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Speaker 1: are this is another episode of Formal Decisions. As you

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Speaker 1: staying next to my wonderful co host, I'm Wheezy and

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Speaker 1: we have some ladies. By the way, I want to

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Speaker 1: lot of people that write us. I'm gonna be totally

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Speaker 1: honest with you, just I'm gonna be honest. People write

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Speaker 1: us all the time, and I'm just like, so our

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Speaker 1: didn't want to record with me solo, That's really what

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Speaker 1: something a lot of solo lately. I'm like, let me

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Speaker 1: just think of someone. And then I remember clicking on

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Speaker 1: your Instagram and I didn't hear your podcast. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: guys just looks fun, that's the truth. Really. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: played two minutes and I was like, oh, yeah, like

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Speaker 1: this is perfect, you know, because we've had our mothers

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Speaker 1: some advice, I think sometimes from someone that's just wiser multigeneration,

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Speaker 1: have been a mother and you know grandma, Well that's

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Speaker 1: So I'm listening to Tori on a podcasty about my podcast,

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Speaker 1: Is it on class brows? It is stop it. Yes, anyway,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so we started. I started. We started the podcast.

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Speaker 1: They went through like a really bad breakup and my

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Speaker 1: I was just like, this is so like funny. My

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Speaker 1: is the thing. So Tori was on another podcast, remember

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Speaker 1: for me, Tori, tell you about us today, what we listened?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, this is like really I'm

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Speaker 1: I think what it comes down to though, for me

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Speaker 1: think it is so difficult out there today for a

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Speaker 1: I'm not like even king. They don't even know how

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Speaker 1: been in a relationship. I haven't been. I haven't been

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Speaker 1: But let's just quickly to tell them the story of

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Speaker 1: what happened the other night. What happened? It's another one

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Speaker 1: I pieces of ship? She finds if it's an app

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Speaker 1: it works? But I'm about now. I'm like, if I

424
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Speaker 1: go into one else's podcast, I'm like, is she gonna

425
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,440
Speaker 1: listen to every single thing I said? One thing once

426
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 1: I was talking about, like I think like touching with

427
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Speaker 1: the with the salad, the old boyfriend actor. You know

428
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Speaker 1: what peg is? Can we call you my mom? Mom?

429
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Speaker 1: You don't know what peggan? No, No, it's time to

430
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Speaker 1: let me get Let's tell me so we did so

431
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 1: bad with fictionary. Let's get this is. I'm a woman,

432
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Speaker 1: a woman, here's haman you better really anything? Wait wait

433
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Speaker 1: wait wait, We're gonna basically like how the man is

434
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 1: like like a should be way taller than that. My

435
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,919
Speaker 1: guy is taller. Actually that's a good point. This is

436
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 1: normally what they look like. Okay, but I'm just trying

437
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,360
Speaker 1: to show the angle here because what Mandy does she

438
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:35,919
Speaker 1: wears a strap one. I need you to can you

439
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:40,680
Speaker 1: color it into got a big stop it? Wow, that's big.

440
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 1: It is big. You should I know you do, it's amazing.

441
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 1: Wait stop it, Tori. Have you done that? No? I'm like,

442
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 1: havn't done it was almost there. If she's doing fingers,

443
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 1: that's the next was there. I have to find the

444
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 1: right person. I asked him my because I was like,

445
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 1: I was like, do you want me to do that?

446
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:05,199
Speaker 1: And he's like no, oh, he said no. I mean

447
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 1: you probably could have warmed him up, but he's yeah,

448
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 1: he's saying that. But I think Tory has to stop

449
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 1: fucking white guys. I told you this good now if

450
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,920
Speaker 1: you have to really try to good listening. Well, I'm

451
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 1: being we know, a panderer, but I'm feeling this because

452
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:22,959
Speaker 1: I feel like you're past the bullshit. I think this

453
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 1: is I tell you this today. Tell the truth, but

454
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 1: just story. So you gotta stoping white guys because I

455
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 1: don't do you know, I miss a true story. I

456
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: was with my friend John, he's a comedian. I do

457
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: like sketches with him, and she was like you she

458
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 1: just like date like black eyes. I think they will

459
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 1: treat you better. I'm don't. Okay, Well, now that now

460
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: that now I might not want to just say that,

461
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 1: I'll kind nothing with the bullshit too. Maybe maybe she

462
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 1: has to change it up. I mean she's got to

463
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 1: do so. You will definitely experience a little bit of indifference.

464
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: I think as far as like, so I did white

465
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Speaker 1: guys in a day Black guess we European white guys,

466
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: because there's a part of me that's like kind of

467
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 1: nervous that they'll be like racist if they're American. But

468
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 1: I'm from Florida, from Florida. But I do find that

469
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: black men are sometimes just being totally honest, strangely a

470
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 1: little more in tune with how they're treating me, Like

471
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 1: they're more conscious of what's going on. Sometimes it's like

472
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 1: I can't explain it, and I don't know if it's

473
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 1: because we're connecting on a different level that maybe I'm

474
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 1: not connecting with that white guy. But I have found

475
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 1: that black men have just genuinely understood where I'm coming

476
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,880
Speaker 1: from more um as far as like when it comes

477
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 1: from the things I'm looking for a relationship, they're more

478
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: honest and upfront with me. If I'm saying and I'm

479
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 1: looking for a boyfriend, and they're like funny to give

480
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: you that. I don't know if you're talking like that though,

481
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 1: and like you wait, this is what's so sad to me?

482
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: So sad white guys, I just listen to me and

483
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: don't respond. But happen what happens? I'll what're like, yeah, yeah,

484
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 1: yeah no, but the last guy all right, this is

485
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: you Tory, and I feel terrible. You want to go.

486
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: Wait what about John? John? Yes? Yes, but is John

487
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: is over sleep Sue. He's very tall, he's like six five.

488
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 1: Don't see a picture like like like John, I happened.

489
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 1: I want Tory to be with John, but if she

490
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: can't because she feels it. Friends, I'm giving him to

491
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 1: you're giving me John. Don't put John on the spot.

492
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to see until we often show them John,

493
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 1: So show weezy Johnny. She does great videos with him.

494
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 1: Let me know if he's got a great sense to

495
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: you mark four six four that's I think he's like,

496
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: is this my tight? No? No? Oh okay. He's definitely

497
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 1: not ugly. He's not well, I'm shallow. So she's cute.

498
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 1: He's just not your he's older. He's older. I don't

499
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: know you understand what any lights are like, wait, wait, wait,

500
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 1: that's your probly less guy on hand. Would so wrong, Mandy,

501
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: mama lul loose talking. Look at me. I was just

502
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: with my grandson today. Listen to me. I'm about to

503
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: throw a tantrent. That is, she's about to play baby shark. Wait, baby, no,

504
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:34,160
Speaker 1: baby shark. Did you just think baby shark shark? Hooktail?

505
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: You need to stop dating these young guys? Why you

506
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: don't have a boy friend. So here's the thing. How

507
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 1: do you like younger guys? No? No, no, no, no

508
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 1: no right now to say, now have some grown ass

509
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 1: niggas in this room and anything too. So here's dandy,

510
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: I get that. Let me let me break this. When's

511
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 1: the last time you dated someone older than you? Okay?

512
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: I mean I have sex with someone who's older than me?

513
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: Because she say dating dating? They still be in the millennials.

514
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 1: What is X is that before us? I don't want

515
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 1: them old niggas? Baby? But why do you like? Why

516
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: do you like your girls? That's a good point. Why

517
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 1: do you like the Okay, so here we go. Here's

518
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 1: what do they have to offer. Here's first off, mind

519
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: be millionaires, Mandy like starting lineup like you know when

520
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:27,120
Speaker 1: you want a draft. Yeah, then they're like to fresh

521
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 1: out of college. Mandy's always like, so you like hard

522
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: Actually Harvard doesn't be in the I mean they're cute.

523
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: I'll go to Howard before getting that clear. Tori's never

524
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 1: dated anyone from any of those. So, so here's here's

525
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: the thing. College you're in you're an eskateboy. You make

526
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: no money right now, you have no job you lost.

527
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: Let's go. So with dating in the space of social media,

528
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: of dating apps, it's awful. Yes, So I have a

529
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 1: lot of friends who do deal with older men. I

530
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: tend to see that the same issues that they have

531
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: with dating older men may or may not be the

532
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: very same issues that I would have with dating with

533
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: a younger man. Here's the other thing, at twenty eight,

534
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: at eight, I'm still not in the phase where I

535
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: want children. So I'm either meeting someone if they're thirty eight,

536
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: have they come with a lot of baggage as then

537
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 1: they have multiple kids? And almost they have multiple kids

538
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: and multiple kids. Why is what your daughter's gonna deal with?

539
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: It she deals with true? You know, I meant painting

540
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: a very bad picture. I was hopeful today. I was

541
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: like hope telling how this Now, are you ruining it?

542
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 1: Because I just want to tell you what's going on.

543
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 1: Mandy is projecting. Okay, she's projecting. I mean, this was

544
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 1: a serious conversation with my grandson. Man. I'm gonna tell

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570
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Speaker 1: I can't give that, you want a boyfriend, get everyone

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575
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Speaker 1: I see them all the time. Not so much. No, no, no,

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579
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: you need to be like I'm smart in the bedroom.

580
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 1: I know, I know, but you want not here yet,

581
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: but you want a boyfriend? Doesn't fit what you're telling me.

582
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Speaker 1: Hardy eight is very young, is it? Yes? It is today.

583
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: I mean you up behind you with fifty eight. I

584
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 1: don't even care anymore. No, it's young. I think what

585
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 1: you're trying to say is like you're the state where

586
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: your life is right, you're twenty eight? You are like,

587
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Speaker 1: I need them young, I need Samona boot Yeah, wait

588
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: a thirty eight? They not meeting. It's like it's like

589
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: powder coming out. Wait a minute, who is she? Where

590
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: are you meeting? Where you see most of your guy

591
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: Instagram first? So I just told my mom what that

592
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: meant the other day. She was like, what does that mean?

593
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: Sliding into yours? Like they was fucking you know? No, no, literally,

594
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,479
Speaker 1: She's like, they're sliding to the damn I thought they

595
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: were like having sex. I can't understand. How could I.

596
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: I don't meet everyone from there, I mean I have.

597
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm a lot of circles where I

598
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: meet a lot of new people anyways, but I genuinely

599
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: don't find the attraction to older men, and I feel

600
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 1: like they're kindescending. I like to kind of feel like

601
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 1: a teacher, but I'm also dominant. So I like to

602
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: feel like I can teach somebody new things. I don't

603
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: like for somebody to tell me, oh, you're too young.

604
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: You all know about that. I don't like that because

605
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: I'm a narcissist a little bit. So I like to

606
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 1: feel like I don't know. I say, She's like, no,

607
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 1: you're not. And I was like, look at the map,

608
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 1: I said, look at the meme. It describes me, Mandy.

609
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: I'm not even I don't be sure. I think you

610
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 1: gotta switch over to I don't know what I said

611
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: as Jewish. First off, hold on it for the first

612
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: of all, my father's Jewish. No second, and I want

613
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,879
Speaker 1: you she's never been with a Jewish guy. Jewish first,

614
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 1: when you too. I grew up watching cheap So here's

615
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: a problem, my husband, I was about to say, see,

616
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: I like, I like generous talking to help. Let me

617
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: tell you how I know I can't stay with the

618
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 1: Jewish man. Tell us my parents fell in love. Right.

619
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Speaker 1: My mom is this hot young black girl. Not really,

620
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Speaker 1: she's mid late thirties, young to you and my father

621
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Speaker 1: and her mit and San Francisco. She's buying or whatever

622
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 1: she wants. Blah bla blah blah blah boom. Once she

623
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: gets pregnant and they get married. I saw what he

624
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: did from a young age. What did he do? I

625
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: knew he would, like, you want a new Jaguark, I'll

626
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 1: buy it for you, but it's gonna be ten years old.

627
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: Like he was always fucking cheap. My dad went to

628
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: buy me my first computer. I kid you not. We

629
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 1: were selling that Apple store. We couldn't get some free.

630
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Speaker 1: He left. We were right to best Buy, and he's like, getaway, Gateway, Gila.

631
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Speaker 1: I don't know what you like, but pick it has

632
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: still be three. And I'm like, daddy, there's only one

633
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 1: computer that's three and an it doesn't even come with

634
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: a keyboard. He was ridiculous. I'm not gonna be with

635
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: a Jewish man. You should see what he does gets

636
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 1: all the time. I mean, my daddy jam making it.

637
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: He swear every time I get a discount man, every

638
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:33,879
Speaker 1: time we go into somewhere, see this time. But maybe

639
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: you just be a young guy. I think you old soul.

640
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: I'll take it. You just want. He wants to be

641
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 1: like like like, okay, tell me what to do, right.

642
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 1: I get those okay, but they don't want me to

643
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 1: relation your mind from when not getting to the core

644
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 1: is your dominant? Is this I don't even know that

645
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: I know what is going. I don't know because I'm

646
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: gonna tell you why because you ate it out. I

647
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: said I want a boyfriend. I would like to here's

648
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 1: the thing too, so I'm trying to get it to be.

649
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: I've had guys want to be with me, so fellam

650
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: Bay made it like fella Bay wanted to be with me,

651
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 1: but he was a felonist fell for a second, so

652
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: we may say names of guys Bay, fell Embaye, Scissors, Scissors.

653
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:32,399
Speaker 1: I really really liked Fellen Bay, enjoyed him, but I'm

654
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: also very big at I feel like when you're in

655
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: your late twenties early thirties, and this can go to

656
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 1: the listeners too, when you're dating, I don't want a

657
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 1: date to be claimed. I want a date to build.

658
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,399
Speaker 1: And so if I find someone where I feel like

659
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: he wouldn't be a good partner for me. And I

660
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: was just telling my friend this last night because his

661
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 1: money isn't where I would need it to be. If

662
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 1: I'm with somebody, I'm not gonna let my partner struggle.

663
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 1: And at this point where I'm making the money making.

664
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: I also don't want to get into her relationship as

665
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,240
Speaker 1: an investment to help pick someone up. I want someone

666
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,240
Speaker 1: to either meet me at my level and we build

667
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: each other, but without where we feel like we had

668
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: a little hard It would be an older that would

669
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: So I'm starting to this one guy, you're getting a dad.

670
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: He's Harry. He's thirty three, right, And it's working out

671
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: because I've never heard Mandy say she's dating someone with

672
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 1: a three in front of their Actually we well, we fucked.

673
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 1: He was in his twenties. Great, what do you mean

674
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 1: you skipped for ten years and was so confused? Thing?

675
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 1: He's out, he's now a free agent. He's retired. So

676
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: now it works out because he's retired football and I

677
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: don't even deal with him like that. But he had

678
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: nine year right right, right athletes context and athletes, So

679
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 1: you can't have had wives. But that's okay, yeah, I think,

680
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: so go ahead. No, that's that's the Middle Eastern trial.

