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Speaker 1: date update, anybody's just tuning in and missed the show yesterday.
Speaker 1: It is the most crazy second date we've ever done.
Speaker 1: Do we call it a second second d I don't know.
Speaker 1: Brittany email us for a second date, asking us basically
Speaker 1: to call a guy that she hooked up with three
Speaker 1: years ago and they had a baby together. He didn't
Speaker 1: know about it because she left the state and was
Speaker 1: forced by her parents and stuff not to say anything.
Speaker 1: So now she's got a two and a half year
Speaker 1: old baby girl and the dude doesn't know. We called
Speaker 1: him yesterday to try to get him to go on
Speaker 1: a second date so that she could tell him in person,
Speaker 1: which I applaud you for being brave enough to do that. Brittany.
Speaker 1: Thank you. How did the date go, Brittany? Well, I mean,
Speaker 1: first of all, thank you so much for doing all
Speaker 1: of this, and I know it's kind of I know.
Speaker 1: Brooke was like, I didn't really want to, so I
Speaker 1: appreciate it. I want you to tell him I just
Speaker 1: didn't want to do it on air. So I'm really
Speaker 1: proud of it. I really am. I think that I
Speaker 1: could not put myself in your shoes. I don't know
Speaker 1: what you were feeling before you met Noah at a
Speaker 1: restaurant last night to drop the bomb on it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was pretty I was pretty nervous and my stomach
Speaker 1: was doing summersaults, Like, how do you even pick an
Speaker 1: outfit out for that? Yeah? Seriously, what is the correct
Speaker 1: footwear for letting a dude know that he's got a
Speaker 1: two and a half year old daughter? Yeah? I wore
Speaker 1: a very very sweet dress back. Look in a sit.
Speaker 1: How do you feel the moment you saw him he
Speaker 1: walked in. You know, I hadn't seen him, I haven't
Speaker 1: seen him for three years. Did he look happy to
Speaker 1: see you? He looked kind of nervous too. At any point,
Speaker 1: are you thinking I'm not going to do it, I'm
Speaker 1: going to back out? I think probably every other thought.
Speaker 1: Could you even hear a word he was saying while
Speaker 1: you guys were dinner? Is that all you were thinking?
Speaker 1: About like when is the right moment to drop that
Speaker 1: bomb on him? Like every time I look him in
Speaker 1: the eye, I had like two feelings. One was, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, I guess I don't know what. I don't
Speaker 1: know abow to stand the radio, but the words that
Speaker 1: starts with the sh yeah, Or I was like, god,
Speaker 1: his eyes were so nice. I got him that I
Speaker 1: have his baby. I gotta tell him, but oh my god,
Speaker 1: he is dreaming. What was I talking about the reason
Speaker 1: that I hooked up with him? You know I was
Speaker 1: really attractive, Okay, so when when did you do it? So?
Speaker 1: I had like these pictures on my phone of our daughter.
Speaker 1: I'm ready to show him, but um I just kept like,
Speaker 1: you know, it was just so everything was just so awkward.
Speaker 1: So finally that's when you take it out and show
Speaker 1: it him and go, doesn't that knows looks familiar. I'm
Speaker 1: not like, you know, you guys would be able to
Speaker 1: do that. I'm not like clever like that. Like I
Speaker 1: couldn't even think you went all dinner just sitting across
Speaker 1: rom him without telling. I couldn't get my I couldn't
Speaker 1: get the courage up. And so we're walking and I'm
Speaker 1: like Okay, I'm gonna say it. I'm gonna tell him.
Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden and like I turned
Speaker 1: towards him and he he plants one. He kissed me.
Speaker 1: That's great, right, Like I got really nervous, and I thought,
Speaker 1: oh my god, it's so weird, like it's almost like
Speaker 1: we just had a first kiss, but we have a
Speaker 1: baby together. Did you say that? No? Oh, that would
Speaker 1: have been perfect. I thought that's what you said. Wow,
Speaker 1: when you're really attracted someone, they kiss you and it
Speaker 1: like makes you like immediately you feel every like you
Speaker 1: feel stuff like butterflies. Yeah, and I guess like I laughed,
Speaker 1: and then I like, my face must have looked weird.
