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Speaker 1: My friend invited me to their wedding to babysit their kid.

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Speaker 2: I hope they're paying you appropriately for that.

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Speaker 1: I think, uh, most likely not. So I posted this

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Speaker 1: elsewhere on read it, but I was asked by many

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Speaker 1: people to share it here. I'm literally in a state

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Speaker 1: of shock. I've done the crying thing and now I'm

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Speaker 1: just angry. Ooh, dude, No, you've.

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Speaker 3: Moved on to anger now, which really is not a

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Speaker 3: great place to be if you're trying to take care

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Speaker 3: of a kid. Yeah, maybe you should be forced to do.

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Speaker 3: I was so happy to see a wedding invitation in

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Speaker 3: my mailbox. I pulled it out and a little note

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Speaker 3: fell out on an index card. But I looked at

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Speaker 3: the invitation first. By the way, this comes from Eden

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Speaker 3: Capwell on the r slash Okay Storytime.

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Speaker 1: So I've read it. So it was truly beautiful, and

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Speaker 1: I immediately stuck it to my fridge like the work

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Speaker 1: of art. It was Wow. It was addressed to my

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Speaker 1: husband and me, and I was beyond stoked. I loved weddings.

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Speaker 1: I love weddings. I tend to get teary eye and

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Speaker 1: smile until my face hurts at the joy of new

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Speaker 1: beginnings and all the love. But as you know, love

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Speaker 1: often ends in divorce, So get ready for this sadness

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Speaker 1: it's about to get. I think chat knows all about that.

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Speaker 3: Chat nos chats a big fan of things, and I.

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Speaker 1: Love the divorce chance. So whoa, we got TikTok on

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Speaker 1: there now? WHOA Mike that's cool? Oh lah, yeah, Mike,

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Speaker 1: Mike's Mike's flexen. That's crazy. I was even a wedding singer,

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Speaker 1: that's how much I love them. I picked up the

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Speaker 1: note card and read that. And while my husband was invited,

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Speaker 1: I'd be in another room helping to baby set all

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Speaker 1: the children there with several other female invitees.

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Speaker 3: Whoa, just like completely unprompted, Like just by the way,

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Speaker 3: you've congratulations, you've.

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Speaker 1: You won the lottery.

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Speaker 2: You get to be the babysitter.

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Speaker 3: It's super exclusive. Finely, don't worry. Not everybody gets to

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Speaker 3: be a babysitter at our wedding. Only the best of

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Speaker 3: the best. There's a special room for children at the church,

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Speaker 3: and that's where I'd be for everything, So not even

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Speaker 3: I think they stay there past the church wedding ceremony.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, you're taking care of the kids all day.

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Speaker 1: That's insane. Not try to get like a babysitter during

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Speaker 1: this event.

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Speaker 3: Maybe try not being so good with children if you

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Speaker 3: don't want to be a babysitter. Yeah, did you think

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Speaker 3: about that? Op, The people are just playing your strengths.

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Speaker 3: It's honestly your fault.

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Speaker 1: So I'd still need to dress for a wedding in

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Speaker 1: case I wind up in any photos, but I'd be

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Speaker 1: taking my reception meal with the children, and I'd be

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Speaker 1: with all the kids for the ceremony. Then there was

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Speaker 1: a link for their gift registry. Hmmm. So not only

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Speaker 1: are you donating the gift of your children wrangling knowledge,

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Speaker 1: but you're also have to get like a toaster or

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Speaker 1: something that's pretty.

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Speaker 3: Absurd, like taking care of all of the children with

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Speaker 3: like a group of other women. That's the gift from

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Speaker 3: all of those people. Well, at least it's agree. I mean,

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Speaker 3: at least it's not OPI solo. Yeah, I mean, first

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Speaker 3: of all, friends, you're gonna make friends.

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Speaker 2: In what universe? Can they even enforce this?

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Speaker 1: Dude? They got security there. They will not women leave

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Speaker 1: the daycare, you must stay here. They lock the door.

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Speaker 3: Just a massive dude in a black suit just like

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Speaker 3: just stiff arming everyone who tries to leave.

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Speaker 1: Now they're still kids. Oh and the meals for my

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Speaker 1: husband myself would be one hundred dollars each, and we

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Speaker 1: have a link to pay it when we digitally RSVP. Hmmm,

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Speaker 1: and it costs money to RSVP on the website they've chosen.

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Speaker 1: The first problem here is that I am disabled at

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Speaker 1: fifty years old. Legally, I use oxen and I use oxygen.

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Speaker 2: Whoa, this is not a babysitting candidate.

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Speaker 1: WHOA?

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Speaker 3: I mean she could watch so she's there to she's

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Speaker 3: there to like just give commands to the other women. Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 3: she's like she's the head of leaders like Darth theater

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Speaker 3: with like but sitting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, yes, I use a walker when I need

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Speaker 1: I'm not proud of it, but there it is. I

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Speaker 1: could happily sit in a room and look at kids.

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Speaker 1: That was our suggestion, let's go, but I'd be pretty

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Speaker 1: useless to prevent a fall or stop a child from

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, you're a Darth sitter and you sit there

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Speaker 3: in the room and you go, co that kid's gonna fall.

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Speaker 1: Somebody stop him fall from joking anything else that would

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Speaker 1: require me to move quickly. Second, my husband isn't the

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Speaker 1: one who has been friends with these people since childhood

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Speaker 1: I am. So it's not even an issue of like, oh,

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Speaker 1: we don't really know you, so we're going to force

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Speaker 1: you to babysit. But also, you don't you want someone

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Speaker 3: Baby, but you don't want the person who can't move

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Speaker 3: and is on oxygen to be But I think first

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Speaker 3: of all, you shouldn't want anyone you're inviting explicitly to

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Speaker 3: your wedding to then have to also do the daycare.

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Speaker 2: Services the whole time.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that's the best.

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Speaker 3: Maybe factor that into the cost and get a reasonable

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Speaker 3: that's that's.

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Speaker 4: No fun, But that's not what we want.

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Speaker 1: That's not what we want. That's come out here for that.

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Speaker 3: It's definitely more chaotic to randomly select, like a bunch

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Speaker 1: To your wedding. Anyone will be eliminated every hour.

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Speaker 4: Do you think they just fish bowled it? They're like baby.

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Speaker 1: It was random.

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Speaker 5: It was like, all right, let's pick from a fish

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Speaker 5: bowl from a hat, and this is our lucky contestant.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, okay, kidd, what did you get a ponytail?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean he's always had that? I am

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Speaker 1: just noticing that right every day? He has had it,

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Speaker 1: every day, single day. Second, my husband is the one

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Speaker 1: am why would he be invited to watch a ceremony

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Speaker 1: and be part of the reception but not me. My

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Speaker 1: husband said he'd happily watch the kids and let me

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Speaker 1: attend the wedding and reception, but the invitation specified that

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Speaker 1: only a few other female invitees would be watching the kids,

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Speaker 1: so I doubt they'd let him. It's just the pure

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Speaker 1: audacity to me. They expect me to not only pay

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Speaker 1: know them because the bride's mom and I were besti's

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Speaker 1: and it made us become like sisters. Well, obviously your

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Speaker 1: sister hates you Hey, maybe that's your sister. Was like,

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Speaker 1: she should take care of everyone's kids at my wedding.

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Speaker 1: Children are a gift. Yeah, you're welcome.

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Speaker 4: Full circle.

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Speaker 1: You know, our birthdays are four days apart, in the

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Speaker 1: same year. We've been friends our entire lives. We went

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Speaker 1: same year. The bride is like an unofficial goddaughter for us,

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Speaker 1: and we've been there for all her big milestones. She

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Speaker 1: even met her fiance at a cookout at our house.

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Speaker 1: OPI has provided everything to this person matchmaker. We're related

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Speaker 1: to the groom via marriage, so this is a big

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Speaker 1: old slap in the face. I don't even know what

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Speaker 1: to think. We're all American, which I guess is important.

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Speaker 2: We're all Americans here.

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Speaker 1: They've rented a Southern Baptist church, but none of us

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Speaker 1: are overly religious, so that isn't the reason for this.

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh, maybe because they're not Southern Baptists, they

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Speaker 1: So maybe it's something like that. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Man, this just sounds it's just blowing my mind that

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Speaker 3: think people get paid to do. And it's how different

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Speaker 3: does that from a flower girl? You're gonna pay us

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Speaker 1: How different is that from a nasher? How different is

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Speaker 1: that from a bridesmaid? You know, all wedding jobs? Whoa,

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Speaker 1: you know what, It's true, it's true.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, we got a fifty dollars donation. Oho, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 5: Black Girl Magic.

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Speaker 1: If you go to that Black Girl Magic. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: the fifty bucks. I've been gone a couple of weeks

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Speaker 1: because I got to spend some time with my kids

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Speaker 1: who live in Japan for the school year. Wow, that's cool.

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Speaker 1: Leaving them again was hard. But maybe you got married

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Speaker 1: and then got a babysitter. But I binged the episodes

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Speaker 1: I missed on my eighteen hour flight and four hours

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Speaker 3: Just a smooth twenty two hour trip back from Japan.

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Speaker 4: Did you take an a airlines A and A.

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Speaker 1: No free sponsor, just a little question. No free sponsors,

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Speaker 1: American airlines all.

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Speaker 4: No, it's all upon airways. What it's a Japanese airline.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's not. It's AA's American airline.

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Speaker 5: Jail gout. Okay, never want get back to the story.

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Speaker 5: We'll talk about it.

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Speaker 3: Come on, I worked for American well Americans here, got

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Speaker 3: rented a Southern Baptist church.

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Speaker 1: But none of us are Overler. Just so, that isn't

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Speaker 1: the reason for this. It's not a cultural thing. It's

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Speaker 1: an update. But yeah, that's it is crazy to host

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Speaker 1: like being a little hole taking care of kids, not

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Speaker 1: even just one, like several several Like would you rather

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Speaker 1: Would you rather a gaggle.

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Speaker 2: I would rather have a gaggle. Are you serious?

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Speaker 3: Can you imagine just being like everyone gets to experience

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Speaker 1: Would just imagine it with like a little like shepherd's staff, right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they take it from the Baptist Church and they

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Speaker 3: give you the shepherd's staff and they go, by the way.

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Speaker 3: That's gonna cost you, like almost two hundred dollars by

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope you love kids because it's gonna cost you.

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Speaker 1: But we got some donos to read before we go

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Speaker 1: into the update. Oh bo, I'm sorry. Chat keeps breaking.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know what's the deal with that broke.

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Speaker 4: There might be a reason.

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Speaker 1: There is a reason. There's always a reason. But vix

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Speaker 1: Hannah.

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Speaker 3: No way, no way, Hannah, damnada.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy. Fifty five nothing and nothing at it, just

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Speaker 3: I mean, you don't invite a lifelong friend to your

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if we were lifelong friends, why would you put

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why you put me on the weather?

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Speaker 3: No, that's you don't you know. None of that makes it.

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Speaker 3: I mean I get more paying for the food than anything. Sometimes,

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Speaker 1: Is that something that people do. I thought you got

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you could do that for Fava.

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Speaker 3: I can't play fetch with you. Ava's trying to give

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Speaker 1: Ava will always want to pay. She got mad and

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Speaker 1: be helping them more by babysitting. Then I'd be helping

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Speaker 4: I learned my lesson.

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Speaker 1: The hard way or the easy way?

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Speaker 5: Always the hard way, sam m That's how I like it.

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Speaker 4: Be careful, don't hurt your back.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, this is all This.

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Speaker 3: Is new TikTok people. Are you still there?

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Speaker 1: Let us know? Are you there? All right? But I

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Speaker 1: from TikTok, shout out, TikTok. I love I love that.

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Speaker 1: That's cool. Amy Hedges says, yes, Hi, shout out, TikTok,

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Speaker 2: What do you so They're like, literally, we get it,

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Speaker 1: And it's like, I have eyes.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be involved in that process at all.

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Speaker 3: We've known each other for ages.

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Speaker 1: You think I want to be behind the glass looking

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Speaker 5: Just watching it from before. It's like the like the

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Speaker 5: He's like watching from outside outside like Patrick and Swindebar

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Speaker 1: He's just standing there menacingly. So again I told her

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Speaker 3: I think the truth is that if they can't afford

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Speaker 1: What do you think the truth is? That's got your answers.

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Speaker 1: Well, I actually know I read ahead and it might

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Speaker 3: No, they weren't trying to put all the disabled people

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Speaker 1: She said that she didn't know if I'd be in

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Speaker 3: Said sorry, we're gonna have to get you in your

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Speaker 3: Also, not only are they like being very like rude

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Speaker 2: But they're also leaving the kids with all the people

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Speaker 1: Likely to be able to take care of the kids.

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Speaker 1: That's not well, is this Are all the people in

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Is that actually because we don't we don't know, we

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Speaker 3: Rather like anyone who could mess up the visual aesthetic

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Speaker 1: You're going into the child room. I said, if I

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Speaker 1: I may not even need it that day. Then she says, so,

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Speaker 1: Well, space is limited in the pews. You would take

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Speaker 3: I doubt that this person is just being I don't know,

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Speaker 1: Also, oxygen tanks are like smaller these days. I think

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Speaker 3: Maybe, yeah, Like, I don't think it's a scuba tank.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it is, but I actually have no idea.

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Speaker 3: Look up, look up oxygen tanks. Some that they just

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Speaker 3: Uh, inception briefcase oxygen. Have my inception briefcase oxygen for

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Speaker 1: That's kind of cool briefcase option.

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Speaker 5: That's getting we're getting off it just it just depends,

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Speaker 5: sam what would they need?

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Speaker 1: How how how okay?

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Speaker 4: So what size they need and like how much they need?

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Speaker 1: It really does depend that could be like so it

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Speaker 3: That's got to be pretty compressed, right. I think it's

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Speaker 5: So nonetheless, like if you were having so many problems

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Speaker 3: it's like, oh, you don't want my oxygen tank in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be something.

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Speaker 3: You got to talk it out, thought those people you

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Speaker 1: But I said no, I would not. I wouldn't bring

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 4: Do you just hate me?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I hate me. At this point, I'm saying, shut up, man,

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Speaker 1: Good, like taking care of your own kids. Yeah. Uh,

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00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 1: and there you have it. Words were exchanged and she

442
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 1: hung up on me. I haven't been removed from any

443
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: social media yet. You should remove her. But I fully

444
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 1: expect to be. I already feel awful for being this

445
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: way at only fifty years old. Oh pee, what do

446
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 1: you mean you should be awful? Yeah, it's her fault.

447
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 1: It's your friend's fault for being a filthy bigot.

448
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 3: Honestly, yes, Like this is a very clear cut case

449
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:14,679
Speaker 3: of like you're not pretty pretty, like like an absurd

450
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 3: level of ableism of just being like I know, yeah,

451
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 3: you're like just like you're all of your like weird

452
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 3: equipment that you need to exist is gonna ruin my

453
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 3: wedding pictures, and so we're just gonna leave you with

454
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 3: the children.

455
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 1: Also, how interesting are the wedding pictures of the pews? Yeah, like,

456
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 1: all the the wedding pictures that are great are the

457
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 1: ones where you're like smooching at the altar, you got

458
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 1: some rice. Let me say this, say it.

459
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 3: If your wedding photos are you You're they're getting distracted

460
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 3: by like one person in a wheelchair. You've got bigger

461
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 3: issues with your wedding photos.

462
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe step up your wedding game.

463
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 3: Maybe don't be the most boring looking person who's ever

464
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 3: had a wedding.

465
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 1: But I already feel awful for being this way at

466
00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 1: only fifty years old. I didn't choose this. I didn't

467
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 1: want this. If she thinks it's awful to have to

468
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:10,199
Speaker 1: have me photographed, just imagine living with it, which is

469
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 1: what I told her before she hung up on me.

470
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 1: How do you also like Opie is like saying like damn,

471
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 1: like this is so terrible for me, and then that

472
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 1: person gets mad like she like like Opie's friend is

473
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 1: the one that hangs out. That's crazy.

474
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's probably out of like guilt and defensiveness, being like, well,

475
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 3: i have no way to come back from that clip.

476
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 1: I'm devastated, just devastated. And there is another update. Are

477
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,479
Speaker 1: you kidding me? I'm not kidding. Are you kidding me?

478
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 1: I'm not even Josh, I'm straight up telling you the truth,

479
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 1: all right.

480
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 2: Second update is about how the kids escape there.

481
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 1: I want to know the other people who were put

482
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: in this the disabled room. Three of them agreed. Can

483
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:00,119
Speaker 1: you imagine agreeing to do that at a wedding? I

484
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 1: mean they must be very agreeable people, because that's kind

485
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: of crazy. I would fight back.

486
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 3: It's probably like what I'd be like, instead of paying

487
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 3: one hundred dollars for my meal, how about I pay

488
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 3: one hundred dollars for a babysitter.

489
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 1: It's to hire a babysitter for that it should literally

490
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: be one hundred dollars.

491
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 3: You should eat everybody pays one hundred bucks for another babysitter,

492
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 3: and then now you have like six babysitters in the

493
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 3: babysitting room.

494
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: Done easy. There's got to.

495
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 4: Be at least like one aunt or like uncle or

496
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:29,360
Speaker 4: someone or like.

497
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 1: Someone or someone who doesn't care about the wedding though,

498
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,119
Speaker 1: because then like if your aunt and uncle like wants

499
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:34,640
Speaker 1: to be yes.

500
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 5: But I mean sometimes the kids are like the stars

501
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,880
Speaker 5: of the show and like, yeah, you know, I love

502
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,439
Speaker 5: other than like the bride and groom, but like the

503
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 5: kids are the best part.

504
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes the kids being kids. I have always put,

505
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,679
Speaker 1: I'm still at the kids table. I love the kid

506
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: Are you guys still at the kids table? A family?

507
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: Not really? Damn I love that that many kids left.

508
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: I am the I'm I'm at the kids table still.

509
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 1: It's listen, great kids table's got But I'm like I

510
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,400
Speaker 1: thought eventually, like you know, when I I thought when

511
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: I turned eighteen, I would be at the adult table.

512
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 5: No, no, you're just youthful, Sam, We're youthful.

513
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 1: Youthful spirit. Yeah, I don't think I'll ever be off

514
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 1: the kids table, honestly.

515
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:18,679
Speaker 4: No, that's okay.

516
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 1: You will want or the tab. So I think when

517
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 1: everyone else dies, then I'll be off the kids table.

518
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 1: I think the other table has to die for me

519
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 1: to get invide.

520
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,160
Speaker 3: You have a situation like me where there's no more kids.

521
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 3: There's just no kids.

522
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:33,360
Speaker 1: There's always going to be more kids, though, but we

523
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 1: got an update. So I'm not the greatest I'm not

524
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:41,399
Speaker 1: in the greatest headspace. I don't think I've ever been less, okay,

525
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,919
Speaker 1: honestly no. I did not register to RSVP or communicate

526
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: with them further until another inviteee got in touch with

527
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,199
Speaker 1: me and said that the mother of the bride, a

528
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: person I thought of as basically my sister, was bad

529
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: mouthing me into the ground. I explained my side, and

530
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 1: our other mutual friend was livid. They told the mother

531
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 1: of the bride and the bride that they were wrong

532
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: to want to exclude me because I might or might

533
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 1: not need a wheelchair and would have oxygen on my face.

534
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: I could remove the oxygen for the photos, they told her.

535
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: So the mother of the bride sent me a message saying,

536
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 1: and I quote, well, if you're going to be butt

537
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: hurt about the aesthetic we want to achieve and try

538
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: to turn other guests against us, then you can effing

539
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 1: come and sit in a pew, but not in the photos.

540
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 1: And we'll try to get the videographer to do edits

541
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: to the wedding VID two. But I won't forget how

542
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: you made this difficult for us. I think, Yeah, I'm

543
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 1: seeing Connie and Glenn Welch say divorce those friends for sure.

544
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 1: These No.

545
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 3: Anyone who's not supporting you in this context, yeah, is

546
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 3: not your friend.

547
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:02,640
Speaker 1: You're bending over back words to try to accommodate crazy,

548
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: and you don't need to do that, Yeah, because you'll

549
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 1: never be able to bend far enough to accommodate crazy,

550
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: and then you might throw your back out. You don't

551
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: want to do that. You don't want to do that.

552
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: Dakoda knows you don't want to do that. Da coda O.

553
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: Trust me, you don't want to. Also, Holly Longs has

554
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: never got a chance to catch alive so excited. Oh

555
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 1: got your hair exciting? So I replied, how did I

556
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 1: make it difficult other than existing exactly? She replied, you

557
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: clearly told blank about what I told you regarding your

558
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 1: wheelchair and oxygen, and she's telling everyone else we're gonna

559
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 1: get a ton of hate. Well maybe whoa? Whoa?

560
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: Isn't it crazy how people have opinions about the things

561
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 3: that you say and do.

562
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: Whoa When you're a crappy person, you get a crappy response. Crazy, Yeah, They're.

563
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 3: Like, people don't seem to be happy that I'm like,

564
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 3: basically crapping all over you for being disabled.

565
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: People aren't enjoying that. And I'm entitled to my opinion,

566
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: and I think this is your fault again not getting

567
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: it right over my head, I said. She asked me

568
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 1: if I was attending, and I told her no and

569
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 1: explained why I didn't lie to her. I told her

570
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: exactly what you said. You didn't tell me not to

571
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: tell anyone your reasons. If they are valid reasons to you,

572
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: then you shouldn't care who knows, And I don't care

573
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: who knows. That You can join us live every weekday

574
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: on YouTube three pm PST. Just tap her profile. There's

575
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: another relevant update. Let's discuss really quick. Do you think

576
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: is there there's anything OP should do besides friends.

577
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 2: Cut off anyone off who well, I don't think divorce.

578
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 3: The friends who like are on your side, Oh yeah, yeah,

579
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 3: there's the friends who are like, yeah, you're a monster.

580
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,959
Speaker 3: But the wedding party friends, anybody who did not immediately

581
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 3: be like, what's going on with bridezillo over here? Like

582
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 3: and her demanding that you can't be in a wheelchair. No,

583
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 3: those people are gone. A bride bride needs to go.

584
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 3: I think into the ort Cloud. I don't know if

585
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 3: you're familiar with this cloud, the ort cloud.

586
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 4: We'll get into that after the story.

587
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 3: We just banished into deep space essentially, Oh, ort cloud

588
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 3: or cloud. I know about the or cloud, work cloud.

589
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 3: It's yeah, we have tears. It's the Lune, the sun,

590
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 3: ort Cloud, and black hole. I think I think this

591
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 3: person is ort cloud material.

592
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: I need to know about the ork Cloud more. It's

593
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: not like is there like.

594
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 3: Cloud is when you want the people who have made

595
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 3: mistakes talking about get back to the not redeemable, I

596
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 3: want them, but I want to know what is happening

597
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 3: at the or Cloud.

598
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: But we'll tell you what If you want to find

599
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: out about the ork Cloud, well we will talk about

600
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: stay tuned until after this story. So so now I'm

601
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: now blocked by the bride, the mom, the dad, and

602
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: the groom. A friendship I've had my entire life is

603
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: over a goddaughter that I helped nurture and care for

604
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: is just gone now. We paid for the bride's car, insurance,

605
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: and cell phone all throughout high school and college because

606
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 1: we wanted her focus on just her studies and not

607
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: a part time job. Her parents got her a car

608
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: but insisted she worked, but her grades fell when she did,

609
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: and we helped her. And this is how they thank us,

610
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: This is how they repay our kindness. I guess I'm

611
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: a great friend when I'm giving money, but I'm not

612
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: good enough to be seen. I felt like a bird

613
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: in my whole life, and this has set me back

614
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: so far. I'm not okay. I'm just not okay. Well Opie,

615
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, says that was never a friendship. I feel

616
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: like those people were just using you for what you

617
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: had instead of actually wanting to be friends with you.

618
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: And I don't think I don't use this as a

619
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: way to trick yourself into thinking that you're less than worthy,

620
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: Like you absolutely wrote something and it's just these people.