681
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: That girlfriend, wife and a few young thing in the

682
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: car acting the episode. You know it's true. I was

683
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:15,320
Speaker 1: babysitting and I'm like, shut up, kid, I'm busy. Trist

684
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: Oh my god, the whole episode was Tristan. Yeah, I

685
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 1: think the thing with you because you're a dominant personal

686
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 1: quick and I did not. This is what happens when

687
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:30,840
Speaker 1: Wheezy doesn't have an outline. We got well, bit, Harry,

688
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: You're very knie. I can't believe the paper and the

689
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: pad and boring and that was just so. But by

690
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: the way, that's better than Tori does. I was like,

691
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 1: we mat that fucking pad with the dick pan and whatever. Tori.

692
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I like that. I want the phone going.

693
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 1: I'm like the pit. By the way, I feel like

694
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: every time someone should drink is when my mom says, Tori,

695
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: you have to be wasted by the end of this episode.

696
00:38:55,719 --> 00:39:00,280
Speaker 1: That's a great sentiments on the actually took go throughout.

697
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 1: But I just forgot to text you. I think, because

698
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: you're dominating, assume that someone you will let you do

699
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:07,919
Speaker 1: that and older won't. But you're like, oh, they're gonna

700
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: you know, they're not gonna want me to learn from them,

701
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. I've dated men in their forties that

702
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:13,720
Speaker 1: can still learn from me. You need to date someone

703
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: that's just receptive and open to that. And I just

704
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:19,439
Speaker 1: think it's just not happening. Just like with young guys too,

705
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: they know it all. Sometimes you can't tell them ship

706
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: you know, so it's it is the same bullshit. But

707
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,359
Speaker 1: I do think you have better chances with at least

708
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: someone being more committed, which is what you want. I

709
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: really think there's a meme where it's like, oh my god,

710
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: I want to get married, and then the very next

711
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 1: one I posted it today it says why do you

712
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 1: eat your toast that way? So it's like where it's

713
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 1: literally like I like someone that I find something that

714
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: I fucking like, can I just say something? So I

715
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 1: married my husband all right. I don't even really know how.

716
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 1: I walked down the aisand like I was, no, you

717
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 1: gotta let you gotta get this. I woke up the

718
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: next day and I looked in when I go, what

719
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 1: the fund did I get? What did y'all do? It?

720
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: In Vagua? Next day, but this was no, I'm married

721
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 1: because the same made I'm married to for thirty eight years.

722
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: I literally woke up and said, what the fund did

723
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 1: I do? Called my mother two days later, I said

724
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: I'm getting a divorce. She hung up on me, and

725
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 1: she didn't talked to me for three months. And I

726
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 1: was like, I was so young and it was so

727
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: long ago. I was twenty three. I mean, I wasn't

728
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: and I literally even have a whole phase, did you.

729
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: I didn't know nothing zero. So my mother hung up,

730
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: and then I was like, where the funk am I going?

731
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 1: I teach aerobics? No, I was like, skid, I was like,

732
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: but I really was like I was really petrified, you

733
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: know what. I was my liking, I'm Jane fucking fund.

734
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 1: Where am I going? God? Damn? One, two, three, five,

735
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: six seven. But and then finally, and then I was

736
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 1: just horrible. I was an asshome. One day, I came

737
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 1: home and it backed any of the Yellow Pages out

738
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,280
Speaker 1: and he goes to me, if you don't go to therapy,

739
00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: I'm leaving, you know. And then I was like, oh,

740
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: was like, I better go to therapy because I was

741
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 1: too scared that we should break up. What were your issues?

742
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 1: They found? I think I was just here the issue.

743
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 1: I was just really young and I just wanted to

744
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 1: be out there more. I wanted to experience life, and

745
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 1: I didn't really get a chance. And I really because

746
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 1: at the time, it was like I was expected to

747
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 1: get married. How do you feel about people that are

748
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 1: now in open relationships so that they can experience that.

749
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: What do you think of that? Because here's what I think.

750
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 1: I think it's great if everybody's open to it. Here's

751
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 1: the thing. It's like, I always go back to Tori,

752
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: but you know, like she says, she meets that the

753
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 1: fun face number of too. There's been so many, but

754
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:40,280
Speaker 1: the last one with the hinge date and he said,

755
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: I don't really want a relationship, but she does, but

756
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 1: she does that you in this, in this realm of dating,

757
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 1: when someone says that immediately, what is it that you're

758
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: looking for? And what keeps you to talking to someone

759
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 1: after they tell you what happened with this guy? He

760
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: said that and I said, okay, then we should just

761
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 1: end it. And then he freaked out and he was like, wait, wait, wait,

762
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: I don't mean like ended, I just mean like, can

763
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 1: we just take the slow And I was like take

764
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 1: it slow, like hi, because I think yeah, he just

765
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 1: like he wanted to be like friends. But I'm sorry,

766
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:24,240
Speaker 1: it's gonna have a translation. Boy, you wanted to definitely

767
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 1: continue the benefits. You wanted to eat his cake or whatever.

768
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: And I think this one didn't have beast like I

769
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 1: know everything at this point, very plain, so sick. So okay,

770
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: I have a few. Have you ever the icebreakers for

771
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 1: you guys, even though we're broken, was broken and these

772
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: are for both of you. Mom first, okay, okay, got it? There?

773
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:54,280
Speaker 1: Have you ever? Yes? Fucked a black guy? Never? No,

774
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: that's why she needs to Once you go black, honey,

775
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 1: you know what they say, I want to when you

776
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: go back. No, you know you're never gonna you know

777
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 1: what kind of black guy you need? If you go,

778
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take you to everyday people. What's that? The

779
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 1: black guys that have incense burning like in their house,

780
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: like a Coachella black guy. Like okay, like totally campedo. Nah,

781
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: make video dancing? College? Oh, I don't see you a

782
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: see Yes, it's so beautiful that guy she's trying to

783
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,839
Speaker 1: put you. One time, one time in college, I've made

784
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 1: out with a guy who is half black. No, that

785
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:36,959
Speaker 1: doesn't count. It doesn't I mean no, but that's saying

786
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: we're not black. That counts. But then he then his

787
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: roommate lie to me and told me that they're like, oh,

788
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 1: Stephen isn't black. He's actually the opposite of albino. And

789
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 1: I think that. I think they were just fucking with me.

790
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: Looked like it was looked half black and I was.

791
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 1: And then I saw his parents and they were both white.

792
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: I think he's just adopted and everyone's trying. Okay, yeah, yeah,

793
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: I mean, and that's the only black experience, you hap,

794
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 1: this is a problem. People dope afrobeats party and everyone's like,

795
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: Brooklyn walk you know what I'm saying, And they're not,

796
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 1: You're not gonna walk into this place. Because sometimes when

797
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 1: I take my white girlfriends into a black space, I'd

798
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: be like, damn, I know. They was about to say,

799
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: I have the opposite thing her just taking to the

800
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 1: clubs and bars that she frequents, because I literally was like,

801
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: they're stay. I don't like I'm too black. But in

802
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 1: black guys in that place, you're the you're the girls

803
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: that the black guy because they don't worry. All right,

804
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: I guess your ants playing that out there. I'm telling you,

805
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,320
Speaker 1: the fucking guys are so dope. And then they're already

806
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,800
Speaker 1: like you've got to be a little socially conscious already

807
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: to be at everyday people kind of party, and so

808
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:46,919
Speaker 1: like they're just gonna have convinces control at the house,

809
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 1: so I'm listen. My dad tells me all the time, like,

810
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: you don't you tell people, you keep telling them you're black?

