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Speaker 1: Second Date Updated.

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Speaker 2: We get a lot of people on this segment who

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Speaker 2: tell us I've heard.

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Speaker 1: You do these before.

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Speaker 2: I never thought i'd actually be calling in for a

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Speaker 2: second date update myself.

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Speaker 3: It probably does feel like some sort of out of

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Speaker 3: body experience.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but they'll admit they'll say like, I'm a huge

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Speaker 2: fan and I've heard all the previous calls, and Jeff

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Speaker 2: are even more handsome than you sound on the radio.

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Speaker 3: We don't get that comment.

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Speaker 1: A lot of that stuff, but not today.

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Speaker 2: Today's caller was very honest in his email, admitting he's

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Speaker 2: not a fan. Oh, in fact, never really listened to

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Speaker 2: our show before.

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Speaker 3: Why are we let?

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Speaker 1: Other people in his social.

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Speaker 2: Circle, though, encouraged him to reach out for help with

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Speaker 2: his dating life, so he thought he'd give it a try.

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Speaker 1: Okay, his name is Chris. Chris.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you realize what you're getting yourself

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Speaker 2: into here, man, but.

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Speaker 3: I was just thinking Jeff his friends must be idiots. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: or setting him up is a big inside joke.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you have idiot friends? Chris?

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Speaker 4: I don't think so.

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Speaker 5: Okay, don't listen to the show.

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Speaker 2: Yes, since you haven't heard how we do these, we'll

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Speaker 2: just start off by asking, what's the name of the

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Speaker 2: lucky lady that you're wanting us to call today?

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Speaker 1: Bella?

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Speaker 2: Okay, beautiful, yes, Italian beautiful.

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Speaker 1: So how did you meet Bella online? You know?

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Speaker 3: Set? Are you interested in Bella's like right now? And

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Speaker 3: maybe it's just because you're nervous, like you've never heard

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Speaker 3: the show? Emotions are real low?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, she's She's really nice and pretty.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, Brooks.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes guys are more of like internal joy feelers rather

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Speaker 2: than like showing all of their emotions on the outside

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Speaker 2: and crying at every opportunity like some of us do.

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Speaker 1: So it's why I asked the questions.

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Speaker 2: That's good to ask. So tell us what did you

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Speaker 2: and Bella do for a date?

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Speaker 4: Well, we went to this Mexican restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay?

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Speaker 3: And what was the moment like when you first sorry

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Speaker 3: each other in person? Hold on nothing, okay.

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Speaker 1: Hold on? What do we air this part? Are you there?

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Speaker 5: Chris?

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Speaker 1: It was very sweet, It was very sweet.

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Speaker 3: Are we interrupting something right now?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: No, you have my full attention.

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Speaker 2: You did ask us to just wait for a second

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Speaker 2: while you did something. Let's keep going. Tell us about

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Speaker 2: how dinner went at the Mexican like the connection or

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Speaker 2: if that's what you did, Like, we just want to

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Speaker 2: learn more about your date?

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Speaker 4: Man, what do you mean that's what I did?

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Speaker 1: Did you? We just called it?

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Speaker 3: Pretend like you're talking to your friends and they're wanting

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Speaker 3: to recap of your night, Like, yeah, what did you

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Speaker 1: What were the highlights? Tacos? We kissed, we went on.

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Speaker 4: A walk, like I had a cheesecake dia.

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Speaker 1: Okay, did you order for the kids?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: It was it was a full sized one?

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Speaker 1: Okay, good. Nice. What did you two talk about?

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Speaker 4: We talked about, you know, like pop culture and like

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you're big into pop culture.

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Speaker 2: No, but the topic did come up and I had

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Speaker 1: So did you feel like it was a natural flow

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Speaker 4: I think so?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Chris, who are you talking?

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Speaker 5: It was pretty good?

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Speaker 1: Sorry?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 1: Who are you talking to in between this?

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Speaker 4: Oh? My mom's here with me?

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Speaker 1: Oh hi mom? Why why are you talking to your

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Speaker 4: Well, she is a big fan of the show. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: she sent the email for me.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, she did it.

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Speaker 3: For you.

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Speaker 1: What a nice kay?

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Speaker 3: I like, my mom does my stuff for me too.

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Speaker 1: That's good my appointment. Okay, I'm I've forgotten what we

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Speaker 1: were asking. Well, can we get to like how it ended?

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Speaker 1: Was there any romance like a kiss or a hug,

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Speaker 1: There you go.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, when I went to the bathroom and came back,

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Speaker 4: they were chatting it up like crazy. They really they

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Speaker 3: Off to Wait, who's they Chris, mom?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my mom was on the day with list.

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Speaker 3: Oh did you tell Bella before you showed up to

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Speaker 1: Oh, Chris, problem? So Chris, this is absolutely.

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Speaker 3: The reason that Bella isn't calling you back?

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Speaker 4: You think so?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, No one wants to date somebody's mom.

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Speaker 1: Chris.

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Speaker 2: What's the reason that you brought your mom along with

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Speaker 2: you on the date?

