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Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make.

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Speaker 2: Horrible decision. All right, let me just do it and

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Speaker 2: then you talk about Okay, go ahead, how do everybody?

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Speaker 2: We have the Horrible Decisions Podcast, and we are going

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Speaker 2: to be in Dallas, Texas Memorial Day weekend, which is

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Speaker 2: a Sunday. We're gonna be headlining the two Togetherland Festival.

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Speaker 2: And you bitches better than I. How the motherfucker work

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Speaker 2: on Sunday? Call out? Ho?

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Speaker 3: I mean you could do that. But also it's a

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Speaker 3: three day weekend. They have Monday off. We will see

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Speaker 3: you guys in Dallas, Texas at the together Land Festival.

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Speaker 3: Make sure you get your tickets now. We will be

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Speaker 3: live on the podcast stage. That's May twenty six. Get

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Speaker 3: your tickets now at togetherland dot com. Hey guys, welcome

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Speaker 3: to another episode of Horrid Bled.

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Speaker 2: This is young Man dv aka paid Sign aka dit Beach.

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Speaker 2: I'm weasy. I may be dressed like a lesbian, but

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Speaker 2: but you are I got a niggame, sure, I mean,

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Speaker 2: and is no? I look really good, very gay, extremely gay.

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Speaker 3: I mean I don't look much non gayer than you

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Speaker 3: right now with the fucking cargoes.

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Speaker 2: But you know the thing that's interesting about me dressing

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Speaker 2: like this. Don't get me wrong, Like when I dress sexy,

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Speaker 2: I think men are always like oh, because I don't

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Speaker 2: like to do it up too much. Even drama fucking

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Speaker 2: left for comment on my last thing, like all right,

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Speaker 2: chill sis, my homeboys do not like me looking cute.

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Speaker 2: But I get hit on way more when I'm dressed

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Speaker 2: like this.

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Speaker 3: I don't say I get hit on more when I

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Speaker 3: dress like this, but like I just went to UH.

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Speaker 3: I wore these exact pants on set with UH when

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Speaker 3: I went on set first seven pm in Brooklyn, and

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Speaker 3: it just made me feel good. You're handy, Melo mellow

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Speaker 3: any super fire And I was like, not mellow complimenting

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Speaker 3: my pants and then here go Merrow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she'd be putting that shit on.

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Speaker 3: And do and do, and so to me like to

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Speaker 3: get complimented by men, I think.

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Speaker 2: Even their shit costs a lot ours.

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Speaker 3: You know, we could dress flot for like twenty two

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Speaker 3: dollars and so like when men like can appreciate that

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Speaker 3: a woman dresses or try to put that shit on

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Speaker 3: without overlooking sexy, I kind of like the compliments for

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Speaker 3: men and that I think girls like have a lot

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Speaker 3: of opportunity to start dressing better instead of like that.

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Speaker 2: You know, we do a lot of matching sets. I

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Speaker 2: feel like that's been a thing for the last few years,

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Speaker 2: and so when you get to like kind of play

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Speaker 2: with color and patterns and shit like that, Like we're

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Speaker 2: lucky to have Pinterest and Instagram to teach us, bitch,

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Speaker 2: because on some real shit, Yeah, how was my mama

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Speaker 2: stylin on these holes?

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Speaker 1: I did?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but like it's very easy to like

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Speaker 2: try to learn new color waves, shit like that. So

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Speaker 2: I think dudes really appreciate it because for the most part,

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Speaker 2: they keep seeing the same shit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Anyways, guys, we ain't got a guest today.

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Speaker 2: I know you all.

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Speaker 3: Motherfucker's happy. God damn, I almost had to be. I said, bitch,

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Speaker 3: we need some solo episodes. So I'm sitting here talking

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Speaker 2: Solo So we're not fighting, which is crazy. We just

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Speaker 2: had really good opportunities for guests because bitch, you know,

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Speaker 2: and we're like, it's the mic.

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Speaker 3: I was a little annoying. This bitch had niggas fly in.

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Speaker 3: I said, bro, we really don't need guests to fly

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Speaker 3: in like, no, no, no, no, no, I didn't know he

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Speaker 3: was flying in. Two of them flew in, did they not? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but she was already in town on her whole sex tour.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and what and then I didn't know he was

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Speaker 2: flying Funny, I could well I found out it was

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Speaker 2: a sex tour. When you know, when the girls basically

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Speaker 2: three clients Billy from March ten to fourteenth, you'd be like,

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Speaker 2: oh uh huh, are you in a show booking them things?

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Speaker 2: Booking them? I am in. Have you been fucking?

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Speaker 1: Huh?

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Speaker 3: So if y'all are on the pat Rion, y'all know

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Speaker 3: I got flew out just for a dick suck, but.

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Speaker 2: that was really funny about that Patreon episode? What Mandy

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Speaker 2: was crying? She was really having a tough day. She said,

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Speaker 2: I haven't even been fucking This podcast hard to do.

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Speaker 2: I did suck a dick, but I haven't even been

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Speaker 3: Don't worry about that. So it was like, this is like,

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Speaker 2: Year ago and not when she was wiped up.

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Speaker 3: like a year and a half ago during one of

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Speaker 3: So anyways, ended up going out and we were in

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Speaker 3: I'm like, where are you at? Because I'm still at

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Speaker 2: I said, okay, I'm leaving now, I'll meet you there

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Speaker 3: I let my friends know, bitch gotta go, got to

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Speaker 3: went and got that dick and it was great.

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Speaker 2: Three.

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Speaker 3: I say three nights stand because I might fucking one

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Speaker 3: more again and then that's about it. I don't think

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Speaker 3: I want I don't want a situationship. I don't want

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Speaker 2: Just when you want it.

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Speaker 3: Literally in the meantime between time, I got one more

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Speaker 2: Why can't you produce him? Let me produced.

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Speaker 3: He is not someone that I'm going to pursue. I

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Speaker 2: He is not one. But the way I want to

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Speaker 2: where you were at I remember, I'm like, good for

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Speaker 3: But yeah, this one, I got one more fucked in

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Speaker 2: This was fun. Maybe we could work together, you know,

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Speaker 3: We went like three rounds. I just kept making them

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Speaker 3: And funny with big niggas don't have big dicks. It's like, bro,

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Speaker 2: You're rich?

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Speaker 3: He gotta make that dick a five inch fine, beautiful, like.

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Speaker 2: And I ain't gonna hold the dick was in. I mean,

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Speaker 2: what's wrong with all men? They're liars? Oh yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, anyways, uh out said of that, what's been

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you how dick make you dumb? Girl?

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Speaker 2: I got alady, you see I'm smart, I said, one

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Speaker 2: I went to an Oscar pre party called The Night

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Speaker 3: I didn't know, but I didn't know if I could

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Speaker 2: sure I'm joking. It's spelt like house. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Wait, who was he? He was just a white man

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Speaker 2: that looked like he could have been an actor. Bitch,

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Speaker 2: hold on, did you anyone see my story about Robert

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Speaker 2: de Niro? Oh, bitch, I'm with a keem. We didn't

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Speaker 2: This white man's coming close to me. I was like,

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Speaker 2: you John ham Who minded you? But John Hamm is

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Speaker 2: I said, John ham I think it's because I had

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Speaker 2: smiles at me and was like, no, but people do

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Speaker 2: tell me y'all look like de Niro. And he's like

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Speaker 2: winking at me, turns back two or three times. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: he want to fuck me? So he not a whole up.

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Speaker 2: That's Robert DeNiro. You thought Robert de Niro wanted to

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Speaker 2: All black women, six black kids, every popping black woman.

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Speaker 3: Across Generations, which is an idea to launch and will

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00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:39,480
Speaker 3: packer productions where I'm producing a show that that's great

436
00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,880
Speaker 3: and it's me growing and getting you.

437
00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:45,359
Speaker 2: To the bag. Hi, listen, I love me and behind

438
00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:50,840
Speaker 2: the camera. The best advice I ever got was was Ken,

439
00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,040
Speaker 2: you're saying, Yo, congrats on your season three for your show.

440
00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:55,480
Speaker 2: I said, thank you, and he goes, why are you

441
00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,280
Speaker 2: even in front of the camera. You could make fifteen

442
00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:02,359
Speaker 2: shows and make fifteen times. That's funny, and listen it is.

443
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:05,480
Speaker 2: It's it Like I think Alex taught me that a

444
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:10,240
Speaker 2: lot too with our studio. Like I didn't understand having spaces,

445
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:13,360
Speaker 2: different places, having presents, being able to put your name

446
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:15,840
Speaker 2: on something and make more of them, Like that's the goal.

447
00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:17,560
Speaker 2: Like one of my homeboys. As a party, I'll go

448
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:19,440
Speaker 2: to jerk and jel off whenever you see it somewhere

449
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:23,040
Speaker 2: that Nigga will have three parties Detroit, New York, LA

450
00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:26,199
Speaker 2: same night and only be at one if none and

451
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,760
Speaker 2: that's what you've got to do, right. You've got to

452
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,280
Speaker 2: make your presence in a bunch of places so that

453
00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:33,520
Speaker 2: you're just your name, associations where people want to be

454
00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 2: low key. I want to do a fucking horrible decisions

455
00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,680
Speaker 2: fucking party night, like a lady's night, and we may

456
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 2: not be there. It's just a high running it, right,

457
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,280
Speaker 2: Like that's how you get bred. And I want to

458
00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:45,240
Speaker 2: learn what the fuck these rich people do it? Saw

459
00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,800
Speaker 2: that shit in that Oscar party? Bitch? Did you know

460
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:53,679
Speaker 2: Margot Robbie produced Barbie and Saltburn and Saltburn bitch, Margot

461
00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:57,119
Speaker 2: Robbie baddest white bitch. I'm sorry, I think it's Margot

462
00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:00,320
Speaker 2: Robbie and Scarlett Johansson. Those are the ones, right, never

463
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,720
Speaker 2: knew that. Literally, I like her to Oh Angelina, sorry,

464
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:05,120
Speaker 2: but I'm thinking new school because she just opened a cafe.

