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Speaker 1: Forever.

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Speaker 2: All right, Hello, Hi, hey girl, Hi baby, he's say,

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Speaker 2: thank god, it's so good to see you, bitch.

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Speaker 3: Uh did we not FaceTime yesterday?

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Speaker 4: You know, Marie.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you have realized, but you are

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Speaker 2: one of the highlights of many of my days. So

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Speaker 2: whenever I see you, I'm just astatic.

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Speaker 3: Whenever you start talking like this, I feel like you're

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Speaker 3: about to ask me for some money every time. Wait,

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Speaker 3: she need a loan or something?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, I'm just I watched your

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Speaker 2: video on Instagram yesterday and it just brought me so

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Speaker 2: much joy.

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Speaker 3: I you know, you know, I think that I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: do one of those a week, a little, a little

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Speaker 3: weekly affirmation video for the for the girls.

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Speaker 4: The girls need it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And then you see I do a little

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Speaker 3: sagittary shade in there. We love but only for the men.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you did, you did what needed to be done. Okay,

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Speaker 2: you could have threw a tourists in there too, I

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Speaker 2: would have really really blessed you for that.

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Speaker 3: Well, a tourists man has never wronged me so far

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Speaker 3: as I know. Like, I wasn't worried about the signs

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Speaker 3: back then, and technically still am not. But if a

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Speaker 3: dude tells me he's a Sagittarius or his birthdays in December,

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Speaker 3: m I'm gonna walk. I'm gonna walk the other way.

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Speaker 4: Well, a man never wronged me. A tourist man never

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Speaker 4: wong me. Just my mom.

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Speaker 2: So my mom is a tourist. And I just wanted

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Speaker 2: I needed that shout out for myself. But who Marie,

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Speaker 2: you have been doing.

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Speaker 4: It, glowing living.

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Speaker 2: I mean I remember just a week and a half

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Speaker 2: ago we were we were complaining, and now you are

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Speaker 2: really you see.

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Speaker 4: How things change?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, girl, you know what I'm saying. Yes to dates.

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Speaker 3: I went on a date last night. Uh, the guy

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Speaker 3: was late and dressed terribly. I have a date tonight.

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Speaker 3: I went on a date this weekend. I'm just you know,

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Speaker 3: I was on a date the other day and this

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Speaker 3: man asked me for my number and I gave it

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Speaker 3: to him while I was on the date. So yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: yeah girl, I'm just out here trying to trying to

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Speaker 3: get Lifetime movie channeled. But also, you know, were these

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Speaker 3: new outfits and come up with stories for you in

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really important that you do this the groundwork

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Speaker 2: for us. You're out here. I definitely was on Instagram

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Speaker 2: not only capping for you, but many of the women

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Speaker 2: who were having issues with the dates. And I said,

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Speaker 2: we have eight weeks and literally a weekend.

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Speaker 4: You are you changed the game? You changed the game?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I read something yesterday that this girl posted,

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Speaker 3: and she was like, for some reason, like a lot

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Speaker 3: they think that that means like it reflects negatively on

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Speaker 3: them that they had to make the first move. But

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Speaker 3: sometimes the first move is just like walking up to

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Speaker 3: and then you let them lead the rest. But she

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Speaker 3: had this whole thing on her Instagram stories about how, yeah,

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Speaker 3: sometimes you get rejected but and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: she was like, but it's a numbers game, right, Like

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Speaker 3: you know, a lot of these men are basically children,

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Speaker 3: so they're like, oh, I didn't know you liked me.

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Speaker 3: I didn't you know.

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Speaker 2: But us to us too, we have to the only

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Speaker 2: reason why rejection is so hard for us because we

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Speaker 2: don't put ourselves out there enough to be rejected. And

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Speaker 2: so I think if you hear no more often, then

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Speaker 2: it doesn't affect you as much, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Like we do auditions all the time. We go up

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Speaker 2: for things all the time and we don't get it,

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Speaker 2: and it's like, okay, cool, Like if any thing I

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Speaker 2: go into it like I might not get this, but whatever.

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Speaker 4: You know. So that's the same way we gotta take it.

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Speaker 1: With dating.

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Speaker 2: It's just like you know, anybody who said no it

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Speaker 3: The nose make you strongs it does so, and I'm

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Speaker 3: and for too long, I guess we were very comfortable

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Speaker 3: not being strong. Yeah, and you know, part of me

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Speaker 3: if you wait around, you get what you get and

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Speaker 3: you can't get upset. Right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you if you go to a buffet and

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Speaker 2: you're waiting for somebody to serve you, honey, you're gonna

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Speaker 2: be waiting at debt at the beginning of the buffet

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Speaker 2: forever because nobody is serving you. You gotta get you

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Speaker 2: gotta take yourself and you gotta go there and you

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Speaker 2: gotta try that rice that.

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Speaker 4: Looks a little a little random. Oh my god, damn,

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Speaker 4: hold on, shit, sorry, you.

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Speaker 2: Gotta send you. You gotta try the mystery meat. You

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Speaker 2: gotta try the mystery meat sometimes.

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Speaker 3: Wow. That was Asop's Fables written by If you go

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Speaker 3: to the buffet and you wait for someone to serve you,

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Speaker 3: you're going to be there for the whole shift. Wow.

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Speaker 3: Wow Sidney, Uh yeah, I see you.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 3: You also very busy. You was in You were in

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Speaker 3: San Francisco living your best life. I did, uh being

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Speaker 3: a professional comedian for the for the rest of the summer.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I want to thank everybody from the

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Speaker 2: pod who came, like they were so happy and just beautiful,

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Speaker 2: I mean, moisturized edges all there and they brought people

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Speaker 2: and the people were like, I don't know this bitch,

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Speaker 2: but she, my friend told me that I needed to

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Speaker 2: see you, and so I want to thank everybody who came.

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Speaker 2: And everybody asked about you and Andrew and they were like,

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Speaker 2: we hope that y'all come back or come as well.

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Speaker 2: So just wanted to let you know that y'all were

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Speaker 2: ask me questions at the end, and one person was like,

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Speaker 2: how is Marie in real life?

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Speaker 3: And I was like, what, excuse me, what does that

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Speaker 3: question mean?

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Speaker 2: They're like, you're a character on the pod, so they

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Speaker 2: want to know the real you. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna out my friend. I was like, the

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Speaker 2: real Marie is gay, no kidding, she's actually a lesbian whoops,

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Speaker 2: tabby pride.

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Speaker 4: Yay, yeah, yay, yay. But yeah, good times. Glad.

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Speaker 2: Hope that we can do a live show very soon, Marie.

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Speaker 2: If this Delta variant doesn't come through and ruin everything.

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Speaker 3: It's already doing that, but true, soon as soon as

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Speaker 3: outside is like open, open, open, then yeah, well we'll

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Speaker 3: absolutely be back in these streets performing.

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Speaker 1: For you guys.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: M all right, should we should we get into it?

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Speaker 2: This uh, this fat, fabulous guess that we have today.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know if they're ready for this episode.

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Speaker 4: They're not.

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Speaker 3: It's well moisturized, it's it's hydrated, it's it's clear skin,

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Speaker 3: good teeth.

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Speaker 4: Straight teeth, all teeth, straight teeth, all.

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Speaker 3: Teeth, straight teeth, all teeth, Thank you, Sidney. It's I

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Speaker 3: think we're gonna have a good time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: She is one of the stars of Saturday Night Live. Honey,

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Speaker 2: I mean, we love her, we adore her. I have

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Speaker 4: Give it up for ego.

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Speaker 1: No, what happens is I do I guess and I

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Speaker 1: do say it right. It happens to the best. It

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Speaker 3: Okay, she tried to tried to say real, I'm like, what.

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Speaker 1: About to say? What's she about to say? I know

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Speaker 1: how this usually goes. I had hope, though, Sydney. But

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Speaker 1: thank you for no, no, no, but thank you for

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Speaker 1: the very kind, warm welcome. You guessed me right on up.

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling like I feel good. I'm happy to be here.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I want you to feel good. We want you

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Speaker 3: to feel so good that you say things that you

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Speaker 3: didn't plan on saying. This is what we want you

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Speaker 1: Okay, disarm me. Okay, I'm talking to the I'm talking

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Speaker 1: to the press. I'm talking to the press. It turns out, yeah, good.

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Speaker 3: This is a safe space. Let's call it the Black

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Speaker 3: Babysitters Club. This is yes, you and Sydney both sitting

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Speaker 1: In front of the couch like yes.

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Speaker 3: I'm not wearing I'm not wearing pants.

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Speaker 4: It goes like l O l O L.

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Speaker 2: You're like l O l She's like, since I signed contracts,

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Speaker 2: I can't I'm not saying everything.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, yeah, some things don't belong on the

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Speaker 2: And that's where the and that's where the class comes in,

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Speaker 1: You know, I didn't used to hold my tongue when

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this isn't worth This isn't worth getting into

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Speaker 1: need to know my business. Everybody don't need to know

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Speaker 3: Hut. But that's how I feel now when I post

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Speaker 1: Right, so exactly, and it's crazy. It's crazy to see.

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Speaker 1: I'm like these faces. I don't know you, I don't

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Speaker 1: But I'm not about to give you everything. I can't

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Speaker 1: give you everything. I don't know you, my team, my managers,

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Speaker 1: first time ever by myself, as just like a thing

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Speaker 1: I'd never done. I went on a solo trip in January,

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Speaker 1: and wait, where'd you good? You go to the cat Skills,

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Speaker 1: went to a town called kir HONKSENKNS.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I was class class is that class?