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Speaker 4: To keep me safe from any bad women?

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Speaker 1: Bad women? Mom's right there, that's true. I don't want

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Speaker 1: But still, can you paint that picture like, what is

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Speaker 4: My mom does like Bella, she's good. She says that

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Speaker 4: she doesn't dress saily.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's good. Wow, sounds like it's a rare.

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Speaker 3: Thing for them to tell your mom she shouldn't comment

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Speaker 3: on women's clothes.

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Speaker 5: She thinks.

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Speaker 1: She says, he's dressed really nicely. That's all she said.

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Speaker 2: He could have interpreted it differently. Let's give him a

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Speaker 2: little bit of grace here. His mom is standing over

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Speaker 2: So a lot of nerves here, a lot of pressure.

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Speaker 3: Does your mom come along with everything for you? Like

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Speaker 3: if if someone is to date you, is it always

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Speaker 3: a package deal?

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Speaker 4: I mean yeah, unless she said otherwise?

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Speaker 3: Unless who says otherwise my mom?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I think we know you're an adult, right,

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Speaker 1: I'm thirty two, thirty two.

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Speaker 3: This is gonna be a little complicated.

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Speaker 1: Maybe let's just fast forward to calling Bella here.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I've going to be so surprised on her answer

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Speaker 3: of why she's not calling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we will.

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Speaker 2: Mom is probably gonna be the most surprised if anything,

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Speaker 2: So make sure you put it on speaker when we

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Speaker 2: dial up Bella and try and get you your very

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Speaker 2: first radio experience on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: This is a big deal, dude, like super.

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Speaker 2: So are we We're gonna do it right after this

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Speaker 2: Hold on second Date update. If you're just joining us,

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Speaker 2: this is pretty exciting because in a way, we're doing

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Speaker 2: our very first three.

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Speaker 1: Way second Date update. The three people being.

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Speaker 2: Our caller Chris to his date Bella, and the third

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Speaker 2: is Chris's mom.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, you cannot say, Chris, mom was sexy music

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Speaker 1: Reading this sexy music. Okay, that's your own brain interpreting.

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Speaker 2: But chriss mom not only tagged along on their dinner date,

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Speaker 2: but it's actually with Chris right now next to him,

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Speaker 1: But it is nice.

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Speaker 2: It's nice to have a wing woman there, able to

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Speaker 2: do ride or die with you, be your support system.

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Speaker 3: What was her reaction? We never asked when she got

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Speaker 5: I think she was fine with it for the same question.

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Speaker 2: Clearly Chris and his mother don't believe that's the reason why.

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Speaker 2: So Chris, what's your mom's guess for why Bella's acting

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Speaker 6: Oh on, hold on?

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Speaker 1: Is he like sitting on her lafe? Hold on, God,

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Speaker 1: she's writing something. She's writing the answers.

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Speaker 2: You tell her to write a little bit faster because

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Speaker 2: we are on a time limit for the sudden.

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Speaker 5: Just give her a minute.

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Speaker 4: So we are cat people, and she might be more

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Speaker 1: That could be a thing.

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Speaker 3: The good news is we're about to find out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well hopefully, because that's if she picks up the phone,

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Speaker 2: because we're going to dial her number right now. I'm

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Speaker 2: praying that Bella has really good news for us. This

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Chris, Chris what I'm going to dial it right now.

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Speaker 1: Let's see if she picks up. Hello, Hey, is this Bella?

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Speaker 5: Yes, she's speaking.

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Speaker 2: Hey, you're speaking to a whole morning show called Brook

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Speaker 2: and Jeffrey in the morning. Good morning, you're on the

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Speaker 2: radio right now. Hi, beautiful, I always say, because it's

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Speaker 2: your name, get it, Bella. So the reason that we're

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Speaker 2: reaching out to you, Bella is we're doing a segment.

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Speaker 1: It's called a second Date Update. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: you're familiar with that.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, no.

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Speaker 1: Don't be afraid.

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Speaker 2: It's a good thing, because a guy named Chris has

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Speaker 2: reached out to our show asking us if we could

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Speaker 2: get a hold of you.

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Speaker 5: Oh, oh, of course he did.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, what do you mean.

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Speaker 3: Do you mean because he's getting help?

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Speaker 5: It just makes a lot of sense.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it definitely.

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Speaker 2: When we heard from Chris, it sounded like you two

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Speaker 2: went on a very unique date.

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Speaker 5: Uh. Yes, that's a nice way to put it. So

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Speaker 5: the record, both him and his mom have been texting me.

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Speaker 1: We did hear that the mom was there.

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Speaker 3: I would love to hear your description of showing up

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Speaker 3: to the Vaxican restaurant.

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Speaker 5: So it started off with just me and him at

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Speaker 5: a table.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it did start with just you and him. His

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Speaker 3: mom wasn't there immediately.

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Speaker 5: Well, she kept coming up to the table.

