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Speaker 1: Hi everyone walk on The Mother Knows Death. Let's get
Speaker 1: started with this week's six shocking stories. It still never
Speaker 1: gets easier to say that, and so we have what
Speaker 1: a dumb name we picked?
Speaker 2: Anyway?
Speaker 1: All right, this first story absolutely blew me away. I
Speaker 1: was watching this new show that was on Max and
Speaker 1: I absolutely could not believe it. So there's this guy Phil.
Speaker 1: He's obsessed with this DJ called a base nectar. That
Speaker 1: sounds horrible. So one day, this DJ announces that he's
Speaker 1: going to have this new show. The guy Phil really
Speaker 1: wants to go, but he doesn't have enough money to
Speaker 1: get there. So he goes on Craigslist and makes a
Speaker 1: post and says he'll do anything quote within reason, make
Speaker 1: some extra money. He didn't want to do anything sexual,
Speaker 1: but of course those were all the requests he was getting.
Speaker 1: So eventually he gets a phone call from this mysterious
Speaker 1: man that says that his request is not sexual. However,
Speaker 1: it's his biggest fantasy. He wanted this guy to come
Speaker 1: over his house, cut his toes off, cook them, and
Speaker 1: eat them in front of him. I just can't believe
Speaker 1: this is a real story. Yes, I mean I can.
Speaker 2: Believe it because I know that there's like.
Speaker 1: A thing called body integrity dysmorphia that people feel like
Speaker 1: they're born to be disabled, which is insane, Like they
Speaker 1: think that they shouldn't have their legs, they shouldn't be
Speaker 1: able to walk.
Speaker 2: Things like this.
Speaker 1: There's like definitely a thing that people want to cut
Speaker 1: off their body parts. And most doctors if you go
Speaker 1: and say like, hey, please cut off my toes, especially
Speaker 1: the last part of it, Hey can I keep them
Speaker 1: and so someone could eat them in front of me later,
Speaker 1: that's just like a whole lot thing. But most doctors
Speaker 1: won't just cut off your toes if you ask them to,
Speaker 1: if they're perfectly healthy.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So well, I think you'd think, I think you would
Speaker 1: want to think that most people wouldn't want to just
Speaker 1: cut off somebody's toes and eat them willingly. But this
Speaker 1: guy agreed to do them, which I don't think this
Speaker 1: is a request within reason. I think this is worse
Speaker 1: than a sexual request. Don't you think you're forcing somebody
Speaker 1: to do cannibalism. I just want to know the laws
Speaker 1: that so if you if someone asks you to cut
Speaker 1: their toes off and you do it, can you get
Speaker 1: in trouble? I don't know, you know like that, I
Speaker 1: I would assume yes, because the person that's asking that
Speaker 1: is clearly out of their fucking mind, right, they're not
Speaker 1: they're not of sane mind if you're asking someone to
Speaker 1: do that, well obviously, So this story just gets even weirder.
Speaker 1: So Phil agrees to go do this, and then you know,
Speaker 1: he was like, I don't want to go by myself.
Speaker 1: I want to bring my friend who is a female.
Speaker 1: So they're heading over to this guy's house and they
Speaker 1: think they're going to this house of this loser that
Speaker 1: lives in his mom's basement, but when they get there,
Speaker 1: they're surprised that it's like a decent looking guy that's
Speaker 1: seemingly really well put together and has his shit together.
Speaker 1: So they go to the house. The guy has everything
Speaker 1: set up on the floor like with those like medical pads,
Speaker 1: with another with brand new.
Speaker 2: Knives and everything.
Speaker 1: So he lays down and he chickens out and can't
Speaker 1: do it, and then they're like, why don't you lay
Speaker 1: on your stomach so you're not seeing it. So then
Speaker 1: they go to like lift the knife up again and
Speaker 1: he chickens out and then reveals to them that he's
Speaker 1: a karate instructor and doesn't know how he'll continue instructing
Speaker 1: karate if he's missing some toes. This is just like
Speaker 1: the last minute thoughts that came across, like you don't
Speaker 1: need your toes to balance or anything.
Speaker 2: Right, I don't. I don't know happening in the world
Speaker 2: right now. So he ended up.
Speaker 1: Overall chickening out on the story or are undoing it.
Speaker 1: He couldn't do it at all, so afterwards they just
Speaker 1: all wants like these basketball finals together, like this weird
Speaker 1: thing didn't just happen. The guy ended up paying Phil,
Speaker 1: so he got the ready to go to the concert.
Speaker 2: So to add.
Speaker 1: Even more layers to this, Phil gets to the concert,
Speaker 1: which he had to take a plane to get to,
Speaker 1: and then the DJ got accused of sexual misconduct and
Speaker 1: the show got canceled. So he did all of that
Speaker 1: basically for nothing, but he did fall in love with
Speaker 1: his friend that went with him. What is wrong with
Speaker 1: both of them for Green to do this? Yeah, and
Speaker 1: that check Like could you just imagine some guy being like, hey,
Speaker 1: could you go do something with me and saying this
Speaker 1: like that should be a big red flag that you
Speaker 1: should run away from that guy right away, that he
Speaker 1: was even willing to do that. I just still I
Speaker 1: still don't understand the fetish thing.
Speaker 2: But apparently it's a thing.
Speaker 1: Like so we have a post about this in the
Speaker 1: Grosser Room and one of our members is a dominatrix
Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, yeah, this is like a thing
Speaker 1: like people want to cut off their toes or or
Speaker 1: even their penis. Sometimes it's like a sex, actual fantasy thing.
Speaker 1: You know. I've been reading Julia Fox's book all week
Speaker 1: and I just got to the part where she became
Speaker 1: a dominatrix and like her first day of work, this
Speaker 1: guy had her pee into his mouth through a tube.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's definitely things.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's definitely I mean, I don't think that that's
Speaker 1: as crazy as cutting off one of your body parts. No,
Speaker 1: I just can't believe that there's a whole, entire group
Speaker 1: of people that consider that they're fine and they want
Speaker 1: to make themselves handicap, and that sets up a whole
Speaker 1: other list of ethical and moral things, like so, if
Speaker 1: you make yourself handicap or you eligible for disability, are
Speaker 1: you taking away services from actual disabled people like you
Speaker 1: need to park in a certain spot, or you need
Speaker 1: to get ahead of a certain line or something like that.
Speaker 1: Like the whole entire thing should be really frowned upon,
Speaker 1: but people give.
Speaker 2: In to it. It's well, it's nuts. Yeah, Like like.
Speaker 1: The Dominatrix said, I'm thinking that he didn't really want
Speaker 1: his toes cut off or anything. I think the suspense
Speaker 1: of it was probably what was getting him off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I don't know this. This show is crazy. It's
Speaker 1: called It's Florida Man on Max and like every other
Speaker 1: episode has outrage of stories too, but this one truly
Speaker 1: I was watching this like I cannot be hearing this
Speaker 1: and that it's accurate.
Speaker 2: Are the real people in it?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Right, yes they are. They're real.
Speaker 1: VF Well, not that, not the guy that was gonna
Speaker 1: get his toes cut off, but the guy that was
Speaker 1: hired on Greg's list. He went on to talk about it,
Speaker 1: and then at the end of it he was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I hope I don't have an issue getting a job
Speaker 1: after this.
Speaker 2: Well you're on the TV show. Oh my god. So
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I thought that it was totally mind blowing to me.
Speaker 1: I had to write it up immediately for the website
Speaker 1: because I knew all our members were gonna have crazy
Speaker 1: stuff to say about it, and getting insight from a
Speaker 1: dominatrix is an interesting point of view. I don't think
Speaker 1: a lot of them are speaking out like that. So
Speaker 1: all right, this next story is like, so absolutely horrible.
Speaker 1: So this thirty three year old woman went to the
Speaker 1: reproductive endochronologists and was told that she needed to get
Speaker 1: this study done. So what is this study exactly? It's
Speaker 1: called saline infusion historiography, So what is that exactly? So
Speaker 1: I know it sounds really fancy, but basically when all right, So,
Speaker 1: when you're trying to get pregnant, right mm hm, you
Speaker 1: have two filopian tubes, and you have your eggs that
Speaker 1: are at the end of those filipian tubes, and the
Speaker 1: sperm have to swim up into the filopian tubes to
Speaker 1: meet the egg in order to fertilize the egg. One
Speaker 1: of the most common things in infertility is that one
Speaker 1: of the filopian tubes is scarred, which can happen if
Speaker 1: you had a previous surgery, like you had a no
Speaker 1: vari insist and you had to get it taken out,
Speaker 1: or if you had pelvic inflammatory disease which is due
Speaker 1: to like a sexually transmitted infection sometimes.
Speaker 2: So they're doing this test.
Speaker 1: They go up, they put a little catheter up inside
Speaker 1: of the uterus and they squirt saline up there to
Speaker 1: see if it goes into the tubes, and if it
Speaker 1: goes into the tubes and the tubes are working fine,
Speaker 1: it should pour a little bit into the pelvic cavity.
Speaker 1: If it doesn't, that means that there's a blockage. So
Speaker 1: the doctor inserts this little tiny catheter, like a little straw,
Speaker 1: up inside of her uterus, squirts the saline in. It
Speaker 1: goes inside of one of the tubes, and she starts
Speaker 1: immediately saying that she feels this crazy burning sensation, and
Speaker 1: the doctor's telling her that it's normal, and she's just like,
Speaker 1: it's really uncomfortable. The other tube appeared to be blocked,
Speaker 1: so she did have a problem. She gets done, she
Speaker 1: gets dressed, and she goes to the bathroom to clean up,
Speaker 1: and when she looks at herself in the bathroom, she's
Speaker 1: got burned all over her legs, like visible burns. Goes
Speaker 1: back into the room and tells the doctor, like, something's
Speaker 1: not right. I have burns all over my body, and
Speaker 1: then the doctor realized that she didn't put saline into.
Speaker 2: Her for this procedure.
Speaker 1: She used acetic acid that was in the same exact
Speaker 1: room by accident.
Speaker 2: How was it in the room by accident?
Speaker 1: So at a guynecologist's office, that's a thing that could
Speaker 1: be in a room because it's used to treat genital
Speaker 1: warts and things like that. So sometimes they would have
Speaker 1: that in like a bottle next to other bottles.
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's the same thing of when we went to the
Speaker 1: restaurant and I had dish show poured all over my
Speaker 1: dish instead of honey or whatever. Because people are cape
Speaker 1: and bottles that aren't labeled next to each other. It's
Speaker 1: it's the same exact thing. It's it's just such a critical,
Speaker 1: terrible error. But that's why it was there, because that
Speaker 1: acetic acid is sometimes used to treat either genital warts
Speaker 1: or to treat when they're looking for in a procedure
Speaker 1: called a colposcopy, when they're doing cervical intra epithelial neoplasms
Speaker 1: or like pre cancer cells. They used that chemical so
Speaker 1: they weren't labeled. They're both clear liquid. And this is
Speaker 1: what happens when you're sloppy like it probably was. I mean, really,
Speaker 1: there's probably some kind of an assistant that's filling the
Speaker 1: chemicals and making sure the room's stocked and it wasn't
Speaker 1: labeled correctly or whatever. But the bottom line is is
Speaker 1: that it's the doctor's fault and it's her mistake, and
Speaker 1: she's the one that's going to be getting sued for this.
Speaker 2: And let me tell you why.
Speaker 1: I think that just aside from the burns, which is
Speaker 1: terrible just to experience that, imagine having acid poured inside
Speaker 1: of your body. That's exactly what happened to this woman.
Speaker 1: Not only that, but the inflammation and scarring that will
Speaker 1: occur for it is only going to make her problem worse.
Speaker 1: She said she was unable to have sex for a
Speaker 1: year she was having all of these problems. The silver
Speaker 1: lining is that there's a happy ending to this story
Speaker 1: that she eventually was able to get IVF and carry
Speaker 1: a baby and had a healthy baby, which I hope
Speaker 1: they covered the cost of that since this.
Speaker 2: Was I'm sure they did.
Speaker 1: But the photographs are terrible to just see, like she
Speaker 1: took these pictures right after the procedure, so they she
Speaker 1: got diagnosed with having second and third degree chemical burns.
Speaker 2: I mean it's serious. And think about it.
Speaker 1: That chemical is used to burn wartz and burn cancerous
Speaker 1: cells off of the cervix.
Speaker 2: It's not meant to be used to flush in your
Speaker 2: normal tissues. It burns, it's acid.
Speaker 1: I mean, she's really lucky that there's all these techniques
Speaker 1: now where she was able to have a child successfully.
Speaker 1: I mean, imagine, if you know, if you're going to
Speaker 1: the reproductive endocrinologist, it's either because you're looking towards the future,
Speaker 1: either like freezing your eggs you're trying to get embryos made,
Speaker 1: or to do something like IVF for this procedure that
Speaker 1: she had done. So it's really sensitive doctor when you're
Speaker 1: going there and you're trying to have a baby and everything,
Speaker 1: and to think that this could have prevented her in
Speaker 1: total from having any kids is horrible. Yeah, it's such
Speaker 1: it's so shitty, Like she already went in with a
Speaker 1: shitty situation and just like it's just unbelievable that things
Speaker 1: happen like this to people like you couldn't even make
Speaker 1: this up, you know what I mean. And the doctor
Speaker 1: immediately at least she admitted to her problem, right away
Speaker 1: and flushed her with real saline this time, and they
Speaker 1: called nine one one and she went she had to
Speaker 1: go to a.
Speaker 2: Freaking burn center. Yeah, it's horrible.
Speaker 1: And then she had didn't she have to follow up
Speaker 1: with the burn specialists for like a full year. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I mean, the thing is is, it's just so
Speaker 1: unusual from even a treatment perspective, because in theory that
Speaker 1: they're all sterile areas where there really should never be
Speaker 1: human hands or anything that's not that's not made by
Speaker 1: your body to even be at you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: They're like untouched spaces, And she was up there for
Speaker 1: a procedure and that's the only reason.
Speaker 2: Like normally you don't.
Speaker 1: Have access, Like if you get acid thrown on you,
Speaker 1: it's it's on your skin, it's not on the inside
Speaker 1: of your body.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So just from a treatment perspective, it's not like the
Speaker 1: doctors have had to deal with this before, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. It's like we don't know what to
Speaker 1: do when acids squirt up someone's uterus and into their
Speaker 1: pelvic cavity, Like we just have to treat it like
Speaker 1: a bad wound and just hope it heals, but like
Speaker 1: it's all new to them too, you know. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: at least this has a happy ending associated with it,
Speaker 1: because I can't imagine something that is horrible happening. It's
Speaker 1: still messed up though, I mean, like, especially when you're
Speaker 1: having a kid and stuff, like, it's not ideal to
Speaker 1: think that you can't have sex and have the baby
Speaker 1: the way that you wanted to, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And like at the fault of this doctor because it
Speaker 1: was proven that she had one fallopian two that was
Speaker 1: working correctly, so she could have, in theory, conceived a
Speaker 1: child naturally and had it, you know, the natural way.
Speaker 2: So she's I feel like this is lawsuit worthy for me. Yeah,
Speaker 2: two hundred percent. Yeah, all right.
Speaker 1: So this other horrible story. This happened in twenty sixteen.
Speaker 1: This woman was.
Speaker 2: Living in India.
Speaker 1: Where she was living, they did not have active plumbing
Speaker 1: or toilets. So one day she went out to a
Speaker 1: field to go to the bathroom and this vehicle approached
Speaker 1: her and suddenly one of the three passengers threw acid
Speaker 1: on her.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So apparently in India, especially where there's not working plumbing
Speaker 1: and people have to go outside to go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: It's especially in women, they just have such a higher
Speaker 1: risk of having sexual assault to them because they're they're vulnerable.
Speaker 1: They go outside, they have all sorts of problems, like
Speaker 1: because they don't want to go to the bathroom outside,
Speaker 1: they have chronic constipation. And then when they do go outside,
Speaker 1: it will be they try to stay modest and go
Speaker 1: when it's really late at night or early in the morning,
Speaker 1: and they're at such an inc they're so vulnerable to
Speaker 1: be taking their pants down to go to the bathroom
Speaker 1: and in a situation mother alone and it's dark, and
Speaker 1: there's just such a high risk of you know, sexual
Speaker 1: assault in these cases. So that's just kind of a
Speaker 1: side note. In this particular case, this was a targeted
Speaker 1: attack and it was it ultimately was found out to
Speaker 1: be that it was one of it was some guy
Speaker 1: was supposed to well who was it Mary, So I
Speaker 1: think her brother was supposed to marry the attacker's relative
Speaker 1: and said no, yeah, and that and that was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: this was their revenge for that. So anyway, so this
Speaker 1: poor girl had nothing to do with this at all,
Speaker 1: and she runs home, so she's she's going to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: She's got acid, and when you have acid thrown on you,
Speaker 1: it is eating away at you until it is cleaned
Speaker 1: off of you.
Speaker 2: So she runs to the house.
Speaker 1: She's screaming. Her mother comes out, and her mom just
Speaker 1: you know, the the girl ends up fainting because she's
Speaker 1: just in so much pain and she just, you know,
Speaker 1: she just is completely horrified at the experience that happened
Speaker 1: to her. Her brother puts her on a bike and
Speaker 1: brings her to the hospital. And when she goes to
Speaker 1: the hospital, I mean, they do what they can, but
Speaker 1: they're in a village and they don't have the best
Speaker 1: medical treatment, and they're kind of like, this is all
Speaker 1: we can do for you, and you need to go
Speaker 1: to a more advanced hospital to get any kind of
Speaker 1: advanced treatment. So then, of course she's going to be
Speaker 1: left with all these scars because she's not getting the
Speaker 1: proper treatment, which can if you get really bad scars
Speaker 1: all over your body, it could lead to something called contracture,
Speaker 1: which is the scars tighten up so much that you
Speaker 1: can't use like full function of your hands and everything
Speaker 1: like that because it's all scrunched up and you're not
Speaker 1: able to open your joints up. And yeah, just just
Speaker 1: completely terrible, and to not the experience itself is terrible.
Speaker 1: But then when I tell you this other stuff that
Speaker 1: happened too. So she went, she went away to college
Speaker 1: to Delhi, which is a a more a city, so
Speaker 1: she felt like for the first time she was able
Speaker 1: to walk around the city and not have to cover
Speaker 1: up her scars because it was just more accepted there. Well, also,
Speaker 1: it seems like her family was embarrassed by her appearance.
Speaker 2: Yes, wasn't her fault.
Speaker 1: So yeah, so every time she went back to her
Speaker 1: village to visit her family, like she had to cover
Speaker 1: up again, which is outrageous. But this is the most
Speaker 1: disgusting part of it. So one day she was talking
Speaker 1: to her mom and she asked her mom if she
Speaker 1: was trying to find a husband to marry her, and
Speaker 1: her mom looked at her and was like, who would
Speaker 1: want to marry you? It's like terrible, It is so terrible.
Speaker 1: And again again we're talking about another horrible story involving acid.
Speaker 2: But at least this also has.
Speaker 1: A silver lining and a good ending that she ended
Speaker 1: up getting married. Actually, so somebody did want to marry her,
Speaker 1: of course, and hopefully she's like, doesn't talk to her
Speaker 1: family anymore. To be honest with you, I hate to
Speaker 1: say that, but like there's some reasons that you should
Speaker 1: in and these people are terrible.
Speaker 2: She was a victim of their decision making.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it's not like I don't know,
Speaker 1: her brother decided not to marry somebody, and then they
Speaker 1: attacked her.
Speaker 2: That wasn't her fault.
Speaker 1: And then even if it was random and not connected
Speaker 1: to a decision a family member made, it's still not
Speaker 1: her fault regardless.
Speaker 2: And then you're gonna shame her.
Speaker 1: And she was saying at some point she was just
Speaker 1: hiding in her room for periods of time, not taking
Speaker 1: any visitors or anything because she was so ashamed of it.
Speaker 1: And then to think, you know, you go to this
Speaker 1: big city and everybody's treating you normal, and then every
Speaker 1: time you go home, everybody's treating you like you're some monster. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's disgusting. It is, it really is. I mean a
Speaker 1: part of that is just it's just cultural. We've heard
Speaker 1: this and other stories that we talk about in the
Speaker 1: grosser room too. It's called a lot of it's cultural.
Speaker 1: They just they just think that it's not just the
Speaker 1: mom that's like that like, there's probably other moms that
Speaker 1: would probably react the same exact way living in that culture,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But it's still from coming
Speaker 1: from culture where parents are nurturing and loving of their
Speaker 1: children and accepting of all of their things and everything.
Speaker 2: It's so heartbreaking to hear, you know.
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Speaker 1: you can't get pregnant through anal sex, but apparently in
Speaker 1: rare circumstances this is possible.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well it is.
Speaker 1: It is not possible if you have normal anatomy. In
Speaker 1: this particular case, this person had something called a chloequal
Speaker 1: male formation.
Speaker 2: Do you know what a is? Do you remember from biology?
Speaker 1: Let me tell you about my biology class somewhere around
Speaker 1: Christmas time. I don't know what was happening with my teacher,
Speaker 1: but he just stopped being interested in teaching biology. And
Speaker 1: this is around the time the oil spill happened in
Speaker 1: the Gulf of Mexico. So we started off watching news
Speaker 1: coverage of the oil spell and we started learning about
Speaker 1: how damaging that could be to the environment. And then
Speaker 1: it turned into that being full time for the rest
Speaker 1: of the year, where we watched news coverage about that,
Speaker 1: and then we started watching dirty jobs. And then I
Speaker 1: guess maybe he was getting in trouble because he wasn't
Speaker 1: turning tests in because we weren't taking tests and we
Speaker 1: weren't certainly not getting homework. So he'd be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: we have a pop quiz. The answers are totally not
Speaker 1: in page seventy five. I'm gonna go leave for ten minutes.
Speaker 1: So obviously that's how we were all passing our tests.
Speaker 1: And to make this long story short, basically, I don't
Speaker 1: really know biology because that's how I was taught it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you seem to know about the oil spill, so
Speaker 1: maybe you did pick up something. That's all I know
Speaker 1: was that the teacher that was getting ready to get retire.
Speaker 2: No, he was pretty young, like your age at the time.
Speaker 2: This happened.
Speaker 1: I mean I've had shitty teachers like that too, but
Speaker 1: all right, so anyway, getting sidetracked a cloak is like
Speaker 1: you know when when you saw the lizard poop and
Speaker 1: it had it was like poop and it had a
Speaker 1: big chunk of white on it, or like bird.
Speaker 2: Poop does too. Okay, it's because.
Speaker 1: They have a hole where everything comes out, like poop
Speaker 1: and peek come out at the same time. Okay, So
Speaker 1: you can have that happen in a human rarely if
Speaker 1: a human doesn't form properly when they're a fetus. So
Speaker 1: all of the tubes is in a female, right you
Speaker 1: have your anus, your vagina, your urethra. Like sometimes they
Speaker 1: cannot form their own tubes and they could be fused
Speaker 1: and then this it happens sometimes. So when a fetus
Speaker 1: is born like that, they could fix it. And in
Speaker 1: this case, I guess they said they thought they fixed it,
Speaker 1: but they didn't and for whatever reason, either a surgical
Speaker 1: issue or a natural issue, which would be a fistula
Speaker 1: when organs are stuck together and communicate with one another.
Speaker 1: Her large intestine was communicating with her vagina, so she
Speaker 1: knew she was only like this medical report. They only
Speaker 1: knew that she was having anal sex because she couldn't
Speaker 1: have vaginal sex because she was born with this malformation.
Speaker 1: And when she only so she only had anal sex,
Speaker 1: and the semen was going into her anus and then
Speaker 1: into her intestine, which was then communicating with her vagina,
Speaker 1: and that's how it got in there. Okay, so this
Speaker 1: kid happened in a normal situation, obviously because she was
Speaker 1: born with different anatomy. No, it's just because she was
Speaker 1: born with different anatomy, and it's it's super it's super
Speaker 1: rare for it to happen, but so it could happen
Speaker 1: at any time. There's other circumstances where you could get
Speaker 1: fistulas where sometimes if you have surgery or certain cancers
Speaker 1: or something like that, that that like you could poop
Speaker 1: and poop could come out of your vagina because it's
Speaker 1: all of the just think of it as like these
Speaker 1: three tubes that are all back to back and they're
Speaker 1: just very thin, and if there's just a chance that
Speaker 1: they could communicate with one another, that it's totally possible,
Speaker 1: but like the probability of it is, so it's just low.
Speaker 1: But this is how this one girl got pregnant in particular,
Speaker 1: So does somebody with this condition that gets pregnant, can.
Speaker 2: They have the baby no problem?
Speaker 1: Or is it considered like ultra high risk or I
Speaker 1: don't I would say, I don't think so. I mean,
Speaker 1: if she can't have vaginal sex, then that to me,
Speaker 1: would she could have the baby, she could keep the pregnancy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just I don't see why she couldn't keep the
Speaker 1: pregnancy if all of her if her uterine and now
Speaker 1: to me is fairly normal, I don't see why she couldn't.
Speaker 2: But yeah, she wouldn't.
Speaker 1: They would schedule a SEAS action for her and monitor,
Speaker 1: she'd be heavily monitored, you know.
Speaker 2: But I don't. I don't see why.
Speaker 1: I don't see why not unless because sometimes when you
Speaker 1: have all of these, when you have a cogenital anomaly
Speaker 1: like this with your with your general you urinary track,
Speaker 1: when you're a fetus, then sometimes there could be a
Speaker 1: uterine abnormality, but other times not.
Speaker 2: I just I don't really know in this particular case.
Speaker 1: All right, So let's get onto this next story. For
Speaker 1: several years, this seventy six year old woman was complaining
Speaker 1: that she had something quote coming out of her vagina.
Speaker 1: She said she was having issues with peeing and sometimes
Speaker 1: had bloody vaginal discharge. So when she was ultimately examined,
Speaker 1: she was showing signs of prolapse and they give her
Speaker 1: a hysterectomy. Everything seemed totally normal until.
Speaker 2: You guys in the lab got her uterus.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So prolapse is when it especially happens to older
Speaker 1: women of child bearing age. Think of the muscles of
Speaker 1: your pelvis in between your legs as kind of a
Speaker 1: basket that's holding all of your organs in and when
Speaker 1: you give vaginal childbirth, it weakens. When you get older,
Speaker 1: when you strain to go to the bathroom, those muscles
Speaker 1: could weaken and then your organs could kind of start
Speaker 1: falling out.
Speaker 2: Of their holes.
Speaker 1: So, rectal prolapse is when the rectum starts falling out.
Speaker 1: Uterine prolapse is when the uterus starts falling out. You
Speaker 1: could also have it with the bladder that's called the sisticial.
Speaker 1: So when you have uterine prolapse, sometimes your uterus can
Speaker 1: completely fall like into your vagina so much so that
Speaker 1: you could see it hanging out of your vagina a
Speaker 1: little bit. And there's been stories of women that just
Speaker 1: kind of like stick it back up in there. But
Speaker 1: it's uncomfortable and you feel a lot of pressure. So
Speaker 1: they decided to take out her uterus. And when they
Speaker 1: take out her uterus, they send it to pathology like
Speaker 1: they always do. And when the person in pathology opened it,
Speaker 1: there was a cricket inside of her uterus. A cricket
Speaker 1: how so all right? Wait, so first of all, it's
Speaker 1: not even just in her vagina either. It's like all
Speaker 1: the way up now. It's in her uterus where a
Speaker 1: baby would grow. All right, So how could it have
Speaker 1: gotten up there? Would just crawl up there? Do you
Speaker 1: think you had to go up as like a little
Speaker 1: like a baby cricket?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know how the hell it got up there.
Speaker 1: But when you have multiple babies, vaginal childbirth, your cervical oss,
Speaker 1: which is the opening that goes up into your uterus,
Speaker 1: it could get pretty big. I've seen some that we
Speaker 1: just would joke and be like, this looks like kind
Speaker 1: of sloppy, Like it's like a sloppy uterus, you know,
Speaker 1: like you could almost stick your pinky finger up there,
Speaker 1: like sometimes you shouldn't be able to in normal circumstances
Speaker 1: because it's to close.
Speaker 2: Up all the way when you have a baby.
Speaker 1: But I've seen so many uteride that that they're kind
Speaker 1: of that if you were holding it and it was
Speaker 1: filled with blood, you could just kind of like squirt
Speaker 1: it and it just would like fall like it falls out,
Speaker 1: like it's just open and big. And then the fact
Speaker 1: that she had prolapse too was just like it was
Speaker 1: it was hanging down and you know, like I just
Speaker 1: was saying it, it could come out of your vagina.
Speaker 1: So now it's not like all the way up in
Speaker 1: your vagina. It's kind of right there. And if you're.
Speaker 2: Sleeping, you're not wearing underwear.
Speaker 1: Whatever happens, there's a situation where a cricket could get
Speaker 1: up there. It happens, like it just happens. People get
Speaker 1: bugs in their vagina. Unfortunately, Like this isn't the first time,
Speaker 1: and it's not the last time. It's disturbing, Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: disturbing as hell, but it like it could happen other times.
