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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan Part one

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Speaker 1: ahnger Thing with a member of the show. Welcome everybody,

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Speaker 1: it's best Bits time. I'm joined this weekend by a

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Speaker 1: lovely Abby. Hello. Hello, how you feeling?

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Speaker 2: I'm good? How are you good?

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Speaker 1: Little tired, little a little strung out of feels like.

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Speaker 1: But we are here and work again. Yeah we are,

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Speaker 1: and we got things to talk about. So before Abby

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Speaker 1: and I get into some fun stuff that y'all really

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Speaker 1: want to hear about. The best bits this week We've

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Speaker 1: got the today years old. When I learned blank that happened,

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Speaker 1: Everybody was mind blown. During that. Amy Grant stopped by

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Speaker 1: the studio. Lunchbox sold something from the palette. Finally I

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Speaker 1: did a smell test because I feel like my smell

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Speaker 1: is finally back. Maybe Brothers Osbourne also stopped by the studio.

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Speaker 1: We had doctor Raglan in for Eddie's possible hair transplant

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Speaker 1: situation and we did a draft of things we want

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Speaker 1: to go away in twenty twenty four that definitely got dark.

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Speaker 1: So that is everything that happening this week from the show.

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Speaker 1: But Abby, we have to talk. Listeners have lots of

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Speaker 1: questions for you, and I vote they do about our

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Speaker 1: love life.

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh.

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Speaker 1: And I've decided the way to go about doing this

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Speaker 1: that will be easy as like friends talking about it first,

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Speaker 1: like kind of invasive questions. Yeah, is you and I

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Speaker 1: can eat each ask each other three questions about this

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Speaker 1: and that's where we leave it. Okay, okay, okay, And

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Speaker 1: you can in those questions you can say plead the fifth.

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Speaker 1: I'm not answering. I'm not ready to answer. I like this,

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Speaker 1: that's an option. Yeah, but that at least is coming

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Speaker 1: from each other and we're still talking about it. Okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: all right, So I'm gonna start okay, and I'm starting

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Speaker 1: out like swinging first, swinging for a home run? Have

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Speaker 1: you guys said I love you?

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Speaker 2: I knew that was your question. I knew it. And

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Speaker 2: how can I know?

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Speaker 1: Like I said, can you plead the fifth? You can?

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Speaker 1: You can. But like also, if you feel comfortable, please share.

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Speaker 2: I am gonna say I plead the fifth on that. Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, it's a big deal for me to say

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Speaker 2: love I will say that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you totally get it, and it is a huge deal,

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Speaker 1: especially after when you've been through a lot of stuff.

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Speaker 1: So I get it. Yes, cool, played the fifth. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, do you want to go back and forth

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Speaker 1: or do you want me to ask my three and

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Speaker 1: then you ask your three?

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Speaker 2: Let's see you asked your three, then I'll ask mine.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Have there been any serious conversations about the future.

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Speaker 2: Yes, there have Okay, Yeah, he's very good. He's better

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Speaker 2: than me, like bringing things up. But he's also like

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Speaker 2: we're at an age where you don't really have time.

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Speaker 2: We're not I'm not in my early twenties where I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: it's fine, like whatever.

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Speaker 1: Just you're not messing around anymore.

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Speaker 2: Right, It's like I think we're dating at this point

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Speaker 2: to like know if we want a feature with this person. So, yes,

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Speaker 2: there have definitely been conversations, and.

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Speaker 1: You feel good about those conversations.

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Speaker 2: I do, Yeah, yeah, okay, love it all right? Yes?

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Speaker 1: What is your favorite thing about him? Oh?

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Speaker 2: My gosh, and.

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Speaker 1: I know you probably have so many, Yeah, but name

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Speaker 1: like a big thing that comes to mind? Right when

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Speaker 2: Would say that he's so easy going, like he never

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Speaker 2: like there's pushback or like hey, I'm gonna go like

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Speaker 2: You know, he could have been like, oh, I don't

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Speaker 2: want to do that, like I have other things to do,

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Speaker 2: or you know, something like that, like he always wants

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Speaker 2: why not? So it's just super like easy. I would say, okay,

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Speaker 2: which I love.

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Speaker 1: I love it. So we got some details. Do you

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Speaker 2: I don't think it was too much.

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Speaker 1: So I like you all right now it is your

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I already had this one in mind. You

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Speaker 2: guys he said, I love you.

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Speaker 1: No, no, we're not there yet.

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Speaker 2: Has he proposed yet? I'm just kidding. I'm just gonna.

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Speaker 1: Definitely know and that I won't make a counter second question.

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Speaker 1: But no, no, we have not I love you yet.

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Speaker 2: But that was funny. Let's see what has been I

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Speaker 2: guess Okay, does he usually plan all the dates? And

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Speaker 2: or what is the best date you guys have gone on?

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Speaker 2: That's kind of two questions.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is that's a few.

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Speaker 2: Let's just do what what is your favorite date you've

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Speaker 1: Favorite date? Okay, I will say yes, he has planned

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Speaker 1: percent of things we have done together. And our favorite date,

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Speaker 1: had some good dates and there it's funny. It's because

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Speaker 1: we both drove there. Because it was the second date,

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Speaker 1: he was like, I washed my car in case you

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Speaker 1: No, it's okay, not quite yet another I'm very I'm

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Speaker 1: It was adorable. And then he drives a stick shift

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Speaker 1: After this date what And we're just like hanging out,

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Speaker 1: But he was so calm and so fun and just

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Speaker 1: about him in those moments, Like he's very patient, he's

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Speaker 2: Like like, okay, so did you learn I did?

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Speaker 1: I know? Yeah, I drove around. I drove around the park.

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Speaker 1: I am scared to drive on the main roads, but

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and he has Oh my gosh, his patience

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. He doesn't get mad because yeah that's

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Speaker 1: No, there was no anger, and I was like, who

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Speaker 2: I love that. That's a good sign. That's how I

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Speaker 1: He makes me giggly, Like I've never been that way.

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Speaker 1: I've always been pretty like confident and just I never

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Speaker 2: Okay, that makes me happy.

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Speaker 2: Well more my third one. So are you guys official?

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is this is just for best bits. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure I will share more on the big show at

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Speaker 1: some point in time later, but without sharing too much detail.

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Speaker 1: I we are no longer on dating apps.

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Speaker 2: Sure what did you you just like, word, vomit everything.

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Speaker 1: I just get so excited to talk about him. Yes,

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Speaker 1: like it's a weird thing. When I like when I

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Speaker 1: I went to a bachelorette party and people would ask

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Speaker 1: him a lot, and he literally looks at me. He's like,

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Speaker 1: both of my feet are firmly planted right here, like

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Speaker 1: for me, that is, And I'm like that, I love that.

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Speaker 1: Not for me, I am that's express over here right.

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Speaker 1: But I haven't felt that way in a long time

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Speaker 1: to just feel like, Okay, I feel safe that you're

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Speaker 1: actually just a good human being and this hopefully will

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Speaker 1: That's crazy that it's going to take that for me

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Speaker 1: But I didn't know if you like have been like

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say five years in a marriage, our fifty

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Speaker 1: We're gonna take a break and we're gonna talk about

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say the half marathon that I did because,

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Speaker 1: Which is like you, yes, slaving for yourself. Also mostly

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Speaker 1: But yes, honestly, would have been funny. I've been very

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that is what happened, so oh like

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Speaker 2: Hey, yeah, that's another one. Oh that my parents were

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Speaker 2: Yes, I know exactly. I was like, if he doesn't

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Speaker 1: Like, and you gotta be close with your family and like,

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Speaker 1: to be in. I guess one thing to be like

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Speaker 1: obsessed with him and want to spend all the time,

439
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Speaker 1: but like it's another that you make time for all

440
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Speaker 1: those important factors of your own individual life.

441
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Speaker 2: Right, So I love that.

442
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Speaker 1: You were like, no, mom, what are you talking about?

443
00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:39,320
Speaker 1: You're coming.

444
00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:41,560
Speaker 2: I know. It's like I'm not changing who I am.

445
00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:44,479
Speaker 2: You know, like he if he loves what who I

446
00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:47,119
Speaker 2: am now, then that's gonna work out. But if I

447
00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,360
Speaker 2: have to change, then that's it's.

448
00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:52,040
Speaker 1: Not Yeah, I like toxic, not good, not good.

449
00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:54,760
Speaker 2: That is very toxic. And then the final thing is

450
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Speaker 2: not going to morganwall on this weekend. And I'm very excited.

451
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Speaker 1: Which night because I heard he's here three nights and

452
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Speaker 1: yeah for a riday. Okay, you will. By the time

453
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Speaker 1: this airs, you all have been at Morian wallin Yes. Nice.

454
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Speaker 1: Was How much did those tickets cost you?

455
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Speaker 2: Two point fifty a piece? Yes? On the side, I know, yeah,

456
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Speaker 2: I probably could have gotten some cheaper, but it was

457
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Speaker 2: like an impulse by Like my boyfriend and I were

458
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Speaker 2: looking and we're like, let's just get them. They might

459
00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:20,959
Speaker 2: go up and I'm like, no, they're going down. They

460
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Speaker 2: keep going down as time goes. It's okay because there's

461
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Speaker 2: three nights.

462
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Speaker 1: Are they good tickets? Like? Are you good seats?

463
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Speaker 2: Oh, they're really good. They're on the side. I was

464
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Speaker 2: debating between the floor and the side. But you know,

465
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Speaker 2: being short, I'm like, I know, like a tall the

466
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Speaker 2: seven foot guy's going to stand in front of.

467
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Speaker 1: Me every time every time. Yeah, I could have a

468
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Speaker 1: great view. And all of a sudden I turned one

469
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Speaker 1: second and there's somebody new in front of me that's

470
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Speaker 1: like five thousand feet tall. Yes, and then a spot

471
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Speaker 1: and then.

472
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Speaker 2: They do it again and then they shift. Yeah, and

473
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Speaker 2: they're wearing like a cowboy hat and everything. So I'm

474
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Speaker 2: like I'm not going to take that chance. I want

475
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Speaker 2: to be able to see.

476
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:53,880
Speaker 1: So who's opening for that show?

477
00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:57,680
Speaker 2: So let's see Nate Smith and Bailey'szimmerman And it's fun.

478
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Speaker 2: What's her name? Laura wat Lauren Walking? Yes, she's like

479
00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:02,680
Speaker 2: the first one.

480
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Speaker 1: It's all fun. It's at Nissan Stadium, right, Yeah?

481
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:07,040
Speaker 2: Something Cury song?

482
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Speaker 1: Do you want to hear? Oh?

483
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Speaker 2: Man, I love sand in my boots. I love that one.

