Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make.
Speaker 2: Horrible decision. All right, let me just do it and
Speaker 2: then you talk about Okay, go ahead, how do everybody?
Speaker 2: We have the Horrible Decisions Podcast, and we are going
Speaker 2: to be in Dallas, Texas Memorial Day weekend, which is
Speaker 2: a Sunday. We're gonna be headlining the two Togetherland Festival.
Speaker 2: And you bitches better than I. How the motherfucker work
Speaker 2: on Sunday? Call out? Ho?
Speaker 3: I mean you could do that. But also it's a
Speaker 3: three day weekend. They have Monday off. We will see
Speaker 3: you guys in Dallas, Texas at the together Land Festival.
Speaker 3: Make sure you get your tickets now. We will be
Speaker 3: live on the podcast stage. That's May twenty six. Get
Speaker 3: your tickets now at togetherland dot com. Hey guys, welcome
Speaker 3: to another episode of Horrid Bled.
Speaker 2: This is young Man dv aka paid Sign aka dit Beach.
Speaker 2: I'm weasy. I may be dressed like a lesbian, but
Speaker 2: but you are I got a niggame, sure, I mean,
Speaker 2: and is no? I look really good, very gay, extremely gay.
Speaker 3: I mean I don't look much non gayer than you
Speaker 3: right now with the fucking cargoes.
Speaker 2: But you know the thing that's interesting about me dressing
Speaker 2: like this. Don't get me wrong, Like when I dress sexy,
Speaker 2: I think men are always like oh, because I don't
Speaker 2: like to do it up too much. Even drama fucking
Speaker 2: left for comment on my last thing, like all right,
Speaker 2: chill sis, my homeboys do not like me looking cute.
Speaker 2: But I get hit on way more when I'm dressed
Speaker 2: like this.
Speaker 3: I don't say I get hit on more when I
Speaker 3: dress like this, but like I just went to UH.
Speaker 3: I wore these exact pants on set with UH when
Speaker 3: I went on set first seven pm in Brooklyn, and
Speaker 3: it just made me feel good. You're handy, Melo mellow
Speaker 3: any super fire And I was like, not mellow complimenting
Speaker 3: my pants and then here go Merrow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she'd be putting that shit on.
Speaker 3: And do and do, and so to me like to
Speaker 3: get complimented by men, I think.
Speaker 2: Even their shit costs a lot ours.
Speaker 3: You know, we could dress flot for like twenty two
Speaker 3: dollars and so like when men like can appreciate that
Speaker 3: a woman dresses or try to put that shit on
Speaker 3: without overlooking sexy, I kind of like the compliments for
Speaker 3: men and that I think girls like have a lot
Speaker 3: of opportunity to start dressing better instead of like that.
Speaker 2: You know, we do a lot of matching sets. I
Speaker 2: feel like that's been a thing for the last few years,
Speaker 2: and so when you get to like kind of play
Speaker 2: with color and patterns and shit like that, Like we're
Speaker 2: lucky to have Pinterest and Instagram to teach us, bitch,
Speaker 2: because on some real shit, Yeah, how was my mama
Speaker 2: stylin on these holes?
Speaker 1: I did?
Speaker 2: I don't know, but like it's very easy to like
Speaker 2: try to learn new color waves, shit like that. So
Speaker 2: I think dudes really appreciate it because for the most part,
Speaker 2: they keep seeing the same shit.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Anyways, guys, we ain't got a guest today.
Speaker 2: I know you all.
Speaker 3: Motherfucker's happy. God damn, I almost had to be. I said, bitch,
Speaker 3: we need some solo episodes. So I'm sitting here talking
Speaker 3: to the team and they're like, we really need some.
Speaker 2: Solo So we're not fighting, which is crazy. We just
Speaker 2: had really good opportunities for guests because bitch, you know,
Speaker 2: and we're like, it's the mic.
Speaker 3: I was a little annoying. This bitch had niggas fly in.
Speaker 3: I said, bro, we really don't need guests to fly
Speaker 3: in like, no, no, no, no, no, I didn't know he
Speaker 3: was flying in. Two of them flew in, did they not? Yeah,
Speaker 3: but she was already in town on her whole sex tour.
Speaker 2: Okay, and what and then I didn't know he was
Speaker 2: flying Funny, I could well I found out it was
Speaker 2: a sex tour. When you know, when the girls basically
Speaker 2: when the sex work of girls be like I had
Speaker 2: three clients Billy from March ten to fourteenth, you'd be like,
Speaker 2: oh uh huh, are you in a show booking them things?
Speaker 2: Booking them? I am in. Have you been fucking?
Speaker 1: Huh?
Speaker 2: I have even sucking.
Speaker 3: So if y'all are on the pat Rion, y'all know
Speaker 3: I got flew out just for a dick suck, but.
Speaker 2: I did no, No, Mandy, can I say something y
Speaker 2: that was really funny about that Patreon episode? What Mandy
Speaker 2: was crying? She was really having a tough day. She said,
Speaker 2: I haven't even been fucking This podcast hard to do.
Speaker 2: I did suck a dick, but I haven't even been
Speaker 2: faighting And I was like in the middle of the.
Speaker 3: Tiers, yo, So I I did just get some some
Speaker 3: single lane.
Speaker 2: What are you fuck?
Speaker 3: Don't worry about that. So it was like, this is like,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call it a okay. I came up with
Speaker 3: a name it with it on live. It's a three
Speaker 3: night stand. So this is a old nigga. But I
Speaker 3: fucked him maybe like a.
Speaker 2: Year ago and not when she was wiped up.
Speaker 3: No, it was not. It was during a breakup, so
Speaker 3: oh it was a year and a half ago. Then
Speaker 3: I him it's been a long time. So fucked him
Speaker 3: like a year and a half ago during one of
Speaker 3: my one of thirteen breakups, and literally was like at
Speaker 3: one point was like, oh, maybe this could be my
Speaker 3: sign nigga.
Speaker 2: Didn't end up because of course I was in love
Speaker 2: with fuck boy.
Speaker 3: So anyways, ended up going out and we were in
Speaker 3: the same room and I was like text him with
Speaker 3: the little eyes and was like, hope you're enjoying yourself.
Speaker 2: We're in the same room and uh. Then he texts
Speaker 2: me back. I was like, well, I'm with my friends.
Speaker 3: He was with his friends, and then I hit him
Speaker 3: back later and was like you enjoying yourself and he
Speaker 3: goes to face time me and bitch is pitch dark.
Speaker 3: I'm like, where are you at? Because I'm still at
Speaker 3: the goddamn. At the at the spot, he's like, oh,
Speaker 3: I'm in bed.
Speaker 2: I said, okay, I'm leaving now, I'll meet you there
Speaker 2: and I literally leave the event.
Speaker 3: I let my friends know, bitch gotta go, got to
Speaker 3: go get some dick and hopped in an uber and
Speaker 3: went and got that dick and it was great.
Speaker 2: Three.
Speaker 3: I say three nights stand because I might fucking one
Speaker 3: more again and then that's about it. I don't think
Speaker 3: I want I don't want a situationship. I don't want
Speaker 3: a fuck buddy. I know that that's not what I want.
Speaker 3: So in the material, no dick.
Speaker 2: Just when you want it.
Speaker 3: Literally in the meantime between time, I got one more
Speaker 3: dick session with him and then dad sis So he
Speaker 3: gonna be my three nights stand?
Speaker 2: Why can't you produce him? Let me produced.
Speaker 3: He is not someone that I'm going to pursue. I
Speaker 3: am very logical and who could and would be a
Speaker 3: partner in my life.
Speaker 2: He is not one. But the way I want to
Speaker 2: fucking fuck that did uh huh? I knew it. It's
Speaker 2: a good one. And it's like they try to get
Speaker 2: he getting he getting one. Most when you wouldn't name
Speaker 2: where you were at I remember, I'm like, good for
Speaker 2: you man, he look at you with the deets. No, no, no,
Speaker 2: So it was it was really good.
Speaker 3: I do have like my one person right now that
Speaker 3: I'm kind of staying, but we just his schedule is busy,
Speaker 3: mine is busy, and we have to fly to see
Speaker 3: each other. So it's just not really working out that great.
Speaker 3: But yeah, this one, I got one more fucked in
Speaker 3: me before I'm like, okay, no more fucking.
Speaker 2: This was fun. Maybe we could work together, you know,
Speaker 2: look at you working with someone you fucks happens. Yeah, no,
Speaker 2: they still won't be on this podcast. Ship No, no,
Speaker 2: let me.
Speaker 3: Not be on this podcast. But yeah, so it was cute.
Speaker 3: We went like three rounds. I just kept making them
Speaker 3: hard and it was good. I was shocked.
Speaker 2: So it was crazy. It's not super big, but it
Speaker 2: did what it needed to do.
Speaker 3: And funny with big niggas don't have big dicks. It's like, bro,
Speaker 3: is God being fair?
Speaker 2: You're rich?
Speaker 3: He gotta make that dick a five inch fine, beautiful, like.
Speaker 2: And I ain't gonna hold the dick was in. I mean,
Speaker 2: what's wrong with all men? They're liars? Oh yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2: Dump and a public liar.
Speaker 3: So yeah, anyways, uh out said of that, what's been
Speaker 3: going on with you, bitch?
Speaker 2: Let me tell you how dick make you dumb? Girl?
Speaker 2: I got alady, you see I'm smart, I said, one
Speaker 2: more game. I got invited to that fucking gold party
Speaker 2: that Beyonce NJ throw and literally was like, I got
Speaker 2: plans down home view with my boot. I was on
Speaker 2: the plane like bitch anyway.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 2: I went to an Oscar pre party called The Night
Speaker 2: Before with Liz Goldwyn, and I realized how black Hollywood
Speaker 2: I am, to the point where like she was saying names,
Speaker 2: Oh have you ever seen this person? This person? And
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, like even the black people that be
Speaker 2: in white shit.
Speaker 3: I didn't know, but I didn't know if I could
Speaker 3: say what I thought yesterday. So I had a meeting
Speaker 3: yesterday at new House, which is kind of like a
Speaker 3: Soho house, and I'm in there and I'm a new Way.
Speaker 2: Oh is that what it is? No way? I'm pretty
Speaker 2: sure I'm joking. It's spelt like house. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I usually say nwie bitch. I used to call Houston
Speaker 3: Street Houston bitch. It's spelt like Houston anyway. So I'm
Speaker 3: at this place and there's a guy sitting directly across
Speaker 3: from me, white man with the white people hair, and
Speaker 3: I realized. I was like, he looks like an actor.
Speaker 3: But also all white men that looks like look like this,
Speaker 3: I feel like they're actors. And I started realizing that
Speaker 3: a lot of white men looked like white actors.
