1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bacheler Happy Hour. 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 2: I'm Joe, and we are live at the Bachelor Mansion 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 2: for the iHeart event and we are here with Dean Kaylan. 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 3: Hello. 5 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 4: Hey, everybody, welcome to a Bachelor Happy Hour with Dean 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 4: and Kaylen. We're here at the Bachelor match. You just 7 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 4: did a. 8 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: Much better job than I did the match. 9 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 2: Okay, So for our listeners, I'm a little nervous. I'm 10 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 2: off my game because it's the first time I've been 11 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: back here since I got eliminated at night one. 12 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 1: And it was just terrible experience. 13 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, driving up in the van with Joe, it was 14 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 4: so funny to look back and see him because he 15 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:39,919 Speaker 4: was sweating. I've never seen a man so wet from 16 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 4: sweat before. Yeah, he was like last time I was 17 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 4: here to go so well for me. 18 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: So Dean's lying. We were not on the same season. 19 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 4: I wasn't there for the season. But it was rough. 20 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 4: It was rough. 21 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 5: Well, neither fun Bag, neither Joe or I have ever 22 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 5: spent a night at the Bachelor Mansion because I was 23 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 5: COVID season. So we filmed at Nemacollin and Joe went 24 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 5: home night one. 25 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 6: So you didn't spend the night here either. 26 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 7: Interesting and you two made it what you guys were 27 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 7: both we were both dumped after they met our families. 28 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 6: What does that say? 29 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 3: Not good situations you guys. 30 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 4: I got to say, though, as far as the place 31 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 4: you can get dumped, it might be the best because 32 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 4: you can placate the blame and be like, it's not 33 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 4: my fault, it's I left after hometown. But you like, 34 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 4: you left on your own accord. 35 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I did leave on my own accord, but same 36 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 5: same timeline. 37 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, there you go. 38 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 3: That's a better way to leave. 39 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 4: And you did kind of spend a night because you 40 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 4: probably didn't get dumped until like six am. 41 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 1: It was like eight. It was like eight am. 42 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I remember I was standing outside and I 43 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 2: was interviewing, and I think they wanted me to cry, 44 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 2: and I was like, guys, I'm not going to cry. 45 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 1: There's no way I'm going to cry. And then I 46 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: left and I was so depressed. 47 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 3: And then he cried, and then it. 48 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: Was Saint Patrick's day in Chicago, so I went out. 49 00:01:58,000 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 3: That's a good thing to come home to. 50 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 6: Is like something fun. I feel like after going home, 51 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 6: is your. 52 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 4: Buddy's like rib you a bunch, because you probably would 53 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 4: be like i'll be going, I'll be back in a 54 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 4: month or two, and you're back the next day. 55 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 2: I remember when I called my friend Eddie and his 56 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 2: wife answered. She's like, oh my god, Joe, I got 57 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 2: said home fucking night one. 58 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,399 Speaker 4: But it's so crazy because knowing you, like you're you're 59 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 4: so handsome, and you're so charismatic and outgoing, and you're 60 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 4: you're like, we got to talk to Becca, if we 61 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,679 Speaker 4: could call her, but it has been something that you like, 62 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 4: something must have happened. 63 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 7: Well, we were just in the living room and he's like, 64 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 7: I stood right here and I said, no words, and. 65 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 3: That's that was the problem. 66 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 2: Well, I when I stepped out of Limmo, I just 67 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: I couldn't speak. And I walked up to her and 68 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:47,959 Speaker 2: I couldn't speak, but I was but words were coming 69 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 2: out of my mouth, but nothing made sense. 70 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 4: It was all over the place. 71 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: And then I was just like, hey, I'm super nervous. 72 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: And then I just walked inside. But if she's like, 73 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 1: this guy's so weird. 74 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 4: If you came up to me and didn't say a word, like, yeah, 75 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:08,399 Speaker 4: he's making it to my top five, no question, But yeah, Okay, enough, 76 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 4: enough about me, Let's stop talking about me. 77 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 3: Oh that's the first time Jesse ever said that. 78 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 2: That's not true, even though we did fan question yesterday 79 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 2: and I feel like I was really killing it. 80 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 6: You were doing a great job. 81 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 4: All right, guys. 82 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 1: How was How was the wedding? How was wedding planning? 83 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: Who handled it? 84 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 7: Oh? 85 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 4: Me? Yeah, well yeah, yeah you did. You did a 86 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 4: lot of the work. We had great wedding planners. 87 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 7: Great wedding planners. I came up with a lot of ideas. 