Speaker 1: I don't know what, and he's like, what's going on,
Speaker 1: what's wrong? And I had this just this weird response
Speaker 1: because I was actually like I didn't know what to do,
Speaker 1: and so he pulled away and I started crying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the way to make yourself look perfectly sane. Anytime
Speaker 1: I've ever kissed a woman, she just starts crying automatically.
Speaker 1: What did he do? Did you freak out at that point? No?
Speaker 1: I mean that's like that's what made me. Really, I
Speaker 1: was just like, wow, this this guy is. I'm glad
Speaker 1: my daughter has half his jeans because he just like
Speaker 1: looked at me and he was like, what's going on?
Speaker 1: What's wrong? He just looked sweet, and I said, well,
Speaker 1: I have a past and I just feel really uncomfortable
Speaker 1: talking about it and I'm really nervous. Good and he's like,
Speaker 1: I'm here to listen, like you can tell me anything.
Speaker 1: Then I like looked at my phone and I had
Speaker 1: to go back. The babysitter was going to leave, so
Speaker 1: I couldn't like start the conversation then because I had
Speaker 1: to get back. I mean, it's like a three hour conversation.
Speaker 1: I didn't tell him. Well, so I didn't tell him.
Speaker 1: But then I got home and you know, I put
Speaker 1: my daughter to sleep and stuff, and you know, and
Speaker 1: I was just thinking about Noah, and so I wrote
Speaker 1: him an email and I said everything on the email
Speaker 1: email that's one step down from text message on all
Speaker 1: of your courage. Why did I feel like I couldn't
Speaker 1: bring him out again and then do it then? And
Speaker 1: what if I, you know, scare it against So like
Speaker 1: I just was like, I gotta do it, but I
Speaker 1: don't even know. I haven't gotten email back. I don't
Speaker 1: even know if he's have you seen it? I don't
Speaker 1: you said that? When did you see the email? Like
Speaker 1: late last night? Like a midnight? Okay, and you haven't
Speaker 1: heard from him yet. No? Oh my gosh, what did
Speaker 1: you just even say in the subject line? Oops? Forgot
Speaker 1: to tell you something? All right, Brittany, Well, Brittany, we're
Speaker 1: gonna play a song. Come back. We'll get him on
Speaker 1: the phone, and then I guess ask him if you
Speaker 1: read your email. Oh god, Okay, okay, hold on fucking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. Second date update, all right, the
Speaker 1: moment of truth it's upon us. We just talked to
Speaker 1: Brittany a few minutes ago about her date last night
Speaker 1: with Noah. Noah is, of course, the guy that hooked
Speaker 1: up with Brittany three years ago ended up getting her
Speaker 1: pregnant that night. He has no idea that he has
Speaker 1: a two and a half year old daughter, which is
Speaker 1: owned by Brittany. Oh so, anyway, we were originally calling
Speaker 1: for a second day update. She wanted us to break
Speaker 1: the news to him live on the air. We said,
Speaker 1: how about we do a second day update. See if
Speaker 1: you can go out with the guy and break the
Speaker 1: news in person. He agreed to a second date. They
Speaker 1: went out last night and she couldn't tell him on
Speaker 1: the dates. Oh my god. She she went home after
Speaker 1: he kissed her and sent him an email, which we
Speaker 1: don't even know if he's received. No, because you haven't
Speaker 1: heard anything from him, right, Brittany, Yeah, No, I haven't yet. Um,
Speaker 1: But can I just say, Brooke, like I get where
Speaker 1: you're coming from and like giving me a hard time everything,
Speaker 1: But this is just the hardest thing. This is harder
Speaker 1: than labor. How is this harder than being a single
Speaker 1: mother for two and a half years. I mean, you've
Speaker 1: done such a great job raising a kid and making
Speaker 1: it happen, and you're finally coming around and you wanted
Speaker 1: to do the right thing. Yeah, so thanks, Yeah, I agree,
Speaker 1: this would be incredibly hard and it's gonna change It's
Speaker 1: gonna change his life. No one is saying it's easy.