Speaker 2: Wait, who was he? He was just a white man
Speaker 2: that looked like he could have been an actor. Bitch,
Speaker 2: hold on, did you anyone see my story about Robert
Speaker 2: de Niro? Oh, bitch, I'm with a keem. We didn't
Speaker 2: try backer right. And I was like a real cute
Speaker 2: I had on this little tennis skirt and he's taking
Speaker 2: pictures of me in my little off but he's like,
Speaker 2: you're a cute girl. We have just up to gym.
Speaker 2: This white man's coming close to me. I was like,
Speaker 2: this one man, Robert de Niro, bitch, I said, are
Speaker 2: you John ham Who minded you? But John Hamm is
Speaker 2: fine as hell. If anyone doesn't know who that is,
Speaker 2: google him. He's on He's on mad Men. For some reason,
Speaker 2: I said, John ham I think it's because I had
Speaker 2: just seen him in a clip. And the guy stops
Speaker 2: smiles at me and was like, no, but people do
Speaker 2: tell me y'all look like de Niro. And he's like
Speaker 2: winking at me, turns back two or three times. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: he want to fuck me? So he not a whole up.
Speaker 2: That's Robert DeNiro. You thought Robert de Niro wanted to
Speaker 2: give you some white dick. First of all, google it.
Speaker 2: All black women, six black kids, every popping black woman.
Speaker 2: Naomi Campbell, all of them bitch called my mom and
Speaker 2: she was like, I could have sucked them. Everybody else
Speaker 2: he wanted a second. Is this right? But he's eighty Yeah,
Speaker 2: he looked good, maybe because he's who can't wait till
Speaker 2: we talk about the age difference.
Speaker 3: That when I tell you I was thinking about throw
Speaker 3: that pussy to an eighty year old. I wasn't gonna
Speaker 3: throw it. She was gonna toss it.
Speaker 1: She's away de NIROO.
Speaker 2: She said, I was gonna sit this pussy down. I
Speaker 2: wasn't gonna throw it. I couldn't believe I let it go.
Speaker 2: You know what made me so mad? So me and
Speaker 2: King were hanging out an hour later. Right, he was like, girl,
Speaker 2: he looked back two or three times, and I was like,
Speaker 2: why didn't I do anything? I could have been saved.
Speaker 2: I could have laughed horrible and I would have done
Speaker 2: my fucking speech online online and been like I was
Speaker 2: doing all the work. I'm tired of man, this is
Speaker 2: what we're doing. I'm just playing.
Speaker 1: This is what we do.
Speaker 2: What we're doing. But you do this monologue. I didn't
Speaker 2: really do a monologue.
Speaker 3: I say, I'm not trying me messy. I'm let's be
Speaker 3: very clear. Bitch was tired juggling that ship in Yos.
Speaker 3: This was a lot, and god.
Speaker 2: Damn it, you should feel special. I chose you. I
Speaker 2: don't need to feel special. Do an outline home we oh,
Speaker 2: just go to the live shows. Oh okay, don't flight
Speaker 2: with me. Why are you being so patty right now?
Speaker 2: But I also don't know what I don't know what
Speaker 2: the tea is. I'm just saying, that's what you said.
Speaker 2: Oh huh, that's what I said. I really don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know she might have been saying, and man,
Speaker 2: they could have been I've been been yelling at her
Speaker 2: and big controlling.
Speaker 3: I don't know what I said was it was debilitating
Speaker 3: to do both. I toured twenty four motherfucking cities. Last year,
Speaker 3: I was dropping five podcasts a fucking week.
Speaker 2: I want to blaming you.
Speaker 3: When I stayed debilitating, I was doing a lot and
Speaker 3: I had to drop something to do the things creatively
Speaker 3: I wanted to do, like Cerioudsis, like my animated series,
Speaker 3: and so that was.
Speaker 2: Something that was no longer serving me.
Speaker 3: And I want you all to know, with y'all, Patty
Speaker 3: motherfucking asses, I suggested my ex co host to record
Speaker 3: out a WTF Media studios.
Speaker 2: So I just would like to say, that is how
Speaker 2: much guess what we're getting along you guys.
Speaker 3: And I talked to my motherfucking therapist today and I
Speaker 3: was mad because I was like, I hate these kinds
Speaker 3: making it seem like me and Wheezy are just awful
Speaker 3: and hate each other. I said, we've been good since July,
Speaker 3: that is like eight months. I was like, bro, we've
Speaker 3: been good for like a good.
Speaker 2: Amount of time. My nigga was like, why did everybody
Speaker 2: be acting? Because sometimes he is a family friend and
Speaker 2: then like knows who we are and was like kind
Speaker 2: of asking questions about it. He's like, why does everybody
Speaker 2: ask like ellen good? Many seems I'm like since when I.
Speaker 3: Met you we got No, we don't hung out with
Speaker 3: each other's friends, business partners, lovers, partied at the club together,
Speaker 3: Like I.
Speaker 2: Mean, no, I think it's I don't want to say it,
Speaker 2: but I'm gonna say it. Oh, let me write this
Speaker 2: min and mark down a case we gotta bleep it out.
Speaker 2: I don't think we need to bleep it out. I
Speaker 2: really believe this. I think that it was New York.
Speaker 2: Sounded like New York. I mean, fucking they coming to
Speaker 2: get me. They said, bitch shop talking shit. No, I
Speaker 2: think like, honestly, I think you and Bridget recorded too much. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's really hard. I think it could have probably been
Speaker 2: easier if you didn't have to do so much and
Speaker 2: give up so much of your lives. I agree what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I haven't had a Monday off in three years.
Speaker 3: We were on tour, and I was literally catching six
Speaker 3: am flights, landing in New York at nine thirty, ten thirty,
Speaker 3: rushing home to drop off luggage, to get dressed, to
Speaker 3: go record from twelve to five every Monday.
Speaker 2: Honestly, Bridget seems like whatever happened between you guys, she
Speaker 2: seems like a sweet girl. So to me, it doesn't
Speaker 2: really matter how that person is. It's still like this
Speaker 2: is a lot, and then you're almost resenting it because
Speaker 2: you're like, fuck, I can't even live my life. And
Speaker 2: it was true. Maybe I had to literally if we
Speaker 2: had a Sunday show beyond the five am flight to record.
Speaker 2: And I understand that dedication because I've had to do
Speaker 2: it too with Horrible and I've been so like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, I've got too much going on in life,
Speaker 2: like it sucks. But I think our relationship improved because
Speaker 2: you were probably like, Okay, this is becoming the easier show.
Speaker 2: It's not that I feel like that, whether that's the
Speaker 2: truth or not, it's I believe that it's because a
Speaker 2: little bit of two things.
Speaker 3: I think that for as much work that yes, that
Speaker 3: podcast took, I think being on tour and you know,
Speaker 3: we ended our tour because of the pandemic, and I
Speaker 3: think being back in front of the whore Hive and
Speaker 3: seeing how this show has truly impacted people's lives, that
Speaker 3: knowing that I still don't want children, knowing that I
Speaker 3: want to put forth something that I do feel like
Speaker 3: is my legacy, I started also feeling like I fucking
Speaker 3: hate that I have to be on the shade room
Speaker 3: every day and have an opinion about things I really
Speaker 3: didn't give a I didn't even talk about We talked
Speaker 3: current events, and we talked music, and I started also
Speaker 3: just resenting that I had to be so involved with
Speaker 3: everyone else's lives and going to festivals and dealing with
Speaker 3: the labels and being in rooms with all of these
Speaker 3: celebrities that I may or may not have had an
Speaker 3: opinion about, Like I remember even fucking being a Dreamville.
Speaker 3: Literally Drake's right next to me, and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: I hope he ain't hear me talk about his nail polish.
Speaker 2: And I'm literally just like realizing I don't like that.
Speaker 3: That's like I'm now having all of these opinions about people,
Speaker 3: and that I'm having to share space with these people and.
Speaker 2: Maybe they view me. And it was just there. There
Speaker 2: was a.
Speaker 3: Lot about this show A I don't feel like we
Speaker 3: were building a core audience. And to be very clear,
Speaker 3: I made the decision to leave back in October November.
Speaker 3: I had the conversation with you, So this was almost
Speaker 3: a six six seven months ago decision for me, and
Speaker 3: it was because and this is this is the part
Speaker 3: where I am so like, this is where I feel
Speaker 3: the most happy. Our UTA agents, six months before our
Speaker 3: deal ended, started having conversations with other people and we're
Speaker 3: taking calls all to see all the people that got
Speaker 3: damned bankrupt now, so we're having all these calls for
Speaker 3: a new deal, We're having all these other options and
Speaker 3: seeing what it is.
Speaker 2: Wasn't as much money, not as much.
Speaker 3: But I ended up literally taking a phone call and
Speaker 3: I'm like, I wouldn't do this for another million dollars.
Speaker 3: Then they were like, well, how much do you want
Speaker 3: to do it for? And nothing in me was like
Speaker 3: there wasn't a dollar amount. Nothing moved me to want
Speaker 3: to do this anymore. And I was like, Wow, I'm
Speaker 3: not doing something for money, and I'm dealing with I've
Speaker 3: been dealing with that with my.
Speaker 2: Therapy, because that tells you it's not bridgal. Not only
Speaker 2: that I just talked to my therapist today. There's not
Speaker 2: a price on my pussy right now. I literally I
Speaker 2: s would have got none.
Speaker 3: I literally was like, wow, I can't imagine even laying
Speaker 3: down for a certain dollar amount, like and clearly that
Speaker 3: was a lot of my twenties, my late teens, and
Speaker 3: so to be able to walk away from the idea
Speaker 3: of money or a price tag at all, like felt
Speaker 3: really good for me because I've done a lot of
Speaker 3: things that I didn't want to do for money. And
Speaker 3: so as I'm sitting here talking to my agents and
Speaker 3: literally can't give them a number as to for one
Speaker 3: episode a week. Oh, there wasn't gonna be two episodes
Speaker 3: a week. Ever, there wasn't a dollar amount for me
Speaker 3: to do one episode a week.
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. Though, I think it's good
Speaker 2: to know that, like the content itself was stressful because
Speaker 2: you know, like with the whole call Her Daddy breakup,
Speaker 2: the thing that I really couldn't stand about Alex Cooper
Speaker 2: was not on Sofia, and I think it's tough when
Speaker 2: you watch what do you mean honoring just being like yo,
Speaker 2: I'm I've had this new accolade in life, Like I've
Speaker 2: done these things. I had a partner, and I think, like,
Speaker 2: even if it gets dicey in the end, like it's
Speaker 2: good to be like yo, I experienced this with this person,
Speaker 2: Like you know, to have a show for only three
Speaker 2: years and be able to tour it and do all
Speaker 2: the things you did, Like no, right now I'll live
Speaker 2: with that forever.
