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Speaker 1: First Date of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Andrew is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Kylie. He has

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Speaker 2: no idea why, So in a minute, we're gonna call

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Speaker 2: her and see she'll tell us why she's ghosting him.

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Speaker 2: But first, how long has it been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Kylie?

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Speaker 1: Andrew?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been it's been a it's been a little

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Speaker 3: it's been a little while. But I don't know, I'm

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Speaker 3: kind of like, I'm kind of sad that, you know,

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Speaker 3: she's not calling me back. I don't know, I that

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Speaker 3: we had to look a really really good time and

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Speaker 3: it just goes gonna be like a child and just

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Speaker 3: like stray up ghost me. You know, I'm gonna I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna have to call her out on the show.

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Speaker 1: You know, Okay, Okay, he's ready to do this.

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Speaker 4: Don't ghost on, Andrew, Well, why don't we back up

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Speaker 4: to before you got ghosted and tell us about what

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Speaker 4: your date was like with Kylie.

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Speaker 3: We went to dinner. First dinner was pretty good, and

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Speaker 3: we played a mini golf afterwards, and then we played

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Speaker 3: you don't want some of our arcade games.

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Speaker 1: What did you guys like talk about and stuff?

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Speaker 3: You know, we just talked about life and you know,

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Speaker 3: and pass relationships and stuff. And yeah, I just I

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Speaker 3: don't know. I don't I really don't know what happened.

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Speaker 3: I think it might be like something like I don't

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Speaker 3: know if I'm like too good for her, or maybe

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I was a little too competitive on

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Speaker 3: the games or something. I'm not sure, Like I don't

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Speaker 3: I think I was a little overly competitive when playing games,

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Speaker 3: but I'm not I don't think.

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Speaker 2: So she said that you like, you want to call

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Speaker 2: her out for ghosting you, But do you want a

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Speaker 2: second day too? Or you just want to call her

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Speaker 2: out for ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: I kind of both, but I'm kind of mad. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm kind of like, you know, I'm pretty sad that

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Speaker 3: she doesn't want to she's ghosting me, you know, like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know what happened, like it shouldn't. I think

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Speaker 3: she's just being a child right now, to be honest, Well,

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Speaker 3: what if.

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Speaker 4: Something like what if she has a legit reason? Andrew, Like,

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Speaker 4: what if I don't know she lost her phone or

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Speaker 4: she hasn't been feeling well you know. I mean, we

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Speaker 4: don't know what happened yet.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you could be right, But I don't know why

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Speaker 3: exactly that that she would. I doubt it's her phone.

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Speaker 3: I think she's like, you know, just being childish and

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Speaker 3: not being an adult, and she's not responding to me.

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Speaker 1: What was the last thing that she said to you?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: How did how did everything end with her?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: I wanted to play you know, golf, and she kind

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Speaker 3: of like seemed less interested the more we kept playing.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe she just didn't like a game

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Speaker 3: we're type of game we were playing, or like she

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Speaker 3: was tired, but she I wanted to keep playing and

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Speaker 3: she has zero interest.

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Speaker 4: Did she say something to you at that point, like

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Speaker 4: what was the last thing she said to you? Like

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Speaker 4: I just don't want to play golf?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and she's just like yeah, I'm good, you know,

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Speaker 3: and I'm just like okay, why, like we're having fun.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't sound like a good sign, Andrew, Yeah, it

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Speaker 4: sounds like she wasn't really having a good time.

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Speaker 3: Well at least she could like tell me that hey

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Speaker 3: I was at least, you know, when I called her

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Speaker 3: want to have a good time. That just say up

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Speaker 3: ghosts me?

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Speaker 1: And I mean she just didn't want to play golf.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean who doesn't like clean gold.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll see what she says.

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Speaker 2: Well, play a song, come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you,

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Speaker 2: and maybe get you another date if you still want one,

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Speaker 2: with your first Day follow up coming up next.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, play a song, come back, get your.

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Speaker 2: First day follow up right after this if you're just

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Speaker 2: joining us for today's First Day follow up. Andrew is

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Speaker 2: on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Kylie. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call her see if she'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date

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Speaker 2: if he still wants one. But before we do that, Andrew,

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Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Kylie.

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Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, when I went Kylie, we had dinner, we

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Speaker 3: had we went to play some mini golf, we went

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Speaker 3: to play some arcade games. Think were going good? And yeah, now,

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Speaker 3: and I haven't heard from her, and I just think

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Speaker 3: I tried to contact her to you know, see how

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Speaker 3: childish in my opinion.

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Speaker 2: Okay, ready for us to call her and ask her

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Speaker 2: straight up why she'd go seeing you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, here we go. Man, Hello, I may

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Speaker 1: I speak to Kylie? Please?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? This is her.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Kylie? How are you? My name is Jewbell and

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Speaker 1: this is a radio show. It's called the Jewbell Show. Yeah, Kylie, Hi,

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Speaker 1: the show's here too. My name is Nina, and I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing.

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Speaker 5: I'm really good, but surprised you're calling me. I love you, guys.

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Speaker 5: What's up?