811
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 1: You white? You know you're we Jewish? We same thing,

812
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:02,280
Speaker 1: the same thing. My dad really believes that he believes Jews,

813
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: and I mean look at Brooklyn for real, with like

814
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 1: Jews and black people, like it's the sane it alright, alright,

815
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: I think the between the oppression between both, Like, I mean,

816
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: we're being honest here. Jewish people are the most hated

817
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 1: white people ever, if you want to call them, right,

818
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 1: they are. They also own everything, so anymore? Now did

819
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 1: you watch Black Clansmen? How people talk about Jews. It's

820
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 1: it is bad, it is barely bad. And like the

821
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 1: way that black people are treated, and there's this thing

822
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 1: of being the minorities. I mean, I hate to say that.

823
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: I mean Jews are we are we are we I

824
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: mean swipe this a lot, but you can have another

825
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: way of black bass. My dad was like yelling at me,

826
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 1: He's like, you need a Jew and I was like, fine,

827
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: I'll download jay Swipe. Is that like soul swipe? Like

828
00:45:52,800 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: is where you know? Actually the black Jews? No, those

829
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 1: don't exist except for the one right here and she's

830
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: only half Okay, guy, okay, black eye. Have you ever

831
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: had sex in public? Cover your well in the bathroom?

832
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: Were you to rush on our party party? Okay, that's

833
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 1: my husband? Okay hopefully Well no, Tori, I had a

834
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 1: life hello what um? Oh? Yeah I did. Yeah, it

835
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 1: was the first. It was skateboard. It was at work

836
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 1: because we worked together at work. Yeah, we work together.

837
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:46,360
Speaker 1: That's bad to I mean, I don't know what to

838
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 1: say to. It was like in the gear room, in

839
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: the gear production. Yeah, you don't work there anymore, right now?

840
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 1: Good because you wouldn't have had a job that was stupid.

841
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: She got stupid things. Have you ever had sex? Yes?

842
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 1: While Tori was sleeping as a kid in close proximity. Yes, yes,

843
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 1: Have you ever had sex? Well, your mom was in

844
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: another room. I mean we I grew up in the

845
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 1: city and it's really you know, our apartments. Yes, high

846
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,719
Speaker 1: school boy thought I was making them breakfast. What are

847
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: you talking about? Because we know I didn't hear them,

848
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 1: But you have to remember we live in an apartment

849
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:29,400
Speaker 1: in the city and it's pretty close. Would let me so,

850
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,839
Speaker 1: I was very liberal and I'd be I'd be like

851
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 1: all right, he could sleep over. My husband would put

852
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 1: like ear plugs in, and I'd be like, all right,

853
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: fucking whatever. They say that a lot of people are

854
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: gonna listen to this and think you're insane. However I

855
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: am insane. My mom used to do the same thing

856
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 1: because she was like, I'm never gonna let you get pregnant.

857
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna have the same place. I'm never going

858
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 1: to let you go to his friend's house. That's how

859
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:57,400
Speaker 1: I would be around, And seriously, my friends would have

860
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 1: been in situations where they've been even close to being

861
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 1: actually assaulted. Was sneaking to a guy's house and their

862
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: friends place and there was other men around. So like,

863
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 1: what you did seriously wanted safely. It makes me to

864
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 1: wear The conversation between mother and daughter is a lot

865
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,240
Speaker 1: more close because I feel like my mom was also

866
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: aware of my boyfriends and who I was dealing with,

867
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 1: clearly because she used to want to go to the bar.

868
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: Who are you talking to? Never, No, my my daughter

869
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: knows him. But but it made our relationship closer with

870
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 1: her knowing the men that I was around. But also

871
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: on the flip side, for all of my friends who

872
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 1: grew up and a lot of my friends growing up

873
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: were actually Latina in some way. So I had a

874
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,919
Speaker 1: Mexican best friend growing up, a Colombian Puerto Rican, and

875
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 1: their households were very protective of them not being with men,

876
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,760
Speaker 1: not only not men, but not with black men. Um.

877
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: And so they used to blame me why all their

878
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 1: daughters like black men. But that's a whole other story. Um.

879
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:59,399
Speaker 1: But all of those friends for me growing up who

880
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: had such strict parents, multiple kids and kids even in

881
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: high school because they were so we were friends in

882
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 1: high school, and I mean, I'm sure you remember my

883
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: mom was like talking about condoms. She used to make

884
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 1: us bring condoms to the club that we got in

885
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 1: with fake I d s your mother. Yeah, And my

886
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 1: mother knew about the fake idea, but was just like, look,

887
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: I need to know where you going, so if you're

888
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: gonna tell me where you're going to be in even

889
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 1: had a basket at the door to grab your condom

890
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 1: and get in the back room. But no, but I really,

891
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: I mean I really did feel like instead of her

892
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:35,439
Speaker 1: being at the park screwing at night, rather secial because

893
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 1: he lived in Manhattan. No, and they get it. They

894
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: come out in the morning and I'd be like eggs anyone.

895
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 1: The truth is I felt good that at least she

896
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:49,399
Speaker 1: wasn't you know number one, not you know, somewhere else.

897
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: I didn't know, getting in trouble, getting pregnant, and all

898
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 1: the things that you just said. Can I ask you

899
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:58,839
Speaker 1: at what age was she when you had the conversation

900
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: about the birds and bees whatever? At what age were

901
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 1: you okay with knowing that she was having intimate relations

902
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: with men and that you guys had those conversations high school?

903
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:15,800
Speaker 1: We talked about it early on, like maybe eleven eleven,

904
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:20,879
Speaker 1: I think. And then you ever been embarrassed by your

905
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 1: mom for being so open, because I'm sure now you

906
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: appreciate it. She's here very embarrassed because I understand my

907
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 1: high school. My mom like brought me my boyfriend high school,

908
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 1: like chocolate body, like something like you could like put

909
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: chocolate on each other's body. I don't even know where

910
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 1: she got it from. It's true, Like I was like,

911
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 1: why do I have it? She's like like chocolate massage,

912
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: like oil lick to lick off your boy. It was

913
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: a little sick now that I think about it. No,

914
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 1: I think you was so happy because my sister was

915
00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 1: like very innocent and didn't even have a boyfriend's time. Now,

916
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 1: the sister was some band shape, so like I was like,

917
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 1: you know, she was just like happy that like one

918
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:05,880
Speaker 1: of her daughters was like getting late. I mean it

919
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:09,279
Speaker 1: was appropriate eight I was like seventeen eighteen, I was

920
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 1: going to college. Is like the summer. He has some

921
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: chalod he some thongs. But yet you wouldn't put me

922
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 1: on birth control. Everything else beside that, So let me

923
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:21,760
Speaker 1: as true. I'm creous about that. You said she wouldn't

924
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 1: put you on birth control because she was worried about

925
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: breast cancer. No, I was because I was this was

926
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: a thing, so I wanted to be a whole thing

927
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:33,320
Speaker 1: fifteen years ago. They were not sure if it was linked.

928
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 1: So I was like really paranoid about that. Because we

929
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 1: have a fan, so I don't even want to I'm

930
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: not going to say the other story. So I would

931
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:42,919
Speaker 1: tell you to get the diaphragm, which no one's ever

932
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 1: heard of. Oh my gosh, you're going sex in the

933
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: city when she got a stuff, Yeah, that's like common,

934
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, that was our first episode. I got

935
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: a commm seck my yeah. No, okay, Well, we just

936
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: have one. Sorry, but I kind of diaphragm stuck becausetsual,

937
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:04,439
Speaker 1: Like you did your husband help you get it out?

