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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Hi everybody, this is Trista and I'm coming to you

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Speaker 2: from Lake Tahoe. We are at a beautiful Verbo. It

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Speaker 2: is stunning and if you have never checked out Verbo,

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Speaker 2: there are three hundred thousand discounted properties that you can

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Speaker 2: book within thirty days of check in in Hilton Head,

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Speaker 2: South Carolina, Cape Cod, Massachusetts, San Diego, Porta, Viarda and

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Speaker 2: so many more places. So go check out Verbo for me.

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Speaker 2: But for right now, Hi, we're getting a selfie. I

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Speaker 2: am sitting next to one of my faves, one of

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Speaker 2: my favorite leads, very close friend, very long time friend,

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Speaker 2: well long time. Let's we need to talk about how

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Speaker 2: long we have known each other. I am welcome or

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Speaker 2: I'm welcoming. I am welcoming the beautiful Tianna Stagliano. Hi.

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Speaker 3: Eighteen years. Eighteen years, Oh my gosh, because I's just

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Speaker 3: celebrated his eighteenth birthday. Yes, he did so eighteen years.

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Speaker 3: I was at your house and I was holding your

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Speaker 3: first car. That's right. You still need to me that

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Speaker 3: your angel baby, angel baby in your house and veil

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Speaker 3: with just so young and fresh face. Yes, eighteen years

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Speaker 3: that is so and isn't it true how our friendship

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Speaker 3: has grown over the years. I know it's just blossomed,

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Speaker 3: just like blossoms.

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Speaker 2: Just like an eye, just like us. Okay, how are

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Speaker 2: you loving Lake Tahoe?

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Speaker 3: Isn't this amazing? I'm having the best time, right, Okay?

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Speaker 2: Good?

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Speaker 3: Like I'm not sure if I'm going to go home

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Speaker 3: or if I'm going to stay. I's up in the

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Speaker 3: air at this point, the best time.

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad because, as I think, you know, this

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Speaker 2: was kind of my idea because I wanted to play

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Speaker 2: pickleball selfishly because they always go on these golf trips

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Speaker 2: and what I you know, other fun stuff. But but

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Speaker 2: I was like, can we do a pickleball? And I'm

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Speaker 2: so proud of you because you haven't ever played, or

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Speaker 2: at least not a lot.

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Speaker 3: I have never ever played, and I would have to.

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Speaker 3: I really should credit you, my coach, for all of

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Speaker 3: my skills, for my athleticism, for just my abilities in

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Speaker 3: general on the pickleball court. Now, I didn't win a

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Speaker 3: single game, Yes you did. You want a little tiny trophy.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I didn't win a single game. But I

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Speaker 3: looked good. That's right. I'm stayed and I had a

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Speaker 3: lot of fun. Good.

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Speaker 2: That's all that matters. That is all that matters.

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Speaker 3: I'm a pickleballer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no one, I mean for real, you're going to

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Speaker 2: be a pickleballer because you're going to go home and

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Speaker 2: you're going to find a club, just like I told you,

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Speaker 2: and you're going to find some fun people to play with,

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Speaker 2: maybe even get some lessons. You're going to have so

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Speaker 2: much fun. And it really truly is obsessing, like it's

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Speaker 3: Obsess about it ever since. Yeah, I love Birthing a pickleballer.

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Speaker 3: She's a pickleballer.

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Speaker 2: You really are a pickleballer, or you can call there's

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Speaker 2: all there's tons of merch okay around pickleball.

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Speaker 3: Let's just before we put the cart before the horse. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: let's just make sure I know how to play first.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, But what I was going to say

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Speaker 2: is you're a day dinker, so you can be a

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Speaker 2: day drinker but also a day dinker because Dnking is

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Speaker 3: Day dnker. I'm really doing well. I'm just thriving. Look

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Speaker 3: personality right, day dinker pickleballer.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so tons of people here, who have you been

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Speaker 2: having the most fun with?

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Speaker 3: Honest to god, in it, I'm not I'm not being

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Speaker 3: ridiculous right now. The group as a whole has just

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Speaker 3: And I was laughing because I was on the phone

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Speaker 3: Who made more money, Who's got bigger boobs? Who laughed more?

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Speaker 3: just there's been a lot of laughs. Like I have

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Speaker 3: a hard time being like, oh, I'm I'm here for work, yeah,

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Speaker 3: what I mean, Yeah, I'm working, but like, how many

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Speaker 2: Totally?

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Speaker 3: Who gets great to be this lucky, this blessed to

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Speaker 3: to spend a couple of days with our friends right

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Speaker 3: right when the last time we got to see each other,

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Speaker 3: gets to say that they get to do this? Totally?

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Speaker 3: I so agree? Yeah, yeah, so a great.

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Speaker 2: It really makes me happy, and it has been such

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Speaker 2: a good group, such a good group from all different

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Speaker 2: you know, walks but end shows and whatever. But I

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Speaker 2: I love this kind of stuff. It like fills my bucket. Obviously,

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Speaker 2: my husband is a little bit different in that, you know,

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Speaker 2: social things are not his cup of tea, and it

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Speaker 2: kind of drains his bucket a little bit. But I

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Speaker 2: was like, babe, just let's you can go read, you

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Speaker 2: which is like his favorite thing to do on the planet.

