1 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 1: Welcome to Turning Point tonight, where we are charting the 2 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: course of America's cultural comeback. Thanks so much for joining 3 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: us this evening. My name is Joe Bob. We are 4 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: happy to have you. Now. There are lots of things 5 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: going on in the news of the day, but sometimes 6 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: it's good to take a step back and kind of 7 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: focus on your big picture, thirty thousand foot view topics 8 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: and issues that are affecting our society. Now that being said, tonight, 9 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: we're going to take the opportunity to talk about masculinity, 10 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 1: that toxic thing that we should never allow, says somebody 11 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: with blue hair and none of it. We want to 12 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: talk about that with a guy who just wrote a 13 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: book called Embrace Masculinity. Braiden Soorbo joins us for an 14 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: expanded conversation about what masculinity is, where it has gone, 15 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: and how we can reclaim it. Braiden, thanks for joining us, Man. 16 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 2: Thanks for having me. I'm excited, dude. 17 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: Okay, So you know, without you know, burying the lead here, 18 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: masculinity obviously is has gone away effectively, it seems like, 19 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: not necessarily away, but is being pushed out of polite 20 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: society by the Libs. Physiologically, mentally, culturally, and societally. Just 21 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: off the top of the bat, what's going on, I 22 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 1: guess for a broad based question to get us. 23 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 2: Going, well, feminism is what's going on. It's just been 24 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 2: a slow decline in this whole idea of bringing about 25 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:39,199 Speaker 2: what was considered equality is actually just nothing but detrimental 26 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 2: to society because during you know, the cavemen era, the 27 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 2: women were inside protected by the strong men who were 28 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: out hunting and saving them from the evil dangers of 29 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: the world and that kind of thing. And today we've 30 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 2: had that progression where that's always necessarily been the case. 31 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 2: You have the guys going off to war, the guys 32 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 2: fighting the Crusades, you know, going off fighting World War 33 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 2: one two, all of these different generational battles that they 34 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 2: had to deal with, well, the women were protected. That 35 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 2: was their main goal was protecting the women. And with 36 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 2: this era of girl bosses, these women are going, well, 37 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 2: I don't need the men anymore, and so they're going 38 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:15,359 Speaker 2: off and they're doing their own thing. But what they realize, 39 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 2: or what they lack to realize, is that if society 40 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 2: were to collapse, we would be screwed. In the society 41 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 2: that we're in right now is currently collapsing because a 42 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 2: lot of the guys who are doing the backbreaking work 43 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 2: but now receiving none of the reward, are failing to 44 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 2: show up. They're done, they're giving up, they're dropping out. 45 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 2: Because what used to be this whole system of not 46 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 2: dominance but order that was instituted by God, where we 47 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 2: worked in unison, where the women were nurturers, they were provided, 48 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 2: they were they would take care of the household. They 49 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 2: were actually present in the lives of not only just 50 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 2: themselves but their family, and the husbands were present in 51 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 2: the protection, in the provision role has now been degraded 52 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 2: into this kind of assault and masculinity where people are 53 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 2: saying to the men, well, your natural inclinations are no 54 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 2: longer necessary. You have down in your core no longer 55 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: matters to us, and so they're dropping out, and so 56 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 2: women are wondering where are all the good men. The 57 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 2: good men were pushed away by these girl boss feminist 58 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 2: women who have unfortunately led the charge in this attack 59 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: on masculinity. 60 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 1: You know, I think it's interesting that you say, well, 61 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 1: not necessarily men being better or women being better, but 62 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: order in the sense that what it really is is. 63 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: It's complementary. Right, You need masculinity and you also need 64 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 1: femininity to obviously be portrayed by the correct people. But 65 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, yeah, it's all complementary. 66 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: And if you have overwhelming amounts of femininity and no masculinity, 67 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: you're gonna have chaos and disorder, which is what we 68 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: are currently looking at today, or at least what it 69 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: feels like we're looking at today. I want to nail 70 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: down some of some of this stuff, and I'm sure 71 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: you have some of these statistics in your book. Since 72 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: the nineteen eighties, the average US man's testosterone level has 73 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: dropped between twenty five iven thirty percent, which is a 74 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: huge problem. Sperm counts in Western men have fell fifty 75 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: nine percent from nineteen seventy three to twenty eleven. Physiologically, right, 76 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: and we'll talk about kind of the mental elements of it, 77 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 1: the cultural elements, but just just physiologically. I know you're 78 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: a big weightlifter, slash into a fitness and take that 79 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 1: very very seriously. What is going on on a physical 80 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: side of the decline of masculinity right now? 81 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 2: It's been a lot of the food that we're eating. 82 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 2: I have a chapter in the book called big Pharma, 83 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 2: you know, and the war that we're currently waging against 84 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 2: the big food industry. Unfortunately, a lot of these corporations 85 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: have destroyed men, and that is the products that we 86 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 2: are consuming, eating, and breathing every single day. I mean, 87 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 2: that's why steak and shake going back to one hundred 88 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 2: percent beef tallow is a great move because it's little 89 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 2: things like that, little victories like that that are going 90 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 2: to be this kind of resurrection that we're seeing. But 91 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 2: what I talk about in the book is not necessarily 92 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 2: you know that you need to be strong, that you 93 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 2: need to have, you know, the ability to deadlift five 94 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 2: hundred pounds or grill a steak in a flannel shirt 95 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 2: with a massive mustache. To be considered a man. You 96 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 2: just need to be able to stand up and so 97 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 2: you look at you know, even Hacksaw Ridge, the story 98 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 2: of Desmond DAWs in World War Two. He was a 99 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 2: scrawny little kid and he was by definition of man 100 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 2: because he stepped up to the plate and was able 101 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 2: to get stuff done. And so men are not stepping 102 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 2: up to the plate anymore, which means they're not being challenged. 103 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 2: We have this era of the Lost Boys, where all 104 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 2: of these guys are refusing to grow up out of 105 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 2: the teenager phase because frankly, there's nothing that's in it 106 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: for them if they do. Right, Like, we have to 107 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 2: look at both sides of the coin here. We can 108 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 2: look at the men and go, you guys need to 109 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 2: grow up, but we also have to look at why 110 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 2: they're refusing to do. So we have these peter Pan 111 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 2: Neverland boys who just don't want to take on the 112 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:53,359 Speaker 2: real responsibilities of the world, which is what forced testosterone 113 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 2: to kind of grow in this surplus in our previous generations, 114 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 2: and it's why we have this declining effect in like 115 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 2: you said, sperm count and the overall testosterone levels of 116 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 2: the men in society today. 117 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's a lot of great points there. Culturally speaking, though, 118 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: obviously there's a huge decline in the way that people 119 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:18,039 Speaker 1: view masculinity. According to a twenty two you gov poll 120 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:21,599 Speaker 1: found that thirty four percent of Americans think society punishes 121 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: men for acting masculine, which is up from twenty eight 122 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: percent in twenty eighteen, so just in four years it 123 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: climbed six percent. Meanwhile, forty one percent of men feel 124 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: masculinity is under attack. As per a twenty twenty three 125 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: X sentiment analysis on posts for gender roles societally speaking 126 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 1: and culturally speaking, what has to happen in order to 127 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: get back on track of like, hey, being manly is 128 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: a good thing. You talked about World War II a 129 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: little bit, which we'll get into a little later, I hope. 130 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: And those types of guys, those masculine men are our 131 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: kind of demonized in society nowadays. What has to happen 132 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:03,799 Speaker 1: to get that back? 133 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 2: Well, a lot of people aren't gonna like the answer, 134 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 2: but bringing back traditional values it is as simple as 135 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 2: it sounds, and yet and yet it is harder than 136 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 2: it sounds. Because you think, oh, traditional values, well, that's 137 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: super easy, But what are the steps that are necessary 138 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 2: that we're going to have to take to get there? 139 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: And a lot of people are unwilling to look at that. 140 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 2: It's so easy to stand up on a stage and go, 141 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 2: we need to bring back masculine men and feminine women, 142 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 2: and everyone goes raw, let's go, that's my favorite thing. 143 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 2: But in practice, it's a lot harder than most people realize. 144 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 2: And a massive contributing factor to this is the lack 145 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 2: of religion in America today, because when you institute a 146 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 2: Christian moral system into someone's base of who they are 147 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 2: fundamentally as a person, romans One writes, Paul writes, how 148 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 2: the law is written on each one of our hearts. 149 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 2: We know the difference between right and wrong. We have 150 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 2: morality instituted, but a lot of us are choosing to 151 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 2: forego it and ignore it because it doesn't suit what 152 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 2: we want in the moment. And so for people to 153 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 2: bring back this traditional value, it's going to have to 154 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 2: be a dying to the flesh sort of sentiment and 155 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 2: this rejuvenation and willingness to sacrifice. Now, I could sit 156 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 2: and go, well, I don't really want to take care 157 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 2: of a family, so I'll get married and I'll force 158 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 2: my wife to work, and then we'll both work and 159 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 2: we'll just kind of be, you know, doing our own thing. 160 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 2: Or I can step up to the plate and go, 161 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 2: yeah it's tough, Yeah it's not going to be easy. 162 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 2: And yet I'm still going to do my very best 163 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: so that she can stay home, so that she can 164 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 2: homeschool the kids, so that she can provide that nurturing 165 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: aspect that I physically can't. Right, And so when we're 166 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: talking about what is it going to take to bring 167 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 2: you know, bring back these traditional values. It's going to 168 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 2: take sacrifices from both parties and specifically the men first 169 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 2: and foremost. You were mentioning a couple of the statistics. 170 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 2: The world is constantly attacking men. It's telling us that 171 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 2: our natural inclinations are wrong, that wanting to be there 172 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 2: as a protector, wanting to be there as a provider 173 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 2: is wrong. You saw what happened with Daniel Penny. He 174 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 2: helped a woman who was getting harassed by a homeless 175 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 2: man on a subway, and his life was tarnished. Then god, 176 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 2: he's out of prison and now, but who knows what 177 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: would have happened had we been in a different situation. Right, So, 178 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 2: everything that these men are trying to do with their 179 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 2: natural protective instincts is being shunned by society, and so 180 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 2: less and less men are speaking out. And then when 181 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 2: those men don't speak out, people get mad at them. Online. 182 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 2: You have videos of women getting harassed in Chicago by 183 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 2: crazy homeless people and people going where the good men 184 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 2: who would stand up to well, they did stand up 185 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 2: to him, and you put them on trial, right, and 186 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 2: so it doesn't matter what men do in twenty twenty five, 187 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 2: they could protect and they will be put in trial 188 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 2: and thrown in jail. Or they could choose not to 189 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 2: and they will be harassed and ridiculed by society for 190 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 2: not being manly enough. Right, we can't live up to 191 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 2: the society's definitions, and why would we want to. Why 192 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 2: do we want to live up to a society that 193 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 2: persecuted and crucified the perfect man who ever lived. We 194 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 2: can't live up to their standards. We could try to 195 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 2: live up to his though. 196 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, super interesting in the same line of traditional values. 197 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: I thought this was statistic, was interesting, and I'm really 198 00:09:57,679 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 1: curious about your thoughts of your own generation. Men's median 199 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: age at their first marriage climb from twenty five in 200 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 1: nineteen eighty to in twenty twenty one, the average age 201 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 1: of men getting married was thirty years old, so climb 202 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: five years, which is a twenty percent increase. Also, fifty 203 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 1: one percent of men under thirty five are not married 204 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty three were not married as of twenty 205 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: twenty three, and in nineteen eighty that percentage was seventy 206 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 1: four percent, so a massive decline in men under the 207 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: age of thirty five being married, specifically speaking kind of 208 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: the younger gen Z generation, what does that look like 209 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 1: and how do you kind of course correct and get 210 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: the marriage numbers up. Obviously we've talked about it on 211 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 1: this show. Marriage is a good thing. Husband and wife 212 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: duo is a good thing, not just for those individuals, 213 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 1: but for society as a whole. You know, with your 214 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: generation getting married later, if at all, what needs to 215 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: happen to fix that or kind of at least curtail 216 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: it back into the right direction. 217 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 2: We need to eliminate pornography in society, and we need 218 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 2: to reform the Hollywood and the music system. A lot 219 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 2: of people don't realize how much impact media has on 220 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 2: their souls, on their lives. Music is one of the 221 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 2: very few things that doesn't necessarily need permission to get 222 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 2: access to the deepest parts of you. It's why we 223 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 2: resonate with sad songs so well, it's why they hit 224 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 2: us and they make us feel things right. But on 225 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:28,959 Speaker 2: that same token, bad music can have an equally perverse 226 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 2: and negative effect, and so we're seeing a lot of 227 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 2: people who are affected negatively by the media that they're consuming, 228 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 2: whether it be music, whether it be movies in Hollywood 229 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 2: and television, or whether it literally be pornography. I write 230 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 2: about it in the book called in chapter four titled 231 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 2: The Sex Talk, and I go over the fact that 232 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 2: the average age of someone discovering pornography in America for 233 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 2: men is eleven years old. Eleven years old, that's pre pubescent. 234 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:55,319 Speaker 2: These men are not even hitting puberty and they're discovering pornography. 235 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 2: How do you think that's going to affect them psychologically 236 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 2: as they start growing, as they start trying to become men. 237 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 2: It's going to completely destroy their natural view of the 238 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 2: world and how it works. And so, if we want 239 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 2: to fix the societal issues when it comes to marriage one, 240 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,439 Speaker 2: people are sleeping around, right, There's no doubt, and the 241 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 2: science is completely clear that having sex with random strangers 242 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 2: does nothing but destroy your body's ability to soul, bond, 243 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 2: or or actually form a connection with another person. It 244 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 2: is a proven fact over and over again that after 245 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 2: five or six partners, people can actually lose the ability entirely, 246 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 2: which is insane. But nobody looks at that. What they 247 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 2: look at is the music that tells them to go 248 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 2: sleep around. They look at the media where the guy 249 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 2: and the girl are best friends and they go on 250 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 2: and off, and all of a sudden they have this 251 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 2: perfect romantic relationship and they view that as real life, 252 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 2: when in fact it's not. And it's what's leading to 253 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 2: this destruction. And so if we want to bring back 254 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 2: this morality and save what's left of masculinity and femininity 255 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 2: in America, we have to address the sex talk at 256 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 2: its root problematic cause, which is everything that ties into 257 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 2: our psyche and how we view sexual gratification and pleasure 258 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 2: and relationships and dating. You have people who are getting 259 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:11,839 Speaker 2: broken up with and they go on a bender or 260 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 2: bachelor parties where they go and they cheat on their 261 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 2: to be wife right before they're supposed to get married. 262 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 2: And it's these absurd things like this that are portrayed 263 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 2: in the media as normal, as not even normal, but 264 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:27,079 Speaker 2: acceptable and promoted and okay to do that. It leads 265 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 2: us to where we're at now. 266 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:33,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't agree more. Brandon, Hey, this has been great. 267 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 1: We'll be right back after the break to talk more 268 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: stuff coming up. We want to talk to Braiden about 269 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:41,839 Speaker 1: the education gap that exists, the workplace gap. Some of 270 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: the numbers and statistics are staggering and we'll continue our 271 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: conversation with Braden Sorbo, author of Embrace Masculinity, right after 272 00:13:49,080 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: the break. Don't go and we'll be right back. Welcome 273 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: back to Turning Point tonight. My name is Jobob and 274 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: together we are charting the course of America's cultural comeback. 275 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 1: As always, remember you can email the show at TPT 276 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 1: at tpusa dot com. Had to think about it in 277 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: my head, even though I say it every single day, 278 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: Not sure why. Again, the email is TPT at tpusa 279 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: dot com. And if your email is abhorrent, gross and disgusting, 280 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: it is likely that we will read it on this show. 281 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: I want to get back to our conversation about masculinity 282 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 1: with Braden Sorbo, author of Embrace Masculinity. You know, we 283 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: talked before the break that there are some staggering statistics 284 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: regarding education and the workplace. Men now earn forty one 285 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 1: percent of US bachelor's degrees. That obviously has come down substantially. 286 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: Women have surpassed men in college completions every single year 287 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: since nineteen eighty two. In other words, women are dominating 288 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: all of the college fields. Really just graduation rates entirely. 289 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 1: And what I'm not saying is that is necessarily a 290 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: bad thing that women are doing what they're doing. What 291 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: it is is bad to see the male declining, the 292 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 1: masculine decline in college education because it's tricky kind of 293 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 1: needle to thread, especially, you know when you're talking about 294 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: you know how to fix things. So with that bridon, Yeah, 295 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: there's some pretty staggering stats around women outpacing men in 296 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: the college realm. What thoughts do you have? And you know, 297 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 1: the same question as it's been, how do you fix that? 298 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 2: You know, it really doesn't matter, like that's the answer 299 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 2: is as simple as that, because we all know at 300 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 2: this point, at this day and age, the college is 301 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 2: a scam. So why would I I'm twenty three, I 302 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 2: never went to college. Why would I want to go 303 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 2: and sit there and be lectured by a guy who 304 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 2: is anti Christian, anti masculinity, and anti white people for 305 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 2: four years and then give him my money and go 306 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 2: into debt. I think a lot of guys are very 307 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 2: smart in avoiding this, and many guys are actually choosing 308 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 2: to opt in for trade schools. I have a friend 309 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 2: of mine who's doing his apprenticeship as an h back 310 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 2: technician right now, doing AC and he's making more money 311 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 2: than the girl who just got graduated college with her 312 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 2: bachelor's in business, you know, marketing or something like that, 313 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 2: which even that would be considered a more useful degree. 314 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 2: My dad just filmed the movie where his co star 315 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 2: this young woman had just graduated college or was just 316 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 2: entering her her junior or senior year of college, and 317 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 2: he asked her what she was studying, and she goes 318 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 2: gender studies, and he goes here you go male and female. Congratulations, 319 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 2: you've passed. And now you're eighty thousand dollars into debt. 320 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 2: So you have these people with these useless degrees. There's 321 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 2: no reason or there's no you know, wonder why these 322 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 2: guys are opting out of it, because it's a waste 323 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 2: of time. Ninety nine percent of the time, it's pointless 324 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 2: unless you want to become a lawyer or a doctor. 325 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 2: I really don't see a benefit in college. And even then, 326 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 2: some states will allow you to take the bar without 327 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 2: actually going to law school for it. My aunt knew 328 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 2: someone because she's a lawyer, knew someone who did just that, 329 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 2: and he's one of the best lawyers in the state 330 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 2: of Florida. So we have this kind of idea still 331 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 2: ingrained in our minds that school is necessary when in 332 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 2: reality it's really not. We go into debt and it 333 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 2: spend decades of our time trying to pay it back. 334 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 2: I mean, the median college graduate salary in nineteen fifty 335 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 2: nine was ten thousand dollars. If you make up for inflation, 336 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 2: that is over I think eighty thousand dollars today, whereas 337 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 2: today the median average graduation is sixty thousand dollars. That 338 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 2: doesn't keep up for inflation, especially when you account for 339 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 2: how much money is worthless now. Right, It doesn't cost 340 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 2: the same to rent and apartment now as it did 341 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 2: forty fifty years ago. It doesn't cost the same to 342 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 2: buy groceries or a car or a house forty fifty 343 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:34,119 Speaker 2: sixty years ago. So we're not keeping up with inflation 344 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 2: with college, and a lot of guys are looking at 345 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 2: that statistic and going, Okay, well, then maybe I should 346 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 2: find something else to do that isn't going to put 347 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 2: me in massive amounts of crippling debt. 348 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 1: You know, Branden, what I'm hearing you say is that 349 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:50,919 Speaker 1: getting a degree in North African dance lesbian theory is 350 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: as a bad idea. I can't imagine why not getting 351 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: that degree wouldn't benefit my life going forward, you know, 352 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 1: to kind of tug on that thread a little bit 353 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: of what men are seeing, what is being put out 354 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 1: in society. Obviously, social media is a big conduit for 355 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 1: what is happening really in academia, but in culture altogether. 356 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:18,439 Speaker 1: You know, what is the impact that social media is 357 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: having on this decline of masculinity or you know, in 358 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 1: some ways because people are getting braver on what they 359 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 1: can post on the Internet, especially with Elon's takeover of Twitter, 360 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 1: that is now X what impact of social media having 361 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:33,679 Speaker 1: on this whole conversation. 362 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 2: It's having an over on net positive impact. Obviously, there 363 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:40,640 Speaker 2: are still negative aspects to social media, which tie into 364 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,919 Speaker 2: the dating scene that we talked about a little bit earlier, 365 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 2: with highlight reels being very prominent. I mean, I work 366 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 2: out five days a week. I'm six foot four, two 367 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 2: hundred and twenty five pounds. I'm in by no means 368 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 2: a small or out of shape person. But compared to 369 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 2: the guy on testosterone and trend and rad one forty 370 00:18:56,840 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 2: who's blasting gear every single week, I look like and 371 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 2: so social media has really warped people's perspectives of how 372 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 2: the real world really is, and it unfortunately destroys a 373 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 2: lot of relationships because so many young kids are looking at, 374 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 2: you know, the perfect relationship online and going why doesn't 375 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 2: my boyfriend treat me this way? Or why doesn't my 376 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 2: girlfriend do these things for me? And so that would 377 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 2: be the negative side of social media. But the positive 378 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 2: side is people are free to get access to information 379 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 2: they can actually learn without needing to watch a mainstream 380 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 2: media network, which for the record, none of which are good. 381 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 2: You know, I was talking to someone online and they go, oh, 382 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 2: I bet you watch Fox or I bet you watch this. 383 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 2: I don't really watch any of them, considering they all 384 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 2: have their problems, and I would rather get my information 385 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 2: straight from the source than some secondhand feedbird feeding method. 386 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,720 Speaker 2: And so a lot of people, especially on x are 387 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 2: learning for themselves and it's creating this kind of red 388 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 2: wave as we're seeing the graphs and the trends showing 389 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 2: young men are voting disproportionately for red politicians as opposed 390 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 2: to young women who are disproportionately liberal, and we're wondering 391 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 2: why this growing kind of trend is happening, and it's 392 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 2: because people are getting access to their own sort of information, 393 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 2: and the young guys are able to get what, like 394 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 2: you said, the thirty thousand foot top down bird's eye view, 395 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 2: and they're realizing, hold on, not everything is as it seems, 396 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 2: and after doing their own research, they're deciding that, you know, 397 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 2: maybe these guys don't actually have my best interests at heart. 398 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 2: Maybe I should just sit back and do something else, 399 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:16,959 Speaker 2: not go to school. 400 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it is fascinating with the the the way 401 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 1: that social media trends are going. Not interestingly enough, not 402 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,439 Speaker 1: everyone is on social media, but like, yeah, there's a 403 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 1: there's a big backlash of like a red wave content 404 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 1: that I'm super excited about saying, saying some things you 405 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 1: didn't used to be able to say, which is which 406 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: is really nice. You know, you're seeing people, the viewers 407 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 1: are seeing some b roll and I just want to 408 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 1: take a second to address that we've kind of juxtaposed 409 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: some super hyper masculine men, the men that storm the 410 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:58,120 Speaker 1: beaches in Normandy on d Day, and also some men 411 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,959 Speaker 1: in dresses, which is you know, obviously a form of 412 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: expression that in a free country you can do, although 413 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: I'm not sure it's beneficial. But in terms of like expression. There, 414 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 1: it's really difficult to kind of draw a line between, 415 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 1: you know, masculine forms of expression expressing yourself and more 416 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 1: feminine forms of expressing yourself. I've always thought it's it's 417 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,920 Speaker 1: how you do it, not necessarily what it is. For example, right, 418 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 1: we saw some of those bureaull clips of of Lil 419 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:32,919 Speaker 1: nase X and some other dudes in dresses, literally in 420 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 1: dresses and just flowing in at the same time. Yeah, 421 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,159 Speaker 1: we all kind of know where that falls on the 422 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: masculine feminine divide. But at the same time, you know, 423 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,120 Speaker 1: if you watch Brave Heart and you see a bunch 424 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: of Scottish dudes in kilts, which some might say is 425 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,959 Speaker 1: effectively kind of very similar to a dress, you're like, okay, 426 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: I'm very scared of those people and their masculine energy. 427 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 1: So and those kind of a long wind to take. 428 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 1: But what is it that actually, like masculinity actually is 429 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:08,239 Speaker 1: in the form of expression and how people do it 430 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: versus you know, what it is that they're doing considering 431 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 1: some of their there can be some conflation among you know, 432 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 1: various cultures. 433 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 2: Well, if you look at Braveheart, what were those men 434 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 2: doing in the movie? They were defending their homeland, fighting 435 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 2: against tyranny and protecting those that they cared about. It 436 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,239 Speaker 2: didn't matter what they were wearing. The skirts that they 437 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:28,200 Speaker 2: had were actually to conceal their knives, which is the 438 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 2: most manly thing I could think of, except maybe today 439 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 2: you would wear a skirt to conceal a gun. I 440 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,919 Speaker 2: guess I don't know what their modern day equivalent would be. 441 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,360 Speaker 2: Whereas the photo of little Nas with all the guys 442 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,200 Speaker 2: you know in the dresses is self glorifying and perverse. 443 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 2: It's that simple. The method behind the madness is theirs 444 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 2: is actually madness, versus the Scots wearing kilts or the 445 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 2: men storming the beaches of Normandy were not. Unfortunately, I 446 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 2: will say that the wars that we have fought killed 447 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 2: off most of our good men, and so we were 448 00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 2: left with this vacuum of a lack of masculinity that 449 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 2: was kind of filled in by the government teaching these 450 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:06,160 Speaker 2: men how to act. And clearly we're reaping the benefits 451 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 2: of that, if you can call them benefits. I've always 452 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,119 Speaker 2: said that it was one of the biggest tragedies we 453 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 2: could have ever had to fight and kill our own brothers, 454 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 2: and you know, all of these young men who really 455 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 2: had no business being in this war on either side, 456 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 2: and it's a terrible, terrible thing. And the same thing 457 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,239 Speaker 2: that's happening, you know, now we have all of these 458 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,440 Speaker 2: high up people who are doing all these things. It's 459 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,400 Speaker 2: like the photo the Elon mus show of the chessboard 460 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:28,959 Speaker 2: and all the ponds and the Rooks and the bishops 461 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 2: have killed each other and the king and queens are 462 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 2: sitting off having dinner on the corners. That's pretty much 463 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,120 Speaker 2: what every single war in the past two hundred years 464 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 2: has been. And unfortunately, the byproduct of that is we've 465 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:49,199 Speaker 2: lost a lot of would be phenomenal fathers, phenomenal leaders, pastors, speakers, congressmen, presidents, potentially, like, 466 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 2: we've lost this potential, and what we're seeing is because 467 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:59,000 Speaker 2: of that lost potential, the vacuum has been filled by evil. 468 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. One of my biggest concerns is, you know, Shane 469 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 1: Gillis has a great stand up bit of the older 470 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: you get the more historical documentaries you start to watch, 471 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 1: and the more invested you get into the history of 472 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 1: World War two. So I've recently myself gone down a 473 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: big time D Day rabbit hole, and what I found 474 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 1: myself wondering is, oh my gosh, if if ever God forbid, 475 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 1: we had to pull off an operation like that, could 476 00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:33,680 Speaker 1: we do it with today's kind of limp wristed quoft 477 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 1: of hair men like I don't know that we actually 478 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 1: could do that, And that's what scares me the most. 479 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 1: And you know, hopefully we're coming. We're turning a corner 480 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 1: to get that sort of masculine energy back. Brandon Sorbo. 481 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,199 Speaker 1: The book is Embrace Masculinity. Where can people find it? 482 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,639 Speaker 2: They can go to serbustudios dot com right now. It's 483 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,719 Speaker 2: available for pre order at ships at the end of April. 484 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,400 Speaker 1: Awesome. Yeah, go check that out. Embrace Mask Brandon, keep 485 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: fighting the good fight. Keep posting those quad pics on 486 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 1: the Internet of your workouts. Maybe that will encourage some 487 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,440 Speaker 1: people or you know, make people feel less about themselves 488 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:16,680 Speaker 1: as it does me. I kid, Braden Sorbo, thanks so 489 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:20,439 Speaker 1: much for joining us. Really appreciate the long, expanded conversation 490 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 1: revolving masculinity. 491 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 2: Thank you. I appreciate It's been fun. 492 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:29,160 Speaker 1: Awesome. You know, it is interesting to have fun, longer 493 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 1: form conversations that don't necessarily stick to the news to 494 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 1: day because at the end of the day, the things 495 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: that matter are those types of topics that that kind 496 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: of permeate the day to day political grind, but always fun. 497 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,119 Speaker 1: Right after the break, Alex Clark has an awesome clip 498 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,159 Speaker 1: from the Cultural Apothecary podcast. You don't want to miss it. 499 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 1: Don't go away, We'll be right back after this. 500 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 3: What is your hot take on probiotics? 501 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 4: Not everybody needs them. 502 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,200 Speaker 3: I thought everybody needed to be taking these. 503 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 5: I think gut health is everything, and when you are 504 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 5: healthy and your gut is intact, it puts so many 505 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 5: other things into place. 506 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 4: But not everybody needs probiotics. 507 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 5: And I know this because I've tested thousands of people 508 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 5: with stool tests and some people have great gut bacteria, 509 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 5: and then there's also probiotics that like, you need this one, 510 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 5: you need this one. I think it's good to change 511 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,119 Speaker 5: it up, But I don't think anybody needs to be 512 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,120 Speaker 5: on probiotics year round, every single year. 513 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 3: So how do you know if you're the person that 514 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 3: needs it. 515 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,479 Speaker 5: I think it's good to polstos probiotics like maybe two 516 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 5: to three months a year. If you get on antibiotics, 517 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 5: definitely take probiotics because you just destroyed that good gut bacteria. 518 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:37,120 Speaker 4: So I think if you're. 519 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:40,640 Speaker 5: On antibiotics, if you're really prone to sickness, take probiotics, 520 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 5: you know, for several months in a row. 521 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 3: What else should change to be taking if you're on 522 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 3: antibiotics or have to be. 523 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 4: So you can do anything to help calm the gut. 524 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 5: So whether that's colostrum or zinc, carnissine, alo, marshmallow root, 525 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 5: there's different things to help calm and kind of heal 526 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 5: and seal the gut so it doesn't turn into a 527 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 5: leaky gut. 528 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 3: Should we be investing in an air purifier? 529 00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 4: I think if you have the funds. 530 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 5: Yes, not everybody has that option, And so just opening 531 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 5: your windows and getting fresh air that's huge, you know, But. 532 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 3: Really it's better to have air from the outside into 533 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:09,359 Speaker 3: the home. 534 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 4: Well, I just think it's a good cheap way. 535 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 6: You know. 536 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 5: If you don't can't afford an air purifier, you can 537 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 5: really diyatt and get a box van and an air 538 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 5: filter if you need to. But I'm big on air purifiers. 539 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,119 Speaker 5: We have one in every single room in our house. 540 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 3: I keep windows open at least twenty minutes every day 541 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 3: no matter the weather. 542 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:24,640 Speaker 4: That's so good. 543 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's like my thing, and that's something free 544 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 3: that everybody can do. I guess some people might think, well, 545 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 3: the pollution outside and stuff, you're letting that into your home. 546 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 3: Is it better to always keep your doors and windows closed? 547 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 4: Now, if you're in like an. 548 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,360 Speaker 5: Urban city, maybe not, you know, But I also think 549 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 5: that most people we pollute our indoor air quality with 550 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 5: chemicals and fragrance and things like that. 551 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,239 Speaker 4: So that's where that fresh air is really good. 552 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 5: But if you live in a really highly concentrated urban place, 553 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,400 Speaker 5: especially if you're in like an apartment or a high rise, 554 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,120 Speaker 5: and you can't control all the air and they're putting 555 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 5: fragrance in the hallways, definitely get an air filter or 556 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 5: if your kids have asthma or allergies that that is 557 00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 5: one of the things that I would absolutely invest in. 558 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 3: Are the cleaning products one of the most important things 559 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 3: to switch to non toxic in a home. 560 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 5: Well, I think personally because my kids are running around 561 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 5: on the floor, playing on the floor all the time, 562 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 5: so I don't want to have them playing in chemicals. 563 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 5: But I also think it's on the dishes we eat, 564 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 5: you know. When it comes to laundry detergent, it's on 565 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 5: the clothes that we wear, our sheets, our towels. It's 566 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,359 Speaker 5: just one simple swap that can change the air quality 567 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,200 Speaker 5: in our home. And I have seen patients have asthma disappear, 568 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:29,120 Speaker 5: allergies disappear just by changing cleaning products and doing laundry detergent, 569 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 5: without even doing a crazy diet. 570 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 3: What would be some realistic healthy swaps for a kid 571 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 3: living in a college dorm. 572 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 5: So that's hard because you can't control all the variables, 573 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 5: But I would say some of the biggest things are 574 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 5: personal care products is huge, Like you may not be 575 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 5: able to control your dorm and everything in that environment. 576 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 5: Get an air filter, use clean products, and then dyet. 577 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 5: You know you're not cooking in your kitchen, but do 578 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:54,959 Speaker 5: as much as you can to eat clean, avoid inflammatory foods, sugar, 579 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 5: food dye. Those are the big things that are going 580 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 5: to stress your immune system. And I find so many 581 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 5: kids that go to college there are moldy dorm rooms. 582 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 5: And so if you go to college and you're getting really, 583 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 5: really really sick and you've never been the sick kid, 584 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 5: press into that, maybe consider alternative housing options. Only if 585 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 5: you're the person that is like having highs and breakouts 586 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 5: that's not normal. 587 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 3: What should some wellness non negotiables be for anyone, no 588 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:17,240 Speaker 3: matter what your budget. 589 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 4: Is, Eat clean, get back to basics. Eat real food again. 590 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 4: It doesn't have to be the healthy cookies or the 591 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,160 Speaker 4: healthy chips. Just eat real food. 592 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 5: Eat ground beef, eat avocado, eat eggs. You can also 593 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 5: find ways to buy it in bulk. That would be 594 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 5: a really big thing that I would say. Clean up 595 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 5: the products in your home again. You can make your 596 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 5: own laundry detergent, you can use vinegar. It does not 597 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 5: have to be these beautiful, non toxic brands. But I'm 598 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 5: thankful for brands out there because I'm not diying it 599 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 5: all the time. But yeah, just get back to those 600 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 5: basics of eating an environment, especially the things you come 601 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,440 Speaker 5: into contact with or consume on a daily basis, Like 602 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 5: your coffee. 603 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 4: Clean up your coffee. 604 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 5: Stop going to Starbucks and getting the lattes with all 605 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,479 Speaker 5: the crap and all the junk and all the sugar. 606 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 4: Figure out a cleaner way to do it at home. 607 00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 3: What is a realistic, non toxic morning routine for a mom? 608 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 5: Okay, so again, it's so different, and I'm a mom. 609 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 5: I'm not sitting here saying that I have this twelve 610 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 5: step routine. 611 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 4: I really think it depends on the day. 612 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 5: But if you can get up even just twenty minutes 613 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 5: before your kids, like set your alarm, that can set 614 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 5: the tone for the day. So that's what I do 615 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 5: if I really need a moment to myself in the mornings. 616 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 5: A lot of times our kids crawl in bed with them, 617 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 5: they with us, and they sleep with us. So sometimes 618 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 5: I'm like Ninja ing out of the bed to creep 619 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:23,560 Speaker 5: to the bathroom. 620 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 4: Like do they hear me? 621 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 5: But I would do personally for me. I love brushing 622 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 5: my teeth, tongue scraping. I love my face roller that 623 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 5: just like. 624 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 3: It wakes me up for the day, the skinning Confidential 625 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 3: face roller. 626 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 4: Yes, I'm straight out of the freezer. Yeah, straight out 627 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 4: of the freezer. You gotta do the freezer. 628 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 5: And then I like walking outside, whether it's light out 629 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 5: or not. I put my feet in the grass, I 630 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,720 Speaker 5: take some deep breaths. My husband goes to get the newspaper, 631 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 5: I'll walk out with them and just ground, you know, 632 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 5: just really calming myself before the day starts in the 633 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 5: crazy with work, in kids, in life. 634 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 4: And then I love lemon water in the morning. 635 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 7: I love. 636 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 5: I'm a tea girly, so I'll drink tea, but I 637 00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 5: usually do electrolytes in the morning because you're dehydrated after 638 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 5: So it's drinking my electrolytes, getting a little bit of 639 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 5: fresh air, sunshine, and then if I'm lucky, I get 640 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 5: some quiet time and I just spend time with the 641 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 5: Lord and prepare my heart for the day and everything 642 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 5: that I have to do. Now that doesn't happen every morning, 643 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,360 Speaker 5: Let's be honest. Sometimes the kids are like, I'm hungry 644 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 5: and I'm awake. But you can also incorporate your kids 645 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 5: into this routine. If your kid's up great, you know. 646 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 5: My kids are like, Mom, do you want your face roller? 647 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 5: And they'll get it for me, and then we'll all 648 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:23,960 Speaker 5: go outside and then we'll all eat a healthy breakfast 649 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 5: and we'll take our vitamins together. So it is nice 650 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 5: to have solo time, especially my quiet time in the morning. 651 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 5: Sometimes it doesn't happen, and you just incorporate your kids 652 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,479 Speaker 5: and you bring them in on whatever you're doing and 653 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 5: invite them in. 654 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 3: Why should we be drinking electrolytes every day? 655 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 5: Most people are dehydrated at a cellular level, even if 656 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,720 Speaker 5: they're drinking enough water, we don't have the proper minerals 657 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 5: and electrolytes within our body, sodium, potassium to get that 658 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 5: hydration into the cells. And so that is why most 659 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 5: people when they drink electrolytes, they feel a difference because 660 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:53,480 Speaker 5: it has proper potassium, sodium, and magnesium. 661 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 3: So somebody could drink water every day and still be dehydrated, 662 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 3: and it's because their water has no minerals in. 663 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:03,400 Speaker 5: It and they're just their cells or just like zach absorbing. Yes, 664 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 5: And so most people feel a difference when they take electrolytes. 665 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 5: And I will say most women. And I know this 666 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 5: from testing. This isn't just opinions or feelings or my 667 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,240 Speaker 5: personal story. I've tested thousands of patients over the years. 668 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 5: I do nutrient testing. Almost every single woman is deficient 669 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 5: and magnesium. And so when you have electrolytes that have magnesium, 670 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 5: you're gonna feel a difference because you're fine tuning what 671 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:23,400 Speaker 5: your body is depleted of. 672 00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, magnesium is a game changer. And is that the 673 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 3: number one supplement that you sell? 674 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 4: Yeah? For sure? 675 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 3: Wow, because people just automatically notice the difference at. 676 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 7: Least with that. 677 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 4: Well, then so many are deficient. I mean not just women. 678 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,360 Speaker 5: You know, I've worked with a lot of NFL players 679 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 5: and professional athletes, a lot of breastfeeding moms. They burn 680 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 5: through their B vitamins and their magnesium so quickly, and 681 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 5: so that's the trend that I saw on testing. It's 682 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 5: usually women or people that are super athletics, so that's 683 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,480 Speaker 5: why people cramp up. You know, you need magnesium. 684 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 3: What is the trickiest indoctrination for moms to overcome that 685 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 3: is ingrained in them from traditional medicine. 686 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 5: I would have to say, jabs. It's one of those 687 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 5: things that you just do what you're told. And I 688 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 5: think a lot of mon go to the two month visit, 689 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:05,479 Speaker 5: the four month visit, the six month visit, and their 690 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 5: gut is telling them, don't do it, don't do it, 691 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 5: But then they're fear mongered, and then they're having to 692 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 5: get all of these things to stay on schedule. And 693 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 5: the reality is is I always say to moms, you 694 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 5: are your child's best advocate. You know your child best. 695 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 5: If something doesn't feel right, press into that motherly instinct. 696 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 5: God gave us that for a reason. Do research, read 697 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 5: the inserts, educate yourself. If you feel like you're going 698 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 5: against the grain, but something in you is wanting you 699 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 5: to look further into it. 700 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 8: Do it. 701 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 3: And you were in the traditional medicine world as a nurse, 702 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 3: what were some of the most shocking things you saw 703 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 3: when it came to the childhood's schedule. 704 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,120 Speaker 5: Well, I have a perfect story for this, and this 705 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 5: is something that I have never shared publicly, but I 706 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 5: think this is really important and this was a huge 707 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 5: factor that my husband and I considered when we were 708 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 5: taking our children's health into consideration. And I have to 709 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 5: mind you, I did not know where I stood on 710 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 5: the schedule at this point and being up to date 711 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,080 Speaker 5: and you know, all the routine visits, I didn't know 712 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 5: where I stood. I just knew that I had a 713 00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 5: health journey that that had affected me. My husband was 714 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 5: an ACE pilot, he had been given a lot before 715 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 5: going to Afghanistan had all these reactions, so we knew 716 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:09,359 Speaker 5: individually that we had our own personal experience with that, 717 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 5: but we didn't know where we stood with our kids. 718 00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 5: We want them to live a normal life. We want 719 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 5: them to go to church, we want them to you know, 720 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,319 Speaker 5: we want them to live normal lives. And we didn't 721 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:16,880 Speaker 5: know what that looked like as a nurse. I was 722 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 5: in nurse practitioners school and I did a pediatric rotation 723 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,839 Speaker 5: at a practice, and I will never forget the doctor saying, hey, 724 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 5: if you ever want to own a practice someday, which 725 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 5: I did, but I knew I wanted to do integrative 726 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,360 Speaker 5: medicine at this point, and so I'll never forget the 727 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,279 Speaker 5: pediatrician said, come in if you want to own your 728 00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 5: own practice. There's a financial side of things that you 729 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 5: need to learn as a business person, not just the 730 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 5: clinical side of care. 731 00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 4: So I went in that morning. I went in early, and. 732 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:39,879 Speaker 5: I got to see the new wrap from the new 733 00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,840 Speaker 5: company come in. They were installing the fridge, and he 734 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,239 Speaker 5: was talking about when parents come in and want to 735 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 5: space things apart, you're going to lose money. 736 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 4: You have to give it. 737 00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:50,040 Speaker 5: Because people can say I want to do a delayed 738 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,759 Speaker 5: schedule or you know, I want to just do one 739 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 5: at a time. 740 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 4: He basically said, don't let them do that. You're going 741 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:55,720 Speaker 4: to lose money. 742 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 5: They're going to expire, you're going to lose revenue, and 743 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 5: you need to keep things on date. And so when 744 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:03,840 Speaker 5: I saw that conversation, I just like I had to 745 00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:05,879 Speaker 5: check in my spirit, and I'm like, what on earth? 746 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:07,959 Speaker 5: So there's a whole for profit side that no one 747 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 5: sees unless you really own your own practice. 748 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,920 Speaker 3: And so is that why they threaten to kick you 749 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,360 Speaker 3: out as a patient if you do not adhere to 750 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 3: that schedule. 751 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 5: Yeah, I've had a lot of friends kicked out of 752 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 5: pediatric practices because they're not willing to do what the 753 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 5: providers want. So then they have to either find alternatives 754 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 5: or they feel like they're in the dark and they're 755 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 5: scared that they can't get wellness care for their kids, 756 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 5: and they freak out when there's a sick visit. So yeah, 757 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,200 Speaker 5: I've had plenty of friends kicked out of practices. That 758 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 5: conversation that I saw was just one of the most unbelievable. 759 00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 5: You just realize that there's a whole another side of things, 760 00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 5: and then not to mention, you know, as a provider. 761 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:40,479 Speaker 4: So it's called CPT code. 762 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 5: So every visit that you have, you can bill insurance, 763 00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 5: So you get to bill for certain codes to get. 764 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 4: Reimburse for certain procedures. And so say it's maybe ten dollars. 765 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:52,239 Speaker 5: I'm just generally hypothetically speaking, say it's ten dollars per 766 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 5: individual administration. 767 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:54,960 Speaker 4: But when you're at a two month. 768 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:56,320 Speaker 5: Oled visit and a four month old visit and a 769 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,440 Speaker 5: six month old visit, you're not just getting one, you're 770 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 5: getting combos. So you're getting eight to nine in one visit, 771 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 5: So that turns out to be one hundred dollars, and 772 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 5: then you do that all throughout your well check, so 773 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:07,960 Speaker 5: it could be fifteen hundred dollars. 774 00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:08,359 Speaker 3: A kid. 775 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,480 Speaker 5: Providers that are not doing that are losing a lot 776 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,799 Speaker 5: of money because there's a financial incentive to submit that 777 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:14,319 Speaker 5: coding to get that reimbursement. 778 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 3: Every single mother in America needs to hear what you 779 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:17,359 Speaker 3: just said. 780 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 4: That's what I feel so strongly about this. 781 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,320 Speaker 5: And this is not something I've talked about because honestly, 782 00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 5: a fear of losing my license. I've had a private practice, 783 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,320 Speaker 5: and but the reality is is there is a side 784 00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 5: and I just tell moms, I'm like, go with your gut. 785 00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 5: And it's not just the jab itself, it's also what 786 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 5: else is in it? What are the inactive ingredients. There's aluminum, 787 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,640 Speaker 5: there's formaldehyde, there's mercury, there's aborted fetal cells in some 788 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 5: of these, you know, jabs, And so that's what people 789 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,240 Speaker 5: don't realize and they're neurotoxic. 790 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,680 Speaker 4: And I think the big question to ask is, well, 791 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 4: our kids healthier than they were? 792 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,440 Speaker 5: And yeah, we're not seeing some of these rates of 793 00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 5: some of these diseases that we're preventing. But if you 794 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,960 Speaker 5: actually look at the timeline, herd immunity kicked into place, 795 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:55,839 Speaker 5: so by the time the issue was. 796 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:56,640 Speaker 4: On the decline. 797 00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:58,760 Speaker 3: Is when we offer that, yes. 798 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,319 Speaker 5: By the time it's manufactured in out, it's either on 799 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 5: the decline or it's extinct. So everyone wants to give 800 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 5: glory to these things that have eradicated it, but the 801 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,279 Speaker 5: reality is if you look at the timeline of when 802 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,319 Speaker 5: they came out and when things were on the decline. 803 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,360 Speaker 5: So I just say to moms, like you are your 804 00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,879 Speaker 5: child's best advocate, you know your child best kids are 805 00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,760 Speaker 5: not healthier than they were years ago. We're seeing allergies, asthma, 806 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,839 Speaker 5: skin issues, ear infections, everything is skyrocketing. And you know 807 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 5: something that really made me question things as a nurse 808 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,360 Speaker 5: is when I would be in my baby rotation, my 809 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,879 Speaker 5: ob rotation, and I would see these newborns get yanks 810 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 5: from their mothers and then they'd get a jab of 811 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,359 Speaker 5: hepatitis B and the only way that you can track 812 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 5: that is either through dirty needles like drug users, or 813 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 5: through intercourse. And in my mind, just common sense, why 814 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,439 Speaker 5: are we giving this to a newborn and their liver 815 00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:44,279 Speaker 5: and filtering this on day one of their life and 816 00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 5: then they're swept away from their mom. They're getting antibiotics 817 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 5: in their eyes the ointment, which is so normal, it's 818 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 5: routine unless you advocate for yourself and you say you 819 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,600 Speaker 5: don't want that. But the reason they're getting that that 820 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,719 Speaker 5: is because if the mom has STDs, well, guess what 821 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,480 Speaker 5: you have to in your pregnancy by state law, you 822 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,000 Speaker 5: have to test for STDs. So most people do not 823 00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,520 Speaker 5: have STDs. And so why are we giving this every 824 00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,360 Speaker 5: child even if we know that their mother does not 825 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 5: have STDs. It's just a part of the system. And 826 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 5: guess what, there's a code that they can submit for 827 00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 5: insurance to be remverse for those procedures. So that really 828 00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,120 Speaker 5: started to make me wonder, why are we doing this 829 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 5: to literally a ten minute old baby. 830 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,120 Speaker 1: Welcome back to turning Point tonight. We're together, we are 831 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,239 Speaker 1: charting the course of America's cultural comeback. My name is 832 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 1: job Bob. Thanks so much for sticking with us. I 833 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,840 Speaker 1: don't want to talk too much. Just say, hey, you 834 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:38,480 Speaker 1: can email the showt at tpusa dot com. Give a 835 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 1: very limited amount of time. You can send the email 836 00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 1: whether you agree or whether you are wrong tpt at 837 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,520 Speaker 1: tpusa dot com. So, without further ado, let me play 838 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 1: this clip from me fantastically revealing podcast that Senator Elizabeth 839 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,640 Speaker 1: Warren was on not all that long ago, talking about 840 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,760 Speaker 1: whether or not Joe Biden was mentally capable and mentally 841 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:57,880 Speaker 1: up to the job. Watch this. 842 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 7: Do you regret saying that President Biden had a mental acutity, 843 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:04,839 Speaker 7: He had a sharpness to him. You said that up 844 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:06,320 Speaker 7: until July of last. 845 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:09,640 Speaker 9: Year, I said what I believed to be true. 846 00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:11,440 Speaker 7: And do you think he was as sharp as you? 847 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:21,640 Speaker 9: I said I had not seen decline, and I hadn't 848 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 9: at that point. 849 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,960 Speaker 7: You did not see any decline from twenty twenty four 850 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:26,720 Speaker 7: Joe Biden to twenty twenty one Joe Biden. 851 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:33,719 Speaker 9: When I said that, you know, the thing is heap. Look, 852 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:38,759 Speaker 9: he was sharp, he was on his feet. I saw 853 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:42,320 Speaker 9: him live event, I had meetings with him a couple 854 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:42,720 Speaker 9: of times. 855 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:48,440 Speaker 7: Senator on his feet is not praise. He can speak 856 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 7: in sentences is. 857 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:57,000 Speaker 9: Not praise fair enough, fair enough, look it is the 858 00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 9: question is what are we going to do? 859 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,160 Speaker 7: Okay, that was painful. 860 00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 1: Also, who is on her team that didn't like tell her, hey, 861 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:08,880 Speaker 1: this is how you should answer these questions like how 862 00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,640 Speaker 1: did they not have a discussion about how they're going 863 00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 1: to talk about this because it's all clear and out there. 864 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:16,160 Speaker 1: Maybe they weren't prepared to go into it with a 865 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 1: friendly interview like this, but one good for that guy 866 00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:24,040 Speaker 1: for pushing it in two just like the body language. 867 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:24,680 Speaker 6: Like be more prepared. 868 00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 1: Liz Warren, you're a US senator, you're a Harvard professor. 869 00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:29,879 Speaker 1: I figured you'd be on top of your game on 870 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:36,080 Speaker 1: this one. But the oh god man, I could think 871 00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,120 Speaker 1: of people who were way less confident that could get 872 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:40,640 Speaker 1: out of that interview better than that. Anyways, that it's 873 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:42,000 Speaker 1: gonna do it for us here at turning Points, and 874 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:44,760 Speaker 1: I'd have a great weekend, spend some time with family. 875 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,359 Speaker 1: Click off the news, and we'll see you back here 876 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:56,719 Speaker 1: on Monday, same time, same place. God bless America. 877 00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 6: Okay, we are here with my friends Cliff and Stuart 878 00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,000 Speaker 6: connect late. It's been a while, guys. Good to see 879 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:05,239 Speaker 6: about Yeah, and the world is different I think in 880 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,279 Speaker 6: a little bit of a better place than when we 881 00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,799 Speaker 6: were meeting back. And why would that be, Charlie, I 882 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 6: have no idea the weather, that's why it is bright. Yeah, 883 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 6: but really enjoyed spending time with you guys. And you 884 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,400 Speaker 6: both go to college campuses in a similar fashion that 885 00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:23,799 Speaker 6: I do, and if the audience is not aware of it, 886 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 6: you go and kind of hold court and you sometimes 887 00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:28,279 Speaker 6: go for multiple days in a row. Is that right? 888 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 6: You guys go for you know, two, three, four days. 889 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:33,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, we're trying to shorten it now so we get 890 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:35,360 Speaker 8: to more schools, is that right? But he used to 891 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:36,040 Speaker 8: always be four. 892 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 6: And so just to remind the audience, how did you 893 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,319 Speaker 6: guys get into this? I mean obviously started with you 894 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 6: going on these campuses speaking to students. It's been multiple decades. 