Speaker 3: I already know now that I can create use your pho,
Speaker 3: I can do another successful thing I have. I had
Speaker 3: the opportunity my show with MTV, the opportunities I've had
Speaker 3: with Revolt, the the things that I'm doing now. I
Speaker 3: don't think those opportunities come to me without see the
Speaker 3: thing that's good.
Speaker 2: So Bridget and you definitely were able to like come
Speaker 2: into each other's lives to have good ventures later pray.
Speaker 3: And I hope that she's able to use the platform
Speaker 3: that we both built to catapult her intil whatever's next
Speaker 3: for her.
Speaker 2: Same like I think that it's it's like each other right,
Speaker 2: Like I say all the time that I'll never forget
Speaker 2: the day I walked into that house and can you
Speaker 2: bever came up to me. It was like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: I love Horboosians. I'll always remember that. Because people think
Speaker 2: I applied for some fucking job or wanted to run
Speaker 2: some company, I just like, honestly no. And it's crazy
Speaker 2: because last week when I was working with him and
Speaker 2: he introduced me to someone, they had no idea that
Speaker 2: my work had been in sex for eight years. Seeing
Speaker 2: me on set right for the last week, and people
Speaker 2: don't understand how many little things in your life will
Speaker 2: get you to that bigger space. And so like everybody's
Speaker 2: a part of our journey. That's what I mean about.
Speaker 2: They call her daddy shit. I just kind of find
Speaker 2: it in foretaste not to be like, yo, I popped
Speaker 2: hard with somebody. Yeah, whether Alex Cooper did more work
Speaker 2: than Sophia or not, you still did it with this person, right,
Speaker 2: And I think like it can be in really poor
Speaker 2: taste not to acknowledge the journey. So I think it's
Speaker 2: great that you can publicly say that, because a lot
Speaker 2: of people.
Speaker 3: Can't, of course. And I think that at the end
Speaker 3: of the day, we end as human beings. We leave jobs,
Speaker 3: we end relationships, we end friendships and romantic partnerships.
Speaker 2: Things end.
Speaker 3: And I say it all the time. I don't believe
Speaker 3: in anything lasting forever. This was never supposed to last forever,
Speaker 3: and so to be for people to have all their
Speaker 3: think pieces in me doing what everyone in their life
Speaker 3: has done. They've all left a job, they've all ended
Speaker 3: a relationship, they've all walked away from something that wasn't
Speaker 3: serving them anymore. That's all I did, and I'm excited
Speaker 3: for what I'm doing next. I have my animated series
Speaker 3: coming out periods. This will be back out April third,
Speaker 3: and as you guys know, y'all can now tune into
Speaker 3: Across Generations, which is an idea to launch and will
Speaker 3: packer productions where I'm producing a show that that's great
Speaker 3: and it's me growing and getting you.
Speaker 2: To the bag. Hi, listen, I love me and behind
Speaker 2: the camera. The best advice I ever got was was Ken,
Speaker 2: you're saying, Yo, congrats on your season three for your show.
Speaker 2: I said, thank you, and he goes, why are you
Speaker 2: even in front of the camera. You could make fifteen
Speaker 2: shows and make fifteen times. That's funny, and listen it is.
Speaker 2: It's it Like I think Alex taught me that a
Speaker 2: lot too with our studio. Like I didn't understand having spaces,
Speaker 2: different places, having presents, being able to put your name
Speaker 2: on something and make more of them, Like that's the goal.
Speaker 2: Like one of my homeboys. As a party, I'll go
Speaker 2: to jerk and jel off whenever you see it somewhere
Speaker 2: that Nigga will have three parties Detroit, New York, LA
Speaker 2: same night and only be at one if none and
Speaker 2: that's what you've got to do, right. You've got to
Speaker 2: make your presence in a bunch of places so that
Speaker 2: you're just your name, associations where people want to be
Speaker 2: low key. I want to do a fucking horrible decisions
Speaker 2: fucking party night, like a lady's night, and we may
Speaker 2: not be there. It's just a high running it, right,
Speaker 2: Like that's how you get bred. And I want to
Speaker 2: learn what the fuck these rich people do it? Saw
Speaker 2: that shit in that Oscar party? Bitch? Did you know
Speaker 2: Margot Robbie produced Barbie and Saltburn and Saltburn bitch, Margot
Speaker 2: Robbie baddest white bitch. I'm sorry, I think it's Margot
Speaker 2: Robbie and Scarlett Johansson. Those are the ones, right, never
Speaker 2: knew that. Literally, I like her to Oh Angelina, sorry,
Speaker 2: but I'm thinking new school because she just opened a cafe.
Speaker 2: I saw it on a TikTok old House and I'm like, hey,
Speaker 2: yeah it is. You saw it so on the TikTok
Speaker 2: preserved the artist shit, you kind of wipened it up.
Speaker 2: But anyway, but no, like just knowing that, right, I
Speaker 2: fucking love Saltburn and I didn't really love Barbie. But
Speaker 2: I love her, but knowing you produce these things that
Speaker 2: are getting Oscars and an Oscar nominated, Like, who the fuck
Speaker 2: would think she got it from woo foolags. You didn't
Speaker 2: like Barbie. It's okay, there's such a feminist. I actually
Speaker 2: didn't think it showcased enough. Oh I wanted to fat Barbie.
Speaker 2: You're a feminist.
Speaker 3: I just kind of was like, this is a surf Wait,
Speaker 3: you didn't like it because there wasn't a fat Barbie.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like, we're not talking about representation. You
Speaker 2: still made her tiny and white. We should have had
Speaker 2: Barbie like show the flaws, Like, I don't know, there
Speaker 2: was a few things in there that they missed it.
Speaker 2: When she became human, she has said, like she was like,
Speaker 2: what the fuck is this? She was still Barbie though, well,
Speaker 2: Barbie is Barbie. All the other girls was named other things.
Speaker 2: It wasn't enough. But anyway, we only had one black
Speaker 2: Barbie Easter okay, anyway, so I got him just some
Speaker 2: weird shit recently, So if you're listening to the show,
Speaker 2: it's probably March nineteenth or eighteenth. My birthday's is seventeenth,
Speaker 2: Saint Patrick's Day. Feel free to send me money. It's fine. Wow,
Speaker 2: what I thought you hated when people did that. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: but I'm doing a donating thing this year. Okay, all right,
Speaker 2: you'll see it. So what was I gonna say? Uh? Yeah,
Speaker 2: I had Valentine's Day shit that I want to talk about.
Speaker 2: We haven't been in the studio, bitch when I tell you,
Speaker 2: got fifty shades of black in his house. So I
Speaker 2: never really go to my booze house because we always
Speaker 2: party downtown. So he's like, fuck it. And I got
Speaker 2: a dog, so it's normally my place to a Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2: He plans it out right. I get to his crib,
Speaker 2: he makes me dinner. It's so sweet. He acts like
Speaker 2: a waiter, like in very traditional Valentine's Day with the
Speaker 2: bear and the flowers and the cart. It was so sweet.
Speaker 2: So we don't really smoke weed, like it's not really
Speaker 2: our thing. But he tells me to smoke, and I
Speaker 2: didn't really understand why, but I listen and I do
Speaker 2: this I'm told. So he's like, I want you to
Speaker 2: hit this real quick. I'm like, all right, son. He
Speaker 2: tells me to smoke again, and then he's like, do
Speaker 2: you have to go to the bathroom and I'm like,
Speaker 2: does he want me to peel him?
Speaker 1: Now?
Speaker 2: He lacedial shit. No, no, no, and I'm like, no, I look,
Speaker 2: that's like I don't need like you need to use
Speaker 2: the band. But you're hear it, so your brain is
Speaker 2: my rain. I'm like, what is he talking about. He's like,
Speaker 2: you have to pee, go pee. I don't want any interruptions.
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, so bitch I go pee. He tells
Speaker 2: me to get on the bed because he's about to
Speaker 2: give me a massage. He ties me with restraints to
Speaker 2: each part of the bed. Right, I'm a fucking starfish
Speaker 2: right now, and I'm high, like yes, ankles and wrists
Speaker 2: and literally I want to say shout out to him.
Speaker 3: That means he lifted his mattress without your help because
Speaker 3: you gotta put it under.
Speaker 2: Oh I thought about it. Yeah, bitch I let me
Speaker 2: tell you how.
Speaker 3: I'm a one man. All I could think when my
Speaker 3: Buddha fucking did this ship me and Valentine Day is
Speaker 3: so sweet, our first Valentine Day together.
Speaker 2: I was like, is this new or you had this here?
Speaker 2: Cause nigga, how many bitches you tied up before? What
Speaker 2: the fuck? Did you do last year of February fourteen anyway,
Speaker 2: But I tried to let that thought go. So he's
Speaker 2: giving me a massage, right, and it's so sweet. He's
Speaker 2: rubbing me down, and then finally he gets something to
Speaker 2: blindfold me. And mind you, this may not be everybody's thing,
Speaker 2: but this was definitely my kin and it was super
Speaker 2: consensual because I'd let him know before that I wanted this.
Speaker 2: We pick a safe word and he starts to like
Speaker 2: spank me, right, and like, I feel a lot because
Speaker 2: I'm high, and remember, y'all, blindfolding is quote unquote basic,
Speaker 2: but when you remove a sense, you feel the rust, right,
Speaker 2: So I just got rubbed down and oiled. I'm super relaxed,
Speaker 2: and then I just feel all these like slaps, these spanks,
Speaker 2: and the next thing I feel is like what I think,
Speaker 2: because he never showed me was a pinwheel. Okay, So
Speaker 2: he's like putting that up and down my body and
Speaker 2: I'm like giggling and shit, and he's switchbum so high.
Speaker 2: He's like, why the fuck are you laughing? I'm like,
Speaker 2: which I just couldn't. It was just I was giggly,
Speaker 2: so I kept laughing and shit, and he told me
Speaker 2: to stop talking. I've kept talking, and the next thing
Speaker 2: I feel is just these sharp popes in my leg
Speaker 2: on my skin and what almost feels like slices. So
Speaker 2: I'm like laughing to myself because I'm like, it's not
Speaker 2: a real knife, you know what I mean, Like, because
Speaker 2: I remember Dash the rope bondage guy told me he
Speaker 2: uses credit cards to make you feel like a slice,
Speaker 2: and like, I know he's not gonna hurt me, so
Speaker 2: I can't stop giggling because I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: maybe you're so scary. I keep getting spanked. Next thing,
Speaker 2: you know, he starts eating my pussy and now I'm
Speaker 2: getting fucked right and we're having sex and it's fucking great.