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Speaker 3: So you know what, from an outsider. Do you know

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Speaker 3: what is really beautiful is like he just lets you shine, Trista,

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Speaker 3: Like it's nice to have him here and like I

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Speaker 3: can see like Ryan would much rather be in his room. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, not all the time, that's not what I

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Speaker 3: don't know how I mean that, but yeah, but he has.

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Speaker 2: He did enjoy. He's gone out, but he did thoroughly enjoy.

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Speaker 3: Beautiful that he allows you to do these things and

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Speaker 3: he allows you to shine. He's not fighting you for it,

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Speaker 3: he's not fighting you in it. He allows you. He

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Speaker 3: knows you thrive in these things, and he allows you

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Speaker 3: to do that. And I think it's really beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. That means a lot. I'll take I'll take

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Speaker 2: is good at that. He I think he does get

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Speaker 2: just saying it is exhausting, like being on constantly and

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Speaker 2: I will be drained, but in the moment, I just

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Speaker 2: I'll stay up and like have a glass of wine

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Speaker 2: the deep connection, the that is the meat.

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Speaker 3: And potatoes of life. I mean, I'm a true extrovert,

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Speaker 3: so like I thrive in moments like this. But even

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Speaker 3: when we're just sitting in you and Bob and I

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Speaker 3: we're getting tired, right the second we walk in here

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Speaker 3: and we do this, I turn on. This brings me

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Speaker 3: to life, like there's something really beautiful in it, and

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Speaker 3: like there's people that you just now naturally gravitate towards.

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Speaker 3: And this has just been a really great group of people. Yes,

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Speaker 3: it's been really really great. Yes, agreed. So I want

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Speaker 3: to get into some like recent stuff, but I know

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Speaker 3: life has been you know, a little rough as of late,

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Speaker 3: maybe like you know, maybe a year, maybe two whatever.

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Speaker 2: I will not be pushing you in any way, shape

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Speaker 2: or form, But is there anything that you want to

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Speaker 2: share with everybody about what's going on personally with you

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Speaker 2: and Steven and where you are at kind of like

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Speaker 2: mental health wise. Yeah, no, not really.

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Speaker 3: No, I think there's a beauty in healing, and I

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Speaker 3: wouldn't think that anyone would like to be in my shoes.

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Speaker 3: In the last few months. It has not been fun,

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Speaker 3: and there is some piece of I chose to go

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Speaker 3: on television, I choose to do podcasts, I choose to

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Speaker 3: have a life on social media. That is my choice.

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Speaker 3: That there's also a piece of like my personal life,

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Speaker 3: my divorce, things that my children will have to read

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Speaker 3: living out and what has truly been the most difficult

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Speaker 3: time of my life is violating. Yeah, it's violating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 3: But I'm freaking strong and I'm really resilient, and I

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Speaker 3: choose every day to keep my side of the street clean.

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Speaker 2: Good for you and your kids side of the street clean. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they're your priority. I know that for a fact.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, one hundred percent. But like at the end

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Speaker 3: their father and they get to love me. I'm their mother.

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Speaker 3: That's what they deserve.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 3: They don't get to deserve. They don't get to take

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Speaker 3: and broken marriages, the unhealth that happens. They don't get

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Speaker 2: Them great way of looking at it. I know you've

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Speaker 2: been through so much and more than anyone going through divorce,

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Speaker 2: not more than anyone has been through, but it's like

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Speaker 2: an extreme. Right. The whole jail and all of that

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Speaker 2: is just an extreme that you don't expect when you're.

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Speaker 3: No Trista. I would not tell you that I thought

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Speaker 3: that that that's where I would see myself at forty

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Speaker 3: three years old. No, No, that was How did you

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Speaker 3: explain it? Last night? With a sheet?

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Speaker 2: The woman was like, here's your white sheet, and I

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Speaker 3: It's not a good look. Yeah, it's not. It's not.

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Speaker 2: It's not where anyone wants to be, especially when you

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Speaker 2: are an upstanding citizen and a loving mother and a

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Speaker 2: wonderful human like obviously you know you know what.

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Speaker 3: I think that as individuals, we all have different highs

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Speaker 3: and different lows, you know what I mean. And there

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Speaker 3: are pivotal moments in your life where you choose to

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Speaker 3: make different choices, you choose to look inward and choose growth.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: My hope is that at some point I can only

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Speaker 3: go up right, just when I think like things couldn't

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Speaker 3: get worse in the past few years, and something else

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Speaker 3: has happened. I have to think, like, Okay, there's that

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Speaker 3: has to get better. Yea, this can't be my story.

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Speaker 3: I don't belong here, and I won't pretend to know

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Speaker 3: the future and I won't pretend to be God. But like,

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Speaker 3: there has to be a piece in here where like

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Speaker 3: I needed to take something, I needed to learn and

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Speaker 3: I needed to grow, and I'm open to that. And

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Speaker 3: for me, that's where the beauty comes from, right. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I'm not perfect by any means, and I am human,

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Speaker 3: and there are many parts of what has taken place

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Speaker 3: over the last few months that I would love to

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Speaker 3: never ever have to think a big about again. But

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, I'm grateful for the advice. You know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: and I only do it when I have a lot

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00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 3: of free time because it's pretty labor intensive for me.

433
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 3: I'm not a solid baker, so I follow the recipe

434
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 3: to a tea, you know. But there's a lot of

435
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:36,239
Speaker 3: folding and kneading and folding and kneading, and then you

436
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 3: cut them up into beautiful squares and then you freeze

437
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 3: them and there's a lot of butter. And I love boom.