938
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 1: I had to go to the gun comm you gotta

939
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,439
Speaker 1: go like that's up there, Like it was really up there.

940
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 1: There was no coming out. And he and he's a dentist,

941
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:15,240
Speaker 1: so he had the tools and the hopeful the dentist

942
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 1: tools are not the same for vagina. He hasn't you

943
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: have the flashlight? I'm saying things. She has no idea

944
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: that is now I'm like, do I even want to

945
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 1: go to my dad for like my teeth? Any know?

946
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: Where is this practice good? Let's just check? No, that's

947
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 1: not right. So let me ask you, as as a

948
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:46,720
Speaker 1: parent who's open with talking about sex and being sexual

949
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 1: and liberal, um when it comes to sex conversations, would

950
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 1: you what would be your advice to other mothers with

951
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: teenage daughters with having these conversations and maybe opening their

952
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: relationship a little bit more up. I think I think

953
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 1: you've got to really sit down and open the conversation

954
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:07,839
Speaker 1: up with your child and be liberal enough to hear them.

955
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 1: You've got to listen, because if not, you will get

956
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 1: a pregnant, team, you will get a kid that's going

957
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: to go off and have multiple partners at a young age,

958
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: because I feel the strict of the parents the more

959
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 1: the child the kid is. What do they say? The

960
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 1: preacher's daughter is like I friend from home in Orlando.

961
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: She had a dad, was a pastor, and she has

962
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:37,399
Speaker 1: she lost her pregnantly. Hello, I mean she was, Yeah,

963
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:41,760
Speaker 1: I mean hello. Nets shows on Netflix? You really love Netflix?

964
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 1: Job to Oh my god, wait four and then box

965
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,880
Speaker 1: there like nine. I don't even know there's so many.

966
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I'm watching quicksand right now, which is probably never. Yes,

967
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 1: I'm love him that show like Black Guys good too.

968
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 1: He's very cute, by the way, Doble and I like

969
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 1: that he actually said, you know, I know we're going

970
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: off topic, but I like that he said, you know,

971
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 1: I'm honest now and you she's talking about okay. So

972
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 1: he really fessed up to, you know, like really making

973
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:27,359
Speaker 1: some changes. You know, he is one of the had

974
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: so sweet. I think it sounds good on the mic.

975
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 1: I felt don't like he was honest. It sounds he's

976
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: the actor too. I didn't like that. I didn't think

977
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: I thought about that. I did, I did, I did

978
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,799
Speaker 1: I know, I did I think that you know what,

979
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 1: you're very good active because you seem very real. It's

980
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: like ready to fix you up with her. I was like,

981
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 1: go off, I'll give you. I'll tell room, I'll pay

982
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: for a though she don't want to hear you. I

983
00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 1: don't know. She's like, he's big, that's going to be

984
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: like you and Williams. But I meant creative but money.

985
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but he doesn't fly out, so it'll have

986
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: to be local. Wait, that's so funny. We have any

987
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:15,959
Speaker 1: homemail before we questions? We had a kick of the week.

988
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 1: We had more questions, but we've just been enjoying your

989
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 1: dinner for like like like no podcast death area. Well,

990
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:32,439
Speaker 1: she lives in Williams, Okay, and I'm on the Upper

991
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: east Side, which is so bored. But I'll make you skid.

992
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 1: I'll give me a jew. You're used to it. I'm not.

993
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: My mom is black, my dad doesn't cook. So you're

994
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 1: in okay. Really, I know that's awful food. We just

995
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: have to bypass. My nephew lives with me. Oh wait

996
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: a minute, Oh my god, my nephew was he's almost

997
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: twenty three. She's full of shi it doesn't even know

998
00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 1: and he's gorgeous. Yeah, he's lived with me, but three

999
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,480
Speaker 1: is his weed and everything comes with him. You want

1000
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: an uber driver for weed, He's got it. I know.

1001
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: He's in the middle of dinner. This is three years

1002
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: with us, and he goes, he goes, my Uber drives here.

1003
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:16,640
Speaker 1: I'll be right back, and the place fucking stinks. I

1004
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:18,799
Speaker 1: can't take it. You don't know what goes on in

1005
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 1: my partment, I said, because once a few years I did.

1006
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 1: I did, I know, and then she ended up having diarrhea. Yeah,

1007
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: ship on the car right home. I don't think. I

1008
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 1: don't know, But how do we ken I'm talking about

1009
00:56:39,400 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, that's true, but I shouldn't have thought

1010
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:48,800
Speaker 1: with another boy. And now the x fox fun faced

1011
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:52,439
Speaker 1: kind of liked him though, you right, Yeah, of course

1012
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 1: she dump keep he was too good. Okay, So we

1013
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 1: get a homemail every week, which is basically letters from

1014
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 1: our host. And this one's pretty good. And I really

1015
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 1: liked this one because you know, Jews and circumcision. Here

1016
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 1: we go. Yeah, the subject is turtlenecks, stank, dear Mandy,

1017
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 1: and wheezy. Okay, I have a situation and I need

1018
00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 1: Jel's advice. I met this guy on tender after a

1019
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: week of talking, but to my place for us to

1020
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 1: meet at nighttime. Of course, it was chill, and then

1021
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 1: things got heated. He ate me out and then he

1022
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: asked me to return the favor. I was down until

1023
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 1: I realized he was uncircumcised. I have never been with

1024
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 1: a guy with a turtleneck, and it freaked me out.

1025
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 1: I tried to go for it until I noticed all

1026
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 1: caps a smell. I can't explain, but the ship was foul.

1027
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: I damn near gagged and made the fake excuse of

1028
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 1: being too tired to be giving a blowjob. But the

1029
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 1: night went on. We had sex with a condom, of course,

1030
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 1: and it was good. As how things this guy could get.

1031
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: The guy after a smell, she said it was really good,

1032
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 1: the things that this guy could get more serious sex

1033
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 1: is really good, but the dick smell wasn't. If we

1034
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 1: get down and get in the future, I want to

1035
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 1: be able to please him. So what should I do? Sincerely,

1036
00:57:56,880 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: turtleneck hater, Just tell him the truth? I was gonna say.

1037
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 1: I totally Tori told to guide the truth about that,

1038
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 1: and that was the know it didn't smell, I said bad,

1039
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 1: I said the X wasn't very good, and that was

1040
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 1: how did you tell him that? Well, he was like,

1041
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 1: we had SATs and he's like, oh, it took you

1042
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: a really long time to finish this time. And I said,

1043
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:18,080
Speaker 1: can I be honest with you? And he was like,

1044
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 1: I just think, like what you're doing isn't exactly like

1045
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 1: what gets me off. Yeah, And then he was like,

1046
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 1: so if you had this problem with other guys or

1047
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 1: just me, and I was like, I think it's just

1048
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: like your technique, you did a really good job thing.

1049
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 1: But the said because that is I wouldn't have said

1050
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 1: it that nice. So I'm a little bit more that

1051
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:46,439
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think that. I don't know why

1052
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 1: we're all terrified. How question is what I got got

1053
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 1: something for him? He has something? But y'all know I

1054
00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 1: don't like Turtle nick Nick. But ironically, one of the

1055
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 1: guys who I really like has skin. And it's like

1056
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 1: like that bad to you? What I mean, it just

1057
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:10,439
Speaker 1: sucks for me. I'm not gonna lie, I sucked the

1058
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: ship out of this dick that I've had this morning.

1059
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 1: But it's yeah, but like there's no skin. So like

1060
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 1: I've had partners who have but when it comes to

1061
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 1: if there's a smell, if you don't feel comfortable telling

1062
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 1: him that there's a smell, and you do enjoy having

1063
00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 1: sex with him so much, I would try to make

1064
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 1: it kinky a little bit and suggest to get in

1065
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 1: the shower with him first every time. Well, no, just

1066
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:50,440
Speaker 1: in the shower with him at least the first time

1067
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 1: or maybe first two times, and I say, you take it,

1068
00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 1: and you clean his dick and maybe let him know

1069
00:59:57,960 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: before we have sex, this is how I like your

1070
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 1: this is how I like your dick. Like, and I

1071
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 1: washed and latherate, maybe do some little tricks and swing

1072
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:11,840
Speaker 1: and then tell him I like this, I had a

1073
01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: bad tasting dick. I've had a bad tasting And I

1074
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 1: was like, I'd be I'd be given my nigga have five,

1075
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:25,160
Speaker 1: Like I don't know what juices you're doing. I don't know,

1076
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 1: but I'd be like extra credit. It tastes it doesn't

1077
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 1: taste like anything. And I'm like, I'm proud of you

1078
01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 1: because I like to swallow. I'd be like, can I

1079
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 1: swell in your nut? Like I asked to swallow it.

1080
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 1: I just want to know where it goes. Yeah, I

1081
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 1: like to know that it's not in my vagina, and

1082
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 1: there's no way I can make a baby, so don't

1083
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 1: come on me, because then I feel like they can

1084
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 1: swim and get in my pussy stilts. Feel I just

1085
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 1: gonna swim inside my vagina, so I'd be like just

1086
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 1: and his doesn't taste like anything, But I have had

1087
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 1: bad tasting and you need to eat better, like well

1088
01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 1: a lot of it's a lot of red meat. If

1089
01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 1: you're not eating something in it, that's something makes it smell.

1090
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 1: It makes a smell and taste. So it's a taste, right,

1091
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 1: So like all that, I think it's heavy sodium. It

1092
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:13,120
Speaker 1: tastes bad. I mean, I don't know. I feel like

1093
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 1: people should know when they don't smell them not the good.

1094
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:20,440
Speaker 1: That's a lot of salt, that's what that should be.

1095
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 1: Salty at full loury, lowery seasoning. I know, a seasoning

1096
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:33,480
Speaker 1: that steak stop it, that's what that's like a musty

1097
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 1: like sweaty tick. So I'm like conscious because you're like

1098
01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: bro I asked someone recently. I'm like, oh my god,

1099
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:43,720
Speaker 1: because we were walking all day and I'm like, does

1100
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 1: it like I'm I'm so self conscious about my small

1101
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 1: and I realized a lot of people aren't that way

1102
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 1: with their bodies. So I've sometimes tried to make sure

1103
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:55,439
Speaker 1: that I talk about my cleanliness so that it puts

1104
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 1: the little bit of person that what soap do you use?

1105
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:03,120
Speaker 1: I used to how does this go? But what was

1106
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 1: being honest? Like I think like honest, but I think

1107
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 1: people are very sensitive. Well obviously you had that. We

1108
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 1: have had nicknames, guys, stay board. We got a lot

1109
01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:20,080
Speaker 1: of nicknames, so I I could just tell them yeah,

1110
01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 1: like in a nice reason. I'm trying to figure out

1111
01:02:22,040 --> 01:02:23,400
Speaker 1: how to get around it. So I feel like if

1112
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,520
Speaker 1: they write us, they can't say it, you know what

1113
01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 1: I mean, Like if you have to write in when

1114
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:30,960
Speaker 1: you just can't say it, You're right the showering thing,

1115
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: I really love ye, and I will say, but you're

1116
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 1: going to do it every time every time. That's when

1117
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 1: I give the advice to like this is how I like,

1118
01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:41,919
Speaker 1: I really like your dick. Oh it tasted good this time,

1119
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 1: like say something like that. But also, as a woman,

1120
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: if this is someone you like, if you continue sucking him,

1121
01:02:49,160 --> 01:02:50,800
Speaker 1: you may get to the point where maybe you'll aren't

1122
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 1: using condoms. And if you're telling me there's a smell there.

1123
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:55,240
Speaker 1: You have to be concerned about the bacteria that could

1124
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 1: be going into your vagina as well. So this is

1125
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 1: Smegma by the way, Like if you really, I mean,

1126
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 1: well the smug might believe is when you see the

1127
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,960
Speaker 1: when you see the cottage cheese. Yeah. Yeah. But with

1128
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: uncircumcised men, I mean, cleaning is more of a routine

1129
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:10,200
Speaker 1: and a ritual. And I've been really fortunate to have

1130
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 1: been with men that are clean and know how their

1131
01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 1: bodies work. But it sounds like he doesn't. And not

1132
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 1: the Atlanta show that was the Vanilla Ship. Um, there

1133
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 1: was a man in London. He was four years old,

1134
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:23,440
Speaker 1: I believe, and he came out and he came out

1135
01:03:23,440 --> 01:03:26,040
Speaker 1: on National TV on BCC and literally came out and

1136
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 1: said he had had over forty sexual partners and had

1137
01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 1: never cleaned his dick because I know that he had

1138
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 1: to pull the skin back that's sensitive. And so he

1139
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 1: went on he went on the British cable network and

1140
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 1: was speaking with a sexologist about how he didn't know

1141
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 1: he had to pull his skin back when he cleaned it.

1142
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 1: So you have to realize too, if maybe Brady woman

1143
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:49,120
Speaker 1: have never told already women had forty sexual partners and

1144
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 1: had never pulled the skin back because he said it

1145
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 1: was sensitive and he didn't know he had to. And

1146
01:03:53,600 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 1: I feel like they're over Oh my god. I feel

1147
01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: like they're like scared to speak up. Like what the

1148
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 1: guy I told him that he was and good at sex?

1149
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 1: I don't think it was because of me and because

1150
01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:05,439
Speaker 1: of our chemistry. He just like was very selfish in bed.

1151
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:07,640
Speaker 1: And I think at thirty two, no one's ever told

1152
01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 1: him that he wasn't good. Cannot fake it because you

1153
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 1: know what happened. We're giving the impression for the next woman. Really,

1154
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 1: I think I helped the next woman out. Did you

1155
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:27,880
Speaker 1: that she's straw standing systems? Yeah? Yeah, No, I think

1156
01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:31,200
Speaker 1: because after Tory had this like really bad dumping, like

1157
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:36,439
Speaker 1: blindsided dumping, you know, funck face whatever number, skateboard fun face,

1158
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 1: that she became you know, like like more honest and

1159
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:42,959
Speaker 1: kind of like, you know what, I have nothing to lose.

1160
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:47,880
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, wait, she literally had not luckily

1161
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 1: on the boat. She didn't get on the boat, but

1162
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 1: I was on the boat with you being liberal and

1163
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 1: us being in this day and age now where women

1164
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 1: are so powerful with their sexuality. I think it's just

1165
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 1: more important than anything, not only to tell a man

1166
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 1: when he's doing something wrong, but to make sure that

1167
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 1: we are getting pleased when we're having this transfer of

1168
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 1: souls in fucking each other. And it's very important for

1169
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 1: us not to feel like we just need to make

1170
01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 1: sure they come and that they finished and oh my god,

1171
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 1: did you like it? Was I good enough in bed

1172
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 1: for you know? It needs to be reciprocated. And I

1173
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 1: think we need to tell men when maybe they're not

1174
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 1: performing the way we would like them to perform. And

1175
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything wrong with that, ma'am. I

1176
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 1: need you to write that down how you said that though,

1177
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 1: because that was that was quite amazing. So we're not

1178
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 1: up to my standards, said, I said, what you were doing?

