1 00:00:15,210 --> 00:00:25,290 Speaker 1: Pushkin. Hello, Khalila, Hello, let me get Stevie hang on. 2 00:00:27,810 --> 00:00:32,890 Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, Hey, Hey, how are we Stevie. 3 00:00:33,930 --> 00:00:36,850 Speaker 3: I actually had a really great weekend. 4 00:00:37,450 --> 00:00:38,170 Speaker 1: What did you do? 5 00:00:38,810 --> 00:00:40,810 Speaker 3: I saw two friends this weekend. 6 00:00:41,050 --> 00:00:42,570 Speaker 1: As in real life. 7 00:00:43,129 --> 00:00:46,410 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, my friends Peter and Leo, and you know, 8 00:00:46,530 --> 00:00:50,209 Speaker 3: we stayed six feet apart and everything. But like, like, 9 00:00:50,330 --> 00:00:55,130 Speaker 3: I saw friends, and it's been so long since I've 10 00:00:55,569 --> 00:00:59,410 Speaker 3: seen in person a friend. 11 00:01:00,170 --> 00:01:00,810 Speaker 2: Yeah. 12 00:01:00,890 --> 00:01:03,690 Speaker 3: I was waiting for them outside and I heard Peter go, 13 00:01:03,970 --> 00:01:09,369 Speaker 3: you know, Stevie, and it was like immediately I felt 14 00:01:09,370 --> 00:01:11,130 Speaker 3: like I was like lighter, you know, like it really 15 00:01:11,170 --> 00:01:13,569 Speaker 3: lifted something, and I left feeling really. 16 00:01:13,490 --> 00:01:14,090 Speaker 4: Light, like. 17 00:01:15,610 --> 00:01:19,530 Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't really. Yeah, it was very 18 00:01:19,570 --> 00:01:21,450 Speaker 3: hard to resist the urge to just go over and 19 00:01:21,490 --> 00:01:22,289 Speaker 3: like give them a hug. 20 00:01:23,050 --> 00:01:23,530 Speaker 5: It was like. 21 00:01:25,690 --> 00:01:27,210 Speaker 3: Fighting with that, you know. 22 00:01:27,690 --> 00:01:32,970 Speaker 1: Yeah. I also saw people for the first time, you know, 23 00:01:33,050 --> 00:01:39,170 Speaker 1: ten feet apart this weekend, my in laws. They came by. 24 00:01:40,210 --> 00:01:42,650 Speaker 1: I think it was nice for Aggie occasionally, of course, 25 00:01:42,690 --> 00:01:44,730 Speaker 1: like you would forget and kind of run towards them 26 00:01:44,770 --> 00:01:48,410 Speaker 1: and we'd have to pull them back ground Rampa, Aggie, 27 00:01:48,490 --> 00:01:52,170 Speaker 1: stay stay back. Can I just feel ground Rampa? And 28 00:01:52,250 --> 00:01:54,770 Speaker 1: I think those were the moments that felt the roughest 29 00:01:55,210 --> 00:01:58,010 Speaker 1: because you know, it's sort of like you're negating this natural, 30 00:01:58,250 --> 00:02:02,330 Speaker 1: wonderful tendency to run towards people that you love. Yeah, 31 00:02:02,810 --> 00:02:08,290 Speaker 1: so Aggie and his grandparents were exchanging knock knock jokes. 32 00:02:08,450 --> 00:02:21,570 Speaker 6: Aggie knock knock who. 33 00:02:18,330 --> 00:02:22,970 Speaker 1: All of Augie's knock knock jokes made no sense? Knock 34 00:02:24,290 --> 00:02:35,050 Speaker 1: and a doctor, doctor nas Lagula. Yeah, so that was 35 00:02:35,130 --> 00:02:38,530 Speaker 1: kind of it was a mixed bag, but it was 36 00:02:38,970 --> 00:02:43,330 Speaker 1: it was kind of nice. Yeah, Khalila, And what have 37 00:02:43,410 --> 00:02:45,050 Speaker 1: you been up to? How was your weekend? 38 00:02:46,850 --> 00:02:52,170 Speaker 2: Just something about like this past week especially, like I 39 00:02:52,210 --> 00:02:57,570 Speaker 2: don't know, I think it just hit the point of 40 00:02:57,610 --> 00:03:03,090 Speaker 2: really sort of feeling like gray. Like I feel like 41 00:03:03,130 --> 00:03:05,530 Speaker 2: I really was like hitting a point of like despair 42 00:03:05,730 --> 00:03:16,050 Speaker 2: kind of. Uh so this weekend, Sorry you guys, I 43 00:03:16,050 --> 00:03:17,730 Speaker 2: don't know why I'm getting so emotional. 44 00:03:22,290 --> 00:03:24,049 Speaker 1: It's okay, yeah. 45 00:03:24,210 --> 00:03:27,130 Speaker 2: Yeah. So well so one thing we did. 46 00:03:26,970 --> 00:03:28,810 Speaker 1: This weekend, this is you and your boyfriend? 47 00:03:29,090 --> 00:03:31,850 Speaker 2: Yeah, me and sam my boyfriend got a zip car 48 00:03:32,090 --> 00:03:38,490 Speaker 2: for yesterday to just like go somewhere else, which ended 49 00:03:38,570 --> 00:03:42,050 Speaker 2: up being nice, Like we had a nice day, but 50 00:03:42,570 --> 00:03:44,970 Speaker 2: the planning of it sort of just like it made 51 00:03:45,090 --> 00:03:47,410 Speaker 2: us both feel worse because we were like, oh, like 52 00:03:47,690 --> 00:03:50,810 Speaker 2: everything is closed, Like yeah. It just really made it 53 00:03:50,850 --> 00:03:53,970 Speaker 2: feel like, oh, there's like nowhere, there's like nothing to do. 54 00:03:56,970 --> 00:04:02,850 Speaker 2: And we ended up going to Fort Dolden and walking 55 00:04:02,850 --> 00:04:07,970 Speaker 2: along the beach and having lunch out there, which was nice. Yeah. 56 00:04:08,050 --> 00:04:10,610 Speaker 2: And then in the evening I watched a movie, which 57 00:04:10,650 --> 00:04:13,090 Speaker 2: is like all I've been doing is watching a ton 58 00:04:13,130 --> 00:04:17,730 Speaker 2: of movies. But I miss like going to like a 59 00:04:17,770 --> 00:04:22,969 Speaker 2: movie theater, like going to the movies. So I made 60 00:04:23,010 --> 00:04:30,769 Speaker 2: popcorn on the stove Twesdales sens oil, which I'd never 61 00:04:31,169 --> 00:04:33,049 Speaker 2: made it on the stove before, Like I'd had it 62 00:04:33,049 --> 00:04:35,330 Speaker 2: with my family that way, but I'd never just done 63 00:04:35,330 --> 00:04:36,009 Speaker 2: it myself. 64 00:04:36,330 --> 00:04:37,969 Speaker 1: And you've had popcorn in a movie theater. 65 00:04:38,770 --> 00:04:41,089 Speaker 2: Yes, I've had plenty of popcorn in a movie theater. 66 00:04:41,130 --> 00:04:43,250 Speaker 2: I once ate so much popcorn in a movie theater 67 00:04:43,289 --> 00:04:44,729 Speaker 2: that I threw up afterwards. 68 00:04:45,169 --> 00:04:48,010 Speaker 1: This was as a child, I'm assuming. 69 00:04:47,690 --> 00:04:51,089 Speaker 2: Nope, this was like two years ago. Really so sad. 70 00:04:51,570 --> 00:04:54,210 Speaker 1: No, that sounds like living the dream. How can you 71 00:04:54,250 --> 00:04:56,289 Speaker 1: be sure that it was from overeating popcorn? 