1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take that question one level deeper. Is you know, 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: because they're running it, no matter what you're doing, it's 3 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: gonna be hard, and especially in those early days especially, 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: And so at what point do you know it's hard? Yeah, 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: because it's supposed to be hard, but let me keep going, 6 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:17,080 Speaker 1: or it's hard because I probably shouldn't be doing this. 7 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 2: I think the thing about strategy is time. 8 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 3: Like strategy is about time, So you can have like 9 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 3: good ideas you can have you say, I'm gonna you know, 10 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:28,479 Speaker 3: you have a great to do list, but you're not 11 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 3: being strategic if you don't have time attached to it. 12 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 3: So when I started Black or Avengures, prior to this, 13 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 3: I had a T shirt company and I was doing 14 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 3: that and I was rocking and row and I worked 15 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 3: myself out of poverty with that T shirt company. So 16 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 3: let me backing up a sept to my story. I'm 17 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 3: a computer scientist. I had great jobs, but I had 18 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 3: two children. Have my first job when I was seventeen, 19 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 3: my second child when I was twenty one. 20 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 2: Now, I didn't. 21 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 3: Grow up in any and the way I grew up 22 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 3: was very middle of the most middle middle class, but 23 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 3: as an adult because I now had these two kids, 24 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 3: went the school, all of that. I ended up on 25 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 3: Section eight, ended up food stamps, government assistants, all of that, 26 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 3: just to keep things going. America's not built for a person, 27 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 3: a single person with children. 28 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 2: That's just the reality. And so But I had good jobs. 29 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 3: I was a kay through to ive educator, I worked 30 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 3: at a patent trademark office, you know, things like that. 31 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 3: But I still couldn't afford to live. Entrepreneurship was really 32 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 3: my way out. I had gotten laid off twice. Me 33 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 3: and my fiance broke up. I realized I'm not going 34 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 3: to get married now, I have three children, and I'm 35 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 3: not going to go back to anywhere where anybody can 36 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: ever come to me and say I'm laying you off. 37 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 3: But you know, people can only see your actions, they 38 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 3: don't have your vision. 39 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 2: I knew who I was. 40 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 3: What it looked like on the outside was crazy, and 41 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 3: people were like, what would you do. I build a 42 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 3: TP in my living room and rented it out on Airbnb. 43 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 3: People was like, what is she doing? I said, I'm 44 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 3: never going back to work for anyone unless the conditions 45 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 3: may make the most sense for me. 46 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 2: But you won't be able to come in and say 47 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 2: you lay me off. 48 00:01:56,400 --> 00:02:00,639 Speaker 3: So in that case, I was looking at like, how 49 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 3: am I going to build with whatever I have? And 50 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 3: so I learned to print T shirts. I started a 51 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 3: T shirt line. It took off, We made Essence Magazine. 52 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 3: We traveled all up and down to East Coast vending 53 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 3: and I worked and then I ended up getting deals 54 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 3: with like Google and Amazon. I worked myself off of poverty, 55 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 3: paid for my kids to go to school, like all 56 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 3: those kinds of things. 57 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: And then Blacker Adventures came up for me because I 58 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:28,679 Speaker 2: need a community. I'm not a peron. 59 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 3: I didn't just want to be head down that. It 60 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 3: never worked for me, but I had a contract with Google. 61 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 3: So I was doing work with Google, bringing in community, 62 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 3: training entrepreneurs, and I was starting up Blacker Adventures. Blacker 63 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 3: Adventures wasn't bringing in as much money, so I said, 64 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 3: I gotta give it. I'm gonna give it three months. 65 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 3: I'm gonna give it all I got for three months. 66 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 3: If it don't take off for three months, I'm letting 67 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 3: it go. And I think it's important for people to 68 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 3: wrap time around what you're trying, so you and don't 69 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 3: keep trying the same thing for the whole time, right, Like, 70 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 3: give yourself a time window. Okay, I'm gonna go at 71 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 3: this while I work. Hello, please be working while I 72 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,639 Speaker 3: have some men come coming in. I'm gonna go at 73 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 3: this as hard as I can for six months. 74 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, So I got to ask. So I'm 75 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: formulating this question as I speaking, because you just said 76 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 1: a couple of things that I want to dig deeper on. 77 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: Like you talked about like you worked yourself out of 78 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: poverty by building this business's t shirt line. That you 79 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,839 Speaker 1: talked about the work you do with Google with training entrepreneurs. 80 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:33,959 Speaker 1: And my first thought was that one me is different 81 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: than the one me that is now. And what about 82 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 1: that on me that was probably new in business or 83 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: hadn't been wildly successful yet, says to Google, I'm gonna 84 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: go train entrepreneurs on your behalf. 85 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 3: This is you're good at this, you know, like not 86 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 3: everybody's good at it. 87 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 2: Okay. 88 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 3: What's interesting about the difference between that only and this 89 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 3: on me is I was way more willing to take 90 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 3: more risks right now. I have so many partners, I 91 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 3: have so many alliances. You're not going to catch me 92 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 3: on anybody's social media talking bad about anybody you know. 93 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 3: And that's a hard place to be in. Right, It's 94 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 3: a privilege because I get to I honestly have been 95 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 3: blessed enough for these brands to allow me to do 96 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 3: the work I feel like I want to do. That's 97 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 3: a blessing. Not everybody gets that. They're not dictating what 98 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 3: I do. They say, even with our relationship with TikTok, 99 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 3: came to them, they said, hey, we like what you're doing. 100 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 3: Let's talk. We started talking. I said, look, this is 101 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 3: what I want to do. I want to put together 102 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 3: a fund that would give out marketing money to entrepreneurs 103 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 3: because that's the one thing that creators don't have, marketing dollars. 104 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 3: They said, okay, I said, I want to do storytelling 105 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 3: around it. So we did two seasons of a podcast 106 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 3: called The weigh In Series, and they also worked was 107 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 3: we went through a TikTok exceler as. 108 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 2: Well to learn how to use a platform. More so 109 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:04,559 Speaker 2: where that brands go through. 110 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 3: So all of these resources that came to me, I'm 111 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 3: trying to learn and give it back all the time. 112 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 2: I'm trying to like take what I got. 113 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 3: And give it back so that me then didn't have 114 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 3: anything I had nothing to lose. I had no money, 115 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 3: I had no alliances. I was like that, ba, I'm 116 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 3: gonna do whatever. When I started to work with Google, 117 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 3: they were launching a brand new program and again network 118 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 3: I was already a Google supplier, so. 119 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 2: I was already doing business with them. 120 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 3: The person I was doing business with them through said Hey, 121 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 3: we're starting this new program where we're going to train entrepreneurs. 122 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 3: We would love to have you a part of it. 123 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 3: I said, okay, the parameters wire loose. 124 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 2: Now what a program is now is way. 125 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 3: Different than when I started, because they still have it 126 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 3: a digital coaching program. But it's different now if they 127 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 3: in fact, if they still have it. But again, I've 128 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 3: been privileged enough, busted enough. I'll say to work with 129 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 3: partners who say here's what we want, go do that. 130 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 2: At that moment, I got to create eight. 131 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 3: I got to think of how I wanted to do it, 132 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 3: and that was a space that honestly, working at Google 133 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:05,919 Speaker 3: shifted a lot for me. 134 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 2: It taught me how to be a leader. It also 135 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 2: helped me. 136 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 3: They gave us access and privilege that our average contractors 137 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 3: didn't have. So I've been a Google offices all around 138 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 3: the world. Also just looking at the way they have 139 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,359 Speaker 3: treated their employees. And I'm not here, I'm not caving 140 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 3: for Google, but I'm just saying that, like, it taught 141 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 3: me a lot to see this idea of like. 142 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 2: We treat you well and you'll do the work well. 143 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 2: We'll feed you, you. 144 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,160 Speaker 3: Can take a nap, you can go for a swim, 145 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 3: you could you know, whatever, you getting the work done, 146 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,239 Speaker 3: We're gonna get things done for you. And that helped 147 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 3: me adapt as a leader. And I was like, who 148 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 3: I am now