1179
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: I said, First, I said, I don't think what you're

1180
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:40,320
Speaker 1: doing gets me off, and then I said, I just

1181
01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 1: think your techniques aren't exactly this was amazing. I think

1182
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 1: it's really good that you did not like Russia or

1183
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,320
Speaker 1: fake it because he wanted it to be over. Yeah,

1184
01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 1: let's keep a colapfort toy. Thank you. What a great parent.

1185
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 1: But I sat in this episode too, By the way,

1186
01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: I want to say, I had so much fun with

1187
01:05:57,880 --> 01:06:01,480
Speaker 1: you guys outside the podcast, and I feel like the

1188
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 1: one time we will is your bar at your Househo,

1189
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:08,280
Speaker 1: I have a twenty three year old Yeah, don't do

1190
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:13,840
Speaker 1: this that we got. I mean he is very good, lucking.

1191
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:16,040
Speaker 1: Let me see him. I'm the one who Yeah, you

1192
01:06:16,040 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 1: gotta you gotta show her because so I have that's

1193
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:25,120
Speaker 1: the ny It's like a skier that's cute. Yeah, before

1194
01:06:25,240 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 1: he is very good. So see, I don't know what

1195
01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 1: he looked like. Jason Momoa looks like Okay, that's the

1196
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:35,680
Speaker 1: white man that he looks like Brad Pitt. He likes smultiple.

1197
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 1: You know, I don't like him young what that mean?

1198
01:06:38,240 --> 01:06:45,400
Speaker 1: That's you? I can't And he's the laziest thing of episode.

1199
01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:48,560
Speaker 1: I'm sleeping with the young sucking. I don't even know why.

1200
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:53,440
Speaker 1: It goes to m y ust like nothing. We're all

1201
01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 1: study nothing in you know, a film. It's not good.

1202
01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 1: A wrestler, that's wrestler. That degree is going to have

1203
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:09,640
Speaker 1: us on. Please, yeah, all that that is true. What

1204
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 1: we do the sixth grade, we hold on. Do you

1205
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:18,880
Speaker 1: have any friends? I feel like, but you won't see. Well,

1206
01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 1: why while you're looking for the culture, Let our listeners

1207
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:23,480
Speaker 1: know where they can find you on social media or

1208
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:27,520
Speaker 1: podcast is and where they can find your podcast. Yeah.

1209
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:30,400
Speaker 1: So our podcast is called got It from Our Mama. Wait,

1210
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:34,480
Speaker 1: I just forgot I didnot are Okay? The podcast all

1211
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 1: we got it from your The podcast has all Got

1212
01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:40,680
Speaker 1: It from My Mama. This isn't a good picture of him.

1213
01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:44,840
Speaker 1: It's like a shift. He looks amish here he does not,

1214
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 1: but he's Almosh was like a heavy I'm amish and

1215
01:07:48,920 --> 01:07:51,800
Speaker 1: he's really cute. Though, don't double tape it. That's our page.

1216
01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:55,960
Speaker 1: That's good, double double whatever you want. I thought it.

1217
01:07:55,960 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 1: I have better ones anyway. Modulate our podcast. Um, it's

1218
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:03,960
Speaker 1: been about a month and a half days. Does your

1219
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:07,920
Speaker 1: podcast come out on? And I'm very tired? Okay, just

1220
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:11,080
Speaker 1: letting you know. Okay, Well we're wrapping up, wrapping our

1221
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 1: podcast wrapped tired. You can find our podcast Got It

1222
01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:17,400
Speaker 1: from My Mama on iTunes or Spotify. We have an

1223
01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:19,920
Speaker 1: Instagram page Got It from my Mom, a podcast, a

1224
01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:23,160
Speaker 1: Facebook group as well. Um. You can listen and follow

1225
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:26,320
Speaker 1: me on my Instagram at Tory Piskin t O R

1226
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 1: I P I s I N. And my mom has

1227
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:34,640
Speaker 1: an Instagram obviously what's your almost have two thousand followers.

1228
01:08:35,080 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 1: I tell my daughters that like me, I'm like, that's

1229
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:43,040
Speaker 1: fucking good for an old lady. Well, we're definitely gonna

1230
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:47,880
Speaker 1: follow you. Yes, include in your description and their links

1231
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:50,200
Speaker 1: to them. So if you couldn't get that because we've

1232
01:08:50,240 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 1: been talking so much, we're gonna put it in there.

1233
01:08:52,080 --> 01:08:53,400
Speaker 1: You guys need to make sure you listen to this

1234
01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 1: podcast if you enjoyed today's episode. I also want to

1235
01:08:56,120 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 1: say we never really have Caucasian like fifth one and

1236
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:07,559
Speaker 1: the episode it is a very good Namely, Yeah, our

1237
01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 1: show is all about sleep tonight. I'm like, no, but

1238
01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:14,680
Speaker 1: in the better way that when she's like fucked by

1239
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:16,560
Speaker 1: a guy, but like this a good way. I'm not

1240
01:09:16,600 --> 01:09:19,559
Speaker 1: going to sleep, I know. So you guys are now

1241
01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 1: going into the Hall of Fame. We only have twenty six,

1242
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 1: so we're gonna guess, I don't know, there's like eighty

1243
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 1: thousand of them. I'm gonna guess maybe now thirty five.

1244
01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 1: But you know, deal for us because our show is

1245
01:09:34,080 --> 01:09:37,720
Speaker 1: basically to destigmatize kinks and sex with black people, so

1246
01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:39,640
Speaker 1: it kind of feels like we do a disservice to

1247
01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 1: bring someone who's white on and then talk about an

1248
01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:45,160
Speaker 1: experience that black people like, but I like, but at

1249
01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:47,680
Speaker 1: this the conversation that we were able to have in

1250
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:50,760
Speaker 1: the relationship between a mother and a daughter, and how

1251
01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:53,000
Speaker 1: you guys are open about it. I think every fun

1252
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:55,920
Speaker 1: but it doesn't count Jewish, it doesn't. It doesn't think

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Speaker 1: Jewish the same. It doesn't matter waste on the daughter.

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Speaker 1: It's told this same. Your mother's just like me, Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, you should bring yours and listen if you

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Speaker 1: went to studios, did oh god, I did. My mom

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Speaker 1: was obsessed kidding on some real ship. My mom says

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Speaker 1: this to me. She comes to my apartment. She looks

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01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 1: at me, and she's like, do you know where we are?