88 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 7: But I was talking to someone today and she's like, 89 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 7: your wedding looked beautiful. It was like, honestly, I had 90 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 7: no idea how it was going to look like. We 91 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 7: kind of went into it blind in terms of how 92 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 7: they were going to decorate it, and they brought my 93 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 7: pitch sport to life. So I'm super happy with that. 94 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 5: We were kind of the same, like we had shown 95 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 5: us like photos like flowers and signs. We're like, yeah, sure, 96 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 5: like looks great, like whatever. We just kind of had 97 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 5: like an overall vibe and vision that we wanteds Like 98 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 5: walking in and seeing it for the first time, you're. 99 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 4: Like, whoa, yeah, it's and even not being as included 100 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 4: in the planning process. For me seeing it for the 101 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 4: first time, it felt like I was like a guest 102 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 4: at my own wedding. It was awesome. We would do 103 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 4: something and then we go to the section that we 104 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 4: just left and it was completely different. I'd be like, 105 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 4: holy cow, this is amazing, and it was just so 106 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 4: cool because I'm like, oh, everyone's here for me and Kaylin. 107 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 4: But like I'm also being surprised every time I go 108 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 4: to the next event for whatever it is, you know, 109 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 4: So it was really fun from that aspect for me. 110 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:34,599 Speaker 3: Any bad surprises, no, no, yes, there's a bad surprise somewhere. 111 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 7: Yeah. I was recapping the serena. There was like not 112 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 7: a bad surprise. Everything was perfect. Everything was seamless. But 113 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 7: you know, if people get drunk and make mistakes, and 114 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 7: there was a mistake that happened tough. 115 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 4: It was tough because we had like a certain bed limit. 116 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 4: There was like seventy eight beds on the property that 117 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 4: everyone was staying at, and every bed was accounted for. 118 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 4: Is that what we're referring to? And there was one 119 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 4: night where like one of the beds that was allocated 120 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 4: to Kaylin's family got took by another guest that was 121 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 4: like maybe partying too hard or something like that, and 122 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 4: so I just turned into this thing of like that 123 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 4: bed didn't belong to them and it was just one 124 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 4: of those situations. 125 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: Okay, do you do you think that you would have 126 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: Would you have been okay without having a wedding? 127 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, one hundred percent. You guys did the courthouse thing. Yeah, 128 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 4: I would have loved that. 129 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: I would have been okay with not having a wedding. 130 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:22,839 Speaker 1: But I will say, you're looking to be crazy. 131 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 6: No, No, I know what you're gonna say. 132 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: I loved our wedding. I actually really enjoyed it. I 133 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 1: think like going away for a week the way we 134 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: did was so much fun. 135 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 4: Right, And I say I say that too, But the 136 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 4: wedding weekend was the best weekend of my life, like, 137 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 4: no questions asked, No, you hands down. Uh. So with that, 138 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 4: with the hindsight of that, I would say like, I'm 139 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 4: glad that we had the wedding and I'm glad that 140 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 4: we were able to do all that and celebrate with everyone. 141 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 4: But if you asked me before the wedding, I'd be like, no, 142 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 4: let's just go to the courthouse right now and just 143 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 4: sign the paperwork and just be husband and wife. Yeah, 144 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 4: but there's something so special about like your everyone's there 145 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 4: for you, guys. Everyone's are celebrating your love. And what 146 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 4: I love too is like when I go to a 147 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 4: party and I feel socially awkward because I'm like talking 148 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 4: to someone in a corner that I don't really know 149 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 4: that well. It doesn't happen at a wedding because you 150 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 4: know everyone there so well, and so you don't get 151 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 4: pulled into these random conversations that you don't really want 152 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 4: to be part of. 153 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, but I like that a lot. Very special. Yeah, 154 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 7: that was the best moment for you, guys. 155 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 6: That's hard, you know what, Actually I do know the 156 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 6: best moment. 157 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 5: I was very I wasn't stressed in like a oh 158 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 5: my god, everything has to go perfect way. I was 159 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 5: just really nervous the day of the wedding, like there's 160 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 5: a lot of emotions flowing. You kind of want to 161 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 5: like check everything off the list, like you gotta do 162 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 5: the vows, and you got to do the speech and 163 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 5: like all of these things. We finished our speech. We 164 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 5: finished our speech with a shot with wells and the 165 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 5: relief I felt in that moment of just like Oh 166 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 5: my gosh, this day has been so perfect and I 167 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 5: can like just enjoy it now and like there's nothing 168 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 5: on the to do list anymore. We did the first dance, 169 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 5: like all the things have been checked off and we 170 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 5: can just party with our friends. 