465
00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:08,280
Speaker 2: I saw it on a TikTok old House and I'm like, hey,

466
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 2: yeah it is. You saw it so on the TikTok

467
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,359
Speaker 2: preserved the artist shit, you kind of wipened it up.

468
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 2: But anyway, but no, like just knowing that, right, I

469
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:21,480
Speaker 2: fucking love Saltburn and I didn't really love Barbie. But

470
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:24,439
Speaker 2: I love her, but knowing you produce these things that

471
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 2: are getting Oscars and an Oscar nominated, Like, who the fuck

472
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 2: would think she got it from woo foolags. You didn't

473
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:35,439
Speaker 2: like Barbie. It's okay, there's such a feminist. I actually

474
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 2: didn't think it showcased enough. Oh I wanted to fat Barbie.

475
00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 2: You're a feminist.

476
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 3: I just kind of was like, this is a surf Wait,

477
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:44,920
Speaker 3: you didn't like it because there wasn't a fat Barbie.

478
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like, we're not talking about representation. You

479
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 2: still made her tiny and white. We should have had

480
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,360
Speaker 2: Barbie like show the flaws, Like, I don't know, there

481
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,359
Speaker 2: was a few things in there that they missed it.

482
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 2: When she became human, she has said, like she was like,

483
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,920
Speaker 2: what the fuck is this? She was still Barbie though, well,

484
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 2: Barbie is Barbie. All the other girls was named other things.

485
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:06,480
Speaker 2: It wasn't enough. But anyway, we only had one black

486
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:12,399
Speaker 2: Barbie Easter okay, anyway, so I got him just some

487
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: weird shit recently, So if you're listening to the show,

488
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 2: it's probably March nineteenth or eighteenth. My birthday's is seventeenth,

489
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:23,280
Speaker 2: Saint Patrick's Day. Feel free to send me money. It's fine. Wow,

490
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,640
Speaker 2: what I thought you hated when people did that. Oh yeah,

491
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 2: but I'm doing a donating thing this year. Okay, all right,

492
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 2: you'll see it. So what was I gonna say? Uh? Yeah,

493
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 2: I had Valentine's Day shit that I want to talk about.

494
00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 2: We haven't been in the studio, bitch when I tell you,

495
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 2: got fifty shades of black in his house. So I

496
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 2: never really go to my booze house because we always

497
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 2: party downtown. So he's like, fuck it. And I got

498
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 2: a dog, so it's normally my place to a Valentine's Day.

499
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 2: He plans it out right. I get to his crib,

500
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 2: he makes me dinner. It's so sweet. He acts like

501
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,040
Speaker 2: a waiter, like in very traditional Valentine's Day with the

502
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 2: bear and the flowers and the cart. It was so sweet.

503
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,640
Speaker 2: So we don't really smoke weed, like it's not really

504
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 2: our thing. But he tells me to smoke, and I

505
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 2: didn't really understand why, but I listen and I do

506
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 2: this I'm told. So he's like, I want you to

507
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,720
Speaker 2: hit this real quick. I'm like, all right, son. He

508
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 2: tells me to smoke again, and then he's like, do

509
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:24,439
Speaker 2: you have to go to the bathroom and I'm like,

510
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 2: does he want me to peel him?

511
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 1: Now?

512
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 2: He lacedial shit. No, no, no, and I'm like, no, I look,

513
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 2: that's like I don't need like you need to use

514
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 2: the band. But you're hear it, so your brain is

515
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 2: my rain. I'm like, what is he talking about. He's like,

516
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 2: you have to pee, go pee. I don't want any interruptions.

517
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, so bitch I go pee. He tells

518
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,639
Speaker 2: me to get on the bed because he's about to

519
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 2: give me a massage. He ties me with restraints to

520
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 2: each part of the bed. Right, I'm a fucking starfish

521
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 2: right now, and I'm high, like yes, ankles and wrists

522
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 2: and literally I want to say shout out to him.

523
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,880
Speaker 3: That means he lifted his mattress without your help because

524
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 3: you gotta put it under.

525
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 2: Oh I thought about it. Yeah, bitch I let me

526
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 2: tell you how.

527
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,439
Speaker 3: I'm a one man. All I could think when my

528
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 3: Buddha fucking did this ship me and Valentine Day is

529
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,399
Speaker 3: so sweet, our first Valentine Day together.

530
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 2: I was like, is this new or you had this here?

531
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: Cause nigga, how many bitches you tied up before? What

532
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 2: the fuck? Did you do last year of February fourteen anyway,

533
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 2: But I tried to let that thought go. So he's

534
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 2: giving me a massage, right, and it's so sweet. He's

535
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 2: rubbing me down, and then finally he gets something to

536
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 2: blindfold me. And mind you, this may not be everybody's thing,

537
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 2: but this was definitely my kin and it was super

538
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 2: consensual because I'd let him know before that I wanted this.

539
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 2: We pick a safe word and he starts to like

540
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 2: spank me, right, and like, I feel a lot because

541
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 2: I'm high, and remember, y'all, blindfolding is quote unquote basic,

542
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 2: but when you remove a sense, you feel the rust, right,

543
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 2: So I just got rubbed down and oiled. I'm super relaxed,

544
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 2: and then I just feel all these like slaps, these spanks,

545
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 2: and the next thing I feel is like what I think,

546
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 2: because he never showed me was a pinwheel. Okay, So

547
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 2: he's like putting that up and down my body and

548
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 2: I'm like giggling and shit, and he's switchbum so high.

549
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,959
Speaker 2: He's like, why the fuck are you laughing? I'm like,

550
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: which I just couldn't. It was just I was giggly,

551
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 2: so I kept laughing and shit, and he told me

552
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 2: to stop talking. I've kept talking, and the next thing

553
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 2: I feel is just these sharp popes in my leg

554
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:39,120
Speaker 2: on my skin and what almost feels like slices. So

555
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,119
Speaker 2: I'm like laughing to myself because I'm like, it's not

556
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 2: a real knife, you know what I mean, Like, because

557
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 2: I remember Dash the rope bondage guy told me he

558
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 2: uses credit cards to make you feel like a slice,

559
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,359
Speaker 2: and like, I know he's not gonna hurt me, so

560
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 2: I can't stop giggling because I'm like, oh my god,

561
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 2: maybe you're so scary. I keep getting spanked. Next thing,

562
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 2: you know, he starts eating my pussy and now I'm

563
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 2: getting fucked right and we're having sex and it's fucking great.

564
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:07,439
Speaker 2: But he's also using like the pin wheel thing again. Bro,

565
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 2: It's so many feelings, Like I literally it was over

566
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 2: stimulated to the point where I'm coming like crazy and

567
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 2: I can't see, so I don't know who's fucking me.

568
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:20,120
Speaker 2: That sounds stupid, but like really, I'm just like, what's

569
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 2: going on? That's how high I am. So Finally, because

570
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 2: I kept talking right and he was tired to be talking,

571
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 2: he come because you listen, he said, shut the fuck up.

572
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 2: He did okay, wait, uh he's done. He comes on

573
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:38,360
Speaker 2: my face and I mind you didn't stop talking. It's

574
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 2: just thinking. Basically, was still punishing me. Girl. Why he

575
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 2: left me there tied up with the come on my

576
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 2: face while he took a shower and was doing shit

577
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,439
Speaker 2: around the house. When I tell you, I was in

578
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,159
Speaker 2: super submode, literally tied up. I was like, can I

579
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 2: get out?

580
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 1: No?

581
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I hate that I

582
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 2: thought this shit was hot? What is wrong with me

583
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 2: and my stick fucked up brain that I just wanted

584
00:26:58,240 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 2: to be left with come all over me?

585
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 3: Do you know how in my mind that just made

586
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 3: me so angry because I'm clausrophobic, So the idea of

587
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 3: not being able to.

588
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 2: Move, why don't you use my saper? Fuck whatever? Subb shit?

589
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 2: Bitch she in a shower.

590
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 3: What if I wanted to get up at that moment.

591
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 3: I'm literally just thinking like, oh my god, I would

592
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 3: have been so angry.

593
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 2: Oh No, he kept talking to me while I was

594
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 2: doing it too, But you never shut the fuck up right.

595
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 2: I was like, vich, I loved it, and I realized

596
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 2: how stimulated I am at dirty talk. I didn't even

597
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,679
Speaker 2: need him to touch me, bitch, I almost came just

598
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 2: from that thought of just like being left. It's so

599
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 2: fucked up. So anyway, mind you, I said, he came

600
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 2: on my face, right, he had like started flaking hold on.

601
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,239
Speaker 2: He had dry duty in the morning or something, so

602
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 2: he was like, fuck, he did drive me back. It's

603
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 2: like one in the morning. We're tired. The com was

604
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 2: sitting on my face, so it was kind of seeping

605
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 2: into my eye.

