1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: Let's go buckle up, hold on tight. We got it 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter, subject, why 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: can't I date whoever I want? Dear Stephen Shirley, I 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: need some relationship advice. Here's my issue. I was dating 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: a member of a certain fraternity for four years and 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 1: we broke up earlier this year. Since then, I grew 7 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 1: closer to an old friend that I've known since college, 8 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: and we decided to take our friendship to the next level. 9 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: This new guy is in the same fraternity as my ex, 10 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: and they see each other at monthly chapter meetings, parties, 11 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: and sporting events. When the new guy and I started dating, 12 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: we were apprehensive about being seen together because we did 13 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: not want to be judged by others. We both knew 14 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: that it was a sticky situation, but our chemistry was undeniable. 15 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: We are both very grown and well passed our college years. 16 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: But who but whenever we went out together, it was painful. 17 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: He had to endure lots of Joe said, I'm sure 18 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: his fraternity brothers called me all kinds of names, but 19 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: he would not admit admitted. All of the negativity finally 20 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,759 Speaker 1: got the best of him, and he broke up with me. 21 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: He told me that he felt guilty for going behind 22 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: his friends back and dating his girl. I was nobody's 23 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: girl when we decided to to start dating. He said, 24 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 1: there are rules and codes that the brothers just don't violate, 25 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: and smashing another man's girl is one of them. Steve, 26 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: I know you are in a fraternity, so can you 27 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: explain this to me? This guy actually chose his fraternity 28 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: over his relationship with me, even though he says he 29 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: loves me. Is there a way to fix this or 30 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: is there no turning back for him? Please advise? Yeah, 31 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: all that undeniable chemistry and all of that that you 32 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 1: guys had was not enough. Huh. I say, listen, he 33 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: made his choice and it wasn't you. Unfortunately for you, 34 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: He chose his boys. He chose his frat over the 35 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: love he claimed that he had for you. Uh. You 36 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: wrote in this letter that you're both very grown and 37 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: well past your college years. Well apparently not both of you. 38 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: Just shoot, he is still back in his college days, 39 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: trying to please his his frat brothers and uh, you know, 40 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 1: caring what they think about him and his relationships. Not good, 41 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 1: not good for you. But here's a question. I have 42 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 1: for you. You knew your old friend slash boyfriend was 43 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: a member of the fraternity before you took your friendship 44 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 1: to the next level, right, okay, And then it wasn't 45 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: until late in the letter that you said, uh, your 46 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: boyfriend and your ex were friends. So really, I think 47 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: that's why he felt some kind of way about having 48 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: a relationship with you, And that's really why he broke 49 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 1: up with you, because in this case, he still considered 50 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 1: you his friends girl, or he still you know, looked 51 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: at the fact that he was smashing, as you called it, 52 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: his friends girl. I mean, even though you said you 53 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 1: were nobody's girl when you guys started dating. So in 54 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: this instance, even though you guys had good can story 55 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: and everything, it just didn't work out for you. You 56 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: gambled and you lost in this one because you know 57 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: they were friends, and it's a man code. Guys don't 58 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: do other guys girl. You know, their friends girl, They 59 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: just don't steve well in this case. Guys don't do 60 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: their friends girls if they find out because he was 61 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 1: doing them. Yeah, So that's so much for that. That's 62 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: out the question. Now, Uh, here's my issue. I'm dating 63 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: a member of a certain fraternity for four years. Since then, 64 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: I grew closer to an old friend I've known since college, 65 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: and we decided to take our friendship to the next level. 66 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: This new guys in the same fraternity as my ex, 67 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 1: and they see each other at monthly chapter meetings, parties 68 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: in sporting events. When the new guy and I started dating, 69 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: we were apprehensive about being seen together. Well see both 70 00:03:56,440 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: of y'all will see both of you all was apprehensive 71 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: about being seen together. Y'all knew something's gonna get thought 72 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: or said about this because we didn't want to be 73 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: judged by others. Because both of y'all knew, he knew 74 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: and you knew. You knew you're dating his boy. He 75 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: know he dating his boys ex. We both knew that 76 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: it was a sticky situation, but our chemistry was undeniable. 