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Speaker 6: I thought she was like a server or like a

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Speaker 6: buzzer or someone, because she kept coming up and like

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Speaker 3: That is so strange, Like, I just I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just thought that he was more upfront with the

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Speaker 3: whole thing. I know, he didn't tell you before the date.

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Speaker 5: But my read on it is that he was a

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Speaker 5: little bit awkward, somewhat nervous, and just genuinely wasn't sure

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Speaker 5: how to introduce her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, maybe he's a person who needs help

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Speaker 3: in social situations.

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Speaker 2: Like that, and it's nice of you to give him

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Speaker 5: He was pretty quiet the whole time, and his mom

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Speaker 3: So do you think, I mean, do you think it

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Speaker 5: She should have been there in my opinion. You know,

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Speaker 5: he's thirty two, and I think it's time that he

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Speaker 5: but it was just too awkward.

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Speaker 1: I could see what you're saying there.

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Speaker 2: But have you ever considered that maybe Chris is such

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Speaker 3: Jeff is saying this because he has a mom a

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Speaker 1: Man, Yes, some of our mothers love us.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe that's used as something that people hold

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Speaker 3: To Jeff's moll would love to go on dates with him.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not talking about Jeff's mom.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about Chris's mom and actually Chris himself, who

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Speaker 5: Oh, oh my god, Oh Hi, why are you doing this?

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Speaker 4: Oh it was my mom's idea.

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Speaker 1: No, she does listen to our show, so I.

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Speaker 4: Don't realize you are uncomfortable.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, none more uncomfortable than right now.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if it makes you feel better. My mom is

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Speaker 5: Of you, so that's not going to help.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of a nice compliment to give to you.

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Speaker 5: Oh well, thank you for that, But I would really

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Speaker 3: So well said yeah, I mean, are you hearing her

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Speaker 1: It's a good opportunity, Chris to speak from the.

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Speaker 4: Heart yeah, I agree with my mom.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh, okay, they're on the same page. They both

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Speaker 5: Chris, can I just ask you what was up with

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well we do that every time. We don't want

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Speaker 1: Oh you do this a lot with your mom? Oh,

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Speaker 4: But the few dates said, I do get.

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Speaker 5: You're saying that you've done this with other ladies before.

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Speaker 5: What? What has happened in the past.

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Speaker 4: Well, one of them wanted to get married, but she

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Speaker 5: We had to let her go. We you had a proposal.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, she didn't live in this country, and a

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Speaker 1: Wow, she was really eager to get over here and

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Speaker 3: With you, Chris and Chris's mom. Don't fall for that.

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Speaker 1: Sounded like a romantic story.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's good, that's okay.

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Speaker 2: So now he's moved on, he's put all those other

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Speaker 1: It should be kind of flattering.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm flattered in a little.

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Speaker 6: I feel very awkward.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like I'm dating you and your mom

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Speaker 1: Okay, a date is anyone here subtraction?

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Speaker 2: Yes, But Bella is trying to suggest it sounds like

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Speaker 5: For this one what That is definitely not what I'm suggesting.

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Speaker 5: I'm suggesting that for Chris, he should do more of those.

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Speaker 3: Maybe, Chris, if you don't feel safe on a date,

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Speaker 3: I think that's valid. Maybe your mom can wait in

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's a good idea.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's kind of nice security shirt. You can buy

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Speaker 4: My mom laughed at.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it sounds like so this may be completely fruitless,

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Speaker 5: No, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I keep in mind his mom is listening to this

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Speaker 1: So what you say his mom is hearing, She's well aware.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'll say to both of them that, since we

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Speaker 4: My mom is in a fan Your response.

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Speaker 2: You got on Chris his mom's bad side now not good.

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Speaker 2: You better expect some angry texts from her later on

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Speaker 5: I'll be ready for them.

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Speaker 3: I'm just going to suggest maybe blocking that number.

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Speaker 1: Yeah all right.

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Speaker 2: Well, man, I appreciate you taking a chance reaching out

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Speaker 1: That was really brave. It was a big first step

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Speaker 3: Maybe next step is you have dinner with a woman

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Speaker 1: Maybe you can bring brook along with you on the

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Speaker 4: You want to come.

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Speaker 2: No, his mom would not like brook Yeah, Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: You know, it's funny.

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Speaker 2: A lot of us are laughing or even cringing at

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Speaker 1: But I don't know. I could definitely.

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Speaker 1: Look at him in his sad little eyes. I don't

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Speaker 1: They're they're sweetie.

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Speaker 2: Let me hug you tightly into mine.

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Speaker 3: There is a running joke in my house that if

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Speaker 2: So you're going to be teaching his date how to

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Speaker 1: You cut it up, yeah, yeah, for him. So look out, Brooke,

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Speaker 1: judge not unlest you be judged. Six to seven? No,

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Speaker 1: how long? How old?

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Speaker 3: A long time?

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Speaker 1: A long time? Yeah, I bet it's going to be

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Speaker 1: an early blue years. We'll see.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot of time for people to go online

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Speaker 2: and check out all of our second date updates.

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Speaker 1: Wherever you get your podcasts, they're up at Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey