1 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk 2 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 1: Hi everyone walk on The Mother Knows Death. Let's get 3 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: started with this week's six shocking stories. It still never 4 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: gets easier to say that, and so we have what 5 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: a dumb name we picked? 6 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 2: Anyway? 7 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: All right, this first story absolutely blew me away. I 8 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: was watching this new show that was on Max and 9 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: I absolutely could not believe it. So there's this guy Phil. 10 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: He's obsessed with this DJ called a base nectar. That 11 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: sounds horrible. So one day, this DJ announces that he's 12 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 1: going to have this new show. The guy Phil really 13 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: wants to go, but he doesn't have enough money to 14 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: get there. So he goes on Craigslist and makes a 15 00:00:56,640 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 1: post and says he'll do anything quote within reason, make 16 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: some extra money. He didn't want to do anything sexual, 17 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: but of course those were all the requests he was getting. 18 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 1: So eventually he gets a phone call from this mysterious 19 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: man that says that his request is not sexual. However, 20 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 1: it's his biggest fantasy. He wanted this guy to come 21 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: over his house, cut his toes off, cook them, and 22 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: eat them in front of him. I just can't believe 23 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 1: this is a real story. Yes, I mean I can. 24 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 2: Believe it because I know that there's like. 25 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: A thing called body integrity dysmorphia that people feel like 26 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 1: they're born to be disabled, which is insane, Like they 27 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 1: think that they shouldn't have their legs, they shouldn't be 28 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: able to walk. 29 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 2: Things like this. 30 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: There's like definitely a thing that people want to cut 31 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: off their body parts. And most doctors if you go 32 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: and say like, hey, please cut off my toes, especially 33 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: the last part of it, Hey can I keep them 34 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: and so someone could eat them in front of me later, 35 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: that's just like a whole lot thing. But most doctors 36 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: won't just cut off your toes if you ask them to, 37 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: if they're perfectly healthy. 38 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 39 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,679 Speaker 1: So well, I think you'd think, I think you would 40 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: want to think that most people wouldn't want to just 41 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: cut off somebody's toes and eat them willingly. But this 42 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: guy agreed to do them, which I don't think this 43 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 1: is a request within reason. I think this is worse 44 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: than a sexual request. Don't you think you're forcing somebody 45 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: to do cannibalism. I just want to know the laws 46 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: that so if you if someone asks you to cut 47 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: their toes off and you do it, can you get 48 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: in trouble? I don't know, you know like that, I 49 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:41,239 Speaker 1: I would assume yes, because the person that's asking that 50 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,519 Speaker 1: is clearly out of their fucking mind, right, they're not 51 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: they're not of sane mind if you're asking someone to 52 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 1: do that, well obviously, So this story just gets even weirder. 53 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: So Phil agrees to go do this, and then you know, 54 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 1: he was like, I don't want to go by myself. 55 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: I want to bring my friend who is a female. 56 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: So they're heading over to this guy's house and they 57 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: think they're going to this house of this loser that 58 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: lives in his mom's basement, but when they get there, 59 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,519 Speaker 1: they're surprised that it's like a decent looking guy that's 60 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 1: seemingly really well put together and has his shit together. 61 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: So they go to the house. The guy has everything 62 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: set up on the floor like with those like medical pads, 63 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 1: with another with brand new. 64 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: Knives and everything. 65 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: So he lays down and he chickens out and can't 66 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 1: do it, and then they're like, why don't you lay 67 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: on your stomach so you're not seeing it. So then 68 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: they go to like lift the knife up again and 69 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,399 Speaker 1: he chickens out and then reveals to them that he's 70 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: a karate instructor and doesn't know how he'll continue instructing 71 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: karate if he's missing some toes. This is just like 72 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: the last minute thoughts that came across, like you don't 73 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: need your toes to balance or anything. 74 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 2: Right, I don't. I don't know happening in the world 75 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: right now. So he ended up. 76 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: Overall chickening out on the story or are undoing it. 77 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: He couldn't do it at all, so afterwards they just 78 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: all wants like these basketball finals together, like this weird 79 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: thing didn't just happen. The guy ended up paying Phil, 80 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: so he got the ready to go to the concert. 81 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: So to add. 82 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: Even more layers to this, Phil gets to the concert, 83 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: which he had to take a plane to get to, 84 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: and then the DJ got accused of sexual misconduct and 85 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: the show got canceled. So he did all of that 86 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 1: basically for nothing, but he did fall in love with 87 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: his friend that went with him. What is wrong with 88 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 1: both of them for Green to do this? Yeah, and 89 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: that check Like could you just imagine some guy being like, hey, 90 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: could you go do something with me and saying this 91 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: like that should be a big red flag that you 92 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: should run away from that guy right away, that he 93 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: was even willing to do that. I just still I 94 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: still don't understand the fetish thing. 95 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 2: But apparently it's a thing. 96 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: Like so we have a post about this in the 97 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: Grosser Room and one of our members is a dominatrix 98 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, yeah, this is like a thing 99 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: like people want to cut off their toes or or 100 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: even their penis. Sometimes it's like a sex, actual fantasy thing. 101 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: You know. I've been reading Julia Fox's book all week 102 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: and I just got to the part where she became 103 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: a dominatrix and like her first day of work, this 104 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: guy had her pee into his mouth through a tube. 105 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's definitely things. 106 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's definitely I mean, I don't think that that's 107 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: as crazy as cutting off one of your body parts. No, 108 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: I just can't believe that there's a whole, entire group 109 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: of people that consider that they're fine and they want 110 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,679 Speaker 1: to make themselves handicap, and that sets up a whole 111 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: other list of ethical and moral things, like so, if 112 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 1: you make yourself handicap or you eligible for disability, are 113 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: you taking away services from actual disabled people like you 114 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 1: need to park in a certain spot, or you need 115 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 1: to get ahead of a certain line or something like that. 116 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 1: Like the whole entire thing should be really frowned upon, 117 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: but people give. 118 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 2: In to it. It's well, it's nuts. Yeah, Like like. 119 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: The Dominatrix said, I'm thinking that he didn't really want 120 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: his toes cut off or anything. I think the suspense 121 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: of it was probably what was getting him off. Yeah, 122 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: but I don't know this. This show is crazy. It's 123 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: called It's Florida Man on Max and like every other 124 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: episode has outrage of stories too, but this one truly 125 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: I was watching this like I cannot be hearing this 126 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 1: and that it's accurate. 127 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 2: Are the real people in it? 128 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 1: No? 129 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:28,039 Speaker 2: Right, yes they are. They're real. 130 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 1: VF Well, not that, not the guy that was gonna 131 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: get his toes cut off, but the guy that was 132 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: hired on Greg's list. He went on to talk about it, 133 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: and then at the end of it he was like, Oh, 134 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: I hope I don't have an issue getting a job 135 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: after this. 136 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 2: Well you're on the TV show. Oh my god. So 137 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. 138 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: I thought that it was totally mind blowing to me. 139 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 1: I had to write it up immediately for the website 140 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: because I knew all our members were gonna have crazy 141 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 1: stuff to say about it, and getting insight from a 142 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: dominatrix is an interesting point of view. I don't think 143 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 1: a lot of them are speaking out like that. So 144 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 1: all right, this next story is like, so absolutely horrible. 145 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: So this thirty three year old woman went to the 146 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: reproductive endochronologists and was told that she needed to get 147 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: this study done. So what is this study exactly? It's 148 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: called saline infusion historiography, So what is that exactly? So 149 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: I know it sounds really fancy, but basically when all right, So, 150 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 1: when you're trying to get pregnant, right mm hm, you 151 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 1: have two filopian tubes, and you have your eggs that 152 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: are at the end of those filipian tubes, and the 153 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: sperm have to swim up into the filopian tubes to 154 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: meet the egg in order to fertilize the egg. One 155 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: of the most common things in infertility is that one 156 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: of the filopian tubes is scarred, which can happen if 157 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: you had a previous surgery, like you had a no 158 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: vari insist and you had to get it taken out, 159 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: or if you had pelvic inflammatory disease which is due 160 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 1: to like a sexually transmitted infection sometimes. 161 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 2: So they're doing this test. 162 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: They go up, they put a little catheter up inside 163 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: of the uterus and they squirt saline up there to 164 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 1: see if it goes into the tubes, and if it 165 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: goes into the tubes and the tubes are working fine, 166 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: it should pour a little bit into the pelvic cavity. 