621
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 3: Can't now you're worth it all you're worth it at all.

622
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 3: You're worth the whole ort cloud, the entire Yeah.

623
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: Everything in the cloud.

624
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 3: Can you get as much oxygen as you want my wedding? Yeah,

625
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 3: all the oxygen. All the wheelchairs on Earth could be there,

626
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 3: and it fine. Put them in a little because you

627
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 3: were there for me. Op in this hypothetical context where I'm.

628
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: Can you tell me what an orc cloud is?

629
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 3: So the orc cloud, which first of all, it's the

630
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 3: Orc cloud is like the the cloud of rocks and

631
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 3: debris that surround our solar system.

632
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's different than the asteroid belt that's in

633
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: the middle.

634
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 3: Asteroid belts in our solar system. The or cloud surrounds

635
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 3: the solar system?

636
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: Is there?

637
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 3: Aud Is there more junk in the Ork cloud than

638
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 3: the asteroid belt?

639
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: Significantly more junk. There's significant. Cloud is very very big.

640
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 2: It surrounds the entire Soldier.

641
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 1: It's big.

642
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 3: But is it dense. It's the way less dense. It

643
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,479
Speaker 3: might be a little less dense, probably less enormous. Well,

644
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 3: because and that's where we send people out of the

645
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 3: Solar system before, like we don't even want you don't

646
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 3: even get to burn up in the sun. We want

647
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 3: you to deal with how terrible of a person you were? Forever,

648
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 3: we want you to in space. We want the shame

649
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 3: of what you have done to with.

650
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: Limited into your brain with unlimited oxygen.

651
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, like they live forever for fathomless depths of deep

652
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 3: space and everything.

653
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: Rock just through the chest. Yeah.

654
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,719
Speaker 3: And then and they're like I was so such an idiot.

655
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 3: Bang and then black hole is if you want them

656
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 3: to just become spaghetti and not.

657
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: Exist, mm hmm. I think or cloud yeah, or cloud

658
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: for them, for sure. I like the or cloud. But

659
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Speaker 1: I also like the donos that came through. If they did?

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Speaker 1: Did we read all? Did we? Was there one before

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Speaker 1: Black Magic Girl that we messed? Maybe and we got

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Speaker 1: some more donos? Josephine Badola Burquist. I think that's a

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Speaker 1: Keon one. Go ahead, read it, okay, Keon, Sorry you're

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Speaker 1: so dreamy. I forgot what to say.

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Speaker 4: I just wanted to hear it in Sam's.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate you, yum me yump me else. That's a good one.

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Speaker 1: Schmirkles member for one month watching this with my cat

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Speaker 1: on my lap in your hat? Are you cat in

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Speaker 1: the hat? Also? What was everyone's costumes for Halloween? Schmirkles

670
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Speaker 1: gifted five okay, storytime memberships, five babies. We love the community,

671
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: growing a little bit every day. I have babies, little babies.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Amy, you want to read that one from Amy? Amy?

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Speaker 3: Think you were the five dollars Dakota. If you don't

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Speaker 3: play fetch with Ava, we're going to protest. Throw that

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00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 3: tennis ball before there's repercussions.

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Speaker 2: Do it for Ava. I played fetch with her like

677
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Speaker 2: every damn here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Same. I mean she makes for you a little bit,

679
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: she makes you. She won't stop.

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Speaker 2: I'm the designated fetch person now.

681
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Speaker 3: Every time I walk in the door, she's like, teach her.

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Speaker 1: To use that machine. She hates it. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: She seems like an analog type of dog.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the organic homegrown wants her balls not thrown by

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00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 1: a robot. Yeah, organic balls, organic balls. You know. I

686
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: told that to my dad and he's like, I like

687
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Speaker 1: my boss, And I'm like, all right, dad, all right day.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Dan Leggs Pops.

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Speaker 3: Also, I want to say, Prince X, I did see

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Speaker 3: how much your kid looks like me. That's it's kind

691
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 3: of it's kind of crazy. Can I see It's in

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Speaker 3: the discord discord, very very uncanny similar facial features for sure.

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Speaker 1: And generally Ross and B thanks for the five bucks. Hey,

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Speaker 1: Samon Dakota generally.

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Speaker 5: Also shout out to Jenna and Amy. Yesterday, we didn't

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Speaker 5: get to see your donos. They were kind of up there,

697
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Speaker 5: but we're going to shout you out. Amy yesterday gifted

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Speaker 5: two dollars and she said Sam's been slacking on being

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Speaker 5: in the videos, so this is what you get.

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Speaker 4: Amy, congrats Wow slacking Wow.

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Speaker 5: And then Jenna as well again another four ninety nine

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Speaker 5: five dollars, Thank you. Happy Wednesday stream, my guys again.

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Speaker 5: Jennie Rawson B pronounced Rawson.

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Speaker 1: I usually Sam on the Wednesday stream. This is the

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Speaker 1: first Wednesday stream I've missed in a bit. And then

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Speaker 1: I also I'm gonna I'm sorry guys, I'm gonna be

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Speaker 1: gone next Wednesday too. This guy is a liar. No, wow,

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Speaker 1: Cloud Sam, because I've been working on a secret project.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, if anything, that's the moon. So the moon is

711
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 3: our lowest tier, the moon. As you go to the moon,

712
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 3: you learn from your mistake and you come back back.

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00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 3: You get to come back to where Sam's going. He's

714
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Speaker 3: going to the moving. Sam's going to the Moon. He's

715
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Speaker 3: got big stuff to do on the moon. Yeah, he's

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Speaker 3: going to be back.

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Speaker 4: We have two more guys.

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Speaker 1: Lady of the Elephants, thanks for being a member for

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Speaker 1: three months, which gives you access to to the Wednesday,

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Speaker 1: Monday and Friday members only Strange no good deed goes unpunished.

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Speaker 1: And then member for four months. Vix Mix the code

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Speaker 1: of my daughter and I love how much you get

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Speaker 1: into the stories. Welcome to the Crazy.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Thank you, vix Mix. No, you welcome to the

725
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Speaker 3: crazy because I'm here now. I'm here full time now.

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Speaker 1: And then Josupe Madola Burgus, thanks for the twenty seven

727
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Speaker 1: sec swish girl. Keon, I honestly think you fully turned

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Speaker 1: me by.

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Speaker 3: You're welcome there it is I think Keon single handedly.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry to destroy the age and all the communities

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Speaker 3: that I've turned you away from or turn you into.

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Speaker 4: I don't know you're welcome, You're not welcome.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I'm also rocking a little. Will Turner here from Pirate.

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Speaker 1: You are totally wet. He does look like it.

736
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Speaker 2: It's crazy, Miss Swan, It's not right.

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Speaker 1: I've got one more from Amy and Amy. Thanks for

738
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Speaker 1: the five bucks. Ava needs more screen time. Sam's working

739
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Speaker 1: on his cardio. Buddy Ranch.

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Speaker 3: Here's she's literally just she's you pick her up, coda.

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Speaker 4: You want to get the next story going?

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Speaker 5: Hey, MJ Grow, thank you for the gifted five okay

743
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Speaker 5: storytime memberships.

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Speaker 4: Appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: Oh she wants to talk.

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Speaker 3: Well, Amy, MJ Grows five gifted memberships.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I shouted out, Amy.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for the thank you for the twenty buckaroos. Amy,

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Speaker 3: my goodness.

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Speaker 1: As soon as I let her go, that's three more

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Speaker 1: minutes right there. Oh, Amy, we appreciate you. And m

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Speaker 1: Jay Garl thanks again for the five gifted memberships. But

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Speaker 1: you know what, I want a gift to our members

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Speaker 1: this next story. And also are not members this next story?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, any on my siblings?

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Speaker 5: He's my siblings. Yes, yeah, we're getting Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 5: you guys love to do this. Every time we're just

758
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Speaker 5: getting blasted.

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Speaker 6: It just gets blasted, like all right, it's just donation

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Speaker 6: times stilted Dix mixed, thanks again.

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Speaker 2: For the thanks for the five gifted memberships, fix mix.

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Speaker 5: All right, guys, let's get into the next story. If

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Speaker 5: you guys are gonna be donating, we'll read it after

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Speaker 5: this one.

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Speaker 3: Ready, My siblings complained so much about my dream wedding.

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Speaker 1: Then now I want to cut them off.

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Speaker 3: Cut up, cut, don't let your dreams not be dreams.

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00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 3: Let your dreams not be dreams of cutting off.

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Speaker 4: Where's the sword? Get the sword?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, where's the sword? Get them bah? Shut context.

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Speaker 3: I'm one of three, I'm the middle child in our thirties,

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Speaker 3: and no one in my family has married. We have

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Speaker 3: no extended relatives and have never attended a wedding together.

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Speaker 3: My mom hasn't been to a wedding in thirty years,

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Speaker 3: and my sister has been to one wedding. I my

776
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Speaker 3: brother too, so I guess me and my brother have

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Speaker 3: been to two. I've been to approximately twenty weddings. Whoa, Oh,

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Speaker 3: that's all right. Ohpi, he's got a lot of wedding

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Speaker 3: experience and.

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Speaker 4: Someone's really cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, OPI he's trying to be like I've gone

782
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Speaker 1: to like every wedding. My family just doesn't know how

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Speaker 1: to do it.

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Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from user o Candle on

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Speaker 3: the r slash Okay storytime subreddit. So we got engaged

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Speaker 3: in twenty twenty one, and my family was excited. We

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Speaker 3: got married earlier this year in Italy, and made it

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Speaker 3: a three day event with our eighty guests. We paid

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Speaker 3: for it all ourselves and saved a long time to

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Speaker 3: make it as nice as possible for our our friends

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Speaker 3: and family. Yeah, I'd say eighty people in Italy. You

792
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Speaker 3: gotta save quite a bit for eighty people.

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Speaker 1: In no way they're paying for all that. Apparently they did.

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Speaker 4: Sounds like they did.

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Speaker 1: They paid for all eighty people in Italy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's let's get the details here.

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Speaker 1: Do you know how expensive that that would be? Like

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Speaker 1: one hundred?

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Speaker 3: Give me, give me the number when we're when we're done,

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Speaker 3: I think eighty people. We booked a four star hotel,

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Speaker 3: paying fifty to seventy five percent of each room for

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Speaker 3: our bridal party guests, which is not something we have

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Speaker 3: ever experienced ourselves, but we wanted to make sure all

804
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Speaker 3: of our friends could come.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't get married to this family.

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Speaker 1: But oh but dude, chat, Guess how rich these people are.

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Speaker 1: Guess guess how much this wedding costs? Please? I want

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Speaker 1: your guesses, because like hundreds of thousands of dollars, it's

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Speaker 1: got to be, it's got to be.

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Speaker 3: This is almost like related to a military contractor, like vibes.

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Speaker 3: We put on a rehearsal lunch for family at a

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Speaker 3: starred restaurant. So I guess that's Michelin Star, right, I

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00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,720
Speaker 3: would assume you know we have a Michelin Star restaurant

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00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 3: around the corner from here, and it's like pretty cheap.

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Speaker 1: Why haven't you taken me on? You celebrated with us Kobe's.

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Speaker 1: It's Kobe's is pretty so really good, Okay, we'll go.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 3: We put on a rehearsal lunch for our family at

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Speaker 3: a Michelin starred restaurant and we had a cocktail evening

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Speaker 3: with all our guests and everything was covered. Our wedding

821
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Speaker 3: was like a dream. The food, the music, the flowers.

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Speaker 3: It was beyond what I could even imagine. And we

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Speaker 3: had such a brilliant time. The only thing that interrupted

824
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Speaker 3: our day was torrential rain as we were traveling from

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Speaker 3: the church and then dining.

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Speaker 1: Oh but that's like cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of when it rains on your wedding,

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Speaker 2: it's supposed to be good luck.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's what I've heard. Have you have you watched

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Speaker 1: About Time? No? Oh dude, Well, some of brothers up

831
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Speaker 1: the other day at great movie. But they get married

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Speaker 1: and then their the rain starts hitting and all their

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Speaker 1: guests are like running through the rain, like, oh, but

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Speaker 1: it's so.

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Speaker 5: Love Yeah, it's like, but what about we don't talk

836
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Speaker 5: about Bruno where he's like it's gonna rain there, Like.

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Speaker 4: I got a canceled wedding. I don't know Bruno incanto.

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Speaker 1: We don't talk about Brune that one.

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Speaker 4: It's a good one, all right, go ahead, all right.

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Speaker 3: So it rains when they're traveling from church and then dining,

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Speaker 3: which it meant. It meant we couldn't get our couple's portraits.

842
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Speaker 3: Oh it's ruined.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean you could do a couple's portrait

844
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Speaker 1: in the rain, No, I can't do it.

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Speaker 3: The day after our wedding, my husband and I spent

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Speaker 3: some time getting the missed photos with our photographer. My

847
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Speaker 3: sister left the hotel to spend the day with my dad,

848
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Speaker 3: brother and his girlfriend, and some family friends who were

849
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Speaker 3: staying outside. When he came back, she wouldn't talk to me,

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Speaker 3: and instead of staying the last night, she abruptly checked out.

851
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Speaker 3: The following day, we wanted to have a family lunch

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Speaker 3: with my husband and my family, who hadn't met before

853
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Speaker 3: this weekend, as they live in different parts of the world.

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Speaker 3: My mom, sister, and brother said they didn't want to

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Speaker 3: join and instead went shopping, which was fine, okay. They

856
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 3: left that same day, so there was no chance to

857
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Speaker 3: say goodbye. I sent a pre end post flight message

858
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Speaker 3: checking my sister got back okay. She didn't respond until

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Speaker 3: the next day, saying that she didn't feel sociable and

860
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Speaker 3: didn't want to message anyone. I left it until the

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Speaker 3: week after when I asked if she had birthday plans.

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Speaker 3: Initially she said she didn't, and then eventually said she'd

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Speaker 3: planned something with my brother and that I was explicitly

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Speaker 3: not invited because of how I treated him and her

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Speaker 3: at my wedding.

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Speaker 1: They literally paid for your flights and for your royal spoiled.

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Speaker 3: They gotta be spoiled, dude, Yeah, definitely spoiled.

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Speaker 2: They come from It was not from the mid Atlantic,

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Speaker 2: as you said.

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Speaker 1: We could tell.

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Speaker 2: It was cheap River Cavea.

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Speaker 1: I spit it out. I sp.

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Speaker 3: So apparently there are issues that were listed here, so

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Speaker 3: she listed these. Cashier, I spent too much time talking

875
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 3: to other people and walking to other tables to chat

876
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 3: to my guests.

877
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 2: You have to walk Yeah, it's not like there were

878
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:37,280
Speaker 2: eighty people at the wedding.

879
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:41,360
Speaker 1: Where's my what's the thing called the bell? And palankr?

880
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: What the thing? What? What? What's what the thing where

881
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 1: you're putting it? You're putting on your shoulder and it's

882
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 1: like a parents palinkey, palan key of palin and key?

883
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: What the monkey? But yeah, I've got a palin key.

884
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 3: You know what you need to get me to you?

885
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 4: Oh, Robin just dipped twenty five dollars. Thank you, Robin. Wow,

886
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 4: what's up with you guys?

887
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 1: Just tipping? And come on at least say something so

888
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 1: we could so we could talk about.

889
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 3: The money talks, guys, the money talks. Okay, So so

890
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 3: far we have mad at talking to other people at

891
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 3: her wedding and having to walk right yep and walking

892
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 3: to other tables. Yes, I danced with my guests, but

893
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 3: I should have danced more with her and him.

894
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 1: Okay.

895
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 3: My brother and his girlfriend were sat at the end

896
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 3: of the family slash bridal party table instead of next

897
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:40,760
Speaker 3: to my mother and my maid of honor and me. Okay,

898
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 3: so she's mad about table placement, but.

899
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 1: You were at the family table. That's like, that's that's

900
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: that's great.

901
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 3: Right, No, this person is absurd, but we'll cook continue.

902
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 3: I didn't ask for a photo booth photo with them.

903
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:56,280
Speaker 3: I didn't ask anyone for one of those. By the way,

904
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 3: I was deep in the cocktails and dancing a lot.

905
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 4: That's not on the ride to be doing that. It's

906
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:01,879
Speaker 4: a lot of people to ask.

907
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, imagine making that person's whole wedding about my selfish.

908
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:13,839
Speaker 1: That's certainly a selfish thing to do. But we got more.

909
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 3: My brother quote wasted money buying a suit, and I

910
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 3: didn't make an effort to get good photos with him.

911
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 1: This is yeah, yeah, ale Flura says, why the heck

912
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 1: she reaching? This is a huge feel like there's there's

913
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: something else that she's mad about.

914
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 4: You know, these are just like excuses.

915
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,479
Speaker 3: These are these are these are excuses conspiracy. She wants

916
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 3: to get married, she wants to be the married one.

917
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 3: She not married, she's not married.

918
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: Boyfriend.

919
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's her, And it's like her brother, Yeah dude, yep,

920
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:51,760
Speaker 3: that's it. And I don't know if we had ages,

921
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 3: but it's I would assume, I would assume, maybe, I

922
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 3: would assume maybe older.

923
00:46:56,600 --> 00:47:00,040
Speaker 1: Actually the woman who if she wants older than I

924
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 1: I feel like that that would be more of a

925
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: reason for her to be yeah, jealous.

926
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 3: Because she's so but heard about this for sure, saying

927
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 3: that my brother wasted money buying a suit and I

928
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 3: didn't make an effort to get good photos with him,

929
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 3: and I later found lots of good photos in the

930
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 3: photo gallery that the photographer delivered.

931
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: I also I.

932
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 3: Didn't thank my brother and girlfriend in my speech because

933
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 3: they didn't help with anything and they showed no interest

934
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 3: at all. And in the months up to the wedding,

935
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,720
Speaker 3: I didn't even receive a single message asking how everything

936
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 3: was going. My brother only messaged to push me to

937
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 3: buy him a suit in a series of messages, getting

938
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 3: quite angry as I dictated the dress code so I

939
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 3: should be covering his attire.

940
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: So she's mad.

941
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,280
Speaker 3: Because she's like, yeah, you made him buy this suit

942
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 3: and he wasted all his money on this suit.

943
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 1: It's like, now he has a suit.

944
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 4: That he's complaining about as someone who just.

945
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 1: Got a suit money well spent. Did you just get

946
00:47:59,040 --> 00:47:59,359
Speaker 1: that stuck?

947
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 3: I just got that suit for this yeah, and that

948
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 3: was also but it was also like I need a suit,

949
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 3: so I got and now I have a good suit.

950
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: It's a good suit.

951
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 3: So god, there's still how many more things she's got,

952
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 3: like a whole, a whole essay about things that were

953
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 3: wrong at the wedding. Totally yeah, literally yeah, completely.

954
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 2: So her room, which was next to mine, was smaller

955
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,839
Speaker 2: than the other maids of honor, and she said that

956
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 2: it was deliberate, which it wasn't. I did not see

957
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 2: all of the other rooms in advance. She was also

958
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 2: really annoyed.

959
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:40,879
Speaker 3: At having to pay anything at all for her room,

960
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 3: and she was told that well in advance because she's

961
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 3: quote my sister, she said I should have paid the

962
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 3: full cost for her implied, I think for her making

963
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 3: the effort to come. As for all of my bridesmaids,

964
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 3: I paid for their clothes, shoes, and a box of gifts.

965
00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 2: She didn't thank me for any of the and has

966
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:02,439
Speaker 2: since sold one.

967
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: Dude, she's so entitled, it's insane.

968
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:10,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, and here's a note. Where I am from,

969
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 3: it is usual for bridesmaids to buy.

970
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 2: Their own dresses and shoes.

971
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 3: Similarly, when I asked my brother if he got back

972
00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 3: okay from a long vacation that they took in Italy

973
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 3: after the wedding, he said that he felt sad that quote.

974
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 3: We didn't get to spend a lot of time together,

975
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 3: further making me feel terrible about my wedding day. Later

976
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 3: in the year, my brother also didn't invite me to

977
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 3: his birthday. I spent the weeks after my wedding in

978
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 3: a really dark place, and I cried a lot. It's

979
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 3: been months now, and my sister and brother act like

980
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 3: nothing happened. I've put this to bed mostly, and I

981
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:48,359
Speaker 3: have had a distant relationship with them since it took

982
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 3: a few months for each of them to send a card.

983
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 3: And the text is both and the text in both

984
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 3: is eerily similar. They both called my wedding quote spectacular,

985
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 3: but didn't say anything further. Really, and it's not about this,

986
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 3: but they, along with my mom, were also the only

987
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 3: guests not to give a gift at all, even.

988
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 2: A bottle of wine, completely thoughtless.

989
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 3: Financially, we're all in the same places with a significant

990
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 3: amount of savings homeowners, et cetera. And usually my sister

991
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 3: is generous, so I know this is a further comment

992
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 3: about how they felt mistreated at my wedding. Culturally, in

993
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 3: my background, it is very unusual not to give a

994
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:31,319
Speaker 3: wedding gift. And by the way, I would find it

995
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 3: very unusual if you didn't join us live on YouTube

996
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:36,880
Speaker 3: every weekday at three PMPSD.

997
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:38,320
Speaker 1: All you gotta do is tap our program give that

998
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 1: gift to yourself.

999
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 3: And there is a little bit more relevant update here,

1000
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:47,360
Speaker 3: but let's discuss. I mean, clearly these people are the worst,

1001
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 3: right I'm I am, I am appalled. I'm appalled. I'm appalled.

1002
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 1: I don't know how this sister could be so entitled

1003
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: that she gets a like like a trip to Italy.

1004
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's both of them and the brother and like

1005
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:06,240
Speaker 4: it's like a it's.

1006
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: Like a trip to Italy that that partly is being

1007
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 1: paid for by OP and they're like not yeah, not enough.

1008
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 3: And they had all the gifts and like the just

1009
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 3: the paying for half the hotel fifty to seventy five

1010
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 3: percent of.

1011
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,800
Speaker 1: The room is a lot. It's a lot because especially

1012
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 1: eighty people. Yeah, they've subsidized a sick experience for so

1013
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 1: many people. And somehow you're like turning your little nose.

1014
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 2: Up about it because it's like you were talking to

1015
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:33,320
Speaker 2: other people.

1016
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is not about you, This is about their

1017
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 1: wedding and them being happy. But yeah, I think we

1018
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 1: kind of had it on the money that she's jealous.

1019
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's there's got to be some jealousy here and

1020
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 3: there I think just some entitlement.

1021
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: Too, like or there's just so scummy.

1022
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's so incredibly very upper upper upper upper tax

1023
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 3: bracket type SI scenario here.

1024
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:58,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean you can't ford fifty to seventy

1025
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,879
Speaker 1: all right, all right, just quick quick maths, quick maths. Right,

1026
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 1: so you have eighty people going, yeah, right, and.

1027
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 3: Then I don't know if they paid for the rooms

1028
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 3: for all of those people or if it was just

1029
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 3: for the people in the bridle and the groom's.

1030
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 1: Party or whatever. So even that's still like what a

1031
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: dozen people, and it's it's like a four star place,

1032
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:21,760
Speaker 1: so it's probably like four hundred dollars a night.

1033
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:22,280
Speaker 4: Plus the food.

1034
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 2: Well, and it's so it's probably even more.

1035
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 1: For three nights. Let's just say three nights, twelve hundred

1036
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 1: dollars a person plus the wedding times eighty, that's like

1037
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars dropped right there, at least at least,

1038
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 1: and that's not including flights.

1039
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 3: Absolutely absurd to be like you just treated as like

1040
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,359
Speaker 3: scum It's like, what are these people used to being

1041
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 3: treated like absolutely royalty at every moment?

1042
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 1: Are they royalty? Know you? They're royalty. It's confirmed all

1043
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: the guests. She said, fifty to seventy five percent for

1044
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:58,399
Speaker 1: all that's what Valkyrie says. Wow, fifty to seventy five

1045
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:01,759
Speaker 1: percent for all of them. Yes, scumbags for not getting

1046
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:03,240
Speaker 1: any gives either. Yeah, they're the worst.