171 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 6: Was an amazing feeling I got. 172 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 4: I got to say too, sorry before you go, you're 173 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 4: the thing that you posted about your vows, That's what 174 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 4: it was. Legitimately the funniest thing I've ever heard of 175 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 4: my entire life. So I did he come up with that? 176 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 4: That's so good? 177 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: That for so okay? So I I was once that joke. 178 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: I was just worried. 179 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 2: I was like, I just want to I just want 180 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 2: this joke to land, because if it doesn't land, I'm 181 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 2: gonna look like there's there's no way around that. It's 182 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 2: gonna be where it's gonna be awkward. When we when 183 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 2: we decided we were gonna get married, and then we're like, 184 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, why don't we ask Walls? I think that 185 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 2: would be really special. We'd love it to be him, 186 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 2: like he's been part of my journey basically the whole time. 187 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 2: And then when he said yes, I think I came 188 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 2: up with that joke. And that's that was a year 189 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 2: before our wedding. I came up with that joke right 190 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 2: after I asked him, and I was sitting in the 191 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 2: living room. I'm like, oh, that would be so funny. 192 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 4: And I wrote it, nailed it, and I gotta say too. 193 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 4: It put a lot of pressure on me because you 194 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 4: guys got married like a week or two before. Yeah, 195 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 4: and I saw you. I saw you post that, and 196 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 4: I was like, Okay, I gotta do something. I gotta 197 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 4: get a laugh out of the crowd somehow because it 198 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 4: was so good and I loved it. I loved it 199 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 4: so much as just even like watching it on social 200 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 4: media and I, yeah, it was just so funny. 201 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 6: That's so funny. 202 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 5: Because I had a few people be like, how did 203 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 5: you feel about that joke? Because your reaction you were 204 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 5: kind of like I couldn't really tell about your reaction. 205 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 5: I was like, no, I knew this joke was coming. 206 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 5: I didn't have a reaction because I had heard it 207 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 5: for three hundred and sixty five days, so there was 208 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 5: just no like practic shock value on my end. Like 209 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 5: he asked me if it was, it was like, totally fine. 210 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 2: I wish I didn't ask you but I just felt 211 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 2: like if you would have been upset about that, it 212 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 2: could have ruined like your special moment, and then I 213 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 2: would have felt. 214 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 5: No, I'm glad you asked me. I think it allowed 215 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 5: me to like go into it like not thinking you 216 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 5: were talking about me. I think I still would have laughed, 217 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 5: but like, it's just hard to know how you're going 218 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 5: to feel in that moment. 219 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 1: Did you You guys had a tattoo artist at your wedding, Yeah, 220 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: you did. 221 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 7: We went back and forth for a while, but the 222 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 7: guy he gave me my very first tattoo is like 223 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 7: right near Aspen and it was it completed our couple's 224 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 7: tattoo that Dean got two years before, and so I'm like, 225 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 7: it's kind of perfect, and he was available. 226 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 4: Matt completed though completed. 227 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 7: He gave me the airplane. 228 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, that's right. So yeah, So on like 229 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:21,079 Speaker 4: our fifth day or something, we were like, let's get 230 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 4: matching tattoos. So stupid, don't recommend it. If you're listening 231 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 4: to this one, don't do it. So we were like, Okay, 232 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 4: I'll get a paraschooter and you can get an airplane 233 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,079 Speaker 4: because I like to skydive, and she likes to travel, 234 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 4: so it kind of worked out and I go and 235 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 4: I go first and get. 236 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 7: Matching matching where it was like each other, but his 237 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 7: parachute guy is supposed to be jumping out of my plane. 238 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 3: But they can be their own things. 239 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 4: And we wanted, you know, she had zero tattoos at 240 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 4: this point, and so I go and get my little 241 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 4: parachuter guy and she's like, I'm not getting a tattoo. 242 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,319 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I'm like, what the are you talking about. 243 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,439 Speaker 7: So a week prior, he took me skydiving and I 244 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,079 Speaker 7: did the airplane. I went up in the airplane and 245 00:09:58,120 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 7: then I just stood there. 246 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: You ever have you ever just a year later with friends, 247 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: now with me, I've done, I've skytied. 248 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 4: It's great experience. 249 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:06,719 Speaker 1: I hate it. 250 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 4: I hate every second. I hate. It's a bad experience. 