606
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 3: So you never wipe your face off well after. But

607
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 3: mind you, like, how is this seeping into your bitch,

608
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 3: cause it was.

609
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 2: Like on my lash. Bitch, if it's sit there for

610
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,159
Speaker 2: a long time, I don't know it drives up. But

611
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 2: no it does.

612
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 3: I don't know what tyme come i'd've had though, damn

613
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 3: motherfucker be real quick to dry up, flake off, pill off,

614
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 3: like the shit don't stay well.

615
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 2: You've never seen someone's eyes be super red.

616
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 3: Like even Kazumi just posted she like, I get when

617
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 3: comes in your eyes. But you say you're feeling this

618
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 3: when you're in the car.

619
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 2: This is oh no, I'm gonna tell you when not

620
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 2: in the car. So once I get cleaned up, I realized,

621
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 2: too much come when in my eye? Okay, so we

622
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 2: get to the car, bitch, and I can't, like I

623
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 2: lost my vision on one side. So now I'm not joking,

624
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 2: like he really had to help me in the car,

625
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: and so he said, he's looking at me while he's driving.

626
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 2: He's like, baby, are you okay? He said, I turned

627
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 2: around like this, okay, one eye open, bitch. I couldn't

628
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 2: see for like twelve hours, Mandy. It was so bad.

629
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck y'all. I'm telling you

630
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 2: right now, if a nigga even gets close to coming,

631
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 2: you must close them tight and squint like a booty

632
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 2: hole bitch, clinch. I'm never again going to kind of

633
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 2: try to see what's going on. Holy shit, I thought

634
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 2: I was gonna die. And then all I could think

635
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: when I was googling. But when I was like, could

636
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 2: you could, will I get blood? I saw this quiggly line.

637
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 2: I could see the sperm swim. It was so bad.

638
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 2: It was so bad. You know. No, I'm not but

639
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 2: Valentine's d was great.

640
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 3: I love him so much anyway.

641
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 2: No, it's really sick. It's like this point of like

642
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 2: it's like too popularve too in love right now, and

643
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,239
Speaker 2: I'm like, I literally said yesterday I was like, oh

644
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 2: my god, you know, I'm just trying to get anxiety.

645
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 2: He's like, everything's right, and he's like, bro, what the fuck?

646
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 2: Like this is healthy, this is safe, Like you should

647
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 2: not feel like this because you're happy. And I'm like, bitch,

648
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 2: I'm ready to look under his bed and see there's

649
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 2: a hole under there, Like I don't know what the

650
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 2: fuck is wrong? I don't like it anyway, Everything's fine.

651
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 2: So I did nice play for my first time, and

652
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 2: I only know that it was now real knife play

653
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 2: because when I was getting dressed, I said, what the

654
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 2: fuck is that better knife? You had a real knife, nigga.

655
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 2: He's like, well, yeah, I didn't have a sneak knife.

656
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,239
Speaker 3: He was really using a knife. He didn't get one

657
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 3: of them nice from the from the sex story. Bitch,

658
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 3: it was a butter knife.

659
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 2: I don't tell y'all that butter knife felt real. It

660
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 2: does because you felt it, mind you. It wasn't making

661
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 2: me bleed many but he was just like tapping it

662
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 2: on my skin.

663
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 3: I would have known that sh it was butter knife

664
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 3: because it's round and that it's not pointed.

665
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 2: It's bro, you can't feel it. I'm telling you you.

666
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying is round. I only got pointed.

667
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 2: I felt this. I felt like on myg ain't all

668
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 2: on the butter knife big felt enough for you blindfolding bitch.

669
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 3: What the type of butter knife y'all got? I got

670
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 3: the ones from Amazon?

671
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 2: And have you ever been blind mind floated and tied

672
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 2: by your wrist and ankles? I've done this, yes, actually,

673
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 2: And when you were blindfolded and he pulled a knife

674
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: out and say, bitch, I'm a no because I don't

675
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 2: have a murder fan of bit.

676
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 3: I absolutely like I told you, when the nigga used

677
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 3: to put the motherfuckering pillowcase over my head, I was like,

678
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 3: I now get me the fuck up out of here.

679
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 2: I did it for a little bit because he wanted

680
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 2: to do it. Now. Remember when Mia Dark came on

681
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 2: and she was like, oh she chlorofyarded nigger. I was like, yeah,

682
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 2: like it.

683
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 3: You know, I'm good on all that again, And I

684
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 3: tell my mom all the time. Bit, you shouldn't have

685
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 3: me watching Lifetime at seven years old. Now I think

686
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 3: that every.

687
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 2: Man has the ability to kill a b You know,

688
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 2: it's kind of sick of where my brain goes because

689
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 2: I don't want to die die. I just want to

690
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 2: feel scared. And then also, you know, the aftercare is

691
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 2: such a great thing too, once it's over and you

692
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 2: get the kissing and the cuddles. Like I do appreciate

693
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 2: men that learn about like a sub drop, because I've

694
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 2: had an experience where I got slapped in the face

695
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 2: and I asked for it and then there was no

696
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 2: aftercare and it's just like all that adrenaline went down.

697
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 2: I felt really sad.

698
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 3: It was weird, I'll say, And maybe because this relationship

699
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 3: is newer. I had this much fun and I was

700
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 3: this adventurous with my ex in the beginning. As I

701
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 3: started losing trust from him due to his behavior outside

702
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 3: of the bedroom, I realized that in the bedroom, my

703
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 3: mind started going to really dark places, and I remember

704
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 3: literally thinking or feeling unsafe with him choking me when

705
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 3: I normally was like, my mind would go to we

706
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 3: done broke up so many times.

707
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 2: This nigga hates me, and so I did. I used to.

708
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 3: I actually took a break from us engaging in play

709
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 3: like that because there was no way for me to

710
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 3: trust him in the bedroom.

711
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 2: Knowing that I I don't want to say it's newer,

712
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 2: I want to say that. I don't want to say

713
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 2: that's it's because it's newer.

714
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 3: We need to be dating people that make us feel safe,

715
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 3: and when we are feeling unsafe in love, not blaming

716
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 3: you because I stayed with old Bay too.

717
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 2: We need to leave these niggas. No, of course, because

718
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 2: I realize now I don't mean to leave these niggas.

719
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: No.

720
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 2: No, it's not easier to say, bro, we need to

721
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: do what to do? It's easier to say than do it,

722
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 2: just like I want to keep sa Yeah, I'm saying

723
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 2: like I want to keep saying this because I want

724
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 2: to not be ever so in love to where iver

725
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 2: do that again. But I will say being in an

726
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 2: over communicative relationship at this point, like there was this

727
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 2: moment where and this is probably as deep as I'll

728
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 2: ever go into. And we've never fought, which is really nice.

729
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 2: The bickering is not there. It's just very deep conversations

730
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 2: about how we're making each other feel. But we went

731
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 2: to an oscar party together and there was a cute

732
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 2: girl that he was talking to and I was right

733
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 2: next to him, and I caught myself thinking if I

734
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 2: went to the bathroom, he would get her number which

735
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 2: is so crazy because literally, these are all my friends.

736
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 2: Why would he do this to me? Right in a

737
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 2: logical way, like why would this person do that rationally?

738
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 2: And we got in the car. I told him that

739
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 2: and he was like, yo, like, I'm not going to

740
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 2: embarrass you. I understand, like you've been embarrassed before. I'm

741
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 2: not going to embarrass you. Like you have to believe

742
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 2: and trust that, like you're allowed to have something healthy,

743
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 2: that you can feel free, that we can talk to

744
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 2: other people in a room. And I don't police anything

745
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 2: he does, but bro, that literally happened to me with Oldbay.

746
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 2: I hosted a guy's next door live show. He went

747
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 2: to get drinks for me and my friends and was

748
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: outside with a bitch. Like it was just so tough.

749
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 2: And now I have to relearn what openness is like

750
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 2: and like safety is like. And so where I've been

751
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 2: to the point where like I start my trust at

752
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 2: zero and then it goes to one hundred. Now I'm

753
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 2: trying to do it the other way, right, So I'm

754
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 2: trying to think to myself, Okay, what has he shown me?

755
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 2: Like what's going on? Like am I feeling happy day

756
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,479
Speaker 2: to day? Like it's really crazy because I think though

757
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:20,439
Speaker 2: that that sounds great. Again, leaving when you don't feel

758
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 2: safe anymore sounds great. But in engaging in sex with someone,

759
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 2: it's easier than not to feel unsafe with a partner

760
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: who you feel like is not opening up emotionally, is lying,

761
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 2: who has betrayed your trust, and so where where Again,

762
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 2: I'm speaking from my own personal experience and a lot

763
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 2: of the experience of my friends in my circle, and

764
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 2: maybe a lot of people listening. The way that they

765
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 2: show ab outside the bedroom.

766
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 3: In ways just innately unfortunately make you feel unsafe, and

767
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 3: it's unfortunately very hard to feel safe with men.

768
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 2: I'm I agree with people I've talked about a lot

769
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 2: of pain on this show, and what I'm saying the

770
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 2: commitment to myself. I know it's easier said than done.

771
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 2: I'm not staying with someone again that does this neither,

772
00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 2: which is why I said I'm a fuck that like

773
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 2: I go ahead, No, but he's not doing something. No

774
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 2: he's not. But it's me being in reality. That's not

775
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 2: what I'm talking. No, no, No.

