WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update UPDATE: Brittany and Noah Update

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<v Speaker 1>date update, anybody's just tuning in and missed the show yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the most crazy second date we've ever done.

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<v Speaker 1>Do we call it a second second d I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Brittany email us for a second date, asking us basically

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<v Speaker 1>to call a guy that she hooked up with three

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<v Speaker 1>years ago and they had a baby together. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know about it because she left the state and was

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<v Speaker 1>forced by her parents and stuff not to say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So now she's got a two and a half year

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<v Speaker 1>old baby girl and the dude doesn't know. We called

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<v Speaker 1>him yesterday to try to get him to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date so that she could tell him in person,

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<v Speaker 1>which I applaud you for being brave enough to do that. Brittany.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. How did the date go, Brittany? Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, thank you so much for doing all

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<v Speaker 1>of this, and I know it's kind of I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke was like, I didn't really want to, so I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it. I want you to tell him I just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to do it on air. So I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>proud of it. I really am. I think that I

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<v Speaker 1>could not put myself in your shoes. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what you were feeling before you met Noah at a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant last night to drop the bomb on it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was pretty I was pretty nervous and my stomach

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<v Speaker 1>was doing summersaults, Like, how do you even pick an

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<v Speaker 1>outfit out for that? Yeah? Seriously, what is the correct

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<v Speaker 1>footwear for letting a dude know that he's got a

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<v Speaker 1>two and a half year old daughter? Yeah? I wore

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<v Speaker 1>a very very sweet dress back. Look in a sit.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you feel the moment you saw him he

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<v Speaker 1>walked in. You know, I hadn't seen him, I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>seen him for three years. Did he look happy to

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<v Speaker 1>see you? He looked kind of nervous too. At any point,

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<v Speaker 1>are you thinking I'm not going to do it, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to back out? I think probably every other thought.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you even hear a word he was saying while

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<v Speaker 1>you guys were dinner? Is that all you were thinking?

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<v Speaker 1>About like when is the right moment to drop that

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<v Speaker 1>bomb on him? Like every time I look him in

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<v Speaker 1>the eye, I had like two feelings. One was, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I guess I don't know what. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know abow to stand the radio, but the words that

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<v Speaker 1>starts with the sh yeah, Or I was like, god,

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<v Speaker 1>his eyes were so nice. I got him that I

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<v Speaker 1>have his baby. I gotta tell him, but oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>he is dreaming. What was I talking about the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that I hooked up with him? You know I was

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<v Speaker 1>really attractive, Okay, so when when did you do it? So?

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<v Speaker 1>I had like these pictures on my phone of our daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to show him, but um I just kept like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was just so everything was just so awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>So finally that's when you take it out and show

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<v Speaker 1>it him and go, doesn't that knows looks familiar. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not like, you know, you guys would be able to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I'm not like clever like that. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't even think you went all dinner just sitting across

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<v Speaker 1>rom him without telling. I couldn't get my I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get the courage up. And so we're walking and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like Okay, I'm gonna say it. I'm gonna tell him.

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<v Speaker 1>And then all of a sudden and like I turned

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<v Speaker 1>towards him and he he plants one. He kissed me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's great, right, Like I got really nervous, and I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, it's so weird, like it's almost like

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<v Speaker 1>we just had a first kiss, but we have a

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<v Speaker 1>baby together. Did you say that? No? Oh, that would

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<v Speaker 1>have been perfect. I thought that's what you said. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're really attracted someone, they kiss you and it

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<v Speaker 1>like makes you like immediately you feel every like you

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<v Speaker 1>feel stuff like butterflies. Yeah, and I guess like I laughed,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I like, my face must have looked weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what, and he's like, what's going on,

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<v Speaker 1>what's wrong? And I had this just this weird response

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<v Speaker 1>because I was actually like I didn't know what to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and so he pulled away and I started crying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the way to make yourself look perfectly sane. Anytime

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever kissed a woman, she just starts crying automatically.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he do? Did you freak out at that point? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's like that's what made me. Really, I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, wow, this this guy is. I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter has half his jeans because he just like

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<v Speaker 1>looked at me and he was like, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>What's wrong? He just looked sweet, and I said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a past and I just feel really uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 1>talking about it and I'm really nervous. Good and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here to listen, like you can tell me anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I like looked at my phone and I had

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<v Speaker 1>to go back. The babysitter was going to leave, so

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't like start the conversation then because I had

