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Speaker 1: Wind down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: All Right, we were just talking Hanna because Hannah's back. Hi, Hannah,

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Speaker 2: you just came back from pregnancy. Like, what is it

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Speaker 2: called again?

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Speaker 3: Pregnancy?

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Speaker 2: How old is babes now? He's five months?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Fast?

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 3: Holy, I feel like I just saw you.

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Speaker 1: Wait, didn't we just see you and pregnant?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I guess that's that was Jackie.

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Speaker 3: No, it was Hannah. When did when I saw you

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Speaker 3: guys in November, I was.

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Speaker 2: Like, oh, yeah, I'm sorry, guys months already.

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Speaker 3: How are you feeling. I'm feeling good.

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Speaker 5: I'm tired.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that seems accurate.

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Speaker 7: Was absolutely a huge shock to me. Like labor and delivery,

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Speaker 7: I was very lucky. Everything was great, and then postpartum

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Speaker 7: has had its challenges.

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Speaker 5: It's been difficult.

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Speaker 2: What do you think the what's been the biggest challenge

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Speaker 2: with your postpartum I think definitely breastfeeding.

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Speaker 7: That trying to He's my first, so trying to understand

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Speaker 7: even how to do it, how often they eat, all

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Speaker 7: of that has kind of been a huge surprise. My

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Speaker 7: milk like wasn't coming in, I wasn't producing enough, and

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Speaker 7: so trying to like you know do I you know,

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Speaker 7: supplement with formula.

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Speaker 6: He was like super slow to gain weight.

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Speaker 7: It took us He's supposed to gain weight or back

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Speaker 7: to birthwait two weeks, and it took him about like

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Speaker 7: six to seven weeks to get there.

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Speaker 2: Catherine doesn't just bring you back to like PTSD when

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Speaker 2: you walked into the hospital and you're like, this is

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Speaker 2: the formula bottle step away.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, experience too. Yeah, it's it's tough. I feel you.

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Speaker 8: I feel like women just need to hear that because

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Speaker 8: there's so many like boobs out moms that make it

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Speaker 8: look so easy, and I'm so excited for them.

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Speaker 2: That's been so true.

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Speaker 1: By the way, even when I could breastfeed, there's no

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Speaker 1: way I could have just whipped it out and it

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Speaker 1: would have been that.

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Speaker 3: Easy just to go boop. I mean, it was like,

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Speaker 3: how do I hold them? How do I do?

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Speaker 4: Do you?

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Speaker 9: Guys?

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Speaker 2: Remember with Jace, I had Julie and my neighbor Ashley

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Speaker 2: trying to get Jace to lashes. I didn't know how

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Speaker 2: to do it because I Jolie didn't breastfeed, So I'm like,

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Speaker 2: then I felt guilty for not breastfeeding. So I had

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Speaker 2: my two girlfriends trying to like force his little head

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Speaker 2: on there and like trying to latch, and then I'm

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Speaker 2: like bawling crying like no, no, not a mom.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what I'm doing.

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Speaker 2: It's like you not like it's struggling that does not

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Speaker 2: make you like a great mom though. That's just something

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Speaker 2: that you have to just learn through the process.

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Speaker 3: As it was a mess.

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Speaker 8: And then I found out when legend was three's tongue tied,

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Speaker 8: lip tid, and I'm like, well, that would have been

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Speaker 8: when I was trying to dram my size double d

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Speaker 8: into his sweet little face.

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Speaker 3: Poor thing. It's probably like, ah, how do I do this?

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Speaker 2: You know A thing I loved though about postpartum and

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you experiences, Hannah, but I was

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Speaker 2: a huge fan of the night sweats. Huh, I will

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Speaker 2: I would wake up both kids would wake up in

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Speaker 2: and I would wake up being like yes, and I loved.

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Speaker 10: It, like hot because yeah, water well, like I lost

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Speaker 10: like some of the waterway, but it just felt like

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Speaker 10: I felt like a later No, I'm I don't know,

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Speaker 10: it's just something like like I like to sweat.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, because it's like you just served.

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Speaker 8: I did feel that way in hot yoga though, right,

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Speaker 8: and then I would do regular yoga and I'm like, well,

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Speaker 3: Did you have nice sweats?

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Speaker 2: I didn't experienced nice sweats that much.

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Speaker 1: Apparently it was totally Cramer because she was losing another

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Speaker 1: waterway over there.

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Speaker 2: I was just a huge fan of it. I loved it.

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Speaker 7: I mean I had nice before pregnancy, and I hated

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Speaker 7: them then. So I mean, yeah, that's like one thing

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Speaker 7: I've gotten to like skip over.

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Speaker 2: Mm. So that's like the one thing about like perimenopause.

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Speaker 2: And I'm excited about her going into that pouring it off.

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Speaker 2: Have you experienced the when someone walks into the room

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Speaker 7: Oh you know, I feel very fortunate. My husband will

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Speaker 7: tell you he's like he like told my sister's husband,

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Speaker 7: he's like, have a baby. It's the happiest I've ever seen, Hannah. So,

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Speaker 7: but I have had like random and it hasn't been

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Speaker 7: very many, So I feel very fortunate. But I have

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Speaker 7: had random moments of just like overwhelming frustrating and I

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Speaker 7: just break down and cry. Yesterday actually happened with one

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Speaker 7: of them, but I fin feel very fortunate. But I

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Speaker 7: something I have been surprised is and I thought I

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Speaker 7: was kind of past it is just like most recently,

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Speaker 7: probably about a couple of weeks ago, my anxiety kind

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Speaker 7: of ticked in. I have never really been an anxious person,

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Speaker 7: and so I was really shocked that I started kind

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Speaker 7: of having like all these dreams. And it happened when

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Speaker 7: like a fire, how do I get to him? And

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Speaker 7: things like that, And so I feel like my post

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Speaker 7: part of anxiety kind of hit me.

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Speaker 3: A little later than I thought.

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Speaker 7: I was kind of surprised by the.

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Speaker 3: That post part of my anxiety is a real thing

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Speaker 3: for sure.

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Speaker 2: And also like the hormones will stay in your body,

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Speaker 2: what do they say, like for like a year, year

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Speaker 2: a minute, it takes a minute to go back to.

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Speaker 2: And then also like that anxiety, welcome the motherhood, You're

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Speaker 2: going to have that fearing like you know every time

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Speaker 2: you drop them off, I'm like, well, God, what if?

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Speaker 2: And it's like that's just yep.

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Speaker 8: Yep, like loves like I have stuff he knows, and

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Speaker 8: I was like, do you have a tumor?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, well you have to like what's my story?

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Speaker 8: You know, like our world is. That's the other difference

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Speaker 8: our parents did. Weren't flooded and inundated with all these

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Speaker 2: Also, not to just make it any harder for you,

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Speaker 2: but when the kids get older, school, so we got

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Speaker 2: we gotta notice from the teacher saying like, hey, we

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Speaker 2: did the intruder lockdowns today. And so I was like,

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Speaker 2: you know, how is your day? And he's like it's

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Speaker 2: then I said, did you guys have any drills today?

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Speaker 2: And he is and it's maybe me so sad He's

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Speaker 2: like yeah, He's like we had to we had to

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Speaker 2: broke my heart and I go, do you know why

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Speaker 2: to deal with tornado drills and fire drills, not someone

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Speaker 2: like fearing for our lives. Yeah, I was like, that's

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Speaker 8: I think that's sometimes where I had the disconnect with,

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Speaker 8: like some disconnect with my parents or Preston's parents, is

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Speaker 8: they're like, oh, we know we did this, we had

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Speaker 8: to do this before, and I'm like, but you never

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Speaker 8: had to do it to the level of hypervigilance that

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Speaker 8: we're all doing it. Like it's pesticides on food, it's

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Speaker 8: sex traffic. It's like, you know, like you can't put

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Speaker 8: take it. I can't put them in school because somebody

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Speaker 2: Checking in how's your anxiety, Hannah?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm so sorry, Hannah.

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Speaker 8: No, I go throw out your non organic celery Hannah,

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Speaker 8: because I've just added.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, these are all things I've already thought about, and

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Speaker 7: like already I'm like, I don't know how you send

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Speaker 7: of moments of where we're at in this country now,

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Speaker 7: and like how many how often school shootings happen? And

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Speaker 7: so no, it's like stuff I'm already thinking about. Like

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Speaker 8: Be I used to go for runs at eleven pm.

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Speaker 8: I mean, what is wrong with me?

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Speaker 3: Now? I would never do that, not anymore it's just

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Speaker 3: everything is so different.

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Speaker 2: Did you guys hear about So there's a right, well

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Speaker 2: now there's a writer strike going on right now, so

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, but they're saying this writer strike is

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Speaker 2: probably gonna last just as long, and it's because of AI,

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Speaker 2: because a lot of people are using AI as a

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Speaker 2: way to like write, and so they say they don't

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Speaker 2: need the writers. But there's also those AI scams going

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Speaker 2: mimic someone's voice and they're scamming yes, and I'm like yes.

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Speaker 2: Like one mom was like they had my kid, said

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Speaker 2: it was kidnap. The other one said my brother died.