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Speaker 3: I was scared moment and that's how you can know.

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Speaker 1: So I was trying to find this is where the

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Speaker 1: class does come into play. Airbnb's in upstate New York.

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Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of them don't look great.

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Speaker 1: It's like, why would I leave my home to go

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, because Maria sounds like Marie based on Instagram,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Marie has lived a life. Marie is living

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Speaker 3: Well you know what it is is I feel like

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Speaker 1: See? I just got open to going on dates for

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Speaker 4: They are, absolutely are. The reality is they are.

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Speaker 1: But if it's like people who are like you, you

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Speaker 1: can't you can't be jealous of me if I'm happy

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Speaker 1: I have gotten into I mean, I've started dating again.

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Speaker 1: I went on one bad date top of twenty twenty.

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Speaker 4: Did you have to pay? Did you have to bring

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Speaker 1: Well, this was in Italy and so so my friend.

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Speaker 4: It was an Italian man.

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Speaker 1: It was an Italian man. But this isn't the worst shit.

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Speaker 1: I needed to reassess, evaluate the decisions I was making

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Speaker 1: And so anyway, I'm in New York. I'm like, it's time,

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Speaker 1: which is fantastic. None of his business, none of his business,

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Speaker 4: Phone voice memo. Can I hit you with a voice memo?

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Speaker 1: What's tough about the voice memo is that after thirty seconds,

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Speaker 3: Your phone goes dark even if you're using it.

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Speaker 1: Like literally, I'm listening to a voice memo, and I

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Speaker 1: The phone The screen goes dark. It's it locks, it locks,

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Speaker 1: and then I have to start your voice maasls. So

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Speaker 3: You know, you can change it to but I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to I don't want to

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Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, I'm very well aware, but I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm all for a phone call all four face time.

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Speaker 1: I was born in the wrong decade or something.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well put the put the phone number in the chat.

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Speaker 1: Will I definitely follow us. I have a few phone numbers.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you all the burner.

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Speaker 4: We we will, we will follow.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna give you.

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Speaker 1: All the burner. I got a couple of phone numbers.

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Speaker 1: So some of these ships come through green. But be informed.

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Speaker 1: I had an iPhone, So if my text with you

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Speaker 3: You're not on the main line.

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Speaker 1: You're not on the main line.

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Speaker 4: Side the side chick phone got.

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Speaker 1: It absolutely, so he shows up to the date. So

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Speaker 1: So it's January. I'm like, I think i'm cool on that.

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Speaker 1: And then I'm like, shit, I forgot to tell him.

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Speaker 1: I'm January. I'm not really drinking. And I was certainly

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Speaker 1: not going to break it for him, like it was

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Speaker 1: So I show up. I'm gonna have a water. It's

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Speaker 2: You have to remember that now people are doing pre dates,

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Speaker 1: But I okay, but I need these men to like

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Speaker 4: A lot of a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: don't have time for all that, Like, I don't have time.

438
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,280
Speaker 1: Let's do this the right way. I'm gonna show up,

439
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull up, I'm gonna be a bad bitch,

440
00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna know how to have a conversation. I will

441
00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,960
Speaker 1: charm you, et cetera. Don't don't do that, come correct, Yeah.

442
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:17,480
Speaker 3: But also don't invite me somewhere. Don't let me somewhere nasty.

443
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:18,720
Speaker 3: You should want to impress me.

444
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,320
Speaker 1: Yes, I mean yes, So I.

445
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 4: Did you put did you pull up in uh Lululemon pants?

446
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,160
Speaker 1: What was you wearing? No? I wore so I didn't

447
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 1: because I didn't know what kind. I was wearing a

448
00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 1: black turtleneck and some high waisted jeans. I live in

449
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 1: high waisted jeans, you know you have to. And and

450
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:43,840
Speaker 1: black booties, black heeled booties, okay, standard. And I walk

451
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:48,520
Speaker 1: up to this and to this basement, sticky crazy lights.

452
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:51,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is insane. But I see him and

453
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 1: he's wiping his nose with the back of his hand,

454
00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 1: and like he stands up, and I was like, this

455
00:21:55,960 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 1: nigga is sick. So he's said it was January it is.

456
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 1: I think it is January twenty twenty, because I'm like,

457
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 1: PC it together. I'm like, I think it was January

458
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,479
Speaker 1: twenty twenty. I think I was also trying to cut

459
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 1: somebody off of January twenty twenty, so I'm like trying

460
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,920
Speaker 1: to remember the timeline here. Anyway, he's like wiping his nose,

461
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,159
Speaker 1: but he sees me and he's doing it. He like

462
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:21,399
Speaker 1: gets up hand, hand to to his nose, back of

463
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 1: his hand to his nose. He gets up. The posture

464
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 1: is simply not there. And I'm I'm very attracted to

465
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 1: posture and good posture, and it just simply wasn't there.

466
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 1: Shoulders were a little too hunched for your girl. And

467
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 1: he oh, no, I'm trying trying to be I'm trying

468
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 1: to be nice, trying to be nice. You see me

469
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 1: trying to be like, yeah, I'm trying to protect I

470
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 1: really am. I'm like, so, how do I put this?

471
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,399
Speaker 1: He's not dressed like what I feel like is an

472
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 1: adult man, That's what I'll say.

473
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 3: He had on he had on an elastic waistband.

474
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,920
Speaker 4: He had a wind breaker on. He had a wind breaker.

475
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 1: It was even that would have been cooler. It was like,

476
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 1: I feel like he did his best, but I could

477
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 1: tell he's not about to like invest in fash He didn't.

478
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,959
Speaker 1: He didn't understand aesthetics. Like that's let's put it that way, right,

479
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 1: He's not going to kiss, No, absolutely not. And look,

480
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 1: you don't need to go to kids. You could go

481
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 1: wherever and sort it out for yourself. You could sort

482
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 1: it out for yourself. You can find a bargain and

483
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 1: still look nice. I'm all, that's I'm fine with that.

484
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 1: But he's wiping his nose as I'm approaching. But he

485
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 1: sees me this is a nonsom like, oh, he didn't

486
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 1: realize I'm there. He's like gets up wiping his nose,

487
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,880
Speaker 1: and we hug, and the hug is limp. And that's

488
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: also a pet peeve of mine, an absolute pet peeve

489
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 1: of mine. Do not hug me if the hug's gonna

490
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 1: be limp. Don't shake my hand if the hand's gonna

491
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 1: be limp. Also, don't shake my hand because we're in

492
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: a pandemic. But honestly, that hug, I go, oh God,

493
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 1: And so I knew at this moment. I knew, at

494
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: this moment this is not gonna be it. I'm drinking

495
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 1: water tonight. He gets a drink and it's like, even

496
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 1: if it weren't like it was like sugary drinks, I'm like,

497
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even do this. I'm a tequila soda.

498
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 4: Get.

499
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 1: He got a sex on a beach. I don't know

500
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: it was something, you know, it was it was sweet,

501
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: just straight juice, some type of red juice and punch

502
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: fruit punch. I don't know. So then he's like, do

503
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: you want food? But the it's a darg bar. The

504
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: food menu is like not chicken, skewers, skewers we got

505
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm like and I'm like, no in peanuts and I'm

506
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 1: like no, I'm I'm good. And so we are talking,

507
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: but he's having a hard time. He's not making eye

508
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 1: contact with me. He's giving me like head down, like.

509
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 4: Your beautiful, thank you.

510
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: And I do feel in retrospect like he was intimidated.

511
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 1: But it's yes, I didn't even give you a full

512
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: beat today, sir. I came with justin. He didn't even

513
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: do eyeliner today, sir. We did make it was no makeup, makeup.

514
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: And I'm like, if you're intimidated by this, wait till

515
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 1: I put the lashes on, Like this is not you.

516
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 1: There's no reason for you to be intimidated. Right now,

517
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 1: I'm making eye contact. He is not making eye contact.

518
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 1: That's deeply unattractive to me, deeply, deeply in my soul.

519
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: That's giving me you have no confidence, be it in

520
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:13,879
Speaker 1: this situation or period, I don't know, but in this

521
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need you to have confidence with me. And

522
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 1: so he all talking to him was also like pulling teeth,

523
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: so I do know it was a January. Which January?

524
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: We don't know, but I said, it got to the

525
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 1: point where, and I don't like small talk. It got

526
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: to the point where I was like, so, do you

527
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: have any New Year's resolutions? I don't give a care

528
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: damn about that. I don't care about New Year's And

529
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: that's a bad look because those are the kinds of

530
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 1: conversations I'm trying to have on a first date, and

531
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 1: really any conversation like what are your New Year's resolutions?

532
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: I don't care. And he's like, I don't really do

533
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: all that. I don't and I'm like, okay, well he's

534
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 1: like and he's like, I try to just get everything

535
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 1: done during the year, but I'm committed to like finding

536
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 1: a top that he will talk about, because I don't

537
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: want to make him feel bad because within minutes. So

538
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,719
Speaker 1: Sudie Green gave me great advice after this date. When

539
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 1: I was recounting this story months later, she goes, you

540
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: don't know him anything thirty minutes in, Like you knew

541
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: before thirty minutes in. I mean when I walked up,

542
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: I knew it wasn't it but she's like, you could

543
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 1: have just left. She's like, you could have left, but

544
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: I felt so bad because I can tell this person's

545
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: lacking confidence. So then I'm trying to like make them

546
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: feel better about themselves and not like, oh yeah, if

547
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: the date is thirty minutes, you know, damn well, she's

548
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: not into you. You're gonna feel rejected. So I'm like,

549
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: I don't want him to feel like that, but he

550
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 1: is really given. He's given me a hard time. So

551
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 1: I find a topic that he that gets him talking some.