484
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,160
Speaker 1: How do you remind me how that one goes? Oh?

485
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Speaker 2: But nowag and paddles and my sons Silverado there is

486
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Speaker 2: a yeah, okay, it's another one. I want to hear

487
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Speaker 2: the post malone?

488
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Speaker 1: Mom, do blend together for me?

489
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Speaker 2: I know they do.

490
00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:28,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's about to post one is going to be

491
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Speaker 1: a jam.

492
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Speaker 2: Gosh, it is a jam.

493
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Speaker 1: It's wind. Does it come out?

494
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Speaker 2: No, I don't know. I don't know if they've announced it.

495
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Speaker 2: Have they?

496
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Speaker 1: I don't know it has I just know they've posted it.

497
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Speaker 1: So I'm like, did you guys at least sure a

498
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Speaker 1: date yet?

499
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Speaker 2: It's all over? TikTok it is and.

500
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Speaker 1: Raised phone that he keeps playing it on every millisecond.

501
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:49,160
Speaker 2: I know I sent him a video. He keeps playing it.

502
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Speaker 2: It's a really good one.

503
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Speaker 1: It is really good. But literally every time I come

504
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Speaker 1: out of the studio, he's playing it. It's like a

505
00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:57,399
Speaker 1: break song for him. Now. It is so apparently something

506
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Speaker 1: has surpast Samon in this moment.

507
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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, we're singing it.

508
00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:06,520
Speaker 1: Yep. Oh shoot, okay, so those are fun, fun stuff

509
00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 1: happening right now.

510
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Speaker 2: What about you?

511
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Speaker 1: Okay? So I did it? Just get back from Miramar

512
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Speaker 1: Beach Deston, Florida.

513
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Speaker 2: That looked I was so jealous. I was like, I

514
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Speaker 2: need a beach.

515
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Speaker 1: It was so funny. You're such a beach girl. You're

516
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Speaker 1: such a beach girl. I'm not.

517
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Speaker 2: You're not.

518
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Speaker 1: They put me on the sand. I was like, we'll

519
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Speaker 1: have stand in my swim soup.

520
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Speaker 2: I don't like this.

521
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Speaker 1: Did not sit down, like, don't like it? Hev gs.

522
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Speaker 1: I was.

523
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Speaker 2: Not at all. Did you get in the water?

524
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Speaker 1: I did? Well, I didn't. I didn't during the beach day.

525
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Speaker 1: I did during our Crab Island day. Okay, So I've

526
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Speaker 1: never been to Miramar. I've been to Deston, which like

527
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,920
Speaker 1: they're kind of connected. But Miramar was beautiful and we

528
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Speaker 1: drove around. My favorite part was that our abing me

529
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Speaker 1: had a golf cart and I drove it around.

530
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Speaker 2: Are you kidding me? That's awesome?

531
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Speaker 1: I felt so cool. I was like, guys, golf cart life, like,

532
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Speaker 1: this is a beat. That is what I like about

533
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Speaker 1: the beach. Put me in a golf cart and I'll

534
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Speaker 1: just drive everybody drive around. This is so much fun.

535
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know why. It's so much

536
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Speaker 1: fun to drive like a little cart like that around,

537
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 1: just like a little electric Was it electric? Yeah? They

538
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 1: are right, yeah, I think they only go like thirty

539
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Speaker 1: miles thirty thirty five miles an hour. And then we

540
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Speaker 1: I made them do Bridle Beer Olympics Thursday night. When

541
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Speaker 1: we got in, I'd put together Bridle Beer Olympics, and

542
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,880
Speaker 1: so it was like each different We did beer darts,

543
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Speaker 1: dizzy bat, what was the other one? Oh? We had

544
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Speaker 1: I had these flamingos that you put on your head

545
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Speaker 1: and you had to put like a ring toss for

546
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:31,479
Speaker 1: so like each stage was like meeting each other, engagement, elopement, marriage,

547
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Speaker 1: Each stage was like the different phases of Bridle Beer Olympics.

548
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 1: And then but the end was like this dizzy bat

549
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 1: and the dizzey bat remind me so much of college

550
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:41,200
Speaker 1: have you ever played dizzy bat?

551
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 2: Yes, we have to.

552
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: Like Okay, so you get basically a kid's little baseball

553
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: bat and you cut off the top. You have to

554
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Speaker 1: pour a drink in there, chug it for however many

555
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,399
Speaker 1: seconds and however long. How many seconds it takes you

556
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 1: is how many spins you.

557
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,160
Speaker 2: Have to do after so many seconds, and then after

558
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 2: your spins you have to hit the can.

559
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Speaker 1: And so that was how it did it. But it

560
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 1: was so much fun. Like I felt like I was

561
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 1: back at There's sorty house all week and long with

562
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Speaker 1: so many girls.

563
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,880
Speaker 2: See, we need weekends like that. That's awesome.

564
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, we do.

565
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 2: Wait did you plan it?

566
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 1: Then?

567
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:11,639
Speaker 2: Are you made of honor?

568
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: So this one, I am one of three bridesmaids. Okay,

569
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Speaker 1: I helped with some of the planning because there's only

570
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Speaker 1: three of us. So I helped the maid of honor

571
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Speaker 1: with some things. Not in this one, no, But now

572
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,719
Speaker 1: I'm in another one that I'm another bridesmaid, and i'm

573
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 1: my sister's I'm a maid of honor.