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<v Speaker 1>to get back. I mean, it's like a three hour conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't tell him. Well, so I didn't tell him.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I got home and you know, I put

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter to sleep and stuff, and you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was just thinking about Noah, and so I wrote

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<v Speaker 1>him an email and I said everything on the email

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<v Speaker 1>email that's one step down from text message on all

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<v Speaker 1>of your courage. Why did I feel like I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>bring him out again and then do it then? And

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<v Speaker 1>what if I, you know, scare it against So like

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<v Speaker 1>I just was like, I gotta do it, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know. I haven't gotten email back. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know if he's have you seen it? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>you said that? When did you see the email? Like

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<v Speaker 1>late last night? Like a midnight? Okay, and you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>heard from him yet. No? Oh my gosh, what did

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<v Speaker 1>you just even say in the subject line? Oops? Forgot

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you something? All right, Brittany, Well, Brittany, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna play a song. Come back. We'll get him on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, and then I guess ask him if you

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<v Speaker 1>read your email. Oh god, Okay, okay, hold on fucking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning. Second date update, all right, the

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<v Speaker 1>moment of truth it's upon us. We just talked to

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<v Speaker 1>Brittany a few minutes ago about her date last night

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<v Speaker 1>with Noah. Noah is, of course, the guy that hooked

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<v Speaker 1>up with Brittany three years ago ended up getting her

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<v Speaker 1>pregnant that night. He has no idea that he has

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<v Speaker 1>a two and a half year old daughter, which is

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<v Speaker 1>owned by Brittany. Oh so, anyway, we were originally calling

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<v Speaker 1>for a second day update. She wanted us to break

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<v Speaker 1>the news to him live on the air. We said,

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<v Speaker 1>how about we do a second day update. See if

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<v Speaker 1>you can go out with the guy and break the

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<v Speaker 1>news in person. He agreed to a second date. They

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<v Speaker 1>went out last night and she couldn't tell him on

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<v Speaker 1>the dates. Oh my god. She she went home after

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<v Speaker 1>he kissed her and sent him an email, which we

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know if he's received. No, because you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>heard anything from him, right, Brittany, Yeah, No, I haven't yet. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>But can I just say, Brooke, like I get where

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<v Speaker 1>you're coming from and like giving me a hard time everything,

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<v Speaker 1>But this is just the hardest thing. This is harder

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<v Speaker 1>than labor. How is this harder than being a single

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<v Speaker 1>mother for two and a half years. I mean, you've

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<v Speaker 1>done such a great job raising a kid and making

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<v Speaker 1>it happen, and you're finally coming around and you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do the right thing. Yeah, so thanks, Yeah, I agree,

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<v Speaker 1>this would be incredibly hard and it's gonna change It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna change his life. No one is saying it's easy.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Brittany, We're gonna call him right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I guess I'm just gonna ask him how

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<v Speaker 1>the date went, Brittany, you're ready to call him, I guess. Oh, Brittany, Noah, alright,

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<v Speaker 1>what up? Man is Jewil? How are you? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing good. Heard about your date last night? Oh yeah, yeah, good. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of kiss and tell going on. Huh Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't sure about going out with her, but you

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<v Speaker 1>went ahead and kissed her on the her date? Nice? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I mean, is for the moment decision right right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good thing you were reading the signals correctly there,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, I hope. So what do you think

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<v Speaker 1>when she started crying? Did that weird you out? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I personally just kind of confused. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, like because it's like for like three years

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<v Speaker 1>and all that, so I thought maybe it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of stuff. You sound like you're in

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<v Speaker 1>a good mood this morning, like you enjoyed your date

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. Yeah, it was a good It was a

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<v Speaker 1>good night, you know. I mean it was one date,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, but yeah, yeah, I could, like I would

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<v Speaker 1>definitely like hang out with her, you know, like we

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<v Speaker 1>said yesterday when we talked to you, it's one date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm not gonna like it's gonna stick with

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<v Speaker 1>you forever or whatever, continue to do this if we

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<v Speaker 1>if like we can't pay for it again. But would

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on another date with her, just hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with her again? Oh yeah, yeah, for sure. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did you get my email? Brittany's on the phone with us,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, you know, we just want to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you about the date first. But when did you send

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<v Speaker 1>an email last night? No? I haven't looked at my

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<v Speaker 1>email yet. I haven't even gone to work. It is important, um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like I think when she sent it, she may have

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<v Speaker 1>checked the high importancy little flag out of the red list.

