WEBVTT - Six Shocking Stories - Would You Eat a Stranger's Toes?? 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:13.720 Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:22.920 Hi everyone walk on The Mother Knows Death. Let's get 0:00:22.960 --> 0:00:27.120 started with this week's six shocking stories. It still never 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:29.320 gets easier to say that, and so we have what 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:31.360 a dumb name we picked? 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:31.840 Anyway? 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:35.720 All right, this first story absolutely blew me away. I 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:38.080 was watching this new show that was on Max and 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:41.400 I absolutely could not believe it. So there's this guy Phil. 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:45.000 He's obsessed with this DJ called a base nectar. That 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:48.720 sounds horrible. So one day, this DJ announces that he's 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:51.320 going to have this new show. The guy Phil really 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.360 wants to go, but he doesn't have enough money to 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:56.600 get there. So he goes on Craigslist and makes a 0:00:56.640 --> 0:01:00.320 post and says he'll do anything quote within reason, make 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:03.000 some extra money. He didn't want to do anything sexual, 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:06.120 but of course those were all the requests he was getting. 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:09.480 So eventually he gets a phone call from this mysterious 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:13.160 man that says that his request is not sexual. However, 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:16.480 it's his biggest fantasy. He wanted this guy to come 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:19.160 over his house, cut his toes off, cook them, and 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:22.319 eat them in front of him. I just can't believe 0:01:22.360 --> 0:01:26.039 this is a real story. Yes, I mean I can. 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:27.920 Believe it because I know that there's like. 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:32.320 A thing called body integrity dysmorphia that people feel like 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:37.960 they're born to be disabled, which is insane, Like they 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:41.040 think that they shouldn't have their legs, they shouldn't be 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:41.800 able to walk. 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:42.920 Things like this. 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:46.840 There's like definitely a thing that people want to cut 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:50.960 off their body parts. And most doctors if you go 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:53.800 and say like, hey, please cut off my toes, especially 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:56.040 the last part of it, Hey can I keep them 0:01:56.040 --> 0:01:58.440 and so someone could eat them in front of me later, 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:01.240 that's just like a whole lot thing. But most doctors 0:02:01.280 --> 0:02:05.360 won't just cut off your toes if you ask them to, 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:06.680 if they're perfectly healthy. 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:07.280 You know what I mean. 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:09.679 So well, I think you'd think, I think you would 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:12.440 want to think that most people wouldn't want to just 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:14.960 cut off somebody's toes and eat them willingly. But this 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:17.600 guy agreed to do them, which I don't think this 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.519 is a request within reason. I think this is worse 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:24.000 than a sexual request. Don't you think you're forcing somebody 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:27.800 to do cannibalism. I just want to know the laws 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:30.880 that so if you if someone asks you to cut 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:33.200 their toes off and you do it, can you get 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:37.160 in trouble? I don't know, you know like that, I 0:02:37.400 --> 0:02:41.239 I would assume yes, because the person that's asking that 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:43.519 is clearly out of their fucking mind, right, they're not 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:47.960 they're not of sane mind if you're asking someone to 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:52.240 do that, well obviously, So this story just gets even weirder. 0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:55.280 So Phil agrees to go do this, and then you know, 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:56.920 he was like, I don't want to go by myself. 0:02:56.919 --> 0:02:58.840 I want to bring my friend who is a female. 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:01.640 So they're heading over to this guy's house and they 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:03.720 think they're going to this house of this loser that 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:06.320 lives in his mom's basement, but when they get there, 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:09.519 they're surprised that it's like a decent looking guy that's 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:12.720 seemingly really well put together and has his shit together. 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:15.960 So they go to the house. The guy has everything 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:18.920 set up on the floor like with those like medical pads, 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:20.840 with another with brand new. 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:21.680 Knives and everything. 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:25.120 So he lays down and he chickens out and can't 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:27.359 do it, and then they're like, why don't you lay 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:29.960 on your stomach so you're not seeing it. So then 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:32.080 they go to like lift the knife up again and 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:34.399 he chickens out and then reveals to them that he's 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:39.600 a karate instructor and doesn't know how he'll continue instructing 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:43.040 karate if he's missing some toes. This is just like 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:45.920 the last minute thoughts that came across, like you don't 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:47.920 need your toes to balance or anything. 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:52.080 Right, I don't. I don't know happening in the world 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.400 right now. So he ended up. 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:58.400 Overall chickening out on the story or are undoing it. 0:03:58.720 --> 0:04:01.160 He couldn't do it at all, so afterwards they just 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:04.640 all wants like these basketball finals together, like this weird 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:07.760 thing didn't just happen. The guy ended up paying Phil, 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:09.720 so he got the ready to go to the concert. 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:11.720 So to add. 0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:14.520 Even more layers to this, Phil gets to the concert, 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:16.120 which he had to take a plane to get to, 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:19.279 and then the DJ got accused of sexual misconduct and 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:21.560 the show got canceled. So he did all of that 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:24.479 basically for nothing, but he did fall in love with 0:04:24.520 --> 0:04:27.240 his friend that went with him. What is wrong with 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:29.600 both of them for Green to do this? Yeah, and 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:32.320 that check Like could you just imagine some guy being like, hey, 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.760 could you go do something with me and saying this 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:36.880 like that should be a big red flag that you 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:39.320 should run away from that guy right away, that he 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:43.520 was even willing to do that. I just still I 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.680 still don't understand the fetish thing. 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:48.000 But apparently it's a thing. 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:50.240 Like so we have a post about this in the 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:54.040 Grosser Room and one of our members is a dominatrix 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:55.880 and she's like, oh, yeah, this is like a thing 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:57.760 like people want to cut off their toes or or 0:04:57.760 --> 0:05:01.560 even their penis. Sometimes it's like a sex, actual fantasy thing. 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:05.880 You know. I've been reading Julia Fox's book all week 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:08.000 and I just got to the part where she became 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:10.560 a dominatrix and like her first day of work, this 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:14.240 guy had her pee into his mouth through a tube. 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:16.840 Yeah, well that's definitely things. 0:05:17.200 --> 0:05:19.880 Yeah, that's definitely I mean, I don't think that that's 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:22.800 as crazy as cutting off one of your body parts. No, 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:27.440 I just can't believe that there's a whole, entire group 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:31.440 of people that consider that they're fine and they want 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:34.679 to make themselves handicap, and that sets up a whole 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:38.760 other list of ethical and moral things, like so, if 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:42.920 you make yourself handicap or you eligible for disability, are 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:47.159 you taking away services from actual disabled people like you 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:49.280 need to park in a certain spot, or you need 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:51.479 to get ahead of a certain line or something like that. 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:55.159 Like the whole entire thing should be really frowned upon, 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:56.960 but people give. 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:59.800 In to it. It's well, it's nuts. Yeah, Like like. 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:03.640 The Dominatrix said, I'm thinking that he didn't really want 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:06.360 his toes cut off or anything. I think the suspense 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:10.000 of it was probably what was getting him off. Yeah, 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:12.360 but I don't know this. This show is crazy. It's 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:14.800 called It's Florida Man on Max and like every other 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:18.480 episode has outrage of stories too, but this one truly 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:21.520 I was watching this like I cannot be hearing this 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:23.160 and that it's accurate. 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:25.440 Are the real people in it? 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:25.600 No? 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:28.039 Right, yes they are. They're real. 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:30.159 VF Well, not that, not the guy that was gonna 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:32.320 get his toes cut off, but the guy that was 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:36.360 hired on Greg's list. He went on to talk about it, 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:38.320 and then at the end of it he was like, Oh, 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:40.320 I hope I don't have an issue getting a job 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:40.920 after this. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:44.800 Well you're on the TV show. Oh my god. So 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:45.640 I don't know. 0:06:45.760 --> 0:06:48.599 I thought that it was totally mind blowing to me. 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:50.480 I had to write it up immediately for the website 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:52.320 because I knew all our members were gonna have crazy 0:06:52.360 --> 0:06:55.280 stuff to say about it, and getting insight from a 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:57.640 dominatrix is an interesting point of view. I don't think 0:06:57.680 --> 0:06:59.720 a lot of them are speaking out like that. So 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:03.600 all right, this next story is like, so absolutely horrible. 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:05.880 So this thirty three year old woman went to the 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:09.080 reproductive endochronologists and was told that she needed to get 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:12.200 this study done. So what is this study exactly? It's 0:07:12.240 --> 0:07:17.840 called saline infusion historiography, So what is that exactly? So 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:22.800 I know it sounds really fancy, but basically when all right, So, 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:26.040 when you're trying to get pregnant, right mm hm, you 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:29.760 have two filopian tubes, and you have your eggs that 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:32.480 are at the end of those filipian tubes, and the 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:35.120 sperm have to swim up into the filopian tubes to 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:38.520 meet the egg in order to fertilize the egg. One 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:41.080 of the most common things in infertility is that one 0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:44.960 of the filopian tubes is scarred, which can happen if 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:46.760 you had a previous surgery, like you had a no 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:48.720 vari insist and you had to get it taken out, 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:52.240 or if you had pelvic inflammatory disease which is due 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:54.880 to like a sexually transmitted infection sometimes. 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:56.880 So they're doing this test. 0:07:57.280 --> 0:08:00.160 They go up, they put a little catheter up inside 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:02.880 of the uterus and they squirt saline up there to 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:05.960 see if it goes into the tubes, and if it 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:08.320 goes into the tubes and the tubes are working fine, 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:12.040 it should pour a little bit into the pelvic cavity. 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:16.000 If it doesn't, that means that there's a blockage. So 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:20.120 the doctor inserts this little tiny catheter, like a little straw, 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:24.440 up inside of her uterus, squirts the saline in. It 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:27.960 goes inside of one of the tubes, and she starts 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:31.400 immediately saying that she feels this crazy burning sensation, and 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:35.000 the doctor's telling her that it's normal, and she's just like, 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:38.600 it's really uncomfortable. The other tube appeared to be blocked, 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:41.840 so she did have a problem. She gets done, she 0:08:41.880 --> 0:08:44.360 gets dressed, and she goes to the bathroom to clean up, 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:46.320 and when she looks at herself in the bathroom, she's 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:50.360 got burned all over her legs, like visible burns. Goes 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:53.200 back into the room and tells the doctor, like, something's 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:55.960 not right. I have burns all over my body, and 0:08:56.000 --> 0:09:00.920 then the doctor realized that she didn't put saline into. 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:02.760 Her for this procedure. 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:06.680 She used acetic acid that was in the same exact 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:07.680 room by accident. 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:09.880 How was it in the room by accident? 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:14.840 So at a guynecologist's office, that's a thing that could 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:17.760 be in a room because it's used to treat genital 0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:20.400 warts and things like that. So sometimes they would have 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:23.840 that in like a bottle next to other bottles. 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:24.640 Maybe I don't know. 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:27.480 It's the same thing of when we went to the 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:29.960 restaurant and I had dish show poured all over my 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:33.000 dish instead of honey or whatever. Because people are cape 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:36.840 and bottles that aren't labeled next to each other. It's 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:39.560 it's the same exact thing. It's it's just such a critical, 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:43.400 terrible error. But that's why it was there, because that 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:48.240 acetic acid is sometimes used to treat either genital warts 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:52.079 or to treat when they're looking for in a procedure 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:56.840 called a colposcopy, when they're doing cervical intra epithelial neoplasms 0:09:56.920 --> 0:10:00.320 or like pre cancer cells. They used that chemical so 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:04.880 they weren't labeled. They're both clear liquid. And this is 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:09.640 what happens when you're sloppy like it probably was. I mean, really, 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:12.400 there's probably some kind of an assistant that's filling the 0:10:12.760 --> 0:10:15.439 chemicals and making sure the room's stocked and it wasn't 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:18.440 labeled correctly or whatever. But the bottom line is is 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:23.600 that it's the doctor's fault and it's her mistake, and 0:10:23.679 --> 0:10:26.440 she's the one that's going to be getting sued for this. 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:28.240 And let me tell you why. 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:31.840 I think that just aside from the burns, which is 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:36.040 terrible just to experience that, imagine having acid poured inside 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.400 of your body. That's exactly what happened to this woman. 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:41.800 Not only that, but the inflammation and scarring that will 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:44.480 occur for it is only going to make her problem worse. 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:47.520 She said she was unable to have sex for a 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:51.800 year she was having all of these problems. The silver 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:54.439 lining is that there's a happy ending to this story 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:58.280 that she eventually was able to get IVF and carry 0:10:58.320 --> 0:11:00.880 a baby and had a healthy baby, which I hope 0:11:00.880 --> 0:11:02.880 they covered the cost of that since this. 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:04.679 Was I'm sure they did. 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:08.840 But the photographs are terrible to just see, like she 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:12.200 took these pictures right after the procedure, so they she 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:15.280 got diagnosed with having second and third degree chemical burns. 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:18.760 I mean it's serious. And think about it. 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:22.920 That chemical is used to burn wartz and burn cancerous 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:24.199 cells off of the cervix. 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:28.439 It's not meant to be used to flush in your 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:30.720 normal tissues. It burns, it's acid. 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:34.439 I mean, she's really lucky that there's all these techniques 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:37.400 now where she was able to have a child successfully. 0:11:37.559 --> 0:11:40.200 I mean, imagine, if you know, if you're going to 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:44.079 the reproductive endocrinologist, it's either because you're looking towards the future, 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:46.600 either like freezing your eggs you're trying to get embryos made, 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:50.080 or to do something like IVF for this procedure that 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:54.080 she had done. So it's really sensitive doctor when you're 0:11:54.080 --> 0:11:56.280 going there and you're trying to have a baby and everything, 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:58.640 and to think that this could have prevented her in 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:01.840 total from having any kids is horrible. Yeah, it's such 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:04.960 it's so shitty, Like she already went in with a 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:10.480 shitty situation and just like it's just unbelievable that things 0:12:10.720 --> 0:12:13.600 happen like this to people like you couldn't even make 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:16.120 this up, you know what I mean. And the doctor 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:19.560 immediately at least she admitted to her problem, right away 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:22.320 and flushed her with real saline this time, and they 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:24.280 called nine one one and she went she had to 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:24.679 go to a. 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:27.360 Freaking burn center. Yeah, it's horrible. 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:29.120 And then she had didn't she have to follow up 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.640 with the burn specialists for like a full year. Yeah, 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:33.440 And I mean, the thing is is, it's just so 0:12:33.679 --> 0:12:38.800 unusual from even a treatment perspective, because in theory that 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:42.080 they're all sterile areas where there really should never be 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:47.920 human hands or anything that's not that's not made by 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:50.040 your body to even be at you know what I mean, 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:53.520 They're like untouched spaces, And she was up there for 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:55.520 a procedure and that's the only reason. 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:57.120 Like normally you don't. 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:59.200 Have access, Like if you get acid thrown on you, 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:02.240 it's it's on your skin, it's not on the inside 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:02.920 of your body. 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:04.120 Yeah, you know what I mean. 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:08.360 So just from a treatment perspective, it's not like the 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:11.960 doctors have had to deal with this before, you know 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:14.160 what I mean. It's like we don't know what to 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:17.280 do when acids squirt up someone's uterus and into their 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:20.280 pelvic cavity, Like we just have to treat it like 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:23.160 a bad wound and just hope it heals, but like 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:26.040 it's all new to them too, you know. Yeah, I mean, 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.640 at least this has a happy ending associated with it, 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:31.120 because I can't imagine something that is horrible happening. It's 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:34.480 still messed up though, I mean, like, especially when you're 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:37.760 having a kid and stuff, like, it's not ideal to 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:40.600 think that you can't have sex and have the baby 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:42.920 the way that you wanted to, you know what I mean. 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:47.080 And like at the fault of this doctor because it 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:49.400 was proven that she had one fallopian two that was 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:52.160 working correctly, so she could have, in theory, conceived a 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:57.720 child naturally and had it, you know, the natural way. 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:02.480 So she's I feel like this is lawsuit worthy for me. Yeah, 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:04.679 two hundred percent. Yeah, all right. 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:07.800 So this other horrible story. This happened in twenty sixteen. 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:09.000 This woman was. 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:10.560 Living in India. 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:13.240 Where she was living, they did not have active plumbing 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:15.800 or toilets. So one day she went out to a 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:18.360 field to go to the bathroom and this vehicle approached 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:21.360 her and suddenly one of the three passengers threw acid 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:21.840 on her. 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:22.920 Yeah. 0:14:22.960 --> 0:14:28.120 So apparently in India, especially where there's not working plumbing 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:31.040 and people have to go outside to go to the bathroom. 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:34.080 It's especially in women, they just have such a higher 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:38.040 risk of having sexual assault to them because they're they're vulnerable. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:41.280 They go outside, they have all sorts of problems, like 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:44.320 because they don't want to go to the bathroom outside, 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:47.840 they have chronic constipation. And then when they do go outside, 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:50.480 it will be they try to stay modest and go 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:52.720 when it's really late at night or early in the morning, 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:56.560 and they're at such an inc they're so vulnerable to 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:59.200 be taking their pants down to go to the bathroom 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.840 and in a situation mother alone and it's dark, and 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:05.680 there's just such a high risk of you know, sexual 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:08.520 assault in these cases. So that's just kind of a 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:12.200 side note. In this particular case, this was a targeted 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:16.600 attack and it was it ultimately was found out to 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:19.920 be that it was one of it was some guy 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:24.440 was supposed to well who was it Mary, So I 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:28.240 think her brother was supposed to marry the attacker's relative 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:33.160 and said no, yeah, and that and that was like, yeah, 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:36.960 this was their revenge for that. So anyway, so this 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:39.680 poor girl had nothing to do with this at all, 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:43.680 and she runs home, so she's she's going to the bathroom. 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.320 She's got acid, and when you have acid thrown on you, 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:50.000 it is eating away at you until it is cleaned 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:50.440 off of you. 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:52.400 So she runs to the house. 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:56.480 She's screaming. Her mother comes out, and her mom just 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:59.080 you know, the the girl ends up fainting because she's 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.160 just in so much pain and she just, you know, 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:04.480 she just is completely horrified at the experience that happened 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:06.520 to her. Her brother puts her on a bike and 0:16:06.520 --> 0:16:09.280 brings her to the hospital. And when she goes to 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:11.360 the hospital, I mean, they do what they can, but 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:14.160 they're in a village and they don't have the best 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:16.800 medical treatment, and they're kind of like, this is all 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:18.360 we can do for you, and you need to go 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:21.440 to a more advanced hospital to get any kind of 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:24.920 advanced treatment. So then, of course she's going to be 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:27.520 left with all these scars because she's not getting the 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:30.840 proper treatment, which can if you get really bad scars 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:33.400 all over your body, it could lead to something called contracture, 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:36.360 which is the scars tighten up so much that you 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:39.240 can't use like full function of your hands and everything 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:41.520 like that because it's all scrunched up and you're not 0:16:41.640 --> 0:16:46.840 able to open your joints up. And yeah, just just 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:52.760 completely terrible, and to not the experience itself is terrible. 