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Speaker 1: Thank you to follow that to proceed this crazy letter subject,

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Speaker 1: I took my husband to my boyfriend's house. Dear Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: I got caught cheating recently after I took my husband

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Speaker 1: to my boyfriend's house. Okay, well, I like how she

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Speaker 1: got right to it. My husband has accused me of

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Speaker 1: cheating for years, and it's all because of Instagram. I

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Speaker 1: get a lot of attention from random men and he

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Speaker 1: gets jealous, so I try to delete a lot of

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Speaker 1: my comments before he sees them. Recently, I ran into

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Speaker 1: an old acquaintance that had just moved back home, and

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Speaker 1: he asked if we could keep in touch. I told

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Speaker 1: him it's best to chat with me through DMS because

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Speaker 1: my husband is crazy. He slid into my d MS

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Speaker 1: daily with sweet messages, and then he started begging to

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Speaker 1: see me, so I went to his house for a

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Speaker 1: glass of wine whenever I could. Then we started having

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Speaker 1: sex and he's a very good lover. Everything was going

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Speaker 1: smoothly until I left my phone on the couch by

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Speaker 1: my husband by mistake. One day, my boyfriend sent me

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Speaker 1: my husband was reading it. It said call me when

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Speaker 1: you want to drop the stuff off. My husband asked

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Speaker 1: what stuff. I lied and said the message was about

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Speaker 1: donating old winter coats to the less fortunate. My husband's crazy,

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Speaker 1: but paused for as as Paul's for a minute. Go ahead, right,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Steve. Then he went and got two of

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Speaker 1: his old coats and told me to call the dude,

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Speaker 1: get his address and tell him we're on our way.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it. I called my boyfriend and asked

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Speaker 1: for his address, and he was so confused. My husband

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Speaker 1: drove and when we got there, my boyfriend came outside.

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Speaker 1: I got so nervous. I started crying, and my husband

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Speaker 1: knew what was up and said, I knew you didn't

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Speaker 1: bring me over your boyfriend's house. I could not stop crying.

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Speaker 1: We left and my boyfriend my husband made me get

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Speaker 1: off all social media. I lied and said that nothing

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Speaker 1: sexual happened. How can I regain his trust after this? What? Man? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: All right? I think really, just you know, face value.

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Speaker 1: This is another one of those what do you want

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Speaker 1: Steve and I to do? What do you want us

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Speaker 1: to do? Now? Yeah? You drove your your husband over

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Speaker 1: your boyfriend's house. Come on, you cheated, although your husband

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Speaker 1: doesn't know the whole truth. You got busted, and now

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Speaker 1: you want help with building your trust back. That's a

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Speaker 1: tall order right there. You should have called us before, Okay,

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Speaker 1: before you went to your boyfriend's house for that glass

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Speaker 1: of wine. Okay, that's when you should have written a

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter. So but listen. To rebuild the trust, you

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Speaker 1: gotta put forth just as much effort or more as

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Speaker 1: you did when you were cheating. Okay, you gotta let

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Speaker 1: your husband know that you're seriously off social media, since

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Speaker 1: that's all he asked you to do. You got to

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Speaker 1: delete everything. And I think you better be glad that

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Speaker 1: your husband didn't leave you all together, because most husbands do.

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Speaker 1: We talk about this all the time. Men don't take

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Speaker 1: too kindly to their wives cheating. They're very territorial. It's

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Speaker 1: still a double standard. Wives usually take husbands back, but

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Speaker 1: go well. That's why you lied to him and told

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Speaker 1: him you guys didn't have sex. So take that info

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Speaker 1: stop seeing this guy. Get yourself together. You got away

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Speaker 1: it could have been a lot worse, Steve. Everything in

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Speaker 1: this letter is stupid to me. Yes, every single thing

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Speaker 1: it ain't an. It ain't an make sense, Lyne, in

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Speaker 1: this letter no where. I got caught cheating recently after

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Speaker 1: I took my husband to my boyfriend's house. What yeah

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Speaker 1: you did? What? See nothing that you can type after

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Speaker 1: this statement right here? It's gonna make no sense to me.

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Speaker 1: I took my husband to my boyfriend's house. Okay, now

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Speaker 1: I live me show you why it don't make no

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Speaker 1: damn sense. My husband has accused me of cheating for years,

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Speaker 1: gets jealous. So you took your husband to your boyfriend's house. Right,

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Speaker 1: he's jealous. I delete a lot of comments before he

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Speaker 1: I told him it's best to chat with me through

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Speaker 1: d MS because my husband is crazy, but you took

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Speaker 1: We'll have let him who have two of your response

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Speaker 1: coming up in twenty three minutes after today's Strawberry subject

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Speaker 1: I took my husband to my boyfriend's house. We'll get

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Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter,

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Speaker 1: the subject I took my husband to my boyfriend's house.

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Speaker 1: Did you hear that? Discern No, it's just crazy. I

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Speaker 1: know I got called cheating recently after I took my

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Speaker 1: I thought I took my husband to my boyfriend's house.

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Speaker 1: Nothing in this letter makes sense. And I'm gonna make

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Speaker 1: a statement I've never made on the radio before ever radio.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna make a statement in a minute. My husband

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Speaker 1: has accused me of cheating for years. So you took

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Speaker 1: it's best to chat with me through dams because my

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Speaker 1: as you wrote it. I do nothing in this letter,

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Speaker 1: I was so. I went to his house for a

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Speaker 1: glass of wine whenever I could. Y'all drink a lot

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Speaker 1: good lover. Everything was going smoothly until I left my

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Speaker 1: phone on the couch by my husband by mistake one day.

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Speaker 1: How you do that? You just said your husband was crazy.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna leave your phone around, oh, crazy person. Here's

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Speaker 1: the statement that I'm gonna make that I've never made,

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Speaker 1: and I don't want nobody to get offended. I'm just

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Speaker 1: I just want to say that before I said wait,

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Speaker 1: it was gonna email me or text me. And you've

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Speaker 1: never made this statement before. Years in years, you said

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Speaker 1: everything in twenty years. Listen to this statement right now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this a dumbass woman right here. You've never made that

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Speaker 1: don't know the way to put it. This ain't about

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Speaker 1: all women. This ain't about nobody listening. This ain't about

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Speaker 1: nobody in no similar circumstances. This about this dumbass woman

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Speaker 1: that then took her husband to her boyfriend's house. Now,

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Speaker 1: if that ain't dumb, you tell me what it is,

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Speaker 1: because the show ain't bright. I think people will agree

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Speaker 1: with you on this one. Steve, all right, it's shocking,

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Speaker 1: but I think now her boyfriend sent her a DM

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Speaker 1: And as you walk back into the room, my husband

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Speaker 1: was reading, well, what do you supposted? Ain't he crazy?

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Speaker 1: Can he read? Then? Crazy people can read? Now call

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Speaker 1: me when you want to drop the stuff off. My

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Speaker 1: husband asked what stuff. I lied and said the message

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Speaker 1: was about donating. This is where you got kind of

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Speaker 1: smart right here. It was about donating old winter coach

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Speaker 1: to the less fortunate. Okay, that was good. My husband's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Ain't he back to being crazy now? He paused for

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Speaker 1: Coach right here, because I got two old coach right here,

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Speaker 1: she did. I couldn't believe it. Yeah. I called my

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Speaker 1: Some women what my husband drove And when we got there,

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Speaker 1: H You you actually let that car go to the

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Speaker 1: if I was taking my wife over my girlfriend's house.

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Speaker 1: Do you know we're not gonna make it to this house? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Everybody in this letter you hear him, everybody. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: My husband made me get off social media. I lied

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Speaker 1: and said nothing sexual happened. How can I regain this husband? Trust?

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Speaker 1: Ain't no trust, Ain't no trust you from the RecA,

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Speaker 1: ain't no trust. This old it's over. He's stupid. Did

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Speaker 1: he get a dude to coach? What? What happened? He

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