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Speaker 2: And I was like watching this, I was like, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, terrifying, and like, what is happening it's crazy

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Speaker 2: you brought that up.

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Speaker 1: Kayden and I were talking about it yesterday. He's like, hey, Mom,

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Speaker 1: He's like, how do you not know about this? He's like,

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Speaker 1: it's like the AI thing, Like kids can go in

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Speaker 6: then by the time you find someone, it takes a

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Speaker 6: year through all the tests and the blood work and

437
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,640
Speaker 6: the paperwork and this is and the that's so it's

438
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Speaker 6: a journey.

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Speaker 8: That process is exhausting too, Like the surrogate search, I've

440
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Speaker 8: had a few friends that have had heartbreaking stories around that.

441
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Speaker 6: So yeah, I'm really grateful again for like people who share,

442
00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,919
Speaker 6: and Kim Kardashian is someone who obviously shares everything, and

443
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,119
Speaker 6: she shared her team with me, but she also shared

444
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,199
Speaker 6: her advice because I said, how like, am I supposed

445
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,320
Speaker 6: to tell her what to eat? Am I? Like Maria,

446
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 6: I was so chill with everybody, and I just realized,

447
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 6: like you know, especially a lot of us women, we

448
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,320
Speaker 6: love to control things, were scared. We want to make

449
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Speaker 6: sure everything's perfect. And when I watched how she walked

450
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 6: through her surrogacy journeys. She was very chill about everything,

451
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Speaker 6: and that was such a great example for me to follow.

452
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 6: So my surrogate was so awesome. She was like, I

453
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Speaker 6: want to do whatever you would do if you were pregnant.

454
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Speaker 6: I almost fell off my chair. I was like, I

455
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Speaker 6: love you, thank you. I was like, well, I think

456
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Speaker 6: the basic things is I would eat.

457
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Speaker 3: Like please, don't smoke or drink.

458
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean those are obvious.

459
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Speaker 6: She's a mom of two and she's like, I mean

460
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Speaker 6: her and her family, they are family.

461
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Speaker 5: Now.

462
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Speaker 6: I love them so much. A lot of people don't

463
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Speaker 6: have relationships with their surrogates, and I know that from

464
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Speaker 6: our surrogate agent. She's like, you guys have like a

465
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Speaker 6: very special thing. I'm like, when people are in our world,

466
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Speaker 6: their family, like that's just it. But they're obviously giving

467
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:41,200
Speaker 6: us the greatest gift ever. But I said, I would

468
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Speaker 6: just like eat organic and I would stay away from

469
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Speaker 6: sugar because obviously we have a lot of sugar issues

470
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Speaker 6: in our family. And I would stay away from caffeine.

471
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Speaker 6: That's what I would do. I go, but listen, if

472
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Speaker 6: you have a craving, you eat it. Because if I

473
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Speaker 6: had a craving. I would eat it, so don't you

474
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Speaker 6: don't have to be crazy about it, because I want

475
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Speaker 6: you to be calm so that the baby's calm. And

476
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Speaker 6: so I sent her I have a thrive market. I

477
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Speaker 6: do like a meat, fish, poultry, whatever delivery, so it's

478
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Speaker 6: all organic. I sent her some organic skin stuff from

479
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Speaker 6: Juice Beauty that I loved, and then what else, sent

480
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Speaker 6: her some supplements that my doulah friend, Lorie Bregman told

481
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Speaker 6: me about. And we've just been really it's just been

482
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Speaker 6: about communicating.

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Speaker 5: The baby's kicking.

484
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Speaker 6: Oh my god. She every time she hears your voice notes,

485
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Speaker 6: she goes crazy. And it's been such a beautiful journey.

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Speaker 8: Did you know that you were having a girl? Did

487
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Speaker 8: you do like a gender reveal to find out?

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Speaker 5: I knew, we knew what we implanted.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 3: That's always so sweet.

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Speaker 4: Hey dude, this is Christine Taylor and this is David Lasher.

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Speaker 9: You may remember us as teenage co stars on the

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Speaker 9: Nickelodeon show Hey Dude Back.

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Speaker 1: In the Day.

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Speaker 4: Now decades later, we are together again as hosts of

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Speaker 4: the Hey Dude the Nineties called podcast, where we revisit

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Speaker 4: amazing nineties nostalgia.

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Speaker 9: From music to movies, to television and comedy. We cover

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Speaker 4: We get to do it with an array of guests

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Speaker 9: list goes on, and.

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Speaker 4: David, don't forget our number one fan, mister ben Stiller.

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Speaker 9: How could I forget Ben Stiller? I mean, it was

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Speaker 9: so nice for us to both meet him for the

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Speaker 9: first time. He was an amazing guest. We've also had

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Speaker 9: on other nineties megastars like Jason Priestley, Melissa Joan Hart,

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Speaker 9: cal Mitchell, and Maam Biolic just the name a few,

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Speaker 9: and there's so much more to come.

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Speaker 2: I gotta say, I'm I'm so envious of your outlook

518
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,919
Speaker 2: and I and I wish I could take like a

519
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 2: percentage of it because I was in therapy the other

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Speaker 2: day and we were trying to do em dr around.

521
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Speaker 2: I was like, I have such a fear of death

522
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Speaker 2: and like dying that like I'm like things aren't going

523
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Speaker 2: to work out and I'm gonna die, and I'm like,

524
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Speaker 2: it's just such a crappy outlook on things. But I

525
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Speaker 2: don't know if it's because it's got it's gotten worse,

526
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 2: says I've become a mom. But it's like I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I just I'm always like like I've seen like those

528
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Speaker 2: scans and we've we've Catherine and I have done things,

529
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Speaker 2: and like I'm gonna find something and then I'm gonna

530
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Speaker 2: because any time I have something, like I was having

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Speaker 2: a little health thing and I was like, I'm dying.

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Speaker 5: This is it.

533
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Speaker 2: I'm dying. And I'm like, why do I go straight

534
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Speaker 2: to that, like to that fear instead of going to

535
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Speaker 2: you know, everything will be okay and you know there's miracles,

536
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Speaker 2: And I don't know, I just have like the hardest

537
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Speaker 2: time with that piece. It's like, even when I'm on

538
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Speaker 2: a freaking plane.

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Speaker 6: I love you for your honesty. I think that's why

540
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:09,159
Speaker 6: your audience loves you too. You know, it's it's a

541
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Speaker 6: practice like anything else. So I'd ask you, what is

542
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Speaker 6: your fear of dying? What are you most afraid of?

543
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Speaker 6: Are you afraid of the pain? Are you afraid of

544
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Speaker 6: not being here for your kids? Are you afraid of

545
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Speaker 6: not being here at all? Like?

546
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Speaker 5: What are your biggest fears?

547
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Speaker 3: She's like, all of the.

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Speaker 2: F Yeah, no, it's it's it's my kids, like not

549
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Speaker 2: being able to like you know me, and then like,

550
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Speaker 2: I believe in heaven, I believe in all the things.

551
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Speaker 2: But I'm like, but then you're just gone.

552
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Speaker 3: And so this is like I'm gonna stop.

553
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Speaker 5: But it's okay. I It's just so.

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Speaker 6: I was extreme opposite when I got diagnosed with a

555
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Speaker 6: brain tumor. I was so burnt out and so unhappy.

556
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Speaker 6: I had dealt with so much workplace toxicity and so

557
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 6: much shit, and my mom was in the throes of

558
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Speaker 6: her brain cancer, and I was like, okay, is this

559
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Speaker 6: my get out of Joe free? Card? Am I out?

560
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Speaker 6: I'm like cool, If this is it, I'm done. And

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Speaker 6: I said to the kinesiologist I worked with at the time,

562
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Speaker 6: I said, I don't care if I die, and he

563
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Speaker 6: was like, I go, but I don't know if I

564
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Speaker 6: believe myself, I said, but I don't. I don't care,

565
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Speaker 6: and he goes, mmm, he did the like the testing.

566
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Speaker 6: He was Yep, you're telling the truth. He goes, but

567
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Speaker 6: that's a problem.

568
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Speaker 3: We need to fix that, and so he cares if

569
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Speaker 3: you die, So that's good.

570
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So the whole thought was, Okay, well, there are things

572
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 6: that I have to change in my life and adjustments

573
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Speaker 6: I have to make, and I did those. When this happened,

574
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 6: I was terrified of dying because I was like, I

575
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Speaker 6: have a baby coming. So when you're a mom, it's

576
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Speaker 6: natural to be terrified of dying because you you're a

577
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Speaker 6: mama bear, you have a baby. So I wouldn't, you know,

578
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Speaker 6: shame yourself for that. That's a real emotion and you

579
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Speaker 6: shouldn't be mad at yourself for thinking those things. But

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Speaker 6: what I would say is some tools that I use

581
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Speaker 6: that help. And in the moments of like listen, it

582
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Speaker 6: was like Kevin and I were just like, what the

583
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Speaker 6: f excuse my language, everybody, but that applies there. We're like,

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Speaker 6: what the frig? Like, Wow, how is this happening? How

585
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Speaker 6: am I about to die? This is crazy? And at

586
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Speaker 6: some point I was like, Okay, I've learned so many

587
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 6: things on my show, so many experts have come on

588
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 6: every day. I'm going to start applying some of these

589
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Speaker 6: things because one of the things when I was praying

590
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Speaker 6: to God was like, how could you do this? How

591
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Speaker 6: could you take me before I get to meet my baby?

592
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Speaker 6: Doesn't make sense? And then I just kept saying, it

593
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Speaker 6: doesn't make sense, it doesn't make sense, and I realized

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Speaker 6: it doesn't make sense. I know that this happens. I've

595
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 6: heard horrible stories, but I don't think that's my story.

596
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Speaker 6: And it started just kind of coming naturally out, and

597
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 6: I go, wait, I don't know the end of the story,

598
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Speaker 6: So why am I going to catastrophize. That's not gonna

599
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 6: help me. It's not gonna help my body, and it's

600
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 6: not gonna help anybody around me. So I was like, Okay.

601
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Speaker 6: Another tip I learned from a hypnotherapist. Her name is

602
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Speaker 6: Ida Kendall. She said, choose wonder over worry. So when

603
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 6: you're in those really dark, scary places, shift into this.

604
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Speaker 5: I did it.

605
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Speaker 6: I was getting lots of bad news from the doctors.

606
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Speaker 6: It was really really scary, and I said at some

607
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 6: point I was like, okay, I'm done with this. Then

608
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Speaker 6: I go, I wonder what it's going to be like

609
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Speaker 6: when the doctor calls me with good news. Next, I

610
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 6: wonder what it's going to be like when I find

611
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Speaker 6: an amazing surgeon and he performs the best possible surgery

612
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Speaker 6: and I'm healthy and safe. After I wonder what it's

613
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Speaker 6: going to be like when I recover really well and

614
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 6: I can look back on this and say, I'm okay.

615
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 6: I just kept doing that, you guys, and it kept working.

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00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 6: Literally the doctor would call me right after and he'd

617
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 6: have good news. And so choosing wonder over worry is

618
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 6: a tool. And then also, like I think, being prepared

619
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Speaker 6: right so you can also put things into place so

620
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 6: you feel like you have done everything you can. We

621
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 6: can't control anything. God can take us any second in

622
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Speaker 6: any kind of way. And we know now that life

623
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Speaker 6: is even more precious after COVID because COVID's taking people

624
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 6: still with heart attacks and vascular strokes and all kinds

625
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 6: of things. It's wreaked havoc on our bodies. So healthy

626
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 6: people are now unhealthy, like people left and right are

627
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 6: having things that were totally normal healthy people. So it's

628
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 6: more precious than ever, which is probably as a sensitive

629
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 6: person what you're feeling too. But put the things in

630
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 6: place that need to be in place, so you know

631
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Speaker 6: you've done everything you can. I called my best friend,

632
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 6: who's secretly hiding next to me right now. She's in

633
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 6: town visiting me, and I said, I have to change

634
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 6: my trust and I have to include my baby in here.

635
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 6: We didn't even think of that. I said, would you

636
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Speaker 6: take care of her if something happened to me and

637
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 6: if something happened to Kevin too. Obviously f're on a

638
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 6: plane like we were flying to live with Kelly and

639
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 6: Ryan to announce the baby. And she was like, yeah,

640
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 6: of course, Okay, that made me feel better. I knew

641
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 6: I had somebody that I loved and trusted that would

642
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 6: take on that responsibility. I'm like, you'll have plenty to

643
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 6: do it with everything's going to be written down. But okay,

644
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 6: that helps, And so you can do things like that

645
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 6: to help you feel a little better. But I think

646
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 6: ultimately we have to surrender that to the higher power.

647
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Speaker 5: We don't know.

648
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 6: So all we can do is live our best lives

649
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 6: and not on the phony living my best life bullshit.

650
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 6: Live the best possible life you can every single day.

651
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 6: Surround yourself with good people, take care of your health,

652
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Speaker 6: have it as high a consideration as your career and

653
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Speaker 6: everything else. Listen to your body when it makes noises.

654
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 6: We listen to our cars when it makes noises, and

655
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 6: we go to the mechanic and we're like, oh, when

656
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 6: I drive, I hit the accelerator, it makes this noise,

657
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 6: and when I hit the break it does that.

658
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 5: With our bodies.

659
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 6: We don't do even that with the doctor. We don't

660
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 6: even say that we get there. We forget because we

661
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 6: don't keep a pain journal. Keep a pain journal so

662
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 6: you can go in and say, oh, well, actually there's

663
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 6: been a pattern here. So we have to listen to

664
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 6: our bodies, and we have to take care of ourselves,

665
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 6: and we have to really find ways to cope with

666
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 6: our fears. And meditation is a really great one, Doctor

667
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 6: jo Despens. I can't say enough great things about how

668
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 6: much that's helped me and saved me and changed my life.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, thank you.