Speaker 2: But he's also using like the pin wheel thing again. Bro,
Speaker 2: It's so many feelings, Like I literally it was over
Speaker 2: stimulated to the point where I'm coming like crazy and
Speaker 2: I can't see, so I don't know who's fucking me.
Speaker 2: That sounds stupid, but like really, I'm just like, what's
Speaker 2: going on? That's how high I am. So Finally, because
Speaker 2: I kept talking right and he was tired to be talking,
Speaker 2: he come because you listen, he said, shut the fuck up.
Speaker 2: He did okay, wait, uh he's done. He comes on
Speaker 2: my face and I mind you didn't stop talking. It's
Speaker 2: just thinking. Basically, was still punishing me. Girl. Why he
Speaker 2: left me there tied up with the come on my
Speaker 2: face while he took a shower and was doing shit
Speaker 2: around the house. When I tell you, I was in
Speaker 2: super submode, literally tied up. I was like, can I
Speaker 2: get out?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I hate that I
Speaker 2: thought this shit was hot? What is wrong with me
Speaker 2: and my stick fucked up brain that I just wanted
Speaker 2: to be left with come all over me?
Speaker 3: Do you know how in my mind that just made
Speaker 3: me so angry because I'm clausrophobic, So the idea of
Speaker 3: not being able to.
Speaker 2: Move, why don't you use my saper? Fuck whatever? Subb shit?
Speaker 2: Bitch she in a shower.
Speaker 3: What if I wanted to get up at that moment.
Speaker 3: I'm literally just thinking like, oh my god, I would
Speaker 3: have been so angry.
Speaker 2: Oh No, he kept talking to me while I was
Speaker 2: doing it too, But you never shut the fuck up right.
Speaker 2: I was like, vich, I loved it, and I realized
Speaker 2: how stimulated I am at dirty talk. I didn't even
Speaker 2: need him to touch me, bitch, I almost came just
Speaker 2: from that thought of just like being left. It's so
Speaker 2: fucked up. So anyway, mind you, I said, he came
Speaker 2: on my face, right, he had like started flaking hold on.
Speaker 2: He had dry duty in the morning or something, so
Speaker 2: he was like, fuck, he did drive me back. It's
Speaker 2: like one in the morning. We're tired. The com was
Speaker 2: sitting on my face, so it was kind of seeping
Speaker 2: into my eye.
Speaker 3: So you never wipe your face off well after. But
Speaker 3: mind you, like, how is this seeping into your bitch,
Speaker 3: cause it was.
Speaker 2: Like on my lash. Bitch, if it's sit there for
Speaker 2: a long time, I don't know it drives up. But
Speaker 2: no it does.
Speaker 3: I don't know what tyme come i'd've had though, damn
Speaker 3: motherfucker be real quick to dry up, flake off, pill off,
Speaker 3: like the shit don't stay well.
Speaker 2: You've never seen someone's eyes be super red.
Speaker 3: Like even Kazumi just posted she like, I get when
Speaker 3: comes in your eyes. But you say you're feeling this
Speaker 3: when you're in the car.
Speaker 2: This is oh no, I'm gonna tell you when not
Speaker 2: in the car. So once I get cleaned up, I realized,
Speaker 2: too much come when in my eye? Okay, so we
Speaker 2: get to the car, bitch, and I can't, like I
Speaker 2: lost my vision on one side. So now I'm not joking,
Speaker 2: like he really had to help me in the car,
Speaker 2: and so he said, he's looking at me while he's driving.
Speaker 2: He's like, baby, are you okay? He said, I turned
Speaker 2: around like this, okay, one eye open, bitch. I couldn't
Speaker 2: see for like twelve hours, Mandy. It was so bad.
Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck y'all. I'm telling you
Speaker 2: right now, if a nigga even gets close to coming,
Speaker 2: you must close them tight and squint like a booty
Speaker 2: hole bitch, clinch. I'm never again going to kind of
Speaker 2: try to see what's going on. Holy shit, I thought
Speaker 2: I was gonna die. And then all I could think
Speaker 2: when I was googling. But when I was like, could
Speaker 2: you could, will I get blood? I saw this quiggly line.
Speaker 2: I could see the sperm swim. It was so bad.
Speaker 2: It was so bad. You know. No, I'm not but
Speaker 2: Valentine's d was great.
Speaker 3: I love him so much anyway.
Speaker 2: No, it's really sick. It's like this point of like
Speaker 2: it's like too popularve too in love right now, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, I literally said yesterday I was like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, you know, I'm just trying to get anxiety.
Speaker 2: He's like, everything's right, and he's like, bro, what the fuck?
Speaker 2: Like this is healthy, this is safe, Like you should
Speaker 2: not feel like this because you're happy. And I'm like, bitch,
Speaker 2: I'm ready to look under his bed and see there's
Speaker 2: a hole under there, Like I don't know what the
Speaker 2: fuck is wrong? I don't like it anyway, Everything's fine.
Speaker 2: So I did nice play for my first time, and
Speaker 2: I only know that it was now real knife play
Speaker 2: because when I was getting dressed, I said, what the
Speaker 2: fuck is that better knife? You had a real knife, nigga.
Speaker 2: He's like, well, yeah, I didn't have a sneak knife.
Speaker 3: He was really using a knife. He didn't get one
Speaker 3: of them nice from the from the sex story. Bitch,
Speaker 3: it was a butter knife.
Speaker 2: I don't tell y'all that butter knife felt real. It
Speaker 2: does because you felt it, mind you. It wasn't making
Speaker 2: me bleed many but he was just like tapping it
Speaker 2: on my skin.
Speaker 3: I would have known that sh it was butter knife
Speaker 3: because it's round and that it's not pointed.
Speaker 2: It's bro, you can't feel it. I'm telling you you.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying is round. I only got pointed.
Speaker 2: I felt this. I felt like on myg ain't all
Speaker 2: on the butter knife big felt enough for you blindfolding bitch.
Speaker 3: What the type of butter knife y'all got? I got
Speaker 3: the ones from Amazon?
Speaker 2: And have you ever been blind mind floated and tied
Speaker 2: by your wrist and ankles? I've done this, yes, actually,
Speaker 2: And when you were blindfolded and he pulled a knife
Speaker 2: out and say, bitch, I'm a no because I don't
Speaker 2: have a murder fan of bit.
Speaker 3: I absolutely like I told you, when the nigga used
Speaker 3: to put the motherfuckering pillowcase over my head, I was like,
Speaker 3: I now get me the fuck up out of here.
Speaker 2: I did it for a little bit because he wanted
Speaker 2: to do it. Now. Remember when Mia Dark came on
Speaker 2: and she was like, oh she chlorofyarded nigger. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: like it.
Speaker 3: You know, I'm good on all that again, And I
Speaker 3: tell my mom all the time. Bit, you shouldn't have
Speaker 3: me watching Lifetime at seven years old. Now I think
Speaker 3: that every.
Speaker 2: Man has the ability to kill a b You know,
Speaker 2: it's kind of sick of where my brain goes because
Speaker 2: I don't want to die die. I just want to
Speaker 2: feel scared. And then also, you know, the aftercare is
Speaker 2: such a great thing too, once it's over and you
Speaker 2: get the kissing and the cuddles. Like I do appreciate
Speaker 2: men that learn about like a sub drop, because I've
Speaker 2: had an experience where I got slapped in the face
Speaker 2: and I asked for it and then there was no
Speaker 2: aftercare and it's just like all that adrenaline went down.
Speaker 2: I felt really sad.
Speaker 3: It was weird, I'll say, And maybe because this relationship
Speaker 3: is newer. I had this much fun and I was
Speaker 3: this adventurous with my ex in the beginning. As I
Speaker 3: started losing trust from him due to his behavior outside
Speaker 3: of the bedroom, I realized that in the bedroom, my
Speaker 3: mind started going to really dark places, and I remember
Speaker 3: literally thinking or feeling unsafe with him choking me when
Speaker 3: I normally was like, my mind would go to we
Speaker 3: done broke up so many times.
Speaker 2: This nigga hates me, and so I did. I used to.
Speaker 3: I actually took a break from us engaging in play
Speaker 3: like that because there was no way for me to
Speaker 3: trust him in the bedroom.
Speaker 2: Knowing that I I don't want to say it's newer,
Speaker 2: I want to say that. I don't want to say
Speaker 2: that's it's because it's newer.
Speaker 3: We need to be dating people that make us feel safe,
Speaker 3: and when we are feeling unsafe in love, not blaming
Speaker 3: you because I stayed with old Bay too.
Speaker 2: We need to leave these niggas. No, of course, because
Speaker 2: I realize now I don't mean to leave these niggas.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: No, it's not easier to say, bro, we need to
Speaker 2: do what to do? It's easier to say than do it,
Speaker 2: just like I want to keep sa Yeah, I'm saying
Speaker 2: like I want to keep saying this because I want
Speaker 2: to not be ever so in love to where iver
Speaker 2: do that again. But I will say being in an
Speaker 2: over communicative relationship at this point, like there was this
Speaker 2: moment where and this is probably as deep as I'll
Speaker 2: ever go into. And we've never fought, which is really nice.
Speaker 2: The bickering is not there. It's just very deep conversations
Speaker 2: about how we're making each other feel. But we went
Speaker 2: to an oscar party together and there was a cute
Speaker 2: girl that he was talking to and I was right
Speaker 2: next to him, and I caught myself thinking if I
Speaker 2: went to the bathroom, he would get her number which
Speaker 2: is so crazy because literally, these are all my friends.
Speaker 2: Why would he do this to me? Right in a
Speaker 2: logical way, like why would this person do that rationally?
Speaker 2: And we got in the car. I told him that
Speaker 2: and he was like, yo, like, I'm not going to
Speaker 2: embarrass you. I understand, like you've been embarrassed before. I'm
Speaker 2: not going to embarrass you. Like you have to believe
Speaker 2: and trust that, like you're allowed to have something healthy,
Speaker 2: that you can feel free, that we can talk to
Speaker 2: other people in a room. And I don't police anything
Speaker 2: he does, but bro, that literally happened to me with Oldbay.
Speaker 2: I hosted a guy's next door live show. He went
Speaker 2: to get drinks for me and my friends and was
Speaker 2: outside with a bitch. Like it was just so tough.
Speaker 2: And now I have to relearn what openness is like
Speaker 2: and like safety is like. And so where I've been
Speaker 2: to the point where like I start my trust at
Speaker 2: zero and then it goes to one hundred. Now I'm
Speaker 2: trying to do it the other way, right, So I'm
Speaker 2: trying to think to myself, Okay, what has he shown me?
Speaker 2: Like what's going on? Like am I feeling happy day
Speaker 2: to day? Like it's really crazy because I think though
Speaker 2: that that sounds great. Again, leaving when you don't feel
Speaker 2: safe anymore sounds great. But in engaging in sex with someone,
Speaker 2: it's easier than not to feel unsafe with a partner
Speaker 2: who you feel like is not opening up emotionally, is lying,
Speaker 2: who has betrayed your trust, and so where where Again,
Speaker 2: I'm speaking from my own personal experience and a lot
Speaker 2: of the experience of my friends in my circle, and
Speaker 2: maybe a lot of people listening. The way that they
Speaker 2: show ab outside the bedroom.
Speaker 3: In ways just innately unfortunately make you feel unsafe, and
Speaker 3: it's unfortunately very hard to feel safe with men.
Speaker 2: I'm I agree with people I've talked about a lot
Speaker 2: of pain on this show, and what I'm saying the
Speaker 2: commitment to myself. I know it's easier said than done.
Speaker 2: I'm not staying with someone again that does this neither,
Speaker 2: which is why I said I'm a fuck that like
Speaker 2: I go ahead, No, but he's not doing something. No
Speaker 2: he's not. But it's me being in reality. That's not
Speaker 2: what I'm talking. No, no, No.
Speaker 3: What I'm saying is I know that I do not
Speaker 3: want a situationship or a casual sex or deal with
Speaker 3: someone again. New I'm a fucking one more time because
Speaker 3: I do want to fuck one more time. Yeah, And
Speaker 3: then moving forward, I know I'm going to intentionally only
Speaker 3: put myself specifically sexually, out into the world as someone
Speaker 3: who is emotionally available to love.
Speaker 2: And receive love. And it's crazy because when you're in
Speaker 2: it and it starts to feel good, we're so people
Speaker 2: men that date men, women that anybody. When you've been
Speaker 2: hurt by somebody before, all you can do is sometimes compare.
Speaker 2: And I'm really learning that. And I've been through so
Speaker 2: much therapy and I was ready to date when I met.
Speaker 2: I didn't realize I wasn't ready to like fall in
Speaker 2: a deep love without being scared. So that shit is
Speaker 2: like really fucking with me. Bro. Like sometimes when my
Speaker 2: mom talks about how Grady is or they've made jokes
Speaker 2: about kids together, I'm like, stop telling me, Like I
Speaker 2: don't want my mom to say it to me anymore
Speaker 2: because I don't want to like over fantasize the idea.
Speaker 2: And I realized, like, this is trauma. My white friends
Speaker 2: don't go through this, bro, These white bitches do not
Speaker 2: be acting like they have their own traumas they do.
Speaker 2: But I just feel like there's some I saw something
Speaker 2: on Twitter about this about like how come white people
Speaker 2: be posting their partners but we don't. I don't know
Speaker 2: if that shit is real or not, but like, I
Speaker 2: feel like the trauma that my white home girls have
Speaker 2: been through is kind of different. For example, someone in
Speaker 2: one of my black male friends in his fifties said
Speaker 2: this to me. He said, we are from a society
Speaker 2: we're having multiple women as cool pimp, shit player, shit rappers, whatever,
Speaker 2: or we had the cool uncle, always had a different bitch.
Speaker 2: He was like, right, he said, white people's trauma is
Speaker 2: this like ghosting shit, never getting committed. He's like, it's
Speaker 2: this different thing. It's this hierarchy of money, not feeling
Speaker 2: like you're enough, and he was like, it's more about
Speaker 2: the woman than it is. I don't I don't remember
Speaker 2: how he said it, but I do agree to that
Speaker 2: to some I agree to some point when it comes
Speaker 2: to black men. So I think you're I don't think
Speaker 2: white men have that playership. Man.
Speaker 3: I think you're leaving out a big part of just
Speaker 3: our history as the black community. So we had the
Speaker 3: crack epidemic in the eighties and in the nineties.
Speaker 2: Black men leaving, Black men leaving the home. It's not
Speaker 2: only black men leaving the home.
Speaker 3: And this is this comes from my own personal upbringing
Speaker 3: and and and my environment. When welfare was introduced, you
Speaker 3: literally got government assistance and you.
Speaker 2: Couldn't have a man in the home. If a man,
Speaker 2: if if you.
Speaker 3: Got a welfare check and male shoes were found, your
Speaker 3: government assistance could be taken away. So they created also
Speaker 3: this almost need for unfortunately our community. And let's be
Speaker 3: very clear, white people are on welfare and government assistance
Speaker 3: as well. But it almost pushed the narrative that being
Speaker 3: a single mother you received more help than if you were.
Speaker 2: Hey, you're talking about something different, which I still agree
Speaker 2: with though about me. What you're talking about is the
Speaker 2: notion that like women and their independence, like this bag
Speaker 2: you're in is a conversation of women don't need a
Speaker 2: man type shit, Like I think that, No, they still
Speaker 2: wanted a man, I know, but there are. But I
Speaker 2: do believe some of that has to do. And it
Speaker 2: is coupled with women feeling stronger alone, feeling like they
Speaker 2: have to get used to being alone because that's where
Speaker 2: they learned it from. I'm talking about men simply having
Speaker 2: the need to have more women. That's not why I
Speaker 2: do so.
Speaker 3: No, if we're talking about the reason why maybe you
Speaker 3: feel that black people hide their relationships, that's what I'm
Speaker 3: talking about, Oh, hiding relationships, That's what we were talking about.
Speaker 3: You're talking about men wanting multiple partners. If we go
Speaker 3: back to way back in the day, everyone had multiple partners.
Speaker 3: I think that that's what's great about the So now
Speaker 3: we're just now able to have the conversations around non
Speaker 3: monogamy and people are forthcoming with that.
Speaker 2: But men have always had multiple families, multiple All men
Speaker 2: are cheaters, Like I mean, I'm sorry, most men are cheaters. Like,
Speaker 2: I don't think black men are cheating more than white
Speaker 2: men or anything, but I do think cheating is more
Speaker 2: celebrated with the jumping through them. I believe that. I
Speaker 2: actually don't. I don't think if there's even a room
Speaker 2: to argue that niggas having a lot of bitches is cool.
Speaker 2: According to rap music hip hop, that it has just
Speaker 2: been a culture bro White music don't talk about hold
Speaker 2: and having a bunch of bitches and music like it's
Speaker 2: just not like that. Are you in the country country
Speaker 2: music talks about it, like I don't want to put
Speaker 2: this on. I think rock music talks about sex rock
Speaker 2: and roll, but even in terms of side bitch, main bitch,
Speaker 2: white people ain't never what term is that mistress. And
Speaker 2: even then they've always painted in this high class way
Speaker 2: and you have this like it's a there's a picture,
Speaker 2: And I again think, yes, mistresses were never celebrated. They
Speaker 2: was always looked down upon. Black men having multiple women
Speaker 2: is celebrated. It just is.
Speaker 3: And so that's the same way boys growing up are
Speaker 3: pushed into manhood like go have sex, and women are
Speaker 3: told to protect their bodies. Like there's just a difference
Speaker 3: in period the way men are viewed in society and women.
Speaker 3: We're not gonna get away from that. And I also
Speaker 3: don't think that it's a race thing. I think it's
Speaker 3: just how we are do bro.
Speaker 2: Black men are being amazing fathers right now, they're more
Speaker 2: active and they're kids. No, no, what I'm saying, you're saying
Speaker 2: you don't think we're gonna get away from it. I
Speaker 2: think that there needs to be more dialogue and celebration
Speaker 2: about what are monogamy with black men, black men honoring
Speaker 2: their wives, whether or not there's rumors about Lebron cheating
Speaker 2: on his wife or not. The image of him and
Speaker 2: Savannah and his perfect all American family is so important
Speaker 2: for black men and women to see, just to know
Speaker 2: that it could be possible. And they're you just brought
Speaker 2: up the rumors, because there's rumors with everybody. We want
Speaker 2: to take everybody down when they're happy. That's just true.
Speaker 2: But I'm saying, like, we need to see more of
Speaker 2: that shit. I love seeing see her and Russell Wilson.
Speaker 2: Matter of fact, I'm gonna actually say something crazy. When
Speaker 2: Natalie Nunn got with her husband and she was posting
Speaker 2: all that family content, I thought that was super cute.
Speaker 2: And I don't like her, but I kind of liked
Speaker 2: seeing it, like, Okay, city girl got a man. Like
Speaker 2: I think it's really good and healthy to see these
Speaker 2: types of things, and we need more of that shit.
Speaker 2: But unfortunately, because we don't have it, we're all just
Speaker 2: so used to like expecting a man to cheat on
Speaker 2: us and leave for another woman. And I do think
Speaker 2: it has to do with the shit that's been perpetuated
Speaker 2: in black culture. Even masculinity is associated with multiple women.
Speaker 2: Look how we look at Russell like he's a bitch.
Speaker 2: Because he didn't took on another man's kid or whatever,
Speaker 2: like it's the most manly thing you can do. I
Speaker 2: just I don't know.
Speaker 3: If white people are having that kind of celebration when
Speaker 3: it comes to bitches like I just I don't see it.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying it doesn't exist, but I don't think
Speaker 3: it does to the degree which we have it.
Speaker 2: No, I don't hang with crackers. Yeah you literally.
Speaker 3: I can't speak on white people, but I guarantee you
Speaker 3: they talk, They deal with the same shit we do
Speaker 3: in a different They just say different.
Speaker 2: Well you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Were playing space, they're playing bir Punk. It's just a
Speaker 3: different you know, it's the same shit. We had a
Speaker 3: house party. We just do different shit. Put up bread, Trnton,
Speaker 3: y'all make sure you get your tickets now. May fifth,
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Speaker 3: people Europe and europeal pull whatever. All the black people
Speaker 3: that live over there, just take that another fucking Eurostar
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Speaker 2: We're gonna be there. May fifth, we are having a
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Speaker 2: Now, let's talk about something else that we're gonna fight
Speaker 2: to the tooth about. I'm wondering, I don't I wait, wait,
Speaker 2: I want to start with white news first because I
Speaker 2: actually just found this out from one of my white friends.
Speaker 2: And I keep talking about this white bitch because I
Speaker 2: helped her move. So I was been with a white
Speaker 2: friend for two days. Okay, So I was like, Yo,
Speaker 2: do you know who Drea is? She's like, yeah, I
Speaker 2: love it basketball girls. I'm like, did you hear what happened? Andrea?
Speaker 2: She's like, bitch, this reminds me of Miley Cyrus's mom.
Speaker 2: Has anybody heard about this? I love Miley Cyrus. I
Speaker 2: fucking love that. We don't know what the fuck is
Speaker 2: going on in white world. Because Liz Goldwan had to
Speaker 2: fill me in at that oscar shop. So Miley Cyrus's
Speaker 2: mother's name is Tish Cyrus. Okay, she just got married
Speaker 2: to a man, Daddy Billy Ray. She just got married
Speaker 2: to a man named Dominic purcell Ooh so what color
Speaker 2: is he? I don't know, white, I think. Okay, there's
Speaker 2: another daughter, a sister, Miley's sister, Noah half full sister.
Speaker 2: I don't know. But what I do know is Noah
Speaker 2: the man Dominic purcell They have been seeing each other
Speaker 2: for a time before he entered a relationship with her mother.
Speaker 2: They were seeing each other in a friends and benefits way,
Speaker 2: on and off. They stopped seeing each other, and then
Speaker 2: something with Tish, her mother started up. The source further
Speaker 2: claimed that the youngest sister was offended by the relationship,
Speaker 2: saying that her mom knew she had been seeing her
Speaker 2: he had been seeing her. The mother never gave her
Speaker 2: a chance to talk about this. Before they got married.
Speaker 2: She hired security to make sure that the daughter wouldn't
Speaker 2: show up to the wedding. And she's been in spiraling
Speaker 2: out of control, trying to figure out a way to
Speaker 2: diffuse this. And so Miley Cyrus claimed she had no idea.
Speaker 2: Everybody saying that's not true. Noah, The sister confronted her
Speaker 2: mom about it, thinking it was so strange of a situation,
Speaker 2: but she loves her mom wants her to be happy,
Speaker 2: and then basically said she's going to remain loyal to
Speaker 2: Billie Ray. They've had a close relationship, and she doesn't
Speaker 2: approve of her new man.
Speaker 3: So, yeah, this is a great example of white news
Speaker 3: that's already happened in black culture. Literally a year or
Speaker 3: two ago, we're talking about how did he was dating
Speaker 3: Lori Harvey? Before did he started dating Lorie Harvey was
Speaker 3: dating his son. So again, but I don't know if
Speaker 3: that was true. Oh it was true dating dating dating.
Speaker 3: I think it was the Christian Colmes one can we
Speaker 3: can we back check because everybody hitched out with them?
Speaker 2: Or is it it was brother dating? Okay, so maybe
Speaker 2: she wasn't dating. And then she was on a yacht.
Speaker 2: She was on a yacht, bitch, baby, she was alone.
Speaker 2: She was just the chefs and the captain, the chefs
Speaker 2: of the cap Uh huh. You see look ed you went.
Speaker 2: It's the same ship. See black people, white people doing
Speaker 2: the same goddamn ship. Now that shit's sick.
Speaker 3: Well, well, actually, okay, he didn't marry her, but that's
Speaker 3: the only difference. Yeah, that's Mary, but everybody only got
Speaker 3: a year contract.
Speaker 2: With Laurie anyway. So Draya Michelle, who God, I love
Speaker 2: her body. She is to me. Drey and Michelle, thirty
Speaker 2: nine years old, is having a baby with the NBA
Speaker 2: starred Jayalen Green, who just turned twenty two. He was
Speaker 2: twenty one. There's a seventeen years age gap. Everybody thinks
Speaker 2: it's weird. I'm not gonna make the long story long,
Speaker 2: but I will say her son is the same age. Yep.
Speaker 2: So you think we're gonna disagree on this. I feel
Speaker 2: like you're gonna say it's not wrong, and I think
Speaker 2: it is. Okay. The reason I do is mainly because
Speaker 2: of her kid. I think it's weird. I also think
Speaker 2: it's very strange when men date women the same age
Speaker 2: as their daughters. One of my favorite ninety day fiance
Speaker 2: people is the dude with no neck ed Actually, last year,
Speaker 2: on my birthday, someone sent me a cameo from him.
Speaker 2: That was cool, but I remember his daughter. The thing
Speaker 2: on the show was his daughter wouldn't talk to him
Speaker 2: because he was dating a girl younger than her. I
Speaker 2: do think it's super weird when people date someone the
Speaker 2: same age as their kids. I understand sex and experiences
Speaker 2: and like maybe this fun thing. I understand paying for
Speaker 2: sex like sex work could be younger like, but I
Speaker 2: do think it's weird. I think Drea is gorgeous, and
Speaker 2: I think she's in the industry enough to get anyone
Speaker 2: she wants. I understand Jalen Green is super rich and
Speaker 2: making money, but I find it predatorial and I don't
Speaker 2: think it's a good look.
Speaker 3: Okay, so I don't have a problem with it. I
Speaker 3: don't see a problem with it. I think it's very
Speaker 3: hard to talk about bringing up the age of your son.
Speaker 3: She had her son. I believe it seventeen. It was
Speaker 3: a teenage pregnancy.
Speaker 2: Doesn't matter what pregnancy. That's fine, Well, a teenage pregnancy,
Speaker 2: so and that's so that's my problem. That is my problem.
Speaker 3: My problem is this relationship with a thirty nine and
Speaker 3: a twenty two year old being misconstrued as predatorial, as pedophilia,
Speaker 3: as grooming. I wanted to read uh because I think
Speaker 3: that we've been talking about these words so much and
Speaker 3: it's it really bothered me. Grooming is when someone builds
Speaker 3: a relationship, trust, an emotional connection with a child. Grooming
Speaker 3: in adult relationships is all about control and dominance. Grooming
Speaker 3: is a form of manipulation that is often extremely difficult
Speaker 3: to spot when a person doesn't know what to look for. Now,
Speaker 3: in this specific relationship, you have a man who is
Speaker 3: twenty two years old. I don't want to use twenty
Speaker 3: two years old.
Speaker 2: As a child. That is not a child legally.
Speaker 3: Second off, he's even old enough to drink and do
Speaker 3: everything else except maybe rent a car. But he could
Speaker 3: do literally everything else, and he could rent a car.
Speaker 3: Is just going to be a higher a little deposit.
Speaker 2: I guess he got it. So my problem is conflating
Speaker 2: this with men who literally are grooming children or teenagers
Speaker 2: or high schoolers. This is a grown man who, mind you,
Speaker 2: in terms of maturity.
Speaker 3: He is in his career, the career that he will
Speaker 3: probably have for the next fifteen to twenty years of
Speaker 3: his life. He has bills, he probably provides and takes
Speaker 3: cares for majority of his family. He is adult things
Speaker 3: that he is dealing with in handling and at twenty
Speaker 3: two years old.
Speaker 2: While a woman or a man can get married.
Speaker 3: At twenty two years old, and if it's two twenty
Speaker 3: two year olds, no one bothers with it. I actually
Speaker 3: feel like a baby in this dynamic with a woman
Speaker 3: who already has two children, with a woman who has
Speaker 3: already been a mother. I think that the child has
Speaker 3: a better chance of having a better upbringing in this
Speaker 3: scenario than two twenty two year olds having a child together.
Speaker 2: Do you think that a child with a twenty one
Speaker 2: year old kid who just became she also has another
Speaker 2: kid that she had with or I know I'm talking
Speaker 2: about him as a dad. Do you think this situation
Speaker 2: is super great?
Speaker 3: Like, here's the thing, No, Syestiday's rich. No situation is
Speaker 3: gonna be perfect. But let's to me growing up with
Speaker 3: no resources of money. I and this again could be
Speaker 3: my ignorance. I do believe my upbringing could have been
Speaker 3: a lot easier, not only on my mom, but on
Speaker 3: our household, had we had a little bit more fun.
Speaker 2: Now, Yeah, I really recently saw something that said a
Speaker 2: child having a happy home actually has more to do
Speaker 2: with the mother's health and finances, which I believe. But
Speaker 2: I will say this seem healthy and is fine. Did
Speaker 2: I bring bring up Ursula Burns on this podcast yet? Who. No,
Speaker 2: I didn't. Ursula burn No, No, I didn't. Ursula Burns
Speaker 2: is a black billionaire. I recently produced something that she
Speaker 2: was a part of, and I had no idea that
Speaker 2: she was a billionaire when I met her. But she
Speaker 2: made a joke about like how her and Oprah back
Speaker 2: in the day used to go back and forth on
Speaker 2: the Forbes List. She was the first black woman CEO
Speaker 2: of Xerox, And she said something about being happy, healthy
Speaker 2: and kind, and how these are the things that make
Speaker 2: you sleep well at night. This is what will bring
Speaker 2: you prosperity. When you're this type of person, you're just
Speaker 2: going to live a good life this way. I believe
Speaker 2: that I've met a lot of rich people and a
Speaker 2: few billionaires that do not have that attitude. Right.
Speaker 3: I say all that to say she didn't grow up
Speaker 3: with money and literally said I had no idea that
Speaker 3: she's like I knew I was poor, but I didn't
Speaker 3: because my mom was so about making us happy, healthy
Speaker 3: and kind. People like I believe that we're putting way
Speaker 3: too much pressure on the family dynamic as we know
Speaker 3: it and money as we know it is There's a
Speaker 3: look at all these people all over the world, that
Speaker 3: are happy, Drea, and all of these types of girls
Speaker 3: online who are dating the rich guy. We're all fucking
Speaker 3: thinking these kids are living happy lives because they're super wealthy.
Speaker 2: That's not fucking true.
Speaker 3: I will I will say, and this is with the
Speaker 3: utmost respect, and I don't want you to feel offended
Speaker 3: when I say it, because I grew up with money.
Speaker 2: You grew up with both. You grew up with both
Speaker 2: parents and money. Mandy, you're gonna tell me that kids
Speaker 2: with money haven't suffered one moment. I did not say that,
Speaker 2: and you're putting words in my mouth.
Speaker 3: I will say, as someone who did not grow up
Speaker 3: in that way, where again, I literally was in a
Speaker 3: shelter for a year. My Christmases were dependent on the
Speaker 3: Salvation Army. We had certain foods only if we had
Speaker 3: food stamps section eight to where I couldn't go on
Speaker 3: certain field trips, or I had to ask my friend's
Speaker 3: parents to pay for me on field trips.
Speaker 2: I will say, if there.
Speaker 3: Was even just a little bit more money for how
Speaker 3: we grew up and my mom could only do she
Speaker 3: did as a single parent, my dad not speaking to
Speaker 3: me because she wanted more child support. I just I
Speaker 3: get where you're coming from and with all sincerity, without
Speaker 3: growing up with those things. I'm telling you things could
Speaker 3: have or in my mind be better. And I'm not
Speaker 3: saying that.
Speaker 2: Jalen Green is not going to promise a good lifeline.
Speaker 3: But again also being a woman who is raising multiple
Speaker 3: children to sit here and put healthy, healthy cunt. I
Speaker 3: don't think I even went to the dentist until I
Speaker 3: was in middle school because we didn't have the money to.
Speaker 2: I'm just talking about like you're getting, you're getting, You're
Speaker 2: you're getting a surface and I'm getting.
Speaker 3: Deeper than I'm getting deep because I'm bringing up no
Speaker 3: what this was like, happy, healthy kind. This girl was
Speaker 3: talking about how her her mom made sure they were active,
Speaker 3: how they were doing certain things. I'm just simply saying,
Speaker 3: we can't act like cause the nigga's rich, they're gonna
Speaker 3: have a good life.
Speaker 2: How many basketball players are barely giving these women money.
Speaker 2: We talked about Brittany Renner who's barely getting ship from
Speaker 2: her baby daddy who's rich.
Speaker 3: We see time and time, Againe. I never brought up
Speaker 3: Jalen's money. I said that you could no, no, no, you
Speaker 3: just had money. No no, no, no, I did not you're
Speaker 3: you're bringing up money. No, you brought up money. I
Speaker 3: brought up that Dreya at thirty. My only point in
Speaker 3: this whole thing was not money at all.
Speaker 2: That's literally talk about money. You brought up money because
Speaker 2: of the billionaire.
Speaker 3: No, My only point in this was that I think
Speaker 3: that Dreya at thirty nine years old, already being a
Speaker 3: mother of two, and Jalen at twenty two, this dynamic
Speaker 3: of that parenthood in that structure actually seems healthier and
Speaker 3: would create an even better child than to twenty two
Speaker 3: year olds.
Speaker 2: That was my point. I mean, I didn't bring up money.
Speaker 2: The only reason I talked about that billionaire lady is
Speaker 2: because she started poor. That was to your point. When
Speaker 2: I'm talking about the Drea in this scenario, I just
Speaker 2: think that it's very clear she wouldn't be dating this
Speaker 2: He's a kid to me, maybe he's a consenting kid,
Speaker 2: but like he's young kid.
Speaker 3: Okay, he's twenty one. We got to stop using those words.
Speaker 3: This is not a kid. He's twenty two, Okays, a.
Speaker 2: Twenty one year old grown man. If he was not rich,
Speaker 2: she wouldn't be with him. And it clearly Dreya's a baddie.
Speaker 2: She deserves to be with a rich nigga. I do
Speaker 2: think a twenty one year old young man who hasn't
Speaker 2: even experienced life yet. I think it's fucking weird. And
Speaker 2: mind you, we have different opinions, but it is all
Speaker 2: because of money, and I say that it's a very
Speaker 2: strong point. I know I was fortunate enough to have
Speaker 2: two parents, but I don't think that this is gonna
Speaker 2: be the healthiest thing. I don't think they're gonna be
Speaker 2: on together. That nigga's twenty one, twenty two years old.
Speaker 2: Now he's about to live an amazing fucking life. Get
Speaker 2: all this pussy thrown at him. Drea's only gonna get older,
Speaker 2: Like she don't want to be in the fucking clubs.
Speaker 2: Keeping up with this nigga.
Speaker 3: Would be waddy. Same agent ain't gonna last ve that's
Speaker 3: very true.
Speaker 2: But it's not just to say that they'll have the
Speaker 2: healthiest scenario. I just I don't believe it. I think
Speaker 2: if if Sierra didn't meet Russell, who knows how future's
Speaker 2: life would be. Right, Like, you don't know, Like money
Speaker 2: is just such a small factor of the health of
Speaker 2: this kid, because so many women fucking get pregnant bodies,
Speaker 2: rich niggas, and we see every tabloid and Shay Rude
Speaker 2: laughs at them because they don't get enough child support. Like, say,
Speaker 2: you said healthy kind and what was the other one?
Speaker 2: Kind of happy?
Speaker 3: If if Jalen and Drea are both healthy, kind and happy,
Speaker 3: do their ages matter?
Speaker 2: Well, I mean you're saying that in terms of them being.
Speaker 3: Parents, in terms of yeah being a fail. My opinion
Speaker 3: is that it's weird. Okay, right, Yeah, you can hold
Speaker 3: that a lot of people. Yeah, I mean, I'm not
Speaker 3: saying that this kid Like, I'm not saying that Drea
Speaker 3: won't have a healthy pregnancy or they won't be happy together.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like, I still think it's weird. I
Speaker 2: think it's I don't think they'll end up being together forever.
Speaker 2: I think that gap is really strong, and I think
Speaker 2: Drea's probably know what, how do you even? I mean,
Speaker 2: And maybe I'm leaning for twenty one year old father.
Speaker 2: You think he wanted and you think he did family
Speaker 2: planning Andrea, And I'll be honest with you. On the
Speaker 2: other end, I maybe leaning into this.
Speaker 3: Yes, there was a lot of differences with us, but
Speaker 3: this is literally the age gap of me and my ex.
Speaker 2: I was thirty, he was forty seven when we met.
Speaker 3: Okay, we didn't come on here, and y'all didn't bash
Speaker 3: me when I talked about my seventeen year age.
Speaker 2: Someone in their thirties dating someone in their forties is
Speaker 2: not as weird as a twenty one year old man.
Speaker 2: Thank you, Like we're really gonna really add them right
Speaker 2: or wrong. It's opinion versus opinion. I'm just saying, like
Speaker 2: that gaping. I don't believe your gap, Mandy is like
Speaker 2: the same as Drea's. You guys are both mature adults.
Speaker 2: You're in the workforce, like, you've lived a life, you
Speaker 2: graduated college, You've had a phase of your fucking life. Like,
Speaker 2: come on, you two can have conversations on the same
Speaker 2: fucking level. A twenty one year old and a thirty
Speaker 2: nine year old woman is completely different. Not to mention,
Speaker 2: it is fucking weird that you've now started a family
Speaker 2: dynamic with your son and your new boyfriend at the
Speaker 2: same age. Them having the same brain is weird. How
Speaker 2: are you gonna lead my family?
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you niggas a niggas in the fifties,
Speaker 3: not leading families. I'm just so annoyed, I swear to God, like,
Speaker 3: I'm so annoyed with this age gap. Let's be very clear,
Speaker 3: because of experience, jobs, whatever location you are, if you're
Speaker 3: Middle America, you're not gonna be as mature as if
Speaker 3: you get raised in New York City, Like, if you're
Speaker 3: in the South, you're not gonna be the same as
Speaker 3: if you're raised in fucking Oklahoma.
Speaker 2: Like to me, let's be very clear.
Speaker 3: This person is now, he's probably world traveled, he'd have
Speaker 3: been overseas he got his passport. He fucking has to
Speaker 3: pay bills and do things at a younger age to
Speaker 3: where the maturity of this man cannot be just compared
Speaker 3: to just any old motherfucking twenty two year old. And
Speaker 3: so to me, we have to consider or be considered
Speaker 3: rit of just where people are in their lives.
Speaker 2: And I'm also.
Speaker 3: Sick of people sitting here victimizing these motherfucking athletes that
Speaker 3: know exactly what the fuck they're doing, just like the
Speaker 3: hose they fuck with know exactly what the fuck they're doing.
Speaker 2: You think that here, okay, all right, I'm not a victim.
Speaker 2: I think that you're feeling a way because you voice
Speaker 2: that you're cool with like I was dating a year old.
Speaker 2: That's my point.
Speaker 3: I feel like that's why you going hard. But no,
Speaker 3: it's not that I'm going hard. You just went really
Speaker 3: hard too. You believe it's weird. I believe that people
Speaker 3: doesn't matter what age. Some of it works, some of
Speaker 3: it doesn't. It's the person. Let's be very clear, me
Speaker 3: and my grown age still had a lot of differences
Speaker 3: with my with my ex out was seventeen years older
Speaker 3: than me. Me at my age of thirty three definitely
Speaker 3: had difference to you with the twenty two.
Speaker 2: Year old that I was that I was just dealing
Speaker 2: with like at the end of the days outline. But no,
Speaker 2: let's be very no, bitch, you went off on a tangent.
Speaker 2: Let's be very clear. I also just believe that we're
Speaker 2: sitting here again. Why the fuck. I'm so glad I'm
Speaker 2: not doing this other podcast. I don't have to sit
Speaker 2: here and have.
Speaker 3: Opinions about the decisions of everybody the fuck else because
Speaker 3: what works for me may not sit here in the
Speaker 3: line with all of y'all's motherfucking opinions.
Speaker 2: Start that I went back to that nigga thirteen times,
Speaker 2: like it is what it is.
Speaker 3: We all sit here and make these decisions that we
Speaker 3: feel fit us.
Speaker 2: I'll be honest, though, that.
Speaker 3: Twenty two year old motherfucker probably got the same goddamn
Speaker 3: capacity of a brain as a motherfucker who's seventy. And
Speaker 3: from what I've been dealing with these motherfucker niggas, that's.
Speaker 2: What it is.
Speaker 3: Not one age is better than the next. Yes, ooh yeah,
Speaker 3: you have more fucking like life experience.
Speaker 2: I mean, we're brad. I have to be honest in
Speaker 2: terms of even my friendships, Like I can't be friends
Speaker 2: with girls at that age because they're not able to
Speaker 2: withstand conversations at the level I am like, I can't
Speaker 2: take them out around niggas that I be with because
Speaker 2: they're fucking kids. I'm not. I understand you don't want
Speaker 2: to call them kids, but Manny, they're I disagree with that.
Speaker 2: I don't know your youngest homegirl, but the youngest homegirl
Speaker 2: I have right now is twenty five, and I literally
Speaker 2: hit her up if I just want to go get
Speaker 2: drinks because she lives nearby me. There's nothing that our
Speaker 2: lives are different. I get it because he's rich and
Speaker 2: wealthy and has a big job and goes on planes. Fine,
Speaker 2: but like that nigga probably didn't even have to do
Speaker 2: anything in college because he had a body. He could
Speaker 2: fucking make money off his literallyfit. A lot of niggas
Speaker 2: with theay looks that can't hold conversation. No, no, no,
Speaker 2: I'm talking about body like he was able to profit
Speaker 2: off of his sports ability. So you just like you've
Speaker 2: said before, these niggas be dumb, these athletes be dumb. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I believe it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And let's be very clear, I hung out with
Speaker 3: the pretty girls. Who's to say that Drea has the biggest,
Speaker 3: best vocabulary, like they've actually maybe on the same space.
Speaker 3: I know a lot them bitches ain't got nothing to say.