1047
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 3: We have to go to Italy, to the sun, to

1048
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 3: the sun. Let them burn up in the sun. Although

1049
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:14,399
Speaker 3: it's like in Italy destination wedding sounds awesome, Yeah, yeah,

1050
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 3: it does it.

1051
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:18,880
Speaker 4: Rain probably was so cool, so cool. It's a terrible

1052
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 4: day for rain.

1053
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 3: Don't don't do that to me, Keon, don't do that.

1054
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 3: Don't hit me with the terrible day for rain. Keon,

1055
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 3: terrible day for rain.

1056
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 1: Okay, roy mustang. Okay.

1057
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 3: Here's the update though, Although mostly I am okay, now,

1058
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 3: this still comes back to me at points and and

1059
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 3: I'm at a loss to understand it. I've had therapy

1060
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 3: and that's helped, but I still see my siblings at

1061
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:45,319
Speaker 3: family events and I get the we should hang out

1062
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 3: more texts every so often, but I just don't want

1063
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 3: to engage, which understandable. I wouldn't want to engage either.

1064
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 1: After that, It's like, what you've ruined any chance of

1065
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 1: me wanting to be in your life? Yeah, by just

1066
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,320
Speaker 1: being such a snob nos person.

1067
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:04,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, just looking all the way down your nose.

1068
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:05,800
Speaker 1: Also jelly.

1069
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 3: But I talked to Mike not too long ago, and

1070
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 3: he was talking to me about getting married in Italy.

1071
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: Mmmmm, let's see.

1072
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 3: So I got that we should hang out texts every

1073
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 3: so often, but I just don't want to engage. They

1074
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 3: were both really uninterested in the wedding, not really asking details,

1075
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,799
Speaker 3: my sister being very unavailable for dress shopping, et cetera.

1076
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 3: So it really surprised me to get all those complaints afterwards.

1077
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 3: Can anyone relate? And that is the end?

1078
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,840
Speaker 1: And I cannot relate. I can't relate, but I can

1079
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 1: tell you that I hate what you're going through and

1080
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: you do not deserve that at all. Yeah.

1081
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:46,799
Speaker 3: No, it's uh, no one to relate to what you

1082
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 3: are going through right now.

1083
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 2: And hopefully time will like sort of heal that.

1084
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't think that's like offworthy. I don't

1085
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 1: think this is no contact, but I.

1086
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,799
Speaker 5: Just get reasoning of like why were you treating me

1087
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 5: so harshly and don't be like, oh, we gave you

1088
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 5: a list, like that's a BS list.

1089
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, like.

1090
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 3: That was like you're upset that I'm talking to other

1091
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Speaker 3: people at the wedding, Like what like what was this

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00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 3: supposed to be? Like the three of us having a

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00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 3: playdate and we're the only ones that are allowed to

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00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,399
Speaker 3: hang out with each other like our wedding. The hell,

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00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 3: it's a wedding for everybody here. Yeah, I have to talk.

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Speaker 1: To them here.

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Speaker 3: Guys read some thank you Samman for loving the Full

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00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,399
Speaker 3: Metal Alchemist reference to terrible day for rain?

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00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 1: What what episode? It's never a.

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00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 3: Terrible day to watch Full metalist in Law made my

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00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:34,799
Speaker 3: wedding all about you have that one.

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Speaker 1: Should be still or three? Yes? Nice?

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Speaker 4: Uh? You guys read some donuts Mama swage.

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00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:44,879
Speaker 5: And someone got the reference and I really appreciate Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 5: we appreciated us.

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Speaker 4: Little weebye boy.

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Speaker 1: That's that's correct.

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Speaker 4: Guys read some donuts either used a little Sam's room.

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00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:51,799
Speaker 1: I will.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if Sam.

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Speaker 1: Mother swag Mama swag.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for the five dollars, Thank you for bringing

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Speaker 3: my smile back. I wish I could do more.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you've done.

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Speaker 3: We're just glad we were making you smile, Mama Swag,

1116
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 3: and you've done quite enough just by being here. Yeah,

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00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 3: you're already going above and beyond. Thank you, Thank you,

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00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 3: Mama slash Swag. You got the swag. I see the

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00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 3: two g's in there. You got Mama Swag. And also Hannah,

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Speaker 3: thank you for the twenty five dollars. I know we

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00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 3: saw your fifty five in there, but then you just.

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00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 2: Slap us with another twenty five. Hannah's going crazy.

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Speaker 1: Also on the dono link, no less shout out to

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00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,919
Speaker 1: the people donating on the donor link because YouTube takes

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Speaker 1: thirty percent, so we appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, the dono link is the Champion link. And also ten.

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00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: Bucks from vix Mix. Thank you for the ten bucks.

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Speaker 3: Just had to give you more money because I love

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00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 3: you guys. I would love a ten hour stream and

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00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 3: a wheel spin.

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00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: Dude.

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00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 3: We haven't done a ten hour stream in a why

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00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,439
Speaker 3: and Today's day? Yeah, today's the day.

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00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:58,560
Speaker 1: Ten hour stream. If we do a ten hour stream,

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00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: then I have to like pass like four hours. I

1136
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: need a beer.

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00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, something has to be relieve dude, I would be

1138
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 3: so we have we do have plenty of sitting down there.

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00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 1: So much we do. I welcome a ten hour stream,

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00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 1: the psychotistry. We have an excuse to ten hours stream.

1141
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 4: I think we read these ones, guys, Yeah, we read those.

1142
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 3: We have Yeah, I don't know, I don't know if

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00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 3: we reach Robin, thank you again for the twenty five dollars.

1144
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 2: We died before. Now we got you again.

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00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 3: Thank you Robin for the twenty five and Amanda Miller,

1146
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:38,479
Speaker 3: thank you for the twenty eight dollars on the tip link.

1147
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 3: Like the stream in all caps, all caps, freaking like

1148
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 3: it six exclamation points, that's like a.

1149
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 1: Like the stream like it? Now, what's one more exclamation point?

1150
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 2: Looks like it's it's higher frequency.

1151
00:57:55,360 --> 00:58:00,040
Speaker 1: Actually, don't do that. Exit. It's like, that's what it

1152
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: sounds like. What's that?

1153
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 2: But the noises, those noises came out of my mouth.

1154
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 4: Talk talk about that from time to time.

1155
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 1: It's very weird.

1156
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 4: That's what it sounds like. That's the higher frequency.

1157
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, uh, what's up?

1158
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 1: We got some Yeah, we got it in here, Amy,

1159
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 1: thanks to the two bucks. Did you get Ava? Because

1160
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 1: she's Australian, she's actually not an Australian as shepherd. She's

1161
00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 1: a Border Collie and my parents originally got it because

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00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 1: I was sad and wanted a dog. And then they're like, actually,

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00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 1: we just got ourselves another dog and then rescinded my

1164
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 1: dog that's our dog was wild. It was wild. That's

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00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 1: how do you do that? That's like not. I was

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00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 1: so excited, Like they were like, hey, we have a

1167
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 1: surprise for you, and they've been like hinting that they're

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00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 1: gonna get me a dog. We got a dog. And

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00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 1: then they're like, we got a dog and I'm like, thank you,

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00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 1: and they're like for us, They're like, we got a dog.

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Speaker 1: You go, thanks, like for what losers are? Dog Laurie,

1172
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: thanks to the fifty bucks. Hey guys, I love you

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00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 1: all the videos and make my work shift a little

1174
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 1: less terrible.

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00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 3: Thank you Lori, you make our shift a little more awesome.

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00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 1: Yeah time, thanks for being a member for three months.

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00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: Everyone needs a good suit.

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00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,439
Speaker 3: It's true, everyone needs a good suit. You just got

1179
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:22,800
Speaker 3: to have it.

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00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 1: The Pink CA and Area, thanks for the two seventy

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00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 1: nine Canadian dollars and nothing else on that. The pinkn

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00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: do we already do? The vix we already got vixed reminds.

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00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 4: Me of the Dot, a brand new one.

1184
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 1: Oh the pink and area. Thanks for the fourteen dollars Canadian.

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00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:42,000
Speaker 1: Thank you for helping ping with clean king my home,

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00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:46,560
Speaker 1: Oh maybe, thank you for helping with clean my home

1187
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:50,840
Speaker 1: and all asleep. You beauties always helped me fall asleep,

1188
00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 1: asleep and battle my CPTSD nightmares. We're glad that now

1189
00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 1: our voices run through your dreams. We are glad for helping.

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Speaker 1: More minutes, thirty more minutes, Let's go.

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Speaker 4: So that was so subtle.

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01:00:05,200 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 1: Wow, that was fast. You guys are wild. You're going crazy. Uh,

1193
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:12,880
Speaker 1: Harriet Spaghetti says, I don't understand the ten hour stream thing.

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01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: Does your fan base not sleep? They sleep in shifts? Yeah,

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01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,440
Speaker 1: you know, we we have enough sleep across time zones

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01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 1: that they can make sure that we never we never

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01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 1: ever sleep. And they we had a stream until three

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01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 1: when we first started streaming, we had streams like like

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Speaker 1: consistently until like one to three in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's a couple of bruskies needed for Yeah.

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01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:41,440
Speaker 4: I forgot to pin the don but I pinned it.

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01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 1: Kean has forgotten to pin it? Is that true? Do

1203
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 1: we forget to pin the donor link?

1204
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:45,640
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1205
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 5: Maybe it's just a weird chan has forgotten to pin it.

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01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. Amanda Roe says, what is sleep? Why do you

1207
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 1: guys love to you guys love all at once?

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01:00:58,960 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 4: It's like it's just influence, like.

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01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 3: Donating right now because the stories are so captivating, they

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01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 3: can't don't know.

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Speaker 1: Is there all right?

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01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 4: We got more?

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01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 2: Thank you for the next twenty five.

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01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 4: Also, let me know if it's not pinned, guys, I

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01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 4: will repin it.

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01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:16,440
Speaker 1: Morgan says, don'al link is pinned. Stacy Hope says, I

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01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 1: can see the link. Okay, I get it. Don't don't

1218
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: gasslate man.

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01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 3: Amy said eleven hour stream and donated two dollars.

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Speaker 1: Oh while, and anonymous thanks for the twenty five bucks. Dude,

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01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 1: that's even crazier to not say anything and also did

1222
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 1: not even give twenty five bucks. Take I don't know

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Speaker 1: who it's from.

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Speaker 4: Vix Max.

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Speaker 1: Here's here twenty five. We can't drink before, I mean

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Speaker 1: we can't.

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Speaker 2: It's five o'clock somewhere, it's not we can drink after.

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Speaker 1: I think I think the rule is after seven. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: let's do after seven.

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01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:56,760
Speaker 4: Oh then I should have been drinking also while ago.

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01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 1: I think it needs to be what fifteen over that

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01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 1: if we if we if we if we go twelve hundred,

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01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:03,480
Speaker 1: if we go to seven, we can all crack open

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01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 1: a beer. Yeah, it's cool. I think that. I think

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01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:05,520
Speaker 1: that's our role.

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01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 4: We're you guys.

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01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: You gotta make the stream go to seven.

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Speaker 3: Olay you guys, No, please don't keep me, keep me,

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01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 3: please get back to even so thanks just twenty five bucks.

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01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 3: Hi everyone, I love watching you guys every day. We

1241
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 3: love coming here every day.

1242
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 1: I think.

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01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:21,200
Speaker 3: Guy, we already read a man of Miller's. Thanks again,

1244
01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:27,959
Speaker 3: I'm gonna refresh it all right, and uh two bucks

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01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:30,960
Speaker 3: eleven hour stream Worri with the ten gifted memberships.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you. And jose Fia Dola bur Quest, thanks

1247
01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 1: for the twenty seven with the SCNE. I go to

1248
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: beout at like six am because I watched the streams. Josephied, sleep.

1249
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 1: Don't sleep, you stay awake all right. Also, if we

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01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 1: are going to drink a beer at seven, you guys,

1251
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 1: if you have a healthy relationship with alcohol, you should

1252
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 1: also take a drink with us at seven. It's healthy.

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01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 1: If it's healthy, healthy, if it's not, drink a couple

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01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:01,439
Speaker 1: of water with us. All right, it's good.

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Speaker 4: I think we're good.

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01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:05,600
Speaker 3: All right, So ready, my sister in law, you have it, yep,

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01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 3: all right, let's hit it.

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Speaker 1: So my sister law made my wedding all about her

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Speaker 1: because she fell left out.

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Speaker 3: I automatically take the sister in law's side. I mean,

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01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 3: it's about everyone else, not about you.

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Speaker 1: Right, it's it's the sister in law's day. She has

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01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: apologized since, but her behavior at my wedding had a

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01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:28,720
Speaker 1: significant impact on the end of the night. And I'm

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01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: not sure an apology is really what would make things right.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what could.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're gonna figure out.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from bell Bello on Okay

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Speaker 1: story Time. Some read it off background. Sister in law

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Speaker 1: thirty eight female has been the largest source of stress

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01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 1: for my husband and me during planning, but we have

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01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 1: given her grase because she has never intended a fancy

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01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: wedding before. She didn't know what to do with herself.

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Speaker 1: You did not have the grace and only ever has

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01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:08,160
Speaker 1: had a courthouse wedding for herself. Past issues. We're gonna

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01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 1: We're getting in deep. We're gonna do the dirt. I

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01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 1: invited sister in law to my hair and makeup, along

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01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 1: with mob mog, what's my mother? Mother, mother of the groom,

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01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 1: other of the groom by twin and myself? Her friend

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01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 1: forty two female found out and asked me at a

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Speaker 1: large family gathering to be included all right? And when

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01:04:28,920 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 1: I tried saying no, she whined, she begged, and I

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01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 1: relented because Op is a gracious god.

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01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:38,880
Speaker 2: I guess whining and begging works on you.

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01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 1: Op. That sounded me too. I knew that was coming

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01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 1: from you. I fricking knew that your welcoat.

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Speaker 6: It's like Kobe and Shack, eat it up.

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01:04:57,520 --> 01:05:01,440
Speaker 1: I also agonized over providing this is her law a safe

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01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 1: meal when she expressed fear about eating somewhere with her

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01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 1: fish allergy, almost a whole year after she told me

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01:05:09,680 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: fish was okay at my wedding. Why are we Why

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01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 1: are we talking about her her fear of eating somewhere

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01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:16,200
Speaker 1: with her fish allergy?

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Speaker 7: Because it's important, because it's really important. I mean, this

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01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 7: is gonna come into play later. The fish, he said,

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01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 7: We're not gonna eat fish. But I do understand my

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01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 7: friend who's alerted to peanuts. We'll ask all the time, hey, like,

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01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 7: does this have peanuts? In it, and then routinely people

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Speaker 7: will try to poison him.

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Speaker 1: He had a peanut allergy.

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Speaker 3: Little reaction, peanut boy, I don't even believe you. Shut up,

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01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 3: peanut boy. You just ate peanuts.

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Speaker 2: And then he like swells up like a balloon and

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Speaker 2: they're like, oh no, peanut boy.

1305
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 5: Turn to get into a kids first and foremost shout

1306
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:52,520
Speaker 5: out to n Lady Biker.

1307
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 1: Would love. I'm gonna sue here here, here's here's here

1308
01:05:57,760 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 1: what I'll Here's what I'll say at when I could

1309
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 1: have my drink, I will do you have your suit

1310
01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:05,280
Speaker 1: with you? No, I took him at home. I'll change

1311
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:09,000
Speaker 1: into a on his birthday. Don't tell them that me

1312
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 1: and oh dude, John would love that. I'm wearing my suit.

1313
01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 5: Next Tuesday ten hour streams, Sam will put on his

1314
01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:17,200
Speaker 5: birthday suit.

1315
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,360
Speaker 2: That's not true, that's it's the suit he wears for

1316
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 2: his birthday.

1317
01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:28,080
Speaker 1: Is live live anyway. When she expressed.

1318
01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 4: This is so unhinged, you guys.

1319
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 1: Express fear about eating somewhere with her fish allergy, almost

1320
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 1: a whole year after she told me fish was okay.

1321
01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 1: At my wedding, she still forgot to tell the servers

1322
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:47,840
Speaker 1: that she needed the safe dish that I had specially

1323
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 1: made for her. So was my husband who realized and

1324
01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 1: stopped her before she started eating her standard plate.

1325
01:06:56,480 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 2: So shout out to that guy for saving her.

1326
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 1: Saving her sister. Look what you've done, Keon, Look what

1327
01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:06,439
Speaker 1: you've done?

1328
01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 4: Where is it? Where's it?

1329
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:18,480
Speaker 1: Where's it? Do you click? That? Gainful employment for several years?

1330
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 1: What's gainful employment mean? Is that not like having a

1331
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 1: job has been between gainful employment?

1332
01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:27,720
Speaker 3: Okay, so, which it could imply that she's been doing

1333
01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 3: illegal things which would not be very gainful, not very

1334
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:34,360
Speaker 3: gainfully employed.

1335
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:37,200
Speaker 1: Us. You're focusing on the gains, and that'll be full

1336
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 1: of gains if you're trying to be listed.

1337
01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:43,040
Speaker 3: Activity carnival workers count as not really gainful employment.

1338
01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 1: How dare you? I'm not Those carnival barkers work hard.

1339
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:50,360
Speaker 2: I think it's more like seasonal employment.

1340
01:07:50,440 --> 01:07:56,760
Speaker 1: Yeah. Look at these magical twins that have beards, but

1341
01:07:56,800 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 1: they're also ladies. They're just two people you glued together. Dude,

1342
01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 1: I see it. I see the glue right over there.

1343
01:08:07,040 --> 01:08:08,600
Speaker 3: I kind of would I think I would. I think

1344
01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:11,120
Speaker 3: I would like crush as a carnival barker.

1345
01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, you probably would. We should start a carnival. What

1346
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 1: would your think about? Okay, carnival time. Hey, hey, hey,

1347
01:08:17,640 --> 01:08:18,280
Speaker 1: get to the story.

1348
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, let's go.

1349
01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:25,599
Speaker 1: God. Since their law husband gainful employment for several years

1350
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:27,759
Speaker 1: and wasn't going to be able to afford a dress

1351
01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:32,080
Speaker 1: for the wedding, neither was her best friend. I bought

1352
01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: both of their dresses when I realized at the checkout

1353
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:38,360
Speaker 1: counter that neither had money and they were expecting me

1354
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:41,000
Speaker 1: to pay because I offered to go look at dresses

1355
01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:44,599
Speaker 1: with them. That's awkward. That's awkward. That's yeah. They couldn't

1356
01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:46,600
Speaker 1: afford to get their dresses altered, and I put my

1357
01:08:46,600 --> 01:08:49,719
Speaker 1: foot down on paying for that. At least uh Opie

1358
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 1: has a line that is not crossed. I sent links

1359
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:55,559
Speaker 1: for how to tape slash hands, so a m but

1360
01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:59,080
Speaker 1: they are very wary of di wying anything, and so

1361
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 1: they did nothing after trying the bond cistern law didn't

1362
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:05,679
Speaker 1: even fold or put hers on a hangar, just freaking

1363
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:07,720
Speaker 1: stuffed it at the bottom of the back beck. Yeah,

1364
01:09:07,960 --> 01:09:10,680
Speaker 1: just through it. It'll be there. It'll be there when

1365
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:13,240
Speaker 1: the wedding comes. It's not going anywhere. It's down there

1366
01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:15,639
Speaker 1: in the bottom of my bag. Wrinkles at a little

1367
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:19,160
Speaker 1: bit of zest to something. I love wrinkles. I love wrinkles.

1368
01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 1: It's texture. They showed up to the venue with their

1369
01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:28,439
Speaker 1: dresses extremely wrinkled. Nothing's wrong with it, a little bit

1370
01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:32,880
Speaker 1: of you know, we've already established that. Well, yeah, we're

1371
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:37,559
Speaker 1: both dates with mature women. They like some wrinkles, Yeah,

1372
01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 1: some wrinkles.

1373
01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:38,559
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1374
01:09:38,640 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 1: You know, what's the oldest date you've been on?

1375
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 5: Not for this stream, Come on, oldest woman, No, we

1376
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 5: need to focus on the story.

1377
01:09:45,560 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 1: To just tell me, tell me, I don't focus on

1378
01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 1: the story.

1379
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:50,960
Speaker 4: The oldest one I've got on a date with? Yeah,

1380
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:53,000
Speaker 4: I think it's like thirty something a week.

1381
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:57,559
Speaker 5: Oh, I'm so sorry. Someone in the chat want to

1382
01:09:57,560 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 5: go on a date with me? No, I'm just kidding.

1383
01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:02,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, nice one.

1384
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 3: For us to get back to the story, now, bro,

1385
01:10:07,320 --> 01:10:10,320
Speaker 3: put those numbers up poll how.

1386
01:10:10,200 --> 01:10:12,120
Speaker 2: Many people want to get to the stories?

1387
01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:12,320
Speaker 5: Right?

1388
01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 1: I did say I would get back to the story

1389
01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 1: and needed pinning just to be wearable. So as I'm

1390
01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:23,720
Speaker 1: rushing around with thirty minutes to spare in my very

1391
01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 1: full gown pinning Bucaneers, I think I'm saying that right

1392
01:10:29,200 --> 01:10:31,720
Speaker 1: and preparing to walk down the aisle. They pull me

1393
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:35,799
Speaker 1: into the bathroom to tell me they need help getting ready.

1394
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:40,720
Speaker 1: They yeah, right as you're about to go rock down

1395
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:44,120
Speaker 1: the aisle, Like, how'd you do that? Bride? It's like,

1396
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:48,519
Speaker 1: you guys are the worst dude. You go go away

1397
01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:51,280
Speaker 1: do something else. Is the worst timing I've ever seen.

1398
01:10:51,320 --> 01:10:53,639
Speaker 1: My oldest sister was there to step in and help,

1399
01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:59,000
Speaker 1: and I kindly told them I was busy. Also, Lord

1400
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:02,519
Speaker 1: mcphartzas saying, I'm like, it's only worth it if you

1401
01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:03,840
Speaker 1: have to put their teeth in.

1402
01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:06,960
Speaker 4: Also, I'm sorry, guys.

1403
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 5: It was just everyone is just like me, me, me, me, me.

1404
01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:17,240
Speaker 1: Also important, our wedding was very simple, no groomsmen, no bride'smaids.

1405
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:20,439
Speaker 1: My twin sister got a speech, my husband's brother got

1406
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:23,479
Speaker 1: a speech. We were open to request if someone felt strongly,

1407
01:11:24,080 --> 01:11:29,600
Speaker 1: but we weren't offering, and nobody asked quick, easy, in

1408
01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 1: and out, unlike Keon's date sounds with that thirty five

1409
01:11:34,280 --> 01:11:38,360
Speaker 1: year old, which was slow, hard and out in it.

1410
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:41,080
Speaker 5: Why are we bringing focus on the story right now?

1411
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:43,880
Speaker 5: We'll get to my dating life in a month.

1412
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:47,040
Speaker 1: So day of I should have been designated. Why my

1413
01:11:47,160 --> 01:11:49,519
Speaker 1: sister in law and her friend spent the whole night

1414
01:11:49,880 --> 01:11:53,040
Speaker 1: sitting at their table rather than dancing and mingling. When

1415
01:11:53,040 --> 01:11:55,559
Speaker 1: I was doing my post dinner hugs and rounds, I

1416
01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 1: stopt by their table multiple times for chats and photos

1417
01:11:59,800 --> 01:12:02,200
Speaker 1: and nothing seemed to miss at the time, So everyone

1418
01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:05,639
Speaker 1: thinks it's fine. About forty five minutes before the end,

1419
01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 1: our limo A hearse A hearse, Yeah, a hearse is

1420
01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:11,040
Speaker 1: a limo. That's kind of cool. How you get a

1421
01:12:11,120 --> 01:12:11,679
Speaker 1: hearse limo?

1422
01:12:12,439 --> 01:12:15,280
Speaker 3: These people are like, this is like a gothway, dude,

1423
01:12:15,280 --> 01:12:17,160
Speaker 3: I fuck with it.

1424
01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:19,960
Speaker 1: I would definitely go to a gothway. Arrived, so my

1425
01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:22,720
Speaker 1: husband step out to coordinate with the driver and photograph

1426
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:26,880
Speaker 1: and photographers about our sendoff happening. In thirtyish minutes, I

1427
01:12:26,960 --> 01:12:30,160
Speaker 1: was pulled out for photos and we came back in

1428
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:32,760
Speaker 1: to enjoy the last twenty minutes of dancing before our

1429
01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 1: private last dance. We learned from our DJ afterward that

1430
01:12:38,400 --> 01:12:41,000
Speaker 1: while we were gone, sister in law had gone to

1431
01:12:41,120 --> 01:12:44,680
Speaker 1: her and asked for a sister brother dance, but of

1432
01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 1: course we were both outside, so she couldn't make that

1433
01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:50,760
Speaker 1: happen with so little left, so little time left in

1434
01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:52,880
Speaker 1: the night, so they wanted like a they wanted a

1435
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:55,920
Speaker 1: like the sister brother dance before the end of the wedding,

1436
01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:58,320
Speaker 1: but there wasn't enough time. Is that even a thing?

1437
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:01,800
Speaker 3: It's not brother dance, it's not a thing. They're just

1438
01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:03,639
Speaker 3: I've never heard of that being a thing.

1439
01:13:05,360 --> 01:13:07,920
Speaker 2: We were really disappointed in your lack of sister brother dance.

1440
01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 4: It's a thing, is it.

1441
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 3: I've I've never heard of that big sister and the brother.

1442
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:16,320
Speaker 3: I've heard of her father, yeah, the father daughter dance.

1443
01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:17,400
Speaker 3: But there's also like I've never.

1444
01:13:17,240 --> 01:13:21,920
Speaker 1: Heard of, like, uh, the what the mother son dance.

1445
01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:24,400
Speaker 1: I've only heard of the father daughter Actually, yeah, you're right,

1446
01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:25,720
Speaker 1: I haven't heard it. I just wanted to.

1447
01:13:25,800 --> 01:13:27,960
Speaker 5: I literally just went to a daughter like recently and

1448
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:32,439
Speaker 5: they did a mother son dance and a daughter father dance.

1449
01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 3: Well, aren't you cool guy who gets to go to

1450
01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 3: all the weddings the time A lot? Yeah, very cool,

1451
01:13:39,280 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 3: A hot commodity, Yeah you are. I bet it'd be

1452
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:46,440
Speaker 3: nice to god.

1453
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:51,160
Speaker 1: None, I've only I've only been a family weddings I

1454
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:56,040
Speaker 1: haven't been to. Yeah, yeah, I don't even count those really.

1455
01:13:56,320 --> 01:13:57,600
Speaker 2: I think the last wedding I went to I was

1456
01:13:57,640 --> 01:13:58,519
Speaker 2: like thirteen, so I.

1457
01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 5: Can't count that brot I'm the life of the party. Yeah,

1458
01:14:02,360 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 5: so are you.

1459
01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 3: But well, when when the donners are out, do we

1460
01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:07,040
Speaker 3: tear up the dance flort?

1461
01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:10,719
Speaker 1: The dance floor is mine, dance floor is mind A little,

1462
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:15,080
Speaker 1: a little, a little play thing. You guys can keep it, okay?

1463
01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:16,400
Speaker 1: All right?

1464
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:17,240
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1465
01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 1: Sam? Yeah, all right? Continue.

1466
01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:29,479
Speaker 4: This is a terrible trio.

1467
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:32,600
Speaker 1: Who set this up? This is the this is the.

1468
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:35,800
Speaker 4: Literally just each other?

1469
01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:41,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have no I'm supposed to be the regulator.

1470
01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:48,439
Speaker 1: I'm like no birthday, Sam. We came back and con

1471
01:14:49,160 --> 01:14:53,959
Speaker 1: dancing sister pulled us off the dance floor, nearly in tears,

1472
01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 1: and asked for photos with her and her brother in tears,

1473
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:01,360
Speaker 1: pulled off the dance floor during the group dance thing.

1474
01:15:01,800 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 1: How dare they? The groom bride is nothing sacred? Obviously not,

1475
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:09,839
Speaker 1: since she was sitting down the whole night. The only

1476
01:15:09,960 --> 01:15:13,000
Speaker 1: photos she likely got were family portraits in a group

1477
01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:16,120
Speaker 1: setting or candids from when I was standing over them.

1478
01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:19,360
Speaker 1: My husband was extremely busy and wasn't mingling as much

1479
01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:21,760
Speaker 1: as I was. When my husband checked in with her

1480
01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:27,040
Speaker 1: and asked how she was feeling, she broke down, sad

1481
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:29,880
Speaker 1: and walked off without taking the photo She wanted. My

1482
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:32,679
Speaker 1: husband followed after her, and she spent the next fifteen

1483
01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:35,720
Speaker 1: minutes talk and spent the next fifteen minutes talking with

1484
01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:40,600
Speaker 1: her outside. Her friend came to me to explain her emotions.

1485
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 3: This is all so much like now he's talking to

1486
01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:47,960
Speaker 3: her outside and then her friend is talking to her

1487
01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:50,400
Speaker 3: inside to explain her emotions.

1488
01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:52,880
Speaker 1: It's like if, I, what are you doing if Sophia

1489
01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:53,800
Speaker 1: had a wedding, right?

1490
01:15:54,280 --> 01:15:58,880
Speaker 3: And I if when come on, come on, all right,

1491
01:15:59,040 --> 01:16:02,960
Speaker 3: when Sophia has a wedding, you're gonna have to rock

1492
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:03,880
Speaker 3: climb to get to it.

1493
01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:09,880
Speaker 1: Oh. Yeah, that's her whole personality. Now, she's great, she's

1494
01:16:09,920 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 1: great at rock coll she's crushing it. He's crushing Yeah,

1495
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 1: we'll do another rock.

1496
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 4: So your back is blown out?

1497
01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, dude, I don't. I would talk about my

1498
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:27,240
Speaker 1: blown out back like that. You've dated blown out your back.

1499
01:16:27,320 --> 01:16:32,599
Speaker 1: He's pasted a line. Anyway, if my sister had a wedding,

1500
01:16:33,000 --> 01:16:35,719
Speaker 1: When my sister has a wedding, there you go. I would.

1501
01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:37,200
Speaker 1: I would. And I was like if I and I

1502
01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:39,680
Speaker 1: felt like, you know, like you know, cast aside, I

1503
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:42,599
Speaker 1: wouldn't bring it up until after, you know, yeah, because

1504
01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:44,400
Speaker 1: it's not your wedding. It's not your wedding, and you

1505
01:16:44,400 --> 01:16:47,799
Speaker 1: shouldn't be like causing the bride and groom more stress.

1506
01:16:47,800 --> 01:16:51,519
Speaker 1: It's already stressful. So they'd apparently been talking all night

1507
01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:53,599
Speaker 1: about how she felt left out because I didn't include

1508
01:16:53,640 --> 01:16:55,920
Speaker 1: her in any planning for the wedding. I didn't make

1509
01:16:55,960 --> 01:16:58,320
Speaker 1: her a bridesmaid, she didn't get a speech, and she

1510
01:16:58,320 --> 01:17:02,599
Speaker 1: didn't get a dance with her little brother. I stood

1511
01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:06,640
Speaker 1: there blinking in disbelief as she told me this. She

1512
01:17:06,760 --> 01:17:09,479
Speaker 1: continued by apologizing and saying she is saying this from

1513
01:17:09,520 --> 01:17:13,080
Speaker 1: a place of love, and that sister in law just

1514
01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 1: feels very hurt. Right now, I finally found my spind

1515
01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 1: after all of this, let's go to say, Okay, I'm

1516
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:27,120
Speaker 1: going to go and enjoy the rest of my wedding.

1517
01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 3: Now nice, that's just like cool message received. I'm gonna

1518
01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:34,000
Speaker 3: enjoy the rest of my wedna.

1519
01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:36,639
Speaker 1: Go cool. Yeah, And I went back out to dance

1520
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:39,479
Speaker 1: with a small crowd of friends who were truly delighted

1521
01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:43,760
Speaker 1: to be there with me, with zero expectations or resentment,

1522
01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:47,720
Speaker 1: and I forgot about the drama immediately.

1523
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 6: Let's go, good friends, let's go, let's go.

1524
01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:55,400
Speaker 3: It's so fun to go, isn't it? And nothing ever

1525
01:17:55,439 --> 01:17:56,479
Speaker 3: goes wrong when you do that?

1526
01:17:56,800 --> 01:17:59,240
Speaker 1: Oh? Is that one? That's literally what I did last night.

1527
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:03,599
Speaker 2: I was prettyking out somebody.

1528
01:18:03,640 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 1: Firefly reference.

1529
01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 4: I wasn't aware of an look at Sam Won, he

1530
01:18:07,080 --> 01:18:07,280
Speaker 4: does it.

1531
01:18:07,400 --> 01:18:08,400
Speaker 1: He kind of looks like a titan.

1532
01:18:11,960 --> 01:18:17,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, dude again, whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa

1533
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:27,240
Speaker 6: whoa Keep those handy, keep those here's it? Yeah, alright,

1534
01:18:27,560 --> 01:18:31,240
Speaker 6: back to the story. Please, I have to deliberate to

1535
01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:34,439
Speaker 6: get here, which is really hard.

1536
01:18:37,520 --> 01:18:41,759
Speaker 3: The oldest, Yeah, you're you are the oldest, not now,

1537
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:43,360
Speaker 3: not anymore anymore.

1538
01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:50,920
Speaker 1: And I forgot about the drama immediately. My husband missed

1539
01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:54,559
Speaker 1: the rest of the dancing, but returned just in time

1540
01:18:54,840 --> 01:18:58,439
Speaker 1: for the private last dance. What was supposed to be

1541
01:18:58,479 --> 01:19:02,200
Speaker 1: a quiet few minutes of smile and kisses and cuddles

1542
01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:06,840
Speaker 1: was entirely spent with him frowning, intense, and lamenting the

1543
01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:10,200
Speaker 1: frustration of what happened. Oh come on, and if you're

1544
01:19:10,240 --> 01:19:13,880
Speaker 1: frustrated and don't want to be frustrated anymore, we can

1545
01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 1: join this live on YouTube every weekday, three pm PST.

1546
01:19:17,439 --> 01:19:18,960
Speaker 1: Just tap or profile all.

1547
01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:22,799
Speaker 2: Tastes one and just have your frustration melt away melted.

1548
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:27,080
Speaker 1: So there's another relevant update. But let's discuss what do

1549
01:19:27,120 --> 01:19:29,439
Speaker 1: you think? What do you think about all of this

1550
01:19:29,439 --> 01:19:31,160
Speaker 1: this praba except.

1551
01:19:30,840 --> 01:19:33,559
Speaker 3: The husband couldn't come back and just be like at

1552
01:19:33,640 --> 01:19:34,479
Speaker 3: neutral for that.

1553
01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:37,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like the husband was like, well.

1554
01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:39,479
Speaker 3: I mean we kind of like oh, like she it's like,

1555
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:41,840
Speaker 3: come on, just shut up.

1556
01:19:42,520 --> 01:19:45,639
Speaker 1: I feel like honestly, Opie's response of like I'm gonna

1557
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 1: go enjoy my wedding right now, like herd I'm going

1558
01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:50,080
Speaker 1: to enjoy my wedding right now is like probably the

1559
01:19:50,120 --> 01:19:53,360
Speaker 1: classiest thing that you could do, and also the thing

1560
01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:57,080
Speaker 1: that preserves the integrity of this wedding experience.

1561
01:19:57,120 --> 01:20:00,160
Speaker 2: Because it's your wedding. You want to enjoy it.

1562
01:20:00,360 --> 01:20:04,840
Speaker 3: You can't worry about like managing every single person who's

1563
01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:08,200
Speaker 3: there's feelings and like that, like emotions, like everyone's.

1564
01:20:07,840 --> 01:20:10,360
Speaker 1: Gonna be a little a little upset or whatever at

1565
01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:12,760
Speaker 1: a wedding with n F, it can't be perfect, can

1566
01:20:12,920 --> 01:20:13,439
Speaker 1: be perfect.

1567
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:15,640
Speaker 3: The fact that she also had to have a mediator

1568
01:20:15,760 --> 01:20:17,840
Speaker 3: to say that yeah, where was like her friend like

1569
01:20:17,920 --> 01:20:19,799
Speaker 3: walked up and was like this is how she's feeling,

1570
01:20:19,800 --> 01:20:21,200
Speaker 3: and it's coming from like this place.

1571
01:20:21,240 --> 01:20:25,040
Speaker 1: It's like, uh, how much she tells me that? Yeah?

1572
01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:27,760
Speaker 1: Like what say? Come on? But we got a little

1573
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:29,640
Speaker 1: bit more of the story. So when we got home

1574
01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:31,559
Speaker 1: at the end of the night, we reflected on everything

1575
01:20:31,720 --> 01:20:34,439
Speaker 1: and I asked for a redo. We put our song

1576
01:20:34,520 --> 01:20:37,679
Speaker 1: on and started dancing, and I broke down the memories

1577
01:20:37,680 --> 01:20:40,559
Speaker 1: of standing on the dance floor asking my husband to

1578
01:20:40,600 --> 01:20:43,880
Speaker 1: be present and forget about everything while he frowned and

1579
01:20:44,000 --> 01:20:47,240
Speaker 1: kept his eyes closed. That was all I could think

1580
01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:52,200
Speaker 1: about when I heard our song play, right, because the

1581
01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:54,360
Speaker 1: husband has been like taken out of this whole thing.

1582
01:20:55,200 --> 01:20:58,040
Speaker 3: Husband is not in it because he's dealing with this

1583
01:20:58,280 --> 01:20:59,599
Speaker 3: dumb drama from his.

1584
01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:03,920
Speaker 1: I know it won't be like that forever, but it sucks.

1585
01:21:04,280 --> 01:21:06,760
Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for any decisions I made. I

1586
01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:08,920
Speaker 1: did more for my sister in law than I did

1587
01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:11,400
Speaker 1: for any of my other siblings except for my twin,

1588
01:21:11,760 --> 01:21:17,639
Speaker 1: who was active and present and reliable and drama free.

1589
01:21:18,120 --> 01:21:19,960
Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for not including my sister in

1590
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:22,879
Speaker 1: a law and planning. My partner and I chose vendors

1591
01:21:23,000 --> 01:21:26,439
Speaker 1: we loved, designed what we wanted, and got the wedding

1592
01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:29,840
Speaker 1: we dreamed of. I could write a book of grievances.

1593
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:33,160
Speaker 1: I wonder if I should let things be or finally

1594
01:21:33,200 --> 01:21:35,920
Speaker 1: speak my truth to her, And that is where that

1595
01:21:36,080 --> 01:21:37,679
Speaker 1: story ends.

1596
01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:41,600
Speaker 3: Well, I think at the end of the day, you

1597
01:21:41,640 --> 01:21:43,599
Speaker 3: got what you wanted. You got the wedding right. But

1598
01:21:43,680 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 3: everything kind of worked out a little bit, except with.

1599
01:21:46,120 --> 01:21:48,879
Speaker 1: A couple of the dance the dance with their husband

1600
01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:53,800
Speaker 1: got ruined because of the husband's sister. Yeah, like like

1601
01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:56,960
Speaker 1: and they tried to recreate the the they try to

1602
01:21:57,000 --> 01:22:00,839
Speaker 1: recreate the dance and like, and all she could remember

1603
01:22:01,040 --> 01:22:03,479
Speaker 1: was her husband's frowning face. And it's like, this says,

1604
01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:06,960
Speaker 1: you're all kind of ruined. One of the best parts

1605
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:10,080
Speaker 1: of the the wedding. Yeah, Allie Jordan is true. That

1606
01:22:10,160 --> 01:22:13,519
Speaker 1: is devastating. Dancing with my husband an our wedding day

1607
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:16,640
Speaker 1: is one of my most cherished memories.

1608
01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:22,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's most cherished. Okay, ye see, I'm.

1609
01:22:22,080 --> 01:22:26,200
Speaker 3: Familiar with the weddings always, but that does actually sound

1610
01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:28,200
Speaker 3: like pretty much the core memory.

1611
01:22:27,880 --> 01:22:30,600
Speaker 1: Of that's the core memory. What I'm like, like the

1612
01:22:30,880 --> 01:22:32,920
Speaker 1: rest of the stuff is like, oh, do you take

1613
01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:37,720
Speaker 1: this person to be your lawfully wedded wife? Who caress, Like, yeah,

1614
01:22:37,720 --> 01:22:44,120
Speaker 1: that's why I can beat this up for you. Asking

1615
01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:48,759
Speaker 1: me what I like this guy? Yeah, I guess done

1616
01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:51,920
Speaker 1: why I'm getting married to him, but I dance.

1617
01:22:53,040 --> 01:22:57,800
Speaker 3: I would say this, I would say, if you know,

1618
01:22:57,840 --> 01:22:59,960
Speaker 3: whether or not you bring this up to the sister

1619
01:23:00,160 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 3: in law really just depends on what kind of relationship

1620
01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:03,720
Speaker 3: you want to have with her.

1621
01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:05,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you want to, Like I feel like, if

1622
01:23:05,680 --> 01:23:07,040
Speaker 1: you don't bring this up there, it might be like

1623
01:23:07,080 --> 01:23:08,760
Speaker 1: a grudge that forms, you know.

1624
01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's like, if you don't really want to

1625
01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:15,040
Speaker 3: maintain a close relationship with someone like that, then you know,

1626
01:23:15,240 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 3: feel free not to. But if you if you want

1627
01:23:17,479 --> 01:23:21,240
Speaker 3: to kind of, you know, have the mesh of the

1628
01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:24,400
Speaker 3: family a little tighter, then you should bring it up

1629
01:23:24,439 --> 01:23:26,760
Speaker 3: to her and be like, that made me feel like this,

1630
01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:29,240
Speaker 3: Remember how you felt like that? You feeling like that

1631
01:23:29,400 --> 01:23:34,680
Speaker 3: made me feel like this? Now you respond like tata, yeah,

1632
01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 3: and make it clear like you also were super involved

1633
01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:40,559
Speaker 3: in that. What like I went out of my way

1634
01:23:40,680 --> 01:23:44,840
Speaker 3: to try to get you and not even related to me,

1635
01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:48,320
Speaker 3: like I tried, and it seems like you actually didn't

1636
01:23:48,320 --> 01:23:51,719
Speaker 3: appreciate any of it at all. Yeah, dude, So titled

1637
01:23:51,760 --> 01:23:54,719
Speaker 3: people and titled people. But that's where that story ends.

1638
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:57,439
Speaker 3: That is where that story ends, but we got another

1639
01:23:57,479 --> 01:24:00,400
Speaker 3: story for Yeah, that's any don't know before.

1640
01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:03,400
Speaker 4: It's gonna be a new Mega by the.

1641
01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:05,000
Speaker 1: Way, Mega, Yeah, which one is?

1642
01:24:06,640 --> 01:24:07,200
Speaker 4: We got it.

1643
01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:14,160
Speaker 1: But if you need help, it's okay. My friends tried

1644
01:24:14,160 --> 01:24:18,800
Speaker 1: to destroy all right, my mind went a wall two

1645
01:24:18,840 --> 01:24:22,280
Speaker 1: thousand and six says I don't worry to Coda. I

1646
01:24:22,360 --> 01:24:27,000
Speaker 1: win Serenity, Firefight, Trivia Nights, all by myself, All brown

1647
01:24:27,160 --> 01:24:32,800
Speaker 1: Coats forever, Hail to the Elders. That one show that

1648
01:24:32,920 --> 01:24:36,280
Speaker 1: had like a season and everyone loves and it got canceled.

1649
01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:42,200
Speaker 2: Nathan Fillion naka billion freaking Alan Tuttick.

1650
01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:44,559
Speaker 1: Is it it's really good? It's really good.

1651
01:24:44,760 --> 01:24:46,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, especially for like what two thousand and two,

1652
01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:51,200
Speaker 3: two thousand was like Lost was in that Lost was.

1653
01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:52,040
Speaker 1: What came out after that.

1654
01:24:52,520 --> 01:24:55,040
Speaker 3: So it was actually so expensive that they didn't want

1655
01:24:55,040 --> 01:24:57,960
Speaker 3: to make it, and then it was lost. Lost was

1656
01:24:57,960 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 3: like the blueprint that then proved the studios. Okay, so

1657
01:25:01,120 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 3: this can work. But the massive, the massive price tag

1658
01:25:06,360 --> 01:25:09,559
Speaker 3: that Firefly had on it really made Fox like they

1659
01:25:09,560 --> 01:25:11,320
Speaker 3: were trying to tank it. They were trying to kill

1660
01:25:11,320 --> 01:25:13,400
Speaker 3: the show so that they wouldn't have to keep paying

1661
01:25:13,439 --> 01:25:15,240
Speaker 3: for it because they thought it was just gonna flop

1662
01:25:15,280 --> 01:25:18,760
Speaker 3: and cost them a bunch of money, and instead it

1663
01:25:18,880 --> 01:25:21,320
Speaker 3: was like one of the best shows ever. But because

1664
01:25:21,320 --> 01:25:23,280
Speaker 3: of the way they released it, it did end up

1665
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:26,200
Speaker 3: not having that much viewership. But now it has like

1666
01:25:26,240 --> 01:25:29,160
Speaker 3: a cold fall, well exactly because people picked up on it, like.

1667
01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:33,479
Speaker 1: Says I think Sam's microphone is not working. Amazing, can

1668
01:25:33,520 --> 01:25:42,519
Speaker 1: you check Helloallo la Loo, don't know Heidians with the

1669
01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:45,439
Speaker 1: five bucks, Sam, we want to see your suits. We'll

1670
01:25:45,439 --> 01:25:47,879
Speaker 1: come out of seven the regular suit.

1671
01:25:47,680 --> 01:25:50,120
Speaker 3: The regular suit. Will you wear a suit on Tuesday? Well,

1672
01:25:50,280 --> 01:25:52,480
Speaker 3: you won't be here. I won't be here.

1673
01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:53,800
Speaker 2: You wear a suit in New York?

1674
01:25:53,920 --> 01:25:54,519
Speaker 4: They suit?

1675
01:25:54,640 --> 01:25:56,040
Speaker 1: I won't get it. I'm not going to New York.

1676
01:25:56,400 --> 01:25:57,960
Speaker 2: Oh can you wear a suit on the moon?

1677
01:25:59,520 --> 01:26:00,240
Speaker 4: Jamie so fine?

1678
01:26:01,000 --> 01:26:03,439
Speaker 1: Uh mana miller thanks to the twenty bucks. It's after

1679
01:26:03,479 --> 01:26:06,360
Speaker 1: seven pm here on the East Coast. We're talking about

1680
01:26:06,360 --> 01:26:09,880
Speaker 1: seven pm BSD do we Is that a difference.

1681
01:26:09,720 --> 01:26:12,479
Speaker 2: That ten pm East Coast.

1682
01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm actually going on a meditation retreat. You guys did

1683
01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:20,559
Speaker 1: skylight Skylight sixteen thirty four things with ten bucks. Hoping

1684
01:26:20,800 --> 01:26:23,840
Speaker 1: this makes this go further. Just got off work making

1685
01:26:23,880 --> 01:26:27,800
Speaker 1: my dad a football pillow for Christmas. Nice, Still surprise

1686
01:26:28,360 --> 01:26:31,680
Speaker 1: that I can be here, though. Don't forget water. You

1687
01:26:31,720 --> 01:26:36,479
Speaker 1: know what has water? It's always a beod suggestion forget water.

1688
01:26:37,760 --> 01:26:40,479
Speaker 1: And beer does beers mostly water. Here's mostly water. You

1689
01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:42,439
Speaker 1: guys know that, And I need to pay full fact

1690
01:26:42,439 --> 01:26:45,880
Speaker 1: out there. Beer's you know they drank by or in

1691
01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:48,679
Speaker 1: Old English time? You know you know this fact.

1692
01:26:48,920 --> 01:26:52,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've read the world in six classes. No way,

1693
01:26:52,280 --> 01:26:54,559
Speaker 3: you don't know that. I've read all. Tell me the

1694
01:26:54,640 --> 01:26:55,200
Speaker 3: beer fact.

1695
01:26:55,479 --> 01:26:59,599
Speaker 1: Beer fact. Yeah, yeah about all the Old English it's.

1696
01:26:59,439 --> 01:27:01,080
Speaker 4: Made out of don't worry about it.

1697
01:27:01,520 --> 01:27:02,400
Speaker 1: It's made out of water.

1698
01:27:02,720 --> 01:27:05,200
Speaker 3: No, no, no, like in old like Old England, it was

1699
01:27:05,280 --> 01:27:08,840
Speaker 3: so dangerous to drink regular water because there was all

1700
01:27:08,920 --> 01:27:10,320
Speaker 3: like oh Coleran stuff.

1701
01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:14,839
Speaker 1: And also and so they drank water down beer instead

1702
01:27:15,160 --> 01:27:17,439
Speaker 1: because it was safer. That's where they invented it in

1703
01:27:18,439 --> 01:27:18,960
Speaker 1: like Babbel.

1704
01:27:19,080 --> 01:27:20,640
Speaker 4: This is making me real thirsty.

1705
01:27:21,280 --> 01:27:23,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I am getting third and you're used to

1706
01:27:23,080 --> 01:27:25,880
Speaker 3: and it used to just be like alcohol and that

1707
01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:27,120
Speaker 3: was enough to make.

1708
01:27:26,960 --> 01:27:29,840
Speaker 1: It okay to drink. Yeah, let's get let's growth, but

1709
01:27:30,040 --> 01:27:33,400
Speaker 1: MJ grow thanks for the two dollars. Keon trying to

1710
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:39,280
Speaker 1: get gumped. Get that gemug gum.

1711
01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:46,080
Speaker 4: You know there's a first everything, quit it, josephine.

1712
01:27:45,880 --> 01:27:49,600
Speaker 1: U jose Burquaz, thanks for the sixty five Swedish grown er,

1713
01:27:50,160 --> 01:27:52,680
Speaker 1: going to be serious for amone moment. If any of

1714
01:27:52,720 --> 01:27:55,439
Speaker 1: you feel like I'm going too far by flirting and thirsty,

1715
01:27:55,600 --> 01:27:58,080
Speaker 1: tell me you never want to make any of you uncomfortable.

1716
01:27:58,400 --> 01:27:59,639
Speaker 1: You're not going far enough.

1717
01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:01,080
Speaker 5: That.

1718
01:28:01,439 --> 01:28:04,840
Speaker 3: Joseph, you need to reach deeper into the bag and

1719
01:28:05,040 --> 01:28:06,840
Speaker 3: make Keon uncomfortable.

1720
01:28:06,280 --> 01:28:08,800
Speaker 4: Privately, DM Dakota those mess you need to.

1721
01:28:08,960 --> 01:28:11,479
Speaker 2: You need to because Keon has not being uncomfortable yet

1722
01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:12,120
Speaker 2: at all.

1723
01:28:12,240 --> 01:28:15,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to. I want to see him uncomfortable.

1724
01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:17,960
Speaker 4: It's very hard to make me uncomfortable. Keep going, keep.

1725
01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:21,800
Speaker 1: Amber Loggins, thanks for the five bucks and being a

1726
01:28:21,840 --> 01:28:24,879
Speaker 1: little stick member. Shout out to you. I now identify

1727
01:28:24,920 --> 01:28:27,960
Speaker 1: as being seventy six. Ke On, you hear that you're

1728
01:28:27,960 --> 01:28:29,280
Speaker 1: trying to trying to get in there. You have a

1729
01:28:29,520 --> 01:28:32,800
Speaker 1: you have a gummer. You get a gummer, You got

1730
01:28:32,800 --> 01:28:39,320
Speaker 1: a gummer. Josie Duell to work quiz. Thanks for the

1731
01:28:39,320 --> 01:28:43,400
Speaker 1: twenty seven sweet There's coroner. By the way, Kean, tell

1732
01:28:43,439 --> 01:28:44,719
Speaker 1: me if my floating ever goes too.

1733
01:28:44,560 --> 01:28:47,599
Speaker 4: Far, I will, but I won't.

1734
01:28:47,800 --> 01:28:50,360
Speaker 1: You it w won't. It won't until I go too far,

1735
01:28:50,400 --> 01:28:53,280
Speaker 1: and then ugly all Bat says, I am ninety eight,

1736
01:28:53,560 --> 01:28:56,600
Speaker 1: but I like older men. Sorry, Kean, thanks for the

1737
01:28:56,640 --> 01:29:02,280
Speaker 1: five bucks. Wait what, thank you your too, little boy

1738
01:29:02,560 --> 01:29:05,519
Speaker 1: from the Good News for you, Ugly old Bat, John's

1739
01:29:05,520 --> 01:29:08,920
Speaker 1: two hundred and one. That's true, that's true. But unfortunately

1740
01:29:09,000 --> 01:29:10,440
Speaker 1: he isn't a committed relationship.

1741
01:29:11,439 --> 01:29:13,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you can still like him, you can still

1742
01:29:13,840 --> 01:29:14,200
Speaker 2: like them.

1743
01:29:14,479 --> 01:29:17,240
Speaker 1: You can still thrust from afar a.

1744
01:29:18,320 --> 01:29:21,160
Speaker 3: Yes, that's what they say, isn't it they do they do,

1745
01:29:21,280 --> 01:29:22,120
Speaker 3: that's what they say.

1746
01:29:22,439 --> 01:29:28,479
Speaker 1: Distance makes the herrst the heart thrust fonder fonder. Yeah, yeah, hard,

1747
01:29:28,520 --> 01:29:28,960
Speaker 1: go harder.

1748
01:29:29,080 --> 01:29:31,200
Speaker 4: Thus reading this next one?

1749
01:29:31,800 --> 01:29:35,000
Speaker 2: God, I am am I doing that?

1750
01:29:35,240 --> 01:29:36,080
Speaker 4: Did you get the episode?

1751
01:29:36,120 --> 01:29:38,439
Speaker 1: I read the thing? Did you?

1752
01:29:38,479 --> 01:29:39,320
Speaker 4: Did you get the episode?

1753
01:29:39,560 --> 01:29:43,080
Speaker 1: It my friends tried to destroy Yeah?

1754
01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:46,600
Speaker 4: Yep, uh, you are good to go.

1755
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:50,120
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go. Boy boy.

1756
01:29:50,400 --> 01:29:54,920
Speaker 3: My friends tried to destroy my girlfriend's image, so I

1757
01:29:55,160 --> 01:29:57,320
Speaker 3: chose her over them.

1758
01:29:57,880 --> 01:30:01,560
Speaker 1: No one disrespects the image of my girlfriend. I don't know.

1759
01:30:01,640 --> 01:30:03,920
Speaker 1: He's what does that mean? Like he's like slipping the code?

1760
01:30:04,120 --> 01:30:06,760
Speaker 1: Is he like drawing a mustache on a picture or

1761
01:30:06,840 --> 01:30:09,120
Speaker 1: is it like like the image of the newspapers on

1762
01:30:09,160 --> 01:30:10,160
Speaker 1: the tabloids. I don't know.

1763
01:30:10,240 --> 01:30:13,559
Speaker 3: I think it might be a whole systematic destruction of

1764
01:30:13,600 --> 01:30:17,599
Speaker 3: her public image, but let's find out. I asked an

1765
01:30:17,640 --> 01:30:20,240
Speaker 3: admin if I can post this one up again, Thank you, admin,

1766
01:30:20,320 --> 01:30:22,200
Speaker 3: as many didn't get around to reading it and my

1767
01:30:22,200 --> 01:30:23,560
Speaker 3: messages kept asking.

1768
01:30:23,280 --> 01:30:24,840
Speaker 2: About the situation. So here you go.

1769
01:30:25,280 --> 01:30:27,320
Speaker 3: This is a tough one and it's quite long, but

1770
01:30:27,520 --> 01:30:29,320
Speaker 3: i want to let all my feelings out and I'm

1771
01:30:29,360 --> 01:30:32,160
Speaker 3: quite comfortable in this subreddit. This post may anger some

1772
01:30:32,240 --> 01:30:33,880
Speaker 3: and some people may think I'm right or wrong, but

1773
01:30:33,960 --> 01:30:34,519
Speaker 3: that's okay.

1774
01:30:34,680 --> 01:30:36,120
Speaker 1: I'll really appreciate your honesty.

1775
01:30:36,720 --> 01:30:39,200
Speaker 3: I twenty two, have been with my girlfriend, who's also

1776
01:30:39,240 --> 01:30:41,439
Speaker 3: twenty two, for four years now, and it's been the

1777
01:30:41,439 --> 01:30:43,160
Speaker 3: greatest four years of my life. So they got together

1778
01:30:43,200 --> 01:30:47,679
Speaker 3: at eighteen. Wow, putting that out there. She's the sweetest

1779
01:30:47,680 --> 01:30:52,280
Speaker 3: person I've ever met. She's hilarious, insanely creative, she's an artist,

1780
01:30:52,720 --> 01:30:57,280
Speaker 3: goofy and just happens, and she's just the happiest girl

1781
01:30:57,280 --> 01:31:00,600
Speaker 3: you'll ever meet. She's always smiling and very out so

1782
01:31:00,760 --> 01:31:03,519
Speaker 3: she's energized, and I'll admit it's sometimes hard to catch

1783
01:31:03,600 --> 01:31:04,760
Speaker 3: up with all of her adventures.

1784
01:31:04,840 --> 01:31:07,880
Speaker 2: But wow, it's been so amazing being with her.

1785
01:31:08,680 --> 01:31:11,400
Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from user the Throwaway Buddy

1786
01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:13,160
Speaker 3: on the r slash Okay storytime starbout it?

1787
01:31:13,200 --> 01:31:16,240
Speaker 1: So, but did you have something to happen? So this

1788
01:31:16,360 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 1: just seems cute.

1789
01:31:17,360 --> 01:31:23,679
Speaker 8: Yeah, like my girlfriends nice I've been with four years

1790
01:31:23,800 --> 01:31:30,160
Speaker 8: as she'sual really cool about my first friend too, Yeah, I.

1791
01:31:30,080 --> 01:31:31,880
Speaker 1: Think there's nothing that could go wrong.

1792
01:31:32,160 --> 01:31:34,720
Speaker 4: I think we all said this about her first girlfriend.

1793
01:31:35,800 --> 01:31:39,080
Speaker 1: Okay, be wide eyed and bushy tailed about love again.

1794
01:31:40,479 --> 01:31:43,280
Speaker 4: Where I'm not like deceitful about it and.

1795
01:31:43,439 --> 01:31:46,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah it's okay.

1796
01:31:46,080 --> 01:31:47,800
Speaker 4: It's okay. Sam, Well, well it's okay.

1797
01:31:48,280 --> 01:31:51,559
Speaker 3: Was great to go to wait to go to Ali George,

1798
01:31:51,640 --> 01:31:54,320
Speaker 3: being like we were seventeen and nineteen almost nine years now.

1799
01:31:54,479 --> 01:31:57,480
Speaker 1: Dang wow wowsers.

1800
01:31:57,680 --> 01:32:06,400
Speaker 3: All right, So, so to get into the story, So

1801
01:32:06,439 --> 01:32:08,880
Speaker 3: my friends introduced me to her the summer we all

1802
01:32:08,920 --> 01:32:12,320
Speaker 3: graduated high school and we immediately bonded. Oh so it's

1803
01:32:12,360 --> 01:32:14,080
Speaker 3: post high school. I would have assumed they met in

1804
01:32:14,160 --> 01:32:17,960
Speaker 3: high school. We're both into comics, anime, Marvel and DC

1805
01:32:18,240 --> 01:32:20,800
Speaker 3: Dungeons and Dragons. We've had so much in common. We

1806
01:32:20,880 --> 01:32:22,200
Speaker 3: just became super close very quickly.

1807
01:32:22,240 --> 01:32:23,040
Speaker 4: Sounds like you're dating me.

1808
01:32:23,120 --> 01:32:25,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, two little nerds in their nerdy little pods, little

1809
01:32:26,080 --> 01:32:29,519
Speaker 3: nerd pod. Yeah, we could all date this person. Yeah,

1810
01:32:30,040 --> 01:32:34,360
Speaker 3: all big dorks. He played Dungeon and Dragons. Yeah, of

1811
01:32:34,439 --> 01:32:35,840
Speaker 3: course I haven't played yet.

1812
01:32:35,840 --> 01:32:40,800
Speaker 1: Oh you will. You would want to? Yeah, I thought

1813
01:32:40,840 --> 01:32:42,759
Speaker 1: we should do that. We should do that an okay,

1814
01:32:43,320 --> 01:32:47,640
Speaker 1: okay and Dragon time. They want us to do it.

1815
01:32:47,680 --> 01:32:48,280
Speaker 1: They would love that.

1816
01:32:48,320 --> 01:32:51,439
Speaker 4: So that you don't want that with me?

1817
01:32:51,760 --> 01:32:53,639
Speaker 1: You I do? You don't want.

1818
01:32:53,520 --> 01:32:55,600
Speaker 5: Dakota Okay, yeah you do? Sorry, Yeah you do, You

1819
01:32:55,640 --> 01:32:58,560
Speaker 5: definitely do. We're fun anyway.

1820
01:32:59,080 --> 01:33:02,599
Speaker 3: So these two nerds had everything in common, so love

1821
01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:04,880
Speaker 3: I hate it, which, by the way, I love that.

1822
01:33:05,600 --> 01:33:05,720
Speaker 5: Uh.

1823
01:33:05,960 --> 01:33:08,040
Speaker 3: The fact that we had so much in common made

1824
01:33:08,080 --> 01:33:10,880
Speaker 3: it easy for us to spend time together, going to conventions,

1825
01:33:10,920 --> 01:33:15,519
Speaker 3: anime events, game tournaments, superhero films. This is all, of course,

1826
01:33:15,720 --> 01:33:18,040
Speaker 3: led us to officially becoming a couple, and the rest

1827
01:33:18,120 --> 01:33:20,479
Speaker 3: is history. I love how that's written like someone that

1828
01:33:20,680 --> 01:33:23,120
Speaker 3: just found out what a relationship is.

1829
01:33:23,640 --> 01:33:25,799
Speaker 1: And I got like, so we had we're done.

1830
01:33:26,120 --> 01:33:28,360
Speaker 3: So we just spent all this time together and started

1831
01:33:28,439 --> 01:33:30,280
Speaker 3: dating and it's crazy.

1832
01:33:30,000 --> 01:33:33,160
Speaker 1: And that will date forever and ever. Yeah, okay, my

1833
01:33:33,320 --> 01:33:34,680
Speaker 1: parents also.

1834
01:33:34,400 --> 01:33:36,479
Speaker 3: Are in love with her, which is honestly the cherry

1835
01:33:36,479 --> 01:33:39,160
Speaker 3: on top. It's nice to see my parents be so

1836
01:33:39,360 --> 01:33:42,600
Speaker 3: welcoming towards my girlfriend, although they've gotten a little protective

1837
01:33:42,640 --> 01:33:46,240
Speaker 3: towards her, like parentsl.

1838
01:33:45,280 --> 01:33:47,439
Speaker 1: What's wrong, Tell me what's wrong.

1839
01:33:47,720 --> 01:33:49,280
Speaker 2: There's gotta be something on here.

1840
01:33:49,640 --> 01:33:53,000
Speaker 1: This is too perfect, this is too perfect. There will

1841
01:33:53,000 --> 01:33:54,160
Speaker 1: be bismirchment here.

1842
01:33:54,360 --> 01:34:01,559
Speaker 3: I want smiling, honestly, and I think that he's going

1843
01:34:01,600 --> 01:34:03,200
Speaker 3: to be in the right for picking the side of

1844
01:34:03,240 --> 01:34:03,559
Speaker 3: the girl.

1845
01:34:03,840 --> 01:34:04,599
Speaker 1: That's what I think.

1846
01:34:04,920 --> 01:34:07,519
Speaker 5: They're just jealous. That's that's like, that's my conspiracy theory.

1847
01:34:07,960 --> 01:34:08,720
Speaker 1: Too jealous.

1848
01:34:09,960 --> 01:34:13,960
Speaker 2: What I plan to propose to my girlfriend later this year.

1849
01:34:14,560 --> 01:34:16,000
Speaker 1: Wow. Uh.

1850
01:34:16,640 --> 01:34:19,439
Speaker 3: We always joke about getting married and having a weird,

1851
01:34:19,439 --> 01:34:22,639
Speaker 3: geeky little wedding and starting a family, and I really

1852
01:34:22,680 --> 01:34:25,200
Speaker 3: want that so much, so proposing to her is my

1853
01:34:25,320 --> 01:34:29,559
Speaker 3: main goal for twenty twenty two. Fingers crossed, she says, yes,

1854
01:34:29,680 --> 01:34:31,200
Speaker 3: I really hope this is.

1855
01:34:31,120 --> 01:34:34,920
Speaker 1: A little old h Maybe they're already.

1856
01:34:34,920 --> 01:34:35,880
Speaker 4: Into this marriage.

1857
01:34:35,960 --> 01:34:40,479
Speaker 3: Ezekiel says, this is redd it, damn it. Where's the drava? Also,

1858
01:34:40,720 --> 01:34:42,360
Speaker 3: it's coming, shoutout.

1859
01:34:42,040 --> 01:34:45,519
Speaker 1: Ezekiel twenty three, nineteen through twenty for the littist Bible

1860
01:34:45,640 --> 01:34:48,439
Speaker 1: Verse of all times? Do you guys know it? What

1861
01:34:48,520 --> 01:34:54,639
Speaker 1: is that? Ezekiel? We will read your verse little soon.

1862
01:34:54,800 --> 01:35:00,320
Speaker 1: It's fucking old. Okay, now.

1863
01:35:01,720 --> 01:35:04,639
Speaker 2: This is where my friends come in. Here comes the drama.

1864
01:35:05,640 --> 01:35:07,920
Speaker 3: I have three close friends of mine, friends that I

1865
01:35:07,920 --> 01:35:10,800
Speaker 3: grew up with since elementary school. We all split up

1866
01:35:10,840 --> 01:35:13,080
Speaker 3: a few months after high school. They left to another

1867
01:35:13,080 --> 01:35:15,080
Speaker 3: city for college. So right now we all just either

1868
01:35:15,120 --> 01:35:17,360
Speaker 3: talk through zoom chat or I go and visit them

1869
01:35:17,360 --> 01:35:20,840
Speaker 3: once a while. I decided to stay in the city

1870
01:35:20,840 --> 01:35:22,840
Speaker 3: that I'm in to be close to my family and

1871
01:35:22,840 --> 01:35:23,520
Speaker 3: my girlfriend.

1872
01:35:23,960 --> 01:35:28,639
Speaker 2: Nerd Well, no, that's very cute.

1873
01:35:28,680 --> 01:35:31,120
Speaker 3: I just had to say that because it was here's

1874
01:35:31,160 --> 01:35:33,400
Speaker 3: a joke, and I had to say because my brain

1875
01:35:33,520 --> 01:35:34,400
Speaker 3: is spoiled.

1876
01:35:34,920 --> 01:35:37,000
Speaker 5: I mean, we're all we're all really nerdy here so far.

1877
01:35:37,200 --> 01:35:39,920
Speaker 5: I mean not Sam's look at Sam your two hands, dude.

1878
01:35:39,960 --> 01:35:41,599
Speaker 1: I just started watching Star Wars.

1879
01:35:41,760 --> 01:35:44,519
Speaker 6: I'll have you do, you said, And I just started

1880
01:35:44,560 --> 01:35:46,559
Speaker 6: watching Star Wars Tattoo.

1881
01:35:46,720 --> 01:35:51,480
Speaker 1: I'm on episode five. Okay, dude, low key great movies.

1882
01:35:51,320 --> 01:35:54,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, great, low key, this man, this man, this man.

1883
01:35:55,479 --> 01:36:01,360
Speaker 3: Continue that's being like, yo, low he water is wet.

1884
01:36:01,479 --> 01:36:04,519
Speaker 4: I have two Star Wars tatoos. Actually, come on, dude.

1885
01:36:04,520 --> 01:36:08,240
Speaker 1: I also like, Uh, this might be a controversial opinion,

1886
01:36:08,560 --> 01:36:12,120
Speaker 1: but I think episode I'm starting five are better than one, two,

1887
01:36:12,160 --> 01:36:12,519
Speaker 1: and three.

1888
01:36:13,360 --> 01:36:15,439
Speaker 5: That's not controversial, it's just norm Wow. The fact that

1889
01:36:15,439 --> 01:36:18,559
Speaker 5: you're saying this with like your sopears like one, two,

1890
01:36:18,640 --> 01:36:21,000
Speaker 5: and three because they're bad except for three. Three is two,

1891
01:36:21,000 --> 01:36:24,000
Speaker 5: three is three is deck. Yeah, but we like it

1892
01:36:24,000 --> 01:36:24,599
Speaker 5: because it's bad.

1893
01:36:24,640 --> 01:36:28,400
Speaker 3: Anyway, this nerd is staying in his family to be

1894
01:36:28,439 --> 01:36:30,400
Speaker 3: close to it, staying in his city to be close

1895
01:36:30,439 --> 01:36:32,920
Speaker 3: to his family and his girlfriend. Well, I told my

1896
01:36:32,960 --> 01:36:35,559
Speaker 3: friends that I planned to propose to my girlfriend and

1897
01:36:35,560 --> 01:36:38,280
Speaker 3: that I believe I'm one hundred ready to start a

1898
01:36:38,320 --> 01:36:40,760
Speaker 3: family with her, and how excited I am to see

1899
01:36:40,760 --> 01:36:43,600
Speaker 3: how it goes. They just kept asking me if it

1900
01:36:43,680 --> 01:36:46,280
Speaker 3: was serious, and they even called me a dumbass.

1901
01:36:46,640 --> 01:36:49,599
Speaker 1: Well, I guess you watch your language. It's because he's young.

1902
01:36:49,680 --> 01:36:52,000
Speaker 2: I heard this man say things.

1903
01:36:51,640 --> 01:36:54,360
Speaker 1: He's watch deck.

1904
01:36:56,080 --> 01:36:58,600
Speaker 3: They kept asking if it was serious, even calling me

1905
01:36:59,600 --> 01:37:01,120
Speaker 3: a little dummy boy.

1906
01:37:02,920 --> 01:37:09,080
Speaker 1: No, this is so bad. Oh, thank you, Hannah. We're

1907
01:37:09,080 --> 01:37:13,320
Speaker 1: gonna read that the story story now, Okay, okay, I'm read.

1908
01:37:13,400 --> 01:37:15,400
Speaker 1: There's a lot in this story. I actually need to

1909
01:37:15,400 --> 01:37:17,880
Speaker 1: stay on it. I need to stay on it. I'm

1910
01:37:17,880 --> 01:37:18,679
Speaker 1: the story nerd.

1911
01:37:18,720 --> 01:37:22,000
Speaker 3: Now, Okay, they really were going at it with me

1912
01:37:22,120 --> 01:37:23,000
Speaker 3: quite roughly.

1913
01:37:23,360 --> 01:37:29,160
Speaker 1: Oh, I just figured they hated the idea of marriage.

1914
01:37:29,200 --> 01:37:29,719
Speaker 1: Keep reading.

1915
01:37:29,960 --> 01:37:34,400
Speaker 3: I just figured that they hated the idea of marriage.

1916
01:37:34,439 --> 01:37:38,840
Speaker 3: So I ignored their comments. And that's when they told

1917
01:37:38,880 --> 01:37:43,000
Speaker 3: me the truth. And holy crap, the proof they had

1918
01:37:43,040 --> 01:37:44,080
Speaker 3: made it even worse.

