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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Max is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Daria.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Max, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you talked to Daria?

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Speaker 1: It's been eight days? Eight days, okay counting You said

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Speaker 1: that so solemnly, how you reach it out to her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I've tried to text her, but I haven't

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Speaker 3: heard anything back.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, tell us about your date so we can

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Speaker 1: hear about this connection.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So, so we went to this pottery class which was

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Speaker 3: which was cool. Yeah, normally it's not like the typical

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Speaker 3: Drakes and Naps thing, but she seemed cool and.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to go big or go home for her,

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Speaker 1: you know, and.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, she was she was super into it and she

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Speaker 3: was good too.

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, we got there.

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Speaker 3: I was I was shocked because she made this like

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Speaker 3: beautiful bowl that looked like it belongs to the museum.

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Speaker 3: And meanwhile, I've never done it before, so mine just

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Speaker 3: looks like a squash muffin.

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Speaker 1: Cute. Yeah, she left at that too, So but.

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Speaker 4: It was fun.

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Speaker 3: I think we were really connecting. We had wine, we

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Speaker 3: were kind of we got clay. We kind of had

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Speaker 3: a little clay fight, so we got clay all over

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Speaker 3: each other, and it.

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Speaker 1: Just seemed like really playful and fun.

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Speaker 3: We ended up getting late night food after and you know,

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Speaker 3: after that, we ended up back at my place. So,

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Speaker 3: I you know, I think everything went great according to

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Speaker 3: my perspective.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like it so your place. You

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Speaker 1: didn't just like play checkers or did.

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Speaker 3: You you call it checkers? Okay, either way, it wasn't

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Speaker 3: just a friendly hug, goodbye, Okay, got it. Did you

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Speaker 3: you guys make a plan to see each other again? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we both expressed that, you know, something that we were

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Speaker 3: into and looked, you know, wanted to do again. So

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Speaker 3: you know, we didn't make any specific plans, but she

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Speaker 3: was definitely into the date, and I absolutely wanted to

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Speaker 3: make more plans.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I just don't know what happened. Is there

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Speaker 1: anything that you can think of that may have been

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Speaker 1: an issue? Well?

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Speaker 3: I have, Yeah, I've been thinking about it and trying

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Speaker 3: to figure out what could have happened. I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 3: I was at one point I said, I don't like avocados,

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Speaker 3: and she was really passionate about guac, so like we're

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Speaker 3: not like deeply invested in guacamole.

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Speaker 1: So I'm wondering if that is a thing.

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Speaker 3: You know, she may not have been into that or

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Speaker 3: you know, at one point during the date, we we

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Speaker 3: got tacos and I did drop my taco on the

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Speaker 3: ground and I called it five second rule, but I

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Speaker 3: still laid it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it was the avocado thing. I think

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Speaker 1: you're safe there.

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Speaker 3: No, Okay, okay, yeah, I mean it's that. I honestly,

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Speaker 3: the last thing I could think of possibly was I

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Speaker 3: told her that I'm emotionally available. But I texted that

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Speaker 3: to her the next day, and up until that, you know,

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Speaker 3: we'd been kind of texting through the date, and then

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Speaker 3: she stayed over at my place and the next day

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Speaker 3: I tried to start it again, but you know, nothing.

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Speaker 1: If you had to call it and say one thing,

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Speaker 1: what would you think it would be? WHOA? I mean,

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Speaker 1: it could have been the charcoal thing.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know, like, I you know, might have

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Speaker 3: waited her out that I said I was emotionally available,

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Speaker 3: like maybe it was rushing or something.

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Speaker 2: Max is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Darius.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: a second date if he wants one still, But first

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Speaker 2: before we call her, Max, why don't you break down

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Speaker 2: your situation again us real quick?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So Daria and I went to this pottery class

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Speaker 1: for our first date.

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Speaker 3: We ended up getting some late nice food, ended up

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Speaker 1: She stayed the night, and I haven't heard from her since.

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Speaker 3: I thought maybe it could be because I dropped my

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Speaker 3: taco and still ate it during the date, or because

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Speaker 3: I texted her that I was emotionally available next day

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Speaker 3: and it weird her out.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure. Well, she did kiss you after you

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Speaker 1: dropped the taco and ate it. That's a good point,

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Speaker 1: all right, See if we can help you out. You

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Speaker 1: ready for us to call her? Yes? Thank you? All right,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi me, I speak to Daria. Please.

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Speaker 2: This is her, Hey Daria, how are you? This is

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Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called the Jewbill Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Daria, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria, and I'm Jewel.

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Speaker 1: How are you.

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Speaker 4: Okay? Hi?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 3: Up?

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to The Jewel Show before?

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Speaker 2: I have?

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Speaker 1: Oh dope? Okay, Well guess what, Daria.

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Speaker 4: I always thought these calls for sake?

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Speaker 2: No, no, yeah, somebody emailed us about you. Apparently you

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Speaker 2: went on a date with somebody. This is the first

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Speaker 2: day follow up. You know the segment that we do

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Speaker 2: that if you go on a date with someone and

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Speaker 2: you end up ghosting them, that person can ask us

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Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and find out why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 4: People actually do they actually call it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yea, and you're one of them.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Max, do you have any idea who would email

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Speaker 2: us about you?

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Speaker 1: I'm right, Oh, yes it is Max.

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Speaker 2: Can you tell us why you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 4: Okay? So he literally liked every single photo I've ever posted,

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Speaker 4: every single one of them.

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Speaker 3: Up.

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Speaker 4: I had like a million new notifications from one guy

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Speaker 4: I've just from twenty seventeen that was popping up, because.

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Speaker 1: Then that's the sole reason I mean, I posted.

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Speaker 4: A picture of a broken blender in twenty and eighteen.

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Speaker 4: He hearted it broken who hearts a broken blender? I

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Speaker 4: don't even post it. It just it felt like, I

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Speaker 4: don't know, it felt like he was like virtually licking

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Speaker 4: my timeline. I don't even remember half of the photos

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Speaker 4: that are there. And it's not even like he just

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Speaker 4: so like he literally like he kind of studied on

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Speaker 4: It feels like he commented on three different ones. I

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Speaker 4: had fire emojis that I had a comment that said

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Speaker 4: this era and baby, Daria, like you really, I've met

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Speaker 4: the guy once. Any commented on a picture of me,

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Speaker 4: like a picture of me as a baby, an actual.

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Speaker 1: I'm just a little bit flattered.

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Speaker 4: I mean flattered. I'd be flattered if it was like,

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Speaker 4: you know, a photo or two recently, but like the

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Speaker 4: whole entire history of.

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Speaker 1: Me, it's a little.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, Daria, thank you for telling us. And

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Speaker 2: you probably already know this though, but Max is on

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Speaker 2: the phone. He's been listening this whole time and wants

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Speaker 2: to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, they're they're on the other line. I

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Speaker 4: got it, okay, Yeah, Hi.

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Speaker 3: Hi, hi, Daria. That's why you ghosted me. You go

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Speaker 3: to me because I liked your posts.

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Speaker 4: Dude, you time travel through my entire Instagram and gave

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Speaker 4: me literal chills.

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Speaker 3: But I just you posted those. I was just trying

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Speaker 3: to appreciate you and full Daria journey.

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Speaker 1: You know it meant to me Ale It's like.

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Speaker 4: You were in an FBI agent that did a deep

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Speaker 4: dive into my life, Like, how about just good luck

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Speaker 4: on your midterms instead of the history of Daria.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I got like a little carried away, but it

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Speaker 3: was honestly, mint be just positive. I was was enjoying

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Speaker 3: getting to know you through your posts, and I thought

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Speaker 3: your history.

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Speaker 4: Dude, you supported it to death.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just I really like you Daria, and

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Speaker 3: I was having so much fun getting to know you.

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Speaker 3: I had a great time doing pottery with you, and

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Speaker 3: and after Matt.

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Speaker 4: Stopped, I'm mad at you. You weren't getting to know me.

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Speaker 4: You were creating stories in your head based off of

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Speaker 4: what I posted.

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Speaker 1: No, that's not true.

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Speaker 3: I honestly think that you're super witty, beautiful, and I'm

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Speaker 3: sorry if I took it too far with those. And

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Speaker 3: I also I hearted that blender that broke because I

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Speaker 4: You are trying to relate to me. You're you're literally

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Speaker 4: creating a scenario in your head. You're trying to relate

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Speaker 4: to me like you just need to chill out.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not. I really had that blender.

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Speaker 3: I didn't take any pictures of it, but I actually

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Speaker 3: had it.

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Speaker 4: I guess that's another reason why you think we're meant

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Speaker 1: I mean, I can. I can dial it back. I

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Speaker 1: promise I can. Unlike that baby photo of you. You

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Speaker 1: know it's listen.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying that we're meant to be. I just

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Speaker 3: I honestly just think you're dope. And I really I

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Speaker 3: really liked you, and I still like you, and you know,

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Speaker 3: I just want to get to know you.

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Speaker 4: You don't think you got to know me by scrolling

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Speaker 4: through a lifetime of Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Post Daria, would you like to go on another date

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Speaker 2: with Max? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean, I I do like when

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Speaker 4: someone's into me, but I don't want to feel like

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Speaker 4: I'm being digitally followed home.

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Speaker 3: I listen, I promise I can dial it back. I

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Speaker 3: know I came on too strong, but you know, just

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Speaker 3: just give me one more chance.

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Speaker 4: I mean, are you going to find my mom and

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Speaker 4: start dming her and stuff like that, like other teller.

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Speaker 1: I'll be honest. I found Pam's profile, but she's wonderful.

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Speaker 1: Look he didn't message Pam.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: He held back to the messaging Pam.

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Speaker 4: Hit request.

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Speaker 1: I won't. I won't. I promise. What do you think, Daria?

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Speaker 1: One more chance? He sounds legit to me. Me too,

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Speaker 1: I would love that.

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Speaker 4: I did have a good time, and you do this

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Speaker 4: little cute thing with your pinky. I don't know, just

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Speaker 4: don't like you so much yet.

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Speaker 3: Right away I promised to be into you, but but

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Speaker 3: not but not that into you.

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Speaker 1: You'll do it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: If? He if? He chilled out a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Sweet congratulations Max, he got another date? Oh yeah cool. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not that excited about it. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: there you go.

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Speaker 4: That's a little less stressful for me.