167 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: If it doesn't, that means that there's a blockage. So 168 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: the doctor inserts this little tiny catheter, like a little straw, 169 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: up inside of her uterus, squirts the saline in. It 170 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: goes inside of one of the tubes, and she starts 171 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: immediately saying that she feels this crazy burning sensation, and 172 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: the doctor's telling her that it's normal, and she's just like, 173 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 1: it's really uncomfortable. The other tube appeared to be blocked, 174 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: so she did have a problem. She gets done, she 175 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: gets dressed, and she goes to the bathroom to clean up, 176 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 1: and when she looks at herself in the bathroom, she's 177 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: got burned all over her legs, like visible burns. Goes 178 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 1: back into the room and tells the doctor, like, something's 179 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 1: not right. I have burns all over my body, and 180 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: then the doctor realized that she didn't put saline into. 181 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 2: Her for this procedure. 182 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: She used acetic acid that was in the same exact 183 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:07,680 Speaker 1: room by accident. 184 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 2: How was it in the room by accident? 185 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: So at a guynecologist's office, that's a thing that could 186 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: be in a room because it's used to treat genital 187 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: warts and things like that. So sometimes they would have 188 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: that in like a bottle next to other bottles. 189 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know. 190 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: It's the same thing of when we went to the 191 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 1: restaurant and I had dish show poured all over my 192 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: dish instead of honey or whatever. Because people are cape 193 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 1: and bottles that aren't labeled next to each other. It's 194 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: it's the same exact thing. It's it's just such a critical, 195 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: terrible error. But that's why it was there, because that 196 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: acetic acid is sometimes used to treat either genital warts 197 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:52,079 Speaker 1: or to treat when they're looking for in a procedure 198 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 1: called a colposcopy, when they're doing cervical intra epithelial neoplasms 199 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 1: or like pre cancer cells. They used that chemical so 200 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 1: they weren't labeled. They're both clear liquid. And this is 201 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 1: what happens when you're sloppy like it probably was. I mean, really, 202 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: there's probably some kind of an assistant that's filling the 203 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:15,439 Speaker 1: chemicals and making sure the room's stocked and it wasn't 204 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 1: labeled correctly or whatever. But the bottom line is is 205 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 1: that it's the doctor's fault and it's her mistake, and 206 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 1: she's the one that's going to be getting sued for this. 207 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 2: And let me tell you why. 208 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: I think that just aside from the burns, which is 209 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: terrible just to experience that, imagine having acid poured inside 210 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: of your body. That's exactly what happened to this woman. 211 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: Not only that, but the inflammation and scarring that will 212 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: occur for it is only going to make her problem worse. 213 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: She said she was unable to have sex for a 214 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: year she was having all of these problems. The silver 215 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,439 Speaker 1: lining is that there's a happy ending to this story 216 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: that she eventually was able to get IVF and carry 217 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: a baby and had a healthy baby, which I hope 218 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: they covered the cost of that since this. 219 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 2: Was I'm sure they did. 220 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 1: But the photographs are terrible to just see, like she 221 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 1: took these pictures right after the procedure, so they she 222 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: got diagnosed with having second and third degree chemical burns. 223 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 2: I mean it's serious. And think about it. 224 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: That chemical is used to burn wartz and burn cancerous 225 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 1: cells off of the cervix. 226 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:28,439 Speaker 2: It's not meant to be used to flush in your 227 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 2: normal tissues. It burns, it's acid. 228 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:34,439 Speaker 1: I mean, she's really lucky that there's all these techniques 229 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 1: now where she was able to have a child successfully. 230 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 1: I mean, imagine, if you know, if you're going to 231 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:44,079 Speaker 1: the reproductive endocrinologist, it's either because you're looking towards the future, 232 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 1: either like freezing your eggs you're trying to get embryos made, 233 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 1: or to do something like IVF for this procedure that 234 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: she had done. So it's really sensitive doctor when you're 235 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: going there and you're trying to have a baby and everything, 236 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: and to think that this could have prevented her in 237 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 1: total from having any kids is horrible. Yeah, it's such 238 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 1: it's so shitty, Like she already went in with a 239 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: shitty situation and just like it's just unbelievable that things 240 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: happen like this to people like you couldn't even make 241 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 1: this up, you know what I mean. And the doctor 242 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 1: immediately at least she admitted to her problem, right away 243 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 1: and flushed her with real saline this time, and they 244 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: called nine one one and she went she had to 245 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:24,679 Speaker 1: go to a. 246 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 2: Freaking burn center. Yeah, it's horrible. 247 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: And then she had didn't she have to follow up 248 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: with the burn specialists for like a full year. Yeah, 249 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 1: And I mean, the thing is is, it's just so 250 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: unusual from even a treatment perspective, because in theory that 251 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 1: they're all sterile areas where there really should never be 252 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: human hands or anything that's not that's not made by 253 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 1: your body to even be at you know what I mean, 254 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: They're like untouched spaces, And she was up there for 255 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: a procedure and that's the only reason. 256 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 2: Like normally you don't. 257 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 1: Have access, Like if you get acid thrown on you, 258 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 1: it's it's on your skin, it's not on the inside 259 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: of your body. 260 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean. 261 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 1: So just from a treatment perspective, it's not like the 262 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 1: doctors have had to deal with this before, you know 263 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: what I mean. It's like we don't know what to 264 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: do when acids squirt up someone's uterus and into their 265 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 1: pelvic cavity, Like we just have to treat it like 266 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 1: a bad wound and just hope it heals, but like 267 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: it's all new to them too, you know. Yeah, I mean, 268 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: at least this has a happy ending associated with it, 269 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: because I can't imagine something that is horrible happening. It's 270 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 1: still messed up though, I mean, like, especially when you're 271 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: having a kid and stuff, like, it's not ideal to 272 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: think that you can't have sex and have the baby 273 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: the way that you wanted to, you know what I mean. 274 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: And like at the fault of this doctor because it 275 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: was proven that she had one fallopian two that was 276 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: working correctly, so she could have, in theory, conceived a 277 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: child naturally and had it, you know, the natural way. 278 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 2: So she's I feel like this is lawsuit worthy for me. Yeah, 279 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,679 Speaker 2: two hundred percent. Yeah, all right. 280 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 1: So this other horrible story. This happened in twenty sixteen. 281 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 1: This woman was. 282 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 2: Living in India. 283 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: Where she was living, they did not have active plumbing 284 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: or toilets. So one day she went out to a 285 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 1: field to go to the bathroom and this vehicle approached 286 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 1: her and suddenly one of the three passengers threw acid 287 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: on her. 288 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 289 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: So apparently in India, especially where there's not working plumbing 290 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 1: and people have to go outside to go to the bathroom. 291 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: It's especially in women, they just have such a higher 292 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 1: risk of having sexual assault to them because they're they're vulnerable. 293 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: They go outside, they have all sorts of problems, like 294 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 1: because they don't want to go to the bathroom outside, 295 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: they have chronic constipation. And then when they do go outside, 296 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 1: it will be they try to stay modest and go 297 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: when it's really late at night or early in the morning, 298 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: and they're at such an inc they're so vulnerable to 299 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: be taking their pants down to go to the bathroom 300 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 1: and in a situation mother alone and it's dark, and 301 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: there's just such a high risk of you know, sexual 302 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 1: assault in these cases. So that's just kind of a 303 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: side note. In this particular case, this was a targeted 304 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 1: attack and it was it ultimately was found out to 305 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 1: be that it was one of it was some guy 306 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 1: was supposed to well who was it Mary, So I 307 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 1: think her brother was supposed to marry the attacker's relative 308 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 1: and said no, yeah, and that and that was like, yeah, 309 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 1: this was their revenge for that. So anyway, so this 310 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: poor girl had nothing to do with this at all, 311 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: and she runs home, so she's she's going to the bathroom. 312 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,320 Speaker 1: She's got acid, and when you have acid thrown on you, 313 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: it is eating away at you until it is cleaned 314 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: off of you. 315 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 2: So she runs to the house. 316 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: She's screaming. Her mother comes out, and her mom just 317 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: you know, the the girl ends up fainting because she's 318 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 1: just in so much pain and she just, you know, 319 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 1: she just is completely horrified at the experience that happened 320 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 1: to her. Her brother puts her on a bike and 321 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: brings her to the hospital. And when she goes to 322 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: the hospital, I mean, they do what they can, but 323 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 1: they're in a village and they don't have the best 324 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 1: medical treatment, and they're kind of like, this is all 325 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 1: we can do for you, and you need to go 326 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 1: to a more advanced hospital to get any kind of 327 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: advanced treatment. So then, of course she's going to be 328 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 1: left with all these scars because she's not getting the 329 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: proper treatment, which can if you get really bad scars 330 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 1: all over your body, it could lead to something called contracture, 331 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: which is the scars tighten up so much that you 332 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 1: can't use like full function of your hands and everything 333 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: like that because it's all scrunched up and you're not 334 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 1: able to open your joints up. And yeah, just just 335 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: completely terrible, and to not the experience itself is terrible. 336 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 1: But then when I tell you this other stuff that 337 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 1: happened too. So she went, she went away to college 338 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 1: to Delhi, which is a a more a city, so 339 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 1: she felt like for the first time she was able 340 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 1: to walk around the city and not have to cover 341 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: up her scars because it was just more accepted there. Well, also, 342 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 1: it seems like her family was embarrassed by her appearance. 343 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:14,479 Speaker 2: Yes, wasn't her fault. 344 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 1: So yeah, so every time she went back to her 345 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,400 Speaker 1: village to visit her family, like she had to cover 346 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: up again, which is outrageous. But this is the most 347 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 1: disgusting part of it. So one day she was talking 348 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 1: to her mom and she asked her mom if she 349 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 1: was trying to find a husband to marry her, and 350 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: her mom looked at her and was like, who would 351 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 1: want to marry you? It's like terrible, It is so terrible. 352 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 1: And again again we're talking about another horrible story involving acid. 353 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:43,400 Speaker 2: But at least this also has. 354 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: A silver lining and a good ending that she ended 355 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: up getting married. Actually, so somebody did want to marry her, 356 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 1: of course, and hopefully she's like, doesn't talk to her 357 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: family anymore. To be honest with you, I hate to 358 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: say that, but like there's some reasons that you should 359 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: in and these people are terrible. 360 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:04,360 Speaker 2: She was a victim of their decision making. 361 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it's not like I don't know, 362 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: her brother decided not to marry somebody, and then they 363 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:10,640 Speaker 1: attacked her. 364 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 2: That wasn't her fault. 365 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 1: And then even if it was random and not connected 366 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:16,919 Speaker 1: to a decision a family member made, it's still not 367 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: her fault regardless. 368 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 2: And then you're gonna shame her. 369 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: And she was saying at some point she was just 370 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: hiding in her room for periods of time, not taking 371 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 1: any visitors or anything because she was so ashamed of it. 372 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 1: And then to think, you know, you go to this 373 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: big city and everybody's treating you normal, and then every 374 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:34,439 Speaker 1: time you go home, everybody's treating you like you're some monster. Yeah, 375 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 1: it's disgusting. It is, it really is. I mean a 376 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 1: part of that is just it's just cultural. We've heard 377 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 1: this and other stories that we talk about in the 378 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: grosser room too. It's called a lot of it's cultural. 379 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 1: They just they just think that it's not just the 380 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,119 Speaker 1: mom that's like that like, there's probably other moms that 381 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: would probably react the same exact way living in that culture, 382 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But it's still from coming 383 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:03,919 Speaker 1: from culture where parents are nurturing and loving of their 384 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: children and accepting of all of their things and everything. 385 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 2: It's so heartbreaking to hear, you know. 386 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, this episode is brought to you by the Gross Room. 387 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 2: Guys. 388 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 1: Today is the last chance that you could get in 389 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 1: the Gross Room for only twenty dollars for a whole 390 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: entire year, and this is our last sale of the year. 391 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 1: So if you didn't get what you wanted for Christmas, 392 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 1: you definitely want to get into the Gross Room. Yeah, 393 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 1: head over to the grossroom dot com for more info 394 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:42,120 Speaker 1: and to sign up today. So there's this myth that 395 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 1: you can't get pregnant through anal sex, but apparently in 396 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:47,160 Speaker 1: rare circumstances this is possible. 397 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, well it is. 398 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: It is not possible if you have normal anatomy. In 399 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,959 Speaker 1: this particular case, this person had something called a chloequal 400 00:19:58,359 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: male formation. 401 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 2: Do you know what a is? Do you remember from biology? 