77 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 1: We are both very going and grown and well passed 78 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: our colleges. They don't mean none with these black friends 79 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: you already, But whenever we went out together, it was painful. 80 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: He had ton't do lots of jokes, and I'm sure 81 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: his fraternity brothers called me all kinds of names now 82 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:44,360 Speaker 1: that they can't do without getting the jaw broke men 83 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: don't do that. That's man colde. You would another girl, 84 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: whether we approve of it or not. We you cannot 85 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 1: bad mouth the girl of the dude unless you want 86 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: your jaw broke. Now, don't know what, y'all what fract 87 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: this is? I'm just telling you, Yeah, they all breaks. Yeah, 88 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: what he had to do a lots of jokes, and 89 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: I'm sure his fraternity brothers called me all kinds of names. 90 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: Now they couldn't have, but he would not admit it. 91 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: All the negativity finally got the best of him, and 92 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 1: he broke up with me. He told me that he 93 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 1: felt guilty for going behind his friends back and dating 94 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: his girl. Now, the girl said she was nobody's girl 95 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: when they started dating, and I believe hu. It's just 96 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: that what dudes try to do is lay claim to 97 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 1: women forever. She was mine, Well she ain't yours, no 98 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: more part. So I think y'all being together would have 99 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: been okay, especially if the chemistry was undeniable. But since 100 00:05:55,680 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: your little boo so deep into the frat where he 101 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: go got them, you know what I wouldn't done. I 102 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 1: wouldn't got me some more friends. Mm hmmm. I wouldn't 103 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 1: got me some more friends. I love my friend. My 104 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: friend ain't got nothing to do with my life that 105 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: you can't tell me who to be with. That that's that. 106 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: I don't give nobody that permission. My kids didn't get 107 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 1: that permission. So I don't know where we're going with this. 108 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: But well, he said, there are rules and codes that 109 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: the brothers just don't violate, and smashing another man's girl 110 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 1: is one of them. First of all, y'all young, because 111 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: who smashing? Right there? You young? Rules and code that 112 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:48,160 Speaker 1: brothers don't just violate, and smashing another man's girl is 113 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: one of them. Then she says, Steve, I know you're 114 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: in the fraternity. Well, i'll tell you about it. He 115 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: can't get past that. All right, we'll have part two 116 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: of Steve's response coming up at any three after the hour, 117 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: subject of today's Strawberry Letter. Why can't I date whoever 118 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: I want? And Steve, you said smashing? They're young? Since 119 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 1: they said smashing, seems like it hurt? Huh? You smashing? 120 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: Who in your friend ray J? All right? You know 121 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: he loved ray J? All right, we'll have Bert too. Well, 122 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: you know she started dating this dude that was in 123 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: the frat, that was friends with her ex who was 124 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: in the same frat. They see each other at the 125 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: meeting this chapter meetings and all is his Sportney events. 126 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: They wanted to go out with each other. There's a 127 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: little apprehensive. Finally they went out. You know, they couldn't 128 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: deal with it. People talking about them, making jokes and y'all, 129 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: well passed your college. Yes, So I don't know what 130 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: y'all doing. You know, if you've grown, you grown, be grown. 131 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 1: How are you gonna let a bunch of old college 132 00:07:57,200 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 1: mates determine what you do with your life? Um? Anyway, 133 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: they have some problems. He ended up breaking up with 134 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: the girl. Uh. Then he said, now are rules and 135 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: codes that the brothers just don't violate, and smashing another 136 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: man's girl is one of them. Steve, I know you're 137 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: in a fraternity. Well let's take my fraternity out of it. 138 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: Let's just take old maker sigh five out of this. 139 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 1: Because you said some keywords in here that does not 140 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: apply to our fraternity. Let me share them with you. Steve, 141 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: I know you in the fraternity, No, he said, He said, 142 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: there are rules and codes that the brothers just don't violate, 143 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: and smashing another man's girl is one of them. That's 144 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:57,959 Speaker 1: not Omega sci fire. Sorry, so you all don't have 145 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: that in your fraternity. We don't referred to ourselves that way. 146 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 1: We did not refer to one another. That is it 147 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:09,839 Speaker 1: possible that younger brothers Mike those Is it possible that 148 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: what younger brothers in the fraternity, Mike, I just told 149 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: you that it wasn't hours Wait wait man, right now, 150 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 1: ain't here? Capital didn't not just telling what we don't do. 151 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: But could he be one day? Hey, hey, can't be? Yeah, 152 