552
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: But so we start talking about hip hop and then

553
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 1: he's like, oh, you I make beats sometimes and yeah,

554
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: and so I don't want him to listen to this

555
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: because at the time he didn't know who I was,

556
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: which I like, which I liked, and I think he

557
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: tried to ask but he didn't know. He was like, oh,

558
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,160
Speaker 1: you do comedy, Like where do you work? I said

559
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: Midtown and then he's like oh and so he's like, yeah,

560
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: just like write comedy and like performance sometimes. But anyway,

561
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: so the date ends when we wait a question waste question?

562
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 4: Is he beige.

563
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,719
Speaker 1: Well mean caucage?

564
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 2: Yes, So you're giving You're saying a drake, you're a

565
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 2: Drake adjacent man.

566
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: We're gonna go ahead and say, uh Ben affleck not

567
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: but not but not as attractive, Okay.

568
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,439
Speaker 3: So and so he.

569
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: He's on We're on hip hop. He's talking about hip hop,

570
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 1: and he's I think delighted that I can hang. I

571
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: could feel that he's I feel for him. I think

572
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 1: like there's something he's passionate about. But I think he

573
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 1: also had the like preconceived notion that, like, I don't know,

574
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: girls aren't probably into that stuff. So I was able

575
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 1: to he just truly this man, I cannot So we

576
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 1: figure that out. But while we're talking, we get to

577
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 1: talking about Joe Button's podcast and I was like, oh,

578
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 1: I've been to Last Lap a bunch of times whatever,

579
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 1: And I was like, I didn't know until a friend

580
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 1: came to visit me in town that they talk about

581
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 1: it on Joe Budden's podcast. And he says to me, yeah,

582
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 1: another place they talk about on his podcast is catch Steak.

583
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: And so I'm sitting here like I'm fucking hungry. I

584
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: look good tonight. I put on I put on the

585
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: makeup again, no makeup, makeup, And so I'm listening to

586
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:25,160
Speaker 1: him and I'm like that's what I'm gonna do. I'm

587
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 1: leaving you and I'm gonna go to catch steak by

588
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 1: myself for a table for one.

589
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 4: And so.

590
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: I basically ran away from him at the end of

591
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: the date. At the end of the date, I'm like, okay,

592
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: let's let's close out whatever. And then we're leaving. He's like,

593
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 1: we should grab Greek food sometimes because I said I

594
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: like Greek food, and I'm like yeah, yeah, yeah. I

595
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, hit me up on the app. Now,

596
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: you know, after a first date, if the girl is

597
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: like hit me on the pack on the app, I

598
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 1: won't even give you my contact, you know, it's bad.

599
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: So I see a cab, I hail it quickly, like

600
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: I am in the street like yeah, hit me up

601
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: on the app and running away, running away from him.

602
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: And then I tell the the the driver to take

603
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: me to catch steak and I and if he wants

604
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: to join you, he can the driver No, he couldn't know,

605
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: he could not. I was I was done babysitting niggas

606
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: for the night.

607
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 3: So and this man also.

608
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 4: Show do you think that is bougie?

609
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 2: Like not being able to be at a dive bar,

610
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 2: wanning neck be at a nice restaurant, wanting the guy

611
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 2: to dress up.

612
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: Like I didn't even need him to dress up, just

613
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: dressed like you. Like he could have been in yes,

614
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: he could have literally been in jeans and a T shirt,

615
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 1: but like, but like just dressed better like you. You didn't.

616
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 1: But it's where he's at in his life. And it

617
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: also let me know that I'm like, that's where you

618
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: are in your life, and we just kind of we

619
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: move differently, and so there isn't a connection in that

620
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: regard at all, because I'm like, oh, I would have

621
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: tried to impress. I also wouldn't have like made this

622
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: woman carry the entire conversation. I also would have made

623
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: eye contact, you know I I you know she is

624
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: trying here, she is pulling teeth. So the date ended

625
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 1: up being two hours because I was like, no, we're

626
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: gonna get you to talk.

627
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, now that's you.

628
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: It's too much. I did too much. I went too hard.

629
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: I'm drinking water for two hours, two hours, two hours

630
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 1: doing all the work. And I was like, absolutely not.

631
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: And that made me put my pussy on hiatus all

632
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: over again. I was I will not be I said,

633
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,719
Speaker 1: this is what's out here. I will not be out

634
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:44,479
Speaker 1: with these it's nasty.

635
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 4: Well that's ratchet. That's ratchet being on a two hour date.

636
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: Listen. J Cole has a line that is, uh, my girl,

637
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: bougie still do ratchet ship and that's me. That's actually me.

638
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 1: I am bougie, but I still do ratchet shit, and

639
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: I enjoy ratchets shit from time to time.

640
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 3: Listen, let me tell you, let me let me give

641
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 3: you an out. Okay, the next time you go on

642
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 3: a date like this.

643
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 1: Okay.

644
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 3: So I was on a date last night and it

645
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 3: was similar. He showed up. He had on like Nike

646
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 3: shiny sweatpants, yellow socks, the T shirt had a lion

647
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 3: on it, so okay, and they had like a like

648
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 3: a like an overshirt blouse thing. I scheduled my uber

649
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 3: to pick.

650
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:30,719
Speaker 1: Me up girl. Wait, explain you explain?

651
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 3: Okay. So when you order an uber, okay, you can

652
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 3: schedule it, but you can schedule it for like what type?

653
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 3: It was eleven o'clock. I scheduled my uber for eleven

654
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 3: forty between eleven forty five and midnight.

655
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: Marie, wait upon arrival when you saw him, or like before, no,

656
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: before you got there.

657
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 3: I got there a little after ten. He got there

658
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 3: maybe like ten fifteen, which is a.

659
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 4: Turn off for Marie because he got there late. He

660
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 4: got got there later.

661
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: I don't like that ship. We don't like that. I

662
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: don't like that.

663
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 3: Well I'm queen of not being one time for sure.

664
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 3: But how did I beat you here?

665
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's exactly right.

666
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 3: But it was fine. It was like a nice day.

667
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 3: I'm on a rooftobe, it's fine. He he was online

668
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 3: for a while at the bargaining me a glass of rose.

669
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 3: So the date was, you know, after that first hour.

670
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 3: Actually when I met him, I was like, uh uh

671
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 3: when I'm as soon as I said.

672
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 1: When you say him, you could tell, you could say,

673
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 1: what do you know? Yeah? You know, you know, uh

674
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 1: huh absolutely, And and.

675
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 3: Then the conversation was very much me asking him questions

676
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,239
Speaker 3: and it and it was because he texted me when

677
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 3: I got home and said, I'm sorry. I'm sorry for

678
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 3: like if I wasn't on my whatever he said, And

679
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 3: I said, what do you mean? And he said, I

680
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 3: didn't really ask you any questions.

681
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 4: He said that, so he knew there was no He

682
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 4: knew so he knew that. That's also ratchet.

683
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah you knew.

684
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 3: But anyway, if you skeart your car, then you have

685
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 3: an out. Because he was like, oh, do you want

686
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 3: to take a walk or go somewhere else. I said, oh,

687
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 3: my car is coming in eleven minutes. I Marie text me.

688
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 4: I well, I text Marianna. I said, hey, how's the date?

689
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 4: And she had this gift for emoji where the person

690
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 4: is like yawning.

691
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 1: You know.

692
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm bored, and I said, I said, tell

693
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 2: him that you had a candle at home and it's

694
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 2: still on and you gotta you gotta get to it.

695
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 3: No, no, that seems like an invite back, honestly.

696
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 4: No, no, no, my actually my house is on fire,

697
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 4: so I have to go.

698
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 1: I never like, this is my inn. I can help her.

699
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna no no, no, yeah, that's too much, that's

700
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 1: too much.

701
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 3: Schedule next time. Schedule the car. Yeah, as soon as

702
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 3: soon as you see them, as soon as you feel it,

703
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 3: as soon as you realize the car. Yeah, absolutely, because

704
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 3: it's gonna save me money.

705
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

706
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 3: The only reason I didn't take it when I scheduled

707
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 3: it because it was going to be like fifty dollars.

708
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 3: But when I scheduled it, it was twenty six, so

709
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 3: I saved myself money. And you know, I was like,

710
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:02,959
Speaker 3: what am I going to do if I'm sitting at

711
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 3: home right now? Anyway, I'm gonna be in the house

712
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 3: wasting time. At least I'm getting some fresh air, right

713
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 3: And I was already out when we went on the date,

714
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 3: So it's okay. I'm glad that not even on the date.

715
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: So Marie, I like what you do. It seems like

716
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 1: you are like living your life and a date is

717
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: sort of like an errand as opposed to like, I

718
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: have this date tonight. I really do like that approach

719
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: where it's like one of the things on the to

720
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 1: do list today, we're not going above and beyond. I'll

721
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: pop over to this date, see what he's talking about,

722
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: and pop out. Okay, It's like.