72 00:04:56,810 --> 00:04:59,210 Speaker 2: This has happened to me? But before I think the 73 00:04:59,289 --> 00:05:01,690 Speaker 2: problem is if I don't eat dinner and then I 74 00:05:01,770 --> 00:05:04,409 Speaker 2: eat just popcorn with a lot of movie theater butter 75 00:05:04,529 --> 00:05:07,609 Speaker 2: on it. It like makes me a little noxious, but 76 00:05:07,650 --> 00:05:09,529 Speaker 2: I love it, so I always eat it anyway. 77 00:05:09,849 --> 00:05:12,410 Speaker 1: Wow, So you so you really love popcorn? 78 00:05:12,810 --> 00:05:14,570 Speaker 2: I love popcorn. Yeah. 79 00:05:14,609 --> 00:05:16,890 Speaker 1: And did you use the technique of like where you 80 00:05:16,929 --> 00:05:18,969 Speaker 1: wait for the first kernel to pop and then you 81 00:05:19,010 --> 00:05:20,969 Speaker 1: start shaking the pan vigorously? 82 00:05:21,409 --> 00:05:21,609 Speaker 3: Yeah? 83 00:05:21,609 --> 00:05:23,609 Speaker 2: And actually when I heard the first one, I was like, 84 00:05:24,849 --> 00:05:25,969 Speaker 2: a pop. 85 00:05:27,450 --> 00:05:28,410 Speaker 7: That sounded like a. 86 00:05:28,369 --> 00:05:31,849 Speaker 1: Pop really makes you question yourself? 87 00:05:32,130 --> 00:05:35,810 Speaker 2: Yeah it does, but it turned out really well, and 88 00:05:35,849 --> 00:05:38,250 Speaker 2: I put I melted real butter to put on it. 89 00:05:38,289 --> 00:05:39,929 Speaker 3: Did it make you less naxious? 90 00:05:40,130 --> 00:05:42,930 Speaker 1: Yeah, it actually did any success. You didn't throw up. 91 00:05:43,130 --> 00:05:44,049 Speaker 2: I didn't throw up. 92 00:05:44,690 --> 00:05:47,049 Speaker 1: What was there like something just about like having like 93 00:05:47,089 --> 00:05:48,289 Speaker 1: popcorn to watch a movie with? 94 00:05:48,609 --> 00:05:48,809 Speaker 8: Yeah? 95 00:05:48,810 --> 00:05:51,689 Speaker 2: It was nice. Yeah, I mean it did make it 96 00:05:51,690 --> 00:05:53,849 Speaker 2: feel more of like an event instead of just like 97 00:05:53,929 --> 00:05:54,729 Speaker 2: filling the time. 98 00:05:54,810 --> 00:05:58,169 Speaker 1: I guess there's something like just about the sound of 99 00:05:58,210 --> 00:06:00,770 Speaker 1: popcorn popping that I think is like, universally like one 100 00:06:00,810 --> 00:06:02,330 Speaker 1: of the most wonderful sounds. 101 00:06:02,650 --> 00:06:08,130 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's great. I think we're in business here. 102 00:06:31,690 --> 00:06:33,409 Speaker 1: You know what else I've been up to, and this 103 00:06:33,529 --> 00:06:34,770 Speaker 1: is going to cheer you up. This is going to 104 00:06:34,849 --> 00:06:37,770 Speaker 1: cheer us all up. Okay, you ready for some good cheer? 105 00:06:38,130 --> 00:06:41,489 Speaker 1: I guess I decided that as a special surprise, I 106 00:06:41,529 --> 00:06:44,049 Speaker 1: was going to check in with some favorite people from 107 00:06:44,049 --> 00:06:47,770 Speaker 1: the show, people that we and America and parts of 108 00:06:47,770 --> 00:06:52,289 Speaker 1: Canada have grown to love, like you. My old friend. 109 00:06:52,130 --> 00:06:53,330 Speaker 2: Gregor a favorite. 110 00:06:53,330 --> 00:06:56,969 Speaker 1: Indeed, we talked for a while. He's homeschooling his kids, 111 00:06:57,010 --> 00:06:59,890 Speaker 1: he's taken on their education, and we got to talking 112 00:07:00,089 --> 00:07:06,210 Speaker 1: and do you remember a young man named Joey? 113 00:07:06,169 --> 00:07:06,369 Speaker 5: Yeah? 114 00:07:06,450 --> 00:07:07,409 Speaker 2: How could I forget? 115 00:07:07,770 --> 00:07:07,969 Speaker 8: Yeah? 116 00:07:08,130 --> 00:07:11,730 Speaker 1: Could we forget? Two seasons ago, Gregor and I went 117 00:07:11,770 --> 00:07:15,210 Speaker 1: to Los Angeles to help him. He had been banned 118 00:07:15,250 --> 00:07:19,610 Speaker 1: from his favorite pizzeria, and Joey's kind of a sloppy guy, 119 00:07:19,610 --> 00:07:22,090 Speaker 1: and he was having trouble with his roommates. 120 00:07:21,730 --> 00:07:25,170 Speaker 3: Of which there were many many, yes. 121 00:07:25,250 --> 00:07:29,810 Speaker 1: Yeah, many, many many roommates, And so Gregor and I 122 00:07:29,890 --> 00:07:33,290 Speaker 1: had kind of decided that we would give Joey a call, 123 00:07:33,410 --> 00:07:36,090 Speaker 1: check in with him and see how he's doing during 124 00:07:36,130 --> 00:07:41,770 Speaker 1: this quarantine. There was something that happened during the course 125 00:07:41,810 --> 00:07:45,890 Speaker 1: of our telephone call that kind of made Gregor and 126 00:07:45,890 --> 00:07:48,449 Speaker 1: I feel really good about having called him in the 127 00:07:48,450 --> 00:07:50,850 Speaker 1: first place. Because it seemed like he was still in 128 00:07:50,929 --> 00:07:54,490 Speaker 1: need of our help. Joey, is this so? I think 129 00:07:54,530 --> 00:07:56,490 Speaker 1: it is good to hear your voice. Guess who I 130 00:07:56,530 --> 00:07:57,450 Speaker 1: have on the line here. 131 00:07:58,250 --> 00:08:00,689 Speaker 7: It's a me, Joey, the one and only. 132 00:08:01,130 --> 00:08:02,929 Speaker 6: You sound exactly the same, only healthier. 133 00:08:03,570 --> 00:08:06,050 Speaker 7: I think I am healthier than the last time we 134 00:08:06,050 --> 00:08:06,809 Speaker 7: were together. 135 00:08:07,410 --> 00:08:08,530 Speaker 6: Yeah, you radiate health. 136 00:08:08,850 --> 00:08:11,170 Speaker 7: My diet is a little more varied than it was 137 00:08:11,250 --> 00:08:11,730 Speaker 7: when we. 138 00:08:11,690 --> 00:08:13,569 Speaker 1: Last spoke, when it was just pizza. 139 00:08:13,970 --> 00:08:14,170 Speaker 8: Yeah. 140 00:08:14,170 --> 00:08:17,170 Speaker 7: I've moved on from dale old cold pizza to some 141 00:08:17,170 --> 00:08:18,050 Speaker 7: some actual veggies. 142 00:08:18,090 --> 00:08:20,329 Speaker 6: Now, go on, What do you got in your crisper drawer, Joey? 143 00:08:20,650 --> 00:08:22,850 Speaker 7: The house? My house just went to the grocery store yesterday. 144 00:08:22,929 --> 00:08:29,130 Speaker 7: So okay, we got egg plant, lemons, and limes. Oh, leaks. 145 00:08:29,170 --> 00:08:31,130 Speaker 7: That's a fun one. Who whoever has a leak? 146 00:08:31,770 --> 00:08:34,010 Speaker 1: I think we can pause you there, Joey. Do you 147 00:08:34,050 --> 00:08:35,130 Speaker 1: still have that mustache? 148 00:08:35,410 --> 00:08:35,569 Speaker 4: Yeah? 149 00:08:35,650 --> 00:08:37,610 Speaker 7: Yeah, and I'm growing a quarantine beard as well. 150 00:08:37,970 --> 00:08:41,170 Speaker 1: Are you still keeping up with your ruler blading for. 151 00:08:41,170 --> 00:08:43,330 Speaker 7: The most part, I mean it's it's kind of slowed 152 00:08:43,370 --> 00:08:46,170 Speaker 7: down because it's not super fun to roly blade in 153 00:08:46,210 --> 00:08:46,610 Speaker 7: a mask. 154 00:08:47,010 --> 00:08:49,850 Speaker 6: I think last week left Joey he had a roommate situation. 155 00:08:50,130 --> 00:08:50,610 Speaker 7: That's right. 156 00:08:50,850 --> 00:08:53,570 Speaker 1: So now what's what's your deal? You're living on your own. 157 00:08:54,530 --> 00:08:58,650 Speaker 7: I I'm living in a much better situation now, living 158 00:08:58,690 --> 00:09:02,730 Speaker 7: in a duplex apartment with six other boys, so you know, 159 00:09:02,810 --> 00:09:04,330 Speaker 7: a little little tight quarters. 160 00:09:04,330 --> 00:09:07,450 Speaker 1: But how many roommates did you have back back when I. 161 00:09:07,450 --> 00:09:08,250 Speaker 7: Think it was five? 162 00:09:08,410 --> 00:09:09,930 Speaker 1: And now you've got sick by want. 163 00:09:09,970 --> 00:09:13,850 Speaker 7: Yeah, but it's a bigger space, it's like a real house. 164 00:09:14,850 --> 00:09:17,610 Speaker 7: I'll admit. I still am in a curtained off kind 165 00:09:17,650 --> 00:09:20,610 Speaker 7: of a makeshift living room turned bedroom. 166 00:09:20,650 --> 00:09:23,170 Speaker 1: Deal. Wait, so you still have bed sheets for walls? 167 00:09:23,530 --> 00:09:26,170 Speaker 7: Yeah, only one wall this time, as opposed to all 168 00:09:26,210 --> 00:09:26,890 Speaker 7: of them. 169 00:09:27,290 --> 00:09:30,730 Speaker 6: I gotta say, no offense to Joey, But Johnny, I 170 00:09:30,770 --> 00:09:33,730 Speaker 6: think your craftsmanship in fixing Joey's life is questionable. 171 00:09:33,970 --> 00:09:35,370 Speaker 7: No, it's way better now. 172 00:09:35,490 --> 00:09:37,170 Speaker 6: Chick up another roommate and he's got a sheet for 173 00:09:37,210 --> 00:09:37,970 Speaker 6: a wall again. 174 00:09:37,850 --> 00:09:39,730 Speaker 1: Why only a sudd when Joey's not doing well, all 175 00:09:39,730 --> 00:09:41,290 Speaker 1: of a sudden, he's my son, Joey. 176 00:09:41,530 --> 00:09:43,370 Speaker 6: Well, he was your charge. You said, I'm going to 177 00:09:43,410 --> 00:09:45,370 Speaker 6: get this guy out of his like, no, we were. 178 00:09:45,130 --> 00:09:47,410 Speaker 7: Both Well well that's the thing. See, I'm giving you 179 00:09:47,450 --> 00:09:50,330 Speaker 7: credit for elevating my life and lifting me out of 180 00:09:50,370 --> 00:09:52,210 Speaker 7: where I was. I'm doing a lot better now. 181 00:09:53,370 --> 00:09:55,610 Speaker 6: I just picture him on his rollerblades on a slight 182 00:09:55,690 --> 00:09:57,929 Speaker 6: grade where he's rolling back down and not realizing it, 183 00:09:58,010 --> 00:09:59,330 Speaker 6: he's going backwards down the hill. 184 00:10:00,130 --> 00:10:02,770 Speaker 7: Okay, but downhills are always the funnest part of rollerblading. 185 00:10:03,290 --> 00:10:05,530 Speaker 1: So you're you have now six roommates. 186 00:10:06,410 --> 00:10:09,090 Speaker 7: Yep, we've all been friends for years since college. 187 00:10:09,810 --> 00:10:12,650 Speaker 1: You're pitching in, I'd say so. 188 00:10:13,250 --> 00:10:17,010 Speaker 7: But lately, since quarantine started, it seems like the other 189 00:10:17,090 --> 00:10:19,250 Speaker 7: roommates in the house have kind of doubled down on 190 00:10:19,290 --> 00:10:21,370 Speaker 7: trying to keep things clean, which, you know, I get 191 00:10:21,410 --> 00:10:23,770 Speaker 7: we're spending more time at home, things get messy easier. 192 00:10:25,170 --> 00:10:29,490 Speaker 7: But to me, like I, I can't, you know, clean 193 00:10:29,570 --> 00:10:32,250 Speaker 7: every crumb every single time, Like that's just put going 194 00:10:32,290 --> 00:10:35,210 Speaker 7: a little too far. And so this started really getting 195 00:10:35,210 --> 00:10:37,610 Speaker 7: into one of my roommates. Every time I would leave 196 00:10:37,610 --> 00:10:39,850 Speaker 7: a single crumb, a single knife in the in the sink, 197 00:10:39,890 --> 00:10:43,530 Speaker 7: he would like confront me head on. And this really 198 00:10:43,570 --> 00:10:45,450 Speaker 7: just blew up the other The other morning, like when 199 00:10:45,610 --> 00:10:48,170 Speaker 7: I woke up and the first thing I hear is 200 00:10:48,170 --> 00:10:50,290 Speaker 7: is just him like beckoning me into the kitchen to 201 00:10:50,330 --> 00:10:51,490 Speaker 7: say is this your knife? 202 00:10:51,690 --> 00:10:53,290 Speaker 1: Is this yours? 203 00:10:53,330 --> 00:10:55,929 Speaker 7: And like he just wanted to just get into it 204 00:10:55,970 --> 00:10:57,450 Speaker 7: as my first thing I hear in the morning, and 205 00:10:57,490 --> 00:11:00,530 Speaker 7: I just really couldn't, Like I needed to avoid confrontations, 206 00:11:00,610 --> 00:11:03,010 Speaker 7: so I just basically ran away and like said, I 207 00:11:03,050 --> 00:11:04,290 Speaker 7: can't hear this right now. 208 00:11:04,810 --> 00:11:07,050 Speaker 1: Now, Joey, when you went back to your room, like 209 00:11:07,090 --> 00:11:09,610 Speaker 1: this would be a situation where one might slam their door, 210 00:11:09,650 --> 00:11:11,810 Speaker 1: what do you what do you do now? 211 00:11:11,890 --> 00:11:12,130 Speaker 2: I did? 212 00:11:12,170 --> 00:11:13,810 Speaker 7: I mean I tried to do the same. I retreated 213 00:11:13,810 --> 00:11:17,290 Speaker 7: to my room. But the difference is he was able 214 00:11:17,330 --> 00:11:19,290 Speaker 7: to just walk like right on the other side of 215 00:11:19,290 --> 00:11:21,690 Speaker 7: the curtain and like speak to me. So five minutes 216 00:11:21,730 --> 00:11:27,850 Speaker 7: later under the curtain, I'll push it aside. 