251 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 3: Wait you didn't. 252 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: I hate it all the way up and then all 253 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 1: when I got down. I got down, I liked. I 254 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:17,959 Speaker 1: was like a twelve year old. I threw a fit 255 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 1: like I was like this is horrible, Like I'm nauseous. 256 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:21,719 Speaker 4: I hated it. 257 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,559 Speaker 1: It was scary. I'll never do this again. 258 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 4: I have not. 259 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 5: My dad would never talk to and my parents were 260 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 5: pretty relaxed parents. They didn't have like major, major rules 261 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 5: growing up, but that was one of the like rules 262 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 5: was like nothing with extreme heights, and I don't feel 263 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 5: like passionate about it in any way that I would 264 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 5: like my dad. 265 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 3: Would like kill me. 266 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not worth it. 267 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 3: No, it's not worth it. 268 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 5: Like I was like, no, I feel called to jump 269 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 5: out of a plane, like sure, but like I just 270 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 5: don't feel that way at all, So I'll stick with ground. 271 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 4: That's fair. Yeah, but you just jump yourself. Yeah, yeah, 272 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 4: I've got like one hundred jumps or something like that. 273 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 7: I did. 274 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,320 Speaker 3: I did. I forget what it's called, but I did. 275 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 5: Like the skydiving simulators though, like in a in a tunnel, Yeah, 276 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 5: in a tunnel. 277 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's how you you practice doing that before you jump, 278 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 4: so that way you don't get all distorted in the air. 279 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 3: That was cool. 280 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: Any scary moments, I've. 281 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 4: Got like line twists, but it's pretty standard where you 282 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 4: like you open your parachute and the lines get all 283 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 4: twisted and you're just like spinning around and you're like, Okay, 284 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 4: I guess I'm gonna die, But then it straightened out 285 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 4: and you're fine. 286 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 7: Also, for your thirtieth birthday. Wasn't it your thirtieth birthday 287 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 7: where I push you out? 288 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? 289 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was scary. 290 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 4: She pushed me out of a hot air balloon for 291 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 4: my thirtieth birthday, and she shoved me way harder than 292 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 4: I was expecting. I did tell her to shove me. 293 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:41,439 Speaker 7: As pushed me as hard as you can, as hard 294 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 7: as you possibly can. 295 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 4: Pushed him so hard she pushed me. And the thing 296 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 4: about a hot air balloon versus an airplane. Airplanes going 297 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 4: one hundred miles an hour, so you have instant wind resistance, 298 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 4: but out of a hot air balloon, you're zero miles 299 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 4: an hour, and so it takes time for the wind 300 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 4: it kick you, and so like you can orient it 301 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 4: your body accordingly, and so I like was just flipping 302 00:11:58,440 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 4: and flipping, and I was like, when am I going 303 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 4: to stop flipping? Because there's nothing you can do about it. 304 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 4: And so eventually you like straighten out and figured it out. 305 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 4: There was one time we're getting really off topic here 306 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 4: about sky fine. It was one time in Alaska. So 307 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 4: we were skydiving under the Nali in Alaska. It was amazing. 308 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 4: We were taking this this seaplane, Sessna up to like 309 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,079 Speaker 4: seven or eight thousand feet and jumping out of it 310 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 4: over this frozen lake. It was the best experience of 311 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:23,080 Speaker 4: my life. And we would open the door and crawl 312 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 4: out onto the float of the cessna to like stand 313 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 4: on the float for a little bit before we jumped, 314 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 4: just for the experience. But the door going one hundred 315 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 4: miles an hour, it doesn't open, and like you can't 316 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 4: get out, especially with a skydiving rig on your back, 317 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 4: and so you get like snagged on your way out. 318 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 4: And so I was like trying to get my way 319 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 4: out of this door and I couldn't. And then I 320 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 4: get out finally, and the door like slams into me 321 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 4: and pushes me off the plane, and so I have 322 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,319 Speaker 4: to like run backwards on the float. And there's like 323 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:50,079 Speaker 4: a tail rotor or whatever you want to call it 324 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 4: on an airplane, and so you have to like if 325 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 4: that thing hits you, you're you're probably going to get decapitated. 326 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,839 Speaker 4: And somehow I squeaked between it, and it was in 327 00:12:57,920 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 4: the moment like I didn't realize what had happened, but 328 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 4: looking back the footage, I was like, oh, that definitely 329 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 4: could have been the end of my life. 330 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:04,319 Speaker 2: All right, I'm going to bring this thing back to 331 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 2: Bachelor in Paradise, a question that you guys have probably answered. 