895 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:48,919 Speaker 10: Well, I think that was probably before you were born, 896 00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:52,919 Speaker 10: that's right. The first time I did open the air 897 00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 10: was during an intervarsity Beach of Angelism project in Fort Laudadale, 898 00:41:56,560 --> 00:42:01,200 Speaker 10: Florida in nineteen eighty and stood up on the beach 899 00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,400 Speaker 10: there with the innivarsity students and began to preach, and 900 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,880 Speaker 10: people hopped off their towels, and I found out real 901 00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:08,520 Speaker 10: quick quickly. They didn't want to hear a sermon, but 902 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 10: they wanted to show me what a fool I was 903 00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:13,480 Speaker 10: for believing in Jesus, And so we developed the dialogue method. 904 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,960 Speaker 10: They just would fire questions and I would answer, and 905 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,000 Speaker 10: then we started I'll never forget. The first campus was 906 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,040 Speaker 10: sunny Albany up in upstate New York. Yeah, and just 907 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 10: haven't stopped since. 908 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 6: So this open air. I liked that term. And how 909 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 6: do you get drug drug into there? You were raised 910 00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:29,720 Speaker 6: going to these. 911 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 8: Raised, going to these Yeah, go drive to school every 912 00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:34,920 Speaker 8: morning in the car. He would definitely put on the 913 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,399 Speaker 8: hot seat answer some of these tough questions, and then 914 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:39,759 Speaker 8: went to seminary, and naturally his flowed. 915 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:45,320 Speaker 6: Do what do you think is doing this for the 916 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 6: last couple of years? What trends are you seeing on 917 00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:52,560 Speaker 6: these campuses? Good? Bad, troubling, promising. 918 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,520 Speaker 8: Very good, shockingly good? 919 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:56,759 Speaker 6: Tell us more. 920 00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,600 Speaker 8: I wish I could. I still can't figure it out, honestly, 921 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,000 Speaker 8: because they get that question a lot, and I think 922 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,319 Speaker 8: there's a meaning crisis. A lot of these students don't 923 00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 8: know what their meaning and purpose in life is objectively, 924 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:13,000 Speaker 8: So when we ask them that, there's a lot of ooh, pauses, 925 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,279 Speaker 8: and so a lot of these students are coming out. 926 00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:18,399 Speaker 8: They also see that there's something wrong. There's been something 927 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:21,680 Speaker 8: wrong over the last however many years, whether it be political, 928 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:23,920 Speaker 8: whether it be their parents having divorce, whether it be 929 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:27,480 Speaker 8: a psychological health issue. I think they're just waking up 930 00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 8: to that there's something wrong. There's been something wrong in 931 00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 8: our nation. What is it? And we think that God 932 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:33,680 Speaker 8: could potentially offers some answers. 933 00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:36,759 Speaker 6: The long period of time you've been seeing it, you 934 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,919 Speaker 6: think things are not more promising in the last couple 935 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,560 Speaker 6: of years, meaning more people are interested, more people are stopping, 936 00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:43,920 Speaker 6: more people are asking questions. 937 00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:45,399 Speaker 7: A bit. 938 00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,359 Speaker 10: It fluctuates, and over the past forty four years, I've 939 00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,080 Speaker 10: seen a lot of ups and downs. The questions have 940 00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,400 Speaker 10: remained consistently the same, But the emotions, I think is 941 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,080 Speaker 10: really what are different. I think there's a big difference 942 00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,239 Speaker 10: between my dad, who, at the age of eighteen a 943 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,359 Speaker 10: gun in the Alps in Switzerland, part of the Swiss Army, 944 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,640 Speaker 10: as he watched Hitler's Panzer divisions come up and stop 945 00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,800 Speaker 10: right on the border of Switzerland. A lot of difference 946 00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,520 Speaker 10: emotionally between that versus people who have to go to 947 00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,480 Speaker 10: a crying room to work through who won the last election. 948 00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:19,080 Speaker 10: That is a big shift emotionally. So I'm very grateful 949 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:22,280 Speaker 10: for Stuart and for his emotional sensitivity, his counseling background, 950 00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,920 Speaker 10: because we have to be sharp in how we address people, 951 00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:28,839 Speaker 10: not just intellectually, but emotionally as well. 952 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:33,839 Speaker 6: Do you see an increased amount of curiosity from these 953 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:36,840 Speaker 6: students trying to pursue truth and meaning. 954 00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:42,080 Speaker 10: I don't know. I debated Madelin Murie o Hare years 955 00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:44,759 Speaker 10: ago at the University of Texas Austin, and there was 956 00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 10: a lot of intellectual curiosity and there was a lot 957 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,719 Speaker 10: of more intense back and forth. 958 00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:50,960 Speaker 7: And that's what I miss a bit. 959 00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,799 Speaker 10: I miss a bit of the post Vietnam or the 960 00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 10: Hippie movement, the free speech movement in Berkeley, where there 961 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 10: was a will to really go at it and to 962 00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,399 Speaker 10: understand that even though we are going at it, we're 963 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:08,680 Speaker 10: not being disrespectful, but we are strongly disagreeing. So I 964 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:10,840 Speaker 10: miss a little bit of that. That's why I was 965 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,520 Speaker 10: alluding to the emotional sensitivity, and they need to be 966 00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:18,480 Speaker 10: more careful emotionally. So that's been a bit of a change. 967 00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:22,200 Speaker 6: And so you're pinpointing something promising. How do you quantify 968 00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:30,360 Speaker 6: the promising or the uplifting elements that you're witnessing? Yeah, 969 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:30,879 Speaker 6: a lot of these. 970 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:31,759 Speaker 2: You know, what is it? 971 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:37,200 Speaker 8: The suicide and depression rates have risen exponentially. You have 972 00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,840 Speaker 8: divorce rates risen exponentially. And so I would say we 973 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,680 Speaker 8: live in a therapeutic age, and we need to make 974 00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:47,919 Speaker 8: America think again more clearly because there's been so much 975 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:52,239 Speaker 8: emotionalism and looking inward, and we know that the more 976 00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 8: you look inward, unfortunately, the more issues you have. The 977 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:59,839 Speaker 8: more you look outward and upward, the healthier you are. 978 00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,359 Speaker 8: And so people are looking for a god, some type 979 00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 8: of God, and then they're looking outward to hopefully help 980 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:08,359 Speaker 8: community in some kind of way, and that's when they 981 00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,440 Speaker 8: get the healthiest. And we know traditionally, before this therapeutic 982 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,640 Speaker 8: age over the last five to ten years, that's what 983 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 8: our nation was all about. Our nation was all about 984 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:20,560 Speaker 8: God first, nation second, and that brought great psychological health 985 00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:23,239 Speaker 8: and gave people meaning versus now they don't know who 986 00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:23,600 Speaker 8: they are with. 987 00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:28,879 Speaker 6: It is, without a doubt the sickest generation, both mentally, physically, emotionally, 988 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:33,239 Speaker 6: nutritionally sick. Has the church stepped up to try to 989 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 6: offer the of course, the altimate healing, which is in Jesus. 990 00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:39,720 Speaker 6: Do you think the Church has met the moment? 991 00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,879 Speaker 10: Yes, in many ways, No, in other ways, I am 992 00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:48,360 Speaker 10: very very grateful for the Church. For the emphasis on 993 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:52,120 Speaker 10: the intellect, let's think through this stuff honestly, for the 994 00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:55,520 Speaker 10: emphasis on emotions, let's be thoughtful and careful the way 995 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:59,919 Speaker 10: we talk. And for the spiritual, obviously that we need 996 00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,359 Speaker 10: Christ to fill that God shaped vacuum at the center 997 00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,600 Speaker 10: of our being. And for the physical that we need 998 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,280 Speaker 10: to get off our backsides and start feeding the hungry, 999 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:11,120 Speaker 10: clothing the naked, visiting those sick and in prison, and 1000 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:15,760 Speaker 10: the growth in involvement with hurting people who are physically hurting, 1001 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 10: I think is a tremendous statement. Preach Christ every day, 1002 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:22,120 Speaker 10: if necessary, use words, and I think that there's a good, 1003 00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:24,400 Speaker 10: strong surge in that area. 1004 00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:27,200 Speaker 6: So it's fair to say you guys are apologists? Is 1005 00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,719 Speaker 6: that fair to say? How would you describe even what 1006 00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:37,480 Speaker 6: you do to someone who doesn't know defenders of the faith? 1007 00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:39,400 Speaker 8: I try, and I don't know, steer clear of the 1008 00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,400 Speaker 8: word apologist because so many people don't know what it is. 1009 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,239 Speaker 8: It's such a Christianese kind of term. Okay, that's why 1010 00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,160 Speaker 8: I steer clear of it. I try and come at 1011 00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:50,839 Speaker 8: it from a psychologic I'm a psychologist as well as 1012 00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 8: a pastor, as well as some type of philosophical elements. 1013 00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,000 Speaker 8: To my speakers, I try and bring it from different 1014 00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:01,280 Speaker 8: angles it