Speaker 1: All right, Brittany, We're gonna call him right now, and
Speaker 1: all right, I guess I'm just gonna ask him how
Speaker 1: the date went, Brittany, you're ready to call him, I guess. Oh, Brittany, Noah, alright,
Speaker 1: what up? Man is Jewil? How are you? How are
Speaker 1: you doing good. Heard about your date last night? Oh yeah, yeah, good. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a little bit of kiss and tell going on. Huh Oh,
Speaker 1: you weren't sure about going out with her, but you
Speaker 1: went ahead and kissed her on the her date? Nice? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, is for the moment decision right right.
Speaker 1: It's a good thing you were reading the signals correctly there,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, I hope. So what do you think
Speaker 1: when she started crying? Did that weird you out? No?
Speaker 1: I mean I personally just kind of confused. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess, like because it's like for like three years
Speaker 1: and all that, so I thought maybe it was just
Speaker 1: like a lot of stuff. You sound like you're in
Speaker 1: a good mood this morning, like you enjoyed your date
Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, it was a good It was a
Speaker 1: good night, you know. I mean it was one date,
Speaker 1: you know, but yeah, yeah, I could, like I would
Speaker 1: definitely like hang out with her, you know, like we
Speaker 1: said yesterday when we talked to you, it's one date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not gonna like it's gonna stick with
Speaker 1: you forever or whatever, continue to do this if we
Speaker 1: if like we can't pay for it again. But would
Speaker 1: you go out on another date with her, just hang
Speaker 1: out with her again? Oh yeah, yeah, for sure. I mean,
Speaker 1: did you get my email? Brittany's on the phone with us,
Speaker 1: of course, you know, we just want to talk to
Speaker 1: you about the date first. But when did you send
Speaker 1: an email last night? No? I haven't looked at my
Speaker 1: email yet. I haven't even gone to work. It is important, um, yeah,
Speaker 1: like I think when she sent it, she may have
Speaker 1: checked the high importancy little flag out of the red list.
Speaker 1: I just, um, I just uh, I gotta just do this.
Speaker 1: Um okay, um, really you are you? Okay? Um? Yes,
Speaker 1: and no, Like, something really amazing happened to me and you,
Speaker 1: but you're not aware of it. But it's also might
Speaker 1: be kind of awful for you to hear about it.
Speaker 1: But um, you know obviously that we hooked well, I
Speaker 1: know you didn't really remember me that well. But we
Speaker 1: hooked up three years ago, right, you do you remember that? Now?
Speaker 1: I assume um, and uh um, you have a daughter.
Speaker 1: Wait what I got? I got pregnant. I didn't realize.
Speaker 1: I was so busy. I kind of didn't realize it
Speaker 1: for a few months and had already kind of not
Speaker 1: responded to your text. And my parents like super conservative
Speaker 1: and stuff, and they convinced me to go back to
Speaker 1: live with them and not to tell you since I
Speaker 1: hardly knew you, and I stupidly went along with what
Speaker 1: they were saying. And we have like an amazing daughter
Speaker 1: and she's incredible and I don't want her to grow
Speaker 1: up without a dad. And you're really great, and I mean,
Speaker 1: even if you hate me, I hope that you can
Speaker 1: be her dad at some point. I'm pretty I'm so
Speaker 1: proud of you. But what is this like? Wait, is
Speaker 1: this like a really disgustingly sick prank or something. No,
Speaker 1: this is not a joke at all. Brittany emailed us
Speaker 1: initially to do a second date update on you, just
Speaker 1: to break the news that she has your two and
Speaker 1: a half year old baby daughter. And we decided to
Speaker 1: try to just get you guys to go out so
Speaker 1: she could do it in person. She couldn't do it
Speaker 1: last night, and she's sent in you an email. There's
Speaker 1: an email in your inbox with like all the information
Speaker 1: maybe you want to do like a DNA test or whatever.
Speaker 1: I totally get like it will be yours because I
Speaker 1: wasn't with anyone else in that time period. But I
Speaker 1: understand if you want to do that, it will definitely
Speaker 1: be yours. Uh. I don't, I mean I don't. That's
Speaker 1: uh okay, what do you say? Yeah, I don't know
Speaker 1: what I would be thinking if I were in your
Speaker 1: shoes right now. Noah, I personally I would be probably crying.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of uh I actually, well I'm shaking. So
Speaker 1: so wait, so you did the kids like here now? Yes,
Speaker 1: for your daughter? Yeah, okay, just kid? Oh god daughter? Uh?
Speaker 1: And you emailed me, Well, I just I couldn't. I
Speaker 1: couldn't get a course to tell you. Last night. I
Speaker 1: had all of her pictures with me and I was
Speaker 1: going to tell you on the beach and then and
Speaker 1: then you gassed me. And then like I was, I mean,
Speaker 1: this sounds so stupid right now, but like if I
Speaker 1: actually really like you, and I just I got totally
Speaker 1: confused and overwhelmed. And then it was like I'm this
Speaker 1: like single girl who's got no responsibilities. But I have
Speaker 1: a beautiful daughter and I'm a mom and I don't
Speaker 1: it's not even about it's not about money, Like I
Speaker 1: can totally I can support her. I just want her
Speaker 1: to have a dad. It's making me, no, what do you,
Speaker 1: what do you want to do now now that you've
Speaker 1: heard this news. I guess I guess we should meet
Speaker 1: figure it out. Yeah. No, you're such a good person,
Speaker 1: it's kind of important you should meet. Yeah, I'm like
Speaker 1: a little like shock. No, how about this I said earlier. Obviously,
Speaker 1: we can't pay for you guys to hang out again,
Speaker 1: but we'll pay for your dinner, and we could even
Speaker 1: make it a place that's, you know, kid friendly, so
Speaker 1: she can bring along a little one whole family dinner. Huh.
Speaker 1: I'll pay for it. Another date for you guys. Obviously
Speaker 1: you have some things to discuss that are a little
Speaker 1: less than surface like, hey, what have you been up
Speaker 1: to lately? Type things? Yeah? Should I bring her? Or
Speaker 1: should or do you want it? For the test? And
Speaker 1: take very long to do the test? Nowadays you can
Speaker 1: just go to like, what if that's the first date.
Speaker 1: I'll pay for it. Okay, you guys will get together obviously,
Speaker 1: talk about what we got to talk about, take whatever
Speaker 1: test you gotta take, and then we'll talk to you
Speaker 1: next week if we can, and get an update on
Speaker 1: the whole situation. Is that okay with both you guys? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So good with me? Noah us, sure, sure, broken Jewil
Speaker 1: in the morning. Well, we said we'd get an update
Speaker 1: from them in a week, and one week turned into
Speaker 1: three years. Sorry about that, but we finally have them
Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update update with
Speaker 1: Brittany and Noah. Welcome back to the show. You guys, Hey,
Speaker 1: how are you good? Hey? Us? Have you been? Um?
Speaker 1: It's been It's so weird to hear ourselves from three
Speaker 1: years ago. I mean, it sounded like we were kids then,
Speaker 1: didn't it know us? Yes, I feel like a shocked,
Speaker 1: very surprised kid. No, I was a kid. He didn't
Speaker 1: know yet to he was a dad. Yeah, that'll aid
Speaker 1: you a lot in three years, I think you were
Speaker 1: a kid. That made me cry my eyes out. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, just really back. I cried again. What did
Speaker 1: your friends and family think when you guys did this?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Well, I don't know for Noah because
Speaker 1: we didn't know each other that well yet. But for
Speaker 1: me it was intense because even like a daycare people,
Speaker 1: I'd heard it and they recognize you know, they knew
Speaker 1: my name and they recognized my voice. So it was
Speaker 1: just a lot of attention. People call, I mean, some
Speaker 1: people awesome and calling me and saying, do you need support?
Speaker 1: You're back in town. It's amazing. I'm so glad to
Speaker 1: know you're here. So what did you guys do? I mean,
Speaker 1: you guys met up? Did you meet your daughter? Noah?
Speaker 1: Right away? Yeah, after the whole thing on the we
Speaker 1: got on the phone again and we talked, and then
Speaker 1: the next day we went and we got together and
Speaker 1: it was like a restaurant and we met up, all
Speaker 1: three of us, and it was it was it was
Speaker 1: it was really really like overwhelming, but also really awesome
Speaker 1: now that I think about it, because the minute like
Speaker 1: I got to hold her and meet her, it was
Speaker 1: like the best thing ever. And she was so awesome
Speaker 1: and like it was just like I didn't want to
Speaker 1: let her go. But then at the same time, I
Speaker 1: was like, who is this girl holding this kid that
Speaker 1: I haven't known for about three years and it's mine.
Speaker 1: I'm so just even that made me cry again. Noah.
Speaker 1: People have been asking us, like, what's the status with
Speaker 1: you guys. Yeah, oh well, they said, it's a little
Speaker 1: bit different now three years later. But the first year
Speaker 1: it was it was called turning. And then there was
Speaker 1: some attraction going on at least for me, Noah. There
Speaker 1: was attraction going on all the time, but I sort
Speaker 1: of held back. And then Noah said let's start dating. No,
Speaker 1: he didn't actually say let's start dating. He just kissed me.
Speaker 1: I mean, and that meant let's start dating. And yeah,
Speaker 1: and I thought it was just a kiss. But then
Speaker 1: apparently Britney was like, so we're dating now. He's like,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to do what got us to this
Speaker 1: in the first place. I actually exactly what he did.
Speaker 1: And I am now pregnant. What Yeah, another baby, baby
Speaker 1: baby number two? Wow? And you guys are you guys
Speaker 1: are potent together? Are all right? So congratulations? I guess
Speaker 1: there's another kid on the way. Yes, I'm actually really
Speaker 1: excited because like I like know about this one. You
Speaker 1: can actually be there. Yeah, that's cool. And he knows
Speaker 1: about all the bad things because I'm thirteen weeks in
Speaker 1: and it's been like ten hours a day for me
Speaker 1: of nausea, and the whole time Noah's been like, man,
Speaker 1: this was so much easier the first time. Are you
Speaker 1: guys planning on getting married or anything or are you
Speaker 1: just gonna we're just gonna rush it all into one
Speaker 1: But we're not we're not rushing, but we we just died.
Speaker 1: We are going to get married, yes, all right, but
Speaker 1: it's going to be the flower girl. So that's gonna
Speaker 1: be adorable. Oh okay, well that's disappointing. Well I was
Speaker 1: hoping that I would be the flower girl. But whatever,
Speaker 1: that's fine. You guys, I mean, we played a big
Speaker 1: role in this whole thing. You know you did, and
Speaker 1: you know what, We're sorry we didn't. We didn't contact
Speaker 1: you like immediately after that. You know, we talked to
Speaker 1: you a few years ago, but we just wanted private time.
Speaker 1: So we just we wanted to figure this out on
Speaker 1: our own and not continually get people having That's what
Speaker 1: was going on. You know. Oh that's had the biggest
Speaker 1: smile on my face right now for you too. I
Speaker 1: feel like from the mess that started, you guys have
Speaker 1: really made such wonderful decisions in your relationship. Oh my god, no,
Speaker 1: I'm crying. I'm pregnant. God. Good luck you two, and
Speaker 1: keep us updated on the future because our audience is
Speaker 1: really interested in the whole thing. Like I can't tell
Speaker 1: you how often we get hounded asking for updates from
Speaker 1: you guys. Now you're going to be an old married
Speaker 1: couple so nobody will care anymore, but gradually broken jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning