1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Grace, a gorgeous mom disappears after 2 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: a family dinner. What happened to Melissa? I Nancy Grace, 3 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: this is Crime Stories. Thank you for being with us, she. 4 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 2: Said, work one morning and here comes to my dad 5 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 2: walking in the door. 6 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: Where's your sister, he said, because we can't find her. 7 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:26,479 Speaker 3: She didn't show up for Christmas. 8 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 4: She didn't call your mom and tell her happy Birthday either, 9 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 4: And I was like, wait a minute. 10 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: Something's wrong. 11 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 5: Melissa Wolfenberger, a young, married mother of two, has gone missing. 12 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 5: Her parents are worried thick about her because this is 13 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 5: not like her. 14 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: The kids were her life. 15 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 4: No way, there's no way she would have ever left them. 16 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: You know. I know it's anecdotal when let me just 17 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 1: say spectators those on the outside looking in here she 18 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: would never have left her children. But when you know 19 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 1: the mom, you realize that it's absolutely true that there 20 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: is no way she would have willingly left her children. 21 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: What happened to Melissa? Joining me in All Star Pedal, 22 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: But first I want to go to Melissa's sister, Tina Patten, 23 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: also joining us, her mother Norma Patten. To both of you, 24 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:44,119 Speaker 1: thank you for being with us. And also for being 25 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: Melissa's voice, because without you, people would forget about her. 26 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 1: I had never even heard about Melissa or her disappearance 27 00:01:55,040 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: until you made it known. Again, thank you for being 28 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: with us. I want to go first to you. Melissa's mother, 29 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: Norma Patten, tell me about Melissa as a mother. Why 30 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: are you so convinced she would never have parted with 31 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: her children? 32 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 6: Because she just she loved her kids. They were the 33 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 6: most precious thing in the world to her. She would 34 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 6: have never left them under any circumstances. 35 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: In addition to Norma, Melissa's mother or Tina is with us, 36 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: her sister. Explain to me, why are you so convinced 37 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: she would never have willingly left her children? Why she 38 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: went back home because of the kids. 39 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 2: She would have never left them, not for any amount 40 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 2: of time at all. 41 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: Again with me, an all star panel. You know, Darryl 42 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 1: Cohen is with me. Former felony prosecutor in inner city Atlanta, 43 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: now high profile defense attorney from Cohen Cooper Estephan Allen 44 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: in the Atlanta jurisdiction. Darryl see, I understand what Norma 45 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: and Tina are telling me, and I agree with them 46 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 1: from what I've now learned about her. It would take 47 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 1: wild horses to drag her away from her family, from 48 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: her children. But when you're talking to a jury they've 49 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:17,920 Speaker 1: never met Melissa, you have to have hard examples about 50 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 1: why you know and this is anecdotalis story, it's not 51 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: a statistic or a fact that she would never have 52 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: done this. I guess the way to do that is 53 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:34,119 Speaker 1: to load your jury with mothers or grandmothers, because they 54 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: get it. They know what we're talking about. When we say, oh, hl, no, 55 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: Melissa would never have left without them, this is bs, 56 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: this is bogus. She didn't just go away and move 57 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: to Arizona to start a new life for California. That 58 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: did not happen. 59 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 7: So, Nana, see what you have to do is you 60 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 7: take Melissa. You take her and make her into a 61 00:03:56,480 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 7: real person, not just a statistic that's something we've seen 62 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 7: on the news. But you talk about her as a mother, 63 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 7: You talk about the wonderful thing she did as a mother, 64 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 7: and on the other side of Jax you say, thank 65 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 7: you very much, I understand, and you accept it, and 66 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 7: then you go on and you still continue to personalize her. 67 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 7: You've got to make her someone that the jury loves 68 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 7: the very beginning, regardless of the facts. 69 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: Yet, Yeah, cherylmccollum, how do we prove it? Joining me 70 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 1: is Cheryl McCollum, director and founder of the Cold Case 71 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 1: Research Institute Forensics Expert. You can find her at coldcasecrimes 72 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: dot org and she is the one, along with the 73 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: Patent family, who has spearheaded this and first told me 74 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: about Melissa's disappearance. She's host of a brand new hit podcast, 75 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 1: Zone seven. Cheryl, maybe I'm not as I would like 76 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 1: to say to my judges, or let me rephrase that question. 