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Speaker 1: I was like no. She's like about to cry, and

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Speaker 1: she's like, I've done a bump right here outside of

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Speaker 1: well I love it. I was like, mom, shut the

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Speaker 1: fuck up, Like seriously, My mom is like all about

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Speaker 1: dupon twin. She used to hang with I love it. No,

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Speaker 1: me too. I think you know what it is to

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Speaker 1: we live through our daughters. You're you're a piece of

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Speaker 1: bus right and and so you know, my mom is

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Speaker 1: convinced I took all her ass and I'm like, Mom,

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Speaker 1: what you do? Like if I called my mom at

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Speaker 1: four am and she's exhausted, I'm like, I gotta tell

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Speaker 1: you what happened. Let me get my drink. Yeah, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: she can't wait to hear I'm having a threesome next

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Speaker 1: week in Right with THEE. And my mom is so

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Speaker 1: excited for me right because she knows I really like

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Speaker 1: both of these people and I'm excited for them to me,

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Speaker 1: and like, I just love this not to wash because

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Speaker 1: I watched the episode I Love Onto Rush by the way,

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Speaker 1: Oh that was the Netflix gad keep telling Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: you know, we talked about it for like forty five minutes.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm super excited. I think it's gonna be

1281
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Speaker 1: so much fun. And I've had three simps in the past,

1282
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Speaker 1: but never like this whole Baycate for it in this trip,

1283
01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:28,160
Speaker 1: and my mom was like, you know what, from what

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Speaker 1: you've told me, they just both seem so honest and

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Speaker 1: she's going to your mother, and I just really see

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Speaker 1: it happening. I'm like, I can't wait. I need to

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Speaker 1: wait a FaceTime. She's like, no, I can't wait to

1288
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Speaker 1: be a like mom, I'm like, look at your guy.

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Speaker 1: My mother. Get you on the beach. It's gonna be great. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I feel like your mom would be like that. She'd

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Speaker 1: be very open as long as you don't as long

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Speaker 1: as you have a car, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: She just skateboard thing. I'm like, oh, she just wants

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Speaker 1: I'm over. I had him in the house. He had

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Speaker 1: his fifty two skateboard. Something isn't or you don't even

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Speaker 1: you guys looked it up, there was literally bitches pouring

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Speaker 1: wine bottles like well wine into glasses using their asses.

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Speaker 1: She's in shock. She literally I thought I was an acrobat.

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Speaker 1: Not no, you're not an acrobat. But just because you

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Speaker 1: might be able to split, don't mean you're an acrobat. Hole.

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Speaker 1: So they literally um open up there orphanes um and

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Speaker 1: shoved things as huge as melons, real eggplants, not emojis

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Speaker 1: and not dicks, um wine bottles. I've seen balls, what

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Speaker 1: other um these huge dildos that are the sides of

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Speaker 1: my foot, enormous dildos. It's really interesting, the rabbit hole

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Speaker 1: of things that you can go down. We're literally in

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Speaker 1: over a hundred episodes. You see, we have the bonus

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Speaker 1: ones bitch, how are we still finding nasty ass ship

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Speaker 1: that people doing with y'all? Nasty asses? Okay, but we're

1369
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Speaker 1: not king shaming, bitch. I know that that's like a vase.

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Speaker 1: Is that a vase in our pussy? I don't know. Look, wow,

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Speaker 1: so you can be a pussy acrobat, Um, ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: I didn't tell us off. I know it's really wild. Um,

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01:16:35,160 --> 01:16:39,000
Speaker 1: I'm not watching anymore. My pussy hair just doesn't Yes,

1374
01:16:39,080 --> 01:16:42,000
Speaker 1: I feel like it just stretched a little bit. Your

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Speaker 1: pussy did not stretch. Just looking at just looking at

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Speaker 1: adventure stretched sex. It's a little loose down here, you ain't.

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Speaker 1: But I'm obstinate, so I'm not gonna do that. So

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Speaker 1: for the for the for the horrible decision, Um, I

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Speaker 1: didn't even go hold y'all. I didn't even write this

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Speaker 1: ship down. This is literally off the top of my dome.

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Speaker 1: But y'all see a bit still had to be organized

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Speaker 1: in some motherfucking type of way. Um, So I kind

1383
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Speaker 1: of want to put this on polical but you I

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Speaker 1: ain't got a horrible decision. But I'm lying, I'm lying.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm talking about it. For the horrible decision this week,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about forced abstinence and forced celibacy. And

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Speaker 1: first off, y'all gonna let me take these titles, because

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Speaker 1: even though it was a motherfucking drought, I was pledging

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Speaker 1: that I was celibate. You're not a cell Okay. Came

1390
01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:38,520
Speaker 1: to the state of abstaining from marriage and sexual relations.

1391
01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:43,400
Speaker 1: Is the definition of what abstinence? What is the definition

1392
01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:51,160
Speaker 1: of abstinence meaning refrain restrain oneself from doing or enjoying something.

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Speaker 1: I was abstinent in as fault you We're not you're

1394
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Speaker 1: doing it yourself. You're restraining yourself self, right, So that's

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Speaker 1: why I was abstinent. So I was restraining myself from

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Speaker 1: getting any other dick. Besides, I was absentent bro, no bro,

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Speaker 1: because if he would have called it any moment, he

1398
01:18:08,400 --> 01:18:12,120
Speaker 1: called plenty of times and I couldn't leave work. So

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Speaker 1: I was restraining, bitch, I was absinent. But anyways, you're

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Speaker 1: being faithful, you calm. So here's the thing that I

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Speaker 1: want some of you men to know, and I would

1402
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Speaker 1: love to know if any of the women listening um

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Speaker 1: feel this way as well. So basically, with all the traveling,

1404
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Speaker 1: wrapping up the tour, then of course, Mother Nature were

1405
01:18:32,360 --> 01:18:35,400
Speaker 1: her fuck as popping up from time to time. I

1406
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Speaker 1: literally got into a state where I went six weeks

1407
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Speaker 1: or so, so a month and half. It was two periods, bitch,

1408
01:18:41,520 --> 01:18:42,880
Speaker 1: so to me it feel like two months. Just know

1409
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Speaker 1: that I went through two periods without getting dick. Um,

1410
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Speaker 1: so I could lie and say it was two months

1411
01:18:48,360 --> 01:18:52,320
Speaker 1: because it was two cycles. But anyway, Um, I literally

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Speaker 1: went that long without getting dick. And the problem was

1413
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Speaker 1: I had people coming to town. I had locals that

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Speaker 1: I had bucked, like a long time ago, but none

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Speaker 1: that I none that were really good. Didn't you have

1416
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Speaker 1: one coming in the day after you came back you

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Speaker 1: got drunk in Brooklyn, you were like, I'm gonna go

1418
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Speaker 1: see so and so, why don't you go see him

1419
01:19:11,960 --> 01:19:16,679
Speaker 1: this one? Oh he's still here. I could probably see

1420
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Speaker 1: him tonight if I wanted to. Now that I got dick.

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Speaker 1: He just got to town yesterday. Yeah he Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: wasn't in town when I was in Brooklyn day the

1423
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Speaker 1: way I was drunk. Baby girl, baby girl, Oh my god,

1424
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Speaker 1: I did I apologize to Crystal. Shout out to Crystal

1425
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Speaker 1: from the red um, even though she put me on

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Speaker 1: her live A bitch was drunk as shout out to

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Speaker 1: a sante from the friend Zone and our mutual friend

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Speaker 1: Dub she was the Unicorn and episode seventeen, I got

1429
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Speaker 1: Hella drunk on on Sunday, but that's a wholenother story.

1430
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Speaker 1: But anyways, so basically the dilemma was I wanted to

1431
01:19:51,800 --> 01:19:57,040
Speaker 1: fuck so bad. Okay, like I it was, I was

1432
01:19:57,080 --> 01:19:59,800
Speaker 1: a dog and heat. I just I wanted to fuck.

1433
01:20:00,240 --> 01:20:03,040
Speaker 1: But because I had gone so many weeks without sucking,

1434
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Speaker 1: in my mind, I know the anger that gets into

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