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<v Speaker 1>I just, um, I just uh, I gotta just do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Um okay, um, really you are you? Okay? Um? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and no, Like, something really amazing happened to me and you,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're not aware of it. But it's also might

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<v Speaker 1>be kind of awful for you to hear about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But um, you know obviously that we hooked well, I

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<v Speaker 1>know you didn't really remember me that well. But we

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<v Speaker 1>hooked up three years ago, right, you do you remember that? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>I assume um, and uh um, you have a daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what I got? I got pregnant. I didn't realize.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so busy. I kind of didn't realize it

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<v Speaker 1>for a few months and had already kind of not

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<v Speaker 1>responded to your text. And my parents like super conservative

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, and they convinced me to go back to

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<v Speaker 1>live with them and not to tell you since I

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<v Speaker 1>hardly knew you, and I stupidly went along with what

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<v Speaker 1>they were saying. And we have like an amazing daughter

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<v Speaker 1>and she's incredible and I don't want her to grow

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<v Speaker 1>up without a dad. And you're really great, and I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you hate me, I hope that you can

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<v Speaker 1>be her dad at some point. I'm pretty I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>proud of you. But what is this like? Wait, is

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<v Speaker 1>this like a really disgustingly sick prank or something. No,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not a joke at all. Brittany emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>initially to do a second date update on you, just

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<v Speaker 1>to break the news that she has your two and

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<v Speaker 1>a half year old baby daughter. And we decided to

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<v Speaker 1>try to just get you guys to go out so

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<v Speaker 1>she could do it in person. She couldn't do it

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<v Speaker 1>last night, and she's sent in you an email. There's

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<v Speaker 1>an email in your inbox with like all the information

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you want to do like a DNA test or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I totally get like it will be yours because I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't with anyone else in that time period. But I

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<v Speaker 1>understand if you want to do that, it will definitely

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<v Speaker 1>be yours. Uh. I don't, I mean I don't. That's

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<v Speaker 1>uh okay, what do you say? Yeah, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I would be thinking if I were in your

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<v Speaker 1>shoes right now. Noah, I personally I would be probably crying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of uh I actually, well I'm shaking. So

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<v Speaker 1>so wait, so you did the kids like here now? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>for your daughter? Yeah, okay, just kid? Oh god daughter? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>And you emailed me, Well, I just I couldn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't get a course to tell you. Last night. I

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<v Speaker 1>had all of her pictures with me and I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to tell you on the beach and then and

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<v Speaker 1>then you gassed me. And then like I was, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>this sounds so stupid right now, but like if I

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<v Speaker 1>actually really like you, and I just I got totally

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<v Speaker 1>confused and overwhelmed. And then it was like I'm this

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<v Speaker 1>like single girl who's got no responsibilities. But I have

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful daughter and I'm a mom and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>it's not even about it's not about money, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>can totally I can support her. I just want her

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<v Speaker 1>to have a dad. It's making me, no, what do you,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want to do now now that you've

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<v Speaker 1>heard this news. I guess I guess we should meet

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out. Yeah. No, you're such a good person,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of important you should meet. Yeah, I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>a little like shock. No, how about this I said earlier. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't pay for you guys to hang out again,

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<v Speaker 1>but we'll pay for your dinner, and we could even

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<v Speaker 1>make it a place that's, you know, kid friendly, so

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<v Speaker 1>she can bring along a little one whole family dinner. Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll pay for it. Another date for you guys. Obviously

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<v Speaker 1>you have some things to discuss that are a little

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<v Speaker 1>less than surface like, hey, what have you been up

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<v Speaker 1>to lately? Type things? Yeah? Should I bring her? Or

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<v Speaker 1>should or do you want it? For the test? And

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<v Speaker 1>take very long to do the test? Nowadays you can

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<v Speaker 1>just go to like, what if that's the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll pay for it. Okay, you guys will get together obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>talk about what we got to talk about, take whatever

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<v Speaker 1>test you gotta take, and then we'll talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>next week if we can, and get an update on

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<v Speaker 1>the whole situation. Is that okay with both you guys? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So good with me? Noah us, sure, sure, broken Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Well, we said we'd get an update

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<v Speaker 1>from them in a week, and one week turned into

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<v Speaker 1>three years. Sorry about that, but we finally have them

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone for a second date update update with