217 00:11:27,890 --> 00:11:30,370 Speaker 6: Just painting an image in my mind, okay, because it's 218 00:11:30,450 --> 00:11:33,210 Speaker 6: less dignified when you frog crawl out under your curtain 219 00:11:33,250 --> 00:11:34,010 Speaker 6: to get yelled at. 220 00:11:34,850 --> 00:11:37,090 Speaker 7: It's better than that. But no, he did. He did 221 00:11:37,130 --> 00:11:39,410 Speaker 7: come around and try to try to talk to me 222 00:11:39,450 --> 00:11:41,690 Speaker 7: through the curtain and just said I'm here to talk 223 00:11:41,730 --> 00:11:42,330 Speaker 7: when you want to. 224 00:11:42,810 --> 00:11:45,090 Speaker 1: So did you ever end up having that conversation with him? 225 00:11:45,930 --> 00:11:50,770 Speaker 7: Nope? Nope. Instead he he ended up sending me a 226 00:11:50,810 --> 00:11:54,890 Speaker 7: text like I think a few hours later. That was 227 00:11:55,330 --> 00:11:59,130 Speaker 7: actually an apology. He wrote, my approach was not the 228 00:11:59,210 --> 00:12:01,610 Speaker 7: right one, and I apologize. I haven't felt great this week. 229 00:12:03,050 --> 00:12:05,770 Speaker 7: I've been overly sensitive. And then he goes, no need 230 00:12:05,850 --> 00:12:07,890 Speaker 7: to respond, just wanted to send this to you so 231 00:12:07,930 --> 00:12:08,730 Speaker 7: you knew where I was at. 232 00:12:09,650 --> 00:12:09,809 Speaker 1: HM. 233 00:12:09,930 --> 00:12:11,450 Speaker 7: I really care for you and don't want it to 234 00:12:11,530 --> 00:12:13,090 Speaker 7: hurt you or cause the vision between us. 235 00:12:13,130 --> 00:12:13,330 Speaker 5: Wow. 236 00:12:13,490 --> 00:12:14,170 Speaker 7: I only wow. 237 00:12:14,370 --> 00:12:17,050 Speaker 1: Okay, did you not read this text until now. 238 00:12:16,930 --> 00:12:19,170 Speaker 7: I read it? I read it just one dime. I 239 00:12:19,170 --> 00:12:22,090 Speaker 7: mean I was still definitely kind of heated when I 240 00:12:22,170 --> 00:12:22,570 Speaker 7: got it. 241 00:12:23,170 --> 00:12:25,370 Speaker 6: I think you just heard Joey digesting the second and 242 00:12:25,490 --> 00:12:27,770 Speaker 6: last emotional phrase of that text. That was definitely the 243 00:12:28,170 --> 00:12:28,650 Speaker 6: first time. 244 00:12:28,810 --> 00:12:29,050 Speaker 1: Wait. 245 00:12:29,090 --> 00:12:31,090 Speaker 7: I mean we don't usually talk like that, so it's 246 00:12:31,370 --> 00:12:32,650 Speaker 7: that's pretty surprising though. 247 00:12:32,850 --> 00:12:34,970 Speaker 1: Okay, and then what was your What was your next 248 00:12:35,130 --> 00:12:35,970 Speaker 1: text back to him? 249 00:12:36,010 --> 00:12:38,170 Speaker 7: So he said no need to respond, but I figured 250 00:12:38,170 --> 00:12:39,450 Speaker 7: I would just let him know I got it, and 251 00:12:39,450 --> 00:12:40,850 Speaker 7: so I just wrote thanks. 252 00:12:41,410 --> 00:12:43,170 Speaker 6: Did you send it as an emoji or you actually 253 00:12:43,170 --> 00:12:43,570 Speaker 6: wrote it? 254 00:12:44,130 --> 00:12:45,290 Speaker 1: And that's it? Just thanks? 255 00:12:46,210 --> 00:12:49,690 Speaker 7: I accepted as apology. I mean, how long ago did 256 00:12:49,690 --> 00:12:52,770 Speaker 7: you get this text from your roommate? I think it 257 00:12:52,810 --> 00:12:53,610 Speaker 7: was about a week ago. 258 00:12:53,650 --> 00:12:57,930 Speaker 1: Now, were you to call him over and say, hey, 259 00:12:58,570 --> 00:13:01,650 Speaker 1: I'm partly to blame for this whole knife knife situation, 260 00:13:01,810 --> 00:13:03,530 Speaker 1: also he would know what you're talking about. 261 00:13:04,410 --> 00:13:07,929 Speaker 7: Yeah, oh yeah. But wait, but first my question is, 262 00:13:07,970 --> 00:13:09,530 Speaker 7: I mean, do I owe him in a apology. I 263 00:13:09,570 --> 00:13:12,770 Speaker 7: think we need to address that first, Gregor. 264 00:13:12,970 --> 00:13:16,570 Speaker 6: This roommate seems like a prince. He's like, I'm sorry 265 00:13:16,610 --> 00:13:18,490 Speaker 6: I yelled at you for leaving your filthy knife and 266 00:13:18,530 --> 00:13:21,170 Speaker 6: crumbs on the floor. You're important to me, and I 267 00:13:21,250 --> 00:13:23,050 Speaker 6: cherish you and I cherish our time together. 268 00:13:23,090 --> 00:13:24,130 Speaker 1: Did he use the word cherish? 269 00:13:24,530 --> 00:13:24,690 Speaker 5: Uh? 270 00:13:25,090 --> 00:13:27,370 Speaker 7: I don't think. I don't think that's part of his vocabulary. 271 00:13:27,490 --> 00:13:30,130 Speaker 6: Point is Joey should pick up after himself. This is 272 00:13:30,170 --> 00:13:32,010 Speaker 6: not some complicated equation. 273 00:13:31,850 --> 00:13:34,290 Speaker 1: All right, So you think you're saying that Joey owes 274 00:13:34,370 --> 00:13:37,050 Speaker 1: him a little bit of an apology, a reciprocy. 275 00:13:37,130 --> 00:13:39,730 Speaker 6: If you live by yourself and you're a disgusting slob, 276 00:13:40,010 --> 00:13:42,890 Speaker 6: you're reprehensible, but at least you're your only victim. If 277 00:13:42,890 --> 00:13:46,450 Speaker 6: you live with six dudes, if everyone leaves a knife 278 00:13:46,490 --> 00:13:48,130 Speaker 6: in the sink, you've got a forest full of knives 279 00:13:48,130 --> 00:13:51,210 Speaker 6: in the sink. You're all on the house confinement. I 280 00:13:51,210 --> 00:13:54,410 Speaker 6: think it's time to be super persnickety. So he could 281 00:13:54,410 --> 00:13:56,210 Speaker 6: have been nicer about it. But I still think he's 282 00:13:56,370 --> 00:13:59,930 Speaker 6: apologizing for giving you some harsh treatment. I think you 283 00:13:59,970 --> 00:14:01,050 Speaker 6: need to step up your game. 284 00:14:02,370 --> 00:14:03,130 Speaker 7: I think you're right. 285 00:14:03,810 --> 00:14:06,290 Speaker 6: I'm totally fine with you, like sleeping with your dirty 286 00:14:06,290 --> 00:14:09,050 Speaker 6: socks next to your bed, that's in your sheeted off 287 00:14:09,330 --> 00:14:13,410 Speaker 6: quadrant of the living room. But you can't leave food arounds. 288 00:14:13,410 --> 00:14:14,450 Speaker 6: That's just not good. 289 00:14:15,090 --> 00:14:17,490 Speaker 1: So what is your roommate? What is his name? 290 00:14:18,290 --> 00:14:19,090 Speaker 7: His name is Pathan? 291 00:14:19,730 --> 00:14:22,650 Speaker 1: Is Paven within shouting distance right now? 292 00:14:23,930 --> 00:14:28,610 Speaker 7: I am tucked away in like the closet doing the recording. 293 00:14:28,890 --> 00:14:30,930 Speaker 6: I'm can you do it in a muffled yell from 294 00:14:30,970 --> 00:14:32,170 Speaker 6: inside your closet. 295 00:14:32,490 --> 00:14:35,090 Speaker 7: Now, maybe open up the closet door and okay, let 296 00:14:35,130 --> 00:14:36,810 Speaker 7: me let me get out of the closet here. And 297 00:14:36,810 --> 00:14:40,530 Speaker 7: it's gonna take me so work to weasel my way 298 00:14:40,570 --> 00:14:40,970 Speaker 7: out of here. 299 00:14:41,850 --> 00:14:45,170 Speaker 1: Now while Joey struggles to get out of his closet studio, 300 00:14:46,330 --> 00:14:48,650 Speaker 1: we're going to have an advertisement. 301 00:14:49,450 --> 00:14:51,650 Speaker 2: What a building of narrative suspense. 302 00:14:51,930 --> 00:14:53,650 Speaker 3: You know, I've been listening to this whole thing on 303 00:14:53,730 --> 00:14:56,130 Speaker 3: double speed, and now I'm gonna slow it down to 304 00:14:56,210 --> 00:14:56,890 Speaker 3: single speed. 305 00:14:57,010 --> 00:15:14,050 Speaker 1: Here come the Parade of Savings, and we're back. We're back. 306 00:15:14,570 --> 00:15:17,450 Speaker 1: Let's just join Joey as he struggles to get out 307 00:15:17,450 --> 00:15:21,970 Speaker 1: of the closet and on with his life. It's also a. 308 00:15:21,890 --> 00:15:23,770 Speaker 7: Thousand degrees in there, so it feels good to get 309 00:15:23,770 --> 00:15:29,210 Speaker 7: some fresh air. Hold on, I'm climbing over the desk 310 00:15:29,290 --> 00:15:34,770 Speaker 7: right now. Oh boy, okay, all right, so yeah, I'll 311 00:15:34,810 --> 00:15:37,690 Speaker 7: also mention that that Peven's room is the one right 312 00:15:37,730 --> 00:15:40,010 Speaker 7: next to mine, so he we almost share a room. 313 00:15:40,010 --> 00:15:43,210 Speaker 7: Really that's curtained off, but yeah, here he is now. 314 00:15:43,290 --> 00:15:50,730 Speaker 7: So yeah, listen, I kind of wanted to apologize actually 315 00:15:50,770 --> 00:15:53,690 Speaker 7: for for what happened like last week. I think you 316 00:15:53,850 --> 00:15:55,170 Speaker 7: probably know what I'm talking about. 317 00:15:55,610 --> 00:15:56,810 Speaker 5: I do know what you're talking about. 318 00:15:57,050 --> 00:16:00,930 Speaker 7: Yeah, so I know that you sent me a very 319 00:16:01,050 --> 00:16:02,490 Speaker 7: like thoughtful message, and. 320 00:16:02,410 --> 00:16:03,770 Speaker 5: I thank you for it. 321 00:16:03,930 --> 00:16:04,850 Speaker 1: That was really nice. 322 00:16:05,010 --> 00:16:07,130 Speaker 7: Yeah, probably took a lot for you to do that, 323 00:16:07,290 --> 00:16:09,090 Speaker 7: and yeah. 324 00:16:08,650 --> 00:16:11,130 Speaker 5: I just you know, it's a really heightened time and 325 00:16:11,170 --> 00:16:13,610 Speaker 5: I didn't want to it could have been handled better 326 00:16:13,650 --> 00:16:14,330 Speaker 5: on both sides. 327 00:16:15,010 --> 00:16:16,850 Speaker 1: Yeah, but thank you, thank you. 328 00:16:17,290 --> 00:16:18,730 Speaker 7: I don't know if I fully said it, but I 329 00:16:18,770 --> 00:16:22,050 Speaker 7: apologize for and I accept her for like leaving things around. 330 00:16:22,090 --> 00:16:24,530 Speaker 7: I know it's my responsibility with this is like a community. 331 00:16:24,890 --> 00:16:25,650 Speaker 5: Thank you so much. 332 00:16:25,730 --> 00:16:26,010 Speaker 8: Thank you. 333 00:16:26,330 --> 00:16:28,170 Speaker 7: I mean, it's just nice to know that we're on 334 00:16:28,170 --> 00:16:30,130 Speaker 7: the same page because then there's no tension in the 335 00:16:30,170 --> 00:16:32,250 Speaker 7: house and things are going well. 336 00:16:32,330 --> 00:16:34,570 Speaker 5: So yeah, you're doing a great job, man, Thank you, 337 00:16:34,610 --> 00:16:34,890 Speaker 5: thank you. 338 00:16:35,210 --> 00:16:36,250 Speaker 7: Thanks for keeping things clean. 339 00:16:36,370 --> 00:16:37,130 Speaker 8: Yeah, you got it. 340 00:16:39,530 --> 00:16:42,330 Speaker 1: Joey, Joey, Joey. 341 00:16:42,330 --> 00:16:43,170 Speaker 6: That was magnificent. 342 00:16:43,490 --> 00:16:46,010 Speaker 1: That was so good. Really from the last time that 343 00:16:46,090 --> 00:16:49,130 Speaker 1: we were with you. I mean, you've come so far. 344 00:16:49,610 --> 00:16:52,370 Speaker 6: Yeah, that was really straightforward. And I was getting ready 345 00:16:52,370 --> 00:16:54,370 Speaker 6: to start sweating when you said I want to talk 346 00:16:54,410 --> 00:16:56,850 Speaker 6: to you, and instead you were just clear, concise, really 347 00:16:56,850 --> 00:16:57,930 Speaker 6: spit it out. It was great. 348 00:16:58,330 --> 00:16:58,530 Speaker 8: Yeah. 349 00:16:58,570 --> 00:17:01,050 Speaker 7: I think he definitely appreciated that, and I feel better too. 350 00:17:01,210 --> 00:17:01,690 Speaker 5: It was great. 351 00:17:01,970 --> 00:17:04,250 Speaker 6: I mean, this is the kind of skill set that 352 00:17:04,369 --> 00:17:06,290 Speaker 6: only a gold Stein can give you to deal with 353 00:17:06,290 --> 00:17:08,130 Speaker 6: your roommates. 354 00:17:07,530 --> 00:17:08,290 Speaker 1: And a Gregor. 355 00:17:09,570 --> 00:17:10,490 Speaker 6: It's all you, Johnny. 356 00:17:10,570 --> 00:17:12,730 Speaker 1: See before we were both trying to pun Joey off 357 00:17:12,730 --> 00:17:14,490 Speaker 1: on each other, and look at us now. 358 00:17:14,609 --> 00:17:16,689 Speaker 6: The whole time you were talking, all I could picture 359 00:17:16,810 --> 00:17:19,209 Speaker 6: was the fade and Johnny comes on in his dulcid 360 00:17:19,290 --> 00:17:21,729 Speaker 6: voice where he's like, so it is the moment and. 361 00:17:23,570 --> 00:17:26,769 Speaker 1: So it is that the roommates were reconciled and the 362 00:17:26,810 --> 00:17:40,290 Speaker 1: apartment found peace once again. So I spoke with another favorite, 363 00:17:41,250 --> 00:17:44,810 Speaker 1: Steve Marsh from the Marshes. From the Titular Marshes. Do 364 00:17:44,850 --> 00:17:47,649 Speaker 1: you remember? Do you remember? Steve likes his seagrims and 365 00:17:47,689 --> 00:17:52,729 Speaker 1: seven up ayahuasca plants. We did an episode with Steve 366 00:17:52,770 --> 00:17:55,489 Speaker 1: about how, as an adult, he'd found out that his 367 00:17:55,649 --> 00:17:58,489 Speaker 1: parents had had a kid before he was born, that 368 00:17:58,530 --> 00:18:01,250 Speaker 1: they had put up for adoption, and that they never 369 00:18:01,330 --> 00:18:05,290 Speaker 1: told him or anyone about and Steve and I said 370 00:18:05,290 --> 00:18:07,209 Speaker 1: about trying to find her. So I checked in with 371 00:18:07,250 --> 00:18:11,249 Speaker 1: Steve to see how he's weathering this pandemic, and he 372 00:18:11,330 --> 00:18:14,330 Speaker 1: still needs a little help from Jonathan Goldstein. 373 00:18:14,810 --> 00:18:15,330 Speaker 5: Can you hear me? 374 00:18:15,889 --> 00:18:17,009 Speaker 1: I can can you hear me? 375 00:18:17,770 --> 00:18:18,290 Speaker 5: Yeah? 376 00:18:18,929 --> 00:18:22,249 Speaker 1: Has your headspace? Because I know you're you're a pretty 377 00:18:22,250 --> 00:18:23,009 Speaker 1: social person. 378 00:18:23,810 --> 00:18:28,450 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's been my biggest thing. So I love 379 00:18:28,530 --> 00:18:31,449 Speaker 5: meeting new people and it kind of wakes up my 380 00:18:31,530 --> 00:18:36,169 Speaker 5: brain and it's one of the great pleasures of my life. 381 00:18:36,889 --> 00:18:40,290 Speaker 5: So now bereft of the chance to meet new people, 382 00:18:40,850 --> 00:18:47,369 Speaker 5: your mind drifts to people like if you can't go outside, 383 00:18:47,369 --> 00:18:52,209 Speaker 5: you go inside, And so you have these memories in 384 00:18:52,290 --> 00:18:55,850 Speaker 5: nostalgia for people that you haven't talked to in a while. 385 00:18:56,330 --> 00:18:59,530 Speaker 1: Are you Are you thinking of someone specifically, because we've 386 00:18:59,570 --> 00:19:01,770 Speaker 1: been doing this thing lately where we're trying to connect 387 00:19:01,770 --> 00:19:06,330 Speaker 1: people with friends that they've drifted from. 388 00:19:06,449 --> 00:19:08,969 Speaker 5: There's this woman, Mika. She's in Paris. She got pissed 389 00:19:09,250 --> 00:19:12,930 Speaker 5: me and when I was stuck in Africa, her now 390 00:19:13,050 --> 00:19:16,129 Speaker 5: husband had to go to Paris or Lee so I 391 00:19:16,129 --> 00:19:17,169 Speaker 5: could get out of Gabone. 392 00:19:17,209 --> 00:19:20,810 Speaker 1: Wait, wait, hang on a second, back up. You were 393 00:19:20,850 --> 00:19:21,930 Speaker 1: stuck in France. 394 00:19:22,689 --> 00:19:24,050 Speaker 5: I was stuck in Africa. 395 00:19:25,649 --> 00:19:26,290 Speaker 1: What happened? 396 00:19:27,010 --> 00:19:32,530 Speaker 5: My friend was in a movie about people going to Gabone, 397 00:19:32,730 --> 00:19:37,490 Speaker 5: Africa to do Ibiga, which is this psychedelic route. And 398 00:19:37,689 --> 00:19:39,729 Speaker 5: I went down there and I met them and I 399 00:19:39,770 --> 00:19:41,929 Speaker 5: was like, I want to try Ibiga. And I did. 400 00:19:42,449 --> 00:19:44,809 Speaker 5: And I went into like a fugue state for like 401 00:19:44,850 --> 00:19:47,050 Speaker 5: forty eight hours, and I missed my flight. 402 00:19:46,810 --> 00:19:49,010 Speaker 1: Back Holy Kat And this was pleasant. 403 00:19:49,850 --> 00:19:54,010 Speaker 5: No, it's horrible, like a waking nightmare kind of thing, 404 00:19:54,530 --> 00:19:56,689 Speaker 5: and it was weird, like, so I did like thirty 405 00:19:56,730 --> 00:20:01,010 Speaker 5: spoonfuls of the They grind up this ibiga into a powder, 406 00:20:01,169 --> 00:20:03,490 Speaker 5: about thirty spoonfuls of it and then I also did 407 00:20:03,490 --> 00:20:08,209 Speaker 5: an additional how much of the sawdust through an enema 408 00:20:08,330 --> 00:20:08,930 Speaker 5: at the same. 409 00:20:08,770 --> 00:20:18,730 Speaker 1: Time, so the god, this does not sound appealing. It's 410 00:20:18,730 --> 00:20:21,850 Speaker 1: like you're eating like basically like a large breakfast bowl 411 00:20:22,090 --> 00:20:24,410 Speaker 1: of this of this, like. 412 00:20:24,369 --> 00:20:27,090 Speaker 5: A highly acidic sawdust, and then when. 413 00:20:26,970 --> 00:20:29,210 Speaker 1: You're done with that, they're like no, no, no, now 414 00:20:29,290 --> 00:20:30,090 Speaker 1: comes the enema. 415 00:20:30,409 --> 00:20:32,529 Speaker 5: Yeah, They're like, oh, you haven't had enough. You're not 416 00:20:32,570 --> 00:20:34,449 Speaker 5: getting You're like because I was like, I was like, oh, 417 00:20:34,530 --> 00:20:36,450 Speaker 5: I don't I can't do it. I can't do it anymore. 418 00:20:36,649 --> 00:20:38,969 Speaker 5: I was being a baby and and they're like, Okay, 419 00:20:39,010 --> 00:20:42,810 Speaker 5: well come into this hut and we'll give you an enema. 420 00:20:43,209 --> 00:20:46,090 Speaker 1: What what recollections do you have from those forty eight hours? 421 00:20:46,129 --> 00:20:46,969 Speaker 1: Anything stick with you? 422 00:20:48,409 --> 00:20:52,090 Speaker 5: Well? They uh, they ask you, like to describe what 423 00:20:52,129 --> 00:20:54,889 Speaker 5: you what you see, and I was like, I saw 424 00:20:54,929 --> 00:20:59,609 Speaker 5: some like flickering. I'm like the lantern, you know, So 425 00:20:59,649 --> 00:21:02,449 Speaker 5: then that becomes that's my I began name like, I'm 426 00:21:02,490 --> 00:21:06,050 Speaker 5: like whatever the African equivalent of flickering and the lantern is, 427 00:21:06,090 --> 00:21:09,049 Speaker 5: which is like, who doesn't see flickering in the lantern? 428 00:21:10,010 --> 00:21:14,490 Speaker 5: I was kind of quasi seeing this woman in Minnesota 429 00:21:14,530 --> 00:21:18,730 Speaker 5: at the time, and I felt like she was not 430 00:21:18,850 --> 00:21:22,650 Speaker 5: just seeing me, you know. I focused on those kind 431 00:21:22,730 --> 00:21:27,129 Speaker 5: of paranoid feelings until I went into this like yeah, 432 00:21:27,330 --> 00:21:31,010 Speaker 5: grade out fugue state for for eight hours and then 433 00:21:31,090 --> 00:21:35,330 Speaker 5: to come to and realize that Moroccan air isn't going 434 00:21:35,409 --> 00:21:40,169 Speaker 5: to refund my ticket and unless somebody can appear on 435 00:21:40,169 --> 00:21:43,570 Speaker 5: my behalf at the Paris or Lee airport. 436 00:21:43,689 --> 00:21:45,850 Speaker 1: Why would someone have to Why would that be the 437 00:21:45,929 --> 00:21:50,050 Speaker 1: terms of getting reimbursement on your on your ticket. 438 00:21:49,570 --> 00:21:51,049 Speaker 5: You need it. It's like, I don't know. 439 00:21:51,570 --> 00:21:55,530 Speaker 1: So she had to go to this airport in France. 440 00:21:55,449 --> 00:21:58,330 Speaker 5: Her husband did. And I think Mika has found the 441 00:21:58,369 --> 00:22:03,170 Speaker 5: whole escapade to be irresponsible and has really never never 442 00:22:03,209 --> 00:22:03,769 Speaker 5: forgiven me. 443 00:22:04,530 --> 00:22:09,770 Speaker 1: And that that that was the end of your friendship. Yeah, 444 00:22:09,810 --> 00:22:14,050 Speaker 1: how long was it since you last had actual contact? 445 00:22:14,330 --> 00:22:17,930 Speaker 5: Oh? Man? So this was in this is like right 446 00:22:17,970 --> 00:22:20,330 Speaker 5: before me and I started eating. It's like eight years ago. 447 00:22:21,090 --> 00:22:23,050 Speaker 5: So like then, I think it was like a couple 448 00:22:23,050 --> 00:22:24,810 Speaker 5: of years later or something. I was like, hey, you know, 449 00:22:25,609 --> 00:22:28,090 Speaker 5: I might be coming through town, and she's like, I 450 00:22:28,090 --> 00:22:28,810 Speaker 5: don't want to see you. 451 00:22:29,209 --> 00:22:29,449 Speaker 6: Hmm. 452 00:22:30,449 --> 00:22:33,529 Speaker 1: Oh. And was that the last contact you had with her? 453 00:22:34,010 --> 00:22:34,490 Speaker 5: That was it? 454 00:22:34,570 --> 00:22:34,850 Speaker 7: Yeah? 455 00:22:35,730 --> 00:22:40,170 Speaker 5: And I love Meka like Mika's. She has a great laugh. Man. 456 00:22:40,330 --> 00:22:45,890 Speaker 5: I used to love making Mika laugh. I guess it's 457 00:22:45,889 --> 00:22:49,249 Speaker 5: one of the few, kind of the few people in 458 00:22:49,290 --> 00:22:52,330 Speaker 5: my life that I've really hurt them. 459 00:22:53,850 --> 00:22:58,090 Speaker 1: Do you want to reach out just to say, you know, like, 460 00:22:58,129 --> 00:23:00,010 Speaker 1: see how she's doing in the midst of all this. 461 00:23:01,649 --> 00:23:04,170 Speaker 5: Yeah, man, that might be nice. That would be nice. 462 00:23:04,169 --> 00:23:07,889 Speaker 5: Then maybe I could actually apologize to her, maybe. 463 00:23:07,689 --> 00:23:10,010 Speaker 1: Formally, because you never have. 464 00:23:10,209 --> 00:23:12,169 Speaker 5: Really, I don't think so. 465 00:23:12,649 --> 00:23:15,250 Speaker 1: Is she still in Paris? Yeah, because I think it's 466 00:23:15,530 --> 00:23:19,050 Speaker 1: right now. It's midnight in Paris. This calling her midnight 467 00:23:19,209 --> 00:23:24,529 Speaker 1: might make things worse. Yeah, so on behalf of Steve. 468 00:23:24,570 --> 00:23:31,330 Speaker 1: I ended up just sending Meka an email and she said, yeah, sure, 469 00:23:31,369 --> 00:23:34,729 Speaker 1: we can get on the telephone. So so that's what 470 00:23:34,770 --> 00:23:39,810 Speaker 1: we did. Oh you hear that European classy ring tone 471 00:23:40,770 --> 00:23:47,770 Speaker 1: that it's better than you, that ringtone better than me? Hello, Mika, hold. 472 00:23:47,570 --> 00:23:49,289 Speaker 4: On, let me put on my headphones on? 473 00:23:49,449 --> 00:23:53,090 Speaker 1: Okay, Well I don't should I be talking? 474 00:23:54,010 --> 00:23:54,490 Speaker 5: I don't know. 475 00:23:54,689 --> 00:23:55,530 Speaker 1: I didn't think of it. 476 00:23:55,810 --> 00:24:00,970 Speaker 6: Hello, Hey Steve here, Steve, Hey man, how are you? 477 00:24:01,409 --> 00:24:04,009 Speaker 5: I'm good man, I miss you. I was just thinking 478 00:24:04,409 --> 00:24:07,409 Speaker 5: I was talking to Jonathan and Christoph having to drop 479 00:24:07,449 --> 00:24:10,330 Speaker 5: everything and bail me out of my I have beg 480 00:24:10,330 --> 00:24:15,609 Speaker 5: got stupor in Africa and inviting that Condon nass guy 481 00:24:16,290 --> 00:24:19,730 Speaker 5: the photographer to like crash your place and wait your 482 00:24:19,730 --> 00:24:21,009 Speaker 5: mom like walked in on. 483 00:24:21,209 --> 00:24:25,489 Speaker 1: Wait, I'm really sorry to interrupt Mega, forgive me, but 484 00:24:25,609 --> 00:24:29,409 Speaker 1: wait what what what is we we talked about the 485 00:24:29,530 --> 00:24:32,570 Speaker 1: whole drug thing, but what what is the what is 486 00:24:32,609 --> 00:24:34,290 Speaker 1: the thing about the photographer? 487 00:24:35,250 --> 00:24:39,770 Speaker 5: Oh? Well, like Mika had gone on a family vacation 488 00:24:40,330 --> 00:24:44,050 Speaker 5: and uh, she let me stay in her crib okay, 489 00:24:44,050 --> 00:24:49,049 Speaker 5: And then I was out with a Condon ask pho 490 00:24:49,369 --> 00:24:53,450 Speaker 5: photographer and he didn't have a place to stay that night, 491 00:24:53,609 --> 00:24:57,250 Speaker 5: and I volunteered Mika's place without asking her permission. 492 00:24:58,169 --> 00:25:00,810 Speaker 1: Wait, so so on top of the whole other thing, 493 00:25:00,929 --> 00:25:03,649 Speaker 1: there was also this this guy. 494 00:25:04,810 --> 00:25:10,649 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, Steve, I know, I mean Mika, that's the thing. Honestly, Like, 495 00:25:10,889 --> 00:25:14,169 Speaker 5: I'm sorry for all of it, and Christophe as well, 496 00:25:14,209 --> 00:25:17,369 Speaker 5: And I feel like I estranged myself from you by 497 00:25:17,810 --> 00:25:20,010 Speaker 5: acting like such an ugly American. 498 00:25:20,570 --> 00:25:25,369 Speaker 8: I mean no, I was definitely wanting to help you 499 00:25:25,490 --> 00:25:28,929 Speaker 8: out when you're in Africa. Act when you call me 500 00:25:29,330 --> 00:25:31,490 Speaker 8: a you were like, I'm desperate. I need to get 501 00:25:31,490 --> 00:25:34,409 Speaker 8: out of here. So I was totally like, okay, I 502 00:25:34,530 --> 00:25:36,330 Speaker 8: we're going to get you out. And Christoph is a 503 00:25:36,330 --> 00:25:40,250 Speaker 8: really great guy, and I was just like just tell 504 00:25:40,330 --> 00:25:43,729 Speaker 8: him thank you, you know, please, Like I don't know 505 00:25:43,730 --> 00:25:45,170 Speaker 8: if I can swear in this, but. 506 00:25:45,209 --> 00:25:46,090 Speaker 4: Like you got to like. 507 00:25:47,649 --> 00:25:48,090 Speaker 1: Something. 508 00:25:48,490 --> 00:25:49,449 Speaker 6: I don't know that you. 509 00:25:49,530 --> 00:25:58,810 Speaker 8: Better because right, I think what was really problematic was that, yeah, 510 00:25:58,810 --> 00:26:00,490 Speaker 8: you invited your friend without telling me. 511 00:26:01,129 --> 00:26:02,930 Speaker 4: So when you asked. 