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 1: well you got you got really depressiperate, you know. I'm 153 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: just trying to I'm just trying to do let it 154 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 1: all open, any him. I don't even know why you 155 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 1: called the younger brother No, yeah, what these ain't the 156 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: words of cues. This ain't our cues. I ain't said 157 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:00,719 Speaker 1: nothing about the capital. I don't don't really know if 158 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 1: this is a capital or alpha signal or nobody. I'm 159 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 1: just telling you who that ain't. I ain't say what 160 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 1: it was this. This could be This could be groove 161 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: I groove, This could be what is them or yellow Yell. 162 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 1: It could be our oldest I don't know, it could 163 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: be any number thing. I'm gonna tell you what it 164 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,719 Speaker 1: ain't though. Now I ain't saying what it is, but 165 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: the words in this letter right here, it's not descriptive 166 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: of Omega. Scipha and brothers know why I'm saying this, 167 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: So it ain't us. I don't know who it is. 168 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 1: I don't even want to put this on nobody, because 169 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: really the rule kind of stupid. If y'all have passed 170 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:47,439 Speaker 1: y'all's college, yeares what are y'all wearing about? What the 171 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: college kids faint? He is? He can't get past it, 172 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: but he is. This guy actually chose his fraternity over 173 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: his relationship with me. Now wait a minute, little girl, 174 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:03,479 Speaker 1: slow down. Now, he picked his fraternity over his relationship 175 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 1: with you, So what does that tell you? He got 176 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 1: deeper feelings for his frat than he do you. Now, 177 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: that's all that mean. Afterwards, though you got picked, the 178 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: fraternity got picked over you. That's what that means. Even 179 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: though he told her he loved her, that's what she said. 180 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: Why did you say that? When you see that letter? 181 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 1: Surely yeah, it's in here. This guy actually chose his 182 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: fraternity over his relationship with me, even though he says 183 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: he loves me. Oh, he showed did Is there a 184 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 1: way to fix this? No, well, look at this and 185 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: he do love you, but guess what, he loves his frat. 186 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: He loves to smash. Is there a way to fix 187 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 1: this or is there no turning back for him? This 188 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 1: all on him. He can't deal with it. He stuck 189 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 1: back in the wrong day. You know, you and your 190 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 1: boy ain't that tight. Let's really be honest about that alone. 191 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 1: You and your boy ain't that cool. And I'll tell 192 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 1: you why. I know they ain't that cool because ain't 193 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: Nobody said nothing about it and he's still going to 194 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: the sporting events and uh chapter meeting. If something was 195 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: really going on and they was closed, them two would 196 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 1: have been. They don't. Man, they broke each other's jaw, 197 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: but they ain't that close. They just in the same fraternity. 198 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:31,199 Speaker 1: But she says he, well, this is what she said, Steve. 199 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: He told me that he felt guilty for going behind 200 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: his friends back and dating his girl. She said that 201 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 1: later in the letter. I saw him to the side. 202 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, I believe that too. Damn man, what you're doing? Man? 203 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,839 Speaker 1: You know that's so and so girl. Man, that ain't cool, bro, 204 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: That ain't what we do yeah you right, whoop, whoop. 205 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: That ain't what we do? Well what do we do? Yeah? Right? 206 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: And they broke up earlier in the year after a 207 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 1: four year relationship. Oh the couple did, I mean her 208 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: act she and her expert for four years. I ain't 209 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: going over there about that man. She went back to 210 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: her not for a year. Y'all have done way too 211 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 1: much though. Yeah, then she went back to her old friend. 212 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:27,199 Speaker 1: I can't look at him. Y'all have done way too 213 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: much for years. Y'all have tried it all. I ain't 214 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 1: even be doing all that. I'm over how trying to 215 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 1: figure out why. I ain't no handle on refrigerator, not 216 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: even seething to work through all this right here in 217 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: my mind. And he chose the frat over her. Let 218 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: it go for years? He got he got one house 219 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: shoes stuck under the box. Bring yea because his foot 220 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: got caught under there because y'all was in the float. Wow, 221 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: that's where he went with it. Yeah, just too much going, 222 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: Yeah it is yeah, yeah, well we know it ain't 223 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: que we know it ain't cap us cubs all right, 224 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 1: look we gotta go on that note, uh, email us 225 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: or Instagram? What's your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter At 226 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey f M. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 227 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:18,439 Speaker 1: Morning Show.