332 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 1: I just want to know for myself. When you guys 333 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: left Paradise, how long after did you know it was 334 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: gonna work. 335 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, we got to ask this in a fan question. 336 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:23,199 Speaker 1: And yeah, actually answered this before. But it was like 337 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,599 Speaker 1: a moment where you're like, oh, this is this might go. 338 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,079 Speaker 4: I mean we've talked about it to ourselves, but I 339 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 4: don't know where we talked about it. 340 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 7: I probably knew sooner than Dean did, way sooner, and 341 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 7: of like, going into the relationship, I thought it was 342 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 7: going to end, like I because he dumped me on Paradise. 343 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 7: I was like, yeah, it's probably just gonna happen again. 344 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 7: This isn't going to last. And then as a relationship 345 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 7: progressed and as we kind of grew together, it took 346 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 7: a couple months where I was like, wait, actually, maybe 347 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:48,839 Speaker 7: this could work. 348 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 4: Come on, you knew it was going to work. The 349 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 4: day that we left the Chance. 350 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 7: I was so scared of you. I was like, he's 351 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 7: going to break break up with me again. So I 352 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 7: detached myself a little bit. 353 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, but you knew that you were like. 354 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 6: If he was willing you, you were well, yeah, okay, 355 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 6: the distance. 356 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 1: Between you guys as far as like geography, where did 357 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: you lived in Venice? 358 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 4: Okay, was living in event Yeah yeah, but station out 359 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 4: of Venice, I guess, so we were. 360 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 7: Close out of my apartment. 361 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 3: Yeahway, what about. 362 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 4: Uh we had her speed bumps in the beginning of 363 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 4: the relationship. We never did, so come on, bumps. 364 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: It's actually been perfect our whole, our whole know, we 365 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: did we did her. Her family was really. 366 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 6: Struggled with the speed and usualness of it all. 367 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 5: But internally, just in the relationship, no external factors, we 368 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 5: did not have any speed. 369 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 4: Bumps, which was crazy. 370 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 3: Which was crazy. 371 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,479 Speaker 6: We were like, this is like they've been waiting. 372 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 4: For it to come right, speaks of the engagement is fast. Yeah, 373 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 4: but you guys still took your time to get married. 374 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 4: I feel like the engagement is just like a precursor 375 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 4: to like now we're kind of dating with this, like. 376 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 5: But we also had a different country aspect, we had 377 00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 5: like the age gap. 378 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 379 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 2: But I always said, even when we got engage, I 380 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 2: was like when we went to the hotel the next 381 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 2: day and I was like, I'm taking this serious, but 382 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 2: like we could break up. 383 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not like we're not like bound to each 384 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 5: other after just because we did this, but we knew 385 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 5: like ten days after leaving. 386 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 4: I think, so, Yeah, there were some times that we 387 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 4: might have broken up in the beginning stages, Like in 388 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 4: the first six months, there was probably like two times, 389 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 4: two or three times where we were like I never 390 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 4: personally seriously considered it, and I'm sure she didn't even 391 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 4: seriously consider it. But there were some things that we 392 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 4: had to work through that if we didn't really know 393 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 4: that we wanted to be together, we probably would have 394 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 4: just been like whatever, let's just send this. 395 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 1: You know. 396 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 4: But I think, yeah, yeah, so, But for me, I 397 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 4: knew the moment I talked about this in my vows, 398 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 4: actually the moment I fell in love with or not 399 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 4: fell in love, but the moment I knew or at 400 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 4: least like recognized that I was in love with her. 401 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 4: I was on a ski trip in the Lasalles and 402 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 4: southern Utah and we were like skinning up this huge 403 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 4: mountain and skiing down it my brother's bachelor party. It 404 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 4: was amazing, and we were all sleeping in this like 405 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 4: little yur like ten of us and we were doing uh, 406 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 4: we were just like drinking a lot and maybe a 407 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 4: little bit mushrooms. I don't know if you guys can 408 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 4: air that, so. 409 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 3: Like probably not, So. 410 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 1: It is a little bit. 411 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 4: It wasn't like it wasn't a dramatic dose. But I 412 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 4: remember it was like three am and We're going to 413 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 4: bed and I'm like laying there. There's no cell phone 414 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 4: reception or anything, and I like just didn't feel comfortable 415 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 4: laying down. I was like sleeping on the floor and 416 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 4: I just like couldn't go to sleep. And so the 417 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 4: only thing that I could do to think, to like 418 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 4: put myself at ease or my comfort myself was to 419 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 4: scroll through photos of us and our dog and like 420 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 4: her and like that brought me back to earth. And 421 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 4: so that was kind of I woke up the next 422 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 4: morning and I was like, oh shit, I love this girl. 423 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 7: Yeah. Also, you were so jaded by all of the 424 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 7: previous relationships. 