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:54.400 But then when I tell you this other stuff that 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:58.400 happened too. So she went, she went away to college 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:01.840 to Delhi, which is a a more a city, so 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:04.200 she felt like for the first time she was able 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:06.360 to walk around the city and not have to cover 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:09.760 up her scars because it was just more accepted there. Well, also, 0:17:09.880 --> 0:17:13.119 it seems like her family was embarrassed by her appearance. 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:14.479 Yes, wasn't her fault. 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:17.320 So yeah, so every time she went back to her 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:19.400 village to visit her family, like she had to cover 0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:22.840 up again, which is outrageous. But this is the most 0:17:22.840 --> 0:17:25.119 disgusting part of it. So one day she was talking 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:26.840 to her mom and she asked her mom if she 0:17:26.920 --> 0:17:30.199 was trying to find a husband to marry her, and 0:17:30.280 --> 0:17:32.240 her mom looked at her and was like, who would 0:17:32.280 --> 0:17:36.040 want to marry you? It's like terrible, It is so terrible. 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:41.480 And again again we're talking about another horrible story involving acid. 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:43.400 But at least this also has. 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:46.280 A silver lining and a good ending that she ended 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:49.480 up getting married. Actually, so somebody did want to marry her, 0:17:50.000 --> 0:17:54.879 of course, and hopefully she's like, doesn't talk to her 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:57.000 family anymore. To be honest with you, I hate to 0:17:57.160 --> 0:17:59.840 say that, but like there's some reasons that you should 0:17:59.840 --> 0:18:01.800 in and these people are terrible. 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:04.360 She was a victim of their decision making. 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:06.879 I mean, I guess it's not like I don't know, 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:10.040 her brother decided not to marry somebody, and then they 0:18:10.040 --> 0:18:10.640 attacked her. 0:18:10.720 --> 0:18:11.800 That wasn't her fault. 0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:14.680 And then even if it was random and not connected 0:18:14.680 --> 0:18:16.919 to a decision a family member made, it's still not 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:18.080 her fault regardless. 0:18:18.280 --> 0:18:19.480 And then you're gonna shame her. 0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:20.960 And she was saying at some point she was just 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:23.840 hiding in her room for periods of time, not taking 0:18:23.840 --> 0:18:26.760 any visitors or anything because she was so ashamed of it. 0:18:27.160 --> 0:18:28.600 And then to think, you know, you go to this 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:31.080 big city and everybody's treating you normal, and then every 0:18:31.080 --> 0:18:34.439 time you go home, everybody's treating you like you're some monster. Yeah, 0:18:34.480 --> 0:18:37.720 it's disgusting. It is, it really is. I mean a 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:40.480 part of that is just it's just cultural. We've heard 0:18:40.520 --> 0:18:43.200 this and other stories that we talk about in the 0:18:43.240 --> 0:18:46.040 grosser room too. It's called a lot of it's cultural. 0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:49.760 They just they just think that it's not just the 0:18:49.840 --> 0:18:52.119 mom that's like that like, there's probably other moms that 0:18:52.119 --> 0:18:55.560 would probably react the same exact way living in that culture, 0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:59.639 you know what I mean. But it's still from coming 0:18:59.680 --> 0:19:03.919 from culture where parents are nurturing and loving of their 0:19:04.000 --> 0:19:06.600 children and accepting of all of their things and everything. 0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:08.560 It's so heartbreaking to hear, you know. 0:19:09.080 --> 0:19:19.960 Yeah, this episode is brought to you by the Gross Room. 0:19:20.440 --> 0:19:20.760 Guys. 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:22.960 Today is the last chance that you could get in 0:19:23.000 --> 0:19:25.560 the Gross Room for only twenty dollars for a whole 0:19:25.680 --> 0:19:28.240 entire year, and this is our last sale of the year. 0:19:28.440 --> 0:19:31.080 So if you didn't get what you wanted for Christmas, 0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:33.880 you definitely want to get into the Gross Room. Yeah, 0:19:33.960 --> 0:19:36.600 head over to the grossroom dot com for more info 0:19:36.640 --> 0:19:42.120 and to sign up today. So there's this myth that 0:19:42.160 --> 0:19:45.000 you can't get pregnant through anal sex, but apparently in 0:19:45.080 --> 0:19:47.160 rare circumstances this is possible. 0:19:48.080 --> 0:19:49.520 Yeah, well it is. 0:19:49.720 --> 0:19:53.080 It is not possible if you have normal anatomy. In 0:19:54.240 --> 0:19:57.959 this particular case, this person had something called a chloequal 0:19:58.359 --> 0:19:59.040 male formation. 0:19:59.240 --> 0:20:02.080