574
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Speaker 2: So you're oh, you're two bridesmaids and one made of

575
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Speaker 2: honor this year. That's a lot.

576
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel uh, I feel tired. Yeah, like I

577
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 1: got back from this weekend and all I wanted to

578
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: do was sleep.

579
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you're probably still catching up, because I'm

580
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Speaker 2: sure it was.

581
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 1: And now I'm currently not recording this, but once you

582
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 1: guys hear this, I will be in Austin.

583
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:48,639
Speaker 2: Oh it's never ending.

584
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 1: It is never ending. We did see, like, okay, so

585
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 1: there was a part of this. We saw a pot

586
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 1: of dolphins. There was five dolphins together. Oh my god,

587
00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 1: and two of them were babies.

588
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 3: I mean babies, like the size of like my from

589
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 3: my tors to my head, Like, these were baby dolphins.

590
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 3: They're so cute and they were so cute, and uh,

591
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 3: I got burnt.

592
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,919
Speaker 1: I got fried like a tomato on the back. I

593
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: put sunscreen everywhere else, and for whatever reason, neglected to

594
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 1: ask somebody to put it on my back.

595
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: You mean someone like lunchbox didn't come up this people?

596
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: You know, honestly, that's it would have been a great reminder.

597
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,360
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know, I sure, why not.

598
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 2: Would you have said yes if a random dude came up?

599
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:33,400
Speaker 1: You know, vacation vacation workings different. I'm just like, yeah,

600
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: I don't do anything that's like bad, but I'm just

601
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 1: more susceptible to be like yeah, I'll do whatever.

602
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 2: With friends, like they think it's funny, and it's just funny.

603
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: Exactly, like like we were at the we're at the

604
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: bar and drink and I just did more more inclined

605
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Speaker 1: to say yes, but it's more of a like, oh, yes,

606
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,719
Speaker 1: I guess I'll do it. And we did see a

607
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 1: bar burned down, an entire bar there, uh is called

608
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Speaker 1: Fins two Fins, And as we were getting on our

609
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 1: boat to go out to Crab Island, the entire bar

610
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: was engulfed in flames.

611
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 2: And they know what happened.

612
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: We were reading on the news after things. Nobody got hurt.

613
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,880
Speaker 1: They were open for breakfast, so like people were in there.

614
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 1: But as far as we knew on the news, that

615
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 1: was reported nobody got injured. But uh no, at the

616
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: moment when we were looking at it, nobody knew what happened.

617
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,439
Speaker 1: But it was engulfed in flames.

618
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 2: I cannot even imagine.

619
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: Ten o'clock in the morning. What in wild world. So

620
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,880
Speaker 1: our suspicions were that it was like a grease fire

621
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Speaker 1: of some kind because our boat captain said it was

622
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: by the kitchen area. But crazy, that's cray Yeah, so

623
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Speaker 1: that was fun. Okay, first Utte again and my two

624
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: other bachelrettes. I'm excited to get to go to because

625
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 1: I've never been to those places before. Palm Springs in California,

626
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: and we're doing Joshua Tree in the aerial tramway and

627
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,360
Speaker 1: lots of brunch and karaoke and all things planned. And

628
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: then for the other one, We're going to Lake Huron

629
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: in Michigan, and I've never been to Michigan for the summer.

630
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 1: Really excited.

631
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 2: That is gonna be so cool.

632
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,679
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I'm excited for both of those, even though

633
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: I'm like tired thinking about it. Excited to go see

634
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 1: some new places.

635
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you do have a lot. I've been to Palm

636
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 2: Springs and I loved it. I was there like two days.

637
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 1: Did you go to Joshua Tree and you love Joshua Tree?

638
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my gosh, I loved it. Yeah. We stayed

639
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,639
Speaker 2: at like an Airbnb out in the middle of Joshua Tree,

640
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 2: like out in the middle of the desert, and there

641
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 2: was like a stargazing separate house and you go up

642
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 2: in a ladder and you just like sit at the top.

643
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 2: It was crazy.

644
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: That sounds so romantic.

645
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:28,479
Speaker 2: It was the coolest thing. It was my friend and I.

646
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 2: My girlfriend and I, so it would be very romantic

647
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 2: friendship love, friendship love.

648
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

649
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 2: I was like no, I was there and I was like, man,

650
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 2: this is very romantic. This would be fun to be

651
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 2: with a guy.

652
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: But it was so awesome.

653
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, it was so hot. We went in like

654
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 2: August August. Yeah, it was Oh man, I didn't realize

655
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 2: it was so hot there.

656
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 1: It's gonna be hot when we go to It's at

657
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: the end of May, so we're gonna be primetime.

658
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 2: You'll be at pools. What was cool though, It's like

659
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 2: there's different hotel pools, but you can buy like a

660
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 2: day pass. It's only like ten dollars. Okay, are we

661
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 2: just went to a couple of different Our.

662
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: Airbnb does have a pool, so I am excited about that. Yeah.

663
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 1: And we are doing lots of hiking, a lot of

664
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 1: hiking eve hiking. Yeah. We're gonna do like Indian Canyon,

665
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: which which is near Palm Springs. Yeah, and do the

666
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 1: aerial tramway and there's hiking and restaurants up there at

667
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: the top. But then we have Joshua Tree, like a

668
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: full day at Joshua tree too.

669
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 2: That's really cool. That'll be so fun. I want to

670
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 2: go back, very exciting.