723
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,439
Speaker 3: I'm already dressed and I already had on a date, wig,

724
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 3: So I said, let's let's go. Let's see what this

725
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 3: looks like, and then if it doesn't work, it doesn't work,

726
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 3: but if it does, then then I have a nice night.

727
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's wise. That's wisdom I appreciate. And I

728
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 1: wish I had known before i'd gone out with this

729
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 1: young man whose name I cannot remember.

730
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 4: No no, No, it's okay, it's fine. We don't need

731
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 4: to know name. Yeah, his name is do not call,

732
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 4: do not call. He knows, he knows, but I wanted

733
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 4: to know.

734
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 2: Ego, are you like, because you're such a classy, bougie gal, like,

735
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 2: are you looking for love?

736
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 4: Are you?

737
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 2: Are you open to having more fun? Well, I mean

738
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: you're a woman of prestige. You're on TV, so you

739
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,759
Speaker 2: can't just be doing anything. But I'm saying I.

740
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: Be out here like that. That's absolutely true, and I

741
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 1: wish part of me is like that sucks a little bit,

742
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 1: but you know, yeah, I'm I'd ideally end up in

743
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 1: a relationship, but it really has to make sense for

744
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: me to commit to you. I mean, it's really got

745
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: to make sense. It's got to feel right. It's got

746
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: to feel like I can't not be with this person

747
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 1: as opposed to like this, Yeah, yeah, it's supposed to

748
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: like I just need a warm body next to me.

749
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: I don't do that as opposed to I'm so used

750
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: to people being around. I'm very independent, so I'd like

751
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship, but I'm also simply not

752
00:35:58,560 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 1: going to force it.

753
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 3: So well, that's the that's the right way to do relationships. Yeah,

754
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 3: you forced it. It usually doesn't work right. But you

755
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 3: also just got back from a cute little Italian trip.

756
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 3: And you know what they say, Italian men love black women.

757
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 3: So do you know what happened over there? Sis a

758
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 3: little machiavellius.

759
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 1: No, I didn't meet an Italian man. But we're not

760
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 1: in communication any longer.

761
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 4: You ain't got what's happen? What's you know? What's out

762
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 4: and down? Yeah?

763
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 1: Killed him? But no, the mob got him. No, you know,

764
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: he he was a lot. He was a lot, and

765
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: it wasn't correct. But I also I didn't want to

766
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 1: be in touch. I actually met him and was like,

767
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 1: I said to him on the date, I don't care

768
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 1: if we ever talk again. And then I realized, like, oh,

769
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: that's pretty early on because I'm like, I don't live here.

770
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: I live in a different country with a six hour

771
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 1: time difference. Sometimes I'm in a city that has a

772
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: nine hour time difference to you. So I'm like, what

773
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: are we Why would we even pretend that we're going

774
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: to like keep in touch in any meaningful way? And

775
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: he said, you don't care if we talk again? I said, oh,

776
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: because I know that bruises men's egos. So I dialed

777
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 1: it back. I was like, oh, you know, I was

778
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,320
Speaker 1: just being guarded. I was being guarded.

779
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:23,320
Speaker 3: I I gotta protect myself.

780
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, So I dialed it back a little bit

781
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: and we we sorted, we sorted ourselves out, and I

782
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: enjoyed my time. I did pay for my meal. I

783
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: don't know if I enjoyed my time. I wanted to

784
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: have an experience. I wanted to go on a date

785
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: in Italy. I did. I was on a mission and

786
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: I so.

787
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 3: Did you jump on the back of his vespa. I

788
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,240
Speaker 3: was with the with a long piece of bread sticking

789
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:45,879
Speaker 3: out the bag.

790
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: I wish. I wish life was still a movie. I wish,

791
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:54,959
Speaker 1: but no, it's simply not. And I thought about getting

792
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 1: on Tender because I was like, oh, I probably have

793
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 1: my full anonymity in Italy. But then I'm like, that's

794
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: it seems yeah, that feels too risky as a woman

795
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: by myself. I was by myself when I thought about

796
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: getting on Tinder. I was I had like three nights

797
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: on my own in a gorgeous hotel. But I was like,

798
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable having someone come over here. I

799
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 1: don't want to and the language barrier that people. I

800
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 1: feel like it was challenging communicating sometimes. So I was like,

801
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: that doesn't feel right to me. So I was on Riya.

802
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: Riya doesn't let you choose location, but it does it

803
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: sort of adapts to where you physically are, and so

804
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,280
Speaker 1: it started showing me men in at least men throughout Europe.

805
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 1: And so I matched with a young man who was

806
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: in a city that I was going to be going

807
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: to in like four to five days, and I initiated

808
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: the conversation because I had a mission in mind, and

809
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 1: so I got a I got us all squared away

810
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 1: and set up for a meetup once I got to

811
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 1: his city. But I normally wouldn't like this is I

812
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: knew I wasn't gonna like him, like made me initiate,

813
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 1: and then even was like I said, like show me,

814
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 1: tell me what stuff to do. I'm in your city,

815
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 1: and he's like, okay, I'll tell you what stuff And

816
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: then like the next day was like, you know, i'd

817
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:09,320
Speaker 1: say i'd show you myself actually if you weren't with

818
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: your friends, and I'm like, I never said I was.

819
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: I've never told you I was with friends. In fact,

820
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 1: as I'm messaging you right now, I am alone, but

821
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,320
Speaker 1: I can leave. I'm gonna be with a friend. I

822
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,919
Speaker 1: can leave my friend. And he still didn't say okay,

823
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 1: Well then I'd love to show you. It was very

824
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 1: like the timidity of it all.

825
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 3: But baby missing it, missing it. And for me, as

826
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 3: as a woman who people do get intimidated by, it's

827
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,959
Speaker 3: like it's hot one when anybody male will female, whatever.

828
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 3: When people know what they want and they say what

829
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 3: they mean, and they mean what they like, that's attractive

830
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:44,439
Speaker 3: across the board.

831
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 4: That's what y'all say. That's what y'all say. No, no,

832
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 4: that's what I say.

833
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 2: And then when and then when a bitch does it,

834
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 2: you're like, oh, hold, you know actually I'm just like

835
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 2: nah in a place like no, I'm not I'm not ready.

836
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 3: It's just you know, I said that.

837
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: No, it's not listen. If it's someone I'm not interested.

838
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 1: I used to reward people for being assertive enough like

839
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,959
Speaker 1: to ask me out, I would be like, I would

840
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 1: never make that person feel stupid because I'm like, I

841
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 1: applaud you, please continue doing this. I want to give

842
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 1: you some positive reinforcement, even if it's not going to

843
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: be me, Even if I'm not gonna do this, like,

844
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 1: I want you to know that this is the correct thing,

845
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: and I enjoy it. A lot of people will appreciate it.

846
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 1: Do not grow timid. So I did not like the

847
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 1: way he I didn't like the way he was approaching

848
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: the whole thing. But I had a mission in mind,

849
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 1: you see, so I was I mean, I again initiated

850
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: the conversation. I ultimately was like, no, I can leave

851
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 1: my friend. And even then he didn't, you know, ask properly,

852
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 1: formally in any way to take me out, and then

853
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,879
Speaker 1: just very casual about it and in the unattractive way,

854
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: because I'm like, if it is like even if it

855
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,919
Speaker 1: is just gonna be a little Italian I'm in town

856
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 1: for two days fling, I'm like, be sexy about it. Still,

857
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 1: this is not sexy. This isn't turned me on the

858
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: way you're approaching that.

859
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 3: But you know what, but you know what makes it

860
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 3: even less sexy is we know that those men do exist.

861
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 3: Those men are out there and they're like, you know,

862
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 3: you know, I'm downstairs of the hotel with the with

863
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 3: the like.

864
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, those guys, listen, those guys are out there, and

865
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 2: they are immediately they're gonna get you a dressed and

866
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 2: then all of a sudden they're like, we're doing anal.

867
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 2: These guys, they're gonna be aggressive, and then they're gonna

868
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 2: expect it a lot.

869
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: I would do the experience up until the anal. I

870
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 1: would have liked to enjoy the experience.

871
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 3: Until you try to get me to the al.

872
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 1: I want to ride me your dress. Absolutely. I wish

873
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,839
Speaker 1: life was still a movie and he bought a dress.

874
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,720
Speaker 1: This is that I'm get on the back of my vespa.

875
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 3: This is what my friend, my friend who was in

876
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 3: Spain for a month told me. She was like, if

877
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 3: you're going you're going to Europe, get dressed, put on

878
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 3: like a long flowy thing or something right, something that

879
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 3: you feel cute in, and then just like walk to

880
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:01,320
Speaker 3: the square or what like, walk to the center of

881
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 3: the city or town or the river or whatever, and

882
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 3: the people who you looking for will find you, you know.

883
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 1: What I mean. And those people.

884
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 3: Who are going to make that move are going to

885
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 3: offer to you know, put you on the back of

886
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 3: the vest, but and give you a tour of this. Yes,

887
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 3: that's the European vacation that that we aspire to have.

888
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 4: You know who did that I think Natalie Holloway, she

889
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 4: did the same thing she did, was.

890
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,320
Speaker 1: On a school trip left. But let me tell you

891
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: what I really When I was in that hotel room

892
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 1: on my own, on my own, with this giant bed,

893
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 1: it was a beautiful setting, I thought, oh, someone should

894
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 1: come over here. But I was like, yeah, I did

895
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: think about Natalie. I said, I'm not about to be Natalie.

896
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm by myself in the middle of nowhere.