77 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: In other words, the witness, what is it telling me? 78 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: What I need is jury to hear they what is 79 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: wrong with them? So let me rephrase the question to you. 80 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: You can't just say to a jury, hey, this mom 81 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 1: would never leave her children. You have to be able 82 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 1: to prove she would never leave her children. I know 83 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: it's hard for family members to take in because they're 84 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: so upset about the whole thing, But I immediately go to 85 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 1: the evidence. How can you prove this to a jury? 86 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: For instance, she never left them alone. She moved from 87 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: New York to Atlanta so they could have a better 88 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: life and be around their grandparents. She sacrificed one, two, three, 89 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: and four for her children. She wouldn't leave them with 90 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 1: a babysitter. Blah blah, blah blah. I've got to have 91 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 1: a way to prove this to a jury. So how 92 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: do you prove this was a devoted mother that would 93 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: never have left her children, because that is fact number one. 94 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 8: For me, exactly what you're saying. You paint this picture 95 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 8: of who Melissa was. She left jobs so that she 96 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 8: could stay home with the children. She did not leave 97 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 8: them overnight. Ever, she wanted them with her. She went 98 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:14,799 Speaker 8: out of her way to be with them. She sang 99 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 8: to them, she read books to them, She took them 100 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 8: to visit their grandparents on both sides. She visited with 101 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 8: her sister. She wanted those children with her at all times. 102 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 8: There is no chance she just was walking down the 103 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 8: street and said, Hey, I'm off to California. 104 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: Oh hey, Cheryl, you're giving me an idea. Does the 105 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: name Drew Peterson ring a bell to you? It should? 106 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 1: Let's see how many wives did he kill? Two that 107 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: I know of? Okay, Drew Peterson, police officer, not that 108 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: that's here nor there, police officer, and his third wife, 109 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 1: Kathleen Sommio ends up dead in a drowned in a 110 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: dry bathtub, her body covered in bruises. Remember that, and 111 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: for some reason they rule that an accidental death a 112 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: dry bathtub. How do you slip and fall with that 113 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: many bruises and a dry bathtub? Why you don't? That's 114 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: how you do it? You don't. Then we get to 115 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: Stacy Peterson. Well, her body has never been found. But 116 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: what did he say when Stacy Peterson left, left her car, 117 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 1: left her children, left her furs and her beautiful clothes 118 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: that she had accumulated. She left with a boyfriend? What 119 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: on foot? What boyfriend? There was no boyfriend? Or how 120 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 1: many times have you heard she just wanted alone time, meantime. 121 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 8: That is BS completely BS. And in Melissa's case, the 122 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 8: family only had one car. So how did she get 123 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 8: to California? 124 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 3: She don't. 125 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 8: They didn't have EPs for money, they weren't loaded. She 126 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 8: wouldn't have had a way to get to California. She 127 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 8: had no cell phone, she didn't take any clothes, she 128 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 8: didn't take any money, she didn't have a vehicle, she 129 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 8: had no way of contacting any woman. She took nothing 130 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 8: that was precious to her, including her children, it's just 131 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 8: not ring. 132 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 3: It doesn't range through. 133 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: Well, you know all of that is true, but you've 134 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: got to be able to prove it to a jury. 135 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: And I want to point out something that you just said, 136 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: and you're entirely correct, Cheryl McCollum. She gave up a 137 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: job to have more time with her children. Now, nobody 138 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: was supporting her. She wasn't living off the government, she 139 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: didn't have a rich husband, a sugar daddy, nothing, And 140 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 1: she gave up a job in order to be with 141 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:52,559 Speaker 1: her children more and took a job that had horrible hours. 142 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: You've heard so many stories about moms working all night, 143 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: stocking shelves, working two in three jobs to support their children. 144 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 1: She did that. She did all that and more, giving 145 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: up one job that was really good for her so 146 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: she could spend more time with her children. So what 147 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: do we know. She has a family dinner, then she disappears. Listen. 148 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 9: Thanksgiving Day, Melissa Wolfenberger makes a visit to her parents, 149 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 9: Carl and Norma Patten. Melissa is excited for the holidays 150 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 9: and asks her mother for a very specific gift. When 151 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:30,119 Speaker 9: Melissa doesn't even call Christmas Day, Norma Patten is unsettled 152 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 9: but Melissa doesn't have a cell phone or a car, 153 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 9: So Norma assumes her daughter is busy with her own 154 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:37,439 Speaker 9: family and we'll pick up her gifts later. When Melissa 155 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 9: doesn't wish her mom a happy birthday two months later, 156 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 9: Norma Patten asks family members if anyone has seen her. 157 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 9: Tina Patton realizes Melissa hasn't worked a shift with her 158 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:46,959 Speaker 9: in months. 159 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: Okay, I smell a rat right there. At the beginning. 