Speaker 1: I feel like I can't say this anymore, but I'm
Speaker 1: always shocked when we have a couple check back in that.
Speaker 1: No way in hell did I ever think that they
Speaker 1: would have contact with each other again after this show.
Speaker 2: It is wild.
Speaker 1: All right, Your second Day Update update is happening right now.
Speaker 1: It is brand new. We are going to play you
Speaker 1: the original second date so you know what's up, and
Speaker 1: then on the third part, you know there's a couple
Speaker 1: of commercials. Okay, you can skip through part three. That's
Speaker 1: when we get them back on the phone to see
Speaker 1: what's happened since yes, all right, comments, Yeah, queen A
Speaker 1: Leah said, listening to y'all while waiting for a coolon OSCOVI.
Speaker 1: But y'all are making me feel better. My girlfriend told
Speaker 1: me it's the best cleanse of your life. Oh wow,
Speaker 1: there you go.
Speaker 3: Ye wait.
Speaker 1: For you, there's a positive spin for you. Always get
Speaker 1: those things checked out. All right, it's breaking Jeffrey, and
Speaker 1: your brand new second Day Update Update is on.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 2: We've all heard the phrase size matters.
Speaker 1: Like you guys have heard it more than us.
Speaker 2: Brooks got it as a bumper sticker on her keep.
Speaker 1: But about the size of the car job, Oh, sure, but.
Speaker 5: What about duration matters? That should count for something.
Speaker 1: That's my second bumper because one.
Speaker 5: Of our listeners ended up on a ten hour long
Speaker 5: marathon first date that somehow just kept on going and
Speaker 5: going and going.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and the.
Speaker 5: Only thing more shocking than the call that we did
Speaker 5: is what happened after we hung up the phones. You're
Speaker 5: gonna hear all of that because it's time for a
Speaker 5: special second date update update.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it next Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Second date update.
Speaker 5: What's the optimal amount of time you should spend with
Speaker 5: someone when you're on.
Speaker 2: A first date?
Speaker 5: If it's best case scenario, how long should that hangout?
Speaker 4: Last?
Speaker 5: Best case scenario means we never leave and we get married.
Speaker 1: Three to four.
Speaker 5: But I want to know what does it mean when
Speaker 5: a first date lasts four times that amount?
Speaker 1: Oh cute, it's cute.
Speaker 2: Goes on for ten full hours.
Speaker 1: Maybe they're lost in the woods. A lot of people
Speaker 1: go hiking.
Speaker 2: Okay, but we all agree this is something wrong.
Speaker 5: I feel like it's not normal. But one of our
Speaker 5: listeners said that happened to him. Unless this is a
Speaker 5: typo or something, Chad, Oh, it's one hour? Is this
Speaker 5: a typo.
Speaker 2: It can't be ten hours.
Speaker 4: No, this was a marathon date that started early in
Speaker 4: the day. It literally kept going. Oh yeah, it wasn't
Speaker 4: even it wasn't even planned.
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait, what's her name?
Speaker 4: Her name is Samantha.
Speaker 1: Samantha okay, okay.
Speaker 4: So we met on a dating app and we were
Speaker 4: just supposed to get some coffee and pastries, and I
Speaker 4: thought that was kind of where it was going to end.
Speaker 4: And then, you know, I was planning on going to
Speaker 4: the gym. Yeah, it seems like she kind of wanted
Speaker 4: to keep going.
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, she's got all that coffee energy. Now she's
Speaker 5: got to burn it off and do something else.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Did she say asked like an activity or something go
Speaker 1: to the.
Speaker 2: Gym with you?
Speaker 4: She wanted to go to the wine bar.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah that sounds way more fun.
Speaker 2: So you skip glue day.
Speaker 1: Jeff.
Speaker 5: You're disappointed, I know, but I mean you must have
Speaker 5: felt the connection too, if you're willing to skip the
Speaker 5: gym for it.