438
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 3: So I bake these beautiful biscuits at home and I

439
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 3: freeze them overnight, so go so I can take them

440
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 3: to my plane and bake them the next day. Yeah,

441
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 3: and we're going across the water. So when I say

442
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 3: that we're going over Hawaii, it's the largest body of

443
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 3: water you'll ever fly over, which is there's a point

444
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 3: of no return. Did you know that?

445
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,880
Speaker 2: What do you mean? No, I don't know what you mean.

446
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 3: Hawaii from l Hawaii is the largest body of water

447
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 3: you'll ever fly over. Okay, The point of no return

448
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,160
Speaker 3: is like once you get halfway, if something were to happen,

449
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 3: you keep going. Oh until that point something happens, you

450
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 3: would turn around and come back. Okay, but there is

451
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 3: a point okay that like, if something were to happen,

452
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 3: you try to make it the rest of the way.

453
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 3: I'm no pilot, so i don't have to deal with that, Okay.

454
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 3: I'm just along for the ride. So I'm baking these biscuits.

455
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 3: And I make the mistake of putting the biscuits on

456
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 3: the top rack. And if you've never seen an oven

457
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 3: on an airplane, and a galley is really small, It's

458
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 3: very small. If you took a good look at my

459
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 3: arms in my hands, you'll see scars up and down

460
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 3: because the oven is so small and the racks are

461
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 3: like it's like an inch and a half in between.

462
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,679
Speaker 3: So you just constantly and I'm you work fast on

463
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 3: a plane, you know. And if you're thinking about in

464
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 3: a restaurant, I'm serving a meal surface sometimes to eight

465
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 3: or twelve people, sometimes just a few, but sometimes a lot,

466
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 3: And so I'm doing a lot of things in a

467
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 3: very small space. I slap these biscuits in the oven

468
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 3: and don't realize that when they rise, they sit on

469
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 3: the top part of the oven. So pretty quickly these

470
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 3: biscuits start burning and the airplane and I've like never

471
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 3: done this this was only a few years ago. Okay,

472
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 3: So I tend to think that I'm a pretty great

473
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 3: flight attendant. And all of a sudden they start smoking.

474
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 3: And the other thing that you don't know or you

475
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 3: might know about an aircraft is like we circulate the

476
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 3: same air, yes, right, So when it starts smoking, like

477
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 3: it's smoking, oh, and I'm like, oh, I'm like, you know,

478
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 3: I'm trying to wave it. I turned the oven off,

479
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 3: like I listened to my cues first, Like, I turn

480
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 3: the oven off. Nothing actually like lights, flames, you know

481
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 3: what I mean, but like when you burn something in

482
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 3: your oven at home. But the problem is is it

483
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 3: starts going through the whole air of the aircraft. Crap.

484
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 3: So I turn the oven off, and these biscuits are

485
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 3: chalk like they're done, and I can't They're too hot

486
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 3: to throw in the trash bag. And I'm like, there's

487
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 3: no way you can't just toss them out the window.

488
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:49,439
Speaker 2: You know.

489
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 3: So my pilot, yeah, sorry, sir, no, don't mind the biscuits.

490
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 3: My pilot comes back and he's like, are you burning something?

491
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 3: And I can't remember what plane, but my galley's in

492
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 3: the rear and I was like, yeah, man, like I'm burning,

493
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 3: so we end up they have a switch the way

494
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 3: they can let some of the air out. But yeah,

495
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 3: that was that was not.

496
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 2: And were you near the point of no return? Is

497
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 2: that why you brought that up?

498
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,880
Speaker 3: No, I actually did it pretty early. But it's fine.

499
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 3: There wasn't a fire. I was just burning biscuits. I

500
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 3: just burning biscuits. There was no fire. It just dunked

501
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,640
Speaker 3: to high heavens. So I did that. And then one

502
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,199
Speaker 3: other thing when I was a flight isn't. When I

503
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 3: first started my job, I had no clue what I

504
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 3: was doing. And fifteen years ago they used to just

505
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 3: kind of throw us to the wolves, like and they

506
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,199
Speaker 3: just get on a plane and do whatever. And I,

507
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 3: thankfully was pretty good at my job. I had a

508
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 3: long history and service industry. I had worked on every

509
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 3: level of a restaurant in my life, Like I've managed,

510
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 3: I've hosted, I've rolled silverware, I've done it all. Yeah,

511
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 3: I get this job and it's you know, this young

512
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 3: woman who's been on this account for a really long time.

513
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 3: She's like, it'd be easy, peasy, You're just gonna fly

514
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 3: to San Francisco. By the way, I baked cookies before landing,

515
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 3: and I was like, Okay, I'm gonna bake some cookies,

516
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 3: just like, can you just order the dough. She's like, yeah,

517
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 3: I'll just get them. You just pop them on a

518
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 3: pan and stick them in the oven. And if you

519
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 3: know this about me, I am a cook. I am

520
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,400
Speaker 3: not a baker. Yes I'm not. Yeah right, cool, cool, cool.

521
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,719
Speaker 3: I get on this plane right before landing. I can

522
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 3: see the ground, like, you know, I only have a

523
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 3: few minutes. So I get the oven on and she's

524
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 3: I remember reciting in my brain, don't mess this up,

525
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 3: you know, pop the dough on a pan, set a

526
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 3: timer in the oven. Bam. Right, the cookies are finally done.

527
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 3: We're probably like three thousand feet. I can see the ground.