160 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: She goes to this family get together and then she's 161 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 1: never seen again. Now, think about it. She doesn't have 162 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: a car, how is she getting around? Somehow? She manages 163 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 1: to take care of her children and get to work. 164 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 1: But then suddenly Tina realizes Melissa's hasn't worked her shift 165 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: at a restaurant in months. It hadn't occurred to her before, 166 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: but when she began analyzing it, she realized her sister 167 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 1: had not worked at the restaurant for months. It didn't 168 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 1: dawn on anyone. Why should it? But you heard earlier 169 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: that she was there and she asked for a specific 170 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: gift and then never showed up to get it. What 171 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: was the gift? 172 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 4: Listen, she had asked me for something in particular, and 173 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 4: she said, that was all the only thing she wanted. 174 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 4: And it wasn't something now I could go to the 175 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 4: store and buy. It was something I had to find. 176 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 4: And what it was was a picture of her with 177 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 4: her papa, her daddy father, And that's all she wanted 178 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 4: was that picture. So I found a picture of him 179 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 4: and her together. She was only five years old, maybe 180 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:59,719 Speaker 4: six that the most. I took it and had it 181 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 4: blow up into a night by ten and had it 182 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 4: wrapped up and under the Christmas tree. 183 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:05,439 Speaker 1: And she didn't. 184 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 4: Calls, she didn't come get it, you know. And that 185 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 4: was just they wouldn't like her. The kids were her life. 186 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 4: There's no way she would have ever left them. The 187 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 4: girl was three and the little boy was two. 188 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: What happened to Melissa? Now? Just to throw a wrench 189 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: in this, just to take the APD Atlanta Police Department's 190 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 1: focus off Missing Melissa, an unrelated skull pops up listen. 191 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 10: Atlanta PD finds a severede human skull that rolled out 192 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 10: of a ripped trash bag in the middle of Avon Avenue. 193 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 10: Industrial businesses lining one side of the street. The other 194 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 10: is bordered by train tracks. Just over a month later, 195 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 10: four more trash bags are discovered two blocks down Avon 196 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 10: in a wooded area. Inside are a pair of legs 197 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 10: and arms. Police cannot locate it tow ourd soll you know, to. 198 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 1: Justin Scott Morgan, professor forensic's death investigator, with I believe 199 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: you said at least one thousand death investigations under your belt? 200 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 1: Is that correct? 201 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 11: A little bit higher than that? 202 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: But that's okay? Yeah, what do you mean ten eleven hundred? 203 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: Just give me a ballpark. 204 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 11: Probably closer to ten thousand. 205 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 1: Okay. I thought that was me and the number of 206 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 1: pleas and trials I had, but it's actually you. Okay, Wow, 207 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: Let that just sink in for a moment. You know, 208 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 1: you can't learn that in the book, although you have 209 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 1: been educated here up to hear ten thousand death scends, 210 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: some accidents, some suicide, some natural causes, many of them homicide. 211 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: That in mind, your worst work nightmare, I guess, would 212 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: be finding ahead a skull, a skull that you cannot identify. 213 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:12,719 Speaker 1: How difficult is that for a death investigator or medical examiner. 214 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:17,719 Speaker 1: You have no torso to connect, You got nothing you. 215 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 11: Don't You're given very limited, you know, very limited evidence 216 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 11: to draw upon to do an analysis, and people would say, 217 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 11: I think, you know, well, you have a skull, isn't 218 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:33,719 Speaker 11: that enough? No, it's not because without you know, we 219 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 11: think about things in the totality of evidence. What else 220 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 11: is there? Well, what evidence do you have when you 221 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 11: have a bag that has been ripped found in the 222 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 11: middle of a road that contains a human skull, Well, 223 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 11: there's a lot. There's a lot to go on there 224 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 11: relative to this. When you begin to think about an investigation, 225 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 11: how exactly would a skull becomes separated from the rest 226 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 11: of the skeleton. How far along in the decompositional process 227 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 11: is skull You know, that gives us an indication of 228 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 11: how long the skull perhaps was in the back, how 229 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 11: did the bag wind up in the road, and why 230 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:09,839 Speaker 11: is it ripped? You know, you begin to think about 231 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 11: animal activity. You don't necessarily think that some person that 232 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 11: would perpetrate this. And mind you, I'm thinking homicide immediately here, 233 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 11: and that's our one working theory is that all deaths 234 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 11: are homicides until proven otherwise. 235 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 1: Jo Sky Morgan, please stop. I'm not a death investigator 236 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: with ten thousand deaths under my belt. I'm certainly not 237 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 1: a medical examiner. But when a skull is found, disattached 238 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: from the body and a ripped trash bag out near 239 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 1: the street. It doesn't take an MD to figure out 240 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 1: it's homicide. What the skull does jump into the bag 241 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 1: and threw itself down the street. I mean practically speaking, 242 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: of course it's a homicide. And another another thing, how 243 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: long does it take? You got to help me verbalize this, 244 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: because you're the expert. How long does it take for 245 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: I know we say skeleton or skull, but how long 246 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: would it take for a skull to become skeletonized? In 247 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 1: other words, you look at the skull and there is 248 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 1: no skin on the no eyes, no hair, nothing to 249 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 1: help you identify it. 250 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 11: Yeah, assuming that the skull is in fact a skull, 251 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 11: that means that it's absent of any kind of soft tissue, 252 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 11: anything that's left behind that would be connected to the skull. 