425 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 4: Oh I'm so try, I have so many and you 426 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 4: were like, I. 427 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 7: Absolutely will never get into another bachelor relationship again. 428 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 4: And then yeah, yeah, I said that. 429 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 2: I said that too, honestly. When we saw when you 430 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 2: guys came down for our season, Oh, yeah, that like 431 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 2: you guys. 432 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 3: Were our engagement. Yeah, I was there that Actually sometimes. 433 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 2: When I first saw you guys, that like like calmed 434 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 2: me down like that actually like really helped me, Like 435 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:15,360 Speaker 2: oh my god, like yeah, that's they're cool and they're 436 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 2: normal and this actually that kind of like is like 437 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 2: I remember, I was like, Okay, I'm not. 438 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 7: You're not. 439 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 6: Because at the moment, you're like, am I so crazy 440 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 6: right now? 441 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 5: I mean, you guys didn't get engaged, but still like 442 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 5: you were together and love and you're like you're so 443 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:33,199 Speaker 5: disconnected from the outside world and you're just like, am 444 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 5: I just. 445 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 6: In this bubble for sure? And I'm going to leave 446 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:39,399 Speaker 6: and be like whoa? So yeah, I do agree. 447 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 5: Like seeing you guys, it was like okay, no, no, no, 448 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 5: like I'm not totally insane like people other people have done. 449 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:46,640 Speaker 1: This too, and you guys are why this has. 450 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 4: I gotta say too. I don't so I don't know 451 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 4: Joe super well, but I do remember seeing him the 452 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 4: day after you guys got engaged, and I went up 453 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 4: to him and I was like, so, how are you feeling? 454 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 4: And he looked at me down in the eye and 455 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 4: he goes, Honestly, I've never felt bet like he's He 456 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 4: was so confident. I was like, because you know, you 457 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 4: and I are kind of in the same pathway of 458 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 4: like we haven't had success relationships and so we're little cautious. 459 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: We're right next to each other in seasons, like one 460 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: then the other. 461 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 4: Right like you're always a step behind, so it's not 462 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 4: that big. But yes, but yes, And I remember you 463 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 4: looked at me and you were so confident and so composed, 464 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 4: and You're like, I one hundred percent confident in what 465 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 4: I just did, And I was like, oh shit, I 466 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 4: was not expecting to know that. 467 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 7: Remember at breakfast too, like seeing the couples that got engaged, 468 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:31,719 Speaker 7: and like the way that they interacted and the way 469 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:34,159 Speaker 7: that you guys interacted was like super sweet, and you. 470 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 4: Were like, yeah, you guys at breakfast, Yeah, like IU 471 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 4: and downing every single couple. 472 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 3: We were judging everyone. 473 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:43,399 Speaker 7: And the way that you like skipped away and and 474 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 7: JA like you've been down and kissed your forehead or something. 475 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 7: It was cute. 476 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 4: It was pretty clear from us to see that, like, 477 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 4: you guys were definitely in love. 478 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:50,200 Speaker 3: Except the engagement. 479 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 7: And we've told you guys this where we thought you 480 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 7: were going to break up with her watching because we 481 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 7: didn't have. 482 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 3: Like his body language sucks. 483 00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 7: I was. 484 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 1: I was panicking because I was like, what is in 485 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: I had get? 486 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 2: I was confident because I had given it so much 487 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 2: thought because we do have a large age gap. And 488 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 2: I was just like I don't want, like I don't 489 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:14,679 Speaker 2: want to fuck someone's life up because I'm reckless hair. 490 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 2: So I really wanted to make sure that I was 491 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 2: super confident. But when I was standing there, I was 492 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 2: I was panicking. 493 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 5: Well, I I'm so glad you said like you said 494 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,159 Speaker 5: that his body language was bad, because I'm reading my 495 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:36,960 Speaker 5: speech that you've prepared to like. 496 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 1: Pour your they just dropped my accent. I didn't know that. 497 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,879 Speaker 5: I didn't know that obviously, So I'm like poor in 498 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 5: my heart, I think it's this like fun, beautiful day. 499 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 5: He's not looking at me, he's sweating, he's fidgeting. 