1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: My son's ex claim that she's pregnant with his baby, 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: So I demanded a paternity test? 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? I don't know. 4 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 3: It kind of depends, you know. If you're like if 5 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 3: the you know, the son and the gulf are like, hey, 6 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 3: we're pregnant, he's like, no paternity test. 7 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: I honestly think like, if my kid gets pregnant early, 8 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 1: I'm like paternity testing anyone, Yeah, pity test immediately. 9 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 4: You know. But if they're like like thirty, it's like, 10 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 4: hey dad, we're. 11 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 2: Pregnant, it's like paternity test, patnity test. That's all I. 12 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 4: Test. 13 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: My son, eighteen, has found out that one of his 14 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: ex girlfriends is eight months pregnant. Oh he knew nothing. 15 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 1: Oh eight months, that's that's she's she's pregnant. She's all 16 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: the way pregnant. Wow, he knew nothing of her being 17 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: pregnant until now, and now he's just expected to accept everything, 18 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: no questions asked. 19 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 2: Yikes. 20 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: My daughter is good friends with this girl and knew 21 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:57,279 Speaker 1: about her pregnancy but said nothing to us because her 22 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: friend asked. 23 00:00:58,000 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 2: Her not to. 24 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 4: Thanks. So dude begs a lot. 25 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 1: My son was head over heels for this lady, but 26 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: she ended up breaking his heart by cheating on him, 27 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 1: and was very needy and manipulative. He spent a lot 28 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: of money on her because she would ask him for 29 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: gifts and my son couldn't even afford those gifts, and 30 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: she convinced him to use one of my credit cards. 31 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 2: To achieve it. 32 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: This girl sucks, bro, he's simpin's credit card. 33 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 3: Is. 34 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: My daughter isn't currently living with us, and she's actually 35 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: rooming with her my son's ex, by her college. 36 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 2: And she's also. 37 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: Being manipulated by the ex because she just thinks that 38 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 1: this ax only does good and doesn't believe that she 39 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:43,320 Speaker 1: convinced her brother to use my credit card or even 40 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: that she cheated. 41 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 2: Wow. 42 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: So basically all of the evidence, the credit card, the cheating, 43 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: the sister anything. 44 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 4: No, she's so great, she's superior. 45 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: Is His sister showed up with my son's ex girlfriend 46 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 1: at my door to help her tell us that she's pregnant. 47 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: When I saw there at my door visibly pregnant, I 48 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: knew she was going to be saying that my son 49 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: is a father of her child. But I immediately said that 50 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: my son will not be putting any money or time 51 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: until there's a paternity task proving that this is indeed 52 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: his child. My son backed me up and agreed. 53 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 3: Okay, that's that's smart. It's like, hey, if it is cool, 54 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 3: but if not, then weouty. 55 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: But my daughter, my son's sister was horrified by the 56 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: common and accused me of encouraging him to be a 57 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: deadbeat father and was upset. I didn't even give them 58 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: a chance to explain themselves. My son's ex started crying, saying, 59 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: you always assume the worst to be and she experienced 60 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: eight months of pregnancy alone, and the least we could 61 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: do is ensure she is taken care of for the 62 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 1: betterment of this child. I do agree that if this 63 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: is his child, we're going to ensure the mom is 64 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 1: doing well and ensure the baby is doing well. But 65 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: I don't want my son to be involved with her 66 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: only to get his heart broken again and only to 67 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: find that the child isn't his. 68 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,119 Speaker 2: Oh that would be bad. Am I the a hole here? 69 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 2: I don't know, is OP the a hole? 70 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 3: I think OPI has a right to be suspicious about 71 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 3: what's going on. 72 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I mean any any young relationship. I 73 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: think like it's fine to get a eternity test. 74 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, you should always get it. 75 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 3: They're so young, it's like, yeah's just and also like 76 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 3: if it's true, then. 77 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 2: What does it hurt exactly? 78 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 3: And I feel like it's one thing if Opie's son 79 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 3: said like if you're if you were the one that 80 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 3: potentially is the father or whatever, that's like it just 81 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 3: comes off more abrasive. But like if it's a dad, 82 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 3: it's like, you know, they're just trying to I don't. 83 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 2: Know, yeah, trying to sess it out. I mean. 84 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: Also, it's like an eighteen year commitment of like finances, and. 85 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't just be like okay, I'm just gonna 86 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 3: blindly go with and you know, do this, like yeah, 87 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 3: give me something. 88 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 2: But there is an update. 89 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: My daughter and I spoke on the phone, and I 90 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: explained to her that if the baby really is his, 91 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: and then the test will only lock in his responsibility 92 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: for the baby, and there's no way I'd ever encourage 93 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: my son to abandon any of my grandbabies. My daughter 94 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: finally agreed that the test would be beneficial and told 95 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: me she'd call me back later. I ended up getting 96 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: a text back instead of a call, asking if they 97 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: could come back over to talk, which I agreed. When 98 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: they came over, my son's ex admitted to not actually 99 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: knowing who the father was and that she had been 100 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: in a relationship with multiple guys, which is why she 101 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: took so long telling my son because she was trying 102 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: to figure out who is the father of her child. 103 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,599 Speaker 1: But she's now certain it's my son. She agreed to 104 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: do a paternity test as soon as we are able 105 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: to do one, on the condition I pay for it. 106 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 1: One other thing I found is that my daughter and 107 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: my son's ex have actually developed a romantic relationship, which 108 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 1: is beyond shocking to me. I mean, explains why she's 109 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: been sticking up for my son's ex as much as 110 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: she's been doing. But it's just not something I thought 111 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,039 Speaker 1: my daughter would ever do. I mean, that's her brother's ex, 112 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 1: someone who broke his heart. It's not just something I 113 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: can understand. Always love my daughter, but it just hurts 114 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: me seeing my son feeling hurt by the whole situation. 115 00:04:58,560 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: Bruh. 116 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 4: I mean, the the plot twist of the plot. 117 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 3: Literally, it's like my own sister is seeing the girl who, like, 118 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 3: you know. 119 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 1: Who I loved, dude, that dagger in the heart, the 120 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: sister kind of sucks, dude, Yeah yeah, yikes, yikes, but 121 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: definitely get a paternity test. 122 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:18,359 Speaker 2: This is this is a mess already. 123 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 3: Don't fall in love when you're young, especially if you 124 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 3: have a sister who can steal your girl.