253 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 11: Just based upon that, the level of heat and exposure, 254 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 11: particularly contained in a plastic bag, is going to potentially 255 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 11: impact that. So it's going to accelerate this event. But 256 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 11: here's the curious thing. The skull was actually recovered in April, 257 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 11: so we're coming out of the cooler month, So that's 258 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 11: going to kind of skew your data a little bit 259 00:15:56,120 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 11: relative to how long this would have taken. Every single 260 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 11: second counts here, But you're looking to get to the 261 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 11: point of skeletonization. You're looking at this point in tom 262 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 11: probably about at minimum, at minimum eight eight weeks to 263 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 11: perhaps twelve weeks. 264 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 1: I would think, Okay, listen to more of the forensic evidence. 265 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 5: Tealafara County calls the Atlanta Police Department and say, hey, 266 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 5: we've got a body down here in a ravine. 267 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 1: With no head. It might be your guy. 268 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 5: So the Atlanta Police Department takes the skull, goes to 269 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 5: tel Afara County. 270 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 1: It's no match. 271 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 5: Four more trash bags were found near where the skull 272 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 5: was found. Each of those trash bags contained an arm 273 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 5: or a leg no torso. So now in the same 274 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 5: general area we have two arms, two legs, and a skull. 275 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: You know, we recently had a dismembered body where the 276 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 1: body parts were found. Her name Shade Robinson. Beautiful young 277 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: girl goes on a date and it's never seen alive again. 278 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 1: And then pedestrians, moms and dads find different parts of 279 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 1: her in different parks, children's parks, all around the area. 280 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 1: And it took some doing to connect the parts together 281 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 1: to figure out these are all from one person. And 282 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:27,879 Speaker 1: now Cheryl McCollum. First is a skull that is in 283 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 1: a ripped trash bag. Then suddenly we find other trash 284 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 1: bags full of several remains, but they're identified as a male. 285 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: So that's not helping anything in this case. I find 286 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: it really difficult to believe that you have the same 287 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:49,439 Speaker 1: kind of trash bags and you've got a skull in 288 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 1: one and body parts in the others, and they're not related. 289 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 1: They have to be related. 290 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:58,639 Speaker 8: It is important that this was not a quick problem. 291 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:04,159 Speaker 8: To ever perpetrate this killed this person, then dismembered and 292 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 8: beheaded them, put them into trash bags, and then placed 293 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 8: them somewhere. So you basically had three separate crime scenes 294 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 8: where they were killed, how they were transported to where 295 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 8: they were dump. 296 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:17,679 Speaker 1: Caerl that I understand you to say chlorox was poured 297 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:19,440 Speaker 1: into the skull, correct. 298 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 3: So again, why would a cleaning agent be used? 299 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 8: That's like to clean up something, So that should tell 300 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:29,159 Speaker 8: you something about the perpetrator. You have to factor that in. 301 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:34,159 Speaker 1: While police are busy with the unidentified male skull and 302 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: body parts, the family is still looking for. 303 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 5: Melissa at the same time that the Atlanta Police Department 304 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 5: is dealing with the unidentified skull. Melissa Wolfenberger, a young 305 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 5: married mother of two, has gone missing. Her parents are 306 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 5: worried sick about her because this is not like her. 307 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 5: They saw her at Thanksgiving, they did not see her 308 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 5: at Christmas or worried as her birthday rolled around. Melissa 309 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:00,880 Speaker 5: had never not contacted her on her birthday. 310 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 4: We went to Atlanta on Brookline Avenue where they were living. 311 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 4: The house was completely deserted. We talked to some of 312 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 4: the neighbors and they said that he'd moved down of 313 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,880 Speaker 4: the house right around Christmas or the first of the year, 314 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 4: and they told us where he was working at. So 315 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 4: we went over there and talked to the owner of 316 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 4: the glass company. At that point we just didn't know. 317 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 1: And the owner of the glass company tells the family 318 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:32,199 Speaker 1: that the husband we're talking about, the husband, Melissa Wolfenberger's husband, 319 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 1: had been fired and then he disappears. Now Tina and 320 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 1: Norman Patten joining us, the mom and sister Melissa. Tina, 321 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 1: let me understand this. Your sister is there for Thanksgiving. 322 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 1: She asked for a particular picture as a Christmas gift 323 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:53,480 Speaker 1: of her and her grandfather. Then she does to show 324 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: up for Christmas. You then start looking for her yourself, 325 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: call the restaurant where she works and they tell you 326 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 1: she hasn't shown up for weeks at her shift. And 327 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: then at the same time, around Christmas time, he is 328 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 1: far from his job and disappears. Do I have that 329 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:19,120 Speaker 1: timing correct, Tina Patten? Yes, Okay, that's not good. So 330 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 1: police finally track down the husband and this is what happens. 331 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:27,680 Speaker 10: Christopher Wolfenberger tells detectives he last saw Melissa in Atlanta. 332 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 10: Wolfenberger says the couple always talked about moving the family 333 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 10: to California and starting new lives. Wolfenberger says Melissa decided 334 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 10: to go alone. Wolfenberger says Melissa broke his heart, so 335 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 10: he made no attempt to look for her and assumes 336 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 10: she's living in California under a new name. 337 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: Then a stunning twist in the case. While the family's 338 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:53,679 Speaker 1: desperately searching for Melissa, we find out the skull that 339 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: was found in the rip trash bag it's not a man, 340 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: it's a woman. Share role. Did the medical examiner actually 341 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 1: mischaracterize the skull as a man when it's a woman. 342 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:10,160 Speaker 3: It was misidentified as a Caucasian. 343 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:12,679 Speaker 1: Mail Okay, you know, Joe Scott Morgan, how does that happen? 344 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 1: You can't look at a skull and figure out it's 345 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:16,000 Speaker 1: a man or a woman. 346 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 11: In most cases you can, but it's not completely definitive. 347 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 11: There is a percentage, and this is what these forensic 348 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 11: anthropologists work off of to get these bodies identified. And 349 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:30,959 Speaker 11: I've got to say that not only was it the 350 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 11: medical examiner that was involved in this, quite strikingly, it 351 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 11: was actually the University of Tennessee Body Farm, the anthropology 352 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 11: department there that came to the same conclusion Nancy, which 353 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 11: is absolutely mind blowing to me because this is what 354 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 11: they specialize in. 355 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 1: And then lo and behold listen. 356 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 5: One of the first things he realized is where Melissa's 357 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 5: husband worked at Action Glass and where the skull was 358 00:21:56,880 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 5: found was on the same street, Avon Avenue to the 359 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 5: Atlanta Police Department and says, look, this skull was found 360 00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 5: just feet away from where a missing woman's husband works. 361 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 5: So they agreed to get the dental records and have 362 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:13,639 Speaker 5: the medical examiner see if they could identify who that 363 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 5: skull belonged to. On March fourteenth, two thousand and three. 364 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 5: The skull is identified as Melissa Wolfenberg. 365 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 1: Okay, let me understand this straight out to Norma Patten, 366 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: who has been looking exhaustively for her daughter, no one 367 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 1: will listen. She said, Oh, she's run off with a boyfriend. 368 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 1: What boyfriend? She'll come back. You knew all along your 369 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 1: daughter would never have left her children. When did you 370 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: learn that this skull, which had been misidentified as a 371 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 1: white male is your daughter? 372 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 10: Brice Jordan. 373 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:56,639 Speaker 12: From Fayette County. He came to the house to my 374 00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 12: home and I walked outside on the porch and I 375 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 12: was told that she had been identified in Atlanta, that 376 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 12: her body had been dismembered. 377 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: What went through your mind? After all the time you 378 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 1: had searched for your daughter and you get this news. 379 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,199 Speaker 1: I was devastated completely. 380 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 12: I screamed and I was crying. My two grandkids that 381 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 12: were here with me came out to find out what 382 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 12: was going on, and. 383 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 1: I just didn't know what to do. Tina Patton, how 384 00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 1: did you discover that all this time your sister had 385 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 1: been dead and her body misidentified as a white male. 386 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:59,159 Speaker 2: I received a phone call and they said, have you 387 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 2: seen the news? And I said no, and they said, well, 388 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,920 Speaker 2: Melissa was found and all they found with her skull? 389 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 1: What went through your mind? How? How could this happen 390 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 1: to her? And I was just distraught. 391 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,639 Speaker 3: She came in one night with a handprint around. 392 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 2: The throat, her eyes were red, she had been crying, 393 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 2: and I knew what it was. 394 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: It was Chris. 395 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 4: It was the look in his eyes when I met him. 396 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 4: You could just see the meanness in his eyes. 397 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,880 Speaker 1: Melissa didn't deserve what she got. She didn't deserve it. 398 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 1: How could this be? All this time, her family bagging police, 399 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: begging other investigators, telling them she's missing. No one took 400 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: them seriously. Then, when a dismembered skull and body parts 401 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 1: are found, they're misidentified as a white male. Only later 402 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:03,919 Speaker 1: after a dental record examination, was it discovered those remains 403 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,479 Speaker 1: are in fact Melissa. Listen. 