776
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 3: What I'm saying is I know that I do not

777
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 3: want a situationship or a casual sex or deal with

778
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 3: someone again. New I'm a fucking one more time because

779
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 3: I do want to fuck one more time. Yeah, And

780
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 3: then moving forward, I know I'm going to intentionally only

781
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 3: put myself specifically sexually, out into the world as someone

782
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 3: who is emotionally available to love.

783
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 2: And receive love. And it's crazy because when you're in

784
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 2: it and it starts to feel good, we're so people

785
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 2: men that date men, women that anybody. When you've been

786
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 2: hurt by somebody before, all you can do is sometimes compare.

787
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 2: And I'm really learning that. And I've been through so

788
00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 2: much therapy and I was ready to date when I met.

789
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 2: I didn't realize I wasn't ready to like fall in

790
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 2: a deep love without being scared. So that shit is

791
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 2: like really fucking with me. Bro. Like sometimes when my

792
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 2: mom talks about how Grady is or they've made jokes

793
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 2: about kids together, I'm like, stop telling me, Like I

794
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 2: don't want my mom to say it to me anymore

795
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 2: because I don't want to like over fantasize the idea.

796
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 2: And I realized, like, this is trauma. My white friends

797
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 2: don't go through this, bro, These white bitches do not

798
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 2: be acting like they have their own traumas they do.

799
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 2: But I just feel like there's some I saw something

800
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 2: on Twitter about this about like how come white people

801
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 2: be posting their partners but we don't. I don't know

802
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,839
Speaker 2: if that shit is real or not, but like, I

803
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 2: feel like the trauma that my white home girls have

804
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 2: been through is kind of different. For example, someone in

805
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 2: one of my black male friends in his fifties said

806
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 2: this to me. He said, we are from a society

807
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 2: we're having multiple women as cool pimp, shit player, shit rappers, whatever,

808
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 2: or we had the cool uncle, always had a different bitch.

809
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 2: He was like, right, he said, white people's trauma is

810
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 2: this like ghosting shit, never getting committed. He's like, it's

811
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 2: this different thing. It's this hierarchy of money, not feeling

812
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 2: like you're enough, and he was like, it's more about

813
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 2: the woman than it is. I don't I don't remember

814
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 2: how he said it, but I do agree to that

815
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 2: to some I agree to some point when it comes

816
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 2: to black men. So I think you're I don't think

817
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 2: white men have that playership. Man.

818
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 3: I think you're leaving out a big part of just

819
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 3: our history as the black community. So we had the

820
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 3: crack epidemic in the eighties and in the nineties.

821
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 2: Black men leaving, Black men leaving the home. It's not

822
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:36,839
Speaker 2: only black men leaving the home.

823
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 3: And this is this comes from my own personal upbringing

824
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 3: and and and my environment. When welfare was introduced, you

825
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 3: literally got government assistance and you.

826
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 2: Couldn't have a man in the home. If a man,

827
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 2: if if you.

828
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:55,399
Speaker 3: Got a welfare check and male shoes were found, your

829
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 3: government assistance could be taken away. So they created also

830
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 3: this almost need for unfortunately our community. And let's be

831
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 3: very clear, white people are on welfare and government assistance

832
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 3: as well. But it almost pushed the narrative that being

833
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 3: a single mother you received more help than if you were.

834
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:14,959
Speaker 2: Hey, you're talking about something different, which I still agree

835
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 2: with though about me. What you're talking about is the

836
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 2: notion that like women and their independence, like this bag

837
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 2: you're in is a conversation of women don't need a

838
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 2: man type shit, Like I think that, No, they still

839
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: wanted a man, I know, but there are. But I

840
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 2: do believe some of that has to do. And it

841
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 2: is coupled with women feeling stronger alone, feeling like they

842
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 2: have to get used to being alone because that's where

843
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 2: they learned it from. I'm talking about men simply having

844
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 2: the need to have more women. That's not why I

845
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 2: do so.

846
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 3: No, if we're talking about the reason why maybe you

847
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 3: feel that black people hide their relationships, that's what I'm

848
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 3: talking about, Oh, hiding relationships, That's what we were talking about.

849
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 3: You're talking about men wanting multiple partners. If we go

850
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 3: back to way back in the day, everyone had multiple partners.

851
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 3: I think that that's what's great about the So now

852
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 3: we're just now able to have the conversations around non

853
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 3: monogamy and people are forthcoming with that.

854
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 2: But men have always had multiple families, multiple All men

855
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 2: are cheaters, Like I mean, I'm sorry, most men are cheaters. Like,

856
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 2: I don't think black men are cheating more than white

857
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,879
Speaker 2: men or anything, but I do think cheating is more

858
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 2: celebrated with the jumping through them. I believe that. I

859
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 2: actually don't. I don't think if there's even a room

860
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 2: to argue that niggas having a lot of bitches is cool.

861
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 2: According to rap music hip hop, that it has just

862
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 2: been a culture bro White music don't talk about hold

863
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,879
Speaker 2: and having a bunch of bitches and music like it's

864
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 2: just not like that. Are you in the country country

865
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 2: music talks about it, like I don't want to put

866
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 2: this on. I think rock music talks about sex rock

867
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 2: and roll, but even in terms of side bitch, main bitch,

868
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 2: white people ain't never what term is that mistress. And

869
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 2: even then they've always painted in this high class way

870
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 2: and you have this like it's a there's a picture,

871
00:39:56,719 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 2: And I again think, yes, mistresses were never celebrated. They

872
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 2: was always looked down upon. Black men having multiple women

873
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 2: is celebrated. It just is.

874
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 3: And so that's the same way boys growing up are

875
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,359
Speaker 3: pushed into manhood like go have sex, and women are

876
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 3: told to protect their bodies. Like there's just a difference

877
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 3: in period the way men are viewed in society and women.

878
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 3: We're not gonna get away from that. And I also

879
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 3: don't think that it's a race thing. I think it's

880
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 3: just how we are do bro.

881
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 2: Black men are being amazing fathers right now, they're more

882
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 2: active and they're kids. No, no, what I'm saying, you're saying

883
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 2: you don't think we're gonna get away from it. I

884
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 2: think that there needs to be more dialogue and celebration

885
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 2: about what are monogamy with black men, black men honoring

886
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,720
Speaker 2: their wives, whether or not there's rumors about Lebron cheating

887
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 2: on his wife or not. The image of him and

888
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:49,800
Speaker 2: Savannah and his perfect all American family is so important

889
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 2: for black men and women to see, just to know

890
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 2: that it could be possible. And they're you just brought

891
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 2: up the rumors, because there's rumors with everybody. We want

892
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 2: to take everybody down when they're happy. That's just true.

893
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 2: But I'm saying, like, we need to see more of

894
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 2: that shit. I love seeing see her and Russell Wilson.

895
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 2: Matter of fact, I'm gonna actually say something crazy. When

896
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 2: Natalie Nunn got with her husband and she was posting

897
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 2: all that family content, I thought that was super cute.

898
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 2: And I don't like her, but I kind of liked

899
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 2: seeing it, like, Okay, city girl got a man. Like

900
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,399
Speaker 2: I think it's really good and healthy to see these

901
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 2: types of things, and we need more of that shit.

902
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 2: But unfortunately, because we don't have it, we're all just

903
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 2: so used to like expecting a man to cheat on

904
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,399
Speaker 2: us and leave for another woman. And I do think

905
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 2: it has to do with the shit that's been perpetuated

906
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 2: in black culture. Even masculinity is associated with multiple women.

907
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 2: Look how we look at Russell like he's a bitch.

908
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 2: Because he didn't took on another man's kid or whatever,

909
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 2: like it's the most manly thing you can do. I

910
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 2: just I don't know.

911
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,839
Speaker 3: If white people are having that kind of celebration when

912
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 3: it comes to bitches like I just I don't see it.

913
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 3: I'm not saying it doesn't exist, but I don't think

914
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 3: it does to the degree which we have it.

915
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 2: No, I don't hang with crackers. Yeah you literally.

916
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 3: I can't speak on white people, but I guarantee you

917
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 3: they talk, They deal with the same shit we do

918
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 3: in a different They just say different.

919
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 2: Well you know what I mean.

920
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 3: Were playing space, they're playing bir Punk. It's just a

921
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 3: different you know, it's the same shit. We had a

922
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 3: house party. We just do different shit. Put up bread, Trnton,

923
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 3: y'all make sure you get your tickets now. May fifth,

924
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:33,360
Speaker 3: we are at the Earth Theater in London's and we

925
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:36,800
Speaker 3: made this a specific request to be in London on

926
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 3: the weekend so that our all of our euro people

927
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 3: can come and see this. We want our whole euro

928
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:47,479
Speaker 3: people Europe and europeal pull whatever. All the black people

929
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 3: that live over there, just take that another fucking Eurostar

930
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 3: and come and see us.

931
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 2: We're gonna be there. May fifth, we are having a

932
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:53,800
Speaker 2: whole new show, one that you didn't see. This is

933
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 2: a part of the Climax tour. So even if you

934
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 2: were on the Climax Tour and you need a little trip,

935
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 2: it's gonna be warmer, it's gonna be fun. Come through

936
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 2: s the A.

937
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 3: That's right, make sure you head on over to or

938
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 3: Hive dot com and get your tickets.

939
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:08,359
Speaker 2: Now, let's talk about something else that we're gonna fight

940
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:11,839
Speaker 2: to the tooth about. I'm wondering, I don't I wait, wait,

941
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 2: I want to start with white news first because I

942
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 2: actually just found this out from one of my white friends.

