WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Marathon Date

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I can't say this anymore, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>always shocked when we have a couple check back in that.

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<v Speaker 1>No way in hell did I ever think that they

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<v Speaker 1>would have contact with each other again after this show.

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<v Speaker 2>It is wild.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Your second Day Update update is happening right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It is brand new. We are going to play you

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<v Speaker 1>the original second date so you know what's up, and

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<v Speaker 1>then on the third part, you know there's a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of commercials. Okay, you can skip through part three. That's

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<v Speaker 1>when we get them back on the phone to see

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<v Speaker 1>what's happened since yes, all right, comments, Yeah, queen A

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<v Speaker 1>Leah said, listening to y'all while waiting for a coolon OSCOVI.

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<v Speaker 1>But y'all are making me feel better. My girlfriend told

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<v Speaker 1>me it's the best cleanse of your life. Oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye wait.

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<v Speaker 1>For you, there's a positive spin for you. Always get

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<v Speaker 1>those things checked out. All right, it's breaking Jeffrey, and

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<v Speaker 1>your brand new second Day Update Update is on.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>We've all heard the phrase size matters.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you guys have heard it more than us.

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<v Speaker 2>Brooks got it as a bumper sticker on her keep.

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<v Speaker 1>But about the size of the car job, Oh, sure, but.

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<v Speaker 5>What about duration matters? That should count for something.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my second bumper because one.

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<v Speaker 5>Of our listeners ended up on a ten hour long

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<v Speaker 5>marathon first date that somehow just kept on going and

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<v Speaker 5>going and going.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and the.

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<v Speaker 5>Only thing more shocking than the call that we did

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<v Speaker 5>is what happened after we hung up the phones. You're

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<v Speaker 5>gonna hear all of that because it's time for a

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<v Speaker 5>special second date update update.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do it next Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>What's the optimal amount of time you should spend with

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<v Speaker 5>someone when you're on.

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<v Speaker 2>A first date?

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<v Speaker 5>If it's best case scenario, how long should that hangout?

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<v Speaker 4>Last?

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<v Speaker 5>Best case scenario means we never leave and we get married.

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<v Speaker 1>Three to four.

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<v Speaker 5>But I want to know what does it mean when

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<v Speaker 5>a first date lasts four times that amount?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh cute, it's cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Goes on for ten full hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe they're lost in the woods. A lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>go hiking.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but we all agree this is something wrong.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like it's not normal. But one of our

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<v Speaker 5>listeners said that happened to him. Unless this is a

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<v Speaker 5>typo or something, Chad, Oh, it's one hour? Is this

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<v Speaker 5>a typo.

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<v Speaker 2>It can't be ten hours.

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<v Speaker 4>No, this was a marathon date that started early in

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<v Speaker 4>the day. It literally kept going. Oh yeah, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>even it wasn't even planned.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait wait, what's her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Her name is Samantha.

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<v Speaker 1>Samantha okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So we met on a dating app and we were

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<v Speaker 4>just supposed to get some coffee and pastries, and I

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<v Speaker 4>thought that was kind of where it was going to end.

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<v Speaker 4>And then, you know, I was planning on going to

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<v Speaker 4>the gym. Yeah, it seems like she kind of wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to keep going.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, she's got all that coffee energy. Now she's

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<v Speaker 5>got to burn it off and do something else.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she say asked like an activity or something go

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<v Speaker 1>to the.

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<v Speaker 2>Gym with you?

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<v Speaker 4>She wanted to go to the wine bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah that sounds way more fun.

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<v Speaker 2>So you skip glue day.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff.

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<v Speaker 5>You're disappointed, I know, but I mean you must have

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<v Speaker 5>felt the connection too, if you're willing to skip the

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<v Speaker 5>gym for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, things are going pretty well. She kept asking like

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<v Speaker 4>tons of questions. She was super into me. I could

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<v Speaker 4>tell she definitely like me, and again I liked her too.

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<v Speaker 4>And then we're about four hours in at this point, Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>You're drinking four hours of wine.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we got coffee first and then wine. Yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 4>trying to make our heart stop.

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<v Speaker 2>The stomach some set. What's going through your mind at

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<v Speaker 2>the four hour mark?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I'm just thinking, like, when is this ending?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I like her, but it's like what's next.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's so fun to get kind of day drunk

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<v Speaker 1>and then you just one thing leads to another and

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly you're at some house party at night.