404 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 13: My main focus is on the bags Melissa's body was 405 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,159 Speaker 13: placed in. We both know it would be hard to 406 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:18,360 Speaker 13: tie knots, especially in plastic bags, without leaving trace evidence 407 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 13: of some sort. Whenever murder occurs, some kind of evidence 408 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:27,200 Speaker 13: is left. No matter how careful the killer is, evidence 409 00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 13: will be there. It may be overlooked, but that does 410 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 13: not mean it's not there. There is no perfect crime. 411 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: That is a letter from Melissa's dad being read by 412 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: our friend Walt McCollum, still seeking justice for his daughter. 413 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: That's Carl Patten. But what more do we know? We 414 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 1: know that the body the remains were in plastic bags 415 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 1: Joskott Morgan. Plastic bags can be a forensic treasure trove. 416 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 11: Why well, first off, you can trace them back to 417 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 11: the manufacturer whoever made these things. You can actually get 418 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 11: it down to the run that they came off of 419 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 11: the perforations on each bag. You begin to think about 420 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 11: how they're connected, what type of bag it is. Also, 421 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:21,240 Speaker 11: you know the plastic that you talk about the plastic bags. 422 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 11: One of the things that we look at is that 423 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 11: plastic bags are a non poor surface. So guess what 424 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 11: you can find many times and find latent prints. And 425 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 11: when you look at the knots and the way bags 426 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 11: are tied, think about how you have to manipulate that 427 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 11: bag in order to tie it up. That's why we 428 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,680 Speaker 11: have to be very very careful when we're undoing a knot, 429 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 11: for instance, at the crime lab or even in the morgue, 430 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 11: so that we don't destroy any of that evidence, not 431 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 11: to mention if the individual has left any of their 432 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 11: DNA there on that bag, that in fact could kind 433 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,879 Speaker 11: of cap off this idea of it being a treasure 434 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 11: trove for forensic evidence exactly. 435 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 1: And what do we learn from the remains themselves? 436 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 14: Listen, there were some vertebra that still remained with the head. 437 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 14: It wasn't many, and the vertebra had been sawed through, 438 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 14: and he, you know, he made note of a mechanical 439 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 14: saw that had dismembered the body, at least at that level, 440 00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,920 Speaker 14: that the tool marks that were left behind were consistent 441 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 14: with something other than a handheld saw. You know, you 442 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 14: think about a carpenter saw or hacksaw or those sorts 443 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 14: of things. That's not what happened in this case. 444 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 1: The level of violence in this case is overwhelming. Out 445 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:40,120 Speaker 1: to Tina and Norma, I'm sorry to drag you through 446 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 1: more pain, but the fact that we now know a 447 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 1: mechanical saw we believe was used in the dismemberment of 448 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 1: this beautiful young mom, your daughter, your sister. I mean, 449 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 1: how do you go forward? How do you sleep at 450 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 1: night knowing this happened to her? It's really hard to sleep. 451 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 12: Knowing, well, what was done to her and not knowing 452 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 12: why it was done. 453 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:25,879 Speaker 1: You know, I wonder sometimes about tell tell signs. Was 454 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:29,840 Speaker 1: there a red flag? Could we tell at the beginning 455 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 1: that this was going sideways? Guys, take a listen to this. 456 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 4: It was the look in his eyes when I met him. 457 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 4: You could just see the meanness in his eyes. I 458 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:45,800 Speaker 4: didn't like him, and it just it went downhill from there. 459 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 4: He had Melissa climbing out the bedroom window and sneaking 460 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 4: out to go wherever he wanted to go. 461 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 1: They run away and ended up in Oklahoma. 462 00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 4: The police told me that they caught him driving the 463 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,240 Speaker 4: wrong way the interstate, doing one hundred and twenty miles 464 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 4: an hour with no lights on. He went off the 465 00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 4: interstate and hit a bull. When they caught up with 466 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 4: him and laughed at him, he said, the only reason 467 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 4: you caught me because I ate that bull. So that's 468 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 4: the way he always looked at everything. 469 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 1: Right at the beginning, I am talking about Melissa's husband. 470 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:28,640 Speaker 1: At the very beginning, he was nothing but trouble. What 471 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 1: about it, Norma. 472 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 12: He was troubled from day one, and the only reason 473 00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 12: I let it. 474 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 1: My sister kept. 475 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 12: Telling me that I was fighting it too much. And 476 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 12: I need to let go and just let him have 477 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 12: a relationship. 478 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 1: And boy do I regret that today. You know, to 479 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,320 Speaker 1: Darryl Cohen joining me, former fellow he prosecuted for years now, 480 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: veteran trial lawyer at defense attorney, Darryl, did you hear 481 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 1: what tiny was at the beginning? She says? It was 482 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 1: a look in his eyes when I met him. I 483 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 1: could just see the meanness. And I know that that 484 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 1: is not evidence that it would be allowable in court. 