Speaker 1: In certain cultures, they do certain types of procedures like
Speaker 1: they could have done in this case. Instead of resorting
Speaker 1: to surgery right away, they do something called a cervical
Speaker 1: sirclage that like goes that could kind of like push
Speaker 1: the uterus back up there. And sometimes certain cultures use
Speaker 1: like weird fruits and nuts to stick it up the
Speaker 1: vagina to like make the uterus stay up there again.
Speaker 1: Like there's there's just other ways that it could have
Speaker 1: got up there because this didn't happen in America, you know,
Speaker 1: But yeah.
Speaker 2: Just I can't.
Speaker 1: I just still like thinking about being a PA and
Speaker 1: opening a uterus and seeing a cricket. I just don't
Speaker 1: even know how I would react. It's like mind blowing.
Speaker 1: It's it is, it's mind blowing. And the picture is
Speaker 1: just so outrageous looking, like you think it's like staged
Speaker 1: or something, but it's.
Speaker 2: Not all right.
Speaker 1: In Taiwan, this woman died after overdosing on sleeping pills
Speaker 1: and was brought to the morgue. Well later on, a
Speaker 1: morgue worker got to work and noticed that the door
Speaker 1: was not closed right and that the temperature in the
Speaker 1: fridge was a little higher than it.
Speaker 2: Should have been.
Speaker 1: So she goes to check out the situation and finds
Speaker 1: the deceased woman's boyfriend, who was alive, laying next to.
Speaker 2: Her in the more refrigerator. Again something I've never experienced.
Speaker 1: This sounds like it's like.
Speaker 2: A Romeo and Juliet situation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he had also, they found out later taken
Speaker 1: a bunch of sleeping pills. They were thinking to try
Speaker 1: to kill himself. That's very Romeo and Juliet. Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: like in the I mean, where was it in the
Speaker 1: crypt or whatever, you know, that's where it happened for
Speaker 1: Romeo and Juliet. But like it's the same exact thing. Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna kill myself now over my dead girlfriend's body. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's so disturbing. I can't imagine like seeing
Speaker 1: a person in the Morgue refrigerator, although it almost happened
Speaker 1: multiple times because people were always like ending up down
Speaker 1: at the Morgue when they were looking for the cafeteria
Speaker 1: in the hospital or something. Well, they said that they've
Speaker 1: taken new security measures to prevent family members who come
Speaker 1: into ID bodies from staying longer than they should. So
Speaker 1: I think they're eluding. That's what happened. He came into
Speaker 1: ID here and then just never left. It hit out
Speaker 1: and yeah, the woman that found him was obviously traumatized
Speaker 1: and was screaming, and it was like a whole scene.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I would be.
Speaker 1: Too, because you the last thing, like are wherever I worked,
Speaker 1: the morg door always locked and you needed a password
Speaker 1: to get into it. So it's not like people always
Speaker 1: were ran. People would have walked in all the time.
Speaker 1: Somebody did walk in once, thank god, we had nothing
Speaker 1: going on because one of the residents had the door
Speaker 1: like wedged open. I don't even know why, but somebody,
Speaker 1: you know, there was a whole office before the actual
Speaker 1: morgue and I saw like just through the windows someone
Speaker 1: there that shouldn't have been there, and then I was
Speaker 1: just like, oh my, like I ran up really quick,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So that was almost like terrible.
Speaker 1: But yeah, in general, like they should be locked so
Speaker 1: people can't get in there. And the only way that
Speaker 1: you would have been able to get into the refrigerators
Speaker 1: the same way, like you had to go round that way.
Speaker 2: It was locked from the outside just because you can't
Speaker 2: risk like that.
Speaker 1: And well it's just and the weird shit you hear
Speaker 1: people do and all, like, no, it has to be
Speaker 1: like really secure. Imagine also, like you guys take a body,
Speaker 1: like you have a fridge with multiple bodies in it.
Speaker 1: One of the bodies is taken out on the table.
Speaker 1: You like run out for a second, and then you
Speaker 1: come back in and you're like mid autopsy, and then
Speaker 1: somebody just casually walks out of the fridge or you
Speaker 1: go in there to like check something and there's a
Speaker 1: live a person that's alive in there.
Speaker 2: No, no, I can't.
Speaker 1: I've never said something that's never happened. I've never found
Speaker 1: a person alive in the fridge.
Speaker 2: Oh, thank goodness.
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