512 00:26:02,609 --> 00:26:05,169 Speaker 8: Me like a couple of years after it to come 513 00:26:05,330 --> 00:26:08,850 Speaker 8: with your sweetie, I was like I had to make 514 00:26:08,850 --> 00:26:12,770 Speaker 8: a voice like do I want to have another adventure 515 00:26:13,129 --> 00:26:18,169 Speaker 8: and put up with like, well, it was kind of 516 00:26:18,250 --> 00:26:20,810 Speaker 8: tricky when you came, and it was a little bit, 517 00:26:21,850 --> 00:26:23,249 Speaker 8: for lack of a better word, high. 518 00:26:23,129 --> 00:26:28,409 Speaker 5: Maintenance, right right, totally, Oh. 519 00:26:28,090 --> 00:26:34,009 Speaker 8: Steve, I'm I mean, I'm totally glad that you know 520 00:26:34,169 --> 00:26:37,689 Speaker 8: we're friends and I'm I'm really happy to talk to 521 00:26:37,730 --> 00:26:41,730 Speaker 8: you now. And I really appreciate you saying sorry and 522 00:26:41,770 --> 00:26:45,290 Speaker 8: I thank you for that, and Steve, you're you're good people. 523 00:26:45,449 --> 00:26:50,209 Speaker 5: So we're cool. Thanks me. It's great to hear your voice. 524 00:26:50,250 --> 00:26:51,490 Speaker 4: Man, what's up to you? 525 00:26:51,570 --> 00:26:52,010 Speaker 8: How are you? 526 00:26:52,449 --> 00:27:00,929 Speaker 5: I'm good man, Yeah, yeah, I'm totally good. How is 527 00:27:01,090 --> 00:27:01,729 Speaker 5: Paris like? 528 00:27:01,810 --> 00:27:02,969 Speaker 7: How is No Like? 529 00:27:03,209 --> 00:27:26,409 Speaker 4: So in about ten days. 530 00:27:17,570 --> 00:27:21,209 Speaker 1: And hey, guess what that's our show? Okay, yeah, well 531 00:27:21,250 --> 00:27:23,850 Speaker 1: but not quite yet. A couple more. 532 00:27:23,689 --> 00:27:26,490 Speaker 2: Things, Oh well, okay, So that was a lie. 533 00:27:27,330 --> 00:27:32,009 Speaker 1: I wanted to mention that oftentimes people ask what they 534 00:27:32,010 --> 00:27:34,330 Speaker 1: could do to help support the show, and you know what, 535 00:27:34,530 --> 00:27:37,650 Speaker 1: don't send us any money, don't send your jewelry. All 536 00:27:37,689 --> 00:27:40,929 Speaker 1: you have to do is try to listen on Spotify. 537 00:27:41,649 --> 00:27:45,290 Speaker 1: You can listen anywhere you want, and we're appreciative of that, 538 00:27:45,449 --> 00:27:50,050 Speaker 1: but if you want to do a solid listen on Spotify, 539 00:27:50,609 --> 00:27:54,570 Speaker 1: because it won't hurt, it'll help. And what we've done 540 00:27:54,570 --> 00:27:57,690 Speaker 1: to further entice is we've assembled a playlist of some 541 00:27:57,730 --> 00:28:02,450 Speaker 1: of our favorite episodes as well as some of listener favorites. 542 00:28:02,770 --> 00:28:05,449 Speaker 1: This is called the Heavyweight Starter Kit. If you search 543 00:28:05,490 --> 00:28:07,449 Speaker 1: for that on Spotify you'll find it and it's a 544 00:28:07,530 --> 00:28:07,850 Speaker 1: lot of. 545 00:28:07,770 --> 00:28:10,729 Speaker 2: Fun and there link in the show notes. 546 00:28:11,050 --> 00:28:15,050 Speaker 1: Yeah, so if you're into the whole clicking thing, And 547 00:28:15,169 --> 00:28:18,730 Speaker 1: another way that you guys can continue to support us 548 00:28:18,889 --> 00:28:23,209 Speaker 1: is by sending in your emails with your stories and uh, 549 00:28:23,250 --> 00:28:26,090 Speaker 1: just how you're doing at this at this time, we 550 00:28:26,490 --> 00:28:29,969 Speaker 1: really enjoy reading them, and among the emails that we 551 00:28:30,010 --> 00:28:34,330 Speaker 1: received this week was a song by a singer songwriter 552 00:28:34,810 --> 00:28:37,770 Speaker 1: named Connie she Oh. 553 00:28:37,850 --> 00:28:40,570 Speaker 9: I am Connie she I am in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn, 554 00:28:40,690 --> 00:28:44,770 Speaker 9: and I am currently in my bedroom, on my floor, 555 00:28:45,050 --> 00:28:52,170 Speaker 9: looking out my window at other buildings. So I am 556 00:28:52,209 --> 00:28:55,690 Speaker 9: having trouble processing my feelings about all this, and so 557 00:28:55,810 --> 00:28:58,170 Speaker 9: I wrote a song about it, and I thought I 558 00:28:58,170 --> 00:29:05,090 Speaker 9: would share it with you. Every passing day, I feel 559 00:29:05,090 --> 00:29:11,730 Speaker 9: a little worse about zoos. I was good for ay oh, 560 00:29:11,770 --> 00:29:15,130 Speaker 9: fill my schedule with classes, got dressed and my makeup 561 00:29:15,290 --> 00:29:18,489 Speaker 9: even chrow my eyelashes. But a slump is so close 562 00:29:18,650 --> 00:29:21,810 Speaker 9: it might be here already. I watched ten episodes of 563 00:29:21,850 --> 00:29:26,370 Speaker 9: Community last night, and my screenwriting class is a great 564 00:29:26,410 --> 00:29:28,850 Speaker 9: group of people. But I don't think I'm a writer. 565 00:29:29,530 --> 00:29:32,410 Speaker 9: I'm more of a sleeper in my dreams. I can float. 566 00:29:32,610 --> 00:29:35,969 Speaker 9: I don't feel any pressure. I am light as the weather. 567 00:29:38,209 --> 00:29:41,930 Speaker 9: Is it morning? Alrighty? Where is the sun? I lost 568 00:29:41,970 --> 00:29:45,890 Speaker 9: my marble somewhere in the bathroom, and I can feel 569 00:29:45,890 --> 00:29:49,090 Speaker 9: all my atoms are shaking with what can't be done. 570 00:29:52,370 --> 00:29:56,490 Speaker 9: It's hard to feel lucky without feeling guilty. A soundtrack 571 00:29:56,530 --> 00:30:00,610 Speaker 9: of sirens, hants and connects me. The future feels heavy 572 00:30:01,850 --> 00:30:07,529 Speaker 9: and I miss my mom. I've got no room to pace, 573 00:30:07,730 --> 00:30:10,330 Speaker 9: so my mind is what's right, but it's more of 574 00:30:10,410 --> 00:30:13,610 Speaker 9: a stumble with no distance I'm covering. I know now 575 00:30:13,730 --> 00:30:20,090 Speaker 9: is the time to create that. I'm hungry again. Is 576 00:30:20,090 --> 00:30:21,530 Speaker 9: it morning? Already? 577 00:30:21,930 --> 00:30:22,289 Speaker 1: Aware? 578 00:30:22,450 --> 00:30:26,130 Speaker 9: Is the sign? I lost my marble somewhere in the bathroom, 579 00:30:26,650 --> 00:30:29,650 Speaker 9: and I can feel all my atoms or shaking with 580 00:30:29,690 --> 00:30:35,570 Speaker 9: what can't be done. I know that something has ended 581 00:30:35,810 --> 00:30:38,690 Speaker 9: and something's begun, and I just wish someone could give 582 00:30:38,850 --> 00:30:42,450 Speaker 9: me more answers, or tell me just close your eyes 583 00:30:42,610 --> 00:30:44,529 Speaker 9: and then open when I 584 00:30:44,610 --> 00:30:50,730 Speaker 7: Get to one