670
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Steps you have your podcast Heel Squad that you

671
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 2: are doing. Now, who's a guest that you've enjoyed interviewing

672
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 2: the most? And who are you who would you love

673
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 2: to have on?

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Speaker 6: I mean, there's so many people I want to have on.

675
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 6: I mean, gosh, like how cool would it be to

676
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 6: have Oprah sitting over here someday? That'd be awesome.

677
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 3: Heka, it's Jana Kramer on your list.

678
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 5: Janna, you've been on my show?

679
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 3: I have, and I love it the best.

680
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Speaker 5: I think.

681
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 6: For me, I every time I do an interview, I'm like,

682
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 6: that was that was the best show ever. Because all

683
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 6: of the guests that we curate are the best at

684
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 6: what they do in the world and health and wellness

685
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 6: life improvement in general. And I love learning and I

686
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 6: love growing. So for me, this show is just my crack.

687
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 6: And I tell people all the time, I'm like, listen,

688
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 6: not because I want more downloads or anything. It's like,

689
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 6: because you're going to learn things that are going to

690
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 6: help you in your life every single day, because I'm

691
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 6: a psycho about getting takeaway and I'm really psycho about

692
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 6: bringing in amazing people that are going to transform and

693
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 6: change our lives. And so it's your accountability partner every

694
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 6: single day to keep you on that health track, because

695
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 6: no one else is telling you your health is that important.

696
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 6: And right we grow up, you know you're going to

697
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 6: have a baby.

698
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 5: What do we do?

699
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 6: We tell babies not babies, but at some point they

700
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 6: become small children, We're like, get good grades, do amazing

701
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 6: in school, achieve win, go to college, get you know,

702
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,439
Speaker 6: get a huge job, make a lot of money. Then

703
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 6: we transition to get married and have kids. Health crickets.

704
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 6: No one's telling us about our health until we're sick

705
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 6: and we're in a problem, and then you haven't done

706
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 6: the work to learn. What my mission is here on

707
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 6: this show is to teach you as the coach. You

708
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 6: have a team, You're going to figure out how to

709
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 6: use your players. We have Western medicine. If you don't

710
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 6: know what they're good at and what they're not good at,

711
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 6: you might use them in the incorrect place on your team.

712
00:34:54,920 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 6: So we have to understand what is at our f tips,

713
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 6: what is available to help us in these health crises

714
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 6: and in these health conditions and situations, and understanding that

715
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 6: it starts with an autoimmune condition. Oh, I have hashi motos.

716
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 6: I have thyroid, and we think that's normal now because

717
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 6: everybody has it. And then what happens is we don't

718
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 6: make any changes to our behavior or our lives, and

719
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 6: then it becomes something else, and then all of a sudden,

720
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 6: now I've got cancer and I can't believe I have cancer,

721
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 6: and so I too.

722
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 5: I did all of those things. I worked like a dog.

723
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 6: I didn't pay attention, I didn't take care of myself.

724
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 6: And then of course I had this journey with my mom.

725
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 6: So the tumor that was on my pancreas was there

726
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 6: for a while, it just started activating and growing. And

727
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 6: so that was a mac truck that I couldn't stop officially,

728
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 6: but I'll tell you the things that I did in

729
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 6: this last year where I really went on this next

730
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 6: level of my health journey changed everything to the point

731
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,800
Speaker 6: where I had a researcherund my show. Her name is

732
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:02,399
Speaker 6: doctor Jewett. She researches natural care killer cells and those

733
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 6: are the cells that go in and kill the cancer

734
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 6: and all that. And she had done my blood work

735
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 6: in my mom's blood work seven years ago, and she

736
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 6: just did it before I had pancreas surgery. And she's like, Maria,

737
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:19,760
Speaker 6: whatever you have done, your natural killer cells are unreal.

738
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Speaker 6: She's like, it's ninety seven percentile. And it was not

739
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 6: the case before because I was beating myself up and

740
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 6: not taking care of myself. And so she goes, cancer

741
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,280
Speaker 6: really can't live in your body. That's why it stayed

742
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 6: in that one split at one place, she said, And

743
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 6: so it was well differentiated they call it. And so

744
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,280
Speaker 6: I am really really devoted to my health and listen,

745
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 6: shit's still going to happen because forty something years of

746
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 6: living in a certain way. You can't just turn like

747
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 6: I said that mac truck around. You can just do

748
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,400
Speaker 6: anything you can to do better now and be prepared

749
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,319
Speaker 6: and make as the best choices you can in front