943
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 2: And I keep talking about this white bitch because I

944
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 2: helped her move. So I was been with a white

945
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 2: friend for two days. Okay, So I was like, Yo,

946
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 2: do you know who Drea is? She's like, yeah, I

947
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 2: love it basketball girls. I'm like, did you hear what happened? Andrea?

948
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 2: She's like, bitch, this reminds me of Miley Cyrus's mom.

949
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 2: Has anybody heard about this? I love Miley Cyrus. I

950
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 2: fucking love that. We don't know what the fuck is

951
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 2: going on in white world. Because Liz Goldwan had to

952
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 2: fill me in at that oscar shop. So Miley Cyrus's

953
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 2: mother's name is Tish Cyrus. Okay, she just got married

954
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 2: to a man, Daddy Billy Ray. She just got married

955
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 2: to a man named Dominic purcell Ooh so what color

956
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:50,959
Speaker 2: is he? I don't know, white, I think. Okay, there's

957
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 2: another daughter, a sister, Miley's sister, Noah half full sister.

958
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 2: I don't know. But what I do know is Noah

959
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: the man Dominic purcell They have been seeing each other

960
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,879
Speaker 2: for a time before he entered a relationship with her mother.

961
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 2: They were seeing each other in a friends and benefits way,

962
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 2: on and off. They stopped seeing each other, and then

963
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,720
Speaker 2: something with Tish, her mother started up. The source further

964
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 2: claimed that the youngest sister was offended by the relationship,

965
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 2: saying that her mom knew she had been seeing her

966
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 2: he had been seeing her. The mother never gave her

967
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:26,720
Speaker 2: a chance to talk about this. Before they got married.

968
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 2: She hired security to make sure that the daughter wouldn't

969
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 2: show up to the wedding. And she's been in spiraling

970
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 2: out of control, trying to figure out a way to

971
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 2: diffuse this. And so Miley Cyrus claimed she had no idea.

972
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 2: Everybody saying that's not true. Noah, The sister confronted her

973
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 2: mom about it, thinking it was so strange of a situation,

974
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 2: but she loves her mom wants her to be happy,

975
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 2: and then basically said she's going to remain loyal to

976
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 2: Billie Ray. They've had a close relationship, and she doesn't

977
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 2: approve of her new man.

978
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 3: So, yeah, this is a great example of white news

979
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 3: that's already happened in black culture. Literally a year or

980
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 3: two ago, we're talking about how did he was dating

981
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 3: Lori Harvey? Before did he started dating Lorie Harvey was

982
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 3: dating his son. So again, but I don't know if

983
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:14,240
Speaker 3: that was true. Oh it was true dating dating dating.

984
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 3: I think it was the Christian Colmes one can we

985
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 3: can we back check because everybody hitched out with them?

986
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,439
Speaker 2: Or is it it was brother dating? Okay, so maybe

987
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 2: she wasn't dating. And then she was on a yacht.

988
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 2: She was on a yacht, bitch, baby, she was alone.

989
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 2: She was just the chefs and the captain, the chefs

990
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 2: of the cap Uh huh. You see look ed you went.

991
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:38,839
Speaker 2: It's the same ship. See black people, white people doing

992
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 2: the same goddamn ship. Now that shit's sick.

993
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 3: Well, well, actually, okay, he didn't marry her, but that's

994
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 3: the only difference. Yeah, that's Mary, but everybody only got

995
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 3: a year contract.

996
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 2: With Laurie anyway. So Draya Michelle, who God, I love

997
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 2: her body. She is to me. Drey and Michelle, thirty

998
00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 2: nine years old, is having a baby with the NBA

999
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 2: starred Jayalen Green, who just turned twenty two. He was

1000
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 2: twenty one. There's a seventeen years age gap. Everybody thinks

1001
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 2: it's weird. I'm not gonna make the long story long,

1002
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,320
Speaker 2: but I will say her son is the same age. Yep.

1003
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 2: So you think we're gonna disagree on this. I feel

1004
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 2: like you're gonna say it's not wrong, and I think

1005
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,800
Speaker 2: it is. Okay. The reason I do is mainly because

1006
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 2: of her kid. I think it's weird. I also think

1007
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 2: it's very strange when men date women the same age

1008
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 2: as their daughters. One of my favorite ninety day fiance

1009
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 2: people is the dude with no neck ed Actually, last year,

1010
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 2: on my birthday, someone sent me a cameo from him.

1011
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 2: That was cool, but I remember his daughter. The thing

1012
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 2: on the show was his daughter wouldn't talk to him

1013
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 2: because he was dating a girl younger than her. I

1014
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 2: do think it's super weird when people date someone the

1015
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 2: same age as their kids. I understand sex and experiences

1016
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,920
Speaker 2: and like maybe this fun thing. I understand paying for

1017
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:52,840
Speaker 2: sex like sex work could be younger like, but I

1018
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,439
Speaker 2: do think it's weird. I think Drea is gorgeous, and

1019
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 2: I think she's in the industry enough to get anyone

1020
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:01,800
Speaker 2: she wants. I understand Jalen Green is super rich and

1021
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 2: making money, but I find it predatorial and I don't

1022
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 2: think it's a good look.

1023
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 3: Okay, so I don't have a problem with it. I

1024
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 3: don't see a problem with it. I think it's very

1025
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 3: hard to talk about bringing up the age of your son.

1026
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 3: She had her son. I believe it seventeen. It was

1027
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 3: a teenage pregnancy.

1028
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:27,800
Speaker 2: Doesn't matter what pregnancy. That's fine, Well, a teenage pregnancy,

1029
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 2: so and that's so that's my problem. That is my problem.

1030
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 3: My problem is this relationship with a thirty nine and

1031
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 3: a twenty two year old being misconstrued as predatorial, as pedophilia,

1032
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 3: as grooming. I wanted to read uh because I think

1033
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 3: that we've been talking about these words so much and

1034
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,839
Speaker 3: it's it really bothered me. Grooming is when someone builds

1035
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:56,440
Speaker 3: a relationship, trust, an emotional connection with a child. Grooming

1036
00:47:56,840 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 3: in adult relationships is all about control and dominance. Grooming

1037
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 3: is a form of manipulation that is often extremely difficult

1038
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:05,720
Speaker 3: to spot when a person doesn't know what to look for. Now,

1039
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 3: in this specific relationship, you have a man who is

1040
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 3: twenty two years old. I don't want to use twenty

1041
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 3: two years old.

1042
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 2: As a child. That is not a child legally.

1043
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 3: Second off, he's even old enough to drink and do

1044
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 3: everything else except maybe rent a car. But he could

1045
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 3: do literally everything else, and he could rent a car.

1046
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 3: Is just going to be a higher a little deposit.

1047
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 2: I guess he got it. So my problem is conflating

1048
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 2: this with men who literally are grooming children or teenagers

1049
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 2: or high schoolers. This is a grown man who, mind you,

1050
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,359
Speaker 2: in terms of maturity.

1051
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 3: He is in his career, the career that he will

1052
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 3: probably have for the next fifteen to twenty years of

1053
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:47,479
Speaker 3: his life. He has bills, he probably provides and takes

1054
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 3: cares for majority of his family. He is adult things

1055
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,359
Speaker 3: that he is dealing with in handling and at twenty

1056
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 3: two years old.

1057
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 2: While a woman or a man can get married.

1058
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 3: At twenty two years old, and if it's two twenty

1059
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,720
Speaker 3: two year olds, no one bothers with it. I actually

1060
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 3: feel like a baby in this dynamic with a woman

1061
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:08,359
Speaker 3: who already has two children, with a woman who has

1062
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 3: already been a mother. I think that the child has

1063
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 3: a better chance of having a better upbringing in this

1064
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 3: scenario than two twenty two year olds having a child together.

1065
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 2: Do you think that a child with a twenty one

1066
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:24,879
Speaker 2: year old kid who just became she also has another

1067
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 2: kid that she had with or I know I'm talking

1068
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 2: about him as a dad. Do you think this situation

1069
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 2: is super great?

1070
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 3: Like, here's the thing, No, Syestiday's rich. No situation is

1071
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 3: gonna be perfect. But let's to me growing up with

1072
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:39,360
Speaker 3: no resources of money. I and this again could be

1073
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 3: my ignorance. I do believe my upbringing could have been

1074
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 3: a lot easier, not only on my mom, but on

1075
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:47,919
Speaker 3: our household, had we had a little bit more fun.

1076
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 2: Now, Yeah, I really recently saw something that said a

1077
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 2: child having a happy home actually has more to do

1078
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 2: with the mother's health and finances, which I believe. But

1079
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 2: I will say this seem healthy and is fine. Did

1080
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 2: I bring bring up Ursula Burns on this podcast yet? Who. No,

1081
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:07,800
Speaker 2: I didn't. Ursula burn No, No, I didn't. Ursula Burns

1082
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 2: is a black billionaire. I recently produced something that she

1083
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 2: was a part of, and I had no idea that

1084
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 2: she was a billionaire when I met her. But she

1085
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 2: made a joke about like how her and Oprah back

1086
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 2: in the day used to go back and forth on

1087
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,439
Speaker 2: the Forbes List. She was the first black woman CEO

1088
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 2: of Xerox, And she said something about being happy, healthy

1089
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 2: and kind, and how these are the things that make

1090
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 2: you sleep well at night. This is what will bring

1091
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 2: you prosperity. When you're this type of person, you're just

1092
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 2: going to live a good life this way. I believe

1093
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 2: that I've met a lot of rich people and a

1094
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 2: few billionaires that do not have that attitude. Right.