500 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 6: I think I was sweating so bad any other situation. 501 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 6: But I was just like so thrown off. I didn't 502 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 6: know what to do. I would have stopped him and 503 00:19:58,480 --> 00:19:59,360 Speaker 6: like are you good? 504 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 5: Like I can sitder, stopping my speech multiple times to 505 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 5: be like do you want to look at me? 506 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 3: Like are we Okay, are you breaking up with me? 507 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:06,479 Speaker 6: Like what is happening? 508 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 5: Like I'm getting terrible, terrible energy from me right now 509 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 5: and I'm trying to like pour my heart out like 510 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:14,239 Speaker 5: this is this is not a great moment. And then 511 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 5: once you went, I was like, this is all pieces together. 512 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:18,719 Speaker 5: I understand what's happening now. 513 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 4: It was from our perspective because we didn't hear anything. 514 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 4: All we could do. 515 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,639 Speaker 6: It sucks that they didn't give you guys any like 516 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 6: headphones or anything. 517 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:28,880 Speaker 4: Right, So the whole time, we're like, we're pretending, like nope, 518 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 4: and I'm talking for Joe and she's talking for you. 519 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we were. 520 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 7: We were pretending you know what you guys were saying 521 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 7: down on a knee and we're like, oh my, And 522 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 7: he's like, I'm sorry, Serena. 523 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 3: Wait, I'm now. 524 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 4: Going to propose I agree like the whole bringing, you know, 525 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 4: not to dole on that, but up bringing like the 526 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 4: X thing down is that's what. 527 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 7: Wait, so you didn't know you were speaking and then 528 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 7: he didn't tell you until he started speaking. 529 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's how he started starting. 530 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:57,879 Speaker 1: I started and said, I want to let you know 531 00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 1: my ex was just here. 532 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,359 Speaker 5: Usually I would have been like, you didn't need to 533 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 5: tell me in that moment, But he actually did need 534 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:06,639 Speaker 5: to tell me that moment because he was acting so 535 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 5: bizarre that that. But at the time that gave me 536 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 5: enough of a reason to be like, okay, he's not 537 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:16,000 Speaker 5: breaking up with me. 538 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 3: And then when you propose, I was like, oh no, 539 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 3: this is why you're acting. You are ringing in. 540 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 6: Your back pocket. 541 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 2: I'm socially awkward and I'm nervous and I'm I have 542 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 2: a ring in my pocket. 543 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 1: I don't know if you're going to say yes, it 544 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 1: was brutal. Okay, let's talk about back to you guys. 545 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 4: In three days believing for Tanzania. 546 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, how long? 547 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 7: Like a week and half? 548 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 4: Yeah? Like eight days, eight nine days. It actually worked 549 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:45,199 Speaker 4: out incredibly well. So we've been planning this. I tell 550 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 4: a story and every time I tell it, you get 551 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 4: you always give me a look as if I shouldn't 552 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 4: be telling it. 553 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 7: Well because you tell it weird? 554 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 4: Do you want to tell it? No? You tell So 555 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 4: we always wanted to do a sofar in Africa, whether 556 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 4: it be like start in South Africa and go somewhere else, 557 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 4: go to Tanzania, whatever it might be. But it's tough 558 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,199 Speaker 4: to get out there on a budget. And I love 559 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 4: traveling on a budget. She is a little bit more. 560 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:13,639 Speaker 4: You like to travel comfort, I like luxury. You like comfort, comfort, 561 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 4: and I I don't. 562 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 3: Also like luxury, Kalan. 563 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 4: And so it's hard for us to travel. Not hard, 564 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 4: but we always have disagreements. She wants to apply first class. 565 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 4: I want to be in the cheapest seat forward first class. No, 566 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 4: no one can. I don't even understand how they price 567 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 4: those first class tickets. This is crazy, is crazy, it's sane. 568 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 4: It's like legitimately insane. So we wanted to do a 569 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 4: honeymoon in South Africa, uh, and we were talking about 570 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 4: it for a long time, but then we wanted to 571 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 4: buy a house in Colorado, and so we're like, well, 572 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,680 Speaker 4: for buying a house, we can't afford a honeymoon. And 573 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,120 Speaker 4: so it was just going to be like this weird 574 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 4: back and forth and then eventually National Geographic reach out 575 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 4: to us and they're like, we're going to lead a 576 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,399 Speaker 4: trip to Tanzania for a safari. Do you guys want 577 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 4: to come or does Dean want to come? And I 578 00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 4: was like, yeah, one hundred percent, can my wife come 579 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 4: with me? And they're like yeah, one hundred and so 580 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 4: it was this weird thing where like we wanted to 581 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 4: go there, we were going to pay for a trip 582 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 4: out there, and then. 583 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 7: That's exact dates we were going to go to Namibia 584 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 7: and then Tanzania is is fairly is it north just north, 585 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 7: it's like northeast of South Africa. Yeah, yeah, well Namibia 586 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 7: is a different country. 