485 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 1: I get it, that's totally inadmissible. And if it did 486 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 1: come into court, you, a great trial lawyer, would say 487 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 1: that means nothing. How can she tell he's got meanness 488 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 1: in his eyes? You would make hay it on that 489 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:28,960 Speaker 1: you shred it across examination. But it's true, Darryl. Haven't 490 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 1: you been in the car, say, with your daughter, and 491 00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 1: a guy walks up at the red light, and you 492 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 1: go and you lock all the doors. It's a feeling, 493 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 1: it's a gut feeling. It's after thousands of the years 494 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 1: of evolution. That's why the hair sticks up on the 495 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,560 Speaker 1: back of your neck or you get chilled. You are 496 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 1: processing something that your brain doesn't understand. And she knew 497 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: day one this guy is trouble, Nancy. 498 00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 7: It's not difficult to see that. Times we have a 499 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 7: gut reaction, and usually our gut reaction, the first one 500 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 7: is what we need to go with. But when you 501 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 7: see meanness in somebody's eyes, it's because sometimes you want 502 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 7: to see it. Sometimes he or she just looks evil, 503 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 7: and though it's not admissible, it's how we govern our lives. 504 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 7: It's how we see look at people and say their 505 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 7: body language, their facial expressions, in this case, the eyes 506 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 7: and in this case the eyes told everything. But that 507 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 7: doesn't mean mom or sister can stop it. It just 508 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:37,800 Speaker 7: means you can make your daughter, your sister realize what's 509 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 7: going on. And please be aware. You can't change somebody. 510 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 7: You can't make them do what you want them to do. 511 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, Nancy, so many times I would love 512 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 7: to tell my daughters, this is what you do. You 513 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 7: know what they would do when I say that? The opposite? 514 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 5: And how would he risk taking a dead body out 515 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 5: of that house? Number one being unseen when you've got 516 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 5: a neighbor, literally your walls meet, and then drive a 517 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,960 Speaker 5: dead body in a car, even if it is just 518 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,959 Speaker 5: a short distance, and risk being caught. Then take that 519 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 5: body inside where you've got the privacy, where's all that 520 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 5: blood going. And then you've got to get rid of 521 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 5: that saul because there ain't no way to clean that thing. 522 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: And then you still have. 523 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 5: To take the body out of that place and dispose 524 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 5: of it. 525 00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 1: And you just do it right there. 526 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 5: You don't even bother to take it away from where 527 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 5: you're tied. 528 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 1: To Cheryl McCollum. You and the family have led the 529 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 1: charge and seeking justice for Melissa. When you break it 530 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: down that way about what the killer would have to 531 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 1: go through in order to affect this crime, it makes 532 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,120 Speaker 1: your blood run cold, Nancy. 533 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,960 Speaker 3: It also is a flag again. 534 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 8: Who would take that amount of time? 535 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 3: Who would go get the. 536 00:32:55,880 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 15: Trash bags, get a circular saw, get the car ox around, 537 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 15: find a place the dispose of the body that is 538 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 15: great risk to the perpetrator. 539 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 1: And listen to more more from the letter from dad. 540 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 13: How do you kill the mother of your two children? 541 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 13: And then you look at those children in the eye 542 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 13: and say your mother deserted you because she didn't want you. 543 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 13: Then when it's proven this mother is dead and they 544 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 13: want us to visit the grave, you take them to 545 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,719 Speaker 13: a different location. And claim someone must have moved her. 546 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 1: Oh my stars, did that really happen, Tina. Did the father, 547 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 1: the husband actually tell the children mommy deserted them and 548 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 1: take them to the wrong grave. 549 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 2: Yes, it is true. 550 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 1: He did what happened. 551 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 16: He just you know, every time their mom was he 552 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 16: would say, she ran off, she didn't want to be 553 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 16: here anymore, so she lived and I'll know where she is. 554 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 1: So the children grow up thinking, mom, he deserted them, 555 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 1: Is that right? 556 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 3: Yes, they did. 557 00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 1: To normal patten, did you try to tell them differently? 558 00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:11,520 Speaker 12: We weren't allowed to see them. His mother had custody 559 00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 12: of them, and she would not let us see them. 560 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 12: The last time she brought them anywhere around was when 561 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 12: she brought them to the cemetery when we buried Melissa, 562 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 12: And they did not even know that they were at 563 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:36,440 Speaker 12: the why they were at the cemetery, or who it was. 564 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 1: Oh my stars, what a tragedy. So she's murdered, she's dismembered, 565 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:50,799 Speaker 1: and her children are raised thinking mommy abandoned them. Well 566 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: in the last days, over twenty five years after Melissa's 567 00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:03,399 Speaker 1: dismembered body as found discovered just a block away from 568 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 1: where her then husband worked, an arrest has been made. 569 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:12,040 Speaker 1: Cheryl McCollum explained, you know, they put. 570 00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,360 Speaker 3: Together a solid, circumstantial case. 571 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 8: They went through statement, they went through maps, they went 572 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 8: through body disposal locations, and they narrowed this case down 573 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 8: to one person. 