1095
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 3: I say all that to say she didn't grow up

1096
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 3: with money and literally said I had no idea that

1097
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 3: she's like I knew I was poor, but I didn't

1098
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 3: because my mom was so about making us happy, healthy

1099
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 3: and kind. People like I believe that we're putting way

1100
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 3: too much pressure on the family dynamic as we know

1101
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 3: it and money as we know it is There's a

1102
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 3: look at all these people all over the world, that

1103
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 3: are happy, Drea, and all of these types of girls

1104
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 3: online who are dating the rich guy. We're all fucking

1105
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 3: thinking these kids are living happy lives because they're super wealthy.

1106
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 2: That's not fucking true.

1107
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 3: I will I will say, and this is with the

1108
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,280
Speaker 3: utmost respect, and I don't want you to feel offended

1109
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 3: when I say it, because I grew up with money.

1110
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,399
Speaker 2: You grew up with both. You grew up with both

1111
00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 2: parents and money. Mandy, you're gonna tell me that kids

1112
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 2: with money haven't suffered one moment. I did not say that,

1113
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 2: and you're putting words in my mouth.

1114
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 3: I will say, as someone who did not grow up

1115
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 3: in that way, where again, I literally was in a

1116
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 3: shelter for a year. My Christmases were dependent on the

1117
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 3: Salvation Army. We had certain foods only if we had

1118
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 3: food stamps section eight to where I couldn't go on

1119
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 3: certain field trips, or I had to ask my friend's

1120
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 3: parents to pay for me on field trips.

1121
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 2: I will say, if there.

1122
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,319
Speaker 3: Was even just a little bit more money for how

1123
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 3: we grew up and my mom could only do she

1124
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 3: did as a single parent, my dad not speaking to

1125
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 3: me because she wanted more child support. I just I

1126
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 3: get where you're coming from and with all sincerity, without

1127
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 3: growing up with those things. I'm telling you things could

1128
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 3: have or in my mind be better. And I'm not

1129
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:15,720
Speaker 3: saying that.

1130
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 2: Jalen Green is not going to promise a good lifeline.

1131
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:22,240
Speaker 3: But again also being a woman who is raising multiple

1132
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 3: children to sit here and put healthy, healthy cunt. I

1133
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 3: don't think I even went to the dentist until I

1134
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 3: was in middle school because we didn't have the money to.

1135
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 2: I'm just talking about like you're getting, you're getting, You're

1136
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 2: you're getting a surface and I'm getting.

1137
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 3: Deeper than I'm getting deep because I'm bringing up no

1138
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 3: what this was like, happy, healthy kind. This girl was

1139
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 3: talking about how her her mom made sure they were active,

1140
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,760
Speaker 3: how they were doing certain things. I'm just simply saying,

1141
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:49,439
Speaker 3: we can't act like cause the nigga's rich, they're gonna

1142
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:49,919
Speaker 3: have a good life.

1143
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 2: How many basketball players are barely giving these women money.

1144
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 2: We talked about Brittany Renner who's barely getting ship from

1145
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 2: her baby daddy who's rich.

1146
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 3: We see time and time, Againe. I never brought up

1147
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 3: Jalen's money. I said that you could no, no, no, you

1148
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 3: just had money. No no, no, no, I did not you're

1149
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 3: you're bringing up money. No, you brought up money. I

1150
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 3: brought up that Dreya at thirty. My only point in

1151
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 3: this whole thing was not money at all.

1152
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,760
Speaker 2: That's literally talk about money. You brought up money because

1153
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:16,880
Speaker 2: of the billionaire.

1154
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 3: No, My only point in this was that I think

1155
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 3: that Dreya at thirty nine years old, already being a

1156
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 3: mother of two, and Jalen at twenty two, this dynamic

1157
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 3: of that parenthood in that structure actually seems healthier and

1158
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 3: would create an even better child than to twenty two

1159
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 3: year olds.

1160
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:38,720
Speaker 2: That was my point. I mean, I didn't bring up money.

1161
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,320
Speaker 2: The only reason I talked about that billionaire lady is

1162
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 2: because she started poor. That was to your point. When

1163
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:48,799
Speaker 2: I'm talking about the Drea in this scenario, I just

1164
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 2: think that it's very clear she wouldn't be dating this

1165
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:55,399
Speaker 2: He's a kid to me, maybe he's a consenting kid,

1166
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 2: but like he's young kid.

1167
00:53:57,160 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 3: Okay, he's twenty one. We got to stop using those words.

1168
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 3: This is not a kid. He's twenty two, Okays, a.

1169
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 2: Twenty one year old grown man. If he was not rich,

1170
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 2: she wouldn't be with him. And it clearly Dreya's a baddie.

1171
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 2: She deserves to be with a rich nigga. I do

1172
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:16,839
Speaker 2: think a twenty one year old young man who hasn't

1173
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 2: even experienced life yet. I think it's fucking weird. And

1174
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 2: mind you, we have different opinions, but it is all

1175
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 2: because of money, and I say that it's a very

1176
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 2: strong point. I know I was fortunate enough to have

1177
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:31,359
Speaker 2: two parents, but I don't think that this is gonna

1178
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 2: be the healthiest thing. I don't think they're gonna be

1179
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,920
Speaker 2: on together. That nigga's twenty one, twenty two years old.

1180
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 2: Now he's about to live an amazing fucking life. Get

1181
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,720
Speaker 2: all this pussy thrown at him. Drea's only gonna get older,

1182
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 2: Like she don't want to be in the fucking clubs.

1183
00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 2: Keeping up with this nigga.

1184
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 3: Would be waddy. Same agent ain't gonna last ve that's

1185
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 3: very true.

1186
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 2: But it's not just to say that they'll have the

1187
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 2: healthiest scenario. I just I don't believe it. I think

1188
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 2: if if Sierra didn't meet Russell, who knows how future's

1189
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 2: life would be. Right, Like, you don't know, Like money

1190
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 2: is just such a small factor of the health of

1191
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 2: this kid, because so many women fucking get pregnant bodies,

1192
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 2: rich niggas, and we see every tabloid and Shay Rude

1193
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 2: laughs at them because they don't get enough child support. Like, say,

1194
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 2: you said healthy kind and what was the other one?

1195
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 2: Kind of happy?

1196
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:21,400
Speaker 3: If if Jalen and Drea are both healthy, kind and happy,

1197
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 3: do their ages matter?

1198
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 2: Well, I mean you're saying that in terms of them being.

1199
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:29,320
Speaker 3: Parents, in terms of yeah being a fail. My opinion

1200
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 3: is that it's weird. Okay, right, Yeah, you can hold

1201
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 3: that a lot of people. Yeah, I mean, I'm not

1202
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 3: saying that this kid Like, I'm not saying that Drea

1203
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 3: won't have a healthy pregnancy or they won't be happy together.

1204
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like, I still think it's weird. I

1205
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 2: think it's I don't think they'll end up being together forever.

1206
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 2: I think that gap is really strong, and I think

1207
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:54,560
Speaker 2: Drea's probably know what, how do you even? I mean,

1208
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:56,879
Speaker 2: And maybe I'm leaning for twenty one year old father.

1209
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:58,760
Speaker 2: You think he wanted and you think he did family

1210
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:00,840
Speaker 2: planning Andrea, And I'll be honest with you. On the

1211
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:02,759
Speaker 2: other end, I maybe leaning into this.

1212
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:05,239
Speaker 3: Yes, there was a lot of differences with us, but

1213
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 3: this is literally the age gap of me and my ex.

1214
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 2: I was thirty, he was forty seven when we met.

1215
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 3: Okay, we didn't come on here, and y'all didn't bash

1216
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 3: me when I talked about my seventeen year age.

1217
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 2: Someone in their thirties dating someone in their forties is

1218
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:22,359
Speaker 2: not as weird as a twenty one year old man.

1219
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 2: Thank you, Like we're really gonna really add them right

1220
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 2: or wrong. It's opinion versus opinion. I'm just saying, like

1221
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 2: that gaping. I don't believe your gap, Mandy is like

1222
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 2: the same as Drea's. You guys are both mature adults.

1223
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 2: You're in the workforce, like, you've lived a life, you

1224
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 2: graduated college, You've had a phase of your fucking life. Like,

1225
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,879
Speaker 2: come on, you two can have conversations on the same

1226
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 2: fucking level. A twenty one year old and a thirty

1227
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,439
Speaker 2: nine year old woman is completely different. Not to mention,

1228
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,920
Speaker 2: it is fucking weird that you've now started a family

1229
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:55,400
Speaker 2: dynamic with your son and your new boyfriend at the

1230
00:56:55,440 --> 00:57:00,120
Speaker 2: same age. Them having the same brain is weird. How

1231
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 2: are you gonna lead my family?

1232
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you niggas a niggas in the fifties,

1233
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 3: not leading families. I'm just so annoyed, I swear to God, like,

1234
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 3: I'm so annoyed with this age gap. Let's be very clear,

1235
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:15,879
Speaker 3: because of experience, jobs, whatever location you are, if you're

1236
00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 3: Middle America, you're not gonna be as mature as if

1237
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 3: you get raised in New York City, Like, if you're

1238
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 3: in the South, you're not gonna be the same as

1239
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 3: if you're raised in fucking Oklahoma.

1240
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 2: Like to me, let's be very clear.