587 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 4: I thought you're talking about. 588 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 7: But it was just crazy. It's like exactly what we wanted. 589 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, and so and and they were like, well fly 590 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,199 Speaker 4: first class and I was like, yeah, this is our 591 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 4: Honeymoon's amazing to go. 592 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 7: With like all of these insane photographers that nat Geo 593 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 7: deems incredible photographers, is going to be so cool for 594 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,399 Speaker 7: us to learn from me, especially because I'm not as 595 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 7: good as Deem. 596 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:34,719 Speaker 4: But that's not true at all. 597 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 7: Oh, it's very true. But I'm excited. I think it's 598 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 7: going to be a cool So. 599 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 4: Yes to your question, We're going on our honeymoon in 600 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 4: three days to Tanzania. 601 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's amazing. 602 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 1: We went. We went to Italy. Oh nice, I wish 603 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 1: we would have did something like Africa, I don't. 604 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 3: Know, Florence, and then like it was the country really. 605 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,880 Speaker 7: Is the perfect like Como Tuscany. 606 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 4: We did an Italy trip year or two ago and 607 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 4: it was maybe the best tape of our lives. 608 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 7: For me is oh, it's so beautiful. 609 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 4: Yes, it might be the coolest place I've ever been to. 610 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 7: Ive it's our favorite place, I think it since we 611 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 7: stayed at the bougie hotel? 612 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 3: Did you say that entirely? 613 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 7: In Tuscany the Mandarin or we stayed at the Mandarin 614 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 7: in like come. 615 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 4: Video. It was great? Is that what you say? 616 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 5: No, we said nice, but we wanna we want to 617 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,680 Speaker 5: like stay at the Mandrain and it looks really nice. 618 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 7: And then in Tuscany it was our friend's birthday and 619 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 7: her her dream was to go to Belmont and they 620 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,880 Speaker 7: just have beautiful We say you stay at the Yeah, 621 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 7: really went so much on the hotel room. 622 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:48,119 Speaker 6: Yeah, where. 623 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: The castle, Yeah that's the one. 624 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's where Kim Kardashian was proposed to. 625 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 3: Kim Kardashian and Justin. 626 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 7: Like this is the place where no, Justin proposed to 627 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 7: Haley out of Belmont, but not that Belmont. 628 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 4: Yeah. We got there as my friend's birthday and his 629 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 4: mom covered their room and all that stuff, and we 630 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,679 Speaker 4: get there and we didn't have a reservation. I was like, hey, 631 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 4: can we get a room for the night like our 632 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 4: friend's birthdays tonight and they're like, yeah, we only that 633 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 4: credit card. I only have sweets available, and I was like, okay, 634 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 4: how much is that? And it was like two grand 635 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:24,879 Speaker 4: or something night at a hotel. It was crazy. It 636 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 4: was one night. 637 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:29,399 Speaker 7: It was one night, but it was the best of 638 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 7: my life. And we did a cooking class there. It 639 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,879 Speaker 7: was it was the latest hotel we've ever stayed at. 640 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 3: It was incredible, and it was our honeymoon. 641 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 5: So we were like, we're going for three nights for 642 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 5: a ball and honestly, we really enjoyed it. 643 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 7: It was amazing. Again, it was one night, and to 644 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 7: have all of your wealthy friends standing there as you 645 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 7: like hear the the number, You're like, yeah, just wipe 646 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 7: my card. 647 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:54,880 Speaker 4: Was a little so yeah, yeah, yeah. This shadows looking 648 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:55,720 Speaker 4: right in the eyes. 649 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 3: And I were just standing there staring, are you going 650 00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 3: to do it? 651 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,200 Speaker 4: You're actually right? We were fear. Pressure was pressure at least, 652 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 4: like Chad was looking at me and I was like, 653 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 4: Chad's gonna think so much lesson, don't do. 654 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:07,760 Speaker 3: This down the street. 655 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 4: I was going to sleep. 656 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:16,120 Speaker 2: All right, well, I can't wait to see your photos 657 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,120 Speaker 2: and your videos from your honeymoon. I have to wrap 658 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:22,119 Speaker 2: the podcast because we are out of time, but Dean Caitlin, 659 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 2: thank you guys so much for coming on. 660 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 1: We really appreciate it. 661 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks so much. You want to plug your podcast? 662 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,639 Speaker 7: No, okay, thank you so much for having us on 663 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 7: your Make sure you listen to Hope we suck it. 664 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 3: No, no, no, there's no reason don't listen to. 665 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 4: We're just having you guys. Have a nice day. Bye bye.