671
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so those and yeah, I've never been to Michigan,

672
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: so I'm excited to see those and then my last

673
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 1: one obviously. Besides, you know, there's a man in uniform

674
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: existing in my life, but he's there. My garden and

675
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: my grass looks so amazing right now, and I'm taking

676
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:40,239
Speaker 1: it all because it's only probably gonna last like two

677
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 1: more weeks.

678
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 2: You have been busy in that backyard, like that's do

679
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 2: you water it? Like every day?

680
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 1: I have a little spring, so I don't have a

681
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 1: sprinkler system, and I can't convince myself to like pay

682
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: for it because I guess it's really expensive to installed

683
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: and everything. Oh yeah, so I did find these things

684
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 1: on Amazon that's like a hose but has a little

685
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,239
Speaker 1: sprinkler attachments. So I have all in my garden and

686
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: that goes off every morning. Oh, I have it on

687
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 1: a timer, okay, because I can't remember. I can't keep

688
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 1: plants alive in my house, say my life, so they

689
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: will not survive if I am on the clock to

690
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: water them.

691
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 2: What are the best things to plant? Like, aren't the perennials.

692
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:17,880
Speaker 2: Those are ones that come out every year, right.

693
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,719
Speaker 1: Yes, so you don't have to. I do not plant annuals, Okay,

694
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 1: I only plant perennials, which is what you're saying.

695
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I need. My whole the front my

696
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,239
Speaker 2: whole front yard. Like my rose bush died and they

697
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,959
Speaker 2: just took it out and now there's nothing. It's just mulch.

698
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 1: You should plant the one, the one that I love.

699
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: She is a sparkler. She is so pretty. It's a

700
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 1: wine and roses plant, and she is a perennial, and

701
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: she's green year round, and then in the fall she

702
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 1: even turns like red instead of the green that she

703
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: is year round, which I know that sounds I said

704
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: that weird. But then when she blooms, she has pink

705
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 1: pretty flowers and they're on all and it's like a

706
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 1: kind of like a literally looks like a sparkler, like

707
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,959
Speaker 1: it kind of comes out like that. Oh I like those, Okay,

708
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: so pretty. So that could be where your rose bush

709
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: was and they have thrived now I don't know. So

710
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: all the ones I plant back there are really good

711
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: for part sun and little like mostly shade.

712
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 2: Okay, mine's like half it's probably half in the same part, okay.

713
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: Because that's what my whole backyard is. It hardly gets

714
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: any sense. So I had to find like very specific things.

715
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 2: I know. That's what I've been looking up because I'm like,

716
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 2: I don't want everything to die.

717
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 1: So it does every and I will say even the

718
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 1: perennials do end up dying at some point depending on

719
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: the harshness of winter that we get and if people

720
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: protect theirs and put things. I don't have that energy,

721
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: I know, don't.

722
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: They like cover it. They're like, I'm gonna go cover

723
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 2: the plants.

724
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: Like my dad brings his inside to his garage. He

725
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: has like a little terrarium. I'm like, this is a

726
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: lot of effort.

727
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 2: That is that I don't have some dedication to the plants,

728
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 2: so much dedication, and I'm like, I love that for you.

729
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 2: That is not my life, I know.

730
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: So they do still end up dying depending on the harshness,

731
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: but they can last forever. I've had plants that have

732
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: been back there forever, and my I have hostas that

733
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: survive every year. Really they've done really good, like the

734
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 1: last three I think it's been three years. And then

735
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 1: I have azaleas that have also done, that have been

736
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: there since I moved in, that have done really good.

737
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: Oh and my magnolia tree has grown like crazy. Oh

738
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: I granted her and she was like maybe six feet

739
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 1: tall and no, I think she's like almost twelve.

740
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 2: Geez. They do grow really and they grow to be huge.

741
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: Yo. That's why I'm so exciting. I really love their blooms.

742
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: But their blooms last. They do it one day. I'm

743
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: not kidding you. These magnolia flowers they bloom one time

744
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 1: and they last maybe one day and then they fall off,

745
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 1: and like that was really uneventful.

746
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a lot for just one day exactly hopefully

747
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 2: your home when it's there.

748
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 1: And maybe a little bit longer that. But I'm not

749
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: kidding you. It's it can't be more than seventy two hours. Can't.

750
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, because they're so pretty.

751
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: I know. But yeah, then they create a mess with

752
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: their little bloom things that fall off. Huh.

753
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 2: Oh you've inspired me. I gotta I gotta get on it,

754
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 2: because my it's just like nothing.

755
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: Wine and Roses, I think that's your plant.

756
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 2: I think, which Okay, I already like the names.

757
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 1: I go right, Wine and Roses you need other help,

758
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: I'll help. I have a little green thumb right now,

759
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,719
Speaker 1: like putting together a little flower bouquets too, that's my favorite.

760
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 2: Yes, oh I've been doing that too. At Trader Joe's

761
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 2: they have like pretty flowers.

762
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 1: Trader jos is the best because you can buy everything

763
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,479
Speaker 1: individually and put it however you want to.

764
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, have you seen like the It's like

765
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 2: baby's breath but it's unicorn. No, Oh my god, I'm obsessed.

766
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 2: It's like pastel colors, beautiful, Like it's my new favorite. Okay,

767
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 2: it's like lavender.

768
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: We need to do like a flower day. We should

769
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: a flower day and then we go rage for some

770
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: day drinking. That's what you said you wanted to do.

771
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 1: Do a little bit of it.

772
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that.

773
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 1: Okay, perfect, all right, we're gonna take one more quick break.

774
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 1: We'll be right back. All right. So adult life is

775
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 1: kind of weird. So I have adulting questions of just

776
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: situations I've been in.

777
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 2: Okay, hope flag can help well.

778
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: More so that you may have answers also, or maybe

779
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: you have none. But there are three different questions. What

780
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 1: is something you still do in your adult life that

781
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: you don't think anyone else really is doing And I'll

782
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: answer mind so that way you can give you some

783
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: time to think. But mine is balancing my check book.

784
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 1: I still balance my check book.

785
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, what Yeah, I.

786
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: Still write them down. It's because I have caught a

787
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: few times, like discrepancies in my accounts where I'm like,

788
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: I'm going to pay that because with tipping in the

789
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: way that so many websites have my info even when

790
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 1: I haven't saved it is insane. So like, I still

791
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 1: balance my check book at the very least, I'm at

792
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: least going through and writing everything down to make sure

793
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: I'm aware of what's going on in my account.

794
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 2: That is so impressive and organized it is.

795
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: But I'm like should I is it even worth it anymore?

796
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I've maybe caught that didn't scrub it

797
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: Now I can't. I said it one time and I

798
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: get it. I maybe caught it twice, and like the

799
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: ten years I've been doing this, you know what I mean,

800
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,479
Speaker 1: Like it's few and far between.

801
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 2: I don't even know how to do it because everything's

802
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 2: like online banking. I don't even know how to balance

803
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 2: a check book.

804
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: Well, I keep all my receipts and then I write

805
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: them down in my chipbook, and then I double check

806
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: them with what's online to make sure everything's like on

807
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: the same.

808
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 2: Gosh, my finances are a hot mess. I rarely look

809
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 2: at them, which is really bad. I wouldn't even know

810
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 2: if someone took.

811
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: Well, don't say that, don't say that. I look every

812
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,479
Speaker 1: morning before it works. Okay, I'm gonna look right now.

813
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 1: You should definitely after this error looks good.

814
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 2: God.

815
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: So I don't know if I need to keep doing it,

816
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: but I you know, I'm here and I'm doing it.

817
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 2: If you know what you're doing and it makes you

818
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 2: feel better about things, sure, I don't know.

819
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's just adding another freaking thing

820
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: for me to do. You know what I mean?

821
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 2: Why can't you just look on mine? Well you can,

822
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 2: but you don't know it.

823
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: It's just basing it basically, Like I see the receipts

824
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: of what actually got charged, and then if I'm double

825
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 1: checking to make sure online there isn't any discrepancy in

826
00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: what I was charged versus what it shows up on

827
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 1: that's online.

828
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 2: Were power to you.

829
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: I think there's gonna come a day where I'm like

830
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: I'm out, but I'm impressed and make you think of

831
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: anything for you that you still do. You're like, nobody

832
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 1: else probably does this, well, mine is.

833
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 2: I set about ten alarms on my phone and then

834
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 2: I ask Alexa to set like three alarms every morning.

835
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: Is your Alexa in your bedroom?

836
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

837
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: Uh huh, that's creepy, Alex creepy. I'm just saying, Alexa,

838
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 1: be creepy watching you sleep.

839
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that does freak me out a little bit. She

840
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 2: does just come out there, come on there, and she's

841
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,320
Speaker 2: like the weather today, and I'm.

842
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 1: Like, what did you call out setting?

843
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 2: No? No?

844
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she like you. I got a crush on you.

845
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 2: I actually really hate it. And I also hate when

846
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 2: she goes, good morning, Abby, have a wonderful day. I'm like,

847
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 2: shut she talks to you.

848
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: Yes, I have to have features on there because I

849
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 1: never does this. I'm pretty sure you need to change

850
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: your settings.

851
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 2: Are there settings that say like never talk to me ever? Yeah,

852
00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure.

853
00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: Mine's on silent.

854
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 2: The only reason, the only reason I use it is

855
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, how is the traffic on the way to

856
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 2: work today? Okay, She'll be like it's good, what's the

857
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 2: weather like? And my alarm and then play music. So

858
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 2: I use her for like four things. But she's saying

859
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 2: good morning, sleep. But anyway, the endless amount of alarms.

860
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 1: Okay, that's I.

861
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 2: I just don't trust myself. I'm the same way, like ten.

862
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 1: This is why my dad calls me and I get

863
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: made fun of it. I have anxiety with this job

864
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: of not showing up. I can't. I can't not be here.

865
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: So it is what it is.

866
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 2: It is the anxiety. Yeah, trying to think what else?

867
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 1: One?

868
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:38,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you have other ones?

869
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,879
Speaker 1: No? That was I have other questions though? You ready

870
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:43,919
Speaker 1: for the other question? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, the alarm

871
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 1: clos other adult. Yeah, yes, I do think you have

872
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 1: more people on your team than you think. I think

873
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: there's a lot of us that have lots of alarm clocks.

874
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 2: Okay, you're not alone and Alexa in the bedroom.

875
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,280
Speaker 1: That's weird. You're on your own. What do you still

876
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: buy in store and refuse to do any online or

877
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 1: version to buy it? And the reason I'm bringing this

878
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 1: up because I see so many people use like the

879
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 1: grocery store and I can't. I have to buy my

880
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: own groceries.

881
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 2: Oh sing, I have trust issued? Yeah, how do I

882
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 2: know they're gonna get the avocado I wanted exactly.

883
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 1: And they always do like they like, do you want

884
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 1: a sa No, I wanted what I want on the list,

885
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: so why And it's kind of like it's funny because

886
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: the grocery store like app how they like pick them

887
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: for you remind me of like my dad and mom

888
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 1: growing up. My mom would always write things on the

889
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: list and my dad would come back with like a

890
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 1: different version of what. Oh my gosh, that is not

891
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: what I wanted.

892
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 2: I literally had it written out for you, and he's.

893
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: Like I didn't find it, and then we go the

894
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: next time, Like I would go with him the next time.

895
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, Dad, it's right here, Like, oh, that's what's

896
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 1: happening with the apps.

897
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 2: It would yeah, I just I don't either. I would

898
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 2: never do that. I can't.

899
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 1: But people are like it's so convenient, and I'm like, dang,

900
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,240
Speaker 1: that's awesome. You just get picked up. That's great.

901
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:56,879
Speaker 2: I know.

902
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 1: Here's me just do to do my little to do

903
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 1: list in the grocery store, and everybody else has been

904
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: really like convenient.

905
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

906
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: I have trust issues.

907
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 2: Mine is closed. I can't nothing fits me ever if

908
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 2: I go try something on in the store, it's not

909
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 2: gonna look good. So I know the odds of me

910
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 2: buying it online in it fitting or just not gonna

911
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 2: So have.

912
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 1: You ever ordered anything online?

913
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but usually I have to send.

914
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: It back there.

915
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 2: They're not a high success rate, right, Like there's vichy Right,

916
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 2: that's how you say, yeah, Chi, that one everything always

917
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 2: does fit. I feel like that's the only store that

918
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 2: I've found that I know it's gonna fit.

919
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: Well, that's good, I know you do. You do kind

920
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 1: of find your ones that work.

921
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 2: Just because sometimes they run too big or too small

922
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 2: or so.

923
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: You also love shopping in person though too right, Like

924
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 1: you're a big I'm not gonna.

925
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 2: Take that away. Yeah, Like if I can go to

926
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 2: the store, I will go.

927
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. There's been multiple times where I've messaged

928
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 1: you been like what do you have to and you're

929
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: like shopping just walking around the mall.

930
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 2: I may go after work today.

931
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 1: It's like your it's your comfort. It is take away

932
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:55,280
Speaker 1: your comfort.

933
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 2: But you know the good news is it's like that

934
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 2: you used to be in my retail therapy, and I

935
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 2: realize I'm going less lately. So that's that's a good

936
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 2: thing in my life.

937
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,919
Speaker 1: Well, now you have a boyfriend. Yeah, somebody else helped

938
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: fill some time.

939
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 2: Yes, So now he knows that I have a shopping issue.

940
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: That's is he go to the mall with you?

941
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 2: No, we've never gone shopping together. He hates shopping, so

942
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 2: I go not with him. But I have a lot

943
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:18,879
Speaker 2: of stuff in my house and he doesn't have much

944
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:22,280
Speaker 2: in his, and he's just like, oh my gosh, abby.

945
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:25,919
Speaker 2: But he's very tolerant of it, you know, like yeah,

946
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 2: it's just like, wow, you got problem. But I love

947
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 2: a shop. I'm like, great, is this a red flag?

948
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 2: All my closets are full.

949
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,359
Speaker 1: It's your beige flag. Yes it is. I will say

950
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 1: we all have our beige flags.

951
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's my work that I just have a

952
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:39,720
Speaker 2: lot in my house.

953
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: It's okay, I hold him your you're very sentimental, all right.

954
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 2: I'm trying to work on that. Get rid of stuff is.

955
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 1: The most I'm working on it. Like I'm not, but

956
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: I am. You know. It's funny. I'll share a shopping

957
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: story with you that was really sweet. I went shopping

958
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 1: with man in uniform. He wanted me to help pick

959
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 1: him out some outfits and we did, and it was funny.

960
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 1: He walked out of the dressing room at one of

961
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,360
Speaker 1: the places we were at and one of the like ladies'

962
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: sales associates like went up and was like, okay, like

963
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: this looks really good and what do you think? And

964
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 1: it was the sweetest thing ever. And I was so

965
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: cough guard because I was just chilling and I was

966
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: letting her do her thing, and he just kind of

967
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 1: looks at me. He goes, I don't know, I just

968
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: do whatever she says. She's the opinion I want to hear.

969
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, like.

970
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 2: Mean to her.

971
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:30,800
Speaker 1: He was just like, I don't know. Whatever she says.

972
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 2: Then he trusts you.

973
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm melted.

974
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 2: That makes you feel really good.

975
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, are you for real?

976
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Oh that's really cute.

977
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:42,919
Speaker 1: It was cute.

978
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 2: Okay, chopping story, Yeah yeah yeah. Mine doesn't like to

979
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 2: shop and he just got a new house and he's like,

980
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 2: you can be the interior decorator.

981
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: I was like, yes, that, let's go.

982
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 2: Have you been decorating not that much. He's like he's

983
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 2: trying to get other things done first. Like, I don't

984
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 2: want to come on a little too strong. I got

985
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 2: this all mapped out I have it all ready to go,

986
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 2: but I haven't actually done it yet. Also, it's expensive

987
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 2: of getting a new house, you know, and I feel

988
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 2: bad being like how much you want to spend?

989
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 1: You know? Yeah, you're like, I have all of this,

990
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 1: but do you want to spend three thousand dollars on

991
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 1: a couch?

992
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 2: Right? Exactly? He has all that stuff. I just get

993
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 2: to do the fun stuff, like the stuff on the

994
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 2: walls and like the accessory like plants and yeah, all

995
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 2: the accents, rugs and yeah.

996
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 1: Nice.

997
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 2: So working on that.

998
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,399
Speaker 1: She did before and after photos. Your own little abby

999
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,360
Speaker 1: ht TV situation.

1000
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:31,919
Speaker 2: I know, start my own little side gig.

1001
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll have side hustles, right, it can be your thing. Yeah, okay.

1002
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: Last one, what is something you still don't understand? And

1003
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 1: I say this because literally every time and people have

1004
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 1: explained this to me, and I still don't understand it.

1005
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 1: When you slide a debit card and it asks you

1006
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 1: VISA debit or US debit, I have no idea which

1007
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:49,720
Speaker 1: one I'm supposed to select?

1008
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 2: Oh that, what is it?

1009
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,760
Speaker 1: I don't know? And I know that I have been told.

1010
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 2: Before us it. Wait, what are the options again?

1011
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: VISA debit or US debit.

1012
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 2: What's US United States?

1013
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm assuming VISA means like international and US means like

1014
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,240
Speaker 1: in there, But why it's a debit card? Just freaking

1015
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:08,359
Speaker 1: slide it like a debit card.

1016
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 2: I would have thought Visa was like the visa brand

1017
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 2: in American Express.

1018
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 1: Visa it is, but I don't know what it means. Like,

1019
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:17,800
Speaker 1: why are you asking me which option?

1020
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 2: I don't either. I haven't seen that in a while

1021
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 2: because I usually do credit card, A credit credit. Yeah,

1022
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:24,839
Speaker 2: I just like chip it up.

1023
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: Okay, that's my that's my See. I don't know if

1024
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,600
Speaker 1: you don't have to Scuba just walked in and maybe

1025
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 1: he knows scuba. Do you know why when you slide

1026
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 1: a debit card, it asks you VISA debit or US debit?

1027
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 4: Someone told me this one time, and I forget what

1028
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 4: the answers. My wife works in finance. One of them

1029
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 4: requires your pin and one of them is basically another

1030
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 4: way of saying credit card, so you don't need the pen.

1031
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 4: But I forget which one's which I believe it's. I

1032
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 4: think I think it's Visa as the one use your pin,

1033
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 4: and US is the mom where it's like running out

1034
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 4: like credit.

1035
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: Well, why would you want to run a debit card like.

1036
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:58,840
Speaker 2: A credit I don't know.

1037
00:41:58,880 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: I thought.

1038
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 4: I was like, an, I think it's like an antiquated

1039
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:03,879
Speaker 4: thing that not everyone asks for anymore. I don't see

1040
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 4: it as much as I used to.

1041
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: I don't either, but every time I do, it startles me,

1042
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,240
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, I'm pretty sure every.

1043
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 4: Time I pick something different, you know, in the beginning,

1044
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 4: I was like, I don't know if I'm the select

1045
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 4: And then one would ask for a pinamon wouldn't, And

1046
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 4: after a while kind of figured it out, and then

1047
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 4: I asked my wife. She's like, yeah, it's like an old,

1048
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 4: stupid thing that no one really does anything anymore.

1049
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well Abby, give us somethings. I see. Nobody knows,

1050
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 1: nobody knows what it is, so God, I'm not alone.

1051
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: What is something you still don't understand and it't make

1052
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 1: you think of anything.

1053
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 2: I don't understand why people still don't know how to drive,

1054
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 2: like I don't understand.

1055
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: Very broad statement, but I likely is.

1056
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 2: Like I don't know if it's Nashville or I feel

1057
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 2: like it's not like that. In Kansas people are pretty good,

1058
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:46,280
Speaker 2: but Nashville, it's just nothing adds up Yeah, like the merging.

1059
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 2: I feel like we got to know the zipper. It's

1060
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 2: like you just go in, you blend in, but no

1061
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 2: one ever wants to.

1062
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to figure it out. No, you're so right.

1063
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 1: Any big city man driving as an adult is not fun.

1064
00:42:57,840 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 2: Well, I don't think Tennessee. You have to take a

1065
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 2: driver's test, so you just get your ID. That would

1066
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 2: be interesting, Like Kansas. I remember I had to study. Yeah,

1067
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 2: you renew it?

1068
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 1: What twenty five hours? I'd drive some stranger in the car.

1069
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 2: Well, I mean that's to get your license. But once

1070
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 2: you have it, to renew it, I think you just

1071
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 2: you just have to.

1072
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, picture Nelly out here dressing everybody.

1073
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 2: I don't understand that.

1074
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna head over to listener Q and

1075
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 1: A here and a little bit. I hope your Saturday's

1076
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: going great. Abby, thanks for joining me. Tell people where

1077
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:26,879
Speaker 1: they can find you.

1078
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 2: Thank you on Instagram, Abby Lee Anderson, and then on

1079
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: X singing.

1080
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 1: Abby there she is. You can hang out with me

1081
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: at web girl Morgan and that's all. We'll see you

1082
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 1: guys in just a little bit. That's the best bits

1083
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 1: of the week with Morgan. Thanks for listening. Be sure

1084
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:44,920
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1085
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,120
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1086
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:49,840
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