402 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:07,360 Speaker 1: Let me tell you about my biology class somewhere around 403 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 1: Christmas time. I don't know what was happening with my teacher, 404 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:13,919 Speaker 1: but he just stopped being interested in teaching biology. And 405 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,399 Speaker 1: this is around the time the oil spill happened in 406 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 1: the Gulf of Mexico. So we started off watching news 407 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 1: coverage of the oil spell and we started learning about 408 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 1: how damaging that could be to the environment. And then 409 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 1: it turned into that being full time for the rest 410 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 1: of the year, where we watched news coverage about that, 411 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:34,239 Speaker 1: and then we started watching dirty jobs. And then I 412 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 1: guess maybe he was getting in trouble because he wasn't 413 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:39,239 Speaker 1: turning tests in because we weren't taking tests and we 414 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: weren't certainly not getting homework. So he'd be like, Okay, 415 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 1: we have a pop quiz. The answers are totally not 416 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 1: in page seventy five. I'm gonna go leave for ten minutes. 417 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,879 Speaker 1: So obviously that's how we were all passing our tests. 418 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: And to make this long story short, basically, I don't 419 00:20:56,960 --> 00:21:00,400 Speaker 1: really know biology because that's how I was taught it. Yeah, 420 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 1: but you seem to know about the oil spill, so 421 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 1: maybe you did pick up something. That's all I know 422 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 1: was that the teacher that was getting ready to get retire. 423 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:11,880 Speaker 2: No, he was pretty young, like your age at the time. 424 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:12,399 Speaker 2: This happened. 425 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 1: I mean I've had shitty teachers like that too, but 426 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: all right, so anyway, getting sidetracked a cloak is like 427 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:22,479 Speaker 1: you know when when you saw the lizard poop and 428 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 1: it had it was like poop and it had a 429 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 1: big chunk of white on it, or like bird. 430 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 2: Poop does too. Okay, it's because. 431 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,920 Speaker 1: They have a hole where everything comes out, like poop 432 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: and peek come out at the same time. Okay, So 433 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: you can have that happen in a human rarely if 434 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 1: a human doesn't form properly when they're a fetus. So 435 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 1: all of the tubes is in a female, right you 436 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 1: have your anus, your vagina, your urethra. Like sometimes they 437 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,880 Speaker 1: cannot form their own tubes and they could be fused 438 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 1: and then this it happens sometimes. So when a fetus 439 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 1: is born like that, they could fix it. And in 440 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 1: this case, I guess they said they thought they fixed it, 441 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: but they didn't and for whatever reason, either a surgical 442 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 1: issue or a natural issue, which would be a fistula 443 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 1: when organs are stuck together and communicate with one another. 444 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:16,439 Speaker 1: Her large intestine was communicating with her vagina, so she 445 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:20,400 Speaker 1: knew she was only like this medical report. They only 446 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:24,360 Speaker 1: knew that she was having anal sex because she couldn't 447 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 1: have vaginal sex because she was born with this malformation. 448 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:32,959 Speaker 1: And when she only so she only had anal sex, 449 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 1: and the semen was going into her anus and then 450 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 1: into her intestine, which was then communicating with her vagina, 451 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 1: and that's how it got in there. Okay, so this 452 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,959 Speaker 1: kid happened in a normal situation, obviously because she was 453 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 1: born with different anatomy. No, it's just because she was 454 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 1: born with different anatomy, and it's it's super it's super 455 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:58,359 Speaker 1: rare for it to happen, but so it could happen 456 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 1: at any time. There's other circumstances where you could get 457 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 1: fistulas where sometimes if you have surgery or certain cancers 458 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 1: or something like that, that that like you could poop 459 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,640 Speaker 1: and poop could come out of your vagina because it's 460 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 1: all of the just think of it as like these 461 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: three tubes that are all back to back and they're 462 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 1: just very thin, and if there's just a chance that 463 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:25,400 Speaker 1: they could communicate with one another, that it's totally possible, 464 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 1: but like the probability of it is, so it's just low. 465 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 1: But this is how this one girl got pregnant in particular, 466 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,639 Speaker 1: So does somebody with this condition that gets pregnant, can. 467 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,680 Speaker 2: They have the baby no problem? 468 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: Or is it considered like ultra high risk or I 469 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 1: don't I would say, I don't think so. I mean, 470 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,399 Speaker 1: if she can't have vaginal sex, then that to me, 471 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 1: would she could have the baby, she could keep the pregnancy. Yeah, 472 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 1: I just I don't see why she couldn't keep the 473 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,959 Speaker 1: pregnancy if all of her if her uterine and now 474 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: to me is fairly normal, I don't see why she couldn't. 475 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 2: But yeah, she wouldn't. 476 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: They would schedule a SEAS action for her and monitor, 477 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 1: she'd be heavily monitored, you know. 478 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 2: But I don't. I don't see why. 479 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 1: I don't see why not unless because sometimes when you 480 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:19,159 Speaker 1: have all of these, when you have a cogenital anomaly 481 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 1: like this with your with your general you urinary track, 482 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,399 Speaker 1: when you're a fetus, then sometimes there could be a 483 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 1: uterine abnormality, but other times not. 484 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 2: I just I don't really know in this particular case. 485 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: All right, So let's get onto this next story. For 486 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 1: several years, this seventy six year old woman was complaining 487 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 1: that she had something quote coming out of her vagina. 488 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,880 Speaker 1: She said she was having issues with peeing and sometimes 489 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 1: had bloody vaginal discharge. So when she was ultimately examined, 490 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 1: she was showing signs of prolapse and they give her 491 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:54,360 Speaker 1: a hysterectomy. Everything seemed totally normal until. 492 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,720 Speaker 2: You guys in the lab got her uterus. 493 00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:02,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, So prolapse is when it especially happens to older 494 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 1: women of child bearing age. Think of the muscles of 495 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 1: your pelvis in between your legs as kind of a 496 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 1: basket that's holding all of your organs in and when 497 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,959 Speaker 1: you give vaginal childbirth, it weakens. When you get older, 498 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: when you strain to go to the bathroom, those muscles 499 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: could weaken and then your organs could kind of start 500 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 1: falling out. 501 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 2: Of their holes. 502 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:30,120 Speaker 1: So, rectal prolapse is when the rectum starts falling out. 503 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 1: Uterine prolapse is when the uterus starts falling out. You 504 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,919 Speaker 1: could also have it with the bladder that's called the sisticial. 505 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 1: So when you have uterine prolapse, sometimes your uterus can 506 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:45,199 Speaker 1: completely fall like into your vagina so much so that 507 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,679 Speaker 1: you could see it hanging out of your vagina a 508 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: little bit. And there's been stories of women that just 509 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,679 Speaker 1: kind of like stick it back up in there. But 510 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,879 Speaker 1: it's uncomfortable and you feel a lot of pressure. So 511 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:59,120 Speaker 1: they decided to take out her uterus. And when they 512 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 1: take out her uterus, they send it to pathology like 513 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 1: they always do. And when the person in pathology opened it, 514 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 1: there was a cricket inside of her uterus. A cricket 515 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 1: how so all right? Wait, so first of all, it's 516 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: not even just in her vagina either. It's like all 517 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 1: the way up now. It's in her uterus where a 518 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 1: baby would grow. All right, So how could it have 519 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 1: gotten up there? Would just crawl up there? Do you 520 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 1: think you had to go up as like a little 521 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 1: like a baby cricket? 522 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:24,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. 523 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 1: I don't know how the hell it got up there. 524 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 1: But when you have multiple babies, vaginal childbirth, your cervical oss, 525 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: which is the opening that goes up into your uterus, 526 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 1: it could get pretty big. I've seen some that we 527 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 1: just would joke and be like, this looks like kind 528 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,159 Speaker 1: of sloppy, Like it's like a sloppy uterus, you know, 529 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 1: like you could almost stick your pinky finger up there, 530 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 1: like sometimes you shouldn't be able to in normal circumstances 531 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:54,200 Speaker 1: because it's to close. 532 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,679 Speaker 2: Up all the way when you have a baby. 533 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:59,680 Speaker 1: But I've seen so many uteride that that they're kind 534 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 1: of that if you were holding it and it was 535 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: filled with blood, you could just kind of like squirt 536 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,680 Speaker 1: it and it just would like fall like it falls out, 537 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 1: like it's just open and big. And then the fact 538 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 1: that she had prolapse too was just like it was 539 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 1: it was hanging down and you know, like I just 540 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 1: was saying it, it could come out of your vagina. 541 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: So now it's not like all the way up in 542 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,919 Speaker 1: your vagina. It's kind of right there. And if you're. 543 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 2: Sleeping, you're not wearing underwear. 544 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:29,640 Speaker 1: Whatever happens, there's a situation where a cricket could get 545 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:34,160 Speaker 1: up there. It happens, like it just happens. People get 546 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: bugs in their vagina. Unfortunately, Like this isn't the first time, 547 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,640 Speaker 1: and it's not the last time. It's disturbing, Yeah, it's 548 00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 1: disturbing as hell, but it like it could happen other times. 549 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 1: In certain cultures, they do certain types of procedures like 550 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 1: they could have done in this case. Instead of resorting 551 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,359 Speaker 1: to surgery right away, they do something called a cervical 552 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,440 Speaker 1: sirclage that like goes that could kind of like push 553 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:05,360 Speaker 1: the uterus back up there. And sometimes certain cultures use 554 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 1: like weird fruits and nuts to stick it up the 555 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 1: vagina to like make the uterus stay up there again. 556 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 1: Like there's there's just other ways that it could have 557 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,919 Speaker 1: got up there because this didn't happen in America, you know, 558 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: But yeah. 559 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 2: Just I can't. 560 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 1: I just still like thinking about being a PA and 561 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 1: opening a uterus and seeing a cricket. I just don't 562 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 1: even know how I would react. It's like mind blowing. 563 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 1: It's it is, it's mind blowing. And the picture is 564 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,120 Speaker 1: just so outrageous looking, like you think it's like staged 565 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: or something, but it's. 566 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 2: Not all right. 567 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 1: In Taiwan, this woman died after overdosing on sleeping pills 568 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 1: and was brought to the morgue. Well later on, a 569 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 1: morgue worker got to work and noticed that the door 570 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 1: was not closed right and that the temperature in the 571 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 1: fridge was a little higher than it. 572 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 2: Should have been. 573 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 1: So she goes to check out the situation and finds 574 00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:58,720 Speaker 1: the deceased woman's boyfriend, who was alive, laying next to. 575 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:03,360 Speaker 2: Her in the more refrigerator. Again something I've never experienced. 576 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 1: This sounds like it's like. 577 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 2: A Romeo and Juliet situation. 578 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, because he had also, they found out later taken 579 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 1: a bunch of sleeping pills. They were thinking to try 580 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: to kill himself. That's very Romeo and Juliet. Yeah, right, 581 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 1: like in the I mean, where was it in the 582 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: crypt or whatever, you know, that's where it happened for 583 00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: Romeo and Juliet. But like it's the same exact thing. Oh, 584 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna kill myself now over my dead girlfriend's body. Yeah, 585 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 1: I mean it's so disturbing. I can't imagine like seeing 586 00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 1: a person in the Morgue refrigerator, although it almost happened 587 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: multiple times because people were always like ending up down 588 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 1: at the Morgue when they were looking for the cafeteria 589 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: in the hospital or something. Well, they said that they've 590 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 1: taken new security measures to prevent family members who come 591 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:55,239 Speaker 1: into ID bodies from staying longer than they should. So 592 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 1: I think they're eluding. That's what happened. He came into 593 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 1: ID here and then just never left. It hit out 594 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 1: and yeah, the woman that found him was obviously traumatized 595 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: and was screaming, and it was like a whole scene. 596 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:08,800 Speaker 2: So yeah, I would be. 597 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 1: Too, because you the last thing, like are wherever I worked, 598 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 1: the morg door always locked and you needed a password 599 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 1: to get into it. So it's not like people always 600 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 1: were ran. People would have walked in all the time. 601 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 1: Somebody did walk in once, thank god, we had nothing 602 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 1: going on because one of the residents had the door 603 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 1: like wedged open. I don't even know why, but somebody, 604 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 1: you know, there was a whole office before the actual 605 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,480 Speaker 1: morgue and I saw like just through the windows someone 606 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 1: there that shouldn't have been there, and then I was 607 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 1: just like, oh my, like I ran up really quick, 608 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So that was almost like terrible. 609 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,719 Speaker 1: But yeah, in general, like they should be locked so 610 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 1: people can't get in there. And the only way that 611 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,400 Speaker 1: you would have been able to get into the refrigerators 612 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: the same way, like you had to go round that way. 613 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 2: It was locked from the outside just because you can't 614 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 2: risk like that. 615 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 1: And well it's just and the weird shit you hear 616 00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 1: people do and all, like, no, it has to be 617 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 1: like really secure. Imagine also, like you guys take a body, 618 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 1: like you have a fridge with multiple bodies in it. 619 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 1: One of the bodies is taken out on the table. 620 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 1: You like run out for a second, and then you 621 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 1: come back in and you're like mid autopsy, and then 622 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 1: somebody just casually walks out of the fridge or you 623 00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 1: go in there to like check something and there's a 624 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 1: live a person that's alive in there. 625 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 2: No, no, I can't. 626 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 1: I've never said something that's never happened. I've never found 627 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 1: a person alive in the fridge. 628 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 2: Oh, thank goodness. 629 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 1: Well, if you guys have a shocking story, please submit 630 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,320 Speaker 1: it to stories at Mothernosdeath dot com and we will 631 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 1: see you next week. Sayah, thank you for listening to 632 00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:01,360 Speaker 1: Mother Knows Death. As a reminder, my training is as 633 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 1: a pathologist's assistant. I have a master's level education and 634 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: specialize in anatomy and pathology education. 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