528
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,199
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, serve the cookies. Serve the cookies.

529
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 3: I pull them out and they look like these little

530
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 3: bon bonds.

531
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 2: They little rounds, ye yeah, or not, circles, sears, fears. Yeah.

532
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 3: No one told me I had to flatten out the cookies.

533
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 3: So if he baked, is this like little ball and

534
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,959
Speaker 3: everything bakes differently in the air. You've got you know,

535
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 3: the elevation, you've got the oven works, you know, faster harder,

536
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 3: heet hotter, you know. And so I get this little

537
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 3: cookie and at this point, I don't have time to

538
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 3: stop start over. We do not have time to.

539
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 2: Baby smelling like cookies, so they're probably like, give me

540
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 2: a cookie.

541
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 3: She bakes the parson cookies every time before landing. So

542
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 3: I take this little bon bon out and I'm like,

543
00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 3: how am I going to do this? I stick it

544
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,919
Speaker 3: in a little bowl and I stick a little mint

545
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 3: leaf on it. It looks cute, and I'm making my rounds

546
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 3: and I stick this little bowl in front of the

547
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 3: passenger one too like enjoying. He's like, oh my god,

548
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 3: this is so cute. And I was like, I thank you,

549
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 3: oh so much. So cute, and he was like, wow,

550
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 3: little bite sized cookies. I would have never thought of this.

551
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 3: It's just a one biter. And he eats this cookie

552
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 3: and he was like, you're gonna have to tell her

553
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 3: how to do this. Oh whoa, We still have to

554
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 3: go home, Trista, I've got to make the same mistake twice, right, crap.

555
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 3: And I'll never forget that. Because he's like, oh my god,

556
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,199
Speaker 3: this cookie, this is a little cute and I was like,

557
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 3: oh my god, I did it. By accident. But part

558
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 3: of my job is just knowing when not to say anything. Yep,

559
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,919
Speaker 3: totally knowing when to smile yeah, and then hope the

560
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,119
Speaker 3: same mistake happens again, right, and it did it? I

561
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 3: don't remember because I remember being so mortified by that,

562
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 3: because it was like my second or third flight, and

563
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, this little bon bond.

564
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 2: It looked like if you've ever seen that, it looked

565
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 2: like a bond bon you need, like a bite sized

566
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 2: cookie bonbond.

567
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 3: I'll never ever forget it. You're like, no, I'm not

568
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 3: doing I can't remember if I made the same mistake.

569
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 3: But every time I bake cookies on an airplane now

570
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 3: I think of that. Oh that, don't mess cookies up,

571
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 3: don't make those cute, don't do it.

572
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 2: Okay, So, because you spend so much time traveling, what

573
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 2: is your best packing pack?

574
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 3: I actually hardly ever unpack really.

575
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

576
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 3: So because I travel so much, I have just like

577
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 3: a second set of everything. So like my work bag

578
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 3: I'm carrying around, yep, I have three sets of chargers.

579
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 3: I have all different, like I just keep extra sets

580
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 3: in my bag. Sometimes in my line of work, I

581
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:38,959
Speaker 3: can get a two hour heads up, and I need

582
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 3: to be at the airport, so I always need to

583
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 3: have pressed clothes, got it ready to go, got it,

584
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 3: and then a bag ready to go. Yep. I've made

585
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 3: the mistake one time in my career not having a

586
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 3: change of clothes and shopping at Target at eleven o'clock

587
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 3: at night for underwear. It's just not fun. So that's stressful.

588
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 3: I pretty much at all times have a bag packed,

589
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 3: like I have a you know, change of underwear bras.

590
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 3: But in my toilet tree bag, I have an extra toothbrush,

591
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 3: I have an extra razor, I have shampoo, I have

592
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 3: everything ready to go, a second thing of face cream.

593
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 3: I just like have all of my things already the way.

594
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 3: It's just easy to zip up. I put it in

595
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 3: my bag. I don't fold my clothes when I put

596
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 3: them on my luggage. I roll them Sam, Sam, Yeah right.

597
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 3: It helps on the wrinkles, yes, and it helps fit

598
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 3: more stuff yes yeah. Yeah, and I'll do I'll do

599
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 3: like my shirt and pants together, Yep. I take a

600
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 3: couple of pair of jeans because I can wear the

601
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 3: same two pair of jeans for eighteen days. Of course,

602
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 3: I just do it. Yeah, and I'll roll my things

603
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 3: up and I tuck them together and then I stack yep,

604
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 3: and I'm also just to just set you over the

605
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 3: edge with my neuroses. I do it in like rows.

606
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 3: So like here's my workout clothes, They're stacked to the

607
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 3: back of the suitcase, like against against the back of

608
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 3: the bag because I can stack them two or threefold.

609
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 3: And then my underwear is always in the same thing.

610
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,719
Speaker 3: My toiletrees are always in the same place. And then

611
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 3: for some reason, always on the right side of my

612
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 3: bag goes my toiletry bag, my makeup.

613
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 2: That's why you knew today. So so i's so for

614
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 2: everyone listening to your.

615
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 3: Room and you're unpacked, I'm like, you're insane. How do

616
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 3: you do this?

617
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 2: So whenever I get somewhere, I have a carry on,

618
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,479
Speaker 2: like here we can. I came here with a carry on,

619
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 2: and I unpack everything once I get.

620
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 3: Somewhere, because I have to crazy.

621
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 2: I need to have it organized. I need to have

622
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 2: it like here's my workout clothes, here's my underwear, here's

623
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 2: my swimsuits, here's whatever.

624
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 3: I have to have it all put away.

625
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 2: She came in my room and braided my hair yesterday

626
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 2: for the pickleball tournament.

627
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 3: And she was like real college besties.

628
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 2: Yes, and and she was like, wait you take out everything? Well, well,

629
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: that night or maybe was it that night you called

630
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 2: me because we were at different houses and you were like, hey,

631
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 2: can you bring me? Was this last night you ringin

632
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: things out of my suitcase? And how spot on was

633
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 2: I in the page from my suitcase? And I was like, okay, sure,

634
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,959
Speaker 2: I'll go in. And I went into her room and

635
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 2: she was like, okay, so go in my bag and

636
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 2: in the top part you're gonna find my blah blah blah.

637
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, how does she know? Like

638
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 3: the inside flap, not the top pocket, but the bottom pocket,

639
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 3: not where my makeup wipes are. But on the bottom

640
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 3: pocket you'll find my sockscrab those on the suitcases. On

641
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 3: the very bottom you'll find a black pair of leggings.

642
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 3: Are like on point, without looking at my bag, I

643
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 3: know where everything is, yes, And I can carry on

644
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 3: and roll through an airport. It amazes me to this

645
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 3: day when I have to commercial when I get through

646
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 3: the TSA checkpoint, people who don't know what to do

647
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 3: blows my mind.

648
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 2: But think they're they're travel as much as you you know.

649
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 3: Clear clearly not clearly not. Every time I get on

650
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 3: a plane and I sit in the emergency roo, I'm like,

651
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 3: you're okay, I'm a flight attendant. I'll save your life.

652
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 3: Follow me, leg body leg come this way. Listen to

653
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 3: the sound of my voice. What's body legs mean? When

654
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 3: you get out? Our windows are smaller? Okay, when we

655
00:31:56,360 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 3: get out of coach exits, Well, you don't want to

656
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 3: come out like butt first? How are you gonna get out?

657
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 3: What do you mean like people?

658
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 2: What you think that people would actually go like that and.

659
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 3: Try to get out? Do you know what the number

660
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 3: one thing is in an emergency situation? What people forget

661
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 3: to do? Do you know why the flight attendant stands

662
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 3: in front of you and shows you how to unbuckle

663
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 3: and buckle your seat belt? What in a panic situation?

664
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 3: In an emergency situation, they did a study the amount

665
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 3: of people who forget because when you get in a car,

666
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 3: how do you buckle your seat belt? Clicks in, yeah, yeah,

667
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 3: clicks in right, right right, push a button and it

668
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 3: pops out. They think that on an airplane it is

669
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 3: a latch. You have to lift up and remove the lever.

670
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 3: True it is different and in a panic situation, in

671
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 3: emergency situations, they don't know how to They have found

672
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 3: there was a study down on some airplane crash and

673
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 3: I can't remember what it was. The people who didn't

674
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 3: get out of the airplane. They found that they had

675
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 3: broken thumbs from where they tried over and over again

676
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 3: to press the button to release the seat belt. No way,

677
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 3: because until you're in a situation like that, you have

678
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: you have what like two types of people, fight or flight. Yep,

679
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Yeah, people who panic and

680
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 3: people who don't. I'm a leader, follow me, yeah yeah, yeah,

681
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 3: I'm getting out. You can come my way, yes, right, yes.

682
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 3: And then there are people who just you freeze, you

683
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 3: don't know what to do.

684
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 2: Oh.

685
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 3: They found in that crash, in particular, that these people

686
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 3: had blistered broken thumbs because they were pushing trying to

687
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 3: get their seat belt unlatched. They could not remember to

688
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 3: lift the lever to release the seat belt. That's why

689
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 3: the flight attendant always does it, says it. And I

690
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 3: always watch a flight attendant when she does the emergency procedures.

691
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 3: I do always because even a panic situation, even though

692
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 3: I think if I were ever God forbid, right, I

693
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 3: think I would know what to do. But I watch

694
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 3: because studies have shown people who don't pay attention they

695
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 3: don't remember in a situation. And when you need to

696
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 3: get out there's a fire, there's a water landing, there's

697
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 3: something like that, you have seconds to survive. That's freaking scary.

698
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 3: I'm also a role follower, so oh yeah, and you

699
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 3: say listen, I'm gonna listen.

700
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 2: Okay. Is it true you shouldn't drink coffee or tea

701
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: on a flight because the water tanks on airplanes aren't

702
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 2: cleaned often? Oh look at that face. I do not

703
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 2: order coffee on an airplane. Do you know where else

704
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 2: you shouldn't drink coffee?

705
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:14,320
Speaker 1: Where?

706
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 3: In your hotel room? Oh? Well yeah, oh I remember.

707
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,280
Speaker 3: Light attendants have washed their pantyhose in those.

708
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: I do not ever drink slight attendants wash their pantyhose.

709
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 2: Coffee makers in a hotel wash disgusting.

710
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 3: Also, just here's the thing. I can't go down this

711
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 3: rabbit hole trusted because I travel too much for a living.

712
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 3: But think about a hotel room. Okay, would you want

713
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 3: to clean a hotel room?

714
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:43,919
Speaker 2: Hell? No?

715
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 3: Do you know what I do? What I always leave

716
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 3: money for the maid. I can't imagine a worse job,

717
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 3: yeah than to clean someone's hotel room. Yeah, I can't

718
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 3: imagine having to do that. So I carry money in

719
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 3: my wallet and I always leave it for the hotel staff. Yes,

720
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 3: that's a great hat. Do not drink her coffee in

721
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 3: your hotel room bit of advice.

722
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

723
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,720
Speaker 3: And do not drink the coffee on an airplane. Okay.

724
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 3: So do you see flight attendants coming on the airplane

725
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:13,240
Speaker 3: with their Starbucks? Yes, get a coffee on the plane.

726
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:18,720
Speaker 2: So I remember when we did Special Forces. Ali Ali

727
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 2: Mano was on Special Forces on my season, and she

728
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 2: posted a story of the hotel room that we were

729
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 2: staying in in Wales. She looked on the inside and

730
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 2: it was I know.

731
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 3: Don't don't ever look. Don't ever, don't ever look. I'm

732
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 3: telling you, I travel too much for a living. I

733
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 3: do not watch those shows, those documentaries where they turn

734
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:41,839
Speaker 3: the lights off into a black light to see what's

735
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 3: in the room. Don't do it. No, I can't because

736
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 3: I have just enough crazy in me and I'll never

737
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 3: sleep same Sam. And I've lucky in my life. Yeah,

738
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 3: like I am. I'm like the highest ranking person you

739
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 3: could possibly be like, I have so many points I

740
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 3: don't know how to spin them. I cannot look at

741
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 3: those things because yeah, once you start thinking about it, totally.

742
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 3: I wear my shoes in hotel rooms you just so

743
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 3: you know, don't wear my shoes in my house. Wow,

744
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 3: what do you think? They have dark color printed carpet

745
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 3: hotel names right right. Don't drink the coffee.

746
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, So I don't drink coffee, so I

747
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 2: don't have that problem.

748
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 3: But fixed don't drink the tea either. I don't.

749
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 2: They get the hot water on the plane too, Yeah

750
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 2: no no, I just get it from a can, like

751
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 2: you know, give me this brite with ice.

752
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 3: Say can you drink or the ice? Ice comes? The

753
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 3: ice gets brought to the airplane. They don't. Okay, so

754
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 3: ice is fine.

755
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 2: You'll say, great, we're safe with ice, We're safe with

756
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 2: can you're actually open. Oh and don't take your freaking

757
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 2: shoes off.

758
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 3: On the airplane, please.

759
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: People.

760
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 3: There was a study a long time ago. I'm just

761
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 3: really this is people are never going to fly again.

762
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 3: There was a study. There was a study done in

763
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:53,840
Speaker 3: a laboratory, and I can't remember if they announced what

764
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 3: airline I was in a oh, in an air laboratory. Okay,

765
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 3: those are bathrooms on an airplane. And there was a

766
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 3: study done after like a six or an eight hour flight.

767
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 3: What was found on the lavatory floor? Nope? There were Nope,

768
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 3: you don't see this, but the producers are shaking their hands.

769
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 3: Don't tell them out loud. No, there were. There were

770
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 3: strains of hepatitis on the floor. Do you know I

771
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 3: will stop someone before they walk into a laboratory with

772
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 3: no shoes on. And I'm not being paid to do this,

773
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 3: Please save yourself. Do not do that. So put your

774
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 3: shoes on.

775
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 2: Shoes stay on on a plane, but your shoes stay on.

776
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 3: Do not go to the lab What is living on

777
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,759
Speaker 3: that floor? As holy gross, don't do I could do this.

778
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 3: I could go on this tangent for a really long time.

779
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 2: Okay, So since we're talking about not taking your shoes

780
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,720
Speaker 2: off and feet, we have had an illuminating conversation before

781
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 2: we started this pod with We were talking about you

782
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 2: know what your next step in life is going to be,

783
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 2: career wise, what are you going to transl at those

784
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 2: Wait a second, well, we're going to transition into and

785
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 2: I don't know how it came up when we were

786
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 2: talking about fee and we were talking to go about

787
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 2: only fans and start a foot.

788
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 3: My new career path, Yes, my new career path could

789
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,800
Speaker 3: be showing my feet for a living. I'm not sure

790
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 3: being a dancer is in my future, but showing my

791
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 3: feet could be. Yes.

792
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 2: So we learned that there is a thing called weeki

793
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: Wikiki feet wiki feet, and it has you are ranked

794
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 2: in order of like good feet, bad feet. Okay, so

795
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:49,240
Speaker 2: Easton Easton is producer.

796
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,759
Speaker 3: I also thought we might be scott free, like we're

797
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 3: just old enough to where like this possibly can't be

798
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 3: a thing it is a thing, but apparently it is.

799
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 3: It's a thing.

800
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 2: It's a thing, people, It's a thing. Easton has our

801
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 2: Easton has our rating. He looked up our rating before

802
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 2: we started. And so we are on the edges of

803
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 2: our seat.

804
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 3: No, I want you to be mindful that I do

805
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 3: not have my feet in view. I want you to

806
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 3: be mindful that I am not putting my feet into

807
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,879
Speaker 3: view because I've got some talons on it.

808
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 2: You do not. Your feet are My feet are super

809
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 2: swollen and look like sausages right now.

810
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 3: So okay, so hit it hit us with us better

811
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 3: than what I'm anticipating.

812
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:27,800
Speaker 2: Oh gosh.

813
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 4: Okay, so to set the expectations, Yes, this is a

814
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 4: score out of five.

815
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 2: Okay and wait, so wait, and I also want to

816
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 2: say what we learned is that they will take like

817
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: paparazzi photos and they'll zoom in on your feet in

818
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 2: order to get the rankings correct.

819
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 1: Yes, so okay, yeah, yeah, we're on Trista's page right now.

820
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:51,439
Speaker 4: There's a lot of like, there's a there's a red

821
00:39:51,480 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 4: carpet for marriage book. There's one of t recovering from

822
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 4: an injury. It looks like an ankle injury.

823
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 3: Yes, I broke my ankle. Oh, oh my god.

824
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 1: It's gonna make you really think about what you guys

825
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:09,760
Speaker 1: post on social media.

826
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 3: Yes it is.

827
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 1: Okay, we shall we reveal the screen.

828
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 3: We shall reveal the scores.

829
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh hold my breath.

830
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 3: I'm serious, Scarce.

831
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: We're gonna start with Deanna.

832
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,399
Speaker 3: Oh god, remember I need to be attractive. Okay out of.

833
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: Five four point six nine, Holy crap.

834
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 3: You've got great feet. See I told you I've heard

835
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 3: my new calling. I was waiting for like an audible,

836
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 3: like this is where your path is going, and I

837
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 3: believe it just came to me. I think God gave you.

838
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, tell me that to get a four point six.

839
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: Five?

840
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:49,240
Speaker 3: Wow, that's you have beautiful feet you're talking about anymore?

841
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 3: Look at these suckers at I don't know. There's some

842
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 3: close ups of my feet, a lot of them.

843
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 1: Are you showing off your manicure and your feet are

844
00:40:56,880 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: in the background. That's what it looks like, is the.

845
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 2: I am really, I am very scared. I am very scared.

846
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:07,760
Speaker 2: I'm very scared.

847
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:08,919
Speaker 3: Point six that's pretty good.

848
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 2: Four point seven out of five that's pretty stick.

849
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,359
Speaker 3: That's solid. That's I mean.

850
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 4: And now, actually, before we move on to Trista, I

851
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 4: do you want to check this? They have your shoe

852
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:22,800
Speaker 4: size on here, and I want to see.

853
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:23,240
Speaker 1: If it's accurate.

854
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:24,760
Speaker 3: Okay, that's so true.

855
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,479
Speaker 1: Say seven? Is that right?

856
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 3: It's inaccurate?

857
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 2: Wow.

858
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 3: You know my friend Ben, he's trying to find me

859
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 3: a date. He asked me my shoe size today and

860
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 3: I politely just did not answer his question. I have

861
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 3: a big ass foot for my body. Put our feet

862
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 3: next to each other. No, it's embarrassing. Come on. The

863
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:53,879
Speaker 3: producer she just went, she just gasped. Did you hear her?

864
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 3: I want you to know that my sister and her

865
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 3: husband are going to find this because they have made

866
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 3: fun of my feet my entire life, and they probably

867
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 3: feel so satisfied right now in this moment. Oh my god, Trista,

868
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 3: my toes are longer than your whole foot. Oh, I

869
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 3: can't believe I'm allowing you to do this. This is just.

870
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 2: Yes. I have had this, this toe ring since I

871
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 2: was in I was in college and my dad took

872
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 2: me and my stepsister and stepmom to Key West and

873
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 2: we got that and I have had it ever since.

874
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:46,439
Speaker 2: Even when I get like MRIs or whatever, they ask

875
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 2: if you have any like jewelry or whatever that can't

876
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 2: be removed, and I'm like, yes that.

877
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 3: So don't know.

878
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I leave it on, it never comes off. And

879
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 2: then Deanna has a tattoo's.

880
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 3: I got it with my sister. Yeah. You know, people

881
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:02,839
Speaker 3: think that I'm all straight waist and I'm not. Look

882
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 3: at me. I'm so wild. I have a tattoo. Tattoo,

883
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 3: I have three three? Where's the third? A wild? Oh?

884
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 3: I'm so wild? You know Ben didn't ask me if

885
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 3: there were things about me that he didn't know. Just

886
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 3: look at me? Now, where's the third it's for me.

887
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,879
Speaker 3: I have it for me, but I have it here

888
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 3: worthy that's awesome. There was a period of time where

889
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 3: I forgot that and I don't ever want to forget

890
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 3: it again. When I was eighteen, the cool thing to

891
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 3: do is to get a tattoo because you're allowed. And

892
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 3: my sister and I had a thing you're allowed or

893
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 3: you're an adult. You're an adult, and they will legally

894
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 3: give it to you.

895
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 2: Because I'm literally like, you're not allowed in my house

896
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:44,720
Speaker 2: because my son just turned eighteen.

897
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,240
Speaker 3: My dad didn't know for a very long time. Yeah,

898
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 3: my sister and I had a thing for butterflies, and

899
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 3: she's my very best friend in the entire world, and

900
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 3: we went together once she turned eighteen.

901
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 2: Yep.

902
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 3: And I have it on my right foot. She has

903
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 3: the exact same butterfly image on her left foot, so

904
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 3: when we stand together, we both have it and I

905
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 3: still love it to this day. I love it.

906
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 2: I have that.

907
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 3: I have this one on my ribs and then I

908
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 3: have just on my wrist. I have my kids birth

909
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 3: dates because I travel so much, and also when I

910
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 3: got divorced and had to, you know, split the kids

911
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 3: into two different homes, and I miss them. This I

912
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 3: just I love it. I touch it, I see it,

913
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:21,839
Speaker 3: and it makes me think of my children to love it.