1241
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 3: This person is now, he's probably world traveled, he'd have

1242
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 3: been overseas he got his passport. He fucking has to

1243
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 3: pay bills and do things at a younger age to

1244
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 3: where the maturity of this man cannot be just compared

1245
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 3: to just any old motherfucking twenty two year old. And

1246
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 3: so to me, we have to consider or be considered

1247
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 3: rit of just where people are in their lives.

1248
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 2: And I'm also.

1249
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 3: Sick of people sitting here victimizing these motherfucking athletes that

1250
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 3: know exactly what the fuck they're doing, just like the

1251
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 3: hose they fuck with know exactly what the fuck they're doing.

1252
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 2: You think that here, okay, all right, I'm not a victim.

1253
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:01,880
Speaker 2: I think that you're feeling a way because you voice

1254
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 2: that you're cool with like I was dating a year old.

1255
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 2: That's my point.

1256
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 3: I feel like that's why you going hard. But no,

1257
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 3: it's not that I'm going hard. You just went really

1258
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 3: hard too. You believe it's weird. I believe that people

1259
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 3: doesn't matter what age. Some of it works, some of

1260
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 3: it doesn't. It's the person. Let's be very clear, me

1261
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 3: and my grown age still had a lot of differences

1262
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 3: with my with my ex out was seventeen years older

1263
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 3: than me. Me at my age of thirty three definitely

1264
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 3: had difference to you with the twenty two.

1265
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:30,920
Speaker 2: Year old that I was that I was just dealing

1266
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:33,480
Speaker 2: with like at the end of the days outline. But no,

1267
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 2: let's be very no, bitch, you went off on a tangent.

1268
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 2: Let's be very clear. I also just believe that we're

1269
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 2: sitting here again. Why the fuck. I'm so glad I'm

1270
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 2: not doing this other podcast. I don't have to sit

1271
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 2: here and have.

1272
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 3: Opinions about the decisions of everybody the fuck else because

1273
00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:53,080
Speaker 3: what works for me may not sit here in the

1274
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 3: line with all of y'all's motherfucking opinions.

1275
00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 2: Start that I went back to that nigga thirteen times,

1276
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 2: like it is what it is.

1277
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 3: We all sit here and make these decisions that we

1278
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 3: feel fit us.

1279
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 2: I'll be honest, though, that.

1280
00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 3: Twenty two year old motherfucker probably got the same goddamn

1281
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 3: capacity of a brain as a motherfucker who's seventy. And

1282
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 3: from what I've been dealing with these motherfucker niggas, that's.

1283
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 2: What it is.

1284
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 3: Not one age is better than the next. Yes, ooh yeah,

1285
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 3: you have more fucking like life experience.

1286
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:20,840
Speaker 2: I mean, we're brad. I have to be honest in

1287
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 2: terms of even my friendships, Like I can't be friends

1288
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 2: with girls at that age because they're not able to

1289
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 2: withstand conversations at the level I am like, I can't

1290
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 2: take them out around niggas that I be with because

1291
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 2: they're fucking kids. I'm not. I understand you don't want

1292
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 2: to call them kids, but Manny, they're I disagree with that.

1293
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 2: I don't know your youngest homegirl, but the youngest homegirl

1294
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 2: I have right now is twenty five, and I literally

1295
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 2: hit her up if I just want to go get

1296
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 2: drinks because she lives nearby me. There's nothing that our

1297
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 2: lives are different. I get it because he's rich and

1298
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 2: wealthy and has a big job and goes on planes. Fine,

1299
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 2: but like that nigga probably didn't even have to do

1300
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 2: anything in college because he had a body. He could

1301
00:59:56,280 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 2: fucking make money off his literallyfit. A lot of niggas

1302
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 2: with theay looks that can't hold conversation. No, no, no,

1303
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 2: I'm talking about body like he was able to profit

1304
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 2: off of his sports ability. So you just like you've

1305
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 2: said before, these niggas be dumb, these athletes be dumb. Yeah,

1306
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:10,200
Speaker 2: I believe it.

1307
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, And let's be very clear, I hung out with

1308
01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 3: the pretty girls. Who's to say that Drea has the biggest,

1309
01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:20,400
Speaker 3: best vocabulary, like they've actually maybe on the same space.

1310
01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 3: I know a lot them bitches ain't got nothing to say.

1311
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,840
Speaker 3: They're just pretty, So let's be very clear. They maybe

1312
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:30,479
Speaker 3: right on the same Drea. I think maybe a little

1313
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:31,280
Speaker 3: bit different.

1314
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 2: Even though I do and I don't know where personally,

1315
01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 2: so well, no, no, no, I'm saying Drea's kind of Drea's

1316
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 2: does some work. Like Dre's been able to make and

1317
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:39,920
Speaker 2: keep up her millions and keep up her brand, and

1318
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:41,440
Speaker 2: I think that's pretty good because a lot of these

1319
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 2: bitches haven't so whether kind of like a Heather Sanders, right,

1320
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 2: they're able to like make a brand, keep their name going,

1321
01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 2: and recirculate that money, keep a check. I think that's

1322
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 2: why we like Drea. I mean we as in like,

1323
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 2: I think there's girls online that have that quote unquote

1324
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 2: look that women are just like, oh, you don't really

1325
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 2: need a match. I don't think Dreya's one of those.

1326
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 2: Say that about Kim.

1327
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:04,240
Speaker 3: Like again, everybody gonna have an opinion, whether it's right

1328
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 3: or wrong, Everybody.

1329
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 2: Gonna have a motherfucking opinion.

1330
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,960
Speaker 3: People still be like, oh my god, Kim is only

1331
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 3: rich because of her looks.

1332
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 2: No, so to me again, I just think we've all

1333
01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 2: made him is only rich because she's a listening And

1334
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 2: see whatever you're about to say, I'm joking Kim will

1335
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 2: keeping Nile, see Kim will keeping and you know what

1336
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 2: I'm saying, O'Dell, And I'm here for Drake probably man.

1337
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 2: I actually think it's kind of weird when people are like,

1338
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 2: how many men has she dated? And I'm like, bro,

1339
01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 2: she can't date a regular nigga, and neither kndre Okay,

1340
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 2: but there's Mandy.

1341
01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 3: She's been out for the last what eighteen years? She

1342
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 3: probably let me get the new bunch that's around. Drea

1343
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 3: and Kim Kardashian are not on the same level. Baby,

1344
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 3: Draken date a corporate nigga, did Draken didn't exact? Dra

1345
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,720
Speaker 3: can date a wealthy man. She does not have to be.

1346
01:01:57,000 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 3: Drea is not Kim Kardashian, Okay, but she doesn't deserve

1347
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 3: that's the hierarchy that you're putting them in.

1348
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 2: I think they are literally coundate the same people because

1349
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 2: they're both hot. You just said that Dreya's gorgeous. She

1350
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 2: deserves a rich nigga. I don't.

1351
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:15,840
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna compare Area and a Kim. I don't

1352
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 3: have to compare their dollars or their beauty. I think

1353
01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:20,880
Speaker 3: that they deal with the same niggas. Let's be very clear.

1354
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 3: Me Andrea Eskimo sisters, So I'm fucking the same nigga

1355
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 3: at these bitches.

1356
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:29,439
Speaker 2: It's fucking okay. Shit, Kim doesn't need to fucking get

1357
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:30,920
Speaker 2: pregnant by a twenty one year old to have a

1358
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 2: upkeep lifestyle.

1359
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 3: Brother, you just said that Dreya is a millionaire. Drea

1360
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 3: probably didn't need to get pregnant by this.

1361
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 2: Man either, Okay, do you think Drea dated him because

1362
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 2: he's great, or do you think she dated him because

1363
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:40,040
Speaker 2: he's rich.

1364
01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:42,840
Speaker 3: That's another problem. I think that man is attractive, so

1365
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 3: you're attractive and you're rich. It's not like he's an

1366
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 3: ugly niggas. I actually am like it ain't like. I'm

1367
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,360
Speaker 3: really curious if there's anyone I know. I believe that

1368
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 3: anyone listening has an opinion that's left or right. I

1369
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 3: want to know in the comments on YouTube if any

1370
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 3: one of the things that we said suage your opinion

1371
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 3: the other way, because you did bring up some great points.

1372
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 2: But I just I don't know. I guess I can't

1373
01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 2: never want to go through the comments to see that

1374
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:09,640
Speaker 2: she was right. No, I don't know. I actually I don't.

1375
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 2: I don't think I think our community does the right

1376
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:13,919
Speaker 2: or wrong in this. I mind you when I say

1377
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 2: that I did not mean it like that. I actually

1378
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 2: think more people will agree because from a sex positive

1379
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 2: perspective or woman empowerment perspective, they'll be like, if men

1380
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 2: can do it, why can't she? But you know what,

1381
01:03:23,280 --> 01:03:25,320
Speaker 2: y'all niggas argue in the comments, and maybe we'll do

1382
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 2: a part two in Patreon to read them so I

1383
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:34,919
Speaker 2: did have an outline, but we'll try it again next week. See.

1384
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 2: The thing is, we're never gonna talk about Oh this

1385
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 2: is what we're doing.

1386
01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:38,520
Speaker 1: Bro.

1387
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, petty bro.

1388
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 3: No.

1389
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:41,280
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, we'll never talk about current

1390
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 2: events again.

1391
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, I'm not gonna lie. I don't want

1392
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 3: to talk current events like ever again. Well it was

1393
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:50,240
Speaker 3: part of the Vanilla's ship, I know. Yeah, Ed, And

1394
01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 3: what the fuck are you doing? You're supposed to get

1395
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,440
Speaker 3: this shit, don't you actually no been like this? I

1396
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:56,640
Speaker 3: don't know if you've even been paid. No, no, not wrap up.