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Speaker 1: I'm sweet? Thank you? How much? We're chilling? We wanted

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Speaker 1: to call you because somebody emailed us about you?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 5: How about? What?

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Speaker 1: Well, it's somebody that you went on a date with.

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Speaker 5: Is this the first time?

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Speaker 3: Follow up?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: We got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting,

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Speaker 2: and they want to know why you're ghosting them. Do

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Speaker 2: you want to take a guess at who it is?

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm not really ghosting, but you probably are talking

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Speaker 5: about Andrew?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Correct? So what if not really ghosting? Mean?

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Speaker 5: Okay, so let me just recap our date for you.

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Speaker 5: He was a complete child the entire date. He's the

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Speaker 5: type of dude that's got to win at everything. We

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Speaker 5: went to one of those like arcade splash mini golf

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Speaker 5: type of activities, and by the third hole, he was whining,

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Speaker 5: like not teasing whining, but like genuinely whining that I

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Speaker 5: was beating him. And like I was like, okay, so

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Speaker 5: this guy is one of those guys that needs a

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Speaker 5: woman to be lesser than to feel like a man.

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Speaker 5: Forget it. I just started missing every hole, became super disinterested,

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Speaker 5: and by the end of the night, I told him like,

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Speaker 5: I'm not into this because you are like a child,

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Speaker 5: and the fact that he's so messaging me is on him.

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Speaker 5: I don't need to respond because I'm done. And I'm

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Speaker 5: sure he's listening because I know how these work. I

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Speaker 5: listen all the time. So Andrew, if you're listening, listen,

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Speaker 5: no hard feelings. But I'm just not interested. You already

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Speaker 5: know that. You just stop messaging me.

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Speaker 3: You are like wow, like wow, I can't mean what

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Speaker 3: you're saying. It's like so untrue, and like you're telling

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Speaker 3: everyone that you're pretty much just a sore loser and

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Speaker 3: you don't know how to story take a loss, and

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Speaker 3: this is how you react to taking a loss.

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Speaker 5: Uh, huh sure. So the issue is not that I lost,

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Speaker 5: it's that I had to pretend to lose because you

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Speaker 5: have such a fragile ego, or.

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Speaker 3: You just don't know how to have fun and just lose. Well,

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Speaker 3: so you sti't know how to have fun. Just admit

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Speaker 3: you lost, and that's it. We were having fun, we

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm sure. All right. Sounds good Andrew. We'll just

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Speaker 5: leave that story in your head if you can just

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Speaker 5: move on.

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Speaker 3: I want my lava lamp back, by the way that

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Speaker 3: I won you, Okay, I would I want my lava

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Speaker 3: lamp back.

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Speaker 5: Now you've had that three ninety nine or whatever it's worth,

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Speaker 5: gave it to my little baby brother. If you want it,

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Speaker 5: you'll have to fight the kids for it.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: That was way more than three ninety nine. That was

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Speaker 3: ten thousand tickets. Okay, show, but.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I love the double show. You guys are awesome.

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Speaker 5: But I'm done. I'm out by Wow. Oh so you

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Speaker 5: guys can hear him like, how childish is it to

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Speaker 5: argue over tickets? Like he wants something back that he

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Speaker 5: gave me that I already gave to my little brother.

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Speaker 5: It's so childish, like grow up. You are supposed to

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Speaker 3: You're just mad. You can't get the high score and

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Speaker 3: I give you all those tickets. You can't get any

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Speaker 3: tickets yourself. I get the high score, so you don't.

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Speaker 5: You lose.

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Speaker 3: You to accept your loser and have some fond and

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Speaker 3: get some tickets.

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Speaker 5: Yes, okay, heard, I'm a loser. Keeping the lava lamps.

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Speaker 3: As long as you admit it. As long as you

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Speaker 3: admit it that you that just don't make you lost.

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Speaker 3: You're just mad because I have one more than you,

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Speaker 3: and you and you gave away the lava lamp because

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Speaker 3: you're jealous of my victories.

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Speaker 5: You're right, dude, Listen, I'm so jealous and I lost

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Speaker 5: all the games, but I don't win at life because

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Speaker 5: I don't have you in my life anymore.

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Speaker 1: Andrew, are you for real? Like? Are you joking around?

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Speaker 3: She lost? Like she doesn't know how to have fun? Okay,

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Speaker 3: Like we were having a lot of fun and she

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know how to have fun. That's why

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Speaker 5: you're begging me for a second date. Makes a lot

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Speaker 3: I don't want to hang out.

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Speaker 5: With a loser anyway.

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Speaker 3: I like hangout with winners.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, let me just ask the question.

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Speaker 2: I know the answer. Would you like to go out

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Speaker 2: with Andrew again? Kylie will pay for it?

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Speaker 5: Definitely not.

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Speaker 1: Andrew. I'm sorry man, no second date there.

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I definitely don't want him. But if any

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Speaker 3: winners want to go in to play with me, well,

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Speaker 3: I've had every single Wednesday and if someone's too played

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Speaker 3: Keyball with me, let me know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hopefully you get some people shout ups, play skey

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Speaker 2: Ball and Kylie good luck, good luck with everything.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, guys.

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Speaker 4: Enjoy the Juble's first day follow up