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<v Speaker 4>You're like, well, yeah, so we actually we took some

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<v Speaker 4>wine to go, and then she wanted to go to

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<v Speaker 4>the park and I was like, well, we're already here

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<v Speaker 4>this far, let's go hang out.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, let's put some public intoxication on this first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I ought to be lunchtime soon. I feel like they

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<v Speaker 1>need to eat too. Yeah, you get something in your stomach.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, So we're up to like maybe five hours here,

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<v Speaker 4>and she asked if she wants to go get some dinner,

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<v Speaker 4>so we went to another bar before the dinner.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, how are you are you seeing this as

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<v Speaker 5>an issue at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you having fun?

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<v Speaker 4>A little bit of column A little bit of column beat,

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<v Speaker 4>All right, it's it's the buzz is kicking in and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm having fun. But it's also like if this is

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<v Speaker 4>a long time, but again, I like her like me.

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<v Speaker 5>At the same time, you were saying at hour four

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<v Speaker 5>you were wondering when this date was gonna end. So

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<v Speaker 5>it sounds like you just don't know how to politely

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<v Speaker 5>be like, I need this.

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<v Speaker 2>To be over.

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<v Speaker 4>So I did say at one point, hey, I've had

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<v Speaker 4>such a great time. I'm sorry to take up your

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<v Speaker 4>entire day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, all right, So you gave her an out,

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean, because maybe she was doing the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe both of you don't know how to Yeah what

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<v Speaker 1>did she say?

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<v Speaker 4>You?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>And she goes, are you kidding? The day has just begun?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, but I'm going to kiss her? And she

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<v Speaker 4>pulled away. I thought for sure, after ten hours, four

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<v Speaker 4>different location changes, I thought she wanted me to kiss her.

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<v Speaker 5>How many signs can you get from one person that

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<v Speaker 5>they like being around you and like hanging out.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been making out an hour two, fixed

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<v Speaker 1>out to say at the wine mark.

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<v Speaker 5>It's weird that she pulled away from the kiss though,

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<v Speaker 5>And then where did that happen?

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<v Speaker 2>Like was that in the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that No, we were actual. Yeah, we walked back

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<v Speaker 4>to her place, was right in front of her place.

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<v Speaker 4>She pulled away, and she hasn't returned my phone call since.

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<v Speaker 1>And she sobered up, and maybe she was just more

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<v Speaker 1>intoxicated than you thought.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she didn't want your first kiss to be a

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<v Speaker 5>super sloppy drunk was actually a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Or she didn't pull away, she just lost her balance.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, all could be true, but then that doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>explain why she won't return my call.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, great.

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<v Speaker 5>So would you be disappointed if after a great ten

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<v Speaker 5>hour date you find out you messed up at the

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<v Speaker 5>nine to five mark and those the last fifteen minutes

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<v Speaker 5>just absolutely killed.

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<v Speaker 1>It for you, or she blocked out an hour two?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'd I'd be very upset.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, she was perfect until he tried to

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<v Speaker 2>kiss me. Yeah, did you.

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<v Speaker 1>Like her more at the end of the ten hours

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<v Speaker 1>or less?

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of just was carpe dm season a day

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<v Speaker 4>and it felt right. So I still just can't explain it.

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<v Speaker 4>I liked her very much.

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<v Speaker 2>He was just relieved that it was over. He can

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<v Speaker 2>go home and take.

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<v Speaker 5>A nap, probably, but let's come back. We will call

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<v Speaker 5>Samantha for you and hopefully get some answers about why

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<v Speaker 5>after a ten hour marathon date she is suddenly ghosting you.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll do it right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 1>right after you here part two.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're just joining us for the second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Our listener, Chad went on a first date that lasted

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<v Speaker 5>longer than most relationships happen, ten full hours. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 5>wasn't planned that way. It just happened naturally where they

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<v Speaker 5>kept rolling from one activity into the next, to the

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<v Speaker 5>next to the next, until ten hours later he's finally

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<v Speaker 5>standing in front of her place, going in for the

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<v Speaker 5>kiss and she pulled away.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Hasn't heard from her after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it sounds like it was an awkward moment for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but they were both drinking the whole day, so

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<v Speaker 5>who knows what the moment was really like.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but just to be.

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<v Speaker 5>Clear, Chad, you still want to try to get another

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<v Speaker 5>date with Samantha?

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<v Speaker 4>Here?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you just doing this to figure out why?

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<v Speaker 4>I want to know both I want to know Lie

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<v Speaker 4>and I would love to go on another day with her.

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<v Speaker 4>We had a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's interesting too because every new activity you guys

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<v Speaker 1>did was her idea, right, one of them was your idea.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe in her life, ten hours is a really short date,

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<v Speaker 5>and she's like, he can only last ten hours.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like the opposite of She does sound like the

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<v Speaker 1>type that would have gone out after it.

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<v Speaker 2>He left that morning that but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's call her. We'll see if she picks up. And

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<v Speaker 5>I'm dying to know what she has to say about.

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<v Speaker 1>This, because there's just remember when we get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, we don't have ten hours to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, we'll do it. Gosh, what if that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>She just doesn't stop talking. We might need some help

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<v Speaker 2>with it. But I'm calling her right now. Here we go? Oho,

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<v Speaker 2>Hi is this Samantha?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Who's calling? Please?

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<v Speaker 5>This is a radio show calling you called Brook and

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<v Speaker 5>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Not fuck. Oh okay, that's weird. Why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 3>Can I win something?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Kind of at the end, you kind of do, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>depending on what happens over the next few minutes. Here

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<v Speaker 5>because this is a segment we do call the second

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<v Speaker 5>date update.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I think I've heard this before.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's pretty popular.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's go viral and TikTok and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you're calling me, so who is the person

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<v Speaker 3>that I went out on a date with?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, I really appreciate you doing my job because

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not great at it. But there's a guy you

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<v Speaker 5>should definitely remember because you spent ten full hours with him,

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<v Speaker 5>a guy named Chad.

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<v Speaker 3>Incredible, incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow do you think he's incredible?

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's incredible. You're calling me about him?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, this is so unbelievable. It sounds like you had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time all day long.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah ye yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>How do you spend ten hours ongoing with somebody if

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<v Speaker 5>there's not some sort of vibe happening.

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<v Speaker 2>If there's no, I'll tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll tell you. So he went out with my best girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait wait wait wait wait when after you went

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<v Speaker 1>out way?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? No, no, before months ago he went out with

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<v Speaker 3>my best girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wait, did you know this before you went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with Chad?

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<v Speaker 3>Or I short, did.

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<v Speaker 5>You knew Chad but before you went out with him?

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<v Speaker 5>As having dated your friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh that's weird. He didn't mention that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well he didn't know this, but he spent many,

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<v Speaker 3>many hours with her, then ghosted her. She was very

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<v Speaker 3>in him, liked him so much. He totally I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like he led her on. Even took her because spend

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<v Speaker 3>time with his grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, ohoy, he took your best friend to spend time

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<v Speaker 1>with his grandma and then he ghosted your best friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, introduced her, He spent all this time with her, basically,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, half a day, and then he just ghosted her,

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<v Speaker 3>never replied to her, never called her nothing. I know,

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<v Speaker 3>she didn't do anything wrong. She's adorable, she's sweet. He

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<v Speaker 3>showed me pictures of him, and I matched with him

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<v Speaker 3>months later on a dating app and I ran to

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<v Speaker 3>her and I was like, oh my god, you're never

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<v Speaker 3>going to believe this. I matched with him. She goes, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>you got to go out with him and get him back.

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<v Speaker 1>What Oh, so this whole thing, your whole ten hour

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<v Speaker 1>date was just revenge for him ghosting your best friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we girls got to stick together. Yeah, so give

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<v Speaker 3>him the message. Now you know how it feels give

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<v Speaker 3>him that message?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, oh, you know, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't have to tell him that, because he's actually been

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<v Speaker 5>listening to this phone call on the their line quietly

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<v Speaker 5>this whole time, so he's kind of already heard.

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<v Speaker 3>It's great. It's even better.

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<v Speaker 1>I love get you're enjoying that.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel bad about it. It's gloating now, I mean, chat,

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<v Speaker 2>are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even know what to say right now. That's

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<v Speaker 4>really what was going on the whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm not interested in you.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wait, wait, wait, wait, wait wait, I heard everything

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<v Speaker 4>you said. But we spent ten hours. You mean an hour,

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<v Speaker 4>eight hour, nine when we've had shardonay, coffee, all types

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<v Speaker 4>of We've had the most fun all day. You mean

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<v Speaker 4>to tell me you didn't feel anything, because I felt something,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm pretty sure you felt five hours.

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<v Speaker 3>With you and then you you ghost her, so now

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<v Speaker 3>you know how it feels.

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<v Speaker 1>So you doubled it. Okay, Tad, No, there wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>a moment in that ten hour period that you felt

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<v Speaker 1>like a tinge of guilt.

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<v Speaker 2>Be a decent guy, litle bit.

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<v Speaker 3>I was enjoying myself so much, and to pop it off.

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<v Speaker 3>You know who else had a great time, Sarah? We

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<v Speaker 3>laughed for hours. Oh my god, we're still laughing about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I don't even want to tell you that Chad

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<v Speaker 5>skipped his gluten day at the gym in.

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<v Speaker 2>Order to date with you.