Speaker 3: They're just pretty, So let's be very clear. They maybe
Speaker 3: right on the same Drea. I think maybe a little
Speaker 3: bit different.
Speaker 2: Even though I do and I don't know where personally,
Speaker 2: so well, no, no, no, I'm saying Drea's kind of Drea's
Speaker 2: does some work. Like Dre's been able to make and
Speaker 2: keep up her millions and keep up her brand, and
Speaker 2: I think that's pretty good because a lot of these
Speaker 2: bitches haven't so whether kind of like a Heather Sanders, right,
Speaker 2: they're able to like make a brand, keep their name going,
Speaker 2: and recirculate that money, keep a check. I think that's
Speaker 2: why we like Drea. I mean we as in like,
Speaker 2: I think there's girls online that have that quote unquote
Speaker 2: look that women are just like, oh, you don't really
Speaker 2: need a match. I don't think Dreya's one of those.
Speaker 2: Say that about Kim.
Speaker 3: Like again, everybody gonna have an opinion, whether it's right
Speaker 3: or wrong, Everybody.
Speaker 2: Gonna have a motherfucking opinion.
Speaker 3: People still be like, oh my god, Kim is only
Speaker 3: rich because of her looks.
Speaker 2: No, so to me again, I just think we've all
Speaker 2: made him is only rich because she's a listening And
Speaker 2: see whatever you're about to say, I'm joking Kim will
Speaker 2: keeping Nile, see Kim will keeping and you know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying, O'Dell, And I'm here for Drake probably man.
Speaker 2: I actually think it's kind of weird when people are like,
Speaker 2: how many men has she dated? And I'm like, bro,
Speaker 2: she can't date a regular nigga, and neither kndre Okay,
Speaker 2: but there's Mandy.
Speaker 3: She's been out for the last what eighteen years? She
Speaker 3: probably let me get the new bunch that's around. Drea
Speaker 3: and Kim Kardashian are not on the same level. Baby,
Speaker 3: Draken date a corporate nigga, did Draken didn't exact? Dra
Speaker 3: can date a wealthy man. She does not have to be.
Speaker 3: Drea is not Kim Kardashian, Okay, but she doesn't deserve
Speaker 3: that's the hierarchy that you're putting them in.
Speaker 2: I think they are literally coundate the same people because
Speaker 2: they're both hot. You just said that Dreya's gorgeous. She
Speaker 2: deserves a rich nigga. I don't.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna compare Area and a Kim. I don't
Speaker 3: have to compare their dollars or their beauty. I think
Speaker 3: that they deal with the same niggas. Let's be very clear.
Speaker 3: Me Andrea Eskimo sisters, So I'm fucking the same nigga
Speaker 3: at these bitches.
Speaker 2: It's fucking okay. Shit, Kim doesn't need to fucking get
Speaker 2: pregnant by a twenty one year old to have a
Speaker 2: upkeep lifestyle.
Speaker 3: Brother, you just said that Dreya is a millionaire. Drea
Speaker 3: probably didn't need to get pregnant by this.
Speaker 2: Man either, Okay, do you think Drea dated him because
Speaker 2: he's great, or do you think she dated him because
Speaker 2: he's rich.
Speaker 3: That's another problem. I think that man is attractive, so
Speaker 3: you're attractive and you're rich. It's not like he's an
Speaker 3: ugly niggas. I actually am like it ain't like. I'm
Speaker 3: really curious if there's anyone I know. I believe that
Speaker 3: anyone listening has an opinion that's left or right. I
Speaker 3: want to know in the comments on YouTube if any
Speaker 3: one of the things that we said suage your opinion
Speaker 3: the other way, because you did bring up some great points.
Speaker 2: But I just I don't know. I guess I can't
Speaker 2: never want to go through the comments to see that
Speaker 2: she was right. No, I don't know. I actually I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't think I think our community does the right
Speaker 2: or wrong in this. I mind you when I say
Speaker 2: that I did not mean it like that. I actually
Speaker 2: think more people will agree because from a sex positive
Speaker 2: perspective or woman empowerment perspective, they'll be like, if men
Speaker 2: can do it, why can't she? But you know what,
Speaker 2: y'all niggas argue in the comments, and maybe we'll do
Speaker 2: a part two in Patreon to read them so I
Speaker 2: did have an outline, but we'll try it again next week. See.
Speaker 2: The thing is, we're never gonna talk about Oh this
Speaker 2: is what we're doing.
Speaker 1: Bro.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, petty bro.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, we'll never talk about current
Speaker 2: events again.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, I'm not gonna lie. I don't want
Speaker 3: to talk current events like ever again. Well it was
Speaker 3: part of the Vanilla's ship, I know. Yeah, Ed, And
Speaker 3: what the fuck are you doing? You're supposed to get
Speaker 3: this shit, don't you actually no been like this? I
Speaker 3: don't know if you've even been paid. No, no, not wrap up.
Speaker 2: You should have said, hey, you send him?
Speaker 3: Well maybe't did you send them the outline? Maybe you
Speaker 3: should include eddin into the production. Maybe you should hut
Speaker 3: the fuck up.
Speaker 2: Maybe you shouldn't be saying you're trying to get on.
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Speaker 2: are they? Yeah?
Speaker 3: They are kind of out, and maybe I'm be here
Speaker 3: would goddamn hoodie and sneakers because this weather is ridiculous.
Speaker 2: I just got back from fucking Miami and I didn't
Speaker 2: know that I was coming back home.
Speaker 3: To a snowstarre was it fucking Miami or it was
Speaker 3: sucking Miami, girl, cause the nigga got too drunk and
Speaker 3: throw up and threw up all over himself, So no
Speaker 3: dick took place there.
Speaker 2: So yeah, and he's just like, I feel so terrible,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, you should, yeah you shouldn't.
Speaker 3: But all was so because I sucked him before the
Speaker 3: super Bowl. But then we had to all go watch
Speaker 3: super Bowl and so we all we all, Oh girl
Speaker 3: came came like came, and I had fun with it. Like,
Speaker 3: I had my homegirl sit on the couch while I did.
Speaker 2: It because he kind of like I'm trying to inch
Speaker 2: him to a threesome. He hasn't had like a three.
Speaker 3: We know we fucked already before though, so I'm like, girl,
Speaker 3: just come downstairs and watch me set this nigga dick
Speaker 3: real quick. And uh So it's so funny because he
Speaker 3: was so nervous, and that's like my whole girl, homegirl.
Speaker 3: So she was like, yes, bitch, that shit sound wet
Speaker 3: doing you.
Speaker 1: Doing that thing? But no, I literally was like, girl,
Speaker 1: just come.
Speaker 2: Down here and watch me set this nigga dick real quick.
Speaker 1: Why did she join in?
Speaker 3: Because he was so nervous that like he's sitting there
Speaker 3: and bitch, the game done started and I'm like, nigga,
Speaker 3: you ain't gonna make me miss usher. We got to
Speaker 3: go to this party. So I'm like going at his
Speaker 3: pants and he literally just pulled it out. Then it's
Speaker 3: just sitting on his chest, So I like, just go.
Speaker 3: His dick is ginormous. His dick is amazing.
Speaker 1: Okay, so it was a good dick. Now his dick
Speaker 1: is great. Well, no, she felt nervous to even look
Speaker 1: because he was so nervous.
Speaker 2: But she was just like this, like he was so bitch.
Speaker 1: She was so fucking nervous.
Speaker 2: I was just like, oh my god, this is so annoying.
Speaker 1: So are you staying in the room with him?
Speaker 2: No, he gets me. That's why she came. She I
Speaker 2: get my own room every time he flies me out.
Speaker 2: Why what do you mean why? Because I do?
Speaker 3: And I said him my first class ticket. I don't
Speaker 3: need to be all up under your ship. And I
Speaker 3: wanted to be with my friend, like I invited her
Speaker 3: to the game, and he like, like I was driving
Speaker 3: around with her. So I got my own room when
Speaker 3: I went to when I go to like anywhere I go,
Speaker 3: I get my own room. And so I'll go to
Speaker 3: his room or come to mind. But we don't sleep together,
Speaker 3: Like we don't do all the cuddling and ship it's anyway, Yeah,
Speaker 3: we don't do that. Well, no, you said it's new.
Speaker 1: But normally you do. It was that new new, like
Speaker 1: it's the nigga.
Speaker 2: That I would go and see. Like when when my
Speaker 2: ex one.
Speaker 1: So you guys both come downstairs, does he know she's coming?
Speaker 2: Watairs we went upstairs where.
Speaker 1: He knew? He said, no, he knew.
Speaker 3: He said, uh, he said, both of y'all come down,
Speaker 3: and I was like okay, And of course he was like,
Speaker 3: you trust her. I was like, bro, I'm not going
Speaker 3: to bring nobody around that I don't trust.
Speaker 1: So wait, hold on, hold on. So he knew you
Speaker 1: were coming down the suckers dick, Yeah, okay, that's what
Speaker 1: I was coming down. Because like if you said, both
Speaker 1: of y'all going.
Speaker 2: Down because he don't because he's scary. He's just scary.
Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine I would not be the whole I
Speaker 3: am today if I had to go through that type
Speaker 3: of party and ship that these girls have to go to.
Speaker 2: Literally for y'all, I'll share what the experience is like.
Speaker 3: So a lot of like basketball players now don't like
Speaker 3: going to clubs because there's phones, they get drunk, they get.
Speaker 2: Shipped, they make one.
Speaker 1: It's crazy, they make clubs. So they'll like.
Speaker 2: Turn a restaurant or like a lounge into their own club.
Speaker 3: There'll be a DJ, they'll be an open bar, there's
Speaker 3: bottle service, there's hookah, there's all the things, except for Nickas.
Speaker 1: The bottle service part is the weirdest part.
Speaker 2: Weird.
Speaker 1: Oh, they were coming out with Sparkling.
Speaker 2: I were the one at the Mandrium. It was like,
Speaker 2: you know when they were I'm not even doing I
Speaker 2: don't know. But basically, at the Madria in New York,
Speaker 2: there's this top floor. It's probably like a lounge anyway,
Speaker 2: but it turns into a club. So I walk in
Speaker 2: and I didn't know that type of party it was.
Speaker 2: I knew a ballplayer invited me, but I just kind
Speaker 2: of thought he was having drinks with friends because we're
Speaker 2: not fucking with each other, so it didn't really he
Speaker 2: was like, yo, New York. To come through. So the
Speaker 2: bodyguard or the security looks at me and he's like, okay,
Speaker 2: she's cute, is she right? Says pretty. I was like,
Speaker 2: I'm looking for my friends so and so, and he's like, okay, oh,
Speaker 2: you'd have to go upstairs, all right,