1919
01:37:44,680 --> 01:37:45,400
Speaker 1: They have proof?

1920
01:37:45,439 --> 01:37:48,120
Speaker 3: What kind of proof? They all said that they met

1921
01:37:48,120 --> 01:37:54,040
Speaker 3: my girlfriend eight years ago at midnight bowling and oh no,

1922
01:37:55,880 --> 01:37:56,680
Speaker 3: don't save her.

1923
01:37:57,040 --> 01:37:59,559
Speaker 1: She don't want to be saved. Don't save her.

1924
01:38:00,080 --> 01:38:02,679
Speaker 3: Okay, No, they met her through a friend of theirs

1925
01:38:02,680 --> 01:38:05,800
Speaker 3: that invited her that night. I don't know this other

1926
01:38:05,840 --> 01:38:07,640
Speaker 3: friend at all, so I can't say who it is.

1927
01:38:08,040 --> 01:38:10,280
Speaker 3: That's how they all met. They thought she was hot

1928
01:38:10,320 --> 01:38:12,920
Speaker 3: and cool, and they stayed in contact with her after that.

1929
01:38:13,040 --> 01:38:15,560
Speaker 3: My friends still continued to hang out with my girlfriend,

1930
01:38:16,040 --> 01:38:20,760
Speaker 3: smoking the Devil's let us, playing video games, anime and

1931
01:38:20,840 --> 01:38:22,759
Speaker 3: of course a spices sleep.

1932
01:38:22,880 --> 01:38:25,240
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, wait, wait, they've been They were hooking

1933
01:38:25,360 --> 01:38:28,360
Speaker 1: up with his girlfriend while they were dating.

1934
01:38:28,760 --> 01:38:33,160
Speaker 3: They told me that they'll pass her around the group

1935
01:38:33,280 --> 01:38:37,599
Speaker 3: for fun, and that's practically why they were friends with her.

1936
01:38:39,240 --> 01:38:45,120
Speaker 1: This sounds like teenage boy lying. You could be right.

1937
01:38:45,320 --> 01:38:49,840
Speaker 1: This sounds like teenage boy lying. I don't could be right.

1938
01:38:50,200 --> 01:38:53,479
Speaker 1: I don't believe it. That's a pretty tarnished image. I

1939
01:38:53,520 --> 01:38:54,280
Speaker 1: don't believe it.

1940
01:38:54,439 --> 01:38:56,719
Speaker 3: They're just trying to be like, no, dude, don't mirror

1941
01:38:56,720 --> 01:39:00,599
Speaker 3: your girlfriend. Oh we like, we've all done your girlfri friend, dude,

1942
01:39:00,600 --> 01:39:02,280
Speaker 3: so you don't want to marry her and stay with

1943
01:39:02,320 --> 01:39:03,160
Speaker 3: the brothers forever.

1944
01:39:03,800 --> 01:39:05,720
Speaker 4: This sounds like the thing what do we call it?

1945
01:39:05,720 --> 01:39:11,880
Speaker 1: It sounds like what it like? It the book Stephen King?

1946
01:39:12,160 --> 01:39:15,360
Speaker 3: Yes, the movie clod Do you mean? Okay, never mind,

1947
01:39:15,360 --> 01:39:17,240
Speaker 3: we'll get back to cloud everybody.

1948
01:39:18,040 --> 01:39:19,840
Speaker 4: We'll get later. We'll get to let later, get read

1949
01:39:19,880 --> 01:39:20,200
Speaker 4: the story.

1950
01:39:20,560 --> 01:39:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm not even we're not going there.

1951
01:39:22,400 --> 01:39:24,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's a deep, dark place that we don't

1952
01:39:24,120 --> 01:39:25,719
Speaker 5: want to talk about.

1953
01:39:27,080 --> 01:39:30,320
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's probably, I hope not true. They kept

1954
01:39:30,400 --> 01:39:33,519
Speaker 3: using the word salute, which crawled into my skin in

1955
01:39:33,560 --> 01:39:36,240
Speaker 3: a very negative way. So pretty much they just kept

1956
01:39:36,240 --> 01:39:38,160
Speaker 3: my girlfriend around for this spicy time.

1957
01:39:38,479 --> 01:39:40,920
Speaker 2: All three of my close friends have slept with her

1958
01:39:40,920 --> 01:39:41,679
Speaker 2: plenty of times.

1959
01:39:41,840 --> 01:39:45,240
Speaker 1: Was this apparently, and this was before. This is high school.

1960
01:39:45,280 --> 01:39:47,320
Speaker 1: This is high school, and they met after high school.

1961
01:39:47,320 --> 01:39:50,040
Speaker 1: So this yeah, they met at eighteen. This is post

1962
01:39:50,560 --> 01:39:54,160
Speaker 1: and they're just telling this to him now after having

1963
01:39:54,240 --> 01:39:57,679
Speaker 1: dated for a while and saying, oh, I'm gonna marry her.

1964
01:39:58,040 --> 01:40:01,720
Speaker 1: Let's yeah, I think so. I think. I don't. This

1965
01:40:01,760 --> 01:40:02,880
Speaker 1: is a news flash to him.

1966
01:40:03,000 --> 01:40:07,519
Speaker 3: I don't believe it, but so let's continue. This lasted

1967
01:40:08,080 --> 01:40:10,200
Speaker 3: a good portion of high school. But of course I

1968
01:40:10,240 --> 01:40:12,759
Speaker 3: didn't know my girlfriend at this time because she attended

1969
01:40:12,800 --> 01:40:15,600
Speaker 3: another high school. They decided that they'll introduce her to

1970
01:40:15,640 --> 01:40:17,519
Speaker 3: me because they wanted to see if I could also

1971
01:40:17,600 --> 01:40:19,840
Speaker 3: get lucky that it was all a joke to see

1972
01:40:19,840 --> 01:40:22,080
Speaker 3: if I could also end up having a spice of

1973
01:40:22,160 --> 01:40:24,680
Speaker 3: times with her. I didn't believe any of it, but

1974
01:40:24,680 --> 01:40:28,320
Speaker 3: my heart completely shattered when they showed proof from Instagram messages.

1975
01:40:29,120 --> 01:40:32,360
Speaker 3: It was nothing inappropriate, like picture or anything. They just

1976
01:40:32,400 --> 01:40:35,000
Speaker 3: showed me that they all indeed kept in contact with

1977
01:40:35,040 --> 01:40:35,880
Speaker 3: her in the past.

1978
01:40:36,000 --> 01:40:38,519
Speaker 1: Okay, that doesn't prove anything. That just shows that they

1979
01:40:38,520 --> 01:40:44,840
Speaker 1: were friends. Yeah, there's no proof yet. Yeah, it's just

1980
01:40:44,880 --> 01:40:47,679
Speaker 1: like that's like saying, like, see Dakota and I I've

1981
01:40:47,680 --> 01:40:52,160
Speaker 1: been texting. Obviously we've been boning behind the pod. Although

1982
01:40:52,160 --> 01:40:55,160
Speaker 1: I think it might be true, it could be false,

1983
01:40:55,200 --> 01:40:56,800
Speaker 1: but it also could be true to tell them their

1984
01:40:56,920 --> 01:40:59,599
Speaker 1: secrets to go. But also, at the end of the day.

1985
01:40:59,560 --> 01:41:02,480
Speaker 2: Does it even really matter, that's a different conversation.

1986
01:41:05,640 --> 01:41:09,559
Speaker 1: I don't think it does. If you if you get along, yeah, yeah,

1987
01:41:09,560 --> 01:41:11,960
Speaker 1: as long as the integrity of the relationship isn't hurt,

1988
01:41:12,000 --> 01:41:14,040
Speaker 1: I don't think it matters. Yeah, as long as that

1989
01:41:14,160 --> 01:41:17,240
Speaker 1: was like in the past, yeah, and it wasn't relationship,

1990
01:41:17,280 --> 01:41:18,519
Speaker 1: I don't think it matters exactly.

1991
01:41:18,720 --> 01:41:21,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, it'd be like, uh, anyway, we'll keep going.

1992
01:41:21,520 --> 01:41:23,240
Speaker 1: Let's keep going. So you know what they did.

1993
01:41:24,000 --> 01:41:27,040
Speaker 2: They made me the dumb guy and made all this

1994
01:41:27,120 --> 01:41:27,519
Speaker 2: a joke.

1995
01:41:27,680 --> 01:41:30,240
Speaker 3: They said that I am a little dumb boy for

1996
01:41:30,320 --> 01:41:32,880
Speaker 3: dating her and that I should have known better. They

1997
01:41:32,920 --> 01:41:34,680
Speaker 3: didn't expect me to date her at all, and that

1998
01:41:34,760 --> 01:41:38,320
Speaker 3: my girlfriend was going to act sloty afterwards to them,

1999
01:41:38,840 --> 01:41:40,439
Speaker 3: but they were surprised that she didn't.

2000
01:41:40,960 --> 01:41:43,519
Speaker 2: How the heck am I supposed to have known better friends?

2001
01:41:43,560 --> 01:41:46,519
Speaker 3: Introducing friends to a boy slash girl is a normal thing,

2002
01:41:46,560 --> 01:41:49,200
Speaker 3: and that's how I interpreted all of this. Also, I

2003
01:41:49,240 --> 01:41:51,160
Speaker 3: had no idea about their history with my girlfriends, so

2004
01:41:51,200 --> 01:41:53,479
Speaker 3: them saying I should have known better is ridiculous. Also,

2005
01:41:53,560 --> 01:41:55,000
Speaker 3: I think the most important thing out of everything that

2006
01:41:55,000 --> 01:41:57,000
Speaker 3: we've just read right now is that they were like,

2007
01:41:57,080 --> 01:41:59,160
Speaker 3: she's going to come back to us, and she didn't

2008
01:42:00,120 --> 01:42:00,879
Speaker 3: found you.

2009
01:42:01,400 --> 01:42:03,480
Speaker 1: And she likes loyalty.

2010
01:42:03,760 --> 01:42:10,160
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, and it shows that your friends are stupid idiots.

2011
01:42:10,240 --> 01:42:11,920
Speaker 5: I think they're just jealous. I think they're just making up.

2012
01:42:12,000 --> 01:42:14,599
Speaker 5: I hopefully hopefully it's a lie. Where like there I.

2013
01:42:14,560 --> 01:42:17,439
Speaker 3: Feel doesn't sound like a lie to me, and it's

2014
01:42:17,479 --> 01:42:20,559
Speaker 3: like whatever, like it it's it. It really even shouldn't

2015
01:42:20,560 --> 01:42:24,639
Speaker 3: even be, Like somebody's history in that context is pretty

2016
01:42:24,720 --> 01:42:29,320
Speaker 3: much irrelevant, Like if you're talking about like the present day, Yeah,

2017
01:42:29,680 --> 01:42:31,200
Speaker 3: like it really shouldn't matter.

2018
01:42:31,360 --> 01:42:33,439
Speaker 1: That's just my take. And also it was in high school.

2019
01:42:33,520 --> 01:42:37,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like really, it's like, are you really gonna

2020
01:42:37,760 --> 01:42:39,439
Speaker 3: is that the only thing that you want receipts on?

2021
01:42:39,479 --> 01:42:40,400
Speaker 1: Don't you want receipts on?

2022
01:42:40,680 --> 01:42:43,599
Speaker 3: How about every other aspect of her as a person exactly?

2023
01:42:43,760 --> 01:42:45,320
Speaker 1: I mean, like is that all we care about? The

2024
01:42:45,800 --> 01:42:47,760
Speaker 1: I think what matters is like who is she in

2025
01:42:47,800 --> 01:42:49,519
Speaker 1: the relationship with you? Exactly?

2026
01:42:49,600 --> 01:42:52,639
Speaker 3: And it seems like it's perfect. Yeah, and now you're dumb.

2027
01:42:52,680 --> 01:42:54,280
Speaker 3: Boys are trying to be like, oh so.

2028
01:42:54,760 --> 01:42:57,640
Speaker 1: You we've all stupp with your girlfriend and it's like

2029
01:42:57,680 --> 01:43:01,840
Speaker 1: and also like that maybe just like don't be friends

2030
01:43:01,880 --> 01:43:05,000
Speaker 1: with them. Yeah, it's it sounds like they are going

2031
01:43:05,080 --> 01:43:08,759
Speaker 1: to maybe make you uncomfortable with being with your girlfriend.

2032
01:43:08,800 --> 01:43:11,280
Speaker 1: And it's like they're the terrible people. Go be with

2033
01:43:11,320 --> 01:43:12,600
Speaker 1: the person that's actually been great to you for the

2034
01:43:12,640 --> 01:43:13,759
Speaker 1: last four years. Exactly.

2035
01:43:14,080 --> 01:43:16,800
Speaker 3: You're already in any great situation. Just got all these people

2036
01:43:16,840 --> 01:43:18,880
Speaker 3: who are already not in your life that much. Just

2037
01:43:18,960 --> 01:43:24,080
Speaker 3: get rid of them. So I didn't see my girlfriend

2038
01:43:24,160 --> 01:43:26,760
Speaker 3: as a sexual object like them.

2039
01:43:27,040 --> 01:43:33,200
Speaker 1: I really quick, Is there any uh is there should

2040
01:43:33,200 --> 01:43:35,559
Speaker 1: the girlfriend have told oh?

2041
01:43:35,600 --> 01:43:40,400
Speaker 3: Pe? Did op ask? That's the that's the question I

2042
01:43:40,520 --> 01:43:43,720
Speaker 3: there ask. I think if you don't ask, there's no

2043
01:43:43,800 --> 01:43:46,559
Speaker 3: reason to just bring it up. I think once you

2044
01:43:46,600 --> 01:43:48,760
Speaker 3: have the conversation, if they're like in your friends back and.

2045
01:43:49,040 --> 01:43:51,240
Speaker 1: They're my friend. So like if if I was dating

2046
01:43:51,240 --> 01:43:52,880
Speaker 1: a girl and there was a girl that.

2047
01:43:53,120 --> 01:43:56,559
Speaker 2: Oh wait wait wait wait you mean the guys telling him?

2048
01:43:56,800 --> 01:43:58,720
Speaker 1: Well, so, so like if I was if I if

2049
01:43:58,760 --> 01:44:00,639
Speaker 1: I was dating a girl and there was a girl

2050
01:44:00,640 --> 01:44:02,240
Speaker 1: that I had hooked up with that was still my

2051
01:44:02,240 --> 01:44:04,880
Speaker 1: friend circle. I would probably tell my girlfriend that, hey,

2052
01:44:04,960 --> 01:44:07,000
Speaker 1: like just so you know, there's a history, there's a

2053
01:44:07,040 --> 01:44:09,840
Speaker 1: history there. Oh yeah, I feel like that. I feel

2054
01:44:09,840 --> 01:44:16,120
Speaker 1: like that generally is like kind of like relationship. Uh.

2055
01:44:16,880 --> 01:44:18,120
Speaker 1: I think, like, like that's.

2056
01:44:18,479 --> 01:44:21,480
Speaker 3: Usually but only if you had like an actual relationship

2057
01:44:21,520 --> 01:44:22,320
Speaker 3: with him, which I don't.

2058
01:44:22,400 --> 01:44:24,200
Speaker 1: Does not sound like I think. I think even if

2059
01:44:24,200 --> 01:44:25,920
Speaker 1: you hooked up with them, I think it would be

2060
01:44:26,760 --> 01:44:27,160
Speaker 1: it just.

2061
01:44:27,080 --> 01:44:33,479
Speaker 3: Depends on the level, like hey, yeah, yeah, Like for example,

2062
01:44:33,520 --> 01:44:35,360
Speaker 3: it's like I don't want a list of every single

2063
01:44:35,360 --> 01:44:36,240
Speaker 3: person you've ever been with.

2064
01:44:38,320 --> 01:44:40,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. So, like I was dating this girl and she

2065
01:44:40,600 --> 01:44:42,200
Speaker 1: was like, hey, just so you know, like this guy

2066
01:44:42,240 --> 01:44:43,800
Speaker 1: that's that you met, that's in my friend group, like

2067
01:44:43,840 --> 01:44:45,280
Speaker 1: we used to hook up. I'm like, oh, thanks for

2068
01:44:45,280 --> 01:44:48,559
Speaker 1: telling me. And like I feel I feel like saying

2069
01:44:48,600 --> 01:44:53,439
Speaker 1: that early prevents any situation like this from surprising someone.

2070
01:44:54,120 --> 01:44:56,240
Speaker 1: I guess that's fair. I think it's I think it's helpful.

2071
01:44:56,240 --> 01:44:58,479
Speaker 1: I think it's helpful if she also might not be

2072
01:44:58,520 --> 01:45:01,880
Speaker 1: the proudest of that chapter your life, so you know,

2073
01:45:02,280 --> 01:45:04,080
Speaker 1: I mean, it's I think it's still like I think

2074
01:45:04,439 --> 01:45:06,760
Speaker 1: I think if we're if we're thinking about, like what

2075
01:45:06,880 --> 01:45:11,120
Speaker 1: is it this way to navigate relationships? Like, like if

2076
01:45:11,200 --> 01:45:14,880
Speaker 1: if you're upfront about the relationship history of people within

2077
01:45:14,960 --> 01:45:18,040
Speaker 1: your life, yeah, you're just gonna have less surprises and

2078
01:45:18,080 --> 01:45:21,040
Speaker 1: then higher chance of things going on now your relation

2079
01:45:21,160 --> 01:45:26,640
Speaker 1: You're right on that for sure. That that's that's I

2080
01:45:26,720 --> 01:45:29,800
Speaker 1: don't think she's to be clear. She's like, did anything wrong?

2081
01:45:29,880 --> 01:45:31,960
Speaker 3: But I'm like, you're so young, they probably you don't

2082
01:45:31,960 --> 01:45:33,599
Speaker 3: have the experience to know that that's what you want

2083
01:45:33,600 --> 01:45:33,800
Speaker 3: to do.

2084
01:45:33,960 --> 01:45:36,559
Speaker 1: But if you, I think if you want, uh, your

2085
01:45:36,600 --> 01:45:40,200
Speaker 1: relationship to have the best chance of succeeding, telling your

2086
01:45:40,280 --> 01:45:46,320
Speaker 1: partner the uh, like, if there's any relationship history within

2087
01:45:46,439 --> 01:45:49,960
Speaker 1: your friend group, is I think helpful. It's just good

2088
01:45:49,960 --> 01:45:51,439
Speaker 1: to know because it's good to know.

2089
01:45:51,560 --> 01:45:53,280
Speaker 5: It's good to know because again, if this comes up

2090
01:45:53,360 --> 01:45:56,320
Speaker 5: later and you're like, why was I the sucker here?

2091
01:45:56,400 --> 01:45:58,160
Speaker 1: I mean, but.

2092
01:45:59,840 --> 01:46:01,439
Speaker 4: Was I on the note? Like, it's not my business,

2093
01:46:01,439 --> 01:46:03,400
Speaker 4: But like I.

2094
01:46:03,320 --> 01:46:06,000
Speaker 1: Think I think it just prevents I think it's.

2095
01:46:05,840 --> 01:46:06,719
Speaker 4: Something like this happening.

2096
01:46:06,840 --> 01:46:09,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well it sounds like the friends wanted this

2097
01:46:09,120 --> 01:46:09,479
Speaker 3: to happen.

2098
01:46:09,520 --> 01:46:11,800
Speaker 4: No exactly, that's what And.

2099
01:46:11,800 --> 01:46:15,599
Speaker 1: Then you're getting married, Oh please hang out with us.

2100
01:46:15,600 --> 01:46:17,200
Speaker 1: We miss you.

2101
01:46:17,320 --> 01:46:20,439
Speaker 2: Okay, So anyways, uh, but but where was a.

2102
01:46:20,880 --> 01:46:22,880
Speaker 1: Huge Also, I'd love to know from chat do you

2103
01:46:22,920 --> 01:46:26,559
Speaker 1: think you should tell? Uh? Do you think you should

2104
01:46:26,560 --> 01:46:29,559
Speaker 1: give your relationship context? It's not anyone that you've hooked

2105
01:46:29,640 --> 01:46:31,879
Speaker 1: up with in your friend group to your current partner.

2106
01:46:32,240 --> 01:46:33,960
Speaker 1: I would love to let I would love to know

2107
01:46:34,000 --> 01:46:36,960
Speaker 1: what you guys think. Yeah, relationship tell her? Don't tell

2108
01:46:37,479 --> 01:46:40,599
Speaker 1: or no, just tell? Tell? Tell in a relate like

2109
01:46:40,680 --> 01:46:42,400
Speaker 1: if if you have you got to make it. Do

2110
01:46:42,560 --> 01:46:44,560
Speaker 1: you have relationship context.

2111
01:46:45,080 --> 01:46:50,200
Speaker 4: Or I'll just say context. I'll just say context or.

2112
01:46:49,160 --> 01:46:51,919
Speaker 1: Context or none? Yes, yes, go back to Okay.

2113
01:46:52,439 --> 01:46:56,719
Speaker 3: So I did not see my girlfriend as a sexual

2114
01:46:56,760 --> 01:46:58,640
Speaker 3: object like them. I saw her as a friend that

2115
01:46:58,680 --> 01:47:01,000
Speaker 3: I ended up falling in love with. She treated me

2116
01:47:01,160 --> 01:47:04,080
Speaker 3: very kindly, comforted me whenever I was sad, and told

2117
01:47:04,080 --> 01:47:05,040
Speaker 3: me how much she loved me.

2118
01:47:05,320 --> 01:47:07,519
Speaker 1: We fell for he, We fell for each other.

2119
01:47:07,600 --> 01:47:10,160
Speaker 2: It was not just this passes sleep.

2120
01:47:10,840 --> 01:47:13,040
Speaker 3: The only reason my friends told me this was because

2121
01:47:13,080 --> 01:47:15,679
Speaker 3: they think me getting married to her is too far,

2122
01:47:16,320 --> 01:47:18,920
Speaker 3: and so they expected me knowing the truth would lead

2123
01:47:18,960 --> 01:47:19,760
Speaker 3: to me dumping her.

2124
01:47:20,640 --> 01:47:23,160
Speaker 1: She's too much of a salute man. Just let her go.

2125
01:47:23,560 --> 01:47:24,760
Speaker 1: That's what one of my friends said.

2126
01:47:25,200 --> 01:47:27,840
Speaker 3: I just got off the chat, and they've been sending

2127
01:47:27,880 --> 01:47:29,320
Speaker 3: me NonStop texts ever since.

2128
01:47:29,680 --> 01:47:32,320
Speaker 1: I haven't replied. Good for you, ogie, ma'am.

2129
01:47:32,520 --> 01:47:34,360
Speaker 3: I don't feel like talking to my friends at the moment.

2130
01:47:34,520 --> 01:47:36,680
Speaker 3: I did peak at a few messages out of curiosity,

2131
01:47:36,680 --> 01:47:39,320
Speaker 3: and instead of apologies, I got a lot of dude,

2132
01:47:39,320 --> 01:47:41,680
Speaker 3: get checked, bro, you might have caught something, and it

2133
01:47:41,720 --> 01:47:43,800
Speaker 3: wasn't even serious. It was in a joking manner, which

2134
01:47:43,960 --> 01:47:47,799
Speaker 3: is annoying. I approached my girlfriend about this as politely

2135
01:47:47,800 --> 01:47:50,719
Speaker 3: as humanly possible, and I instantly regretted it. She broke

2136
01:47:50,760 --> 01:47:53,519
Speaker 3: down completely, which I'll kind of admit teared me up.

2137
01:47:54,200 --> 01:47:57,080
Speaker 3: I've never seen her panic so much. She was freaking

2138
01:47:57,080 --> 01:48:00,400
Speaker 3: out like somebody had died. She kept apologizing, telling me

2139
01:48:00,439 --> 01:48:02,880
Speaker 3: that she never slept with anyone else while with me,

2140
01:48:03,320 --> 01:48:05,000
Speaker 3: and saying that she didn't know about the joke that

2141
01:48:05,040 --> 01:48:07,599
Speaker 3: my friends were doing she told me about. She told

2142
01:48:07,600 --> 01:48:09,720
Speaker 3: me my friends simply invited her to hang out, and

2143
01:48:09,800 --> 01:48:12,120
Speaker 3: during the hangout, they introduced her to me. That's how

2144
01:48:12,160 --> 01:48:14,080
Speaker 3: it all went. She says, she wasn't aware of a

2145
01:48:14,120 --> 01:48:17,360
Speaker 3: plan or anything. You probably think I'm a salute, right,

2146
01:48:17,479 --> 01:48:19,479
Speaker 3: is what she kept saying, which just hurt me to hear.

2147
01:48:19,840 --> 01:48:21,200
Speaker 3: She told me that she loved me and that to

2148
01:48:21,240 --> 01:48:24,599
Speaker 3: please just ignore my quote friends and to not break

2149
01:48:24,680 --> 01:48:26,559
Speaker 3: up with her. I just told her that I loved

2150
01:48:26,560 --> 01:48:28,800
Speaker 3: her as well, and that what I know doesn't change

2151
01:48:28,800 --> 01:48:29,760
Speaker 3: my feelings towards her.

2152
01:48:30,680 --> 01:48:35,200
Speaker 1: Yes, w response. Oh, I was hoping we would get

2153
01:48:35,200 --> 01:48:35,400
Speaker 1: to that.

2154
01:48:35,720 --> 01:48:39,479
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm pumped up right now. I feel like I

2155
01:48:39,640 --> 01:48:43,719
Speaker 3: just won the championship. She still thinks that I'm gonna

2156
01:48:43,720 --> 01:48:47,400
Speaker 3: break up with her, ah, which I won't ever do. Yes,

2157
01:48:48,200 --> 01:48:50,280
Speaker 3: I just kept her in my arms and that's all

2158
01:48:50,280 --> 01:48:52,640
Speaker 3: I could do. I didn't want her panicking, so I

2159
01:48:52,680 --> 01:48:55,599
Speaker 3: just comforted her. I've been with this incredible girl for

2160
01:48:55,640 --> 01:48:58,519
Speaker 3: four years, created beautiful memories with her, and I'm not

2161
01:48:58,560 --> 01:49:00,240
Speaker 3: going to let what my friends have said to me

2162
01:49:00,680 --> 01:49:03,240
Speaker 3: ruin what I have with her. The reason why my

2163
01:49:03,280 --> 01:49:06,120
Speaker 3: girlfriend didn't tell me earlier was because she cherished our

2164
01:49:06,160 --> 01:49:08,680
Speaker 3: relationship the moment that we met. She didn't want to

2165
01:49:08,720 --> 01:49:11,479
Speaker 3: hurt me, and I completely understand. She says that I

2166
01:49:11,560 --> 01:49:14,480
Speaker 3: treated her kindly, like a human being, and she appreciated

2167
01:49:14,479 --> 01:49:17,960
Speaker 3: that we connected because of our similarities, and she felt

2168
01:49:17,960 --> 01:49:20,680
Speaker 3: more comfortable with me compared to my friends. She was

2169
01:49:20,720 --> 01:49:22,559
Speaker 3: afraid that if I knew the truth, I wouldn't have

2170
01:49:22,600 --> 01:49:25,600
Speaker 3: considered being with her in the first place, which.

2171
01:49:26,080 --> 01:49:30,840
Speaker 1: That's understandable, but I think often people hide behind the

2172
01:49:31,120 --> 01:49:32,760
Speaker 1: I didn't want to hurt you, so I'm not going

2173
01:49:32,840 --> 01:49:35,960
Speaker 1: to tell you information. But because like this is not

2174
01:49:36,000 --> 01:49:37,720
Speaker 1: what happened in this, but a lot of like we've

2175
01:49:37,760 --> 01:49:39,479
Speaker 1: read a lot of cheating stories and it's like, hey,

2176
01:49:39,520 --> 01:49:41,439
Speaker 1: I didn't want to tell you that I cheated because

2177
01:49:41,439 --> 01:49:43,559
Speaker 1: I didn't want to hurt you. What that really means

2178
01:49:43,640 --> 01:49:47,920
Speaker 1: is like I don't there's cognitive dissonance between what I've

2179
01:49:47,920 --> 01:49:49,920
Speaker 1: done and what I want to do, and so I

2180
01:49:49,920 --> 01:49:52,599
Speaker 1: don't want to tell you because maybe you're not proud

2181
01:49:52,640 --> 01:49:57,240
Speaker 1: of an action. I think being upfront with information with

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01:49:57,320 --> 01:50:02,160
Speaker 1: a partner as soon as possible is like the best

2183
01:50:02,200 --> 01:50:05,679
Speaker 1: way to make healthy relationships facts, although I do admit

2184
01:50:05,720 --> 01:50:07,439
Speaker 1: that that is a hard thing to say.

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01:50:07,600 --> 01:50:09,479
Speaker 2: They were eighteen when they started exactly.

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01:50:09,479 --> 01:50:11,640
Speaker 3: That's why that there's no way she could have ever

2187
01:50:12,000 --> 01:50:14,920
Speaker 3: remember I remember you stating like they're eighteen.

2188
01:50:15,120 --> 01:50:16,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's that that that young.

2189
01:50:16,960 --> 01:50:20,519
Speaker 3: It's like you don't to navigate possibly navigate that with

2190
01:50:20,680 --> 01:50:22,280
Speaker 3: tact as well.

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01:50:22,400 --> 01:50:26,519
Speaker 5: It's like she wasn't seen Like when she met Ope,

2192
01:50:26,840 --> 01:50:29,559
Speaker 5: she wasn't seen like you know what all the other

2193
01:50:29,600 --> 01:50:30,760
Speaker 5: guys were calling her or what.

2194
01:50:30,960 --> 01:50:32,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, those guys, she didn't know those guys.

2195
01:50:32,880 --> 01:50:34,680
Speaker 3: And then as soon as they started dating, it was

2196
01:50:34,720 --> 01:50:37,599
Speaker 3: college happened. So those guys weren't even really in the circle.

2197
01:50:37,640 --> 01:50:39,360
Speaker 3: It was like he stayed in that town with her

2198
01:50:39,439 --> 01:50:42,080
Speaker 3: and his mom, and then his friends were all off

2199
01:50:42,200 --> 01:50:45,200
Speaker 3: in a university. Yeah, so it's not like they were

2200
01:50:45,240 --> 01:50:47,120
Speaker 3: even around all the time for her to be like, hey,

2201
01:50:47,120 --> 01:50:49,400
Speaker 3: by the way, just want to get this out there, right,

2202
01:50:49,680 --> 01:50:50,640
Speaker 3: like we hooked up.

2203
01:50:51,120 --> 01:50:53,679
Speaker 1: Like what you're saying is like that rule of if

2204
01:50:53,720 --> 01:50:58,280
Speaker 1: you have a relationship history with someone, you tell your partner.

2205
01:50:58,479 --> 01:51:02,080
Speaker 1: They weren't active in that right, Like they weren't around.

2206
01:51:02,320 --> 01:51:03,880
Speaker 1: So it's like you wouldn't tell your partner like.

2207
01:51:03,960 --> 01:51:06,200
Speaker 3: Hey, so here's the entire list of everybody I've ever

2208
01:51:06,280 --> 01:51:07,519
Speaker 3: been with, like with no context.

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01:51:07,560 --> 01:51:10,400
Speaker 1: I think it's like you only say it if if

2210
01:51:10,439 --> 01:51:11,439
Speaker 1: it becomes relevant.

2211
01:51:11,680 --> 01:51:13,479
Speaker 3: And as an adult too, it's like once you get

2212
01:51:13,520 --> 01:51:16,479
Speaker 3: into your like your twenties and you really like understand like.

2213
01:51:16,560 --> 01:51:17,439
Speaker 1: Being an adult.

2214
01:51:17,680 --> 01:51:20,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I think it makes it's a lot easier too,

2215
01:51:20,360 --> 01:51:23,120
Speaker 3: to like bring up information like this and not feel

2216
01:51:23,160 --> 01:51:25,439
Speaker 3: like about what's going to happen, Like are they going

2217
01:51:25,520 --> 01:51:26,320
Speaker 3: to think differently to me?

2218
01:51:26,360 --> 01:51:31,960
Speaker 1: It's like it's like yeah, yeah, hello adults here, but

2219
01:51:32,080 --> 01:51:35,759
Speaker 1: let's continue. And also, right now I'm looking at thirty

2220
01:51:35,800 --> 01:51:40,519
Speaker 1: three votes, that's saying you should give context, so saying

2221
01:51:40,600 --> 01:51:42,840
Speaker 1: she should give context. But also I think we give

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01:51:42,920 --> 01:51:46,320
Speaker 1: grace for someone who's eighteen, right that you know as

2223
01:51:46,320 --> 01:51:47,320
Speaker 1: a fully formed adult.

2224
01:51:47,840 --> 01:51:49,400
Speaker 2: Fully, I completely agree with this pole.

2225
01:51:49,560 --> 01:51:50,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2226
01:51:50,439 --> 01:51:53,720
Speaker 3: Anyways, my girlfriend thought that I was going to think

2227
01:51:53,720 --> 01:51:56,280
Speaker 3: of her as a salute, which I absolutely would have

2228
01:51:56,360 --> 01:51:59,080
Speaker 3: never done. It was obvious that she felt guilty, but

2229
01:51:59,160 --> 01:52:01,080
Speaker 3: I told her that she did do anything wrong, that

2230
01:52:01,160 --> 01:52:03,840
Speaker 3: her past was her business, and that I still love

2231
01:52:03,880 --> 01:52:07,880
Speaker 3: her very much. W I'm not mad at my girlfriend.

2232
01:52:08,040 --> 01:52:10,759
Speaker 3: Why should I be mad. She didn't do anything wrong.

2233
01:52:10,840 --> 01:52:13,360
Speaker 3: Her past is hers, and it's none of my business.

2234
01:52:13,960 --> 01:52:15,920
Speaker 3: Who she sleeps with is none of my concern. My

2235
01:52:15,960 --> 01:52:19,080
Speaker 3: feelings towards her haven't changed. I love her with all

2236
01:52:19,080 --> 01:52:21,960
Speaker 3: my heart and I always will. I'm mad at my

2237
01:52:22,040 --> 01:52:26,040
Speaker 3: so called friends because one being they're taking all of

2238
01:52:26,040 --> 01:52:30,280
Speaker 3: this as a joke speaking of my girlfriend awfully, and

2239
01:52:30,320 --> 01:52:33,160
Speaker 3: the other being is that they all started. This all

2240
01:52:33,200 --> 01:52:35,800
Speaker 3: started as a little joke between them, and they didn't

2241
01:52:35,840 --> 01:52:38,160
Speaker 3: have good intentions. When they introduced me to my girlfriend.

2242
01:52:38,200 --> 01:52:41,640
Speaker 3: They simply passed her to me quote thinking I was

2243
01:52:41,680 --> 01:52:45,200
Speaker 3: going to treat her like a piece of meat. Yeah,

2244
01:52:45,840 --> 01:52:48,880
Speaker 3: these are great friends that you shouldn't have suck. I'm

2245
01:52:49,000 --> 01:52:51,599
Speaker 3: just shocked, that's what I am. This whole thing has

2246
01:52:51,640 --> 01:52:53,679
Speaker 3: been mentally stressing me out, and I wish I didn't

2247
01:52:53,720 --> 01:52:56,120
Speaker 3: know about it. I love my girlfriend, but I'll admit

2248
01:52:56,360 --> 01:52:58,160
Speaker 3: the thought of her with my friends hurts me.

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01:53:00,040 --> 01:53:01,560
Speaker 1: Why. She probably wouldn't want to say that when she

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01:53:01,640 --> 01:53:04,679
Speaker 1: says but, but I think it's also like, not the

2251
01:53:04,800 --> 01:53:07,560
Speaker 1: thought of her with your friends. I think it's the

2252
01:53:07,560 --> 01:53:13,240
Speaker 1: the friends, like creating this image of your girlfriends.

2253
01:53:13,439 --> 01:53:15,760
Speaker 2: They spun this narrative in your head.

2254
01:53:16,040 --> 01:53:19,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, like they are the problem, and I think if

2255
01:53:19,439 --> 01:53:23,080
Speaker 1: you remove them then they won't be like creating this

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01:53:23,240 --> 01:53:25,320
Speaker 1: image of your girlfriend. Then you don't like.

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01:53:25,320 --> 01:53:28,439
Speaker 5: They They didn't have that, Yeah, like because these friends

2258
01:53:28,560 --> 01:53:31,400
Speaker 5: weren't so into their lives until now. He's like, I

2259
01:53:31,520 --> 01:53:34,240
Speaker 5: might propose to her. Guys, WHOA the jokes the joke's

2260
01:53:34,240 --> 01:53:35,360
Speaker 5: gone way too far, Like.

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01:53:35,439 --> 01:53:37,479
Speaker 3: They didn't tell them about the joke for four years.

2262
01:53:37,680 --> 01:53:40,720
Speaker 3: These people sucks people. These guys aren't your Yeah, I

2263
01:53:40,720 --> 01:53:42,599
Speaker 3: don't think you're really the friend, dude. I think you're

2264
01:53:42,600 --> 01:53:47,559
Speaker 3: the outskirt friend there. Anyways, the thought of her with

2265
01:53:47,600 --> 01:53:49,960
Speaker 3: my friends does hurt me, and I've cut all contact

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01:53:49,960 --> 01:53:55,439
Speaker 3: with my so called friends.

2267
01:53:56,479 --> 01:53:58,639
Speaker 1: Another but oh, that that already happened.

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01:53:58,680 --> 01:54:01,200
Speaker 4: It already happened. Yeah, people were crazy, but we got talking.

2269
01:54:01,240 --> 01:54:01,960
Speaker 1: We gotta keep going.

2270
01:54:02,720 --> 01:54:03,880
Speaker 4: I didn't. I didn't add another thirty.

2271
01:54:03,920 --> 01:54:04,240
Speaker 1: We're good.

2272
01:54:04,800 --> 01:54:06,880
Speaker 3: I've cut all contact with my friends these past couple

2273
01:54:06,920 --> 01:54:09,160
Speaker 3: of days, and I've been ignoring their calls and texts.

2274
01:54:09,160 --> 01:54:11,040
Speaker 3: There are a ton of them. I just don't know

2275
01:54:11,080 --> 01:54:13,400
Speaker 3: what to do. I really don't. I mean, it sounds

2276
01:54:13,439 --> 01:54:14,840
Speaker 3: like you've done exactly what you needed to do.

2277
01:54:14,920 --> 01:54:18,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, January calling says Opie is such a green flag

2278
01:54:18,120 --> 01:54:21,320
Speaker 1: guy though. Yeah, honestly, yeah, green supero. And also he's

2279
01:54:21,360 --> 01:54:24,599
Speaker 1: super young too. I mean, like twenty two this now,

2280
01:54:24,600 --> 01:54:26,840
Speaker 1: I guess what twenty four, twenty four, Okay, I guess

2281
01:54:26,840 --> 01:54:28,960
Speaker 1: that you should have learned these green flags by now.

2282
01:54:29,200 --> 01:54:31,439
Speaker 2: I mean now like in today in the story, oh

2283
01:54:31,520 --> 01:54:32,440
Speaker 2: story twenty two.

2284
01:54:32,480 --> 01:54:34,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like it's just out of college. I feel

2285
01:54:34,720 --> 01:54:37,720
Speaker 1: like that's he's doing good.

2286
01:54:38,520 --> 01:54:43,440
Speaker 3: So although the also the thought of my girlfriend immediately

2287
01:54:43,520 --> 01:54:45,960
Speaker 3: having the spice to sleep with my friends kind of

2288
01:54:46,000 --> 01:54:49,360
Speaker 3: bugs me because me and her took it slow. Maybe

2289
01:54:49,400 --> 01:54:51,280
Speaker 3: she did care about me compared to my friends and

2290
01:54:51,360 --> 01:54:54,000
Speaker 3: didn't want to hop straight into the spicy sleep. I

2291
01:54:54,040 --> 01:54:55,200
Speaker 3: would assume that that's what that is.

2292
01:54:55,240 --> 01:54:55,640
Speaker 1: That's true.

2293
01:54:55,880 --> 01:54:58,680
Speaker 3: I also think this because even my friends said that

2294
01:54:58,720 --> 01:55:01,560
Speaker 3: she didn't act slute each towards me. She actually cared

2295
01:55:01,600 --> 01:55:04,520
Speaker 3: about me. You see, these are the stupid thoughts I'm

2296
01:55:04,520 --> 01:55:07,000
Speaker 3: getting in my head, and I hate it. I'm personally

2297
01:55:07,040 --> 01:55:09,040
Speaker 3: still going to propose to my girlfriend. I am not

2298
01:55:09,160 --> 01:55:10,880
Speaker 3: leaving her, and I plan to cut contact with my

2299
01:55:10,920 --> 01:55:13,720
Speaker 3: friends and simply focus on my future. If any of

2300
01:55:13,760 --> 01:55:16,000
Speaker 3: you have any advice to share, I'd greatly appreciate it.

2301
01:55:16,000 --> 01:55:18,360
Speaker 3: And I definitely need to relax my mind, that's for sure.

2302
01:55:18,640 --> 01:55:21,240
Speaker 3: Oh my god, there's an update. All right, let's roll

2303
01:55:21,280 --> 01:55:22,040
Speaker 3: straight into it.

2304
01:55:22,000 --> 01:55:26,720
Speaker 1: I mean really quick. I think he should do exactly

2305
01:55:26,760 --> 01:55:31,240
Speaker 1: what he's been. He's doing everything right, doing it right everything. Also,

2306
01:55:31,840 --> 01:55:34,240
Speaker 1: if you want to join our discord, it's discord dot

2307
01:55:34,280 --> 01:55:39,280
Speaker 1: gg slash. Okay, storytime Naomi is asking for the discord.

2308
01:55:39,240 --> 01:55:44,640
Speaker 3: Discord do soone Okay, story time Okay update and info

2309
01:55:44,800 --> 01:55:46,560
Speaker 3: number one, which means there might be more than one

2310
01:55:46,640 --> 01:55:49,920
Speaker 3: update here. Hey everyone, I hope you're all doing really great.

2311
01:55:50,080 --> 01:55:52,040
Speaker 3: I'll be posting more updates here, so I hope you

2312
01:55:52,080 --> 01:55:55,480
Speaker 3: all stick around. I wanted to say, wow, it's been

2313
01:55:55,600 --> 01:55:59,360
Speaker 3: absolutely interesting to see how different all of your opinions

2314
01:55:59,360 --> 01:56:00,000
Speaker 3: are on this situation.

2315
01:56:00,760 --> 01:56:01,960
Speaker 1: I want to thank all of you.

2316
01:56:02,400 --> 01:56:04,320
Speaker 3: Many of your comments really helped me greatly, and I

2317
01:56:04,360 --> 01:56:08,600
Speaker 3: appreciate so, so, so so much. You're all insanely amazing people.

2318
01:56:08,760 --> 01:56:10,280
Speaker 3: If I can invite you all to the wedding, I

2319
01:56:10,320 --> 01:56:12,560
Speaker 3: absolutely would. It'd be amazing to have you all there.

2320
01:56:13,040 --> 01:56:15,720
Speaker 3: My girlfriend and I are doing well. She's still quite

2321
01:56:15,760 --> 01:56:18,560
Speaker 3: upset about what the friends did, but that's perfectly understandable.

2322
01:56:18,800 --> 01:56:21,040
Speaker 3: I've been comforting her, letting her know I'm not going

2323
01:56:21,160 --> 01:56:23,520
Speaker 3: anywhere and that I won't be breaking up with her

2324
01:56:23,760 --> 01:56:26,120
Speaker 3: at all. I love her with all my heart, and

2325
01:56:26,160 --> 01:56:28,560
Speaker 3: I've been letting her know that constantly during all.

2326
01:56:28,440 --> 01:56:31,760
Speaker 1: Of this Let's Go. I want her to feel the.

2327
01:56:31,040 --> 01:56:34,920
Speaker 3: Appreciation, because her past being brought up suddenly definitely gave

2328
01:56:34,960 --> 01:56:37,200
Speaker 3: her a shock. I want her to feel loved, and

2329
01:56:37,200 --> 01:56:40,520
Speaker 3: that's exactly what I'm doing. My friends are still trying

2330
01:56:40,560 --> 01:56:43,640
Speaker 3: to contact me, but they've also tried contacting my girlfriend.

2331
01:56:43,960 --> 01:56:46,200
Speaker 3: She has no plans to speak to them, which she

2332
01:56:46,280 --> 01:56:48,680
Speaker 3: definitely shouldn't because those guys don't deserve to speak to

2333
01:56:48,720 --> 01:56:51,440
Speaker 3: your girlfriend, even though that she's actually cut contact with

2334
01:56:51,480 --> 01:56:54,000
Speaker 3: them when they left to college. I hadn't opened my

2335
01:56:54,000 --> 01:56:57,120
Speaker 3: messages and she hasn't opened hers. There's something I do

2336
01:56:57,320 --> 01:56:59,520
Speaker 3: want to quickly talk about, though. I saw a few

2337
01:56:59,520 --> 01:57:01,600
Speaker 3: comments that said my girlfriend may have slept with my

2338
01:57:01,680 --> 01:57:04,440
Speaker 3: friends while being with me, which I don't think that's

2339
01:57:04,480 --> 01:57:06,920
Speaker 3: the case. Exactly, that she didn't do your old friend

2340
01:57:07,040 --> 01:57:08,920
Speaker 3: and your friends said that wasn't true.

2341
01:57:09,000 --> 01:57:11,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, so don't listen to those comments.

2342
01:57:11,880 --> 01:57:13,840
Speaker 3: I want to start by saying, my girlfriend actually removed

2343
01:57:13,880 --> 01:57:15,640
Speaker 3: all of them from her social media when they left

2344
01:57:15,640 --> 01:57:17,600
Speaker 3: for college, and her reason for removing them was because

2345
01:57:17,600 --> 01:57:19,120
Speaker 3: she didn't see them as friends anymore.

2346
01:57:19,440 --> 01:57:21,600
Speaker 2: I didn't push her for more explanations. I just left

2347
01:57:21,640 --> 01:57:23,560
Speaker 2: it at that. Every time I went to visit my

2348
01:57:23,600 --> 01:57:25,440
Speaker 2: friends in the other cities, she'll never go with me.

2349
01:57:25,520 --> 01:57:26,360
Speaker 1: She never wanted to.

2350
01:57:26,720 --> 01:57:28,760
Speaker 3: She simply didn't want to hang out with them. She's

2351
01:57:29,120 --> 01:57:31,080
Speaker 3: She'll always stay with her mother for the weekend when

2352
01:57:31,120 --> 01:57:34,600
Speaker 3: I'll leave to go visit again. I never pushed for explanations.

2353
01:57:34,720 --> 01:57:36,400
Speaker 3: She simply told me that she didn't want to hang

2354
01:57:36,440 --> 01:57:38,360
Speaker 3: out with them and that they all drifted apart since

2355
01:57:38,400 --> 01:57:40,680
Speaker 3: high school. I understood that, as we all tend to

2356
01:57:40,720 --> 01:57:42,680
Speaker 3: drift apart from friends that we had in high.

2357
01:57:42,520 --> 01:57:44,480
Speaker 1: School, guys, most understanding boyfriend.

2358
01:57:45,040 --> 01:57:46,080
Speaker 2: It was super understanding.

2359
01:57:46,400 --> 01:57:48,000
Speaker 3: And I think it's probably, if I can put a

2360
01:57:48,040 --> 01:57:51,240
Speaker 3: little theory out there, it's probably just like sometimes we

2361
01:57:51,280 --> 01:57:53,320
Speaker 3: have chapters and periods of our lives that we don't

2362
01:57:53,400 --> 01:57:55,000
Speaker 3: like and we want to forget and we want to

2363
01:57:55,040 --> 01:57:57,760
Speaker 3: just put behind us. And I think those people are

2364
01:57:57,840 --> 01:58:00,680
Speaker 3: clearly a fixed point in her life that she has

2365
01:58:00,800 --> 01:58:03,320
Speaker 3: moved past and wants nothing to do with anymore. So

2366
01:58:03,360 --> 01:58:05,600
Speaker 3: she's just not you know, she cut those people off.

2367
01:58:05,800 --> 01:58:09,280
Speaker 3: She's moved on. She met you has a very real

2368
01:58:09,320 --> 01:58:11,160
Speaker 3: loving like his relationship.

2369
01:58:11,200 --> 01:58:13,040
Speaker 1: He never asked, so it's like it's not like she

2370
01:58:13,160 --> 01:58:16,160
Speaker 1: was like explicitly hiding anything.

2371
01:58:16,240 --> 01:58:18,680
Speaker 5: The best the best part about this is usually when

2372
01:58:18,720 --> 01:58:21,160
Speaker 5: we read these stories, they're like blinded by love. No

2373
01:58:21,200 --> 01:58:23,960
Speaker 5: this because like, yes, he's in love with the girl

2374
01:58:24,040 --> 01:58:26,160
Speaker 5: with his girlfriend or fiance or not are going to

2375
01:58:26,240 --> 01:58:28,800
Speaker 5: be soon fiance. Yeah, And it's not like he's blinded

2376
01:58:28,840 --> 01:58:31,240
Speaker 5: by He's like, no, this is the realization they suck.

2377
01:58:31,960 --> 01:58:36,240
Speaker 1: Her passes are past. That's it. Indeed, a really healthy realized.

2378
01:58:36,280 --> 01:58:39,000
Speaker 5: This is all very healthy. It's not like you know,

2379
01:58:39,080 --> 01:58:41,240
Speaker 5: tunnel vision on her, like no, she's the one and

2380
01:58:41,280 --> 01:58:43,360
Speaker 5: that's it. It's like, no, I love her for who

2381
01:58:43,400 --> 01:58:43,680
Speaker 5: she is.

2382
01:58:43,880 --> 01:58:49,360
Speaker 1: She loves me, yes, because I feel like read this guy,

2383
01:58:49,880 --> 01:58:52,800
Speaker 1: shout out this guy. All right, was your first love

2384
01:58:52,800 --> 01:58:55,879
Speaker 1: your true love? Was your first love? Your true love? Probably?

2385
01:58:58,720 --> 01:59:02,360
Speaker 4: I think I got there's not my first girlfriend.

2386
01:59:02,000 --> 01:59:06,400
Speaker 1: Though, anyway? Second or third? Second?

2387
01:59:07,040 --> 01:59:07,360
Speaker 4: Okay?

2388
01:59:09,080 --> 01:59:11,360
Speaker 1: Good, didn't you I could be your true love anyway?

2389
01:59:11,840 --> 01:59:11,960
Speaker 5: Uh?

2390
01:59:12,600 --> 01:59:14,720
Speaker 3: Of course, now we all know the truth why she

2391
01:59:14,880 --> 01:59:17,800
Speaker 3: did not want to be near them. Also, for the

2392
01:59:17,800 --> 01:59:20,080
Speaker 3: people that are telling me why she didn't tell me

2393
01:59:20,120 --> 01:59:22,120
Speaker 3: the truth, you really think it could be that easy

2394
01:59:22,160 --> 01:59:26,160
Speaker 3: for her, That's what I was saying. I can understand

2395
01:59:26,200 --> 01:59:28,520
Speaker 3: completely why she didn't tell me, and I a one

2396
01:59:28,640 --> 01:59:31,640
Speaker 3: hundred percent understand she didn't tell me because she was

2397
01:59:31,680 --> 01:59:33,880
Speaker 3: worried that I would immediately judge her and that I'll

2398
01:59:33,880 --> 01:59:37,040
Speaker 3: immediately see her as a salute. She wanted me to

2399
01:59:37,040 --> 01:59:40,120
Speaker 3: get to know the real her, and I absolutely understand

2400
01:59:40,120 --> 01:59:41,400
Speaker 3: that she didn't want to just have.

2401
01:59:41,440 --> 01:59:42,560
Speaker 1: The spasy sleep with me.

2402
01:59:42,880 --> 01:59:45,400
Speaker 3: She wanted something real, and that's why she didn't tell

2403
01:59:45,840 --> 01:59:46,520
Speaker 3: really exactly.

2404
01:59:46,560 --> 01:59:50,760
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but Ezekiel has finally posted the Bible verse

2405
01:59:50,760 --> 01:59:54,480
Speaker 1: if you want to read it. Oh yeah, what is it? Nineteen?

2406
01:59:54,760 --> 01:59:57,480
Speaker 3: Yet she became more and more promiscuous, says she recalled

2407
01:59:57,480 --> 01:59:59,520
Speaker 3: the days of a youth where she was a prostitute

2408
01:59:59,560 --> 02:00:02,840
Speaker 3: in Egypt. There she lusted after her lovers whose genitals

2409
02:00:02,840 --> 02:00:09,160
Speaker 3: were like those of donkeys and who's emission was like

2410
02:00:09,280 --> 02:00:17,200
Speaker 3: that of a horse. Yayans from the Bible. Let's go,

2411
02:00:17,960 --> 02:00:26,720
Speaker 3: we're talking about bangers, dude. Wow now okay. Lastly, after

2412
02:00:26,760 --> 02:00:30,800
Speaker 3: we've become closer to the Lord, I see comments asking

2413
02:00:30,840 --> 02:00:33,320
Speaker 3: why was even friends with those guys? And it's actually

2414
02:00:33,320 --> 02:00:37,440
Speaker 3: an interesting little story. My parents are friends with all

2415
02:00:37,440 --> 02:00:40,280
Speaker 3: of their parents. Bro, that's not interesting. That's basically how

2416
02:00:40,320 --> 02:00:43,160
Speaker 3: every friendship starts when you're five years old. Is it's

2417
02:00:43,200 --> 02:00:46,400
Speaker 3: actually your parents who are friends.

2418
02:00:46,440 --> 02:00:49,400
Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, Uh.

2419
02:00:49,440 --> 02:00:51,200
Speaker 3: They all went to school together as well when they

2420
02:00:51,200 --> 02:00:52,920
Speaker 3: were younger, and in fact, the same high school that

2421
02:00:52,960 --> 02:00:53,320
Speaker 3: we went to.

2422
02:00:53,400 --> 02:00:55,120
Speaker 2: All of our parents went to the same school.

2423
02:00:55,360 --> 02:00:57,320
Speaker 3: The only reason I became friends with those guys was

2424
02:00:57,360 --> 02:00:59,280
Speaker 3: because all of our parents still kept in contact, so

2425
02:00:59,280 --> 02:01:00,000
Speaker 3: they brought us together.

2426
02:01:00,560 --> 02:01:02,400
Speaker 1: Not funny, that's how we met.

2427
02:01:02,880 --> 02:01:05,960
Speaker 3: We met very We met very little at barbecues and parties,

2428
02:01:06,000 --> 02:01:08,000
Speaker 3: and saved close friends for all of these years.

2429
02:01:08,080 --> 02:01:11,520
Speaker 1: Okay, Update number two. Hopefully this one's interesting and.

2430
02:01:11,520 --> 02:01:13,320
Speaker 2: We're gonna roll into this update.

2431
02:01:13,360 --> 02:01:14,160
Speaker 1: Get it, do it?

2432
02:01:14,360 --> 02:01:16,680
Speaker 2: Hey there, hope you're all doing great.

2433
02:01:16,720 --> 02:01:18,640
Speaker 3: Tomorrow my girlfriend and I will be speaking to my

2434
02:01:18,680 --> 02:01:20,800
Speaker 3: parents and there's some things we need to let them know.

2435
02:01:20,960 --> 02:01:23,280
Speaker 3: As I said on my previous update, my parents are

2436
02:01:23,280 --> 02:01:26,560
Speaker 3: friends with my ex'es parents. Super funny and interesting story

2437
02:01:26,600 --> 02:01:29,360
Speaker 3: by the way.

2438
02:01:28,080 --> 02:01:30,360
Speaker 2: Ex friends, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay.

2439
02:01:32,880 --> 02:01:34,880
Speaker 3: As I said on my previous update, my parents are

2440
02:01:34,880 --> 02:01:38,040
Speaker 3: friends with my ex friends' parents, so we plan to

2441
02:01:38,040 --> 02:01:40,640
Speaker 3: tell my parents the situation before my friends try to

2442
02:01:40,640 --> 02:01:42,960
Speaker 3: twist the story in any way. I have one hundred

2443
02:01:42,960 --> 02:01:47,720
Speaker 3: percent contact with my quote friends. I don't need them

2444
02:01:47,720 --> 02:01:50,280
Speaker 3: in my life. Eventually my parents will ask why I

2445
02:01:50,280 --> 02:01:52,560
Speaker 3: haven't met with them, so it's best to be straightforward.

2446
02:01:52,840 --> 02:01:55,600
Speaker 3: My girlfriend is absolutely comfortable with speaking to my parents,

2447
02:01:55,720 --> 02:01:59,560
Speaker 3: especially since they treat her like family. Hopefully everything goes well.

2448
02:01:59,640 --> 02:02:02,640
Speaker 3: I'll be posting more updates soon. It's almost night here,

2449
02:02:02,720 --> 02:02:04,680
Speaker 3: so I won't be posting it until tomorrow. Hopefully you

2450
02:02:04,720 --> 02:02:06,640
Speaker 3: stick around as many of you want updates and I

2451
02:02:06,680 --> 02:02:09,080
Speaker 3: don't want to leave all of you hanging. Blah blah blah.

2452
02:02:09,120 --> 02:02:13,320
Speaker 3: Here's the third update. I'll be posting an update. I'll

2453
02:02:13,320 --> 02:02:17,800
Speaker 3: be posting update three very soon. I brother, you just

2454
02:02:17,920 --> 02:02:21,839
Speaker 3: posted it. Brother, I'm sorry I couldn't post it yesterday.

2455
02:02:21,880 --> 02:02:23,680
Speaker 3: I got a little busy. So much has happened since

2456
02:02:23,680 --> 02:02:24,760
Speaker 3: the last time I updated.

2457
02:02:25,080 --> 02:02:28,200
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. Okay, here's the real update.

2458
02:02:29,880 --> 02:02:30,720
Speaker 2: Sorry for the wait.

2459
02:02:31,680 --> 02:02:34,680
Speaker 1: This weekend got a little busy, so I'll be using fake.

2460
02:02:34,560 --> 02:02:35,960
Speaker 3: Names from here on out so I don't have to

2461
02:02:35,960 --> 02:02:38,040
Speaker 3: constantly say my girlfriend and I And here's the rest

2462
02:02:38,040 --> 02:02:38,640
Speaker 3: of the update.

2463
02:02:38,880 --> 02:02:43,360
Speaker 2: Okay, Sarah and I we got another Sarah.

2464
02:02:43,840 --> 02:02:47,080
Speaker 3: Sarah and I decided to speak to my parents about

2465
02:02:47,120 --> 02:02:49,440
Speaker 3: everything that has happened. I saw a few comments saying

2466
02:02:49,480 --> 02:02:51,480
Speaker 3: it isn't a good idea to tell my parents, but

2467
02:02:51,680 --> 02:02:54,080
Speaker 3: we believed it was the right thing to do. We're

2468
02:02:54,080 --> 02:02:56,680
Speaker 3: both worried my ex friends would try to change up

2469
02:02:56,680 --> 02:02:59,240
Speaker 3: the story, so we decided to approach my parents about it.

2470
02:02:59,640 --> 02:03:01,480
Speaker 3: Like I said on my post, my parents treat my

2471
02:03:01,520 --> 02:03:05,839
Speaker 3: girlfriend like family, especially my dad who's very protective of her. Wow,

2472
02:03:06,120 --> 02:03:08,840
Speaker 3: it went pretty well. Telling them went way better than

2473
02:03:08,840 --> 02:03:11,440
Speaker 3: we expected. We both were super nervous to even bring

2474
02:03:11,480 --> 02:03:13,880
Speaker 3: it up, but my parents were very supportive and listen

2475
02:03:13,960 --> 02:03:16,400
Speaker 3: to what we had to say. Sarah didn't go into

2476
02:03:16,480 --> 02:03:18,400
Speaker 3: much personal detail, and she said that she had a

2477
02:03:18,480 --> 02:03:20,840
Speaker 3: history with my ex friends that she wasn't proud of.

2478
02:03:21,160 --> 02:03:24,240
Speaker 3: My parents aren't dumb. They definitely understood what she meant,

2479
02:03:24,320 --> 02:03:26,280
Speaker 3: but didn't pressure her to say anything that she didn't

2480
02:03:26,280 --> 02:03:28,600
Speaker 3: want to. And by the way, I'm going to pressure

2481
02:03:28,720 --> 02:03:31,720
Speaker 3: all of you right now to always join us live

2482
02:03:31,760 --> 02:03:34,240
Speaker 3: on YouTube every weekday at three pm PST.

2483
02:03:34,680 --> 02:03:37,560
Speaker 2: Just tap our profile. Hop it and there's a.

2484
02:03:37,520 --> 02:03:40,760
Speaker 3: Little bit more relevant update here. And I think do

2485
02:03:40,800 --> 02:03:42,600
Speaker 3: we should we just dive into it. We've done so

2486
02:03:42,680 --> 02:03:44,480
Speaker 3: much discussion. Let's just finish this off.

2487
02:03:44,520 --> 02:03:44,800
Speaker 1: You can.

2488
02:03:45,840 --> 02:03:48,360
Speaker 5: We're reading a little slower. Oh oh yeah, you're just

2489
02:03:48,440 --> 02:03:49,240
Speaker 5: reading really quickly.

2490
02:03:49,280 --> 02:03:51,480
Speaker 3: I was reading because these guys saw the word count

2491
02:03:51,480 --> 02:03:51,720
Speaker 3: in here.

2492
02:03:51,720 --> 02:03:56,080
Speaker 5: There's a lot we don't need to Okay, interesting story

2493
02:03:56,360 --> 02:03:57,360
Speaker 5: how I met my friends.

2494
02:03:57,720 --> 02:04:00,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like the story forever every single group

2495
02:04:00,680 --> 02:04:04,120
Speaker 3: of friends that ever met when they were five. Cool, Okay, Anyways,

2496
02:04:04,720 --> 02:04:07,080
Speaker 3: we told them that we were worried about my ex

2497
02:04:07,160 --> 02:04:10,760
Speaker 3: friends saying anything first and possibly changing up the story

2498
02:04:10,800 --> 02:04:11,920
Speaker 3: to make Sarah look bad.

2499
02:04:12,520 --> 02:04:14,040
Speaker 1: It's the fourth time that you've said that.

2500
02:04:15,680 --> 02:04:18,400
Speaker 3: My parents really appreciated that we spoke to them about this,

2501
02:04:18,560 --> 02:04:20,560
Speaker 3: because they knew something like this would be tough to

2502
02:04:20,600 --> 02:04:23,360
Speaker 3: talk about. My dad, of course, was in protective mode,

2503
02:04:23,440 --> 02:04:27,080
Speaker 3: asking Sarah if if she was hurt physically, and she

2504
02:04:27,160 --> 02:04:30,040
Speaker 3: insisted to him that she was okay. My dad works

2505
02:04:30,080 --> 02:04:32,440
Speaker 3: with one of the dads of my ex friends, so

2506
02:04:32,520 --> 02:04:34,640
Speaker 3: I told him not to bring anything up right now.

2507
02:04:34,920 --> 02:04:36,800
Speaker 3: I did tell him to be on the lookout if

2508
02:04:36,840 --> 02:04:40,080
Speaker 3: any of my ex friends' dads ended up mentioning anything

2509
02:04:40,400 --> 02:04:43,320
Speaker 3: that'll show us my friends actually did bring it up already.

2510
02:04:43,760 --> 02:04:46,000
Speaker 3: My dad said that he'll definitely be looking out if

2511
02:04:46,000 --> 02:04:49,400
Speaker 3: he hears anything, and he's very supportive about all of this. Eventually,

2512
02:04:49,440 --> 02:04:52,959
Speaker 3: we want my friend's parents to know about the situation

2513
02:04:53,040 --> 02:04:55,560
Speaker 3: if things get messy, but we're all a little worried

2514
02:04:55,600 --> 02:04:58,640
Speaker 3: on how they'll react. I agree, stop telling them all,

2515
02:04:58,680 --> 02:04:59,760
Speaker 3: this story just moved on.

2516
02:05:00,040 --> 02:05:02,880
Speaker 1: I don't think you need even needed to tell your parents, like.

2517
02:05:03,200 --> 02:05:05,720
Speaker 3: I mean, maybe tell the parents if they're gonna like hear, like,

2518
02:05:06,640 --> 02:05:09,400
Speaker 3: because you don't want the parents to now think weirdly

2519
02:05:09,520 --> 02:05:10,880
Speaker 3: about your wife.

2520
02:05:11,120 --> 02:05:14,320
Speaker 4: Sure, it's just like we don't need to talk about it.

2521
02:05:14,240 --> 02:05:17,960
Speaker 3: Because who knows what these absolute knuckle dragging chocolateites are

2522
02:05:17,960 --> 02:05:19,000
Speaker 3: going to say.

2523
02:05:19,240 --> 02:05:19,840
Speaker 4: Part of your life?

2524
02:05:20,240 --> 02:05:21,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're not part of your life.

2525
02:05:21,400 --> 02:05:23,920
Speaker 3: They're not, but they will be if like the drama

2526
02:05:23,960 --> 02:05:26,440
Speaker 3: makes its way into your parents' heads like that would

2527
02:05:26,760 --> 02:05:28,800
Speaker 3: Your parents are the only ones I think need to know.

2528
02:05:29,480 --> 02:05:31,120
Speaker 1: All the other people don't. You don't need to worry

2529
02:05:31,120 --> 02:05:33,960
Speaker 1: about them maybe, But I just agree that you don't

2530
02:05:34,000 --> 02:05:35,600
Speaker 1: need to get this story like I mean, it's it's

2531
02:05:35,600 --> 02:05:39,880
Speaker 1: almost like you're putting out just like the record. It's like, no,

2532
02:05:39,960 --> 02:05:40,280
Speaker 1: you don't.

2533
02:05:42,840 --> 02:05:45,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like almost like you've updated four times.

2534
02:05:48,000 --> 02:05:50,760
Speaker 1: Thank you for the story when we're real your real

2535
02:05:50,880 --> 02:05:54,120
Speaker 1: names in there, and then just send it to off your.

2536
02:05:53,920 --> 02:05:56,920
Speaker 2: Parents should yeah, with social Security numbers.

2537
02:05:58,160 --> 02:06:02,480
Speaker 3: So overall, all of this went very great and it

2538
02:06:02,560 --> 02:06:06,240
Speaker 3: made me and especially Sarah very comfortable and more relaxed.

2539
02:06:07,000 --> 02:06:10,000
Speaker 1: And that's the end. Of the story. No marriage, no

2540
02:06:10,160 --> 02:06:11,040
Speaker 1: marriage confirmation.

2541
02:06:11,560 --> 02:06:13,960
Speaker 4: That's the end of the story.

2542
02:06:13,160 --> 02:06:16,680
Speaker 1: Shop, Yeah, find out go to there was this a

2543
02:06:16,760 --> 02:06:17,879
Speaker 1: throwaway account though.

2544
02:06:17,800 --> 02:06:20,280
Speaker 3: It might have been. Yeah, I don't think we're gonna

2545
02:06:20,280 --> 02:06:22,960
Speaker 3: find out. But from the sound of it, I would

2546
02:06:22,960 --> 02:06:24,000
Speaker 3: bet you that they did get.

2547
02:06:23,880 --> 02:06:25,880
Speaker 1: Married for sure. I mean, they sounded super happy.

2548
02:06:25,600 --> 02:06:27,560
Speaker 3: And they you know, it makes sense that they're trying

2549
02:06:27,560 --> 02:06:29,680
Speaker 3: to maybe do a little too much because of everything

2550
02:06:29,720 --> 02:06:31,960
Speaker 3: that happened with the high school friends and like how

2551
02:06:31,960 --> 02:06:36,760
Speaker 3: far back that friendship goes. But it's like, do these

2552
02:06:36,760 --> 02:06:39,840
Speaker 3: people tried to like turn your real They tried to

2553
02:06:39,840 --> 02:06:41,920
Speaker 3: play a joke on you and then it turned into

2554
02:06:41,920 --> 02:06:44,280
Speaker 3: a joke on them, and that you you ended up

2555
02:06:44,320 --> 02:06:47,800
Speaker 3: in a beautiful, loving relationship. They now they're more friends

2556
02:06:47,920 --> 02:06:52,200
Speaker 3: in existence. They deserve to be cut off entirely. Notion

2557
02:06:53,120 --> 02:06:54,200
Speaker 3: black hole for these people.

2558
02:06:54,520 --> 02:06:55,000
Speaker 1: Black hole.

2559
02:06:55,920 --> 02:06:58,280
Speaker 3: You know what, No, it takes a special kind of

2560
02:06:58,760 --> 02:07:01,240
Speaker 3: demon to deserve getting thrown into the black hole.

2561
02:07:01,520 --> 02:07:03,760
Speaker 2: So I think ort Cloud for these guys, ort Cloud

2562
02:07:03,840 --> 02:07:05,200
Speaker 2: for these ork Cloud kind.

2563
02:07:05,080 --> 02:07:07,000
Speaker 1: Of sounds like a little peaceful.

2564
02:07:07,400 --> 02:07:08,360
Speaker 2: See now you'd think that.

2565
02:07:08,600 --> 02:07:11,080
Speaker 3: But that's the devious little twist on the ork Cloud

2566
02:07:11,240 --> 02:07:13,440
Speaker 3: is that it starts peaceful, and then it turns into.

2567
02:07:13,520 --> 02:07:17,080
Speaker 2: Unending like mental anguish and agony over what they.

2568
02:07:17,040 --> 02:07:20,480
Speaker 1: Have done, because but are you are you getting You're

2569
02:07:20,520 --> 02:07:21,480
Speaker 1: not getting hit by debris?

2570
02:07:21,720 --> 02:07:24,280
Speaker 2: The ork cloud is worse than the sun, That's what

2571
02:07:24,360 --> 02:07:24,840
Speaker 2: I would say.

2572
02:07:24,880 --> 02:07:26,280
Speaker 1: Well, because the sun you're like burning up.

2573
02:07:26,280 --> 02:07:28,000
Speaker 3: You get to burn up, and like your your toast

2574
02:07:28,440 --> 02:07:30,880
Speaker 3: ort cloud as you float forever and you deal with the.

2575
02:07:33,520 --> 02:07:35,000
Speaker 1: Or cloud, why not just put them in like the

2576
02:07:35,480 --> 02:07:36,280
Speaker 1: depths of space.

2577
02:07:36,560 --> 02:07:38,000
Speaker 2: Well that's what that's You got to go through the

2578
02:07:38,120 --> 02:07:38,840
Speaker 2: orc cloud to get there.

2579
02:07:38,960 --> 02:07:41,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like it's like a passage through. Like just

2580
02:07:42,000 --> 02:07:43,600
Speaker 1: just put them in the depths of space.

2581
02:07:43,400 --> 02:07:45,800
Speaker 3: Because pork cloud is just a more fun way to

2582
02:07:45,800 --> 02:07:48,440
Speaker 3: say or clouds there because I like the word ort.

2583
02:07:48,760 --> 02:07:52,680
Speaker 5: I found the account or he literally said I'll post

2584
02:07:52,720 --> 02:07:55,880
Speaker 5: an update. And it's been two years and there's comments

2585
02:07:56,120 --> 02:07:58,160
Speaker 5: like are you okay, buddy, where's the update?

2586
02:07:58,840 --> 02:08:00,560
Speaker 3: You know what? He probably decided, He was probably like,

2587
02:08:00,640 --> 02:08:02,320
Speaker 3: I don't need to get on Reddit ever again.