1397
01:03:57,320 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 2: You should have said, hey, you send him?

1398
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 3: Well maybe't did you send them the outline? Maybe you

1399
01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 3: should include eddin into the production. Maybe you should hut

1400
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:06,600
Speaker 3: the fuck up.

1401
01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 2: Maybe you shouldn't be saying you're trying to get on.

1402
01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 3: Our Ecuadorian back then Ecador bitch at Lisabody want Nico Argwin.

1403
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 2: Y'all come and check us out at the Black Effect Festival.

1404
01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:20,600
Speaker 2: We're gonna be in Atlanta on April twenties. Baby, a

1405
01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 2: lot of podcasts, there are poor Mindes girls gonna be there.

1406
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:25,200
Speaker 2: There's gonna be I'm really excited to see Gillian Wallow.

1407
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:27,560
Speaker 2: I've never seen Debbie Brown. I want to do a

1408
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 2: little meditation such with my girl can't say there's gonna

1409
01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 2: be some good people. Then I'm gonna tell you right now,

1410
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 2: I'm going right up to pretty b and be like, bitch.

1411
01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 2: Wasn't you laughing when Christina Macki and Rick rossbrooke up again?

1412
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 3: Kurn Events Also make sure you check us out in

1413
01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:46,840
Speaker 3: London the very following weekend. We will be in London

1414
01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 3: at the Earth Theater that's made the fifth. Make sure

1415
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 3: you go to Whorehive dot com to get your tickets.

1416
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 3: And then at the very end of the month, on

1417
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:57,200
Speaker 3: May the twenty seventh, we will be a part of

1418
01:04:57,360 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 3: the Together Land Festival as headliners Bitch and we will

1419
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:02,280
Speaker 3: be on the Sunday night line up.

1420
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:05,640
Speaker 2: So maybe you're going to take her horse all day.

1421
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:08,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be out next to me. I'm gonna be

1422
01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 2: in Emulace, don't you sure?

1423
01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 3: Here goes to I Believe That's Together and get your

1424
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 3: tickets now to see us live there. And y'all, Jesus

1425
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 3: christ this is all over the place. But this has

1426
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 3: been yet another episode.

1427
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 2: Of horrible to say and you love it. You love

1428
01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:23,720
Speaker 2: it all over the place, just not like a come

1429
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 2: in my eye.

1430
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:26,840
Speaker 1: It is bonus bitchy.

1431
01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 2: For those of you niggas that aren't spending another five dollars,

1432
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 2: we are now in four K, six K or sex

1433
01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 2: K if you're nasty, so upgrade to the next tier

1434
01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 2: to see this episode on video. And if you're already

1435
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 2: looking at us, you're welcome, because my titties are out,

1436
01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 2: are they? Yeah?

1437
01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 3: They are kind of out, and maybe I'm be here

1438
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 3: would goddamn hoodie and sneakers because this weather is ridiculous.

1439
01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 2: I just got back from fucking Miami and I didn't

1440
01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 2: know that I was coming back home.

1441
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 3: To a snowstarre was it fucking Miami or it was

1442
01:05:57,920 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 3: sucking Miami, girl, cause the nigga got too drunk and

1443
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 3: throw up and threw up all over himself, So no

1444
01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 3: dick took place there.

1445
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 2: So yeah, and he's just like, I feel so terrible,

1446
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:13,080
Speaker 2: and I'm like, you should, yeah you shouldn't.

1447
01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 3: But all was so because I sucked him before the

1448
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 3: super Bowl. But then we had to all go watch

1449
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 3: super Bowl and so we all we all, Oh girl

1450
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:26,920
Speaker 3: came came like came, and I had fun with it. Like,

1451
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:28,919
Speaker 3: I had my homegirl sit on the couch while I did.

1452
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 2: It because he kind of like I'm trying to inch

1453
01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 2: him to a threesome. He hasn't had like a three.

1454
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:37,320
Speaker 3: We know we fucked already before though, so I'm like, girl,

1455
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:39,120
Speaker 3: just come downstairs and watch me set this nigga dick

1456
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 3: real quick. And uh So it's so funny because he

1457
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 3: was so nervous, and that's like my whole girl, homegirl.

1458
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 3: So she was like, yes, bitch, that shit sound wet

1459
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 3: doing you.

1460
01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:54,640
Speaker 1: Doing that thing? But no, I literally was like, girl,

1461
01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 1: just come.

1462
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 2: Down here and watch me set this nigga dick real quick.

1463
01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:57,560
Speaker 1: Why did she join in?

1464
01:06:58,320 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 3: Because he was so nervous that like he's sitting there

1465
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 3: and bitch, the game done started and I'm like, nigga,

1466
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 3: you ain't gonna make me miss usher. We got to

1467
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:10,280
Speaker 3: go to this party. So I'm like going at his

1468
01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 3: pants and he literally just pulled it out. Then it's

1469
01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 3: just sitting on his chest, So I like, just go.

1470
01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 3: His dick is ginormous. His dick is amazing.

1471
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 1: Okay, so it was a good dick. Now his dick

1472
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 1: is great. Well, no, she felt nervous to even look

1473
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:23,720
Speaker 1: because he was so nervous.

1474
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:28,280
Speaker 2: But she was just like this, like he was so bitch.

1475
01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 1: She was so fucking nervous.

1476
01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:31,880
Speaker 2: I was just like, oh my god, this is so annoying.

1477
01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 1: So are you staying in the room with him?

1478
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:36,320
Speaker 2: No, he gets me. That's why she came. She I

1479
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:37,960
Speaker 2: get my own room every time he flies me out.

1480
01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 2: Why what do you mean why? Because I do?

1481
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 3: And I said him my first class ticket. I don't

1482
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 3: need to be all up under your ship. And I

1483
01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:47,800
Speaker 3: wanted to be with my friend, like I invited her

1484
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 3: to the game, and he like, like I was driving

1485
01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:54,040
Speaker 3: around with her. So I got my own room when

1486
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 3: I went to when I go to like anywhere I go,

1487
01:07:56,600 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 3: I get my own room. And so I'll go to

1488
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:02,080
Speaker 3: his room or come to mind. But we don't sleep together,

1489
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:05,760
Speaker 3: Like we don't do all the cuddling and ship it's anyway, Yeah,

1490
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 3: we don't do that. Well, no, you said it's new.

1491
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Speaker 1: But normally you do. It was that new new, like

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01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 1: it's the nigga.

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01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 2: That I would go and see. Like when when my

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01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:16,439
Speaker 2: ex one.

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01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:19,679
Speaker 1: So you guys both come downstairs, does he know she's coming?

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01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:21,840
Speaker 2: Watairs we went upstairs where.

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01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:24,920
Speaker 1: He knew? He said, no, he knew.

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01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:27,720
Speaker 3: He said, uh, he said, both of y'all come down,

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01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:30,160
Speaker 3: and I was like okay, And of course he was like,

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01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 3: you trust her. I was like, bro, I'm not going

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01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 3: to bring nobody around that I don't trust.

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01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:36,439
Speaker 1: So wait, hold on, hold on. So he knew you

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01:08:36,520 --> 01:08:39,640
Speaker 1: were coming down the suckers dick, Yeah, okay, that's what

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01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 1: I was coming down. Because like if you said, both

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01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 1: of y'all going.

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01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 2: Down because he don't because he's scary. He's just scary.

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01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:48,840
Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine I would not be the whole I

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01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 3: am today if I had to go through that type

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01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 3: of party and ship that these girls have to go to.

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01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:56,240
Speaker 2: Literally for y'all, I'll share what the experience is like.

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01:08:56,920 --> 01:09:00,360
Speaker 3: So a lot of like basketball players now don't like

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01:09:00,439 --> 01:09:03,840
Speaker 3: going to clubs because there's phones, they get drunk, they get.

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01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 2: Shipped, they make one.

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01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 1: It's crazy, they make clubs. So they'll like.

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01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 2: Turn a restaurant or like a lounge into their own club.

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01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 3: There'll be a DJ, they'll be an open bar, there's

1517
01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:22,479
Speaker 3: bottle service, there's hookah, there's all the things, except for Nickas.

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01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 1: The bottle service part is the weirdest part.

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01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:24,639
Speaker 2: Weird.

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01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 1: Oh, they were coming out with Sparkling.

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01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 2: I were the one at the Mandrium. It was like,

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01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 2: you know when they were I'm not even doing I

1523
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:32,360
Speaker 2: don't know. But basically, at the Madria in New York,

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01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:35,639
Speaker 2: there's this top floor. It's probably like a lounge anyway,

1525
01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 2: but it turns into a club. So I walk in

1526
01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 2: and I didn't know that type of party it was.

1527
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:43,720
Speaker 2: I knew a ballplayer invited me, but I just kind

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01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:46,000
Speaker 2: of thought he was having drinks with friends because we're

1529
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:48,000
Speaker 2: not fucking with each other, so it didn't really he

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01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:51,080
Speaker 2: was like, yo, New York. To come through. So the

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01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 2: bodyguard or the security looks at me and he's like, okay,

1532
01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:56,400
Speaker 2: she's cute, is she right? Says pretty. I was like,

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01:09:56,439 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 2: I'm looking for my friends so and so, and he's like, okay, oh,

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Speaker 2: you'd have to go upstairs, all right,