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<v Speaker 1>Brittany and Noah. Welcome back to the show. You guys, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you good? Hey? Us? Have you been? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>It's been It's so weird to hear ourselves from three

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. I mean, it sounded like we were kids then,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't it know us? Yes, I feel like a shocked,

0:14:56.200 --> 0:14:59.600
<v Speaker 1>very surprised kid. No, I was a kid. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know yet to he was a dad. Yeah, that'll aid

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<v Speaker 1>you a lot in three years, I think you were

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<v Speaker 1>a kid. That made me cry my eyes out. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, just really back. I cried again. What did

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<v Speaker 1>your friends and family think when you guys did this?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Well, I don't know for Noah because

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't know each other that well yet. But for

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<v Speaker 1>me it was intense because even like a daycare people,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd heard it and they recognize you know, they knew

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<v Speaker 1>my name and they recognized my voice. So it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a lot of attention. People call, I mean, some

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<v Speaker 1>people awesome and calling me and saying, do you need support?

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<v Speaker 1>You're back in town. It's amazing. I'm so glad to

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<v Speaker 1>know you're here. So what did you guys do? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys met up? Did you meet your daughter? Noah?

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<v Speaker 1>Right away? Yeah, after the whole thing on the we

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<v Speaker 1>got on the phone again and we talked, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the next day we went and we got together and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a restaurant and we met up, all

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<v Speaker 1>three of us, and it was it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was really really like overwhelming, but also really awesome

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<v Speaker 1>now that I think about it, because the minute like

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<v Speaker 1>I got to hold her and meet her, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like the best thing ever. And she was so awesome

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<v Speaker 1>and like it was just like I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>let her go. But then at the same time, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, who is this girl holding this kid that

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't known for about three years and it's mine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so just even that made me cry again. Noah.

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<v Speaker 1>People have been asking us, like, what's the status with

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. Yeah, oh well, they said, it's a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit different now three years later. But the first year

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was called turning. And then there was

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<v Speaker 1>some attraction going on at least for me, Noah. There

0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:43.240
<v Speaker 1>was attraction going on all the time, but I sort

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<v Speaker 1>of held back. And then Noah said let's start dating. No,

0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:50.960
<v Speaker 1>he didn't actually say let's start dating. He just kissed me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and that meant let's start dating. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought it was just a kiss. But then

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<v Speaker 1>apparently Britney was like, so we're dating now. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to do what got us to this

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<v Speaker 1>in the first place. I actually exactly what he did.

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<v Speaker 1>And I am now pregnant. What Yeah, another baby, baby

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<v Speaker 1>baby number two? Wow? And you guys are you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are potent together? Are all right? So congratulations? I guess

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<v Speaker 1>there's another kid on the way. Yes, I'm actually really

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<v Speaker 1>excited because like I like know about this one. You

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<v Speaker 1>can actually be there. Yeah, that's cool. And he knows

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<v Speaker 1>about all the bad things because I'm thirteen weeks in

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<v Speaker 1>and it's been like ten hours a day for me

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<v Speaker 1>of nausea, and the whole time Noah's been like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>this was so much easier the first time. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>guys planning on getting married or anything or are you

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna we're just gonna rush it all into one

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<v Speaker 1>But we're not we're not rushing, but we we just died.

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<v Speaker 1>We are going to get married, yes, all right, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be the flower girl. So that's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be adorable. Oh okay, well that's disappointing. Well I was

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<v Speaker 1>hoping that I would be the flower girl. But whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine. You guys, I mean, we played a big

0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:15.280
<v Speaker 1>role in this whole thing. You know you did, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, We're sorry we didn't. We didn't contact

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<v Speaker 1>you like immediately after that. You know, we talked to

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<v Speaker 1>you a few years ago, but we just wanted private time.

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<v Speaker 1>So we just we wanted to figure this out on

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<v Speaker 1>our own and not continually get people having That's what

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<v Speaker 1>was going on. You know. Oh that's had the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>smile on my face right now for you too. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like from the mess that started, you guys have

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<v Speaker 1>really made such wonderful decisions in your relationship. Oh my god, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm crying. I'm pregnant. God. Good luck you two, and

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<v Speaker 1>keep us updated on the future because our audience is

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<v Speaker 1>really interested in the whole thing. Like I can't tell

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<v Speaker 1>you how often we get hounded asking for updates from

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. Now you're going to be an old married

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<v Speaker 1>couple so nobody will care anymore, but gradually broken jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning