1
00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,399
Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

2
00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:09,000
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're back.

3
00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,520
Speaker 3: Quick, name your most codependent friend. While you were filming

4
00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,480
Speaker 3: Christen n I was like Hi, I was like, Hi,

5
00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:17,040
Speaker 3: would you do in?

6
00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:18,200
Speaker 2: Hi? How's your first day?

7
00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:18,680
Speaker 4: Hey?

8
00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:20,480
Speaker 2: Checking in? On your second day?

9
00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:22,800
Speaker 3: You would text anything and I'd be like hi, yeah,

10
00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,960
Speaker 3: go within four seconds.

11
00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,760
Speaker 2: You guys, we have a special guest today, stunning special guests.

12
00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:33,120
Speaker 2: We've got my niece Ava joining us today. Yay, it's

13
00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:37,479
Speaker 2: our seventeenth birthday, so listen to this. Okay, So Ava

14
00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:42,879
Speaker 2: just turn seventeen today and I'm like, bless, what a

15
00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:46,520
Speaker 2: time to be alive seventeen But like, is it though? No?

16
00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,600
Speaker 1: Oh well that's sad.

17
00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,440
Speaker 2: But I wouldn't want to be seventeen in this day

18
00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,840
Speaker 2: and age in social media. I would give I would

19
00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:58,720
Speaker 2: rather be seventeen back then than now. I would say

20
00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,800
Speaker 2: that too. Would you there never have social media or

21
00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,319
Speaker 2: have social media? Never have social media? Thank you? That's

22
00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:05,280
Speaker 2: why I'm giving me.

23
00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,400
Speaker 1: But would you would you get rid of it now

24
00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:09,120
Speaker 1: that you've had it?

25
00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,560
Speaker 4: Now? No? Because I tried deleting social media, like I

26
00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,679
Speaker 4: deleted Snapchat and I was just left out of everything.

27
00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm hearing that about the whole Yeah, I

28
00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,880
Speaker 1: didn't so my kids some are on social media. However,

29
00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,840
Speaker 1: the Snapchat was a no for me. Yeah, but then

30
00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,600
Speaker 1: I gave in for Caden and high school because apparently

31
00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:28,280
Speaker 1: that's how everyone communicates.

32
00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,440
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think I have like three of my friends numbers.

33
00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:33,240
Speaker 4: Other than that, it's just all Snapchat.

34
00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:35,720
Speaker 1: I was like, wait what He's like, that's just how

35
00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,160
Speaker 1: everybody communicates, and I'm like, this is not cool.

36
00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:42,800
Speaker 2: I don't like Snapchat doesn't have like forums of like commenting,

37
00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:43,840
Speaker 2: do they.

38
00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,080
Speaker 4: No, that's just like more Instagram TikTok.

39
00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:46,440
Speaker 5: Yeah.

40
00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,520
Speaker 2: See that's where I'm like, I will not give kids

41
00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:50,560
Speaker 2: until high school. We were to have that conversation.

42
00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,120
Speaker 1: So Snapchat is the one there where they get in

43
00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,080
Speaker 1: trouble because it gives away because it goes away.

44
00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:56,440
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, there's like unless you screenshot or save it

45
00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:58,440
Speaker 4: in the chat, like it's no proof.

46
00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:02,280
Speaker 2: But like if you could never have Instagram or any

47
00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,360
Speaker 2: of those things, you wish that you never.

48
00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:07,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean if no one else had it, then

49
00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,320
Speaker 4: I'd be fine without having it, But with everyone having it,

50
00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,040
Speaker 4: I feel like I kind of have to, Like, I mean,

51
00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:13,040
Speaker 4: I don't have to my kids.

52
00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:14,440
Speaker 2: Gonna hate me, because that's just it's gonna be it. No,

53
00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:18,000
Speaker 2: I think we're resurrecting old school parenting our generation. Yeah,

54
00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:19,520
Speaker 2: there's a lot of just going to be a straight

55
00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,600
Speaker 2: Now is she going to hate me? No?

56
00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:23,440
Speaker 4: I mean I know a lot of people who don't

57
00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:26,440
Speaker 4: have social media. O great, But I mean I didn't

58
00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,679
Speaker 4: get I was allowed Snapchat, Instagram, TikTok. I kind of

59
00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:31,040
Speaker 4: had it anyways, but.

60
00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:36,359
Speaker 1: I candle and then there's that just so y'all, y'all, No,

61
00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:38,040
Speaker 1: that's what happens.

62
00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I downloaded Snapchat in seventh grade and

63
00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,040
Speaker 4: I wasn't allowed to have it, and I kind of

64
00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:45,400
Speaker 4: delete it on and off my phone.

65
00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,120
Speaker 2: But now that's why I'm getting Life three, not like

66
00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:51,480
Speaker 2: you're sixty. I'm doing Covenant Eyes. I have devices.

67
00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:55,720
Speaker 1: I have Safer Kid and it alerts me when ever anything. Now, granted, yes,

68
00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:59,119
Speaker 1: I have allowed my kids to have Instagram, which is fine.

69
00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,160
Speaker 1: Everyone can judge me or whatever. But I also have

70
00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,000
Speaker 1: their accounts and I go on it daily and I

71
00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:06,920
Speaker 1: get notifications anytime they get anything. So for me, I

72
00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:10,320
Speaker 1: could control that one Snapchat, I don't know well enough.

73
00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:13,240
Speaker 1: I can't control it. I can't. That one scares me.

74
00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:15,480
Speaker 2: So the reason I won't do that is because I

75
00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,040
Speaker 2: don't want to control, I mean for me, because it's

76
00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,040
Speaker 2: two for my past. I don't want to look. I

77
00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:21,880
Speaker 2: don't want to control. I'd rather just them not have it.

78
00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:23,440
Speaker 2: So I don't even feel like look at it, you

79
00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:24,960
Speaker 2: know what I mean, where it's like that way, they

80
00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:27,840
Speaker 2: don't feel like I'm invading or or like I don't know.

81
00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's just I'm out. So I had a.

82
00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:33,440
Speaker 3: Mom friend who thought she was monitoring their Instagram, but

83
00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:34,880
Speaker 3: they also had a different Instagram.

84
00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,240
Speaker 2: Oh for sure, will and she like the.

85
00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,800
Speaker 3: One we were all seeing was like Hallelujah, church girl,

86
00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,280
Speaker 3: praise and worship, and then the one on the side

87
00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,600
Speaker 3: was like wait, I'm sorry, and we get one more

88
00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:45,320
Speaker 3: inch on that skirt.

89
00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:45,680
Speaker 2: Maam.

90
00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:48,000
Speaker 1: Well, that's why I think the other stuff so important,

91
00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:50,640
Speaker 1: like what they're downloading, like you can get notifications on

92
00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,560
Speaker 1: what they download and stuff, because they will do all

93
00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,960
Speaker 1: kinds of things and what works for I mean, if

94
00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,840
Speaker 1: I'm paying for your phone, then I have every right.

95
00:03:57,960 --> 00:03:59,000
Speaker 2: Amen, that's my opinion.

96
00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:00,640
Speaker 1: If I'm paying for your phone and I can look

97
00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,839
Speaker 1: at your text messages, I can look at what you've done.

98
00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:04,760
Speaker 1: I can do whatever I want, and I do and

99
00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,480
Speaker 1: I don't. Some people get more leeway in my house

100
00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:08,080
Speaker 1: than others.

101
00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:11,720
Speaker 2: Well, those that don't need it, or those that show

102
00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,400
Speaker 2: you that they don't. You probably don't.

103
00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:14,720
Speaker 1: So there's just different.

104
00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:16,400
Speaker 2: Do your parents look at your phone?

105
00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:18,560
Speaker 6: No?

106
00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:20,840
Speaker 4: Not no more. But my mom has an app where

107
00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:23,520
Speaker 4: she like can control my phone. So yeah, she sees

108
00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:25,880
Speaker 4: like everywhere, Well, she has Life through sixty two, so

109
00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:27,800
Speaker 4: she can see where I'm at all times. Yeah, and

110
00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,080
Speaker 4: then she can see every app I download. If I'm

111
00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:31,800
Speaker 4: like at school or I have to study, she just

112
00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:33,360
Speaker 4: will shut off my whole phone completely.

113
00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:34,080
Speaker 2: Good on.

114
00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:34,800
Speaker 1: I do that too.

115
00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:38,320
Speaker 2: I love that. That feels really good to me. Okay,

116
00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:39,760
Speaker 2: so I have an announcement to make.

117
00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:44,120
Speaker 1: I just it's like, somehow I'm not surprised Cat.

118
00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,560
Speaker 3: I'm always like on the edge of my seat, and

119
00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:46,560
Speaker 3: Cat soays like, here we go.

120
00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:48,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I got no clue where we're going with this.

121
00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,560
Speaker 2: But never you can't even get it.

122
00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:54,960
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's that she's switched shampoo, and sometimes it's that.

123
00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:59,080
Speaker 1: We changed it's important or literally you can't get it.

124
00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:03,120
Speaker 2: Nope, No, I took a pregnancy test.

125
00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,440
Speaker 1: You're not telling us on there so it was negative.

126
00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:08,000
Speaker 1: There's no way.

127
00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,560
Speaker 3: I don't believe what Kat just said. I don't believe

128
00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:14,040
Speaker 3: I would not tell us. Oh, there is no way.

129
00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:15,640
Speaker 3: And you're an actress, dammit, go.

130
00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:22,159
Speaker 2: Cramer, go. So I was late. Can you continue? For

131
00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,080
Speaker 2: the love of Jesus, I feel like.

132
00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:27,040
Speaker 1: Some minutes last, I need to know the whole story.

133
00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,760
Speaker 1: This is why I haven't asked. I've been tempted to ask.

134
00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:32,320
Speaker 2: Of course you've been tempted. I'm just going to wait.

135
00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:40,920
Speaker 2: So we had a little whoopsie. Speaking of seventeen. Speaking

136
00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,400
Speaker 2: of seventeen, this is for you. You have to be

137
00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:47,560
Speaker 2: careful because sometimes guys just forget Okay.

138
00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:53,599
Speaker 1: Let's guys. I can't okay, okay, seventeen I know, but

139
00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,880
Speaker 1: so your mom just shut off her phone.

140
00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:00,159
Speaker 2: Podcast she should have your.

141
00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:01,719
Speaker 5: No.

142
00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:03,960
Speaker 2: But you know, you have to be careful.

143
00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:04,880
Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

144
00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,680
Speaker 2: They have to you have to be very careful. And

145
00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:12,120
Speaker 2: I'm very much like I am not careful. Well I

146
00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:18,960
Speaker 2: don't know so anyways, but something and it just happened

147
00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:22,359
Speaker 2: to be the actual day that I was ovulating that

148
00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,159
Speaker 2: when I started counting, I was like, oh my god, this,

149
00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:29,480
Speaker 2: I'm going to be pregnant, like no doubt, and so

150
00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,960
Speaker 2: that that like that morning when I was literally like

151
00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:36,280
Speaker 2: something took over my body because I was just like what,

152
00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,839
Speaker 2: because I'm like, if I wanted, if we were to

153
00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:41,640
Speaker 2: have another baby, I want to be able to have

154
00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:43,640
Speaker 2: a be on when we discuss it and we have

155
00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,080
Speaker 2: a conversation and when we talk about it and we

156
00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:47,840
Speaker 2: really sit down and go, Okay, are we going to

157
00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:51,680
Speaker 2: do this again? Remember that seventeen There's a lot to discuss.

158
00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:57,320
Speaker 2: That's right, Yeah, continue, please gone. So I was obviously

159
00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:01,080
Speaker 2: not very happy because that was just kind of like

160
00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:05,400
Speaker 2: that conversation was just not had. And again he's always

161
00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:07,800
Speaker 2: so careful, so like I wasn't like mad at him

162
00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:09,760
Speaker 2: because it's like he's never happened like that before. It

163
00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:12,920
Speaker 2: was just like this, it's literally never happened before.

164
00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,400
Speaker 3: It's always wild to talk about this stuff too. It's

165
00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,640
Speaker 3: like we all know what we're talking about.

166
00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:22,280
Speaker 2: And it's also just like bless you allen, but it's

167
00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,080
Speaker 2: never happened before, like ever, He's so careful so well

168
00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:31,480
Speaker 2: at least once before. Go ahead. So then Jace takes

169
00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,640
Speaker 2: this little rock and he goes out of nowhere. I

170
00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:38,560
Speaker 2: mean literally out of nowhere. Dear God, I want to

171
00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,240
Speaker 2: have I want my mommy to have another baby, and

172
00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:44,200
Speaker 2: praise to this rock. And I was like, throw the

173
00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:50,160
Speaker 2: rock outside shop the rock a real rock and a

174
00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:53,040
Speaker 2: hard play. I was like, oh my god. I was

175
00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:56,080
Speaker 2: like between like the freak thing that's never happened, like

176
00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,760
Speaker 2: minus that one time, then like the rock incident. I'm like,

177
00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:03,200
Speaker 2: oh this is I'm so going to be pregnant. So

178
00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,880
Speaker 2: then for two weeks after that, it was just like

179
00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,880
Speaker 2: I had to really like think about I'm on set,

180
00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:13,120
Speaker 2: you know, kind of worrying about it too. I'm like, shoot, okay,

181
00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:14,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have almost like Irish twins are going to

182
00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:19,800
Speaker 2: be like almost like eleven months apart, like you're apart.

183
00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:21,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my gosha, I'm like, how am I

184
00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:23,760
Speaker 2: going to do this? Just trying to like figure it

185
00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:27,400
Speaker 2: all out. But then and then I was like, so

186
00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:30,240
Speaker 2: then I started to freak out. I'm still not not

187
00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,080
Speaker 2: freaking out, so we have because we haven't gotten to

188
00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:33,880
Speaker 2: the end of it. So then I take a test

189
00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:38,920
Speaker 2: and I see a faint, faint, faint faint just like

190
00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:43,240
Speaker 2: my first test, faint faint line right, I can see

191
00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:44,640
Speaker 2: it sounds like I don't see it. I'm like, there's

192
00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:48,800
Speaker 2: a lie. It's a lie. Cramer, I see a lie.

193
00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:51,440
Speaker 2: I'm freaking out. But and I'm late, so I'm like,

194
00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,760
Speaker 2: oh my god, Like this is how it happened with Ruman.

195
00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:56,199
Speaker 2: I had a faint little line and then I was pregnant.

196
00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:00,520
Speaker 2: So I was like, I'm totally pregnant, and who knows,

197
00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:02,920
Speaker 2: maybe the faint was like a little maybe, I don't know,

198
00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,520
Speaker 2: who knows. But then like three days later I started

199
00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:09,920
Speaker 2: my period. Okay, so and then and then I'm like,

200
00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:12,600
Speaker 2: it's been like ten days. I have like I can't

201
00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,840
Speaker 2: stop leaving, but anyway, all over the place. I know,

202
00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,559
Speaker 2: it's been like all over But I literally was like,

203
00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:19,880
Speaker 2: but then when I got my period, this was the

204
00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:24,960
Speaker 2: breaking news. I was like, I kind of want another.

205
00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,640
Speaker 1: This was coming.

206
00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,199
Speaker 3: My pelvic floor was holding its breath the entire conversation.

207
00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,760
Speaker 1: Every woman kind of does that a little bit though, no,

208
00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,480
Speaker 1: a little bit like you don't really want one, but

209
00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:39,240
Speaker 1: then the thought of like you might be, and then

210
00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,440
Speaker 1: there's a I think there's a like a just a

211
00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:43,480
Speaker 1: little bit of disappointment, like maybe I did one.

212
00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:47,079
Speaker 2: It was I like, I kind of I didn't want one,

213
00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,360
Speaker 2: and this is Alan and I have since had the conversation.

214
00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:51,719
Speaker 2: He's like, we should be excited your period came, and

215
00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, but now it made I had to I

216
00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,680
Speaker 2: was thinking for two weeks that I was pregnant or

217
00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,000
Speaker 2: like maybe pregnant. So I'm like I had to really

218
00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,920
Speaker 2: kind of like go through and I got to a

219
00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:05,200
Speaker 2: place where I'm like, I would love another one with

220
00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,880
Speaker 2: you on the right timeline. I was like, but I'm forty,

221
00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,160
Speaker 2: and that's that's the piece that stops me is I'm like,

222
00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:13,800
Speaker 2: if I was younger, I would have another one in

223
00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:15,439
Speaker 2: a heartbeat. If I was thirty eight, i'd have another

224
00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:18,800
Speaker 2: one if I was Because I'm like, I keep envisioning

225
00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,000
Speaker 2: like this girl. So those the past two weeks, I

226
00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:23,920
Speaker 2: was like, I had these visions of like a little girl,

227
00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:25,720
Speaker 2: and I was like, if it is, it's a girl,

228
00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:27,680
Speaker 2: like I just know it, you know, and like so

229
00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:29,679
Speaker 2: I started to like kind of like visualize it.

230
00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:34,240
Speaker 3: I have a theory about miss this okay, the lateness. Okay,

231
00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:37,600
Speaker 3: So I've always thought that soul's float before they land

232
00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:40,680
Speaker 3: to make you do exactly what you're doing, which is

233
00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,559
Speaker 3: like trying it on in your brain, so I'll catch

234
00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:45,360
Speaker 3: you in a month. But if you're going to do that,

235
00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:46,760
Speaker 3: we need to know was are we still going to

236
00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:47,679
Speaker 3: get married far away?

237
00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:52,679
Speaker 2: And we've got a lot so I think, like, so

238
00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,080
Speaker 2: that's like because I'm like, he's either going to get

239
00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:57,600
Speaker 2: a snip like in the next month or two or

240
00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:00,520
Speaker 2: like you know. But I'm like, I don't think my

241
00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,280
Speaker 2: body could handle another one, and he doesn't want to

242
00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:05,360
Speaker 2: do ivah, So I think it's done. I also wanted one.

243
00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:06,640
Speaker 1: Does he want to He.

244
00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,760
Speaker 2: Said he'd be open to it, but again, it's like

245
00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,680
Speaker 2: my age and my pregnancy is like it'd be my

246
00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:14,720
Speaker 2: fourth sea section, which would be they say you should

247
00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,720
Speaker 2: stop at three. Gets dangerous, Yeah, I gets dangerous. I

248
00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:21,560
Speaker 2: already had like a quite traumatic like stuff that like,

249
00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,319
Speaker 2: so I think my body says no, but like this

250
00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:26,640
Speaker 2: little soul like I'm like the what I was thinking

251
00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:28,599
Speaker 2: of those two weeks, I was like and like to

252
00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,360
Speaker 2: have roman like when the kids leave, like then he

253
00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:32,240
Speaker 2: has a sibling and I don't know, but I'm like,

254
00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:34,560
Speaker 2: it's the age it's stopping me. So I think it's

255
00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,280
Speaker 2: I think it's done. But there was a piece of

256
00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,880
Speaker 2: me that was like, if I was younger, I would

257
00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,160
Speaker 2: go more for sure. He doesn't want to do sarrogate.

258
00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:43,679
Speaker 2: I've already said. I was like, well how about we

259
00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,120
Speaker 2: try and do a surrogate and he's just like, I

260
00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:46,560
Speaker 2: don't want to do it that way. I was like,

261
00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:49,720
Speaker 2: all right, like I respect you know. Yeah, I'm like yeah,

262
00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:53,319
Speaker 2: So anyways, that's it. M hm, protect wrap it up.

263
00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:58,960
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, save yourself from one of those needs marriage.

264
00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:02,800
Speaker 2: I mean someone needs to say I'm gonna.

265
00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:06,000
Speaker 3: Be the one that's okay, Yeah I would. I would

266
00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,840
Speaker 3: have more kids if I was younger. I just feel

267
00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:10,679
Speaker 3: my body really went through it this time.

268
00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,760
Speaker 2: That's kind of the same thing. Yeah, I was thinking of.

269
00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:17,800
Speaker 2: But anyways, that's my that's my one story. And now

270
00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:19,920
Speaker 2: ave us here and she's young and seventeen and I

271
00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:21,920
Speaker 2: just got this like facial done in my face that

272
00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:23,959
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I was like, I'm gonna look like a

273
00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,800
Speaker 2: zoo animal. Your aunt's gonna look like a total zoo

274
00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:27,680
Speaker 2: animal tomorrow. I wish I looked like a zoo ann

275
00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,520
Speaker 2: to be young. Well, it's like, if I was seventeen,

276
00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,280
Speaker 2: what would you do differently? First of all, you want

277
00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:36,320
Speaker 2: to wear sunscreen so that you're not lasering and sprain.

278
00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:37,480
Speaker 1: That's a good way.

279
00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:41,720
Speaker 3: Twenty three years from now, I would say I would

280
00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:46,679
Speaker 3: more than I would have more faith in my own guts.

281
00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:49,480
Speaker 3: I don't think I trusted my gut enough good one

282
00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:52,640
Speaker 3: With boys, I knew what I knew what I knew,

283
00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:55,800
Speaker 3: But then I got distracted, which is with the age.

284
00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:57,680
Speaker 3: You know, did you really know that at seventeen? Because

285
00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:58,000
Speaker 3: I didn't.

286
00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:02,199
Speaker 2: I was so so boy crazy with like even when

287
00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:05,240
Speaker 2: Matt would like make me cry and I was like, no,

288
00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,199
Speaker 2: choose me, like I was still I didn't see that

289
00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,040
Speaker 2: the like, oh, that's not how it should be at

290
00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:12,439
Speaker 2: a zero percent.

291
00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,000
Speaker 3: Zero Yeah, I don't think it was more. I don't

292
00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:15,920
Speaker 3: think it was as like in depth as that. I

293
00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:17,520
Speaker 3: think I just knew what was good for me and

294
00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:19,360
Speaker 3: what wasn't good for me, but I kept choosing maybe

295
00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:21,880
Speaker 3: what wasn't good for me. Warp Tour was a thing

296
00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,640
Speaker 3: at a tub top. His name was Josh, and I

297
00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:25,839
Speaker 3: was like, oh my gosh, we get tota late. Just

298
00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:26,880
Speaker 3: keep calling each other.

299
00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:31,240
Speaker 2: On our flip phone. Yeah, I don't. We didn't even

300
00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:34,200
Speaker 2: have flip phones then right seventeen, we didn't have got

301
00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,640
Speaker 2: the bad orange.

302
00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:39,840
Speaker 3: Yeah that like first phone Yeah yeah, yeah, that was

303
00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:41,280
Speaker 3: like as big as a throw pillow.

304
00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:45,840
Speaker 1: I mean I wasn't like crazy crazy boy crazy. I

305
00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:47,920
Speaker 1: mean I dated and stuff, but nothing major. I think

306
00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:50,679
Speaker 1: mine would be more about friends and like not taking

307
00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:55,160
Speaker 1: things so personally, not being a part of when so

308
00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:56,760
Speaker 1: and so is being mean to so and so, like

309
00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:59,320
Speaker 1: never being a part of that, Like just being stronger

310
00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:04,360
Speaker 1: and like the whole friend situation would be mine.

311
00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:05,120
Speaker 2: It's hard.

312
00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:07,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I look at it now with like my daughter,

313
00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:09,320
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, well, they're just trying to fit in.

314
00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:11,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, can imagine if like people didn't do

315
00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:13,000
Speaker 1: that and they were just nice to everybody.

316
00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,320
Speaker 3: That's one thing I think about your generation I really

317
00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,839
Speaker 3: admire though, So for me, I feel like y'all are

318
00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:19,440
Speaker 3: just a little more sure of yourselves.

319
00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:23,280
Speaker 2: Yeah do you think that? Yeah, yeah, you're a little

320
00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:23,960
Speaker 2: less bs.

321
00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:27,280
Speaker 3: It feels like to me, which I love. For you, Yeah,

322
00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:29,560
Speaker 3: we were really trying to fit into a bunch of boxes.

323
00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:31,960
Speaker 1: It's funny. Speaking of we were talking about social media

324
00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:37,080
Speaker 1: earlier and I was watching I watched my daughter and

325
00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:41,360
Speaker 1: her friend's tiktoks as they all know, and I, you know, whatever,

326
00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:45,120
Speaker 1: but everyone's been really nice.

327
00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:47,760
Speaker 2: I've been shocked the comic girl's changed.

328
00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:51,200
Speaker 1: And maybe it's fake. I don't know, but when I

329
00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:54,840
Speaker 1: look at these, it is literally like all like, oh

330
00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:57,000
Speaker 1: my god, you're so beautiful. Oh my god, and then

331
00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:59,200
Speaker 1: they are all responding like no, that's you.

332
00:14:59,200 --> 00:14:59,960
Speaker 2: You're beautiful.

333
00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:01,840
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I do feel like that's a little

334
00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:02,920
Speaker 1: bit of a trend we didn't have.

335
00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:03,840
Speaker 2: But is that not?

336
00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:07,680
Speaker 1: But is it not? I mean maybe different people are different,

337
00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:08,560
Speaker 1: but yeah.

338
00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:11,040
Speaker 4: There's definitely lots of fakeness, especially like with girls on

339
00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:15,600
Speaker 4: social media. But I mean, yeah, like people I've like

340
00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:17,480
Speaker 4: never talked to, they'll like comment like, oh my god,

341
00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:18,160
Speaker 4: you're so pretty.

342
00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm like, there's like a lot of but

343
00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,680
Speaker 2: you are so pretty. Yeah. Maybe they're just truth tellers.

344
00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:25,920
Speaker 4: But then it's also like there'll be people who are

345
00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:28,000
Speaker 4: like who will say like one thing like oh my god,

346
00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:29,920
Speaker 4: you're so pretty, but then they'll like be talking talking

347
00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:30,280
Speaker 4: about it.

348
00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:33,040
Speaker 2: I just want you to know. That's kind of yeah,

349
00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:38,720
Speaker 2: all of life. Well, speaking of lots of girls competing

350
00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:41,640
Speaker 2: against one boy, we've got Hannah Brown on oh Yeah,

351
00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:44,920
Speaker 2: The Ultimate Competition, The Ultimate Competition. She's got a book out,

352
00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:46,360
Speaker 2: so let's take a break and then get her on.

353
00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:04,560
Speaker 2: Hey girl, Hi, it's Janna Catherine Kristen. And then my

354
00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:08,000
Speaker 2: niece Ava is joining as well. Okay, amazing, it's a

355
00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:09,800
Speaker 2: little girl's wine down today.

356
00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,120
Speaker 5: I love this. I'm glad I can join.

357
00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:15,520
Speaker 2: Thank you for coming on. I so a few things.

358
00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:20,400
Speaker 2: I was opening up, you know, the mail or whatever,

359
00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:22,080
Speaker 2: and I open this box and I see this book

360
00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:23,880
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, like, this is like so cool.

361
00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:26,240
Speaker 2: And I'm like, you know, I love the cover and

362
00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:28,080
Speaker 2: I'm kind of like I opened it up just to

363
00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:29,480
Speaker 2: kind of you know, read a little bit of it,

364
00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:31,040
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, this is like right up my

365
00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,760
Speaker 2: alley and I look and I'm like, Hannah Brown. I

366
00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:36,320
Speaker 2: was like, no way. And then I'm like, wait, is

367
00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,280
Speaker 2: it a is it a like a truth s terer?

368
00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:41,360
Speaker 2: Like I know you wrote that your your memoir before

369
00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:43,120
Speaker 2: and I'm like, does she do another one? Then I

370
00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:44,640
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, this is so cool. It's

371
00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:48,400
Speaker 2: like totally not It's like she's like really an author,

372
00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:50,440
Speaker 2: and like it's like how cool is that?

373
00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:53,840
Speaker 6: It's It's been really cool. Yeah, this is something that

374
00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:58,120
Speaker 6: I've always wanted to do. But yeah, it's definitely. I

375
00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:01,600
Speaker 6: think it's like combine Finding my World as a romance

376
00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:06,680
Speaker 6: novel and people you know, followed my journey and I

377
00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:08,720
Speaker 6: continue to follow and support me on.

378
00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:09,600
Speaker 5: My journey to love.

379
00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:13,600
Speaker 6: So you know, this is another love story that is

380
00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:17,080
Speaker 6: definitely connected to me, but it's a whole it's a

381
00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,240
Speaker 6: whole new one for people to enjoy.

382
00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:22,960
Speaker 2: No, I mean, I'm I've gotten through a couple chapters down.

383
00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,359
Speaker 2: It's a great but it reminds me of you write

384
00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,359
Speaker 2: like Emily Giffen. Oh, I love that.

385
00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:29,720
Speaker 6: That is That's an honor because those were like some

386
00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:33,119
Speaker 6: of my very first Her books were some of my

387
00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:36,840
Speaker 6: very first when I got into the genre. So that

388
00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:41,880
Speaker 6: is definitely a very sweet praise from you, So thank you.

389
00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:44,399
Speaker 2: No, I mean, it's it's really really cute and I

390
00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:48,439
Speaker 2: like it a lot. So was it something where you're like, Okay,

391
00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,080
Speaker 2: what made you shift that direction? I know you say

392
00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:52,120
Speaker 2: you always want to do it.

393
00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:56,280
Speaker 6: But yeah, it really was that. Like I mean, I

394
00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:59,000
Speaker 6: think the first time I had a call, like the

395
00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:01,600
Speaker 6: first meeting I had when I got agents, after I

396
00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,800
Speaker 6: was on a few of the reality TV shows I.

397
00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:05,879
Speaker 5: Was on there what do you want to do? And oh,

398
00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:07,920
Speaker 5: my god, I don't know. I mean like I.

399
00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,080
Speaker 6: Had just like the world opened up to me in

400
00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:13,440
Speaker 6: a different way. But one of the things that I,

401
00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,320
Speaker 6: you know, had a dream about, Like in my kitchen,

402
00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:19,240
Speaker 6: my parents' kitchen in Tusco's, Alabama, I.

403
00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:20,960
Speaker 5: Remember talking to my mom about how.

404
00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:24,520
Speaker 6: I would love to, like one day, really work hard

405
00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:27,160
Speaker 6: and be able to do a novel, write a novel,

406
00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:33,760
Speaker 6: because I've always enjoyed reading and writing. But so this

407
00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:35,960
Speaker 6: has been like my first real dream come true. So

408
00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,440
Speaker 6: it was something that we talked about a while ago

409
00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:43,520
Speaker 6: of this this happening, but finally the right like I

410
00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,919
Speaker 6: had a great team that I had a lot of

411
00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,560
Speaker 6: help to figure out, like how do I even make

412
00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:52,000
Speaker 6: this change? Like what do I need to do to

413
00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:56,520
Speaker 6: be able to make this happen? And we've been working

414
00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:58,800
Speaker 6: on mistakes we never made for about two years now,

415
00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:03,800
Speaker 6: but it has It's it's been a dream and something

416
00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,119
Speaker 6: that you know, I was working towards for for a

417
00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:07,000
Speaker 6: really long time.

418
00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:10,200
Speaker 2: It kind of reminds me of two I don't know

419
00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:12,000
Speaker 2: if any of you girls have seen the movie, but

420
00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:12,920
Speaker 2: anyone but you.

421
00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:15,560
Speaker 5: Have I seen that movie.

422
00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,560
Speaker 2: I feel like I am I saying it right, am

423
00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,320
Speaker 2: I saying that right anyone, but you have you seen it?

424
00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:23,880
Speaker 2: Afa we're watching it tonight. It's it's like the it's

425
00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:28,120
Speaker 2: Sydney Sweeney, Sidney yes, and I feel like I've seen

426
00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,280
Speaker 2: that dude from it just came well, I mean it

427
00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:32,720
Speaker 2: kind of just came out, but it's on Netflix now.

428
00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,120
Speaker 2: It reminded me of the old school How to Lose

429
00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:39,320
Speaker 2: a Guy in ten Days. It was very it was

430
00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:42,960
Speaker 2: like the best romantic comedy that I've seen since since

431
00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,800
Speaker 2: back then. Like it's so good. Like we're watching it tonight,

432
00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,640
Speaker 2: like hands down, Like I've been so excited that it's

433
00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:51,399
Speaker 2: coming on Netflix because we just watched it in the

434
00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,280
Speaker 2: hotel like a couple of weeks ago, and I was like,

435
00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:55,800
Speaker 2: this is so good. But it kind of reminds me

436
00:19:55,880 --> 00:20:00,359
Speaker 2: of that where it's like that missed interaction kind of

437
00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:02,480
Speaker 2: mess but then the world's kind of come back together.

438
00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:05,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, because they're not like full like there's these classic

439
00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:08,760
Speaker 6: romance trips like enemies to lovers, because Emma and Finn

440
00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 6: aren't full enemies. Neither were like Sidney Sweeney and Glenn

441
00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 6: Powell's character, they have like a there's a connection.

442
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:18,400
Speaker 5: Onto each other.

443
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, just the miscommunication that's made there to be that

444
00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:28,679
Speaker 6: like tension, and you know, just like in that that movie,

445
00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:30,440
Speaker 6: they go on the journey to see if they can

446
00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:33,199
Speaker 6: ever figure it out and be able to be together

447
00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,680
Speaker 6: in any type of amicable way, And Emma and Finn

448
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:40,119
Speaker 6: kind of have that similar thing. Like in the book

449
00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 6: they're they're best friends, Sybil it's getting married and said

450
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:48,000
Speaker 6: they're both there for the wedding weekend, and Emma's very

451
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 6: type A and just she feels like.

452
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:52,919
Speaker 5: It's her duty to be like she would be.

453
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,280
Speaker 6: She's a great maid of honor, she's got she got

454
00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:57,240
Speaker 6: everything down like written in.

455
00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,400
Speaker 5: The schedule, but she's just kind of can be intense.

456
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:03,879
Speaker 6: And Sybil is a runaway bride, and so of course

457
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:05,679
Speaker 6: she takes it on herself to be able to like

458
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 6: fix it and to save her best friend from making

459
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:14,639
Speaker 6: a terrible mistake. But like she could deal with Finn.

460
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 6: I guess she's like, I can do this. But then

461
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 6: it's like now they have to go on this journey together,

462
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 6: and now they're like stuck in a car on a

463
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 6: road trip trying to find their friend. So they have

464
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 6: to have this like force interaction, and that forced proximity

465
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 6: to really like work through their stuff. So it's fun.

466
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 6: I think it's a great like Beatree with the.

467
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,879
Speaker 5: Yeah summer coming up. I think people really love it.

468
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 3: Is there any part of you that is Emma or

469
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 3: is there a Finn in your heart or world?

470
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 2: Like where did these two come from?

471
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:49,439
Speaker 5: So Emma is definitely a part of me.

472
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 6: The whole idea of writing this book, like where did

473
00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 6: they come from? I really wanted it to be centered

474
00:21:59,920 --> 00:22:02,959
Speaker 6: or around actually like a group of women, kind of

475
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:07,160
Speaker 6: like that sex in the City vibe of like we're

476
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 6: really invested in the way that these the Core four

477
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 6: and six we never made what they're called, how like

478
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 6: their love story with each other, how we wreak them

479
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:21,680
Speaker 6: and then their individuals love stories. But this book follows

480
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:26,239
Speaker 6: Emma's and Emma is a part of me, just like

481
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 6: the other girls that you meet in this book for

482
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 6: the first time are a part of me as well.

483
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 6: And it's just me if I was like more of

484
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 6: those few characteristics.

485
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:39,199
Speaker 5: Or times in my life, like what would I be?

486
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 6: And I would be an Emma Because I feel like

487
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:46,159
Speaker 6: even though this is different than my first book that

488
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 6: was it was a memoir, there still has to be

489
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:51,400
Speaker 6: truth to write from somewhere, like I cante just sit

490
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 6: down at a computer and write about something I don't

491
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 6: know at all, even if it is like really creative.

492
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 6: That's hard for me probably for you. Well, like writing

493
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 6: a song, like you have to write from somewhere that

494
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 6: is that it is true, or seeing from somewhere that

495
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 6: you can relate to. So to be able to do that,

496
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,879
Speaker 6: had to infuse myself into these characters or experiences that

497
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 6: I've had. So when it comes to Finn, he really

498
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 6: isn't one person. I think he is a He is

499
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 6: parts of some of the I say, like the greatest

500
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,679
Speaker 6: hits of my life, of like the guys that that

501
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 6: I've had relationships with miscommunication with. But he's not as

502
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:42,640
Speaker 6: much of like a part of one guy is where

503
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 6: he really is just a mixture of different situations that

504
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 6: I've had.

505
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 2: Could could I ask a question about the Bachelorette or

506
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 2: are you just like done talking.

507
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 5: About you can totally ask me?

508
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 2: Okay, So, and I really want to hear too about

509
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 2: you know, obviously you're engaged. I want to hear all

510
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 2: about that. And I want to, you know, just because

511
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 2: because that's the he he you know, he got the

512
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 2: final final Prize final rose all of that. But I'm

513
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 2: curious because when I watched the show, you know, obviously

514
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 2: we all kind of saw like went down what went

515
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 2: down in the end, and then you had a thing

516
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 2: I guess with Tyler too, And I was curious because

517
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 2: when I watched it, I looked at it and go,

518
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,360
Speaker 2: everyone was loving Tyler, right, and like, he's this guy

519
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:28,159
Speaker 2: that stepped out of GQ magazine pretty much, and like,

520
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:32,199
Speaker 2: you know, was it did your mind kind of shift

521
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 2: in a way where it was like you wanted that

522
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 2: out a little bit with Jed too, to be like, Okay,

523
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 2: this happened, and then to be like, because Tyler was

524
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 2: kind of the guy that everybody loved versus Jed, does

525
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 2: that make sense or no.

526
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 5: Totally it does? It does? I think.

527
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,679
Speaker 6: I was really confused at the end of who I

528
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 6: wanted to be with, and then I started finding out

529
00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:59,360
Speaker 6: little things about.

530
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 5: The relationship that I had chosen, even though it was

531
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 5: like hard, like I was like wanting to run.

532
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 6: I wanted to change my mind at the last minute.

533
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 6: Then I didn't. I was like, no, this makes the

534
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 6: most sense. Jed makes the most sense. And not that

535
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 6: I cared for I cared for them. Gosh, the last

536
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 6: the last three guys in my season I really did

537
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 6: like have feelings for And it was tough because I

538
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 6: just like sent one guy home, Peter, and then two

539
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 6: days later I had to get engaged and on the

540
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 6: day that I get engaged, have to send somebody else home.

541
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 6: So it's really hard because like those phillies just don't

542
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 6: go away after you just decided to get engaged to another.

543
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 2: Person, right, and naturally what good person wouldn't have that.

544
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 5: Yeah, So like that was like really like hard already.

545
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 6: So it wasn't like I got engaged to Jed and

546
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 6: didn't like stop caring about Tyler.

547
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 5: You know.

548
00:25:56,560 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 6: And then when literally like the next day, I start

549
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 6: getting like something's not right here, that was really tough

550
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 6: because then I'm like, what did I just do? And

551
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 6: so it wasn't And then it of course was hard

552
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 6: to see everybody like, you know, really be on to

553
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 6: somebody else that you're that you're internally like, I don't

554
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 6: know what I just did. And then of course I'm

555
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 6: behind the scenes having this heartbreak that then people are

556
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 6: also kind of seeing some Yeah, it was just it

557
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:33,439
Speaker 6: was real.

558
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 2: It's like no, no, wait, no, no, no, no, gig Hudi,

559
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 2: I want you back, like no, no, no, But I'm

560
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 2: just kidding.

561
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 6: Ultimate any of those relationships, like they weren't fully flushed through.

562
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 6: Like the people will ask, you know, what do you

563
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 6: what do you think would have happened if you would

564
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,439
Speaker 6: have done something else? I'm like, I don't know, because

565
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 6: I didn't. You only know these people so much. I

566
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 6: mean genuinely, I probably only spent in total, maybe forty

567
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,439
Speaker 6: eight hours with the person that I got engaged to

568
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 6: when you stop actual hours, probably not.

569
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 2: Even wild wild Yeah that's crazy. I didn't know that.

570
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 6: Yes, like nothing, there's nothing to like make a really

571
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 6: big decision to people who like who have had really

572
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 6: successful relationships out of them, like kudos to them, because

573
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 6: it's a lot of work.

574
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 5: After the show.

575
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 6: I feel like like you're just seeing literally like the

576
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 6: first few days with the person actually like what those

577
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 6: feelings that you have.

578
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 5: It's a lot of work afterwards, totally.

579
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 3: It's also a lot to sort through because like in

580
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,479
Speaker 3: the first forty eight hours, the first forty eight like

581
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 3: there's this like you have this no one.

582
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 2: Died Christa, you know, well someone well loved it.

583
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, there was there was an engagement death.

584
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 3: I do feel like there is this like like we're

585
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,360
Speaker 3: all still in the rose colored glasses, like the lusty

586
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 3: like also intriguing, right, Like new people are intriguing. You

587
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 3: want to know, Like you seem like such a genuine

588
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 3: sweet person that I'm like, of course you probably really

589
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 3: wanted to get to know who these people are. So

590
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 3: now you're like trying to sort through and they're all

591
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 3: best foot forward, right as they should be. Yeah, right, So.

592
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: Then you're trying to decide, Wait, I'm going to spend

593
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 2: the rest of my life with someone, but like, also,

594
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 2: what's your favorite color? I mean I love Jed, but

595
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 2: you know, like he's like trying to like seduce her

596
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 2: with like singing like songs and stuff. It's like none

597
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 2: of that is like you know, you know, the country life,

598
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 2: I do it, got me, got me three kids.

599
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 3: I mean I still feel like I'm like, wait, we

600
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 3: only knew each other forty eight hours. So much of

601
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 3: what you're saying so relatable. I mean, we're all in

602
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 3: like we think we found our person, and we did,

603
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:48,959
Speaker 3: but then you've got to like really get to know someone.

604
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 5: Yeah.

605
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: But also I mean they're sorry not to cut you off,

606
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: but like I mean, even if you only knew him

607
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: for a couple of months, you spent hours with hours

608
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: every time you're with me, and no one else like

609
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: they're there's no way to even really compare that.

610
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 3: No, I'm saying, like, I don't know how you would

611
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 3: do it, because like I got to like court and

612
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 3: love and see and FaceTime and and only one person.

613
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a lot, Like that's crazy.

614
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think I think it's it's I'm so thankful

615
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 6: for the experience made me learn a lot about myself

616
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 6: and and love and what I what I want and

617
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 6: what I don't and even you know, now I can

618
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 6: look back so compassionately for myself with people there, it's

619
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 6: it's a it's a tough thing. But also had a

620
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:43,479
Speaker 6: lot of cool experiences, but the relationship part, but I

621
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 6: did not know how to do very well because I

622
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 6: do think I had a hard time at first, but

623
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 6: then I did open my heart and then I mean,

624
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 6: any breakup is it's tough, especially if you just you

625
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 6: don't know why you're fully breaking up with people. It's

626
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 6: you got to make a decison of what feels the

627
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 6: best in that moment, and then then you've got to

628
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 6: like actually No, it's it's just hard. It's just overall

629
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 6: like a hard experience that.

630
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 5: I learned a lot.

631
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 2: From well, and I feel like it took like from that,

632
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 2: it was like a couple of years that you were

633
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 2: almost like trying to find like Hannah in that, you know,

634
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 2: like there was COVID.

635
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 5: I had a hard time.