914
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 3: But back to my feet, since this is my bright

915
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:28,839
Speaker 3: and shining moment, I will have you know that when

916
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 3: I get my pedicure, they do compliment how big my

917
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 3: nail beds are. Yes, for real, they have a very

918
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 3: nice palette. Trista to paint my nails not so much

919
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 3: and for those same thing as my nail You didn't

920
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:46,760
Speaker 3: know that my my toes are a solid four inches

921
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 3: longer than Trista's foot.

922
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,879
Speaker 2: They are not inches. You don't know your inches. She's

923
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 2: not a mathematician people.

924
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 3: I wear a nine. I wear a nine, I'm not

925
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 3: a seven. That's very it's very flattering because I am

926
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 3: a short human and being I am five foot four,

927
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:06,439
Speaker 3: you would not expect me to have this massively gargantuan foot. Unfortunately,

928
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:10,240
Speaker 3: my toes take up at least three inches of my foot.

929
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 3: People should pay for this, I really, I know, selling

930
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 3: myself for real.

931
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 2: I'm like we might be joining all the only fans. People.

932
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:20,360
Speaker 2: You might have to look only fans for feet.

933
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 3: That would pay me a good dollar for me to

934
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 3: describe these nines in my running shoe on the and

935
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 3: a half.

936
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 1: For sure, Trista, are you a six and a half?

937
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:29,760
Speaker 3: I'm a six?

938
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 1: Okay, looks like we have to update some some wiki

939
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,720
Speaker 1: feed data. Your score.

940
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 2: I'm very nervous to hear my score, but yes, please tell.

941
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 1: Me point seven seven.

942
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 3: So I'm so happy. This is so exciting, this is

943
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:47,800
Speaker 3: so exciting.

944
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: These are both like the very top.

945
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 2: Wow, but like, what are like? What's the average? Do

946
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 2: we know what the average wiki feet score is?

947
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 4: Like?

948
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 3: Do they give like two or do you.

949
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 2: Know what I mean?

950
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 4: I will look into this. I do not know that

951
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,800
Speaker 4: much about Wiki fee is about their son. Everyone listening

952
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 4: is my first time on this website.

953
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 3: I will tell you I made a conscious effort over

954
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:15,959
Speaker 3: time when I saw other celebrities. I am not one,

955
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 3: but when I saw their pictures on the red carpet

956
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 3: and their shoes were too small, oh and the toes

957
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,720
Speaker 3: go over. I talked about this on a different podcast.

958
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 3: There are certain things that are a hard pass for

959
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 3: saying that I can't sit past sam with men. It's

960
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,439
Speaker 3: dark jeans and case Swiss tennis shoes. I can't get

961
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 3: past it. And then what about birkenstocks and socks? I

962
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 3: love it. I'll do it up down. My husband does that.

963
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 3: I saw pictures of women on a red carpet one

964
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 3: time where the shoes were too small and their toes

965
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 3: creep over the edge and they were like climbed, and

966
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 3: I just thought, if I have to wear heels that

967
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 3: are three sizes too big, please Lord, don't ever let

968
00:46:56,280 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 3: my toes crawl over me. And I would be open

969
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 3: to if someone finds a photo with my toes hanging

970
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 3: off the ledge of my shoe, please, by all means,

971
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 3: send it to tell me.

972
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 2: You tell me that's a beautiful pot to me.

973
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 1: I just found someone else on Wiki beat.

974
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 3: Okay, Ryan, Oh god, what's his score?

975
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, four point three six?

976
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've got a beat.

977
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 1: Is he a size thirteen?

978
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 3: He's size eleven?

979
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 2: Right? Wow?

980
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 3: I mean Ryan has many wonderful redeeming qualities, but we

981
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 3: can let him not have the foot score like that's okay.

982
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 2: We always tease and you guys, I'm taking this back

983
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,919
Speaker 2: as ammunition to say, Babe, I have a four point

984
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:34,439
Speaker 2: seven to seven.

985
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,240
Speaker 3: You've got My Wiki feet score is better than yours. Also,

986
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 3: you know what they say trista with men and big

987
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 3: shoe sizes that they have big, big shoes.

988
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

989
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 1: Would you like to know about Guinea's score?

990
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, we need to know Bob's. I can't wait. Should

991
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 3: we bring him in here so that he can hear

992
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:58,839
Speaker 3: Noah for another hour?

993
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: Yeah? So Ryan's at four point three six, Bob Guinea

994
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 1: is at four point three three?

995
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 2: What about Ben Ben Higgins?

996
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 3: We're getting leverage. Now, we're getting leverage.

997
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 2: I just need to know Ben's and then we're done.

998
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: Four.

999
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 3: Really, he's done well for himself. He's really thrived. And Okay, Ashley,

1000
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 3: sorry to ask for Ashley.

1001
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 2: Ashley, Okay, let's let's go because we have to do

1002
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:32,919
Speaker 2: almost famous and then we're done.

1003
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 1: Yes, four point four to four?

1004
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:36,760
Speaker 3: Oh boy?

1005
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 2: Wow. So I know that this hasn't officially been announced yet,

1006
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 2: but I know something and I'm really excited for you

1007
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 2: to be able to share it with everybody.

1008
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 3: I think there's some great things in store for me.

1009
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 3: I totally agree.

1010
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:53,760
Speaker 2: Thank you, my friend,