897
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: I'm having a hard time communicating with everybody. I'm like,

898
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: this is no, no, no, no no, I'm not gonna

899
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 1: get the Italian killer. So I didn't know, so I

900
00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 1: stuck to Rayah. I would have been fine within but

901
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: even but Natalie did meet someone in person. I think

902
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 1: about her anytime I go on a trip, and staff, Yeah.

903
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 3: Every time I go on a trip, I say hashtag

904
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 3: no Holloway, and I've been saying it literally since she

905
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 3: went the first time.

906
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 2: We don't want we obviously we don't want, uh you know,

907
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 2: no Holloway. But it's also like, I mean, I don't

908
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 2: I don't want to live my life in fear all

909
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:26,319
Speaker 2: the time, and I want to have these experiences where

910
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 2: I look back and be like, damn, I could have died,

911
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 2: but here I am alive.

912
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: You know, so.

913
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 2: I'm hearing all this, you know, apprehensive energy. I'm like,

914
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 2: when are you ratchet? When are you just lets down?

915
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: I let the it's it's gotta feel right. I got

916
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: it's gotta feel right. It's a spiritual thing. For me.

917
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 1: When spiritual, it's a spiritual thing.

918
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:52,439
Speaker 4: So it's after church.

919
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:58,919
Speaker 1: No, no, I didn't you go off energies or something.

920
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 1: I just was like we were exchanging on rayah. I

921
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 1: was like, this man is obsessed in a very cute,

922
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 1: endearing way with his little brother. He has one brother.

923
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 1: His brother is truly a child, like a seven year old.

924
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: And I'm like, he's harmless. So I gotten he picked

925
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: me up from my hotel. He picked me up and

926
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: we went on a date. So like people were like,

927
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: he's the brother in the car. The brother wasn't in

928
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 1: the car. The brother has a dad, so he's just

929
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 1: the brother has a dad. But they spend they spend

930
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:32,319
Speaker 1: weekends together.

931
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 4: I think.

932
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: So he picked me up in the car. That's risky.

933
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 1: That's risky to get in the car in a foreign

934
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 1: country with a man I don't know, but I caught

935
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: the vibes, first caught the vibes. I feel like on Tinder,

936
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,240
Speaker 1: you're maybe not gonna catch the vibes. I think Tinder

937
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 1: is like I don't know, I haven't been on Tender

938
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 1: since like twenty fourteen, but I'm pretty sure now it

939
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 1: is purely like it's basically a prostitution. A prostitution app

940
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 1: right without page maybe with yeah I have friends. Yeah,

941
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:01,399
Speaker 1: I have friends who are still on Tender, who are

942
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: who are enjoying themselves, but they have Yeah, let's just

943
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 1: say that because it's not my business to share.

944
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,359
Speaker 4: No, no, no, hey, we are here.

945
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 3: We're here for you.

946
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: From me. I'm from me, but I let that I

947
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 1: let the tendrils. I let the tendrils down. I let

948
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: the tendrils down. But I need to feel it out.

949
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 1: And it as a spiritual thing where I catch the

950
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 1: vibes and I say, who is this person? What do

951
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: I Am I getting killer energy? Or am I getting

952
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: regular old regular person?

953
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 3: But I feel like I feel like even the way

954
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 3: that you talk is very like And then after that,

955
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 3: I want to hear a little bit of mess is

956
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 3: a crumb of mess. Maybe you want to hear you

957
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 3: it's not necessarily something that is going to make you

958
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 3: look bad. But like a time that you had to

959
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 3: cut somebody off, a time you had to put your

960
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 3: foot down, a time that maybe you had to step

961
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 3: outside yourself and say, actually, this is not this will

962
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 3: not stand.

963
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean this is this guys, you'd have

964
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 1: you if anybody who knows me real life, spends actual

965
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 1: time with me, knows that the Baltimore does jump out.

966
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,280
Speaker 1: I try to keep her contained. I really do, because

967
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 1: I used to be cussing everybody out and I don't

968
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: want to be that an hoore. So that's what you're kids.

969
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 3: Are you cussing people about back in the day?

970
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 1: Oh, I mean you're like seventeen eighteen, nineteen twenty, you

971
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 1: just cussing everybody, Oh, every little motherfucking thing. But I

972
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: you know, as an adult in LA, I've told this

973
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 1: story before, but this is the most shameful, the most

974
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 1: shameful I've done thing I've done.

975
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 4: Cool, yeah, but we have no shame here.

976
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:40,320
Speaker 1: I was. I was riding on freaking Vine in Los Angeles,

977
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: trying to turn right onto Franklin and this woman didn't

978
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 1: move at the green light. It's rush hour traffic. I

979
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:50,799
Speaker 1: lightly tap my horn so as to alert her that, hey,

980
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:54,320
Speaker 1: the light screen we've been you've been chilling for Yeah, that,

981
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: I guess upsets this white woman. And so then she

982
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: pulls up next to me to hot day, our windows

983
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:04,760
Speaker 1: are down. She pulls up next to me, said something racist,

984
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: but I just it wasn't It wasn't the end word.

985
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 1: She didn't call me a hard r N word, but

986
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 1: she did. She just it was a little too buck

987
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: for my taste. And so I had time that day,

988
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: and so I no, I did it. But maybe we're

989
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 1: in rush hour traffic. You holding all of us up.

990
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 1: This is insane. You you do need to go ahead

991
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 1: and go through the light. So I had time. I

992
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:35,760
Speaker 1: was I had an hour and a half to kill actually,

993
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 1: because I wasn't. You weren't in a rush at all,

994
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 1: bab And I tell you, but when I tell you,

995
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,439
Speaker 1: that's that's yes. Take that yes, listen to what you're saying.

996
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 1: I wasn't in a rush. So it wasn't an aggressive

997
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: horn tap. It was literally like a hey, hey, neighbor,

998
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: the lights green. I'm not in a rush. But I

999
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: was like, hey, you've been sitting here the light screen.

1000
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 1: We are in rush hour I'm not pressed, but the

1001
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 1: light is green and you have not moved for some time.

1002
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're doing, but I don't care.

1003
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 1: It's not even that deep. So I was like, hey,

1004
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 1: light screen, that's normal. She I don't know what she's

1005
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,759
Speaker 1: mad about. And she has the wrong one. And so

1006
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: she pulls up and says something, windows are down. She

1007
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: actually has the absolutely wrong one. People people have found out.

1008
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm the wrong one. I tell you that, the wrong one.

1009
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:18,399
Speaker 4: I like that title. I'm not the one.

1010
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm the wrong one.

1011
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 4: And so.

1012
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: She pulls up and she says something but it made me.

1013
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,280
Speaker 1: I was it was a little too bucked for my taste.

1014
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: And so then I'm like, well, I have time, so

1015
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna follow this woman. And yeah yeah, And so

1016
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna follow this woman because that really

1017
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 1: just fissed me off. And I pull up to her

1018
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:46,799
Speaker 1: at a lot because she's now like trying to because

1019
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:48,839
Speaker 1: she thought she could say some slick shit and then

1020
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:50,919
Speaker 1: speed away, and I'm like, I'm a really good driver,

1021
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: also be informed. So I'm like, oh no, and I

1022
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 1: have time. I have an hour and a half to kill.

1023
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,359
Speaker 1: Actually I was about to go somewhere to just chill

1024
00:48:58,400 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 1: for an hour and a half. So I'm like cool,

1025
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: So I follow her. I wave to my improv teacher

1026
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: at one point while I'm following her, I'm on the

1027
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 1: phone too.

1028
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 4: I was like on the phone while I was driving, multitasking.

1029
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: Yes, wave see my improvs either waving my improv teacher,

1030
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:13,879
Speaker 1: talking to my friend casual ketchup. I can't remember which

1031
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: friend it was, what story they were telling me. And

1032
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 1: I go hold on because now I've pulled up next

1033
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 1: to her, and I say hold on real fast, and

1034
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 1: I want and my window is already down, and I

1035
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 1: spit in her car.

1036
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 2: No ego, cut the camera, cut the camera, dead ass,

1037
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 2: dead ass, you hawk some.

1038
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 3: Spit or it was already just what was in your mouth?

1039
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: I hawked some spit. I howked some spit at her.

1040
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 1: And I was like, and I don't know what I

1041
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 1: said to her because I do blackout and I don't

1042
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: know what I said to her. Guys, this is why

1043
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm like this. I meditate. Everyone's like, she's so neat

1044
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,800
Speaker 1: and put together, but I'm like, yes, I'm trying to

1045
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:53,839
Speaker 1: tell you I need to be centered like this, because yeah,

1046
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 1: I need to be centered like this. This is important

1047
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 1: to my whole that I need to be like this.

1048
00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:00,320
Speaker 1: It's good for my spirit. Teach us your way. I

1049
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 1: don't even want to be like that. I didn't even

1050
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 1: know the Baltimore was still in me like that. And

1051
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: and so I told my friend. Didn't even know what

1052
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:09,359
Speaker 1: what happened, because I got right back on the phone.

1053
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I'm sorry, go ahead with your story.

1054
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: And then I was like, go ahead with your story.

1055
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: And so heard the rest of my friend's story. But

1056
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm still annoyed about this lady. But yeah, I did it.

1057
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: That's not a proud moment because I remember seeing I

1058
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 1: don't know what it was. I don't know if it

1059
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 1: was the Housewives of Jersey. Maybe it was Teresa Djudice.