574 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:29,240 Speaker 3: There wasn't a number one person. There was only one 575 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,279 Speaker 3: valuable suspect in this case. 576 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:38,560 Speaker 1: And that suspect then husband, Christopher Wolfenberger. To you, Nora Patten, 577 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:43,439 Speaker 1: it took so long. It took years for the case 578 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 1: to be solved. What is your response to finally an arrest. 579 00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 12: When I was told that he had been arrested, I 580 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 12: just yelled out as loud as I could, thank you, Bore. 581 00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:04,839 Speaker 12: Don't have a long way to go. 582 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 1: God willing. There will be justice delayed, Yes, delayed, But 583 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:13,320 Speaker 1: in the end, the APD did put the case together. 584 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 1: By now, a cold, cold case. That's hard to do. 585 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 1: Just God, it's really hard to put together a cold case. 586 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:27,400 Speaker 1: It's almost impossible. But they did it, and we finally 587 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:32,400 Speaker 1: have an arrest. How has this affected you, this quest 588 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 1: we've all been on for so long. 589 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 11: Well for me, God bless them. I see the pain 590 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 11: in the family's eyes, and I've seen this look for 591 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,759 Speaker 11: years and years as a death investigator, and it all 592 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 11: brings it flooding back to me now at this point 593 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:54,759 Speaker 11: in my life. It's a touchstone moment, I think, for 594 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 11: them as a family, but it's also a moment in 595 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:03,520 Speaker 11: time where where those of us that are training professionals 596 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 11: moving forward, look at the mistakes that were made along 597 00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 11: the way. Where could we have turned a corner that 598 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,319 Speaker 11: would have sent us down a different path and not 599 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:18,360 Speaker 11: put the family through so much pain? I think is 600 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,440 Speaker 11: what it comes down to. If we all do our 601 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 11: jobs in the beginning, then it's at that point in 602 00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:30,240 Speaker 11: time we can look back and understand that we could 603 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,839 Speaker 11: save a lot of pain that these families go through. 604 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 11: Because Melissa is not a forgotten person, all right. She's 605 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:41,280 Speaker 11: not just a number that's thrown away. She's a sister, 606 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:46,839 Speaker 11: she's a mother, and she's somebody's baby. And that's what 607 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 11: you have to keep in mind moving forward with all 608 00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,359 Speaker 11: of this. I just thank God in Heaven right now 609 00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:56,359 Speaker 11: that there is some kind, some kind of resolution. It 610 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,080 Speaker 11: might not be what we all wanted, but there is 611 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 11: a resolution that we can all grow from at this 612 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 11: point in time. I just hate that it's been done 613 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,560 Speaker 11: at the expenses of these precious women. 614 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 1: Tina and Norman Patten. I just really don't have words 615 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:17,399 Speaker 1: to thank you. You are an example for all other 616 00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 1: crime victimist families because you never gave up, You never quit. 617 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:27,360 Speaker 1: There were many times Cheryl and I and Joe Scott talked, 618 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:30,759 Speaker 1: We talked about the case, and there were times I 619 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 1: thought there would never be a resolution, there would never 620 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 1: be an arrest, even though we all felt we knew 621 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:41,799 Speaker 1: who was responsible for the murder. The damage to you 622 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:46,839 Speaker 1: and to her children, but most important to her can 623 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:51,360 Speaker 1: never be fixed. There is no fix. But what is 624 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:56,840 Speaker 1: your message today to you, the mother of Melissa Wilsenberger, 625 00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:01,080 Speaker 1: What is your message to other crime victims, feens families today. 626 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 12: Don't give up, Get out there and talk to people, 627 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 12: anybody that you can. We went everywhere anybody had gave 628 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:19,759 Speaker 12: us suggestions. We went, and we You just had to 629 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:20,799 Speaker 12: stay on top of it. 630 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 1: You can't, you can't let it go. Tina. It was 631 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:29,399 Speaker 1: all consuming your search for justice, your search to find 632 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 1: out what happened to your sister, and there could not 633 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:36,279 Speaker 1: have been more bizarre facts thrown into this quest. What 634 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:40,080 Speaker 1: is your message to other people listening today as we 635 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 1: await a formal announcement. 636 00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 12: No matter what, no matter what happens, what you come across, 637 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 12: what other problems come up, do not take No. 638 00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 16: You've got to push, and when it seems like you're 639 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:56,080 Speaker 16: ready to. 640 00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,760 Speaker 1: Give up, keep pushing. Don't stop. 641 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 13: Stop. 642 00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:06,880 Speaker 1: If Tina and Norma Patten could keep going against all odds, 643 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:13,440 Speaker 1: then so can we. Tina and Norma thank you. We 644 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 1: wait as God willing justice hunfals. Goodbye friend,