636
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, and it's it's it was kind of like

637
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 2: again outsider. And I can only say that because I've

638
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 2: you know, we've all had our journeys where we can

639
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 2: look outside and go, Okay, I was trying to find

640
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 2: myself through divorce and messiness and all the things, you know,

641
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 2: all the things, and then but so you can see

642
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: it in other people too, and it's like she's gonna

643
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 2: get there, you know what I mean. And then when

644
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 2: unfortunate things happen, like stupid video. You know, there's just

645
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 2: even things that happen, you're just kind of like you've

646
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 2: done a beautiful job though of like recreating yourself, and

647
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 2: you know, you have your podcast, you've had your book,

648
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,479
Speaker 2: you've got a beautiful new relationship. So it's it's been

649
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 2: a joy to kind of watch you go through it

650
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 2: too and like come out on the other side. Like

651
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:09,719
Speaker 2: still unapologetically you and beautiful and kind, and so I

652
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 2: just like I want you to see like know that

653
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 2: like from the outside people that really like you know

654
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: genuinely you're doing you did an amazing job like through

655
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 2: all of it.

656
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 5: Thank you. Yeah.

657
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 6: I think sometimes when you get knocked down all the

658
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 6: way to the bottom of like you thought everything was

659
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 6: going to go one way and it goes completely different,

660
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 6: that's where really the growth can happen and you can

661
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 6: really become who you're meant to because all of the

662
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 6: like labels and the ways that you viewed yourself are

663
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 6: all stripped away. So it's like, okay, well now I

664
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 6: can just who am I and how do I want

665
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 6: to actually go out in the world. And it takes

666
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 6: a lot of hard work and like really soul searching

667
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 6: to figure out, like how did you get yourself in

668
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 6: a place to feel so lost, lonely needing love and

669
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 6: validation in these certain ways, And it's it's now I

670
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 6: can really read the blessings of doing that that hard

671
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 6: work that I did all myself, and it feels great.

672
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 2: And then Adam comes along, you know, and I think

673
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 2: that's beautiful too, because it's that's kind of how I

674
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 2: feel about Alan. I'm like, if he would have come

675
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 2: in in the middle of the mess, we would have

676
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 2: never been where we are today. He had to get

677
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 2: the the healthy, healed version of myself.

678
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 6: I would say, Adam, kind of he still kind of

679
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 6: met me in the mess, but I was in a like, Hey,

680
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 6: I don't know if you want to be with me right.

681
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 5: Now because I am still like healing.

682
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 6: There's a lot I don't know about love and how

683
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 6: to show up in this, but like he was like,

684
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 6: I'm in I want to be with you. And he

685
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 6: saw all the good part He saw all the good

686
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 6: parts of me and stuck with me. And he's gone

687
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 6: through he has seen me at you know, some of

688
00:32:57,040 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 6: my worst moments, but it's just like loved me. It

689
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 6: supported me through, it encouraged me, and I think we've

690
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 6: just been able to grow together in a really beautiful way.

691
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 6: But I think for me, it actually was really great

692
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 6: to see somebody who I was so like lost and

693
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 6: hurting and having to like rebuild just my own worthiness

694
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 6: in myself after a lot of things didn't go the

695
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 6: way that I thought they were going to go. And

696
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 6: he decided and said he's still he loved you, even

697
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 6: loved that version of me. And that's such a like cool,

698
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 6: like unconditional like love that I've been able to experience.

699
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 6: That For a while, I thought, you know, people can

700
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 6: only love me if I miss this or the Bachelora

701
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 6: or those are the times that I'm worthy of love.

702
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 5: But what is it when you're.

703
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 6: Just like an actual, just like absolute mess and somebody

704
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 6: says like, no, I love you and I choose you.

705
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 5: It was just a really.

706
00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 6: Really great reflection of true love with Adam, and I'm

707
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 6: so lucky.

708
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 2: Well, and it shows you too that everything at all,

709
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 2: everything always happens, you know, for a reason. So the

710
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 2: journey that you went on was to get you here,

711
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 2: and everything that you're doing, it's like those to me

712
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 2: are always the God wings, totally along the way, totally.

713
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 3: I love that so much, Hannah, if you could tell

714
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 3: seventeen year old Hannah, because we have Janna's niece here

715
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,240
Speaker 3: and we did a little like if we were seventeen,

716
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 3: what did what we wish we would have known or

717
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 3: said to ourselves or what would like what would seventeen

718
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 3: year old Hannah tell sweet seventeen year old girls everywhere,

719
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 3: but including this stunning one in our chair.

720
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 6: Oh, you don't have to like try to be worth it,

721
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 6: you already are. I think that was something for me,

722
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 6: Like I thought I always had to prove and be

723
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 6: like good instead of just like be Hannah like I wanted.

724
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 6: There was so much that I thought I had to

725
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:05,240
Speaker 6: hide about myself and maybe the sadness that I felt

726
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 6: to be able to be good, happy, sweet Pianna and

727
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 6: really pushed all those other parts of myself that I

728
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 6: thought weren't worthy or wouldn't be loved away and like

729
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 6: it's just it's just with that I've gone on a

730
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 6: big journey. But like some of those parts are make

731
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 6: me who I am, And just because they don't like

732
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 6: always look good and perfect to put together doesn't mean

733
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 6: that they're not worth.

734
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 5: Like holding space for.

735
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 6: And yeah, I think I would just really like want

736
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 6: to tell myself, like all parts of you are like

737
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 6: what make you you, and you don't have to like

738
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 6: hide and put on a smile and pretend like things

739
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 6: are okay.

740
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 5: But like people that love you are going to like

741
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 5: love it all and be there for it all.

742
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:04,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. I love that too. So how

743
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 2: are you enjoying Nashville By the way.

744
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 5: So I've been here.

745
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,399
Speaker 6: I think it's just like now you're like this week

746
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 6: or last week or something.

747
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,320
Speaker 5: I'm like, I am liking it. I've missed the beach

748
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 5: a lot.

749
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 6: That's been That's been really tough for me because I've

750
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 6: moved to your room in Santa Monica. I'm from Alabama

751
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 6: but lived in Santa Monica for like four years, like

752
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 6: right by the beach, and it was amazing. I think

753
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 6: I'm like made for that type of life, Sylie, and

754
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,439
Speaker 6: people are like, I'm like the fast face. I'm like no,

755
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,919
Speaker 6: I'm like, I want to be at a beach town

756
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 6: where people are just like hanging out.

757
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 2: Okay, we're doing our best to make you feel at home.

758
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 3: With all the traffic that we're giving you, We're just

759
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,760
Speaker 3: trying to give you California type traffic here in Nashville.

760
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh. Well see that's why I just I

761
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 6: stayed on the West side. I didn't get in all that,

762
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 6: and now I have to be in all this traffic. Yeah,

763
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 6: It's it's just been shocking.

764
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 5: Like how.

765
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 6: I think I'm from a small town in the South

766
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 6: and now like has really blown up. So it's been

767
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 6: it's been a very different thing. Now I'm like in

768
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 6: the middle of it all, living like closer downtown.

769
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 5: But it's been really good.

770
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 6: The community is awesome and people are just so sweet,

771
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 6: and we found a church and just like I've just

772
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 6: met like just really kind people, like at my gym

773
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 6: and at church, and it's it's just it's been it's

774
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 6: been really sweet and I love it because I'm also

775
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 6: close to my family and like three and a half

776
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 6: hours away, so I've been able to like see them

777
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 6: a lot more driving distance.

778
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 5: So it's been good. But like I did not like

779
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 5: the winter at all.

780
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:44,399
Speaker 2: And that wasn't even a winter. We only have that one. Yeah,

781
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 2: that was that was a very tame winter. So oh

782
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 2: that makes me sad, I mean global warming maybe.

783
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:54,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, get that Santa Barbara or Santa Monica or Santa something.

784
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 2: Just like every other year. It might be bad next year. Maybe.

785
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 2: Where you're all from, well we're in the Franklin area, okay,

786
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 2: but I'm from Michigan, so I'm but I moved to

787
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 2: California when I was eighteen, so I lost. Like, I

788
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 2: don't like the winners either. Yeah, this is as cold

789
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 2: as I mean. I don't know how No, I.

790
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: Don't know how I'll do that. But yeah, but I'm

791
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: from here, so I'm used to the I.

792
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 2: Have been debating a Boca move. Don't kill me. I

793
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 2: would love it.

794
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 5: Let's go.

795
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 2: I feel like, did that come from I've just been

796
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 2: kind of like looking into it a little bit like,

797
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 2: you know, I's so me though, you know, like to move.

798
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 2: But if I could get all my friends to move to.

799
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:33,760
Speaker 1: I am not moving to Boca.

800
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 2: I am a great Did you hear that my U

801
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 2: hauls in your drive bike person is gone. I'm from

802
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 2: Michigan too.

803
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 5: I love it.

804
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:46,879
Speaker 2: I would think it's great. Yeah. Yeah, well let's get

805
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 2: together at some point in this you know, Nashville world.

806
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,919
Speaker 2: But everyone, please please go get mistakes we never made

807
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 2: by Hannah Brown. It is available May seventh. Girl, Thank

808
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 2: you so much for coming on really pre shade it.

809
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 5: No, it was it was so.

810
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 6: It was so nice to be just just hanging out

811
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 6: with the girls. And yeah, I appreciate you.

812
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 2: Appreciate your girl. Thank you soon All right, bye bye girl. Yeah,

813
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 2: you would never move to Florida. I thought you liked

814
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 2: It's not that I would never in Florida. I h

815
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:34,839
Speaker 2: I'm monking.

816
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 1: Two things, yes, second thing, have you seen my hair?

817
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 2: You would do anything in Florida? Yeah, therapy. Can I

818
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 2: call you a poodle?

819
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, you would have to. I'd be Monica from friends,

820
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 1: but also we'd be broke. My husband's job is in Tennessee.

821
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 1: Oh you can sell his licenses in Tennessee.

822
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 2: Hard just start all over?

823
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 5: How hard is.

824
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 4: Like?

825
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: Real estate is not something you want to just like

826
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 1: once you've built it, unless we create, like move and

827
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 1: selling boat. But also, I mean, I think that's awesome,

828
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: and I'll come visit you a lot. I'm just visiting us.

829
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 2: You're visiting us.

830
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 1: Sorry, but Christian's there, I'm Marty.

831
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:28,919
Speaker 2: Did you move to Florida Ava? Do you like cold weather?

832
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 4: No?

833
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 2: No, we almost moved in.

834
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 4: We were going to move over the summer to Florida.

835
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 2: Oh we didn't go to welcome you guys. My feeling

836
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:41,800
Speaker 2: and my lips are finally coming back. I had a

837
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 2: panic attack today when I got my laser done because

838
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 2: they put the numbing cream and I was like.

839
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 5: I can't feel my lips.

840
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 2: I've got them vizziling back because I am nineteen. You

841
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 2: and anything else? Did we miss anything? We've missed so much?

842
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 2: Definitely going back on the Road soon girls June. Oh, which,

843
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:07,320
Speaker 2: by the way, so the other movie came back around.

844
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 2: Oh geez, We're not going on the road again girls. No, no,

845
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 2: we are, but they had so did you see the

846
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 2: text message where it was like, oh, Jane, are you

847
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 2: talking to the director? Yes, because what happened was is

848
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:24,360
Speaker 2: they wanted me to do this movie in London. It

849
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 2: was a Christmas movie. I really want to love Brian.

850
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 2: I wanted to go do it, but it was five

851
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:31,400
Speaker 2: days after I wrapped this last movie, and I'm like, mentally,

852
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 2: I've been literally bruised, like I've had bruises from like

853
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 2: I'm just I need I need a beat. Like. So

854
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 2: he's like, well, we can push it two weeks and

855
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 2: I'm like, I cannot reschedule my wind down dates. So

856
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 2: I've forfeited doing another movie. So yeah, because I'm like,

857
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 2: I can't. I can't reschedule a second time. I can't

858
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:55,879
Speaker 2: do it. So I was like, if you can move

859
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 2: it to the week after wind down.

860
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 1: In the world, would that work?

861
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 2: London just already being nestled in and then nestled in.

862
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 2: I know, this has been fun. Ava. I love you.

863
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 2: I'm glad you're here. What do you want to do

864
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 2: this week. I don't know. I told her. I was like,

865
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 2: I was like girls going to like rain and be cold.

866
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 2: It's not like fun pool weather, but it'll be excuse

867
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 2: for her to come back another time. It's also warmer

868
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 2: than probably home. And I remember when I was seventeen,

869
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 2: all I wanted to do was get tam, which is

870
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 2: why we're laying there to do until forty. I know,

871
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 2: because like, what are seventeen year olds like to do?

872
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 2: It on social media? Sleep? Oh, sleep, shop shop.

873
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 4: I wake up, go to school, sleep, take a nap,

874
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 4: go to work. But then I also like coach kids too,

875
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 4: and I babysit for a family, so very busy.

876
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 3: Well, if you have any spare hours, seventeen, she's here

877
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 3: to visit, not work.

878
00:42:58,280 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 2: I'm I'm just here for two days.

879
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 1: I'll take you for six hours.

880
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 2: There's a couple of spare hours. Well, she just helped

881
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 2: me and Alan push up the The golf cart died

882
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 2: on the bottom of the so us three had to

883
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 2: push up. That's amazing. He has a truck. Why don't

884
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 2: you just latch it and pull it? Oh my, well

885
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 2: too late now he did say that, but I was like, no, no,

886
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 2: we got it. But the funny thing was is I'm

887
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 2: pretty sure I wasn't doing anything even though I was.

888
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 2: I was doing a full plank from my feet and

889
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 2: then my arm's there and then like when I let go,

890
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 2: it didn't move it all. So I was like, okay, support,

891
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 2: It makes me nervous that if anyone let go that

892
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: you'll just be right. And then he goes ava when

893
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,479
Speaker 2: I say, hurry up and put the brake the pea break.

894
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:40,359
Speaker 2: Why are you saying that? Why are saying that? Are

895
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 2: you gonna let go? Because if you're gonna like go

896
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna run off, Because if you're gonna let go,

897
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 2: you're gonna learn that I haven't been doing at your back,

898
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 2: Cramer or I know same seas. Oh my gosh. Also

899
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 2: the flight we didn't get into like one in the

900
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 2: morning because we got delayed in because there was our

901
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 2: airplane wouldn't land in the thunderstorm, so it got rerouted

902
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: somewhere else than we like had to find a plane.

903
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 2: But it's all good. Someone from refuge was there from therapy,

904
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm about to need therapy and

905
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 2: about when the baby starts crying. But everything is fine

906
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 2: yah wait I just I'm seeing you guys in so long,

907
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 2: so this episodes super long. Love you guys,