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<v Speaker 3>I Sarah, he really needed that day. I'll tell you what.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh, Chad, I mean, do you feel bad about

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<v Speaker 1>ghosting Sarah? I guess that's what she wanted.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean it was just a tough time, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>with my grandma and not doing so well. I just

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<v Speaker 4>didn't feel like I could be dating.

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<v Speaker 5>I am curious, Chad, why did you introduce the other

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<v Speaker 5>date to your grandma?

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<v Speaker 4>I was honestly just dropping off medication. It was just

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<v Speaker 4>a quick errand it wasn't really like I was introducing

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<v Speaker 4>it to her.

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<v Speaker 2>Why you monster?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, I know that your friend Sarah was

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<v Speaker 1>really hurt, but like we deal with so much dating

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<v Speaker 1>on this show, that ghosting just seems like the normal

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<v Speaker 1>way that people get out of things these days. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think she should have maybe taken it so personally.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys are just playing us all the time, and they're

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<v Speaker 3>playing games, and they you know, we felt like, let's

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<v Speaker 3>get this one back already, Sarah, and you have done.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm also interested Chad just happened to be the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong place at the wrong time.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I can kind of see what Samantha is saying here,

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<v Speaker 5>because I kind of would like to play a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit of a game with you, a game of would.

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<v Speaker 2>You like to go out with Chad one more time?

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<v Speaker 3>I would rather I would rather split my eyelids with

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<v Speaker 3>razor blade.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so dark.

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<v Speaker 3>That.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, honestly, it just seems like she's so really angry

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<v Speaker 4>because of what happened with Sarah, And honestly, at this point,

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<v Speaker 4>I just it doesn't seem like a going to work out.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, man, Oh you think you think.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't answer like he's the one being asked?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we never know who you're ghosting too, I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, seriously, Chad, Now you know, if a girl in

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<v Speaker 5>the future ever says that she wants to hang out

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<v Speaker 5>with you more and really likes you, red flag.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone's trying to get three of this date. It must be.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know what else? Say you're going to call

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<v Speaker 3>the person. Don't say that you liked them, you had

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<v Speaker 3>a great time.

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<v Speaker 5>She's trying to drag us into our ten of this

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<v Speaker 5>song call we appreciate you Samantha.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll let you go, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all right, Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what's going on here either.

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<v Speaker 5>Either a mistake has happened or some kind of miracle,

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<v Speaker 5>but for some reason, Chad and Samantha are both back

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<v Speaker 5>on the phone right now for an update.

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<v Speaker 1>Update and Samantha, are you still seeking revenge.

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<v Speaker 5>On because a lot of time, Samantha made it pretty

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<v Speaker 5>clear that you wanted nothing to do with him, So

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<v Speaker 5>what is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know, I think I said I'd rather scratch

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<v Speaker 3>my eyes out or something.

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<v Speaker 2>He was a little darker. But what's going on with

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<v Speaker 2>you too?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, after we were on it was like a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of weeks and I did not feel bad about it

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<v Speaker 3>at all. I thought he got what he deserved. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>all of a sudden he sent me an apology text.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Chad, you actually apologized after taking that verbal beating.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he said, like, you know again, I'm really sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>like I didn't mean to hurt your friend or whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>but I really did have a better.

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<v Speaker 4>Time with you.

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<v Speaker 3>And oh, I was like, oh my god, he's so pathetic.

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<v Speaker 3>He's still trying.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that wasn't changing your mind?

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<v Speaker 3>That same day, I had had a pretty big falling

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<v Speaker 3>out with her. My friend had not been seeing Eyda

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<v Speaker 3>I for a long time, so I thought in my head, well,

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<v Speaker 3>let me just chat to get back at her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Chad on the phone right now? Is he hearing this?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, yeah, I'm not gonna lie. I definitely thought

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<v Speaker 4>it was a trick, Chad.

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<v Speaker 1>You're being used twice.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I sent her a sex and that

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<v Speaker 4>was sincere. But then when she said you want to

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<v Speaker 4>bother with me, I have to see this.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, okay, yeah, And so what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we went on a date in one day

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<v Speaker 4>time too, and then it just another and another and

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<v Speaker 4>we've honestly we've been hanging out ever since.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like, I didn't mean for that to happen, but

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<v Speaker 3>there was chemistry. It's undeniable.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Why do I feel like she's still in this

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<v Speaker 1>for the long game? In your old best friend on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in posts of you and Chad no wedding.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna lure him into a marriage and then we're

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<v Speaker 5>gonna get a divorce and be like that's why.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually I like I like her vices, I like it

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<v Speaker 5>Sleep would not open yet beautiful story