1060
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,800
Speaker 1: I've always thought like spitting on someone is just like

1061
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: the trashiest fucking thing.

1062
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 2: It's above it's above ratchet, it's it's it's throwing a

1063
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 2: drink is classier.

1064
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 4: I'm surprised.

1065
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: And if only if only I had an alcoholic beverage

1066
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 1: in my vehicle with me as I was as I

1067
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: was driving, so.

1068
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 3: Even like a little soa.

1069
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:57,839
Speaker 1: I don't drink soda, but I understand what you're saying.

1070
00:50:57,840 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: I do understand what you're saying.

1071
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 2: You don't wait, I don't drink you don't drink soda,

1072
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 2: no ego. You have to tell me what, like what

1073
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 2: are you putting in your body? Because you just it's

1074
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 2: giving me like cleans. You're always on a clean.

1075
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 1: Have you seen my Instagram, Sydney I candy? I eat

1076
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: candy for breakfast. You saw me eat a harborl egg

1077
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:20,840
Speaker 1: just now. But that was like on a mission. I

1078
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: was like on a mission. I just worked out, which

1079
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: is not something I've been very into. But I've tried

1080
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 1: to change my life because I do eat candy. I

1081
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 1: eat trash, but even that is quality trash. This is

1082
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 1: where they're like bougie, the bougie classy whatever is that.

1083
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 1: I eat trash, but it's like good trash.

1084
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 4: What's the good trash? What's the best candy?

1085
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 1: I like gummies. There's this little there's this grocery store,

1086
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: like a little specialty market by my place where they

1087
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: sell very like like ten dollars Swedish fish, but they're

1088
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:55,800
Speaker 1: not regular. They're like they're like naturally Swedish.

1089
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 4: Girl.

1090
00:51:58,440 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 1: Do you hate it?

1091
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:00,319
Speaker 4: Like a membership card?

1092
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:00,919
Speaker 3: At this place.

1093
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 1: You know, you don't even remember anybody. Go walk in

1094
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 1: and get these these Swedish fish? How do you put

1095
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 1: me onto them? Because she she knows I like nice shit,

1096
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 1: but she knows I like candy. I like trash. I

1097
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 1: will eat candy for breakfast, lunch, dinner. By dinner, I

1098
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: will need a real meal. But no, no, I'm not.

1099
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 1: I do think there is this misconception that I am

1100
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:21,840
Speaker 1: so so put together. It's so classy and have it?

1101
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 4: Are you?

1102
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. I appreciate it. I love it.

1103
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 2: You went to Italy, and you went to Italy and

1104
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 2: you only posted food, Like I said, is she on

1105
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 2: her Anthony Boordaine shit?

1106
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:35,880
Speaker 3: Like, let's go.

1107
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: That's all I wanted to do. That's all, like I

1108
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: had said when I got to Italy. Before I got there,

1109
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 1: I was like, my plan is just to eat food.

1110
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: I'm very passionate about food. I don't cook a lot

1111
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: of it. I like cooking, but I don't cook a

1112
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: lot of food. But I really like eating good food.

1113
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 1: I like quality shit. That's the thing. I like quality shit.

1114
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 1: That's all. I like nice shit.

1115
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:56,719
Speaker 3: Now I feel like we usually do this at the

1116
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 3: beginning of the episode. But you gotta tell us about

1117
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 3: your like family background. Is your mother like a teacher?

1118
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:08,839
Speaker 3: Is your sister classy? Like how are you the way

1119
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 3: that you are?

1120
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: Yes?

1121
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 3: The family, especially from Baltimore, Balmore, what's the family tree given?

1122
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: I mean, my mom is a doctor, but we actually

1123
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 1: didn't grow up. She became a doctor when I was

1124
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: like nine years old. She graduated medical school. She went

1125
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 1: to medical school with four kids. She's a single mom.

1126
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: So how am I like this? I don't fucking know.

1127
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:31,799
Speaker 1: I feel like it's in your DNA, Like I don't

1128
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:34,240
Speaker 1: think my mom and I are similar in this regard,

1129
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:39,280
Speaker 1: Like she's a lot more. She she doesn't skimp on comfort,

1130
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: which is interesting, but it's but she's not gonna spend

1131
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: crazy money on her clothes, on a handbag that's not her.

1132
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 1: But she doesn't skimp on comfort. So I did get that.

1133
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 1: We don't pinch. We don't pen any pinch on comfort,

1134
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 1: even if you don't really have it, Like, but it's

1135
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: not to flex, it's for her own experience. So I

1136
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:57,320
Speaker 1: think I got that from her. But otherwise i'd like,

1137
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 1: I think I don't know somewhere in my blood, but

1138
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 1: I couldn't tell you where I couldn't tell you where

1139
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:04,800
Speaker 1: it came from. I don't. I mean, I don't know.

1140
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 1: My sister's not like this, my brother is not like this.

1141
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I just I just watch your Instagram and

1142
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 2: like everything that you post, it's just it's like very curated.

1143
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 4: You're not you're not You're not getting known there and

1144
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 4: just talking ship.

1145
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:22,800
Speaker 1: Just have you seen me in Bowen's lives?

1146
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:28,919
Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, yes, we love all that King King, king,

1147
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 3: king King.

1148
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:32,919
Speaker 2: But even even when you you and Bowen just talking ship,

1149
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 2: it's still like distinguished ship.

1150
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 1: You know. I love that you think that, and that

1151
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 1: means my mission, my work is my work. I want

1152
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 1: to be a person whose private life stays private. Like

1153
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 1: I I this is a decision I made. I'm like,

1154
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 1: what kind of what kind of actor do I want

1155
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 1: to be? I'm like, I want to be a person

1156
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,800
Speaker 1: who's private life. Like I'm not gonna if I have

1157
00:54:53,920 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 1: a man, he's probably not gonna be on my Instagram. Absolutely, yes,

1158
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: uh huh, Absolutely that's what I'm trying to do. Like

1159
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 1: that's I don't pop up married, yeah, pop up married.

1160
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:11,239
Speaker 1: I don't want hundreds of thousands of people's opinions or uh,

1161
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:15,440
Speaker 1: input or thoughts on or or all being in my

1162
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 1: business in that way. I don't like, Like we said

1163
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: at the top, I don't know these people. I'm grateful

1164
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:24,399
Speaker 1: they enjoy what I do share, but I don't know them.

1165
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 3: But the thing about that is the thing about that

1166
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 3: is this, there are people who will post every single

1167
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:33,960
Speaker 3: step of a relationship.

1168
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:37,279
Speaker 4: Literally that we we know the meeting, literally, the first.

1169
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 3: Date, we know, we know she spent the night, we

1170
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:43,800
Speaker 3: know what the dick got a curve, we know everything.

1171
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 3: And then we know that he cheated and had a

1172
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 3: seper family the whole time. Like and it's like, now

1173
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 3: you gotta go, and you got an archive post, got

1174
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,400
Speaker 3: to delete the art. That feels like too much, It

1175
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 3: feels like too much work to do all that. I'd

1176
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 3: rather talk about the people that I date through memes

1177
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 3: and you know, like jokes in the live. But I

1178
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 3: don't see a reason why you need to be on

1179
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 3: my page if there's not a ring on my finger.

1180
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 1: Basically that's how I feel. I'm like, this is I'm

1181
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 1: dating you are we are still in a dating phase.

1182
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: There's no reason for you to be on my page.

1183
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 1: I don't mean because we could, we could break up

1184
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 1: tomorrow and then.

1185
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 3: And a great poet Cardi B said, Uh, ain't no

1186
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 3: ring on my finger, you ain't going on my gram.

1187
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1188
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 3: And even if, like I mean, offset be disrespecting her

1189
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:33,320
Speaker 3: with the rings, she's.

1190
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 4: Still she'd still find time for him. I mean, I

1191
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:40,320
Speaker 4: agree with all of this. I mean, you know, obviously

1192
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:40,840
Speaker 4: I am.

1193
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 2: I'm currently in a relation, and you know, I try

1194
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 2: to I try to keep it as cute as possible,

1195
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 2: but I'm just like, we are just like too beautiful,

1196
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 2: and I don't think there's enough lesbian representation on the GRAM.

1197
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:57,879
Speaker 2: So I have to do my due diligence here and there,

1198
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 2: just pop a cute photo of us. You know, we

1199
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 2: nothing crazy, you know, Bam, we out here and that's it.

1200
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 2: But I understand, I understand the girls.

1201
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:12,240
Speaker 1: That's like, that's all it is. I'm trying to continue

1202
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 1: booking this work. I'm trying to continue to uh have

1203
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: a real life off outside of the Internet. I don't,

1204
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:23,440
Speaker 1: I know, we are in the age of the Internet.

1205
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: But again, you know your girl likes phone calls, right,

1206
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 1: So I just I'm not necessarily like my life is

1207
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 1: on the GRAM person. No one in my family has

1208
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 1: social media. Yeah, and so full personality as far as

1209
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 1: that goes, Yeah, you have to come kick it with me, like, yeah,

1210
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: I'm probably not given.

1211
00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 3: The go ahead and drop the.

1212
00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 1: Yeah this week okay, okay, okay, I won't be here.

1213
00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be I'm gonna be out of town. Okay,

1214
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 1: all right, And it's true, that's true. It's true. Great,

1215
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:56,840
Speaker 1: you're going back to the KKK upstairs honks.

1216
00:57:57,080 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 4: No, she's she's going back on her European tour.