Speaker 4: Well, things are going pretty well. She kept asking like
Speaker 4: tons of questions. She was super into me. I could
Speaker 4: tell she definitely like me, and again I liked her too.
Speaker 4: And then we're about four hours in at this point, Wow.
Speaker 1: You're drinking four hours of wine.
Speaker 4: Well, we got coffee first and then wine. Yeah, we're
Speaker 4: trying to make our heart stop.
Speaker 2: The stomach some set. What's going through your mind at
Speaker 2: the four hour mark?
Speaker 4: I mean I'm just thinking, like, when is this ending?
Speaker 2: Like I like her, but it's like what's next.
Speaker 1: But it's so fun to get kind of day drunk
Speaker 1: and then you just one thing leads to another and
Speaker 1: suddenly you're at some house party at night.
Speaker 4: You're like, well, yeah, so we actually we took some
Speaker 4: wine to go, and then she wanted to go to
Speaker 4: the park and I was like, well, we're already here
Speaker 4: this far, let's go hang out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, let's put some public intoxication on this first date.
Speaker 1: I ought to be lunchtime soon. I feel like they
Speaker 1: need to eat too. Yeah, you get something in your stomach.
Speaker 4: Right, So we're up to like maybe five hours here,
Speaker 4: and she asked if she wants to go get some dinner,
Speaker 4: so we went to another bar before the dinner.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, how are you are you seeing this as
Speaker 5: an issue at all?
Speaker 2: Are you having fun?
Speaker 4: A little bit of column A little bit of column beat,
Speaker 4: All right, it's it's the buzz is kicking in and
Speaker 4: I'm having fun. But it's also like if this is
Speaker 4: a long time, but again, I like her like me.
Speaker 5: At the same time, you were saying at hour four
Speaker 5: you were wondering when this date was gonna end. So
Speaker 5: it sounds like you just don't know how to politely
Speaker 5: be like, I need this.
Speaker 2: To be over.
Speaker 4: So I did say at one point, hey, I've had
Speaker 4: such a great time. I'm sorry to take up your
Speaker 4: entire day.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, So you gave her an out,
Speaker 1: what I mean, because maybe she was doing the same thing.
Speaker 1: Maybe both of you don't know how to Yeah what
Speaker 1: did she say?
Speaker 4: You?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 4: And she goes, are you kidding? The day has just begun?
Speaker 4: Oh god, but I'm going to kiss her? And she
Speaker 4: pulled away. I thought for sure, after ten hours, four
Speaker 4: different location changes, I thought she wanted me to kiss her.
Speaker 5: How many signs can you get from one person that
Speaker 5: they like being around you and like hanging out.
Speaker 1: I would have been making out an hour two, fixed
Speaker 1: out to say at the wine mark.
Speaker 5: It's weird that she pulled away from the kiss though,
Speaker 5: And then where did that happen?
Speaker 2: Like was that in the restaurant.
Speaker 4: Is that No, we were actual. Yeah, we walked back
Speaker 4: to her place, was right in front of her place.
Speaker 4: She pulled away, and she hasn't returned my phone call since.
Speaker 1: And she sobered up, and maybe she was just more
Speaker 1: intoxicated than you thought.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she didn't want your first kiss to be a
Speaker 5: super sloppy drunk was actually a thing.
Speaker 1: Or she didn't pull away, she just lost her balance.
Speaker 4: I mean, all could be true, but then that doesn't
Speaker 4: explain why she won't return my call.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, great.
Speaker 5: So would you be disappointed if after a great ten
Speaker 5: hour date you find out you messed up at the
Speaker 5: nine to five mark and those the last fifteen minutes
Speaker 5: just absolutely killed.
Speaker 1: It for you, or she blocked out an hour two?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd I'd be very upset.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, she was perfect until he tried to
Speaker 2: kiss me. Yeah, did you.
Speaker 1: Like her more at the end of the ten hours
Speaker 1: or less?
Speaker 4: I kind of just was carpe dm season a day
Speaker 4: and it felt right. So I still just can't explain it.
Speaker 4: I liked her very much.
Speaker 2: He was just relieved that it was over. He can
Speaker 2: go home and take.
Speaker 5: A nap, probably, but let's come back. We will call
Speaker 5: Samantha for you and hopefully get some answers about why
Speaker 5: after a ten hour marathon date she is suddenly ghosting you.
Speaker 2: We'll do it right after this.
Speaker 1: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 1: right after you here part two.
Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for the second date update.
Speaker 5: Our listener, Chad went on a first date that lasted
Speaker 5: longer than most relationships happen, ten full hours. Yeah, it
Speaker 5: wasn't planned that way. It just happened naturally where they
Speaker 5: kept rolling from one activity into the next, to the
Speaker 5: next to the next, until ten hours later he's finally
Speaker 5: standing in front of her place, going in for the
Speaker 5: kiss and she pulled away.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Hasn't heard from her after that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like it was an awkward moment for sure.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but they were both drinking the whole day, so
Speaker 5: who knows what the moment was really like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but just to be.
Speaker 5: Clear, Chad, you still want to try to get another
Speaker 5: date with Samantha?
Speaker 4: Here?
Speaker 2: Are you just doing this to figure out why?
Speaker 4: I want to know both I want to know Lie
Speaker 4: and I would love to go on another day with her.
Speaker 4: We had a good time.
Speaker 1: But it's interesting too because every new activity you guys
Speaker 1: did was her idea, right, one of them was your idea.
Speaker 2: That's true.
Speaker 5: Maybe in her life, ten hours is a really short date,
Speaker 5: and she's like, he can only last ten hours.
Speaker 1: She's like the opposite of She does sound like the
Speaker 1: type that would have gone out after it.
Speaker 2: He left that morning that but I don't know.
Speaker 5: Let's call her. We'll see if she picks up. And
Speaker 5: I'm dying to know what she has to say about.
Speaker 1: This, because there's just remember when we get her on
Speaker 1: the phone, we don't have ten hours to talk to her.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, we'll do it. Gosh, what if that's it.
Speaker 2: She just doesn't stop talking. We might need some help
Speaker 2: with it. But I'm calling her right now. Here we go? Oho,
Speaker 2: Hi is this Samantha?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Who's calling? Please?
Speaker 5: This is a radio show calling you called Brook and
Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Not fuck. Oh okay, that's weird. Why are you calling me?
Speaker 3: Can I win something?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Kind of at the end, you kind of do, yeah,
Speaker 5: depending on what happens over the next few minutes. Here
Speaker 5: because this is a segment we do call the second
Speaker 5: date update.
Speaker 3: Oh I think I've heard this before.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's pretty popular.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go viral and TikTok and stuff.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you're calling me, so who is the person
Speaker 3: that I went out on a date with?
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I really appreciate you doing my job because
Speaker 5: I'm not great at it. But there's a guy you
Speaker 5: should definitely remember because you spent ten full hours with him,
Speaker 5: a guy named Chad.
Speaker 3: Incredible, incredible.
Speaker 2: Wow do you think he's incredible?
Speaker 3: I think it's incredible. You're calling me about him?
Speaker 1: Wow, this is so unbelievable. It sounds like you had
Speaker 1: a great time all day long.
Speaker 3: Yeah ye yeah yeah.
Speaker 5: How do you spend ten hours ongoing with somebody if
Speaker 5: there's not some sort of vibe happening.
Speaker 2: If there's no, I'll tell you.
Speaker 3: I'll tell you. So he went out with my best girlfriend?
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait wait when after you went
Speaker 1: out way?
Speaker 3: Yeah? No, no, before months ago he went out with
Speaker 3: my best girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Okay, wait, did you know this before you went on
Speaker 1: a date with Chad?
Speaker 3: Or I short, did.
Speaker 5: You knew Chad but before you went out with him?
Speaker 5: As having dated your friend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh that's weird. He didn't mention that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well he didn't know this, but he spent many,
Speaker 3: many hours with her, then ghosted her. She was very
Speaker 3: in him, liked him so much. He totally I feel
Speaker 3: like he led her on. Even took her because spend
Speaker 3: time with his grandma.
Speaker 1: Wait, ohoy, he took your best friend to spend time
Speaker 1: with his grandma and then he ghosted your best friend.
Speaker 3: Yeah, introduced her, He spent all this time with her, basically,
Speaker 3: you know, half a day, and then he just ghosted her,
Speaker 3: never replied to her, never called her nothing. I know,
Speaker 3: she didn't do anything wrong. She's adorable, she's sweet. He
Speaker 3: showed me pictures of him, and I matched with him
Speaker 3: months later on a dating app and I ran to
Speaker 3: her and I was like, oh my god, you're never
Speaker 3: going to believe this. I matched with him. She goes, oh,
Speaker 3: you got to go out with him and get him back.
Speaker 1: What Oh, so this whole thing, your whole ten hour
Speaker 1: date was just revenge for him ghosting your best friend.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we girls got to stick together. Yeah, so give
Speaker 3: him the message. Now you know how it feels give
Speaker 3: him that message?
Speaker 2: Well, oh, you know, I.
Speaker 5: Don't have to tell him that, because he's actually been
Speaker 5: listening to this phone call on the their line quietly
Speaker 5: this whole time, so he's kind of already heard.
Speaker 3: It's great. It's even better.
Speaker 1: I love get you're enjoying that.
Speaker 2: I feel bad about it. It's gloating now, I mean, chat,
Speaker 2: are you there?
Speaker 4: I don't even know what to say right now. That's
Speaker 4: really what was going on the whole time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not interested in you.
Speaker 4: Oh wait, wait, wait, wait, wait wait, I heard everything
Speaker 4: you said. But we spent ten hours. You mean an hour,
Speaker 4: eight hour, nine when we've had shardonay, coffee, all types
Speaker 4: of We've had the most fun all day. You mean
Speaker 4: to tell me you didn't feel anything, because I felt something,
Speaker 4: and I'm pretty sure you felt five hours.
Speaker 3: With you and then you you ghost her, so now
Speaker 3: you know how it feels.
Speaker 1: So you doubled it. Okay, Tad, No, there wasn't even
Speaker 1: a moment in that ten hour period that you felt
Speaker 1: like a tinge of guilt.
Speaker 2: Be a decent guy, litle bit.
Speaker 3: I was enjoying myself so much, and to pop it off.
Speaker 3: You know who else had a great time, Sarah? We
Speaker 3: laughed for hours. Oh my god, we're still laughing about it.
Speaker 5: Oh, I don't even want to tell you that Chad
Speaker 5: skipped his gluten day at the gym in.
Speaker 2: Order to date with you.
Speaker 3: I Sarah, he really needed that day. I'll tell you what.
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, Chad, I mean, do you feel bad about
Speaker 1: ghosting Sarah? I guess that's what she wanted.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it was just a tough time, you know,
Speaker 4: with my grandma and not doing so well. I just
Speaker 4: didn't feel like I could be dating.
Speaker 5: I am curious, Chad, why did you introduce the other
Speaker 5: date to your grandma?
Speaker 4: I was honestly just dropping off medication. It was just
Speaker 4: a quick errand it wasn't really like I was introducing
Speaker 4: it to her.
Speaker 2: Why you monster?
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I know that your friend Sarah was
Speaker 1: really hurt, but like we deal with so much dating
Speaker 1: on this show, that ghosting just seems like the normal
Speaker 1: way that people get out of things these days. I
Speaker 1: don't think she should have maybe taken it so personally.
Speaker 3: Guys are just playing us all the time, and they're
Speaker 3: playing games, and they you know, we felt like, let's
Speaker 3: get this one back already, Sarah, and you have done.
Speaker 1: But I'm also interested Chad just happened to be the
Speaker 1: wrong place at the wrong time.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I can kind of see what Samantha is saying here,
Speaker 5: because I kind of would like to play a little
Speaker 5: bit of a game with you, a game of would.
Speaker 2: You like to go out with Chad one more time?
Speaker 3: I would rather I would rather split my eyelids with
Speaker 3: razor blade.
Speaker 2: That's so dark.
Speaker 3: That.
Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, it just seems like she's so really angry
Speaker 4: because of what happened with Sarah, And honestly, at this point,
Speaker 4: I just it doesn't seem like a going to work out.
Speaker 3: Okay, man, Oh you think you think.
Speaker 2: He didn't answer like he's the one being asked?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we never know who you're ghosting too, I guess.
Speaker 5: Yeah, seriously, Chad, Now you know, if a girl in
Speaker 5: the future ever says that she wants to hang out
Speaker 5: with you more and really likes you, red flag.
Speaker 2: Someone's trying to get three of this date. It must be.
Speaker 3: And you know what else? Say you're going to call
Speaker 3: the person. Don't say that you liked them, you had
Speaker 3: a great time.
Speaker 5: She's trying to drag us into our ten of this
Speaker 5: song call we appreciate you Samantha.
Speaker 2: We'll let you go, thank you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on here either.
Speaker 5: Either a mistake has happened or some kind of miracle,
Speaker 5: but for some reason, Chad and Samantha are both back
Speaker 5: on the phone right now for an update.
Speaker 1: Update and Samantha, are you still seeking revenge.
Speaker 5: On because a lot of time, Samantha made it pretty
Speaker 5: clear that you wanted nothing to do with him, So
Speaker 5: what is this?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I think I said I'd rather scratch
Speaker 3: my eyes out or something.
Speaker 2: He was a little darker. But what's going on with
Speaker 2: you too?
Speaker 3: Well, after we were on it was like a couple
Speaker 3: of weeks and I did not feel bad about it
Speaker 3: at all. I thought he got what he deserved. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 3: all of a sudden he sent me an apology text.
Speaker 1: Wow, Chad, you actually apologized after taking that verbal beating.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: Well, he said, like, you know again, I'm really sorry,
Speaker 3: like I didn't mean to hurt your friend or whatever,
Speaker 3: but I really did have a better.
Speaker 4: Time with you.
Speaker 3: And oh, I was like, oh my god, he's so pathetic.
Speaker 3: He's still trying.
Speaker 2: Okay, that wasn't changing your mind?
Speaker 3: That same day, I had had a pretty big falling
Speaker 3: out with her. My friend had not been seeing Eyda
Speaker 3: I for a long time, so I thought in my head, well,
Speaker 3: let me just chat to get back at her.
Speaker 1: Oh, Chad on the phone right now? Is he hearing this?
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, yeah, I'm not gonna lie. I definitely thought
Speaker 4: it was a trick, Chad.
Speaker 1: You're being used twice.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I sent her a sex and that
Speaker 4: was sincere. But then when she said you want to
Speaker 4: bother with me, I have to see this.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, okay, yeah, And so what happened?
Speaker 4: I mean we went on a date in one day
Speaker 4: time too, and then it just another and another and
Speaker 4: we've honestly we've been hanging out ever since.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I didn't mean for that to happen, but
Speaker 3: there was chemistry. It's undeniable.
Speaker 1: Wow, Why do I feel like she's still in this
Speaker 1: for the long game? In your old best friend on Instagram,
Speaker 1: I'm in posts of you and Chad no wedding.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna lure him into a marriage and then we're
Speaker 5: gonna get a divorce and be like that's why.
Speaker 4: Actually I like I like her vices, I like it
Speaker 5: Sleep would not open yet beautiful story