passionate about it in any way that I would 0:10:49.320 --> 0:10:50.120 like my dad. 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:51.160 Would like kill me. 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:52.160 Yeah, it's not worth it. 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:53.240 No, it's not worth it. 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:55.320 Like I was like, no, I feel called to jump 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.120 out of a plane, like sure, but like I just 0:10:57.200 --> 0:11:00.400 don't feel that way at all, So I'll stick with ground. 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:03.160 That's fair. Yeah, but you just jump yourself. Yeah, yeah, 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:04.839 I've got like one hundred jumps or something like that. 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:05.240 I did. 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:07.320 I did. I forget what it's called, but I did. 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:11.040 Like the skydiving simulators though, like in a in a tunnel, Yeah, 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:11.600 in a tunnel. 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:14.240 Yeah, that's how you you practice doing that before you jump, 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:16.000 so that way you don't get all distorted in the air. 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:16.920 That was cool. 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:19.840 Any scary moments, I've. 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:21.679 Got like line twists, but it's pretty standard where you 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:23.160 like you open your parachute and the lines get all 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:25.160 twisted and you're just like spinning around and you're like, Okay, 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:27.560 I guess I'm gonna die, But then it straightened out 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:28.080 and you're fine. 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:31.760 Also, for your thirtieth birthday. Wasn't it your thirtieth birthday 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:32.520 where I push you out? 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:32.800 Yeah? 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:33.800 Yeah, that was scary. 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:35.040 She pushed me out of a hot air balloon for 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:37.560 my thirtieth birthday, and she shoved me way harder than 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:39.200 I was expecting. I did tell her to shove me. 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:41.439 As pushed me as hard as you can, as hard 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:42.160 as you possibly can. 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:45.400 Pushed him so hard she pushed me. And the thing 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:47.600 about a hot air balloon versus an airplane. Airplanes going 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:49.840 one hundred miles an hour, so you have instant wind resistance, 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:51.640 but out of a hot air balloon, you're zero miles 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:53.600 an hour, and so it takes time for the wind 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:55.480 it kick you, and so like you can orient it 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:58.400 your body accordingly, and so I like was just flipping 0:11:58.440 --> 0:11:59.840 and flipping, and I was like, when am I going 0:11:59.880 --> 0:12:01.800 to stop flipping? Because there's nothing you can do about it. 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:03.760 And so eventually you like straighten out and figured it out. 0:12:03.960 --> 0:12:06.520 There was one time we're getting really off topic here 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:09.120 about sky fine. It was one time in Alaska. So 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:12.920 we were skydiving under the Nali in Alaska. It was amazing. 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:16.240 We were taking this this seaplane, Sessna up to like 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:18.079 seven or eight thousand feet and jumping out of it 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:20.040 over this frozen lake. It was the best experience of 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:23.080 my life. And we would open the door and crawl 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:25.120 out onto the float of the cessna to like stand 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:26.959 on the float for a little bit before we jumped, 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:30.240 just for the experience. But the door going one hundred 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:31.880 miles an hour, it doesn't open, and like you can't 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:34.760 get out, especially with a skydiving rig on your back, 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:36.600 and so you get like snagged on your way out. 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:38.640 And so I was like trying to get my way 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:40.880 out of this door and I couldn't. And then I 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:43.160 get out finally, and the door like slams into me 0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:44.880 and pushes me off the plane, and so I have 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:47.319 to like run backwards on the float. And there's like 0:12:47.400 --> 0:12:50.079 a tail rotor or whatever you want to call it 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:51.800 on an airplane, and so you have to like if 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:54.840 that thing hits you, you're you're probably going to get decapitated. 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:57.839 And somehow I squeaked between it, and it was in 0:12:57.920 --> 0:12:59.480 the moment like I didn't realize what had happened, but 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:01.480 looking back the footage, I was like, oh, that definitely 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:03.040 could have been the end of my life. 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:04.319 All right, I'm going to bring this thing back to 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:08.440 Bachelor in Paradise, a question that you guys have probably answered. 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:11.080 I just want to know for myself. When you guys 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:15.360 left Paradise, how long after did you know it was 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:16.000 gonna work. 0:13:16.800 --> 0:13:18.720 Oh yeah, we got to ask this in a fan question. 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:23.199 And yeah, actually answered this before. But it was like 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:25.599 a moment where you're like, oh, this is this might go. 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:28.079 I mean we've talked about it to ourselves, but I 0:13:28.080 --> 0:13:29.160 don't know where we talked about it. 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:33.480 I probably knew sooner than Dean did, way sooner, and 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:37.559 of like, going into the relationship, I thought it was 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:39.960 going to end, like I because he dumped me on Paradise. 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:41.840 I was like, yeah, it's probably just gonna happen again. 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:44.120 This isn't going to last. And then as a relationship 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:46.000 progressed and as we kind of grew together, it took 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:48.280 a couple months where I was like, wait, actually, maybe 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:48.839 this could work. 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:50.920 Come on, you knew it was going to work. The 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:52.200 day that we left the Chance. 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:54.400 I was so scared of you. I was like, he's 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:56.160 going to break break up with me again. So I 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:57.520 detached myself a little bit. 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:00.360 Oh yeah, but you knew that you were like. 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:04.200 If he was willing you, you were well, yeah, okay, 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:05.640 the distance. 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.679 Between you guys as far as like geography, where did 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:09.720 you lived in Venice? 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:12.360 Okay, was living in event Yeah yeah, but station out 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:13.360 of Venice, I guess, so we were. 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:14.880 Close out of my apartment. 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:20.000 Yeahway, what about. 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:23.360 Uh we had her speed bumps in the beginning of 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:28.000 the relationship. We never did, so come on, bumps. 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:30.840 It's actually been perfect our whole, our whole know, we 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:33.280 did we did her. Her family was really. 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:37.760 Struggled with the speed and usualness of it all. 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:40.880 But internally, just in the relationship, no external factors, we 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:41.880 did not have any speed. 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:42.640 Bumps, which was crazy. 0:14:42.720 --> 0:14:43.560 Which was crazy. 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:46.479 We were like, this is like they've been waiting. 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:48.680 For it to come right, speaks of the engagement is fast. Yeah, 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:50.360 but you guys still took your time to get married. 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:52.200 I feel like the engagement is just like a precursor 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:54.080 to like now we're kind of dating with this, like. 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:57.640 But we also had a different country aspect, we had 0:14:57.720 --> 0:14:59.680 like the age gap. 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:01.000 Yeah. 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:02.880 But I always said, even when we got engage, I 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:05.200 was like when we went to the hotel the next 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:08.520 day and I was like, I'm taking this serious, but 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:10.160 like we could break up. 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:13.120 Yeah, it's not like we're not like bound to each 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:16.480 other after just because we did this, but we knew 0:15:16.600 --> 0:15:18.000 like ten days after leaving. 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:19.560 I think, so, Yeah, there were some times that we 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:21.560 might have broken up in the beginning stages, Like in 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:23.320 the first six months, there was probably like two times, 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:25.640 two or three times where we were like I never 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:27.920 personally seriously considered it, and I'm sure she didn't even 0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:29.720 seriously consider it. But there were some things that we 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:32.280 had to work through that if we didn't really know 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:34.160 that we wanted to be together, we probably would have 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:35.640 just been like whatever, let's just send this. 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:36.000 You know. 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:39.040 But I think, yeah, yeah, so, But for me, I 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:41.040 knew the moment I talked about this in my vows, 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.320 actually the moment I fell in love with or not 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:45.200 fell in love, but the moment I knew or at 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:46.760 least like recognized that I was in love with her. 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:50.520