1217
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 1: I wish I want to go back. I want to

1218
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: go back immediately because now I'm like, I know what

1219
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 1: to do, I know where to eat, I know what

1220
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 1: to I know how it moved differently too.

1221
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:10,640
Speaker 3: But I want to go to I want to go

1222
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 3: back to Europe. I did a Eat prey Ho trip

1223
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 3: a couple of years ago, and I want to go

1224
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 3: back and do a part two of that. Where did

1225
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 3: you hire Europe for a full month? Every country that

1226
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 3: I went to, Paris, Asterdam, Switzerland, Well, I was in Switzerland, Okay,

1227
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 3: London and Lyon. So the goal is to go back.

1228
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 3: I want to go to Berlin. I want to go

1229
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 3: back to London.

1230
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, we gotta do, we gotta do.

1231
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 3: I feel like if I'm doing Italy, I want to

1232
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:46,200
Speaker 3: be with an Italian friend just so they can, like,

1233
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 3: you know, take me to the spots that I need

1234
00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 3: to go to and also translate for me.

1235
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:53,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, we need to be with Mateo for sure.

1236
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's a good call. If you have someone

1237
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 1: to translate Italian for you, very very important and very helpful,

1238
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 1: I would say. Yeah. So, guys, it's a balance. It's

1239
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 1: just a balancing act. Little boogie, little ratchet.

1240
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes you're very well rounded, and obviously you know I don't.

1241
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 2: I don't get to like hang out with you enough

1242
00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 2: because you don't be out of here in the streets

1243
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:17,640
Speaker 2: as much.

1244
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 1: But we've been in a pandemic. I feel like I

1245
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 1: moved to New York merely got my footing, and it

1246
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 1: was like, and it's a pandemic, and so I was

1247
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: ready to be outside truly as this was starting, I

1248
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I understand, I know I'm gonna be

1249
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 1: at But then the pandemic hit and it kept me

1250
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 1: in the house. And now it's been hard for me

1251
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: to really get out of the house because now I'm like, well,

1252
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 1: this is what I do. I'm in the house now,

1253
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 1: so I'm trying. I'm trying to get out of that.

1254
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 3: But we did get to see you briefly at Bowen's house.

1255
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 4: Yes, we did.

1256
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 3: That was so brief.

1257
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 1: It was nice. I forgot that that happened. Yes, yes,

1258
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: that was very nice. No, it was too brief, it

1259
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:58,040
Speaker 1: was it was like it was, it was too brief,

1260
00:59:58,200 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: like that whole I feel like I was there for

1261
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 1: two and out.

1262
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 2: But I think we should have a classy bougie ratchet

1263
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 2: meet up, you know, getting some of our classiest boos,

1264
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 2: bougiest and ratchets together and just have like a like

1265
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 2: a cute little gathering.

1266
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 3: In my mind, it's a dinner, yes, you know, dinner

1267
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 3: that none of us are cooking, but a dinner. Yeah, yes,

1268
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:24,760
Speaker 3: I would love that for us. Like I'm always looking

1269
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 3: for an excuse to get dressed cute and eat good

1270
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 3: food and be around people who make me laugh.

1271
01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: So okay, so we're going to do that happen. We're

1272
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 1: going to do it when I'm back. Let's do it.

1273
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: Everyone's in town, okay, Okay, we'll do it.

1274
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 3: Let's do it.

1275
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 2: Okay, and now we this is where we get like,

1276
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 2: you know, we're not tests, but we get some tips.

1277
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 2: If say, for instance, you want to go out on

1278
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 2: the town. You know, name like four things that you're

1279
01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 2: going to need or maybe a place that you need

1280
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 2: to go to in order for us to have like

1281
01:00:55,920 --> 01:01:00,200
Speaker 2: a good time with you up to your standard thing

1282
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 2: is no so no, no, no, just answer the question, bab.

1283
01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 1: Sydney, Sydney, No no, I know I need these things

1284
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: to have a good time. I could be outside with you, guys,

1285
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 1: I would have a good time. That is not just

1286
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 1: me saying that to make you feel nice or sound polite,

1287
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 1: like I'm really not as high maintenance, but I'm like,

1288
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 1: if we're gonna do something, we should do good ship.

1289
01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 1: I like good food, I like cute cocktails. I like

1290
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:35,000
Speaker 1: warm weather, and I like for everyone to be dressed

1291
01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:37,640
Speaker 1: cute if we're going to them.

1292
01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 3: Some groups have that one friend. Yeah that's the fashions

1293
01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:43,960
Speaker 3: is not and.

1294
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 2: That friend is the one that's gonna take the picture

1295
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 2: of everybody. But you're having your steak?

1296
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 4: How are you having it? What's the temperature?

1297
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:59,959
Speaker 1: I graduated to medium recently, gradue what were you before?

1298
01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 1: I was medium? Well?

1299
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 3: And before that, yes, that's well done.

1300
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 1: My ass was well done.

1301
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 3: Yeah right, Yeah, that's definitely the black lady in you

1302
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 3: Because I was talking to my mom today about steak

1303
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:16,000
Speaker 3: and she was like because I was like, oh, I

1304
01:02:16,080 --> 01:02:18,120
Speaker 3: went to this, I went on this date the other day.

1305
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:20,760
Speaker 3: They were grilling steak and my mom was like, did

1306
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 3: they cut it up and marinate it? And I said

1307
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 3: that's not how you fix it. I said you, I

1308
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 3: said you, it would be too dry.

1309
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 1: Like did they cut it marinated?

1310
01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 3: Girl? I said, they can hit it with some salt, pepper,

1311
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:34,919
Speaker 3: grilled it whole.

1312
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,920
Speaker 1: And then oh, my mom is like cook everything all

1313
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 1: the way through. If I make a spaghetti with ground turkey,

1314
01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 1: She's like, but did you boil the ground turkey before

1315
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: you put it in the pan with the No? No, no, no,

1316
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:51,720
Speaker 1: I didn't, No, I did not. I'm like, I don't

1317
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 1: do that. She's the one who had me on well

1318
01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:55,560
Speaker 1: done steaks. And then I and I got grown and

1319
01:02:55,640 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, medium, well, and now I'm like, well,

1320
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 1: and if it's a good steak, oh excuse me. Now,

1321
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 1: I'm like medium. But if it's a good steak, a

1322
01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:07,439
Speaker 1: good steak, medium is wonderful. That's I'm I'm not going

1323
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 1: more red than that. I'm not doing that.

1324
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 3: I went on I went on a date with this guy.

1325
01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 3: We went to habachi and I heard him multiple times

1326
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 3: tell the dude that the little chef that was making

1327
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 3: the little volcanoes with the onions. I heard him say,

1328
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 3: I want my food well, to cook it hard, yeah, listening.

1329
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 3: I was listening and tried to give it to him,

1330
01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 3: and he was like, no, no longer, and I was

1331
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 3: like everybody else then got.

1332
01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:39,720
Speaker 1: Their food already.

1333
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 4: It's embarrassing. It's embarrassing.

1334
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,840
Speaker 3: This man's shift is done now and you still got

1335
01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 3: him burning this meat.

1336
01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 1: It was And did you see him another time?

1337
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:53,440
Speaker 3: I did. I saw him for like a whole year

1338
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 3: after that.

1339
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 4: Nothing nothing wrong with that, Marie. We've all been there.

1340
01:03:58,960 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, we had a good time.

1341
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:02,920
Speaker 2: My last question, if you if you have wings right,

1342
01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 2: are you using blue cheese or ranch?

1343
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: Okay? I thought you were gonna ask me flats or drums? Okay,

1344
01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:10,959
Speaker 1: but but you can. You can answer both. Blue cheese.

1345
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go blue cheese, even though I don't like

1346
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 1: blue cheese, but I do like blue cheese. Sauce the

1347
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 1: different sauce, yes, okay. Flats or drums, I'm gonna say drums.

1348
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 4: I don't, I don't.

1349
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 1: I don't get the flats.

1350
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 3: I like both, and I didn't realize that this was

1351
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 3: something that people like, like really debated about flats only

1352
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 3: for me.

1353
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 4: And it's like, but lats are ratchet flat flatch, ratchett Maria.

1354
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 1: But honestly, so many people would. I'm surprised I have

1355
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 1: anybody in agreement with me right now, because I feel

1356
01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 1: like most people tell me flats, it's flats, it's flats,

1357
01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:52,680
Speaker 1: it's flats, and I don't understand that. I don't get

1358
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 1: it flat.

1359
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:55,240
Speaker 4: I got to break it apart. I got to stuff

1360
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 4: off the liament.

1361
01:04:58,400 --> 01:04:58,520
Speaker 3: Off.

1362
01:04:58,560 --> 01:04:58,880
Speaker 1: Don't do that.

1363
01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 4: Hold on, I'm not.

1364
01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:04,480
Speaker 2: Putting my business out there no more, Maurice, So you

1365
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 2: don't need to be talking about what I'm wait.

1366
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 3: Wait, wait, I have a question before we go, and

1367
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 3: I can't believe we did not ask this. Okay, you're

1368
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 3: in a relationship with somebody or your friends, whatever. The

1369
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:19,920
Speaker 3: relationship is, a friend relationship, a romantic relationship. They wrong

1370
01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 3: you in some way, How are you extracting your revenge

1371
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 3: on that person.

1372
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:29,160
Speaker 1: You're not gonna like this answer because it's not juicy.