750
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Speaker 6: of you. So if you're twenty listening to the start

751
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 6: making those better choices, even if it's just what you're

752
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 6: putting in your mouth every day, eating wise, eating healthier,

753
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,280
Speaker 6: and making sure you get your sleep. So your body

754
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 6: gives all those processes done that it needs. We don't

755
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 6: even think about why people tell us to sleep and

756
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 6: go to betterly, it's because the body needs to do

757
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 6: its job at night. There's a job that actually has

758
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 6: to take place. So if you don't give it its time,

759
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 6: it's not going to be able to do the job. Now,

760
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 6: imagine if you're not able to do your job or

761
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 6: you're getting your paycheck at the end of the week. No,

762
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 6: so we have to look at it in a different way.

763
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 6: And that's what I do here on this show every day.

764
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 6: It's my mission to help people really take their health

765
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 6: into the highest consideration, to understand the things that we

766
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 6: could be doing better without it being overwhelming, so that

767
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 6: we can live longer, healthier, happier lives.

768
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 2: Heal Squad add to podcasts.

769
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Speaker 3: Like why I ask you so many questions about it?

770
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'll just go listen and I'm going to

771
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 1: start from scratch and just change everything that.

772
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Speaker 6: Another party that Anastasia had for Oprah and the whole

773
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 6: conversation was health, and I was telling them, Okay, we

774
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 6: got to get our blue light glasses. Friends, we get

775
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:11,880
Speaker 6: to get you know, our nighttime glasses. We get to

776
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,280
Speaker 6: reset our circadian rhythms. You got to eat your veggies

777
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 6: first every meal so that your your body has that

778
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 6: fiber basket. My friend's laughing at me because I was like,

779
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 6: I made breakfast this morning, and she was about to

780
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:22,359
Speaker 6: eat the tomatoes first.

781
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 5: I go, that's a fruit. You want to that's sugar.

782
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 6: Let's start with the spinach first.

783
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 3: I need a list. I need like a cheat sheet.

784
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 6: Can you give me like a one page cheat sheet?

785
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 5: I did.

786
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,320
Speaker 6: I created a cheat sheet for them. I was like

787
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 6: here's the cheat sheet and I'll send it to you guys.

788
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 3: Damn it.

789
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, we need.

790
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,800
Speaker 3: Fiber baskets. Long do we need to know about that?

791
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 3: I want those kill ourselves.

792
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 2: Maria, I love you so much. I know you have

793
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 2: an out, so thank you for coming on wine down

794
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 2: and I cannot wait to hold your baby. And just

795
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 2: you and Kevin are just the most love. I mean,

796
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 2: Kevin is like such a rock for you, and just

797
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 2: seeing you guys together is just it's a beautiful little

798
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,959
Speaker 2: love story. So thank you for letting me just watch

799
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:10,840
Speaker 2: from the sidelence.

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00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 6: You're the best love you love you, guys, and I

801
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 6: will send you the cheat sheet. I will send it

802
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 6: to Channa. You guys can take it and and yes,

803
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 6: just get started.

804
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 5: We'll do.

805
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:21,879
Speaker 2: You're the best girl.

806
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you, see y god, I love her

807
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 3: how we started the show. She's so grateful. I just

808
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 3: calm and wonderful and here we are.

809
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Speaker 1: My problem is is I take all that and then

810
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: I start worrying. I'm usually good, I'm usually fine, I'm

811
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 1: usually not a worrier.

812
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 3: But then when it's like that, then I start to

813
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 3: worry the health stuff.

814
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to do that pernuvo thing. I've seen that.

815
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 2: Kelly Rizzo did it it, Amanda Klutes did.

816
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 5: Yeah.

817
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 2: I really when next time I go to LA, I

818
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,399
Speaker 2: will pay. That's I don't pay like I know they've

819
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 2: done like that. I will do like I will pay

820
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 2: whatever I used to do that and then place close

821
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Speaker 2: to ya.

822
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Speaker 1: I know I need another one.

823
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Speaker 3: I'm all.

824
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 2: That's the thing like for me. I was talking to Julie.

825
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 2: Julie Solomon came over the other day and she was

826
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Speaker 2: talking about I don't know how we got into, like

827
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 2: her home birth or whatever, but we were chatting and

828
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Speaker 2: I was just like, I want all the doctors. I

829
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 2: want all the scans I want Like I could never

830
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Speaker 2: do a home birth.

831
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Speaker 3: Oh I'm at a humberth or either. My hat's off

832
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 3: to everyone that can. I can't. I just had a

833
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 3: friend that just did. And I'm right in the middle.

834
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Speaker 2: I'm like the.

835
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Speaker 8: Holistic eater, organic chic, but I also have rods in

836
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 8: my back. So she said, we're Western medicine and modern

837
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 8: medicine like that that all makes sense.

838
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 3: To me, and I get that.

839
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Speaker 1: I like know what they do well and what they

840
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 1: don't and yeah, and I.

841
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Speaker 8: Will say this pregnancy has been like kind of a

842
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 8: testament to it because I've always been a clean eater,

843
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 8: but I've been the most clean, most dedicated in the

844
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Speaker 8: last five years.

845
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Speaker 3: And I don't crave. I mean I've had I have

846
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 3: had a pop tart.

847
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Speaker 8: And then I might change my mind about what it's

848
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 8: a girl, yeah, because.

849
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Speaker 2: I feel like it's a boy if it's cause the

850
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 2: boys are really healthy. For me, it was salads and

851
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 2: cucumbers and like, oh yeah, I don't want to salad.

852
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 2: Oh then okay, maybe not. I don't want to say,

853
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 2: but I'm really thinking.

854
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 8: I do think it is like the compound interest of

855
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 8: all the things, like I've always kind of felt that way, compound,

856
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 8: just the compound interest, like if you.

857
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 2: You know, she reminds me of the on the every meal,

858
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 2: every night's rest.

859
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 3: It all compounds to something.

860
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 2: You guys are gonna laugh at me. But so I've

861
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,919
Speaker 2: recently binged ted lassa I love.

862
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I to start watching watch soccer.

863
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 10: Guy.

864
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 2: I know that well because it's it's interesting because now

865
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 2: that we're because he's never seen it either, and I

866
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 2: don't I haven't brought it up to him because you know,

867
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 2: I'm sensitive to like you know, him not playing anymore

868
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 2: and all those things, and so I was like we

869
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 2: kept tearing watched head Lassa watched ted Lasso. So I'm like, hey,

870
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 2: would you want to watch and he was like, yeah,

871
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 2: let's let's just give it a shot. Well then like

872
00:41:57,760 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 2: two nights later we're on season Now we're on season three.

873
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 2: Like the last season. I'm in love with ted Lasso,

874
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,399
Speaker 2: Like he's the kindest, sweetest but he's got like heart.

875
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,879
Speaker 2: She kind of reminds me of like a female version

876
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 2: of ted Lasso. Does Alan think ted Lasso is funny? Yes,

877
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 2: that makes me happy because I think it's funny. But

878
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,280
Speaker 2: I know nothing about soccer really.

879
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 5: You know.

880
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: Well, the funny thing is is, now that I know

881
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: somewhat of UK soccer, how different it is over here,

882
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:27,320
Speaker 2: Like the things that they say. I like, I chuckle

883
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 2: because I'm like, oh, this is funny. Like you know,

884
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 2: when they were talking about the cleats, it's like, no,

885
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 2: they're boots, but I'm like, why do you call them boots?

886
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 2: They're cleats. But everything's so different over there, and so

887
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 2: it's like it's kind of fun to like know the

888
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 2: like and.

889
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 3: That the others. I haven't watched it at all is

890
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 3: that UK based.

891
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's about an American football coach, like football,

892
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 2: American football coach going to England and coaching football and incredible.

893
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 2: It's hilarious, but it's like hard, Like I was crying.

894
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 2: Alan and I were both were crying when he was

895
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 2: talking about like being a father and like, oh my god.

896
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: I mean we're both crying and it's like heart wearing

897
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 2: but also funny, cute and easy. Okay, yeah, it's so

898
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 2: not her show, but like it's so I have a

899
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 2: list of show and I'm like, I really want to

900
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 2: finish watching it.

901
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 3: My D list.

902
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 6: I know.

903
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 2: I told her a lot the last thing he told me.

904
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but now I need more episodes.

905
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 5: I know.

906
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 3: It's so frustrating. I know it's so good.

907
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 2: It's so good, Jennifer, so good. Okay, I've never watched that.

908
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 3: You would like it? What I oh?

909
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:36,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, no, no, I'm caught up on successions.

910
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 6: Yo.

911
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, we're season three. Tell me any thank you?

912
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 2: Well that was a sorry, that was a curve ball.

913
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 5: But I don't know.

914
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 2: Sometimes I've she's just she's so happy and Ted's so happy,

915
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 2: but also like you know, underneath is like going through staff.

916
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 3: Fish.

917
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, be a goldfish.

918
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 8: Sweet if you know you know, If you know you know,

919
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 8: and if you don't, you're probably saying about right, and

920
00:43:58,040 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 8: that's fine.

921
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 3: See you next week.

922
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:12,399
Speaker 2: Bye mm hmm