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Speaker 1: date update, anybody's just tuning in and missed the show yesterday.

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Speaker 1: It is the most crazy second date we've ever done.

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Speaker 1: Do we call it a second second d I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Brittany email us for a second date, asking us basically

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Speaker 1: to call a guy that she hooked up with three

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Speaker 1: years ago and they had a baby together. He didn't

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Speaker 1: know about it because she left the state and was

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Speaker 1: forced by her parents and stuff not to say anything.

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Speaker 1: So now she's got a two and a half year

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Speaker 1: old baby girl and the dude doesn't know. We called

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Speaker 1: him yesterday to try to get him to go on

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Speaker 1: a second date so that she could tell him in person,

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Speaker 1: which I applaud you for being brave enough to do that. Brittany.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. How did the date go, Brittany? Well, I mean,

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Speaker 1: first of all, thank you so much for doing all

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Speaker 1: of this, and I know it's kind of I know.

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Speaker 1: Brooke was like, I didn't really want to, so I

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Speaker 1: appreciate it. I want you to tell him I just

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Speaker 1: didn't want to do it on air. So I'm really

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Speaker 1: proud of it. I really am. I think that I

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Speaker 1: could not put myself in your shoes. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what you were feeling before you met Noah at a

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Speaker 1: restaurant last night to drop the bomb on it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was pretty I was pretty nervous and my stomach

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Speaker 1: was doing summersaults, Like, how do you even pick an

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Speaker 1: outfit out for that? Yeah? Seriously, what is the correct

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Speaker 1: footwear for letting a dude know that he's got a

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Speaker 1: two and a half year old daughter? Yeah? I wore

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Speaker 1: a very very sweet dress back. Look in a sit.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel the moment you saw him he

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Speaker 1: walked in. You know, I hadn't seen him, I haven't

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Speaker 1: seen him for three years. Did he look happy to

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Speaker 1: see you? He looked kind of nervous too. At any point,

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Speaker 1: are you thinking I'm not going to do it, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to back out? I think probably every other thought.

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Speaker 1: Could you even hear a word he was saying while

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Speaker 1: you guys were dinner? Is that all you were thinking?

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Speaker 1: About like when is the right moment to drop that

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Speaker 1: the eye, I had like two feelings. One was, oh,

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Speaker 1: you know, I guess I don't know what. I don't

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Speaker 1: his eyes were so nice. I got him that I

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Speaker 1: have his baby. I gotta tell him, but oh my god,

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Speaker 1: he is dreaming. What was I talking about the reason

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Speaker 1: that I hooked up with him? You know I was

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Speaker 1: really attractive, Okay, so when when did you do it? So?

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Speaker 1: I had like these pictures on my phone of our daughter.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to show him, but um I just kept like,

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Speaker 1: you know, it was just so everything was just so awkward.

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Speaker 1: So finally that's when you take it out and show

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Speaker 1: it him and go, doesn't that knows looks familiar. I'm

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Speaker 1: not like, you know, you guys would be able to

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Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden and like I turned

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Speaker 1: That's great, right, Like I got really nervous, and I thought,

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Speaker 1: have been perfect. I thought that's what you said. Wow,

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Speaker 1: when you're really attracted someone, they kiss you and it

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Speaker 1: feel stuff like butterflies. Yeah, and I guess like I laughed,

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Speaker 1: and then I like, my face must have looked weird.

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Speaker 1: What did he do? Did you freak out at that point? No?

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Speaker 1: What's wrong? He just looked sweet, and I said, well,

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Speaker 1: Then I like looked at my phone and I had

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Speaker 1: I couldn't like start the conversation then because I had

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Speaker 1: I didn't tell him. Well, so I didn't tell him.

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Speaker 1: I was just thinking about Noah, and so I wrote

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Speaker 1: him an email and I said everything on the email

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Speaker 1: email that's one step down from text message on all

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Speaker 1: of your courage. Why did I feel like I couldn't

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Speaker 1: I just was like, I gotta do it, but I

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Speaker 1: don't even know. I haven't gotten email back. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know if he's have you seen it? I don't

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Speaker 1: you said that? When did you see the email? Like

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Speaker 1: late last night? Like a midnight? Okay, and you haven't

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Speaker 1: heard from him yet. No? Oh my gosh, what did

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Speaker 1: you just even say in the subject line? Oops? Forgot

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Speaker 1: to tell you something? All right, Brittany, Well, Brittany, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna play a song. Come back. We'll get him on

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Speaker 1: the phone, and then I guess ask him if you

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Speaker 1: read your email. Oh god, Okay, okay, hold on fucking

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. Second date update, all right, the

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Speaker 1: moment of truth it's upon us. We just talked to

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Speaker 1: with Noah. Noah is, of course, the guy that hooked

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Speaker 1: owned by Brittany. Oh so, anyway, we were originally calling

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Speaker 1: for a second day update. She wanted us to break

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Speaker 1: he kissed her and sent him an email, which we

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Speaker 1: don't even know if he's received. No, because you haven't

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Speaker 1: heard anything from him, right, Brittany, Yeah, No, I haven't yet. Um,

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Speaker 1: But can I just say, Brooke, like I get where

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Speaker 1: But this is just the hardest thing. This is harder

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Speaker 1: than labor. How is this harder than being a single

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Speaker 1: mother for two and a half years. I mean, you've

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Speaker 1: to do the right thing. Yeah, so thanks, Yeah, I agree,

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Speaker 1: this would be incredibly hard and it's gonna change It's

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Speaker 1: All right, Brittany, We're gonna call him right now, and

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Speaker 1: all right, I guess I'm just gonna ask him how

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Speaker 1: the date went, Brittany, you're ready to call him, I guess. Oh, Brittany, Noah, alright,

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Speaker 1: what up? Man is Jewil? How are you? How are

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Speaker 1: you doing good. Heard about your date last night? Oh yeah, yeah, good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a little bit of kiss and tell going on. Huh Oh,

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Speaker 1: went ahead and kissed her on the her date? Nice? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, is for the moment decision right right.

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Speaker 1: It's a good thing you were reading the signals correctly there,

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Speaker 1: I mean I personally just kind of confused. I mean,

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Speaker 1: definitely like hang out with her, you know, like we

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Speaker 1: if like we can't pay for it again. But would

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Speaker 1: an email last night? No? I haven't looked at my

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Speaker 1: email yet. I haven't even gone to work. It is important, um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just, um, I just uh, I gotta just do this.

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Speaker 1: But um, you know obviously that we hooked well, I

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Speaker 1: know you didn't really remember me that well. But we

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Speaker 1: hooked up three years ago, right, you do you remember that? Now?

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Speaker 1: Wait what I got? I got pregnant. I didn't realize.

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Speaker 1: hardly knew you, and I stupidly went along with what

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Speaker 1: and she's incredible and I don't want her to grow

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Speaker 1: up without a dad. And you're really great, and I mean,

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Speaker 1: be her dad at some point. I'm pretty I'm so

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Speaker 1: proud of you. But what is this like? Wait, is

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Speaker 1: this is not a joke at all. Brittany emailed us

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Speaker 1: she could do it in person. She couldn't do it

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Speaker 1: an email in your inbox with like all the information

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Speaker 1: maybe you want to do like a DNA test or whatever.

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