1373
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:34,440
Speaker 1: It's not juicy. I don't no, I don't even do

1374
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 1: it's not even that I don't do revenge. This is

1375
01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:39,040
Speaker 1: the spiritual zen of me. I'm not kidding. I don't

1376
01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:41,920
Speaker 1: do revenge. Revenge will find you. Like that's that will

1377
01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 1: sort itself out. That'll sort itself out. It always does.

1378
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:48,880
Speaker 1: And so it's not it's not a juicy pulling up.

1379
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 1: You not pulling up. I've never been like, I'm okay.

1380
01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 1: So even when the story is about like a woman

1381
01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 1: popping out up at a man's house who's wrong turn

1382
01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 1: slashing his tires, I've never been in it so deep

1383
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:04,439
Speaker 1: with anybody that I feel the need to like pull

1384
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:07,600
Speaker 1: up and and and really exact revenge in that way.

1385
01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm cool on you, and the revenge

1386
01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:12,080
Speaker 1: is I'm not in your life anymore. Take care and

1387
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 1: and the rest will sort itself out. I've seen many

1388
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 1: of people crumble when I just fall back. But that's

1389
01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 1: so that is the class I suppose. But I'm like,

1390
01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 1: anybody got time for that. I'm not worried about revenge.

1391
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:23,080
Speaker 1: It always works.

1392
01:06:23,120 --> 01:06:25,800
Speaker 3: Okay, So we're not talking about revenge, you're quitting it.

1393
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:28,360
Speaker 3: What's the worst way you've ever quit a job? How

1394
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 3: about that We've all had jobs that we right or

1395
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 3: the messiest way or the most random way, like I've

1396
01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:37,280
Speaker 3: quit job. Like the way I used to quit my

1397
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:39,120
Speaker 3: jobs is I would be walking out on a Tuesday

1398
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 3: and I'd be like, I'm not coming back tomorrow, and

1399
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 3: then I just wouldn't come back, or I would fake

1400
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 3: I would fake moving. Oh, I'm moving to Canada.

1401
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:48,960
Speaker 1: I can't work here.

1402
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:49,439
Speaker 2: No more.

1403
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:52,960
Speaker 3: Candles burning.

1404
01:06:54,280 --> 01:06:55,840
Speaker 1: Candles burning into the house, and I can't come back

1405
01:06:55,880 --> 01:07:00,040
Speaker 1: to work ever again. Man, hm, I don't think I

1406
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 1: have to get have the messiest way I've had to

1407
01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 1: quit a person. I mean, this shit's not interesting, Like

1408
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:07,680
Speaker 1: I don't have When I told you, bitches, I don't

1409
01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 1: have business, I'm like, I don't have business.

1410
01:07:10,440 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 3: Oh, bitches, really really give it to us.

1411
01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 1: Ego, No, I literally don't have business. I'm even quitting

1412
01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:24,480
Speaker 1: a job. I'm like, I've never I've never I'm doing

1413
01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 1: the two weeks, but I've also never had a like this.

1414
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 1: When I was fourteen, I worked at a retirement home.

1415
01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: This is so not interesting. I was like, I'm about

1416
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:34,120
Speaker 1: to be class president and I can't do this job anymore.

1417
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:35,640
Speaker 1: But that was but so I was like, today's my

1418
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,800
Speaker 1: last day, like class president in ninth grade, like, that's

1419
01:07:38,880 --> 01:07:40,680
Speaker 1: not going to keep me from doing the job. But

1420
01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 1: that was otherwise. I didn't really have too many jobs.

1421
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:46,040
Speaker 1: I hated I've had many a job.

1422
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:47,960
Speaker 3: Were you class president?

1423
01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 1: I was? That was the truth, but it wasn't. But

1424
01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:52,400
Speaker 1: it wasn't true that it was going to have any responsibility.

1425
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to have so much responsibility that I

1426
01:07:54,360 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 1: couldn't have my evening, part time occasional job.

1427
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 3: So, m all right, I hear what you're saying. Yes, yes,

1428
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 3: the streets are listening. We'll we'll reconvene with the mess

1429
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 3: at a later time.

1430
01:08:07,240 --> 01:08:09,479
Speaker 1: Goodness, I'm trying to tell you, guys, there's not there's

1431
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:10,760
Speaker 1: really nothing interesting.

1432
01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:15,920
Speaker 4: We're winky winky face. We're sending you the emojis ego you.

1433
01:08:16,400 --> 01:08:20,479
Speaker 2: Honestly, I think you are one of the classiest ladies

1434
01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:24,640
Speaker 2: in the industry, and I think I'm so glad that

1435
01:08:25,160 --> 01:08:27,960
Speaker 2: eventually we'll go out and get the Baltimore and you.

1436
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:31,120
Speaker 4: Out in the streets hopefully.

1437
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:37,559
Speaker 1: And when somebody tries me is all is this only

1438
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:38,360
Speaker 1: comes out when.

1439
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:41,120
Speaker 3: I'm tried, only comes out when you're driving and you

1440
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 3: have an hour and a half to kid Absolutely, And

1441
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 3: she tried me, I.

1442
01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:48,160
Speaker 1: Thought, Oh you think you can say some sliction and

1443
01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:51,840
Speaker 1: drive away. Watch this. You will be sped on in

1444
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 1: just a moment's time anyway, Thank you for having me.

1445
01:08:56,760 --> 01:08:59,919
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, babe. Can you unplug you know, your install

1446
01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:02,799
Speaker 4: your Twitter where we can catch.

1447
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:04,560
Speaker 3: You, let people know what you got going on?

1448
01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 1: Yes, moving forward, Yeah you can. I'll be I'll be

1449
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:14,560
Speaker 1: in the next season of Love Life on HBO, so

1450
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 1: catching on HBO Max. I think it's whatever anyway, and

1451
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 1: whenever that comes out, I think it's coming out in

1452
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 1: the fall. Saturday Night Live coming back in the fall

1453
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:29,000
Speaker 1: as well, And you can catch me on Instagram and Twitter.

1454
01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:33,599
Speaker 1: Instagram is Eggie Boom. Twitter is Eggy Underscore Boom because

1455
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:37,320
Speaker 1: an Esther Wilson has the handle that I need on Twitter.

1456
01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:39,519
Speaker 1: But I will never pay her, and I do say

1457
01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:42,400
Speaker 1: that on every podcast, so she knows I'm not pressed

1458
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:49,679
Speaker 1: enough to pay yester Her and her seven followers, Esther Wilson.

1459
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 1: Esther's probably like Esther's probably like not a young person

1460
01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:56,400
Speaker 1: who like once got Twitter back and whatever and and

1461
01:09:56,600 --> 01:09:58,880
Speaker 1: just is holding onto the handle, especially now that she

1462
01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:02,680
Speaker 1: knows some one half wants it. But I'm not pressed enough.

1463
01:10:02,720 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 1: But anyway, it's an underscore between the Eggy and the

1464
01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:07,360
Speaker 1: boom on Twitter. But that's that's where you can find

1465
01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:12,000
Speaker 1: me being classy and minimally ratchet ratchet.

1466
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:15,360
Speaker 3: Okay, well, thank you for being here, you know, and

1467
01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:18,600
Speaker 3: and chatting with us. Sidney. Is there anything that you

1468
01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 3: feel like we missed, Andrew? Is there anything that you

1469
01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 3: feel like we missed?

1470
01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 2: The only thing we miss is your phone numbers, So

1471
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:29,439
Speaker 2: put that in the chat and I'll definitely I'll email you.

1472
01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 4: Or I'll catch you on the app, you know, and

1473
01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:32,719
Speaker 4: I'll catch you on the app, says.

1474
01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:38,280
Speaker 1: Catch me app, because unless you're gonna call or FaceTime,

1475
01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:40,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't get teed.

1476
01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:44,760
Speaker 3: Sidney is queen of FaceTime. Oh good, okay, okay, well

1477
01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:46,040
Speaker 3: that's Sydney's queen.

1478
01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 4: That's something.

1479
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:49,160
Speaker 1: Well that's something.

1480
01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 4: I'm gonna FaceTime you on Instagram, girl, You're gonna.

1481
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:53,960
Speaker 1: Catch it doesn't let me. I'll be trying to FaceTime

1482
01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 1: my friends on Instagram and it doesn't let me now,

1483
01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:57,920
Speaker 1: and I don't know why it won't Why my.

1484
01:10:58,080 --> 01:10:59,720
Speaker 3: Face because it closes down after thirty.

1485
01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 1: No, it literally isn't even an option. Is that what happens?

1486
01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:04,800
Speaker 1: It's faulty too. It doesn't even it's not even an

1487
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:07,840
Speaker 1: option for me to FaceTime anymore. Anyway, I want it.

1488
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 1: We'll hang out. We'll hang out, yes, later this coming month.

1489
01:11:11,560 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 1: Let's do it. Let's play in an evening out, Let's

1490
01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:16,280
Speaker 1: do it. Thanks boo, okay, thank you for having me.

1491
01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:20,960
Speaker 2: Thanks guys, and definitely, you know, get on the good

1492
01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:25,160
Speaker 2: old iTunes rate, subscribe, review all those good things, leave

1493
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,680
Speaker 2: us like the comments and tell friends.

1494
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 4: About you know, the Unofficial Expert.

1495
01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:30,200
Speaker 1: Thanks so much.

1496
01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:32,160
Speaker 3: Come see us, love and wear your good clothes.

1497
01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:34,280
Speaker 4: Bye bye, Forever.

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